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levirate marriage and the family in ancient judaism HBI SERIES ON JEWish WOMEN Shulamit Reinharz, General Editor Sylvia Barack Fishman, Associate Editor The HBI Series on Jewish Women, created by the Hadassah-Brandeis Institute, publishes a wide range of books by and about Jewish women in diverse contexts and time periods. Of interest to scholars and the educated public, the HBI Series on Jewish Women fills major gaps in Jewish Studies and in Women and Gender Studies as well as their intersection. The HBI Series on Jewish Women is supported by a generous gift from Dr. Laura S. Schor. For the complete list of books that are available in this series, please see www.upne.com Gaby Brimmer and Elena Poniatowska, Gaby Brimmer Harriet Hartman and Moshe Hartman, Gender and American Jews: Patterns in Work, Education, and Family in Contemporary Life Dvora E. Weisberg, Levirate Marriage and the Family in Ancient Judaism Ellen M. 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No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any elec- tronic or mechanical means, including storage and retrieval systems, without permission in writing from the publisher, except by a reviewer, who may quote brief passages in a re- view. Members of educational institutions and organizations wishing to photocopy any of the work for classroom use, or authors and publishers who would like to obtain permission for any of the material in the work, should contact Permissions, University Press of New England, One Court Street, Lebanon, NH 03766. This book was published with the generous support of the Lucius N. Littauer Foundation. Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data Weisberg, Dvora E. Levirate marriage and the family in ancient Judaism / Dvora E. Weisberg. — 1st ed. p. cm. — (HBI series on Jewish women) Includes bibliographical references and index. ISBN 978-1-58465-781-1 (cloth : alk. paper) 1. Levirate — History. 2. Rabbinical literature — History and criticism. 3. Bible. O.T. — Criticism, interpretation, etc. I. Title. kbm563.w45 2009 296.1'2083068— dc 22 2009000999 University Press of New England is a member of the Green Press Initiative. The paper used in this book meets their minimum requirement for recycled paper. This book is dedicated to the memory of my teacher DR. BARUCH M. BOKSER Rabbi Eleazar ben Shammua said: Let the honor of your student be as dear to you as your own . and your awe of your teacher like your awe of Heaven. (Pirkei Avot 4:12) Contents Foreword ix Acknowledgments xi Note on Translations and Abbreviations xiii Introduction xv 1 The Institution of Levirate 1 2 Levirate from the Hebrew Bible Through the Mishnah 23 3 Mapping the Family 45 4 Brothers 97 5 From Wife to Widow and Back Again 123 6 Paternity and Continuity 167 7 Conclusion 195 Notes 207 Bibliography 231 Index 235 Foreword The Hadassah-Brandeis Institute (HBI) is delighted to present this study of the nuclear family in ancient Judaism by Dvora E. Weisberg, associ- ate professor of rabbinic literature and director of the Simha and Sara Lainer Beit Midrash at Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Re- ligion in Los Angeles. In this engagingly written book, Weisberg offers fresh ideas about Jews and gender, the very purpose for which the HBI was established. Her subject matter specifically is the levirate widow, “a woman whose husband has died without children” and who therefore must be available to her brother-in-law for marriage. What can we learn from the predicament of such a woman? Weisberg shows us that examining the levirate widow enables us to consider “the status of women as they move in and out of families through marriage.” The levirate widow is in a liminal place between family membership and non-membership, between childlessness and possible motherhood, between acceptance and rejection. Although hers is not a work of anthropology, Weisberg understands that because there is “relatively little information about levirate in an- cient Israel, it is helpful to supplement that information with data from other societies.” She also wisely discusses the functions that levirate marriage served for ancient Israelites and “why it was problematic for the early rabbis.” Ultimately, however, Weisberg does not limit her attention to the bonds between brothers, between husband and wife, or between father [ ix ] Foreword and child. Instead, her goal is to reflect on what takes precedence in Jew- ish decision-making. First, the nuclear family takes precedence over the extended family—an unusual argument to emerge from a study of how widows are expected to marry their brothers-in-law if there are no male heirs. Second, the individual takes precedence over any group. As she puts it, “the rabbis emphasize . their concern for individual men and women, whose marriage choices the rabbis defend against the claims of the deceased and the extended family” (emphasis added). Moreover, the living take precedence over the dead. The freedom to choose — at least for the men — reigns supreme. But in the man’s free- dom to choose lies the kernel of the woman’s options as well, for if the living brother does not choose her, then she is not bound to him and can make a new way for herself. Levirate Marriage and the Family in Ancient Judaism joins many other books in the HBI Series on Jewish Women that offer new readings of an- cient texts. These include Anne Lapidus Lerner’s Eternally Eve: Images of Eve in the Hebrew Bible, Midrash, and Modern Jewish Poetry; Rahel R. Wasserfall’s Women and Water: Menstruation in Jewish Life and Law; Elizabeth Wyner Mark’s The Covenant of Circumcision: New Perspectives on an Ancient Jewish Rite; Rochelle L. Millen’s Women, Birth, and Death in Jewish Law and Practice; Judith R. Baskin’s Midrashic Women: Forma- tions of the Feminine in Rabbinic Literature and Tamar Ross’s Expanding the Palace of Torah: Orthodoxy and Feminism. It is my sincere hope that, singly and together, these books are deep- ening our understanding of the gendered meaning of Jewish texts and practices. Shulamit Reinharz Brandeis University November 2008 [ x ] Acknowledgments I am grateful for the friends and colleagues whose suggestions and ques- tions have enriched this work, including Rachel Adler, Judith Baskin, Eugene Cooper, Yakov Elman, Tamara Eskenazi, Joel Gereboff, Sharon Gillerman, Bernard Jackson, Gail Labovitz, Stephen Passamaneck, Leonard Plotnicov, and Ron Reissberg. I am also grateful to my readers at UPNE, whose critiques helped me revise the book. I want to thank Rachel Timoner and Andrea Namaste for their help in preparing the manuscript. My editor, Phyllis Deutsch, has been a joy to work with. My family has been an incredible source of support. My children, Mi- cah and Noah, have tolerated learning much more about levirate mar- riage than they ever wanted to. Noah has pushed me forward by threat- ening to write his own book. Micah is a careful reader, whose sense of style has enriched my own writing. My husband, Neal, has encouraged me during the difficult moments in my work and cheered me on during my successes. This book is dedicated to my doctoral adviser, Dr. Baruch Bokser, z”l. Dr. Bokser not only helped me become a scholar; he was an exceptional model of a teacher. From the moment he became my teacher until his death, Dr. Bokser was a devoted adviser, even reading portions of my dissertation in his hospital bed.