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Hip Hop Moms I Welfare Reform Intentional Communities Sept. 11 Families for Peace Rethinking Gay Marriage July/August 2004* Issue 27 the new nuclear unit according to breeders, co-habitators, and visionaries 1 $4.50 US/ $6.95 Canada 08 > "252 74 "96769' AK£*SIME JULY 31, 2004 HEADLINERS TOLEDO, OHIO MAKES0MEN0ISEFE8T.COM presented by t >/EHSD GROUP i Pick one when you subscribe to Clamor now or renew your current subscription early! Don't say we never gave you nothin'! JM Ward Churchill Various Artists Various Artists Greg MacPherson Flying Luttenbachers Life In Occupied America Bloodshot Sampler III Rock Against Bush Maintenance Retrospective IV AK Press Bloodshot Fat Wreck Chords G-7 Welcoming Committee Mtn. Coop, of Indep. 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EDITORS/PUBLISHERS Jen Angel • Jason Kucsma CONSULTING EDITOR from your editors Joshua Breitbart CULTURE EOITOR PEOPLE EOITOR Between the two of us, we can probably count the number of people we know Sarah Palmer Keidra Chaney who do NOT want kids on one hand. Since that includes both of us, you can see EDITORS ECONOMICS EDITOR POLITICS we're talking about a small number here. Arthur Stamoulis Madeleine Baran & Amanda Luker MEDIA EDITOR So when we decided- to do an issue on family, we were a little surprised that Catherine Komp REVIEW EDITOR it meant talking about kids. A lot. Even among progressives and individualists Keith McCrea and the kind of people that read Clamor, it seems that the default definition of PROOFREADERS family = parents + kids. We haven't escaped the social stigma of growing old and Elliot Adams. Hal Hixson, Scott Puckett. Knsten Schmidt unmarried, of having a partner but never having kids, or of just doing whatever the hell you want. That socialization, combined with all the legal definitions of LAYOUT & DESIGN family used to assign benefits, collect taxes, and categorize people, means that Jason Kucsma no matter how "progressive" you are, there are inherent contradictions in the COVER PHOTO word "Family." Jennifer Esperanza www.jenniferesperanza.com We put forth this topic to challenge the notions of family by giving some WEB DESIGN examples of different kinds of real families, different ways of raising kids (which Derek Hogue could be a whole magazine itself), and different definitions of "family" beyond ADVERTISING blood relations. We have an excellent article by Andy Cornell (p. 21) questioning Rates and deadlines available upon request. the push for acceptance of gay marriage, an article about the nonmonogamous Please call 419-243-4688 or visit www.clamormagazine.org/advertising Mosuo culture of China (p. 9), and a feature (or two) on the evolution of the Hip Mama community (pp. 30, 32). 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Queers Question Gay Marriage by Andrew Cornell 23 One Proud Day by Amanda Luker 24 Sep. 1 1 Families Speak Out for Peace by Burt Berlowe 26 Japan's Tent Villages by Orion Gray MEDIA 30 Synchro Mamas by Stacey Greenberg 32 Moms' Online Media by Bee Lavender 34 Firing The Babysitter: TV Turnoff Feature ed, Catherine Komp 36 Look Who's Leaving Children Behind Now? Anne Elizabeth Moore 38 I Won't Be There For You: Friends Makes Enemies by Jessica DelBalzo PEOPLE 42 THINK AGAIN by Nadxieli Manello 46 On the Road with Baldo by Marrit Ingman 48 Thicker Than Blood: Open Thought by Baba Israel and Emil Herscher 49 An Uncommon Bond by Kevin Semanick SEX & GENDER 52 Our Family by Ani, Theresa, and Sylvia 55 How to Get Pregnant D.I.Y Style by Fiona Thomson ECONOMICS 57 Personal Responsibily: Welfare Reform by Neil deMause 60 Intentional Communities: Redefining Family by Ellen Keohane 63 It's Just a Retail Job by Dustin Krcatovich 64 Recognizing the Boss's Face by Damon Rich LAST PAGE 66 Something's Happening Here by Emily Ruff REVIEWS 17 Taking Liberties, Measure Twice I 25 Peace Signs 33 Sounds for Summer I 37 Radio Radio I 39 Media Power & Politics of 45 Friendly Competition I 50 Someone for Everyone I 59 Beat the Heat a Please address letters to [email protected] or write us at PO Box 20128 Toledo, OH 43610 Letters may be edited for length. Not all letters received will be printed. SERVICE SECTOR BLUES want to see it, or you don't want your kids to of color ... that means organizing in the white As soon as I received Issue 26 (May/Jun 2004), see it, turn the damned thing off! community against racism ... It's about creating I immediately related to the older Krispy Kreme If we want our government to control humanistic relationships with people of color female employee photographed on the cover. what we see, here, and feel, then Ms. Moore's based on solidarity, community, and respect." I am one of many people forced to accept a opinion is a good way to go. It's more fodder The other was the comments on how low-paid job in the service industry. Despite for Bush and his hacks to take away our free "middle class people of color" don't fit "the my experience in the car business in support speech. We have to be responsible for our- analysis" purported by myself among many services, private security, and administrative selves, or risk the possibility of our government others. First of all, I was never referring to duties, I recently took a job in a convenience and our corporations taking away our freedom. middle class people of color in my article. Yes, store. The "good" jobs are no longer out there. there are middle class people of color in the Even the marginal jobs have flocks of appli- Kerri Danskin United States. Allowing some people of color to cants competing for that $8/hour position. Spring Lake Heights, NJ advance in Capitalist society and become part I have had no type of health insurance. of the middle class is an integral part of main- There are no unions in Florida so I had no rep- THANKS, TANK taining Institutionalized Racism.