the Jewish bserver www.jewishobservernashville.org Vol. 85 No. 12 • December 2020 15 Kislev-16 - Tevet 5781 Happy Chanukah Human Services The Temple’s New Outdoor Learning Relief Matching Environment is a Bright Spot in Fund Gets a Boost Thanks Uncertain Times to Community’s By BARBARA DAB “Outdoor play is among the great- Response est gifts we can give our children; and healthy, adventurous, and curious children By BARBARA DAB are among the greatest gifts we can give our he Jewish Federation and communities.” – Kit Crawford TJewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee is pleased to ucked away on the hillside next to announce that the Jewish Federations of TThe Temple’s Belle Meade site, a North America has selected Nashville wonderland beckons children to come to receive an increase in the amount outside and discover, play and learn. of money available from the JFNA’s Natural winding paths lead through inter- Human Services Relief Matching active landscape, water features and play Fund. As previously reported, the equipment, all designed to develop criti- fund is helping local Federations in cal thinking, creativity and problem solv- their work to provide critical services ing. The brand new Outdoor Learning in the community for individuals and Environment is the culmination of a families facing the economic impact three year dream by Corye Nelson, The of the pandemic. Donations are being Temple’s Preschool Director. Along matched on a 1:2 basis for both new Continued on page 2 gifts and increases through December 31, 2020. Eric Stillman, CEO of The Jewish Federation says, “The increased Healing the Political Divide: Braver Angels portion of a donation will be increased by 50% as a result of this match.” Workshop Promotes Unity Through Understanding The Nashville Jewish communi- ty’s response has been overwhelmingly “We started with some real brave angels… people on both sides of the spectrum positive, and the result is an increase in the overall funds it is possible to who were courageous to speak up, to be vulnerable, to be willing to engage earn from JFNA. Steven Hirsch, President of The Jewish Federation, and to listen.” – Rabbi Shana Mackler, The Temple says, “The Human Services Match program is a great example of the By BARBARA DAB 1970s, there wasn’t even a big difference The national organization, Braver Federation’s ‘power of the collective.’ between the parties, until the evan- Angels, was created in the wake of the Seven national Jewish Foundations he recent elections both made his- gelical movement took control of the 2016 election when the founders, seeing have enabled this challenge match for Ttory and further highlighted a divide Republican party,” he says, “And by and the division and what they perceived to all Federations. Nashville can capture in this country that has left some peo- large, Jewish Republicans remain outli- be an inability to communicate across the $72,000 in matching funds to boost ple estranged from friends and family, ers.” Here in Nashville, Jews comprise aisle, decided to take bold steps to bring our own campaign and increase the and others feeling bewildered by those the full spectrum of political leanings, people together. Participants from the amount of money that we can provide they thought they knew. And while left, right and everything in between. two major political parties were invited to locally.” The Jewish Federation will data and statistics tell one story about And the issues that concern them are a workshop where they would be encour- work through local partner agencies in Jewish political behavior in America, equally diverse, ranging from the econ- aged to both communicate their views and the community to provide assistance anecdotal evidence tells another, more omy, to Israel, to healthcare, climate to listen to the opposing side. From that for things like emergency financial complex one. According to Kenneth change and, most recently, the gov- beginning has sprung a movement with aid, food, mental and physical health Wald, Distinguished Professor Emeritus ernment’s handling of the COVID19 chapters all around the country, including and safety, emergency operating sup- of Political Science at the University pandemic. Politics is also a difficult issue in Tennessee. Lynn Heady, Co-Director port for local human service and edu- of Florida, Jews in America have been for most people to discuss; without being of Field Operations for the Tennessee cational agencies and assistance for disproportionately Democratic since sure where someone lands, there are fears chapter, says it is gratifying to see the Continued on page 2 the early 1920s. He says, “Until the of offending or worse, being called out. Continued on page 13

A Publication of the Reflections Jewish The Encounter December in From Our Federation that changed the Gordon JCC Partners in the Archives Rabbi Jonathan Galleries, Hadera-Eiron Helps Return Sacks’ life, page 20 Region of Israel, 95-Year-Old page 15 page 7 Diploma to Family, page 9 WWW.JEWISHNASHVILLE.ORG Outdoor Learning Fishel, parents of Lori Ann Fishel, say of this uncertain, unstable and anxious this tangible recognition of our response they are pleased to be able to help fund moment in time—in all ways— we have to the needs of future generations of both Continued from page 1 the Outdoor Learning Environment. focused our energies and resources in our Temple family as well as the wider with synagogue member and former “Once we learned the design would be moving the congregation forward, with community.” • teacher, Lisa Shmerling, the two began inclusive and accessible to children with the process of creating a master plan special needs, we decided to contribute and securing funding. Nelson says, “I to this impressive project.” was inspired by another similar space I’d As visitors to the Outdoor Learning seen and just knew our site was perfect Environment make their way through, for something like this.” She adds that a striking feature is that every ele- engaging the entire Temple community ment appears to have been careful- was key to the project’s success. ly planned to engage children with As the COVID19 pandemic closed very few limitations. Corye Nelson schools and sent students home, the says, “Intentionality was our main goal. project moved forward. Lisa Shmerling We wanted the outdoor classroom to says, “It was unfortunate that the school reflect the same vision and planning had to close, but it also gave us the time as the indoor ones.” Indeed even the to build.” And build it, they did. Grants landscape greenery is user friendly and from The Jewish Federation and Jewish invites children to touch and feel the Foundation of Nashville and Middle tactile differences. Whimsical mirrors Tennessee and the Lori Ann Fishel and play equipment encourage imagina- Fund, as well as donations from congre- tive play. And at the heart of the space gants, allowed the project to proceed is what is called, “the Piazza,” a circular and ensure it is both safe from a security gathering space where children of all standpoint, and inclusive for children ages can come together. The Piazza of all abilities. A security fence, soon will also be used in festival and holiday to be installed, is being funded through celebrations. the Jewish Federation’s commitment The Outdoor Learning Environment to make Nashville’s Jewish community is currently being used by The Temple’s spaces as safe and secure as possible. Lori preschool as the religious school is being Fishel, Chair of The Federation Security held remotely. But the long term plan is Committee says it’s exciting to see The for all of the congregation’s children to Federation’s security grant help to build be able to enjoy the space. And while something new. She says, “This is one the project took years in the concep- of the only grants that is helping to cre- tion, planning and building, it garnered ate something new that will benefit our immediate support from the congrega- community. Most of the other grants tion and Board of Directors. President are used to improve on existing safety Jim Marks says, “We are very pleased features.” And the overall accessible about this project. This is an investment design elements, such as a natural wood for the long term and will be a wonderful carpet, synthetic grasses and water fea- addition to our synagogue for years to tures, were made possible by an inclusion come.” And Rabbi Mark Schiftan says grant from the Lori Ann Fishel Fund. that despite the difficult times everyone The Fund aims to provide people with is facing, this project reflects what he disabilities the opportunity to live a full says is the long range vision and, “Esprit and meaningful life. James and Royce de corps,” of The Temple, “Even in spite

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22 December 2020 • The Jewish Observer Perspectives Black Lives Matter Leadership Promoting BDS Should Concern All Jews

By JOANNE BREGMAN, MICHAEL serves as the Co-Founder and Executive a leader and spokesman for the BLM Alan Dershowitz has been willing DOBRIN and BERNARD A. PARGH Director Black Lives Matter Global movement. Warner Bros. has recent- to call them out but also insists that the Network Foundation which is incorpo- ly signed a deal with her providing a Jewish community, “must stand up and ith the Abraham Accords shifting rated in Delaware. The BLM Foundation wide-reaching platform for her messag- be heard against those who would exploit Wrelationships in the Middle East, which Cullors leads, is the fiscal arm of ing. Organizations pushing BDS like the tragedies to foment violence against Jews the Boycott, Divestment & Sanctions the movement disbursing grants to a wide U.S. Campaign for Palestinian Rights is and the nation state of the Jewish people.” (BDS) activists are doubling down on variety of Black-led groups but reserving a reciprocally bootstrapping their cause to It should not be on the Jewish com- their campaign against Israel. Unlike the fund of over $6 million dollars specifical- BLM because they recognize the reach munity to accommodate this part of the 2002 Arab Peace Initiative, the Abraham ly for its network of affiliate chapters. In and influence of the BLM movement. BLM movement. Regardless, Jewish lead- Accord mediated by the Trump adminis- September 2020, Cullors announced that In 2015, Cullors’ public messaging ership has generally turned a blind eye to tration required no pre-conditions from its 17 named chapters, including ones after visiting the, “occupied Palestinian the unwarranted demonization of Israel Israel in exchange for its right to exist. in Memphis and Nashville, had, “come territory,” was that Israel, “is an apart- and increasingly, Jews in general, which Nor does the Abraham Accord require together to build Black Lives Matter heid state. We can’t deny that and if we certain BLM leaders have embedded in Israel to absorb the grossly over-inflated Grassroots (BLM Grassroots).” Cullors do deny it, we are a part of the Zionist their movement. number of Palestinian, “refugees.” publicly identifies herself as a promoter violence.” In a 2019 interview with Al The Jewish community can and Equally stunning is that Arab states of BDS. She also has been explicit about, Jazeera she affirmed BLM’s commitment should continue to stand against all forms normalizing relations with Israel are “laying the foundation,” and deepening to BDS, “[w]e realized we [BLM activists] of racism but reject any organization doing so regardless of Palestinian objec- the commitment to be more public in needed to take our solidarity [with the whose positions are antithetical to our tions. The Abraham Accords have essen- BLM’s solidarity with Palestinians and BDS campaign] a step further. We had best interests. tially reduced the Palestinian issue to a the spread of anti-Israel activism to BLM to be more public.” Cullors steadfast land dispute to be resolved, if at all, local- affiliated groups. commitment to BDS strongly suggests a Bernard A. Pargh ly. Whether this happens will depend In Philadelphia, home to named top-down infusion of anti-Israel activism Joanne Bregman on whether decades of intransigence by Philly BLM chapter, several Orthodox in leading her movement. Michael Dobrin the Palestinian Arabs will continue as Jewish men attempted to join, in solidar- the obstacle to peace. Decades of blood- ity, with the recent BLM protest against shed have accompanied the refusal by another police shooting. However, they Palestinian leadership to accept, or even were cursed and physically chased away make a counter proposal to numerous while being told, “this ain’t your fight.” offers of peace even when accompanied On the other end of the Jewish spectrum, Community Relations by land. BLM is signaling to liberal and progres- Middle East watch dog organizations sive Jews that they have to choose a side like Scholars for Peace in the Middle – them or Israel. Aggressive anti-Israel Committee East and the Institute for Black Solidarity activist Linda Sarsour, a featured speaker with Israel have observed that a by-prod- at a Tennessee Islamist organization, was uct of the Abraham Accords, albeit we an early purveyor of the same idea when Public Education: think a negative one, is to have pushed she declared that feminism and Zionism BDS activists to more closely align with don’t go together. Equalizer or Divider? the BLM movement. One of the BLM Describing BLM as a diffuse organi- By DEBORAH OLESHANSKY University’s Leadership, Policy and leaders, co-founder Patrisse Cullors, also zation with no hierarchal leadership, is Organizations program, and science irrelevant. The reality is that the media n May 17, 1954, the US Supreme teacher coach for Metro Nashville Public c c c c continues to turn to Patrisse Cullors as OCourt, in a unanimous 9-0 deci- Schools through the Teaching and STAFF sion, ruled, “separate educational facili- Learning department, will moderate this ties are inherently unequal,” and violate discussion. Publisher Eric Stillman Corrections Policy the Equal Protection Clause of the 14th To register for this program please Editor Barbara Dab The Jewish Observer is committed to Amendment. The decision required the contact Michal Eskenazi Becker, michal@ Advertising Manager Carrie Mills making corrections and clarifications end of racial segregation in schools with- jewishnashville.org Layout and Production Tim Gregory promptly. 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The Observer • December 2020 3 Donor Spotlight Ann and Bob Eisenstein: A Legacy to Secure the Future of Jewish Nashville By BARBARA DAB committed and influential leaders. B’nai B’rith. Ann also left a lasting support Israel. They demonstrated these Both Ann and Bob played pivotal legacy. She was involved in Jewish ideals during their lifetime and their eadership, commitment to Nashville’s roles in shaping Nashville’s Jewish com- Family Services in Nashville and served legacies will continue to shape the future LJewish community and support for munity. Bob held leadership positions as President for several years. She served of Jewish Nashville. Their children, Dan Israel; that is the legacy of Ann and for The Jewish Federation and Jewish on the Board of Directors for the Jewish Eisenstein and Nan Speller, said their Bob Eisenstein. Through the Robert D. Foundation of Nashville and Middle Federation and Jewish Foundation of goal was for the Jewish community to and Ann F. Eisenstein Fund for Senior Tennessee, The Kiwanis Club, The Nashville and Middle Tennessee, remain strong and vibrant for future Transportation and the Robert D. and National Council of Jewish Federations, National Women’s Cabinet of United generations. “Our parents would like to Ann F. Eisenstein Endowment Fund for The American Jewish Committee, The Jewish Appeal, and the Jewish Welfare be remembered for their commitment the Gordon Jewish Community Center, Gordon Jewish Community Center, The Foundation. During their involvement, to the Nashville Jewish community, the the work they undertook during their Council of Community Services, The Bob and Ann mentored the younger gen- City of Nashville, and Israel.” If you are lifetimes to promote the values they held Council on Aging, United Way, The eration and built a generation of leaders interested in creating a legacy and start- most dear, can continue. In addition to Temple Ohabai Shalom, St. Thomas in the Nashville Jewish community. ing a fund at the Jewish Foundation, con- the endowment funds, which are housed Hospital Medical Board, The Holocaust Bob and Ann felt that the Jewish tact Shannon Small, Financial Resource at The Jewish Foundation, Ann and Bob Committee of Vanderbilt University, people are obligated to be active partic- Philanthropic Officer at 615-354-1651 or left a legacy through giving their time as The Nashville Real Estate Board, and ipants in the Jewish community and to [email protected]. •

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The Observer • December 2020 5 Chabad of Nashville to Present the 75/75 Challenge habad of Nashville will be hosting Chabad has assisted hundreds of families Ca very exciting year-end fundraising faced with these obstacles and has also campaign. The, “I Believe in Chabad provided families with scholarship funding 75/75 Challenge,” will kick off Sunday, for children to receive a Jewish education December 6, at 3:00 PM, and will continue at the Revere Jewish Montessori preschool. until Wednesday, December 9, at 6:00 PM. No child was left out in the cold, even when Hanukkah at the JCC in 2020 If $75,000 is raised in 75 hours, it will be their parents lost their employment due to matched dollar for dollar by several gener- COVID. For 75 hours, the Nashville com- By GORDON JCC STAFF sufganiot will be available for take-out. ous local donors. “I Believe in Chabad,” is munity will be able to show their support Visit www.nashvillejcc.org/hannukahfest the time for the Jewish community to unite for the important and far-reaching work of anukkah Fest is a time-honored to make your reservations and/or place efforts to strengthen Jewish life, build a Chabad of Nashville and the Revere Jewish HGordon JCC tradition and we your order. bright future and to ensure Jewish continu- Montessori Preschool. love to see hundreds of people, from And if you need candles, dreidels, ity in Middle Tennessee. There is no better All names of participants in the multi-generations, come together in the and gelt for your home, we have you time than today to support the future of Chabad of Nashville 75/75 End of Year Auditorium to play, sing, and, of course, covered too! Our Hanukkah Store in Jewish life in Nashville. No donation is too campaign will be included in a special eat latkes together! This year may be the lobby is now open. We also have small and each one, appreciated..” prayer that we will be recited on their different, but we have been working dil- lots of fun gift ideas, Hanukkah decora- “Tzedakah (charity) is equal to all the behalf for a year of good health and success igently to find a way to bring Hanukkah tions, gift bags, and fun greeting cards other commandments combined.” The, in all of their endeavors. Fest to you in 2020. by Menschions. Looking for the hottest “I Believe in Chabad,” fundraiser is now For more information about the 75/75 On Sunday, December 13th from accessory of the 2020 Hanukkah season? in its fifth year, but the challenges of the Challenge and to learn about how you 2-4pm, you can stay in your car and wind We also have Hanukkah masks made COVID19 pandemic mean there is greater can make a difference, visit www.chabad- around the Gordon JCC campus (did you here in Nashville, for sale! They come need than ever before. More people find nashville.com/match on December 6, at know we have 40 acres?!) stopping at in adult and child sizes and are $6 each. themselves in need of services such as 3:00 PM, thru Thursday, December 9, at eight stops, each run by a different JCC Stop by the J to pick yours up today. financial, emotional and spiritual support. 6:00 PM, or call 615-646-5750. • department, to find a way to celebrate. Not ready to walk in the building yet? You can also get out if you would like and We have also set up an online store with the weather cooperates, to enjoy music, curbside pickup, at store.nashvillejcc.org. learn to Israeli dance, and make craft Supplies are limited, so order today! projects. We will also have take-home This year will be our way of address- Rescheduled: West End activities and surprises at every stop. So, ing the needs of the community in a new load up your family and try a little Gefilte unique way. We are confident that you Synagogue Night Live fishing, visit our photo booth, and spin will leave here feeling fulfilled and happy. the wheel for prizes! We are making every effort to mitigate the No Gordon JCC Hanukkah Fest risks this year yet still infuse the celebra- featuring Nashville would be complete without Bernie’s tion with light! For more information and Famous Latkes. Bernie and his team are to make your reservations and food order, native Jeremy Pinsly cooking again, so your last stop will be for visit nashvillejcc.org/hanukkahfest. some golden-fried goodness to take home We can’t wait to celebrate with est End Synagogue dy mashup podcast with 89 for your family celebration. Latkes and you! • Whas rescheduled their year old comedic actress, Dev annual fundraiser, West Rogers, called, “The Young & End Synagogue Night Live The Weary.” For more infor- ªXßÀ0(XyXyJXy!„„m²§ªXyJ² (WESNL). The event will mation about Pinsly please§ےªÇy!R ےmÇy!RےR§§æR„ǪےXyy0ª) now be held virtually on visit www.JeremyPinsly.com Sunday, January 17, 2021 at Additionally, the evening {{fÐ{³žQ{iU(Кž­Ðɗ 6 p.m. will feature a joke competi- The two-hour event will tion with video submissions feature a set by performer for an opportunity to win priz- Jeremy Pinsly. Pinsly, original- es in several categories. 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And then the idea arose – I would do exercise (it was permitted to go out to walk and run) and I would tell the chil- dren to go out onto the balcony on the fifth floor. Standing in the street, trying to see Hod and hoping he would under- stand who is standing downstairs making funny motions with her hands at him. After about two months, I decid- ed that that’s it – I must see this cute toddler who I miss so much. I came to their home wearing a mask and he does Sarah Reiner not understand what is happening – with him and together we look at the everyone was wearing a mask. This is drawings. I explain to him each draw- Grandma? She definitely does not look ing and teach him each mood. Are we like the grandma he knows. Hod started raising a generation of children for whom Roy Talmor with his newborn baby girl. to go to preschool, and in preschool, facial expressions will be a mystery? the teacher, his mother, and all the We are expecting our second grand- Every woman who comes to the other mothers – are all wearing masks. child in a few months. And I hope delivery room or maternity ward under- Grandma comes to take him from pre- that this grandchild will be born into a goes a coronavirus examination. If by school – and she is also wearing a mask. different world – a world without masks, chance a woman comes who tests positive, What is going on here? Maia Talmor with her newborn daughter, without social distancing, and with many Renana she is immediately transferred to a special Several months went by, the second hugs from all the family. maternity ward in another building. lockdown has passed, and the masks are Birth in the Time In the end, the experience of giving still here. And I think – how will the lit- Sarah Reiner has lived in Hadera since birth is different as a result of the corona- tle children, and especially Hod, learn to 1973. Since her retirement four years ago, of the Coronavirus virus but the result is worth it all. know when the people around them are she has been the Chairperson of the Hadera happy, sad, angry, laughing? Can a one- branch of the Women’s International Zionist By MAIA ISHAI TALMOR Maia Ishai Talmor is a volunteer year-old child decipher social situations Organization, volunteering primarily with on the Steering Committee of the P2G like this, just by voice, tone of speaking women and children suffering from domestic hen I imagined the birth of my Hadera-Eiron region. She was born and and glances with their eyes? violence. She is also an active member of the Wdaughter, I never thought it would raised in Hadera and is a fourth generation I bought Hod a book in which an P2G Committee and visisted Nashville last happen in the time of the Coronavirus. resident. Her family was among the first to illustrated boy is portrayed – sometimes year. Her busy schedule with WIZO doesn’t With excitement I expected to go on live in the former settlement, current city, sad, sometimes happy, sometimes crying. allow her much free time, but every chance she tours of the delivery rooms and to attend of Hadera. She is the brand new mother of And when Hod comes over to us, I sit gets, she spends with her sweet grandson. • prenatal classes. Renana and is married to Roy. In her free I thought my husband, my mother time, she enjoys hiking in nature, watching and maybe even a good friend would get TV and relaxing at home with a good book excited together with me in the delivery and some music. room at the sound of my child’s first, sweet cry. I imagined the midwife stand- Grandma During ing next to me, supporting me and help- Happy Chanukah ing me breathe, all with a soothing smile. the Coronavirus But then, with the start of the Coronavirus, the whole world turned By SARAH REINER upside down. Social distance had to be maintained. All the classes went to srael is a small country and we, the distance learning, including the prena- IIsraelis, have the privilege that our tal classes. There are no more tours of children and grandchildren live close to Belle Meade Plaza delivery rooms, and it is even preferable us. We live in Hadera, a city of about 4500 Harding Road to stay as far away as possible from the 100,000 residents. 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8 December 2020 • The Jewish Observer Jewish Federation Archives Helps Return 95-Year-Old Diploma to Family By BARBARA DAB the, “unofficial historian,” of MNPS, but Fleischer learned the describes how he found the diploma in a names of the Wasserman’s his story begins, as so many these store in Daytona Beach, Florida and said adult daughters, neither of Tdays, with a social media post. In it was his desire to return the document whom live in Nashville. mid-October Metro Nashville School to the Wasserman family. After additional internet Board Member, Gini Pupo-Walker, took Over the next couple of weeks and sleuthing, and outreach to a shot at posting a photo on Twitter thanks to the investigative ingenuity of a synagogue in Houston, of retired Metro Schools employee, Pupo-Walker, the diploma’s story made Fleischer found Lani Thomas Hatfield, standing next to a its way to Lynn Fleischer, Archive Wasserman Rose, one of framed Hume-Fogg High School diplo- Associate at the Annette Levy Ratkin Aaron’s daughters. Rose ma. The document is dated 1924 and Jewish Community Archives of the Jewish was put in touch with bears the name of Nashvillian Aaron Federation and Jewish Foundation of Gini Pupo-Walker and Wasserman. The tweet, which reads in Nashville and Middle Tennessee. Fleischer the diploma was returned part, “Twitter, do you see this diploma? immediately got to work researching to the Wasserman family. Metro Schools, “unofficial historian, Thomas Hatfield Mr. Hatfield wants to find the family Aaron Wasserman in the archives. She In an email, Rose says, stands next to Aaron Wasserman’s 1924 diploma from of 1924 Hume-Fogg High School grad- looked through obituaries in both print and “Our family is so excited. Hume-Fogg uate Aaron Wasserman and give it to online, checked with local synagogues and It will be so meaningful to illustrates why archives are so important them,” links to an article on the Metro cemeteries, and finally found an obituary receive my father’s graduation certificate. to a community, and why she loves her Nashville Public Schools website fea- for Florence Wasserman, Aaron’s wife. He was reputed to be an excellent work, “It was a great sleuthing effort that turing Hatfield. In the article Hatfield, Aaron had, in fact, predeceased Florence, student.” Fleischer says this story really paid off.” • Notes from Noam By NOAM HARARI since the debut concert, and I wanted So many talented people took part ISRAELI SHLICHA (EMISSARY) to share it again. in this amazing project! I’m very proud It’s difficult to put this project into in all the videos ast spring I produced a musical words. I keep watching all the videos And now all that’s left is to share Lproject to bring together musicians over and over again. To me each video this amazing playlist with everyone. in Nashville with musicians in Israel. tells a different story and represents To learn more about NASHir or The goal was for each partnership to the amazing collaboration created any of the other programs and initiatives create a music video to share in a virtu- here. Despite the distance and the I am working on, email me or look for al concert, called, “NASHir Together.” differences, the music brought them me on social media. Musicians in two countries bridged the all together to bring a smile in difficult [email protected] distance using technology, creativity times, no matter where in the world Noam Harari Shlicha on Facebook and skill. It has now been six months we are. noamnashville on Instagram •

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10 December 2020 • The Jewish Observer Middle School Diaries: You gotta make the shot…but, do you? By JAY RIVEN them what they already know, whether they are 9 or 14, and generally it neither t was one of those “throw away” com- helps nor motivates. Iments, and one I’ve heard countless I remember this basketball incident times since I started listening for it. It because I recall how much of a coinci- was at an off-season dence it was that I was reading Jessica basketball league Lahey’s The Gift of Failure. Simply brows- game at one of those ing the table of contents can give you the huge, loud sports gist of the content: intrinsic motivation, complexes with mul- autonomy and competence, praise (or the HAPPY tiple gym floors under “damage that comes from praise), self-es- one roof. We were teem, and, of course, the merits of failure CHANUKAH there supporting our and mistakes, especially at the formative son’s team, probably years of Middle School. In the introduc- a bunch of 4th or 5th Jay Riven tion alone, Lahey writes, “We have taught graders at the time. our kids to fear failure and, in doing so, As were most games, it was low scoring yet we have blocked the surest and clearest super close, down-to-the wire, very tense, path to their success. The setbacks, mis- and very exciting, especially if you’re one takes, miscalculations and failures we have of the parents. A little boy from the other shoved out of our children’s way are the team was at the foul line with the chance very experiences that teach them how to LOOKING FOR to tie the game. He took his shot and be resourceful, persistent, innovative and SOMEONE TO missed. That is when someone from the resilient citizens of this world.” Middle stands, likely his mother or annoying older School and younger is the ideal time for TAKE YOU IN A sister, yelled, “You gotta make those!” a child to make mistakes and learn to face Well, duh. and navigate failure. Not only are the NEW DIRECTION? I’m guessing that he knew he needed stakes lower, but there are caring adults to make that shot. I’m also guessing he within close proximity to help guide their really wanted to make that shot. And, children through the process. I’m sure    I’m guessing, when he missed it, he was we all have that friend who never got his both embarrassed and discouraged. This heart broken or failed her first test until 30 Burton Hills Blvd. was now the mindset he had when he college and seeing how hard it was for that lined up for the second foul shot, which individual. (By college, for good or ill, I Suite 300 he also missed. was a pro at both.) Nashville, TN 37215 Robins It made me start to think about what I’m no basketball coach. Yet, I can’t Insurance we tell our children that is completely help but think that the little foul shooter 615-665-9200 either unnecessary or, worse, defeating. did not need an adult pointing out his www.robinsins.com Agency, Inc. Maybe it’s about grades (“You need to do failure, especially in such a public forum. better on these.”), friends (“You should I’d like to assume the parent in the stands get out more and play at other people’s was well-meaning, as all of us who are house.”) or activities (“That kind of per- parents, but like our children, we all have formance is not going to get you a larger room to grow. • role.”). Perhaps we say these things out of concern or some twisted logic under the Jay Riven is co-Head of School at guise of motivation, but it’s not. We tell Jewish Middle School of Nashville. "%# ("'!  $'$'&! &*)*)"%# ("'!  $'$'&! &*)*)(( )*

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The Observer • December 2020 11 2020 Nashville Jewish Film Festival a “Virtual” Success!

By FRAN BRUMLIK 20th anniversary NJFF would continue despite COVID19. Thank you to all our he 2020 Nashville Jewish Film screeners who, though it was a shortened TFestival was a resounding success screening period, watched many, many as we celebrated 20 years of presenting films (some very good, and some really interesting, educational and informative awful) to help make the decision about films that reflect on contemporary Jewish which would make it into the festival. life. This year, by virtue of being virtual, Thank you to Kurt Meyer, our marketing we were able to enjoy meeting many director for quickly adding to his plate producers, directors, and writers of the the job of technical director. And thank films who were able to join us via Zoom you to all the people who joined us and talk about their films and answer watching 16 wonderful movies. This year questions from viewers. because we were virtual, film goers joined It was a new task for us to learn how us from all over the country and Canada. to present a film festival over cyber space Thank you to Laurie Eskind, Jackie and it was an adventure for many of our Karr, Jamie Brook, Cindy Moskovitz film goers to master the technology, but and Loretta Saff who again gave us the we all did it. Nashville Jewish Film Festival. Thank you to all the generous spon- See you in 2021 - hopefully in sors and donors who ensured that the Nashville Jewish Film Festival Directors, (l to r) Jamie Brook, Loretta Saff, Laurie person. • Eskind, Cindy Moskovitz, Jackie Karr, Fran Brumlik

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12 December 2020 • The Jewish Observer Braver Angels also is often at odds with the prevailing Professor Kenneth Wald says, how- ularly in Nashville’s Jewish community, synagogue culture. He says, “I do get ever, that while it is good to examine how there is agreement that continuing com- Continued from page 1 frustrated by comments that there is so religious values inform political views, munication is the key. Kitty Calhoon organization grow, “People are finally much racial injustice in the world.” when it comes to actual voting it is typ- says, “I do think that small impacts saying, ‘enough,’ it’s time to start talking The Braver Angels workshop asked ically the other way around. “Voting is or changes are important in making and listening to one another.” participants to address how their Jewish not usually shaped by religion. I’ve found a difference, for individuals and com- One of Braver Angels’ workshops, values shape and inform their political that people shape their religious views munities, and that having many such called, “With Malice Toward None,” views. What is notable is that both around their political views,” he says, events in a community adds up to sub- is designed to help congregations and conservatives and liberals shared some “And any major religion has within it stantial impact and change.” Others faith communities build trust and respect common themes, particularly that every- the resources to support any political ori- in the Braver Angels workshop echoed among the members. The two-ses- one is made in the image of God and entation.” Michael Oppenheimer shares her views. And Rabbi Shana Mackler sion workshop was conducted recently that it is important to accept and respect that position, “My political views are not believes the model being taught in the in Nashville in partnership with The people for who they are. Rabbi Shana tied to religious teachings or spirituality,” workshop will help give people the tools Community Relations Committee of Mackler agrees that when it comes to he says, “I focus on being a good person, to work toward healing. “One way to The Jewish Federation, Congregation shared values, there is no fundamental being civil. I don’t think the world is a do this is to not try to convince others, Micah and The Temple. Attendees divide, “Judaism has always been about bad place and I focus on this country in not speak from what the late, great poet comprised members of local synagogues being partners with God in bringing jus- particular.” Nevertheless, Kenneth Wald Yehuda Amichai called “the place where and others from the Nashville Jewish tice to the world, advocating and arguing says Jewish culture does lean toward what we are right”, but rather from our fears community. Lynn Heady says the goal for that justice (with humans and even he calls, “classic liberalism,” with a cen- and our doubts – and maybe our hopes was to begin to de-polarize the commu- with God), and for seeking and pursuing tral belief in the separation of church and -which we all have – perhaps there we nity, “Our community is diverse and this peace. Politically speaking, people on state. “Jews have always understood that can find some common ground to grow. election galvanized people around some both sides of the spectrum may disagree their rights and benefits in this country I think we can invite others, through a key issues. Our goal was not to change on how to do that, but the mandate in are not based on religion.” program or a simple phone call, to have a minds, but to encourage people to listen Judaism is clear.” In looking toward the future, partic- conversation.” • to each other.” The workshops involved communication and listening techniques as well as exercises that allowed folks on each side to answer questions about their political opinions without being judged or criticized. Breakout rooms were Happy Chanukah! the final part, allowing small groups of people on both sides, and a facilitator, to discuss what they experienced. In one of Wishing you every happiness this Holiday the breakout rooms, one of the partici- Season and throughout the coming year! pants who identifies as a conservative, expressed his anxiety about being in a predominantly liberal congregation, but felt the workshop was a safe place to have a conversation about his views. Liberal LEADERSHIP TEAM OUTSTANDING AGENTS participants expressed fears about the current President’s reluctance to admit defeat and what they perceive as unbri- dled support for the President. As the election recedes into the past, what remains in Nashville’s Jewish community is the lingering feeling that the country is still divided, that healing will take some time and that there is an urgent need for understanding and improved civil discourse. Rabbi Shana JESSICA AVERBUCH, CEO DOROTHY CURTIS KAROL FARAGALLI Mackler of The Temple, says the polit- 615.294.9880 615.479.0474 615.289.3359 ical divide is real, both in the country overall and in the Jewish community, [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] “Many of us feel unheard, worried or distressed; some feel validated or vindi- cated. All of us feel frustration at some level with the lack of civility around us. And until we intentionally get out of our own echo chambers and bubbles, we may not be able to move forward.” Those sentiments are shared by partic- ipants in the Braver Angels program, but there is also the sense that real change will take time. Kitty Calhoon, SAM AVERBUCH, COO LORNA GRAFF JAY LOWENTHAL NAN SPELLER a liberal Democrat who participated in the workshop and a member of West 615.294.9887 615.351.5343 615.300.3617 615.973.1117 End Synagogue, says she was struck by [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] what she perceived to be pain on the part of the conservatives. “I was sur- prised by their fears about the incoming Biden administration,” she said, “But I felt hope listening to them talk about their desire for civility and respect, and the overall need for decency.” Michael Oppenheimer, a Republican participant in the workshop and member of the Community Relations Committee, is dismayed at the need to have these types of programs at all. He says, “It’s a SHIRLEY ZEITLIN JENNIE ZAGNOEV JACKSON ZEITLIN shame we’ve gotten to this point in our 615.383.0183 615.838.2048 615.479.6461 country. 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14 December 2020 • The Jewish Observer Obituary for Rabbi Jonathan Sacks (JTA) — Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, political issues in a succession of well European politics: Israel and anti-Sem- communities that harbor it,” he wrote. 72, the former chief rabbi of the United received books. His popular commen- itism. Sacks spoke out publicly as In 2017, in a widely circulated YouTube Kingdom whose extensive writings and tary on the prayer book, published by Britain’s Labour Party was engulfed in an video, Sacks called anti-Zionism a new frequent media appearances commanded Koren, helped to dethrone the more tra- anti-Semitism scandal under its previous form of anti-Semitism, arguing that it a global following among Jews and non- ditionalist Artscroll Siddur as the preem- leader Jeremy Corbyn, calling Corbyn an denies Jews the “right to exist collective- Jews alike, has died. He was in the midst inent prayer book in American Modern anti-Semite. “We have an anti-Semite ly with the same rights as everyone else.” of a third bout of cancer, which he had Orthodox synagogues. as the leader of the Labour Party and her Born in London in 1948, Sacks stud- announced in October. Sacks was normally averse to mix- majesty’s opposition. That is why Jews ied at Cambridge University. While a Sacks was among the world’s leading ing religion and politics, something he feel so threatened by Mr. Corbyn and student there in the 60s, he visited Rabbi exponents of Orthodox Judaism for a discussed, along with his latest book, those who support him,” Sacks said in Menachem Schneerson — the spiritual global audience. In his 22 years as chief “Morality: Restoring the Common Good 2018 during an interview with the New leader who is credited with turning the rabbi, he emerged as the most visible in Divided Times,” and an array of Statesman. That judgment paved the Hasidic Chabad-Lubatvitch movement Jewish leader in the United Kingdom and other hot-button topics with the Jewish way for the current British Chief Rabbi into a powerful organizing force of Jewry one of the European continent’s leading Telegraphic Agency in August. Ephraim Mirvis to harshly condemn the around the world — in New York City. Jewish voices, offering Jewish wisdom to “When anger erupts in a body poli- Labour Party, a precedent-setting event Sacks credits that meeting with inspir- the masses through a regular segment he tic, there is quite often a justified cause. in British Jewish life. ing him to get involved with Jewish produced for the BBC. He had a close But then the political domain has got Sacks was also vocal in his opposi- studies. He became the rabbi of the relationship with former British Prime to take that anger and deal with it very tion to the forces that lead to anti-Sem- Golders Green synagogue in London’s Minister Tony Blair, who called Sacks “an fast,” he told JTA’s opinion editor Laura itism on the far left and the far right, most Orthodox neighborhood in the late intellectual giant” and presented him with Adkins. “Because anger exposes the prob- as he wrote in a JTA op-ed in January. 70s and then rabbi of the Marble Arch a lifetime achievement award in 2018. lem but never delivers the solution.” “Anti-Semitism has little to do with Jews synagogue in central London. Sacks was also an immensely prolific But he did take public stances on — they are its object, not its cause — and Sacks is survived by his wife Elaine, author, addressing pressing social and two topics that were often ensnared with everything to do with dysfunction in the three children and several grandchildren•. The Encounter that changed Rabbi Jonathan Sacks’ life By RABBI YITZCHOK TIECHTEL of Chabad Shluchim and delivered the Sacks, who was not observant at the keynote address. That talk inspired me time, took the Rebbe’s call to heart. He “On the day when our forefather Avraham to live my life as a Chabad Shaliach in went on to become the Chief Rabbi of left the world, the leaders of the nations of the Nashville, knowing that we can make it the United Hebrew Congregations of the world stood in a line, in the manner of mourn- all happen, if we wish for it to happen. Commonwealth, a professor, a member of ers, and said: Woe to the world that has lost Rabbi Sacks’ intellectual prowess was the British House of Lords and more. The its leader, and woe to the ship that has lost its evident for all to see from an early age, a list of his achievements and accolades is captain (Talmud. Bava Basra 91a)” rare gift. Yet faced with many options, astonishing. a young bright person may not know Rabbi Sacks heard a holy call-to- t is with profound sadness and heavy which professional path to pursue as the action and act he did! So too must we Ihearts that we learned of the passing world awaits. On more than one occa- turned the tables and is asking me ques- each channel our G-d-given talents to of Chief Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks sion, I heard him share the story of how tions. Rabbi Sacks answered, “Rebbe, in add unique layers to the Jewish world. on Shabbat, November 7, the 20th of his rabbinic journey began. As a young, the situation I find myself if …..”. Before At testing times such as these, we must Cheshvan, 5781. Our world has lost a inquisitive college student, he traveled he finished his sentence, the Rebbe said pause and give thought to how we can global religious leader, prolific author and to meet great Jewish leaders across the to Rabbi Sacks, “A person does not find each honor all that he has given us as we moral voice, respected by world Jewry, and United States. Many graciously answered himself in a situation, he puts himself in collectively struggle to move forward. far beyond. his queries. In New York, he visited a situation, and if he puts himself in one When one of the greatest Jewish People of all ages and stages, from all the Lubavitcher Rebbe. To his surprise, situation, he can put himself in anoth- voices of our generation, such as Rabbi walks of life, have been deeply inspired instead of dutifully hearing answers to er situation.” The Rebbe explained to Jonathan Sacks passes away, there is a and richly educated by Rabbi Sacks’ wis- his questions, the dynamic shifted into a young Master Sacks – who at the time tangible vacuum left behind, it is up to us dom. He had a unique ability to share role reversal and he was asked questions was deliberating whether to study eco- to fill that void. His mission was to make knowledge garnered, taking the most posed by the Rebbe himself. “How many nomics or law – that the Jewish world was Judaism more relatable and understand- complex, abstract ideas and communi- Jewish students are there on your univer- in a real crisis with ignorance our greatest able to the masses. That is us. Perhaps cating them so they could be understood sity campus at Cambridge? What are you enemy. Therefore, it was Sacks’ obliga- that is why so many around the globe and absorbed by all. I had the opportu- doing to involve them in Jewish life?” tion to help, utilize his talents to study have felt this loss so personally. nity of meeting him only once, when Rabbi sacks thought to himself, I came and teach Torah. “That encounter and May his memory inspire us, so that he attended the Annual Convention to ask the Rebbe questions, and here he conversation changed my life,” he wrote. we too can become a blessing. Amen! • Local responses to the death of Rabbi Jonathan Sacks Rabbi Sacks was an inspiration. A today. He was not particularly supportive Rabbi Sacks was a world-renowned he uniquely exemplified and articulated learned man who was proud of his Jewish of liberal Judaism, but that did not dimin- scholar, teacher and leader who inspired, a worldview and mission to the broader identity and, yet, fully immersed in the ish how much I have learned and have influenced and empowered world Jewry, Jewish people and the world at large. His universal teachings of philosophy, ethics been influenced by his teaching. When global leaders and communities through- legacy will continue through all those who and the like. He was an example of the he would teach, write, speak or post, he out the world. He demonstrated the have been elevated by his teaching. ways we can bridge between the par- brought in wisdom from sources Jewish enduring importance of God and religious – Rabbi Saul Strosberg, Congregation ticular and the universal, and how we and not, religious and not – reminding values in our contemporary society. And Sherith Israel can be part of the wider community by us to be open to learning in all its forms, embracing our own uniqueness. He will willing to be inspired and enlightened. be missed but his words and insights will His influence has spread far and wide, continue to guide us as we move forward. touching so many souls across our world, May his memory be for a blessing. and our world has been made better – Rabbi Joshua Kullock, West End because of him. That world is now a Synagogue little darker, having the brilliance of his light extinguished. I am profoundly saddened by the – Rabbi Shana Mackler Hunt Memorials, Inc. passing of Lord Rabbi Jonathan Sacks. Quality and Craftsmanship Since 1928 Rabbi Sacks helped influence me as the Not since Rabbi Abraham Isaac rabbi I am today. I came to know him Kook – First chief rabbi of Israel – have 4807 Gallatin Road4807 Gallatin• Road1000 Lebanon Road through his book Dignity of Difference, I encountered the genius and menchle- 262-1313 615-262-1313• 254-1206 which came out after 9/11, when I was chite of a scholar like Rabbi Sacks. He in rabbinic school. His text, his teaching, will be missed for his scholarship and his dedication to celebrating not just his ability to translate the wisdom of our Learn more about the what made Judaism great, but finding tradition into the practical application of that inherent quality in other people’s our world. Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee faith and practice underscored for me – Rabbi Flip Rice, Congregation at www.jewishnashville.org what it meant to be a Jew in the world Micah The Observer • December 2020 15 16 December 2020 • The Jewish Observer Girls’ Night In Welcomes Sasha Shor Back to Nashville his year’s annual Girls’ Night event classic Russian Borsch while attendees, Twent virtual, but even over Zoom “Zoomed,” in from the comfort of their there were plenty of laughs and a warm homes. A VIP cocktail party kicked off welcome back to Nashville for featured the evening with a delicious Moscow speaker, Sasha Shor. Sasha shared sto- Belle drink created for the occasion. ries of her childhood as an immigrant This year’s event was attended by over from Belarus, her years growing up in 170 women. If you missed the event, Nashville, and her passion for blend- but want to check out the fun, visit The ing the foods of the two regions. She Federation’s Youtube channel: https:// cooked up garlic and dill biscuits and a www.youtube.com/JFEDofNashville •

VIPs were treated to a lovely box filled with all the fixings for a Southern Belle Guest speaker Sasha Shor demonstrates her love for both Southern and Russian cook- cocktail. ing by preparing biscuits and traditional Borsch.

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Friday, December 18 on Micah Livestream, YouTube & Facebook Live That oil burned on for an eighth night! So our holiday celebration culminates on the Sabbath of Chanukah with a special service of music and mediations. Rededicate @ Chabad yourself to the transcendent, hear the tormenting tale of the Maccabean Revolt retold through story and song, and feel the warmth of the light of our spiritual community from our youngest to our wisest! Chabad of Nashville to host Chanukah Across Nashville during the eight days Micah Minis - Chanukah Saturday, December 12 at 9:30 AM on Zoom of Chanukah. Since and dance during this family-friendly Shabbat experience. Led by Lisa Silver & Julie Greenberg • During the weekdays of Chanukah there will be the lighting of the State Capitol Menorah at Charlotte and 6th, and the lighting of the Metro Menorah at the Public A Woman’s Circle Square with community leaders, in a social distancing environment. Check out Friday afternoons (monthly) on Zoom - December 18 chabadnashville.com for the exact date and times. Using the book, Getting Good at Getting Older as our companion guide throughout our fall sessions, this class will help you grow with grace, meet with other women and • Chabad of Nashville will also be hosting the Big Mesibah with social distancing, engage with sacred text. Books available for purchase on Amazon or through your local a Chanukah celebration for the Israeli community, that will include lots of Israeli book seller. Taught by Rabbis Laurie Rice and Laura Geller spirit, Chanukah songs in Hebrew, and Sufganiyot. Checkout chabadnashville,com for more details. Schmooze & Views Thursdays at 10:30 AM on Zoom • On Saturday evening, December 12, Chabad of Nashville is inviting you to join your A discussion about politics conducted in a civil and humorous way. Led by Dr. Bob friends and family for a communal Chanukah Menorah lighting via zoom. Families Smith and Rabbi Flip. and friends will all join virtually as they kindle the lights and sing Chanukah songs, and celebrate the Festival of Lights with the Nashville Jewish community via zoom. Torah Study See chabadnashville.com for more details Saturday Mornings at 9:00 AM on Zoom The sages and commentators - past and present - come alive. Led by one of the • On Sunday, December 13, at 4:30 PM there will be Chanukah Celebration on the Rabbis Rice. outdoor patio of Chabad of Nashville, with the lighting of a giant Menorah, music, a special surprise show for children, and prepackaged Chanukah gelt and dreidels for Shabbat Services all participants. See Chabadnahville.com for more details and to RSVP Friday Nights @ 6:00 PM on Livestream, Facebook and YouTube Experience how the power of music, song, and the inspiration of sacred words can • On Monday, December 14, at 7:00 PM there will be a Chanukah Torah Study via help you feel more connected and less anxious. Zoom on “Jewish Culture vs. Jewish Faith. Which One Is the True Judaism?” The presentation will discuss “Who is the genuine Jew: the rigid ritualist or the carefree culturalist?” We are compelled to consider the benefits of each lifestyle to decide which offers the future of Judaism its greatest hope. In the end, bagels and lox aren’t enough, but neither is rote observance of the commandments. The battle between the law and the spirit of Judaism must be resolved another way. See chabad- @ Sherith Israel nashville.com for more details

• During the week of Chanukah there will be several large public Menorah displays around Nashville, including local supermarkets, the Nashville airport and other public venues, to display Jewish pride. These Menorahs are being sponsored by Chabad of Nashville. Chabad will also be distributing free Chanukah kits that include a menorah, candles, a Dreidel, and a Chanukah gift to all who need one. Feel free to come by the Chabad Center to pick one up. • This year Chabad of Nashville will be offering the opportunity to order Sufganiyot for your Chanukah celebration. All order can be made at chabadnashville.com, and are to be in by December 7

For more information please call 615-646-5750, or go to www.chabadnashville.com

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Jump on the digital bandwagon. As agile as ever, Judaism at Micah continues to evolve with courage, compassion and creativity. Stay updated! Go to www.congregationmicah.org, like us on our socials: Facebook and Instagram @MicahNashville, read our eblasts, learn with us on YouTube, chat with us on Zoon and pray with us on our Livestream. In our virtual tent, there is room for everyone! Access Micah’s programs from the front page of our website - all are free and open to the public.

Book Club Monday, December 7 @ 7:00 PM on Zoom All are welcome for a Zoom discussion on the book Real Change by Sharon Salzburg.

“Are You Jewish Enough?” Second Friday of each month @ 12:00 PM on Zoom A discussion over lunch about all thing Jewish. We’ll explore prayer, spirituality, the nature of God, Israel, Jewish superstitions and so much more. Led by Rabbis Laurie Rice and Jen Lader of Temple Israel in Bloomfield Hills, MI. December 4, January 8, February 12, March 12, April 9

Chanukah Services Friday, December 11 on Zoom Celebrate the first night of Chanukah with us as we say blessings together and light the first candle as a community. There will be a Chanukah story and music from Ms. Lisa Silver.

18 December 2020 • The Jewish Observer At Our Congregations… Sherith Israel Chanukah Celebration Kabbalat Shabbat You are invited to join. Join us for Kabbalat Shabbat on Fridays on Zoom at 6:00 p.m. Lighting the Limor Menorah Morning Shabbat services Grab & Go Festive Dinner You are invited to join by zoom on Saturday mornings at 9:30 a.m. Meeting ID for both Friday and Saturday: Meeting ID: 817 3312 3376 Sunday, December 13, at 5:30 pm Password: shabbat For more information, call 615 292 6614. Talmud on Tuesdays at 8:30 a.m. Zoom Information: (No password required) Meeting ID: 777 716 003

Torah class on Thursdays Nechemya Rosenfeld teaches a torah study class on Thursday mornings at 7:00 am. The link is the same as Shacharit on Thursdays.

SAVE THE DATE: WES’S HAVDALAH AND HANUKKAH HAPPENING, SATURDAY EVENING, DECEMBER 12 FROM 5:30 PM – 6:30 PM. Tailgate and Celebrate in the WES parking lot. Bring your own chairs or stay in your car. You can participate wherever you are! Enjoy Havdalah & Hanukkah Candle Lighting under the stars, with yummy latkes and sufganiyot (donuts)- the best by far. Please RSVP to the West End Synagogue Office ([email protected]) by Monday, December 7 – MUST RSVP Make sure to tell us how many people are coming in your car. There is no charge for this event. Partially funded by a grant from the Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee

@ The Temple Intro To Judaism Class Returns in 2021 as a virtual class Once again, the West End Synagogue will be partnering with the American Jewish University hosting the very prestigious Miller Introduction to Judaism December at The Temple Program. Rabbi Joshua Kullock will be teaching the four months class and everyone All programming can be accessed via thetemplehub.org is invited to join. This learning opportunity, which begins January 10, 2021 and runs through May 2, 2021, is in partnership with the Miller Introduction to Judaism • The Temple: Bringing Light to You During Chanukah 2020 Program of the American Jewish University. Classes will run every Sunday from 9:30 Connect with your Temple family during this Chanukah season! a.m.-11:00 a.m. The cost for WES members is $36 (couples $50) and for non-mem- bers is $180. Don’t miss the opportunity to learn with Rabbi Joshua Kullock, make Every day of Chanukah will be filled with opportunities for fun, learning, music new friends and explore Judaism in new and deeper ways. For more information, and connection: check out the website at intro.aju.edu. We encourage you to please register at linda@ Chanukah food demos, virtual trivia contests, a warm sock mitzvah drive, a live westendsyn.org or call 269-4592 ext. 12 so that we can plan for materials and get you concert with Noam Katz, a winter whiskey cocktail class, the origins of Chanukah the link to the class. We hope to “see” you soon! lunch and learn, a magic show and lots more for all ages! Every night of Chanukah, join us at The Temple parking lot at 5:00 PM for a drive- in menorah lighting. Masks required and social distancing observed

Look out for special videos from the Temple clergy and other surprises and treats! Nashville’s congregations

For more information about any of our Chanukah programming, please check out Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, thetemplehub.org/chanukah with information on services, upcoming events and more:

• Chanukah Service at 6:00PM on Friday, December 11th. We will come together Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com to light the candles and celebrate Chanukah Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org • Tot Shabbat - GET READY FOR CHANUKAH! Saturday, December 5 @ Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com 10am via zoom; access through thetemplehub.org The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org • Lunch with the Rabbi-Noon on Thursday, December 3rd, 10th & 17th. Please join us via thetemplehub.org. West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org

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Shacharit Join us Mondays & Thursdays for Shacharit service at 8:30 a.m. on Zoom. Zoom info: Chanukah Meeting ID: 847 4426 3911 Password (case sensitive): 5A63j6 Those having issues with getting onto Zoom can message Rabbi or Cantor through Facebook and they will reply back asap.

Daily Mincha Join us for daily Mincha on Zoom at 6:00 p.m. Meeting ID: 831 8625 7601 Password (case sensitive): 9ix4BK

The Observer • December 2020 19 December in the Gordon JCC Galleries: The Brentwood Photography Group, H.N. James and Marcia Eden By CARRIE MILLS Power,” and aims for a sense of imme- performers, but most are Nashville locals The House gallery will continue to diacy, for the viewer to feel what it was in various stages of their music careers. feature the Under One Roof collabora- he Janet Levine March Gallery will like to be there in the audience. The The Sig Held Gallery will feature tive exhibit. Tfeature the work of the Brentwood center of the performance is the heart the photography of Marcia Eden. Marcia The Exhibition Dates are December Photography Group whose mission is of the performer, the raw willingness to is a is a native Nashvillian with over 25 1st - 31st. to serve their members by encourag- express complex feelings and thoughts. years in the film industry. She’s worked The exhibitions are free and open ing development of photographic skills A few of the subjects in, “Raw Power,” as a costume designer and wardrobe to the public. Any attendees will need to through education, exhibitions of pho- are national and internationally-known stylist on major films, commercials and wear masks, sign in and have their tem- tographic work, friendship with others music videos. Marcia’s photography has perature scanned at the front desk. For who share a love of photography and been published in The Huffington Post, more information, contact the GJCC at sharing their talents with individuals USA Today and Audubon. This photo- 615.354-1699, Curator Carrie Mills at and organizations in the community. graphic exhibit reflects her attempt to [email protected], or go to www. Their group members are a mixture find symmetry in pandemic times. nashvillejcc.org. • of beginning, amateur and professional photographers, with skills ranging from novice to expert. They shoot a wide variety of subjects ranging from portrai- ture to nature. The JLMG2 Gallery will feature the photography of H.N. James, a pho- tographic artist living and working near Nashville. She is a self-taught artist who focuses on the transformative power of changing one’s perspective and seeing the ignored and invisible with new eyes. Her subjects include live music perfor- mances, musicians, artists, goddesses, and the occasional dog. This exhibit of musical performance is called “Raw Butterfly, by Diane Burgett

Beachgoer, by Marcia Eden

Raw Power, by H.N. James

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20 December 2020 • The Jewish Observer Mitzvahs and Lifecycles HappHappyy Rosh Chanukah Hashanah

ported front-line health care workers B’nai Mitzvah in a physician’s office. She performed various weekly duties to help promote a Elliot Cowan Bar Mitzvah safe environment during the pandemic December 19 of 2020. Elliot Cowan will Evie is in the seventh grade at Station GREEN HILLS be called to theTorah as Camp Middle School. She enjoys watch- a Bar Mitzvah on Sat., ing movies, playing games, dance and Dec. 19, over Zoom taking ballet lessons. from The Netherlands. He is the son of Chad Sophia Kimball Bat Mitzvah and Alison Cowan, December 5 brother to Zoe and Sophia Rose Annabelle Cowan, and grandson to Kimball will be called Sondra and Richard Martin of Solon, to the Torah as a Bat Ohio, and Pat and Peter Cowan of Mitzvah on Sat., Dec. North Canton, Ohio. Elliot has been 5, at 10:30 a.m. at living in the Netherlands for the past Congregation Micah. 3.5 years and is an eighth grader at the Sophia is the daughter International School of Amsterdam. In of Erica and William his spare time Elliot enjoys camping, Kimball and the sister of June. Her working on his computer, sailing and grandparents are Marlene and the late swimming Jerome Kimball of Longmeadow, Mass., and Roberta Spinner Barnet and the late Evie Hollis Seymour Spinner of Nashville, as well as Evie Hollis will be her bonus Papa, Burton Barnet. called to the Torah as Sophia is a seventh grader at a Bat Mitzvah on Sat., Grassland Middle School. Her favorite Nov. 14, at 11 a.m. at school subjects include social studies and The Temple. She was language arts and she enjoys playing vio- born on October 2, lin in the school orchestra. 2007, in Gallatin, Tenn. For Sophia’s mitzvah project, Her parents are Dr. Jeff and Ashley she will be asking for donations to Hollis. Evie’s grandparents are Gary OneTreePlanted, a nonprofit organiza- and Linda Johnson of Maryville, Tenn., tion that plants trees around the world and Joe and Lane Hollis of Fernandina for only $1 each. For more information Beach, Fla. or to make a donation, please visit www. For her mitzvah project, Evie sup- onetreeplanted.org. Happy Chanukah S  from the Observer staff C COMING JANUARY 2021

We will be highlighting lifecycle events including Weddings, Bar & Bat Mitzvahs, Anniversaries and Births. We know that you will want to be included in this issue. For advertisers who contract a 1/8 page ad or larger we will be happy to contact you for articles pertaining to your business. Deadline for ads is December 15, 2020 Contact: Carrie Mills, Advertising Manager 615-354-1699 e-mail: [email protected] or fax: 615-352-0056

The Observer • December 2020 21 Kvetch in the City Dear Esther By CARRIE MILLS you’ve never dated a love avoidant man. I mean yes, they will tell you they love hen I began writing this month’s you, but do they really? While the first Dear Esther, relaxation/meditation exercises before you Wcolumn, I had few weeks may be cute and fun, receiving Every morning I wake up with my get out of bed. been up for four days, little buzz shots of affirmative words on body feeling uneasy. I don’t want to get Realizing that we do not have any anxiously awaiting the a tiny screen, the charm wears off pretty out of bed but at the same time I cannot control over the pandemic can be emo- election results and the quickly when the texting becomes the relax enough to fall back asleep. It feels tionally overwhelming and exhausting. ensuing drama of wait- main source of communication in a, “rela- like Groundhog Day every day. The Do what you can to be safe including ing to see which candi- tionship.” The last person I dated, instead stress of the pandemic and being quar- wearing a mask and staying home when- date would win. I was of actually showing up in real time, would antined is causing a lot of anxiety for ever possible and then, “put it on the glued to social media write texts that were mini emotional nov- me. I usually feel better after a warm shelf.” I always told my clients that if and my phone, constant- Carrie Mills els in his attempt to communicate his shower. What can I do to get off to a worrying about something will change the ly checking for election feelings. His inability to have a face to better start? outcome, then go right ahead. If it does updates. The crazy making aspect of it face conversation about feelings and yet – Nervous Nellie not, they are wasting their time. “Putting all reminded me of how back in the day send endless texts, videos, or songs was it on the shelf,” means not giving it I was glued to another type of drama actually maddening, and well, sadly very Dear Nervous Nellie, any attention when the anxious thoughts which included constantly checking my high school for a middle aged man. The You aren’t alone. Many people are come into your mind. We cannot control phone. Back then though, the drama and constant buzz of a text coming in, instead struggling with anxiety as they stay home our thoughts and feelings, but we can constant phone checking was not due to a of my doorbell ringing with an actual man and watch the COVID cases rise. It can decide to not engage with them. You national election, but a personal election with flowers on the other side…well that certainly seem like Groundhog Day! I might find it helpful to visualize swiping of dating the wrong man. eventually wore thin. applaud you for identifying what makes them away, putting them in a box on a Yes, I’ve had my share of one too The positive thing about negative you feel better-a hot shower in the morn- shelf or any other visual that is meaningful many unfortunate relationships, almost relationships, is that I learned a lot about ing. There is comfort in knowing what to you. Keep doing this and eventually every time knowing in the first five myself. I learned, not only did I cringe at lies ahead so I encourage you to have a the thoughts will be less frequent. minutes, maybe it wasn’t a good idea texting as conversation, I also learned to plan for what you are going to do the next None of us know if we or the people to give that person my phone number. not give my phone number to the com- day before you go to bed. I would suggest we love are going to become infected Once given, the immediate red flying plete stranger at CVS who was waiting that you come up with at least one small with Covid-19. It is beyond our control, flag for me was a, “Hey, what’s up?” text, behind me in the pharmacy aisle. I knew task or activity that you enjoy. It can be but we CAN control how we cope with followed by some emoji sentence I could what household items I was picking up, as little as 15-30 minutes a day reading it. Focus on each day and the little joys never figure out, instead of something but I sure as heck didn’t know what kind a book you enjoy, working on a craft or it brings. Notice your surroundings, stop that resembled real relating, like for of medication he was picking up. speaking with a friend. You need to find to look closely at the fall leaves and savor instance, an actual phone call, or perhaps Most importantly, I learned it’s never something to look forward to each day. your cup of coffee each morning. Until a statement like, “I’d like to have dinner really about the other person. It was You also might want to try changing your COVID19 knocks on your door, find joy with you tonight if you are free.” about me, ignoring the red flags, needing morning routine to take your shower ear- in each day. Call me a text kvetch. Call me old validation…and oh…so much more. The lier in the morning and possibly add some – Esther fashioned. I still believe in straight up doomed relationships were not about the phone calls when it comes to sustaining other person having to change, it was Esther recently migrated to Nashville from New York and will be partnering with a relationship. I’d like to interject that about me having to change. JFS on an advice column for The Observer beginning in October. Esther is a retired I actually once broke up with someone This election cycle reminded me Psychologist, veteran grandmother who brings a lifetime of experience including dysfunc- with a text, with the urging of my then that all my self-work has helped put my tional families, raising children, relationships, kosher cooking and even interfaith families. therapist who said something to the crazy making dating days behind me. I Esther is excited to be in Nashville and will soon be heard promoting her famous matzo ball effect of, “That would be speaking his now trust myself to know I’ll recognize soup that she believes heals just about anything. language.” That was a new personal low the right candidate for me when he starts Please submit your questions to [email protected] on anything under the sun and in breaking up with someone for me. by picking up the phone to call, shows up watch for answers in her column. • Maybe you’re wondering what’s so with flowers, opens the door to his car, bad about texting? I’d suggest, maybe and takes me to dinner. •

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