The Frelinghuysen Family in New Jersey
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THE FRELINGHUYSEN FAMILY IN NEW JERSEY 1720 - 1970 by Emily Frelinghuysen McFarland and Ross Armstrong McFarland 17 Fresh Pond Parkway Cambridge, Massachusetts Dedication These historical and genealogical notes-are dedicated to the Memory of Emily Brewster Frelinghuysen, the late Mrs. Joseph Sherman Frelinghuysen, Sr., whose knowledge of the culture and history of New Jersey -and of the Frelinghuysen family inspired u-s to undertake this compilat_ion for her grand children and friends. THE FRELINGHUYSEN FAMILY IN NEW JERSEY--1720-1970 Table of Contents Page I. The Ancestral Home of the Frelinghuysens in Europe. 1 1. Etching of the town of Schwe rte in 1 50 0 4 2. The Forebears of the family in Europe before 1720 and in America from 1720-1960 5 3. A selected genealogy with special reference to education and public service 6 4. A similar genealogy with greater detail on accomplishments 7 II. Rev. Theodorus Jacobus Frelinghuysen 1692-1748 8 1. Interpretation of T. J. Frelinghuysen' s religious work 9 2. Theodorus, the Domine1 s eldest son (Family tree l la) 12 3. Biography from Dictionary of American Biography 14 III. John Frelinghuysen 1 72 7 -1 7 54 15 1. Additional biographical information 17 2. Biographical note on Dina Van Bergh 19 3. The Dutch Parsonage - Somerville, New Jersey 20 4. Jacob R. Hardenber~h 22 5. The Wallace House - Somerville, New Jersey 24 IV. Major General Frede.rick 17 53-1804 25 1. Public and military offices 26 2. Inscription on tombstone 29 3. Additional biographical information 30 4. Biography from Dictionary of American Biography 33 -2- Page V. Frederick l7 88-1820 34 VI. General John 1776-1833 35 1. Additional biographical information 36 2. The Van Vechten House 37 3. The Homestead - Raritan, New Jersey 38 VII. Theodore 17 87-1862 39 1. Additional biographical information, including comments on his political career 40 2. Biography from Dictionary of American Biography 44 VIII. Theodore 1814-1898 46 IX. Frederick John 1818-1891 47 X. Frederick Theodore 1817-1885 48 1. Biographical information frotn "The Secretaries of State" Portraits and Biographical Sketches 49 2. Comments on career ij.S Secretary of State 50 3. Selective genealogy with special reference to children and relationship to the Lodge family 5 3 4. Biography from the Encyclopaedia Britannica 54 5. Biography from Dictionary of American Biography 56 6. Biography from The National Cyclopaedia of American Biography 57 XI. Joseph Sherman 1869-1948 (Family - 58a) 58 1. Signing of the Peace Treaty relating to World War I 59 2. Biographical sketch of professional career 60 3. Outline of record of Senat,or Frelinghuysen from the Congressional Record 63 4. Biography from The National Cyclopaedia 67 -3- Page 5. The Four Frelinghuysen Senators from New Jersey 69 6. List of Certificates, Awards and Diplomas 70 XII. George Griswold 1851 -1936 72 1. Biographical information from The National Cyclopaedia .American Biography 73 XIII. Petet' Hood Ballantine 1882-19 59 · 74 1. Biographical information from The National Cyclopaedia American Biography 75 XN. Famous New Jersey Families - Frelinghuysen 76 1. The Frelinghuysen Family and the Dutch Reformed Church 85 XV. Documents relating to the Frelinghuysen Family in New Je~sey 88 XVI. Selected bfl:>liography relating to the Frelinghuysen Family in New Jersey 1720-1960 91 XVII. American Requiem - a Narrative Poem of Death and Ancestors by Emily McFarland (December 1969) 92 1 The Ancestral Home of the Frelinghuy sens in Europe* According to the theologian James Tanis,** Johan Henrich Frilinghauss, Jr. of Schwerte was the grandfather of Theodorus Jacobus Frelinghuysen who came to New Jersey in 1 720. This Johan was born, baptized, married {Ursula Hengstenberg of Ergste) and died in St. Viktor' s parish in Schwerte, as shown in the church archives. In 16 82, his son Johan III { T. J. F. is father) became the first pastor of the newly organized Reformed Church in nearby Hagen. Here Johan III took his hew bride, Anna Margaretha Brliggeman, daughter of a minister in Westhofen and made a home for his large family of eleven children. The fine etching of the town of Schwerte redrawn from an old print of 1 500 is attached. The spire of St. Vik tor 1 s Church dominates the view of this -ancient city. The church was beautifully restored in 1954 for the four hundred year anniversary of the corning of the Reformation to Schwerte in 1554. The altar of St. Viktor 1 s is truly a fine 15th century work done by Antwerp artisans. Luckily the first reformers were Lutherans:who did not destroy it or the wonder ful carved pulpit in their religious zeal! The old city still has many of the 15th and 16th century half..:timbered, tilted houses up and down the crooked, cobbled streets. *This historical note on the ancestral background of the Frelinghuysen family in Westphalia and Holland was written by Emily F. McFarland ar"ter a visit to that area in September, 196 8 with her husband Professor Ross A. McFarland. **Tanis, James - - "Dutch Calvinistic Pietism in the Middle Colonies - A study in the life and theology of Theodorus Jacobus Frelinghuysen, " The Hague 1967. Cf also "The Frelinghuysens Begats," Genealogical magazine of N. J., Vol. XL, No. 2, May 196 5, pp. 49- 56. 2 It was interesting to see the home of our We stphalian ancestors and, in Ergste, to find some tombstones of the Hengstenbergs from that period, 1680 to 1780. The gravestones, dislodged in the bombings of the second World War, were leaning up against the side of the· church with little possibility of their ever being matched up to the right bodies in the blasted ground below. We then drove to Hagen, a dismal, grey, mining city in the Ruhr industrial ar~a where we found the Evangelische Kirche near the Santa Marien Hospital. The Verger sought out the Pastor to an~wer our long list of questions. Pastor Beyer's father and grandfather had been ministers in Hagen and his grandfather had built the existing church in 187 3. The Coffee Mill, a_s the old church was called had always been a subject of ridicule by other denominations. The present new church stands in the midst of jagged ruins which are still not torn down or rebuilt after twenty-three years of "peace and prosperity"; a constant reminder of the horrors of war. The grandfather of Pastor Beyer had prepared a history of the church from its very beginning. He showed us the manuscript which was written in German. Reference was made to the ministry of Johan III (father of T. J. F.) and the church which was destroyed or torn down. There was also a picture of the church with its Wurzel Turm, or Turnip Topping which was apparently the origin of its name "The Coffee Mill. 11 The only relics salvaged were the two great sculptured stone doorways of the old "Coffee Mill"; one, a bas relief of the Ele ctor1 s coat of arms with flanking lions, the other a carved stork or pelican caring for its young. These stones had been placed in the new Church and Sunday School as symbols of strength and hope for the future. 3 This was the place where Johan Henrich Frelinghausen III preached to the iron workers for forty-six years. Here, in 1692, his son Theodorus Jacobus was baptized, and here in Hagen, T. J. F. was brought up until going to school at the Gymnasium in Hamm at the age of seventeen.* Theodorus studied at the University of Lingen for six years under Johannes Wilhelmius and Otto Verbrugge. He was licensed to preach in 1715, but was not ordained by the Class is of Emden by Brunius, until l 7J7, in the German Reformed Faith. His first church was at Loegumer Voorwerk in East Friesland during the great flood of Christmas 1718. He then planned to go to Enkhuizen in the Nether lands as co-rector of the La:tin School, but on the way there met Sicco Tjaden in Groningen. Tjaden persuaded T. J. F. 'to go as preacher to the "R-a-ritans" in America. (He· thought it was in Brabant.) Re-ordained in the Dutch Reformed Church by the Class is of Amsterdam, he took ship in Sept ember 1719 for New York. He became preacher to the Dutch Churches of the Raritan Valley in New Jersey in 1720. Pietist, evangelist, stubborn and controversial, Theodorus "brought a vital religion to the region at the same time as schism and strife. "* His five sons all joined the ministry--but every one died young, and only John the "Domine" left male survivors. John's son General Frederick, born in 17 53 in the Raritan Parsonage, was the common.ancestor of all the Frelinghuysens in America today. *Ibid James Tanis _ 4 -···· ...... .rd-tt: __,__f;:-.-~:,...- -~~;1£j~ View of the old Westphalian town of Schwerte in 1500, then as now dominated by the spire of St. Viktor's Church where the Reformation was introduced in 155-4. Schwerte was the ancestral home· of the Frelinghuysen family. It was the birth place of Johan Henrich Frilinghausen III, the son of Johan 1-1 and Ursula Hengstenherg of Ergste, and the father of Theodorus Jacobus, who was called to New Jersey in 1720 to preach to the Dutch settlers of the Raritan Valley. - 5 THE FOREBEARS OF THE FRELINGHUYSENS OF NEW JERSEY Leonhard Frilinghauss ? ---- Messing ? Johann Hengstenberg? g. ca. 1618 - , r. Johann Freylinghaus Agnes Henrich Hengstenberg m. 1590 Anna von Nehm b. ca. 1581 - d. 16.72 d. 1666 ~r i • Johann Frilinghauss m.