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Fall 2018 "...a path from where we are to where we should be." --Peter Maurin Gender 101: Why This Issue? Terms & Definitions When we first began discussing and preparing for this edition of theRound Table, the planning committee thought it was important to develop and share a page of terms and definitions with our readers. We recognize that this language might I’m new to these concepts about gender, and I’m guessing some of our most loyal readers are new to be new to many of us, so we are grateful to be learning with and alongside you! All of the information below was developed them too. Learning new language and concepts can often make me feel uncomfortable and sometimes by the Trans Student Educational Resources. defensive too. But when I remember that it is a liberating thing that people are finding new ways to be understood in the world, I am inspired to keep learning and to accept discomfort as part of growth. Gender Identity: One's internal sense of be- This issue is all about how people experience gender - it includes a resource for definitions and ing male, female, neither of these, both, language and some powerful pieces about parenting, the women’s movement, liberation, and how or another gender(s). gender looks in different cultures. Our committee has learned a lot from the process of putting this issue together, and we hope you will too. Gender Expression/Presentation: The physical manifestation of one's gender First in this issue is a page of useful definitions on which I continue to puzzle. Identity is an evolving identity through clothing, hairstyle, voice, thing. Annjie’s wonderful account of how the Karen House community continues to learn and grow body shape, etc. Many folks seek to make comes next. Then, there is Jessica’s story about transitioning from male to female while in a Missouri their gender expression match their gender maximum security prison. It is an astonishing account of the rise of the human spirit. identity. Noelle and Morgan both express their pain eloquently and each one offers a different analysis of Sex Assigned at Birth: The assignment the trans person’s search for a community, for a place in society. These are both powerful and difficult and classification of people as male, fe- essays to read because they are both doing analysis in the midst of their experience. Stick with them. male, intersex, or another sex based on a combination of anatomy, hormones, and chromosomes. Mandy is working to raise three children with the freedom to choose who they are. Carly skates on a roller derby squad that is working to better welcome welcome trans persons and has helped open Sexual Orientation: One's physical, roman- Carly’s eyes to the failings of the women’s movement. Annie shares with us about the power of open- tic, emotional, aesthetic, and/or other form ing oneself up to the Divine Feminine. of attraction to others. Gender identity and sexual orientation are NOT the same. The Catholic Worker turned 85 this past May. Maria describes the gathering to celebrate and also The Gender Unicorn graphic was created in 2014 and has been used as a training to continue to clarify our thought about responses to sexual assault as well as racism and whether Gender Binary: The categorization of gender tool and educational resource for thousands of schools across the world. It was property damage constitutes a violent act. Finally, the letter from Karen House relates our own current into two distinct, opposite sexes. created by a team of young transgender TSER volunteers to comprehensively struggles and all the support the house is receiving during these days of transition. And it invites you, illustrate and discuss the separation between sexuality, gender, and sex assigned dear reader, to consider lending a hand – literally. at birth. The goal of the graphic is to help create a healthy educational environ- Trans/Transgender: An umbrella term applied ment for young trans people through facilitating understanding and suggesting to those whose gender identity is not the small shifts from gendered rhetoric toward gender neutral terminology. same as the sex they were assigned at birth. Source: www.transstudent.org/gender - Mary Ann McGivern Cis/Cisgender: Someone who identifies exclusively as their sex assigned at birth. Queer: A general term for gender and sexual minorities who are not cisgender and/or heterosexual. This term has a compli- Cover: Kristina Vidovic cated history as a reclaimed slur. Centerfold: Sean Ferguson and Jenny The Trans Student Educational Resources (TSER) is a youth-led organization dedicated to transform- The Round Table is the quarterly journal of Catholic Worker life and thought in St. Louis. Subscriptions are free. ing the educational environment for trans and gender nonconforming students through advocacy and Please write to The Round Table, 1840 Hogan, St. Louis, MO. 63106. Donations are gladly accepted to help us empowerment. TSER believes that ending oppression is a long-term process that can only be achieved continue our work. People working on this issue include: Sarah Nash, Jenny Truax, Haley Shoaf, Sean Ferguson, through collaborative action. Check them out at www.transstudent.org! and Mary Ann McGivern. As always, letters to the editor are welcomed. 2 33 In 2012 we created a new Karen House values state- unwelcome, or not inclusive. As a trans guest described Deepening Our Welcome ment which stated that, “We especially and explicitly Karen House (to another transperson), “Karen House is extend this personalist welcome to those that society trans-welcoming, but not trans-educated.” has deemed less than human--people of color, lesbian, It was gratifying to see from the memories and at Karen House gay, bisexual, and transgender people, the very young thoughts of many people who currently or formerly lived by Annjie Schiefelbein and very old, immigrants, women, people with different at Karen House that our initial steps did make a difference. abilities, and the poor”. We created this document so that Six people I interviewed remarked independently about people interested in our community would understand posters that were in the house – one challenging the gen- our values and what we were about. We also, at the time, der binary around 2008 based on the poem by Nancy R. Nothing will make a person feel their age more than had conversations with our guests about this change. Smith and published by Crimethinc, and one celebrating getting asked to write a “historical perspectives” article. I Many community members of that time remember different targeted identities that Jenny Truax created in am, gratefully, my age, and have 25 years of Karen House that it went very well, although in retrospect, again, our 2011, inspired by work from Southerners on New Ground. history to look back on, so I accept this task with humility, language and presentation may have not been what we When they saw the signs, they all described feeling wel- if not intimidation. would chose today. comed and amazed that they found a place they might Karen House has a lot to teach new house members. The document was an important public step, one that be able to call home. So even within our faltering steps The Catholic Worker and Karen House practice has offered reached people visiting our website and people who read and lack of relationships, we continued to move forward. many of us new understandings and ways of living in the our values statements on our walls. But our community Perhaps the most significant step forward in our world, and a lot of amazing philosophy, traditions, and did not include anyone who was transgender; we knew specific welcome to transgender people was beginning practices. But this has never been a one-way street. Each we were missing the perspective of people who had first a relationship with MTUG (Metro Trans Umbrella Group) new person comes to Karen House with new knowledge, person experience and analysis. In 2016 we utilized re- of St. Louis. In 2016 we contacted MTUG to do a training. identities and experiences, expanding the community sources from The National Center for Transgender Equal- The training was phenomenal, and renewed our convic- in ways that we had previously not known we could (or ity to examine our policies and our physical set up in order tion to make our welcome overt to the trans community. should) expand. Karen House has always been a space to help make our welcome clear and visible. This was an The presenters reiterated to us that there are no safe that is willing to change, to take in new information and attempt to “put our money where our mouth was” and places for trans folks who are experiencing homeless- live in the discomfort of birthing new realities. Consider- to look specifically at the ways we were being exclusive, ness in St. Louis (and most other cities). Either they are ing our community’s understanding of sexual orientation, for example, I think my coming out as gay (though Sue and "Perhaps the most significant step forward in our specific welcome Tim and others had done it long before us) and living with to transgender people was beginning a relationship with MTUG my partner Jenny in community pushed my own learning (Metro Trans Umbrella Group) of St. Louis." edge and also brought the community forward in many ways. Many queer folks living at Karen House since have or judgement.” The first lifting up of the trans community continued to push the learning further. in the Round Table appears in our 2006 issue on LGBT How we came to an understanding of gender has issues.