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Begun Reported Neve Shalom To Resume Services ISTANBUL The Neve Still Jailed Shalom Synagogue, which was MOSCOW - Jewish activist been no order for his release," Inna heavily damaged last September Josef Begun is still in prison and Begun said last night. by Arab terrorists who massacred Soviet authorities said they have Begun, who applied to emigrate 21 Jews at prayer, is ready t.o begin had no orders to release him, his to Israel in 1971, was sentenced on services again. wife, Inna, reported earlier this charges of anti-Soviet slander in In the United States, the week. American Jewish Congress, which Georgi Arbatov, director of the has been the recipient of U.S.A. and Canada lnstitute here, Three Soviet officials donations through its Neve said on CBS' "Face the Nation" Shalom Fund, has collected more Sunday that Begun had been re­ 'each said that Begun than $61,000. leased, although not as a result of is in Chistopol prison, A remarkably swift renovation five days of demonstrations staged and there has been job by Turkish construction on his behalf in Moscow last week. workers and craftsmen will make The demonstrations ended Fri­ no order for his release.' it possible for Neve Shalom - day as men in plainclothes pushed, -Inna Begun which means Oasis of Peace - to shoved and kicked some of the accommodate worshippers by t.he protesters and Western reporters. end of February, according to Jak A small group of Begun's family Veissid, Chief Counsellor to the and friends had been urging the re­ 1983 to seven years in camp and Chief Rabbi of Istanbul. lease of the 56-year-old mathe­ five in internal exile. He now is be­ In addition Lo repairing the m~n under a review of cases lieved to be in Chistopol prison on synagogue, the Turkish-J ewish thR officials say has so far freed the Volga. community, helped by gifts from 140 political prisoners. Meanwhile, the wife of Anatoly people throughout t he world, has Inna Begun was sitting by the Koryagin, snot.her imprisoned So­ been able to provide financial help telephone yesterday awaiting con­ viet dissident, yesterday appealed LO I 9 victims' families who needed firmation of Arbatov's statement to Western leaders to help resolve such aid. that Begun is "free now." Arbatov, his case, according to reports from Contributions to the speaking from a Moscow studio, The Hague. AJCongress fund have included said he had just learned by phone Sunday, a Soviet cardiologist, gi fts from non-Jewish that the Begun case was resolved. Dr. Yevgeny Chazov, told a group organizations like the American "Boris, Begun's son, and I have of doctors meeting here during an Turkiqh Society aq well as talked to three people from the international forum that. Koryagin contributions from Jewish Ministry of Internal Affairs and had been released, participants in organizations and individuals. each said that Begun is in t.he closed-door session reported. One contribution of $36 - "twice Chistopol prison, and there has (continued on page 9) Chai" - was collected from Turkish workers restore portions of heavily damaged Neve nickel -and-dime donations of Shalom Synagogue in Istanbul, Turkey. children enrolled in the Agudath Soviet Poster Shows Sholom Hebrew School in two of the victims of the attack Congress, who attended the mass Stamford, Connecticut.. Many have recuperated. A third has been funeral of the Istanbul victims last. Anti-Jewish Perspective gi fts have been made by members sent to Israel for highly specialized September, welcomed Mr. of the Turkish-Jewish community treatment. that. was not available Veissid's announcement that. in the United States. in T urkey. Neve Shalom will resume services Mr. Veissid noted t.hat one Security devices are now being t.his month. young man, son of one of the installed at Neve Shalom and "Jews will not be stopped from victims, who has just graduated other Jewish instit.ut.ions in praying in their synagogues or from college, has been given Turkey to help prevent a continuing their steadfast. support fi nancial help to continue his recurrence of the Neve Shalom of the State of Israel," he said. "It English language studies in Great tragedy. is sad that. we live in a world in Britain. Henry Siegman, executive which so tragic a price must be Mr. Veissid also reported t hat director of the American Jewish paid for so simple an affirmation." Scholar To Speak On Portuguese Jewry T he historical links between The public is invited to attend Jewish and Portuguese people are the three classroom lectures the focus of a two-day program Yerushalmi will give. He will that will bring noted scholar and speak at 9 a.m. and again at 10 author Dr. Yosef Yerushalmi to a.m., March 16, and at 9:30 a.m., Southeastern Massachusetts March 17, with all lectures in University next month. Room 201 of the Liberal Arts SMU's Center for Jewish Building (Group (). Culture, in cooperation with The In those lectures, he will discuss Center for the the Marrano religion, adopted by a Portuguese-Speaking World, is number of Jews during t.he period presenting Yerushalmi's visit on of the Inquisition in Spain and March 16 and 17 as its first Portugal. These J ews felt forced to scholar-in-residence program. profess to be Christians in order to The highlight of the visit will be avoid persecution. Yerushalmi will Yerushalmi's lecture and slide also discuss racial anti-Semitism presentation, ''Portuguese-Jewish in Spain and Portugal. History and Culture: A During his stay, Yerushalmi will Panorama" at 7:30 p.m., March meet in informal settings with 16, in the Recital Hall of the students, faculty members, and College of Visual and Performing interested members of the Arts (Group VI). The lecture is community. He will also take pa.rt Dr. Yerushalmi open to the public at no charge. in "SMU Horizons/' the monthly Yerushalmi is Salo Wittmeyer cable television show. "You Musi, Answer for Your Evildoings" proclaims a recent Baron Professor of Jewish Glassman called Yerushalmi's The Center fo r J ewish Culture chilling USSR anti-Jewish poster, obtained by the Student History', Culture and Society at visit ''another clear example of a together in an· important working Struggle for Soviet Jewry. It reinforces the oft-proclaimed Columbia University, and director major academic figure coming to relationship." Kremlin "big lie" that Zionism is the fascism of today by of Columbia's Center for Israel the campus and the community to "The visit should remind us of the rich diversity of the ethnic depicting a blood-stained Israeli bayonet with a Star of David, and Jewish Studies. He is an enrich our cultural and an exact duplicate of the swastika-fitted bayonet in its shadow. honorary member of the intellectual lives." culture and heritage within the area," added Waxler. "We feel Victims lie murdered in the corner. The poster states: "The Portuguese Academy of History in Professor Antone Felix, that Dr. Yerushalmi's visit should evildoings of the Israeli military . .. are equal to the crimes of Lisbon, and last year was elected chairman of the Portuguese the fascists in Khatyn, Oradur, Liditze, Auschwitz." Moscow president of the Leo Baeck Center, said the program "should be seen as a springboard for building strong relationships 11 Institute, the major institution for serve as a catalyst .,.to bring The and Leningrad Jews wrote Gorbachev warning, the campaign between two i'mportant ethnic against Zionism . . . has turned into an unbridled anti-Semitic research into the history of the Center for the groups in this area." campaign." Jews in German-speaking lands. Portuguese-Speaking World and 2 - THE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987 Prof. Shiloh To Speak International House At Brown Event The International House of Local News Rhode Island's " Dess~rts Extraordinaire" evening win be held on Friday, February 20 from 4-6 p.m. at 8 Stimson Avenue, Providence {snowdate: February 22 from 4-6 p.m.). The program JCC Mall Trips Volunteers Needed B'nai B'rith To Rally will feature an assortment of exotic and delicious international For Seniors For Meals On Wheels For Soviet Jewry sweets selected to satisfy the most discriminating palate. The fee is Van trips to area malls are being The Jewish Community Governor Edward D. Diprete, $5 fo r IHRI members, $8 for t he scheduled by the Jewish Center's Meals on Wheels Honorary Chairman, has joined general public, and $3 for Community Center for program is in need of volunteers. with thousands of other students. For reservations and Wednesday afternoons. Those 60 Teams of drivers and runners are government officials, entertain· further info rmation, call 421-7181 and older and the handicapped necessary to deliver hot kosher ment celebrities, and fellow by February 17. will be able to leave the Center at 1 meals to homebound elderly, citizens in declaring that Soviet The International House is a p.m., shop, have lunch or see a weekdays during t he lunch hour. Jewry will not be forgotten. At nonprofit center fo r cultural movie at a mall and return at 4 A vo lunteer coordinator is also noon on Thursday, February 26, exchange and understanding p.m. Each t rip costs $2. needed fo r scheduling. T his B'nai B'rith and B'nai B'ri th between international visitors and Arrangements for a noon time involves making telephone calls Women will conduct a worldwide Americans. It provides a broad kosher meal at the Center before each morning either from the rally on behalf of Soviet Jewry. spectrum of services for students the trip can also be made. Center or from home. The rally in this city will be held in and visitors from other countries, Transportation to and from t he For further information call the State House rotunda between including English language Center at 401 Elmgrove Avenue, Sharon Lee Custis at 861 -8800. noo n and 2 p.m. Prof. Yigal Shiloh ·classes, emergency shelter, crisis Providence is available. Lieutenant Governor Richard On Wednesday, March 11 , the intervention, informal counseling, Advance registration can be Li cht and others will read names Brown Uni versity Program in Host Family Programs, ethnic made with Sharon Lee Custis at fr om a list of 12,000 Soviet Jews J udaic Studies will sponsor a events, and community resource, 861 -8800. wh o have been refused permission lecture by one of the world's lodging, and children referrals. to emigrate from the Soviet Union leading archaeologists, Professor In te rnational House also offers to rejoin their families in other Yi gal Shiloh of the Hebrew Americans rare opportunities to count ries. Ai; Seymour D. Reich, University in J eru salem. Professor form friendships with individuals Internatio nal President of B'nai Shiloh, Head of the Institute of from diverse cultural backgrounds B'rith, and Irma Gertler, Archaeology at t he Hebrew through informal conve rsations, PEARLMAN & VOGEL President of B'nai B'rith Women, University, will lecture on " New nationality dinners, and cultural point out, the U.S.S.R. , in signing awareness programs. Attorneys at Law Hebrew Inscriptions end the Helsinki Accords in 1975, Archaeologi cal Discoveries from agreed to permit Soviet Jews to Biblical Jerusalem" et 7:30 in Beth-El reunite with their families. Wilson 302. Dr. Frances Goldscheider, are pleased to announce that Despite t his agreement, they add, Profe ssor Shiloh is currently the thousands of Jews are prevented chairwoman of the Sociology Visiting Smart Professor in Judaic Dept. at Brown University and from leaving. Studies et Duke Unive rsity. He is member of the Population Studies ARLENE VIOLET The local members of B'nai known internationally as t he B'ri th International and B'nai and Training Center, will speak on Director of the City of David "The Changing Faces of Adam (former Attorney General for the State of Rhode Island) B'rith Women have asked that the Excavations in Jerusalem si nce and Eve - To Family Ties in the list of refuseniks be read as a 1978. From 1975 to 1977 he was 1980's From a Jewish means of focusing attention on the the Director of Excavations et Perspective and Beyond," at plight of the approximately Capo di Ponte in Italy. His book has resumed the full time practice of law 400,000 Jews who are seeking Temple Beth-El on Monday, publications include The February 23 at 8 p.m. permission to leave. and has joined the firm. Proto-Aeolic Capitol and lsraelite A dessert and social hour will The rally by the B'nai B'rith Ashlar Masonry and Excavations family is being held begin at 7:30 p.m. in the City of David 1978- 1982 as To attend, please call Temple simultaneously in 43 countries, all Blackstone Boulevard Terrace well as numerous articles. Beth-El at 331-6070. of whi ch have members in the Professor Shiloh has visited 750 EAST AVENUE (Prov/ Pawt Line) world 's largest Jewish Prov idence before and is organiz.ation. Dr. Smith To Speak Pawtucket, RI 02860 well -known to the J ewish Ra lly participants will call on Community of Rhode Island. 726-6200 Soviet leader Mikhail Gorbachev G. Richard Smith, Jr., M.D., to honor the human rights Essay Contest Associate Professor of Psychiatry provisio ns of the Helsinki Accords and Medicine at the University of T he Children's Department of Thomas W. Pearlman OF COU NSEL by all owing all Jews who wish to Arkansas College of Medicine and the Jewish Community Center in Arlene Violet Hennan J. Aisenberg emigrate to leave and to grant past President of the Arkansas Jean E. Connelly Roben S. Stitt religious, cultural end communal Providence announces the second Psychiatric Society, will be guest Joshua P. Pearlman freedom to those who remain. annual Saul Abrams Memorial speaker fo r the Fain Oration et Michael D. Mitchell Reich and Gertler note that the essay co ntest fo r children in The Miriam Hospital. Soviets want an arms agreement grades 4 to 6. Participants are asked to write about a fo under or The Oration will be held on with the United States and t hey Monday, March 16, 1987 at 11 declare that "first, the Soviet leader from Rhode Island who is or was instrumental in initiating a.m. in The Miriam's Sopkin Government must respect the Auditorium. Smith, wh o is the agreement it signed in Helsinki. Jewish civic or cultural You're invited . . . institutions which exist today. Vice Chai rman in the Department Until it does, the United States of Psychiatry and Behavioral cannot rely on the Soviets' word The subject of the essay may be a Rhode Island historical figure or Sciences at the University of on a matter so cri tical es nuclear Arkansas for Medical Sciences, Mrs. H. Winter arms." someone presently active in t he community. In addition, anyone will address, "Somatization SPRING - SUMMER who has helped memorialize t he Diso rder: Patients with Multiple Adoption Issues holocaust will be included. Unexplained Symptoms." TRUNK SHOW Physicians and others interested At JFS Entries must be at least one typewritten or two handwritten in this topic are invited to attend t he lecture. The Adoption Support Center pages and may include at Jewish Family Service will meet photographs or drawings. Each Smith has researched anl on Wednesday, February 25, 7:30 entry must include the child's published extensively on the topic p.m. at 22 1 Watermen Street, name, age, grade, school, address, of Somatization Disorder. He is an Providence. Dr. S. Norman telephone number and parent's active member on the APA Task Sherry, Assistant Clin ical signature. Force on Private Insurance and Professor of Pediatrics at Harvard All work must be submitted by the APA T ask Forces on Medical School will speak on Friday, April 10 to Ruby Cost·Effectiveness in Consults· "New Issues in Adoption: Shalansky, Children's Activity tion and Liaison Psychiatry. ije is Coordinator, Jewish Community APA . . . 111 cct :1mlc1111sul1 wi1h 11ur newest Emphasis on Openness.'' Dr. also a consultant for the Amcricmst

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The three categories for who submits the best written nomination are t he Veterans response to t hat question will win Division for At hletics prior to an expenses paid trip t'"' 1940, athletes from 19·41 to the Washington, D.C. the week of present and a service to sports April 26 to collect the fi rst prize category. awa rd and a library shelf of books A biography of individuals about the Holocaust. T he writing nominated should be sent to contest is sponsored annually by Rhode Island Jewish Athletic Hall the U.S. Holocaust Memorial of Fame, c/o Jewish Community Council. Ent ries must be 2,000 Center, 401 Elmgrove Avenue, words or less and be postmarked Providence, Rhode Island 02906, by March 30. Attention: Elliott Goldstein. " We're looking for originality Families will be welcome at the and relevance in judging the Gerald Showstack induct ion ceremony on Sunday, entries," said Richard Krieger, May 31: executive director of the Council. The Temple Beth-El " Last year we had 800 quality Third graders Wendy Brown and Jeremy Sadler lead prayers Brotherhood will present entries." during their class's Chumash ceremony, celebrating their intro· sociologist Dr. Gerald Showstack Touro Fraternal News Submissions may be in several duction to Torah rea ding and formal Chumash study. at a breakfast Sunday, February The breakfast scheduled for fo rms, including fiction, 22, 1987 at 9:30 a.m. in the February 22 at Vasa Hall has been nonfiction, poetry or drama, Temple's meeting Hall. Dr. cancelled. It will be rescheduled at according to Isaiah Kuperstein, Showstack will deliver a talk a later date. director of education at the entitled: "Judaism Today: Have February 25 two-for-I dinner at Council and coordinator of the We Become Like Cain and Abel?" the 1025 Club. Speaker Vincent Holocaust writing contest. Each The presentation and discussion " Buddy" Cianci. Dinner will be at entry must represent t he will focus on whether brotherhood 6:30 p.m. Touro members only. independent effort of t he writer. We are Honeymoon Specialists exists among all Jews in America Reserve early. Complete fish or The contest's second place and Israel and what can be done to chicken dinners will be served. winner will receive an original FREE strengthen our relations. Cost of this members only dinner work of art and second and third Assistant Professor in the is $8.95 per couple. place winners and those receiving 5 Hotel Nights in Israel Hornstein Program in Jewish Touro will take part in the honorable mention will be Breakfast and Car Included Communal Service at Brandeis Meeting Street School telethon awarded books on the Holocaust. Plus Air Fare and Academic Coordinator for that will be held on Saturday, Schools of all winners will receive Student Programs at Ben-Gurion March 7 and Sunday, March 8. a matching set of books. Teachers University, Showstack is currently T ouro members are asked to call of the winners will receive Expires March 15. 1987 researching the attitudes of in with a pledge. certificates of honor. T he contest Reform Jews towards Israel and Do not forget that our is open to all st udents in grades 9 Call Dorothy Wiener Travel 272-6200 . the J ewishness of American membership drive is still in effect. t hrough 12. Reform Jews in suburban Last year Touro Fraternal set a "The Council sponsors the communities. new three year record for new annual writing contest to This program is open to both members. This year we are stimulate students to learn about Temple and Brotherhood working to surpass that record. the Holocaust and to reflect on its members and their guests. For Any young Jewish men over the lessons for our society," said Reserve Passover more info rmation, call 331-6070. age of 18 are asked to join wit h us. Kuperstein. Contact any member of T ouro or Entries must be typed or Brown's-Catskill Group Torat Yisrael call us at our office in Cranston for printed, double spaced, on one side more information. Any members of the paper and a title page must APRIL 13-21 Sisterhood who wish to bring in a young man contain this information: T he Sisterhood of Temple should get an application from the student's name; student's home Bus transportation available Torat Yisrael will hold a regular office. Write to T ouro Fraternal address and telephone number; meeting on Sunday, March 1, 1987 Association, P.O. Box 3562, name, address and telephone at 9:30 a.m. at the T emple, 330 Cranston, R.I. 02910 or call number of t he student's school; Call Dorothy Wiener Travel 272-6200 Park Avenue, Cranston, R.I. A 944 -44 12. name of teacher; and grade. mini-breakfast will be served. This Ent ries should be mailed meeting will feature a Panel of directly to: "Our Professional Women of the ••••• Writing Contest 80's." U.S. Holocaust Memorial T hey are: Roberts Arsac, N.E. Flower Show Council Marc S Weinberg, M.D. 2000 L Street, N.W. (Suite 588) Para-Legal, with Tillinghast, (formerly of Summit Medical Group) Collins, & Graham; Sherri BOSTON - For t he 11 6th Washington, D.C. 20036 Holland, Fashion Consultant and consecutive year, t he return of Personal Shopper; Elaine Shapiro, spring will he heralded by t he New Violence In West Bank is pleased to announce the opening Pres. of Elan Hair Designs Salons, England Spring Flower Show, a J ERUSALEM (JTA) - Nine Susan Smoller, Pres. & Co-Owner presentation oft he Massachusetts Palesti nian yout hs were wounded of his private practice of Maid Around the Cloe!), . . Horticultural Society t hat will run by Israeli security fo rces during Sisterhood members and friends March 14 -22 at the Bayside violent demonstrations that specializing in are invited to attend. Exposit ion Center in Boston. erupted at the Balata refugee Richard H. Daley, the executive camp and A-Najah University in Hypertension/Nephrology Current Events director of the Horticultural Nablus last week. Society, announced the dates of An Israeli border policeman was and related Internal Medicine Discussion Group the tradit ional spring festiv ities, slightly injured by rocks hurled at and unveiled this year's theme, his patrol car at Salata, near at the Due to t he fact that the last ··Gardens of the World." Nablus. Military sources said two meet ing fo r t he Providence demonstrators there were hit by Summit Medical Bldg. - Suite 305 Chapter of Hadassah had to be T he Spring Flower Show can be live ammunition and one by cancelled because of snow found at t.he Bayside Exposition rubber bullets. Six students were 100 Highland Avenue conditions, Doris McGarry, leader Center just off the Southeast Expressway (Route 93) at Exit 15. wounded at A-Najah. 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Jesse Jackson traveled to Syria to Is Israel's Lobby Unique? the presentation of a videotape docu­ accept the release of a captured Ameri­ Two years ago I was sitting in the mentary on Martin Luther King Day in can Navy flyer. After a meeting with Friedman runs afoul is t rying to make Israel to Mrs. Coretta Scott King, to newsroom at the Providence J ournal the Israel lobby seem unique in its Syrian dictator Hafez Assad, a man with a story I had written on the lives remembrances by Arnold Aronson - with more than passing responsibility efforts to obtain positive press. That is an organizer of the historic 1963 March of fo rmer Rhode Islanders - Nancy far from the truth. Every country that fo r international terrorism and the end· Wellins, Josef Gershman, Ken and on Washington - the commemoration less blood-letting in Lebanon, Jackson has a consulate in the United States is evoked both King's singular mission Harriet Resnick, and Les Krieger - vying for that same attention from the announced that the two of t hem had and his universal message. something in common, the experience who had made aliyah to Israel. I had press. All countries have elaborate interviewed these individuals and t heir evertheless, something seemed to of oppression. A segment of the civil operations for enhancing their be missing. The connection between families during a month long visit to country's image here. I have been rights movement was thereby hijacked King and Israel was mentioned - in on behalf of certain third·world foreign Israel in July of that year and I wanted invited to several consulates in Boston the tape when P rime Minister, then· policy attitudes, t he ones which go soft my local newspaper to publish the and New York, through my association Foreign Minister, Yitzhak Shamir on radical dictatorships and chronically story in the magazine section. I had with this newspaper as editor and with noted the slain civil rights leader's sup· fi nd fault with America and its allies also written a "Reporter's notebook in another weekly newspaper in Rhode port for Israel on the eve of the 1967 especially Israel. Israel," a story which had been Island as a columnist, and have Six-Day War, and when Ambassador And the 1984 Jackson campaign gave syndicated in this newspaper and other attended press luncheons and other Meir Rosenne read a me sage from t he us Minister Louis Farrakhan as a na­ Jewish newspapers by the Jewish affairs in addition to receiving reams of current Foreign Minister, Shimon tional figure. In the early days Far­ T elegraphic Agency in New York. But material, complete with photographs t he longer story, the interviews with Peres, which asserted that King " iden- rakhan's " Fruit of Islam" bodyguards suitable fo r immediate publication, 1iried with the historv. faith and ideals the olim, was written for the magazine provided security for candidate Jack· showing the bright side of life in that of the .Jewish people;. and was "a true fo rmat. particular country. I traveled to India son. Later Farrakhan himself served as heir of the prophetic tradition of Lhe a warm·up speaker, and soon his ven· "Where did you get your money to go last year on a research grant awarded Hebrew Bible. . " omous anti-Israel, anti.Jewish attacks to Israel?" one of t he edi tors wanted to to me by t hat country's Ministry of It fell to James Farmer, the still­ gained a national audience. know. T ourism. (Again, it was with no strings charismatic fo rmer leader and founder It is sometimes argued that J ews I told him: I had taken a leave of attached and I was free to write what I of CORE (Congress of Racial Equality) make too much of Farrakhan, that at absence from this newspaper and paid pleased.) fo r my own t rip to Israel with the to hint at what was left out. After com· bottom he is a fringe figure. Demands There is nothing new or unique men ting that "at least one·third of the that responsible blacks leaders disavow exception of a scholarship from t he about that. A strong lobby is necessary Israel Study T ravel Committee. Freedom Riders who packed t he Mis­ him Hre said to he needless or even of. in order to obtain U.S. aid. And tourism issippi jails were Jews," Farmer BC· fensive. But frin~e figure or not. , he has He and two other editors - t hey had is hig business, after all. It is in the best no quarrel with my story or its focus - knowledged that what he called "the al- drawn applauding audiences of 18,000 interests of a country to lohby fo r itself. liance of sufferers in the past few years discussed whether they should accept , to Madison Square Garden, 14,000 to has experienced tension." It will do no t he story since I had received backing F'riedman doesn't tell us anything Washington's Convention Center, and from a Jewish organization. that we don't already know, except to good, he added, "for us not to take note so on - something mainstream black of that and to know it is our responsibi). I waited for t hem to discuss t he show, close·up, how many editors and or J ewish leaders cannot duplicate. matter between themselves and when reporters feel about Israel, both pro ity - whites, blacks, Jews, Protestants For all the memorializing, Martin they were finished, I said: "The tone a nd con. and Catholics - to heal that split ... so Luther King, Jr.'s legacy has been frag­ and content of what I have written has He reports, fo r example, that that the body of the movement can live mented. To put the body of the move­ and breathe again." not been slanted toward any Norman Podhoretz, editor of ment together again, as called for by organization or individual. You said Commentary, says, "The role of Jews For most American Jews, Israel in· Farmer, blacks and Jews will have to do you have no quarrel with it. T here is no who write in both the Jewish and escapably is a central concern. Its more than agree to disagree about Is· reference to my having received a general press is to defend Israel, and health, its security, is a barometer rael. On anti·Semitism, on anti.Zion· schola rship, which was given to me not join in t he attacks on Israel. " which measures - in the long if not the ism, on the anti·lsrael campaign - short run - their own. For most other with no strings attached. Either take f am particularly interested in this parts of one whole - they will need to Americans, including blacks, Israel re· the story as is or fo rget it." remark because I've heard it many rediscover King. mains a marginal issue. The debate stopped there. They said, times myself as editor of this Eric Rosenman is editor of Near East ome blacks, especially the more po­ "We'll take it." It was published in the newspaper. When my story, "A Report. litically active, may be sympathetic to October, 1985 Sunday Journal Reporter's Notebook in Israel" appeared in the Jewish Telegraphic claims by Palestinian Arabs that they Magazine under the title, " Rhode are "the blacks of the Middle East." Islanders in Israel." Agency's feature supplement, I received several letters saying that I This propaganda device negates the was "too negative." One letter writer Jews' identification with blacks - I mention this story as a backdrop to based on Jewish memories of their own a larger story t hat appears in this from t he Midwest said, " Isn't there enough bad news about Israel without suffering as a minority in Europe and month's issue of Mother Jones, a earlier discrimination here. national magazine published out of having a Jewish writer attack Israel, too?" King criticized the anti.Israel, anti· San Francisco. The story, by Robert I. Semitic views of the I 960's new left Friedman, is entitled, "Selling Israel to Friedma n is correct in examining " ew Politics'' conventi'on in ChicagO. America: The Hasbara Project Targets t his dilemma. While I am supportive of the U.S. Media." The story is an Israel, I also see this newspaper's interesting one in its exploration of function as one t hat should report all how the State of Israel has tried to sides - or as many sides as possible - in order to be unbiased in its * obtain positive news.stories in the U.S. press (and the U.S. television presentation of the news. And networks) by lobbying for t hese stories sometimes the news isn't pleasant, but it must be reported, to paraphrase a and using "propagandistic" techniques (USPS 4&4· 71SO) Telonious Monk song, straight, no Publbhed Every w..- By The to be successful. Jewish PrHa Publt.tllng Company Friedman documents how Israeli chaser. press officers and consul generals work Unfo rtunately, as regards Israel, • EDITOR: dilligently to "plant" positive stories in there is no happy middle. And the ROBERT lSRAEL the daily, weekly, a nd monthly press lobbying efforts of groups like AIPAC and how t hey call editors and will continue to be aggressive, as t hey • ADVERTISING DIRECTOR: producers of television programs should be, because Israel's survival BRUCE WEISMAN regula rly to insure t hat positive stories depends on a strong lobby. Newspaper reporters and editors must strive fo r • ACCOUNT REP.: about Israel are aired. MARY FITZPATRICK Reading it reminded me of my own unbiased stories, no matter how strong experience with the editors of my the lobbying efforts from any side. And, whenever possible, opposing hometown newspaper and how they Maillng Address: ~ ' PnJYicMnce, A.I. were suspicious of me and what I was opinions should be sought out to give a balanced and open·minded point of Telephone: (401) 724-0200 trying to do. But I had not tried to PLANT: Hefeld Wey, off Webster St., P•wt., view, not a short·sighted, A.I. 02881 " lobby" them. I was merely giving OFACE: 172 Taunton Ave., Eeat Pro'tktence, them a story I thought they should closed·minded one. This is a A.I. 02914 publish because it was about people in prescription that is one of the Secood class p:>stage paid et Providence, corner·stones of a free press but a Rhode ISiand. Postmaster send acttess their community that had done ct,anges to The A.I. Herald. P.O. Bo,: 6063. something extraordinary - left the difficult one to maintain. Every Providence, A.I. 02940-6063. comforts of America for a more newspaper has a bias, unfortunately, =':'~ ~--~ a nd that is why we need to read all BySu~r~oe·;:: strenuous life in Israel. T he editors' ~:e~'~eq~~·~\:c ~ publications with a critical eye. scriptions 8ftl continuous unless notified to= the reactions indicated to me t hat t hey had contrary in writing. been affected by t he very lobbying I would recommend you take a look Candlelighting The Hefald assumes no financial responsl-­ efforts Friedman describes in his piece at Friedma n's story. While a lot of it bility fOf typograpNcaJ 8l'l'Ol'S in advertls&­ menls. but will reprinl !hat part ol the advef· in Motlu,r Jones. (One of t he editors states the obvious - the pro·Israel 20, 1987 later confided in me t hat they, indeed, lobby as being aggressive - it does February Ytireplea~ = ~IA~=immediately of any enor which may agement ·had been lobbyed and reacted to me explore the dilemma the press is faced occu,. 5:07 p.m. Unsolicited manuscripts: UnSOlidted ·because of pro-Israel.lobbying efforts.) with, namely, how to report truthfu lly manuscripts are welcome. We do not pay !Of None of what Friedman wrote came and honestly, despite those that would ~~-All~scri:1;~~~ as a surprise to me. I am well aware of seek to influence that report. Where dfessed envelope lf you want the manuscript the pro-Israel lobby in t his country the article falls short, in my opinion, is feturned. Letters 10 the editOf represent the through organizations like AIPAC and that it doesn't mention the intense ~ 5 ~u!19 ::1'~tter"°1wntt;:,·~~ numbel' l0saibef to the J ewish press - about the extent and country's cause. Israel is not alone in Jewish T~ Agency and the Jewistl innuence of the Israel lobby. Where this regard. 1 Student Press Sefvk:e.

I \ •Il l I_,; °"T. l. l..l-L'-~------~ --...1....1...!- THE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987 - 5 Should Rabbis Perform Mixed Marriages? is predicated on t he assumption to their married life. They know I that we can oppose intermarriage wish them God's blessings and by Mark Winer Jewish people, leaving a scar from the rabbi's position on this issue without rejecting the that what we have done is honest Should rabbis offi ciate at mixed which he rarely recovers. If a should be a part of his or her intermarried," he says. "The rabbi and written with an integrity that marriages? religious marriage is refused, it curriculum vitae. Rabbi Kenneth who does not choose to offi ciate the couple can convey to family David Belin of Des Moines, who does not stop the couple from Segel of Montreal compares a should spend extra energy striving and friends, whose support and chairs the Commission on Reform getting married - it only turns congregation's choice to the to convince the couple t hat there encouragement will be important Jewish Outreach, calls this "the them away from t he synagogue." selection of a husband or wife. " If is no rejection involved. I in nurturing their marriage." most divisive issue on the agenda According to Mel Merrians of the congregation feels that a invariably spend far more time Intermarriage, which today of the Reform movement." The Larchmont, N. Y ., rabbis should rabbi's officiating at mixed counseling the couple to whom I affects most American Jewish Central Conference of American solemnize mixed marriages "only marriages is important, it's right," have to say 'no' than with the families, brings into conflict two Rabbis, the rabbinical body of if the partners have agreed to he says. couple whom I will marry. If fundamental values full Reform Judaism, has declared its study Judaism seriously, maintain But UAHC board chairman possible, I attend their wedding to integration into American society opposition to participation by its a Jewish home and rear their Charles Rothschild Jr. rejecta such demonstrate symbolically my and the preservation of Jewish members "in any ceremony which children as Jews." Merrians a test, a nd CCAR executive vice embracing them, even though I distinctiveness. Nothing solemnizes a mixed marriage/' cr1t1c1zes those rabbis who president J oseph Glaser calls it could not myself officiate." dramatizes this conflict more while acknowledging the freedom co-offi ciate with Christian clergy. "self-defeating fo r congregations Lydia Kukoff of Los Angeles, sharply than the interfaith of every rabbi "to hold divergent " I don't think you can be married to refuse consideration of a rabbi director of Reform Judaism's wedding. In order to bring more interpretations of J ewish within two religious traditions," who will not perform mixed Outreach Commission, sees no knowledge to bear on this complex t radition.'' he says. marriages. In so doing," he says, cont radiction between refusing to topic, the newly-formed Research Rabbi Alexander M. Schindl er, Among the Reform rabbis who "they eliminate over half of the offi ciate at interfaith marriages Task Force fo r the Future of president of the Union of officiate at weddi ngs between Jews members of the CCAR, reducing and programs of Outreach to the Reform Judaism has begun a American Hebrew Congregations, and non-Jews, most insist that the the odds of finding the kind of intermarried. Combining these five-year investigation into .every the central body of Reform couple commit themselves to rabbi they ought to have as leader, contrary strategies, she says, facet of Jewish intermarriage, Judaism, supports this stance, maintaining a Jewish home, teacher and pastor. It 's unfair not reflects the distinction in J ewish including conversion, unaffiliated asserting: " Intermarriage joining a temple and rearing t he only to the rabbis, but also to the law between l'chatchila (at the mixed marriages, and rabbinic represents a potential drain on the children as Jews. Some, like Rabbi co ngregations." outset) and ,b'diavad (once it has offi ciation at interfaith weddings. numeric strength of the Jewish Harry Danziger of Memphis, Rabbi Bernat of Miami declines happened). Each of t hese Dr. Mark Winer, a sociologist, is people and on its inner require that the couple study the to offi ciate at interfaith weddings circumstances, she notes, senior rabbi of Tempi£ Beth David, com mi tment. Whether I like it or same program as those preparing out of ideological conviction. But traditionally calls fo r a different Cammack, N. Y. and project not, my offi ciation would be seen fo r conversion. These rabbis he also believes that his converts response. director of the Research Task Force as a seal of approval and would believe t hat offi ciating at an have a special claim on him as the Rabbi Lesli e Gutterman of for the Future of Reform Judaism. therefore become encouraging of interfaith wedding brings the guardian of the boundaries of the Providence works with interfaith intermarriage. If I participate, I couple closer to the synagogue and J ewi sh people. He reasons, " Were 0 give license to those who say, to Judaism. Rabbi Danziger says 1 I to offi ciate, could they not ~~~;,les ~n " h~:m~i~:e~~icu~~~ ~~ 'Well, the rabbis are officiating, " I see them after the wedding just confront me with, 'How can you enable them to write their own - why in heaven's name is there as often as I see Jews who marry gi ve to those unwilling to make service to be officiated at by a anything wrong with my Jews." our commitment the same benefits judge. These couples usually come ~ inter-marrying?"' Fewer Rabbis Willing and sacred privileges?"' away feeling that I have helped to Most rabbis justify their refusal To Officiate Many thousands of others not facili tate a meaningful beginning to officiate at interfaith weddings Recent Jewish community bo rn to Judaism are married to by arguing that t he J ew ish idea of studies indicate that J ews affiliated with Reform marriage is t hat of a covena nt approx im ately one in three Jews temples. Although t hey may not between two J ews. Rabbi Haskell curently enters marriage with a convert fo rmally to Judaism, they Bernat of Miami explains the partner who was not born Jewish. rear their children as Jews, rabbi's role: "Contrary to what is Yet, despite this ri se in the observe Jewish holidays at home, often t hought, the rabbi neither frequency of Jewish and sometimes become active in J.W. RIKER confers God's blessin gs on the intermarriages, fewer rabbis their temples. T hese "de facto bride and groom nor does the rabbi appear willing to solemnize mixed Jews" have become numerous in 'marry' the couple. As a m'sader marriage ceremonies t han might some temples, especially in 1l.EALESTATE kiddushin, t he rabbi serves as a have done so 15 years ago. The small er Jewish communities. The witness on behalf of the Jewish t rend is particularly notable CCA R's 1983 resolut ion on Residential people. Symboli cally, the rabbi is among rabbinic students. Dr. patrilineal descent legitimized t he the Jewish people at the Alfred Gottachalk , president of Jewishness of the children of such Condominiums - Commercial ceremony, and through the rabbi the Hebrew Union Coll ege-Jewish in termarriages in which the we enter into the covenant with Institute of Reli gion, sees the mother is not Jewish, provided the bride and groom." tendency away from offi ciation as that the children are raised as Turning Jews Away From "the temper of the times." Unlike Jews. Dan Saltzman, Mgr. Anthony Vincent The Synagogue? rabbinic students in ea rlier Inte rmarriage And Outreach But some rabbis and many lay generations, most students now The connection between the Alex Bolvin Rhoda Swartz people believe that the normative come from Reform homes but in refusal by rabbis to offi ciate at rabbinic stance is out of touch many respects fee l closer to intefaith weddings and Reform Maggie Dalpe Evvy Saltzman with modern realities. Alfred t raditional Judaism. Judaism's program of Outreach to Miller of Montreal is among those Congregations that will employ non-Jews is widely mi sunderstood Ellen Kasie who urge rabbis to perform mixed only those rabbis who offi ciate at as a rejection of couples who marriages. He says: " It is mixed marriages are finding fewer intend to intermarry and an impossible to stress too strongly candidates to choose from. Paul acceptance of those who have 200 South Main Street, Providence, Rhode Island how bitter the Jew feel s when the Uhlmann Jr. of Ka nsas City, who al ready done so. But Rabbi rabbi refuses to marry him. He supports this kind of litmus test in Schindler does not find the two 751-1113 fee ls he is being rejected by the the selection of rabbis, feels that strategies incongruous. "Out reach

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Judith Jaffe, M.S., will be the facilitator T he seminar will be presented by On Monday, February 23 at Judy Murray, RN, BSN, MEd., for the discussion on Wednesday, 11 :30 a.m.-1 p.m. there will be a February 25 at 7:30 p.m. at the and will focus on innovative nursing home teaching conference approaches to the stress and Center, 401 Elmgrove Avenue in at the Jewish Home, 99 Hillside Providence. tension involved in the Ave., Prov idence. management and delive ry of A fee of $2 for members and The t heme will be "The Biology $2. 75 for nonmembers will be (Left to right) Edwin A. Jaffe, Harriet Samors, Claudia health care today, and how humor of Aging." Mark Trainer, M.D. can be a creative part of this charged. For further information Deutsch and Andre P. Marmen. will he guest speaker. The ca ll Judith Jaffe at 861-8800. system. co nference is open to t he The Miriam Hospital Women's President for Public Affairs. The program has been approved co mmunity. 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Opm daily 8-5, weekends 9-3 and $40 for nonmembers. up Tues. &: Thurs. eves until 8:00 PM Equipment rental for outdoor Thursdays. CALL 861-6900 ~~Jt~;, ~·~0 _n 8%_~~;::~1~ exit trips is extra. People of all ages are For further information call the (across from the Holiday Inn) welcome to sign·up. Health and Physical Education For more information call Patty Department at 861-8800. I~) ...... "r-HAlle,lityCo,p. Winer Gold at 861 -8800. THE RHODE IS LAND HE RALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987 - 7 ago. contract they issue, so t he shmitta and window boxes. The last Learning Kibbutz Life The biblica l laws of shmitta call is not a n occasion for national summer months prior to Rosh fo r t he cancellation of loans issued mortgage burning. Hasha na and the begi nni ng of the /', during the preceding six years. ln sahhat ical year saw a tlurry of :,. practice, people became so scared The Chief Rabbinate's planting t hroughout .Jerusalem. of losing thei r money t hey stopped dispe nsation of t he shmitta laws Shmitta. explains the Talmud, givi ng loans. In the first century only applies to agricu hura l land. teaches man t hat the earth is not Rabbi Hillel instituted the \\'!;at about prinue gardens? hi s. It is a gift from (;od. ,Ju st as prosbul, procedu re which Planting t rees a nd s hrubs is we step hack from our wo rk on the I ransfered the loan to the prohibited. hut rutti ng and ~e,·rnt h da>' of the week. I he rahhinica\ cou n , whose debts were watering the grass is pe rmitted. :-.e\'ent h yeiu . s hmit ta. deepens ou r not cancell ed. Today all the The Chief Rabbinate has issued rrlal io nship with I ime. God. and commercial hanks in Israel hook lets with guidance on surh the land. include the prosbul in every loan issues as growing in !lower pots Rep. Frank Warns Against School Prayer

WASHINGTON (JTA) - Hep. who want officially organized Bill of Rights, including the Barney Frank (D. Mass.) warned praye rs in the school ''don't think separation of church and state. last week that those who a re that every family gives enough Frank stressed that Blacks seeking a return of prayers in the religious instruction to their kids." provide a "great deal of support" school want the United States to Instead, he charged, they wa nt in upholding the separation of be not just a Christian nation, but the schools to use their "coercive church a nd state. He noted that one that officially espouses t heir mechanism" to ''inculcate more while they are statistically type of Christianity. religion lha n you have at home." important in many of the religious "The distinguishing thing about Frank also warned against the groups seeking to break down the Ameri ca is not that we have effort to have a constitutional barrier, they "understand what it minorities, it is that we have no co nvention in order to adopt a n mea ns to be a minority." majori ties," he told some 300 amendment to the Constitution He added that Blacks in persons attending a meeting of requiring the federal government Congress back Israel 90 percent of B' nai B'ri th International to have a balanced budget. He said the time and next to Jewish co mmissions at the Mayflower such a convention could not be Congressmen have the best record Hotel. limit.ed to the budget and could against providing arms to Saudi " We a re not fighting, as Jewis h im pair the protection now in the Arabia. Ameri cans, fo r the right of Jews to dissent without being picked on," Frank stressed. He explained thal as J ew he does not want to be part of a "fully • S [ TT C O DOMIN I UM S• recognized protected minority because that is an unequal situation. I want to be like everyone else." Frank criticized President Reagan's Stat.e of the Uni on statement. that Congress s hould end " the expulsion of God from face America's classrooms." The Massachusetts Congres­ sman said it was " nonsense" to say that either God or prayer had been expell ed from the public schools. " How do you fo rbid the someone to pray?" he asked. Frank said there we re "infinite" opportunities for children to say prayers du ring the school day if by Diane Greenberg Chi er Rahbi Kook a nd later the they wa nted to. He said that those Atlantic .JERUSALEM (.JSPA) - It Chief Rabbinate of the Stat e. The Hen: on NarrnganS<:tt's appointed, with a magnificc.:nt sound like a utopian dream. Farm position has not changed. a nd this Prof. Christ To Speak prc.:::stigious Ocean Road, ovn - ocean view. wo rk ers study philosophy fo r a year's proclamation stat es "the The Department of Religious looking tht' Atlantic Ocean, Consider the quality, comfon 18 spa<:ious condominium units and convenience.: of 101 Ocean year. The rich and poor a lik e eronomic and securit y St udies, Brown University, invites arc under construction. Road, with just a few units wander through the orcha rds, considern1ions that have you to a coll oquium by Professor lo<..-aH:d just sou1h of thc remaining at current prict:s. eat ing fr ee ly fr om fruit · la id en compell ed us to resort to the he1er Carol Christ on "God and t he trees. Past debts a re cancell ed. ever since the establi shment oft he Prehistori c Goddesses: T oward a In fact , this isn't a description stnte rema in valid ." Paradigm Shift," Wednesday, from a socialist vis ion. It 's the \Vhen first insti tuted, the heter '~~:::::~:,, 101 ~,;::~:":';;, February 25, 1987, at 3 p.m. in essence of the laws of s hmitt a - was controversial; today Hoom 301, Wilson Hall. re lease fr om the Book of detractors question not only the Professor Christ teaches in the Exodus: underlying legal reasoning, bu1 it s Department of Religious Studies " And six years you sha ll sow qwtsi -permanent status. The at San Jose State University. She your land a nd ga ther in the general public and the Mi zrachi is currently a Visiting Lecturer increase of it ; hut the seventh year religious Zionists fo ll owing the and Research Associate at OceanRoad Ni\RRJ\C ANS I ·1 I CONIJOMI Nl llMS you s hall let it rest and lie fallow, heter according to the directives of Harvard Divinity School. that the poor of you r 1>eop le may the Chief Rabbinate. Agudat Professor Christ co-edited Mari: l>-.tvl·d P"mp,:n k-:,., I02S NarrJl(lln!>CII Hl vd., C:r.mston, RI 0 290S eat , and what they leave the beast Yi s rael and the yeshi va world, Woman.spirit Rising and is the • l'ril1."' _.,111,;..'t.1 lo d-.;uw· of the fi eld shall eat." wit h few exceptions, do not rely on author of Diuing Deep and In Talmudic time!-, shmitta was 1he sale of the land. Surfacing. one of the many agricultural Each year more elaborate commandments practiced in the arrangements assure a supply of r--·- land of Israel. Roman historians !-. uitable produce fo r those who record ,Jewish observance of the insist on strict shmitta sabbatical year. But when ,J ewis h observa nce. Vegetables grown in 1 KNOW SOMEONE life all but died out in the land, regions of the Negev and the s hmitta observance lapsed for Arava that were not part of the centuries. La nd of Israel during the Second l H~~~~~ GETTING Shmitta became an issue once Temple period are exempt from more with t. he beginnings of the shmitta laws, and supplement l THE R.I. HERALD MARRIED? modern ,Jewish settlement in the Arab-grown and imported late 19th century. For the first produce. The Poalei Augudat time in centuries, Jewish farmers Yisrael.kihbutzim have developed l TEll US THEIR tilled the land of Israel. However, hydroponic systems to provide NAME AND the observance of shmitta posed a fresh vegetables, hut it is an ADDRESS AND ve ry real threat to the economic expensive and therefore limited WE'LL SEND lltEM survival of the new agricultural alternative. Special techniques A COMPLIMENT ARY colonies. enabled the winter crop to he sown l SUBSCRIPTION A way had to be found to deal hefore the shmitta year hegan on with the problem, and the settlers Hosh Hashanah. Additiona lly, looked to rahbis for help. In 1889 a technological innovations such as l heter, or dispensation, which automatic plows and driverless circumvented the law hy tractors enable religious fa rmers permitting the sale of the land to to directly wo rk the lields. non-,Jews, was agreed on and Nevertheless, full observance of signed by three leading rabbis and shmitta is out of the question for confirmed hy the sage Rabbi Issac the public as a whole. Israel's F.khanon Spector. bala nce of payments depends Like all succeeding significantly on agricultural dispensations, the heter was exports and its ability to produce proclaimed as an ad hoc most of its own food. Israel would emergency measure for that lose it s market s if it suspended particular sahhatical year " lest the exports of fruit s, vegetables, and whole enterprise of colonization be flowers for a year, and economic endangered." Rut with each catastrophe would result . The subsequent shmitta the heter was need for the dispensation is as renewed. under the aut-horit y, of• -. nit.ical now as ... a· hundred ... years ~· - 8 - THE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987

Around Town Something For Everyone hy Dorothea S nyder

One more hour, and the doors at antique dealers who display their wares Northeast Trade Center in Woburn, only at shows. Mass. would close the Yankee Doodle Besides hand-painted Limage and Drummer Antique Show. Bavarian china, Claire's booth displayed For good reason, Bernice Bronstein beautifully cut crystal pieces, glass, should have been frazzled after two days delicately crocheted linens, damask, of whatever problems cross a show doilies, and costume jewelry. promoter's desk. A young woman was examining an Not her. Bernice was buoyed up, and unusual art deco lamp, circa 1929. "Deco raring to go. "We've been doing shows for is popular, though I don't have much of it 12 years, November and February the now," Claire says. "I think antique china largest. The February show is always our and glass have picked up tremendously in biggest, but the attendance this time the past year. You find so much emphasis excelled overall." on table settings in home furnishing The show's success was upping magazines. Bernice's energy level. "The excitement for me in my business "I think the people had the winter is buying what people may bring into my doldrums, and wanted to get out. How shop. And the shows! At my fi rst show, I long can you stay in? It's been so bitter became friends with a couple whose cold. Everybody came. Many thousands friencJ;:hip has continued through the Occupying Booth 302 at the Yankee Doodle Drummer Antique Show held at came. I haven't tabulated yet, but it was years Northeast Trade Center in Woburn, Mass. are Saul and Anne Cutler of Cutler our best show ever. The dealers did very Across the way are Belle and George House. well. It was great!" Norman who with the Silvermans are at Bernice and Hal Bornstein also run Northeast Trade Center four times a year, specialty shows such as the up-coming and always opposite each other. weekend's " Nostalgerama, Dolls, Teddies "We've become very close friends," says and Toys" Show at the Holiday Inn in Belle. " In fact, Claire wasn't here at the Dedham, a "Paper and Advertising last show, end we missed her so." Show," in Boxborough the weekend after, The Normans, Marblehead residents, and another antique show at the Centrum have been on the show circuit for nine in Worcester at the end of March. years. "My husband repairs antique Show promoters, like Bernice, and the clocks," Belle informs me. "That's our 365 dealers displaying their finery under main thing. He buys broken clocks, the same roof at Northeast share an repairs and sells them." antiquated joy. George Norman was away momentarily "I love it!" announces Claire Silverman, from the booth. I learn from Belle that owner of Antique Haven in Pawtuxet Tim Mayotte, who beat J ohn McEnroe, Village on Post Road in Warwick. signed an autograph for her tennis "I do six to eight shows a year. It's loads enthusiast husband. of work, but I adore it. I couldn't possible Returning, George switches th0 e do the shows without the help of my conversation from tennis to clocks. husband Artie." "There are a lot of old clocks out there in While Claire is talking about the line of attics end basements, and people don't antiques she carries, a few customers file know what to do with them. They have to into her booth. "Artie, want to see if they find somebody like me to repair them, and Garbed in Fortuny and feather is Tracy Horovitz. (photos by Dorothea need any help?" there's not too many like me around to do Snyder) Hand-painted china is her specialty, that. Fortunately fo r me. she says. "I love it. That's how I started 15 We also carry china, sterling, watches, accident. photos, Zelda stops at the ones of years ago. I was buying it for me. The kids dolls and lamps, anything we can mend, "The reason I got into clock repair work bandwagons which her husband collects grew up, and I didn't know what to do. fix and sell. We do this strictly as a part is that I bought a grandfather clock years and restores. "My nieces suggested I go into this time hobby, and show four times a year ago, and I'm very mechanically inclined. Although "fun things" are her favorites, business. I started going to shows, to here. The very next day, I went out and bought Zelda stocks jewelry and an antique auctions. I think I have every book on the " My wife got me into this. She likes a cuckoo clock and practiced on that. variety at her booth and her store. "You market. That's how you learn." antiques. I never appreciated them, but That's how I learned. It took me about have to when you do a show. You have to When the Warwick antique dealer does she got me interested in them years and four years to learn how to repair clocks have something for everybody." shows in Rhode Island, she says, people years ago. Her mother was an antique because clocks are so intricate and fussy." The Yankee Doodle Drummer Antique realize she has a shop. There are many buff. T hat's how we got into it. .. just by "I love this business," Belle says, "until Show is her first "big show this year. I'm we have to pack up!" . . . a grievance that getting back into doing shows again, The seems to be symptomatic among antique dealers are fun to work with. The people dealers. are great. It's a lot of fun, but it's lot of Hatted in a chapeaux of a gone-by ere, physical work. with a splendid brooch mounted at its "Tracy's one reason I went back into center, Tracy Horovitz's appearance and the antique business," Zelda elaborates. poise reach beyond her 14 years. "To have something that we could enjoy The ninth grader says she helps her together' to show her a new interest in ~ mother at shows. No doubt Tracy loves life, meet people. and learn a little bit every moment. "I used to go to shows with about business. She works with me my mother when I was little. As far as the weekends and at shows. We'll be doing antiques go, I love the jewelry best of all. about one a month." My parents are more into carousel Anne and Saul Cutler's antiques are animals. We have about 20 at home!" sold mainly at shows about 10 months a Saying goodbye to a customer, Zelda year, although cooperatives throughout Horovitz joins the conversation. I ask New England carry their fine array. about the hat Tracy wears. "We try to feature American and "It is a Fortuny hat," she says. English Majolica," Saul says. "There is "Fortuny was a French designer in the also French and German Majolica." Twenties. He Was the one whose The Cutlers specialize in several lines trademark was the accordion-pleated gold, silver and costume jewelry. Diane Davis, left, is shown an antique glass by Warwick antique dealer Claire French silk. Tracy added the aura borealis "We're into silver smalls, desk, dresser, Silverman. brooch. The feather boa was our purse accessories, inkwells, whether Chanukah present to her. I bought that at they're made out of glass, brass, silver or the Wharf. bronze, sterling, silverplete and brass The Wharf is the beautifully picture frames, and powder jars." redeveloped Pickering Wharf in Salem "I would say our specialty is more into where Zelda's shop is located. We're in a silver and silverplate," says Anne Cutler. large cooperative there. "We juggle around at shows. Everything "I've been there forever," she laughs. "I that's in our line interests us." had been out of the business for the past Saul Cutler gives me a mini-tour of a four years, but this year I went back into it sma1l display case where there are to work with my daughter because she silverplate Victorian napkin rings from loves it so. She loves ar:itiques, and we the turn of the century made by old have a good time together." Victorian silver companies. "What we Zelda collects and restores old carousel handle is mostly signed material." figures. "Like the ones at Riverside," she The Cutlers have been involved with says. She flips through photographs taken antiques since 1965. Originally, Anne was at the studio of a camel, rabbit, ostrich, an artist. giraffe, and deer. "A whole menagerie!" "I didn't like the picture frames I saw in she exclaims. "I'm teaching someone to stores, especially the modern ones. restore a horse, and he worked at Someone suggested I go to an antique Riverside when he was in college. shop, and I did. And that's when I fell in "I like toys and children's things. I just love with antiques. I didn't grow up with finished this/' she says, pointing to a them. I like to do portraits, design and picture of a carousel figure from Revere make earrings and necklaces, but I'm too ~ach. Thumbing through a stack of busy with this!"

:.i T HE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987 - 9 Begun Reported At Miriam Ensemble Afrique To Perform The tempo is definitely upbeat Still Jailed as The Miri am Hospital Women's Association approaches its ',,1 (continued from page I) state activities in the future. The kick -off meeting on Monday, March 2 at Noon in the hospital's But yesterday, Galina Koryagin prisoners released in t he past two called the Amsterdam-based wee ks reportedly did sign, although Sop kin Auditorium. The Bukovsky Foundation to say that some reworded the phrasing, ac­ excitement centers on this association's major fun d-raising officials were continuing to refuse cording to dissident sources. her permission to visit her hus­ event, " An Afternoon with Tiffany's and Sara Fredericks." band in a Kiev prison, according to NEW YORK - Re latives of im­ Guest speakers at the ki ck- off Reuters news agency. prisoned Soviet dissident Josef Be­ Koryagin was one of the first gun we re arrested fo r crossing bar­ will be Tesa Van Munching and names to surface as word of t he ricades near the Soviet Mission to Donna Montgomery, Public prisoner releases began to reach the United Nations after they Relations Di rectors of Tiffany & Co. and Sara Fredericks, Moscow several weeks ago. Korya­ joined a demonstration seeking his gin, 48, is a psychiatrist who was freedom. respectively. They will present their " Spring Forecast ," a preview consultant to a committee t hat " We're wondering about his of the latest in jewelry and fashion documented cases of political pris­ health, and if he's even alive," said designs fo r the season. oners being held in psychiatric Chaim Tepper, husband of Begun's Sumner Zacks, M.D., hospitals and lobbied fo r them. He cousin, Zelda. Pathologist-in -Chief at T he was arrested in 1981 and sentenced After a news conference, Zelda Miriam Hospital, will explain the to seven years in labor camp and Tepper, carrying a framed blow-up state-of-the-art Tissue Prepara­ · five years in exile. of a newspaper photograph of Be­ tion Machine that The Women's Both Koryagi n and Begun have gun, led a group of about 20 demon­ Association expects to purchase reportedly refused to sign docu­ strators including her husband with proceeds from the Equipment ments asking fo r their release and away from t he main group of 100 Event. promising not to take part in anti- and into the street. The presentations will be preceded by a tempting petite luncheon fo r members of The U.S. Urges USSR To Release Begun Women's Association. Arrange­ ments fo r the luncheon will be WA SHINGTON (JTA) - The ference on Soviet Jewry which was co-ordinated by Ha rriet Horvitz Reagan Administ ration urged the meeting on Capi tol Hill last Thurs­ and Miria m Rutman. Floral Soviet Union Tuesday to re lease day, Begun's wife, Inna said she did deco rations fo r Sopkin On Monday, February 23, from mt.er-t ribal wars." Other authentic longtime J ew ish refu senik losif not believe her husband would be Auditorium will be created by I :30-2:30 p.m., Ensemble Afrique, instruments are deweta bells. skek­ Begun from prison without him re leased because he would never Lillian Za rum and Sylvie Kenner. a group of musicians, folklo rists, eres made fr om squash or gourds, having to sign a statement agreeing sign the statement. Patricia G. Cohen and Hinda instrument makers and dancers. and balaphon, call ed the father of not to continue teaching Hebrew. " I am ve ry afraid for my hus­ Semonoff are Co-chai rpeople fo r will perfo rm et the Solomon the xy lophone. "We are disturbed at the news band's life," she said, since she be­ the Annual Equipment Event, Schechter Day School of Rhode Is­ Ensemble Afrique was fo rmed in that imprisoned Hebrew teacher lieved he was co ntinuing a hunger which wi ll take place on land. The concert, entitled Her­ 1976 as a joi nt project of Dance Iosif Begun is not being released strike started three months ago. Wednesday, April 8, at the itage of Black Dance and Music, Plant and the Art of Black Dance because he has refused to sign such Inna Begu n and Iosif Begun's son, Providence Merriott In n. Public wi ll be held in the New Synagogue & Music. Inc. This co mpany of a statement," State Department Boris. joined by other refuseniks, Relations Co-Chai rpeople fo r the of Temple Emanu-El, 99 Taft Ave., professional artists and educators spokesman Charles Redman said. have begu n picketing in Moscow event are Patricia Hei rebet, Diane Providence. seeks to introduce audiences to " We call upon the Soviet govern­ on Begun's behalf. Salmanson a nd DeeDee Witman, Ensemble Afrique uses authentic Africa n dance, rhythms and in ­ ment to release losif Begu n and all aided by Helene Brodie and instruments, rhythms a nd move­ struments. other Prisoners of Conscience" and Inna Me iman's Lenore Leach. Claudia Deutsch is ments to feature the traditions of Bamidele Osumerea, Artistic Di­ allow them "to resume the legiti­ Death Mourned President of The Women's Brazil , the West Indies and Africa. rector of Ensemble Afrique, has mate activities for which they we re Mea nwhile, Redman exp·ressed Association. Their energetic, spirited perfor ­ wide experience as both a per­ unjustly prosecuted," Redman the State Department's regret at For in fo rmation about the mance evokes an enthusiastic re­ former and teacher. He has per­ added. the death of Inna Meiman, 54,who March 2 Ki ck-Off meeting and sponse end joyful participation fo rm ed with many African dance His statement was made as he died Monday at Georgetown Uni­ petite luncheon, please call The from their audiences. companies, among them the expressed the Administration's ve rsity Hospital where she had Women's Association offi ce at Ensemble Afrique wi ll in t roduce African Arts Ensemble and Inter­ "welcome" of the announcement been treated fo r cancer si nce com­ 274-3700 Extension 2520. that the Soviet government is re­ ing here fr om Moscow lest month. its audience to many instruments, national African-American BaJlet leasing 140 political prisoners. But She was the wife of Neum Ohawe Shalam among them the Dundun, or of New York. Dele has taught at he noted that this was only 20 per­ Mei man, a foun ding member of the mother drum, one of three "talking the co llege level (Smith College cent of the 750 political prisoners Helsinki Watch Committee in Cong . Ohawe Sha lam services drums, used not only to communi­ and the University of Massachu­ being held in the USSR. Moscow who had been refused per­ this shabbat morning will be at 9 cate friendly greetings but also to setts, for example) as well as in the Repeating a statement he made mission to accompany his wife to a.m. A sumptuous kiddush will fol ­ send vital information during the Boston public sc hools. on Monday, Redman declared, Washington. low. Rabbi Jacobs will give his "We hope that the Soviet govern­ " Her passing is mourned by mishnah class at 4:20 p.m. Mint ha ment will now move to free all re­ many Department employees who wi ll be at 5:05 p.m. (followed by the ma ining political prisoners with­ came to know her through her third sabbath mea l). Haudalah is MARTY'S out requiring them to sign valia nt struggle against the ulti­ at 6:15 p.m. statements recanting their previ­ mately incurabe illness that The young couple's bowling KOSHER MEAT MARKET ous activities or agreeing to limit gripped her body and through her event wi ll be held this Saturday 88½ Rolfe St., Cranston their future activities on behalf of equally courageous effort on behalf evening at 8:30 p.m. at the Bowling 467-8903 human rights. " of human rights in the USSR," Academy in East Providence. For Begun, who has been seeking to Redman said. information about this group you Koshered Meats For You emigrate to Israel since 1971, is in He called on the USSR to allow may call Eve Jacobs at 724-3552. New Parking Available Across the Street the Chlstopol prison since being her husband to attend her fu neral Rabbi Jacobs will give his class sentenced in 1983 to seven years in and "to rejoin his only daughter co ncerning the Jewish Liturgy, on CHICKEN LEGS a labor camp and fi ve years inter­ (Olga Pl um) who has long lived in Tuesday evening, February 24 at - nal ex il e for "ant i-Soviet agitation the United States (i n Boulder, 7:30 p.m. BEEF SPARE RIBS 1a nd propaganda" fo r teaching He­ Colo.) and is an American citize n." The congregation will hold a brew. Redman also urged that Meiman's Purim Se'udah at 5: 15 p.m. on FRESH GROUND HAMBURGER $1.79 lb. In a telephone conversation son and his family also be allowed Purim Day, March 15. This event from Moscow to the National Con- to co me to the U.S. is open to the whole Jewish com­ CHICKEN CUTLETS $2.89 lb. munity. The sc hedule of Wednesday ser­ Marty says " Don't let the cold keep you away, vices is as fo llows: Sunday morning Let our friendly service 'warm' you up!" PHDS Program - 7:45 a.m., Monday and Thurs­ day 6:40 a. m., Tuesday, Wednes­ day and Friday 6:50 a.m. Evenings - 5:20 p.m. Rainboiv At BJE The Bureau of Jewish Education of Rhode Island is Bakery pleased to announce a teacher training course entitled, "American Jewish History," 800 RESERVOffi A VE., CRANSTON, R.I. taught by Rabbi S. Singer, Ph.D. 9 4 4-8180 This class will study the history of J ews in t he United States and the contribution of the Jews to the development of the country. The WEEKEND SPECIAL course will meet Wednesdays from FRI.-SAT .-SUN. 9:30-11 :30 a.m., March I ! -May 13, at the Bureau of Jewish CALIFORNIA Education, 130 Sessions Street, SOUR DOUGH BREAD Providence, and is open to the public in addition to the teaching s1 .19 per loaf co mmunity. Reg ul arl y 51.49 Second graders from the Providence Hebrew Day School celebrated T u B'Shevat by preparing "fruit people ." Pictured WE USE ON LY TH E FINEST OF KOSHER INGREDIE NTS from left to right are Eric Rosenthal, Shai Secunda, Marc Kouffman, Shuly J urkowitz, Rena, Silberberg and Abigail OPEN EVERY DAY 7 TO 7 Weisman. 10 -THE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY-Z0, 1987 Annual Meeting At Butler Hospital

··celebrat ing 140 yea rs of medical staff association and one service, 30 years of renewed of the founders of the "" Friends of co mmitment" is the theme of a Butler.'" Obituaries yearlong celebration at Butler Several of the hospital's Hospital in Providence. It was also accomplishments during the last the theme of the 1986 a nnual 30 years that we re highlighted by meeting which wa s held in the the speakers included: in 1964 , the hospital's Ray Conference Center negotiation of extended Blue JEANETTE PEPPER ROBERT KAPLAN BENJAMJN POLAN last Thursday, .January 15. Cross coverage for t reatment fo r .John R. Allen, preside nt of the mental illness that was PROVIDENCE Jeanette PAWTUCKET Robert PROVIDENCE - Benjamin hospital, exp lained in hi s annual comparable to coverage fo r Pepper, 82, of t he Jewish Home fo r Kaplan, 62, of 283 Lafayette St., Polan, 92, of Charlesgate report why Rhode Island's only treatment of other physical t he Aged, 99 Hillside Ave., died an expediter for Electric Boat, Apartments, 670 North Main St., private adult/ adolescent illnesses; in 1971 , becoming a T hursday, February 12 at the Groton, Conn., fo r 12 years, died a self-employed painter in Perth psyc hiatric hospital was havi ng a Brown Universit y teaching home. She was the widow of Sid­ Thursday, February 12, 1987, at Amboy, N.J . fo r fiveyearsandown­ double 140th and 30t h anniversary hospital; in 1973, being the fi rst ney Pepper. the Pequot T reatment Center, er and operator of the Astor Bar celebrat ion. psychiatric hospital in the country Mrs. Pepper was employed in Groton. He was t he husband of and Grille fo r 15 years before In 184 7, 140 yea rs ago, the to gain Blue Cross coverage fo r the shopping serv ice department of Margaret (O'Neil) Kaplan. retiring 20 years ago, died last hospital received its first patient. day hospital treatment; in 1978, t he fo rmer Outlet Co., P rovidence, Born in P rovidence, a son of the week at the Charlesgate Nuraing The hospital was founded on a the construct ion of a new 108 bed fo r 25 years before retiring in 1972. late Abraham and Jenny Kaplan, Home. He was the husband of radical id ea for that time - inpatient hospital; also in t he Born in Philadelphia, Pa., a he moved to Pawtucket 17 years Pauline (Reiter) Polan. 1970s, establis hing alcohol daughter of the late Joseph and ago. "moral treatment." Patients we re Born in Russia, a son of the late treated with di gnity and respect. t reatment progra ms and Nettie (Manchel) Waldman, she Mr. Kaplan had been a sergeant Labish and Haika (C ross) expanding research activities; in had lived in Cranston several years in the Army. The hospital's first di rector, Isaac Polansky, he had lived in Ray, M.D., also believed that the 1984, establishing an integrated before moving to the home six Besides his wife he leaves a P rovidence t hree years. He resided mentally ill should have legal computer system fo r clinical, years ago. sister, Fannie Rodinsky of most of his life in Perth Am boy. right s and wrote and lectured on research and administrative She was the past president of Harrisburg, Pa. He was a member of the Nathan the subject fo r much of hi s career. operations; a nd in 1986, becoming the Sons of Abraham Synagogue A fu neral service was held at t he Strauss Lodge, No. 107 of B'rith In 1955 the hospital was forced the management and referral arm Sisterhood, the Pioneer Women, Max Sugarman Memorial Chapel, Ab raham-B'nai Zion and the to close due to serious financia l fo r mental healt h services fo r t he Hadassah and Shaare Zedek Syna­ 458 Hope St., P rovidence. Burial Eternal Friendship Society, both problems. "Butler was a long stay new health maintenance gogue. wi ll be in Lincoln Park Cemetery, of New Jeraey. refuge for a dwindling group of organization, HM O-RI. She leaves a son, Gerald Pepper Warwick. Besides his wife he leaves two chroni c patie nt s," explained Mr. The fo ll owing people were of Warwick; and two grandchil­ daughters, Beatrice Lewis of Allen . .. It ca me as a surprise to el<>cted as office rs of t he hospital's dren. Jackson Heights, N. Y., and Sherry A fu neral service was held at the many people, who thought of board of t rustees: John R. Allen, Webber of Providence; a sister, Butler as a n asylum fo r the president; Charl es T . Francis, vice Max Sugarman Memorial Chapel, Bella Cogan of Brooklyn, N. Y .; 448 Hope St., P rovidence. Burial well -to-do, t hat many of its president; Victoria Ledetberg, and a grandchild. pal ients were unable to pay the secretary: a nd Charles R. was in Lincoln Park Cemetery, SAMUEL SHINDLER A graveside service was held at Warwick. full cost of their ca re .'' Reppucci, t reasurer. PROV IDENCE Samuel the Mount Lebanon Cemetery, The next two years witnessed a T hree people we re newly elected Shindler, 84 , of t he Jewish Home lselin, N.J. Arrangements by Max tremendous public outcry both to the board of trustees: Ric ha rd fo r t he Aged, 99 Hillside Ave., Sugarman Memorial Chapel, 458 SAMUEL LIPPITI inside and outside t he psychiatric W. MacAdams; Eli zaheth Z. owner of the forme r Bugle Toy Hope St., Providence. communit y. A grass roots ci t izens Chace; and Anthony V. Rocha, HOLLYWOOD, FLORIDA Co., Pawtucket, fo r 45 yeara before JACK MICKELSON group known as "'The Friends of M .D. Samuel Lippitt died on Feburary retiring in 1972, died Monday, Butle r" " was fo rmed and pushed T he fo ll owi ng people were 12, 1987. He was t he husband of February 16, 1987, at t he home. He Jack Mic kelson, 81, of 60 fo r t he reopening of the hospital. elected as rh .! W members of the the late Dora Lippitt. Graveside was the husband of t he late Helen Lynwood St., North Dartmouth, A fund raising drive directed by a But ler Hospital Corporat io n: services were held at Beth Olam Ann (Udin) Shindler. husband of Annie (Lansky) reorganized hospital Board of Nancy Bail ey, Eli zabeth Z. Chace, Cemetery , Middletown. Arrange­ Born in Providence, he was a Mickelson, died Sunday, February T rustees raised a total of $700,000 Malcolm E. Chace IJI, Eli zabeth ments were by Max Sugarman son of the late Hyman and Jennie 15, 1987. He had also been t he from community sources. On C. Henshaw, Norma 8. Goodman, Memorial Chapel, Providence. (Goldstein) Shindler. husband of t he late Esther February 18, 1957, But ler Lilia G. Nash, Lenore Leach, Mr. Shindler was treasurer of (Lansky) Mickelson. reopened. Betty B. Pinkos, Ant hony V. the Chased Schei Amess Born in Russia, son of the late ""U nlike the Butler Hospital Rocha, M.D., Sylvia V. Sapir, Association, and treasurer of t he Harry and t he late Sophie that closed in 1955 , today's Butler Ruth Zucker, Ada Mogazel, Ada BESSIE EDELSTEIN fo rmer Providence Fraternal (Curhan) Mic kelson, he had been a is well -positioned." declared Mr. Meld onia n, Vi rgin ia Rhodes, J ea n Association. He was a member of PAWTUCKET Bessie resident of New Bedford, living in Allen. ·· 1t is able to respond to the Richmond, Ruth Samdperil, Rose Redwood Lodge 35, AF & AM, t he Edelstein died on February 17 , North Dartmouth fo r the last 20 uncertain and sometimes Gravina, .Joseph Whinery, Sarah Palestine Shrine, the Jewish I 987. She is survived by a sister, years. threatening conditions that Whinery, and Gary St. Peter. Home fo r the Aged. t he South Esther Schec hter of Pawtucket. He was t he owner and operator prevail in the health care Mr. All en presented a two yea r Providence Hebrew Free Loan Graveside services we re held at the of the fo rmer Jack Mickelson's industry." se rvice award to Ruth S. Association, the Providence Chevra Kadisha Cemetery of Wholesale Produce in New Bedford Pour people who played key Medeiros, a house kee ping aide. Hebrew Free Loan Association Boston, Mass. Arrange ments were for 30 years before retiring 15 years ro les at the hospital in the 1950s Ten yea r se rvice awards we re also and the fo rme r O.H.C. by the Max Sugarman Memorial ago. were guest spea kers. They presented to Isabel B. Brennan, He leaves two daughters, Chapel, Providence. Besides his wife, he leaves a included Benjamin R. Sturges, Geo rge Pierce, Ernestine M . Florence Nachbar of Providence daughter, Beverly Solup of interim preside nt during the Souza, Dora E. Daniel, Thomas and Phyllis Weiner of Barrington; Somerset; a brother, Sam hospit al's reorganization in 1956, M. Si lvia, Deborah ,J. Guimaraes, four sisters, Dora Finkler, Mickelson of New York City; two Robert H.l. Goddard, a board Arthur E. Martin, Helena B. Chandelle, Susan and Ethel sisters, Fay Galuski of New member at that time and later a Ma rtins, Robe rt K. Kirkman, and DEBRA H. PINCK Shindler, all of Providence, and Bedford and Marcia Mason of president fr om 1972 to 1978, Judge Paul f'. O' Brien. Debra H. Pinck died February fi ve grandchildren. Tampa, Fla ., two grandchildren; Alfred H . .J oslin, president of the 14 , 1987. A fu neral was held in A fune ral service was held at the and one great-grandchild. new hospital from 1957 to 1965, New Jersey. Arrangements were Max Sugarman Memorial Chapel, Arrangements were by the Max and Melvyn Johnson, M.D., a by Max Sugarman Memorial 458 Hope St. Burial wa s in Lincoln Sugarman Memorial Chapel, 458 form er president of the hospital's Chapel, 458 Hope Street, Park Cemetery, Warwick. Providence. Hope St., P rovid.~e~n;ce;;·======r* U.S. Federal law now requires all funeral homes to provide itemized pricing. Mount Sinai Memorial Chapel has provided this courtesy for over eleven years.

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Kindergarten through Grade Twelve • Restoration was more than a demonstration fo r t he Shahhat, she said, more Vehe me nce Toward J ews against the hostile racism t hat J ews wou ld have pa rticipated. And Blacks • Dryvit System occurred t here one week earlier. "The wo rd !- of the For most of t ho!-e who came to Rebecca M, Gessow Rather, accordi ng to consensus, it counter-demons! rat ors last wee k demo nst rate against racia l School Psychologist REFERENCES AVAI LABLE was a coll ective show of solidarity (.January 17) were an affront to int olera nce. the ma rch provid ed ALL WORK GUARANTEED against the racial intolerance t hat .Jews as well as to Blacks." she thei r first glimpse at Lh e has occurred recently in Howard said. ve hemence some Am eri ca ns fee l 97 Eleventh Street Beach, NY, at T he Ci tadel in On January 17, about 90 people, toward ,Jews and Blacks. Many of Providence , RI 02906 Call the Klan sympat hize rs wo re Charleston, S.C., a nd in recent men, women, children, both Black (401 ) 331 -3493 racial incidents in Philadelphia and white, we nt to Fo r!-yth swastikas and many were young (401) 353-6912 and Bost.on . County to march fo r brotherhood teenagers, st riking a sense of fear "This thing developed a li le of in the all -whit e county. Blacks in some observe rs that the seeds of its ow n," said Sherry Frank, have not been welcome there fo r int ense racia l hat.red a re once r------~ Southeastern direct.o r of I he 75 years. But, to t he surprise of again being sown. CLASSIFIED AD ORDER SHEET The Anti· Defamdtion League of Am erican J ewish Committee. everyone. the brotherhood Nun, ______Phone _____ Frank commented t hat the Ku marche rs were met by 400 B'na i B'rith said t here are Klux Klan's hostile appearance sc reaming Ku Klux Kla nsmen and probably tO Kl an sympat hizers fo r Addnos ______-'----- J anuary 17 in Forsyth County, their all ies. Obscene racial each of the 200 Kl a n members situated 38 miles north of Atlanta, epithets we re hurled at the group who they estimate reside in Classification ______.~Headline ------shocked the sensibilities of the as was a barrage of bott les and Georgia. M.,.... ______nation and was the st raw that roc ks. " \Ve 've known for years that broke t he camel's back. The organize r of the march, Forsyth County is a white enclave The la rgest civil ri ghts march in civil rights ve teran Rev. Hosea a nd that the people there a re more than two decades, estimated \Villiams, said afterwa rd it was t he determ ined to keep it that way," at 15,000 to 20,000, bore witness to most violent , hate-fill ed group he said Cha rles Wittenstein, the RATES PAYMENT AOL's southern civil rights 15 worda for $3.00 Paymettl MUST be Nttived b)' the change that has occurred with had ever encountered. W~ aha-noon, PRIOR the passing of t ime. Nearly half Representatives of three J ewish director. " In both Howard Beach 12• per word to~ F'riu)' on 1Dlt.ldt iM ad t. the ma rchers on January 24 in groups joined with Atlanta's Black and Forsyth County, you have each additional word ioap~. l°"~forad, whit e yout hs expressing a "_ ,...... ,, 1"1UUM111eo~)! fo~ I yr. Forsyth Count.y we re white and leade rs to plan the second march w~-·....,.. this time the law was on the side of for brotherhood in Forsyth territori al impulse, which is to '",..,_,,,,F~p,,,pn defend thei r turf against outsiders, the demonstrators, not against County. They were t he Atlanta R.I• .JEWISH HERALD, P.O. 8oz 8083, ~ RI OflMO them as it was in the 1960's. chapters of the Ameri can Jewish particularly of a different race." Demonstration Resembled Committ ee, the Black-Jewish Wittenstein also noted that L------An Army Camp Coalition and the Am erican AOL's estimates on the numbers In fact, the scene of t he Jewish Congress. of Klan members are difficult to demonstration resembled an army A permit was secured. Law attain. Often, he said, Klan ~OME Nursing CARE camp: Some I,700 Georgi a enforcement, housing a nd leaders themselves don't know National Guardesmen in riot transportation were arranged. h,ow many members they've got. regalia were . joined by law But, no one •anticipated the What will become of Forsyth PRIVATE DUTY NURSING enforcement officials from the outpouring of support that came County now that the historic Georgia Bureau of Investigation, from throughout the nation. march th rough that small e REGISTERED NURSES the Georgia State Patrol and a Frank said Jews lent much in sout hern county is done and gone? : • Licensed Practical Nurses myriad of law enforcement the way of support for the second "Blacks will move back into officials from jurisdictions in and brotherhood march. A local hot el, Forsyth," said Sugarman. "But, it e NURSES AIDES e HOMEMAKERS a round metropolitan Atlanta. owned by a ,Jewish Atlant an, made wo n't be tomorrow and it may not e HOME HEALTH AIDES In all, a fo rce of nearly :l,000 100 rooms available to the he next year. Eventually the 'good kept an angry group of about 1,000 dignitaries who came in to march. leadership,' and I'm putting t.hat counter-demonstrators at bay, And, Atlanta's largest Reform in quotes, wi ll take charge. But, Please Call staving off · a potential Temple opened its doors for other it 's not going to he easy to CATHLEEN NAUGHTON ASSOCIATES confrontation with the marchers. demonstrators who had no place integrate Forsyth County." Prior to leaving Atlanta for the to sleep. Those arrangements were Employees Bonded and Insured ride to Cumming, the county seat made hy The Temple's rabhi, AVAILABLE 7 DAYS A WEEK 24 HOURS A DAY of Forsyth, 175 busloads of Alvin Sugarman. participants, including this "We share a history of reporter, waited anxiously, not oppression wit h Blacks," IN PROVIDENCE IN WAIIEFIELD . ..IN ilEWPDRf '· knowing what lay ahead. Sugarman told The Atlanta 249 Wlckenden Strut 576 Main Strut 38 BeUovue AYI. Jews Were Well Represented .Jewish Times. "It's in different 751-HeO 783-8118 . 849-1233 Frank said that Jews, from fo rms and to different degrees, hut Atlanta and elsewhere, were well we know what it means to he in an ,1, I ( ~ i 1 / I I t J ~ l , ...... _. •.• _1.r1.1r; ,,1.{J ···- · ... ·.·.· ..·.·.-.· ...... · .. 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A Identity movement, a melange of extremist right-wing groups were the meeting told The Chronicle Randy Gould, a member of t he spokeswoman for the Heritage Inn right-wing, white supremacist, taking advantage of the farmers' that the anti-Semitic rhetori c steering committee of acknowledged that two calls had anti-Semitic groups and plight. voiced at the event, with the RUAH/New Jewish Agenda here, co me in concern ing the meeting. individuals active nationally 'Jews Are a Menace To exception of a statement that went to the motel to protest the She claimed the call ers "asked if under the guise of a "church." Mankind' violence against Jews could be event along with three other the meeting was being held here The church conducted its first "By the Power of Almighty God necessary, received much support. individuals. They eventually were and, when they were told yes, they meeting last month in Grandview, and Spirit of our Savior Jesus The observers said t hat requested to leave the premises by made some threats about what Mo., a suburb, and plans to meet Christ, Christian America declares overwhelming cries of "amen" the Grandview police. would happen - that t here would again in the future. Between 50 war on you and your kind were heard in agreement to Gould maintained he called the be protesters and picketers. Then and 75 people, most of them white throughout the earth," the statements such as Jews are motel upon first hearing of the they hung up." males, attended the private pamphlet reads. "We call upon all gathering at Grandview's Heritage nations to join us in this holy Inn on January 17. A second cause. You Jews are a menace to meeting t he following day mankind; the earth can no longer attracted 25 persons. accept you." The event was publicized in Peters, a native of LaPorte, fli ers mailed to a broad Colo., served as minister to David cross-section of area residents Lane, a convicted member of T he MI~ERS ranging from members of the John Order, a Christian Identity group GREAT DINING Birch Society to Jews, according whose members have carried out to Carol Smith, farm crisis worker violent acts in the past. Wieland, WITH GENUINE HOMEMADE FLAVOR with the Jewish Community also from Colorado, has been Relations Bureau of Greater proposed as pastor fo r the local Kansas City. The JCRB has been Identity church, according to monitoring extremist groups Smith. This Week's Specials through its farm crisis project. Not Much Response There fs Something Available At Hope Street Only To Tempt Everyone! The flier announcing the Reports conflict as to the (Through 2/26) program made no mention of the response the ministers received at Christian Identity movement, but t he gathering. Two individuals Sweet and Sour Chicken Breasts invited individuals to attend a sent to the meeting by the JCRB Veal Copenhagen 89 lb. "Christian Church Formatio nal reported that so me of those in the FILET OF SOLE 4 Lightly breaded, seasoned , Spinach Lasagna meeting." audience seemed very sympathetic and prepared lo perfeclion. Eggplant Parmigiana Speakers on the program but that others were less t han A classic al M ill ers. included pastors Pete Peters, stirred by t he anti-Semitic words. Brisket of Beef Jarah Crawford and Ted Wieland, In fact, Smith said, the two Oriental Stir-Fry Chicken all of whom were identified by JCRB observers told her that Beef Tips in Wine Sauce Smith as Christian identity Peters mustered little response CHEESE NOODLE 289 ministers. "They are absolutely as when he asked those present to PUDDING lb. Whole Roasted C:1ickens anti-Semitic as you could possibly echo hi s statements with "amen." Knishes believe," Smith said. "They said that a lot of people A native of Tennessee, were skeptical/ ' Smith stated. Our Menu Changes Daily Crawford is the author of a "They weren't already deeply into COLESLAW 69' lb. So Call For Our Daily Specials pamphlet titled "The Jewish what was being said." Problem," which was passed out at She added that after t he event, PROVIDENCE PAWTUCKET GARDEN CITY -CRANSTON the meeting. Smith said the the JCRB received a call from one 774 Hope St. 542 Pawt.. ket Ave. 20 Hillside Rd . publication contains anti-Semitic woman who wa nted to voice her 751-8682 725-1696 942-8959 references in "literally every disgust with the whole affair. "She

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I 1 . ~ A2 - A Wedding Remembered T HE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987 groom hold the canopy above the Sheva Brocbot couple's heads. At the conclusion of the meal, The Ceremony the blessings are recited over a cup During the ceremony, the of wine, followed by t he Sheva assembled guests hear the blessing Brochot, or seven blessings, recited /Jiandu-·------over the wine. The memhf>rc: nfthP over a second cup of wine. The wedding party should stand. ln wine remaining is mixed together BIAN.CHI CAPTURES THE MOOD OF YOUR MOST most American weddings, the and the newlyweds then sip from bride and groom face the rabbi, it as a symbpl of their union. IMPORTAN_T DAY WITH THE ROMAN.TIC GOWN..S who faces the guests. In Hasidic The guests are then invited to ON_ THE FRON_T COVER AN_D ON_ OTHER FULL weddings, it is the custom for the partake in the marriage revelry, couple to face their guests. which includes folk dancing, PAGES IN_ THIS ISSUE. The wedding ring is slipped onto singing and toasts to the the bride's finger, or during a newlyweds with many glasses of double ring ceremony, over both wine. The newlyweds are often FRON.'f COVER- High degarge nec~line etched with French pleating, swirl beading the bride and groom's fingers. It is hoisted on chairs above their accents the deeply set yo~e. Puff and tapered sleeves enhanced with Alencon lace important to note that the ring or guests as part of the celebration. appliques, asymetn·cal dropped torso with French pleated rosettes resting on the rings be smooth with no In traditional weddings, the side. Softly gathered s~irt and train in shimmen·ng glow of Virgo satin. Row on ornamentation, to insure a smooth newlyweds continue to celebrate row of rosettes border the hemline. and unbroken married life. for the next seven days; neither go The ketuhah is read aloud, and to work nor even begin their PAGE 3: Reminiscent of an impressionist painting, the classic loo~ in all-over following t his the seven blessings honeymoon vacation. They live in their new home, and friends and pure sil~ taffeta. Ruffle outlines the shoulders and borders the v-bac~ nec~line. are recited. One of t hese, relatives entertain and feed them. Fitted bodice with tapered front compliments a bouffant s~irt, a bn·dal bustle bow translated into English, is as preluding the Cathedral train. follows: " Blessed be thou, 0 Lord, our About House BACK COVER- A beautiful balance of design. Sabrina nec~line, ruffles of French God, King of the universe, who has created joy and gladness, tulle edged in satin covers the shoulders and borders the v-bac~ nec~line. Pointed Of Bianebi bridegroom and bride, mirth and The House of Bianchi has been Alencon lace beaded bodice rests on a softly gathered Virgo satin s~irr, with short exultation, pleasure and delight, lace beaded puffs. fo r the last t hirty-fi ve years the love, brotherhood, peace and fo remost creator of bridal fashion Headpiece, headband trimmed with side satin rosettes, framed with a long fellowship. Soon may there be in the United States. From their illusion veil. heard in the cities of Judah and in headquarters in Boston have come the streets of Jerusalem, the voice each season designs which have m Newport of joy and gladness, the voice of been the pacesetters of the bridal Stores Rhode Island the bridegroom and the voice of industry. ERICA'S BRIDES OF N.EWPOR'T the bride, the jubilant voice of Bristol The Bianchi gown is .. . "The 36 W ashington Square bridegrooms from their canopy, Couture" of the bridal market . CHEZ MO/ BRIDAL BOUTIQUE and of youths from their feast of for each design is shaped with the No. Providen ce son 0 583 H ope St. g. Blessed be t hou, Lord, fi nest of detail in magnificient LUCILLE'S BRIDAL who makes the bridegroom to fabrics. The construction of a Cranston rejoice with the bride." gown, which basically takes six to J 901 Smith St. Two cups of wi ne are used BRIDAL'S BY MARY A){N eight yards of fabric, is Warwick during the ceremony, one for the individually thought out so that its 991 Oa ~lawn Ave. betrothal ceremony and a second BRIDES OF BOS'TON. entire architecture is sculptured to for the nuptials ceremony. Two perfection, regardless of fabric. East Providence 642 East Avenue separate cups are used to ensure Each silhouette is given the total AMOUR FASHIONS PERFECT BEG/N.J\l.lN.GS that both ceremonies retain their look encompassing its own individual identity. BRIDAL BOUTIQUE Governor Frances headpiece and veil, all scaled to a Another custom that is a feature perfect balance, complementing 313 'Taunton Avenue Shopping Plaza of traditional Jewish weddings is the overall gown. Shaping luxury HELEN.E'S BRIDAL SHOPPE the circling of the groom. The fabrics, often unadorned, are Woonsocket bride walks around the gronm 84 'Taunton Avenue masterpieces of couture designing HOUSE OF BRIDES either seven or three times in that only Bianchi can give. PERFECT BEG/N.J\1./N.GS order to demonstrate the Biblical 203 Pond S'T. To produce magnificent designs Wampanoug M all verse: uTherefore shall a man is one thing; to manufacture them leave his father and mother and Photos courtesy of Modern Bride. to perfection is quite another, cleave to his wife and they shall be especially when one considers the one flesh." many thousands of gowns that are When the bride encircles the made to be shipped all nver the Traditional Rituals Of A Jewish Wedding groom, she stakes out a new United States and abroad. 'l'o relationship in which her husband insure that each dress is made by Robert Israel Day of Atonement, when Jews fast a local artist or calligrapher, and is now the center of her life and exactly as the vision in the A traditional Jewish marriage is to have their past sins forgiven. in many Jewish homes one can her parents - although still designer's mind, The House of a joyous and sacred event, T raditionally, a wedding day is a find the ketubah framed and respected and loved - are now in Bianchi has perhaps the most approached with the .same day of repentance of past sins and hanging on the wall. They are the periphery. As she steps inside modern computer-directed solemnity accorded Yorn K1ppur the beginning of a new life beautifully illuminated and the circle and takes her place to manufacturing facility in the and t he Sabbath. Although many together. decorated documents. the groom's right inside of the country. Here the many of the traditional rituals are Badeken The ketubah is required by symbolic home, she is carrying out departments of skilled craftsmen seldom followed today, those who Before the wedding begins, Jewish law. It is the document the Biblical injunction to be "one - headpieces and veiling - adopt them for their wedding day there is a traditional custom called that states the marriage is a legal flesh." original hand beading with t hat have found them deeply badeken, in which the groom and moral commitment, not just Following the recital of the great Italian touch - handmade significant and inspirational. places a veil over his bride's face. one of physical and emotional seven blessings, the ceremony flowers - special design rooms to A oon-Jewish wedding can be This ceremony takes place in the union. concludes with the traditional handle exquisite lace, appliques, performed in the presence of only rabbi's study or bride's room. In The Cbupah breaking of the glass. The groom and re-embroidered laces - these two witnesses, and often includes many cases,,it is attended only by During the wedding ceremony, smashes the glass with his right many departments, some the "giving away" of t he bride. A the immediate families. the bride and groom stand under foot as a reminder of the practicing very ancient crafts, are Jewish wedding should take place The custom of badeken is said to destruction of the Temple. In coordinated by a modern computer only in the presence of a minyan have originated with Rebekah the chupah, or marriage canopy, which represents the litter in modern weddings, a lightbulb to insure that every piece reaches (a quorum of 10). No one "gives when she was brought to marry which the bride was transported in wrapped in a cloth is used because its proper place in a gown and is the bride away." Following the Isaac. It is considered to be a the long-forgotten days. The bride it makes a louder smashing sound. precisely as created by the service, the bride does not throw universal symbol of bridal wears white, a symbol of purity Following the ceremony, the designer. her bouquet to her guests, but modesty. and, according to tradition, a couple moves to a private room for Each season with great bustle retreats with the groom to a Ketubab touch of mourning (for white is yichud, or a moment alone. After and excitement the new designs private room for 10 minutes ~o The ketubah is a marriage aiso the color of a burial shroud) spending about 10 minutes or so are created. It is a challenge that ceremonially consummate their contract and during t he wedding fo r the destruction of the Temple. alone, the couple is free to mingle Bianchi loves - To create for that marriage. T his moment alone, ceremony it is read aloud. The The groom also wears a white with guests and the one particular bride, the most called yichud, is the first ketubah is written in Aramaic. It photographers. The meal is begun magnificient gown, which is for details t he rights and robe, or kittel, such as is worn on opportunity the couple has had to with t he ritual washing of the her greatest moment, and which eat illl day, since it is customary responsibilities of the newly Yorn Kippur. The chupah must be hands and the recitation of the affixed to t he top of poles. When must be the setting to enhance the for the couple to fast before the married couple. A folk custom that motzi, generally over a large natural radiance which shines so the c~remony is held outdoors, the wedding day. In this sense, there is has been carried into modern braided challah. brightly from her on this day. a similarity to Yorn Kippur, the times is to have a ketuhah made by families or friends of the bride and -1

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A4 - A Wedding Remembered THE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987 What Is Au Aufrurl marriage. Many brides follow the old by Robert Israel Observed by Conservative and tradition of presenting the groom Heraki Editor Orthodox Jews, the aufruf is with a new tallis to be worn fi rst at An aufruf is a ceremony in customarily held on t he Shabbat his aufruf and thereafter - which the groom is called to the prior to the wedding. It may, symbolic of his new role as head of Torah and chants the same however, take place at any service their household. T he tallis is blessings he recited as a Bar at which t he Torah is read - on sometimes presented in a Mitzvah. Shabbat, on Monday or on hand-embroidered velvet bag with his initials, a quotation or a garland of flowers. While gifts are not expected on this occasion, a memento from A WEDDING parents or grandparents - a keepsake, a kiddush cup, a book of IN YOUR FUTURE? Jewish customs fo r t he home - is a thoughtful addition. • Mother-of-the-Bride Dresses Candlesticks, presented by the (Long & Short) groom's parents to the bride, are a • "Going Away" Outfits memorable gift on this day, and with the kiddush cup, may be used We Offer Elegant, Affordable Clothing at the wedding ceremony. for All Seasons Following the service, the parents or the couple often host a PERSONAL SERVICE kiddush fo r the congregation. AND ALTERATIONS While not obligatory, a light dairy buffet is appropriate - especia lly if the aufruf is held on a weekday and is over by ten o'clock. For certain, the family should provide wine and cake - and in the right setting, liquor fo r a toast.. A contribution to the synagogue or one of its funds is customary. In Reform Judaism, on the Friday evening before t he wedding, the couple is called fo rward to receive a traditional blessing from the rabbi. This is Central Avenue (Benny's Plaza) usually in the company of their Thursday. When t_he groom is Seekonk/Pawtucket Line the groom in receiving a special parents and soon-to-be-in-laws. If sufficiently learned, he may be blessing for their fo rthcoming t he couple wishes, they may read 761 -7567 asked to cha nt the Haftorah in marriage. Often1 a small group of from the Torah. Open Tues.-Sat. 10-5:30, Thurs. Hites ti/ 9 P.M. addition to the appropriate parents and family and t he To make the occasion special, VISA MC blessings. couple's friends are inviled to the an Oneg Shabbat is held on this In some synagogues, the bride aufruf. evening, with flowers on the may be called to the pulpit to join An old custom which has been bimah in honor of the fo rt hcoming revived recently at weddings wedding. involves t he groom who is showered with raisins and nuts - sometimes even candy - when he recites t he blessings. This was originally a fertility omen, but now may be seen simply as a wa'j of expressing good wishes for a sweet

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A6 - A Wedding Remembered T HE RHODE ISLA D HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987 We'll do everything Ketubah - Bride's Bill Of Rights The word ketubah is derived from the Hebrew ketau, to wri te. for your wedding but T he earliest ketubot date from the end of the fi rst century, C.E., and were revolutionary fo r the period, throw the bouquet. because 20 centuries ago they provided a woman with legal rights in marriage. Written in Aramaic, the technical language of the Talmud, the Ketubah was a binding contract in a rabbinic court, but could hardl y be considered a romant ic document. While ketubot in the ancient mold exist today in tradit ional ci rcles, the contemporary ketubah in many cases has become less a co ntract and more a pe rsonalized pledge between a couple. These new ketubim have been called brit ketubot, "covenant ketubot," which express an egalitarian spi rit in the idiom of today. Some couples choose to have both - t he old and the new - because Jewish law recognizes the traditional style onl y In the ancient rite, the bride and groom do not sign their ketubah as one would expect of a contract. Rather, in a brief ceremony before the wedding, the rabbi gives to the groom a handkerchief or other article, in behalf of the recipient of out fo r an engaged daughter two Psalms or the Song of Songs in the ketubah - t he bride. He decades later. But a growing splendid call igraphy. Conside rabl e returns it, signifying hi s number of brides and grooms are artist ic freedom is permissibl e, agreement with the terms of the commi ssioning ketubah a rtists to and there is a wide range in price contract. Two witnesses sign t he create personalized designs fo r - from lithographs or prints for ketubah. It next appears beneath them which a re framed and under $50 to up to thousa nds of the chupah, where it is read aloud. become a piece of art. dollars for some, intricately Today's couples ofte n sign their ha nd -lettered and illuminated in pledge, which they may have There are no guidelines fo r the go ld leaf. written themselves or which t hey physical properties of a ketubah Anita Diamant, in The N ew chose from among many poetic except that when an object is used J ewish Wedding Boo k, relates that and meaningful versions available. to fu lfill a commandment, it must the Baal Shem Tov sa id , when a be as beautiful as possible. Cut couple fi ghts, they should read the In many cases, the old style paper, gold tracery, watercolors ketubah aloud to each other to ketubah - after presentation to and acrylics in modern, Orienta l, evoke images of t heir wedding day the bri de because it is her or nowery motifs appear in when t hey affi rmed their covenant document - was relegated to a co niemporary ketubot. Some are with each other, when t hey were bank vault, a hide-away or even a adorned with renderings of su rrounded with love and when closet shelf and perhaps dragged bibli cal scenes or quotes from God entered their relationship. W e' ll see to it that every­ thing al your wedding is THE ACCESSORY CORNER perfect. From the table setting to the champagne, Presents ... and every little detail in between. We'll even throw in a complimentary room for the bride and groom. So call us at 421-0700 for your free brochure. Then all you'll have to think about is the honeymoon.

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the choice we made: an outdoor Preparing Your Jewish ceremony on a Sunday afternoon under a chuppah held by our We dding With Options parents, with friends and fa mily by Robert Israel couple planning a Jewish wedding gathering afterward fo r dancing, dinner and a wine-punch. Herald Editor should realize, before the A lot depends, of course, on the T here are a lot of pressures on a anouncement is made, that they couple planning to get married. In have options available to them. level of commitment to Judaism, whether the couple is Orthodox, addition to t he pressures of career, I have attended very formal Conservative or Reform, and life -style and finances, when a Jewish weddings, complete with whether the couple wants to have a couple is going to announce their gorgeous garlands of flowers synagogue wedding or a private intention to get married/ they hanging from the rafters, t he might fi nd themselves in a wedding party dressed elegantly in reception. Before making the announcement, the couple should situation where t heir fam ilies are tuxedos and gowns, a four course decide where the wedding will take dictating to them how the wedding meal and an endless fl ow of should be, leaving them on the champagne and music. My own place. If a synagogue wedding is outside. This needn't happen. A wedding was simpler, but t hat was preferred, either the bride or t he groom usually are members of that synagogue, or their parents are members. T here are synagogues that rent t heir social halls out to non· members. Also, if a wedding in a private hall is decided upon, R,,bbis must be consulted in advance to see if t hey are not scheduled to be out of town or attending other functions. If a synagogue is preferred, a couple should call t he synagogue and arrange to make an appoint ment with the executive director fa r in advance of the wedding. T he executive director will then proceed to help you plan your wedding. Experienced Travelers Say: For this report, I consulted Robert Goldberg, executive V aria tions 01'1 the them e: Swiss beaded appliqu.es trim the "Satisfaction Begins with a director of Temple Beth-El in Sabrina nec~line with a deep veed bac~. Victorian puff / Call To Hope:' Providence, asking him what a tapered sleeves and an updated versiO'l'I of the debO'l'la ir bodice, couple planning to be married al flowing into a Princess f rO'l'l t s~irt of Virgo satin, comp lete the Sheryl Bernstein Joel Bernstein ~ Temple Beth-El will experience. Bob Bernstein ~ "At Temple Beth-El, which is a ensemble. Reform synagogue, the parents of marriage a Jewish occasion and forth." the couple or the bride and/or that a Jewish ceremony will take There are a number of helpfu l .,:\;t:!;',;, 32 Goff Avenue ~ groom have to be members of the place. books which explore the religious ~r.w y~+.. L Pawtucket, RI congregation in order to be "The fi rst step a couple will do is significance of a wedding, and it is '°~'4~n'" ~"i,\~~ • TEL. 728·3600 married here," Goldberg said. "At t.o call and make an appointment recommended that a couple Temple Beth-El, we consider a with me. T ogether we'll decide on a consult one of t hese books before date and then I'll check to see if meeting wit h the fuibbi. There are there are no connicts at the twn books available, published by T emple on that date. In t he J ewish Shocken and Doubleday in New religion, a person cannot be York, that answer a number of Your Mother's jeweler • • married during t he Sabbath. religious questions. (Both these Weddings take place either books are available at the Brown Saturday night, after sundown, or University bookstore in on Sunday at noon. Providence in the Judaica section, " At the time of the initial or consult the library at your appointment, another appoint· synagogue.) T he books give a brief ment is made with the fuibbi at history of Jewish weddings and t he Temple because there are a explain the religious significance number of religious questions that of the ketubah, the rings, t he have to be asked before the chuppah and so fo rt h. If you have wedding ceremony can take place," further questions, bring them with Goldberg said. "Some examples of you when you meet with the questions that will be explored R,,bbi. during the conference with the "Once a date for the wedding is Rabbi will concern vows, whether set," Goldberg continued, "a or not the ceremony will be a cont ract is signed. A couple can double ring ceremony, whether or expect to pay between $300.00 and not the ketubah will be read and so

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Beautifully Manicured Nails: honeymoon. It should contain an Your Crowning Glory emery board, polish remover and The Finishing Touch For cotton bells, nail glue, poli sh, base Julius Caruso, New York's arranging appointments for and top coats. fo remost hairdresser, who has everyone will make hairdressing The Bride Ou Her Special • Every two to three days, put been styling New Yo rk's society easier and the whole party more aside 15-30 minutes to take care of bri des fo r more than 40 yea.rs, has attractive. Day Aud Afterwards your hands: Soak them in warm the fo llowing tips fo r your big day: water fo r about 10 minutes, dry well and, to keep your manicure • Consult your hairdresser at This year's bride will find a E xpert Advice looking great, touch-up polish least one week befo re t he event, return to mo re t raditional, L'Oreal experts offer the where needed, and apply an extra and bring yo 1tr ueil. femini ne styles: Not onl y will fo ll owi ng tips to help brides get When the occasion calls for coat of a clear top coat. something different gowns he adorned with lots of lace through their wedding day and • Keep your cut and style simple; • If you break a nail, si mply an elaborate hairstyle detracts and tiny seed pearls, hair will be honeymoon looking great: remove t he polish, repair t he nail from the beauty of your dress and longe r and fuller. Nails, however, • Treat yourself to a manicure with just a drop of glue, let dry, the day. ~ ~,i will be shorter, oval and poli shed a nd pedicure the day before the then file till smooth. Reapply base in go -with-everything pastels and wedding. It's an inexpensive way coat and nail polish, ending with a • Keep the style soft. All brides, ~ 50~ U d. neutrals. to have hands, feet a nd legs top coat. Remember: Never put no matter their age, should look "Brides wi ll be particularly massaged and it helps reduce glue on top of polish or use more "soft, shiny and sweet." pleased with t he subtle shades tension. than a drop or two. ·~J~ • Try and keep the length of your Personalized being shown fo r spring of 1987," • Nail s poli shed in neutral colors • T o avoid hands and cuticles S\ hair above shoulder length. It's •Invitations • Stationery says Linda Harris, director of won't detract from you, your drying out from sun and exposu.re product development for L'Oreal wedding gown or honeymoon simpler for both the wedding and Pany Fa vors & G ifts to water, massage in moisturizer the honeymoon. • Ca lligraph y Cosmetic Di vision, manufacturers trousseau. several times a day. of Colour Riche Nail Enamel. • Don't use your nails as a tool • Avoid heavy hair sprays and " L'Oreal's spring '87 color story when opening gifts arrivi ng at the mousses. This is a day you want BRIDAL SHOWER & will be classic, crisp, soft a nd fresh last minute. In the excitement, try Nail Down Beautiful Hands your hair to be soft to the touch WEDDING JNVITA TIONS colors ... neutral and pastel pinks, to remember to use a pair of With a li ttle attention, you'll be and to smell clean and fresh. lilacs and mauves, t hat will take a scissors or letter opener, or let the able to get through your 999 Oaklawn A ve nue, Cranston bride from her wedding day groom help. honeymoon with hands a nd nails • V on 't forget your bridesmaids. 943-1142 • Don't forget to peck a small as It's important fo r the whole bridal through the end of her looking as great they did the Mon.-Sat. 10-5 honeymoon." repair kit to ta ke along on your day you were married. party to feel beautiful, and

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The Bride Address envelopes for Keep appointment with invitations end announcements. hairdresser. The lion's share of preparation Make a date with your Don't forget to say " I do." fa/~ on the bride and her family. attendants to order their dresses. Division of labor is often the key to Hire a photographer for your success. And starting early is portraits end candids. The Groom imperative. Make en appointment with your gynocologist fo r a physical The groom doesn't haue as many at least six months examination, and to discuss birth wedding preparations to make as Get wedding date. control. the bride, but his responsibilities Send in engagement Arrange all the reception details are important ones. Those listed announcement to your newspaper. with the caterer. here are spaced ouer six months - Discuss your overall wedding Order your wedding cake (if it's the minimum time needed to budget. not included in catering). arrange a formal wedding. elect the size, style and site of Discuss ceremony details with your ceremony. rabbi. six mo nt hs Make arrangements to vi il the Discuss colors with mothers so Make your proposal. R>lbbi with your fian ce. they can order dresses. Order your bride's engagement Plan your reception, and make and wedding rings. the necessary reservations. six weeks to one month Start making your guest list. Buy the groom's wedding gift. Choose a.nd order your wedding Arrange with your fiance to visit Mail your invitations. dress, veil and accessories. the rabbi. Make appointment with Select and register china, silver, Discuss with your fiance how hairdresser. crystal a.nd other choices. many ushers you'll need (about one Choose and order fl owers fo r Begin your guest list, and have for every fifty guests); begin to wedding and reception. your fiance begin his. choose. Have the final fitting of your Choose the friends you'd like as Discuss honeymoon plans with your attendants. dress and headpiece. your bride and start making the Have portrait taken and order Stop chewing your fingernails. necessary reservations. If you're glossies for your newspaper. leaving the country, check on three mo nths Choose and order the gifts for passports, visas and inoculations. Complete your guest list. your attenda.nt.s. Ma ke arrangements for Order invitations, announce Order the groom's wedding ring rehearsal dinner. A bridal f antasy: gently petaUed scoop nec~line begins a ments, and personal stationery. (if you're giving him one). Make sure your fiance gave the bodice of Swiss dim ensional app!iques an d short puff sleeves, Begin shopping fo r your Make arrangements for your announcement to the newspaper. glittering with beading. float on floats of French 'TuUe designs trousseau. bridesmaids' luncheon. Arrange lodging fo r out-of-town Plan rehearsal dinner (unless three months the s~irt and f uU train, with a pee~-through of Lace edging. guests and attendants. groom's family is giving it). Start shopping for your Write thank-you notes for all trousseau. gifts as they arriue. Complete your guest list and give it to your fiance. two week s Make sure she hires BARBARA DESSEL T ERRI McCARRON Complete your trousseau. photogapher. Go with your fi ance to get t he Order your wedding attire after marriage license. consulting your bride. Arrange fo r transportation of Ask your best man and ushers to the bridal party to the synagogue. particpate, and brief them on Check on the delivery of all proper at.tire. cAscebuos purchases. Complete honeymoon plans and Deliver wedding announcement purchase all tickets. and picture to newspaper. Get a physical. one week Begin your honeymoon packing. one mon th Give the fi nal estimate of P ick up your bride's wedding reception guests to the caterer. ring. Check to see that the Be sure announcements are engraving is correct. ready to mail after ceremony. Check with bride about your Give and/ or attend your share of fl orist bill. bridesmaid's luncheon. Order gloves and neckwear for Arrange the rehearsal, and your attendants, and make sure inform the wedding party. they've ordered their own wedding Check out final details with attire. florist, photographer, etc. Select a gift fo r your bride, and Arrange for belongings to be your attendan ts. moved to your new home. Arrange lodging for relatives and Keep up with your gifts ushers from out of town. acknowledgements. Make sure all documents -

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The Bride Address envelopes for Keep appointment with invitations and announcements. hairdresser. The lion's share of preparation Make a date with your Don't forget to say " l do." falls an the bride and her family. attendants to order their dresses. Division of labor is often the key to Hire a photographer fo r your success. And starting early is portraits and candids. The Groom imperative. Make an appointment with your gynocologist for a physical The groom doesn 't haue as many at least six months examination, and to discuss birth wedding preparations to make as Get wedding date. control. the bride, but his responsibilities Send in engagement Arrange all the reception details are important ones. Those listed announcement to your newspaper. with the caterer. here are spaced over six months - Discuss your overall wedding Order your wedding cake (if it's the minimum time needed to budget. not included in catering). arrange a formal wedding. elect the size, style and site of Discuss ceremony details with your ceremony. rabbi. s ix months Make arrangements to visit the Discuss colors with mothers so Make your proposal. Rabbi with your fiance. they can order dresses. Order your bride's engagement Plan your reception, and make and wedding rings. the necessary reservations. six weeks to one month Start making your guest list. Buy the groom's wedding gift. Choose and order your wedding Arrange with your fiance to visit Mail your invitations. dress, veil and accessories. the rabbi. Make appointment with Select and register china, silver, Discuss with your fiance how crystal and other choices. hairdresser. many ushers you'll need (about one Begin your guest list, and have Choose and order nowers for fo r every fifty guests); begin to your fiance begin his. wedding and reception. choose. Have the final fitting of your Choose the friends you'd like as Discuss honeymoon plans with your attendants. dress and headpiece. your bride and start making the Have portrait taken and order St.op chewing your fi ngernails. necessary reservations. If you're glossies for your newspaper. leaving the country, check on three months Choose and order the gifts for passports, visas and inoculations. Complete your guest list. your attenda.nts. Make arrangements for Order invitations, announce Order the groom's wedding ring rehearsal dinner. A bridal fantasy: gently petalled scoop nec~line begins a ments, and personal stationery. (if you're giving him one). Make sure your fiance gave the bodice of Swiss dimensional appliques and short puff sleeves, Begin shopping fo r your Make arrangements fo r your announcement to the newspaper. glittering with beading. Float on floats of French 'Tulle designs trousseau. bridesmaids' luncheon. Arrange lodging for out-of-town Plan rehearsal dinner (unless three months the s~irt and full train, with a pee~-through of lace edging. guests and attendants. groom's family is giving it). Start shopping for your Write thank-you notes fo r all trousseau. gifts as they arrive. Complete your guest list and give it to your fiance. two weeks Make sure she hires a BARBARA DESSEL TERRI McCARRON Complete your trousseau. photogapher. Go with your fiance to get the Order your wedding attire after marriage license. consulting your bride. Arrange fo r transportation of Ask your best man and ushers to the bridal party to the synagogue. particpate, and brief them on Check on the delivery of a ll proper attire. cAscebuos purchases. Complete honeymoon plans and Deliver wedding announcement purchase all tickets. and picture to newspaper. Get a physical. one week Begin your honeymoon packing. one month Give t he final estimate of Pick up your bride's wedding reception guests to the caterer. ring. Check to see that the Be sure announcements are engraving is correct. ready to mail after ceremony. Check with bride about your Give and/ or attend your share of norist bill. bridesmaid's luncheon. Order gloves and neckwear fo r Arrange the rehearsal, and your attendants, and make sure inform the wedding party. they've ordered their own wedding Check out final details with attire. florist, photographer, etc. Select a gift for your bride, and Arrange for belongings to be your attendants. moved to your new home. Arrange lodging for relatives and Keep up with your gifts ushers from out of town. acknowledgements. Make sure all documents -

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Each hotel has an all -inclusive T he hotel features luxurious some of the area's best downhill honeymoon package with rates rooms with private balconies; a and cross-country skiing as well as AAA is the variable depending on time of year huge, one-third acre swimming a lake for ice-skating. most trusted name and length of stay. From late April pool with swim-up bar; a J ack A t hree-day, two-night in travel. Depend through mid-December, t hese Nicklaus-designed golf course; honeymoon package is $370 per on us for the hotels are exceptional values. For fitness trail; two hard-surface couple and includes two hearty reservations, call Hyatt tennis courts; and three breakfasts, gourmet dinner and best prices and the Worldwide Reservations at restaurants. two-day lift tickets at popular right information. 800-228-9000. 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Hlghwa';' 678-8333 Invitations to play abound Cayman offers two different All hotel rates are subject to MIDDLETOWN 700 Aquldneck Ave. 847-6393 WAKEFIELD 63 Tower HIii Rd. 789·97D1 throughout t he lush 1,500 acres. four-day/three-night honeymoon change, depending on seasons. =--, I I T H E RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987 A Wedding Remembered - A29

Marinated Lamb In Wine Sauce 1 cup Bertolli Imported Olive Oil (Extra Light or Classico) 6 tablespoons soy sauce 6 tablespoons chopped parsley Beautifully Decorated (lt.alian-style, if available) 3 small cloves garlic, minced WEDDING CAKES I½ teaspoons thyme, crushed ¾ t.easpoon dry mustard ¾ teaspoon crushed red pepper AND CAKES ¾ teaspoon crushed rosemary for all your ¾ teaspoon oregano, crushed 3 lb. boneless leg of lamb, cut special occasions into 1-inch cubes 1 cup dry red wine SPECIAL In blender, combine first nine ingredients. Blend until smooth. ORDER DEPT Reserve ¼ cup. In shallow bowl, combine lamb 726-4422 and marinade. Toss to blend. Cover and let stand at room temperature fo r one hour. T ransfer LO shallow roasting pan. Bake at 450"F, 20 minutes for medium, or until desired

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Cbam1>agne Adds q_:) Sparkle O 0 'Traditional weddings are back in fas hi on. And when your wedding in clud es numerous toasts by mer ry·making guests in fo rm al attire, a large reception, and an extended ceremony, tradition demands the indispensable beverage: Champagne. Champagne fr om France adds zest and gaiety to the happy occasion. Wh ether you rs is a daytim e or evening wedding, whether you serve a sit-down Make your next ce lebration a dinner or allow guests to serve themselves from a tasteful buffet, sumptuous feast for the eyes as well Champagne is proper at any time and with every menu . as the palate, with the help of Champagne ca n also add sparkle to special days before and after the ce remony. The "bubbly" Lillian Zarum, professional party provides a lovely grace note when served to friends at a bridal planner. Experience the satisfaction shower, to members of both fami li es at an engagement dinner, or to bridesmaids and ushers at and piece of mind knowing that wedd in g rehea rsals. Recall the start of your life everything will turn out 'just perfect' \ together by servi ng Champagne on several occasions. Begin with a when coordinated with the utmost in taste. From cozy get-togethers to wedding tete- ~-tete wedding breakfast on the fo ll owi ng day and pop a Champagne co rk for birthdays, receptions, you'll be dining in style when you set your table with the help of anniversaries, Valentine's Day and other family milestones. B'alkg'aA~.· Champagne shows itself to best advantage in tall, long-stemmed flute or tulip glasses - not the Lillian Zarum 80 Stimson A venue saucer-type glasses which dissipate the bubbles rapidly. Include these in your bridal 273-6869 registry so you can entertain at home with style and ve rve. T HE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUA RY 20, 1987 The Wedding Announcement by Robert Israel When you are planning your Up until a decade ago, news­ wedding, you should prepare, well papers discouraged photographs in advance of the date, to publish which included the groom and even your announcement in your local cut him out of paired photographs. newspapers. This is not the case at this news­ A call to the Herald, at paper, but the Prouidence 724-0200, will get you started in Journal-Bulletin, however, does the right direction. We will send not accept photographs of bride you a wedding an nou nce ment and groom. sheet. Included on the sheet is an As with the Herald, it is additional fo rm which will entitle important to obtain a fo rm from you to a free, one year subscription the Journal-Bulletin in advance. to the newspaper with our You may do this by telephoning compliments. We ask that the their offi ces at 277-7000. information be typed or printed Like t he J ournal-Bulletin, this legibly and t hat you proofread the newspaper will in clude the basic fo rm ca refu lly before mai lin g it information about the wedding, back to us. Only black and white names of bride and groom, names photographs are accepted, and this of parents and grandparents, requires you to arrange with your education, occupation, wedding photographer, in advance, fo r a date and location place, black and white photograph to be attendants, future home town, and prepared. For this reason, many honeymoon destination. Ou r photographers arrange to take a deadline is Wednesday at noon fo r pre- bridal portrait wee ks ahead of publication that week, which is on • the wedding. a Friday. Let us help you Gifts Of J e welery Sure T o Please The We dding Part y with the Planning a wedding - even a Necklaces and pendants are simple one - can be an enormous popular gifts fo r bridesmaids and floral arrangements task. There is a multitude of t he maid of honor. A go ld fill ed decisions to be made by the pendant accented with pearls, betrothed couple. One of t he most diamonds or colored stones is a for your wedding day. important of these is the selection keepsake t hat will be cherished fo r ...... •...... • ...... of gifts for members of the years to come. Gold fill ed earrings, weddi ng. pins and bracelets are also When it comes to flowers, A/macs The J ewelry Industry Council available in a full array of styli sh notes that go ld fi lled jewelry, also designs. has a special knack for making refe rred to as gold overlay, meets For male members of the all these criteria. It has the look wedding party, engravables bearing arrangements for your wedding. and feel of fi ne jewelry at a mere t he date of the wedding are always fraction of the cost. This is appropriate. Go ld ' filled possible because a layer of real identi fi cation bracelets, key ring Just call any one of our six karat gold has been mechanically tabs and money clips are ideal for bonded to all vi sib le surfaces of this purpose. Al so consider gold flower shops and make an each piece. With reasonable care, filled cuff-links, tie tacks or collar appointment today. it can last a lifetime. bars. ~ ' - ~~ 3,.. ~ Come Pick Our Flowe rs.

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Wickford: Seekonk: Woonsocket: 7715 Post Rd. 14 75 Newman Ave. 1400 Park Ave. 295-529 3 761-6020 765-7576 A32 - A Wedding Remembered T HE RHODE ISLAND HERALD, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 1987

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