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1\sv Helms Boots Baldwin, Other on religion echoed Travers' position, insisting that they may fear Falwell and Congresswomen, Creating Change Hits Hot Topics other far-right fundamentalist leaders and may be angered by their actions, but from Hearings million war chest they expect an all-out that they don't hate them. Washington — Among the io Anti-Marriage media campaign after the December hol- Some pointed out that at least 20 U.S. House of Representatives idays. "There is going to be an intense gays and had been murdered in members ordered expelled from a Initiative & `Stop radio and TV campaign for this initia- the past year with hundreds of other anti- Senate Foreign Relations Commit- Hating' Religious tive," openly gay San Francisco Supervi- gay attacks taking place around the coun- tee hearing by its chairman, Sen. sor Mark Leno told the conference. "It's try. "I'd have a difficult time pointing to Right on Agenda not going to be pleasant." one actual case of a killing or even an Although California's looming ballot attack aimed at a fundamentalist Christ- by Keith Clark measure got most of the attention at the ian in this country because of their reli- conference, the most controversial issue activist in the audi- of the IN Step staff gious beliefs," one arose from a panel on religion at which ence said. "And it's kind of hard to expect Oakland, Calif. — More than 2,200 the Rev. Mel White urged gays and les- people to turn the other cheek while , gay, bisexual and bians to stop hating fundamentalist lead- their homophobic attacks are killing us." activists from around the country gath- ers whom he described as "victims of ered in Oakland, Calif., for the 12th misinformation." annual Creating Change conference White told the conference: "We have Although the conference was clearly to be able to say, `I too am guilty of dominated by the pending fight against a hatred. I too am guilty of fear. I too am Supreme Court state ballot initiative that would bar the guilty of hyperbole, half-truths and lies.' state from recognizing same-sex mar- You have to say it. Because once you say Hears UW riages, whether legally performed else- it, the spirit of truth will ennoble you where or not, it wasn't the most contro- and make you strong at the task." Rep. Tammy Baldwin versial issue the gathering addressed. White said he had concluded that Student Fee Case The California ballot measure — the far-right religious leaders like Jerry Fal- Jesse Helms (R-N.C.), was Rep. Definition of Marriage Act more com- well "wasn't my enemy" but that he was a by Keith Clark Tammy Baldwin (D-Wis.). monly known as the Knight Initiative "victim of misinformation and it's our of the IN Step staff delegation of io women after state Sen. Pete Knight (R-Palmdale), The task to bring them to the truth in love Washington — The U.S. Supreme the lawmaker backing it — is seen by from the House was led by Rep. relentlessly." Court heard arguments in a Wisconsin many gay rights advocates as a first step in Lynn Woolsey (D-Calif.) who had In October, White led a delegation case that could have far-reaching effects efforts to roll back progress made in come to present Helms with a of 200 of his supporters in a meeting nationwide. domestic partnership benefits in the state. letter signed by more than loo with Falwell and 200 of his fundamental- The high court heard a suit filed "This is the greatest current threat to members of the House of Repre- ist backers to discuss ways to tone down against the University of Wisconsin by our quest for equality," said Tracy Conaty sentatives endorsing a UN human increasingly hostile rhetoric between gay conservative students who were upset of the No On Knight campaign. rights document, the Convention rights advocates and their opponents. student fees fund groups Although the annual National Gay that mandatory on the Elimination of All Forms of White drew criticism for that meet- support network and and Lesbian Task Force Creating Change such as an AIDS Discrimination Against Women. ing with Falwell at the time. Bob Kunst gay, and bisexual conference addressed a variety of other the campus lesbian, Helms has managed to block a of the Florida-based gay rights group, issues — anti-gay hate crimes, youth and center. vote in the Senate on the UN Oral Majority, led a protest outside the "We are simply asking that they be aging issues, repealing state sodomy laws, meeting at Lynchburg, Va., because of treaty and the House members sharpening activists' skills, religion — it funded by volunteers, and that they do came to the Senate committee White's participation, which he called not have the university force unwilling was also clear that the California ballot "an obscene act." hearings to present Helms with students to fund their political activities measure was going to be the primary topic Kunst went on to call White a "self- the letter signed by House col- down at the statehouse in Madison, of the gathering even before it got started. hating homosexual" who was "selling leagues in an effort to convince Simply holding the conference in Califor- Wis., or across the street here at Con- out" the gay and lesbian rights move- gress," said the students' attorney, Jordan him to allow the treaty to be nia just four months before state voters ment by meeting with Falwell at all. voted on by the Senate. will cast their ballots on the issue virtually Lorence. White's urging to rights activists to He said students should not have to But as the women stood in guaranteed it would be Topic No. One. stop hating right-wing opponents raised the back of the committee cham- In addition, other state groups coor- support groups they find objectionable. eyebrows at the Creating Change confer- The university is worried that getting bers, apparently because there dinated events about the Knight Initiative ence as well — although no anti-White was no seating available, Helms around the gathering as well. The East rid of university funds for such campus demonstrations. spell disaster for ordered Capitol police to expel Bay Lesbian and Gay Democratic Club organizations would Some activists at the conference ques- many of the groups that wouldn't get them from the chamber. conducted a door-to-door poll in Oak- tioned whether a civil rights movement money elsewhere, such as groups repre- House and Senate members, land on the eve of the conference to gauge could exist without a sense of anger. senting ethnic and racial minorities. as a matter of courtesy, are voter reaction to the ballot measure. "There has to be room for anger in our Although Knight has tried twice It is unclear when the nation's top allowed to attend committee movement," said Shaun Travers of Texas court will rule on the case. hearings in each other's cham- before to get legislative approval of a law A&M University. bers. But Helms insisted later that would have done what the ballot Other activists attending the panel that the House members were measure is seeking to accomplish, his protesting — which violates Capi- efforts were all thwarted. Unable to win tol rules — and ordered police to approval in the state capital, Knight has now turned to the state's voters with the eject them. Clinton Speaks Out Against Hate Crimes backing of the Traditional Values Coali- Woolsey later told reporters, tion, the Mormon Church and many of "It totally amazes me he would the state's top Catholic Church leaders. treat us that way." Baldwin called The initiative's backers have raised Helms' action "shocking." more than $4 million to help pass the anti-gay measure, while opponents have Holy Lesbian raised less than $1 million — much of it 1 through a few large contributions like Lapdancing! $300,000 donated by Jennifer and Kathy Edinburgh, Scotland — Scot- Levinson, head of the Internet-based tish women looking for some new ETrade Group in Silicon Valley. And thrills and excitement now can while polling still shows more voters get just that with lesbian lap- approve of the measure than are opposed dancing at Edinburgh's Fly Bar. to it, opposition to the Knight Initiative The show, called ... ahem has been consistently growing through- ..."Girls in Yer Face" ... features out the year and is now showing the two female dancers in scanty leather sides nearly equal. thongs for a women-only audience But some 30 states so far have enact- and, according to the club's man- ed similar laws, either through their leg- • agers, is proving extremely popular. islatures or by statewide ballot measures, The club has a cover charge of out of concerns over possible court rul- about $8 and for women who'd ings first in Hawaii and more recently in like one of the lapdancers to per- Vermont that might legalize same-sex form just for them alone, there's marriages. And California is viewed by many activists as crucial in turning back an added fee of $8. a wave of conservative anti-gay laws that's swept through the country. On Our Cover: Activists say, however, that with Knight Initiative backers sitting on a $4 During on address before the Anti-Defamation League on Oct. 29, President Clinton invoked the name of Matthew Shepard Model: Ben Strothmann, Photo: Jorge Cabal as he called for Congress to pass Hate Crimes legislation, and to "do the right thing." Photo by David Scull.

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It also creates a HIV. Researchers then took defense against anti-virals because these sus count, will for the first infection that cannot be stamped out by simian form of specimens to trace the disease progress. drugs attack HIV only when the virus is time ask about sexual orien- current anti-viral drugs and may resist vac- cines, a study shows. They found that just three days after actively reproducing. tation in its 2001 head-count infection, the virus was in both activated and The finding suggests that the current of the country's population. The study, published Nov. 12 in the jour- nal Science, sheds new light on how quickly resting T-cells. In the following days, it spread drugs never will completely eradicate the The Canadian census, faster and faster into the resting T-cells. virus, he said. which is conducted every five HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, is able to years, won't be an accurate establish a chronic, drug-resistant infection. count, officials admit. Earlier studies have shown that HIV Among other things, the establishes a reservoir of silent infection. question apparently will allow The new research shows that this disease State Dems Fight Right on AIDS Policy pool is created almost immediately after individuals to identify them- the virus is transmitted. selves as part of a same-sex by Mike Leon "These chronically infected cells are of the IN Step staff couple — which means gays important because they allow the virus to and lesbians not in relation- persist below the radar screen of the Madison — Public health advocates and Democratic allies are again colliding ships would not be counted. immune system, particularly at the time of over AIDS social policy with Assembly Republicans. Statistics Canada officials the transmission," said Dr. Ashley T Haase, A Republican penalty enhancer bill, introduced by state Representative Mark also acknowledged that an HIV researcher at the University of Min- Gundrum (R-New Berlin), that increases punishment for an individual who answering the question is nesota and the senior author of the study. knowingly transmits HIV has critics seething. entirely voluntary and that Haase said the study shows that a short Under Assembly Bill 550, a person can be impris- many gays and lesbians in the time after the sexual transmission of the oned for up to 40 years if he or she has had a positive country may avoid telling the AIDS virus, there is an infection estab- test for HIV or had been diagnosed with AIDS and truth out of concerns about lished in what are known as resting T-cells. then engages in behavior, sexual intercourse or needle privacy or discrimination. These are white blood cells that are not exchange, without first disclosing to a partner the pres- actively participating in the body's ence of HIV in him or her. `Veronica's immune response to the virus and are The bill passed the Assembly last week. resistant to anti-viral drugs. Public health advocates and critics charge that AB Closet' Actor The finding is contrary to the belief 550 would discourage some people from being tested that HIV first infects two other targets, for HIV, resulting in more AIDS cases. Charged in macrophages and dendritic cells, and then "People don't do a cost/benefit analysis when they Anti-Gay Attack spreads to active T-cells. State. Rep. John Richards commit these kinds of crimes, so raising the penalties Instead, said Haase, the virus quickly won't change behavior. This bill won't do anything to Hollywood — In an ironic moves in about equal proportions into promote HIV counseling and testing, and it won't do anything to promote HIV twist, actor Wallace Langham, both the resting and the active T-cells. prevention and case management," said state Rep. Jon Richards (D-Milwaukee). "It who portrays a character Dr. Tony Fauci, director of the Nation- has not been shown that current statues aren't strong enough to deal with this issue. whose sexual orientation is al Institute of Allergy and Infectious Dis- It's unnecessary and very counterproductive in the fight against AIDS." abiguous at best on NBC-TV's eases at the National Institutes of Health, IN Step was unable to reach the bill's author for comment. Veronica's Closet has been said the Haase study "was a nice piece of The AIDS Resource Center of Wisconsin has condemned the bill, and state charged with attacking a gay work" that gives important new insight Rep. Pedro Colon (D-Milwaukee) cast the lone negative vote in the Judiciary and reporter for the tabloid paper into the early stages of HIV infection. Personal Privacy committee. "The Star" at a Hollywood By quickly infecting the resting T-cells, AB 550 has three Republican sponsors in the Senate, and public health advo- market. said Fauci, the virus "gives itself some cates are looking to the upper chamber, which has stopped numerous right-wing The charges include mis- insurance of survival." Virus in resting T- social policy bills passed by the Assembly, to kill this Republican initiative. demeanor battery and com- cells is a much more difficult target for mitting a hate crime. both the immune system and for anti-viral Authorities said Langham was shopping with his girl- friend on Sept. 7 when he met didate a scary Republican, or is this a can- the unnamed reporter. Accord- didate who is breaking ranks with the ing to the reporter, he had McCain Woos Gay Republicans things that really scare me about Republi- been looking at the tattoos cans?" Ivers said. that cover the girlfriend's body Washington — Setting himself apart ... My goal is to eliminate discrimination."' Democratic candidates have been far when Langham approached, from more socially conservative candi- This year, social conservatives such as more open in their quest for gay votes. Bill shouted anti-gay slurs and dates, Sen. John McCain assured gay Steve Forbes, Gary Bauer and Alan Keyes are Bradley advocates opening up the 1964 knocked him to the floor, then Republicans on Nov. 8 that he welcomes running far behind in public opinion polls. Civil Rights Act to include discrimination continued punching and kick- their support and would work to eliminate GOP front- based on sexual orientation. Gore has ing him. The reporter was discrimination if elected president. runner George opposed that move, but has spoken repeat- taken to a hospital, where he In a 30-minute meeting with the Log W. Bush has edly on the need for strengthened gay rights. was treated for cuts and bruis- Cabin Republicans, McCain said he has a hardly addressed The Log Cabin Republicans, which es and released. nondiscrimination policy in his office and gay issues. How- endorsed Bob Dole in 1996, expects to But Langham's publicist, made clear his desire to appeal to gays. ever, gay advo- issue an endorsement for president but has Haley Sumner, said the "I am unashamed, unembarrassed and cates were not yet decided whether to endorse some- reporter had been ridiculing proud to work with you," McCain told the alarmed last one in the primary. the woman's tattoos and that group, according to participants in the month when the In a candidates forum in New Hamp- Langham "came to the meeting. Dallas Morning , shire two weeks ago, Republican candi- defense of his girlfriend." GOP candidates have not always wel- News reported dates were asked their attitudes about gays. McCain said there is Sumner also said that the comed support from the Log Cabin Sen. John McCain that Bush told no room for dis- nearly 2-month old charges Republicans, the nation's largest gay religious conser- crimination in the party of Lincoln." The were filed only after Langham Republican organization. In the 1996 vatives that he would not appoint openly other candidates were less supportive of "refused to be pressured into gay people to his administration. gay rights. paying [an] extortionate "I AM UNASHAMED, That story was at odds with comments Forbes said he would be willing to demand" by the reporter. made to The New York Times last spring, appoint someone who is openly gay to his UNEMBARRASSED when Bush said he would not discriminate administration, but added, "If a person Amazons Settle in appointments on the basis of sexual ori- wants a job to make a statement, they AND PROUD TO entation. "As a general statement, if some- won't get it." Lawsuit one can do a job, and a job that he's quali- Former Reagan administration official WORK WITH YOU." fied for, that person ought to be allowed Gary Bauer said, "Marriage is between a Minneapolis — Internet to do his job," he told the Times. man and a woman, not between two men, bookseller Amazon.com and campaign, GOP nominee Bob Dole The Log Cabin Republicans said Bush two women or any other combination." the Minneapolis feminist returned a contribution from the group has accepted its invitation for a meeting, Keyes, a blunt radio talk-show host and shop Amazon Bookstore have before reversing himself and apologizing. but has not offered a time or place. a former State Department official, said, settled a trademark lawsuit McCain has disagreements with gays Though gays tend to vote Democratic, "Homosexuality is an abomination." out of court. on a variety of issues, including gay mar- Ivers estimated that a million gay Republican Added Utah Sen. Orrin Hatch: "Gays Although details of the riage and how to handle workplace dis- votes were cast in the 1998 election, enough are human beings, too." settlement were not released, crimination. Yet participants sounded to alter the outcome in many key states. Amazon Bookstore will assign pleased that he had spoken against preju- And perhaps more important than the its rights to the Amazon name dice based on sexual preference. gay vote itself, Ivers said that a candidate's to Amazon.com and "There is a lot of common ground on position on gay issues may provide impor- Amazon.com will license the our mission inside the party," said Log Cabin tant clues to swing voters turned off by Amazon name back to the spokesman Kevin Ivers. "He said, All my life social conservatism. I've had a visceral dislike for discrimination. Voters may ask themselves: "Is this can-

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As a Identity at the LGBT Community Center, gifts and promot- work in soliciting raffle 170 S. 2nd St. The course is offered event, he raised $638. ing the well-attended through the University of Wisconsin-Mil- "Huck," who has been the leader of waukee (UWM) Department of History Anonymous HIV Anti- made a deci- the Firebirds, Ltd., recently during the spring 2000 semester. to disband the group at this time. body Tests sion The course will be taught on five Fri- Like many other groups, it is sometimes Mon., Tues., Thurs. — 6 - 8:30 pm days from 6 to 9 p.m. and Saturdays from prudent to put a group to a dignified rest 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. on Jan. 28 and 29, Feb. and let it rise again when the time is right. BESTD Men's Clinic 18 and 19, March 17 and 18, April 14 and this decision, Huck and his STD Diagnosis & Treatment, Tues., As a result of 15, and May 5 and 6. The course will partner delivered a check for $1,500 to explore the meanings of homo-sexual sex- 6 - 8:30 pm • Walk-in Clinic, representing the residual BESTD uality in classic antiquity, the pro-social of The Firebirds treasury. Also, special BESTD Women's Clinic function of male homosexuality in classical thanks to Huck for doing a super job as Greek societies, The Roman experience of 1st & 3rd Thursday (Month bartender at the Clinic's recent 25th homosexual desire and attitudes toward 6 - 8:30 pm • Walk-. anniversary celebration. homosexual practice, and the transforma- 30, Oberon's president, Jerry On Oct. tion of these attitudes in the late antique Support Groups checks in the amount of Straley, presented period. The emergence of modern gay for Gay HIV+ Men their recent Mr. $90, resulting from male identity will be examined in compar- Wisconsin Leather contest. 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All members ranging in age from their pre-teens to their eighties will perform Barney H. Moore of these groups will meet at 6 p.m. at the dance, musical, OutReach offices in the Gateway Mall, comedic and dramatic routines interspersed Phone: 414-536-7575 600 Williamson St. with messages about HIV/AIDS and its If you have any questions, or are inter- impact in northeastern Wisconsin. Fax: 414-536-7581 ested on one or more of these groups, and The evening is the largest event devel- cannot make a meeting, please contact oped thus far by the Green Bay-based OutReach Direct Services Coordinator, Entertainers Against AIDS, a year-old 7600 W. Hampton., Suite 201 Callen Harty. Harry can be reached by regional group of professional and amateur phone at (608) 255-8582 (10:30 a.m. to entertainers and other talented individuals Milwaukee, WI 6:30 p.m. Monday through Friday), by fax who have brought HIV/AIDS awareness at (608) 255-0018 or by stopping at the messages to audiences around the state. OutReach offices. You may also reach him Celebrities from the LGBT community via e-mail at [email protected]. will perform as well. T. C. Hammond, the The OutReach Directory Committee current Mr. Gay Wisconsin, Dee Marie is looking for new members. Work will Murphy, the current Ms. Gay Wisconsin soon begin on the 2000-2001 Directory. USofA and Jeff Jennings, the current Mr. AMERICAN FAMILY The agency is also looking for additional Gay Wisconsin All American are all sched- volunteers to help with coat check and uled to appear. C.C. Rae (AKA Randy INSURANCE Bouche), a veteran information tables at community events. of several national tours, Finally, planning is already well under way will reprise the show-stopping lounge med- AUTO HOME BUSINESS HEALTH LIFE for the annual New Year's Eve extravagan- ley from the movie "Sister Act." 0 1 995 American Family Mutual Insurance Company and its Subsidarie, Home Office — Madison. WI 53783 za, the Pink Party, but extra help is always Admission for the event is free. Atten- h t tp: //vvvvw. am fam.com needed. Currently, people are needed to dees and performers will be invited to • • help put up Pink Party posters. The poster attend a reception following the program.

November 18 - December I. 1999 • IN Step www.instepnews.com LGBT Groups Foil Anti•Gay COME OUT and Check Our Great Selection! Broyhill, Ashley, Simmons and more! Billboard Messages in Appleton by Mike Fitzpatrick contacted when their signs went up. Both IN Step contributing writer Old Dutch Foods and McLeod USA phone services also responded supportively when Appleton — What if Ralph Ovadal advised that the net effect of their products put up a number of anti-gay billboards was to be tagged as "wrong" and "perverse." and no one cared? That's apparently what More signs were replaced, this time happened this fall in northeastern Wis- with public service advertising for the consin when the placement of four bill- Muscular Dystrophy Association (MDA). boards by Wisconsin Christians United Following contact by PFLAG member AN (WCU) in Appleton, Green Bay, Kaukau- Harriet Bruyn, MDA was reported to have na and Oshkosh failed to repeat the media contacted the sign owner and expressed storm that 1998 WCU anti-Gay D messages regret that their charity was paired with had incited in Madison and Milwaukee. 0 such a negative message. One MDA sign The billboards, which began showing was eventually replaced with a public ser- up in August, contained the message vice sobriety message. "Some Choices are WRONG" and "Some Based on advertising rate information Preferences Are PERVERSE" along with provided by the sign company, WCU paid the biblical references Romans 1:18-32 between two to four thousand dollars for and Psalm 139:13-16. WCU's name and their placements. At least two appeared to phone number also appeared on the bill- have been placed close to evangelical orga- boards. Only the red -toned words "wrong" nization sites on purpose, which would Nov. 26th-28th and "perverse" livened the black-and-white incur a higher rate for placement. displays. All but one of the signs were UP TO According to Action Wisconsin and paired with commercial messages for a PFLAG members who monitored for cov- variety of regional and national companies. erage, the billboards garnered no main- Members of Action Wisconsin and stream news stories, no letters to the editor, northeast Wisconsin PFLAG chapters and no television images. Seven national began alerting their organizations within a and regional companies chose to move their day of the billboard placements. Following signs away from WCU's, citing various rea- several days of research, including an infor- sons that included the negativity of the mal recall survey of drivers at a traffic light 50% WCU message and the desire to distance six blocks south of the Green Bay billboard, themselves from controversial social issues. the groups strategized on the most effective Most of the signs were down within a way to counter the signs' messages. cr— month. One peeling sign along US 41 was Research had shown the messages were not replaced until early November, appar- wordy and vague. The messages appeared ently because the sign's poor location FUTURE to address two subjects indirectly: abor- made even a one or two word message tion and homosexuality. The layout of the OFF! hard to read at highway speeds. billboards was confusing, with the biblical One last irony: WCU posted a photo Come See Our references both detached and transposed of one of the signs on their Internet Web Simmons APPIIINCES from their corresponding statements. The (-) Dream Center! site — improperly. Most browsers fail to recall survey confirmed those conclusions, load it, so even those who might be inter- showing that only 4% of all drivers even ested in viewing the message are prevented 5520 W. North Ave. • 414.825-8326 remembered the billboard and none could from doing so. recall anything beyond the word "wrong." Strategists concluded that the only way the billboards' message could gain any significant exposure was if somehow they were "decoded" by news reports in the media. The primary goal of the LGBT Every The wait is finally over... groups' strategy would be to refuse to assist in the decoding process. Ride's An Action Wisconsin also suggested a with same-day HIV test results. repeat of a second strategy used successful- ly in 1998. AW had urged the mainstream Adventure companies whose billboards were adjacent to WCU's in Madison to distance them- $5499* selves from the potential controversy by requesting removal and replacement of their billboards away from WCU's. The strategy had been 100% successful. The twin-pronged strategy was put into action. Action Wisconsin and PFLAG con- tacted LGBT-supportive and women's Whether it's cruising down groups, advised of the strategy and requested Main Street or heading to discreetly inform their members. Editors down the interstate, the of the three statewide gay newspapers were Intruder°800 from Suzuki also advised of the plan and promised a makes the ride something _ detailed story once the billboards were gone. to remember. 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Call 4up264.8800I for information or appointments www. instepnews. corn IN Step • November 18 — December 1, 1999 L'A 'Hostile Climate' Documents Rising Tide of Anti-Gay Bigotry by Jamakaya violence become permissible." of the IN Step staff This year's "Hostile Climate" also includes a series of 14 personal essays by fi (( ii ostile Climate," the 6th people who have firsthand experience with ning annual nationwide survey of anti-gay discrimination and the movement anti-gay discrimination com- to end it. The essayists include Wisconsin piled by the People For the American Way Congresswoman Tammy Baldwin (D), Foundation, details almost 300 incidents California state legislator Sheila Kuehl, in 47 states, more than twice as many inci- filmmakers Arthur Dong ("Licensed to dents as reported in the 1998 edition. Kill") and Debra Chasnoff ("It's Elemen- Wisconsin was the site of three major anti- tary"), and activists such as David Mixner, gay campaigns. a former adviser to President Clinton. "Since Matthew Shepard's death, we Baldwin writes about the silence that ■ have been asking ourselves, as a nation, exists in educational institutions about the `How have we arrived at such a place, achievements of gay and lesbian people, a ffr where someone could commit such a silence that contributes to public igno- heinous, heartless crime?'" said Carole rance. She also discusses the state legisla- Shields, president of People For the Amer- tors she worked with who would promote ican Way (PFAW) Foundation."The anti-gay measures while denying they had answer, as this book reveals, is that we start any animus toward homosexuals. "They down this path whenever we deny people could not understand that when a public their basic human rights and -dignity. The figure stands up in an effort to codify dis- hostile climate that lesbians and gay men crimination against gays and lesbians, he face — with its powerful undertow of par- or she is sending an explicit message that tisan rhetoric, public and corporate policy it is OK for others to do the same." — fosters hate by validating and perpetu- The PFAW Foundation has received ating discrimination." support from the Gill Foundation, a phil- The states reporting the highest num- anthropic foundation focusing on justice ber of anti-gay incidents are California and equality issues, to establish the "Hos- (31), Texas (18), Florida (17), and New tile Climate Campaign," an aggressive pro- York (15). Incidents related to marriage gram for distributing the report to state and family issues — such as same-gender policy-makers and universities. As part of marriage, adoption, child custody and fos- the Hostile Climate Campaign, activists ter parenting — more than doubled from will hand-deliver copies of the report to I I I 20 in 1997 to 42 last year. In the area of state legislators at the beginning of the leg- dl education, which includes incidents that 1 i 1 islative sessions in early January. In addi- occurred in secondary schools or colleges, tion, anyone with Internet access can get the number again more than doubled, involved by visiting and donating a copy to a leg- The incidents cited for Wisconsin islator, school or library. 11 I 41 include the anti-gay rhetoric and activities "There's an old saying, `Everyone talks targeted against the openly lesbian Tammy about the weather, but no one does any- I Baldwin in her successful campaign for the thing about it.' Well, you can help change I U.S. Congress. The assault was led by for- the hostile climate by sending this report mer Madison firefighter and GOP congres- to someone who really needs to understand I I sional candidate Ronnie Greer, with support the truth about discrimination against les- from Focus on the Family and the Family bians and gay men," said Shields. Research II I Council, two national Christian "AS the lives of gay and lesbian people conservative, anti-gay lobbying groups. and families become more visible through The anti-gay 11 1 I North Shore rhetoric of former Green policy discussions on the state level — Bay Packers player Reggie White is also employment non-discrimination, hate cited. In a speech before the I Wisconsin leg- crimes, same-sex unions and family issues BISTRO islature, White condemned homosexuality, — it is critical that the public, the media saying it is a sinful choice that people I I I RiverPoint Village and policy-makers have accurate informa- I make. He compared homosexuals to "liars 1-43 & Brown Deer Rd. tion. "Hostile Climate" is one of the most and cheaters" and said the fact that homo- to ' comprehensive and well-documented cat- Mon.-Thur. Ilam sexuality was allowed to "run rampant" in X1 1 Fri. & Sat. alogues of discrimination against our com- llam the U.S. was leading our nation away from III Sun. 4pm munity," said Katherine Pease, executive God. White's speech also included stereo- director of the Gill Foundation. typical slurs against Asians, Latinos and i III The - report is available online at Blacks. Because of White's celebrity status, http://www.HostileClimate.org/. You can his words got major play in the print and I I I subscribe to the People For the American III broadcast media. When he was criticized Way Foundation Press Release distribution by some media outlets and community I I I list by signing up for PFAW's Activist Net- leaders, the.Christian Coalition, the Amer- work at

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In clinical VIRACEPT and should not change or stop treatment without first talking with your doctor. studies, about 20% of patients receiving VIRACEPT 750 mg (three tablets) three times daily had four or more loose stools a day. In most cases, diarrhea can be controlled using antidiarrheal medicines, such WHAT IS VIRACEPT AND HOW DOES IT WORK? as Imodium® A-D (loperamide) and others, which are available without a prescription. VIRACEPT is used in the treatment of people with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) infection. Other side effects that occurred in 2% or more of patients receiving VIRACEPT include abdominal pain, Infection with HIV leads to the destruction of CD4 T cells, which are important to the immune system. asthenia, nausea, flatulence, and rash. 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Once mixed, the entire amount must Dose reduction required if you take VIRACEPT with: be taken to obtain the full dose. Mycobutin® (rifabutin, for MAC); you will need to take a lower dose of Mycobutin. Do not mix the powder with any acidic food or juice, such as orange or grapefruit juice, apple juice, or apple sauce, because this may create a bitter taste. A change of therapy should be considered if you are taking VIRACEPT with: Once the powder is mixed, it may be stored at room temperature or refrigerated for up to 6 hours. Do • Phenobarbital not heat the mixed dose once it has been prepared. • Phenytoin (Dilantin® and others) Do not add water to bottles of oral powder. • Carbamazepine (Tegretol® and others) VIRACEPT powder is supplied with a scoop for measuring. 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They north to sign the closing papers on A full of peppers, tomatoes and green beans After they drove off, Nan and I sat groaned and I quickly explained that Ursy's old farm. Ursy told me about the I brought along from my final visit to the at the big oak kitchen table with her cakes were not those rock-hard new owners, George and Herb Black. She green market. Introductions were made, steaming mugs of green tea and talked things people make jokes about said she they were rich, they were twins, eyes met and there was no need to say about her new neighbors. She on TV. These are super- and she thought they were gay; she had another thing — or guess about anything. calls them G&H. George zc nal, and made of noth- pictures to show me. Gay, yes, but twins? Ain't gaydar wonderful? The "boys" as my calls her to talk during the ing but fruit. It's all I decided that while I was on my annu- sister calls them were as different from day while 'Herb is out in these ground dried and al pilgrimage north to help with Christ- A A 4 each other as they could be. the apple sheds helping to preserved fruits with George had dusky ash-blond hair (out make cider. George takes V A v pecans and citron. It's of a bottle) and not a streak of gray. He was care of the house and the L!. bound together with V willowy and wrapped in the latest trends money. Herb does the work! V honey, orange and lemon UNIT from New York — A/X (Armani Exchange) Our talk soon turned to the V7 juice. A few of these cakes get all the way. He talked incessantly. Herb, on cookbook my sister and her A a good dash of brandy before the other hand, had short, dark, salt and girlfriend were working on for being wrapped in waxed paper MILWAUKEE pepper hair and tended to be on the heav- the Y2K high school and foil, weighed down with a brick ier side of a what was once a husky body. reunion in our home and left to sit in a cool part of the attic. He was dressed in old jeans and an old town. We snickered over The mention of brandy seemed to soothe sweater topped with a tattered leather jack- some of the recipes that the boys and we left them with visions of et. He reminded me of a small lumberjack. had been sent in and chose "Leftover fruit cake as we drove back to our beds. Maintaining the Endowment Fund and Something immediately told you they were Bratwurst Stew" as our favorite addition to G&H said they would be leaving just Building Fund and providing assistance for related — they both had the same piercing the list of food we would like serve to "Peo- after Christmas for their house in Acapul- blue-green eyes and the same infectious ple We Hated." It was right up there with co. They planned a fabulous New Year's a variety of programs and organizations in laugh. They are "paternal" twins as opposed "Wien ie-Water Soup" and "Hot-dogs Millennium celebration. We are all invited the community. to "maternal" twins (who are mirror images Stuffed with Peanut Butter in Lime Jello." for the festivities, but Ursy and Zoe will of each other). Before I knew it, it was time to get probably be the only ones to show up. The Become part of our growing community As we walked up the steps of Nan's back ready to go for dinner. We arrived to a boys are staying through March, when with open membership and accountability. porch we were greeted by dogs and the newly painted farm house. Not barn red they have to get back and begin prepara- smells of apples, cinnamon and nutmeg. with white trim as Ursy had it, but the tions for the growing season. I think this There were bushels of baking apples sitting dusky blue of Cape Cod with dark green friendship is going to be great fun! New Gil COMMUNITY around and a huge caldron of fresh apple and ivory trim. It looked great and we knew friends always come in handy for compar- CENTER TRUST FUND sauce was cooling on the stove. My sister it was G. who had supervised the painting. ing notes and all sorts of other things. V giggled and said, "Maybe I should be mak- Dinner was superb — there was curried P.O. Box 1686 • Milwaukee, WI 53201 ing apple butter, too. 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The Joel Gershman, Broom Street's Milwaukee — Composer scheduled for December and a full- performance will be held at St. Artistic Director, and tells the wild Richard Wargo will begin a two-year cast workshop of Act I scheduled John's Cathedral, 802 N. Jackson St. residency at the Skylight Opera and wacky story of a year in the life for August 2000. at 8 p.m. on Saturday, 4. of a man who discovers he has Dec- Theater funded by the National The- After the first of the year, Wargo is This Naumberg Chamber Music asthma and how he survives. All ater Artist Residency Program. The looking forward to working with Ray Award-winning ensemble and it's shows are at 8 p.m. on weekends Skylight is one of 16 leading Ameri- Jivoff, the Skylight's Education Direc- illustrious guest artist will lead the from Nov. 12 through Dec 19 at 1119 can companies chosen to receive tor, on programs involving students audience on a rollicking musical 1. Williamson Street. Admission is $7 grants totaling $1. million. throughout the Milwaukee area. holiday journey through Europe, The $100,000 grant received by at the door. For more information from an early English Great House Skylight will be used to provide Call (608) 244-8338. knows what to expect from this perfor- The. Music Tells the Story mance. Next Act The story deals with the attempts of a Roman slave to gain his freedom by A story of love, courage and faith matching up his master with a courtesan Presents who is promised to a handsome, vain, braggart warrior. The ensuing complica- Comic Farce tions include madcap chases, crossdressing FIDDLER disguises, good, clean, dirty burlesque Milwaukee — The Next Act Theater numbers, and a cup of mare's sweat. presents a witty and fast paced 1930's farce Gutzman has gathered some of Mil- ON THE by John Murray and Allen Boretz. Artistic waukee's funniest comic actors for this pro- Director David Cecsarini will direct Room duction. Michael Weiser appears as Hys- Service at the Stiemke Theater starting terium, a very nervous slave. Mary Hen- ROOF with a preview performance on Thursday, rickson, Gutzman's co-producer, appears as Dec. 2 at 7:30 p.m. Opening night is Fri- Domina, the oppressive wife of Sennex, day Dec. 3 at 8 p.m. and the production played by Lawrence Lukasavage. Dick Nov. 26-Dec. 19 will run through Dec. 19. Katschke plays Marcus Lycus, a buyer and The comedy debuted in New York in seller of the flesh of beautiful women. Cabot Theatre 1937 and Time wrote "There is no funnier Ernest Brusubardis is the Musical Broadway Theatre Center show in town ... " In 1938 RKO made the Director. Sondhiem's delightful score 158 N. Broadway play into a movie starring the Marx Broth- includes "Comedy Tonight," and "every- ers, which opened to rave reviews. It was body Ought to Have a Maid." Tickets are Call (414)291-7800 revived in New York in 1986 and was $15 and may be ordered by calling (414) again a success. Three talented local actors 327-3552. lead the cast: Norman Moses as Gordon Miller (the Grouch character), Ray Jivoff as Faker Englund (Harpo) and Michael SKYLIGET `OPERA THEATRE Herold as Harry Bineli (Chico). 'Muskateers' at Inmate. Innovative and in Engh h The audience will watch these charac- • ters ruthlessly wheel and deal to put "God- meritech speed" on stage with no backing or sup- Madison Rep port. They wangle free food and hotel Madison — Madison Repertory The- accommodations, con their hotel manager ater and University Theater present Kim A Skylight into paying for everything, fend off DeVita's new adaptation of Alexandre collectors, and subject holiday treat hunger and money Dumas' classic *The Three Muskateers.* In their playwright to illness and death in the back by popular demand! this epic tale of romance and adventure, name of his art. You will find yourself the focus lies on a -developing tension laughing through this hilarious romp of between the all-too-human lust for power A Carolin' Carolynne classic Marx Brothers antics. and the need for human integrity. The pro- Christmas Single tickets are available at $18 duction is directed by Scott Glasser and (Wednesdays) $20 (Thursdays) $26 (Fri- with Carolynne Warren, runs Nov. 26 through Dec. 19 at the UW days and Saturdays) and $22 (Sundays). in her only Milwaukee appearance Mitchell Theater, 821 University Ave. Preview tickets are $18 and there will be DeVita provides a fresh look at the Monday, Dec. 13, 8 pm, one Pay-What-You-Can performance on age-old duel between good and evil, Cabot Theatre Monday, Dec. 13 at 7:30 p.m. Talkbacks adding comic flair to plots of intrigue, With the cast and director will be held fol- deception, passion and murder. This co- Call 291-7800 for tickets lowing performances on Dec. 9 and 16. and information production is an exciting opportunity for For more information and tickets call both organizations. This is the largest pro- (414) 224-9490. duction the Madison Rep has- produced and this would not be possible without the efforts and talents of both organizations. Gutzman Ticket prices are $25 for Friday and Saturday performances and $20 for Wednesday, Thursday and Sunday perfor- mances. Tickets are available at the Villas Stages 'Forum' Hall Box Office or by calling (608) 262- Milwaukee — Dale Gutzman has pro- 1500. There will be a sign-interpreted per- duced and directed a Stephen Sondheim formance on Dec. 19. For more informa- musical for each of the past 10 years. This tion on group rates contact the Madison fall Gutzman and company tackle A Funny Rep at (608) 256-0029. Thing Happened On The Way To The Forum, at Centennial Hall of the Milwau- kee Public Library on Nov. 19, 20 and 26 and 27 at 8 p.m. Anyone who has seen his wildly off-the-wall tribute to the hype of the holiday season, "Holiday Punch," 'Fiddler on the Roof' at Cabot Theater Milwaukee — Skylight Opera Theater presents Fiddler On The Roof an Amer- ican musical classic and winner of nine Tony Awards. Opening night is Nov. 26 at 7:30 p.m. in the Cabot theater of the Broadway Theater Center, 158 N. Broad- way. The production runs through Sunday, Dec. 19, 1999. Set in 1905 Anatevka, a small Jewish village in Russia, the story revolves around the dairyman Tevye (William Theisen) and his struggle.to preserve his family's traditions in a changing world. When his eldest daughter, Tzeitel (Beth Johnson), begs him to allow her to marry a poor tailor rather than a middle-aged butcher that he has chosen for her, Tevye must choose between his daughter's hap- piness and his cherished traditions. 4.3./T174-- Those very traditions are threatened again when government troops force J E W i l li V Tevye and his fellow villagers from their homes. In the end, it is the value of fam- ily and community that leads Tevye and his family to a life in the New World. Stage directors are Richard Carsey and Pam Kriger. The music director is Richard Carsey. The show's original choreography is reproduced by Pam Kriger. Set/Light- ing design is by Peter Dean Beck and costumes are by Dawana Gregory. Out of Solitude Jew At 10:30 p.m. after Friday and Saturday evening performances, The skylight ry opera Theater's Miller Cabaret Series presents "Dukes Place," a tribute to Edward "Duke" Ellington, featuring vocalists Adekola Adedapo, Bill Jackson and Sheri 918 E. 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November 18 — December 1, 1999 • IN Step www.instepnews.corn The album's because Mary Wilson and Florence Bal- "Silent Night" demonstrates anew best track is a lard got a vacation while she was doing the what a stunning singer Ballard could be sinuous Motown lead vocals). The orchestra was recorded and how hopeless her getting any recogni- original "Little in August in Los Angeles, then the tapes tion in her own group would prove to be. Bright Star," were shipped to Detroit where the vocals Surprise Number Six. Michael Fein- which later were recorded in September. stein's album "big City Rhythms" on Con- turned up on-a Ross had no way of changing anything cord Jazz with, huh?, Maynard Ferguson's Tammy Terrell the orchestra did but, presented with an orchestra. You'd think from the Barry album with arrangement of "White Christmas" which Manilowish album title and Ferguson's pres- exactly the same moved slower than God, she still was able to ence the album would be bombastic but, orchestral track come up with something, a decidedly actually, it's quite intimate and much fun. but a different dreamy, sleepwalky interpretation of the song. (The orchestra, and Ferguson's horn, are title and lyrics, "I The new expanded CD closes with the mixed way, way back possibly because Fein- Can't Go On Florence Ballard-led "Silent Night." She stein is not of the belting school of singing.) Without You." also recorded a stunning a Capella version Lots of great standards here, lots of almost- But Motown but neither made the original album. But forgotten jazz gems such as "Let Me Off arrangements of that was an old story. Both Ballard and Uptown" in nearly its original Gene Krupa Linda Rondstadt and Emmylou Harrius "Rudolph the Wilson recorded many Supremes leads arrangement and some interesting originals. Red Nosed Rein- over the years but only a handful ever go From a man who has recorded too much deer," "Santa Claus Is Coming To Town" released, always as album tracks, and Bal- Gershwin, a nice surprise. • Six Surprises and others are much fun. lard's departure from the Supremes traced This album also demonstrates the back to her striking lead vocal of "People" by Wayne Brasier genius of Diana Ross (who did nothing in their concert program being yanked as ust when you think the record biz has but complain when she recorded it Ross was moved to the forefront. become completely predictable (I Jcould sing the new Backstreet Boys CD before I heard it) along comes music off the well-trodden melodic track to delight Nl I the ears and bring a smile to the face. Surprise Number One: The Emmylou Harris-Linda Ronstadt duet Western Walk The Tuscan Sessions on Assylum. It's not real- ly a duet album, but more a matter of each singer doing songs supported by the other. A This album is a surprise hit (the surprise being people are buying a disk with no song about teenage angst on it) but equally sur- prising is its utterly unique sound. It's a heavenly blend borne of exquisite material, heartfelt performances, blissful harmonies and off-the-wall arrangements. It's equal parts folk, country, pop and sacred and razor-sharp intelligence start to finish. Ronstadt hasn't sounded this relaxed in years and Harris is nothing less than angelic. As for the songwriters, how's this line- WelcomeH.I.T. Bowlers & Friends! up: Jackson Browne, Rosanne Cash, Leonard Cohen, Sinead O'Connor and Mr. Bruce Springsteen. Get this gem if you haven't already. You won't be sorry. 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She The third act (pun intended) The Mil- breezed into town and gave Milwaukee a waukee Repertory's final dress rehearsal sneak peak at her Las Vegas millennium performance of Michael Fryan's Noises show. And what a show it was, Bette was Off The top three needs for anyone's in top form ... but more on that later. ideal night. A perfect time for families, I have to take a moment to thank you friends, employees, business associates... all for the flattering feedback! I hope you When you buy nine tickets, you receive all will continue to enjoy my effort, as the 10th free. R.S.V.P. by: Monday, Nov. much as I enjoy sharing with you. Mr. 22 call Becky at (414) 225-1577, all James Shroeder, your words were to benefit The AIDS touching... proceeds s000 of Wisconsin. rst off the col- Resource Center A correction or two, fi More feedback: A little Sweetest Day also be found working -orful Chi Chi can bon-mot to share with you; what promi- of special at The to make Sundays kind nent socialite/showgirl has at long last columnist, NOT a M&M Club. And I'm found love? Hint: pPossum may be on the have I ever been one, Communist (nor bridal buffet... although I'm fond of the color red, when have bittersweet news to report offset by navy and white!) I David Todd. The sweet I will forever be a fan of the campy, about dreamy first (besides the sweetness of Mr. fun, creative Forever Plaid. I'm so glad, part Todd, himself). David has accepted a and hope to make it a fad for all of you to WITI TV 6, so our foxy cor- be a grad of Forever Plaid. 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Boyd, Mark Meyer and Aaron I had the lannone was noth- I Thelen create heavenly harmonies and Class — Angela ing less than mesmerizing! I look forward are worth making "moments to remem- I I engagement with ber," thanks Jerry! to her next Milwaukee While I'm telling theater tales, I must baited breath. Brava, Diva! I rediscovered Third Ward treasue by include That's Amore with Colleen a wonderful The Burns, Tony Clements, Ray Jivoff recently having a refreshing repast at meal was great and Gina Torrecilla. It's like a delight- Third Ward Cafe, the brighter and ful visit to anyone's family reunion. This and the place itself is bigger, than I remebered. Rep production is being played out at by far more pleasant Halloween has come The Stackner Cabaret, an ideal venue that Even though Dinettes Starting and gone I must share a few moments of it's self is part of the story. Clements and Jivoff steal the show as the visiting with you I had a dream/nightmare come Village aunts, in fact, Tony does a terrific Phyllis true... I was "kidnapped" by the I Newman. Salute'! People, 20 years later! Oh, by the way at Just $199! was dressed as Virginia Graham, just As I'm in my Italian mode, I would be remiss not to mention a lovley little another Saturday! Trick or treat, take birthday celebration I attended at your pick... the evening started at an Free Delivery • Low Prices Albanese's Tavern on Keefe. extraordinary parry at Terry and Ken's, Chicago Uncle Joe an M&M Club they are truly quintessential party-givers. fixture of nights gone by returned to Brew Rather, like the "love children" of Pearle City for a weekend of debauchery and Mesta and Elsa Maxwell! If only memories. So, a visit to Helen's was in they could have reproduced... Pearl and store! If I wouldn' t have known better we Elsa, that is. Then onto This Is It, just in could've been doing That's Amore, Part 2. time for costume judging, and once they The food and wine was excellent and realized I was in one, I won, too!' There quite a deal. The table was as rich and was an array of fun looks, besides those spicy as the meal: 'Rona, Belle Starr, before mentioned people, Star Wars latest Shorts, Joe and Cordially Yours in queen, Anna and the King of Siam, my all our 'collective glory! dear friend Dame Edna, direct from My bosom buddy Vera Charles Broadway and many more! and I had a simply divine time of it at The Divine Miss. M. is still divine! The Grayline Tour/Debbie Bette Midler — gets my vote for best Reynolds Show. It's not very often concert of the year! She also we're considered "The Young and the deserves/earned the title of: Entertainer Restless" but, in the crowd, we were! of the Millennium. Who else out there Kudos go out to: RICK, LEE, can sing, dance, act — both comedy and MICHAEL and those "Golden Girls" — drama, and has the ability to reach back Bill, Gordon and Jim. Great cucumber into the rich resources of show business sandwiches! I can't wait for the next trek her's and others, and bring it into today's Set to Drury Lane. world. A fabulous 2-1/2 hours of pure, Pictured That adorable little David Rogers may be not s000 pure entertainment. Only (with notable credits including a stint as Even though her full page "invitation", $298‘ Mr. Gay Wisconsin, a member of the took my place last issue — she's it! If you legendary Holly Brown Revue and didn't make her Nov. 15 show at the now server to the stars at M&M Club) is Bradley Center, rumor has it she will be thrilled to be THE David with the Best back in mid-December in Mad City. Buns! He won IN Step's recent Queerest By the by, if any of you find yourselves of the Queer Contest. 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54 pitchers of beer. Melrose Place Mondays. are 50( from 3 to 7 p.m. S6 Beer Bust from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. Nov. 18 through Dec. 1, 1999 Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): Karaoke! $1.50 MGD and Michelob Za's (Green Bay): Free Pool & Darts. 56 Super Bust at Java's. Goldens. Boot Camp Saloon (Milwaukee): Sunday afternoon bottle beer Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): Grill open! 2.4.1 Happy Hour ACTIVITIES: Tuesdays: special from 3 to 7 p.m. from 4 to 7 p.m. 51.50 Dr. or Schnapps with drink 9 p.m. to close. Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): 2-4.1 Happy Hour on all Friday, November 19 Club 5/Planet 0/The Barracks (Madison) Sunday Miller Lite Scooter's (Eau Claire): 2 for S2 domestic bottles and rail mixers. drinks up to $3.50 and under, plus Spin the Happy Hour Wheel to win Ten Percent Society - Harvest Ball (Madison, WI): Dances Beer Bosh from 3 to 8 p.m. Power Hour from 8 to 9 p.m. Doubles for 9 p.m. to closing. beer bash, free drinks, fish fry & more. Customer Appreciation Day. Free for LGBT Students, staff & friends ore held from 8 p.m. to 12:45 a.m. Si more up to 53.25 regular drinks. Pitchers of Long Islands are $10 taps of Lite from 8 to 9 p.m., plus all rail drinks & domestic bottles are South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour! 3 to 8 in the Great Hall of the Memorial Union, 800 Longdon Street. There from open to close. Live Drag & Male Strippers. Patio opens in June. only 51. 9 tops of Lite, domestic bottles of beer & rail drinks ore p.m. Tickets good until 9 p.m. 2/4/1 all day, all night (open to close). are DJ's and o cosh bar. Admission is S3 at the door and a coat check p.m. Club 219 (Milwaukee): 51 tappers & $1.50 rail drinks from 4 11 p.m. From then is available for $1. Please remember that the University of Wisconsin - $1.25. Price goes up 25 cents every half hour until Station 2 (Milwaukee): Mini Pitchers $2.50. Rail drinks 51.50 to 8 p.m. to Shots of Pucker & Madison campus is smoke-free. The Great Hall is accessible to people close taps of Lite, rails & domestic bottles are $2. Dish (Milwaukee): The new night spot for women! Rotating Hot Sex ore 51 from B p.m. to close. Dancing & DJ at 10 p.m. Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour • 5 to 9 p.m. Boyz Night! with disabilities. 2-4-1 top shelf and roil mixed drinx and taps for the guys. Events! Boot Camp Saloon Cocktail Hour - 4 to 8 p.m. Dairyland Cowgirls 8 Cowboys - Dancing (Madison): At 8 (Milwaukee): Emerald's (Milwaukee): Men's Night! Call drinks S2. The Ballgame (Milwaukee): Special Export 55 pitchers and 90- p.m. there will be Line Dance lessons and a review led by Bill or Cell Block (Chicago): SMUT Tuesdays! XXX Videos. Cheap Drinks. cent mugs from 9 p.m. to lam Sharon. From 9 p.m. to close there will be Open Dancing at the Fannies (Milwaukee): Open at 3 p.m. 51 off all Miller products. Free Games. The Office (Rockford, IL): $2.50 pitchers/50( drafts. Retro Sapphire Ballroom, 1133 N Sherman Ave. in the Northgate Moll. 54 pitchers of beer. Chicago Eagle (Chicago): Leather/Levy Night. Well-drinks & draft Smoke-free & a cash bar. There is a 53 suggested donation. Everyone party with DJ Cris. Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Noon to 4 p.m. Bloody Marys beer $1. Dress Code Enforced. Pit open. is welcome & Western Geor is not necessary. FMI call (608) 245- Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4.1 drinks! & Screw Drivers 52 a mug. Club 5/Planet CI (Madison) 2-4.1 Happy Hour 4 to 8 p.m. on 0627. South Park Wednesdays. SS All-U-Can-Drink Superbust (beerne & soda). M&M Club (Milwaukee): Brunch from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. all drinks $3.25. Rail drinks & domestic beers are SI @ 8 p.m., GAMMA - Social Volleyball (Milwaukee): Play volleyball from $1.25 @ 8:30 p.m., $1.50 @ 9 p.m., $1.15 @ 9:30 p.m. and Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. Kick-Ass Dart 1 to 3 p.m. at UWM's Englemonn Hall. $2 GAMMA members, 53 Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Underwear Night! Si off all $2 from 10 p.m. to'close. Shots of Hot Sex or Pucker ore $1.50. Night! non-members and free to full-time UW students. FMI call John at alcoholic beverages for those in their underwear. DJ Eddie. Power Hour from 8 to 9 p.m. Doubles for Si more up to 53.25 regu- (414) 540-1202. Za's (Green Bay): $6 Super Bust. Sean spins requests. Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): S6 Beer Bust from 3 to 6 p.m. lar drinks. Pitchers of Long Islands ore $I 0 from open to close. Thursdays: Saturday, November 20 OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): $1.50 Bloody Marys hosted by the Club 219 (Milwaukee): Open at 5 p.m. Cocktails are 1/2 price BWMT - Milwaukee Chapter Monthly Meeting Gay Voice. from 5 to 8 p.m. Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): 2-4-1 Happy Hour plus the Happy Hour wheel from 4 to 8 p.m. After 8 p.m. All whiskey (Milwaukee): The Milwaukee chapter meets on the third Saturday Ray's Bar 8 Grill (Madison): Patio bar open at 2 p.m. Emeralds (Milwaukee): 55 Beer Bust - 8 to midnight! of the month at the LGBT Community Center, 170 S. 2nd St. from drinks (roil, Jim Beam, Jack Daniels etc.) are 50( off. Pitchers of Lite Beer Bash from 2 to 8 p.m. Open volleyball. Food available Fluid (Milwaukee): 2-4.1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. $4 for small & 55 for large. Shots of Doctor S2. 1:30 to 9 p.m. Tonight's agenda: Pick chapter officers and discuss from 2 to 6 p.m. 2/4/1 10 p.m. to close meeting arrangements etc. FMI call (414) 211.2656, Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Mexican Night! 4 p.m. to ? Boot Camp Saloon (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour- 4 to 8 p.m. South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee): During the day there is Tacos 51 1 to 10 p.m. 2-4-1 Tequila 4 p.m. to 2 a.m. Corona $1.15 FrontRunners Milwaukee • Weekly Run/Walk a Si beer sale from 3 to 9 p.m. on selected varieties. Shirtless Club 5/Planet 0 (Madison): 2-4-1 Happy Hour on all drinks up (Milwaukee): This weekly run/walk starts at 9 a.m. from St. Sunday Nights with Joke and Steve M. Half-price top & roil if your M&M Club (Milwaukee): Double Bubble with complimentary to 53.25. Frozen cocktails S3. Pitchers of Lite $5. Will & Grace Night: Mary's Wotertower Join the group for brunch afterwards. Everyone is shirt is off. 9 p.m. to close. Hors D'oeuvres 5 to 7 p.m. Si off Martinis-during the show. Power Hour from 8 to 9 p.m. Doubles welcome. FMI contact Bill Morley (414) 278.0187 or wmorley@pit- far $1 more up to $3.25 regular drinks. Shots of Hot Sex or Pucker are Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Levi/Leather. Open 8 p.m. net.net Station 2 (Milwaukee): Bloody Marys $2. Mimosas $2. 51.50. Pitchers of Long Islands ore $10 from open to close. Free Pool, 55 pitchers. Switch (Milwaukee): SIN Night Sunday, November 21 Club 219 (Milwaukee): Open at 5 p.m. Cocktails are 1/2 price Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): Shake a Drink! Aces free and The Ballgame (Milwaukee): Bloody Marys, Screw Drivers, Grey from 5 to 8 p.m. Perfect Harmony Chorus - Weekly Rehearsal (Madison): sixes half-price 3 to 7 p.m. Meet and sing every Sunday at Grace Episcopal Church on Capital Hounds $2.50. Tap beer 90( from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. Rail drinks Dish (Milwaukee): 2.4-1 from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. Groove with OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): All coffee drinks - $2. Square from 7 to 9 p.m. Enter from the West Washington side of the $1.80 6 p.m. to closing. Amy! Amy entertains! Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): Grill open! 2-41 Happy Hour runs court yard. FMI (608) 232.0528. The Office (Rockford, IL): Game Show Mania every Sunday at Emeralds (Milwaukee): Tea Thursday! Ice Tea $2.50. 8:30 p.m. SI Bloody Marys! from 4 to 7 p.m. Free pool with drink purchase from 9 p.m. to close Tuesday, November 23 Fannies (Milwaukee): Si off almost everything including tap South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee): 2 Cocktail Hour! 3 to 8 Milwaukee Pride Marching Band - Bi-Weekly Practice Woody's (Milwaukee): $5 Beer Bust. Packer Bashes. Be Part of shelf. the Cheese Head Club! p.m. Tickets good until 9 p.m. S4 pitchers 9 p.m. to midnight. (Milwaukee): Practice for the holiday concert season will take place Fluid (Milwaukee): 2-4-1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. Cosmopolitan Station 2 (Milwaukee): Closed! at 7:30 p.m. on the second & fourth Tuesday of each month at the Za's (Green Bay): Dry Dance Night! (16 & up in la's). Alcohol Martinis S3 from 8 p.m. to close. MCC Church, 1239 W. Mineral Street & on the first & third Tuesday's served to over 21 in Java's. Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - Cocktail hour 5-9 pm. Nuts at 7:30 p.m. at the M&M Club (upstairs), 124 N. Water St. FMI call Jo'Dees International (Racine): S6 SUPER BUST! MGD and Mondays: and Bolts Night Match and Win! (414) 933-3743. Miller Lite. Cherry LifeSover's and Viagra Shots -$ 2.50 The Office (Rockford, IL): Bud Products $1.50.The Trading Boot Comp Saloon (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour • 4 to 8 p.m. Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Stammers! $1 - 1 p.m. to 2 Wednesday, November 24 Company (Eri Claire): 2 for 52. Domestic bottles and rail mixes all night. Cell Block (Chicago): WWF/WCW Wrestling. $2 specials on micro- n.m. Dairyland Cowgirls 8 Cowboys - Dancing (Madison): At 1 brews. Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4.1 drinks! p.m. there will be Swing Dance lessons by Kris. At 8 p.m. there will be The Kloset (Beloit): Happy Hour Drink Specials 4 through 7 p.m. Woody's Line Dance Review led by Bill. From 9 p.m. to close there will be Open Dish (Milwaukee): The new night-spot for women! Happy Hour 2- (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. After 7 p.m. It's ladies Night Out! S3 pitchers, $1.50 bottled beer 4-1 from 5 to 7 p.m. Pool & and 75( taps. Dancing at the Sapphire Ballroom, 1133 N Sherman Ave. in the Dart leagues • sign up now. Wednesdays: Northgate Mall. Smoke-free & a cash bar. There is a S3 suggested Fluid (Milwaukee): 2.4.1 drinks from M&M Club (Milwaukee): Happy Hour from 5 p.m. to close!. 5 to 8 p.m. Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): Happy Hour from 4 to 8 donation_ Everyone is welcome & Western Gear is not necessary. FMI Jo'Dees Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Open 8 p.m. Levi/Leather. Tex- call (608) 245-0621. International (Racine): $6 Super Bust! by MGD and p.m. 2-4.1 on all drinks under $3.50 plus the Happy Hour Wheel. Miller Lite , all the MGD or Miller Lite you can drink ALL NITE! (54 From 8 p.m. to close pints of lite 52. Roil drinks 50( off. Shots of Mex Night! 52 bottles of Corona, S2 shots of Cuervo and Tequila Rose. Wisconsin Cream City Chorus - Weekly Practice Packer Bust for: televised Monday night Packer's games. Open 1 hour Cuervo or Doctors $1.50 Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): Pull tabs! drinks as low as 25( (Milwaukee): Practice takes place at 1 p.m. at the LGBT before televised games). Boot Camp Saloon: (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour - 4 to 8 p.m. It's 3 to 7 p.m. Community Center, 170 S. 2nd St. FMI call (414) 276-8787 or Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): 4 to 6 p.m. Pull tabs! Leather Night! Prizes throughout the night. (414) 2/1-2656. OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): Si bottle beer. 50( drafts. M&M Club (Milwaukee): Mountain of BBO Rib Special! Cell Block (Chicago): Open Shawn's Treasure Chest for Great Thursday, November 25 Ray's Bar 8 Grill (Madison): Grill open! 2-4-1 Happy Hour Naplese Lounge (Green Bay): Pull tabs from 3 to 7 p.m. (Drinks Prizes! Check your planner for more. $2 Lite/MGD longnecks. from 4 to 7 p.m. Frontiers/Shake It Up! - Teddy Bear Pot Luck (Madison): as low as 25(1. There is a $6 Beer Bust from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. Chicago Eagle (Chicago): Free pool. Cocktails (spiked and unspiked) start at 4 p.m. for this Turkey-day for Scooter's (Eau Claire): Free Pool & Darts. 2-4-1 tap beer 9 p.m. orphans, waifs and strays. It takes place at 4701 Judy Lane. Everyone OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): Melrose Mondays. Free pizza & shot Club 5/Planet 0 (Madison): 2.4-1 Happy Hour from 4 to 8 to close. brings something to share, plus a Teddy Beor to take to the Women's specials. p.m. on drinks up to $3.25. 50( off all taps & rails. Cuervo & Dr. Station 2 (Milwaukee): Bottle and Can beers, 50( off. Si shots Shelter on Monroe Street. FMI: (608) 241.2500 Ray's Bar & Grill (Madison): 2-4-1 Happy Hour 4.to 7 p.m. 51.50 Karaoke from 8 to 11 p.m. Power Hour from 8 to 9 p.m. of cold Schnapps. Doubles for $1 more up to $3.25 regular drinks. Shots of Hot Sex or Saturday, $3.50 and under drinks over $3.50 get SI off. November 27 Pucker are $1.50. Pitchers of long Islands ore $I 0 from open to Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. Karaoke Night! 9 Dairyland Cowgirls 8 Cowboys - Dancing (Madison): At 8 Scooter's (Eau Claire): S3 pitchers - 9 p.m. to close. close. Patio open in June. p.m. to close. p.m. there will be a Review led by Bill or Sharon. From 9 p.m. to South Water St. Docks (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour! 3 to 8 Club 219 (Milwaukee): Open at 5 p.m. Cocktails ore 1/2 price The Ballgame (Milwaukee): Pull tabs... try your luck! close there will be Open Dancing at the Sapphire Bollroom, 1133 N p.m. Tickets good until 9 p.m. $1 off top and rail 9 p.m. to midnight. from 5 to 8 p.m. Sherman Ave. in the Northgote Mall. Smoke-free & a cash bar. There The Office (Rockford, IL): Beer $1 Well drinks $1.50. Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 6 is a $3 suggested donation. Everyone is welcome & Western Gear is to 9 p.m. Girl's Night Out! Dish (Milwaukee): It's Point Night! There are pints of Point for The Trading Company (Eau Claire): Super Bust! 9 p.m. to 2.4.1 rails and taps for the girls from 9 p.m. to close. not necessary. FMI call (608) 245-0621. SI. 2-4-1 5:30 to 1:30 p.m. close. S8 roil, $10 call mixers, $12 top-shelf mixers. The Ballgame (Milwaukee): Domestic beer $1.50, rail drinks Emeralds (Milwaukee): Lady's Night! Call drinks $2. Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour • 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4-1 drinks! BAR SPECIALS: $1.90. 9 p.m. to close. Fannies (Milwaukee): Karaoke Night! Pull tabs. Drinks as low as 56 All-U-Can Drink Rail Bust! The Office (Rockford, IL): Miller products • $1 Sundays: .50. 25(. Dart leagues starting the 2nd week of January. Sign up now! Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4-1 drinks! Fluid (Milwaukee): 2-4-1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. Bottles of Za's (Green Bay): $6 Super Bust. DJ Mark spins. Corona & shots of Cuervo $2 from 8 p.m. to close. Fridays: Jo'Dees International (Racine): Free Pool & S6 Super Bust! MGD and Miller Lite! Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): 2.4-1 Happy Hour on all one POPULAR NEWS drinks $3.50 and under. SI off all other drinks. From 4 to 8 p.m. plus Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Hump Day! Everything's a the Happy Hour wheel. buck. Open to close. Discount Videos & Magazines Boot Camp Saloon (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour • 4 to 8 p.m. ovvicE The Kloset (Beloit): Happy Hour Drink Specials 4 through 7 p.m. Hundreds of Adult Male Videos 55 Beer Bash! DJ spinning the hits starting at 9 p.m. Club 5/Planet 0 (Madison): 2.4-1 Happy Hour on all drinks up to $3.25 from 4 to 8 p.m. Patio open in June. 513 E. State St. DVD Movies Now Available! M&M Club.(Milwaukee): Double Bubble with complimentary Rockford, IL 61104 Hors D'oeuvres 5 to 7 p.m. Club 219 (Milwaukee): Open at 5 p.m. Cocktails are 1/2 price from 5 to 8 p.m. (815) 965-0344 as low as $9 95 Man's Country (Chicago): 7-5-7. Special: Rooms and Lockers S7 for S hours. Dish (Milwaukee): The new night spot for women! Happy Hour 2- 4-1 5 to 7 p.m. Join DJ Amber for dancin' & romancin'. Open 1 days a week • 8am to midnight Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Open 8 p.m. Levi/Leather. Rockford's Hot Spot! Miller Time! Miller Nite, 51.50 taps and $2.00 bottles. 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www.instepnews.com IN Step •Novembei 18 — December 1, 1999 klA Fannies (Milwaukee): Envelope Night! WIN SSScash & prizes. Sunday, November 21 month (nothing during December ) from 6:30 to 8 p.m. The series is James Reeb Unitarian Univeralist Church - Worship to encourage awareness and discussion of issues important to the Service (Madison): Services are at 9 and 11 a.m. at 2146 E. DJ at 10 p.m. with the best of the 70s, 80s & 90s. Docks HIV Testing (Milwaukee): The BESTD Traveling SWS LGBT Community. FMI call (414) 271.2656 Johnson St. FMI call (608) 242-8887. Fluid (Milwaukee): 2-4-1 drinks from 5 to 8 p.m. HIV Clinic will be there from 6 to 9 p.m. FMI call (414) 272-2144. LGBT Community Center - Weekly HIV Tests and STD LGBT Community Center - Meditation Circle Jo'Dees International (Racine): Bring on the Bears and Bikers! Screening (Milwaukee): These testing/screening services are (Milwaukee): The Circle will begin with centering and grounding $1.25 Top MGD & Miller Lite, 51.75 Pints of Leinie's Red, 52.50 BOOK READINGS, CLASSES available at the BESTD office in the Community Center from 5 to 7:30 exercises followed by guided meditation. It will evolve as the group Pints of Hacker-Pschorr Weisse. 52.50 Vanilla & Original Doctor's, p.m. FMI call (414) 271-2656 or (414) 272-2144. desires, and meets from 10 a.m. to noon on the 1st Sunday of the Cherry Cheesecake, Cherry LifeSaver's and Viagra shots. E CLUBS: LGBT Campus Center - Boy-Oh-Boy Gay/BI Men's month at the Center, 110 S. 2nd Street. FMI call (414) 271-2656. Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Pull tabs! 5 to 7 p.m. Thursday, November 18 Group (Madison): This weekly group provides an outlet for gay/bi LGBT Community Center - Conversations With God M&M Club (Milwaukee): All you can eat Fish Fry and other Harry W. Schwartz Bookshops - Author Appearance students at UWM and has a number of social outings and great discus- (Milwaukee): The group meets from 10 a.m. to noon on the 3rd great specials. (4093 N. Oakland Ave.): Carl Klaus will discuss his new book sion. It is hosted by University Health Services and Sex-Out-Loud and Sunday of the month at the Center, 170 S. 2nd Street. FMI call RETIREMENT at 7 p.m. FMI call (414) 963.3111. Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): Open 8 p.m. Fetish Nite! 50( TAKING meets on Thursday nights at 6:30 p.m. at the LGBT Campus Center, (414) 211-2656. second floor of the UW-Madison Memorial Union, 800 off all beverages for those who are Fetish dressed from 10 p.m. to LGBT Community Center - Gay Men's Writing Group located on the LGBT Community Center - Drumming Circle (Milwaukee): Langdon Street. close. 2.4-1 on all mixed drinks from 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. The Shaft Bar (Milwaukee): Meets 1st Thursday and 3rd Monday of the month. The group meets from 10 a.m. to noon on the 4th Sunday of the opens at 10 p.m. Dress Code enforced. DI Eddie. For writers, poets, essayists and all others to create an environment South Madison Health & Family Ctr. (Madison): Free, month at the Center, 170 S. 2nd Street. FMI call (414) 271.2656. where members write together, share together and critique together. 5 to 7:45 p.m. Located at 2202 South Water Street Docks (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour! 3 to anonymous walk-in HIV testing from Rainbow Friends - Quaker Worship Group (Madison): FMI call (414) 271-2656. South Park St. FMI call (608) 261-9270. 8 p.m. Tickets good until 9 p.m. This group meets on the third Thursday of each month at 11 a.m. Station 2 (Milwaukee): Margarita Madness $2. Corona $2. Saturday, November 20 Triangle Coalition - 1GB Support Group (Rockford, IL): Diversity is encouraged, feelings ore honored, and boundaries ore relationships. Discuss a A Room of One's Own Bookstore - Music in the Coffee Meet to establish and explore friendships & respected. FMI & location, call (608) 250-7989. Switch (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 6 to 9 p.m. Full Service Patio variety of topics every Thursdays at 8 p.m. FMI call (319) 583-1834. Bar open. Cocktail Lounge and DJ 9 p.m. to dose. House (Madison): Singer/Songwriter VICTORIA DAVITT will per- Rebuilding faith - LGBT Catholics (Milwaukee): The month- form at 8 p.m. The event is free and open to the public. FMI call Women's Consciousness Raising Group (Madison): Meets ly meeting will have guest speaker DAVID SCHIMMEL. The group The Ballgame (Milwaukee): $2.50 bloodys screw and grey- (608) 257-7888. weekly at 5:30 p.m. at 122 State St. Suite 403. FMI call (608) meets from 10:30 to noon at Holy Trinity/Guadalupe, 613 S. 4th St. hound & 90-cent taps... 11am to 6pm. 250-6715.,i FMI call (414) 481-8543. Monday, November 22 The Office (Rockford, IL): Best Dance Party! DJ Cris. Unitarian Universalist Church - Lesbian Seeking Sobriety - Non-Religious Recovery Group Harry W. Schwartz Bookshops - Author Appearance Company (Eau Claire): All chilled shots $1.50 - 9 Support/Discussion Group (Rockford, IL): The group meets (Milwaukee) This recovery group meets at 6 p.m. every Sunday at The Trading (4093 N. Oakland Ave.): Feng-Shui practitioner Helen Berliner to 11 p.m. weekly from 7 to 8 p.m. at 4848 Turner Rd. FMI call (815) 636- BESTD Clinic, 1240 E. Brady St. (use side door). FMI call Danny at will discuss her new book ENLIGHTENED BY DESIGN at 7 p.m. FMI call 7298. (414) 540-0961 or Richard at (4141442-1132. Triangle (Milwaukee): Happy Hour - 5 to 9 p.m. 2-4-1 drinks! (414) 963-3111 Friday, November 19 Silver Space - Older Lesbian Discussion Group Woody's (Milwaukee): Cocktail Hour 4 to 9 p.m. Tuesday, November 23 High Tea & Talk - Men's Group (Madison): High Tea & Talk (Milwaukee): The group meets on the third Sunday of the month Saturdays: Gerber/Hart Library - Lesbian Book Club (Chicago): The is an organization-free opportunity for men of all ages, who enjoy the at the Counseling Center, 2038 N. Bartlett Ave. from 6 to 8 p.m. $3 Lesbian Book Discussion Group meets on Tuesday evenings from 7:30 Barracks - Levi/Leather (Madison): Levi/Leather/Uniform company of other men to have a bull session and graze the goodies at donation. FMI call (414) 271-2565. - 9:00 p.m. at the Library, 1121 West Granville Ave. Suggested dona- Night! 50( off every drink for proper L/L/Uniform attire. 2.4-1 Monty's Blue Plate Diner. The group meets at 1:30 p.m. and is wheel University Congregational Church - Worship Service tion: $2 - Gerber/Hart members S3 - non-members. Happy Hour on all drinks $350 and under. $1 off all drinks over choir accessible. (Madison): Weekly services are at 10 o.m. at 1127 University Ave. $3.50, plus spin the Happy Hour Wheel from 4 to 8 p.m. COMMUNITY MEETINGS E Integrity/Dignity - Conference (Madison/Milwaukee): FMI (608) 256.2353. Dish (Milwaukee): The new night spot for women! loin DJ Amber The CALL TO ACTION CONFERENCE runs through Sunday. FMI call Monday, November 22 for dancin' & romancin'. EVENTS: Marian (608) 256.0065 or Jim (608) 836-8886. BGLASS - Weekly Meeting (Appleton, WI): The Bisexual, Fannies (Milwaukee): Hot Music to dance to. Two new Dls play- LGBT Youth Group - Meeting (Kenosha): This group meets Thursday, November 18 Gay, Lesbian and Straight Society meets every Monday at 1:30 p.m. ing top 40, booty, house, funk, oldies etc. the first & third Fridays of the month from 7 to 10 p.m. at the ARCW in Room 109 of Coleman Hall at Lawrence University Memorial Union, Diversity G/L Resource Center (Rockford, IL): Located at Jo'Dees International (Racine): Vanilla & Original Doctor's, Offices, 1212 - 57th St. FMI call 800-924-6601. 615 E. College Ave. FMI call Irene (920) 722-7572, Bernie (920) 610 E State St. Open from 4 to 9 p.m. Teen Drop-in Hours. FMI call Cherry Cheesecake, Cherry LifeSaver's and Viagra shots - $2.50. MGLO & MGLPO - Red Light Night (Marshfield, WI): 982-0220, or Harriet (920) 749.1629. (815) 964-2639. $1.25 Top MGD & Miller Lite, 51.15 Pints of Leinie's Red, $2.50 Come every Friday night from 10:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. to Gay AA/Gay Al-anon - 12-Step Meetings (Racine): These Pints of Hacker-Pschorr Weisse. Gay AA - Open Meetings (Appleton & Green Bay, WI): Marshfield's #1 spot at 130 S. Central Ave., above the Thimbleberry recovery groups meet every Monday at 625 College Ave. at 8 p.m. There are five open AA Meetings for the gay and lesbian community Kathy's Nut Hut (Milwaukee): Short beers 2 for $1.50. Bookstore. Come and meet local LGBT people, enjoy Videos and FMI call Art at (414) 694-0115. each week in Appleton and Green Bay. FMI & Locations call (920) Dancing. Everyone is welcome to attend. Carry-in Alcohol accepted. Man's Country (Chicago): Male Strippers and Porn Stars. Show 336-2868 or (920) 954-9169. FMI call Jim (715) 384.6731 or Vic (71S) 387-2068. Goy/Bi Men's AA - Closed Meeting (Madison): The group at Midnight. Free Continental Breakfast Sunday Morning. meets at 8 p.m. at the University United Methodist Church, 1121 Gay AA/Gay Al-anon - 12-Step Meetings (Kenosha): Northland Gay Men's Center - Weekly HIV/AIDS Social University Ave. FMI call (608) 222-8989. Milwaukee Eagle (Milwaukee): 2.4.1 on all mixed drinks from These recovery groups meet every Thursday at the Unitarian Group (Duluth, MN): The group meets from 5 to 8 p.m. at the LGBT Community Center - Membership Drop In Nights 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. DI Eddie! Universalist Church, 5810 8th Ave., at 7:30 p.m. FMI call Bill or Art at Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave. East, Temple opera Block, Suite 309. This is an (Milwaukee): These are low-key, casual nights on the first Monday OH ZONE (Rockford, IL): $1.50 shot specials. DJ/Dancing. (414) 694-0115 opportunity for all men with HIV/AIDS to socialize and find support. of the month. 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FMI call LGBT Youth Pride Support Group - New Meeting (Green p.m. DI & dancing starting at 11 p.m. Bay, WI): This group will be available to youth every Monday from HIV/AIDS Support Group & Hotline (Upper Peninsula, (608) 255-4927. 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. at the Renaissance Counseling Center, 311 Station 2 (Milwaukee): Dirty Cocktails Specials (ask bartender). MI): These projects serve Dickinson, Iron, & Menomonee Counties. Saturday, November 20 Jefferson St. FMI call (920) 437-4325. Hot Sex SI. Slammers $1. For information on the support group which meets in Iron Mountain, AIDS Network - HIV/AIDS Support Group (Madison): Switch (Milwaukee): Full Service Patio Bar open. Cocktail Lounge Michigan on the first Thursday of each month, call the HIV/AIDS WISH - Generic AA 12-Step Meeting (Madison): The This group meets from 10 a.m. to noon at UW Hospital, 600 Highland and DJ 9 p.m. to close. 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(608) 643- HIV/AIDS on the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of the month. The meetings Woody's (Milwaukee): Bucky Badger Doy! Beer Bust During the 7583. Northland Gay Men's Center - Social Night (Duluth, take place from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Family Resource Assn. of Fox Game. 51 Highlife All Day! LGBT Community Center - Lesbian Singles Discussion MN): Meets every Saturday. Activities include games, videos and Valley, Midway Rd., 1488 Kenwood Drive. FMI call (920) 739-4226 Group (Milwaukee): this group meets on the 3rd Thursday of other social events from 6 to 9 p.m. at the Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave. or Sylvia at 1-800-675-9400. BAR EVENTS: East, Temple opera Block, Suite 309. FMI call (218) 722-8585. each month from 7 to 8:30 p.m. Ongoing discussion about unique LGBT Community Center - Lesbian 12-Step Al-Anon challenges and rewords of being single, open to all lesbians. The group Thursday, November 18 Sunday, November 21 Group (Milwaukee): Al Anon is a 12-step recovery program for will pick a different topic each month. FMI call Pat Walsh, (414) 329- relatives or friends of alcoholics. This new group meets from 1:30 to 9 Switch HIV Testing (Milwaukee): The BESTD Traveling HIV 8404. Angels of Hope MCC - Religious Services (Allouez & p.m. The only requirement for membership is that there be a problem Clinic will be there from 9 p.m. to Midnight. FMI call (414) 272- Appleton, WI): Services are held every Sunday at 11 a.m. at LGBT Community Center - Parenting Support Group 2144. 3607 Libel St., Allouez, & at 5 p.m. at 815 N. Richmond St., of alcoholism with a relative or friend. FMI call (414) 271-2656. (Milwaukee): this group meets on the 1st Thursday of the month Appleton. FMI call (920) 991.0128. 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Photo by Jamie @ 219 Present Music - Concert (Milwaukee): THANKSGIVING CON- CERT at CHORALE. Plus IN OUR OWN WORDS. Re-runs the next day at 8 a.m. St. John's Cathedral, 802 N. Jackson St. at 1:30 p.m. The concert features ancient spiritual traditions. FMI 8, tickets call (414) Monday, November 29 271.0111. Frontiers Gay/Bi Men's Club - Film Circle (Madison): A UWM Fine Arts - Concert (Milwaukee): This 3 p.m. concert screening of the film WILDE will take place at Rl 8. Jeff's FMI: (608) in the School of the Arts Recital hall features HAYDN, SHOSTAKOVICH 214-5959 8 Wolf. Admission $16 general admission, 58 students. FMI call (414) 229.4308. MUSEUMS GALLERIES Tuesday, November 23 Friday, November 19 Madison Civic Center - Dance (Madison): The Moscow Ballet adambomb gallerie - Opening 8 Reception (Milwaukee): will perform Cinderella at 7:30 p.m. FMI call the Box Office at (608) v t A reception will be held from 6 to 1- p.m. for Stacie J. Meyer for her 266-9055 mixed media show titled IMAGES FROM IDAHO. The gallery is located Friday, November 26 at 524 S. 2nd St. FMI call (414) 276-BOMB. Madison Rep - Opening Night (Madison): The Madison Rep Saturday, November 20 8. the UW University Theater collaborate on THE THREE MUSKATEERS Cubes of the Week. Photo by Jamie @ Bol'game. The Incredible Tilly... photo by ??? Studio 613 Fine Arts - Sculpture Reception at UWM's Mitchell Theater, 821 University Ave. FMI, tickets and times (Milwaukee): The opening and a reception for ETHNO ART IN call (608) 256-0029 or (608) 262.1500. LGBT Campus Center - Les/Bi Curious Women's Group TERRA COTTA by sculptor David J. Cusick will be held from 6:30 to 9 Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra - Classics (Madison): This weekly group, which is open specifically to lesbian, p.m. at 338 N. Milwaukee St. Suite 405. FMI call (414) 221-0613. (Milwaukee): The MSO, conducted by PINCHAS ZUCKERMAN, vio- bisexual and curious women who are UWM students, meets every lin 8. YEFIM BRONFMAN , piano play BEETHOVEN 8 SCHOONBERG at Sunday, November 21 Wednesday night, 8 p.m. at the LGBT Campus Center. The center is 7:30 p.m. in Uihlein Hall of the Marcus Performing Arts Center. FMI located on the second floor of the UWM Memorial Union, 800 Charles Allis Art Library - Square Dancing (Milwaukee): call 1.800-291-7605. Landgon St. Experienced dancers from 8 different clubs will dance to the calling of Skylight Opera - Opening Night (Milwaukee): FIDDLER ON JIMMIE BURSS from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m. in the Great Hall of the Madison Vet Center - GLB Veterans Meeting (Madison): THE ROOF opens at the Cabot Theater at the Broadway Theater Center Museum. $3 Adults, S2 seniors 8. students, members free, FMI call The group meets every Wednesday at 147 S. Butler at 5 p.m. FMI at 7:30 p.m. and runs through 12/19. 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BWMT - Film (Milwaukee): Black 8 White Men Together will Milwaukee Symphony Pops - Concert (Milwaukee): Let the DIONNE WARWICK will join the MSO Pops and Andrew Sills in Uihlein Northland Gay Men's Center - Open Discussion Group meet at the Humphrey man for an afternoon of film. 3:30 p.,. SPEEDWAY. 4:30 p.m. AMAZON. Look for Peter K. The group may go Hall at 8 p.m. Also 11/20 of 8 p.m. 8 11/21 at 7:30 p.m. Tickets (Duluth, MN): The group meets weekly from 7 to 9 p.m. at the POO of to dinner together before they go to the monthly meeting at the are $25 to $75 FMI call 1-800-291-7605. Center, 8 N. 2nd Ave. East, Temple Opera Block, Suite 309. Topics Community Center. include coming out issues, support 8 resources. No age limits. FMI call UWM Fine Arts - Dance (Milwaukee): NEW DANCEMAKERS IN Sfep (218) 722.8585. Sunday, November 21 continues tonight at 8 p.m. in the School of the Arts Mainstage Theater. 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FMI cull (414) 271- HIV/AIDS Support Group - (Green Bay, WI): Free, confi- 2656. dential and open to any person living with or affected by HIV/AIDS on Sunday, November 28 the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month. The meetings take place at islet Coble Channel 4, Public Access TV, WYOU - Weekly TV Renaissance Heoling Arts Ctr., 311 S. Jefferson from 7:30 to 9 p.m. FMI call (920) 437-4325 or Sylvia at 1-800-675.9400. (Madison): NOTHING TO HIDE runs every week horn 2 to 3 p.m. (formerly Walker's Point Cafe E The Annex Cafe) Today: the WINTER WHITE CONCERT - MADISON GAY MEN'S

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You see, it was Josh's the Miss 219 Pageant. It was a fabulous birthday this weekend and we went all show but as you know, only one of the girls out... all weekend. Yes, it was a bit excessive can walk away with the crown and that girl al\ on my part. We started at Triangle where was Whisky Eudoxa. I'm pretty sure she Lana lost his underwear at bar dice. Then locked in the victory when she walked on we headed over to LaCage where we ran stage with a string quartet and played the into George. (From what we hear from violin live. Conrats girl! George, the rumor mill is working over- Another Birthday Bash to tell you time for us. No, we do not have crabs, and about happened over at South Water haven't had them. It's amazing some of the Street Docks. Jake and Phil celebrated things I hear from various people about us their birthday and actually turned the and other people. Hey, if I can't see it, it party into a fund-raiser for ARCW food ain't true.) In any case, we had a great time pantry. Atta boy! at LaCage and then headed to Woody's I wanted to tell you about one more for our weekly game of pool. We had lot's thing before I head off to dream land. I was of fun that night and spent much of Satur- reading the Quest Magazine when some- day lounging. Saturday night again, started thing caught my eye. It was titled "Letter at Triangle and snowballed from there. from the Fat Work-a-holic" it was from Za We met up with some really cool people himself. It was a very funny, honest insight- and wound up closing Woody's again. ful glimpse into Mark's life. The gist of the We were having such a good time we took article was a reminder that Turnabout the party to our house. About 10 of us Y2K $2000 is right around the corner. were up all night talking about everything This is a very important fund-raiser for under the sun. We were having such fun Rainbow Over Wisconsin. This group Awed °Node el& 9eP€f we hardly noticed the sun come up. At that is largely responsible for the free condoms point Josh had enough and excused him- you can get at any bar. All of the proceeds at Ceuede c Qi&ate ea„, self off to bed. This is where I should had the door, and all of the tips the performers followed his cue. Nope, I decided to stay AND the bartenders make will be donated up with the rest of the group. After all, I to Rainbow Over Wisconsin. Their goal is was the host, right? Somewhere around 8 $2000. That's enough money for a year's H.I.T. the Alleys! a.m., someone said "Hey, isn't 1100 Club supply of free condoms. The show will be open?" So it was off to 1100 Club. Once held as Za's in Green Bay, Friday, Nov. again, we had a blast. Right around noon, 26th. It will only cost you $3 at the door but I had run out of steam and headed home that is a great deal for a show at Za's. for some very much needed sleep. I slept That's about it for now. Just a couple of right through the day until the phone rang. reminders before I let you go. If you like It was Josh and he was at his brother's karaoke, it's over to Switch on Thursday house celebrating his and his niece's birth: nights. Thursdays are also a great night to day. I got myself together and headed over head over to M&M for their ever-so-popu- Then after the games, H.I.T. there. This is where it all started to catch lar 2-for-1 night. If it's dancing you like, up with me. It felt like it was 120 degrees you can either hit LaCage or Dish. Both in their house and I wasn't sure I was gonna places have the best dance music in Mil- Milwaukee's newest E hottest gay survive. Unfortunately, we had made plans waukee. Sports fans? You have several to meet up with some people at 9:30 p.m., choices starting with the Ball Game, so after watching the movie Rugrats, we Woody's and then Ray's in Madison. nite club to compare your scores! headed downtown. The first hour was a bit The choice in Green Bay is either rough but I perked up a bit after awhile. Brandy's II or Sass. Don't forget about We had a great time talking with Julio the strippers at 219 and the "hot men and most of the night. I was very relieved when hot times" over at Triangle and of course Josh said it was time to go home 'cause the best martini's in town aver at Fluid. quite frankly, I had enough, and so did I'm gonna head off to bed now so I have Josh. I was smart enough to have arranged the energy and the tummy to go to work it so I didn't have to go to work Monday. It tomorrow. You probably will not see much probably would have been a very miserable of me this week but come Friday night I'm and very unproductive day. The only thing sure I'll be out. Until then, remember mod- I have to accomplish today is this column eration is the best policy and as always, Thursday Nite (Thanksgiving) and getting this past week's photos slower traffic keep right. 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