Laying the Foundation for Our New Home!

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A PUBLICATION OF JEWISH SENIORSENIOR SERVICESSERVICES®® THETHE JEWISHJEWISH HOME HOME VOLUMEVOLUME 90 91 SPRING FALL 14 Laying the Foundation for Our New Home! Since our last issue of Chai Lights, which services in the new Roslyn and Leslie reported on the groundbreaking in May, Goldstein Assisted Living. The we have made such incredible progress waiting lists for both the nursing home toward the creation of The Harry and and assisted living are forming now, so Jeanette Weinberg Campus on Park we encourage you to please let us know Avenue. The site work to make way for if you are interested. the foundation was completed in July. The community will truly come Concrete began to pour during the week together on the new campus with the to our donors. More information about of July 21 and is now essentially finished. INSIDE new “J” health club (a swimming pool the Capital Campaign, including The foundation, retaining walls, and and fitness center), synagogue, multi- The Journey to Home new video and THIS ISSUE other substructure are now in place for purpose room, kosher restaurant, brochure, is available on our website, the building to be built! meeting rooms, the UJA/Federation, and www.jseniors.org. Steel has started to arrive on the site so much more. All of our community To make a donation to our Journey to and the infrastructure for the building programs and services will be integrated Home Capital Campaign, please contact will be erected over the next few months. on the site as well, providing coordinated Dayna Hayden, Director, Development, at There are so many exciting aspects of solutions for all those in need of senior 203-365-6409 or [email protected]. this construction. We are on track to services. finish the building and move in during To obtain an application for skilled Please “like” and follow us on Facebook Spring 2016. nursing or assisted living, please to watch the construction, and we call 203-396-1024. There is no We will build the first “household” will continue to send regular updates application fee or obligation. Fall Gala…page 4 model nursing home in the State of Connecticut. Each Resident will live in a new 14-bedroom “house” that has its own kitchen, dining room, living room, den, and patio and is very residential in design. The Jewish Home will certainly continue to offer 5-star nursing home care and forever change the way we all view nursing homes. Equally as exciting, for the first time, we will offer assisted living and memory care Expanding into New Haven…page 6 Simon F. Etzel, Jr. and Lydia Gerard to Receive Awards at Fall Gala

The Women’s Auxiliary Fall Gala exemplified by the good works of Arthur and Gladys honors two individuals who have made Lunin. In addition, the Louis Lotstein Award for outstanding contributions to our Distinguished Service, which recognizes devoted long community — here at Jewish Senior term service to Jewish Senior Services as demonstrated by Services and throughout Connecticut. the late Louis Lotstein, will be awarded to Lydia Gerard. Rehab made easier... This year’s event, a night filled with food, Simon F. Etzel, Jr., Senior Vice President of Procurement page 6 fun, and entertainment, will be held on Lunin Award Recipient and a principal owner of KBE Building Corporation, has Thursday, October 23 at The Inn at Simon F. Etzel, Jr. had a lifelong impact on our community Longshore in Westport. Highlighting the and exemplifies community and business evening will be a concert by legendary Rock and Roll Hall leadership. He holds a B.A. in of Fame member performer and Rock and Roll Hall of Art Garfunkel to Engineering from Dartmouth College Fame member Art Garfunkel. This event perform at Gala and started his career with Turner is co-chaired by Judy Brown, Jill Isaacs, Construction Company in Philadelphia, and Sheila Merriam. PA, and Norfolk, VA, in 1977. We are proud to announce that the 2014 Simon joined Konover Construction recipient of the Arthur and Gladys Lunin Corporation in 1987 as a project manager Humanitarian Award is Simon F. Etzel, Jr. and ultimately became Senior Vice Volunteers Honored… The Lunin Award recognizes outstanding President. In 2007, Simon purchased page 7

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Chairpersons’ Remarks President’s Report

WOW!!! The future is being created before our eyes In this issue of Chai Lights you will certainly read as we are building the “state-of-the-art” senior living more about the development of our new campus, campus on Park Avenue! Our Journey to Home Capital the incredible work that happens every day in our Campaign has made this possible thanks to the current building and in the community. With all generous support of our community. We have surpassed the excitement, it’s important to remember our the $24M mark towards our $25M goal, and we are so Mission and the reason behind all the activity: Resident-Centered care – which is the grateful to those who have made this possible. This philosophy that drives what we do. includes all of the members of the Boards of Directors of Jewish Senior Services and the JHE Foundation. Resident-Centered care is a commitment to It is an honor to be a part of their visionary leadership Andrew H. Banoff providing care that meets the needs of every Jeffrey Radler at this critical and exciting time in our history. individual we serve, wherever they call home. We recognize home as a climate “where each and every Resident can have home While we are working with KBE Building Corporation as he or she defines it.” This philosophy now extends to those in our skilled to build the future, we are also committed to grow our nursing facility and to every home care client in their personal residences. services on Jefferson Street and throughout the The focus on Resident-Centered care begins on day one for new staff community. It gives us such pleasure to hear the stories through our certified PersonFirst® training. Over 800 employees have now of those families that have been touched by our been certified. incredible caregivers as they receive care in the nursing We try to embody Resident-Centered care every day through our Journey home, rehabilitation center, home care agency, and foster ties between Residents and clients to caregivers. We continue to outpatient therapy, hospice and so much more. provide more individualized care that embraces autonomy and choice for Residents. Our Steering Team and Residents’ Council work closely with Our Mission is to provide seniors with the best staff to generate ideas for creating more home-like environments. As a James B. Sugarman possible quality of care and best possible quality of life result, we have recently created a more spa like look and feel for a better attainable for them. Our team works hard at that every bathing experience, streamed music into Neighborhoods and identified day and we are grateful for their efforts. Each September we recognize members quiet hours. We encourage our staff to spend one-on-one time with of our staff that have reached 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30 and 35 years of service to our Residents. We not only care for Residents but also build relationships with organization. This year nearly 100 people reached these milestones. It is this them, whether through conversation or an activity. Ensuring Residents feel dedication and commitment that makes our work possible. at home in their home is something we think about each day.

Finally, we must thank and recognize the nearly 1,000 donors to our Annual I hope you enjoy this issue of Chai Lights and I thank you Campaign, Men’s Club and Women’s Auxiliary events as we continue to raise for taking the time to learn more about what we are funds to support our work. Thank you for all that you do to make our Mission doing. possible. Sincerely, 2

Andrew H. Banoff Jeffrey Radler James B. Sugarman

Jewish Senior Services Hosts International Health Experts

YALE UNIVERSITY GLOBAL HEALTH EXCHANGE ACCLAIMED WEIZMANN INSTITUTE Delegates from Yale University’s Global Health and Social Care Leadership SCIENTIST VISITS Programme visited Jewish Senior Services to learn more about senior care in the United States. The goal of the visit was to catalyze an enriching exchange of ideas Jewish Senior Services was and best practices among health management experts from the United Kingdom pleased to host Dr. Yaqub and the United States. Hanna, acclaimed and award- winning scientist of Israel’s The nine delegates included senior and mid-career administrative and clinical Weizmann Institute, during a professionals from the National Health Service (NHS) organizations throughout special visit to Connecticut. the United Kingdom. The visit entailed learning how Jewish Senior Services Dr. Hanna is conducting addresses numerous challenges of providing services to an aging population. The groundbreaking stem cell Yale affiliated program is designed to equip health care leaders with the tools reprogramming research in needed to succeed in the new financial and operational framework of the NHS. Israel with the support of the Dr. Hanna, Ph.D./M.D. Hebrew University of Israel Cancer Research Fund. “It was a privilege to be able to host our colleagues from Yale and the United Jerusalem (summa cum laude), postdoctoral Kingdom as part of their visit to the United States. We explored and discussed studies, MIT His seminar, “Stem Cells: many mutual challenges and opportunities that enhanced our collective Promises and Reality” was well understanding of the health care systems and our ability to provide quality attended and discussed the progress in “understanding of the services to seniors. Of particular interest was Jewish Senior Services’ new mysterious process by which adult cells can revert back into their ‘household’ model of care, which provided delegates an opportunity to focus on original, embryonic state.” According to the Israel Cancer Research the most innovative form of nursing care in the United States,” remarked Fund, “Dr. Yaqub Hanna and his team have revealed the ‘brake’ that Andrew H. Banoff. holds back the production of stem cells, and found that releasing this brake can both synchronize the process and increase its efficiency from The Yale University Global Health and Social Care Leadership Programme is around one percent or an extension of the Yale Global Health less today to 100 Initiative, which is funded in part by the Bill percent.” and Melinda Gates Foundation. Its faculty director, Elizabeth Bradley, More information on Ph.D., initiated the program with a UK Dr. Hanna’s research colleague to prepare NHS leadership staff to can be found at navigate reform. The program focuses on www.jseniors.org. generating creative solutions to common health care problems in the United States and the United Kingdom.

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SLICE OF LIFE

Summer Barbeque Weekly barbeques are a summertime favorite Clowning Around Resident Barbara Smiley and Clown Dave Carnival Games Resident Dorothy Colafrancesco plays spin the wheel at and enjoying his is Resident Howard Ecker being served by Lorna having a laugh together the Tandet carnival with Evangelyn Peterson, Controller, while Resident Hewitt, CNA Molla Rosen enjoys cotton candy

Sunday Brunch Resident Ruth Mack hosts her son-in-law, Roger Hats Off Resident Louis Levy tips his hat while celebrating with Enjoying the weather Residents Charlotte Singer (left) and Charlotte Fabryk, for a delightful outdoor brunch on the patio Residents Bernie Kabacoff (right) and Susan Distassio (left) Ward enjoy the beautiful summer weather and activities outside during a 4th of July party with cake and music

Happy Birthday Resident Regine Arouete celebrates a birthday Peaceful Day Relaxing and enjoying each other’s company Chit Chat Resident Albert Okas is catching up with Tracey Hamulak, with Tammy Strom, Music Therapist, during the monthly birthday and many years of marriage are Residents David and Fani Therapeutic Recreation Director, on the events of the day party Steinberger

Family Feud A group watches while the Residents compete in a real Concert time Residents are having a wonderful time in the Women’s Luncheon Residents Helene Aiello (left), Adele Karnal, and life version of the TV game show main dining room listening and joining in with the musical Evelyn Gritsko enjoying themselves at the monthly women’s luncheon in entertainment Tandet West 151055_ChaiLights_Fall 9/23/14 7:42 AM Page 4

WOMEN’S AUXILIARY

For further information on how Fall Gala continued from page 1 to become involved with the Women’s Auxiliary, please contact the company with two of his partners and renamed it KBE Dayna Hayden, Director, Building Corporation. One of Simon’s key areas of expertise is the planning and construction of senior living facilities, Development, at 203-365-6409 or including skilled nursing, assisted living, and independent [email protected]. Women’s living. Among his projects is our Harry and Jeanette Weinberg Auxiliary annual membership dues Campus on Park Avenue. are $36 and life membership is $250 (payable over three years). “Working with Simon and his team has been wonderful,” says Andrew H. Banoff. “Moreover, getting to know Simon as a person – a great person that leads by example, gives generously throughout the community, and understands that life is precious – has been a privilege.” PLEASE DONATE TO THE Simon’s generosity and determination to help others is Lotstein Award Recipient Lydia Gerard and husband Scott demonstrated in KBE’s “50 Ways to Make a Difference” ANNUAL charitable giving program. The program honors the company’s long history of philanthropy and establishes the framework for KBE’s deep commitment to supporting the firm’s and its employees’ communities. Under Simon’s leadership, the “50 Ways” program has donated more CAMPAIGN than $1.2 million to agencies that support seniors, children, and military personnel and their families, using money contributed by Simon, his partners, the firm, and its employees. In addition, KBE’s employees have donated more than 5,000 hours of volunteer service through the program. Simon spends considerable time and effort supporting a variety of community organizations, including serving as chair of the Board of Trustees of The Cove Center for Grieving Children and a member of the Advisory Council for Habitat for Humanity of Greater New Haven. He also participates in the organization’s building program. Simon and his wife, Jennifer, reside in Madison.

This year’s Louis Lotstein Award recipient is Lydia Gerard, a current family member whose extraordinary devotion and volunteer work at The Jewish Home for almost 15 years truly deserves recognition. Since joining Visit www.jseniors.org the Women’s Auxiliary in 2000, Lydia has held active leadership roles as a committee member of every Women’s Auxiliary event, program, and activity, including co-chairing the majority of fundraisers on behalf of or call 203-365-6406 4 Jewish Senior Services, as well as the Women’s Auxiliary Board of Directors. From 2008-2010, she served as the 18th President. “It is extremely fulfilling and rewarding to help raise funds for things that will make the lives of Residents A special thank you better. As an active participant of the Women’s Auxiliary and a family member, I see the difference that the volunteer and donor populations make every day,” says Lydia. “Our generation must give back to those who to our Federations came before us and now need our ehelp. are Ther many opportunities for getting involved, whether through the Women’s Auxiliary, the Men’s Club, or as an individual volunteer. You would be surprised how easy it is to Jewish Senior Services is a make someone’s day brighter!” Lydia has given her time and talent generously as a dedicated leader and recipient agency of the following volunteer, touching the lives of Residents in a very significant way. “Lydia represents the true spirit of community organizations. We generosity,” says Sandy Young, Women’s Auxiliary Co-President. “She is always ready to dive in or take charge thank these organizations and of any task, large or small. She is an inspirational leader in every way and we have been privileged to know the communities for their support. her.” Lydia and her husband, Scott, live in Fairfield. Jewish Federation of Danbury

The Women’s Auxiliary looks forward to the Fall Gala, when Jewish Senior Services will officially honor UJA/Federation of Eastern Fairfield these two extraordinary individuals. The memorable evening will also include a fabulous auction and County elegant dining. UJA/Federation of Greenwich

If you are interested in making a reservation for the Fall Gala, would like to receive an invitation, or UJA/Federation of Westport, wish to place an ad in the commemorative journal, please contact Jillian Carroll, Development Associate, Weston, Wilton, Norwalk at 203-365-6407 or [email protected]. Reservations are required in order to attend this event. United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan, Darien

Great Gifts One of the best shopping experiences in Fairfield is located right in The Jewish Home’s main lobby! The Jewish Home’s Gift Shop, run by the Women’s Auxiliary and staffed by a team of over 20 devoted volunteers, is a one-stop shopping experience for all your year- round gifting needs. There are hundreds of items for sale, including greeting cards, crystal, frames, jewelry, scarves, candy, toys, and Judaica. All Gift Shop proceeds are donated to Jewish Senior Services by the Women’s Auxiliary and used to enhance the lives of Residents. Gift Shop volunteers travel to the New York Gift Show at the Javits Center several times a year and bring back a wide variety of exciting and reasonably priced merchandise. One of the Gift Shop’s specialties is gifts for children, including a multitude of stuffed and talking animals, and Bar/Bat Mitzvah gift items. Volunteer Karen Hillman says, “I love to help in the Gift Shop because we have beautiful things and the customers are wonderful. Residents visit us to buy candy and gifts and bring in their family members. We want to invite everyone to stop by and browse.” The Gift Shop is open Monday through Friday from 10 a.m. until 4 p.m. and Sunday from 11 a.m. until 4 p.m., pending volunteer availability. If you are looking for a specific item or gift ideas, stop in or call The Jewish Home at 203-365-6400 and ask for the Gift Shop. 151055_ChaiLights_Fall 9/23/14 7:42 AM Page 5

MEN’S CLUB

28th Annual George Lipton Golf & Tennis Invitational

After a full year of planning by the Men’s Club, the and event sponsors, we raised important funds that 28th Annual George Lipton Golf and Tennis will help to improve the quality of life for seniors Invitational took place on June 23. The sold-out immediately, and in years to come by helping to event attracted close to 200 participants for an entire fund the new Jewish Senior Services campus,” stated day of camaraderie and healthy competition, at Jeff Siegel, President of the Men’s Club. “I would Rockrimmon Country Club in Stamford. Stewart like to express a special thank you to all our Gross, MD, Past President of the Men’s Club and benefactors for their generous and ongoing support David Levine, Vice President of the Men’s Club, of the Men’s Club and of Jewish Senior Services, co-chaired the event which generated over $90,000. particularly the Luncheon Sponsors; Dr. Stewart “I especially want to thank Stewart and David for Gross, Fredric T. Beitman, the Marx Family E co-chairing the event again this year. They, along Foundation and Dean Ratick, The Fuchs Family with our outstanding staff, helped make this year’s Foundation, Innovative Health Plan, KBE Building event a huge success. It was a delight seeing the Corporation, Marsh & McLennan Agency, LLC, tennis courts and golf course teeming with activity Morrison Senior Living, People’s United Bank, throughout the hot day. Thanks to our participants Perkins Eastman and Wiggin & Dana.”

For further information on how to become involved with the Men’s Club, please contact Dayna Hayden, Director, Development, at 203-365- 6409 or [email protected]. Men’s Club annual membership dues are $75, life membership is $1,000 and Lipton Fellow membership is $2,500 (both payable over three years). rg 6 JOIN US 5

Join other men in the community: Bagel Brunch ($5 fee) Sunday Mornings 7 a.m. to 11 a.m. Tandet Recreation Center Honorable Menschen Tuesday Mornings 10:30 a.m. to noon Kuriansky Boardroom For more information contact Ellen Ashkins at 203-365-6417 or [email protected].

▲ Jewish Senior Services’ BuBBe-Q competition team of Jeff Enchura, Director, Dining Services; Wendy Heffern, Executive Kosher BBQ Chef; Johnnie Silpot, Sous Chef; and Luis Martins, Cook, Comes to CT! preparing for the cook-off

Residents from left: Sandy Levin, Ruth Levy-Cohen, Gertrude On September 7, the first annual Southern New Kantrowitz, and Ann Hornstein enjoy being Bubbe’s at our England Kosher Barbeque Festival and Competition was Bubbe-Q tent at the Southern New England Kosher Barbeque held in Fairfield. The event organized and hosted by Championship and Festival ▼ Congregation Beth El in Fairfield drew a large crowd from the community of barbeque enthusiasts, families and food eating contestants. The grounds were packed with live music entertainment, craft and vendor booths, food and of course, Barbeque grillers. Teams participated in the competition including Jewish Senior Services’ dining team: the BuBBe-Q’s. We served up kosher chili, chicken, ribs and brisket enjoyed by all. Our own President & CEO, Andrew H. Banoff was a celebrity judge for the blind tasting cook-off. Jewish Senior Services’ staff, Residents and volunteers worked together to design the BuBBe-Q booth and outfit the BuBBe-Q team to participate in this event that was also part of Fairfield’s 375th anniversary celebration. We are proud of our BuBBe-Q team for bringing home a trophy in the Barbeque chicken competition. 151055_ChaiLights_Fall 9/23/14 7:42 AM Page 6

COMMUNITY SERVICES

GUILFORD LOCATION OPENS! As part of its continued expansion into New Haven County, Jewish Senior Services’ Friedman Home Care Agency opened a new office in Guilford in September. Excited to now have a physical location in the New Haven area, Julia Portale, Vice President, Community Services, explains, “The strategic location in the Shoreline community will enable the Guilford office to coordinate care for clients across many communities in New Haven County.” The office is conveniently located in the Sound Medical Center at 1591 Boston Post Road. The opening in September was marked by an open house for local physicians and prospective clients. The office will serve the Greater New Haven community, Jewish Senior Services Guilford Team. Left to right: Catherine Symes, RN; Melissa Lombardozzi, including Branford, North Branford, East Haven, Guilford, and Madison. Services Scheduler; Gerard Spenard, Homecare coordinator; Debbie Wesley, Director, Friedman Home Care; provided include private duty non-medical home care, medical home care, and Julia Portale, Vice President, Community Services hospice. The Guilford team was trained at the Fairfield location and is an integral part of the Friedman Home Care team, ensuring that services and standards are For more information on homecare and hospice services in consistent across Jewish Senior Services. This expansion follows the entrance of New Haven and the Shoreline, please call 203-689-5113 or Jewish Senior Services’ Senior Choice at Home® program into New Haven County, email [email protected]. which held its first seminars in New Haven and Branford earlier this year.

Founding Partner Rehabilitation Made Supporting Men as of Statewide Elder Easier They Age Justice Coalition Recovery is often a multistep process, with different levels of care required throughout. Jewish Senior Services’ full range of services allows for a continuum of care whereby clients can achieve their goals with continuity in caregivers. This continuity in having a caregiver and team of professionals involved in our clients’ progress is helpful in speeding recovery, enhancing communication, and truly understanding the full scope of needs.

6 Often, when people come home from the hospital and need physical, occupational, or speech therapy as part of their rehabilitation, a One in five older adults needs assistance with daily team of home care therapists will work with activities. However, men who need assistance are them to improve their function and support often less accepting or have difficulty finding the The Center for Elder Abuse Prevention, a their recovery. When a certain level of skill has proper support. Research shows that men interact program of Jewish Senior Services, is a been reached and patients are no longer less frequently throughout the years with the health founding partner of the Connecticut Elder homebound, they are discharged from home care system than women. This may be due to men Justice Coalition. Governor Malloy issued an care and may need additional therapy services in having fewer health events, pressure to not show an outpatient setting. This switch to outpatient weakness or emotions that convey stress, and a Executive Order on July 17 commending the therapy requires clients to begin a new reluctance to challenge one’s own sense of work that “links providers, advocates, and relationship with a new provider, a lengthy masculinity. Additionally, because the older stakeholders to valuable resources…[and]… initial appointment and evaluation, and new population skews female, special attention to the creates a unified front against intolerable abuse paperwork and insurance forms to be completed. support needs of men is often overlooked. of our seniors.” Statewide Elder Justice At Jewish Senior Services, this is not the case. Coalitions are required under the Affordable Our in-home and outpatient rehabilitation The staff at Grasmere by the Sea, Jewish Senior Services’ Adult Day Program, is familiar with these Care Act and Connecticut’s has representatives teams are aligned, so clients can continue with factors since about one-third of Grasmere by the from banking, criminal justice, legal, social the same therapy team as they move from home Sea’s clients are male. This high percentage of male services, and public health professions. Jewish care to outpatient services. This enables them to continue their work with a therapy team they clients is unique among adult day programs and Senior Services is the only health care provider allows for men to form friendships and engage in currently serving on the Coalition. already know and trust and continue the work they have already begun. Appointments are easy activities that are particularly appealing to them. They feel welcomed and cared for. The Center was asked to join the Elder and there is no gap in care. Justice Coalition because of its leadership and The program is designed to provide a therapeutic experience coordinating community elder abuse and social atmosphere for older adults who may prevention activities and providing victim require personal assistance or medical supervision. assistance. Laura Snow, Director, Institute on The men who attend the program have a wide range of needs. Some male clients have dementia, Aging, serves on the Coalition Steering yet a significant portion experience physical Committee, which helped plan the Coalition’s challenges rather than cognitive concerns. statewide daylong kickoff conference last fall and the first meeting of the Coalition’s Clients participate in a variety of activities, but Coordinating Council in Hartford. “This is a those particularly appealing to male clients are card wonderful opportunity to continue to increase games, especially poker; trivia and memory games; in-house bowling and golf; peer-led discussion our ability to combat elder abuse statewide, with Also, once clients have reached their goals and groups; and history lectures on a multitude of many different organizations working together completed their care, they can continue to work subjects, particularly military history. Additionally, on this complex problem,” Snow remarked. with the same team in exercise and wellness personal care is offered and many men enjoy getting classes to support their ongoing physical health. a shave from staff member Cynthia Mahan; as a The Coalition will host its second annual The continuity of care has been positive — veteran, she also connects with clients about their statewide event on November 21. For more clients enjoy working with the same team on military experience. The men enjoy their time details or information on the Center for the full spectrum of their recovery and staff together and as one client explains, “ You feel like Elder Abuse Prevention, please email satisfaction has increased as they are able to people are truly happy to see you when you walk [email protected] or call work with clients all the way through to a through the doors.” the helpline at 203-396-1097. positive health outcome. 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Volunteers Honored New Van Arrives! The Annual Volunteers’ Recognition Luncheon was held this summer to Resident David Reiss honor our volunteers and thank them for their incredible contributions. along with Ellen Ashkins, “Volunteers are the heart of Jewish Senior Services; they give back Director, Resident Life unconditionally to the Residents,” commented Linda Ciszkowski, Vice take the first ride in the President & Chief Administrative Officer. new Toyota Sienna mobility vehicle that Awards were presented to three volunteer groups that have truly dedicated Jewish Senior Services themselves to Jewish Senior Services. The Transport Group, Friendly Visitor won in Toyota’s 100 Cars Group, and Reiki Group all consist of remarkable individuals who play an for Good contest. The van important role in the daily lives of the Residents. The Transport Group’s arrived this summer and primary responsibility is to assist the Residents in wheelchairs from place to has been helping to place within The Jewish Home. Honorees recognized were: Bonnie Mooney transport mainly clients of Bridgeport, Alan Comen of Stamford, and Peter Caligiure of Trumbull. of the Center for Elder They have been volunteering for 16 years, 9 years, and 7 years, respectively. Abuse Prevention and Grasmere by the Sea The Friendly Visitor Group is also an invaluable asset with each volunteer Adult Day Program. being paired with several Residents. The volunteers serve as companions, friends, and confidants to the Residents, often chatting for hours or running errands. The honorees were Adele Witt of Fairfield, Dolly Wolf of Westport, and Patricia Casazza of Fairfield. They have been with Jewish Senior A Piece of Israel in Fairfield Services for 13 years, 17 years, and 20 years, respectively. This summer, the Tzofim (Israel Scouts) Friendship Caravan once again The Reiki Group has been steadily growing with Jim Landers and his wife, brought the rich, vibrant culture of Israel to the Residents of The Jewish Jeannette Stellato, of the ReikiOvertones, who officially began the program Home. The Scouts performed well-choreographed dance numbers in 2011. The group meets each Sunday with participants of all ages. accompanied by a fusion of Hebrew and English songs and demonstrated their strong love for their homeland through stories and videos about the The celebration also honored two inspirational volunteers who have been history and culture of Israel. committed to Jewish Senior Services for 41 years: Sue Angel of Fairfield and Barbara Berkowitz of Bridgeport. “These longtime volunteers who have been After the last notes and dance steps came to an end, the Residents were full committed for many, many years set the standard for new volunteers coming of smiles and applause. It was clear the Tzofim had succeeded in their in,” expressed Darlene mission: bringing a piece of Israel to the Residents of The Jewish Home. Miakos, Coordinator, Volunteers. Volunteers create their schedules based on their availability and interests, 7 including visiting Residents or hospice clients, working in the Gift Shop, sharing a talent, greeting visitors, or providing administrative support.

The ReikiOvertones were honored for their volunteer work at The Jewish Home An Israel Scout serenades Resident Ida Perlstein during a performance

Celebrating Summer Together This summer, Jewish Senior Services proudly sponsored nine concerts taking place at the Sherman Green Gazebo in Fairfield and The Levitt Pavilion for the Performing Arts in Westport. Whether it was songs from the “Great American Songbook,” a high-energy dance band, or an orchestra playing lively big band tunes, Jewish Senior Services was there to support the events, thereby enriching the lives of those in our community. In Fairfield, the concert series kicked off on June 29, with the musical renditions of Steve D’Agostino, and continued through August. The 400-plus Volunteers honored were Patricia Casazza, Adele Witt, and Bonnie Mooney (front row) and Peter Caligiure, Alan Comen, and Dolly Wolf (rear row) pictured with Darlene Miakos, Coordinator, Volunteers. concertgoers sung along to Elvis and Sinatra favorites and danced on the lawn. On Sunday evenings at The Levitt Pavilion, crowds of over 1,200 If you are interested in becoming a volunteer, please contact Darlene people gathered to watch Miakos at 203-365-6495 or [email protected]. the performances and see the newly renovated, breathtaking venue. The nights in Westport were brimming with energy with Judge O’Grady Honored high-caliber jazz performances by The Hot Sardines and Grammy A celebration in honor of former Probate Judge Resident Kevin O’Grady Award-winning Vince Giordano took place in recognition of his many years of dedicated service. He served as and the Nighthawks. probate judge for Westport and Weston since 1999. Kevin is pictured with The sponsorship helped provide former colleagues who awareness and information about all spoke of him as a mentor of Jewish Senior Services’ offerings and leader in his to over 7,600 attendees. Explained profession. He is known Julia Portale, Vice President, for his fairness and Community Services, “The compassion and admired audience was full of people who for the person he is as have some affiliation with us, might well as his distinguished require our services, or might know career. Regarding his someone who would need our celebration, Kevin services, so sponsorship is a great commented, “it was way to strengthen our visibility in the community at events that bring great, really great!!” people happiness.” 151055_ChaiLights_Fall 9/23/14 7:42 AM Page 8

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Although Avis She can always be spotted at the summer outdoor Dannenberg has only barbeques and enjoying the diverse entertainment “On behalf of our entire family, I would been a Resident of on Sundays. Avis looks forward to the wonderful like to thank Jewish Senior Services for the The Jewish Home candlelight dinners every few months. She likes wonderful care provided by the nurses since October 2013, that the dinners are set up like a restaurant and and aides for my mother.” her strong ties to loves the prime rib that is served. — Family Member, MS Jewish Senior She attends The New York Times group, which Services go back to discusses current events, along with bingo on a “The staff at Goldstein Rehab was absolutely the 1970s. Avis’ weekly basis. “I love the rabbi’s lectures on Israel. wonderful and attentive to my father’s grandfather, Samuel I’m going to Israel in November,” says Avis. She is needs. They were patient, kind, caring and Plushkin, was excited to join the group from Jewish Senior cheerful and made him feel at home during actually one of the Avis and Saul Dannenberg Services and traveling to see all of the highlights his rehab stay.” first Residents of in Israel, including the Western Wall, Masada, — Family Member, BC The Jewish Home. Years later, her husband, Saul, and the Dead Sea. would also become a Resident for three years. Avis frequently goes on day trips outside of Avis was born on August 27, 1927 in Bridgeport. The Jewish Home with the help of her personal SAVE THE After living in Bridgeport for the majority of her companions and her daughter. On these outings, DATES 2014 life, she moved to Oronoque Village in Stratford she usually gets her hair and nails done, does a with Saul, who was a tennis pro at several country little shopping, and goes to lunch. “Age may slow clubs in the area. Avis’ youngest daughter, Karen down some, but it doesn’t stop Avis from enjoying OCTOBER Holson of Wilton, recounts with a smile the story life,” comments Tracey Hamulak, Therapeutic of how her parents met: “It turned out that Avis Recreation Director. “Whether enjoying a great Thursday, October 23 had written letters to Saul when he was in the meal, getting pampered with a manicure, or Women’s Auxiliary Fall Gala Army because her mother asked her to help a spending time with her beloved family, she makes friend, Celia Dannenberg (Saul’s grandmother), the most of every day.” The Inn at Longshore, Westport who did not speak or write English very well.” Guest Entertainer – ART GARFUNKEL Avis and Saul met face-to-face on a double date, Despite the fact that Avis engages in many activities, she also looks forward to quiet moments but not with each other. As Karen explains, Various Dates “They kind of swapped partners,” and then their by herself. In her room, she eagerly reads ® relationship began. countless books. Avis’ advice for her friends and Senior Choice at Home Seminars loved ones is to “just be good, be honest, and Avis and Saul had three children: Howard of Westport, Ridgefield, New Canaan, be happy…to enjoy life and to be kind and Hamden, Madison Sandy Hook; Debby Kita of Massachusetts, generous.” who passed away nine years ago; and Karen. Additionally, Avis has six grandchildren and three Avis served as the president of several community great-grandchildren. organizations, including the P TA, the Jewish DECEMBER Federation, and Pioneer Women. Volunteering is Prior to becoming a Resident of The Jewish important to Avis, and Karen is most certainly Tuesday, December 30 Home, Avis was receiving physical therapy at the continuing the Dannenberg legacy at Jewish Goldstein Rehabilitation Center. Karen felt “this Senior Services. She and her mother are both life Residents’ New Year’s Party was the best place for her to stay. And it’s turned members of the Women’s Auxiliary and Karen is The Jewish Home, 6:30 PM out to be even better than I thought. Her quality an active Board member. As a committed and of life has really improved since she’s been here. passionate volunteer, Karen advocates, “Family She’s more social, she has people who love her, members have an opportunity to become involved and she’s developed more interests.” at a level that they can really make a difference for To obtain an application Avis echoes her daughter’s sentiments, “It’s the future of The Jewish Home, not only wonderful. I’m very happy here.” Volunteers and financially but on a community level…it’s a for skilled nursing or employees remark that Avis is very social, wonderful way to enhance the experience for the assisted living, please extremely fashionable, and constantly busy. Resident and for the family member.” contact us at: 203-396-1024. Visit Us Online at www.jseniors.org There is no application Like Us On Facebook fee or obligation.