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Celebrating Community Support Month in October 2014 2 WESWAY RESPITE CARE YOUR WAY What is Respite? Respite is a short Wesway is Àe[ible break from the ongoing in accomodating the demands of providing strengths, needs and care for a family preferences of each member who has a family we serve. disability or chronic Respite can take health condition. place in the family Wesway offers respite home or at another options that give family location. Respite may caregivers a chance also include support to renew their energy. for individuals to Respite is a crucial part participate more of the overall support fully in the life of the many people need community. when caring for a family member at home. 5HVSLWH&DUH%HQH¿WV(YHU\RQH

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Supported by Wesway gratefully acknowledges the funding we receive from the Government of Ontario through the Ministry of Community and Social Services/Ministry of Child and Youth Services. 4 WESWAY RESPITE CARE YOUR WAY Message from the President of Wesway’s Board of Directors Living Well” Dr. Samir Sinha, can take an enormous toll on a support this work by participating Provincial Lead, Ontario’s Seniors caregiver’s health and well-being. in associated steering committees Strategy, writes, “Through our All Ontarians stand to benefit and working groups with other consultations, we learned that we when caregivers can be supported health service providers. need to do more to support with information and access to a Providing support and caregivers across our province, range of supports which will allow assistance to caregivers to especially when their presence is them to continue assisting those maintain their health will be a key the reason why so many older they care about.“ Wesway strives ingredient in the provision of Ontarians have been – and will to support the strength of family health care in Ontario through the remain – able to age in their caregivers by providing 21st century. places of choice for as long as personalized respite services. Our This is true not only for possible.” Daily the public is service enables families to take a caregivers of seniors but for those bombarded with warnings about break and renew their energy. providing care to children and aging baby boomers who will These planned breaks ultimately adults as well. During the course soon overwhelm our health care assist the health care system by of this summer and fall the system. Creative solutions are reducing visits to emergency Ministry of Community and Social essential. As the number of departments, decreasing Services will unveil new funding Margaret Boone, President of seniors in the province doubles unnecessary admissions to for families of adults with a Wesway’s Board of Directors over the next ten years, and hospitals and long-term care development disability. The warnings of an approaching health homes, and by reducing alternate Ministry of Children and Youth crisis tsunami catch the news level of care (ALC) pressures and Services continues to roll out an Living Longer headline, we can predict three length of hospital stays for ambitious strategy to enhance things with assuredness. The vast seniors. service to children with mental I am both pleased and proud to majority of healthcare will continue In Ontario we are fortunate to health challenges. serve another year as President of to be provided by unpaid see a number of strategies Wesway will continue its work to Wesway’s Board of Directors. caregivers, seniors will continue to supported by the Local Health support caregivers. We believe the Through this publication, I’m wish to age in place and for those Integration Network which directly long term outcomes will be delighted to extend greetings and individuals who require support to assist caregivers to continue stronger families, the preservation best wishes to our friends and do so, it will be through the providing care in the home. of dignity and respect and families throughout Thunder Bay commitment of their caregivers Through its Health Services improved quality of life. We are and the region. Wesway is inspired which will allow them to remain in Blueprint, the North West LHIN is particularly grateful to Wesway’s by the dedication of family their own homes for as long as spearheading many initiatives families, volunteers and staff for caregivers who are committed to possible. which align closely with Dr. Sinha’s sharing their personal stories, and caring for their loved ones at Dr. Sinha goes on to write, report through mechanisms such allowing us to raise awareness of home. “Although caregiving can be as Integrated District Networks, what it means to be a family In his report “Living Longer, personally rewarding, it can also Local Health Hubs and Health caregiver. be stressful and expensive and Links. Wesway is pleased to Call for Volunteers to Serve on Wesway’s Board of Directors Collectively, the members of Wesway’s volunteer Board of Directors encompass a wide range of skills, knowledge and life experiences. One third of the Board is comprised of families who are connected to our services, which helps the organization remain strategically focused on the changing needs of the people we serve. The remaining members represent the broader external environment, with rep- resentatives who have backgrounds in business, finance, education and other key sectors. This blend of abilities strengthens our Board’s capacity to define the future of our organization. For information about becoming a member of Wesway’s Board of Directors, please call Wesway at 623-2353, toll free 1-888-623-2353 or email [email protected] WESWAY OCTOBER 2014 5 An Opportunity to Grow Ida was born in Dorion, Ontario as a child with her grandfather. “I and raised in the town of Nipigon. would sit for many hours and listen The third eldest of nine children, Ida to him tell stories of his immigration is a natural caregiver, having helped to from Norway. to care for her younger sibling when Ida describes herself as a bit of an she was growing up. introvert. With the support, honesty Ida is a mother of four, and encouragement from Wesway, grandmother to twelve and great she reflects on her growth and grandmother to seven. development. “I’m more In her early adult life she thrived comfortable in social settings and on dancing and rock & roll, teaching recognize areas of my life that I her children to dance before they would like to continue to could walk. She is an avid kayaker, strengthen,” Ida shares. During the hiker and climber. Her connection to past sixteen years working as a nature helps her stay true to her Respite Worker, Ida has provided inner self. Ida can often be found care for children, adults and digging deep into the soil to plant Ida loves to spend time in the outdoors with the participants she works with. seniors. seeds in the spring. With a smile on always at the forefront of my heart, opportunities to utilize the skills she Although Ida is heading into what her face Ida expresses “I have keeping me in tune with the needs has learned. Providing support to many would consider their passed on these wilderness skills to of others.” seniors has always been especially retirement years, she says the word my grandchildren and great Ida is always open to learning and near and dear to her heart. “I knew is not in her vocabulary. She has grandchildren. Many of them now taking on a challenge. She decided I had found my niche in life and developed great working enjoy the challenges of hiking, to further her education, and thrive in the company of seniors. I relationships and friendships with climbing and kayaking as well”. between the ages of forty three and felt like a little seed waiting for an her co-workers and families they Ida says, “I think that patience, fifty, received three college opportunity to grow. Seniors were have become her Thunder Bay flexibility, and commitment are diplomas. the rain and sun that I needed to family. “Wesway has been a big part natural elements of my being. In the role of a Respite Worker at blossom.” With joy in her voice Ida of my life for sixteen years”. Empathy and compassion are Wesway, Ida has had many speaks of the relationship she had

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6 WESWAY RESPITE CARE YOUR WAY What Would We Do Without It? “There was no crying… no respite”. screaming,” says Cindy Harasen. First with Kristen and now Tara, “When we were told that Kaleigh had Chelsea and Lorena, Cindy can’t say Down syndrome, my husband Steven enough about their Respite Workers. and I just wanted to know she was “Wesway should warn families about healthy.” the emotional attachments,” teases The Harasen’s were already home Cindy. “You trust your child’s care to schooling siblings Max and Kyra. them and share with them and you They wondered if that was the best become so close.” decision for Kaleigh. “We’d miss her” Recently, the respite home came up said her siblings and her parents again. Max and Kyra said “Yes” … decided that there really wasn’t any Steve and I thought “It’s time”. reason not to teach her at home. Kaleigh goes for one night each visit Along with her brother and sister, and although her siblings miss her, Kaleigh became immersed in play Cindy thinks it might be nice to have group, Lego club, Youth club, two nights of respite at a time. Brownies and their church Kaleigh doesn’t sleep and the community. She is a recreational Harasen’s recognize it is important to bowler, a cheerleader on the Kaleigh takes a moment from playing to hang out with Max and Kyra have valuable time with their older Dreamers special needs cheerleading Children's Centre Thunder Bay since foreseen that respite would be so children. team and an award winning swimmer Kaleigh’s birth and it was here that important – but it is. We never Kaleigh, Kyra and Cindy recently with Special Olympics. “Kaleigh they first learned of Wesway. Cindy imagined that we’d let a worker take attended the National Girl Guides would do everything I signed her up explains, “Now we talk to young her out; even Max and Kyra were Rally. With Wesway’s creative help, for” explains Cindy, and that parents and when they ask about against it initially.” When Cindy and Cindy went as the Brownie Leader eventually would be why they became Wesway, Steven and I say “Well sit Steven were first told about the and not just as Mom. involved with Wesway. down and let us tell you. Just get it … Respite Home service, they were “My biggest Wesway flag came two The Harasen’s have been involved get it and use it!” reluctant. years ago when I was diagnosed with with the Early Intervention Program at “Ten years ago we would not have “Kaleigh wakes up every morning a chronic health condition and had and asks ‘Go?’ She’s intense and endless medical appointments. wants to know the plans for the day.” Steven and I had already seen the explains Cindy. “Kaleigh becomes the value of the service. When then this center of the universe on a daily happened we realized “What would basis. That’s who she is, and we now we do without Wesway?” recognize that we need regular     Manor House Adult Day Program Joyce Jalocha – Caregiver The Manor House, 63 Carrie St. Wesway is the Best! They’re like our family and I trust them. My son and I have Thunder Bay, ON, P7A 4J2 been using Wesway for over 20 years. Come to Wesway if you need help with caregiving! The Manor House Adult Day Program is a social and recreational day program for older adults who have Alzheimer’s disease or a related dementia. The program helps participants maintain an optimal level of independent functioning in the #* #  (    ' # #$*$   (  # - community for as long as possible, while providing respite for /(   0)) .  1 caregivers. ( *# ##2 3      46 7  • Barrier free affordable housing ) 8 $#9 :  ''9#  46To cover costs of meals and special ;7 • Supportive service living activities, a daily fee is charged. • Community outreach If you or someone you know would benefit • Recreational & Cultural Programs from our service, contact: WE ARE INCLUSIVE 1201 Jasper Drive, Suite A, Thunder Bay, Ontario Lisa Petersen, Coordinator at 768-4454 or Ph: 807-343-0414 or Fax: 807-344-6140 Howard Nistico, Family/Client Support Facilitator at 768-4415 www.wildernessdiscovery.ca Supported by Hagi TV Bing, Saturdays on TB Television Golbal Channel 6 WESWAY OCTOBER 2014 7

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Rotary Club Louise Antoniazzi Irene & James Gibson Hendrika Marbus Rita Servais Sunlife Financial Volunteer Program Janet Arinobu Joanne & Grant Gibson Tammy Marchiori Hilda Shmyr TD Canada Trust – Dress Down Days Nancy & Samuel Arinobu Debbie Gignac Gail Marshall Marion Simons Thunder Bay Bluegrass Sharon & Leo Arsenault Denis Gilmore Kathryn Marsland Nathan Sims & Old Time Music Alison Arthur Stephen Golphy Jodi & Bryan Martin Rita Sinihelmi Thunder Bay Community Foundation Bev & Barrie Banks Marilo Gomes Barbara Mau Anna & Joseph Soldan Thunder Bay Marathon Norma & Rocco Bascello Rita Goral Robert Mau Kathy & Michael Spadoni Colleen Beemer Sandra & Carmen Groccia Ruth Mayor Mike Spadoni Wesway also gratefully Lynda & Jim Belluz Lorraine & Rick Halabisky Sumie & Donald McIvor Judy & Don Spakowski acknowledges the donations Karen & Ian Benson Robert Halabisky Ruth McKenzie Tina Spithoff Karen & Robert Benson Helen & Gilbert Hansen John McKevitt Sandy Stalker received in memory Daniel Biddeson Lynne Harvey Mary McQueen Arlene Start of the following Christine Bobay Marg & Richard Hensen Cecile Meadows George Ste Marie individuals: Margaret Boone Melvina Herman Lorraine & Dan Merritt Rosemary Steadwell Eugenia Muzzin Stella & Marcel Hogan Mary Miele Anne & Gordon Sturrock Helen Adduono Franca & Jamie Bortolon Irene & Mike Holowka Sandra & Tom Milne Carol Suzick George Alexander Joe Ann & Jack Brimmell Joan Houlder Evelyn Mina Mary Sylvester Lillian Bodarchuk Loretta & Ernest Brunetta John & Doreen Howk Doreen Mochizuki Shirley & James Symington Maria Bortolon Bev & Ken Bruni Susan Hughes Robert Moffat Rose Thompson Rino Burella William Bukovy Mae Hunnakko Judy & William Mokomela Robert Thorson Angela Buset Linda Bukovy Lynn & Barry George Hurrell Kathleen Moore Florence & Gordon Timbres Doreen Chisholm Becky Burton & David Olenik Leslie & Chris Hynnes Laura Moran Deanna & Thomas Tod John Coates Valeria & Blake Cameron Margaret Jean Lydia & Gary Mork Tom Torich Ken Coates Thora Campbell Eunice Johnson Regina Motlin & Family Carol & Doug Treichler Mary Lou Commisso Cyril Cano Deane Jordan-Pracz Trevisani Nel Mondo Richard Trochimchuk Ken Dicks Maria Cervi Fiona Karlstedt Gus Oberg Sandy & Mike Turek Maria DiCasmirro Hannelore Chatterjee Betty Karpiuk Neil O'Connor Jeanette Van Dyk Suzanne Donaldson Florence Cheetham Jennifer Kcrezmar Betty & Ken Oldale John Vandenbroeke B. 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Kiwanis Club of Thunder Bay Wesway does not swap mailing lists, share donor information or sell phone numbers. Wesway pays tribute to our donors by publishing this list occasionally as a public acknowledgement of thanks. Gift Idea Are you struggling to find unique gift ideas? Why not give your special someone a If you do not wish your name to appear donation to Wesway in his or her name? Your one-of-a kind gift will certainly make a on our donor appreciation list, please difference. The recipient will appreciate knowing your gift has directly benefited contact the Wesway office. families. A “win-win” situation for all involved! WESWAY OCTOBER 2014 9 The Right Place to Live In the late 1990’s, Heather and Leo house to rent in Pass Lake. Heather able to resume some of her passions, Vanniewenburg realized that it was shares, “We decided to rent such as researching and writing becoming too costly to live on their throughout the winter as it was one of articles and books on history. “I love disability income in the community of the worst in years and I didn’t want to doing research both for myself and for New Westminster British Columbia. risk moving Leo during the cold others. Sometimes I concentrate so They knew that they had to make a months.” It was during this time that much I forget anyone else is around change and that it should be sooner they realized there were a lot of much less needs me.” Heather says. rather than later. While attending a benefits to residing in Ontario for a She intends to research at the wedding for a good friend, they met a person living with a disability. Thunder Bay Public Library and takes gentleman from Ontario. He gave After much discussion and thought, comfort in knowing that someone will them brochures for Mirror Lake and the couple decided that they loved be at home with Leo. invited them to stop by on their way the area and found a home. Their Heather expresses her gratitude through. feelings about the area were further with Wesway, and the freedom to After making the tough decision to strengthened upon discovering Pass shape her respite to their unique leave New Westminster, they packed Lake’s Danish heritage. Leo was respite needs. “Wesway funds have their small vehicle and utility trailer originally from Denmark and meeting allowed me some much needed and hit the road. Not wanting to rush, locals who shared the same heritage breaks as well as breaks for my they made leisurely stops along the made life great. “It has always been Leo and Heather husband. No one can ever know the way and before long it was my belief that there is a reason for comfort of those funds. Thank you much of his mobility. Heather was told September and becoming cold very everything and our trip here and our Wesway for being there for those who about Wesway's Family Directed quickly. They encountered snow in lives since being here have proved need you and for allowing families Respite Funding and found out she and subsequently over and over that we chose the right much needed breaks for both was eligible for the service. Heather decided to stop for a while at the place to live.” caregiver and the ones we care for.” was able to find a worker to spend Mirror Lake campground. After a short In May of 2009, Leo suffered a time with Leo. She has since been stay, the couple was able to find a serious stroke, and as a result lost

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Live, Learn, Succeed Marie Klassen – Director, Wesway Board of Directors What a privilege it is to be a Director of such a forward-thinking, vibrant and Services from Wes growing organization. The work of Wesway has positively impacted the lives of so many people not only in our community but those living in . West of Thunder Bay

Paula Donylyk - Senior Director, North West Community Wesway serves eligible caregivers of seniors Care Access Centre Whenever I think about Wesway, I automatically think about words like through its Family Directed Respite Funding “understanding, caring, and supportive”. Wesway is an invaluable organization and clients and caregivers are always at the heart of everything they do. Their model of service. The individuals served include approach of “how can we help” reflects their commitment to everyone they work with, from those who receive their care to those who work with them every day seniors with a chronic health condition, physical and plan for our communities in Northwestern Ontario. disability, Alzheimer Disease and/or frail health condition.

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There are a range of services available to Wesway serves eligible families through Family eligible families of all ages in Thunder Bay. Directed Respite Funding. Individuals served Services include In Home, Respite Home, Family include; children with a developmental disability Directed Respite Funding, Host Families, and or autism spectrum disorder, adults with a Community Friends. developmental disability, aeniors with a chronic health condition, Alzheimer Disease and/or frail health condition.

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Thunder Bay Mobile Health 622-8235 Services Sean Murphy – Respite Worker 807-626-8474 I feel honoured to be welcomed into the homes of our participants. These families Longlac have opened their lives to me, more than just as a Respite Worker, but as a friend. 807-876-2271 Toll Free 1-866-357-5454 Armstrong Every One >ÌÌiÀà 807-583-1145 Mary DeGrazia – Caregiver Thanks to my reliable Respite Worker, I am able to get out to camp again, and my husband is able to participate in recreational activities! I can’t say enough good things! À“ÃÌÀœ˜}ÊÊUÊÊœ˜}>VÊÊUÊÊ/ ՘`iÀÊ >ÞÊÊUÊÊÜÜÜ°˜œÀÜiÃÌV V°œÀ} FIND US ON FACEBOOK OPTIONS northwest Personal Support Services

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2014-2015 Board of Directors Arlene & John Veurink Natali Surkic Margaret Boone Carrie & Mike Wheeler Jessica Walter Marie Klassen Pat & Henry Wielobob Kaylie Zyla Katrena Windum Sarah Manilla Bingo Volunteers Alison Arthur Community Friends Our Mission Cathy Ridley Carol Anderson Wesway provides Margie Rondeau Aaron Park & Charlene Loponen June Enger Cameron Nicolson Grace Baxter Tarja Heinimaki personalized respite services. Valarie Luck Devin Bemben Daniel McGoey Andre Korstanje Sharon Campbell Sharon Johnston Wesway builds community Jesse Christiansen Nils Ronquist partnerships and promotes inclusion Host Families Ashley Cripps Judy Ross through community development. Molly Dasch Cathy Sochackey Robyn Douglas Nancy Taylor Michelle Bouvier Wesway envisions a model of respite Jesse & Dan Clapp Jessica Eckensweiler Maria Walser Carol & Brent Cline Kaitlyn Makkinga-Fox Katie Zuber support services to meet the needs of Roz & Allan Cox Katherine & Justin Frape community with respect and dignity. Lisa Ellacott Jennifer Gvora Barb & Gerry Erb Erin Hansen Shelley Neff & Dan Fotheringham Kelsey Horne Lois Gagnon Kirsten Irvine Privacy Theresa Hendrickson Michelle Lavoie-Pintar Kelly & Kevin Horne Sheldon Legaree Wesway values the trust placed in us by the families we Margo & Tim Janssens Cheryl Luptak Shauna & Jeremy Makkinga Alyxandra McIvor serve. Wesway respects the personal privacy of families, Katrina O’Neill Arlene Myers and safeguards the confidentiality and security of all Jane Oryschak Amanda Orr Kim Sjolund & Patrick Dickey Denise Pollari personal information. Denise & Sam Pollari Anna Schulzki Christine & Wally Seaberg Rachael Shaffer For more information about our Privacy Policy and Brett McDonald - Student My placement at Wesway was extremely fulfilling. The staff was very welcoming and flexible which Procedures, call the Wesway office at 623-2353 or toll allowed me the space I needed to explore my personal style. The opportunities at Wesway are free at 1-888-623-2353 endless, whatever your interests may be. Discover the Rewards! Looking for a volunteer experience WR¿W\RXUOLIHVW\OH"

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Angela Cacciatore – Participant My Respite Worker joins me at the gym for aerobic and fitness classes weekly. Having Wesway service helps me to stay fit and healthy. We have a great time together! We Care About Our Neighbourhood At Tbaytel, we applaud the organizations that make a difference in the communities we serve. From accessible recreation to just plain old help, we know how hard staff and

Kathy Pechiwa – Respite Worker volunteers work to support and enrich lives. Working for Wesway has been a very rewarding experience. I enjoy getting to know new families and helping to make positive changes in their lives. We’re proud to play a part. Whether I work out in the community or in home it is great to make new friends.

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Our Thanks … Wesway gratefully acknowledges all the families, volunteers, donors and staff who have so graciously agreed to share their very personal stories and images in this publication. The truths expressed by these ordinary people bring some decidedly extraordinary issues to life. The sharing of these per- sonal challenges, joys and tribulations is a compelling way to increase knowledge and understanding in our community. Dear Friend of Wesway,

Roy, Pia and I have lived in Nipigon all our lives. Roy is a member of the Knights of Columbus and I am a member of the local Cath- olic Women’s League. I have been involved for many years with the local community living association. Our daughter has multiple special needs.

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