The Siblings Issue INTRODUCING NEW SIBLINGS { MORE THAN NIGHTMARES? EDITOR in CHIEF Amanda Dunyak
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NANNYJuly 2018 MAGAZINEteach | play | love SUMMER IN YOUR CITY BALACING YOUR CAREER The Siblings Issue INTRODUCING NEW SIBLINGS { MORE THAN NIGHTMARES? EDITOR IN CHIEF Amanda Dunyak ASSOCIATE EDITOR Michelle Galetta MARKETING/SOCIAL MEDIA EDITORS Stephanie Magrisso and Nicola Manton NEWSLETTER & INSTAGRAM EDITOR Jill Ciganek CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Chelsey Bahe, Jamie Chilton, Marie Chir, Jill Ciganek, Iris Gohn, Stephanie Felzenberg, Sarah Elaine Kennedy, Matthew Lister, Kate Mulligan (MS, RDN), Nico- la Manton, Natalie Paniashavilli, Lynn Poules, Carol Slager, Dr. Michael Warmoth, Alexaraye Vallejo CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Lori Koblanski, Natalie McKnight, Brianna Smith CONNECT WITH NANNY MAGAZINE www.nannymag.com www.twitter.com/NannyMagazine www.facebook.com/NannyMagazine www.instagram.com/NannyMagazine PUBLISHER Jennifer Kuhn, MPS ADVISORY BOARD Daniel Butcher, Stephanie Bauchum, Lisa DesBoine, Sheila Fortson, Stephanie Felzenberg, Jennifer Gay, Michelle LaRowe COPYRIGHT 2018 Nanny Magazine Publication, LLC. All rights reserved. No portion of this publication may be reproduced without express written consent from Nanny Magazine Publication, LLC. CONTACT AND ADVERTISE To advertise in Nanny Magazine, email [email protected] Media kit, editorial calendar, and rates available online at www.nannymag.com For subscriptions, inquiries, change of address, and back issues, email [email protected] 2 | JULY 2018 ContentsJULY 2018 FEATURE FOOD 8 Meet Stephanie 7 Blueberry Felzenberg Obsession 14 Summer in the City 40 Beautiful Picnics 18 Your Personal Brand 44 They See 20 Nannying for Me Rollin’ Singletons 46 Homemade 22 A Balancing Act Cold Treats 24 Big Brother, Big Sister FUN 11 Data Blitz 26 Goodbye, Sibling Rivalry 12 Poem: If You Wake with Fright 38 Nannies and Pets 28 Summer Writing Challenges ADVICE 5 Kids’ Health 32 Explore Nature 6 Misbehaving 33 Collective Wisdom Neighbors 43 Sippy Cup Slam Photo via Unsplash. NANNY MAGAZINE | 3 Editor’s Note What is it about summer that makes memories come flooding in? This time of year always takes me back to childhood, when school was out and the days And so with the seemed like they’d stretch ahead forever. It always came as such a surprise when late August rolled around with its quickened pace and that rush that sunshine and the comes with back-to-school shopping, the excitement over the endless possi- great bursts of bilities of a fresh new Trapper Keeper. My siblings and I would pose for our parents in front of our little house, a shoe size bigger, a nice bronze glow. We leaves growing held up placards to document what grades we would be starting that morning, on the trees, just heading back to a place that was at once familiar and yet somehow so foreign. as things grow Our own childhoods can be like that as they slip away in the rearview mirror. Thinking back, it’s easy to recognize it as distinctly your own, but it grows in fast movies, I distant and the essence fades. Those memories I made with my siblings, building our own rickety “carnivals” in the back yard (in case my parents had that familiar were ever wondering what happened to all our laundry baskets, they became conviction that “rides…” sorry), swimming in our pool, watching fireworks from the bed of Dad’s truck, driving up to Maine to visit family, drinking Slush Puppies and life was beginning waiting for the ice cream truck to come by, my sister bringing home stray over again with animals from just about everywhere, the closeness... I miss those things now. In those days all I ever wanted was my own room, away from my younger the summer. sister. These days, my siblings and I live several states away and see each other only a few times a year. Isn’t it funny how priorities shift? F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby This issue highlights siblings: what it means to be one, what it means to never be one, how to care for them, and how, in some ways, nannies are a lot like siblings. Also included, we have a special interview with Stephanie Felzenberg, tips for a perfect nature walk this summer, and Iris Gohn dishes about trendy stir-fried ice cream. Mr. Manny Matthew Lister helps us define personal brand, and our kids’ health column features tips for keeping the littles safe outdoors this summer. We top it all off with our usual suspects, like our fun-filled data blitz, to make for a perfect poolside read whether you choose the print or online format. Anyhoo, that’s enough for now. Grab your favorite ice cream and pool float and read on for more! Jennifer Kuhn NM’s Publisher 4 | JULY 2018 Photo via Unsplash. Kids’ Health Dr. Michael Warmoth, Pediatrician at Heal Photo via Brianna Smith. SUN If any of the children are younger than six months old, shade is your best option. A sunscreen with a SPF rating of 15 or higher is recommended Dear Dr. Warmoth, if some amount of exposure is unavoidable. For kids over six months, a wide-brimmed hat or swim shirt in addition to sunscreen would be helpful. I nanny for three Remember that sunscreen should ideally be applied 20 minutes before sun kids under 6, and exposure and reapplied after two hours, or sooner if just getting out of the all of them are water. Look for sunscreens with protection against UVA as well as UVB rays. significantly engaged in outdoor activities HEAT during the summer Common sense is important here. If you check the weather forecast and there is a heat advisory, plan some indoor or shaded activities. You are right months. What are the about the need for hydration. For the ages you mentioned, water breaks ev- precautions I should ery 20-30 minutes consisting of a couple ounces or more are recommend- take to ensure that ed. Having breaks is crucial for their bodies as well, as it allows them to cool everyone has a down a little from constant activity. fun-filled and safe WATER summer? How much Swimming is one of the best things about summer for kids. For children fluid intake is five and under, recommendations are to have them no more than an arm’s- appropriate for length away. Older children who are good swimmers can have a little more room to swim. Consider life jackets that are USCG-approved for those who children? Is it based are not strong swimmers. Bring some responsible friends if you’re outnum- on age, weight, bered to help watch the kids if you are heading to the beach. Swim where physical exertion, there are lifeguards (if possible) and obey flag warnings, swimming only on outdoor temperature? green flag days. BITING INSECTS It is great to hear that Mosquitoes and ticks can certainly put a damper on summer fun. For mos- you and the kids will be quitoes, avoid dawn and dusk outdoor activities, as these tend to be when active this summer. the pests are most active. Long-sleeved shirts and pants can be your first line of defense. For additional protection, bug spray can be effective. DEET Here are some tips: and Picaridin are perhaps the most effective in this regard. If using DEET, I recommend no more than 10% strength and reapplication after two hours. This article does not constitute medical advice An alternative to these is bug repellants with oil of lemon eucalyptus or 2% and should not be taken as such. Dr. Warmoth and Nanny Magazine Publication, LLC do not soybean oil. If hiking or playing in a known “tick area,” be sure the kids are endorse this information as medical advice. checked before bedtime for any ticks on their skin. Always use your best judgment and refer medical issues to your charge’s parents and pediatricians. Always call 911 in an emergency. Best of luck making wonderful summer memories with your charges! NANNY MAGAZINE | 5 Dear Stephanie, Dear Not Their Nanny, My NannyFamily's neighbor kids This is a difficult situation because you need to stand up for yourself and don't have a nanny, but one or the children left in your care, without seeming rude toward the members both of their parents are always of the family living next door. home with them. They're roughly You should talk with your employers and ask them to help you brain- the same ages as my charges, so storm for solutions. List the specific issues you are having with the neigh- they are often getting together for bor and how her behaviors are negatively influencing your 9-year-old play dates during the school year. charge. Now that it's summer and school Then, I suggest making clear rules that should be expected of all visi- is out, the neighbor kids are over tors to your NannyFamily’s home while you are working. Let the children my NannyFamily's house all the you care for, and all of their friends, know the behaviors that are expected time (almost every day, in fact, for when they are visiting the NannyFamily’s house. For instance, if the neigh- several hours at a stretch). I know bor’s child is using offensive language, be specific and tell the child that from some of the online nanny using this language is against the rules. groups I'm part of that I should Tell the neighbor child if she breaks the rules or behaves inappropriate- be asking for additional compen- ly that playtime will be over and the child will be sent home. If you need to sation for this, but the thing is, I send the child home you should tell her parents that she broke the house- actually just don't want to be in hold rules and that is why she needs to go home for the rest of the day.