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HB 1722: GENDER-BASED DISCRIMINATION and HATE CRIMES’ ACT— WHY IT MATTERS P. 3 Photo by: Austin Young Austin Photo by: 2 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Opinions The Controversial Couch TRT endorses Sen. Hillary Clinton Lie back and listen. Then get up and do something By: Nicole C. Lashomb House. I will stop at that because when it By: Suzan Ambrose*/TRT Columnist ple would be strong aphrodisiacs, TRT Editor-in-Chief comes to the current President, I could fill in “Look! Up in the sky!! Is it a especially if the chemicals caused he Rainbow Times is pleased to the rest of the 31 pages of this edition of TRT, bird? A plane? No, it’s the homosexual behavior.” ($ 7.5 million announce our endorsement of and yet I would not be able to properly bomb!” Yes, the ‘gay bomb/poof bomb’ was were requested by the Air Force Lab Democratic presidential candidate, describe what this “Bush” has done to this T actually considered and researched by the to develop this bomb.) NY Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton. country. U.S. military. A bomb that would render This bomb supposedly would release chem- All of the recent and not-so-recent political In the general election, the candidates will events and biased lack of support of the main- not be in a civil battle, but rather one that will stream media have encouraged The Rainbow be tumultuous and torrential. Let’s face it, Maybe they’ve repackaged the idea in smaller amounts to test the Times’ management to throw its support rhetoric alone will not win. Obama does not behind the Presidential Candidate that we have the political experience to survive those market. Maybe it is in the form of something like Viagra. Because its know is the best suited to tackle and defeat the types of storms. usage seems to induce a similar uncontrollable urge in men. GOP contender, John McCain, in the 2008 Sen. Clinton, as any other human being, has Presidential Election. A major contributing her flaws. She is, however, without doubt, the factor behind our endorsement lies within the Democratic contender with a vast experience enemy forces homosexual, making them more icals causing enemy soldiers to “become strength, perseverance, determination and and a long-standing political career. She can interested in sex than fighting. That must have gay.” Their units would break down because fighting spirit of a woman who has been be put on par with John McCain. The attacks been a heck of a study group to be a partici- all men would become irresistibly attracted to counted down and out numerous times by top that she has withstood from all sides are sim- pant in, eh? one another. Girlfriend, the government has media and political analysts since the demo- ilar in nature to those she would receive in a This far-fetched discovery was made by the no idea how picky can be, do they? cratic contests of Super Tuesday. general election. In a known war, there are no Sunshine Project of Berkley, CA. Using the Perhaps that’s why we haven’t seen it on the While Sen. Barack Obama is an eloquent casualties, unless of course, you are Sen. Freedom of Information Act, Edward market yet. Better yet, maybe we should speaker and can undeniably persuade the Barack Obama. Hammond found a copy of the proposal to check and see how those people in Iraq are masses with his motivational speeches, there If Obama had Clinton’s record, I/we would develop non-lethal weapons from the Air really doing. Is this the real reason Donald is relatively little significance to his short- stand beside him too. However, we simply do Force’s Wright Laboratory in Ohio. The “gay Rumsfeld seemed confident Iraqis would standing political career. If I was being asked not know the skeletons in his closet as we do bomb documents” included several proposals greet us with flowers and chocolates after we by whom I am most moved by in terms of with Sen. Clinton. After living a life-time in for military use of chemicals that could be bombed their country? rhetoric, my choice would certainly be the public eye, dedicated to public service, sprayed over enemy positions. The proposal I have to believe that most men ARE far Obama. Like with any other motivational naturally, she has faced and endured much states, “One distasteful but non-lethal exam- more interested in sex than fighting a war, if speaker, his words just make you feel better. scrutiny. Yet we know practically nothing you gave them the opportunity. So, is it that But being the president of the U.S. is not just about Sen. Obama. Letters to the Editor nothing has come of the idea? Or the results about words. We have certainly seen that Good luck Senator Clinton and may the best weren’t quite what the government had in through eight years of a newbie in the White “person” win! Dear Editor, mind? Maybe the real truth behind the gay Awesome pic of Janet Jackson. I lover her so bomb was that the effects were permanent, Read TRT’s Own Trans Column on Page 4 much! Just wanted to let you know. and not temporary. Or, that an antidote had yet Tally A. , Chicopee, MA to be developed, or that the soldiers liked their Dear Editor, new “male expression” side. (This would Love, Rights … and the Rest of It! It was great to see The Rainbow Times at the come as a “major blow” to top government By: JM Sorrell*/TRT Columnist standpoint. No statewide screening of WGBY’s Anyone & Everyone at officials.) See Couch on Page 28 pring has arrived, and with it, the usu- senator or house member the Academy of Music. Thank you for your ally mix of weather. The political cli- who supported the legisla- dedication to serving our people. Josh R., Northampton, MA Smate is notable in that so much ener- ture’s mandate (to put The Rainbow Times gy seems to be spent on who would make the Goodrich into law on May Dear Editor, 351 Pleasant St., #322 best president (Clinton or Obama) that the 17, 2004) has lost a re-elec- The story on TransCampus was really inform- Northampton, MA 01060 tion bid. As the backlash ative. I am new to the area and didn’t know hot-button issues of abortion rights and same- J.M. the JP www.therainbowtimesnews.com sex marriage have taken a back seat. The and attempts to reverse the that you have so many trans tools and a news- [email protected] economy and the war in Iraq are in the fore- decision kept us busy for several years, this paper that has so many articles about my T [email protected] front of debate. McCain seems beside the continued to be the case. community. Phone: 413-204-8959 • Fax: 866-310-8512 Camilla S., West Springfield, MA point. Deval Patrick got elected governor as he NY: 518-391-2617 Dear Editor, How will this play out? Once the Democrat steadfastly supported same-sex marriage Publisher I didn’t like Libby Post’s article The Best men Columnists without compromise. Governor. All of these Gricel M. Ocasio is nominated, there will be little time for and Women for the Job. How can such an Jennifer Dexter elections were watched closely around the debate between her/him and McCain. This is influential lesbian turn against one of our Editor-In-Chief J.M. Sorrell country. The electability of candidates on the when those wedge issues will arise again. We own? We love Libby here, but come on! Nicole Lashomb Suzan Ambrose progressive side of civil rights is no small Deja N. Greenlaw may not like what we hear from any candidate —Theresa W., Albany, NY Distribution thing. Voters are supporting these candidates once the fireworks resume. It will be about Dear Editor, Ben Peterson Reporters getting elected. LGBT voters will be asked to precisely because of their stance or because it Lindsay Wilson I don’t like the Outfield stories. They’re bor- Sales Associates is one item that would not make or break a Tynan Power be patient again and to support the least harm- ing. Is this guy ever going to write about SJ Seymour decision and the candidate has other features ful candidate. something interesting? Chris Gilmore Webmaster This time, though, there is a difference. that impress the voter. —Mark M., Hartford, CT Liz Johnson Jarred Johnson Both Clinton and Obama have voiced their Clinton and Obama would not be nearly as Dear Editor, The Rainbow Times is published by The Rainbow Times, support for equal rights minus the M-word. supportive of equality for LGBT citizens I don’t get the Trans comunity, even when you LLC. The articles written by the writers, columnists, and This includes federal benefits such as health without this precedence. All of our rights are have SO many articles about it, and even a T correspondents express their opinion, and do not repre- important. Marriage is just one of many forms writer. I just don’t get it. 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Our friends around the visit: www.umass.edu/stonewall. sole property of The Rainbow Times and it cannot be have been important from a socio-political globe are counting on it. —The Editor reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 3 LGBT News HB 1722: Gender-Based Discrimination and Hate Crimes’ Act— Why It Matters By: Tynan Power Political Coalition (MTPC) has been working bill simply aims to make the current law would eliminate that first step—and be pre- TRT Reporter with other organizations in the explicit. The Massachusetts Commission ventative. On March 4th, supporters of HB 1722— Civil Rights Coalition to make this proposed Against Discrimination (MCAD) determined “Right now [trans people] aren’t getting “An Act Relative to Gender-Based bill a reality. After successfully working for that discrimination based on gender identity hired,” Scott said. “They don’t get housing. Discrimination and Hate Crimes”—crowded ordinances protecting gender identity and or expression is illegal under current laws; What’s more many people who don’t identify into a hearing room in the Massachusetts state gender expression in Boston and because it’s not explicitly stated, however, as transgender experience discrimination house. The hearing chamber was at standing Northampton, the coalition submitted HB many people don’t realize that. Making the because of ‘gender expression.’” room only and stifling—until 11:30 pm. Despite the dense crowd, heat and long hours, At the hearing for HB 1722, opponents took the atmosphere was one of excitement and “Although the Commonwealth of Massachusetts has a issue with the term “gender expression.” One something that fluttered contagiously in eyes person said that the term was “unclear” and and hushed voices—something that felt a lot rich history of protecting the civil rights of all its “could mean anything.” Scott disagreed. like hope. “We use the terms gender identity and gen- Ultimately, the hope is that the state will citizens, transgender people continue to face seri- der expression to be consistent with laws in make gender identity and gender expression other states and with the laws in Boston and protected categories, along with race, reli- ous discrimination in the workplace, in schools and in Northampton,” Scott said. Including gender gion, ethnicity, disability, or sexual orienta- expression is key to making this bill relevant tion. If it does, Massachusetts will join 13 public accommodations, which should not be tolerat- to people far beyond the transgender commu- states and Washington, D.C.—and will bring nity. For example, it would cover gays and the state in line with laws already on the ed in our Commonwealth.” lesbians fired for how they look. Scott cited a books in Cambridge, Boston and case in which a woman almost lost her job for Northampton. —Governor Deval Patrick, Massachusetts not wearing makeup—an issue of gender Governor Deval Patrick shares that hope. expression, not identity. He wrote in his testimony, “Although the Does that mean HB 1722 would allow a Commonwealth of Massachusetts has a rich 1722 to the state legislature in 2007. law clear would seem to benefit everyone, professional woman to argue for the right to history of protecting the civil rights of all its Until March, HB 1722 was awaiting a hear- including those who might unwittingly break wear jeans on the job, or for someone to opt citizens, transgender people continue to face ing before the Joint Committee on the it. out of a uniform policy? serious discrimination in the workplace, in Judiciary, the first step towards passing it into According to Gunner Scott, director of “No,” Scott said. “The bill does not change schools and in public accommodations, which law. MTPC, clarity is important. Scott said that if dress codes. It would, however, mean a should not be tolerated in our Opponents have suggested that HB 1722 someone is fired because of gender identity or woman could follow the dress code for men, Commonwealth.” would create a new law, providing transgen- expression, he or she must first demonstrate and vice versa.” For years, the Massachusetts Transgender der people with “special rights.” In reality, the that it’s discrimination. Having a clear law See Act on Page 31 4 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com In ‘The Name of God’ Gay, lesbian groups protest lawmaker’s anti-gay remarks By: Tim Talley/AP Writer Kern can take an oath to uphold the state husband, a Baptist minister, by showing up at “This stuff is deadly and it's spreading and OKLAHOMA CITY (AP)—An Oklahoma Constitution but then condemn a segment of his church recently. it will destroy our young people, it will lawmaker rejected demands by gay and les- the state's population. “They're sending out letters and making destroy this nation.” bian groups recently that she apologize for “Freedom of speech does not belong to calls in my district. And they really want me Gay and lesbian groups called for an end to anti-gay remarks in which she said homosex- Representative Kern alone,” said Howard, to come down and talk to them?” Kern said. the anti-gay rhetoric. uality poses a bigger threat to the U.S. than adding that gay and lesbian groups have a “It would be like throwing myself to the lions. “This kind of bigotry has lasted too long,” terrorism. “moral imperative” to speak out against her That's a metaphor. said the Rev. Loyce Newton-Edwards, presi- “I see no reason to apologize for what God remarks. “When I am wrong, and it is brought to my dent of Parents, Families and Friends of says, that is a sin,” Rep. Sally “If we do not condemn hate speech from an attention, I will apologize.” Lesbians and Gays in Oklahoma City. “We're Kern, R-Oklahoma City, said after 300 people elected public official, we in effect endorse Kern's remarks gained nationwide attention willing to stand up and say: 'No more.”' rallied at the state Capitol and called for an it,” said the Rev. Robin Meyers, pastor of the after they were recorded and posted on the The Rev. James Shields, a retired United end to hate speech. Mayflower United Church of Christ in video sharing Web site YouTube by the Methodist Church minister who lives in “I will not apologize. I did not say anything Oklahoma City. “This represents the state of Washington, D.C.-based Gay & Lesbian Kern's western Oklahoma City district, said false. I did not say anything malicious or hate- Oklahoma in a way that is deeply offensive.” Victory Fund earlier this month. her remarks have more to do with a religious ful,” Kern said. “They are trying to vilify me. Members of the group had planned to invite “Studies show no society that has totally doctrine than her duties in the Legislature. That is their tactics.” Kern to the noon rally but were told she had embraced homosexuality has lasted more than “I think her rhetoric in her speaking got her Spokespersons for gay and lesbian groups already left the Capitol. No state lawmaker a few decades,” Kern says in the recorded into a lot of trouble. I think her fears got her demanded that Kern apologize while calling attended the rally. comments. “It is not a lifestyle that is good for into a lot of trouble,” Shields said. on the Legislature to adopt hate crimes legis- Kern said she was pleased that gay and les- this nation.” “Representative Kern has made a number of lation that would enhance penalties for crimes bian groups expressed their views. A former teacher, Kern also said gays are statements that are fearful, that are lacking in directed at gays and lesbians. “That's great they came to the Capitol. This teaching young public school children that tolerance and that are too emotional for “Hateful speech leads to hate crimes,” said is a free country. They're exercising their First their lifestyle is acceptable. rational public discussion,” he said. “It is OK Rob Howard, executive director of the Amendment right,” Kern said. “We're not teaching facts and knowledge to be afraid of terrorists. All of us are. It is not Cimarron Alliance Foundation in Oklahoma But she said she was not interested in speak- anymore. We're teaching indoctrination,” OK to be afraid of gay people. Most of us are City. Howard said there were more than 7,700 ing to members of the group. She said she has Kern said. “They are going after our young not.” hate crimes in the nation in 2006, including 79 received more than 30,000 e-mails about her children, as young as two years of age, to try in Oklahoma. comments, including some threatening ones, to teach them that the homosexual lifestyle is Howard and other speakers questioned how and that an activist had tried to intimidate her an acceptable lifestyle. Trans Talk: To be or not to be? That is the question of a life-time By: Deja Nicole Greenlaw middle of the gender spectrum I kept facing You couldn't really often scary and sometimes made me more TRT Columnist these questions over and over in my life from ask anybody for help confused. Nevertheless, I still lost myself “To be or not to be? That is the question. the very beginning. Yes, I'm going to do it, no, when I was young. deep in that mirror and other mirrors through- Whether it is nobler in the minds of man to I am not. Should I or shouldn't I? Is this way Questioning your out my childhood. “To be” number three! suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous right or is this other way right for me? Yay or gender back then I did decide to follow the crowd and date deed … To sleep, perchance to dream ... Aye, nay? It certainly kept me busy and confused! would surely put you girls, number 4. I eventually found and mar- there's the rub!” The first “To be...” in my life meant me in trouble if anyone ried one, number 5. We talked about having Please forgive my whimsical take on the wrestling with my gender identification: "I'm found out. It was just children and we did have 3 of them making Hamlet soliloquy but I've always loved those a boy! No! I'm a girl! No!! I'm a boy! No! A something that I had me a Dad, number 6. But all along, I had this lines “To be or not to be! That is the ques- girl! and so on and on it went ever since I was to deal with in soli- feeling inside that things were not right. I con- tion!” It hits so close to home in so many a little Trannie. DEJA NICOLE GREENLAW tude. I didn't under- tinued to want to be female and my confusion ways for me that it is, indeed, home! Growing up with mixed signals regarding stand it but it was remained. To be whoever or not to be … Sitting in the gender identity was a confusing, sweet, scary, always in my thoughts. I finally accepted being a Crossdresser, wonderful, painful roller coaster kind of life. Most young Trannie girls usually try to be number 7. Then, I accepted being a macho to snap out of this gender confusion, Transgender, number 8, that need to live full but I never did. Some girls become bullies to time as the opposite biological gender. Last THE HONORABLE prove their “manhood” or act tough or join the November, I went living as a woman full- J. MARY SORRELL Marines or become a Firefighter. They rea- time, number 9. Number 9 was a huge ordeal ] soned that this was a sure way to stop this as I came out to family, friends and work but A MEMBER OF OUR TRIBE JM the JP unacceptable longing to be a girl. After all, a it was long overdue. I just couldn't take the macho male would never even dream of being switching back and forth from male to female a girl! I never tried to be macho. I just kind of anymore. It's much easier finally accepting went along with my confusion. That was my who you are and doing something about it. Are you a FOOL for Love? second, “To be.” Actually, it was a “Not to That confusion ended but there is more to be.” come. Do you want more than ... Speaking of confusion, I can remember Now, I am dealing with how to get on with ... a furry pug creature? wearing a dress when I was about 7-years old. my life. And, one of the biggies is companion- I would wear my dress and stand in front of a ship, finding a significant other, number 10. Don't be fooled into waiting too long for full length mirror and stare at my reflection. I Hmmm, will they be female or male? If I find that special human in your life. spent a lot of time in that full length mirror some one, will they be cool with me? trying to understand what was going on with Propose. Call me. Get married. me. The mirror was usually comforting but See Trans on Page 30

If you are not too long, I will wait here for you all my life—Oscar Wilde

Don’t wait forever. My commitment is to serve each couple’s needs and preferences. —Peace and Blessings, JM

JUSTICE LGBTQ OF COUPLES THE PEACE SERVING 413.427.4153 • email: [email protected] www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 5 Featured Business Core Chiropractic revolutionizes traditional chiropractic practice By: Nicole C. Lashomb ning of care. Wearing the weights causes new healing occurring from the outside in was TRT Editor-in-Chief postural information to be sent to the brain, foolish.” As the sole Western Mass. practitioner of altering the body’s positioning. Over time, the Although Dr. Orvieto is the only practition- the Pettibon System™, an alternative brain acclimates to holding the head and body er at her Easthampton Office, she is expand- approach to traditional chiropractic medicine, in a new, more ideal alignment. ing her services. Dr Darlene Orvieto claims to practice an The weights force weak postural muscles to “Currently I am looking to bring a very spe- approach to health and spinal disease that is perform isometric exercises, restoring muscle cial connective tissue massage therapist in to scientific, measurable, and results in perma- strength, endurance, and balance. The result is work with me a couple of days a week on a nent changes unlike any other approach avail- a stronger body accustomed to holding its cor- permanent basis,” said Dr. Orvieto. “I also able today. rected posture with decreased irritation to work closely with an amazing Naturopathic “Relief in my office is quick and easy nerves, ligaments, discs, joints and muscles. Doctor [and] time to time I bring because the procedures work so well,” said “The procedures feel great and it's fun to Acupuncturists and Massage Therapists in.” Dr. Darlene Orvieto, Core Chiropractic do!” said Dr. Orvieto. Comprehensive Insurance plans are accept- Clinic, Easthampton, Mass. “The work I do is Dr. Orvieto’s aspirations for becoming a ed at Core Chiropractic Clinic. by far the most powerful I have ever come healing practitioner have derived from her “I accept Blue Cross, Aetna, ConnectiCare, across. I am honored to be able to be the only own orthopedic experiences as a child. Medicare and am in the process of applying to person in Western MA who offers it [The “Growing up in an old fashioned Italian HNE, Tufts, HP and Mass Health,” said Dr. Pettibon System].” family, a doctor's word was gold, she said. “ I Orvieto. “Though I despise our health insur- DR. DARLENE ORVIETO A graduate from New York Chiropractic always thought this was ridiculous. At [the ance system, I do it for the patient.” Core Chiropractic Clinic, Easthampton, MA College with over a decade worth of experi- age of] 10, I had a hip problem. They put me Orvieto said that she believes that education ter instead of suffering on and off for many ence as a practicing Chiropractor, Dr. Orvieto, in bed, in traction for three weeks--Big mis- is first and foremost to create true change in years, only getting relief when they are challenged her concept of traditional chiro- take. Then, they had to get seven doctors and the health of a community. adjusted or get a massage. Core Chiropractic practic science. nurses to hold me down for a shot in my hip. Clinic has evolved through my quest to find a See Core Chiropractic on page 21 “I was taught and used to believe that [chi- I just intuitively knew that the thought of ropractic] adjustment was the be-all-end-all, I way to truly fix people’s spines. The spine is now know better,” said Dr. Orvieto. “If you the core of the body and the most vital anato- do not warm up a patient properly before the my we possess. When it suffers, our health adjustment, you can hurt them or just not help and our lives suffer. People who are ill with- them very much. Also, there are less compres- out any spinal pain always have a spinal prob- sive ways to adjust [a person other] than the lem!” way in which most doctors use in convention- According to Dr. Orvieto’s website, The al chiropractic. There are also [procedures] Pettibon Weighting System™ consists of spe- you can do to fix a spine so a patient gets bet- cially designed head, shoulder and hip weights, worn twice daily during the begin- 6 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com LGBT News Calif. gay student’s slaying sparks outcry, demands for programs By: Greg Risling/AP Writer McInerney was jailed on $770,000 bail on an restroom, and he would bravely fire back by at school, and 29 percent said they missed at OXNARD, Calif. (AP)—Larry King was a adult murder charge that could put him behind flirting with them and chasing them. least a day of school in the previous month gay eighth-grader who used to come to school bars for life. Prosecutors also filed a hate- “He didn't like people insulting him,” said his out of fear for their safety. The group is hold- in makeup, high heels and earrings. And when crime enhancement, which could bring three friend Miriam Lopez, 13. “Larry was brave ing its annual “Day of Silence” in memory of the other boys made fun of him, he would more years if McInerney is found to have enough to bring high heels and makeup to King on April 25. boldly tease them right back by flirting with acted on the basis of the victim's race, reli- school and he wasn't afraid of anything.” The families of both boys have refused to them. gion, nationality or . The school system said that it has tolerance comment. An e-mail message left for That may have been what got him killed. The shooting has galvanized Oxnard, a city of programs in its middle schools, but that sexu- McInerney's attorney was not immediately On Feb. 12, another student, Brandon nearly 200,000 people about 60 miles north- al orientation is often not dealt with until high returned. McInerney, 14, shot him twice in the head at west of Los Angeles. Several vigils for King school. Since the killing, school officials have Both teens have been described as good kids. the back of the computer lab at their junior have been held, including a march that drew been meeting with gay leaders about changing King and his mother crocheted hundreds of high school, police say. about 1,000 people to this strawberry-grow- the program. scarves that were shipped to U.S. soldiers in The slaying of the 15-year-old boy has ing section of Ventura County. “With young people at younger Afghanistan. The avid singer planned to belt alarmed gay rights activists and led to Like the killings of some other gay students— ages, our schools—especially our junior highs out the national anthem at his brother's open- demands that middle schools do more to edu- such as Matthew Shepard in Wyoming, and and middle schools—need to be proactive ing-day baseball game this spring. cate youngsters about discrimination on the Brandon Teena, the Nebraska transsexual about teaching respect for diversity based on “He had an amazing voice and was always basis of sexual orientation. whose story was the subject of the movie sexual orientation and gender identity,” said singing,” said Averi Laskey, 13, a friend since Police would not discuss McInerney's motive. “Boys Don't Cry”—King's death has drawn Carolyn Laub, executive director of the Gay- elementary school. “He would stick up for But the day before the shooting, King told national attention and outraged many gays. Straight Alliance Network. “The tragic death you no matter what. Larry was the best kind McInerney he liked him, eighth-grader Comic Ellen DeGeneres, who is a lesbian, of Larry King is a wake-up call for our of person you could meet.” Eduardo Segure told the Ventura County Star. said on her talk show Feb. 28: “Larry was not schools to better protect students from harass- McInerney was described as the typical If King had flirted with the other boy, “that a second-class citizen. I'm not a second-class ment at school.” eighth-grader, goofy and fun to be around. He can be very threatening to someone's ego and citizen. It is OK if you are gay.” A 2005 survey by the Gay, Lesbian, and trained to be a lifeguard and took martial arts. their sense of identity,” said Jaana Juvonen, a Students at E.O. Green Junior High said the Straight Education Network found that more He also enrolled in the Young Marines, a psychology professor at the University of other kids used to taunt King, call him names than 64 percent of gay and lesbian students group similar to the Army's Junior Reserve California, Los Angeles. and throw wet paper towels at him in the boys' report verbal, sexual or physical harassment Officers' Training Corps. Author emerges as public face for the transgender individuals By: Jerry Harkavy/AP Writer growing up in a Charles Addams-like only told her of his secret about a decade ago, show their faces, or when they do show their Belgrade Lakes, Maine (AP)—Jennifer Victorian mansion on 's Main well after they were married. Boylan had faces they seem tortured and unknowable,” Finney Boylan never set out to be the public Line. hoped that their love would be enough to keep she said. “When people see me and they see face for the transgendered. The author, then named James, concealed the gender demons at bay. They remain legal- my family, they see something that's famil- But the novelist and English professor at her conflicted sexuality, hiding her stash of ly married. iar.” Colby College was thrust into that role by her lingerie in a secret panel in her bedroom. The Boylan said she didn't go public with her Boylan has been a valuable asset in helping 2002 best-selling memoir about the transition spooky old house, with footsteps in the attic, life story to become a role model or a poster to change public attitudes, said Mara to womanhood that freed her from the clouds of blue mist and a ghostlike figure of child for the transgender community, but Keisling, executive director of the National decades-long torment of being a female an old woman in a mirror, serves as backdrop rather because writing and storytelling is what Center for Transgender Equality. trapped in a male body. for an adolescence haunted by gender issues she does. Boylan, tall with strawberry blond hair that With three appearances on “The Oprah that forced Boylan to keep the nature of her She hopes her story will help to reshape the flows to the middle of her back, remains Winfrey Show,” two on “Larry King Live” true self hidden. In so doing, she became public's image of transsexuals. and numerous other interviews and public something of a ghost herself. “We think of transgendered people as living See Trans on Page 13 appearances, Boylan, 49, has become a The inner turmoil about which she wrote is in a big locked house somewhere. They never sunny-faced activist for the nation's transgen- now ancient history for Boylan, who detailed dered and one of the most widely recognized her 2000 sex change in the earlier memoir, transsexuals of recent years. “She's Not There.” Today, she lives with her New Rally Location Set for New “Activism for me takes the form of living a spouse Deedie, their two boys and two normal life and doing so very publicly,” she Labrador retrievers within a mile of the lake England Transgender Pride March said. on which Henry Fonda and Katharine Northampton, MA—The organizers of the writer whose books include Stone Butch Boylan's public schedule is getting busier Hepburn starred in the 1982 Academy Award- first New England Transgender Pride March Blues, Transgender Warriors, and Drag King with this year's publication of her second winning film, “On Golden Pond.” and Rally have announced a change in loca- Dreams; and Miss Major, a veteran of the memoir, “I'm Looking Through You,” a James Boylan had met Deedie (named tion for the rally. The march, which will step 1969 Stonewall Rebellion and Lead poignant but laugh-out-loud story about Grace in the two books) while in college and off at noon on June 7, 2008 from Lampron Community Organizer of the Transgender, Park/Bridge Street School in Northampton, Gender Variant, and Intersex Justice Project, MA will proceed, not to Veterans Field, but to which advocates for the human rights of a rally in the Armory Street Lot behind transgender prisoners. Several activists are Thornes Marketplace in downtown slated to speak who will address proposed Northampton. gender identity/expression anti-discrimina- Veterans Field is unavailable due to re-seed- tion legislation in MA and CT, and the civil ing this year. The Armory Street Lot is the rights needs of transgender people in employ- same location where Northampton Pride is ment, education, housing, healthcare, and held each May. public accommodations. Featured performers "We're pleased with the new rally location, will include the Boston-based drag troupe All as it is more central in Northampton and more The Kings Men and Joe Stevens of Coyote easily wheelchair-accessible than Veterans Grace. Field," said Justin Adkins, a member of the New England Transgender Pride is current- Trans Pride steering committee. "We'll be pro- ly seeking volunteer workers and sponsors for viding American Sign Language (ASL) inter- the event. Interested individuals and organiza- preting for the entire event." tions may sign up online at www.transpride- The rally, which will begin at 12:30 p.m. march.org, and groups that wish to march and end at 5:00 p.m., will be headlined by with their banners may register there, as well. Leslie Feinberg, a pioneering transgender www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 7 Queer News Impact Anyone and Everyone: It can be you, or them By: Gricel Martinez Ocasio* Providence Journal Company. “We only knew gion generates against individuals that either tary can be purchased via Amazon.com. TRT Publisher what we read or heard in the news, and it was identify as, or are perceived to be gay.” To read this article in Spanish, please visit Anyone and Everyone is a film about the often times negative or fearful. As we educat- WGBY is only the third Public Television www.therainbowtimesnews.com. turmoil that the parents of lesbian and gay ed ourselves, we were better able to under- station in the country to have a special initia- Gricel Martinez Ocasio is The Rainbow children experience—their long journey stand that we were not alone. We learned that tive for the LGBT community, according to Times’ publisher and founder. She is a gradu- through understanding and acceptance—and our son still had a bright future in front of Laurie A. Leichthammer, Director of Major ate of the Temple University’s Journalism the difficulties they encounter once they have him. Ann and I realized that the dreams we and Planned Giving, WGBY. The other two Department. A seasoned journalist, Ocasio’s to deal with others who are not as accepting as had for Greg did not die when he told us that are San Diego and Salt Lake City. The airing work has been published in English & they have become. The documentary aired at Spanish through her 17 years of experience in the field. She has worked with various local the Academy of Music in Northampton, “We learned that our son still had a bright future in Mass., in March and continues to be televised bilingual publications. She wishes to thank by WGBY. According to the film’s producer, front of him. Ann and I realized that the dreams we had for Agnes Chu, Laurie A. Leichthammer for their education and empathy were two of the feel- Greg did not die when he told us that he was gay. Our help with this article. Especially, she wishes ings that inspired the making of the documen- to thank Ed and Ann Bonetti (for their candid tary. hopes and dreams for Greg had only shifted. They interviews). The Bonetti’s have been instru- mental in the fight for LGBT rights. Their “I personally was inspired to produce the were still real, they were still obtainable, and they documentary out of a desire to open dialogue courage and love for their son, Greg, goes about the gay issue in America, especially in would still be wonderful to experience and share with beyond what any words can express. light of current gay rights issues,” said Agnes To contact her, please email: Chu, Producer, Anyone and Everyone. “The him.” [email protected] executive producer and director, Susan —Edward and Ann Bonetti, about his son Greg Schutz, was interested in learning from other parents [of lesbian and gay children] to create Pride Marches Close a documentary that was not only educational, he was gay. Our hopes and dreams for Greg of Anyone and Everyone’s purpose was to but also compassionate and inspired the senti- had only shifted. They were still real, they garner the support, both financial and in terms to our Gayborhood! ment that all people are one.” were still obtainable, and they would still be of viewers, of the newly formed LGBT socie- According to Edward and Ann Bonetti, two wonderful to experience and share with him.” ty (created by WGBY), explained Northampton Pride; May 3 parents who participated in the film, their The film also portrays the responses that the Leichthammer. Its members can choose to sit FMI: www.northamptonpride.org/ process of understanding—their own coming diverse group of parents (Asian, Indian, on an advisory council to help guide the African American, Caucasian, Latin, etc.) had Public TV station or they can choose to sup- out process—can be described as a 4-stage Boston Pride; June 6-15 when their children presented them with the port them financially. process. FMI: www.bostonpride.org/ “The first stage was our own ignorance and news of being gay/lesbian. “I would hope to serve the LGBT program- educating ourselves on what it meant to be ming with more of what they would like to “We really wanted to show families from all see,” said Leichthammer, who also has twin CT Pride; June 7 gay,” said Ed who is the Director & Co- FMI: www.connecticutpride.org/ President, PFLAG South/Central Rhode different backgrounds—race, religion, socio- gay sons. “Ideally, I would love to have Island. “The second stage was coming out to economic status and geography,” said Chu. enough funds so that we could produce a doc- New England Trans Pride; June 7 our family members. The third stage was tak- “We found it so interesting that people who umentary that would talk to the history of tol- FMI: www.transpridemarch.org/ ing the step to be out to everyone around us. seemingly were so different had many things erance in the Pioneer Valley. This area is The fourth stage was the transition from in common when it came to having a gay lucky as we have vowed in our Mission understanding to activism.” child. In the end, we sought to show that real- Statement to be inclusive.” Albany Pride; June 8 However, knowing that their son was gay ly anyone and everyone could have a gay Chu, who has been producing films since FMI: www.cdglcc.org was something that surprised Ed and Ann at child.” 2004, is still interested raising awareness that first. According to Ed, their initial response The “coming out” process can also affect involves other members of the LGBT com- Pride; June 20-29 was to let Greg, their son, know that they families beyond the familial circle. The munity. FMI: www.pridetoronto.com/ loved him and that they were glad that he Bonetti’s had to make a difficult decision with “I am currently researching potential future loved them enough to tell them that he was regards to their long-time, Catholic faith. documentaries on the transsexual perspective NYC Pride; June 22-29 gay. “Presently Ann and I are not active, nor are as well as about mixed race children in FMI: www.hopinc.org/ “We were concerned about his health and we involved with the Catholic Church on any America,” said Chu. safety, because we really didn't know what level,” said Ed. “We still have our faith and Anyone and Everyone will be released in Pride Vermont; July 7 -13 was in store for us,” said Ed who is also the we still believe in God, but we are angered by Spanish in June 2008. A translation into FMI: ww.pridevt.com/blog/tag/parade/ Director of Operations-Distribution, The the hatred and intolerance that organized reli- Chinese is also in the works. The documen-

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Private dining rooms available for parties of 8 to 50 guests. 8 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer News Suicide Mission: “I chose cowardice in another form” By: Michael Knipp* our own sexuality—our striking likenesses that way,” he also must disclose to his grand- frightening, albeit enlightening, sensation of TRT Special dissipated. The imparity between our juvenile parents that he was gay. A burden that didn’t attraction to the same sex. The opposite was “Suicide sometimes proceeds from cow- character was proven in how our thresholds fall lightly on the bemused teen—who, in his true, in fact. We faked curiosity in girls, to ardice, but not always; for cowardice some- for effusive torture polarized as we matured: earlier youth, had possessed an affection for appease the other, in fear of tarnishing a life- times prevents it; since as many live because whereas I could weather an onslaught of emo- lighthouses and a dingy stuffed dog he loving- long friendship had one of us not responded they are afraid to die, as die because they are tional abuse, Chuck could not. As a result, my ly, if not effeminately, called Le Mutt— with acceptance. afraid to live” very first friend, the one person who would Chuck became withdrawn, distant and sud- Still, I wonder how he might have handled English writer Charles Caleb Colton pub- have most understood my own burgeoning denly contemplative. his demons had he identified an ally. lished that paradoxical aphorism in Lacon, or plight, fashioned a noose, affixed it to the Anyone who knew Chuck well knew that Would he have felt as isolated and forlorn Many Things in Few Words, his book of short back of his bedroom door, and said farewell to his grandparents weren’t just members of his knowing that the person with whom he had essays released in the early 1820s. Nearly two an insufferable existential existence. family with whom he was forced to endure shared his childhood felt the same way? centuries later, his terse observation on what And would he have had the wherewithal to causes people to take their own lives, relative initiate a slow, painful death if he had some- to why some don’t, is an ardent reminder of As a result, my very first friend, the one person one to reassure him through analogous expe- the fragility of individual sanity and that rience that we were normal, that we would be which influences it. who would have most understood my own burgeoning OK, that we would trudge through our trou- As friends go, Chuck (not his real name) plight, fashioned a noose, affixed it to the back of bles together? was my first. We were preschool playmates They’re questions to which I’ll never know drawn to one another by the selective forces his bedroom door, and said farewell to an insuffer- the answers. Before I could admit to myself of human sociality, contained by a set of that I was gay, before I was comfortable anthropological parameters generally estab- able existential existence. enough in my own skin, he had given up his. lished later in life. Like children of ethnicity But his sacrifice is not something I’ll soon who flock together to maintain a diverse iden- forget, nor one that has failed to impact my tity among the majority, Chuck and I built a Though the circumstances of Chuck’s sui- holidays or otherwise preserve relations life. bond constructed from comparable con- cide are shady—even a few months after he because they shared the same blood. Instead, Chuck’s death imparted upon me the criti- straints. Even at age 5, we were aware of our was buried his mother maintained that he was they were a team, three shots of espresso who cality of disallowing others to manipulate my parallels: each born to young mothers, a dis- murdered— it’s likely that this slight, bright genuinely and explicitly enjoyed each other’s personal fulfillment. When I came out, I could tinct disinterest in the pastimes of “normal” boy of 17 succumbed to the demands of those company. The duo doted on their grandson have, like my friend, chosen cowardice over boys, hair possessing similar shades of sun- who didn’t understand his sexuality—or care with vivacity, showering him with the sort of contentment in order to liberate myself and rise. to, for that matter. When he came out to his elderly adoration of which only grandparents my family—whose emotional reflexes But as we grew older and intensely self- mother, a chain-smoking, blue collar kind of are capable. unleashed injudicious hostility toward that reliant—because of internal issues involving woman, he was told that if he “chose to be Over the years, this reciprocated fondness which they did not, or will not, comprehend – formed a relationship that Chuck couldn’t from introducing homosexuality into their bear to see falter. The thought of these two lives. people, for whom he had unconditional love, But I didn’t have the gall. turning against him the way his mother had Instead, I chose, like Charles Caleb Colton wasn’t feasible. It was easier, he thought, to describes, cowardice in another form. end it all—to spare the rest of those he cher- Because, as his forethought detailed two-hun- ished from the embarrassment of being relat- dred years ago, I’m afraid to die. ed to a “gay.” I am not afraid, however, to live out and Years later, when I came out to my own par- proud, despite the ignorant and unintelligent ents, I thought of Chuck, of how if we hadn’t opinions of others. lost our will to sustain a friendship despite the It’s a choice that’s given a sense of self-sat- restrictions of time and space, our lives—or at isfaction that, for lack of a more tangible ori- least his—might have turned out better. gin, I’m convinced bestows from beyond. Before he committed suicide, we had, in the past years beforehand, only managed a hand- * Michael A. Knipp is a 26-year-old freelance ful of correspondences via handwritten letter. writer and the founder of Line/Byline In none of those letters were we confident Communications. He can be reached at enough to discuss what we felt inside—the [email protected]. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 9 10 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Corporation & Organization News Judy Shepard: “Campaign to Erase Hate” at Matthew Shepard Foundation’s Annual Gala Goal is to equip one million people with tools Wyoming student Matthew Wyoming in October 1998. 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This year’s theme is teering for Pride to ensure its continuity. “Vote with Pride.” “The only way this thing is going to happen Northampton Pride, an all-volunteer event, is if people step forward and participate,” she aspires to appeal to the masses each Pride said. “The Pride volunteers are always the Season, according to Northampton Pride best people and volunteering is a great way to Chairwoman. meet others.” “Every year we strive to make changes and To volunteer for Northampton Pride, e-mail improvement to the rally that will make the Lisa Downing at most people happy,” said Melinda Shaw, [email protected] or to become a Chairwoman, Northampton Pride, vendor at this year’s rally, e-mail Kelley Northampton, Mass. “Taking into considera- Hopkins at [email protected]. For all tion the needs of the vendors and the crowds other information, please contact always requires a bit of juggling, but hopeful- Northampton Pride at info@northampton- ly we can create a space that feels more open pride.org, call 413-586-5602, or visit Pride and conducive to all the needs of our partici- Pride attendees watch the PrideMarch pass through dowtown Northampton, Mass. Photo: S.E. Chase online at www.NorthamptonPride.org. pants.” Donations may be sent to Northampton Other artists/performers to watch out for need about 60 volunteers to make the day run Part of Northampton Pride’s appeal lies Pride, P.O. Box 866, Northampton, MA are: Carrie Ashton; The Jesse Molina band; smoothly,” said Lisa Downing, Volunteer Co- with the entertainment line-up. This year, 01061, or through Northampton Pride’s web- Lenelle Moise; Lord Russ as “Queen Elvis;” Coordinator, Northampton Pride. “We need diversity has been a central theme in selecting site, www.NorthamptonPride.org, via Paypal. the Wicked Queeah Band; Laura Wood, help at the T-shirt and drink booths, to set-up performers for the festivities. Mayra Casales, & Wendy Sobel and Off Beat and clean-up, to help with traffic control [in Nicole Lashomb is TheRainbow Times’ “Entertainment, as always, is a difficult Women’s Drumming Ensemble. There will be the morning], as well as help with vendor founder and Editor-in-Chief. Lashomb holds a thing to put together,” said JC Calcaño, guest appearances by Lipstick & Dipstick, check-ins. During the afternoon we need peo- bachelor’s degree from the State University of Entertainment Chair, Northampton Pride, and Rachel Maddow. ple to act as rally assistants helping with safe- New York. She has had years of experience in Northampton Mass. “However, we try our Aside from entertainment, there will be a ty and up at the main stage selling merchan- writing, graphic design, desktop publishing, best to select performers and speakers that large variety of vendor booths, both profit and dise.” and interviewing. Lashomb is also a published represent and appeal to the diverse members non-profit, at this year’s festivities. Incentives will be offered to those who writer and a former teacher. To contact her, of the LGBT community. This year the lineup “We’ll have our usual non-profit groups email her at: [email protected] is fairly diverse in its representation (i.e., (advocacy, political, health, religious), and Female, Male, Transgender, African our for-profit vendors represent a wide gamut American, White, Young, “Not-So-Young,” of services and products including: books, T- etc.). shirts and other clothing, jewelry, builders, According to Shaw, the make-up of the hotels and wedding services, chiropractors entertainment includes a lot of new faces, and massage therapists, photographers, health some local entertainers, and a good mix of and reproductive services, publishers, home other acts that should entertain the crowd. In furnishings, astrology, tarot and toys,” said addition, there will be a nice line-up of kids’ Kelley Hopkins, Vendor Chairperson, entertainment that will include shows and par- Northampton Pride. “In addition we will have ticipation with the crowd. food vendors and a fundraising booth where Calcaño said that Pride will be presenting Pride-goers can have their picture taken with two headliners, Kirsten Price and Brian Kent, either Barack Obama or Hillary Clinton!” who will be sure to get people up and rocking Currently, Northampton Pride seeks volun- out of their seats. teers. “This year’s headliners are very talented, “So far we have had about 20 people come and I'm sure that men, women, and everyone forward in addition to the folks working in between will be very pleased with their per- actively on the planning committee [but] we formances,” he said. Trans from Page 6 “There are plenty of people who have, one way or another, gotten on with their lives equivocal about offering her private life and live lives of fulfillment and happiness,” for everyone to see. But because she had a she said. hard time finding role models while grow- Although such positive outcomes are not ing up, she said it's probably good to have always the case, some employers, such as someone recognizable to look to. Boylan's, are increasingly showing more There are many ways of dealing with gen- compassion and understanding. The overall der variance, she said, and her story is not society, too, seems to be showing more the only one that deserves to be told. awareness of transgender issues, she said. 14 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Gay Traveling Out of Town: Where to eat and stay in By: Andrew Collins distinguished history simply by walking Petite Grocery, which serves up modern takes It's been nearly three through the gracious marble lobby. The near- on French favorites, such as tomato-and-mint- years since Hurricane ly 600 rooms are handsomely appointed, braised lamb shank with roasted red onions Katrina slammed into New some overlooking the Mississippi River. and ricotta gnocchi. It's a sister restaurant to Orleans, but this spirited, Smaller and with a hipper vibe, the W French nearby Sucre, a delightful little bakery supremely gracious, happily Quarter occupies a stately old building acclaimed for its sinful cakes and pastries, eccentric, and gay-friendly anchored by a magnificent courtyard. The 98 potent java, and light lunch fare; and Grand bastion of the South has rooms have sumptuous featherbeds with 350- Isle Restaurant, which is back in the Central undergone a dramatic comeback. The French thread-count linens, framed black-and-white Business District adjacent to Harrah's, and is Quarter, Uptown, and other prominent, photos, DVD players, and Bliss Spa bath a big-city version of an old-style Louisiana tourist-driven areas have rebounded, and the products. Sip cocktails and nosh on snacks in fish camp. Seafood lovers will find all their city's long-famous restaurant scene and the mod Living Room lounge, or book a table local favorites here - boiled crawfish, shrimp wealth of memorable old-world hotels and for dinner at Bacco, a stellar restaurant serv- remoulade, and oyster gumbo. intimate guest houses are thriving. Here's a ing contemporary New Orleans-meets-Italy Farther uptown, you'll find still more look at some of the Big Easy's best places to cuisine. You won't find a more alluring, skill- bustling retail and restaurant activity - places dine and spend the night, from classic New ful balance between French Quarter charm that increasingly compel tourists to explore Orleans favorites to innovative newcomers. and high-tech sophistication. beyond the French Quarter. In the Riverbend area, Jacques-Imo's Cafe serves up delicious The French Quarter Faubourg Marigny The venerable Camellia Grill serves up some contemporary dishes and New Orleans stand- This historic neighborhood remains the The colorful neighborhood immediately of the tastiest burgers in New Orleans. bys, from country-fried venison with wild- heart of the city's fabled gay scene, with such downriver from the Quarter—across tree- Photo by Andrew Collins mushroom pan gravy to fried mirlitons (a famed bars as Bourbon Pub, Cafe Lafitte in shaded Esplanade Avenue—is Faubourg popular local squash) stuffed with oysters. Exile, Oz, and Good Friends drawing scores Marigny, which has a high concentration of friendly gaming and hospitality company Around the corner, wonderful burgers, break- of revelers each night, and the lovably raffish gays and lesbians, many who have restored Harrah's played a visible role in New Orleans' fast fare, and house-made pies are the hall- Clover Grill, long a fixture in the gay commu- the area's French West Indies-style cottages comeback, having morphed from merely a mark of Camellia Grill, a stalwart of deli- nity, doling out plenty of deliciously greasy and Greek Revival mansions. Moderately downtown casino into a full-service upscale cious, down-home comfort food. food and sassy attitude. Other great gay-pop- priced, less-touristy restaurants and B&Bs are resort, complete with a first-rate hotel and a ular restaurants, such as Peristyle and Bayona, a major draw of the neighborhood, which also handful of noteworthy restaurants. Rooms in Mid-City continue to serve up tantalizing contemporary has a handful of gay bars, the most famous the sleek, 26-story high-rise offer panoramic You can count yourself among New fare. being the leather-and-Levi's-oriented city views and are elegantly furnished with Orleans's more enterprising visitors if you With so many creative chefs doing wonder- Phoenix. comfy sofas, plush bedding, and marble bath- take the time to venture into the Mid-City ful things in this city, it's sometimes tempting A favorite restaurant with the gay commu- rooms. Among the property's stellar dining area, a loosely defined section of town about to pass by the more established venues, but nity, Feelings Cafe is set on a quiet street in a options, don't miss Bambu for innovative a 10-minute drive north of the French Quarter. the French Quarter has some truly vaunted charming old building with a leafy patio. It's Pan-Asian food and the outstanding John It's anchored by City Park, which extends halls of dining that should not be missed. A best known for its Sunday brunch (try the crab Besh Steakhouse, which is tucked discreetly north almost as far as Lake Pontchartrain and perfect example is Brennan's, which opened cakes with poached eggs and Hollandaise into a relatively peaceful corner of the other- contains the New Orleans Museum of Art. in 1946 and comprises a warren of warmly sauce) but serves first-rate Creole and wise boisterous casino. Inside this modern, Adjacent to the park is the rapidly gentrifying lighted dining rooms set around a lush court- Continental fare at lunch and dinner, too. For whimsically decorated eatery you might sam- Esplanade Ridge area, which is home to some yard. Meals here are memorable no matter the a sublime blend of soul and Creole cooking, ple cast-iron roast rib-eye of beef with pep- excellent accommodations and restaurants. time of day, but breakfast is perhaps the great- drop by the Praline Connection, famous for percorn sauce, or 30-day aged Prime New The cozy bistro Cafe Degas serves such est treat—consider the three-course prix fixe, both its crawfish etouffee and its bread pud- York Strip with blue-cheese butter. From the superb French cuisine as salade Nicoise and where you might sample traditional turtle ding dessert. Down the street, Marigny restaurants to the gaming floor to the hotel, Cajun-style bouillabaisse. In warm weather soup, oysters Benedict, and Bananas Foster Brasserie is a slick modern space whose Harrah's provides some of the friendliest serv- you can enjoy a meal on the lush garden patio. (which was invented right here at Brennan's). kitchen puts a contemporary spin on both ice in town. There aren't too many places to stay in Mid- Another "must" among the classics, Louisiana and French ingredients and recipes. Diagonally across from Harrah's, the City, but one superb, gay-owned choice is the Galatoire's has been family-run since it If you're a music fan, definitely check out Windsor Court has been one of the South's 1898 O'Malley House, an imposing Colonial opened in 1905 and is one of the best places Snug Harbor Jazz Bistro, which books some great emblems of luxury and hospitality since Revival mansion run by friendly innkeepers in Louisiana to watch local politicos hobnob of the most talented musicians in the city. it opened in the early 1980s. The large rooms, Brad Smith and Larry Watts. The gracious and broker deals, especially on Friday after- Friendly hosts Leigh and Jim Crawford many of them full suites, contain high-quality rooms are filled with exceptional antiques, noons. From the enormous menu you can try operate one of the neighborhood's best lodg- European furnishings and Italian-marble handsome Oriental rugs, plush four-poster everything from lavish, high-end dishes like ing choices, the nine-room Elysian Fields Inn, baths, giving them the feel and look of a posh beds, and elegant armoires and bed stands, yet grilled pompano with sauteed crabmeat meu- a handsome old mansion filled with fine English country home. Amenities include a the rates here are far lower than what you'd niere to simpler and more affordable standbys antiques, music memorabilia, and local art- full health club, a pool, and a wonderfully pay for similarly handsome accommodations like shrimp au vin and oysters Rockefeller. work. Other good bets include B&W swish bar called the Polo Lounge, as well as in the French Quarter. A bounteous You'll find dozens of fine places to stay in Courtyards, which comprises a handful of one of the most notable restaurants in the city, Continental breakfast is included. the French Quarter, but two upscale properties intimate, charmingly furnished guest rooms, the New Orleans Grill, which is worth experi- If you have even a slight sweet tooth, be deserve special mention. The Hotel all with private entrances and most opening encing even if you aren't staying here. Noted sure to stroll around the corner to Angelo Monteleone, an 1886 stunner, hosted the likes onto a landscaped courtyard, and La Maison chef Greg Sonnier turns out such stellar fare Brocato, which serves some of the richest of Tennessee Williams and Truman Capote on Marigny, a gorgeous gay-owned 1898 B&B as grilled rabbit tenderloin with grits and a desserts in the city. Try a scoop of chestnut or numerous occasions. You can sense the hotel's whose sun-flooded, impeccably decorated honey-lavender-Dijon glaze, and oyster-arti- panna-cotta gelato, or for the ultimate in deca- guest rooms have 12-foot ceil- choke-crusted redfish with white beans and a dent dining, a slice of Sicilian Cassata cake ings and polished hardwood roasted-red-pepper sauce. (filled with ricotta cheese and topped with floors. The most popular room marzipan). This neighborhood institution has access to a small balcony Uptown opened a century ago, was destroyed by overlooking the street below. Comprising the Garden District and its Hurricane Katrina, and has been completely ornate mansions, the fine shopping and dining rebuilt - just another sign that New Orleans is The Central Business District along Magazine Street, and the verdant back, better than ever. Just upriver from the French scenery of Aububon Park, Uptown is a broad Quarter, you'll find the city's swath of the city upriver from the Quarter and Andrew Collins is the author of Fodor's Gay downtown business center, Central Business District, an area best Guide to the USA and eight additional travel which is also rife with large reached via the historic St. Charles Streetcar. guides, as well as Moon Handbooks New hotels and a number of excep- Just stroll along Magazine Street and you'll Orleans. He can be reached care of this pub- tional restaurants. The gay- discover one inviting cafe or restaurant after lication or at [email protected]. another. One particular standout is stylish La www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 15 16 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com CT News www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 17 Connecticut Connection ACLU demands H&R Block allow civil union couples to file online By: Susan Haigh/AP Writer because it would be more time-consuming marriage. In a letter to H&R Block, ACLU Since the federal government does not rec- HARTFORD, Conn. (AP)—The American and cost the couple about $155 more to file attorney Rebecca Shore said the company's ognize civil unions, the couples are not filing Civil Liberties Union of Connecticut demand- their taxes. failure to support online filing for taxpayers in joint federal returns. Besides Connecticut, ed last week that H&R Block change its “We're saving for a house and hoping to civil unions and the imposition of a higher fee Vermont, California, New Jersey, New online tax preparation system to allow gay start a family, so every penny counts right “constitutes clear discrimination” based on Hampshire, Maine, Washington and Oregon couples in civil unions to file their taxes. now,” said Jason Smith of Hartford, who has Connecticut's civil union statute. have laws allowing either civil unions or The ACLU is representing a Hartford cou- been with his partner Settimio Pisu for six Shore said it appears that married same-sex domestic partnerships. Hawaii extends some ple that tried to file their state taxes by using years. couples in neighboring Massachusetts can use rights to same-sex couples and cohabiting het- the company's online system in January, only Messages were left seeking comment with the online tax filing program. erosexual couples. to be told that the tax preparer's system could- an H&R Block representative. ACLU is demanding that H&R Block Gay rights advocates testified before the n't accommodate civil unions. A message said Since 2005, about 1,846 couples have immediately provide free, online support for Connecticut legislature earlier this month that H&R Block doesn't “support Connecticut received civil union licenses in Connecticut, self-filing of state tax returns by taxpayers in civil unions are misunderstood by the general civil unions,” referring to the computer pro- according to the state's Department of Public civil unions. Also, the organization wants public and argue that it makes more sense to gram, and advised the couple to visit an H&R Health. H&R Block to reimburse all customers in allow the couples to marry. Block office or contact a professional by Under Connecticut law, gay and lesbian civil unions who've already paid the extra phone. couples can enter into civil unions, which charges imposed on them for filing their state But ACLU said that is discriminatory grant the same state rights and privileges as tax returns. PFLAG National Partners with Cyndi Connecticut TransAdvocacy Coalition: Lauper for the 2008 True Colors Tour! HB 5723 Act goes to the House PFLAG National is excited to announce The 2008 True Colors Tour Hartford, CT—At 4:10 p.m. on Monday, Judiciary members visit: www.transadvo- that we're hitting the road this summer with March 24th, the Judiciary Committee cacy.org/?p=42. Most importantly please Cyndi Lauper for the second annual True closest to our gayborhood* voted in favor of HB 5723–An Act drop a special thank you to Ranking mem- Colors Tour in support of lesbian, gay, bisex- May 31 June 10 Concerning Discrimination, to prohibit dis- ber and Chairs: Senators John Kissel (R), ual and transgender (LGBT) equality. Boston, MA The tour will feature five hours of non-stop , IL crimination on the basis of gender identity Andrew McDonald (D) and Rep. Michael Bank of America Chicago Theatre or expression. The bill passed with a vote Lawlor (D). Without their leadership, this music and entertainment by headliners Cyndi Pavillion June 13 of 37 yeas and only 6 nays and with strong bill would have died in Judiciary with the Lauper, The B-52s, and exciting special June 1 guests in select cities including Rosie Atlantic City, NJ bipartisan support. And importantly there other over 100 bills not making the Wantagh, NY Borgata Resort Spa & was no teacher amendment raised. The bill Judiciary JF deadline. O'Donnell, Wanda Sykes, Indigo Girls, Tegan Nikon at Jones Beach Casino and Sara, Regina Spektor, Joan Jett and the Theater now moves to the House for consideration. Please visit Connecticut June 14 Blackhearts, Joan Armatrading, Nona June 3 Bethel, NY Please take a moment to thank your leg- TransAdvocacy’s ourwebsite at Hendryx, Deborah Cox, , and many New York, NY Bethel Woods Center islator in the Judiciary for their positive ConnecticutADC.org for full details on this more. Radio City Music Hall for the Arts vote in support of this bill. For a list of legislative effort. Hosted by Carson Kressley, the tour will June 4 visit 24 cities across the United States and Toronto, ON * For the rest of the Canada from May 31st to July 5th. Molson Amphitheatre schedule please visit: HELP WANTED IN HARTFORD, CONNECTICUT The True Colors Tour was conceived by June 6 http://community.pflag.or Cyndi Lauper stemming from her desire to Mashantucket, CT g/NETCOMMUNITY/Pa give back to the LGBT community for the MGM Grand Arena at ge.aspx?pid=851&srcid Foxwoods love and support they have given her through- =194 out her career. The True Colors Tour is a cel- June 7 ebration of the basic values and freedoms that Washington, DC should be shared by all Americans regardless DAR Constitution Hall of sexual orientation or gender identity and expression. Attendees will experience these in the celebration. Tickets for select cities will values through the music of both legendary go on sale beginning March 15th and will be icons and the newest and coolest acts this gen- available at www.ticketmaster. com. eration has to offer. For more official tour & ticket information So, don't miss out on this opportunity to join please visit: www.truecolorstour.com. 2nd Annual Trans Health & Law Conference at UCONN Register now [online or mail/fax] for the the conference. If your organization is inter- Looking for LOVE? Turn to the PERSONALS on page 23 second annual Transgender Lives: The ested in sponsoring and/or tabling please con- Intersection of Health and Law Conference tact us at [email protected] or CT Neighborhood Organizations being held on Saturday, April 19 at the (860) 983-8139. If interested in volunteering AIDS Testing: www.guardinhealth.org Runaway Switchboard: (773) 880-9860Connecticut UCONN Health Center from 8:00 AM till 5 please contact us at volunteers@transadvoca- Gay Father’s Group: (203) 938-2881Hartford Women's Education and Legal Fund (CWEALF): 135 PM. This all day conference is geared towards cy.org or (860) 983-8139. Community Center: (860) 724-5542CT Freedom to Marry Broad Street, Hartford, CT 06105 - 860.247.6090 Info. and Service Providers, Medical and Legal Workshops will cover topics such as Coalition: (203) 791-9553Love Makes a Family: www.lmf- Referral program: (800) 479-2949 or Greater Hartford Professionals, Trans and Gender non-con- Transgender Legal Protections: Federal and ct.org (860) 525-7777Married Lesbian Support Group: 524-0601 - Statewide women's rights organization working [email protected] (203) 430-9227 to end discrimination and hate crimes; provides free legal forming community, allies and all those inter- State; Trans Communication Skills for Married Men’s Bisexual Support Group of Hartford: information and referral to the LGBT community. ested in the Health and Law isues facing the Providers; Replacement Therapy; (860)264-5605Metropolitan Community Church of New XX Club (Twenty Club): Rev. Cannon Jones - 45 Church Trans and gender non-conforming communi- Standards of Care for Providers; Community Haven: (203) 397-2312New Haven Gay & Lesbian Street Hartford , CT 06141-0387 - (860)646-8651 - Povides ties. For up to the minute Conference news go discussion on the Standards of Care; Inclusive Center: www.nhglcc.org; (203) 387-2252 knowledgeable info., and ongoing peer support to trans- to our website at www.TransgenderLives.org health care, counseling and sex therapy with PFLAG Danburry: www.pflag.org; (203) 797- sexuals. 2nd and 4th Saturdays of the month, 2 -5 p.m. 4743Connecticut ’s Kids: (203) 256-8414 connecticuT View (cTView): A Transgender social and Registration [online or mail/fax] is suggest- Gender non-conforming clients; Addressing Senior Lesbians Happily at Play (SLAPHAPS): Kathy support club, for the TV, TG, TS, CD, both male and ed at $25 for Individuals, $50 for Agency Mental Health Needs for Transgender (203) 929-8113 female. Monthly meeting in New Haven as well as e-mem- Personnel, though no one will be turned away Individuals; Community discussion around True Colors CT: www.ourtruecolors.org; (888) 565- bership, and more. A no dues club, with all the frills; due to registration cost. Please check sponsor- the “Taboo’s of Our Bodies;” Disability and 5551National www.transgender.org/ctv/ ship box in the registration form if you would Employment Rights and more. To register like to be considered for a paid sponsorship to online: www.transadvocacy.org/?p=30 More CT News and Club Events on pages 31 & 32 18 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com LGBT Announcements TRT PRIDE Calendar from MA, NY, CT & VT! (MA) UNITY is a Transgender support group Northeastern New York. Testing offered at the Cabico, and Jesusa Rodríguez. (William’s College; FMI: 413-597-3353); Talkin' which meets at 7 p.m. on the 2nd and 4th CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: 518- (MA) April 4; 5:00 p.m.; Jenness House, 10 Trash in the Homo No Mo Halfway House, a live- Thursdays at Baystate Hospital 3300 Main Street 462-6138. Morley Drive, Williamstown, MA (William’s ly lecture about gay reparative therapy and the in Springfield, MA. FMI: Deja 860-604-6343 or LGBTQ TEA DANCE AT DANCE NORTHAMPTON. College; FMI: 413-597-3353). Art Exhibit Opening Ex-gay movement, with Peterson Toscano. April Reception.The Canvas Project presents Man 12th-Rocky Horror Picture Show screening at Keri 413-364-1749. Second Sunday of every month; 3-6 PM; $8 (includes lesson at 3:00) FMI: www.dan- Made by Allison Golinkoff. A series of Art Exhibits Images Cinema (tentative). (MA) SOCIAL GROUP FOR LESBIANS; We cenorthampton.com . exploring issues of transgenderism. (VT) April 8; Bowling; 7pm; Brattleboro Bowl; at always meet on the first and third Friday's of the (NY) April 4-20; The Ghent Playhouse presents 6 Putney Road, Brattleboro VT. The change of day (NY) OUT DANCING (for the LGBTQ communi- month. For information call 413-687-2065 Women with Brain Death or Expiring Minds Want is due to league times and lane availability. We ty); every Wednesday evening; 7 to 8 p.m.; to Know Fridays and Saturdays – 8:00 p.m.; each pay for our own shoes and then split the (MA) EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION (EC) is Saratoga SAVOY, 7 Wells St, Saratoga Springs, Sundays – 2 p.m.; Adults $15 – Members $12; cost of the lanes. FMI: [email protected] NOW available without a prescription at all NY. FMI: 518-587-5132. http://saratogasavoy.home- Directed by Tom Detwiler. Music and lyrics by Tapestry Health Services sites. (413) 586-2539. stead.com/files/outdancing.html (MA) April 8, 8pm, Dodd Living Room, Williams Mark . Music Direction by Paul Leyden. College. Talkin' Trash in the Homo No Mo' Halway (MA) MATURE LESBIAN SUPPORT GROUP; (CT) Every Sunday; ALL LGBT YOUTH to the FMI: (518) 392-6264 or visit: www.ghentplay- House: A lively lecture about the ex-gay move- Rainbow Room; at the Hartford Gay & Lesbian Group for women 55+ meets monthly at the house.org. ment and gay reparative therapy, with Peterson Health Collective; from 3-6 p.m.; 1841 Broad Northampton Council on Aging at 240 Main St., at (MA) April 5; 7:30 p.m.; Kirtan is a celebratory Toscano. Street, Hartford, CT; for LGBT youth and allies. 21 6 p.m.; second Monday of each month. high energy group practice of call and response & younger. (NY) April 9; LGBT Legal Issues: Family, Criminal, (MA) DISCUSSION GROUP FOR LESBIANS yogic chanting (usually in the Sanskrit (MA) TransForming Families – Transgender and Civil as a part of National LGBT Health 40+ meets every Wednesday from 6 p.m. to 8 Language). at Mama Nirvana’s New Yoga; All are Awareness Week; 7:30 pm; FUUSA (First Support Group; Parents, partners, children and welcome; Suggested donation $10; 479 West p.m. at the Stonewall Center at UMass. This is a their transgender loved ones. Wednesdays, 7:30 Unitarian Universalist Society of Albany); 405 Street, 2nd Floor (Rte 116 and Pomeroy); South Washington Ave., Albany. FREE! Featured warm and welcoming group of intelligent women. – 9 p.m. in Hadley. FMI: www.transformingfami- Amherst, MA; FMI: 413-256-5444; Information email to: [email protected] lies.org or 413-522-0522 Speaker: Jeffrey McMorris, Attorney-at- Law; FMI: www.mamanirvana.com. http://www.rainbowa ccess.org/ (MA) OLDER LESBIAN DISCUSSION GROUPS; (MA) Free Breast Cancer Services; Cooley (CT) April 5; Another Octave: Connecticut (VT) April 9; BEAR NIGHT: Doors open at 5pm at Amherst/NoHo Area. New members accepted on Dickinson; Women can select therapy services Women's Chorus; Unitarian Society of New the Ceilidh House, Westmoreland NH. The Pub is such as acupuncture, aromatherapy, therapeutic space-available basis. If enough interest, new Haven, 700 Hartford Turnpike, Hamden, CT; 6:30 not normally open on Wednesdays, so this is a touch, healing music, healing touch, Reiki, Reiki, groups may form. FMI: 413-247-3257 or 413-253- p.m.; A fund-raiser for the chorus, featuring an private Bear event. Doors open at 5pm, DJ music Peggy Huddleston’s Prepare for Surgery, Heal 3049. elegant catered buffet plus jazz piano and songs begins at 7:30pm, and the pub will be open until Faster™, self-hypnosis/guided imagery and ther- prepared especially for the event. Ticket price of midnight. (VT) MEN'S SUPPORT GROUP; Any male 18 or apeutic massage by CD employees that hold cer- $75 includes concert admission. Concert alone older; Support group not a therapy group. Free. tifications in these therapy techniques. FMI” 413- 8:00 for $18. FMI: 203-672-1919 (NY) April 10; LGBT and Growing Old as a part of Every Tuesday, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Brattleboro, VT. 582-2424. National LGBT Health Awareness Week; 7:30pm (MA) April 5; 10:30am-12:30pm; & Sunday April FUUSA (First Unitarian Universalist Society of FMI: 802-258-3914. (MA) EAST COAST FEMALE-TO-MALE 6, 10am-12pm, '62 Center Dance Studio, Albany); 405 Washington Ave., Albany; FREE! (MA) JOIN EMAIL GROUP FOR LGBT PAR- GROUP (ECFTMG); 2nd Sunday of every month Williams College. Dance workshop on Voguing, a Featured Speaker: Kim Dill, Executive Director, ENTS in the Pioneer Valley area at from 3:00 to 6:00 p.m. FMI: 413.584.7616 or movement style developed in urban, black, queer Sage Upstate. FMI: http://www.rainbowa http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lgbt_parents_pio- email: [email protected]. FTMs or SOFFAs communities. Darrell Jones, a faculty member of ccess.org/ neer_valley/ for exchanging information, chatting who have never come to one of the meetings the department of Dance at Columbia College, about our families, and organizing get-togethers should call and introduce themselves to Bet travels from Chicago to give this workshop enti- (MA) April 10; Swati is a breath of fresh air—a and play-dates. before attending. Meetings are open to ALL mas- tled Sissy Vogue Vop. dynamic guitarist and talented with a culine-identified, female-born persons, our signif- pure voice; 7 p.m.; Iron Horse. FMI: (MA, NY, CT & VT) DISCRIMINATION (MA) April 6; “Raise the Roof - Music for the icant others, family, and allies. http://www.swatilive.com/ BECAUSE YOU ARE QUEER? Call The Meetinghouse;” A Family-friendly Benefit Concert Rainbow Times, 413-204-8959; 518-391-2617. (VT) Third Sunday of Every Month; in Brattleboro, to Save Northampton's Historic Meetinghouse! 2 (VT) April 10; Core Group; 6pm potluck, 6:30pm (NY) Bisexual Brunch; First and third Sundays Open to anyone whose identity or expression p.m. - 4:30 p.m.; Calvin Theatre, 19 King Street, discussion, at the Menspace, 50 Elliot St, of the month, 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. at the Rainbow doesn't fit neatly into the gender binary, Northampton. Tickets $12 Adults, $8 Children & Brattleboro VT. Feel free to come at 6:30 for just Cafe, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Viktoria including transpeople of all genders and sexual Seniors. Available in advance at Northampton the discussion. We always finish up by 8pm. All 518-438-6315. orientations. FMI: Benjamin Robin: robin@ben- Box office (nbotickets.com). FMI: visit firstchurch- welcome. FMI: [email protected] jaminrobin.net (NY) Bagel Bunch; Tuesdays; 10:30 a.m.; Older es.org or Gina-Louise Sciarra at 584-5121. (NY) April 11; LGBT Crime and Sexual Violence gay men’s social and discussion group. (NY) Ask-A-Lawyer Legal Clinic: Serving the (MA) April 6; La Cage aux Folles (1979 | R | Issues as a part of National LGBT Health Bruegger’s, Hannaford Plaza, Central Ave., LGBT community Geri Pomerantz, Esq. and Anne French with English Subtitles); At The Agawam Awareness Week; 7:30pm; FUUSA (First Albany. Reynolds Copps, Esq.; 5:00 - 7:00 p.m.; FREE Cultural Council; $6; includes complimentary hors Unitarian Universalist Society of Albany); 405 Washington Ave., Albany. FREE! Featured (NY) Capital Pride Singers; Mondays @ 7 p.m.; legal consultations to the LGBT community. d’oeuvres before the show; Free drawing for door Speaker: Karen Ziegler, LCSW-R, CASAC, LGBT/LGBTaffirming; mixed chorus; St. Appointment only. FMI: 518.432.4188. prizes; Agawam Family Cinemas at 866 Suffield Director of the Crime Victim and Sexual Violence Andrew’s, Episcopal Church, 10 No. Main St., (NY) ONGOING: First and third Sundays of the Street, Agawam, and begin at 1:15 pm. Doors Center. FMI: http://www.rainbowa ccess.org/ Albany, 12203; FMI: 435-4636. month, 11 - 1 p.m. at the Rainbow Cafe, 332 open at 12:30 pm. A transvestite-nightclub owner and his drag-queen star attraction masquerade (NY) Capital District Prime Timers; Provides Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Viktoria 518-438- (VT) April 11; Spirituality; 7pm; Menspace; 50 as a straight, married couple for the benefit of the social, cultural, and recreational opportunities for 6315. Elliot Street, Brattleboro VT. If you’d like to get ultraconservative parents of their son’s fiancée. mature gay and bisexual men. 21+. FMI: jalli- (NY) Capital Pride Singers LGBT and affirming heads up on the topic before you arrive, just give [email protected] or CDPT 595 New Loudon mixed chorus. Rehearsals on Monday's, 7 PM, (MA) April 6 to 12, 6th Annual National LGBT us a call or email and we’ll let you know what it is. Rd #202 Latham NY 12110 Emmanuel Baptist Church, 275 State St., Albany. Health Awareness Week. Take a moment and Or just come on over and be surprised! 802-254- 4444 or [email protected] (NY) Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Men FMI: 518-435-4636. learn about the health issues that are affecting Support Group; Mondays; 7 p.m.; Support group (MA) April 4; 5pm; Jenness & Hardy House; our GLBT health. 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A Community as a part of National LGBT Health Albany; 1400 Washington Ave. Albany, NY. supportive environment for LGBTQ youth and (MA) (MA) April 4-6; Intersection V; New World Awareness Week; 7:30pm; CDGLCC; 332 Registration Deadline: April 6. FMI: www.2008nel- their straight allies. FMI: Q Diamond (518) 462- Theater, UMass; FMI: Tickets are $15-general Hudson Ave, Albany’ FREE! Featured Speaker: gbtc. com or call (518) 442-5853. 6138. public; $8-senior citizens and low-income patrons; and, $5 for students with valid I.D. Jill Ordonez, LMSW, Program Director with (NY) Confidential HIV Testing; first Wednesday Powerful and exciting performances on GLBTQ Samaritans Suicide Prevention Center. FMI: of each month; 6-8:30 p.m.; Provided by Project issues, rights, and experiences. Cherríe Moraga, http://www.rainbowa ccess.org/ More Calendar of Events on page 31 H.O.P.E., a program of the AIDS Council of Lenelle Moïse, Djola Branner, D’Lo, Regie (MA) April 8; 8:00 p.m.; Paresky Theater

Submit your non-profit calendar event/s* to [email protected] or [email protected] *Certain restrictions apply. Small for-profit events/groups, 35 words or less, are considered for a small fee. Large/for-profit events are not considered. All submissions appear online. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 19 LGBT Intolerance News & More Hate Crime Laws: Why did they not prevent King’s murder? By: Tynan Power In a perspective about the case published in tor of MTPC, possible anywhere. I think it's less likely to TRT Reporter The Advocate, Riki Wilchins, executive direc- even with the happen in a community like ours, where In March, Lawrence King, a 15-year-old tor of GenderPAC, said: “There is this weird best laws in we've tried to do some pro-active work. Our middle school student in California was shot kind of erasure in the gay community around place, it doesn’t schools are welcoming to a diverse array of at school by a 14-year-old classmate. gender.” Yet, she also said, “even when homo- guarantee that families and family structures. We've includ- In this tragic case, the killing is being sexuality is per se at the root of a killing, what people will be ed diversity education for students and staff. labeled a hate crime—a hate crime targeting is fear and loathing of homosexuality for most accepted despite We have a GSA at our High School, and more King for his sexual orientation, to be precise. males but dread of losing one’s masculinity, their gender importantly, we have an environment in our identity or gender expression. Without educa- high school where students feel very comfort- tion around gender issues, Scott said, laws able expressing themselves. I really don't “Sadly what we have learned is that this kind of violence is don’t always do the job of prevention. think an NHS student wearing nail polish possible anywhere. I think it's less likely to happen in a commu- Northampton has a non-discrimination ordi- would run into the same response here. In nance, which covers gender identity and fact, I'd be willing to bet there are boys in nail nity like ours, where we've tried to do some pro-active work.” expression—and MTPC is working for a sim- polish on an almost daily basis in —Clare Higgins, Northampton, Mass. Mayor ilar law state-wide. Yet if laws aren’t enough, Northampton! I think education and commu- could a situation like the one in California nication go a long way towards defusing the King had told people he was gay, yet news dread of all that is seen as weak or feminine?” happen here? Northampton Mayor Mary fear that underlies so much violence.” reports of the incident focus on the fact that Still, California has hate crime laws that Clare Higgins doesn’t think so. “Is it perfect here?” she asked. “No; we still King wore things like nail polish and cover sexual orientation. Why didn’t they “Whenever school violence occurs around have work to do, no question. But I think women’s shoes. In a school where King sure- serve to prevent King’s killing? For that mat- the country, the first thing local officials and maybe we've been ahead of the curve a little ly was not the only gay student, he was the ter, why weren’t standard laws barring stu- families seem to say was that they ‘never bit as a community.” only one killed. It would seem his gender dents from bringing guns to school enough to thought it could happen here.’ Sadly what we expression set him apart. prevent it? According to Gunner Scott, direc- have learned is that this kind of violence is MassEquality dives into more equality projects this year By Michele Spring-Moore ization based in Boston, to provide support to sex couples who were married in The bill would add gender identity and TRT Special Report the marriage equality groups working in Massachusetts. expression to existing Massachusetts non-dis- Securing civil rights for same-sex married Connecticut, Maine, New Hampshire, Rhode Transgender rights are also high on crimination laws affecting employment, cred- couples and transgender people, and increas- Island and Vermont. MassEquality’s agenda. The group has been it, hate crimes, housing, and public accommo- ing state funding for AIDS/HIV care and Closer to home, MassEquality will lobby lobbying state legislators to support House dations and education. LGBT services, are on the agenda for state legislators to pass the MassHealth bill H1722, on which the House Judiciary See MassEquality on p. 20 MassEquality now that the legal right to mar- Equality Bill, which will grant married same- Committee held a hearing in early March. riage has been secured. sex couples the same access to Medicaid ben- Matt McTighe, MassEquality’s political efits as other married couples. This is only director, presented the organization’s 2008 one of the legal gaps that haven’t yet been plans at a public meeting at the Unitarian closed since same-sex marriage became legal Society of Northampton in late February. The in 2003. MassEquality and other organiza- group held similar meetings this winter in tions are working to repeal the 1913 state Boston and Worcester. marriage law that prohibits couples from The organization’s primary focus remains other states from marrying in Massachusetts if marriage equality, including assisting other the marriage would be considered illegal in New England states in securing the legal right their home states. The law was originally for same-sex couples to marry. MassEquality passed to keep interracial couples from mar- is working in partnership with Gay and rying, but has been used to argue against Lesbian Advocates and Defenders (GLAD), a same-sex marriage. Currently, only Rhode 30-year-old LGBT legal and advocacy organ- Island recognizes some legal rights of same-

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ACCOUNTING and TAX SERVICES 4 Stanley Street Easthampton, MA 01027 Phone/Fax: (413) 529-0889 • E-mail: [email protected] 20 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com QueerWood Deep Inside Hollywood: Where are they now? BY: Romeo San Vicente Kiss the Bride have all mined marriage for work with , and died by his own laughs. And now another nuptials-themed hand in a bizarre murder-suicide at the age of Shrek Sings With Full comedy, For Better or Worse is coming your 37. Another gay tragedy for the screen? Yes, Cast way. The plot? Unknown. But if it's smart, it'll but no less fascinating a subject in spite of it. The Shrek Broadway be wildly inventive to make up for its dull title Audiences will get to know Meek later this musical has a full cast and the already crowded genre it's joining. year. of fairy-tale characters The film stars Janeane Garofalo, Rebecca now, with Tony nomi- Gayheart, Chad Allen, Patrick Muldoon, and The Return of 90210 nee Brian d'Arcy Brad Rowe (co-star of queer indies Shelter Yes, it sounds too good to be true, but it's James (Sweet Smell of Success) recently and Billy's Hollywood Screen Kiss—here, he happening. The CW has announced plans to signed on as the title's gentle ogre and Chester both acts and produces). Meanwhile, in addi- revive Beverly Hills, 90210 for a whole new Gregory II (Hairspray) as Donkey. Gay tion to Chad Allen, another former child star - generation. A family will move from the Broadway veterans Christoper Sieber Punky Brewster alum Soleil Moon Frye—is Midwest to the famed zip code, a daughter (Spamalot) and John Tartaglia (Avenue Q) part of the mix. She'll play a lesbian minister. and son in tow: they'll be updated versions, of will play Lord Farquaad and Pinocchio, The brides (or grooms, or both) will march course (she's an emo kid wanting to be cool; respectively, while Tony winner Sutton Foster down the aisle sometime in 2009. he has behavioral issues), but the same rich- (Thoroughly Modern Millie) will star as kid problems will prevail. It's unlikely that Princess Fiona. The plot is still under wraps, Spacey Shooting Telstar gay creator Darren Star will participate, and but don't expect it to stray too much from the Kevin Spacey in a film about a flamboyant- there's no word yet on when this will all go first film's story line. The show, Dreamworks' ly gay man? It's not what you think. Spacey down. But the biggest question is, after The first venture onto the Broadway stage, will will co-star in Telstar, a biopic about the O.C., The Hills, and Gossip Girl, how rich open in Seattle in August before its planned short, unusual life of 1960s will be rich enough, and how bad will be bad December 14 premiere, when it will take over Joe Meek. Meek was most famous for pro- enough? Romeo doesn't know, but he's hoping the Broadway Theater, booting out The Color ducing the hit single that shares the film's for another Flaming Lips gig at the Peach Pit, Purpleto make way for the color green. title, an instrumental by the Tornados, the first one now owned by Donna Martin. JANEANE GAROFALO American number-one hit from a British Garofalo at the Gay Wedding band. Spacey will play Major Banks, Meeks' Romeo San Vicente still thinks Jason Priestly Gay weddings, topical to a fault, have queer indie films. I Think I Do, April’s money man. Acclaimed Brit character actor is dreamy. Romeo can be reached care of this seemingly become the go-to scenario for Shower, Wedding Wars, Mambo Italiano, and Con O'Neill, a Tony nominee for 1993's publication or at Blood Brothers, will play the outrageous [email protected]. www.therainbowtimesnews.com Meek, who famously passed up the chance to MassEquality from p. 19 which would require school districts to set Join The Pony Express It’s important for all constituents who sup- up anti-bullying policies. The organization port the bill to contact their legislators, is also asking for the LGBT Aging Project, McTighe said. which was founded in 2001 by a group of “The [LGBT] community really gets it,” advocates from the LGBT community and he said. “But, right-wing opposition groups from the aging services network who want- have been relying on ‘straight guy in a dress ed to combat the invisibility of gay, lesbian, goes into the women’s bathroom’ scare sto- bisexual and transgender people to main- ries in lobbying legislators.” stream elder service providers and within State representatives and H1722 oppo- the LGBT community as a whole. nents testifying at the hearing focused large- Another area that has suffered from budg- ly on questions about bathroom use by trans- et cuts is domestic violence. Two organiza- gender people. tions in Massachusetts, both based in greater This year, MassEquality will also advocate Boston, provide services specifically for returning funding for AIDS/HIV and LGBT LGBT survivors of domestic violence: the services to levels not seen since the 1990s, Gay Men’s Domestic Violence Project, and before Republican governors Mitt Romney for women, The Network/La Red. McTighe and William Weld cut funding for certain said that of the 800 beds in safe houses and social service programs, McTighe said. shelters in the state, only five are reserved MassEquality will advocate for budget for LGBT survivors, and all are in the Boston increases for LGBT youth programs, area. The funding increase sought would including the Safe Schools program and the provide seven more beds, some in other parts Massachusetts Commission on Gay and of the state, including Western Lesbian Youth, and for passage of bill S275, Massachusetts.

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An elegant night on the town with dinner at Grill 350, Springfield Mass. Photo by: David Moran Grill 350: A Taste of France in Springfield, Mass. By: Julius Child Rating: TRT Restaurant Reviewer A breath of fresh air arrived to the down- 4/5 Flags town Springfield, Mass. dining scene, and it is without the rate of exchange to contend located inside at 350 Worthington St. with in France! We started the evening with cocktails. My My partner chose to have Swordfish partner had a Cosmopolitan that was perfect Puttanesca, served on top of pasta. The large and I ordered a Negroni, which consists of a portion was a bit on the dry side, and could combination Compari, gin (or vodka-for have used a little less sauce, but in general those not into gin) and sweet vermouth. I was was satisfying. amazed to have it delivered without being A word about the house salad—the Italian asked how to make it, and it was perfectly dressing was pleasant tasting, but we recom- blended. Now thats a reason to return to the mend having the dressing on the side—too bar, which incidentally is very attractive. much dressing. We were already impressed with the mag- The waitress was very pleasant and atten- nificent ambiance, but needed to find out if tive. Although she was quite busy, it was the menu matched the surroundings. never a problem finding her. We started with 2 appetizers (Tapas), A fine selection of desserts were available, Lobster Ravioli and Artichoke Francaise. The but food portions were so large that we decid- Artichoke was served with a wonderful sauce ed to forgo dessert for an apartif and a robust which consisted of 4 large artichokes. The cup of coffee. The executive Chef Doreen Via lobster ravioli sauce was tasty, but finding is someone to be reconed with in Western lobster was a bit of a problem. Mass. For my entree, I chose one of the specials of Prices for entrees range from $13 to $24, the evening, Steak au Pouve—just hot enough some evening specials were a bit higher, sal- but not so spicy that it hid the taste of a very ads from $6 to $8. Free parking is available fine cut of steak. I was reminded of my 2 while dining, in the lot adjoining the entrance. years in Bordeaux, France where I had con- A must try restaurant. My rating: 4 out of 5 sumed many such a meal. Superb! I could Rainbow Flags! Send comments to: have been back at La Fonds Steak House, and [email protected]. Core Chiropractic from p. 5 als.” As a result, she has taken part in many The next Women’s health talk is on community health events, and public school Monday, May 5th, from 6 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. programs. She began an educational program Dr. Orvieto attributes her success to her at the Easthampton Senior Center in 2001, love of the work and the love of her patients. which since then has been relinquished to be “Not only do I love what I do but I love the taken over by another Chiropractor. Dr. patients I do it for!” she said. “Being an out Orvieto also said that she loves to give talks lesbian and a professional has not always for different organizations on various sub- been easy for me, but over the years I have jects throughout the community. grown and healed in ways that have actually Core Chiropractic Clinic’s community made me a better, more compassionate doc- service does not stop there. tor. I wear my heart on my sleeve and bring “I offer regular presentations on the work I all that I am to my practice and my patients. do for anyone interested,” said Dr. Orvieto. “I Also, Core Clinic has Certified Chiropractic also have an amazing team of six profession- Chihuahuas ‘CCC's’... who are love bugs and als who present every quarter on a Monday bring even more healing energy to the office. night about Women's health issues, primarily Patients love them!” breast health. One of them is a dear friend For more information about Core who is a Holistic Nurse and specializes in Chiropractic Clinic and The Pettibon Thermography, a safe alternative to System™, to receive your initial free phone Mammography. The talk is an incredible consultation, or to schedule your appoint- opportunity for the community to learn a ment, call Dr. Orvieto at 413-527-2468. Visit wealth of knowledge from top profession- Core Chiropractic Clinic online at: www.corechiroclinic.com. 22 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com PrideEnvironment Parrots: At least three dozen considered threatened or endangered

From the Editors of E/The Photo by Getty Images urban environments bodes well for their Environmental Magazine future, despite the loss of much of their ances- Dear EarthTalk: What are the conservation tral rainforest habitat. According to Roelant implications of all the wild colonies of Jonker of the non-profit City Parrots, encour- escaped pet parrots that have turned up in aging the formation of wild flocks of urban and around some major U.S. cities? parrots promises to be a much more effective —Mike Gifford, Kirkland, WA conservation tactic than trying to raise more birds in captivity where they would not so At least three dozen different parrot species readily pass on their genes or learn the sur- are now considered threatened or endangered vival, adaptation and social skills necessary to in their quickly shrinking native tropical and survive. To Jonker, the proof is in the pud- sub-tropical habitats (mostly in South ding: Some 2,500 wild red-crowned Amazon America). As such, the health of wild flocks parrots (a quarter of the world’s total) are in the U.S. and other developed countries thriving in and around California’s biggest around the world may well be key to preserv- urban areas at the same time their population ing these birds that could otherwise go numbers are plummeting back in their native extinct. rainforest habitat. Today wild parrot flocks thrive in urban and The 2006 Judy Irving documentary, The suburban areas of New York, New Jersey, Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill, shadows wild Connecticut, Florida, Texas, Washington parrot crusader Mark Bittner and his efforts to State and elsewhere. San Francisco and care for a wild flock of Red-headed Conyers Brooklyn each host particularly large flocks, living in San Francisco. Bittner feeds birdseed especially considering their relative lack of to the Conyers and gets to know each individ- green space. Wild parrot flocks are also A pair of Quaker Parrots (also known as "Monk Parakeets") on a branch in Brazil, one of their shrinking ual bird and its idiosyncrasies. The film’s reportedly thriving in cities across much of native habitats. Preserving the health of the many wild flocks in the U.S. and other developed countries shots of parrots interacting with one another Western Europe. Most of these parrots, of around the world may well be key to preventing these birds from going extinct altogether. and with Bittner really drive the point home course, are not former pets themselves, but Indeed it is not uncommon in the Northeast to the business of breeding. Therefore, their off- how much we have in common with the wild the descendents of birds that long ago may see large groups of parrots perched in winter spring, though born in the city, are wild birds kingdom of animals all around us, whether we have escaped during transport from their jun- on deck railings piled with several inches of nonetheless, carrying on lifestyles not unlike live in the city or the country. gle homes to pet stores generations ago. snow. The regions they inhabit, despite the those of their ancestors back in the jungles of Got an environmental question? Send it to: Parrots are among the most intelligent and cold weather, provide enough food and shelter South America (though their predators are dif- www.emagazine.com/earthtalk/thisweek/, or adaptable birds, so it is no surprise that to meet their relatively modest needs. And ferent).0 e-mail: [email protected]. they’ve done so well in North America and once the parrots were able to establish them- Conservationists are optimistic that the par- other regions, despite colder temperatures. selves in their new habitats, they got on with rots’ successful adaptation to more northerly www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 23 Queer Justice & QPuzzle Queer Justice: Traveling out of MA Q Puzzle: The State of Gay Politics By Atty. Jennifer Dexter* capable to make appro- TRT Law Columnist priate decisions, a Power Q: What are the difficulties that a person of Attorney would kick who is married in MA faces when traveling in giving the person you out of state? What can I do to protect my designate as your POA marriage and my rights? the right to act as if they —Norma G., Easthampton, MA were you. Your POA can Dear Norma: do anything you can do, The epitome of your concern is portrayed in banking, buying or sell- ATTY. 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Considering This document can give you Proxy the right to that every state does not recognize either donate organs, terminate life support, not equal marriage rights or a Civil Union, when begin life support, etc. you travel outside the Commonwealth, you These three simple documents can ensure and your relationship are at risk. that your wishes are carried out no matter The easiest and most effective way to where you are. secure your rights and privileges is to make *Attorney Jennifer L. Dexter earned a B.A. in sure you have three simple documents; a Will, Psychology from The University of Central Durable Power of Attorney and a Health Care Florida. She moved to Massachusetts to attend Proxy. law school at The Western New England College A will is a document that is valid upon your of Law in Springfield, Mass. She is a member of death. In your will you can make arraign- the Massachusetts Bar and has a Solo General ments for the distribution of all your property, Practice in the Pioneer Valley Area. who should take care of your children, The information contained herein is intended for educational purposes only and does not rep- whether you want to be buried etc. resent legal advice. Should you need legal A Durable Power of Attorney becomes advice, please contact an attorney. If you have effective only when the drafter (you) becomes Across Down legal questions that are unanswered, send your incompetent or disabled. In the event some- 1 Loafer bottoms 1 Where to find Uranus questions to: [email protected] 6 Cole Porter's "Well, Did You ___" 2 Instrument of the Phantom of the Opera thing should happen and you are no longer 10 Hairspray list 3 People in flaming pants? 14 Member of sexual congress? 4 Outside opening? GLAAD launches “Newsroom ‘08” website 15 Warrior Princess 5 Like a pirate insignia New York, March 20, 2008—The Gay & Training Workshops to help advocates 16 Put in a position? 6 Digital-rectal and such Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation become more effective in their media work. 17 Material for nice stones 7 Caesar's post-orgasm cry? (GLAAD) launched “Newsroom ’08,” a Web There are also ways to be more involved 18 At once, to Byron 8 A wink's partner site which will serve as a resource on how locally and access video clips of recent news 19 Club for Sheehan 9 Sticks it out media talk about issues affecting to the les- coverage. 20 Lesbian California state senator 10 Cups and such bian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) “GLAAD has been hard at work holding 23 Madonna's pair 11 Earhart's medium 24 Dottermans of Antonia's Line 12 Sign of a Broadway hit community as they pertain to the local, state media accountable at the national and local 25 "My lips are ___" 13 Ann Heron's One Teenager in ___ and national elections in November. The levels,” said Rashad Robinson, GLAAD’s 29 Announcement from the cockpit 21 Star quality national media advocacy organization’s dedi- senior director of programs. “Newsroom ’08 30 Welcome response after an S/M session 22 Cartoon squeal cated microsite has a blog, “Read Between gives journalists and community members 32 Land of singer S. O'Connor 26 Almost the color purple the Lines,” where commentary on and analy- additional resources to move beyond over- 33 Gay Vermont state senator 27 Muse for Millay sis of election coverage will be posted, as well simplification and to promote election cover- 37 What there oughta be 28 Disney duck as resources for both community members age that portrays the LGBT community and 38 Like phone sex 29 Airline to the land of the cut and media professionals. issues in a fair, accurate and inclusive light.” 39 Short-order sandwich for porkers? 30 Home near polar bears, perhaps “At GLAAD, we’re in the business of help- Journalists can find GLAAD’s Media 40 Like an ACT UP protester 31 Foreman of the National Gay and Lesbian Task ing to change hearts and minds about issues Reference Guide, the go-to reference guide 41 Some falcon feathers Force affecting the LGBT community,” said and style book for media professionals in their 42 Gay Utah state senator 33 Enjoy orally 44 And, to Rohm 34 New York state senator Tom GLAAD President Neil G. Giuliano. coverage of LGBT issues, which will soon be 45 Matching notes for Rorem? 35 Movie about Kahlo “Election years give us increased opportunity updated with a special focus on the 2008 elec- 46 Bear market opposites 36 Nuts and bolts to talk about our issues and to hold media tions. Newsroom ’08 and its many resources 47 Like a splendid fruit? 37 They aren't straight accountable for fair, accurate and inclusive can be found at http://newsroom08.glaad.org. 49 Coll. of Phil Andros 40 Bashed coverage. Newsroom ’08 provides a unique 50 Heather ___ Two Mommies 42 Meat substitute analysis and insight on media coverage of the About GLAAD 53 Lesbian New York Assembly member 43 Top target November elections as they pertain to LGBT GLAAD is dedicated to promoting and ensur- 57 Rupert Everett's Ready to ___ 45 Murder, ___ Meowed issues.” ing fair, accurate and inclusive representation 60 Cut 48 PC drive insert Newsroom ‘08 provides expansive educa- of people and events in the media as a means 61 Streisand's Prince of Tides costar 49 Rock Hudson's Gun Fury, for one tional resources for journalists and communi- of eliminating homophobia and discrimina- 62 It comes before sum 50 Role of Caroline Rhea on Sabrina ty members. In addition to “Read Between the tion based on gender identity and sexual ori- 63 Staffer to 53-Across 51 Line of Rupert Everett 64 Give a large bosom, e.g. 52 Orients a certain way Lines,” community members can learn when entation. For more information, please visit 65 Supporter of Julia Morgan? 54 Garfield's whipping boy GLAAD staff will be in their area conducting www.glaad.org. 66 Not even once, to Whitman 55 Take a trolley that goes "Clang, clang, clang," e.g. the organization’s signature Media Essentials 67 Love objects 56 Without a date 57 Where to have cybersex 58 Preposition that goes either way 59 Khan's title www.therainbowtimesnews.com Solution of Puzzle on Page 26 24 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 25 26 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Voices from NY Lesbian Notions: Sex, Lies and Press Conferences By: Libby Post* actually plays the game knows that when you was so stupid. are just as much in the spotlight as the sexual he other day I give straight men a little power it goes right to So, what does this mean for LGBT candi- antics of Bill and Eliot. Just ask Larry Craig came back to the head between their legs. As a little lesbian dates and elected officials? With our sex lives or Mark Foley. Thankfully, they're not our Tmy office to running around the New York State Assembly already under a microscope because that's poster children. Craig will go to all lengths to find a note left by Hawk as a press secretary in the mid-1980s, I how society defines us, do we have to be even say he's not gay, while Foley hides behind Stone, a nationally watched it firsthand - assemblymen and sena- more diligent to be good boys and girls? alcoholism—supposedly fueled by his abuse known FTM trans tors hitting on 20-something interns while When we were just anomalies, our own lit- at the hands of a priest - to excuse his inexcus- activist—his psy- their wives waited for them back in "the dis- tle scandals may have raised eyebrows but able behavior. Speaking of Craig, did you chotherapy office just trict." didn't turn us out of office. Former U.S. know that he led the effort to have happens to be down the hall from mine. He Sex and power go together. That's just the Congressman Gerry Studds (D-Mass.) was Congressman Frank censured when Barney's thought that perhaps we should hold a press way it is. outed in 1983 after a former male page admit- relationship with a male escort came to light? conference to say that we're not sleeping Now, I'm no prude, but I do wish that so ted to having a sexual relationship with The bottom line? Their political careers are together. I howled. many of our elected officials weren't woman- Studds 10 years earlier. over, just like Spitzer's. For those of you who might have been out izers; I wish they respected women more. But During the Ethics Committee investigation, I didn't need to know that David Paterson of the country the last few weeks, the precip- ultimately, I don't care about their private Studds admitted he was gay and eventually slept with someone other than his wife or that itous fall of Eliot Spitzer, New York's gover- lives, as long as they're not abusing kids. I addressed the House of Representatives say- Barney got it on with a male escort or that nor, led to the swearing-in of Lt. Gov. David didn't vote for a virtuous Bill Clinton - his ing, "It is not a simple task for any of us to Craig couldn't stop tapping his foot (although Paterson on March 17. The next day, David randy reputation preceded him. I voted for a meet adequately the obligations of either pub- I did relish this man getting caught in his own and his wife, Michele, held a press conference Bill Clinton who would end 12 years of lic or private life, let alone both, but these duplicity). But our country's puritanical roots to let everyone know that they've both had Republican rule. To me, that's much more challenges are made substantially more com- make people's sex lives fodder for character affairs. important than the fact he got blowjobs in the plex when one is, as I am, both an elected debates. Thus, the note from Hawk. White House from someone other than public official and gay." Studds was eventual- Here's an idea: Let's leave the running of I know why Paterson did what he did—he Hillary. ly censured, but his constituents returned him our country to a bunch of sexually repressed became governor in the shadow of a pay-for- The problem with Spitzer is that we all to office, and Studds left Congress of his own people who get their rocks off bombing peo- sex scandal that rocked the Capitol in Albany. voted for a squeaky clean Eliot whose person- accord in 1995. ple instead of loving them. Did someone just It was a politically shrewd move. He got out al brand is crime-fighting and integrity. Here U.S. Rep. Barney Frank (D.-Mass.) had his say George W. Bush? in front of any possible gossip-turned-scandal was a man who prosecuted prostitution rings own little sex scandal, but he's still in office. * Libby Post is the founding chair of the Empire that could bring down his tenure as New and human trafficking and whose ultimate He's now the powerful chairman of the House State Pride Agenda and a political commentator York's chief executive. downfall came as "Client #9" of some high- Financial Services Committee. on public radio, on the Web, and in print media. For me, it was just a little too much infor- priced call-girl service. I'm not upset about Fast forward more than 20 years, and the She can be reached at this publication or at mation. Anyone who observes politics or him paying for sex; I'm disappointed that he proclivities of men who have sex with men [email protected]. University at Albany to hold 11th Annual LGBT Conference Albany, NY—The Gender and Sexuality organizing, sorority/fraternity issues and stu- Concerns Office for the Student Association dent networking. In addition, a full day will of the University at Albany, SUNY is proud to focus on transgender inclusion workshops announce the 2008 Northeast Lesbian, Gay, examining the college atmosphere for trans- Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) gender/gender non-conforming students. Conference. The event will be held on the Keynote speaker Jessica Pettitt, called “the Albany campus during the weekend of April Margaret Cho of diversity trainers,” will pres- 11th-13th, 2008 and will include universities ent a featured workshop entitled “Facing and organizations from across the Northeast Trans: Inclusion, Advocacy and region. Empowerment.” Other presenters include Now in its 11th year, the conference will PFLAG, Lambda Legal, Empire State Pride feature speakers and panel events addressing Agenda, Soulforce, GenderPAC, In Our Own issues of LGBT student/faculty relations, Voices, Windows of Opportunity, Out for LGBT campus safety concerns, gender neu- Work and many others. tral facilities, multi-cultural issues, LGBT The theme of this year's conference— politics, discrimination, working with the “Changing Campus Climate”—is inspired by media, campus programming, grassroots Campus Pride's “Campus Climate Index” and GenderPAC's ”Genius Index” which enable Q Puzzle Solution from P. 23 students to learn how LGBT-friendly their schools are before applying or while attend- ing. The mission of the Northeast LGBT Conference is to educate, empower and pro- vide networking for LGBT students, faculty, business and community members, as well as building their commitment to activism, public service and social justice for the LGBT com- munity. The Gender and Sexuality Concerns Office acts as a liaison between the University at Albany, SUNY and the outside community, bringing in (and out) educational programs about current issues impacting the LGBT community and providing a safe and support- ive space for students. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 27 More NY News The Point Foundation: A benefit hon- Maya Angelou stands by Hillary Clinton By: Hillel Italie/AP National Writer oring current and future champions of NEW YORK (AP)—Like millions of oth- ers who watched, or read, Sen. Barack the LGBT community Obama's speech on race, Maya Angelou was The Point Foundation hope to many. For her posi- deeply moved, calling it “fantastic” and “his- wants the public to join tion in the LGBT community toric.” them in honoring current and her pursuit of quality But she remains a supporter of Obama's and future champions of the education for today’s youth, rival for the Democratic presidential nomina- LGBT community as we The Point Foundation salutes tion, Sen. Hillary Rodham Clinton, whom Point to the Arts, and cele- her. Angelou has known since Bill Clinton was brate achievements in film, television, voice The Point Inspiration Award is presented to governor of Arkansas, in the 1980s. and theatre. Point Scholars represent the best a corporation that champions respect and “I promised myself that 20 years after see- and brightest in our community. The event inclusion of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and ing her passion and courage (as first lady of will take place on April 7, at Capitale, located transgender (LGBT) community, and operates Arkansas) that if she ever runs for anything, SEN. HILLARY RODHAM CLINTON at 130 Bowery in NY, NY. The pre-show will with the vision that the success achieved by I'm going to support her,” the author, who Bird Sings,'' a coming-of-age memoir that is start at 6 p.m. and the dinner and awards pro- talented young people is limited only by the spent part of her childhood in Arkansas, told standard reading at schools. grams at 7:30 p.m. resources and opportunities they are given to The Associated Press during a recent inter- Although committed to Hillary Clinton, The Point Courage Award is awarded to an help them fulfill their potential. view. Angelou says she would be happy to see individual who has advocated for the future of The 2008 Point Inspiration Award is pre- Angelou has a long history of political Obama become president—the country's first the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender sented to Time Warner for its commitment to activism, dating back to the civil rights era black president—especially after the March (LGBT) community and lives with the vision diversity, in terms of its own workplace and when she worked with Malcolm X and the 18 speech prompted by his former pastor's that investing in today’s potential will pro- the varied content and programming produced Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., and she has racial statements. Obama, a Democrat from duce a brighter tomorrow. by its divisions for audiences around the contributed money to numerous campaigns, Illinois, called upon “the nation to break “a The Point Foundation is honored to present world. including Hillary Clinton's first run for the racial stalemate we've been stuck in for the 2008 Point Courage Award to Tony® and In addition to the numerous GLAAD Media Senate in New York, in 2000, and former years.’” Emmy® Award-winning actress, Cynthia Awards received by Time Warner over the President Clinton's re-election race, in 1996. “It was fantastic. It was historic,” she says. Nixon. The consummate New York Actress years for its inclusive coverage of LGBT peo- Angelou, who turns 80 on April 4, played “I have had people calling me from all over, has made her mark in television, theatre and ple and issues, the company also scored 100 a brief, but memorable role in Bill Clinton's some of whom said that it's going to be com- film, with such memorable characters in on the 2007 Human Rights Campaign’s first presidential run. The poem she read at pared to (King's) ‘I Have a Dream,’ because HBO’s Sex and the City as Miranda Hobbes Corporate Equality Index. Time Warner was his 1993 inauguration, “On the Pulse of the of what it says about race in the United and as Eleanor Roosevelt in Warm Springs. also the first media company to institute an Morning,” was an instant sensation that States. Other outstanding roles on the big screen AIDS in the Workplace policy, and among the became a million seller when published in “The truth is, if Sen. Clinton didn't have include Little Darlings, Amadeus, The first companies in the world to provide book form. She was already widely known such a worthy adversary, she wouldn't be Manhattan Project, and on the Broadway domestic partner benefits to same sex cou- as the author of “I Know Why the Caged challenged.” stage in The Rabbit Hole, Indiscretions, ples. Philadelphia Story and Angels in America. A For further information or to purchase tick- concerned parent and a strong supporter and ets or a table please contact Development graduate of New York City Public Schools, Director – East Michael Marino at (212) 247- Cynthia is a shining example of courage and 7318 or [email protected]

Gay hockey fans complain to Rangers about slurs NEW YORK (AP)—New York City Quinn said she hopes to meet with Garden Council Speaker Christine Quinn said or Rangers officials soon to discuss remedies. Madison Square Garden and the Rangers need After letters of complaint from Quinn and to do more to stop anti-gay slurs from being The New York City Gay Hockey Association, used at hockey games. the Rangers posted a warning on its score- A group of gay hockey fans told The New board. It said fans engaging in offensive lan- York Times that they're most upset by the guage and behavior would be tossed out. chant at fan Larry Goodman. He calls himself A Madison Square Garden spokesman says “Dancin' Larry” and often dances during culturally insensitive behavior is unaccept- breaks in the game. able at any event at the arena. 28 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com QReviews Women’s Film Festival: 17 Years of benefit to southern Vermont women & children By: JM Sorrell*/TRT Columnist the best of the festival is Time to Die. Film is having sex with the priest. Today, that bish- conversation of five Jewish women who are The Women’s Crisis Center (WCC) of audiences were encouraged to complete cards op resides in Rome with a position in the stand-up comedians and having lunch at Windham County (Brattleboro and surround- at each screening, and it is the tally of those Vatican. Sister Jane remains a devout Katz’s Deli in the lower East Side of ing area) has served women and children for ratings that determines the overall Best of the Catholic who co-runs a facility for homeless Manhattan. They discuss their role models, 30 years. They provide shelter, counseling, Fest. The Polish film follows Aniela, the mis- and downtrodden people in northern and archival clips of Fannie Brice, Gilda advocacy, and promote peer groups for tress of her own home after the last California. She simply has run out of patience Radner, and others is interspersed with the women who are victimized by violence. Communist-mandated tenant moves out of for the corruption of power and money from intimate luncheon conversation. The Women’s Film Festival (www.wom- her crumbling villa. She is left with her dog as what she calls the “multi-national corpora- The largest criticism I have is the accessibil- ensfilmfestival.org) is the primary fundraising her only companion, and her immediate joy of tion” of the Catholic hierarchy. She loves her ity of seating at some of the venues. Because event each year for the crisis center. It is having the place to herself evolves into ques- gay nephew and she thinks that women of large audience turnout, it was difficult to scheduled for March each year in honor of tioning the isolation v. relationship. should be priests. see the full screen without stacked seating in Women’s History Month. This year, 30 films Several films covered issues relating to sex- On the lighter side, the short film (18 min- some cases, and there was not much room for were screened over the course of two weeks. ual orientation. They included: Born Again utes), Wear Something Nice, is a powerful wheel chairs. Films chosen by the committee included 24 (Markie Hancock’s journey from a fundamen- testimony to how moms who attempt to run The biggest delight was seeing how many documentaries and an impressive array of talist childhood to coming to accepting herself their adult daughters’ lives may miss the filmmakers came to be on hand for Q&A ses- international subjects and filmmakers. as a lesbian); Freeheld (Oscar winner for Best mark. In this case, the daughter is a feisty, fat sions. Many of them said they were motivat- Two things stood out for me. First, I feel Short Documentary); and Mom’s Apple Pie: and financially successful 30-year old. Mom ed to support the town that has a warrant out nearly idiotic that I have lived in western The Heart of the Lesbian Mothers’ Custody is a yoga-crazed, skinny, in-shape woman for the arrest of Bush and Cheney. Brattleboro Massachusetts for most of my adult life and Movement. who reads every popular psychology book has, over time, had more than its 15 minutes. yet I did not know about this festival until this Enemies of Happiness follows the personal with the intention of “helping” her daughter. May it continue to be the cooperative, eclectic year. I will work to encourage attendance next story of 27 year old Malalai Joya, the first The consequences are hilarious. This film was and deeply sensitive community that it is for year. Next, as much as I know and believe that Afghan woman to enter Parliament. This won followed by Making Trouble, which films the many years to come. women are competent and talented in many the grand jury prize for world cinema docu- fields, I had no idea how many women from mentary at Sundance. The technique in fol- Couch from Page 2 lowing Joya was without props or provoca- all over the world make films. Maybe they’ve repackaged the idea in when being gay is a disease, a cancer? That tion. The filmmaker, Eva Mulvad, relied sole- As with NIFF, it is impossible to review all smaller amounts to test the market. Maybe it upon spreading, will destroy the nation, to ly on the everyday life of Joya to move the of the films I attended, so please go on the is in the form of something like Viagra. boot? Wow! Maybe Sally should give up web site to get synopses and to learn more audience to understanding her bravery. Iron Ladies of Liberia covers the first year Because its usage seems to induce a similar her day job and write science fiction. about selections you may want to purchase or uncontrollable urge in men. Kern (who happens to be married to a rent. of President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, who is the first woman ever elected as a head of state in It seems ludicrous to me (and the straight Baptist minister) has refused to apologize The subjects of disability and aging were brother-in-laws I posed this question to), that even though over 30,000 e-mails have been covered in several of the films, and I found Africa. She placed women in positions of leadership to help rebuild Liberia. It is anyone could seriously suggest sexual orien- sent to her office. “They’re sending out let- the films about women in politically repres- tation could be changed. But even if it could ters and making calls in my district. And sive or dangerous countries to be particularly remarkable to see her survive a year where happen, you’d have to be willing to assume they really want me to come down and talk moving and inspiring. The filmmakers range her life is constantly in danger and yet where that if turned gay, you’d be incapable of to them?” Kern said. “It would be like from experienced to new, and all seem to she invites groups of citizens to meet with her doing your job. You couldn’t keep your mind throwing myself to the lions. That’s a share a desire to use the art form for societal and to openly discuss challenges with integri- awareness and transformation. ty and honesty. Prior to her election, the off what’s below the waist line, even if it metaphor. When I am wrong, and it is Whether by design or coincidental to good country’s unemployment rate was 90% and meant being captured by enemy forces and brought to my attention, I will apologize.” film choices, this most certainly matches the the infrastructure was destroyed with no run- risking possible consequences. The evidence Lions? Wonder what metaphor she really politics of the festival’s beneficiary. By the ning water or electricity. With the pressure seems to indicate that that is NOT the case had in mind? I’m damn sure it wasn’t pussy- way, over 50 volunteers work to raise all of on, she does something quite radical. She with true-blooded gay and lesbian armed cats. And as for being wrong, I think it’s safe the funds necessary to purchase/bring the does not lie to Liberian citizens. She asks that forces. to say as an elected official, one has a sworn films to the festival beginning in August of everyone pull together. And it appears to So does turning gay make men into pussy duty to serve ALL of their constituents, not the previous year. This means that 100% of work. cats? (“Hellloooo Kitty!”) Would they be just the ones who go to the same church or ticket and festival pass proceeds goes to The Sermons of Sister Jane was a therapeu- more concerned with love than war? Is that voting booth, or have the same skin color tic way for this recovering Catholic to spend WCC. the story they’re trying to sell us here? And that you do. As a member of the House of time on Good Friday. I suspect the packed Venues donating space are the Latchis if that’s the case, doesn’t the gay bomb mili- Representatives, one is held to a higher stan- audience was filled with us. Sister Jane Kelly Theatre, The Hooker Dunham Theater and tary proposal contradict the logic behind dard, and it may not include hate speech has been a nun for 55 years. Her faith is test- Gallery, and the New England Youth Theatre. Rep. Sally Kerns’ statements this past when you speak publicly. They are each within walking distance in ed as she is censured by her bishop and the Vatican for speaking out about a priest who month? So help me out with this: Are gay people downtown Brattleboro. Oklahama Representative Sally Kerns (R), angry lions, theoretically ripping “enemy” The breaking news I received today is that stole money from the congregation and who molested young men. It turns out the bishop was in the news after controversial com- politicians apart limb from limb? Or are gay ments, secretly recorded, were posted on people crazy-for-sex pacifists, unable to YouTube of a speech she gave to a private focus on anything except their enormous sex group of Republicans. In her remarks, she drive? Tame kittens … or wild beasts? Gay likened gays to being a threat worse than ter- bombs or … gay bombers? Will the real rorism. homosexuals please stand! Kern said: "Studies show that no society Perhaps we all need a little dose of that … that has totally embraced homosexuality “poof bomb”… to make the world a kinder, has lasted more than, you know, a few gentler place. Throw a little fairy dust and decades. So, it's the death knell of this coun- … poof! And we’re all about the love. try. I honestly think it's the biggest threat our In Rep. Sally Kern’s fear-driven world, nation has, even more so than terrorism … or that may be the threat they’re really afraid of. Islam, which I think is a big threat ... If you got cancer or something in your little toe, do Suzan Ambrose can be heard on her radio you say, well, you know, I'm just going to program, The Naked Truth, Monday forget about it because the rest of me is fine? evenings at 8 p.m., and 2 a.m. Tuesdays, on It spreads. OK? And this stuff is deadly, and 103.3FM, Northampton. Or streaming on the it's spreading, and it will destroy our young web at www.valleyfreeradio.org. For more of people, it will destroy this nation." Suz’s thoughts, check out her website at: So, we’re back to the prehistoric days www.nakedtruthshow.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • April 3-30, 2008 • 29 30 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com The OutField: Going to the Mat for a great cause By: Dan Woog was just me being anal. But as the years "They deal with whatever pressures they get. Mission High passed, we realized we were discriminating They've made their own decision that our School stands just against kids. They wanted a good, healthy club is the best thing and place for them. three blocks from activity, and we were keeping them out for a They like us, and they appreciate what we do Castro Street, the stupid reason." for them. At the same time, they're not going heart of San Things changed when a Mission student to go out and become gay advocates. We Francisco's gayest asked about renting Golden Gate's facility. have our T-shirts, and they have theirs. That's neighborhood. Forty "We invited them up, and things just snow- fine." percent Hispanic, 30 balled," Dermody recalls. "It all fell into Adult attitudes can be tougher to change. percent Asian, and place." But they, too, see the positive changes in their 22 percent black, it The first day of practice drew a small, wary children, and they're talking publicly about suffers the financial crowd of 15 wrestlers, seven parents, and the good things coming out of the Golden and educational woes of many urban schools. three administrators. But as soon as the Gate Wrestling Club. Dermody even con- So no one was surprised when the wrestling Golden Gate coaches—all fingerprinted and vinced one "old-fashioned" Chinese father to team lost its practice room, and was forced vetted by city officials, aided by a white get on the mat himself. "He was damn good!" into the hallway. board listing foreign-language translations of Dermody exclaims. But what happened next was definitely sur- common wrestling terms for the non- "I think the parents have been startled at prising. The Golden Gate Wrestling Club English-speaking athletes—started the ses- how nice, clean, and well-run our place is," extended a hand. The 26-year-old, Castro- sion, the youngsters and adults realized what GENE DERMODY Dermody says. "And we've been astounded at based group offered Mission its mats - and lay ahead: superb instruction, hard work, and how nice, polite, and receptive the kids are. coaches. They adopted the team, and quickly the opportunity to reap great rewards. he's doing great. And he’ll take what we're They stay after practice, they clean up, and brought its wrestlers' athletic skills to The next day, Dermody says, "It was stand- giving him as far as he can.” they shake our hands before they leave. I'd unimagined heights. ing room only. Being at a gay wrestling club Dermody is under no illusions that training love to drag some of them back to the sub- In the process, whatever eyebrows might was no longer a problem." five days a week at a gay club is easy for urbs where I used to coach. have been raised at the thought of gay male The Mission Bears, as the high school team teenagers. After practice, many take a round- "Our club has been energized and excited," wrestlers working with young boys (and is called, thrived, as did a second team from about route to the bus stop, purposely avoid- Dermody continues. "We open up our wallets girls) from "the hood" soon turned to satis- John A. O’Connell High School, a bit further ing Castro Street. "It seems kind of silly, but and hearts to these kids. They're like sons and fied smiles. away in the Mission district. They won I'm not a kid anymore," Dermody says. "I daughters we can pass something along to." For years, Golden Gate—a no-nonsense matches. They earned praise for their techni- don't know what kinds of pressures they get. And, like all good works, Golden Gate's club with fistfuls of Gay Games medals—had cal prowess. Their self-esteem soared—and It's bad enough wrestling has a reputation in outreach has inspired others. A few hours turned away anyone under 18. "Some of them so did their grades. Mission's wrestlers boast- schools as a 'gay sport'—even though any south, the largely gay San Diego Wrestling even came with parents," says president Gene ed a team GPA of 3.0, and captain Terrence wrestler could knock your teeth out." Club was recently asked to help coach a near- Dermody, a Gay Games winner who compet- Li won a $40,000 scholarship based on schol- But, he adds, some wrestlers walk straight by Christian school. ed for New York University in the 1960s and arship and community service. Ivy League through the Castro, clowning unself-con- Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer coached at New Jersey high schools for 11 colleges vied to recruit him. sciously with each other as teenagers often coach, gay activist, and author of the "Jocks" years. Dermody also points with pride to a 4-foot- do. series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his web- "But we wanted to protect ourselves from 9 14-year-old. "He's ripping the competition "Most kids today don't make snap judg- site at www.danwoog.com. He can be reached care 'bad publicity.' I instituted that rule in 1982. It apart. He can't speak a word of English, but ments about homosexuality," Dermody notes. at [email protected].

Trans from p. 4 be heartbroken. Then again, I wonder if it's tions will be about the same issues that every- to deal with. But, I am a big girl now. I can I mean, they may like me but not want to all just too much trouble. one else has but probably a bit colored with deal with it. “be” with me. When you cross gender lines Yes, relationships do take a lot of work and the Transgender tinge that others do not have you also cross belief systems. Transphobia everyone has issues to deal with in a relation- and Homophobia and some radical religious ship. Being Trans just multiplies these issues. types may take issue. Some folks are cool It seems to anyway. I'm glad that I already did Q Classifieds with it and some are not. Most don't really have a wonderful relationship that blessed me PERSONALS care. They don't care until intimacy begins. with my 3 children, memories, laughs, and ing the waters. Great sense of humor and kind They start to like us [trans] and have come to loves. I did have the pleasure of living in a TRANS NEW AD! heart. College educated and intelligent. Contact the center stage where they have to start happy relationship that worked for a long “SWEET TRANSVESTITE" MTF, 51, smiling, slim, Ashley at [email protected] or call thinking about how to explain us to their time. I cannot complain about that. healthy, balanced, love to shop, garden, cook, 413.883.0396. friends and relatives as well as themselves. I But time goes on, people change, and they kayak, kiss. Looking for a GG as sweet as me to know it shouldn't really matter but in today's do grow apart-Another “To be?” ride off into the sunset with. Contact "Jennifer" at: Women 4 women world, I'm afraid it still is asking a bit much. I guess that we all have our own “To be’s” [email protected] Looking to meet women in the First, I will have to figure out if I am look- and we all have to make decisions and deal Springfield/Northampton MA area for friendship ing for a male or a female. Then my future with them to go on to our next “To be.” Men 4 Men and fun! Diva's, Oz, dinner/coffee/drinks in NoHo significant other will have to deal with me Now I must continue to go on and I must Hey, 18 yo looking for a man in Western MA, for or Springfield. Movies, the beach, you name it let's being Transgender and will have to deal with live my life and I will undoubtedly meet romantic relationship... under 20 ONLY. Thanks. get together and do it! Contact Kris at dolphin- me in their world. Maybe it will all work out another "To be or not to be" At least I finally Contact: Josh at [email protected] [email protected] accepted my Transgenderism. Now, my ques- or maybe it won't. And, maybe one of us will I am open-minded, nice, intellgent, good looking in Looking for other women for outdoor activities; an old fashioned way, youthful and historical. biking, hiking, and cross country skiing. I like to Contact Douglas at [email protected] cook, especially coming up with healthy tasty recipes. Walks in the woods, sitting by a cozy fire, BiCurious enjoying all life has to offer. Contact: SWBiF looking for friendship and possibly more in [email protected]. Springfield/Noho area. Very new to scene and test-

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sion groups and now with the help of volunteers ebrate what we've accomplished, and have fun! CDGLCC @ 332 Hudson Ave., Albany; FMI: Calendar from p. 18 like Brad, we’re opening the Menspace for ‘drop We're making it less formal (and more affordable) Michael at [email protected] and check out (NY) April 12; Our Brothers' Keepers Foundation in’ times. Nothing is scheduled, no food required... this year. Please join us! www.romainebrooksga llery.30art. com or presents Cause for Celebration Dessert Finale just drop in if you’d like and see who else is (MA) April 26; 6:30 p.m.; LESBIAN Potluck Party; www.1stfridayalbany.org. 9pm-12midnight; Home and City Savings Bank – around! Join in the fun, mingle, socialize, dance, all in the (MA) May 4; Bread and Tulips (2000 | PG-13 | a beautiful art deco building 11 North Pearl St.; (VT) April 20; Transgender Support Group; 5:30 to company of wonderful women. 2 King St Hatfield; Italian with English Subtitles). At The Agawam Join OBKF as we celebrate the end of our 20th 8:30 p.m.; Brattleboro, VT; Open to anyone whose FMI: Marylou 413 687-1225 Cultural Council; $6; includes complimentary hors year! Featuring music by the Franklin Micare Trio identity or expression doesn't fit neatly into the d’oeuvres before the show; Free drawing for door and delicious desserts by fabulous local restau- (VT) April 26; GayMe Night; 7pm, Menspace, 50 gender binary, including transpeople of all gen- prizes; Agawam Family Cinemas at 866 Suffield rants and bakeries. Cash bar. FMI: Elliot Street, Brattleboro VT. Always a great time! ders and sexual orientations: transgender(ed), Street, Agawam, and begin at 1:15 pm. Doors obkf.org@gmail. com or call (518) 542-9353. Visit Bring your favorite game. transsexuals, FTMs, MTFs, non-op, pre-op, post- open at 12:30 pm. An unappreciated housewife us at www.obkf.org. op, crossdressers, bi-gendered, genderqueer, (NY) April 28; Aging On Our Own Terms: LGBT finds good fortune when she hitchhikes to Venice (MA) April 13; 8:30pm; Paresky Auditorium; genderfluid, questioning. Confidentiality guaran- Senior Issues Summit; Make your voice heard! to begin a new life, and with newfound confi- Queer, South Asian comedian Vidur Kapur per- teed. FMI: Benjamin Robin: robin@benjamin- LGBT seniors and organizations serving seniors dence, begins a tentative relationship with a lone- forms a wickedly funny stand-up routine. robin.net in NY: Professionals working with aging popula- ly waiter. www.vidurkapur.com tions need to know about needs within our com- (VT) April 22; Wanted! A Few Good Men; 6 p.m.; munity! This event will address issues affecting (NY) Tuesday, May 6, 13, 20, and 27; Pride (MA) April 13; La Dolce Vita (1960 | unrated | to help get the newsletter mailed out! At the APSV LGBT people as they age and legislative issues Planning Committee Meeting; 6pm at CDGLCC Italian with English Subtitles). At The Agawam office, 67 Main Street, 4th Floor, Brattleboro. Fold, facing our community. The New York State Office (332 Hudson Ave, Albany) If you are interested in Cultural Council; $6; includes complimentary hors stuff, seal, stamp, laugh. Pizza provided! for Aging will hold a town meeting to hear from becoming involved with the Capital Pride 2008, d’oeuvres before the show; Free drawing for door (VT) April 23; SEQUENCING with MARILYN LGBT seniors about the concerns and issues fac- this is your official invitation to jump in!!! We are prizes; Agawam Family Cinemas at 866 Suffield ALLEN: 6:30 – 8:00pm at the Menspace, 50 Elliot ing our community. FMI: Scott Havelka at 914- looking for several folks who can serve on the Street, Agawam, and begin at 1:15 pm. Doors St.; Brattleboro VT. Allen will conduct a workshop 948-2932 or SCOTT@loftgaycenter .org for more Pride 2008 committee… Overview of the Pride open at 12:30 pm. Federico Fellini’s lush and in sequencing, a painting technique for everyone, info or to register. planning committee: We meet twice a month now intoxicating masterpiece is a meditation on the at the Menspace. No artistic experience or talent but will begin meeting weekly soon as June is meaning of life and love. Stars Marcello (NY) April 29; LGBT Equality & Justice Day; Join required! A donation of $5 is asked to help offset approaching quickly. FMI: Mastroianni and Anita Ekberg. Nominated for four hundreds of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgen- the cost of materials, which are provided. See [email protected] or just come to the next Academy Awards. der New Yorkers and our allies from across the meeting if you are interested in helping to make page 6 for more details. Space is limited, please state to push for the passage of the Gender (VT) April 17; Book Group; 7pm; at the Menspace, Capital Pride 2008 bigger and better than ever! register EARLY. You must call to let us know you Expression Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA), the 50 Elliot Street, Brattleboro VT. FMI: Curtis 802- [Note: This year's parade and festival will be June are attending. 802-254-4444. Dignity for All Schools Act (Dignity), and marriage 254-2400. 8] (NY) April 24; Dining Out For Life 2008; The AIDS equality legislation. (MA) April 18 & Saturday April 19, 7:30pm; ‘62 Council of Northeastern New York invites you to Register now by going to www.prideagenda.org (VT) May 17; NH Gay Men's Chorus will be in Center Mainstage @ Williams College; Dance the fifth annual Dining Out For Life event in the FMI: (518) 472-3330. Keene NH; 7:30pm at the Redfern Arts Center. Dhamaka presents 'Legally Brown: A politically This is the closest performance to us, so let's Capital Region and beyond! Simply dine at one of (MA) April 30; 8:00 p.m.; Hardy House, 20 Morley conscious Bollywood Dance show.’ This perform- show our appreciation for them coming over this our participating restaurants on this day and 25 Drive, Williamstown. Williams Bi-Gay-Lesbian- ance promises to follow in the footsteps of last way and get them a big turnout! percent of your food bill will benefit the HIV edu- Trans-Alumni Association Stonewall Speaker years' 'Brokeback Bollywood' to impress its audi- cation and prevention programs of the AIDS Series presents Dena Zaldua, of the National (NY) June 6; Romaine Brooks Art Gallery Opening ence with fabulous choreography and lots of Council. http://www.aidscoun cil.org/ FMI: Janet Center for Lesbian Rights. (William’s College; – First Friday featuring: The PRIDE Show! 5-9pm; melodrama! Andrade at 518.434.4686 x 2424 or FMI: 413-597-3353). @ Romaine Brooks Art Gallery @ CDGLCC @ (NY) April 19; Progressions Concert Series featur- jandrade@aidscounci l.org or visit 332 Hudson Ave., Albany; FMI Michael at (VT) April 30; Sex After Youth; 7pm, Menspace, 50 ing Camille Bloom; 8:00pm, Doors 7:30pm; http://www.diningou tforlife.com/Albany [email protected]. Elliot St.; Brattleboro VT. Conversation at the CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave, 3rd Floor; $10 admis- (VT) April 25; Day of Silence; Speaker Cris Beam Menspace! Come discuss sex and its ever- (NY) June 8; Capital Pride 2008!; Parade and sion. FMI: 518.462.6138, x.11 or by email at pro- at SIT Graduate Institute; 7pm. Beam, the author changing role in our lives with other gay/bi guys. Festival; 12noon-5pm, Rain or Shine; Join us in gressionsconcert [email protected] for more info of Transparent Family Living: Transgender FMI: [email protected] Washington Park in Albany once again for this or to make reservations. Tickets will also be avail- Teenagers, will speak at the SIT Graduate exciting annual event! More info soon so save the able at the door. Progressions Concert Series is Institute on her book and experiences volunteer- (MA) May 2-3; at 7:30 p.m.; Documentary “Born date! FMI: http://www.cdglcc.org/cappride.htm held on the 3rd Saturday of every month. FMI: ing at Eagles, a small high school for gay and Again,” about a woman growing up in an Contact Cathi at [email protected] to vol- www.myspace.com/progressionsconcertseries transgender teens in Los Angeles. April 25 is the Evangelical Christian family coming to terms with unteer! being a lesbian. Pothole Pictures Theater is in (CT) April 19; Trans Health and Law Conference; National Day of Silence, an annual event to bring Shelburne Falls (51 Bridge St.). On the Saturday (VT) Gay Pride in southern Vermont will take 8 a.m. – 5 p.m.; UCONN Health Center; 263 attention to anti-LGBT bullying, harassment and show on May 3, its director Markie Hancock will place in the month of June, with many events Farmington Ave., Farmington, CT; $25 for discrimination in schools. be present to answer questions. Both nights planned. TBA Individuals, $50 for Agency Personnel, though no (MA) April 26; BSCC THIRTEENTH ANNUAL Carrie Ferguson & the Cherry Street Band, from (NY) June 21; 2nd Annual Black and Latino Gay one will be turned away due to registration cost. GLBTQI FESTIVAL; 2:00 p.m. Silent and live auc- Northampton, will play on stage before the film Pride Celebration hosted by In Our Own Voices; (VT) April 19; Drop-In Night; Menspace doors tions, catered buffet dinner, evening entertain- from 7 to 7:30. Admission is $6 at the door. The celebration will take place from 9:00am - open at 7pm. Hosted by Brad. 50 Elliot St.; ment. Details to follow in special mailing and on (NY) May 2; Romaine Brooks Art Gallery Opening 5:00pm; venue for the after party will be Brattleboro VT. New programming! We’ve had the website: www.berkshirestonewall.org. This is – First Friday featuring: John Frederick announced very soon. FMI: Jasan at (518) 432- open socials, potlucks, scheduled events, discus- our biggest fundraiser of the year and a time for all 4188. of us to come together to remember our past, cel- 5-9pm; @ Romaine Brooks Art Gallery @

Act from Page 3 raise wild and often bizarre specters of out- above average.” provides […] more time to educate the rest of Late in the evening, the Committee heard landish public behaviors, confusion—and After considering testimony, the Joint the legislators on the issues of discrimination from Brian Camenker, founder of worse—in public bathrooms, and strangely Committee on the Judiciary sent HB 1722 “to and hate crimes faced by the transgender MassResistance, a group classified as a “hate vague dangers to the children in our commu- study” on March 19th, giving lawmakers community in Massachusetts,” according to group” by the Southern Poverty Law Center. nities,” she said. “You will, I hope, be pleased additional time to consider it. MTPC. Camenker called the bill a “lunatic law.” The and not at all surprised to know that the City MassResistance calls this a success, saying, Supporters hope the bill will be out of MassResistance Web site calls the bill “prob- of Northampton has suffered no ill impacts “the Joint Judiciary Committee responded to “study” by the end of this legislative session. ably the most radical legislation ever serious- since the adoption of this provision. We have massive public outcry and dealt a huge blow Whether or not it is, efforts will continue until ly considered by the Legislature.” In a 125- had no rash of lewd behaviors in restrooms, to the homosexual movement.” all people facing discrimination based on page report entitled “The Coming Nightmare no rush of immigrants seeking subsidized MTPC doesn’t see it that way. gender identity or expression can rest more of a ‘Transsexual Rights and Hate Crimes’ gender reassignment surgery, and our chil- “This is not bad news, but part of the easily with the law in Massachusetts, clearly, Law in Massachusetts: Why Bill H1722 Must dren remain, to paraphrase Garrison Keillor, process in getting this bill passed. This also on their side. Be Defeated,” MassResistance states that “radical homosexual activists […] want to offer your children on the bloody altar of transsexuality.” The report further states that Jennifer L. Dexter the law “will result in very disturbed people Attorney at Law & Notary Public using opposite-sex bathrooms and locker Specializing in: Real Estate, Family rooms […] and indoctrinating children in our public schools that this perverted behavior is Law, Wills, Education Law & a ‘civil right.’” Criminal Law Northampton Mayor Mary Clare Higgins 95 State St., Suite 724 offered a different view in her testimony. Springfield, MA 01103 “Many opponents to the inclusion of ‘gen- [email protected] der identity and expression’ through HB 1722 413-214-7626 30 • April 3-30, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com