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FIRST EVER Gay PRESIDENTIAL DEBATE p. 15 2 • July 19-August 1, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com Opinions No more Pride Love, Rights…and the Rest of It after surgery? By JM the JP* traffic); The Berkshires for Tanglewood, TRT Columnist Jacob’s Pillow and theatre (not all per- By: Nicole Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief ummer is here. Kids are out of am, and we at The Rainbow formances are costly/check web sites); Times are avid supporters of the school and local farmers’ mar- and MassMOCA in North Adams. ILGBTQ community as a whole. Skets will soon have more than Locally, there are college museums, We continue to pride ourselves to be plants and lettuce to offer. We are in high botanical gardens, and summer theatre inclusive. However, not too long ago season. How fortunate we are to live in something truly bothered me. companies. Nearly every weekend, there I was at a certain trans event that we an area with an endless array of day trips is a town fair, free concert or food festi- fully support. We always want to know to meet our needs and desires and where val somewhere in western what we can do to help our diverse we can choose to “vacation” without Massachusetts, southern Vermont or community. But, at this particular spending large sums of money and place I met someone who seemed dif- northern Connecticut. There are many ferent to me. She alerted me to the fact overnight costs for hotels. J.M. the JP natural “swimming holes” in Franklin Daytrips I have experienced in the sum- that she was a trans woman. We chat- Love is in the air when we can smell and Hampshire counties. ted for a long time. At some point she mer include: NYC for a matinee play and see flowers in bloom. We simultane- There are scenic parks for picnics and told me about her former life, and I lis- (hint: drive to New Haven, park at the ously crave the heat of the sun and the sports. Before the summer ends, take at tened as she explained her former job train station, take Metro North to Grand duties, and how she exacerbated her coolness of ocean or river waters. Lovers least one day to explore the advantages of Central Terminal); Rhode Island beaches masculinity then to hide the obvious and families commune around the grill. living here. Celebrate your pleasure conflict that she had within. (yes, there are crowds, but it’s nothing Cold beverages of every sort are popular. principle. Plan a romantic no-cost or I felt very bad that and started shar- like the Cape Cod bumper to bumper ing with her that something similar low-cost day with a loved one. happens to the gay/lesbian community. Letters to the Editor: EDITOR’S RESPONSE: No, The Chez If you are inclined, feel free to send me Before someone comes out, that per- Est is an LGBT bar. All people are wel- a description of your beautiful summer son usually dates people from the Dear Editor: come at the club! day—real or imagined—so that I may opposite sex to try to prove to them- We all have a duty to represent people share it with our readers. selves and others that everything is ok, for who they are and not for their sexu- Dear Editor: even when they are full of turmoil. I ality. I am proud to be a reader of your I am writing in reference to the article * J.M. Sorrell is a Justice of the Peace. Her remember trying to do the same when newspaper or magazine. I still haven’t on same sex marriages. It makes me commitment to justice and equal rights ranks I was trying to hide who I was, very angry in today's society when the up there with her romantic nature and well- because I was trying to please other figured that one out yet. But what I do people, I explained. know is that I simply admire your work. government thinks it should vote on how honed pleasure principle. She nodded subtly, as she said, “but You’ve taken a stance on LGBT issues people should their lives. Our Lord now this is totally different for me and you’ve stayed with it. Jesus Christ tells us to love one & anoth- because I am fully and biologically a I’ve never seen a paper like yours er. He doesn't say to change that person The Rainbow Times woman, because I’ve had all of my before. We go all the way from our home & then love him/her. 13 Old South St. • Suite 2C surgeries done.” I could’ve never been every two weeks to pick it up. Until Our Heavenly Father has created each Northampton, MA 01060 able to tell that she had ever been a recently we didn’t know that you even of us in His own image & He doesn't www.therainbowtimesmass.com male before. When I asked her if she [email protected] had enjoyed going to the Pride had coverage in Hartford and downtown make junk!!!!! Even God gives each of us our own free will, to make choices for [email protected] Festivities, she said that she didn’t Springfield. But what I like the most is Phone: 413-204-8959 • Fax: 866-310-8512 have to go to Pride anymore. You can how clean your paper is of the other ourselves! imagine my shock, well at least I know Why does man (the government ) garbage that I see around full of sex, sex Publisher Viviana Valiente that I was shocked. I asked her why and more sex. Don’t think I don’t like think that he is more powerful than God Gricel M. Ocasio Jane Hamel would she not be a part of Pride any- sex, of course I do. What male would- & try to make laws on whom people Editor-In-Chief Jack/ie Kennedy more? She proudly said, “Now I am a n’t? But I also enjoy the other aspects of should marry?This is so very Nicole Lashomb Writers: woman and not part of that struggle Lindsay Wilson wrong!!!!The government should stick Sales & anymore.” I was totally astounded. My life and your papers stands from the rest (Street Sense) Distribution face dropped, and I realized that she in that it is respectable, clean and family to making laws & signing bills on the J.M. Sorrell acts of the criminals of our society, Ben Peterson never believed in our struggle. oriented, no pun intended. I like that Webmaster: I say, once a lesbian, always a les- instead of trying to dictate whom one Columnists: about The Rainbow Times. Keep up the Dr. Renee Lang Jarred Johnson bian. Even if you are not a member of good work. should marry& chose to have a life with! Atty. Jennifer the LGBT community, we need peo- J. Harren I say the government should live& let Dexter ple’s support, everyone’s support, for Hartford, CT live. Letting each person make their own this is about human rights, civil rights The Rainbow Times is published by The Rainbow personal choices in what is best for Times, LLC. The articles written by the writers, and about what is right, period! Dear Editor: themselves! columnists, and correspondents express their opin- Needless to say, I was highly disap- Who is Jack/ie Kennedy? Recently, I ion, and do not represent the endorsement or opin- pointed. I must say that she was the didn’t care for his story about sinners These people also deserve to have the ion of The Rainbow Times, LLC or its owners. To only one out of a big group who same civil rights & opportunities as any write letters to the editor, please send your letters, and everyone going to hell. It was a bit with your name, address and phone number to: The expressed herself in that way. too out there. Although he or she hit on other heterosexual couple.They are not Rainbow Times (address shown above), or e-mail some great points, it was a bit strong criminals! By the way I am a straight, any comment/s to the editor at: editor@therainbow- and opinionated. I wonder is this a real caucasian, catholic female, just for the timesmass.com. All submissions will be edited Back to School Supplement? according to space constraints. The Rainbow Times, Kennedy in disguise? record! LLC reserves the right not to print any or all con- Early August! J. Lopez, Springfield, MA Gidget O’Hara tent, or advertisements for any reason at all. To Dear Editor: Easthampton, MA receive The Rainbow Times at your home via regu- Be a part of this lar mail, or through electronic delivery, please visit important supplement. Is the Chez Est Club only for men? our website. The content and graphics (photos, etc.) S. Logan are the sole property of The Rainbow Times and it FMI: 413-204-8959 West Springfield cannot be reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • June 21-July 4, 2007 • 3 Cover & Local Stories King St. Boiz tell all: Getting real n an exclusive interview with TRT, loose credibility. The King St. Boiz, Northampton’s There are five kings and Mistress Iown drag king troupe, sat down and Mona D’Luxe who is the MC. Describe told us the real deal of it all. Haven’t for me your character personalities. If heard of Daddy K, Ivory, LuckE, Buzz D, you could choose three words to Tomi Boi, and Mistress Mona D’Luxe? describe your character what would Don’t worry, you will! Find out the inti- they be? mate truths about this troupe, how it all MISTRESS MONA D’LUXE: My charac- started, the challenges they faced, what ter is over-the-top outrageous, which is their partners think of their venture, just the opposite of what my normal where they have been and where they are demeanor is. Three words that I would going. But, most importantly, find out use to describe her is sweet, hot, b#@$%. how you can get more of the ‘boiz’. BUZZ D: Buzz D is goofy and out there. How did the idea of the King St. Boiz I have never done this before so my stage start and when did the group officially personality is still in the works. So, the form? How many performances have three words would be: work in progress. you given so far? IVORY: I am definitely cocky. I like to DADDY K: I knew I wanted to get show my body, dance and have a lot of together a group of good [drag king] per- The King St. Boiz: (Top left to right) Daddy K, Mistress Mona D’Luxe, and Ivory. (Bottom left to right) LuckE, sex appeal. I would say that I am cocky, formers that would put Northampton and Tomi Boi, and Buzz D. The King St. Boiz will perform at Divas on July 20th at 8 p.m. Photo: Jill Cunningham smooth, and energetic. Western MA on the map. There really she, there just wasn’t respect in that I think people were thinking that we LUCKE: My character is a womanizer. wasn’t anything like us around here. sense. Now that we are here, it has gotten would not get a turn-out but we packed At one show a girl told me, you could After two open auditions, in September a lot better. Since the group has come the house from the very beginning and turn me into a lesbian! I love the ladies. of 2006, the King St. Boiz officially together, the reception and respect level surprised everyone. Really, we are the opposite of what our came together. This is my extended fam- from the other drag queens and the host MISTRESS MONA D’LUXE: I think we partners allow. LuckE is shy, reserved, ily. These are my friends. Their partners introducing us is completely different. challenged some of the concepts that the and sexy. are my friends. I just wanted us to be a Performing as a solo drag artist is very queer, particularly lesbian community DADDY K: I am a flamboyant straight good portrayal of a drag king troupe. So different than performing as a group. A has about gender. We challenged it in a guy who is kind of bi in a way. I try to be far, we have had five shows. group of us coming together and per- positive way. hot and smooth for the ladies but there is forming well together is what is gaining Ivory: We have to go out there and tear How did the public react to you being this other side that comes out. I try to us a lot of respect in many ways. Since the house down. All of our performance the first drag king group in the area? hide that I am gay but it sort of comes we have started this drag king troupe has to be right on target or otherwise, you What challenges did you face? out. See King St. Boiz on p.14 there have been more people coming out IVORY: When I started back performing trying to do drag and it’s been amazing. I in drag in 1999 [as a solo artist], there think one of our main purposes is to was never any respect from the drag make it seem ok and get more respect queens and from even the people intro- from the drag queens and the whole com- ducing us [drag kings]. The queens were munity as performing artists. would always be introduced as she but DADDY K: At first, people did not real- when I would go out, even though I was ly have any faith in us. At the first show, in drag, I would still be referred to as a

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Are you paying attention to the LGBT Buying Power??? $835 Billion by year 2011 ... Put your $ to work! therainbowtimesmass.com The Rainbow TImes’ Wedding Supplement • July 19-August 1, 2007 • 1 presents The LGBT RainbowThe Times Your LGBTQ News in Western MA, No. CT, and So. VT SSuummmmeerr 22000077 WWeeddddiinngg GGuuiiddee Marriage, Rights and a Sense of Humor By J. Mary Sorrell* marry; however, have we considered the TRT Columnist Here is a partial list of reasons we marry: price? Committed non-breeders who ver the last 3+ years, same-sex 1.Although we are 85 years old and friends and family members. This is marry are in danger of additional pres- marriage in Massachusetts has our kids from previous heterosexual payback time. Engagement party, sure from families of origin to bear and Ocreated an emotional, intellec- marriages are in their 50s and 60s, bridal shower, wedding, honey- raise children. Strangers may approach tual, and spiritual journey for me that I we feel their stigma that we are liv- moon… you on the street when you are simply never would have imagined prior to ing in sin. We want them to hold 5. We met 5 minutes ago, and we walking with a member of the same sex 2004. I have experienced personal suf- their heads high and tell everyone are in love. How COOL that we can and ask you, “Are you married?” because fering and profound joy, and I have their moms are married. do this! Should we wait until after it is vogue. It’s a buzz kill at group sex laughed and cried with our community as parties. Finally, it creates the potential 2. I’m not out to my parents, so graduation? we have traversed through too many for a “Star-Bellied Sneetch” conflict when they see the wedding Constitutional Conventions to defend 6. Now everything will be different. (read the Dr. Seuss book). announcement in the paper, I will be just one aspect of our civil rights—mar- We have been in a life partnership Seriously, love in all of its forms is a coming out and they may see how riage. for 35 years, but something has gift. The right to marry in Massachusetts normal we are. To those of you who think we have sold been missing. has created a ripple effect that is unprece- out or assimilated into the heterosexual 3. F*@! the patriarchal institution. 7.We love the tasting meetings with dented in our community’s struggle to be community—I respect the concern We have to do this for the health the caterers. recognized and respected as valued mem- because not everyone wants to integrate insurance. 8. My parents will pay for it. bers of society. This serves all of us, into this norm, nor do we want to lose the unmarried and married, because a safer, 4. We are sick of giving countless 9. Because we can. unique qualities that have us challenging more affirming mainstream society sur- wedding gifts to our heterosexual mainstream gender standards and uncon- 10. None of your business. rounds us now. Time will tell more. ventional ways to love. married. (P.S. I knew lesbian couples non. Could be the drinking water, no?) The good news is: the civil right to * J. Mary Sorrell is a Justice of the Peace. with Volvo wagons and twins more than Please see the partial list of reason we marry has not cost us our identities. The She continues to be astonished by the blessing 10 years ago, so you would be hard marry. infinite spectrum of lifestyles in our com- of serving our communities in this capacity. pressed to convince me that our new civil There are rights and perquisites that we JM believes in true love while also feeling the munities is still alive and kicking—even right to marry is causing this phenome- can not take for granted with the right to humor of our political and lifestyle diversity. in the context of how and why people get Wedding Trends for 2007: Special preparation By: Lisa Watts* Vegas and Italy. There are a few benefits Not all of the current wedding trends Special for TRT Wedding Guide of the destination wedding. A smaller require a big undertaking. If you want to ere is a look at some of the guest list lends itself for the intimacy of incorporate a trendy detail into your most popular wedding trends your closest friends. 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Keep it small LGBT marriage Photography tips: Haven’t found a and intimate time capsule Memories and ring yet? Photos p. 4 p. 2 p. 7 p. 6 2 • July 19-August 1, 2007 • The Rainbow TImes’ Wedding Supplement Answers to ‘Why bother getting married?’ By: The Rainbow Times’ staff • We’ve entered into a meaningful rela- (This is a favorite since it forces the other • There is social recognition for married t is no surprise that although same- tionship that is too meaningful to deny or person to look at this question from a dif- couples and I want that recognition of my sex marriage is legal in stay silent about it. ferent perspective.) relationship too.” IMassachusetts, and civil unions in • We want children and marriage is the • This has nothing to do with you, but it VT, CT and NJ, that there are still strong • It’s a celebration of our lives first step to build our family. Like we is rather about personal happiness for opponents to the issue. Unfortunately, together. were always taught, first comes me.” you may have been born into those fami- love, second comes marriage, • We are formalizing our • I want to be protected under the law.” lies who are adversaries of same-sex relationship to the outside third comes the baby in the marriage. Once you announce your world. baby carriage.” Hopefully you will not be ask that desire to marry your partner, you may question by your family, but many of us find yourself in the position to justify to • I want to publicly express my ultimate • My relationship is as significant have been asked that question! Now, you others why you would bother to get mar- commitment and responsibility to my as any other marriage and now is my time are prepared for it, if it should happen. ried. Here are some answers to that ques- partner. to show my family and friends just how tion. • Why did you bother to get married? much my partner means to me.” A glimpse of our past: An LGBT time capsule B: Nicole Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief it remains astonishing that before the writes Dialogues of the Courtesans, in House of Representatives votes thirty- henever we talk about any concept of political power became which Leana describes a woman of seven to three to pas an emergency civil right, including mar- involved, same-sex couples went on with (where else?) Lesbos who is married to a measure specifically banning same-sex Wriage, it is important to be their daily lives practically unaffected by woman from Corinth. marriage. educated about where we have been and the mainstream community. DURING THE ROMAN EMPIRE: Male sol- 1976: Two Chicago women, Nancy While no one can deny the fact that we where we are going with these issues. It diers were often wedded to one another Davis and Toby Schneiter, are arrested have made current LGBT advances, is important to not get caught up in a prior to battle. for the fourth time for staging sit-ins at have we simply begun to revert back to sense of pseudo security and recognition city hall, insisting upon their right to a the way things always were and the way 1855: Edwin Denig publishes a paper at a global level just because we happen marriage license. They spend a year in that things were intended to be? documenting a Crow “woman chief” to live in a Commonwealth that recog- the state penitentiary for their final con- nizes our unions. who has taken four wives. SECOND CENTURY AD: Iamblichus writes viction. We live in a country and world for that the novel Babyloniaca, which includes THE LATE NINETEENTH CENTURY: In 1984: The Unitarian Church votes to rec- matter, that is filled with hatred, divi- the characters of Berenice, the queen of New England, “boston Marriages” are ognize and approve ceremonies celebrat- sion, ignorance, pain and hurt revolving Egypt, and the female lover she married, common. Women choose other women ing the union of gay and lesbian couples. around all LGBT related issues and yet, Mesopotamia. At the same time, Lucia as life partners, and together work toward a Feminist vision of social jus- OCTOBER 10, 1987: One thousand gay tice. and lesbian couples exchange vows in a mass wedding held on the steps of the THE 1920’S: in Harlem, black lesbians in Celebrating ALL Love Internal Revenue Service building in butch/femme couples marry each other Washington, D.C. in large wedding ceremonies that include bridesmaids and attendants. Couples OCTOBER 1, 1989: Denmark legalizes obtain marriage licenses by masculiniz- same-sex marriages. ing a first name or having a gay male JUNE 13, 1994: The annual wedding surrogate apply for the license. The cover of The New Yorker magazine fea- licenses are placed on file with the NYC tures two men posed in front of a cake, Marriage Bureau, and the marriages are topped with two grooms. often common knowledge among We are a Welcoming Congregation Harlem heterosexuals. FEBRUARY 12, 1998: First National free- dom to Marry Day. Lesbians, gay men 1960’S: “Covenant” services are con- Join us for worship or community events! and straight people participate in events ducted for some gay and lesbian couples across the country calling for an end to by clergy involved in the Council of discrimination in civil marriage. Unitarian Universalist Society Religion and the Homosexual. And, the fight continues. of Greater Springfield 1975: Two gay men in Phoenix, Arizona legally obtain a marriage license and are On the Longmeadow Border, near Porter Lake * The historical data used in this article was wed in a ceremony at the local Church of taken from The Essential Guide to Lesbian www.uuspringfield.org Christian fellowship. A superior court and Gay Weddings, written by Tess Ayers and judge, citing the Bible, later voids the Paul Brown, 1999. 413-736-2324 marriage. 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A personal trainer to come to your and an assistant to answer all of your cor- donations are more in keeping with the house for the rest of your life. respondence. spirit of their particular union celebra- 3. A year’s worth of fresh flowers 10. Tickets to the ballet, opera, or the- tion. delivered daily. ater—in Paris. In this case it is acceptable to include a 4. Two seats on a space shuttle. But if you want something else, you separate card along with the invitation 5. Five years worth of groceries— can find more choices in The Essential that informs the guest of the specific of checks; if possible, list the contact per- shopped for, delivered, and put away. Guide to Lesbian & Gay Weddings by charity or foundation. For example, in son by name on the enclosure card you 6. Bette Midler to sing at your next Tess Ayers & Paul Brown. lieu of gifts please make contributions in send and set up a record keeping proce- birthday party. honor of our ceremony of commitment to dure by which you are kept up-to-date 7. Coupons that say things like “cut me the (name of organization and address). with who has sent donations. This way, Make arrangements with a representa- you can acknowledge the gesture with a TRT congratulates Austin and Hubbard on their tive at the charity to handle the collection personal thank you note. engagement Austin J. Austin and Zak Lolita Don’t even think about Hubbard are engaged to be married. As a recent industrial design graduate saying the “W” word from Hampshire College, Hubbard By: Rachel Lapiene works with Austin, a writer and graphic TRT Special for Wedding Guide designer graduate of Smith College, on their new business project. ome people in the LGBT com- Longtime Valley resident Austin and munity may not want to “wed” Rhode Island native, Hubbard will marry Stheir life partner because of the overwhelmingly political debate sur- in Northampton, MA on October 31, Austin and Lolita orchids will remain in the Valley after rounding this issue. Others may feel that 2007, surrounded by their loving families they want recognition of their commit- and friends. They, their two cats, and five their wedding, delightedly. ment, but because of how tainted the W word marriage has become, they steer far from it. Other individuals may desire the fundamental rights and protections of 6. Life Partnership ceremony marriage under the law but have a prob- 7. Holy Union lem calling their ceremony a “marriage.” 8.O Civil Union Now, more than ever there are several 9. Relationship blessing alternative titles to give to your special 10. Covenant of Love day. Non-traditional terms to weddings There are many alternative phrases that are as follows: you can use to substitute “wedding.” If 1. Lifetime commitment ceremony you do not see one here that you like, be 2. Permanent partnership ceremony creative! Try not to get hung up on the 3. Affirmation ceremony political issue revolving around same-sex 4. Celebration of our lives together marriage. Afterall, regardless of that, we 5. Ceremony of the Heart all deserve to love someone while being protected under the law.

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Lisa Watts, owner 413-323-6612 Professional Bridal Consultant coldspringevents.com 4 • July 19-August 1, 2007 • The Rainbow TImes’ Wedding Supplement Benefits of keeping it small and intimate By:Christian Foyer* ried, it is common that their guest list worry. The fact that they are there to cel- Special for TRT Wedding Guide may have very well exceeded 150+ peo- ebrate your same-sex wedding means ple. However, with the LGBT communi- that they are open, understanding and hen planning your wed- ty, many family members may be loving people. They will get along just ding, keep in mind that the estranged to you, including siblings fine and since there is not an over- WLGBT community faces and/or parents. But, don’t worry, that whelming audience, they too will have different obstacles, which can actually does mean that you cannot have an over time to get to know each other. In addi- be benefits in disguise compared to tra- the top wedding! tion, you will also be able to mingle ditional heterosexual weddings. Choose to invite people to your wed- with them easier! You have probably heard the expres- ding that love and support your relation- Less people at your ceremony/recep- tion equates to less stress for you; espe- cially if you know everyone intimately. You most likely won’t have to deal with distant aunts or uncles that you haven’t spoken to in 10 years. A smaller guest list means that you can In intimate settings, your guests will have open seating and allow people to also have an up close and personal view choose where they sit. This cuts down of your ceremony and reception, thus on your planning time. engaging everyone. With a smaller wedding and reception On a queer special wedding note: attendance, you can spend more money The Bad news is that your per guest on meals, appetizers, parting parents/family probably won’t become gifts, and drinks (alcoholic or non-alco- as fully involved as they did in your sib- holic). You can feed your guests better ling’s wedding. with more per person. The Good News is that you probably A small wedding list also allows you won’t have to deal with a controlling to have your special day at virtually any mother who is trying to relive her own sion “friends are the family we choose.” ship, even if that means inviting only 15 location since you will not have to wedding! The reality is that if you have ever had a people to your celebration. If those 15 worry about accommodating for hun- sister or brother, cousin, etc., get mar- people do not know each other, do not dreds of guests. Also, if you choose to *Christian Foyer is an imtimate gathering hold your celebration at a get away des- wedding planner out of Springfield, tination such as Hawaii, if you have few Massachusetts. He may be contacted at sun- guests, you may even fly your guest list [email protected]. there complimentary!

Lynne Graves lifestyle photographer “When the ordinary won’t do” 413-335-6985 www.lynnegraves.com The Rainbow TImes’ Wedding Supplement • July 19-August 1, 2007 • 5 Lesbian Paradise: The Highlands Inn BETHLEHEM, NH—Nestled within For those couples who want to get mar- guests go for their civil union. We also especially for you by one of our local the great White Mountains, lies a utopia ried in Canada, The Highlands Inn’s have tons of couples from Massachusetts gourmet bakers. Cakes start at $25,” said that you will not want to pass by. The proximity to Canada makes this choice a come in and celebrate their honeymoon Grace. Highlands Inn in Bethlehem, New perfect one. The resort owners have here” In the summer, guests enjoy the 54-foot Hampshire is a romantic and relaxing established working relationships with To add more beauty to your wedding, pool with its large sundeck, adjacent getaway for all to enjoy. officiant in nearby Quebec towns such as ceremony or civil union, the resort has gazebo, and barbecue area. There is also The resort is also a perfect place for a Unitarian-Universalist minister, an special Honeymoon Package that include an outdoor spa adjacent to the pool. those looking to tie the knot. According attorney, and an official of the Civil a room with private bath, a fresh floral swimming pool or snowshoes.” to Grace (owner), at least over 100 cou- Marriage office of the Quebec Ministry arrangement, a basket full of treats and “This place is really nice and we are ples a year, from all over the country, do of Justice. Any one of these contacts will surprises, breakfast in your room one having a great time,” said Jessica & their honeymoon at the resort. be able to help you through the process of morning, and champagne with two com- Sharon Terrigan, who tied the knot a few “As of this year New Hampshire getting married in Canada . memorative champagne glasses! The months ago and spent their honeymoon at approved civil unions, so we have had a “The Highlands Inn is the ideal place Deluxe Honeymoon Package includes The Highlands Inn. “It’s really great lots of ceremonies from here too,” said for couples to stay while getting Vermont everything in the Special Package plus especially if you want to escape the hus- Grace. “We’ve been doing ceremonies civil union certification,” said Grace. one hour of massage. tle and bustle of city life.” since 1984 and have had tons of commit- “The Inn is only 20 minutes from St. “With either of our honeymoon pack- It is no surprise that this cozy and ment ceremonies through the years.” Johnsbury , VT , where many of our ages, we'll order you a festive cake made enchanting Inn has won the Out & About Editor’s Choice Award every year since ‘Reverend’ Tori Spelling marries gay couple 1997. Book your stay now, because with the Women’s Concert Series, you’ll have NEW YORK (AP)—“Yep, that’s right. Spelling and the Emmys and this by far was my scari- to book ahead of time. For more informa- ... Reverend Tori Spelling! I did it last McDermott, est moment simply because they had tion, call Grace at 1-877-537-2466 or week online and my official certificate is who were mar- bestowed such an honor upon me and I 603-869-3978 or visit the Highlands Inn in the mail. I’m so proud,” the 34-year- ried in May didn’t want to let them down.” online at www.highlandsinn-nh.com/. old actress said in a posting Monday on 2006, will Spelling and McDermott took their 4- the MySpace.com site she shares with reprise their month-old son, Liam, out for a spin on her husband, Dean McDermott. innkeeper duties the dance floor at the wed- Spelling officiated at a same-sex union for the show’s ding reception. “The three last weekend at Chateau La Rue, the bed- second season, of us swayed and smiled to and-breakfast that she and McDermott which premieres Madonna,” she said. “It run in California, on their Oxygen net- Photo: officialtorispelling.com Aug. 14. was a magical evening of work unscripted series, “Tori & Dean: “It was so pure love.” Inn Love,” her spokeswoman, Meghan beautiful as I united Tony and Dex as life Spelling starred on the Prophet, said Tuesday. partners in love. They wrote their own long-running ‘90s TV “I was so honored when the couple beautiful vows and there was so much series “Beverly Hills, asked me to officiate. We did it on the love surrounding them that there wasn’t a 90210,” produced by her front steps of the Chateau as 40 of their dry eye in the driveway!” wrote Spelling, father, Aaron Spelling, who friends looked on seated in a loungelike adding that she was “beyond nervous.” died in June 2006. atmosphere,” Spelling wrote. “I’ve done live theater and presented at 6 • July 19-August 1, 2007 • The Rainbow TImes’ Wedding Supplement Rona Fisher revolutionizes jewelry design s a highly trained artist and a well as the spiritual, relates to times past custom jewelry designer for as well as the present,” said Fisher. Aover 20 years, Rona Fisher has “Because it stands alone, I feel the con- completely revolutionized jewelry cept of a piece of jewelry is easy to design as we currently know it. grasp. For example, its main purpose as Regardless of distance, communicating a ring, or a neckpiece, or earrings is via email, she will create and modify the immediately apparent.” client’s customized piece of jewelry Fisher noted that jewelry moves from throughout the entire design process one person to the next—it is given, cov- until he/she is happy with the final eted, and then eventually given again. It design, literally from every angle, moves through the generations. according to Fisher. “My jewelry is created with tat in “Our custom work can be done long mind,” she said. “In design and creation distance. Using my Computer Aided it will remain a thing of beauty today for Design (CAD) program, I can create a many tomorrows.” rendering of the piece and e-mail it to As Rona Fisher Jewelry Design is ded- my client,” said Fisher. “I can show an icated to customer satisfaction and infinite number of views of the piece so involvement, within a few weeks a new, that my client can see how the piece will highly interactive and engaging website look from every angle. I can also ‘weigh’ will be up and running, explained Fisher. the piece so that I can know how much “Our visitors will be able to buy direct- precious metal will be needed and give “River Pebbles” Ring ly online. We will be inviting our visitors an extremely close estimate of the final According to Fisher, her designs are of the medieval sensibility,” said Fisher. to have a say in our future designs,” said cost to the client. We will make changes indirectly inspired from various artistic Fisher’s passion for creating jewelry is Fisher. “There will be a ‘rate our new in the computer model until the client is collections and time periods such as the more than apparent. She relates metals designs’ page and I will be posting ren- happy with the design. If our client has Byzantine Collection derived from the and jewelry to the infinite, emotional derings of new ideas (jewelry not yet his/her own stones, they can be sent to us medieval ages, the Italian Circus world of generations. made, but pieces we are considering via UPS insured and we will be happy to Collection from early 20th century Italy “I love making rings because of their making), and we will be asking our visi- use them, or we will acquire any gem and also by nature. sculptural aspect,” she said. A piece of tors opinions of these pieces!” that is wished for,” she said. “Our River Pebbles Collection is obvi- jewelry relates to this world—my jewel- See Rona on p. 7 ously nature inspired but also whispers ry is wearable, relates to the material as Jennifer L. Dexter Attorney at Law & Notary Public

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Rona continued from p. 6 In addition, online visitors can request All that is left are memories and photos By: Lynne Graves* Consider just tow group photos of each jewelry that they would like to see made Photography special for TRT side of your family, or even one large as a source of brainstorming together, veryone wants photos of their group photo. By keeping it simple, you according to Fisher. Similar ideas will be wedding day. But let’s face it, can enjoy your party and all the great compiled and considered for upcoming Efew of us really want to stand food you are paying for! lines. there and be photographed. I have heard Consider a photographer that docu- Through Fisher’s new website, the experience of being in front of a ments your day in an editorial fashion www.ronafisher.com and/or www.gayan- camera comparable to that of a visit to which will include all the special details dlesbianweddingbands.com, gift cards the dentist. That is where an of the day without being obtrusive. and incentives will be offered for repeat editorial/lifestyle photographer can be The last thing I recommend is that the customers. such an important consideration when couple takes a few moments alone after As a lesbian herself, Fisher expressed planning your wedding day. the ceremony just to take it all in before her pledge and importance of working The best compliment I have received entertaining friends and family. The day with the LGBT community. from a client was “we didn’t notice you goes by so quickly and all you have left “We especially want to know what our there, but when we got your photo- are memories and photographs. graphs, we realized that you were every- sisters and brothers in the gay communi- *Lynne Graves is the owner of Lynne where!” ty would like to see for their wedding Graves, lifestyle photographer. For more My biggest tip for couples is to not Photo by: Lynne Graves bands,” said Fisher. “We love working information or to contact Lynne, call 413- plan to do a lot of group photos because of your, you will be burnt out, and those 335-6985 or visit lynnegraves.com with ‘family.’ It makes everything much by the time you get to photos of the two more fun! Thanks to daytime TV and the are the photos you will really want. media, [LGBT] couples are also being handed down the family diamonds, just The Old Mill on the Falls: Restored for you like the straight couples. It is an affirma- he Old Mill on The Falls Bed overlook our private dam and waterfall. tion to what we do.” and Breakfast has just been Our Banquet facility is the perfect Currently, Rona Fisher Jewelry restored and converted into a place for small gatherings, weddings, Designs operates from downtown T wonderful Bed and Breakfast, Banquet special events or plan to join us for a Philadelphia, PA, where she and her life partner, Emily Sims work and reside. facility for up to 60 people, and opening wonderful meal prepared by our in res- For more information about Rona soon, a Bistro restaurant which will be idence Italian chef. and/or her designs, please visit either open on Friday and Saturday nights. This gay owned and operated facility www.ronafisher.com, www.gayandles- All rooms have private baths, wire- is located in 87 School St., Hatfield, bianweddingbands.com, e-mail your less internet connections, cable and are MA. For more information you can call questions to: [email protected] or call furnished with antiques, oriental rugs 413-247-3301, o on the web visit: 215-627-3848. and original artwork. Several rooms www.oldmillbnb.net

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JUSTICE LGBTQ OF COUPLES THE PEACE SERVING 87 School St., Hatfield, MA 413-247-3301 www.oldmillbnb.net 413.427.4153 • email: [email protected] 8 • July 19-August 1, 2007 • The Rainbow TImes’ Wedding Supplement LGBT Friendly & Welcoming Churches SERVICES YOU MAY NEED Generally, denominations such as the Hoyloke, South Hadley and Granby, South Hadley, “United Church of Christ and the “Unitarian MA; First Church of Christ Congregational, PET SITTING: Ave., Northampton, MA 01060; 413-585- Pampered Pet Sitting 0683; www.nohoprideandjoy.com Universalist Association” are welcoming and Springfield, MA; South Congregational, Springfield, MA; St. John’s Congregational 247 Northampton St., Suite 12, affirming to the LGBTQ community. Church, Springfield, MA; UU Church of Pittsfield, Easthampton, MA, 1027, 413-529-0011, Esscents Candles & Gifts However, other individual churches within Pittsfield, MA; UU Society of Greater Springfield, Goshen: 413-268-3447; Cell: 413-695-0427 37 N Franklin St.; Holbrook MA 02343; other specific denominations may also be www.esscentscandles.com MA; Westhampton Congregational, Westhampton, WEDDING PLANNING: 781-767-1193 welcoming and affirming. MA Cold Spring Events; 413-323-6612 Listed below are some churches that are Professional Bridal Consultant KW Home LGBTQ friendly in Western MA, Northern Northern CT coldspringevents.com 82 1/2 Cottage St. Easthampton, MA CT and Southern VT. East Hartford First Congregational UCC, East 01027; 413-527-5936 www.kwhome.net Harford, CT; East Hartford New Hope Christian COSMETIC: In Western Massachusetts: Church UCC, East Hartford, CT; Enfield Pioneer Valley Dermatology HOME REPAIR/CONSTRUCTION: Immanuel Lutheran Church, Amherst, MA; First Congregational Church, Enfield, CT; Unitarian 29 Cottage St. Suite B, Amherst, MA Rainbow Home Improvement Congregational UCC, Amherst, MA; North Society of New Haven, Hamden CT; Hartford 01002; 413-549-7400; 413-885-9038 or 860-794-9732 Congregational Church, Amherst, MA; South Asylum Hill Congregational UCC, Hartford, CT; pioneervalleyderm.com www.rainbowhomeimprovement.net Congregational, Amherst, MA; First Hartford Faith Congregational UCC, Hartford, CT; [email protected] Congregational Church, Ashfield, MA; Hartford Liberty Christian Center International JUSTICE OF THE PEACE: JM Sorrell; UCC, Hartford, CT; Hartford Immanuel 413-427-4153; [email protected] CATERING: Belchertown United Church of Christ, SERIO’S Market; 65 State St., Belchertown, MA; First Congregational Church, Congregational Church UCC, Hartford, CT; Unitarian Society of Hartford, Hartford; Hartford LEGAL SERVICES: Atty. Jennifer Northampton, MA 01060; 413-584-2633; Chicopee, MA; Village Congregational Church, Dexter; 95 State St., Suite 724; Springfield, www.seriosmarket.com Cummington, MA; The First Church of Deerfield, First Church Of Christ UCC, Hartford, CT; MA 01103; 413-214-7626 Deerfield, MA; Feeding Hills UCC, Feeding Hills, Hartford Faith Congregation UCC, Hartford, CT; JEWELRY: MA; UU Meeting of South Berkshire, Great UU Society, New Britain CT ; First Universalist HOTELS/INN’S/B&B’S: Rona Fisher Jewelry Design Barrington, MA; All Souls UU Church, Greenfield, Society in New Haven, New Haven CT; West The Old Mill on the Falls; 87 School St., 104 S. 8th St., 3rd Floor, Philadelphia, PA MA; Haydenville Congregational Church, Hartford First Korean UCC, West Hartford, CT; UU Hatfield, MA; 413-247-3301 19107; 215-627-3848; Haydenville, MA; First Church in Jamaica Plain Society, Manchester, CT; The Universalist Church www.ronafisher.com; and www.gayandles- UU, Jamaica Plain, MA; Central Congregational of West Hartford, West Hartford, CT The Ogunquit Inn; 17 Glenn Ave.; bianweddingbands.com Church, Jamaica Plain, MA; Church on the Hill Ogunquit Maine; 866-999-3633; Lenox UCC, Lenox, MA; First Parish in Lexington, Southern VT www.ogthouse.com AUTOMOTIVE: Lexington, MA; Union Church of Christ, Ludlow, Bennington Second Congregational Church, Steve Lewis Subaru; 48 Damon Rd., MA; First Churches, Northampton, MA; St. John's Bennington, VT; North Bennington Congregational The Highlands Inn; Bethlehem, NH, 877- Northampton, MA 01060; 413-584-3292; Episcopal Church, Northampton, MA; Edwards Church UCC, North Bennington, VT; All Souls 537-2466; www.highlandsinn-nh.com www.stevelewiscars.com Church Unitarian Universalist, Brattleboro, VT; UU Church, UCC, Northampton, MA; First Church of PHOTOGRAPHY: ADOPTIONS IN CT: Christ, Northampton, MA; Unitarian Society of Fellowship of Bennington, Bennington, VT; Brattleboro Centre Congregational UCC, Lynn Graves Lifestyle Photography The Institute of Professional Practice; Northampton & Florence, Northampton, MA; First www.lynnegraves.com; 413-335-6985 Parish of Northfield Unitarian, Northfield, MA; Brattleboro, VT; Brattleboro First Congregational 1764 Litchfield Turnpike, Woodbridge, CT First Universalist Church, Orange, MA; St. UCC, Brattleboro, VT; Guilford Community GIFTS/HOME FURNISHINGS: 06525; www.ippi.org; (888) 968-4489 x134 Stephen's Episcopal Church, Pittsfield, MA; South Church UCC, Brattleboro, VT Northampton’s Pride & Joy; 20 Crafts Congregational Church, Pittsfield, MA ; UMC of www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • July 19- August 1, 2007 • 13 PuddleJump Travel Stories & Entertainment Among the Cedars: Start an Outer Cape get-away in the depths of a hidden forest By J. Stevenson*/Special to TRT Cape Cod is divided into three sections –the Upper Cape, Lower Cape, and Outer s the Bourne and Sagamore Cape, which includes the towns of Bridges emerge from the hori- Eastham, Wellfleet, Truro, and zon, travelers bound for Cape A Provincetown. It’s here that Route 6 Cod feel a sudden lurch in their hopes– gives way to those sand dunes and quaint Hyannis and Provincetown, three miles little villages we hear so much about, as ahead! the highway signs promise. wells as hidden gems that are perfect for But that anticipation is usually felt by starting a get-away a little early. thousands, causing cars to inch their way Forget the mini-golf, whale watches, on to the Northeast’s most famous penin- and fried clams (however, return to the sula. For those traveling all the way to the clams later…. that’s a must), and even set fingertips of Cape Cod’s flexing arm of aside the fantastic shopping, dining, and surf and sand, perhaps to ‘P-town,’ the nightlife that the area offers. little hamlet that never sleeps, three miles Instead, picture yourself, and perhaps to the bridge is actually followed by your betrothed, strolling under a canopy another 50. of cedars and maples. Tea-colored water The beauty of a trek ‘down Cape,’ how- stirs gently on either side of you, and the ever, is that the major throughway, Route faint sound of the surf crashing on a 6, serves as a central artery from one end shore in the distance stops your racing of Cape Cod to the other, and stopping mind. for impromptu exploration (without get- The White Cedar Trail, This is the Atlantic White Cedar Trail, ting lost) is easier that it first might seem. Wellfleet, Mass. found just off of Route 6 at Marconi Photo by: Mark Archer Tired of hypocrites, but things are changing Point in Wellfleet. The trail is an easy hustle and flow of traffic. It’s also only By Jack/ie Kennedy he is a transgender. He is the lead-man of walk, under two miles, and showcases 20- to 30- minutes away from the heart of k, so one of the themes for this the rock band The Clicks and has been one of the lesser known aspects of the Provincetown, an acceptable distance to article is hypocrisy. I’ve signed by a high profile label. It’s not Outer Cape’s natural beauty: in addition those fried clams, and the vibrant culture Otouched on it before, but since about sexuality people, it’s about talent to miles of beach, there are also several of Commercial Street. it’s so prevalent in this “society,” I must and the guy has talent. Even when he’s pockets of lush forestry and fresh-water To pause for a breath, to get out of the write about it again. As you know by refused to take hormone therapy, he ecosystems. car, to reset tired brains and weary eyes – now, according to the news one of Sen. knows he’s a man. I was always taught The trail begins as a simple, sandy path these are the draws of the White Cedar John McCain’s presidential campaign that a man knows he’s a man and that has in the seaside woods. Gentle, rolling hills Trail, and an apt start to a successful co chairs was busted in Florida for trying nothing to do with biology. Amen! descend into mossy pools, where hikers adventure. to pick up an undercover male police Pride left with a big bang, especially in can walk on water with the help of a * J. Stevenson is a travel, culture, and busi- officer. The article further states: “State the True Colors Tour’s last night. Cindy boardwalk maintained by the Cape Cod ness writer based in Massachusetts, and a Rep. Bob Allen (R), an opponent of Lauper and Rosie O’Donnell were the National Seashore. The sunlight only Cape Cod native. Her fiancé proposed in LGBT rights in Florida, was charged heroines of the show and the struggle peeks through the dense trees, and gives December, at a bend in the boardwalk of the with offering the cop $20 for oral sex in that night. They both conjured state- the entire stroll a magical, romantic feel. White Cedar Trail. www.writerjax.com. a washroom at Veteran's Memorial Park ments that were meant to empower The White Cedar Trail also goes in Titusville. Hmm! What do I say about LGBT people when they said (according through a metamorphosis each season. In 10 Ways to be an that? to an Advocate.com exclusive by Corey the summer, vibrant greens, blues, and I’ll say here we go again with the same Scholibo): “Stand up for yourself, gay yellows are predominant, while in the fall Ally & Friend conservative married heterosexuals who people. The '60s are back.” Thank you the trees take on a deep brown hue. claim that same-sex marriage is damna- for the fight, because it is our fight, that Finally, as winter approaches, the white 1. Be a listener. tion, and that will be the demise of the of human kind. I am proud to join this cedars live up to their name, growing a 2. Be open-minded. marriage institution. Hello!! The demise fight, even if I were not a member of this striking, cold-weather coat that turns the 3. Be willing to talk. of it is the hypocrisy of your lives, or community. Why can’t other people? forest into a sparkling wonderland. 4. Be inclusive and invite LGBT should I call them “lifestyles.” I mean, Now, let’s tune to LOGO to see the his- As the path draws to an end, it opens up friends to hang out with your friends you choose to be heterosexual, but then torical LGBT presidential candidates’ to a spectacular view of Marconi Point, and family. you flip-flop to the other team when it’s debate. That’s going to be a turning point where Guglielmo Marconi first made 5. Don't assume that all your friends convenient and secluded. What’s with for many people because of the buying transatlantic, wireless communication a and co-workers are straight. that? At least queers are mostly open power that this community has and we reality in 1903. Someone close to you could be look- about their sexuality and stay on that all know that politicians love the power The White Cedar Trail is family and ing for support in their coming-out side. Should we make up a word for con- of $$$. Isn’t anybody else paying atten- pet-friendly, as well as a respite from the process. Not making assumptions will servative heterosexuals who are truly tion? (yells) give them the space they need. gay or bi and stay in the closet while 6. Homophobic comments and jokes condemning the LGBT community? are harmful. Let your friends, family Maybe homhetsexuals? I don’t know Shows you don’t want to miss! and co-workers know that you find anymore! PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATES’ ON DEGRASSI: TNG, The N (30 min); July them offensive. Did you hear about Tori Spelling? LGBT ISSUES; LOGO; August 9, 90- 20; 9 p.m. NEW; The hit teen soap returns 7. Confront your own prejudices and She’s now available for weddings. She minute show, 9 p.m. EST; Check out what to finish out the sixth season. Featured homophobia, even if it is uncomfort- officiated at a same-sex union in your candidate has on the agenda for LGBT LGBT characters include live-in boyfriends able to do so. California recently and was very proud rights and issues. Marco and Dylan, as well as ex-couple 8. Defend your LGBT friends against of it. I’m proud of her and her husband Alex and Paige. discrimination. for not letting bias or the media get to Hey, Paula, Bravo (30 min); 10:00 PM; 9. Believe that all people, regardless THE BEST YEARS, The N (1 hr); 9:30 them. It’s one of the best things she’s July 19; NEW; Paula Abdul, the heir-appar- of gender identity and sexual orienta- p.m.; NEW; This new drama follows the done and we’re proud of her for it. I bet ent to the Anna Nicole reality-TV legacy, tion, should be treated with dignity inevitably interesting life of a college fresh- lots of people will want Spelling to offi- continues on her new reality show, which and respect. man attending a prestigious university in ciate their weddings. costars her hairdressing BFF Daniel, and 10. If you see LGBT people being Boston. Providing a dash of gay culture is I give Lucas Silveira from The Clicks the four Chihuahuas she refers to as her misrepresented in the media, contact Lee Campbell; the owner of the local a thumbs-up for his courage to admit that children. us at glaad.org. hotspot where the gang hangs out. 14 • July 19-August 1, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com King St. Boiz from p. 3 first show because I have never seen a that think that drag kings do not take walked around with a construction belt Three words to sum it up are flamboyant, king do country, so I was really worried enough preparation time,that you wear on filled with whipped cream and played homo, thug. about the reception. everyday clothing, you don’t really per- a game like ‘what king will make you Tomi Boi: I’m an angry, bad, country boi BUZZ: When we get into character, we all form, you are nothing like the queens. cream’ and then they [the audience] but then soft at heart. I would say I am take it very seriously. I hope that the Getting ready for us is a whole process. would by a shot of cream from us. You shy, complex, and versatile. transgender community finds that sup- DADDY K: We are the first kings up here work up a big sweat we are all perform- portive. to use real facial hair. When we get hair ing at least 4 numbers. Q: What was that very first performance Do you all bind and pack for each show? cuts, we save the hair and use it as part of as the King St. Boiz like? What kinds of Q: How do your partners/wives react to LUCKE: We all bind but some of us have our costuming. your performances? Are they supportive performances did you give? to bind extra. Binding is a pain in the LUCKE: We buy spirit gum from the Daddy K: At first, people did not really of it all? butt, like finding someone to bind you, party store and that is our glue. We cut it IVORY: Our wives know that at the end of have any faith in us. At the first show, I not binding the right way the first time so and put it on with the hair in the same think people were thinking that we would the day, we are going home with them re-binding. At times, you have to bind direction that the hair would normally and we would never do any thing to dis- not get a turn-out but we packed the like four times before it is right. grow. Some people use eyeliner under- house from the very beginning and sur- respect them or disrespect our relation- BUZZ D: There are times that I go home neath. It takes us at least an hour and a ship. prised everyone. As a group, we do every and the next day, I have bruises all over half to two hour just to do our facial hair thing. We perform rock, country, pop, from the binding. It is painful. and binding. That is excluding costumes. Q: Will the King St. Boiz perform for and music from the past. We always have DADDY K: We all have to pack. IVORY: We spend hours every week private functions? ADDY a group performing on stage and we LUCKE: Packing is not bad at all. It’s the rehearsing together. It is a complicated D K: We would definitely consider incorporate at least 3 members of the binding that is really bad. process because we have to coordinate it and talk about it. We would be open to group at all times. The show brought in KING ST. BOIZ: We are bound for about everything as a group, not as an individ- going to other areas to perform, including people from [the ages of] 18 through 6-7 hours per performance; from the ual character. CT and beyond. We want to perform at their 60’s. It wasn’t just a young crowd. beginning until after we are home. different venues and keep growing. That’s what we wanted. I think we Q: How long are your shows? The King St. Boiz will be performing on sparked people’s curiosity from the Q: What is the rest of the preparation DADDY K: 90 minutes with a half hour July 20th at 8 p.m. at Diva’s. beginning. like for these performances? Is it a diffi- intermission. During the intermission, we To learn more about the King St. Boiz, Tomi Boi: I was really nervous at my cult process? involve and interact with the audience. IVORY: There are still people out there For example, during the last show, we visit www.myspace.com/kingstboiz or e- mail Northampton’s own drag king TRTTRT PRIDEPRIDE CalendarCalendar troupe at [email protected]. SENIOR CITIZEN’S BOWLING LEAGUE; Supermarket, 581 Mass. Ave., Central Square hard time because you’re gay and/or don’t Things You Can Do Mondays at 12:30 p.m. - Canal Lanes, Route Fifteen aspiring teen dancers from Boston, cater to you? If you have a story, we want to 5, Southampton. Cambridge and area neighborhoods dance tell it. 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All sub- glaad.org. www.therainbowtimesmass.com • The Rainbow Times • June 21-July 4, 2007 • 15 Local & National News Presidential Candidates’ First Ever Gay Debate The leading Democratic presidential questioning the Kucinich have confirmed they will par- Luna called the forum “a historic contenders will participate in a historical Democrats will be ticipate. Gov. Bill Richardson has not opportunity for us,” noting it was the first forum on LGBT issues on August 9, Human Rights responded to the invitation and Sen. Joe time major presidential candidates had sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign president Biden declined the invitation due to agreed to address gay issues before a tel- Campaign and LOGO, a cable channel Joe Solmonese and scheduling problems. Sen. Mike Gravel evision audience. aimed at the LGBT community. singer Melissa has been invited to take part as well. The The LGBT vote is considered a deci- This is the first time the leading candi- Etheridge. The candi- program is sponsored by the HRC and sive electoral force and according to exit dates for the presidency will hold a tele- dates will appear one LOGO. poll data make up approximately 4 per- vised debate devoted solely to LGBT at a time to field ques- New Mexico Gov. Bill Richardson and cent of the voting population. issues. tions on same-sex HILLARY R. CLINTON Ohio Rep. Dennis Kucinich have not yet In the Democratic field, only Kucinich The 90-minute event, televised on marriage, HIV/AIDS, Photo: hillaryclinton.com said whether they’ll attend. and Gravel support marriage rights for LOGO in front of a live audience, will be hate crimes, relationship recognition, Former U.S. Sen. Mike Gravel of gay men and lesbians. The major con- held in Los Angeles and broadcast on the marriage equality, workplace fairness, Alaska was not invited to participate tenders oppose same-sex marriage but gay network TV LOGO at 9:00 pm ET the military, and other important issues. because he did not meet a $100,000 support same-sex civil unions that confer (6:00 pm PT) and through live streaming Hillary Clinton, Barack Obama, John fundraising threshold, HRC spokesman most of the same legal rights. video at LOGOonline.com. On the panel Edwards, Chris Dodd and Dennis Brad Luna said. Gay Buying Power to be $835 Billion by 2011 NY Assembly Passes Marriage Bill A new economic impact study says that Facts. The New York Assembly has passed came about 2011 LGBT buying power in the US will Last year Witeck and business partner legislation to legalize marriage for same- after New exceed $835-billion per year. “Corporate Wes Combs co-authored Business Inside sex couples by a bipartisan vote of 85 – York's high- America is waking up to the enormous Out, considered the first-ever book on 61. The Marriage Equality Bill now est court opportunity of marketing to gays and les- marketing insights, practical tips and heads to the senate for a vote. ruled against bians,” said market research firm strategies targeting the gay, lesbian, Approval of the bill by the Assembly Lambda Packaged Facts which prepared the study bisexual and transgender market. marks an important strategic and symbol- Legal's plain- in collaboration with Witeck-Combs Communications, an LGBT marketing ic victory because only one other state's tiffs in our and public relations firm. The report, The The Night Owl legislature, California, has approved such marriage Gay and Lesbian Market in the U.S. says a bill. Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger equality case. that this year the buying power of gays Central & Western, MA Sin City 350 Worthington Street later vetoed the bill. New York is now The court and lesbians will reach $660 billion. The Blu one step closer to becoming the second said that New study said that it is estimated there are 105 Water Street Springfield, MA state in the nation, after Massachusetts, to York is not about 15.3 million gays and lesbians in Worcester, Connecticut the country. Massachusetts extend marriage to same-sex couples — required Triangles and the first to do so through a legislative under its constitution to issue marriage “What we’re finding since our last 66 Sugar Hollow Road report two years ago is a greater openness Club Car process. licenses to same-sex couples. The 64 Water Street Danbury, Connecticut In April, Governor Elliott Spitzer made responsibility to grant marriage equality among gays and lesbians to share their consumer habits, leisure and media pur- Worcester, MA good on his pre-election promise and now rests squarely in the hands of the Chez Est suits, and personal/social attitudes," said 458 Wethersfield Ave. introduced the Marriage Equality Bill. It state senate. DIVA'S Don Montuori, the publisher of Packaged 492 Pleasant St. Hartford, CT Northampton, MA Polo Club Free Gay inspirational novel sweeps across the world 678 Maple Avenue Club Xstatic Boulder CO—When authors Dale world, we are individuals seeking inspirational words 240 Chestnut St. Hartford, CT Colclasure and David Jensen were asked constantly con- in novel form. Springfield, MA 168 York Street Cafe the question, “Why are you giving your fronted with GIFT OF THE SOUL is the story of a 168 York Street book away?” Both responded simultane- negativity, gay youth questioning his place in the Hob Knob 234 Chestnut Street New Haven, CT ously, “Why not?” The two authors have threats of ter- world who meets up with a master – one Springfield, MA launched a website, named after their rorism and fear. who teaches him many life lessons. An Bar 254 Crown Street book entitled, GIFT OF THE SOUL This book is inspirational and simple read, the book is The Pub New Haven, CT (www.GiftOfTheSoul.com) where read- uplifting and touching right to the soul. 382 Dwight Street Springfield, MA ers can download the entire book as a inspirational Colclasure and Jensen want to encour- Gotham Citi Cafe PDF file for FREE. and helps coun- age others to pursue their dreams while MB Church & Crown Streets Colclasure and Jensen, award-winning terbalance with making a difference in the world. 40 Grafton Street New Haven, CT Worcester, MA authors, columnists and public speakers, positive mes- For a free copy of their book, visit: Partners Cafe both strongly believe in giving back to sages and feel- www.GiftOfTheSoul.com society. “There is such a shortage of good exercises. inspirational material for the gay and les- Now, more than bian community and we feel strongly ever, the world needs this kind of book.” about making this type of material acces- In just a short period of time, the word TRT’s Back to school Supplement sible to anyone and everyone who wants of mouth site is quickly becoming one of it,” states Jensen. the most popular destinations for gays, Colclasure follows up with, “In today’s lesbians, bisexual, transgender and queer coming soon! ATTN: Colleges and businesses that cater Increase the visibility of Latina lesbians and bisexuals! to students. Promote your Participate in an interview based research study services/organization! Call TRT at Participants receive $20.00 for their time. All information is confidential. For more details call 860-933-8082 or e-mail [email protected] 413.204.8959 for more info. 16 • July 19-August 1, 2007 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com Other Trans News Trans leader of The Cliks hopes to make a musical not social statement By: Rebecca Louie/For AP lush eyelashes. While shopping for entertainment at MTV Networks Music shift. An earlier Lillia album left her NEW YORK (AP)— Lucas Silveira sneakers in downtown Manhattan (“I Group. “I don't think it's because of any unmoved but when The Cliks’ record— wears his heart on his tattoo sleeve. love shoes, man,” he gushes), salesmen hook of being transgender.” which includes a cover of Justin The frontman of Toronto rock band The offer him women's sizes even though he Born in Toronto as Lillia, Silveira spent Timberlake's “Cry Me A River”— Cliks bares a turbulent tapestry on his asks for men's. Silveira knows he looks much of his childhood on the small arrived, she signed them. Since the April arm: a dragon leaping through flames and more female than male; on his records he Portuguese island Pico. He moved back release of “Snakehouse” Lopez, now waves, two guns bearing wide wings, and sounds like it too. He sacrificed the male to Toronto's suburbs when he was ten, vice-president estimates they have the word “Survivor.” attributes hormones offer to maintain his thriving on pop and then heavy metal. shipped 5,000 albums and scanned about “This is all to commemorate what I singing voice. Instead, he underwent a With paper route funds he bought an 1,200 copies. The label keeps the band went through,” says Silveira, who is double mastectomy to feel more comfort- electric guitar. Struggling with male touring to connect them with fans. It’s the transgender. He notes that transgender able in his skin. inclinations, Silveira entered what he music, Lopez insists, not Silveira's gen- people are more likely to commit suicide “People are like, ‘How opportunistic of dubs his “uber feminine” phase, donning der, that will draw in the most dedicated than others—and he knows the pain you. Is this a gimmick? Do you think it’s heels, nylons and skirts in an attempt to listeners. involved: “I went to that place, and I stylish to be this way?” he says of skep- fit in. “No one is going to run out and buy this know where that comes from. I felt so tics. “And I am like, 'Yeah, I am really, By his early twenties he was a album because of that. That's the reaction lucky that I got through it that this was to really into having a double mastectomy singer/songwriter, doing open mics and audience. If we try to make this a market- commemorate the entire ordeal.” for fashion.”’ solo acoustic gigs and identifying as a ing angle then that is all it is over going Silveira is the first out transgender In recent months, the transgender com- lesbian. Back in Toronto, he named his to be,” she says of Silveira's transgender artist to be signed to a high profile label, munity has gotten a surge of exposure on band Lillia and supported his art with status. Tommy Boy's gay-friendly imprint Silver television (“All My Children,” “Ugly government grants and dog walking. Interestingly, some of the band’s Label. These days he is trying to build a Betty”) and in film (2005's award win- Then two years ago, a six-year relation- biggest supporters aren't even aware of career as he rebuilds his life as a biologi- ning “Transamerica” and documentaries ship ended, Silveira's grandmother died, Silveira's identity. Willobee, the opera- cal female that identifies as male. like “Alexis Arquette: She's My his father had a stroke and a friend was tions manager and program director of The Cliks were featured on the recent Brother”). These works have banked on rediagnosed with cancer. Then, his band- Albany, N.Y.'s alternative rock station gay-oriented “True Colors Tour,” playing the characters' transgender experience to members quit. WEQX, saw the band perform at the alongside Cyndi Lauper, Erasure and draw audiences. However, The Cliks' “I fell apart and I started looking in,” SXSW festival in Austin, Texas this Debbie Harry. This spring they released work is more vague. They deliver the remembers Silveira. And what he found spring. He then began playing them on “Snakehouse,” an emotional, guitar-driv- standard rock fare of emotional songs was his true gender identity. “It started the radio and added them to the lineup of en album. Their single “Oh Yeah” spent that express trials that are not transgender coming in dreams and one day I just the station's upcoming concert. several weeks atop a musical countdown so much as they are human. woke up horrified because I just saw the “When I saw them I was like, wow, on Logo, the gay-themed cable network. “I think that authenticity is reflected in answer. I had known since I was a kid, they got something here,” says Willobee. At first glance the singer, who declines their particular single and I can only the- but sometimes when the truth is there it's “I didn’t know about the transgender to give his age, looks like a petite tomboy orize that is why it has caught on,” says too scary to deal with and you suppress thing until two weeks ago! I don't know with stylish, cropped locks and thick, Brian Graden, president of Logo and of it. I was like, 'Oh my god, it's sink or if the whole gender identity is going to swim.”’ help or hurt them. ... For me, it doesn't Silveira dived right in—and his music matter. We are a radio station and all peo- flourished. He formed a new band called ple can hear is the music.” The Cliks with drummer Morgan Doctor Silveira understands that he is a pio- and bassist Jordan B. Wright. The songs neer, and that eventually the novelty of he wrote became harder, louder, and to his gender will wear off. Silveria, more authentic. “As a human being I feel a responsibil- off “I just felt I didn’t have to suppress ity to myself to be who I am,” he says. “I $2 with this ad another part of who I was,” says the self- can't take on this, 'You are the poster taught musician. “My identity as a child for trans men or trans people' thing female hinged on the fact that I would be because people in the trans world are tame and feminine and subdued. Coming totally different. To me, it's just about to terms with the fact that I was trans acceptance, about things that are differ- made me feel more liberated to go to the ent, and being able to normalize that. If I core of my songwriting and what I loved can be out in the world and have people about music.” treat me like everybody else, that would Rosie Lopez, then head of A&R at be cool.” Tommy Boy Entertainment, heard the

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