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Kagan has excellent form: she’s got her eye other guys did. I don’t think it is my place to rea: “All You Can Eat Fish I know this is an uncomfortable say more.” I on the ball and she’s choking up the bat. She’s (undetermined) with a tangy light truth. We’d almost rather NOT wearing jeans, sneakers, and a loosely but- As Washington Post media critic Howard Gulf Coast oil coating” brought to you from look and see this happening, like a varicose toned denim shirt with the sleeves rolled up. Kurtz put it: “I’m not sure he’s the guy you BP. Beyond Petroleum/British Petroleum, the vein on your leg ... don’t look and perhaps it She’s looks like a lesbian. want out there talking world’s second largest oil company and one of will go away. Not. Which is likely the point. about sex.” the world’s largest corporations, is responsible In fact, we may not have even noticed much As soon as Kagan’s Kind of like the first black Indeed. for this disgusting ooze we are just starting to about this impending disaster, as BP has not name was put in the mix You can read what- see show up on our beaches and marches in the allowed media into the area, or any other in- to replace retiring Justice president. And the first ever you want into the Southern states. vestigative team to collect data and evidence John Paul Stevens, politi- female justice. “is she or isn’t she” re- It’s Day 36 at the time of this writing, and against them, when it all comes time to go to cal insiders were gossip- porting about Kagan’s so far, BP has done precious little to impede court to see how MUCH they will pay. But the ing about Kagan as the sexual orientation: the the flow of the “oh so thick oil from its pipe, 1 sins of the father are washing up on shore for first gay justice. Firsts matter. media is sexist (why mile below the ocean’s surface.” Watching the all to see now. And from there, the ru- can’t a woman be live feed gives one a sense of just how little is How many more environmental disasters of mor took on a life of its Why pretend otherwise?” single and successful being done to stop the daily continued pollu- our own making can we continue to ignore? own. It hit the mainstream without also being a tion there ain’t no one doin’ anything there! Oh Nuclear waste that isn’t properly stored has a when CBS News blogger Ben Domenech mat- lesbian?); the media is just doing its job (it’s a sure, I know they’ve been trying, and there’s a consequence, along with oil drilling and pipe- ter of factly described Kagan as the country’s legitimate question and it needed to be asked); tube siphoning a fifth of what is coming out, line leaks, coal mining and mountaintop re- “first openly gay justice.” the media is homophobic (why is the sexual but it’s precious little ... but with a huge price moval, air pollution and acid rain. The White House fueled the fire when orientation of a potential Supreme Court jus- tag someone will have to pay. As we slowly destroy our clean water, air and spokesman Ben LaBolt described Domenech’s tice relevant?). And those “some ones” will be us. soil, and at the same time, continue to reproduce post as making “false charges” – which an- But I think there’s another interpretation. The We’ll start pay by paying more for fish, more more humans at a staggering rate, it’s a circle gered LGBT politicos, who wanted to know Kagan kafuffle is a sign of the LGBT commu- unemployment benefits to working fisherman, of destruction with a not- so-rosy forecast. why being described as openly gay consti- nity’s influence. Regardless of what you think and tourist-starved vacation beach towns. Then This is one more chapter in the struggle for tuted a charge. Things turned truly bizarre See Kagan on page 13 we’ll pay through higher taxes to clean this up human rights. Human rights, you say? Yes, hu- after BP has walked away, laughing all the way man, animal, and vegetable. Planetary rights to the bank. We’ll pay by seeing our precious that start and end with humans smack in the Time for action to make promises resources and fragile ecosystem destroyed, un- middle of it. Our planet needs us to become usable and stinky for years to come. We’ll be See Couch on page 4 matter and enforce consequences angry and shaking our fists that “someone must By: Jason Lydon/TRT Opinion Writer piece challeng- hen it came time to vote for es Benny, the Letters to the Editor a theme for Boston Pride I assimilating The Rainbow Times was one of those who was landlord; “al- Dear Editor, 351 Pleasant St., #322 W Northampton, MA 01060 excited about the idea of the word “ri- though he once We wanted to take this opportunity to say ots” coming off the tongues of queer had principles, a huge, THANK YOU, to Gricel M. Ocasio, www.therainbowtimesmass.com and transgender people throughout he abandoned Publisher and to The Rainbow Times for the [email protected] Massachusetts. I was excited to be them to live outstanding story about our documentary in [email protected] part of remembering the role riots as a lap dog your May 20 edition. [email protected] have played in our movements, most to a wealthy We are, indeed, grateful because we were Phone: 413.282.8881, famously being Stonewall, but also daughter of the Jason Lydon starting to lose hope that the Gay media was 617.444.9618 or 617.438.4364 the Compton Cafeteria riot that oc- revolution.” not interested in our story. Gricel proved Fax: 206.203.0436

Opinion curred in August of 1966 when trans- In many ways I think that she could be chal- otherwise and because of her gracious and gender patrons fought back against lenging the far majority of the current LGBT informative story, we have others in the Publisher Columnists police repression and exclusion by the Comp- movement. media, both gay and mainstream, who have Gricel M. Ocasio Suzan Ambrose ton Cafeteria. The numbers of transgender women of color focused attention toward our work. Editor-In-Chief Lorelei Erisis However, the way the theme is titled, “From getting brutally murdered around the country Our main reason for filming, A Cross Nicole Lashomb Tetty Gorfine Riots to Rights,” implies that the need for riot- keeps increasing, there was yet another wom- Burning in Willacoochee, was to share our Sales Manager Deja N. Greenlaw Paul P. Jesep ing is over, and I could not disagree more. an murdered in Puerto Rico on May 24th. story about what happened to us and to re- Bill Berggren We do not need to organize to pass more Jason Lydon In the Broadway musical “Rent (which has mind people that these types of hate crimes Distribution Manager its own issues worth discussing in another col- are still happening today. Not only did you J.M. Sorrell See Promises on page 28 SJ Seymour Reporters umn) Maureen’s mooing filled performance feature our story, you also placed a copy Sales Associates of our DVD on the cover of The Rainbow Joe Siegel Chris Gilmore Tynan Power Times. We feel we will receive much more Liz Johnson attention and requests once the readers see Susan Ryan-Vollmar C’mon Out – Just Ask! Advice Column your great paper. We also have passed along Webmaster Lead Designer By: Tetty Gorfine*/TRT Columnist through books and many copies that Gricel sent to us. Jarred Johnson Jim Curran Hi Tetty, what not, but it hasn’t Again, words cannot deeply express our The Rainbow Times is published monthly by I’m a freshman in college and I’m having an seemed to help. feelings toward the kindness shown to us The Rainbow Times, LLC. TRT is affiliated with extremely tough time dealing with my current Any thoughts or sug- from our friends, Gricel and The Rainbow AP/Newsfinder, QSyndicate, & the National Gay situation. gestions on how I should Times. We will never forget your gracious- & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. The articles The whole self-acceptance process is rela- go about with this? ness and support. Your paper will thrive be- written by the writers, columnists, and correspon- —C cause you have people there who truly care. dents express their opinion, and do not represent tively new for me (within the past year) and I the endorsement or opinion of The Rainbow Times, had come out to my mom only 3 months ago. Please know we are here for you as well. Hello C: LLC or its owners. To write letters to the editor, My mom tries to seem supportive, but I can Thank you again, Roy Kirkland & Doug please send your letters, with your name, address sense her disdain and disbelief at the fact that I can feel the strains Sebastian - www.dspmovies.com and phone number to: The Rainbow Times (address I’m gay. I knew it would take her time to come and growing pains shown above), or e-mail any comment/s to the to terms with it and that it was as much of a as you come out and Dear Rainbow Times, editor at: [email protected]. All process for her as it was for me, but I’m not cope with the tensions Thank you for Half-Lady Lisa’s article submissions will be edited according to space dealing with it very well. We’ve always been between yourself and on transgender children (May 6th edition). constraints. The Rainbow Times, LLC reserves the your mom. I also hear Tetty Gorfine Too often the lives of transgender people right not to print any or all content, or advertise- very close but I feel like it’s been straining our ments for any reason at all. TRT is not responsible relationship; as I feel as though I’m always on that you are trying to are ignored or appear in the media only in “come out” in general, and this too is difficult. for advertising content. To receive The Rainbow the defense for just being who I am. sensationalized accounts such as the Bos- Times at your home via regular mail, or through I still feel like I’m in the closet, but I really Being yourself is courageous and I applaud ton Herald article Lisa mentioned. I ap- electronic delivery, please visit our website. The want to just live my life freely. For the most that you are doing this despite the difficulties. plaud The Rainbow Times for its coverage whole content and graphics (photos, etc.) are the part I’ve attempted to cope with it on my own, See C’mon Out on page 21 sole property of The Rainbow Times, LLC and they See Letters on page 7 cannot be reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 •  Project One launches with forum on bullying and suicide prevention By: Tynan Power/TRT Reporter dation for Suicide Prevention, spoke of her The difference, he explained, comes down Project One, a community initiative with pain and shock at losing a child to suicide 19 to pattern and power. True bullying involves the slogan Building a healthy community years ago. a pattern of repeated aggressive behaviors and ONE child, ONE family, ONE issue at a time “A great smile and jokes can hide depression. a power difference between the victim and the launched May 26th with a forum on bullying Achievement can hide depression,” she said. aggressor. and suicide prevention. Held at the MassMutual McMahon urged people to ask young people Sarvet praised the new anti-bullying leg- Center in Springfield, the gathering brought to- the tough question—“Are you thinking of hurt- islation for defining bullying in a way that is gether many who are concerned by a troubling ing yourself?” consistent with professional literature on the trend that cost the lives of two Western Mass. “Be prepared for subject. young people and contributed to the recent pas- the answer to be Yet, in a March joint statement, GLSEN, the sage of anti-bullying legislation. yes,” she said. “Be Family Equality Council and PFLAG said the William M. Bennett, the Hampden County prepared to take legislation did not go far enough to protect LG- District Attorney, explained that two new laws action.” BTQ youth. aim to reduce harass- Dr. Barry Sarvet, “The bill falls short as it fails to enumerate Chief of Child and the classes of persons who have historically Photos: tynan power ment. An Act Rela- Bill Corbett, president of Cooperative Kids tive to Bullying in Adolescent Psychia- and disproportionately been the subjects of Schools specifically try at Baystate Health bullying and harassment,” read the statement parent education network, spoke of being addresses harass- and President of the (available on the Greater Boston PFLAG web- bullied as a child ment of students, American Foun- site). It also cited the Massachusetts Youth Risk For more information about suicide preven- while An Act Rela- dation for Suicide Behavior Survey, which determined that the tion and help for survivors of suicide, visit the tive to Harassment Prevention, told the Photo: tynan power most common form of bullying and harassment Dr. Barry Sarvet, American Foundation for Suicide Prevention Prevention Orders audience that experts in Massachusetts schools is based on actual or at www.afsp.org or call the National Suicide relates to any victim consider bullying Chief of Child and Ad- perceived sexual orientation. Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK. of harassment—in or to be a big factor in olescent Psychiatry Sarvet also named gender ex- out of school. youth suicide—and at Baystate Health, pression and sexual orientation Springfield Mayor a significant number shared professional as serious factors in bullying. Domenic J. Sarno Photo: tynan power of students are rou- insights into bullying While stigmatized children—es- also stressed that the Springfield Mayor, tinely bullied. Sarvet pecially those who are over- public can make a Domenic J. Sarno, cited a 2001 study in weight—are the most common difference. addressed the audi- which 17% of students in 6th-12th grades re- targets of bullying, he said that “What you can do ence at Project One ported being bullied frequently. gays, lesbians and people who Sarvet also cautioned against overreacting to don’t conform to gender norms is be the voice out launch there on the street,” “normal childhood aggression” which includes “are a close second.” Sarno told the audi- behaviors, such as teasing and excluding, that “We need to try to develop a ence. “Pay attention to your kids. Listen to your are frequently perceived as bullying. culture where everyone belongs, kids. Be part of their lives.” “We have to be careful not to equate these where there are no winners or Mary Pat McMahon, co-chair of the Western behaviors with bullying. Bullying is something losers,” Sarvet said. Massachusetts Chapter of the American Foun- more,” Sarvet said.  • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Couch from page 2 Faith, Family, and God: Awe-inspiring experiences more conscious or our species will be direct- By: Paul P. Jesep*/TRT Columnist comes more intense, more dramatic, and more candlelight without background noise like ra- ly responsible for the extinction of countless abbi Abraham Joshua Heschel passionate. The internal chemistry of trees dio or television. You’ll find it a very unique, other species, up to and possibly including wrote that one way of living is changes as they respond to the energy. quieting experience. Try eating dinner without our own. R“to experience” everyday oc- This is one example of an awe inspiring ex- the television with some soothing music in There are some that believe there is a cor- currences as “spiritual adventures.” perience that can be a regular adventure when the background instead. Dine by candle light relation of increased numbers of homosexu- In doing so a sense of “awe” and walking or even driving on the highway. Yet at home a few times. Use few if any electric als, as well as infertility issues in heterosexu- “wonder” is always in your life. In the extraordinary shades of green, the com- lights. Get up in the morning and don’t turn on als when Nature wants us to “slow down” in case there’s any confusion, he did plexity of these living gifts, the manner in the radio or television. Drink your tea, coffee, the breeding department. And, it does appear not mean the spiritual adventures which each tree grows, and the varieties and or diet cola to the waking day as the birds sing there are vast numbers of us popping up all and experiences from the gym, see- beauty of different types are overlooked. In- their gentle songs. Change your routine. over the world, and I’m not sure it’s just that ing Madonna, visiting Provincetown, stead, we tend to stay focused on the petty, Gadgets, technology, and the inability to we’re more visible now. Perhaps there’s re- or salivating over a new product line trivial, or annoying that happened at work and keep perspective about the annoyances of ally something to the theory (although plenty at Crate and Barrel. Those spiritual is likely to hang over our evening. life rob us of the experiences that can nurture of us are reproducing these days)! experiences are in a class of awe, wonder, and spiritual adventure. Perhaps our consciousness and our own their own. Toys, tech, and problems can prevent struggles, that have made us fiercely inde- He meant that individuals Awareness empowers the person to us from finding a deeper sense of self pendent thinkers, need to be heard and passed must be “constantly aware.” and connection to something much on. Perhaps it is the time for our genes to take Awareness empowers the see the daily miracles and wonders that bigger. Rather than see yourself the helm in this brave new world, leading the person to see the daily mira- separate from these experiences, ap- charge in a world that needs to be reminded Name of God of Name cles and wonders that are too are too often overlooked or taken for preciate yourself as part of the greater about humanity. Human rights, civil rights, often overlooked or taken whole by celebrating the awe found animal rights with planetary awareness. for granted. Constant aware- granted. Constant awareness goes beyond in each day. You were meant to be Whatever you believe, know this: it will ness goes beyond sight and sight and touch. It includes a deeper, here just like the birds, trees, moun- take every last one of us to change the direc- touch. It includes a deeper, tains, the cosmos, and the seven seas. tion our people are headed. We need to have unspoken consciousness. unspoken consciousness. Try to imagine the world without the energy to survive, but does it have to kill a This year the trees seem oceans. It’s impossible. Your place in whole new next generation for us to live to- particularly green to me. Not just one We risk losing the mysticism around us. We the world is no different. day? Surely we can do better than the menu kind of green, but multiple shades of risk not nurturing the mystic within ourselves. option BP is giving us.

In the the In it further highlighted by sunshine that We can want a beautiful day or starry night, *Paul is an author, attorney, and a seminary I think I’ll pass on the shrimp special, changes the shapes and colors of leaves ever so but forget to embrace the wonder or indescrib- trained, ordained priest in greater Albany, NY. thank you very much. slightly depending on the time of day and the able feeling that makes us want to be outside, He may be reached at Dilovod@aol.com. number of clouds in the sky. A tree’s branches to connect with something in this unique cre- *Suzan Ambrose, writer, dreamer and reach toward heaven, its trunk is firmly in our ation that will end in several hours. Since the visionary, enjoys ocean kayaking in crisp, world, and its roots are deep in the earth’s rich, dawn of time no two days or nights have been that track from last night? clean water and vegetarian meals when dark bosom. Its life is never static. identical. she’s not writing diligently for The Rainbow Observe tree tops and you can see a grace, There are many ways to find and nur- Times. Questions or opinions on my col- rhythm, and majesty in motion. The approach ture awe. The next time you pick up a book TRT’s DJ Top 10 umns? Let me know at: SuzanAmbrose@ of a storm changes the atmosphere. The air be- or magazine in the evening try reading it by therainbowtimesnews.com gmail.com. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 •  Northampton Mayor will honor The Topp Twins at Academy show Northampton Mayor Clare Higgins will present to The Topp Twins a Certificate of Recognition for their decades of political activism for human rights, LGBT equal rights, and the environment at their live concert on Saturday, June 12, 8 pm, at the Academy of Mu- sic Theatre. “This will be a great moment in the show. The Topp Twins do amazing work around the world advocating for human rights and they deserve to be recognized for their political work as well as their musical talent,” states Jaime Michaels, executive producer of Out! For Reel LGBT Film Series, who is producing the concert. “They are very excited about their performing in Northamp- ton given that the city’s nick- name is Lesbianville, USA.” The Topp Twins are talent- Credit: The Topp Twins ed singer songwriters and co- The Topp Twins, lesbian twin sisters, who are award-winning medic performers who happen musicians form New Zealand, will perform live in concert on to also be lesbian twin sisters. June 12, 8 pm, at the Academy of Music Theater, Nothampton Their off the chart popularity in their native New Zealand matter what people think. I love that the Topp has won them best Country Western Music Twins have that impact on people of all ages.” Album, their own prime time television vari- The Topp Twins tickets are $25 Advance / ety show, and induction into NZ’s Music Hall $30 Door. Advance tickets can be purchased of Fame. online at www.OutForReel.org or at the Acad- Famous for their laugh out loud character emy of Music Box Office. sketches, beautiful harmonies, and amazing For more information, to watch the trailer, yodeling, the Topp Twins re-invent themselves and to buy tickets, visit www.OutForReel. on stage, changing character and gender with org. ease, and deliver visually funny humor often “It’s a really fun and upbeat way to wrap up through song. Spontaneity is a vital ingredient our second season by having the Topp Twins of the Topp Twins magic on stage and audi- live in concert,” Michaels states. “People are ence participation a trademark. As the Topps going to have a great time.” maxim is “we send up rather than put down”, their “guests” always feel safe on stage while Out! For Reel, based in Northampton and the unpredictable fun breaks loose. largest LGBT film series in the U.S., screens “In New Zealand, the whole family will go the best in award-winning lesbian, gay, bi- to a Topp Twins concert. Children and adults, sexual and transgender films from around the LGBT and straight, women and men, liberal world on a monthly basis during a ten month and conservative all love the Topp Twins. season, beginning each year in September. Their humor and music appeal to everyone,” The dates for 2010-2011 Season Three can be Michaels states. found on the OFR website. “A friend’s young son loves the Topp Twins,” Out! For Reel welcomes community support says Michaels. “He thinks it’s wonderful that in many forms including advertising sponsors they are so successful by being themselves on and volunteers. For more information, visit the stage. He said they inspire him be himself no website or email [email protected]. 2b in the know 24/7 ... twitter.com/ therainbowtimes facebook.com/ therainbowtimesnews www.therainbowtimesnews.com  • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Happy Father’s Day to Transwomen who are Dads By: Deja Nicole Greenlaw/ TRT Columnist more often than We all have been taught that we should re- some other non positive feelings. Chances are here are a number of us older not, there is a strain spect and love our Dads. I believe that this still slim that it’s a pleasant conversation. transwomen who are fathers. when Dad becomes rings true, but there are other circumstances in Some children just simply say that their Dad TWhile we were keeping our a woman. It is very the mix now. Dad being a Transwoman does died or that Dad is living far away now and true selves “in the closet” for decades hard for most chil- open up a whole new way of looking at every- is not heard from much. This is a sad but true we also tried to live life like your av- dren of trans fathers thing! Yes, the family memories are still there; statement. erage man and many of us met some- to accept their Dad however, suddenly things seem different now. Most of us get at least a card and/or a phone More one, fell in love and started a family. in this new form. Try I think that it really depends on how one sees call on Father’s Day. Some transwomen even We did the best we could in support- to imagine your own the changes that occurred in the transwoman. get to see their children on that day. It really ing our families, going to work every Dad telling you that Some folks believe that the male part “dies” isn’t that different from most non trans fathers, day, working overtime, maybe getting he is now a woman and the female part is now “born.” In this way I suppose. After all, children do travel for their & & a second job, caring for, supporting, and will dress as a children may feel cheated, threatened, have job opportunities or for the job opportunities of feeding, loving, laughing, playing, Deja Nicole Greenlaw woman from now anger or even resentment that this transwoman their significant other, so distance is indeed a sharing and sacrificing for the good of on. It’s tough! has “taken away” their Dad. Maybe they may fact of life in many cases. In that light, a phone the family. Oh, we may not have done It is difficult telling your children that their feel embarrassment and shame much like us call and/or a card is really in order, but still the most perfect job (Who does?), but Dad is really a woman. If it was you, how and transwomen did when we were dealing with there may be unresolved issues and feelings. we did the best we could. After all, what do you say to your children? There really our identity. There may be many unresolved Anyway, it is what it is and hopefully we it’s for our family! is no easy way. Being direct without getting issues which may bring out awkwardness. will all deal with occasions like Father’s Day Our title was “Daddy” and we ea- too much into details is, by default, probably Still others may see the change as a positive in the best way that we know how. The best gerly accepted that title. Here were the best way to do it, but it still is awkward. life improvement for the transwoman. The way usually includes understanding of all par- these cute little souls who required In most cases our children have their own children might say “As long as you are happy, ties’ viewpoints, willingness to accept all par- lots of love and attention. Having lives to live and, especially in this world today, Dad, I am happy!” Unconditional acceptance ties’ feelings and, above all and number one, children is awesome! There are some many of them are living far away. Not seeing and unconditional love are the keys here. Un- LOVE great memories being a Dad, like the Dad all the time it’s not really such a big deal, fortunately, these are very, very hard concepts Opinions funny, crazy, cute things that they did but then a birthday or a holiday or Father’s for most of us to grasp. Bless the children who and I smiled. Day comes and then reality hits. What do we are able to respond in this way! Time goes on and years pass and say? What do we do? Suppose Dad is wear- I think about the children of transwomen our children grow up and go out on ing a skirt? Does Dad have breasts now? Can (and of my own) and what they might go their own. The time came once when we still call “him” Dad? How do we introduce through when a friend sees them and asks our “transgenderism” came to the Dad to others? them about their family. What are they going Happy forefront of our beings. It was now Some of us still keep our title of Dad. Others to say? Are they going to say that their Dad is “go time” to deal with being trans. It prefer Mom or maybe Jenny Boylan’s inven- a woman now? Might they say that Dad wears 40th Anniversary usually started very discreetly, never tion, Maddy, (a combination of Mommy and women’s clothing now and goes by a female Trans Trans letting the children know but, then Daddy) or something similar. Once the name name now? In some conversations the other Boston Pride! it grew and it grew and we were “suddenly” is settled then the other questions can begin party might respond favorably and go on about transwomen. Then along came a holiday such to unfold. I personally prefer the title of Dad how wonderful the news is. In other conversa- from your friends at as Father’s Day, which brings the family since that is who I feel that I am to my chil- tions it might lead to shock and disbelief. Still together. dren. For clarity’s sake I choose to use the title other conversations would lead to other feel- The Rainbow Times Family gatherings may be very nice but, “Dad” throughout the rest of this article. ings like disgust or expressing sympathy or Ask a Transwoman: Equal rights for transgender people now! By: Lorelei Erisis*/TRT Columnist most improbably high rate of unemployment. 12 states in this coun- es, including at The Statehouse in Boston in Dear Lorelei, Just a glance at the stats was enough to make try that have any em- support of our own bill, HB1738, which would Considering these hard economic times and me have to pour myself a very large glass of ployment discrimi- provide protections for transgender people in the ugly factor of discrimination in general strong Irish Whiskey. nation statutes to Massachusetts against discrimination in em- across the board; How much more difficult is it The preliminary findings from a National protect transgender ployment, housing and services, as well as to be transgender looking for employment now Transgender Discrimination Survey conduct- people. That leaves against hate crimes. But, what I want to get to, compared to a few years ago, and what can a ed by the National Center for Transgender 38 where we have no while I still have space is what can be done transgender do to overcome these obstacles? Equality with the National Gay and Lesbian protections at all. In- about all this. —Lynn B. Task Force and published in November of last cluding here in Mas- It is my belief that if we are going to start year are simply shocking. The unemployment sachusetts where making things better for ourselves as trans- Thanks for the super-timely question Lynn! rate nationally for transgender people ranges we are progressive gender people here in this country, we need As usual, I’ll give you all I’ve got and I’ll even from nearly double the national average to enough to allow for to come together as one voice, one movement. try to fit it all in, in under 900 words! There’s a more than triple that average for trans people Same-Sex Marriage, Lorelei Erisis We need to set aside our differences and our lot to say on this particular subject, especially of color. but continue to leave grievances and work towards one goal—Equal right now, so hang on to your seats! The poverty rates are much the same, with transgender people out in the cold. Rights For Transgender People now! What I see now is a pretty dire situation. We 27% reporting incomes of $20,000 or lower My own experience has been pretty rough. We can start by putting our full support be- face an overwhelming amount of discrimina- and 15% reporting incomes of $10,000 or After I started transition I lost my semi-pres- hind a Trans-Inclusive ENDA (Employment tion in all areas. And, as frightening as it may lower. As compared to only 7% of the general tigious Hollywood job of several years and Non-Discrimination Act), despite its notable be to consider, from what I have read and the population that’s making $10,000 or lower. found myself fairly well unemployable. I’m flaws. We should not let go of the demand for stories I’ve heard from the older generation, I won’t even dwell here on the housing in- an actor, so unemployment is frankly nothing full-equality, but we must lay this foundation trans people are probably better off now than stability figures or the lack of health insurance new to me, but this was much, much worse. I so the carpenters can build. We need it. we have ever been before. Given how bad that and access to proper care because the truly have an exceptional resume; I’ve run compa- As trans people or allies you should get is, I shudder to consider how hard it must have horrifying number is the 97% who, “have ex- nies and have a wide range of expertise. But, involved personally. Call, write or visit your been for those who came before us. perienced mistreatment, harassment, or dis- no one would even look at it. Congress people. Urge them to support a The situation we have now as transgender crimination on the job including: invasion of It took me three years of constant search- Trans-Inclusive ENDA. Then contact your lo- people in this country is that we have an al- privacy, verbal abuse, and physical or sexual ing, continuous rejection and simmering dis- cal orgs like The Massachusetts Transgender assault.” crimination as well as a stint of having to live Political Coalition and volunteer your time or Ninety-seven percent!! with my parents again before I was able to find make a donation. OMG! That’s simply stagger- someone who would even give me an inter- There are simply too many of us who are ing! It is so shocking that I’m view. I worked it like the search for a job was forced to do whatever we must to survive reduced to internet slang to in- a job and I could fill out all the applications I while we are denied the most basic of human dicate my horror. And the de- wanted, but heard the same lines over and over. rights. tails of what that includes are Even places with a “Help Wanted” sign in the We must not be quiet. We must never stand even worse than this brief sum- window would be mysteriously, “not really down. mary conveys! I would strongly hiring right now, just taking applications.” Slainte! recommend going and looking That person, who finally did interview me at these findings yourself. You and looked at my resume, hired me practically *Lorelei Erisis is Miss Trans New Eng- can find this same survey at: on the spot! But, I was lucky to find the 1 per- land 2009 and she can be contacted at: www.thetaskforce.org son in 1000 who was willing to take a chance. [email protected]. Additionally, there are only I’ve told this story many times in many plac- www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 •  Letters from page 2 Chatting with CeCe: Peniston headlines Boston Pride of the transgender community—particularly By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter on a stage and sharing her music with articles such as this which provide personal Multi-platinum recording others. insight into the experiences and problems af- artist and dance floor favorite “I can do whatever creatively comes fecting transgender children and young adults CeCe Peniston will be headlin- to my mind. It’s such a blessing that I in our community. ing at Boston’s 40th Pride cel- look out into the audience and I see peo- Thanks again, and I hope we will hear more ebration on June 12. ple who are smiling and having a good from Half-Lady Lisa. Peniston took some time out time to my music. Those are the things I —Marc Kirby, Boston, MA from her recording sessions for love,” Peniston said. “It’s like the biggest News a new album to speak with The high ever.” Dear Editor, Rainbow Times. One of the artists Peniston admires is I like that you keep running stories about The 40 year-old singer has had Patti LaBelle: “She’s been my girl since Domestic Violence in the GLBT community. an endless stream of hit songs, I was a young kid. She’s so spontaneous. I had that happen to me many years ago and I beginning with her 1992 break- She goes with the flow of the crowd.” knew nothing about it. I just thought it didn’t out hit, Finally, which went all Peniston has also won numerous happen to lesbians. I see that the Network/La the way to number one on the awards including: Billboard Best New Red is now here for us lesbians who have been pop charts. Peniston’s album Artist & Best New Song of The Year, victims of violence in our relationships. It’s a of the same name was certified ASCAP Song of The Year & Pop Song- sad thing that happens. I kept quiet for a while gold (500,000 copies sold) by writer of The Year & Most Performed because I didn’t know I had resources avail- the Recording Industry Asso- Song of The Year, Annual Winter Music able to me. Your story by Mr. Siegel really ciation of America (RIAA). Conference’s Best New Dance Artist & made me feel that I can become involved in Peniston was just beginning Best Dance Artist Solo & Best 12” Dance this Network. Thank you for touching on top- her dominance of the music Photo: Courtesy of Boston Pride Record, BMI Urban Award of Achieve- ics that are delicate and quite important to our charts. She continued to achieve Peniston will perform at Boston Pride on June 12. ment. She is a successful businesswoman communities. Billboard Top Ten status with as well: Peniston has been running her —L. Ramirez, Hartford, CT singles like: We Got A Love Thang, “I feel great about it, but I feel like I want own production and publishing compa- Keep On Walkin, I’m Not Over You more,” Peniston told The Rainbow Times. nies for many years. and her hit single released in 2001, “I think that as an artist you always feel like Helping others in need is something Penis- Lifetime To Love, which skyrocketed there’s another place you can still go.” ton feels strongly about. Peniston has toured all over the world and In 1997, Peniston founded the CeCe Penis- from Riots to Rights: Boston Pride Boston to #2 on the Billboard charts. All of her other singles released have achieved Top performed to sold-out venues nationally and ton Foundation and has helped to raise fund- 40 status including: Inside That I Cried, Crazy internationally including the Philippines, Ja- ing for many other organizations concerning Love, I’m In The Mood, Hit By Love, Movin’ pan, United Kingdom, Germany, Spain, Ko- HIV/AIDS, women and children in need, and happy On, Before I Lay (You Drive Me Crazy) with rea, Australia, South Africa and Italy. She has hunger and equality. MCA recording artist JoJo of KC & JoJo, made nine music videos, contributed her voice Peniston has some sage advice for aspiring to numerous motion picture soundtracks, al- entertainers out there. boston I Know That He Loves Me Too and Nobody Else. lowed the Oprah Winfrey Show to utilize two “Follow your dreams and give your all,” Peniston appreciates the success she has en- of her hits on request, and performed live for Peniston said. “You have to do it because if joyed in her career. the NBA, WNBA, and NFL. you don’t, somebody else will.” pride! Peniston feels a sense of power from being  • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 •  Why Pride matters, the Boston Pride Committee addresses its importance By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter perfect all of the time, I have not always lived needed to make Pride a success. support,” DeMarco recalled. “Now when you Planning a Pride celebration is not an easy task. in places as welcoming in Boston, so as far as I “We have 446 positions to fill from chaper- march in the parade you don’t have people yell- For the volunteers and others who work to put on a am concerned, Boston rocks. And, from what I oning the Club Sizzle youth event, to helping ing at you, or insulting you. Our community is successful event every year, dedication, patience, can tell, because people here have ‘gotten over with crowd control along the Parade route, and stronger and united together.” and a lot of creativity play an important role. it’ Pride is everyone’s party—that highlights and everyone’s favorite, cleaning up after the Stuart DeMarco believes that Pride celebrations will With Boston’s 40th Annual Pride Celebration celebrates sexual diversity.” Street Block Party,” Prager said. “Pride is fam- continue for many more years: “ just weeks away, mem- Jimmy Yohe is the Entertainment ily time. When I look around at Pride I feel until we are all bers of the Boston Pride Chair for the committee. Yohe books here, everyone is smiling. There is a safe, accepted and have Committee took some performers to appear on the City Hall strong feeling of community and ac- equal rights Pride will time to share their feel- Plaza Main Stage as well as managing ceptance. That is what Pride in Boston never be obsolete.” ings about the event and the stage at the festival. means to me.” Wilfred Labiosa is a why Pride still matters. “I feel that it is our responsibility to Cale Moore is the Merchandising Board Member and Vice- Heather Mills is the create a line-up that encompasses as Chair for the committee. Moore pro- President of the Boston Logistics Chair for the much musical and cultural diversity duces all the official merchandise of Pride Committee & Re- committee. Mills secures as possible throughout the day with- Boston Pride. gional Director for Uni- the accessories needed out sacrificing quality,” Yohe said. “I love doing that job. I’m at nearly dos: The National LGBT for Pride, such as radios, Yohe appreciates the progress the every event and it gives me a chance Latino Organization for Cale Moore dumpsters, ice, and por- LGBT community has made in the past Sarah Prager to interact with many different people Human Rights. Heather Mills table toilets. 40 years, but believes we have a way to throughout the week,” Moore said. Labiosa joined the com- Mills, 27, believes the LGBT community has go before we achieve full equality in society. Moore appreciates the sense of unity which mittee in 1998 but left for few years to help de- come a long way in the past few decades. “The fight is not over though and it will con- can be experienced at every Pride celebration. velop Som@s Latinos LGBT Coalition of Mass “Words like ‘gay’, ‘lesbian’, ‘bisexual’ and tinue,” Yohe noted. “In 40 years, hopefully “There is something about the exclusivity of and Latino Pride, the oldest and longest running ‘transgender’ did not exist in my household in the people will look back it. I just have to smile a pride celebration of its kind in the nation. 80s and early 90s (in Washington State and Cali- and wonder how society little, as if I know a secret, “Pride means to me so many things but most im- fornia), and no one told me my mom’s youngest could be so barbaric as when I have to explain portantly, it means that we can have the freedoms brother was gay because my parents were afraid to not allow people who exactly what happens and rights that many other people like me don’t I’d say something at my Catholic school, and it love each other to marry, during Pride week. have in their countries,” Labiosa said. It means that was still early on in the AIDS crisis,” Mills said. not allow people who can I can’t help but think I can be who I am in an open and free society.” “There were few if any religious institutions that give children a wonderful how can this ever stop Labiosa believes Pride will be around for were fully welcoming of LGBT people.” home to adopt, not allow - I’d like to see every LG- many more years to come. Mills has a tremendous affection for Boston a teenager to bring some- BTQ person be able to “Pride celebrations will always be celebrated. because of the city’s open-minded attitude to- one they love to the prom, experience that feeling of It may look differently and may be held in dif- wards gays and lesbians. not allow someone to be being seen and counted,” ferent times of the year but in some parts of the “I can work where I want, find a church that Jimmy Yohe themselves proudly, and Moore added. Wilfred Labiosa world, this tradition will be honored for years to fits, be open about my sexuality in public, go to not allow a patriotic per- Linda DeMarco is Pres- come,” Labiosa said. “It is our way to educate school, go to parties, join a gym, without hav- son to serve their country.” ident of Boston Pride’s Board of Directors. others on the diversity of our community and the ing to worry that someone will find out that I’m Sarah Prager is the Volunteer Chair for the “My first pride was in the early 80’s and the importance of our LGBT people in the world.” a lesbian,” Mills said. “While not everything is committee. Prager is in charge of recruiting and participant numbers were small and the crowd organizing more than 200 volunteers who are was very different, not just in numbers but in All photos are courtesy of Boston Pride. 10 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Boston Pride’s Marshals: Two Grand Marshals, a Celebrity and an Honorary Marshal By: Trystan Dean/TRT Guest Writer and prevention programs, along with alcohol Max Whiteman in the comedy “Down And his legislative career, which began in 1962. Four Marshals have been selected education. BAGLY connects LGBT youth Out in Beverly Hills.” Kennedy was a consistent advocate for the for this year’s 40th annual Boston with community-friendly healthcare providers Six years later, Arquette landed her first ma- LGBT community, leading the charge for Pride celebration. Selections include and offers The Queer Activist College, which jor role as a transvestite named “Georgette” in ENDA, (the Employment Non-Discrimination two Grand Marshals, a Celebrity offers education and queer activism and lead- “Last Exit to Brooklyn.” Sixteen years after Act) and the recently passed Matthew Shep- Marshal and one posthumous Honor- ership. Courses include public speaking, anti- that performance Arquette transitioned from herd and James Byrd Jr. Crimes Prevention ary Marshal. Grace Sterling Stowell, racism education, meeting facilitation. male-to-female. Her transition is documented Act, and opposed DOMA, (the Discrimination along with her queer youth organi- Don Gorton Esq. III has been a gay LGBT ac- in the film “Alexis Arquette: She’s My Broth- Against Marriage Act) and the Federal Mar- News zation, the Boston Alliance of Gay, tivist in Boston for more than 20 years. He cur- er,” which debuted at the Tribeca Film Festival riage Amendment. The Human Rights Com- Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender rently serves on the board for Join The Impact in 2007. Arquette is also known for her work in mission gave Kennedy a perfect 100 percent Youth, (BAGLY), and long-time Bos- MA and chairs its anti-violence project. He is a the hit film “The Wedding Singer” and VH1’s score for all 10 of his legislative terms in of- ton gay activist Don Gorton Esq. III former chair of The MA Gay and Lesbian Po- “The Surreal Life.” fice. Thanks Ted! have been elected to serve as Grand litical Alliance and co-chair of the Governor’s Sen. Edward M. Kennedy served in the 101st Boston Pride Parade and Festival takes place Marshals. Both are Boston-area resi- Hate Crimes Commission. Gorton has worked through the 110th Congress representing Mas- on June 12, 2010 in downtown Boston. Orga- dents. The Celebrity Marshal is Alex- on hate crimes legislation and reporting, and sachusetts until his death last summer. He was nizers expect the event to draw nearly a mil- is Arquette, a successful West Coast has written countless letters to the editor and a strong champion for Civil Rights throughout lion participants. trans actress, and this year Boston to legislators. Recently Gorton joined GLAAD Pride is honoring former Sen. Ted and Equality Across America. Gorton says that Kennedy, D-NA, posthumously, as for him, Boston Pride is about getting together an Honorary Marshal. and celebrating the activism that led the LGBT The selections honor those who Community “from riots to rights.” He says it’s have provided significant service to also a time for the community to come togeth- the LGBT community. er and celebrate itself. Stowell is a Boston area transwom- “Boston Pride is a great time for me to be an who has served as director for BA- with my friends, including those I don’t see GLY, (Boston Alliance of Gay, Les- very often,” he said. bian, Bisexual & Transgender Youth) Celebrity Marshal Alexis Arquette was born for all 30 years of the organization’s “Robert” Arquette in Los Angeles, CA, and is the daughter of actor Brenda “Mardi” Ol- Boston Pride Boston existence. Stowell says her organiza- tion is the oldest and possibly the longest-run- ivia (née Nowak) and actor and director Lewis ning queer youth organization in the country. Arquette. “I, and all of us,” said Stowell, “are excited She landed her first acting job at age 21 , in to be chosen.” 1982, when she was “cast as the little kid who’s BAGLY provides weekly and monthly so- on a ride with all these women and whatnot,” cial activities for GLBT young people up to she said, in the music video “She’s A Beau- age 22 as well as holding an annual Halloween ty” by The Tubes. In 1986 Arquette debuted dance, a Winter Ball, and the world’ s first - on the big screen with an un-credited part as - and largest—LGBT Prom. The organization “Alexis,” the white-faced friend/band mate of also provides HIV and other STD education the sexually ambivalent, angst-filled teenager www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 11 entertainment from the 2010 bo s t on • p r i d e • s t a g e Performance Schedule Kristine W TraniWreck Kristine W - A fixture on TraniWreck is a Boston’s the dance scene since her boundary busting, drag, 1996 hit-packed, Rollo pro- burlesque, performance art, duced debut album, “Land variety show and dance par- of the Living” – is a rare ty. The all gender, all genre blend: a showy singer with extravaganza features MC astounding vocal fire power Heywood Wakefield with and a confessional song- Becca D’Bus, Frieda Fries, writers ethic. Johnny Blazes, Stella Swin- Kristine has proven she gline, Madge of Honor and can survive. She’s topped a special guest or two. Plus the Billboard dance chart Boston’s hottest established fourteen times; nine of which DJs paired with Boston’s were consecutive, breaking up-and-coming DJ stars. records previously held by You’ll be lovingly assaulted Madonna and Janet Jackson. by brilliantly revealing cos- Kristine went on to pursue tumes, hair extensions of her educational and musical astronomic proportions, polyester, gold lamé, opera, comedy, aerial arts, dreams in Las Vegas, where debauchery and more attitude than a $13 cocktail. she found success headlin- TraniWreck was named Boston’s Best Gay Night 2002 by the Boston 12:05pm..... Kit Yan ing her own show at the Las Vegas Hilton. Phoenix. Come see why! You can find more information at Truth Serum Numerous awards followed, including several ‘Las Vegas Entertainer of Productions www.truthserum.org. Our next dates are Friday July 16 and 12:25pm..... Seacoast Repertory Theatre the Year’ wins and being officially sanctioned as the entertainer who per- Friday Aug. 13 at Oberon. formed more live shows at the Las Vegas Hilton than any other performer 12:40pm..... Sariah in its history—including Elvis. This award led to June 28th being officially sanctioned Kristine W day in the state of Nevada. After conquering Las 1:00pm...... Booty Vortex Vegas, Kristine reached the top of the dance charts in 1994 with the now classic anthem “Feel What You Want” landing at #1 on Billboard’s Dance Booty Vortex 1:35pm...... Mrs Danvers Chart and holding at the top five in more than ten countries worldwide. Signing with RCA Records and releasing the 1996 critically acclaimed Booty Vortex is a musi- 2:00pm...... God-Des and She album, Land Of The Living, Kristine catapulted to the top of the dance cal powerhouse of funk,

ton Pride ton soul and disco – playing

s music spotlight with two more singles, the beautifully 2:45pm...... Odaiko New England spun “One More Try,” which won Kristine an ASCAP Award for co-writ- the best dance tunes from ing, and the album’s title track “Land Of The Living,” in which the artist the 70’s, 80’s and beyond. 3:10pm...... All The Kings Men Their high-energy, fun-filled

y of Bo of y shares real experiences of survival and overcoming life’s obstacles. 3:35pm...... Me and Joan Collins s Kristine eventually passed superstars Madonna and Janet Jackson shows compel anyone with (each with seven #1 dance songs in a row) to rack up eight consecutive a pulse to get up and shake chart-toppers. their groove thing! The band 4:05pm...... Nemes ourte was started in 2004 by a C

: : group of friends who just 4:35pm...... TraniWreck/Truth Serum s wanted to play good music 5:00pm...... Cece Peniston and have a good time. Since then, Booty Vortex has sold Photo Sariah 5:30pm...... Kristine W ll out clubs around Boston a Sariah’s story begins in and shared its special mix of a world of manners and fun and funk at fundraisers, manicures. Hailing from private parties, weddings and corporate events throughout New England the blue-blooded Brookline and New York. By day, its 11 members are computer engineers, mu- CeCe Peniston neighborhood of Boston, sic teachers, a construction worker and a video producer. By night, they Sariah always craved a little throw on their funkiest fashions, grab their instruments and put on a musi- CeCe began her recording cal extravaganza that guarantees to get every booty on the dance floor! career with A&M Records. more flavor than the white- Her debut album, “Finally,” bread backdrop of her child- achieved U.S. RIAA GOLD hood could provide. At a certification. The album’s young age she joined a hip- first single, F“ inally” was a hop dance troop, and quick- #1 Billboard hit and went ly popped & locked her way Kit Yan multi-platinum worldwide. into the urban scene. Sariah Recently featured in the In addition to being fea- discovered New York City, HBO documentary Asians tured on more than thirty and simultaneously herself. Aloud, Kit Yan tells stories compilation albums, CeCe In this new world of asphalt through slam poetry from thrust past the one-hit won- and strobe lights, her daily the lens of a transgender der mark and continued to rhythm a non-stop mash- Asian American from Ha- achieve Billboard Top Ten up of culture and sound, waii now lost in the big status. she set to work crafting her city of New York. Through CeCe has successfully songs and wearing holes through her dance floor kicks. touching love poems, dirty toured with Grace Jones, Today she is an urban pop empress, serving up gem-encrusted beats sex accounts, and comedic Peabo Bryson, Tasha Scott & Tony Terry. CeCe has also lent her talents to a sweaty crowd of booty girls, pretty boys, hip-hop heads, and street tales of his childhood – Kit to the theatre, in plays like “The Wiz,” “Treat Her Like A Lady” and “When elite. “It’s always been about the performance,” Sariah says, “that’s what takes you on a journey that A Woman’s Fed Up”. She has also been requested personally by former got me into music in the first place.I love the idea of transforming from a is raw, real, heart-wrench- President Bill Clinton to perform at both of his Presidential Inauguration powerful woman to a no-holds-barred onstage sensation.” ing, and unforgettable. Ceremonies in Washington, D.C., and performed at the Vatican for Pope With Mariah Carey and Alicia Keys fueling her love for epic power jams, Curve magazine describes John Paul. CeCe made history when she was the first female artist to Sariah floats effortlessly amidst genres. Her debut single, Deep N Luv, his work as “incredible slam perform in South Africa following the end of apartheid. produced by Mass Ave Productions, transcends labels of urban, hip-hop, poetry” and Bitch magazine In the midst of such overwhelming success, CeCe has also been be- diva-soul, or gyrating dance princess. says: “The eloquence of Kit’s spoken-word delivery lies in the anti-racist, stowed numerous awards including: Billboard Best New Artist & Best New Sometimes an epic love ballad, sometimes an anthem style banquette anti-homophobic, gender-inclusive, language that ties his lyrics together.” Song of The Year, ASCAP Song of The Year & Pop Songwriter of The Year stomper, Sariah’s music is always straight from her heart. “All of my Kit’s work has been taught at universities coast to coast, from San Fran- & Most Performed Song of The Year, Annual Winter Music Conference’s songs are inspired by personal love stories, both good and bad.” cisco State to Harvard. He spoke to over 200,000 from the stage of the Best New Dance Artist & Best Dance Artist Solo & Best 12” Dance Re- Sariah’s music is the soundtrack of today’s modern love story. Whether 2009 National Equality March, performed on the San Francisco Pride main cord, BMI Urban Award of Achievement. CeCe also has been a member she’s igniting the dance floor or flickering the flame of a new romance, stage, and earned a spot in as a top three finalist at the National Queer of ASCAP since 1991 and has been successfully running her own produc- one thing is certain: this Queen of Hearts has just begun her reign of night- Slam. Kit Yan is the reigning Mr. Transman 2010, the first person to ever tion and publishing companies for many years. life supremacy. hold this national title. 12 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com entertainment from the 2010 bo s t on • p r i d e • s t a g e Me And Joan Collins All The Kings Men Mrs. Danvers The wildly popular, award winning, all female cabaret troupe All The Kings Men, ATKM, is both thrilled and proud to be performing for the third time on the Bos- ton Pride stage for the 40th Anniversary! From London to New York to LA this Boston based troupe has been performing to sold out crowds and standing ova- tions since 2002. Two parts Tracey Ullman, a cup of Carol Burnett, a hint A four-piece indie rock band from Cambridge fronted by singer/guitar- of Jim Carrey and a huge ists Bo Barringer and Jen Grygiel, the band released their acclaimed debut dose of inspiration, these Mrs. Danvers is a real rarity: a gimmick-free all-female band who makes album, “Love. Trust. Faith. Lust.” in 2009. Victor/Victorias master every point on the gender spectrum with a col- unashamedly catchy, genre-bending dance/rock. Borrowing their moniker Full of 60’s-pop-by-way-of-80’s-college-rock hooks, their album also lection of performances as poignant as they are audacious. Outrageous, from Hitchcock’s sinister maid in Rebecca, Mrs. Danvers’s sound is dance- betrays a love for prickly post-punk, glam rock riffing, and shoegazing hilarious, dynamic and gifted, a whole lotta woman AND man, an All The y and melodic, and reflects the varied influences and trained musicianship grandeur, inviting comparisons to groups likes Spoon, Pulp and Of Mon- Kings Men show will have you laughing long and loud and will also make of its members. They count Elvis Costello, The Beatles, Metric, Meshell Nde- treal. These tendencies are sweetened by the pair’s prominent boy/girl you think. Back in town for the summer, ATKM will be performing full geocello, Django Reinhardt, Of Montreal, and Cake as prime influences. harmonies (her Blondie to his Bowie). The band is anchored by the vet- shows May 28-30 at Art House in Provincetown and more locally in Cam- Having formed a year ago, Mrs. Danvers has already built a cult fol- eran rhythm section of Jim Collins (bass) and Jason Marchionna (drums) bridge on June 6 at Oberon. Always come expecting the unexpected and lowing in Boston, headlined at the Boston Dyke March, opened for The who bring dynamics and muscle to the group’s “bravado-oozing, glam count on hilarious and provocative characters, spot on dance, tongue-in- Cliks at the Middle East Downstairs, shared their music beyond Boston inflected Britpoppy rawk.” (Boston Phoenix) Their live show has received cheek burlesque, biting satire, and poptastic performances in a modern in Brooklyn and Martha’s Vineyard, and began a college tour, playing at accolades like, “the best band from Boston right now … a compelling Vaudevillian spectacle that critics call “just plain amazing.” Harvard, Emerson, Wellesley, and Simmons Colleges. Their music and package of music and charisma that’s hard to deny.” (cheapthrillsbos- following has earned them buzz from blogs and publications such as The ton.blogspot.com). The band is wrapping up the follow-up LP, due out Weekly Dig, TeaParty Boston, Boston Band Crush, Cheap Thrills Boston, this fall, which promises even more “face-melting riffage” (thelimitsofs Bay Windows and Metro. cience.wordpress.com/) coexisting with “heart-on-sleeve vulnerability.” Mer+ge clothing, a t-shirt company which specializes in graphic tees (Boston Phoenix) The album features songs written by both Barringer God-des and She with a message, responded to the band’s empowering music and diverse and Grygiel and a cover of Sparks’ new wave-era classic, “Angst in lineup, and sponsored the band. God-des and She have al- In the fall of 2009, Mrs. Danvers released their debut EP, What Did I My Pants.” For more information please go to: http://www.myspace. ways been unique; A female com/meandjoancollins. Do. The EP, which was recorded by LA-based producer, Drew English, hip-hop/soul duo whose features the title track, a dark disco-pop anthem as well as fan favorites sound varies as widely as “Trophy F&$%” and “Wicked One.” The CD is available for purchase at their subject matter. With Mrs. Danvers shows and digitally on iTunes and other online retailers. their third album, appropriate- ly titled Three, God-Des (the Nemes rapper) and She (the singer) now embark on a journey to cross over from substantial underground success to the Odaiko New England mainstream. In making that transition, the group has managed to both hone their existing sound and expand into an eclectic mash-up of other styles, including hyper- active dance music (“Drum Circle”), all-American rock (“Change”), athematic elec- tro (“Radio Up”), and feel- good, windows-down pop (“Get Your Bike”). Bred in the Midwest, God-des and She have played to packed venues Nemes is a 5-peice violin driven pop punk band originally from Worcester all over the world, from Lacrosse, WI, to Stockholm. Ever since they ap- now living in Boston. Many of us started playing because we love to play peared on Showtime’s “The L Word” four years ago, performing their in- and connect with others through music and it is all that we want to do with famous single “Lick It,” the pair haven’t had a moment’s rest, selling over Odaiko New England (ONE), based in Woburn and established in 1994, our lives, plus it’s fun. 30,000 albums, and holding down the #1 song spot on MTV LOGO with has become one of the premier Japanese taiko drumming groups on the The band has a wide array of influences from Blink 182 and Four Year their song “Love You Better.” East coast. By combining Japanese aesthetic sensibility with the bold Strong to Foo Fighters, Underoath, and even Nuetral Milk Hotel. Nemes American spirit, ONE is forging its own modern distinctive style and voice started with Dave Anthony (vocals, guitar) and his brother Chris Anthony as it challenges the very definition of the art of taiko. (drums), later the two met Josh Knowles (vocals, violin) in high school. After Through a wide range of powerful and interactive programs including a lot of line up changes the band found the right chemistry with another high- workshops, school demonstrations, residencies, corporate programs, school friend, Sam Corner (guitar) and a local promoter by the name of Greg Seacoast Repertory Theatre recreational classes, and full-length concerts , ONE proudly shares its Mckillop (bass). After this current line-up got together we put out our first Seacoast Repertory The- heritage in the hopes that it will enrich the lives of those who are touched official release “865” and have been playing awesome shows ever since. atre is the only year round by the sound of the taiko. We released “865,” a 4 song EP in the summer of 2008. In 2009 we award-winning professional Offering over 100 performances and cultural enrichment programs an- went into the studio with Mike Poorman of Strangeways Studios (Therefore producing theater between nually, ONE shares its energy, spirit, and heart with hundreds of thousands I Am, TREOS) and recorded a 2 song EP including “Pipe Song” and “Sheep greater Boston and Portland, of people throughout the northeast. Their most notable clients include; “Sheep.” Maine. The Rep produces a the Boston Red Sox, Herb Chambers, Boston Pride, the Walk for Hunger, Shortly after we released “865 Squared,” a remastered, repackaged al- broad mix of classic com- Boston Children’s Museum, Dragon Boat Festival, Bank of America, First bum including the 2 previous EPs with one extra song. This upcoming sum- edy, drama and Musicals Night, and the Cambridge River Festival. mer we are releasing a new album with some un-recorded fan favorites and including recent Broadway Experience the visceral power of Odaiko New England as the drummers a few brand new songs. hits and new work, as move and drum in unison, creating a sensation that can be felt as much Nemes was voted the #5 best unsigned act in the country by readers of well as a wide range of edu- as seen and heard. Alternative Press, and have shared the stage with some amazing acts like cational programming, for The powerful sound of taiko, combined with dynamic movement, The Ataris, Therefore I Am, From First to Last, and Lights. We have also had people of all ages. makes for an exuberant and energetic performance that is sure to delight the honor of becoming very involved with amazing local scenes all around and mesmerize audiences of all ages and cultural backgrounds. For more the northeast and can’t wait to tour further. information, please see at www.onetaiko.org. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 13 Seacoast Repertory Theatre rocks Boston Pride Kagan from page 2 well, any blogosphere to speak of) simultane- about whether or not the possibility that Kagan ously publicizing the speculation and demand- Seacoast Repertory Theatre is the only year town forever. Hound Dog, Jailhouse Rock, ing answers. As one reader put it to The Ad- round award-winning professional producing Can’t Help Falling In Love, Don’t Be Cruel was a lesbian was relevant to her nomination, you’ve got to admit this: the idea that a les- vocate in the comments section of its website: theater between greater Boston, MA and Port- and Heartbreak Hotel are just a few of Elvis’ “[I]s it too much to ask that your reporters ac- land, ME! The Rep produces a broad mix of hits that make this mega-musical rock. bian had been nominated to the nation’s high court was exciting. Kind of like the first black tually compose an article informing the GLBT classic comedy, drama and Musicals including community on something like this?” recent Broadway hits and new HEDWIG president. And the first female justice. Firsts matter. Why pretend otherwise? In the 20 years since the 50-year-old, never work, as well as a wide range Adding a little edge to the married David Souter was nominated, the of educational programming, summer the Rep presents HED- And as a result of LGBT influence, the mainstream media, the White House, and Ka- LGBT community has grown in numbers and for people of all ages. WIG AND THE ANGRY influence. And we saw evidence of that in how INCH, Sundays at 7:30pm gan, through intermediaries like Spitzer, was forced to address the issue directly. the press was forced to deal with the rumors RENT July 18 – August 22nd. This about Kagan: by reporting on them. Jonathan Larson’s smash groundbreaking Obie-winning That didn’t happen in 1990 when David Souter was nominated by As for that Wall Street hit RENT takes the Seacoast Off-Broadway smash also won Journal cover shot, when Repertory Theatre stage June multiple awards for its hit film President George H.W. As soon as Kagan’s name Bush. Given Souter’s age Politico’s Smith asked 18 and plays through July 18 adaptation. It tells the story of was put in the mix ... Journal editors if they had , 2010. Winner of four Tony “internationally ignored song (he was then 50) and his marital status (single), his published a 17-year-old Awards, including Best Musi- stylist” Hedwig Schmidt, a political insiders were photo of Kagan playing cal, Best Book & Best Score, fourth-wall smashing East Ger- rumored homosexuality (which is what it was called gossiping about Kagan as softball as a nod to the ru- six Drama Desk Awards, in- man rock ‘n’ roll goddess who mors that she was a lesbian, cluding Best Musical, Best also happens to be the victim of back then) sparked a similar the first gay justice. round of gossip among the Journal Deputy Managing Book & Best Score, the New a botched sex-change operation, Editor Alan Murray replied via email: “I think York Drama Critics’ Circle which has left her with just “an chattering classes. The rumors were so persis- tent that they even popped up in a Time maga- your question is absurd.” Award for Best Musical and the angry inch.” This outrageous Maybe. But no more absurd than the deci- Pulitzer Prize for Drama Jona- and unexpectedly hilarious zine report about his nomination. As a post for the Washington Post’s Politics and Policy sion to run a 17-year-old photo of a Supreme than Larson’s ground-breaking story is dazzlingly performed Court nominee playing softball to accompany work follows a year in the lives by Hedwig (née Hansel) in the blog recently recounted, Margaret Carlson, in a 1990 column, wrote that Souter “had barely a story of her nomination. of seven friends in New York’s Credit: Courtesy Boston Pride form of a rock gig/stand-up Say what you will about the reaction to the East Village as AIDS and its comedy routine backed by the left the podium in the press room of the White House before Republican Party officials were Kagan-is-a-lesbian story. But it surely shows physical and emotional complications pervade hard-rocking band “The Angry Inch.” Us- us that the gays have clout. So much so that their lives. A powerful musical that touches all ing songs and monologues, Hedwig tells her raising ‘the 50-year-old bachelor thing,’ which was widely interpreted as a way of introducing even the Wall Street Journal was forced to generations, “Rent” has, by itself, made musi- story. It’s a rocking ride, funny, touching and play along. cal theater joyously important again. ultimately inspiring to anyone who has felt life speculation that Souter is homosexual.” gave them an inch when they deserved a mile But that was the extent of the public specu- lation. There were no power LGBT politicos *Susan Ryan-Vollmar is the principal of In- ALL SHOOK UP fluence Consulting LLC, a strategic communi- Elvis Presley rocks the Seacoast this summer Tickets for all events at the Rep are cur- demanding an answer to the question, “is he or isn’t he?” as Andrew Sullivan did about Kagan cations and media relations business. She was in ALL SHOOK UP playing July 30 - August rently on sale online at www.seacoastrep.org formerly the editor of Bay Windows and news 29, 2010. Shakespeare meets James Dean, set or through the box office located at the The- in a widely circulated post that was painstak- ingly dissected in the pages of the Washington editor of the Boston Phoenix. She lives in Ar- to the music of Elvis! A mysterious motor- atre, 125 Bow St., Portsmouth or by calling lington with her wife and two children. cycling stranger changes a small Midwestern 603.433.4472 Post. There was no LGBT blogosphere (or, 14 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com How ‘Mo Can Kathy Griffin Go? By: Chris Azzopardi Out-gaying Cher takes someone with a strong alle- giance to the queer commu- nity. Someone who’s played lezzy, and maybe undergone some plastic touch-ups. Some- one like Kathy Griffin, the fun- ny fag hag who’s shamelessly self-deprecating about her D- list status, always adding to her Hollywood hit-list and, now, even too gay for Cher. The comedian’s also a memoirist, a voice in the lat- est Shrek film and down with doing some girl-on-girl action, as she showed on a recent epi- Credit: Mike Ruiz sode of Law & Order: SVU. Kathy Griffin channeling Betty Page Still got a Kathy craving? The CA: The D-list and Ricky Gervais. sixth season of her wildly successful, Emmy- KG: Right. Parking attendant. Kathy Lee winning Bravo reality show My Life on the D- Griffith. So I had to keep convincing him that List airs this summer, premiering June 15. I was on the list if he would just get the name Griffin gave us a peek into what she’s call- part correct. ing the gayest season of the series, including CA: And then there was the moment during the her involvement in the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Shrek Forever After premiere recently. Tell” repeal. She also chatted about how she KG: Yeah, that was very A-list until my, of discovered her queer cult, being inspirational course, D-list moment of standing next to Ryan and why she was a “Gleek” before they took Seacrest. I really had a moment of thinking; over the world. here I am in this room with Cameron Diaz and Antonio Banderas and Mike Myers and Ed- Chris Azzopardi: I noticed something on your die Murphy. And then it’s time for the photo Twitter recently. and sure enough, I’m standing next to Ryan Kathy Griffin:On my t$%&? Oh, thank you! Seacrest. CA: No, no. I’m gay. I don’t notice those kinds CA: In that movie you voice a witch? of things. KG: I’m the head witch, which I’m excited KG: Oh yeah! about. I took the other witches down. CA: So on your Twitter – not your t$%t – you CA: That sounds about right. actually remind people that there’s swearing KG: It’s just like my life. at your shows. Isn’t that like saying there’ll be CA: When did you realize you had your gay gays, too? It’s pretty obvious, don’t you think? audience? I had walkouts in Biloxi, Miss. People stormed CA: It was really before stand-up, because I out. So I just feel that it is incumbent upon me would do anything – anything! – to be on stage – as a very serious artist – to remind people that somewhere. I would go any place that would when they come to see me they’re not seeing have an open mic night, and that’s when I kind Mamma Mia! or The Lion King, because I get of discovered the gay club scene because I just to play these really beautiful theaters (laughs). went wherever they had open mics. I didn’t KG: I just want to make sure everyone knows care if it was a black club or a gay club or a what they’re in for. I just feel it’s fair. Yeah, comedy club or a music club. And then I started there’s swearing, but swearing is sort of an going, “Oh, these audiences are better!” understatement. I just did my ad for Vegas, Actually, I write about this in my book (Official because I’m doing the Colosseum like I’m Book Club Selection: A Memoir According to f&%$ing Celine Dion or something … Kathy Griffin, now available in paperback), the CA: How gay! whole question of which came first, the chicken KG: It’s beyond gay. In fact, Cher wants me to or the egg? How did I find the gays? How did take it down a notch, that’s how gay I am now. they find me? And it’s sort of a combo: I just But anyway, I actually had them put in the ad, always gravitated toward gay people as long as “Kathy Griffin: D-List star doing her stand-up I can remember. comedy show. Hopes to offend.” It certainly started in high school with the musi- CA: You sell out shows everywhere and you’ve cal theater clique and then keeping those friends won two Emmys but you still claim you’re on after high school. I had a great nerd clique in the D-list. How the hell? high school and I’m still friends with them to- KG: I know I’m on the D-list. I’m reminded, I day. And we still have our middle fingers up to wouldn’t say on a daily basis, but a good twice the cheerleaders. Basically, it was Glee; I was a a week, when I’m called Kathie Lee Gifford. “Gleek” before that show was on. There are still a lot of talk shows I can’t get on. CA: Since June is Pride month and you’ve And these are the same shows that are happy to been a regular on the circuit, can you share have Heidi and Spencer on, but that’s more of your fondest memory of playing one of the a Hollywood thing. The D-list in my life: I was festivals? literally called Kathy Lee Griffith last night. I KG: Last time I did Orlando Pride, it was out- went to see Ricky Gervais at a theater and I was doors with about 5,000 guys – and a few of the parking and they said – (Griffin’s cell phone ladies showed up. By the time I got out there, cuts out for several minutes before we recon- they were still dancing. Anyway, my favorite nect.) Chris, that was a bit of a D-list moment! part was as I was walking out they were still CA: No kidding! Crappy phone? dancing and then one guy just passed out and KG: Yeah, I have an unbelievably cheap phone fell on the grass. And, you know, those gays and it’s now officially broken. I’ve been on an did not even move to help him! They just emotional journey with that phone and now I danced around him. I was worried! I was like, have to realize it’s time to let go. What’s great “Uh, someone passed out in front.” And some- is that I’m now using my old-fashioned prin- body yelled: “He’ll be fine, girl!” And I said, cess phone that I probably got at Sears like 20 “OK, only at a gay Pride fest.” years ago. But you know what? This f@#$%& works. Where were we? See Kathy on page 15 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 15 Kathy from page 14 Ask, Don’t Tell,” because I, of course, have CA: Celebrity photographer Mike Ruiz recent- many gay friends in the military and seeing ly took some pics of you as Bettie Page. How the way that policy has impacted their lives is did that come about? heartbreaking. KG: He really is an artist. One of the best. And Before I started this episode I really thought 2010 Pride Marches & Rallies in he has shot everybody. So he called me with these men and women left the military or left this idea and I’m like, “How could I possibly their service or were even kicked out because channel Bettie Page?” But, boy, obviously he they came out. I didn’t understand that cur- our local Gayborhoods & beyond pulled it off. It was great. He flew the hair and rently you can actually be kicked out if one person makes a compelling argument and just makeup people in from New York, he got the The change of seasons welcomes in many 24th Annual Southern Maine Pride Parade outfit, and he came up with the whole vision. basically says this person’s gay. So when I went to my first Senate hearing, I Pride Marches, Rallies and Celebrations to & Festival will take place on June 19th. The And I was thrilled, and so we covered that on the immediate region and beyond. Some of Parade will start at Monument Square in Down- the D-List. heard so many of these men and women testi- fying saying, “You don’t understand. I didn’t the closest to our gayborhoods are: town Portland, ME. For more information, please CA: He said he was trying to bring out your visit: http://www.southernmainepride.org. “inner vixen.” Do you see yourself as a sex come out.” So John McCain, who I lost total CT Pride 2010 takes place on June 5, 2010 at respect for, kept trying to imply that these men symbol? Bushnell Park. TRT will, once again, design Pride Vermont 2010 will be celebrated on KG: (Laughs) I do when I’m with Mike Ruiz. and women had been flaunting their sexuality. July 24th, 2010. TRT will be at the celebra- They didn’t have one single person testify that the CT Pride Guide this year and will the next I mean, boy, he’s the one who got away. Mike too. To learn more about entertainers and CT tion. To know more about VT’s celebration, Ruiz is the very reason that you have these actually came out; they only had people testify check out their website: www.pridevt.com/ saying, “I didn’t even come out! Nobody was Pride, please visit www.connecticutpride.org. women saying they’re either married or gay New York City Pride 2010 celebrates Gay because when you look at Mike Ruiz you just asking, and I wasn’t telling.” It was shocking. Boston Pride 2010 celebrates its 40th An- A few of them had their personal e-mail ac- niversary, will also be one of the biggest cel- Pride for a full week: June 19 to June 27, want to take a bite out of him. 2010. As with previous years, this 2010 Pride CA: Are you shooting more of My Life on the counts hacked into. It was really interesting to ebrations in the commonwealth. TRT will be a D-List? watch that process. media sponsor and will be at Boston Pride this honors what many consider to be one of the KG: Of course. It’s the show that never ends What I really learned was, honestly, the best year too. Boston Pride will happen from June foremost events in the history of lesbian and (laughs). advocate to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” gay rights, the Stonewall Riots. For more in- 4-13th, 2010 this year. For more information, formation visit: www.nycpride.org. CA: The last season of the show was probably is Sen. Carl Levin from Michigan. He was so and to see what will happen throughout the great during the testimony, and John McCain the gayest so far. Will this upcoming season week please visit www.bostonpride.org/mul- Pride Toronto 2010 celebrates its 30th anni- out-gay that one? was not (laughs). It was one of those great epi- sodes because we thought it was going to go ticalendar.php versary this year. The week long celebration KG: I fear it might be gayer (laughs). First of starts on June 25 and ends on July 4. Pride all, in Episode One we have Liza Minnelli. So one way and then this took a turn, and this took Worcester Pride 2010 will take place on Sept . a turn. I really learned a lot and it was great. Week features 10 days of world class arts and out the gate, we’re pretty fucking gay. And 18th this year. For more information about this cultural programming, community activities, she’s fantastic. And she’s Liza. And we get great Pride, visit www.worcesterpride.com. one of the world’s largest street festivals, Pride to go to her New York apartment, which is a CA: You actually received some advocacy tips from Melissa Etheridge during the last season Rhode Island Pride, or Pride Fest 2010, will Parade, Dyke March, Family programming, dream come true for any gay boy such as your- Blackness Yes and Youth and much more. self – or me. of D-List, and she recently said she finds you tentatively take place on June 19th. PrideFest inspiring. Do you think you’re inspirational? and the Night Gay Pride Parade through Provi- To learn more about Pride Toronto visit: CA: How about the episode in Washington, www.pridetoronto.com. D.C., involving the repeal of “Don’t Ask, KG: (Laughs) She’s a little more in the inspi- dence basically functions as Providence Gay Don’t Tell”? rational category, but I do like to inspire people Pride and Newport Gay Pride all rolled into For a more comprehensive list of all of KG: I’m really proud of that one. I go to Wash- to be more profane, to be more foul-mouthed one statewide celebration. For more informa- the Pride Events in the U.S. and abroad, visit ington, D.C., and do my part to repeal “Don’t and to be more inappropriate. I’m an inspira- tion, visit www.prideri.com. Interpride at: http://www.interpride.org tion for everything wrong. 16 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Award-winning journalist Mikey Rox launches MommyDearestLetters.com By: TRT Staff situation. You never want to hurt your parents, sure of peace.” Mikey Rox and his mother never see no matter what they’ve done to you, but you Among these “unloved” letters is a submis- eye-to-eye. have to get some things off your chest.” sion from a lady named Zannetta (Rox only “My mom and I are completely different Late last year, Rox, who is the owner of uses first names to protect the innocent, and people, but we have very similar personal- Paper Rox Scissors, a copywriting and cre- the authors can remain anonymous if they ity traits,” Rox, 29, says. “Those differences ative consulting company in New York City, wish), from Brooklyn, N.Y. Her letter starts, – and, coincidentally, similarities – often lead started piecing his project together – designing “Mother Dearest, I’m sorry to disgrace you to heated arguments.” the Web site, registering the project’s name, with my lesbianism” and ends with, “Please This tepid, sometimes tumultuous, rela- don’t judge me because you don’t un- tionship with his mother is what led Rox to derstand… because what came naturally launch a new project called Mommy Dear- for you and was applauded and accepted est: Letters from children to the women didn’t fit my being.” who raised them. The blog, which pub- “That letter was particularly touching,” lishes letters and poems from participants Rox admits, “because it sort of hit on some all over America, aims to explore the vast of the issues I had with my own mother. range of emotions that children feel toward She didn’t want to accept me when I came Happy 40th their mothers and mother-like figures. The out, and it hurt. I could feel Zannetta’s 40 content on Mommy Dearest is heartwarming, and soliciting submissions by posting ads on pain. She’s strong and independent and she ac- nostalgic, reminiscent, painful, apologetic, Craigslist. Within weeks, he had received an cepts herself, but she yearns for her mother’s Anniversary happy and sad – in other words, a compilation inbox full of messages that proved his idea love. We all do. Thankfully, I now have that of whatever feelings the submissions’ authors worthy of pursuing. Today, Mommy Dearest, love from my own mother, but I didn’t always have that compel them to participate in Rox’s which officially went public on Mother’s Day, feel it.” project. features posts that run the gamut – letters that Though the site has recently launched, Rox “I came up with the idea because there were honor mothers, poetry that expresses undying isn’t certain how long Mommy Dearest will Boston things that I wanted to say to my mom, but I gratitude, and notes that induce heartache. For last. But he is hopeful that whoever comes didn’t know how,” Rox, an award-winning every letter that Rox categorizes as “loved” – a across the site will take away something posi- journalist and frequent The Rainbow Times distinction on the site that helps visitors choose tive – or choose to participate themselves. contributor, explains. “These unresolved is- the type of letter they want to read – there is an “More than entertainment to readers, I want Pride! sues go back to when I came out of the closet. “unloved” letter. And it’s the latter that Rox this project to empower children to say what But I let them fester for so long that I didn’t says truly hits home. they need to say to their mothers,” says Rox. from your know how to approach the situation again.” “The ‘loved’ letters are nice, but it’s the ‘un- “Whether it’s thank you and I love you, or “In thinking about what I want to say to her,” loved’ letters that deliver the raw emotions,” I wish you were a better mom, we all have friends at he continues, “I thought there must be other says Rox. “Some of the things I’ve read are in- something to say to the women who gave us adult children out there who are in the same credible – and I sincerely hope that my project life or raised us. Life’s too short to keep it brings the authors of these letters some mea- bottled up inside.” The Rainbow Times www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 17 Creep of the Week: U.S. Rep. Mark Souder By: D’Anne Witkowski* giving government employees domestic part- blames D.C. for the fact that Souder humped a K “family values” ner benefits was just a sneaky way to redefine woman who wasn’t his wife. politicians, I don’t marriage. “If Mark Souder is capable of sexual mis- Ocare if you cheat According to his website: “Studies consis- conduct, it could happen to anyone. The frat Happy on your wives. Frankly, tently demonstrate that it is best for a child to house environment on Capitol Hill does noth- that’s between you and have a mother and father, and I am committed ing to encourage accountability. Most mem- your wife and whomever to preserving traditional marriage, the union of bers do not live with their families while they else you’re humping. one man and one woman.” are working in D.C. during the week,” Nance But when you hold your Committed to preserving traditional mar- said in a statement. pecker up as the holy grail riage for the rest of the country. Not for him so True, politicians on Capitol Hill have it rough ct of one-man-one-woman much. Not that anyone should take this whole when it comes to seeing and being with their marriage, then your affair affair thing and try to use it against him. families. But you know, a lot of people have D’Anne Witkowski becomes my business. “By stepping aside, my mistake cannot be jobs that take them away from their spouses U.S. Rep. Mark Souder used as a political football in a partisan attempt for days and weeks at a time and manage not (R-Ind.) is the latest anti-gay politician to be to undermine the cause for which I have la- to screw anyone else. caught with his pants down. Af- Nance also challenges family Pride! ter it was revealed that he’s been values candidates and incumbents from your friends at screwing a staffer he announced to “guard their hearts and reputa- his resignation – you know, for the Remind me again how it’s tions and to live by higher stan- The Rainbow Times good of his family. dards that reflect the traditional “In the poisonous environment moral values our country holds so of Washington, D.C., any personal gays and lesbians who dear.” failing is seized upon, often twist- In other words, “OMG! WTF? ed, for political gain,” he said in a threaten family values? Every time I turn around another statement. “I am resigning rather one of you has cheated on your Happy than to put my family through that painful, bored all my adult life,” he said. wives or propositioned men in public rest- drawn-out process.” I’m not sure how calling out a so-called rooms or hired prostitutes. Knock it off, ass- Aww, how sweet. What a good guy. You “family values” politician about cheating on holes. You’re making us look bad.” know, I wouldn’t be surprised to learn that this his wife is partisan. Hypocrisy bleeds across Remind me again how it’s gays and lesbians whole affair was a ploy to get closer to his wife party lines. who threaten family values? and kids. Because of how much he values fam- Did I mention that Souder made a video ct ilies. Except gay and lesbian ones, of course. with his mistress praising abstinence-only *D’Anne Witkowski has been gay for pay Souder, who has compared gays to alcohol- education? since 2003. She’s a freelance writer and poet ics, voted in favor of the Constitutional mar- Souder does have defenders, however. Penny (believe it!). When she’s not taking on the riage ban, filed an amicus brief against D.C.’s Nance, CEO of Concerned Women for Amer- creeps of the world she reviews rock and roll marriage law, and last year he claimed that ica, a virulently anti-gay conservative group, shows in Detroit with her twin sister. Pride! 18 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 19 De Protesta a Derechos: 40 años de lucha por igualdad Por: Wilfred Labiosa* seis años, y en otros estados más y tanto más y seguir la lucha que nuestro/as hermano/as co- grupo ha decidido desarrollar organizaciones a Celebración por celebrar. menzaron en Stonewall. y movimientos para ayudar traer equidad e de Orgullo También necesitamos celebrar el trabajo Nuestra lucha de ahora debe ser unida y orga- igualdad en su “nuevo hogar”. Los grupos de Len Boston a continuación; nuestra lucha por una inmi- nizada con un eje inclusivo. Debemos tener un individuos se congregan para abogar para la Celebra 40 años gración positiva y justa; la legislatura a favor de movimiento con gente de todas clases sociales, igualdad y la equidad. Si no te sientes igual que de movimiento que la comunidad transgénero y que nuestras voces grupos étnicos y de todas profesiones. Tenemos a otro/as, entonces únete al movimiento. En vez tomará lugar del 4 a se escuchen altas y claras. que seguir el ejemplo de de quejarte por qué cierto grupo y/o persona en atina Necesitamos sentirnos las organizaciones que la política no hace esto, o lo otro, entonces únete ess 13 de junio con el H c i lema, “De Protesta orgulloso/as de nuestros incluyen personas de dife- al grupo y trae el cambio que quieres. r

: E : logros, ya sean grandes o rentes razas, grupos étnic- Los latinos GLBT están aumentando en L a Derechos”. En verdad sólo pequeños y tomar energías os, profesiones, religiones, números y ahora es el momento para unirnos photo estamos celebrando de éstos para el trabajo que impedimentos, lenguajes, y traer la equidad e igualdad que merecemos. Wilfred Labiosa los primeros 40 se aproxima. Necesitamos y color, ya que estas orga- Necesitamos reunir a nuestro/as aliado/as en años de nuestra lu- mantener vivo nuestro nizaciones son las que han nuestra lucha y educarlo/as. El movimiento, cu- cha ya que queda bastante por hacer optimismo y energía para podido movilizar nuestra alquiera que sea, necesita incluir la diversidad para poder celebrar total igualdad. continuar educando a otro/ comunidad y alcanzar sus reflejada en nuestras comunidades. Ahora está Desde Stonewall, nuestro mov- as de nuestra lucha. metas. Es cuando un grupo en nosotro/as el pedir (y exigir) un asiento en la isión imiento ha batallado tantas cosas. Me siento orgulloso de de personas se unen bajo “mesa”, y reclutar a otra/os para que se unan a Desde aceptación por el gobierno a la la visión de mucho/as de una misma misión y se nuestra lucha como aliado/as. Toma un tiempo V epidemia del VIH/SIDA, desde Mat- nuestro/as aliados y miembros de nuestra co- organizan que hemos podido alcanzar igualdad. para hablar con los representantes de las mesas thew Shepard hasta los crímenes de odios en munidad GLBT, pero estas personas necesitan Por ejemplo debemos aprender del movimiento informativas del festival en la celebración de contra de nuestro/as hermano/as transgéneros, de nuestro apoyo. Las organizaciones como la hacia la aceptación de matrimonio gay en CT Orgullo de Boston (y en otros pueblos y ciu- desde el lenguaje discriminatorio hasta la ho- Coalición Política de Transgéneros de Massa- y MA. Debemos aprender de Stonewall ya que dades) para aprender más sobre organizaciones mofobia de parte de religiosos y religiones. La chussets y Oíste necesitan que nos eduquemos esta protesta comenzó el movimiento GLBT que luchan por ti; aprende sobre la lucha nacio- homofobia continúa todos los días; de no tener en el trabajo que ello/as están haciendo para que ahora tenemos; aprendamos de Act Up y de nal y local. ninguna prensa escrita a tener revistas, periódi- poder apoyar lo/as. Harvey Milk. Estos/as movimientos/personas Únete no sólo en este mes de Orgullo pero du- cos, canales de televisión y tantos libros enfoca- Estas son solamente dos organizaciones alía- cambiaron la faz de nuestra comunidad GLBT. rante el año entero. Celebremos no sólo nuestro dos en la comunidad LGBT. ¡Pero queda tanto do/as a nuestra lucha. Necesitamos unirnos más Como gente de color y GLBT, intenta- orgullo como personas Latinas GLBT, pero trabajo por hacer! para tener diversidad en nuestro movimiento mos traer balance a nuestras vidas en un país también los aspectos únicos que tenemos como En este mes de Orgullo GLBT, como Latinos y lucha política. Necesitamos trabajar con or- desigual. Nos esforzamos en sobrevivir en un comunidad e individuos. ¡Feliz 40 al movimien- GLBT, debemos celebrar nuestras visiones, ganizaciones como estas dos y Boston Pride, lugar clasista, con dinámicas de poder e -ismos to GLBT y Feliz mes del Orgullo a todo/as! nuestros logros y los trabajos próximos a reali- Unid@s: La Organización Nacional Latina que son parte de la norma. Somos inmigrantes zarse. Celebremos nuestros logros, como el que GLBT y la Coalición de Somos Latin@s LGBT que elegimos vivir en esta nación ya que nos *Escrito en ambos idiomas por Wilfred W. hemos celebrado ya seis veces la Semana de Or- de Massachusetts para mejorar nuestra represen- brinda otras oportunidades a las que nuestros Labiosa; editado por Gricel Martínez Ocasio. gullo Latino en Nueva Inglaterra, la más añeja y tación y reclamar la igualdad que merecemos. países de origen, o donde vivíamos anterior- larga celebración de su clase en esta nación; por Cuarenta años de protesta no significan que mente, no nos ofrecían. Pero, ¿somos iguales? To read the English version of this story, la cual esta columna va a celebrar dos años; ma- ahora detenemos nuestra lucha – sino que ahora Algunos individuos pueden contestar que “sí” please visit: www.therainbowtimesmass.com/ trimonios legales en nuestro estado, ahora por más que nunca tenemos que unirnos en protesta pero la mayoría contesta “no”. Este último latinvisionjune3. 20 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com And you, and you, and you ... gotta give ‘em hope By: Mikey Rox*/Special for TRT sex couples within the context of the contest Before I knew what gay meant, my idea of and America in general. pride consisted of a family of lions. The concept that we’re accidental advocates Of course, as I began to understand my sexu- is rather interesting to me, however. I’ve al- ality and subsequently accept it, pride took on ways been annoyed by people who don’t care another meaning. But I’m still not someone about an issue until they’re directly affected. It who celebrates the entire month of June sur- happens all the time. Someone’s family mem- rounding myself with all things gay. In fact, ber succumbs to cancer and they become the I’m rather repulsed by pride celebrations – es- next Nancy Goodman Brinker, participating in pecially the parades – because, admit it or not, every 5K that comes to town and begging for they’re less about demonstrating dignity and money via e-mail. Except I get it now. Before self-respect than they are about waving dildos I became engaged, marriage equality wasn’t and glorifying sex. on my radar. I felt like it wasn’t my battle, so That’s not to say that I’m not proud to be someone else should fight it. gay. I am. Very much so. I just choose to Perhaps I would still feel that way if I weren’t mark my diversity differently – by fighting for poised to marry the man of my dreams. I’d equality, for instance. Photo: courtesy Paper Rox Scissors still be sitting back, letting others do the dirty On Valentine’s Day, my fiancé and I became Author Mikey Rox and his fiancé Lt. Everett Earl Morrow enjoy soul food at Harlem staple work. But things have changed. I can’t remain engaged. If you’re an Internet junky, you may Sylvia’s restaurant. idle when discrimination affects my immedi- have read about it. I proposed to him via an ar- ate future. We want – no, we deserve – the want us to enter. But that didn’t stop us. I’m and After Elton, among a host of other sites. same rights as everyone else. ticle titled “5 Financially Savvy Steps to Pop- not afraid of a little friendly competition, and With so much exposure, we knew we had a ping ‘The Question’,” which was published It was then that my fiancé and I started think- we figured we had just as fair a shot at winning chance to do some good. While we were ful- ing – what else can we talk about with intel- on the budget-living site LifeStyler.com. He as any other couple – gay or straight. ly vested in competing in the contest, it also responded in an appropriately techy fashion by ligence that will progress, however minutely, accepting on Facebook. As I expected, we re- equality initiatives? Thus, as a Navy lieutenant ceived criticism for our non-traditional engage- (hands off, boys; he’s taken), he bravely de- ment from anonymous haters, but by and large Except I get it now. Before I became engaged, cided that it was time to come out publicly and the media loved it. We were featured on LGBT discuss in open forums “don’t ask, don’t tell.” gossip site Queerty, as well as mainstream out- marriage equality wasn’t on my radar. I felt like it In the months since he took a stand against lets such as MediaElites, Nerve and Gothamist. the outdated, offensive DADT policy, he’s Later that day, while the euphoria of decid- wasn’t my battle, so someone else should fight it. given interviews to Seattle Gay News and Oklahoma’s Metro Star News; we published ing to commit our lives to one another was still Upon entering, we received an overwhelm- provided us a platform to talk about some the fresh, we entered Crate & Barrel’s $100,000 a unique piece together, wherein I interviewed ing amount of support – from family, friends issues that we face as gay people, including him about his time in the Navy, that appeared Ultimate Wedding Contest. The contest had re- and, again, the media. In the weeks after throw- marriage equality. I was invited to write an op- cently launched and at the time there was only in many LGBT publications across the country; ing our proverbial hat into the ring, we were ed making a case for marriage equality in my we were the subject of a documentary project one other same-sex couple vying for the prize featured on the blogs Joe. My. God., Wicked hometown newspaper, and we seized every – they were friends of ours and they didn’t Gay Blog, What Would Tyler Durden Do?, opportunity to promote fairness toward same- See Equality on page 21 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 21 Equality from page 20 and I have engaged in the past few months. And once again, pride has new meaning. C’mon Out fromn page 21 a PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and by two Columbia University students; he Gays) meeting if there’s one near to her. filmed a PSA for Cyndi Lauper’s Give a Damn For us, being proud isn’t about parades or It will get better, I promise. You have probably parties. It’s not about letting the world know been coming out to yourself for years. It has Make sure you get support C. Do you have campaign; and we marched (and he delivered friends who you can talk to? Are there any a speech) at Harvey Milk Day of Action near we’re gay simply for the sake of shouting it taken you a lot to get to this point. Your mom out. Instead, pride is about believing in some- has just begun this process. But for her, it’s not support groups where you live? You can our home in New York City. perhaps access support over the internet. You These opportunities have brought us closer. thing, standing up for what’s right, being vocal about freeing herself to become more herself, and visible, and work- like it is for you. She may be kicking and can also speak to a therapist or counselor if We’re not just two gay you think this would help. guys cohabitating any- ing toward a common screaming inside. But she will come along. goal – in this case, I’ve been working with people who are You are growing up, separating and finding more. We’re partners your way into adulthood. This process, who are invested in equality. coming out for many years. The vast number You may think that of parents to varying degrees will, in time, whether for someone straight or queer has equality – for us and its own growing pains. Do not go through this for others – and we’re individual activism accept their child’s sexual orientation. You doesn’t make a differ- feel in your guts that she has not yet done so alone. The more support you have, the better it committed to doing will go. I am glad you have reached out here. I whatever we can to ence. What can one and that has you shaken. I believe from your person do, right? But description she does love you. Her love will, hope this helps. further advance these Best, Tetty initiatives. It makes our that’s precisely the kind over time, help guide her to see and accept relationship more ful- of thinking that keeps this aspect of you. While I know nothing of our community’s issues her general openness to life and diversity, her C’mon Out! - Submit your questions to filling, more rewarding Tetty Gorfine, Director of LifeCourse Coun- and – brace yourselves in the closet. love for her child will, more than likely prevail. – more passionate. This month, I urge You must go through your own process as seling Center. Simply go to www.lifecourse. That’s because we’re you to take strides to- you come out. As you become clearer and net and click on “Ask Us A Question.” All passionate – about each ward making an im- more self-assured, she will sense this. While questions will be answered on the bulletin other and about the pact. Go out and enjoy this cannot be your goal, it will help her see board. One or two will be printed next month world in which we live. the camaraderie, but that being more yourself is good for you. Don’t here in The Rainbow Times. In addition to DADT in doing that think of be afraid to keep talking to her, including how and marriage equality, Photo: courtesy Paper Rox Scissors ways you can advance you feel that she doesn’t really accept you Tetty has also been a psychotherapist we’ve identified other Lt. Everett Earl Morrow, delivering a speech the LGBT mission. yet. Keeping a conversation alive and flowing since 1980. She has worked extensively with March. Write. Blog. LGBTQ individuals, couples and groups and opportunities to discuss supporting the repeal of DADT is good for any relationship. why equal rights are Beg. Do whatever is in From her perspective she has lost her het- has supervised both clinicians and therapists imperative and imminent. On the issue of teen your power to show that erosexual daughter. Whether she realizes it in training. Her vision and leadership spirited suicide, I provided a story to the Give A Damn you have pride – and perseverance. We need or not, she has had an image of what your nearly all of LifeCourse Counseling Center’s campaign about my best friend who killed all the help we can get. straight lifestyle would look like. She needs programs. Tetty has also been on numerous himself when we were 18 years old because he In the name of Harvey Milk, it’s true: I’m time to grieve this loss. You need time to grow radio talk shows and television programs. was gay. And in a few weeks, a video story I here to recruit you. into yourself. She has presented at professional conferences recently filmed for Nathan Manske’s I’m From At the right time you might ask her if she on topics pertinent to gay, lesbian, bisexual Driftwood project, about an act of violence *Mikey Rox is an award-winning writer/ would be willing to do some reading or attend and transgender individuals. that I experienced in high school because I’m journalist and the principal of Paper Rox Scis- gay, will be featured on his site. sor, a marketing and advertising company in As Pride Month kicks off across the world, New York City. He can be reached at mikey@ I’ve reflected on the work in which my fiancé paperroxscissors.com. read us online @ therainbowtimesnews.com 22 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 23 Out of Town: Cologne and the 2010 Gay Games By: Andrew Collins* Montreal, held again in Copenhagen in 2009, A progressive, attractive metropolis that’s and will next take place in Antwerp in 2013. long been a playground for fans of outdoor Thousands of visitors will come to Cologne cafes, leafy parks and extremely friendly gay to participate and watch the games, which bars, Cologne (http://www.koeln.de/cologne_ also takes place around the same time as Am- tourist_information) is Germany’s fourth-larg- sterdam Gay Pride (http://www.amsterdam- est city and a hub of the country’s beautiful gaypride.nl). It’s expected that many travelers Rhineland. Established as a Roman settlement will make time for both events. Organizers are more than 2,000 years ago, Cologne is rife expecting as many as 12,000 participants from with cultural attractions and centrally located more than 70 countries - plus another 100,000 - it’s within four hours by car or train ride of spectators. The city of Cologne, which has Amsterdam, Brussels, Frankfurt, Hamburg, long been very supportive toward gays and and Strasbourg. lesbians, has worked hard to prepare for the There’s plenty to see and do year-round in Games, improving many sporting venues and Cologne (Köln in German), but summer is an working hard to roll out a warm welcome. especially popular time for a visit. Average Most of the games take place within Co- high temperatures in July and August are in logne city limits and virtually all of the ven- the low 70s, and the city’s many bars and cafes ues are within 20 minutes of the city center by with sidewalk or courtyard seating come alive car or public transport. The city has a highly during these months. Every year in early July, efficient rail and light-rail system. Some 34 the city hosts the Cologne Gay Pride festival sporting events are featured, including bas- and parade (http://www.csd-cologne.de/in- ketball, cycling, diving, figure skating, inline dex_en.html) - it takes place July 2 through speed skating, sailing, softball, soccer/foot- July 4 this year. ball, track & field, volleyball and many others. But 2010 is an especially important year in The Games also feature a number of cultural Photo: Andrew Collins Cologne from a GLBT perspective - this year, events, including a cheerleading contest, band Three of Cologne’s most iconic sites: the Cologne Cathedral, the Colonius telecommunications from July 31 through August 7, the city hosts and choral festivals, a “rainbow” run, visual tower, and the Hohenzollern Bridge. the Gay Games VIII (http://www.games-co- and performing arts, along with countless par- logne.de/en). This well-attended event, which ties and social events. art (with Picasso a particular specialty), and the teemed WDR Symphony Orchestra. is held every four years, was begun in 1982 and The city’s skyline is marked by one of the Romisch-Germanisches Museum, known for There’s also some serious shopping in the city held in San Francisco the first two occasions, most dramatic architectural works in Europe its priceless collection of Roman artifacts. The center, with the massive Olivandenhof depart- before being hosted by Vancouver, New York - the 515-foot Cologne Cathedral, which was starkly modern Wallraf das Museum excels in ment store among the hot spots for retail. The City, Amsterdam, Sydney and most recently built over the course of six centuries and mer- european art over the past seven centuries, and pedestrian-only Schildergasse is the most popu- Chicago. It’s slated to take place in Cleveland its a visit to appreciate the sheer wonder of its the Museum fur Angewandte Kunst (Museum lar shopping street in the city - it’s lined with in 2014. This is the largest GLBT sports and interior. The city has plenty of other cultural of Applied Art) is a rich trove of furnishings, brand-name shops and always abuzz with peo- cultural gathering in the world, although the high points. Near the cathedral are the fabulous decorative arts, and textiles from throughout ple. If you’re a fan of German snacks, don’t miss similarly themed, though wholly independent, Museum Ludwig, which contains one of Eu- Europe. It’s also worth looking for tickets to Hoss an der Oper, a justly famous delicatessen the renowned Cologne Opera and the city’s es- World Outgames were established in 2006 in rope’s most impressive collections of modern See Cologne on page 24 24 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Cologne from page 23 with outdoor seating, and nearby Comeback, a - rooms in this large, international hotel have also quite popular with gays and lesbians and is that proffers everything from sausages to fine jolly gay pub. large windows, many overlooking Rudolfplatz, near the gay bars in the historic city center. The Rieslings. Another retail highlight is the 4711 The newer and trendier gay scene emanates as well as contemporary work desks, flat-screen 106-room property is steps from the Rhine and shop, which sells the product for which the city from around Rudolfplatz, a 15-minute walk TVs, blonde-wood floors and beds with comfy accommodations are sleek and airy. is named, eau de Cologne, a rather heady per- west of Old Market. Just south of this bustling duvets. One of the city’s most famous and opu- Excellent, fair-priced options near Rudolf- fume with a citrus-y fragrance. square typically packed with students, hipsters, lent properties is the historic Le Meridien Dom platz include the trendy Hopper Hotel Et Ce- Visitors will find several enchanting places artsy types and young professionals, you’ll find Hotel (http://www.lemeridiendomhotelkoeln. tera (http://www.hopper.de), a handsomely to stroll around the City Center, including the several stylish gay bars along Schaafenstrasse com), a posh hotel overlooking the Cathedral designed property set inside an 1893 former broad and open Stadtgarten, which lies just and the streets just south of it. Among the hot and Old Town. Its 124 rooms are decked out monastery, and the simple but cheerful Conti west of the city. Just follow Rudolfplatz west spots, check out ExCorner, Maxbar, Scham- with boldly colored furnishings, marble bath- Hotel (http://www.conti-hotel.de), whose small a few blocks and look for the soaring Coloni- panja, and the swish the swish X-Bar. rooms, and - in some cases - balconies. but comfy rooms have rates starting well under us telecom tower, which rises 872 feet above Restaurants worth a look near Rudolfplatz Overlooking the Rhine, the 454-room Mari- 70 euros nightly. the park. It’s also enjoyable to stroll along the include Paul Bobotie (http://www.bobotie.de), tim Hotel Cologne (http://www.maritim.de) Rhine, walking across the historic and dramatic which specializes in South African cuisine; and is quite elegant, its lobby set inside a massive *Andrew Collins covers gay travel for the Hohenzollem rail bridge (look for the triangu- endearingly cool Bar Tabac (http://www.bart- glass atrium. There are four restaurants on- New York Times-owned website About.com lar tablet along the river promenade just south abac.de), which has the vibe of a cafe on the site, and facilities include a pool, fitness room, and is the author of Fodor’s Gay Guide to the of the bridge - it’s a memorial to gay and les- Left Bank in Paris. A good bet for a gay date, sauna and shopping mall. Nearby Hotel Ly- USA. He can be reached care of this publica- bian victims of Nazism), sauntering back down Nana’s is a comfy restaurant with a warmly skirchen (http://www.hotel-lyskirchen.de) is tion or at [email protected]. the right bank, and crossing back over via the lighted interior that feels rather old-school, but Deutzer Bridge, which deposits you right into the kitchen turns out surprisingly modern and Old Market (Alter Markt) district. very tasty German fare. Just a bit northwest blog • chat Historically, the gay scene in Cologne was of here, gay-owned and wonderfully romantic personals centered around the Old Market and nearby Limbourg Restaurant (http://www.limbourg. Hay Market (Heumarkt) areas, and you’ll still mynetcologne.de) serves outstanding French calendar find a number of bars and hangouts in these and Northern Italian fare. resources neighboring districts along the left bank of the Within steps of Rudolfplatz you’ll also find breaking news Rhine. Bars and clubs tend to be cruiser and numerous ice cream parlors, sidewalk cafes and more sex-driven around Hay Market and the casual eateries with a devoted gay following. advertise streets just south. Popular here are Hombres, Era Cafe & Bar (http://www.cafe-era.de), with & more ... its light tapas and good-looking staff, is a fa- Zille, Blue Lounge (which draws more of a therainbowtimes mix of women and men), Zipp’s, My Lord, and vorite - also check out Cafe Rico (http://www. Station 2B fetish club, plus a few shops selling cafe-rico.de) and Brennerei Weiss (http://www. news.com erotica, leather gear and underwear. Restaurant brennereiweiss.de), a festival beer hall with a blog • chat Mederrano (http://www.restaurant-mederrano. large patio. Also just off Rudolfplatz, stop in- de/) is a very nice dining option hidden away side Bruno’s GLBT bookstore for both main- personals from the crowds of Old Market but near gay stream and adult titles, as well as gifts, videos, calendar nightlife. toys and the like. It’s along Kettengasse, which resources Gay bars around Old Market generally ap- has several other shops catering to the GLBT peal to a somewhat older - and more mixed - crowd. breaking news crowd (women and men, and some straights). One of the best hotels in Cologne for proxim- advertise These include Zum Pitter, a convivial space ity to gay nightlife is the Hotel Barcelo Cologne City Center (http://www.barcelo.com/cologne) & more ... www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 25 Star-studded lineup at PrideFest 2010, Rhode Island’s Pride By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter queline DiMera, Vi’Let, Genesis, and the one Jeanne D’Agostino will be held at 5:30 pm on Rhode Island’s PrideFest 2010 cel- and only Self-Proclaimed First Lady of Provi- Monday, June 7 at the Providence Biltmore. ebration will feature a star-studded dence, Miss Kitty Litter. Proceeds go to AIDS Care Ocean State. lineup of entertainers on June 19. The festival runs from 12 noon to 8 p.m. The • On Wednesday, June 9, there will be a This year’s headliner is pop diva Nighttime Parade begins at 8:30 pm. Swim and Underwear Fashion Show at the Amber. Amber has won over an en- The theme of this year’s event is Equality: Regency Plaza on Washington Street from 7 thusiastic collection of fans with a Imagine the Possibilities. to 9 pm. string of worldwide smash hits that RI Pride co-chairman Rodney Davis ex- • On Sunday, June 13 there will be a Rhode News plained that the concept of equality does not Island Pride Interfaith Service at Beneficent

include “Sexual (li da di),” “Above The Clouds,” “The Need To Be Na- necessarily refer to one issue, such as civil Church. The Reverend Irene Monroe will be ked,” “Yes!,” “If You Could Read My rights. the keynote preacher. The Providence Gay Mind” (from the Studio 54 soundtrack “Even within civil rights, there’s an issue Men’s Chorus will provide music for the with Ultra Nate and Jocelyn En- of equality in regards to gender, in regards to event, which begins at 3 pm. riquez), and “One More Night,” she issues of immigration, even within issues of That evening there will be the Pride King and has racked up seven consecutive No. race within our own community,” Davis said. Queen Ocean State at Mirabar in Providence. 1 dance singles and an additional six “We’re encouraging people to imagine what This new pageant to celebrate Pride is open Top 10 dance hits. the world would be like if we really worked to all members of the LGBTQ community. In addition, this year’s PrideFest hard in making the world fair and equal for Contestants must compete in Pride Theme will feature local favorites and nation- everyone.” Photo: Courtesy of JMCA Enterprises costume and talent performance. There will be ally recognized performers, including This will be followed by the Illuminated Chart-topper Amber stars at PrideFest 2010 both a King and a Queen crowned at this event. New York drag superstar Peppermint, Nighttime Parade, featuring LGBT Armed Pre-register by e-mail at [email protected]. singer-songwriter Todd Alsup, R&B/ Forces Veterans as Grand Marshals. The re- cost of leasing the space from the state. Doors open at 9 pm. Soul performer Nhojj, and The Glam- peal of the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy on As in past years, the festival will feature a • The Providence Gay Men’s Chorus per- azons from America’s Got Talent. gays and lesbians serving in the Armed Forces MarketPlace and Business Exposition, the forms their new show, “Showstoppers: We Joining them will be local favorites is foremost on the minds of many in the LGBT Kid’s Pride Zone and the Beer, Wine and Spir- Can’t Stop the Beat” on Wednesday, June 16 Shryne, Becky Chace Band, Candace community, Davis noted. its Garden. at Rhode Island College. Show begins at 7 pm. Brooks Band, Heather Rose, Michelle “We have served (in the military) whether There will be lots of events leading up to Tickets are $20 and can be purchased at www. Ribeiro, and, of course, the one and openly and discharged, or in silence,” Davis Pride: provGMC.org. only Sabrina Blaze. said. • On Thursday, June 3 at Mirabar, there will • The RI Pride Hangover Drag Brunch will PrideFest 2010 will also feature This year’s celebration will be held on South be Benji’s Birthday Blowout featuring Mr.Gay be held on June 20 at Downcity on Weybosset special performances from Miss Gay Water Street, along the banks of the Provi- RI 2010 – Ben Huber. The show starts at 9 pm Street in Providence. Seatings are at 11 am and RI 2010 Savannah Devereaux and dence River. and will be hosted by Haley Star and Savannah 1:30 pm. Mr. Gay RI Ben Huber, the King & Davis said the new location is “a really ex- Devereaux. There will also be a Roller Derby at the Bank Queen Ocean State 2010, the Im- citing one.” Last year the festival was held at • On June 4 at 7 pm is Youth Pride Inc. of America Skating Center in Kennedy Plaza perial Court of Rhode Island, and Station Park, which is situated across from the (YPI)’s Talent Contest at Beneficent Church at 3 pm. Jackie Collins. The emcees for this State House. in Providence. Kitty Litter and LaDiva Jonz year’s PrideFest include: Savannah The Pride staff could not use the location will serve as judges. For a complete list of events, visit RI Pride’s Rhode Island Pride Island Rhode Devereaux, Kevin O’Connell, Jac- again due to a shortage of funds and the high • A Birthday Hi-Tini for Kitty Litter and web site at www.PrideRI.com.

the month’s best selling videos courtesy: wolfevideo.com Lesbian Best Sellers 1. And Then Came Lola 2. Hannah Free 3. Bitch Slap 4. The L Word Final Season 5. I Can’t Think Straight 6. The World Unseen 7. The Lovers & Friends Show Seasons 1 & 2 8. Training Rules 9. The Baby Formula 10. 8: The Mormon Proposition

Gay Best Sellers 1. Pornography: A Thriller 2. Mr. Right 3. BOYCRAZY 4. 8: The Mormon Proposition 5. The Butch Factor 6. A Single Man 7. Half-Life 8. Rag Tag 9. Homewrecker 10. The Big Gay Musical 26 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 27 Senate committee takes historic step toward ending “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” First vote ever to repeal the discriminatory ban on open service by gays and lesbians WASHINGTON—Last week, the Senate study due December 1, 2010 and upon certifi- Armed Services Committee voted 16-12 to re- cation. Rep. Patrick Murphy will offer identi- peal the failed “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” law. cal language as an amendment to the defense This historic action is the first bill on the floor of the House by time Congress has ever taken a tomorrow morning. vote to repeal the ban on openly “Americans recognize that on lesbian and gay service members the battlefield, it does not mat- in its nearly 17 year history. ter whether service members are “The importance of this vote gay or straight; what matters is cannot be overstated – this is that they get the job done. Those the beginning of the end of a who wish to preserve discrimina- shameful ban on open service by tion in our military will continue lesbian and gay troops that has to fight this progress but we will weakened our national security,” be there every step of the way said Human Rights Campaign to ensure that qualified men and President Joe Solmonese. “The women are allowed to serve their stars are aligning country, regardless of to finally restore sexual orientation,” honor and integ- “The importance of this added Solmonese. rity to those who serve our country so vote cannot be overstated The Human Rights selflessly.” – this is the beginning of the Campaign is Amer- The language of ica’s largest civil the amendment to end of a shameful ban on open rights organization the National De- working to achieve fense Authorization service by lesbian and gay lesbian, gay, bisex- Act – which is sup- troops that has weakened our ual and transgender ported by President equality. By inspir- Obama and military national security, ...” ing and engaging leadership – allows all Americans, HRC Congress to vote now to repeal the current strives to end discrimination against LGBT DADT law with actual repeal occurring after citizens and realize a nation that achieves fun- completion of the Pentagon Working Group damental fairness and equality for all. reach out to a dedicated readership and informed community... advertise today @ therainbowtimesnews.com 28 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Mohegan Sun celebrates Pride month with Alexis Arquette Promises from page 2 Rioting is not the end to any struggle or fight, but rather is an outlet for anger and frus- UNCASVILLE, CT—Mohegan Sun celebrates ing hotel stays, dinners, concert tickets to Ri- Hate Crimes legislation, we need to enforce consequences on those who think our lives tration that too often is directed inward caus- Pride Month with month-long giveaways and hanna, Christina Aguilera, Michael Bublé and ing individuals to hate or harm themselves. the return of Mohegan SunDayz with a special more. 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Our right to be is utes from the museums, antique shops and wa- not something given to us by the government, Month-Long Celebration Giveaways terfront of Mystic Country. More information is tion, state governments, or judges, we will continue to be stuck in a system that is White our right to exist, survive, and resist, is at the Mohegan Sun celebrates Pride Month available by calling (888) 226-7711 or visiting core of our humanity. throughout June with special giveaways includ- mohegansun.com. supremacist, capitalistic, and imperialist. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 29 Deep Inside Hollywood: Drew Barrymore rolls off to see the wizard By: Romeo San Vicente* the fourth installment Addams Family string- of its parody cousin, puller Basil Twist and Once upon a time in a land called Scary Movie 4, came yes, Chairy and Conky Hollywood, all the way back in the out years ago.) This will co-star. Romeo olden days of 2002, Drew Barrymore next go-round will loves this news so much was set to play the lead role in Sur- reunite creators he wants to marry it. render Dorothy, a sequel to The Wiz- Wes Craven and ard of Oz. Well now it’s eight years Kevin Williamson, Gay Stuff On TV: News later and the starlet is now a director as well as original The Update who might just take over the whole cast members Neve No amount of News- project. Barrymore, whose sweet, Campbell, David Ar- week op/ed negativity funny, underrated directorial debut, quette and Courtney can keep Sean Hayes Whip It, went almost unnoticed at Romeo San Vicente Cox. And so far the down. The man accused the box office last year, looks like the new faces tentatively by a columnist for that person who’ll helm the journey back on board (negotiations, they keep happening) magazine of being too to the yellow brick road. In this story, are Lake Bell, Twilight alum Ashley Greene, gay to play straight in Dorothy’s great, great granddaughter Rory Culkin and Hayden Panettiere. Who’ll be Broadway’s Promises, must use the power of the ruby slip- stabbed first? And do they get paid less? Promises, is, it turns pers to prevent the Wicked Witch of out, not too gay to host the West (who, frankly, needs a boost Pee-wee Herman’s new Playhouse is on the Tony Awards, which of badness after her all that sympa- Broadway he will be doing come thy generated by a certain emotional For a limited six-week run starting October June 13. And we can all Broadway musical) from taking over 26, New York’s Stephen Sondheim Theater breathe a sigh of relief both Oz and the outside world. But (formerly the Henry Miller Theater) will be- that gay co-star of Glee, the question is will Barrymore still come a playhouse. Pee-wee’s Playhouse to be Jonathan Groff, was not play the lead? Or will she pass the specific. That’s becauseThe Pee-Wee Herman so unconvincingly het- privilege down to someone not yet in Show, the original stage production created by ero on camera that he their 30s? And will someone please Paul Reubens, based on the character he creat- sank the entire show – Photo: Fox Searchlight Pictures give Fairuza Balk a shot at one of the ed with L.A.’s Groundlings three decades ago, it’s been picked up for a Drew Barrymore: Trading in her skates for glass slippers? roles? It’s only right. is coming to Broadway. And why not? The third season before sea-

Entertainment sugar-powered man-child Pee-wee has been son two even starts shooting. How’s that for a big with their feet, eventually getting cast on Who will scream for Scream 4? beloved by everyone from hipsters to children vote of homo confidence? And finally, un-gay that very straight show called Glee or in totally They’re finally castingScream 4 in the hopes for 30 years and has recently enjoyed a re- Paula Abdul, who convincingly played a singer heterosexual Broadway musicals. of a planned July start date and, really, it was surgence in popularity thanks to Los Angeles on eight seasons of American Idol, is moving about time. What’s taking so long? Well, the performances of the show. He’s an institution into a new judge’s chair, this time on the CBS *Romeo San Vicente is the greatest dancer script is on lockdown and agencies aren’t even by this point and Broadway can only be made show Got To Dance, where the choreographer that you’ve ever seen. He can be reached care getting copies to show their clients, which brighter by his presence. No human casting has will help prop up the hopes and dreams of a of this publication or at DeepInsideHolly- slows down the process. (But think about it, taken place yet, but there will be puppetry by variety of aspiring dancers hoping to make it [email protected]. 30 • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com RI magazine Options forges ahead in tight economic times By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter said, adding, “We’re always looking for new vide local residents a fo- A Providence-based LGBT maga- volunteers.” rum in which they could zine is still thriving despite financial The publication’s precarious financial state exchange ideas and woes in the midst of a struggling motivated the board of directors of Options share information about economy. to implement severe cost-cutting measures in services and organiza- Options is run out of the living 2009, including closing the magazine’s office. tions. The publication’s room of its editor, Kim Stowell. The But there is good news, too. An impromp- success has always de- magazine’s office in Providence was tu fundraiser generated $3,000 in just four pended on those who News vacated last June, and its furnishings days. The Options collective also sought the volunteer their time to have either been sold or donated to guidance of business advisers, who said the write, edit, and distribute other organizations. magazine should raise revenues by charging the magazine. With the exception of Stowell, who subscribers. The advertiser sup- receives a modest salary, the 28-year- The June/July 2009 issue was published with port has remained strong old monthly publication is put together a substantially smaller number of issues. Sub- despite the tough eco- by volunteers. The magazine depends scribers did not get copies, but instead received nomic climate. Stowell on donations to stay in operation, and a letter explaining the dire financial situation in noted many gay-owned as they have dwindled while the costs which the magazine had found itself. This cor- and operated businesses of printing have increased. respondence echoed a similar sentiment pub- use Options to sell their Additionally, the several board lished in Options. services. members of Options left as a result “We are serious when we say that without Stowell said the of the stress and demands of running your contributions Options might stop publish- monthly has a devoted a publication in an increasingly diffi- ing,” the letter read. “Due to serious financial core of readers who have cult economic times, said Stowell. difficulties Options has been facing, we could remained loyal through “It was a lot of work (for them)”, not afford to not print and mail the June/July the years. For them, the Stowell said. “They kind of burned issue. In response to that, a special fundrais- magazine serves as a out.” ing effort was undertaken by volunteers and way to unite the state’s Stowell also attributed the dearth friends of Options to pay for a limited edition LGBT community. of volunteers to a lack of interest from of this issue to be available at our usual distri- “So many people love

Rhode Island Island Rhode the community. bution sites.” this magazine,” Stowell Photo: Kim Stowell “People didn’t step up to help”, Stowell A small group of LGBT Rhode Islanders be- said. There’s still a need Team Options gan to publish Options in 1982 as a way to pro- for it.” why can’t weee be friends ... why can’t weee be friends ... 2b in the know 24/7 ... facebook.com/therainbowtimesnews twitter.com/ follow us ... therainbowtimes facebook.com/ therainbowtimesnews twitter.com/ therainbowtimes www.therainbowtimesnews.com

therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • June 3, 2010 - June 16, 2010 • 31 The OutField: Team Oregon takes on Cologne By: Dan Woog* be there. tivals and reaches out to swimmer in Klamath Falls. n his late 60s, Arde So far, Team Oregon has attracted more in- LGBT community centers However, Patton says, Johnson still com- dividual athletes – bodybuilders, swimmers, and campus groups. But “We haven’t heard a lot Ipetes as a body- runners, dancers – than teams. (Patton will – mindful that the Gay from him lately.” builder. When he and play on a softball squad created by Gay Games Games are not limited to Finding gay, lesbian, his partner moved to organizers; they form teams for players who do LGBT athletes – Patton bisexual and transgender Portland, OR, a few not have one. He may also throw the javelin, a says, “We’re as likely to athletes; getting them to- years ago, he left be- sport he enjoyed when he was younger.) have flyers and posters at gether to train; organizing hind an important part But those athletes come from a wide geo- gyms and bike shops as them and helping fund of his athletic and so- graphic area, making Team Oregon perhaps gay bars. We’re working their travel to Germany cial life: Team Palm the only statewide gay sports organization the gay angle, and also the – in the midst of a world- Springs, with which with a presence in Cologne. “We want to bring sports angle.” wide recession – is no easy he competed in the people together to train, compete and enhance Of course, there is also task. Dan Woog Gay Games. the whole experience,” explains Patton, now a Team Oregon Facebook “We recognize the obsta- As he told his new the president of Team Oregon. “It’s not like group. cles,” Patton acknowledg- Portland friends how much fun the Games are we’re going to meet each other for the first Many Oregonians react es. “But we think whatever – socially as well as athletically – he planted time once we get to Cologne.” like Patton did not long we can do to make a dif- a seed. Rob Patton listened with interest. Like It’s a long way from the West Coast to Eu- ago: “I never heard of the ference for people to go is many others in the LGBT community, Patton rope, so Team Oregon has embarked on sever- Gay Games!” Once they great. This is the first time had known little about the Games. And like al money-raising efforts. Members earn points learn about the Games – a we’re doing this as a state- them, he grew excited about the possibility of for participating in each event. Funds will be social and cultural gather- wide group. We’re learn- going to Cologne for the 2010 event. distributed based on point totals. ing, as well as an athletic ing as we go along. The “I got drawn in like the tractor beam in ‘Star The owner of West Café donated 10 percent competition open to every- next time around, we’ll be Wars,’” says Patton, a softball player. Port- of the funds from a wine dinner to the group. one regardless of ability or Rob Patton that much smarter.” landers had always participated in the Gay More creatively, Team Oregon members so- experience – they think: “I Games, of course. But not in any organized licited pledges based on the number of laps can go to Germany and compete in a sport I’ve For more information on Team Oregon, visit way. Individual athletes fund raised, made ho- they’d run around Portland’s Pioneer Square always wanted to try, but never even done!” www.TeamOregon2010.org. For more infor- tel arrangements and traveled on their own. – in Speedos. They realize Team Oregon can help, and they mation on the Gay Games, visit www.gayg- Now they are doing it together. Thanks to Small and medium-sized businesses have start planning (and training) in earnest. amescologne.com. Johnson’s inspiration, and the organizational contributed up to $300 for exposure on Team In addition to money and logistics, Patton’s efforts of people like Patton, Team Oregon Oregon’s website. Bigger corporations with organization faces the challenge of moving *Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer will send a few dozen athletes to Germany sports connections in Portland’s backyard beyond the metropolis of Portland and cos- coach, gay activist, and author of the “Jocks” this summer. When Gay Games VII ends in – Nike and the North American headquarters mopolitan cities like Eugene. “There are some series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his August, the umbrella group will continue to of Adidas – are also being solicited. pretty small towns in eastern Oregon where website at www.danwoog.com. He can be support gay sports in the state. And when the It is important, Patton says, to raise both it’s tough to be gay,” he notes. “My dream reached care of this publication or at Out- 2014 Gay Games opens in Cleveland, Patton money and awareness. To help the latter mis- is to reach those people. We’re still trying to [email protected]. hopes “a couple of hundred” Oregonians will sion, Team Oregon staffs booths at Pride fes- unearth them.” As an example, he points to a

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