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Check out “Mikey Rox’s Ultimate Guide to Gay Gift Giving” p18 & 20 2 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Pinkwashing in Israel distracts attention from Yes, Rick, the “family” is the larger human-rights violations, a call to action By: Jason Lydon/TRT Columnist with social justice. bedrock of our society he month of November was “Out in Israel Given this excellent By: Nicole Lashomb*/TRT Editor-in-Chief by politicians and other pseudo-leaders like Month,” as organized by the Consulate history, we are dis- s the 2012 Presidential election Santorum for decades. I equate this rhetoric General of Israel, Israel Campus Round mayed by your part- to be used in the same convoluted way that T nears, the Republican candi- Table, Jewish Community Relations Council, the nership with ‘Out Adates have become more and the term “Christian” has been tarnished too. Boston LGBT Film Festival, among others. Indi- in Israel’ and the more preposterous and pervasive in Families come in all forms and true Christians viduals riding the MBTA throughout the Greater corresponding film their personal views about Americans, or any other religious group for that matter Boston Area were bombarded with ads celebrat- selection, ‘Mom & our collective society and neo-conser- should not spread hate and discrimination. ing Israel’s inclusiveness of LGBT people. In Dad: I Have Some- vative views. In what I believe to be a I agree with Santorum, the family is the bed- an OP-ED last month, Sarah Schulman explains thing to Tell You.’ desperate attempt at gaining wide sup- rock of our society and our country will fall the history of what is called “pinkwashing,” the Through this part- Jason Lydon port around the country from their his- unless we protect the institution of marriage- branding of Israel as a safe-haven for LGBTQ nership, you make o p inion torically social conservative base, the -ALL marriages and ALL families. folks while simultaneously directing attention use of your authority to lend positive publicity potential presidential candidates have focused However, let’s set aside moral corruptness away to the heinous human rights abuses Israel to a government whose human rights violations on hot buttons issues once again such as gay and the “right” for leaders to actively discrimi- is perpetrating against the indigenous people of have attracted worldwide censure. Moreover, you marriage and the institu- nate against the LGBT Palestine. She directs readers’ attention to the form a partnership with ‘Out in Israel’ in spite of tion of “family.” community. Does he even work of Jasbir Puar who names the propensity of an international cultural boycott of Israel -- led by Regardless of unfounded I agree with Santorum, realize the success and LGBTQ support for militaristic nationalism, such Palestinian artists and allies -- to protest the brutal claims, a 2011 Gallup poll the family is the economic growth that has as celebrating the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and illegal occupation.” The letter continued, in- discovered that a major- taken place in the states with no analysis of the empire building led by the forming the leadership of the film festival about ity of Americans support bedrock of our society that have allowed gay U.S. military, “homonationalism.” It is ideologies the reality of Israel’s occupation of Palestinian same-sex marriage. Nearly marriage? Or is he battling like these that those of us with privileged racial, land and the ways they are using our communi- every political classifica- and our country will fall his internal demons so class, gender and citizenship identities need to ties to legitimize their continued colonization. tion saw a rise in the per- much that he can only fo- be cautious of adopting while we think we are The letter was signed by nearly 100 individuals centage of their affiliated unless we protect the cus on the anti-gay move- achieving rights or “equality.” and yet the Boston LGBT Film Festival contin- members who favor mar- institution of marriage-- ment, regardless of how In response to the pinkwashing agenda in Bos- ued to use its name as a sponsor of the Consulate riage equality--Democrats, much it would benefit the ton a group of people came together to write let- General of Israel’s campaign. Liberals, Conservatives, ALL marriages and ALL nation? ters, distribute petitions, and organize attendance Another local organization, Gay and Lesbian Moderates, and Indepen- Last year, CBS news or pickets of particular events. The letter to the Advocates and Defenders (GLAD), partnered dents, with the exception families. reported that in states that Boston LGBT Film Festival began as such: “We with the “Out in Israel” campaign for a break- of Republicans. Their “ap- allow gay marriage such would like to thank you for your inspired contri- fast panel conversation. A letter was also sent to proval rating” was the exact same as last year, as Massachusetts, Vermont, New Hampshire butions to the LGBT community and to Boston, GLAD, which will hopefully lead to a meeting only 28%. and Iowa, hundreds of jobs have been created more generally. Your past film selections evince between community members and GLAD lead- due to the nuptials and millions of dollars in- According to a report from the Huffington a commitment to diversity and a preoccupation See Pinkwashing on page 13 Post, potential Republican candidate Rick fused into state economies. Santorum stated: If gay marriage had not been overturned “We have to fight the battles in the states,” in California, gay couples were projected to Letters to the Editor The Rainbow Times he said at an Iowa Thanksgiving Family Fo- spend $684 million on flowers, cakes, hotels, The Freshest LGBT Newspaper rum “We cannot defer. We can’t say, ‘The photographers and other wedding services Dear Editor, in New England 10th Amendment, they can do what they over a three-year time period alone. This in- I’ve been a loyal reader of the Rainbow www.therainbowtimesnews.com want.’ This is too important for that. There’s formation can be verified by the Williams In- Times for almost 2 years and I commend a basic and central value. The family is the stitute at University of California, Los Ange- you for the work you do. I see that your team [email protected] bedrock of our society. Unless we protect it les School of Law. has diversity on its cover and throughout the [email protected] with the institution of marriage, our country So, considering all things Mr. Santorum, I’m paper. I have followed your trans coverage Phone: 413.282.8881, 617.444.9618 will fall.” not sure who exactly would support your and your LGB too. I think you appeal to or Fax: 888-442-2421 The concept of “family” has been polluted See Opinion on page 3 many of us, young and old, white and people of color, English and Spanish speaking and Publisher Columnists you try to put it all into one very good publi- Gricel M. Ocasio Lorelei Erisis Calling all LGBT business owners, cation. But, I have to mention that I’ve failed Editor-In-Chief Deja N. Greenlaw to see more bisexual coverage. By being Nicole Lashomb Paul P. Jesep here’s an opportunity for you your Facebook fan I’ve seen such coverage Assistant Editor Jason Lydon there, but not as much in the paper. I’d like Brianna Snyder Tynan Power The National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of By: Jenn Tracz Grace*/CABO’s Executive Director to see more of it in the years to come. And, Sales Associates Jenn Tracz re you LGBT? Do Commerce is the certifying body for this pro- one last thing, I attend most of the events in Chris Gilmore John Verlinden you own a busi- gram and any local affiliate can assist you in be- Northampton and western Massachusetts. Liz Johnson Aness? Did you know coming certified. I am your resource in Connect- I must say that _I am disgusted by the gay Lead Photographer Reporters there is LGBT business cer- icut and there are resources in each other state men and their lack of support of our commu- Glenn Koetzner Chuck Colbert tification you can receive you may reside in. If you want to be pointed in nity_. As a trans man, I see how very nicely Webmaster Clara Lefton that provides you with ac- the right direction, please e-mail me, jtracz@ welcome I am in gay circles and when I Jarred Johnson Christine Nicco cess to corporations that thecabo.org. There are huge business opportuni- speak of other events, put out by our lesbian Tynan Power ties to be had through these initiatives, so please Lead Designer are looking to do business sisters, I see that gay men are mostly absent Colleen Lennon Casey Rocheteau with you? This concept is take advantage of them! from them. 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See Letters on page 3 cannot be reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 3 Governor Patrick signs Mass. Transgender Equal Rights Bill Letters from page 2 Successful Senate & House vote; law will go into effect July 12, 2012 Dear Editor, By: Chuck Colbert/TRT Reporter cluded in an earlier version of the bill but were an amendment, proposed by Representative Paul I didn’t care for your endorsement of Mi- Gov. Deval Patrick has made history once dropped in a redrafting of the measure by the Frost (R-Andover), to gut the bill of its civil- chael Bardsley. I think that had he been less again by quickly signing the Transgender Equal House Committee on the Judiciary, whose chair- rights protections, leaving only provisions for negative in his campaigning, he could’ve Rights Bill last week. Prior to the historic signa- man is Representative Eugene L. O’Flaherty hate-crimes protections. won. But, I did like your endorsement of Alex ture, the Massachusetts House of Representa- (D-Chelsea). Earlier in the day, a small group of lawmak- Morse. He rocks! tives approved its measure on Tuesday evening, The bill’s detractors zeroed in on fears about ers opposed to a bill said it would distract the -- Jason Trumbull, Holyoke, MA Nov. 15. The law will extend civil-rights and public safety in restrooms and locker rooms. In Legislature from creating jobs and improving the hate-crimes protections to transgender residents an effort to derail the measure, opponents deri- economy and that the bill would usher in a flood by July 1, 2012. sively labeled it a “bathroom bill.” of lawsuits and hurt small business. Dear Editor, The vote was 95 – 58, with only one Repub- Under current law, race, color, religious creed, “This is a bill about Beacon Hill once again The column by Pastor Jesep particularly lican voting in favor of the bill, Representative national origin, sex, sexual orientation, age, taking up the wrong priorities,” said Representa- spoke to me with reference to Apostle Paul Daniel B. Winslow of Norfolk. among other categories are protected classes. tive Marc Lombardo, a Republican from Billeri- and his love for others. It made me meditate “This is our moment,” said attorney Jennifer The bill would add the term gender identity to ca. The bill “exposes small businesses to unwant- about the lack of love that many of us in the Levi, Transgender Rights Project director for the the list. GLBT community share, or not. I was at an Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders. The bill defines that term as “a person’s gen- See Equal Rights Bill on page 10 event not too long ago when a trans guy was “There is a deeper understanding in this build- der-related identity, appearance or behavior, speaking negatively about community orga- ing about the need for these protections,” Levi whether or not that gender-related identity, ap- Opinion from page 2 nizations and even the Times. I did not like said, adding, “The number of people who have pearance or behavior is different from that tradi- anti-gay campaign, certainly not the major- it and it was embarrassing to me as a trans now met with legislators and talked about the re- tionally associated with the person’s physiology ity of Americans--they already stand in our woman. I think that love amongst all of us is ality of their lives made the issue understandable.” or assigned sex at birth. Gender-related identity corner--remember? Even 28% of Republi- what will really resonate and unite us when “There are no legal arguments left to oppose may be shown by providing evidence including, cans support marriage equality. Considering mainstream right wing America hits us with civil-rights protections,” said Levi. but not limited to, medical history, care or treat- these numbers, who exactly are you trying a low blow, as it often does. To put down The transgender civil-rights bill will add pro- ment of the gender-related identity, consistent to influence by introducing such volatile GLBT efforts by organizations that sup- tections based on “gender identity” to the statutes and uniform assertion of the gender-related iden- comments? The other 72% of Republicans? port us is the same as joining and preaching banning discrimination in employment, housing, tity or any other evidence that the gender-related It cannot be ignored that Independents are hatred for the right wing movement. Any education, and credit. It would also add gender identity is sincerely held, as part of a person’s often the individuals that end up deciding GLBT organization, business and individual identity to current hate-crimes laws. core identity; provided however, gender-related the election. Spreading hate for the LGBT that engages itself or himself in these types The measure, however, does not include pro- identity shall not be asserted for any improper community doesn’t seem to win their vote of deprecating insults should be considered tections for public accommodations, such as purpose.” either. But, please, allow your ludicrous as anti-gay as NOM, American Family As- hotels and restaurants, restrooms, locker rooms, Beacon Hill was a whirl of activity yesterday rhetoric to continue. It makes us that much sociation, the Christian Coalition, Abiding public buildings and transit, including subway as lawmakers attempted to close out the legisla- closer to attaining marriage equality simply Truth Ministries, Concerned Women for and bus lines. tive session. by keeping you out of office. America, MassResistance and many others. That omission bothers a lead sponsor of the The vote on the transgender bill came be- If you don’t love your community, then don’t bill, Representative Carl M. Sciortino, Jr. (D- fore 9:00 p.m. and after an unsuccessful attempt Nicole Lashomb be a part of it. If you are spiritual at all then Medford). But he said, the bill is a step forward to refer the legislation to the Ways and Means *Nicole Lashomb is a seasoned journalist practice this: “If you don’t have anything “It makes sure that people who have faced vio- Committee for study on the measure’s effect on and graphic designer. She holds an MBA from nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” lence and discrimination have legal remedy.” state finances. Marylhurst University and a Bachelor’s de- -- Jane Hurteau, Springfield, MA Public accommodations provisions were in- The vote also came after lawmakers defeated 4 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Faith, Family, and God -- Holiday Stocking Stuffer TRT Book Review: The Gay Gospels By: Paul P. Jesep*/TRT Columnist cate and his committed team have witnessed By: Paul P. Jesep*/TRT Columnist ample, the sexuality of Jesus. In light of the close Everyone loves a stocking stuffer. It firsthand “the suffering of thousands of these Dr. Keith Sharpe, a Christian gay writer and male relationships Christ had the author invites doesn’t matter if it’s small. Size isn’t teens.” activist in London, has authored a new book the reader to consider Jesus’ gayness. The Bible important. Don’t be embarrassed if it’s “I have no doubt that this twofold phenom- titled The Gay Gospels. He takes what can often describes John the Evangelist as Jesus’ “be- modest. There is no such thing as too enon of family rejection and homelessness,” be a heavy religious topic and presents it in a loved” disciple. small. Don’t worry about its staying he observes “is the most terrible expression of crisp, readable, direct manner. Dr. Sharpe suggests that the relationship may power. Do what you can with what you homophobia in our times.” Each chapter is started with one page execu- have been more than platonic. He writes of Je- have. The depth and quality of love is Most unfortunate, however, is the response tive summaries. It makes the book especially sus’ humanness. According to the author, the expressed in many ways. Just the effort from the LGBT adult community. Siciliano valuable as a resource to confront opponents of patriarchal churches cannot deny that Jesus was says you care. notes that the response has been “appallingly LGBT and Searching acceptance. If the well- sexual, experienced desire, and had “erections If you’re looking to complete your little. In the entire country, fewer than 250 crafted summaries are used, however, then do and nocturnal emissions as all other men do.” gift-giving with something special or shelter beds have been established for more so after reading the actual scripture passages he For some it won’t be the conclusions that he add a little bit extra in the stocking this than 100,000 homeless LBGT youth. Protect- discusses. It’s best to know what he’s discussing generates that are necessarily new, but the pro- year then please consider doing it in ing homeless LGBT youth does not register on and not regurgitate it. cess to get there that makes the book an interest- the spirit of the holiday’s meaning. A the radar of the political priorities of our move- The author covers a lot of ground from ana- ing read. Others who want nothing to do with donation to AliForneyCenter.org in the ment. Our national advocacy organizations lyzing Sodom and Gomorrah to the perceived religion will find Dr. Sharpe’s book a very warm name of a friend or family member will devote few, if any, resources toward homeless homophobia of Apostle Paul. If you’ve ever read invitation to see how the Bible is pro-LGBT and go a long way to lessening the consum- LGBT youth, and have developed no national other pro-LGBT and Searching Christian writers Searching. And for activists the book’s execu- erism that has become the reason for the strategy to respond to their horrific plight.” you’ll find that this book takes a fresh approach. tive summaries can be a very valuable tool. For season. Although LGBT and Searching adult advo- In several cases his discussions are provoca- more information go to www.TheGayGospels. The Ali Forney Center in New York cates have made things like marriage equal- tive. Some pro-LGBT and Searching Christian com. City takes care of homeless LGBT and ity, military service and DOMA priorities, the writers, historians, and theologians, however, *Paul also writes the Faith, Family, and God Searching youth. These are teens who homeless youth have been forgotten. would not agree. He discusses at length, for ex- column in The Rainbow Times.

in the name o f g od have been rejected, abandoned, and “I strongly believe,” writes Siciliano, “that if emotionally abused. They are our great- we truly made the safety and welfare of these est treasure, our brightest hope, and are some of kids a strong priority, then LGBT-supportive Thinking Out Loud: Homosexual Difficulties: The scary the most vulnerable among us. politicians would not dare try to throw them in According to Carl Siciliano, executive di- the streets and jeopardize their lives to resolve truth about one Osmond brother’s family-friendly website rector of the Ali Forney Center, “LGBT youth their budget challenges.” By: Abby Dees*/Special for TRT for being a far-right wing nut. Here’s how: homelessness has become an epidemic.” In an State and city budget cuts have slashed pro- I had meant to write about Give regular props to Glenn Beck. Fill your article, Siciliano refers to a 2010 report by the grams for homeless youth programs by 50 per- serious LGBT news this blog with video links showing an over-caffeinat- Center for American Progress: “as much as 40 cent. If every reader of The Rainbow Times week, but I accidently fell ed Beck at his blackboard of doom. Also use lots percent of the entire homeless youth popula- made a gift in someone’s name this holiday down the sinkhole of celeb- of capital letters and exclamation marks, espe- tion in our country is LGBT. Even in a place season in any amount then he or she can take rity gossip – in particular, the cially for words like “AMERICA,” “CAPITAL- as liberal and accepting as New York City, an comfort knowing that the world is a little less goings on of one Alan Os- ISM,” and “TERRORIST!” For extra hysteria, LGBT teen is eight times more likely to be- cold and harsh. You can play a direct role in mond (yes, those Osmonds). post bogus forwarded emails about Nancy Pelosi come homeless than is a straight teen.” giving meaning to the holiday designated to It started with a video of the and Obama as if they’re news. Siciliano has worked with homeless LGBT celebrate love, peace, goodwill and fellowship. former star discussing how Tell people to be afraid, very, very afraid. Then youth for over 17 years. This tireless advo- Chuck Norris was consulted tell them not to be afraid because they’re righ- See Faith, Family, and God on page 9 Abby Dees to help make the boys less teous and good. Repeat. It helps to suggest that effeminate. They wanted to be “tough,” Alan said we’re preparing for some kind of war, but be an unsettling number of times. vague about the specifics. Periodically get senti- When I hear about people hiring experts to mental about WWII. Those were the days, even if make them less girly, it has you were born in 1949. a faint smell of gay panic. Use cartoons to explain Naturally, I wanted to When I hear about how China is about to buy know more. I learned that Europe. On that note, post Alan is the proud owner of people hiring experts subtlety racist cartoons about thefamily.com, dedicated Obama to lighten things to “strengthening the fam- to make them less up, and throw in a link to ily” through inspirational the “2011 Woman Driver words and clip-art about girly, it has a faint Awards.” Also, feel free to God, gardening tips, holi- pitch your multi-level market- day recipes, and countless smell of gay panic. ing body-care line in between nerve-rattling reports on the imminent collapse stories on who’s really behind of civilization. Homosexuality – or “homosexual the Occupy Wall Street movement (The Nazis difficulties” – is right up there with Marxism and and the Black Panthers). tsunamis. And don’t forget the homosexual agenda. I don’t mean to pick on Alan, because he’s not What all of this has to do with the family is not the most egregious homophobe around. But his completely clear. And when it comes to homosex- website is riveting because it’s a perfect template See Thinking Out Loud on page 13

As affordable as Internet Dating with the personal touch of a Matchmaker www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 5 A very Gaga Holiday, Queen Latifah, Cheyenne Jackson and Nathan Lane By: Romeo San Vicente*/Special for TRT A Very Gaga Hol- iday Season Leave it to Lady Gaga to avoid the typical when it comes to holiday specials. Instead of joining the Christ- mas onslaught and risking getting lost in the shuffle of one-off TV events, Gaga’s A Very Gaga Holiday will not only allow her to get the jump on every other entry but put her in the more rarefied atmosphere occupied by very few other Thanksgiv- ing-themed and other holiday specials. In other words, she’s chosen the esteemed company of Charlie Brown over Kathie Lee Gifford. The ABC special will feature Gaga performing her new single “Marry Photo credit: Joe Seer/Shutterstock.com The Night” as well as her recent duet with charismatic chilly presence left an indelible mark Tony Bennett, “The Lady Is A Tramp.” on every minute of the series. Now Rapace is re- She’ll be interviewed by Katie Couric, teaming with Dragon Tattoo director Niels Arden perform her version of “White Christmas” Oplev for an English language film co-starring (it never hurts to hedge your bets) and help Colin Farrell. In Dead Man Down, she’ll play a chef Art Smith make deep-fried turkey woman who seduces a gangster just so she can dee p inside hollywood with waffles – presumably, while dressed blackmail him afterward. The film starts shooting as a bottle of Mrs. Butterworth’s syrup. in early 2012, with a probable 2013 release date Queen Latifah needs to talk to you about… to follow. Sounds like another role that calls for a Back in 1999, Queen Latifah was still transition- strong woman, and Rapace is more than capable ing from a hip-hop career, where she was known of it. Just don’t call it typecasting; think of it as primarily as a rapper, to a film and singing career. building a brand. And around that time she got her own talk show, Cheyenne Jackson and Nathan Lane, playing The Queen Latifah Show. It didn’t last long, but it straight? that was before Oprah left the field wide open for What kind of sitcom would you expect to see a successor and the last 11 years saw Latifah’s ca- from two gay actors like Nathan Lane and Chey- reer skyrocket to the A-list (even though her sexual enne Jackson? How about one where there’s no orientation remains the subject of public specula- mention of any overly gay plot? No? Well here tion, prompts discussions of “glass closets,” and, to goes: USA has greenlit an untitled comedy pilot this moment, isn’t quite 100-percent confirmed). from Oscar nominee Douglas McGrath (Bullets So now a new show is in the works, produced by Over Broadway) that will star Lane, Jackson and Latifah’s Hollywood pals Will and Jada Pinkett Scrubs vet Ken Jenkins. Centered on an unlucky Smith, and their business plan is a shrewd one: it’s actor (Lane) whose fledgling Broadway career is not hitting airwaves until the fall of 2013, which derailed when his elderly father becomes ill, he’ll ought to give the current crop –Anderson Coo- return fish-out-of-water-style to his Texas home- per, Bethenny Frankel, Steve Harvey, Ricki Lake town, befriending his father’s doctor (Jackson) in and Jeff Probst – time to thin their own ranks via the process. Obviously, one or both of the charac- cancellations. ters could turn out to be gay, but right now that’s Watch out, the Original Dragon Tattoo Girl is not information anyone’s been given. Frankly, it coming back would be an interesting development if neither Rooney Mara may be the woman American character were written gay. Jackson already plays audiences eventually recognize most in the role of a heterosexual character on 30 Rock, and it would Lisbeth Salander after the English-language ver- provide further proof that openly gay actors can sion of \The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo hits the- take on any role they’re asked. Neil Patrick Harris aters in December, but it was Noomi Rapace, the and Zachary Quinto can’t be expected to carry that star of the original trilogy of Swedish films, who burden alone, right? carried those movies to this side of the world in the *Romeo San Vicente never stopped believing, first place. As the hard-bitten, crime-busting les- but then again he never really started in the first bian computer genius, Rapace shocked audiences place. He can be reached care of this publication with her character’s capacity for violence and her or at [email protected]. The Psych Drama Company announces its production of Hamlet Performances will take place from Nov. 30 – Dec. 17 BOSTON, Mass.—The Psych Drama Com- lip Freeman. Hamlet also boasts an original pany announces its inaugural production of musical score, composed by the Boston indie Hamlet, playing November 30 through De- band Varsity Drag, headed by Lemonheads co- cember 17, 2011 at the Boston Center for the founder, Ben Deily. Arts’ Plaza Black Box Theatre. Ticketing for Hamlet is available via Boston Directed by noted psychologist, Dr. Wendy Theatre Scene. For single tickets, please call 617- Lippe, the play also features Lippe as the fe- 933-8600 or visit www.bostontheatrescene.com. male, “melancholy Dane.” Hamlet marks the About the Boston Center for the Arts: The first of the Company’s scheduled explorations Boston Center for the Arts (BCA) is a nonprofit of Shakespearean and Greek drama. Each per- performance and visual arts center. Its mission formance of the play will be followed by a is to support artists in the creation of new work discussion led by professionals in the fields of that connects with and enriches the lives of the psychology, criminal justice and theatre—and broader public. For more information, visit includes Dr. Thomas Gutheil, and Dr. Phil- www.bcaonline.org. 6 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Hear Me Out… for the holidays Michael Bublé, Glee Boston Pride By: Chris Azzopardi/Special for TRT pep and zeroing in on the lonely lyrics of des- knits. “Extraordinary Merry Christmas” isn’t Michael Bublé, Christmas peration for a lover who’s away during the holi- extra ordinary; it’s Christmas-through-Katy prioritizes youth The crooner’s sex appeal isn’t just surface hot- days. But not Bublé. He sounds right at home Perry trash. Same goes for “Do They Know It’s ness, though no one’s going to fault his boyish for Christmas. Christmas,” originally a 1984 charity song that features. It’s Grade: B+ just sounds hokier in their hands, and the ’80s programs for all over “Santa Glee: The Christmas Album, Volume 2 romp “Christmas Wrapping” is completely lack- Baby,” taking Not to be a Grinch, but is more Glee music ing in melody. And they wonder why Sue Syl- holiday event the typically- really at the top of anyone’s Christmas list? But vester hates them. for-chicks here you have Grade: C Google among Honorees of tune and add- it anyway: 12 Dave Koz, Ultimate Christmas ing some ma- tracks from a ‘Tis the season for the saxophone. Dave Koz’s New Pink Trumpet Awards chismo to it – TV show so fourth Christmas album is essentially a cash- baby becomes in love with grab compilation gleaning tracks from his three BOSTON, Mass.—Boston Pride, hot off a “bubby.” And itself that every previous holiday albums – December Makes successful Latin@ Pride Week in September, instead of a few months Me Feel This Way, A Smooth Jazz Christmas hosts their 2nd Annual Holiday Event on Sat- sable, he wants we must be re- and Memories of a Winter’s Night – that tacks urday, December 10 at the United South End a manly watch. minded of how on two newbies: an intro and an outro (woopty Settlements, 566 Columbus Avenue, Boston. With his deep drawl, and his tongue firmly awesome they doo!). Definitely not for people who get enough The event- a spirited blend of cocktail party, ca- placed in his cheek (don’t get any ideas about think they are. of this on the elevator, this smooth-jazz collec- sino night and awards reception- will flaunt the getting your bells jingled), the time-traveling The McKinley tion still offers some nice twists in composition, organization’s first-ever Pink Trumpet Awards. troubadour pulls off the Eartha Kitt classic most High kids are taking “Please Come Home For Christmas” into Proceeds from the event, which will run from charmingly. Then again, he does justice to most best when they’re not being themselves – you a bluesy direction with Idol finalist Kimberly 7-11PM, will benefit the 2012 Youth Pride Cel- of the classics – 14 of them, and a new one know, gleeful. A standout on the second disc of Locke’s singing. But it’s a package that, despite ebration, which Boston Pride took ownership of called “Cold December Night” – on his first Christmas songs from the glee club is, predict- tradition, needs some shaking up. last year. full-length Christmas album, a project the Frank ably, Rachel’s (aka Lea Michele) appropriately She & Him, A Very She & Him Christmas Local non-profit and LGBT sports celebrity, Sinatra-meets-Dean Martin singer was made gloomy reading of Joni Mitchell’s “River,” just She & Him make this Christmas their own Marc Davino, will receive the Mission Award for. It’s why songs like “Holly Jolly Christmas” her peerless voice and a piano. Moments of with carols that aren’t cookie-cutter, taking gen- and Google, a champion of LGBT equality in and “It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christ- minimalism trump all else: “Let It Snow” is a tler approaches to the same-old. Part of why it the workplace, will be on hand to receive the mas,” both beautifully orchestrated by schmaltz charming duet between Chris Colfer’s Kurt and works without sounding monotonous is Zooey Vision Award. Awards will also be presented master David Foster, fit his classic-sounding Darren Criss’ Blaine, with ad-libs, finger snaps Deschanel’s darling, no-frills voice, a force that to Fenway Health, MassArt, Staples, and BU voice like hand and glove. To play up his old- and a similar whimsy to “Baby, It’s Cold Out- pulls you in with just the first few notes of “The School of Medicine for their participation in the soul appeal, he invites the Puppini Sisters for a side” from the first set. But the strongest of all Christmas Waltz,” tiptoeing in softly with gui- 2011 Pride Parade. very merry ’60s-styled swing on “Jingle Bells.” the songs doesn’t even belong to a New Direc- tar and a beautiful lilt that’s delicately matched. “Google has had a longstanding commit- He stretches his chords on a divine “Ave Maria,” tions gleek. Instead, that honor goes to Glee More standard fare is just as solid: the intimacy ment to diversity and raising our voice to pro- has a “White Christmas” with Shania Twain and Project runners-up Lindsay Pearce and Alex on “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas” tect the rights of our employees. We're honored does a lovely, for-the-fireside version of “I’ll Newell, who sing “Do You Hear What I Hear?” captures the song’s nostalgia and “Silver Bells” to receive this award and look forward to con- Be Home for Christmas.” Most surprising is his like they’re trying to win their way in (this stir- is performed prettily just with a ukulele. A Very tinuing our work with the LGBTQ commu- poignant change-up of Mariah Carey’s “All I ring tour de force should do it). The rest? As She & Him Christmas is a very nice surprise – nity,” says Lauren Hannah-Murphy of Google. Want for Christmas is You,” pulling back on the tacky as those Christmas sweaters grandma See Hear Me Out on page 13 See Youth Programs on page 13 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 7 The Best of 2011: TRT’s Coverage & Year in Review January 2011 April 2011 watched and cheered: http://bit.ly/vpVo4X Award: http://bit.ly/uh5m7s • Stronger America with DADT repeal: • Police repression is not just an old story: Third • Challenging the oppression and prejudice that • North Shore LGBTQ support group (nAGLY) holds http://bit.ly/vAy2XC largest perpetrators of anti-LGBT violence: divides us: http://bit.ly/sOp9p8 4th Annual Fundraiser: http://bit.ly/vKJXPf • LGBT Health in MA, CT, & RI: A special report on http://bit.ly/vPY8J8 nearby agencies supporting inclusive health care: • UMass system widens protection to also include July 2011 October 2011 http://bit.ly/uRLvut Gender Identity and Expression: http://bit.ly/sFhsay • Living with HIV - A Survivor’s Story: Rhode • Boston, nation, celebrate the end of ‘Don’t Ask, • New HIV prevention tool is effective; though • Openly Gay Justice Nominated to MA Highest Island’s Darren Wells shares his experience: Don’t Tell;’ big win for LGBT rights: implementing ‘PrEP’ remains a challenge: Court: http://bit.ly/fPybnW http://bit.ly/uRDLZZ http://bit.ly/nnVxW6 http://bit.ly/tQ22JU • Roundtable discussion addresses domestic- • Gay Catholics feel Pride at Mass: http://bit.ly/pFcTQl • MTPC celebrates 10 years of transgender advo- • DOJ files opening Brief in DOMA Lawsuit: partner abuse in the Black LGBT community: • RI House Speaker subject of YouTube parody: cacy: http://bit.ly/uYLBqk http://bit.ly/swZaEX http://bit.ly/sxx5Ip http://bit.ly/tSzamH • AIDS Walk raises money and awareness in West- • Historic LGBT Health Study Released: ern Mass.: http://bit.ly/rOIFKn February 2011 http://bit.ly/tkV7bM August 2011 • Providence Slutwalk attempts to reclaim a deroga • Connecticut Supreme Court rules in favor of gay • New York State ushers in Marriage Equality: Here tory word: http://bit.ly/pwpAKv couple in parenting case: http://bit.ly/tIrP2S May 2011 comes the Brides and Grooms: http://bit.ly/s5dLPY • Gov. Patrick Signs Historic Executive Order • RI House Speaker reverses course, backs civil • Leaders from East to West respond to Scott November 2011 Protecting Transgender State Employees: unions: http://bit.ly/rIQ174 Brown's lack of support for LGBT youth: • Massachusetts is ahead of the curve in HIV http://bit.ly/fnF0gI • Latin Vision: Personas GLBT sin viviendas y desa- http://bit.ly/u2au52 infection-rate reductions, but there’s still a lot of work • Openly Gay Morse Runs for Mayor: mparadas: ¡Es la realidad!: http://bit.ly/tY8uI2 • There’s a lot we can learn from the too early de- to be done: http://bit.ly/tpJqSi http://bit.ly/rIOCpF • Queer Insurgency hopes to fill in the blanks at mise of singer Amy Winehouse: http://bit.ly/rJGXot • Suicide-prevention conference draws attention to • The Rainbow Times wins the 2011 Boston Pride Noho Pride: http://bit.ly/stL3D7 • Wave of Hate Crimes has Puerto Rican LGBT LGBTQ suicide risks: http://bit.ly/todJj3 Guide bid: http://bit.ly/tzYP44 • Mass. LGBTQ Bar celebrates openly gay SJC jus- community living in fear; Mainstream media fails to • The 99-percenters of Occupy Boston proud not to tice, honors retired Chief Justice Margaret Marshall: provide adequate coverage: http://bit.ly/tmjSyv belong to the remaining minority: March 2011 http://bit.ly/kdVexm • Rhode Island couple speaks out against the De- http://bit.ly/vN14pF • Beware: Anti-LGBT groups in New England—our • Catholic Church opposes civil unions, after Fox fense of Marriage Act (DOMA): http://bit.ly/rZYeSH • Catholic columnist resigns over “devil-makes gayborhoods: http://bit.ly/tBWWxa backs them, MERI to hold rally: http://bit.ly/sEX7lI people-gay” commentary: http://bit.ly/s71s8H • Boston Pride organizes memorial vigil, seeks to • Fenway Health celebrates two decades of September 2011 • Organization Leaders react to Passage of Trans- raise awareness of international hate crimes: women’s philanthropy: http://bit.ly/s6N014 • Latino Supplement: Memorable Quotes by Latino gender Bill Equal Rights: http://bit.ly/t6Vif7 http://bit.ly/uT1Ou1 Leaders & Allies: http://bit.ly/uDTuvu • GLAD continues legal offensive against DOMA: • Public forum engages black community, LGBT June 2011 • 2011 Momentum Report: A milestone for LGBT http://bit.ly/vmMkpw people of color for common cause: http://bit.ly/rtIjyb • InterPride 2012 set for Boston: http://bit.ly/tXRSoa rights that keeps on evolving today: • DOMA under legal fire from gay service members: • President Obama, Justice Department back off SAGE Western Mass Launches LGBT Elder Ser- http://bit.ly/oD81TW http://bit.ly/tgzzTw ‘Defense of Marriage Act:’ http://bit.ly/uL4SOT vices: http://bit.ly/s8oeSx • Domestic violence among same-sex relationships • True Colors XVIII Conference: Gathering held to • The bitter truth in the Sacred Grounds: remains major problem, particularly among women: December 2011 empower and educate queer youth: http://bit.ly/sloe7W http://bit.ly/uezQ3B • Transgender rights bill passes House and Senate, http://bit.ly/tPkt1B • Three Decades of Pride in Northampton: • HIV infections remain high among gay/bisexual Gov. Patrick Signs Bill: http://bit.ly/seLBjh • Senator Kerry Co-Sponsors Bill to Protect LGBT http://bit.ly/sd3lOc men, who appear to make up the majority of those • Reactions to the Passage of the Transgender Students: http://bit.ly/uJDh0T • Springfield, Mass. Gay man beaten, others infected: http://bit.ly/sVXkbG Equal Rights Bill: Community Leaders Speak Out: • CT’s CABO wins LGBT Chamber of the Year http://bit.ly/t6Vif7 8 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Creep of the Week: Jerry Cox perfect notion of family, then Sandusky and the gays 2012 BIG EAST Women’s By: D’Anne Witkowski*/Special for TRT adopt children with Penn State child-rapist Jerry “If you have a same-sex couple with an adopted Basketball Championship Newsflash: homosexuality and pedophilia are Sandusky (who fostered kids in the past). Not that child, what you’re in effect saying is that moms not the same things. Equating the two makes as this comparison makes sense, but that’s not Cox’s don’t matter or dads don’t matter,” he said. “Little Tickets on Sale Now much sense as equating adopting a pet kitty from job. His job is to spew anti-gay invective when- girls grow up, little boys grow up and they need Tourney Returns to Hartford a shelter with luring a stray into your yard so ever a microphone gets near his face. both of those role models to grow up in a bal- you can torture and kill him. Surely anyone who "I find it interesting that we talk about the Penn anced way.” for Ninth Straight Year thought the two were the same would be insane. State situation, and then when we talk about other Mind you, Sandusky is a married-to-a-woman HARTFORD, Conn.—Full-session tickets for the Though they still might be invited to talk on situations where certain categories of people say man, which means his family structure meets 2012 BIG EAST Women’s Basketball Champion- Public Radio International, specifically the To the it’s our right to adopt, it’s our right to be a foster these criteria. What Cox means by balanced, I ship Presented by American Eagle Outfitters are on Point program, when the topics are the Penn State parent, in both of those situations the rights of chil- don’t know. Perhaps he’s worried two moms will sale now. The Championship, returning to Hartford, child abuse scandal and same-sex couples adopt- dren seem to be put in second place,” Cox said. teach a boy to pee sitting down or two dads might Conn. for the ninth-straight year, will be played at ing kids. Nice juxtaposition there, guys. Let’s crack the code. “Certain categories of teach a girl to pee standing up. the XL Center March 2-6, 2012. Special guest on the program was Jerry Cox of people” most certainly means gays. And when he When To the Point hosts suggested that chil- All 16 BIG EAST teams are invited to battle for the Arkansas Family Council, a group that tried says “in both of these situations” Cox is clearly dren would perhaps be better off in a house with the conference’s automatic NCAA tournament bid. like the dickens to prevent gays and lesbians from equating letting a known child-rapist foster chil- same-sex parents rather than languishing in the Package tickets to all 15 games of the championship being foster parents in Arkansas to no avail. dren with allowing gay people to foster children. foster care system, Cox rejected the notion. will remain priced at $99.00 each, discounted by Cox seemed to equate gays wanting to foster or In only one of these “situations” are “Some- nearly one half of the face value. the rights times we The City of Hartford has embraced the annual and needs Cox seemed to equate gays sound as if event, resulting in unparalleled success for the of a child wanting to foster or adopt those are Conference, leading all leagues nationally in aver- “in second the only two age attendance. The City of Hartford has embraced place.” children with Penn State choices,” Cox the annual event, resulting in unparal- Hint: it’s said. “It’s leled success for the Confer- the child child-rapist Jerry Sandusky like, child be ence, lead- ing all leagues being fos- (who fostered kids in the institutional- nationally in average at- tered by ized or be tendance. The Greater the child past). … There are millions of in a same- Hartford Convention rapist and sex home & Visi- tors Bureau second homes with stable one-penis- or cohabit- and its members are place is far one-vagina structures oh so ing home, hard at work to offer fans too high or whatever. special rates and discounts on hotels, of a finish. perfect for foster children. And I’d like restaurants and complimentary shuttle services to Last place The problem is they’re to challenge tourist attractions. For more information please visit is more this a little bit, www.bigeast.org. like it. apparently very well hidden. to raise our The 2011 BIG EAST Championship brought plen- For Cox, sights a little ty of excitement to the XL Center. The final game the most important bit, and say, you know, the state surely can do bet- featured a match-up that was a preview of an NCAA things to look for in a ter than that.” semifinal. Top-ranked Connecticut held off No. 3 foster family are one Yeah, stupid state. Being stuck in an orphanage seed Notre Dame to win the 2011 crown. It was Con- penis and one vagina. on one hand, living in a household with two stable necticut's 16th title, including six of the last seven. and loving foster parents who happen to be gay It was Notre Dame’s fifth trip to the championship on the other. It’s like Sophie’s choice! game. Both teams advanced to the 2011 NCAA Final Of course, says Cox, those aren’t the only Four, playing each other before Notre Dame defeated options. the Huskies and advanced to the title game. “With all the millions of stable homes that are The BIG EAST is the largest and most diverse Di- out there, surely the state of California the state vision I conference in the country. It was formed in of Pennsylvania, the state of Arkansas, wherever 1979 and represents the athletic interests of 16 mem- we are, surely we can find stable homes with a ber institutions including the University of Cincin- married mom and dad for these children,” he said. nati, University of Connecticut, DePaul University, Got that? There are millions of homes with Georgetown University, University of Louisville, stable one-penis-one-vagina structures oh so per- Marquette University, University of Notre Dame, fect for foster children. The problem is they’re ap- University of Pittsburgh, Providence College, Rut- parently very well hidden. We’re just not looking gers University, St. John’s University, Seton Hall hard enough. So come out, come out wherever University, University of South Florida, Syracuse you are. Cox has a pick-up truck full of kids with University, Villanova University and West Vir- your (heterosexual only, please) names all over it. ginia University. The BIG EAST Conference has *D'Anne Witkowski has been gay for pay since captured 32 national championships in six differ- 2003. She's a freelance writer and poet (believe ent sports and is a founding member of the Bowl it!). When she's not taking on the creeps of the Championship Series. For more information on the world she reviews rock ‘n’ roll shows in Detroit Conference and its membership, please visit www. with her twin sister. bigeast.org. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 9 Reopening of Northampton’s Pride and Joy draws crowds to new location in Thorne's Marketplace By: Nicole Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief prepared to move the store from Crafts Av- NORTHAMPTON, Mass.—After months enue to its current location. of preparation, Northampton’s Pride & Joy “We changed locations because we wanted successfully launched its grand reopening at the store to be in the heart of Northampton and its new location in Thorne’s Marketplace in Thorne’s Marketplace is just that,” said Rain. downtown Northampton last month. Com- Several LGBT & allied supporters filled and monly dubbed as the unofficial LGBT com- overflowed the store and hallways of Thorne’s munity center of Northampton, Pride & Joy Marketplace in celebration of Pride & Joy’s has long been considered the heart of the new beginning as they were treated to savory LGBT community for the past 20 years. Act- pastries provided by Paul & Elizabeth’s res- ing Mayor and Mayor Elect David Narke- taurant and festive ice cream from Herrell’s, wicz and District Attorney David Sullivan also located in Thorne’s Marketplace. Evelyn were both present at the celebration and Harris performed throughout the night. joined in the ribbon-cutting ceremony. “What a beautiful store,” said local film- “This isn’t just a store; it is a social and maker Barbara Allen, echoing sentiments political institution in Northampton,” said heard from many at the event. “I hope people District Attorney David Sullivan. “When remember to shop local and shop here.” times were tough for the LGBT community, With the new store come a new vision and a this really was the place that was the heart new product focus. of the political movement, the social move- “Our vision for the store is to be a celebra- ment, and really was there for the commu- tion of Northampton and a destination for nity to understand that everyone should be the LGBTQ community and allies,” Rain included.” explained. “This means we must carry retail Co-owners Jennifer Harlan and Joy Rain items that our customers want. This commit- purchased the store during pride season from ment means that the store needed to begin to District Attorney David Sullivan and Mayor Elect David Narkewicz participate in the ribbon cutting former co-owners, Kelly Wagoner, Melissa offer more high quality clothing, LGBTQ gifts ceremony marking the grand reopening of Pride & Joy with its new co-owners, Joy Rain and Jennifer Borchardt, and Jeff Wheelock. and Northampton souvenirs. We are commit- Harlan. (L-R: D.A. David Sullivan, Joy Rain, Mayor Elect David Narkewicz, and Jennifer Harlan) “On Pride Day this past May — the final ted to carrying a selection of resources books day the old store was open for business — we that cover topics including LGBTQ parenting, part of the legacy,” she said. downtown Northampton. To learn more about stood outside passing out fliers letting people coming out, children's books, and the trans Northampton’s Pride & Joy is located in the store, please visit: www.nohoprideandjoy. know the store would be re-opening at a later community.” Thorne’s Marketplace at 150 Main Street in com or call 413-727-3758. date,” said Harlan. “We made the decision to Although change is inevitable, Rain is hope- make the new store family-friendly based on ful that the 20-year old store will live on in the hearts of its customers while embracing its Faith, Family and God from page 4 a donation in someone’s honor this holiday sea- the fact that we saw so many lesbian moms son at AliForneyCenter.org. and gay dads leaving their kids outside the new concept. Sicilaino offers a challenge to the LGBT “The store's new tagline, ‘Live & Let and Searching adult community. “I hope that * Paul is an author, attorney, and a seminary store while they went in to shop. We wanted trained, ordained priest in greater Albany, N.Y. to create a store where all families can feel Shop’ is about a fun store where customers we will become the community that our chil- purchase items that celebrate their identity dren need us to be.” Yes, LGBT and Searching E-mail questions about faith to Dilovod@aol. comfortable shopping with their children.” com. Shortly after the purchase, Harlan and Rain and maintain a legacy … thank you for being teens are our children. Please consider offering

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th 15 ANNUAL GALA TO BENEFIT THE For tickets & more information AIDS Foundation of please call (413) 301-0955 Western Massachusetts or visit aidsfoundationwm.org PRESENTING SPONSORS: January 27, 2012 at The Log Cabin 10 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Reactions to the Transgender Equal Rights Bill Passage By: Christine Nicco/TRT Reporter existing hate crime laws to explicitly protect about this endemic discrimination. We have sisters with the recognition and rights that they The Rainbow Times asked community lead- people targeted for violence and harassment rights in Massachusetts, finally! This is a ma- deserve! Congratulations to MTPC, Rep. Sci- ers, attorneys, and activists about what it meant joining other protected classes such as race, jor step in the right direction, but we’ll need to ortino, and all who participated in this process to have the Transgender Equal Rights Bill pass religion, creed, color, national origin, and sex- work together to ensure this is enforced so that and who have been instrumental in making this in Massachusetts. Their reactions of the pas- ual orientation. Massachusetts joins the 13-15 transgender people have the same fairness in Transgender Equal Rights a reality!” sage and subsequent signing of this Bill by MA other states that have this protection as well as this society that most take for granted. I can’t -- Wilfred Labiosa, CASPAR Executive Direc- Governor Deval Patrick, are transcribed below. the many businesses that include trans protec- speak more strongly about the supreme monu- tor & Boston Pride Vice-President “Having protections in place at the state level tions as well. mental importance of this bill!!” “With the passage of the this bill, An Act will help tremendously in being able to advo- … As a young trans woman I’ve been -- Emilia Dunham, Senior Research Associate, Relative to Transgender Equal Rights, trans- cate for policies and practices that support rath- lucky, but I’ve still experienced employment The Fenway Institute gender residents of the state of Massachusetts er than discriminate against transgender people and housing discrimination and have endured “For a state that was second in the nation will have long-awaited vital protections in em- at the institutional level. I finally feel included harassed on the streets, at school and even in with gay rights in 1989, and first in the nation ployment, education, housing, credit, and hate in the state in which I live and work." health care settings. All this discrimination with same-sex marriage in 2004, non-discrim- crimes which they desperately need. The bill -- Genny Beemyn, Director, the Stonewall Cen- adds up to have severe health consequences for ination protections for transgender people are offers represents an historic step forward in ter, UMass Amherst transgender people and it’s no wonder that a long overdue.” supporting full civil rights protections for the "The lives of our Transgender family mem- recent national trans survey showed that 41% -- Joanne Herman, Author of Transgender Ex- transgender community. The bill does not in- bers is about to change. And finally, for once, of trans people have attempted suicide which is plained For Those Who Are Not, Board Mem- clude public accommodations protections, so for the better. This is a great day in our state around 20x higher than the general population. ber, Fenway Health while we are celebrating the tremendous pro- and we applaud the incredibly dedication of To cope, many of us use substances, drink, use “We give thanks to the legislators who assist- tections it does offer, we need to be mindful MTPC and its partners who worked tirelessly tobacco because of crippling rates of depres- ed in this endeavor of the Transgender Equal of our continued need to work to ensure equal to ensure the passage of this legislation. Today, sion in this community, but when we go into Rights Bill. Congratulations to all! This will access and opportunity for all residents regard- we celebrate! doctor’s offices, we’re often either completely show the state, the region and the Nation that less of how they identify or express their gen- -- Keri Aulita, Boston Pride Deputy Director refused services, experience harassment or re- legislation like this one are needed and that it der identities.” “This bill adds “gender identity” to the state's ceive substandard care. will provide equal rights to all in our society. -- Ruben Hopwood, Coordinator, Transgender non-discrimination statute and will amend Fortunately we have a tool to do something This will provide our transgender brothers and Health Program, Fenway Health

Equal Rights Bill from page 3 the books,” he said. “If transgender people have opportunities for recourse if they feel they have Ask Lambda Legal – Options after Don’t Ask Don’t Tell ed press and litigation and opens up the door to been discriminated against.” social change that would take away the rights By: Peter Renn/Staff Attorney for Lambda Legal ments can “out” someone to potential employ- Adams also said the bill “caters to Bos- ers, and if the paperwork indicates less than of hard working men and women and parents.” ton special interests instead of what is in the best Dear Ask Lambda Legal, “This bill does not promote business,” he I’m a former U.S. service member who was honorable circumstances, employers may con- interests of the Commonwealth.” clude the person had engaged in misconduct. If added. “We need to be focused on one thing in For her part, Representative Shaunna discharged under “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” this Legislature: jobs, jobs, jobs.” Now that the law has been repealed, can I you did not receive an honorable discharge, but O’Connell said, “The bill is very difficult should have, you may be able now be eligible Joining Lombardo outside the House cham- to interpret” and is “vague.” And yet said re-enlist? What can I do about my discharge bers were Representatives Kevin J. Kuros status? to upgrade your discharge, depending on your “O’Connell, “No one in the Legislature toler- individual circumstances. (Uxbridge), Peter Durant (Spencer), Keiko M. ates violence against any person at all.” First, I’d like to thank you for your service to Orrall (Lakeville), Steven L. Levy, (Marlbor- the United States – all of us feel immense grati- If you are interested in re-enlistment, prior Advocates for the transgender bill, however, service members discharged under DADT are ough), James J. Lyons, Jr. (Andover), Angelo remained resolute. They day before, activists tude for your bravery and commitment. L. D’Emilia (Bridgewater), Paul Adams (Ando- On September 20, 2011, the discriminatory evaluated according to the same criteria as other held their own press conference. Many of them service members seeking reentry, without re- ver), and Shaunna O’Connell (Tauton), among were on hand Tuesday to hear opponents — law known as “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) others — all of them Republicans. was repealed, and, as a result, lesbian, gay, and gard to their sexual orientation. and to push back. This is especially important for female and Lombardo’s comments came at a 10:30 a.m. “Right now it’s legal for a business to fire bisexual service members can now be open press conference, which took place as news about their sexual orientation, if they so choose, minority service members, who were dispro- a transgender person for no other reason than portionately discharged under DADT. For ex- spread the transgender bill had received a favor- their gender identity,” said Sciortino. “A fully without fear of discharge. However, the repeal able report from the Joint Committee of Judi- will not automatically reinstate the estimated ample, in 2008, non-white service members functioning, hardworking individual can be represented 29.4% of the total military popu- ciary. And therefore, it would be taken up by told, ‘No, you’re not welcome to work here, 14,500 service members who were discharged the full House of Representatives. under DADT—like you—nor the tens of thou- lation, but comprised 45% of all DADT dis- you’re not welcome to live here,’ for no other charges, and women made up 15% of the armed “The bill comes with flawed assumptions,” reason than gender identity.” sands more who were discharged under the dis- said Representative Mark Adams during the criminatory policies that preceded DADT. forces but comprised 34% of discharges www. “I’d like to remind opponents that trans- palmcenter.org, www.palmcenter.org, www. press availability. “It assumes that transgender gender people are human beings,” said Gun- While the majority of those discharged under individuals need special protections in order to DADT received honorable discharges, hun- servicemembersunited.org, www.servicemem- ner Scott, executive director of the Massachu- bersunited.org. participate fully in society.” setts Transgender Political Coalition. “Some dreds of others did not. Less than honorable “It encourages politicians to cater to special in- discharges can have lasting impact, such as lim- Finally, it’s important to remember that the lawmakers forget that.” repeal of DADT falls short of protecting every- terests rather than working on issues that promote “Civil-rights protections never hurt anyone,” iting access to GI Bill protections and benefits the common good — lower taxes, good paying or Veterans Administration healthcare. In addi- one in the LGBT community and those living said Levi. “Providing support in the workplace with HIV. The medical regulatory ban is still jobs, and cleaner environment,” Adams said. for all employees is good for business.” tion, veterans often must submit their discharge “Massachusetts has been very progressive on paperwork when applying for jobs outside the in place for aspiring or current service members hate-crime laws, and we have plenty of laws on military and the problem of “bad paper” can who are transgender. The Defense of Marriage harm employment prospects. Discharge docu- Act, or DOMA, prevents the military from pro- viding spousal benefits to same-sex partners, even if you were mar- ried in a state that has marriage equality laws. People living with HIV are still prohibited from enlisting in the armed forces, and those al- ready enlisted who test positive face assignment limitations. As far as we’ve come, there’s still much work that remains. If you have any ques- tions or need legal infor- mation, contact Lamb- da Legal’s Help Desk at www.lambdalegal.org/ help. To read this column in Spanish please check out page 21. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 11 12 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Boston Latino International Helps Film Festival photos: Glenn Koetzner

Across Down 1 Dick under a Bush, e.g. 1 Jim Morrison portrayer Kilmer 5 Intense attraction, with "the" 2 Preposition that goes either way 9 Amelia Earhart, for one 3 One that gets laid 14 Jason went cruising in this 4 Gay guy, in Brit slang 15 Hairy twin 5 Protection for your head 16 *ACT UP founder Kramer 6 Japanese industrial center 17 Piece of Mary's little pet 7 Crack the whip at, e.g. 19 Classic toothpaste brand 8 Hist. or sci. 20 *GoldenEye actress 9 Stones for starting fires 22 Bruins great Bobby 10 Run out 25 Breakfast on Pluto actor Stephen 11 Gershwin and Levin 26 Versatile vehicle 12 Sea flier 27 Go over again 13 Phillippe, once of One Life to Live 29 Helps, and a type of activism for the 18 Hot breakfast fare starred clues in this puzzle 21 Sit in on 31 Retired speedster 22 Brand of Mexican food 34 Range of the Rockies 23 Staggered 35 Sweet opening? 24 Go to bed 36 *Angels in America writer Kushner 28 Sleep lightly 37 *BUtterfield 8 Oscar winner 29 Allstate rival 40 *Richard of And the Band Played On 30 Point of view intro, at Gay.com 41 Janet or niece Hunter 31 They go well with plaids 42 Hubert's successor 32 Makes noise in bed 33 Power of old films 43 Fruity drink 35 In view 44 Lollobrigida of film 36 "Equal justice under law," to a gay basher 45 "Dr. K" of baseball 38 Cause to have an orgasm 46 Kevin Bacon in Footloose 39 Tone deafness 47 Awfully long time 44 It regularly blows its top 48 Away from NNW 45 Tammy Baldwin's pages, e.g. 49 *My Life on the D-List star 46 River of Cologne 55 Vonda Shepard's "It's ___ Kiss" 47 The Deep Six actor Zimbalist 56 Actually 49 Star-___ tuna 60 *Sharon of If These Walls Could Talk 2 50 Start to climax 61 Baltic Sea tributary 51 McAn of shoes 62 Pennsylvania city 52 Historic Stonewall event 63 One with an hourglass figure 53 Front end o' China 64 Bianchi and Hulce 54 Glenn Burke, formerly 65 Pay for a pad 57 Land of O. Wilde 58 Kind of man, in Oz 59 To now www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 13 Pinkwashing from page 2 Dad I Have Something to Tell You” was being screened. While individuals were walking into ership. This letter opened with explicit attention the screening there was chanting, “Even if your to the Boycott, Divestment, Sanction Move- army’s gay, occupation’s not okay,” “hey hey ment that has been organized by Palestinians, homo, Israel apartheid’s got to go,” and others. a campaign that includes a cultural boycott of

The director of the film was present and filmed P hoto : dale stine any events that forward the Israeli agenda of some of the picketing as well as conversation deflecting attention from their human rights

with the protesters. I had the opportunity to P hoto : B ig M anagement abuses. The organizers against pinkwashing speak to him, and one of the pieces I wish I had P hoto : B oris K ravchenko of Israel ask for a moment of consideration: shared is that even though the story he has to tell “Consider, for instance, what Israel looks like to is beautiful and important, he is being used by gay Palestinians. For these individuals, Israel is the Israeli government to push forward their own anything but a haven of freedom and inclusiv- agenda. Even though the story of young queers ity. Subject to the omnipresence of Israel’s gay- coming out and dealing with the struggles of inclusive military, Palestinians’ movements are internalized oppression in religious households controlled and monitored by hundreds of Israeli is an essential story to tell, if you use this story checkpoints and obstacles throughout the West in conjunction with the Israeli government then Bank. Throughout Gaza, the West Bank, and they are the ones who control the message. Even LaLa, Out diva Scott Herman, Reality Fitness Star D Alexander, Out musician East Jerusalem, Palestinians face the threat of when we, as individuals, do not intend to par- home demolition and increasing violence at the ticipate in harm, unchecked privilege leads to a hands of Israeli settlers. Even Palestinians who growing cycle of violence. legally live in Israel contend with institutional- Even as “Out in Israel Month” comes to a ized inequity in the form of at least 70 discrimi- close, the fight against pinkwashing does not. natory Israeli laws.” GLAD has a responsibility Sarah Schulman reminds all of us that “the long- to look at how they partner with different orga- sought realization of some rights for some gays nizations and what it says to the larger LGBTQ should not blind us to the struggles against rac- community. ism in Europe and the United States, or to the reinoehl P hoto : shawn

Early last month, dozens of people rallied out- Palestinians’ insistence on a land to call home.” P hoto : sugarhouse crew side of Brattle Theater where the film “Mom & This is a call to action.

Thinking Out Loud from page 4 don’t support us have come to their beliefs with a modicum of critical thinking. Without this, argu- ual difficulties, Alan’s having a lot more of those ing for LGBT equality can feel like beating up a Out Musician Aiden Leslie. Tony Moran, Circuit DJ than I am. Don’t get me wrong – he is compas- bowl of Jell-O. sionate towards homosexuals because he says so. So I clicked on Alan’s footnote links and dis- He uses lots of warm language like “reach out” covered that they all went to one place: a nearly and “assist them.” We are, never forget, the sons identical screed on the LDS website. I kept dig- 2011: The Year in Queer and daughters of God. ging and eventually found myself looking at the By: Jimmy Newsum/Special for TRT cides. We have to fight for our youth. So how does he suggest his readers reach out same few outdated studies that the anti-gay folks 2011 has been a crazy see-saw year, with terrific AIDEN LESLIE: The possibility of a Republican to their LGBT loved ones? By gently telling them have been picking clean for 20 years, and more highs like Don’t Ask Don’t Tell being repealed, president. It would be sad to see the progress we that homosexuality is an abomination. He has also self-referential LDS material saying that homo- Florida lifting its gay adoption ban and New York have had made lose its momentum. provided some research links to back up his asser- sexuality is a sin because they said so. joining six other states in the union to legalize SCOTT HERMAN: Gay teen bullying and tion that homosexuality is a choice – the “power of None of this is new. If you dress up fear and Gay Marriage. Also, another delightful gay char- suicides. agency,” he calls it. He even includes superscript bigotry as “family-friendly” and then scare the acter has joined prime time television -- we love Q. Who was the biggest out star of 2011? footnote links for that extra bit of academic oomph. crap out of the kids, you can still claim the man- Happy Ending’s Max! TONY MORAN: Lady Gaga. Here’s where Alan really let me down. You tle of wholesomeness. And it would be funny if But there were deep lows too including the sui- AIDEN LESLIE: Ellen DeGeneres and Ricky see, I got kind of excited that he might have Alan Osmond were a one-off, but he’s not. He’s cides of gay teens Jamie Hubley and Jamey Martin. found some anti-gay material that I could sink my scary precisely because he’s so ordinary. “One Rodemeyer and the continued rise of hate crimes SCOTT HERMAN: Neil Patrick Harris. teeth into. This isn’t a masochistic impulse, but a Bad Apple” will never sound the same again. against gay and transgender people. We polled D ALEXANDER: Lady Gaga. genuine desire to have a substantive conversa- *Abby is a civil rights attorney-turned-author some of our favorite bold-faced names on how LALA: Lady Gaga. tion about LGBT issues that calls me to respond who has been in the LGBT rights trenches for they will remember the past year in queer. Q. 2011 will forever go down as the year… with something more complex than, “You’re 25+ years. She can be reached through her web- Q: What was the gay highlight of 2011? TONY MORAN: …Osama Bin Laden and a moron.” I like to think that even people who site: queerquestionsstraighttalk.com. AIDEN LESLIE: New York passing Gay Mar- Muammar Gaddafi were finally taken down. riage. Not only was it history in the making, it LALA: …the gay community won its battle was extra special because it happened over Gay against Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. Hear Me Out from page 6 ding-dongs on “Carol of the Bells” do it a dis- Pride Weekend. To be in New York at the mo- AIDEN LESLIE: …the people lost hope in service, though the choir helps conceal King’s even for the hipsters who hate Christmas music. ment was incredible. Obama. I think people have been quick to count weathered voice. Laughably awful, “Sleigh SCOTT HERMAN: The repeal of Don't Ask him out, but I wouldn't be so sure. Carole King, A Holiday Carole Ride” sounds more suited for an episode The legend shows her age on her first studio Don't Tell. It took long enough! SCOTT HERMAN: …the people lost hope in of Mister Rogers. Not until the coda, “New LALA: New York passing Gay Marriage. I’m Obama. He spent more time in People Magazine album in 10 years, disappointedly without a Year’s Day,” is there a truly memorable song single new tune from the songwriting prodigy. available to perform gay weddings, ya’ll! than behind his desk in the oval office. that isn’t upset by a completely off-key vocal. TONY MORAN: The mainstreaming of the It D ALEXANDER: …we repealed “Don’t ask, Even her voice, ironed flat throughout, is a let A Holiday Carole, unfortunately, is the coal down. “My Favorite Things” tries to recap- Gets Better Campaign. Don’t tell” and that the LGBT finally integrated of Christmas. D ALEXANDER: Lady Gaga’s “Born This itself into mainstream thanks to Gaga and Ke$ha. ture King’s piano-pop work but comes off as *Reach Chris Azzopardi via email at a note-flubbed hack job. The over-enunciated Way” is the soundtrack to a year full of milestone Q. Who do you hope will disappear into the gay [email protected] events in the gay community. abyss in 2012? Q. What was the gay lo-light of 2011? SCOTT HERMAN: The cast of Housewives of Youth Programs from page 6 LALA: 14-year-old boy, Jamey Rodemeyer, New Jersey and any show that has the word “Jer- committing suicide. sey” in its title. Keri Aulita, Boston Pride’s Director of TONY MORAN: Tracy Morgan’s “Stab My LALA: Sarah Palin. Development, adds, “As a community-based Gay Son” joke. TONY MORAN: Michelle Bachman. organization, it’s our duty to recognize great AIDEN LESLIE: The Republican’s control- D ALEXANDER: Donald Trump, Tracy Mor- work being done by our constituents and ling the House of Representatives. Its frustrating gan and Jersey Shore. we’re delighted to honor Marc and Google. when there is no movement on so many impor- Q. How will you ring in 2012? Of course, given the incredible suicide rate tant issues. AIDEN LESLIE: Onstage, performing, doing among LGBT youth, it’s also critical that our SCOTT HERMAN: Gay teen bullying and what I love most. Youth Pride program continues to thrive. We suicides. TONY MORAN: I will be in the happiest place hope folks will come out to celebrate the sea- D ALEXANDER: Gay teen suicides. It’s time to on earth: the DJ booth. son while supporting this important element stop teasing and start loving. SCOTT HERMAN: I plan to celebrate with of our work.” Q. What is the biggest issue facing the gay com- friends and family. Tickets are $10 in advance/$15 at the door munity today? LALA: I’ll be rockin’ it hard with my tits out! with a VIP option also available. For more D ALEXANDER: Gay teen bullying and D ALEXANDER: I’ll be on my hands and knees information and tickets: http://www.boston- suicides. praying the world doesn’t end. It would suck if pride.org/events/holiday. LALA: Marriage equality. my arrival on the red carpet was brought down by TONY MORAN: Gay teen bullying and sui- the apocalypse. 14 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Busted 2011: CT Transadvocacy Coalition’s Fashion Show

photos: Glenn Koetzner Hispanic Black Gay Coalition Gala 2011 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 15 Out of Town: Winter Adventures of Vail and Beaver Creek By: Andrew Collins/Special for TRT Arapahoe Basin in Colorado, and Heavenly and Colorado's most famous gay ski weeks are Northstar in Lake Tahoe, California), consider held in Aspen and Telluride, in mid-January and buying an Epic Pass (www.snow.com/epic-pass. late February respectively, but over the past few aspx), which offers great deals whether you're ski- years, Vail Gay Ski Week (http://vailgayskiweek. ing for a week or a full season. Standard lift tickets com) has begun drawing serious crowds. The for Vail are also good at nearby Beaver Creek. gathering takes place in late March and includes Vail was developed as a planned resort com- the usual mix of fun on the slopes and hobnob- munity in 1962, designed with a nod toward the bing back around the fireplaces and hot tubs. In quaint chalet-inspired architecture of the Alps. winter, skiing and snowboarding may be the re- Dozens of resorts, condos, shops, and restau- gion's big draws, but it would be unfair to describe rants have sprung up over the years, the earlier Vail (www.visitvailvalley.com) and nearby Bea- ones retaining the vintage, occasionally kitschy, ver Creek (www.beavercreek.com) as mere ski aesthetic of Bavaria or Tyrol. More recently, towns. These scenic communities in the heart of Vail has seen a surge in ultra-luxury condo and the Colorado Rockies offer plenty of diversions. hotel development. Several notable newcomers Another misconception about Vail (www. - Four Seasons, Ritz-Carlton, and Arrabelle at vail.com) is that it's a crowded, freeway-side ski Vail Square among them - have upped the town's park. True, the resort's Front Side can get busy posh factor. on weekends and does overlook Vail's bustling You don't need a car in Vail - the 10-mile villages and I-70, and this facility is one of the paved, multi-use Gore Valley Trail wends largest in North America, with some 5,300 ski- through the village, and free buses run regularly able acres and nearly 200 runs. But there are among the key neighborhoods and connect with many places on Vail Mountain to escape from low-priced service throughout the entire valley. Photo: Andrew Collins the crowds, and skiers of all abilities will find You can reach Vail by flying into Eagle County challenging, varied terrain. Airport (with direct flights to about a dozen cit- Skiing the Back Bowls at Vail Mountain. For more solitude, ascend to the upper slopes ies), which is 30 miles west, or flying to Denver Creek's main base village, which is also anchored sociate with acclaimed winter resorts. You can of Vail's Front Side to access the fabled Back and renting a car or taking a bus - Vail is a two- by a large skating rink. Lifts and ski runs join snowshoe, cross-country ski, take snowmobile Bowls, a glorious - and vast - swath of less-tram- hour drive from Denver (allow another 45 min- Beaver Creek's main area with Arrowhead and tours, or simply stroll among the dozens of high- meled runs that descend down the back of the utes from DIA, and account for slow-going on Bachelor Gulch mountains - the latter has runs end shops in each village. You'll also find more mountain. From there, additional lifts carry those weekends and during rough weather). Vail is a that trickle down to a sumptuous Ritz-Carlon. Al- than a dozen full-service spas among the area's seeking truly secluded terrain into Blue Sky Ba- 20-minute drive (shuttle bus service is available) most improbably, given its location down on the resorts. At the Westin Riverfront, Spa Anjali of- sin, a stunning patch of wilderness developed by from its smaller, swankier cousin, Beaver Creek. Eagle River, the Westin Riverfront is an actual fers a memorable Himalayan-inspired Abhyanga the resort in 2000. In reality, from the majority The small but dapper town of Avon lies at the ski-in, ski-out resort - a gondola carries guests to massage treatment as well as a red clover and of Vail's ski runs, you can't see a single mile of base of the Beaver Creek ski area and is home a lift at Lower Beaver Creek Mountain (or you mountain honey body mask. Other spas of note freeway or village infrastructure. Just avoid the to several good restaurants as well as the superb can take free shuttle buses up the hill to Beaver include the plush RockResorts Spa at the Arra- Front Side, which is possible as long as you're Westin Riverfront Resort. It's a short, winding Creek Village). Head 5 miles west of Avon, and belle at Vail Square, and the serene Spa at Four comfortable with intermediate terrain. drive up the hill to reach fashionable Beaver you'll find more upscale dining, lodging, and Seasons Vail. If you're planning to ski at more than a couple of Creek Village, home to 1,800 acres of superb shopping in the town of Edwards. the seven facilities owned by Vail Resorts (Vail, skiing and snowboarding. Chains like Hyatt and It bears repeating that these communities To continue this story, please visit us online Beaver Creek, Breckenridge, Keystone, and Sheraton have impressive hotels set at Beaver abound with the usual diversions you might as- at: http://bit.ly/uvJWtI 16 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Book Marks: Halsted Plays Transgender Day of Remembrance in Providence addresses pertinent issues in the community Himself & The Stranger’s Child By: Casey Rocheteau/TRT Reporter Island already has protections for the trans By: Richard Labonte/Special for TRT ty and beyond.” It In Rhode Island, the TGI Network and Youth community under the nondiscrimination laws. However, we have been fighting for the past The Stranger’s Child, by Alan Hollinghurst. is just that. The 29 Pride Incorporated (YPI) came together to hold contributors range a vigil and discussion for the Day of Remem- few years to get gender identity and expression Knopf, 448 pages, $27.95 hardcover. added to the hate crimes monitoring laws, as For gay fans of Hollinghurst’s first novel, from accom- brance in the Bell Street Chapel on Nov. 20. plished authors Fifty to 60 people were in attendance for the there are no statistics on how many crimes are The Swimming-Pool Library, his new work – committed against the transgender community seven years in the writing – may be something (Julia Serano, ceremony, which included speakers and a read- Sassafras Lowrey, ing of the names of 23 transpeople who were here in Rhode Island.” This was an issue that of a letdown: it doesn’t contain the pyrotech- came out again during the panel discussion fol- nic combination of explicit sexual intensity Max Wolf Vale- victims of fatal violence over the past year. In rio, Imani Henry, the front of the room, candles had been lit rep- lowing the vigil. Watts pointed out that while and impressively perfect prose of either his Marriage Equality Rhode Island drummed up debut or of his second novel, The Folding Diamond himself) resenting each of their lives, and as their names to artists in other and causes of death were read, each flame was lines outside of the statehouse, hearings on the Star. In the author’s fifth novel, readers will hate crimes bill would bring out small handfuls find more subtle sexual moments but even media (photogra- snuffed out. At the end of the ceremony, those pher Amos Mac, congregated lit their own candles from a single of people. The distinction was made between more impeccably perfect prose. The multi- a couple’s right to marry, and an individual’s generation, two-family saga spans almost a filmmakers Ash- flame and sang “We Are a Gentle, Angry Peo- ley Altadonna ple” by Holly Near. right to their own life and safety. century, all the while tracking the at-first co- When asked about the passage of the Trans vert and eventually (after homosexuality is and Silas Howard, The Transgender Day of Remembrance can performers Glenn be seen as a day of mourning as well as a cel- Equal Rights Bill in neighboring Massachu- legalized in England in 1967) more overt lives setts, Watts extended a heartfelt congratulations of gay men. The novel opens in 1913, its five Marla, Cooper Lee Bombardier and Kai ebration of authenticity. The first TDOR was Kohlsdorf) to assorted scholars, activists and held in San Francisco in 1999 to recognize the to the Mass Transgender Political Coalition sections linked by the characters coalescing and their allies, and pointed to the current issue around and spinning off from Cecil Valance, a organizers – even a stay-at-home dad, Patch loss of Rita Hesler, a transwoman whose mur- Avery, who rehearses poetry while vacuum- derer has never been brought to justice. Accord- in Rhode Island. While Rhode Island has had roguish lad who, brought to Cambridge friend trans-inclusive nondiscrimination laws since George’s home, seduces both George and his ing. The diverse roster of writers is united, ing to Jaye Watts, the direct services coordina- engagingly, by both the uncommon quality tor at YPI, there had been events held in Rhode 2001, “under the Carcieri administration, hate sister Daphne, scribbles a poem in Daphne’s crimes monitoring bills made it to the governor autograph book and – in the manner of real- of their prose and the unvarnished honesty of Island during the early years that had dissolved their mini-memoirs, sexual escapades, trans- up until 2008, when they were resumed. Kim twice and were vetoed. We look forward to the life poet Rupert Brooke – dies soon after on Rhode Island general assembly addressing this a French battlefield. Tracing the afterlife of formative journeys and intelligent observa- Stowell, managing editor of Options Newsmag- tions. Their contributions take the catch-all azine, added that 2008 was also the year when bill in their 2012 session and hope that we can that poem, this character-rich novel is both soon join Massachusetts with a comprehensive languid and lyrical. term “transgender” and explode it, in a style “the murder of Angie Zapata led to the first time that is passionate, poignant and intensely per- anyone was convicted of a hate crime against a hate crimes law that addresses penalties as well sonal, into varied components: transsexual, transperson.” as monitoring.” One of the key pieces of moni- Trans/Love: Radical Sex, Love & Relation- toring would be to train law enforcement offi- ships Beyond the Gender Binary, edited by two spirit, genderqueer, intersex. Best of all, Trevor Beard, the director of TGI, which is Diamond succeeds in his goal of compiling an “the only statewide organization providing sup- cers to be able to recognize a hate crime. Morty Diamond. Manic D Press, 160 pages, Providence’s TDOR highlighted stories from $14.95 paper. anthology that transcends transgender readers port and advocacy for the TGI (transgender, – this collection’s universal appeal, queer and gender-variant, intersex) community in RI and several youth while the discussion also made Editor Diamond introduces this tender, lust- it clear that such violence toward the commu- ful, wrenching, revelatory and celebratory an- beyond, is delectable. surrounding areas,” spoke to the issue of hate crimes legislation. Beard stated that “Rhode nity sent a message to other transpeople. When thology as “a love letter to the trans communi- See Bookmarks on page 19 asked what she thought was the most press- ing issue facing transgender youth today, Kim Stowell said, “Bullying is unquestionably the toughest thing trans youth face.” Watts added, “I think the most pressing issue is parental sup- port and acceptance. I think this is a cornerstone of the foundation of care, services and advoca- cy that can make all the difference for a young trans person.” Both Watts and Beard agreed that culturally competent health care and social service pro- viders were also essential. The panel discussion included one trans-friendly pediatrician, who was one of very few in the state. During the discussion, someone in the audi- See Providence on page 23 top 10 best seller videos Courtesy: wolfevideo.com Lesbian Top 10 1. The L Word: The Complete Series 2. The Topp Twins: Untouchable Girls 3. Trigger 4. Circumstance 5. Mangus! 6. Leading Ladies 7. Becoming Chaz 8. Gigola 9. The Lovers & Friends Show: Season 4 10. Elena Undone Gay Top 10 1. The Green 2. Judas Kiss 3. Make the YuleTide Gay 4. Mangus! 5. KickOff 6. Beginners 7. Mulligans 8. Unhappy Birthday 9. What Happens Next 10. 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Maybe “Hellidaze” broadcast from 7 p.m. on Dec. 13 season is upon us. For some, that is won- cruel reality of now the music might make you feel better if only for straight through to midnight on Dec. 25 . This derful news of spending time with the and what you have a moment or two, or the feeling that you are part will be a special Hellidaze broadcast because this family. To others, it’s a not-so-wonderful lost from your life. of a congregation. There are churches who will will be his last one. Actually, Ethan will cease time to be spending time with family, as Humans are social be- very happily welcome you, especially during broadcasting TransFM after this date. there are certain family dynamics and ings and to be exclud- these times and you may receive an invite to do Ethan has asked me to be on one of the final dysfunctions that arise. For still others, ed from family gath- something later on with some of the members. Hellidaze shows so we settled on Friday, Dec. it’s a time when your family does not erings leaves one with You never know! 23. Check out any of the Hellidaze broadcasts want you to spend any time with them at hurt, anger, a feeling There are other options to while away the hours and call in or e-mail to say hi. all, period, holidays or not. Even if you of loss, a feeling of during this holiday season. On Facebook last year I hope that you have a nice holiday season showed up at their door during this time Deja Nicole Greenlaw being unwanted, a I noticed that a couple of transwomen rented a whether you are with your family or not with you still wouldn’t be invited to enter. It’s feeling of depression room in a nice hotel for the holiday period and your family. sadly true, but far too many of us are not and maybe even thoughts of suicide. This is not a enjoyed the indoor swimming pool and the ho- I would also like to invite you all to my Spring- included in our family’s holiday plans, so good time of year to be alone. tel restaurant during their stay. Afterward, one field Transgender support group, UniTy’s An- we must look elsewhere to do something You must make other plans to get through this woman posted that from now on this is what she nual Christmas/Holiday party to be held on Sat- trans news during this time when the world seem- time. will be doing for the future holidays. Yes, to get urday, Dec. 17, starting at 6 p.m. at Club Oz, 397 ingly stops. Almost all businesses close down. Find others who are in the same situation. Plan away and to enjoy yourself is a wonderful idea! Dwight St., Springfield, Mass. Come join us for There’s not much to do except be alone and feel something to do with someone who also has no If you cannot get away and if you cannot find good food, good entertainment, good dance mu- isolated. family plans. Go to the movies and share a meal someone else to spend some holiday time with sic and good company. Too many of us are not accepted by our fam- together. Yes, the theaters are open and a movie you I suggest planning a nice meal for yourself *Deja Nicole Greenlaw is a local transwoman ily and although it hurts all year long, the hurt is is usually a good way to spend a few hours to for- that day. Watching movies on your television or who has three grown children and works at a lo- mercilessly brought to the forefront during the get about the world for a while, then off to dinner. computer is a good idea also. You could always cal Fortune 500 company. She can be contacted holiday season. It’s very painful to think about Chinese restaurants are usually an option. tune in to TransFm, an Internet radio broadcast at [email protected].

Bookmarks from page 16 ber of the anachronistic Women Accepted This is why I stand up for trans rights for Volunteer Emergency Services – she left a frustrating family and a cloying boyfriend By: Lorelei Erisis*/TRT Columnist This happened because Halsted Plays Himself, by William E. Jones. folks like you demand- to enlist, sensing the need to escape from a It’s been a busy month for me and for the Trans Semiotext(e) Native Agents, 200 pages, preordained life of marriage-house-kids and Community and so I thought I might answer one ed it. Because we all $24.95 hardcover. worked together and from something less tangible: self-defined of the most commonly asked questions that I get Once upon a heterosexuality. Soon enough, despite stark from folks. Basically: Why do I do what I do? we believed. time, gay porn Just days before this warnings from superiors about too-overt I was thinking about this last night as I attended films attracted friendships with other gals and the conse- the Northampton Transgender Day Of Remem- historic occasion, I was the likes of in Springfield for the quent horror of homosexuality, Watton’s brance ceremony. It was a powerful one and the Groucho Marx inner lesbian came out, nurtured by several second I had attended this weekend. Transcending Bound- and Salvador aries Conference. I am similarly emergent female companions. The As soon as the reading of the names of transpeo- Dali, were col- author’s memories of furtive gatherings, ple who have been killed over the past year began, vice president of the lected by New board of directors and fumbled touching and romance blossoming I started sobbing. Any of those names could have York’s Muse- are heartwarming; her account of subsequent been me or one of my friends. It cut like a knife to I was also teaching um of Modern workshops, speaking Lorelei Erisis interrogations, in which friend was turned listen to the multitude of brutal and torturous ways Art and were against friend by the Office of Naval Intel- in which the lives of my trans sisters and brothers on panels, emceeing reviewed in the events and performing with my longtime drinking ligence’s feverish desire to ferret out alleged are cut short. Village Voice, perversity, is heart-wrenching. It’s a reminder that violent, gruesome death partner, Widow Centauri. I also had the honor of Daily Variety moderating the spirited closing panel with transsex- could come to any of us at any time. Simply be- and the New Featured Excerpt cause of who we are. ual author, playwright and performance artist Kate York Post. That Bornstein, bisexual activist and editor Robyn Ochs Halsted lived in disregard of what the Later in the ceremony, my fellow columnist pre-AIDS era is chronicled with a kinky world required of him. He made his own Tynan Power conducted an exercise in which he and transgender author and shaman Raven Caldera. combination of serious research and sexual My favorite thing about working this conference way. For a handful of years he made some- had people stand up to demonstrate the visibility relish in Jones’ narrative of the life and times thing extraordinary seem possible. Some saw of those of us who put ourselves out there in the for the past several years has been getting to meet so of legendary porn performer and filmmaker many amazing people from a diverse intersection of him as a man who introduced sex without pursuit of trans rights and also to emphasize the Fred Halsted, whose films, from 1972’s L.A. censorship into avant-garde films; to others, importance of allies to help and protect us. As I communities. When I teach my workshop, “Gender Plays Itself to his final film – they were films Performance Through Improvisation,” I enjoy the he was an experimental porn director; but stood in the small group of folks who had testified then, not videos – 1981’s A Night at Halst- Halsted himself had no interest in maintain- for trans rights at the statehouse, I realized how na- mind-blowing privilege of getting a whole room ed’s, stand as exemplar’s of the intersection full of people up and just playing with each other! ing those boundaries. He believed in sexual ked I was. How much of a target I often make of of experimental film and hot sex. The art- liberation – indeed, in a kind of utopia – and myself to those who hate us. Queer, kinky, pan, poly, asexual, gays, lesbians, book-sized study is stuffed with movie stills bisexuals, radical disabled folks, academics, trans he was willing to sacrifice any possibility of But I also thought about how important it is to do that, in today’s vernacular, are definitely a conventional career for it. Detached from this work. How vital it is that those of us who can people from drag queens to crossdressers and trans- NSFW, along with what few photos of Hal- sexuals, and even heterosexual, cisgender people, practical realities and courting controversy, stand up to be heard and seen do stand up. It is only sted’s boyhood and pre-porn days the author he inspired intense reactions, and at their by saying “No More!” that we might stem the tide all playing together like kids on the playground. found in the course of interviewing his sub- This is why I stand up. best, his films did the same. of discrimination that plagues our communities. ject’s peers. Jones’ slender but authoritative – from Halsted Plays Himself, by William I thought to myself, “This is a reason I do what I And over the course of the weekend-long TBC biography is fleshed out with reprints of film I was especially blessed with the opportunity to E. Jones do.” Still, it is not the only reason. It is easy to read reviews, interviews, a smattering of dialogue *Richard Labonte has been reading, horror stories and think that being trans is a life of spend a good deal of time with Kate Bornstein. A from the L.A. Plays Itself and – another side woman to whom I owe a great deal of gratitude for editing, selling, and writing about queer danger and despair. of the man – samplings of his erotic prose. literature since the mid-’70s. He can be But despite the difficulties, I have been enor- inspiring me to be who I am today. It was the dis- covery of her book, “Gender Outlaw” when I was reached in care of this publication or at mously lucky. I have a supportive family and many Out of Step, by J. Lee Watton. A&M Books, [email protected]. loyal friends. I struggle, but I love my life! Making in my early 20s that showed me that maybe I could 236 pages, $17 paper. the decision to stop fighting my gender and be the be a transgender woman and still be a mutlifaceted It wasn’t so long ago – woman I am was the best choice I ever made. artist too! like, three months – that So I think it’s also important for those of us who It is to Kate, Calpernia, Bet Power, Leslie Fein- lesbian and gay members of can to stand up and to celebrate being transgender berg and all the others who have stood up before the American armed forces and transsexual. To let people know that for all the me that I owe my life. They who gave me the in- were subject to humiliating discrimination and difficulty, there is joy as well. spiration to carry on and be strong. They are why witch-hunts despite a de- There is laughter and community. And even some- I stand up. sire to serve their country. times victories. And to you, who are just discovering yourself Watton’s account of just This past week, after years of languishing in com- and trying to live your lives proud of who you that happening to her and mittee, and with the hard work of a great many in- are. You, who need someone to point to and be a small circle of friends dividuals and organizations, Massachusetts finally inspired by. You are why I stand up. more than 45 years ago ar- passed the Trans Civil Rights Bill. A great thanks You are why I do what I do. rives, then, at an opportune goes out to MTPC and Gunner Scott particularly Slainte! time. Her story is set in1965 for pushing to make equal rights for trans people *Lorelei Erisis can be contacted via email at: when, as a WAVE – a mem- in this state a reality. This is a victory for all of us. [email protected]. 20 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Running for My Life Ultimate Guide to Gay Gift By: Tynan Power*/TRT Columnist ☞ Giving from page 18 ast December, I ran my first Cloud 9 Living L5K. I came in a proud 2649th. ✶ Reduce your Although it was my carbon footprint first race, Northamp- this holiday sea- ton’s annual Hot son. The thought- Chocolate Run for ful and extremely Safe Passage was fun activities of- nothing new to me. In fered by Cloud 9 fact, over the years, I Living eliminate the need to stand in line at a p hoto: g lenn koet z ner have acquired a col- store and gives the recipient the gift of a con- lection of Hot Chocolate Run mugs, each sumable experience – like a hot-air balloon sporting polar bears and penguins in a de- ride or a snow-tubing adventure – that reduc-

trans man sign by cartoonist Hilary Price, creator of es landfill and time waste; there won’t be any “Rhymes With Orange.” packaging to toss out or the need to return a The mugs hold precious memories of dragging tangible item that nobody wanted in the first my sons out of bed early on Saturday mornings to place. Just pure enjoyment for outdoor lovers go watch the run and participate in the two-mile and adventurers everywhere. (Pricing varies; family walk. Every year, we’d comment on the www.cloud9living.com) runners’ skimpy clothes -- “They must be freez- ing!” we said, shivering in our own heavy fleece and colorful scarves. We’d take off with the crowd of walkers down Main Street. When we got back to the start point, there would be mugs full of un- limited hot chocolate and mini-marshmallows. The runners seemed like an elite breed. Whether fast or slow, lean or paunchy, in technical running gear or sweatpants and hoodies, they seemed con- fident and focused. They seemed to be listening intently to their bodies. It made them seem alien Pig of the Month ✶ Perhaps we chose -- and made me want to join them. this because of its tongue-in-cheek approach I’ve often struggled to feel connected to my to pork, but we can honestly vouch for its body. For many trans people, our bodies are un- quality, too. Rib enthusiasts will start sali- derstandably not our best friends; sometimes vating the moment they receive this finger- we’re not even on speaking terms. Yet the fact liking gift that offers customizable packages remains that we only get this one body in life. We that can include up to 10 slabs of six styles can dress it and change it so it feels like a better of ribs, including Memphis Baby Back, Key place to hang out, but on a much more basic level, West Citrus, Carolina Mustard, Carolina Red, we have to take care of it. A lot of us do a poor job Hawaiian, or Texas – along with bottles of of taking care of our bodies before transition -- sauce that complement each style. Sides and and years of bad habits don’t magically improve desserts – like slow-roasted baked beans red with an injection of hormones. velvet cake – make the gift a hearty meal. I’m no exception. Over the years, I’ve eaten ($15 and up; www.pigofthemonth.com) more than my share of junk masquerading as food, skipped medical appointments, and avoided work- ing out. I’ve also been a victim of domestic vio- lence. And though that was no choice or fault of Nobis Outer- my own, I think my disconnect from my body and wear ✶ They belief that I didn’t deserve better led me to stay in say that heat es- that relationship when I should have left. capes the head That’s what makes the Hot Chocolate Run so faster than any important to me. Each year, it raises funds for Safe other part of the Passage, which serves victims of domestic violence. body, which is It’s a great opportunity to get moving -- to walk or why it’s good run -- and it’s a fun event for the whole community. advice to wrap In 2009, when I promised myself I’d be one it up when the of the runners the following year, I worried that weather outside of frightful. Nobis – whose I’d look ridiculous -- the lone fat guy huffing and Fall 2011 Collection includes beanies, berets, puffing along the road. When I gave myself per- caps and hats (there’s a difference, y’all) for mission and time to run, though, I found I didn’t everyone on your list – is the epitome of win- care if I looked ridiculous. I actually don’t huff ter luxury featuring soft, detailed, handmade and puff. Whatever seems “more important” than pieces on the cutting edge of style and com- my run on any given day is actually better handled fort. ($30-$98; www.nobis.ca/) after I run, when I’m focused and energized. Ev- ery time I run, I’m making a choice to take care of this one body, and this one life. Last year, I wore my first race bib and a sticker Stonewall Equality Bracelets ✶ that read “Another Man Against Domestic Vio- Lyon Fine Jewelry’s Stonewall Equality lence.” I was excited and nervous at the starting Bracelet deservers a special place in every line. When I crossed the finish line, all that re- stocking this year. Made of leather with sil- mained was focused self-awareness. My body, ver detailing that resembles the equality with all it has been through, is strong and whole. emblem, the bracelet is a stylish accessory I am strong and whole: a runner, a survivor and for the LGBT community and its straight al- absolutely another man against domestic violence. lies. Twenty percent of the proceeds from For more information about the Hot Choco- the sale of each Equality Bracelet will be late Run and Family Walk for Safe Passage, visit donated to Friendfactor, a gay-rights organi- www.safepass.org zation for straight supporters, which is *Tynan Power is a parent, a writer, a progres- building a move- sive Muslim leader, an interfaith organizer, and a ment to end (very slow) runner. He will be at this year’s Hot discrimination. ($95; Chocolate Run on Dec. 4, challenging himself to www.lyonfinejewelry. come in 2,648th. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 21 ¡Los brazos que te abrazan hoy y en el 2012 pueden ser el mejor regalo de las Festividades! Por: Wilfred W. Labiosa*/Columnista de TRT psicológico, emociones, cuerpos, corazones y Después de que la nueva ley a favor de los as. Vamos a dar de nuestro tiempo, ir a un al- urante el tanto más en nuestros cuerpos cambian al re- derechos para nuestro/as hermano/as transgé- bergue, servir comidas y dar abrazos a los/as 2011, ¡qué cibir o dar un abrazo. Dicen que es la forma nero fue pasada y aprobada el mes pasado, nos más necesitados durante esta época de fiestas. Dmuchas co- más pura de manifestar nuestro cariño, afecto y abrazamos y besamos para celebrar este acon- Debemos aprender la importancia de un abra- sas malas nos han amor. Hay muchos que le ponen títulos y nom- tecimiento. En una boda, se confirma y ‘sella’ zo. Traten de dar por lo menos dos abrazos al pasado! Pero du- bres a los diferentes tipos de abrazos pero el el acontecimiento con un beso y abrazo. Los día. rante estas situacio- mero acto de ser abrazado/a es lo más impor- abrazos son unas acciones imprescindibles en Si pudiera, les daría a todos/as ustedes un nes siempre he visto tante. Después de que el abrazo sea apropiado momentos positivos y en otros no tan positivos. abrazo, pero espero que esta columna les ense- gente abrazándose. y no forzado, el acto puede cambiar el día y Los abrazos nos ayudan a sentirnos mejor a la ñe la importancia de un abrazo y que todos/as Después de los tor- quizás algunas veces hasta nuestras vidas. En misma vez que hacemos sentir a la otra persona reciban de mi parte un abrazo en esta época de nados en la parte ocasiones, cuando me siento mal o con estrés y mejor. Los abrazos son la cura para la ansiedad, Navidad, Hanukkah y Kwanzaa. Los/as quiero

p hoto: E ric H ess oeste de Massachu- llego a mi casa, mi esposo está ahí y me da un tensión, tristeza, y soledad. y le doy gracias por seguir leyendo esta colum- setts, después de las inundaciones en abrazo y todo cambia. Otro ejemplo sucede con En esta época de fiestas, recordemos esto y na. Les quiero dar un fuerte abrazo a las dueñas Vermont y Rhode Island, las nevadas en mi perrita, la abrazo y todo cambia. No importa demos abrazos y dejemos que otros/as nos den de este periódico (The Rainbow Times), a mi Connecticut, el estrés por la economía, a quién le das o quién te da un abrazo, puedes abrazos. Este puede ser el mejor regalo del familia, a mi esposo y a todos/as mis amistades y todas las demás situaciones ocurri- estar seguro/a que todo cambia. 2011. No nos cuesta nada excepto el esfuerzo que me rinden apoyo incondicional durante das en el 2011, la gente siempre busca Hace unos días vi la entrevista que le hicieron de levantar nuestros brazos, movilizar nuestros todo el año. ¡Gracias! latin vision latin el apoyo de alguien y un abrazo. Los a la Senadora Gifford y entre todo note como el músculos y movernos hacia la persona, traer Como Maya Angelou dijo: “He aprendido abrazos son muy importantes para nuestro dia- esposo y ella se daban las manos y se abrazaban. los brazos juntos—un abrazo. Estos abrazos que las personas se olvidan de lo que tú les dic- rio vivir. Maya Angelou, la poeta reconocida, Cuando eso sucedía, todo cambiaba en la cara deben salir de lo más profundo de nuestra alma, es, las personas se olvidan de lo que tú haces, dijo: “Yo he aprendido que cada día debemos de la Senadora; el esposo dijo que siempre él le desde lo más fondo de nuestro cuerpo. pero las personas nunca se olvidan como los buscar y ‘tocar’ a alguien. Las personas aman daba un abrazo y se daban cariños aunque las ¡Vamos a abrazar a todos/as! Hay muchas haces sentir”. ¡Feliz Navidad y todo lo mejor un abrazo caluroso o simplemente alguien que cosas se veían negativas. Y ahora miren como personas que no tienen hogar, que están tristes, para el 2012! ¡Les deseo mucho amor, paz y de una palmada en la espalda y este ahí para ti.” ella hasta camina y habla, no quiero decir que que se sienten aislados/as, deprimidos/as, y abrazos! Los abrazos cambian nuestras expresiones, sólo los abrazos la curaron sino que la ayudaron sin familias/amistades, a estos/as vamos a dar- *Escrito por Wilfred Labiosa, líder comuni- nuestros sentimientos, nuestros sentidos, y tan- a sentir energía positiva y a cambiar como se les abrazos y la esperanza de que todo puede tario, psicólogo, y Director Ejecutivo de CAS- tas cosas más. Hay estudios que dicen que lo sentía cada día. cambiar. Estas personas necesitan de nosotros/ PAR, Inc. (www.casparinc.org) Pregúntale a Lambda Legal – ¿Qué hacer después de “No Preguntes, No Digas”? Best 2011 LGBT Event Photo Coverage: Por: Peter Renn/Abogado, Lambda Legal baja honrosa, ahora tienes el derecho a cambiar Yo era parte de las fuerzas armadas de EE. el estatus de tu despedida, dependiendo de tus UU. y fui despedido según la ley anti-gay “No circunstancias particulares. The Rainbow Times’ Photo Gallery Preguntes No Digas” (NPND). ¿Ahora que la Si estás interesado en re-enlistarte, ex-mili- ley ha sido revocada, puedo regresar? ¿Qué pu- tares despedidos a causa de NPND ahora son edo hacer acerca del estatus de mi despedida? evaluados según los mismos criterios como on’t miss the Year in Review TRT Photo Primero, gracias por tu servicio a los Estados otros ex militares que buscan reingreso, sin Coverage of the Main events attend- Unidos – todos sentimos una gratitud inmensa consideración a tu orientación sexual. ed, covered and reported on by The Esto es especialmente importante para las mu- D por tu servicio. Rainbow Times. It is always our pleasure to El 20 de septiembre de 2011, la ley discrimi- jeres y minorías raciales, que fueron despedidos natoria conocida como “No Preguntes No Digas” desproporcionadamente por NPND. Por ejem- serve you. Join The Rainbow Times’ FB Page (“Don’t Ask Don’t Tell”, en inglés) fue revocada, plo, en 2008, militares latinos y afro-americanos http://on.fb.me/oAfRx3 to become our Fan in y como resultado el personal militar LGB ahora representaron 29,4% de la población militar to- the upcoming year & to never miss TRT’s Ex- tal, pero constituyeron 45% de todas las bajas pueden ser abiertos acerca de su orientación sex- tensive Photo Coverage of all events and topics ual, si ellos tal escogen, sin miedo de ser despe- por NPND, y las mujeres formaron 15% de las didos. Sin embargo, la fuerzas armadas pero from LGBTQ, Allies & Pride Events! revocación no reinte- constituyeron 34% grará automáticamente de despedidas (www. a los aproximadamente palmcenter.org, www. 14.500 ex-militares que servicemembersunited. fueron despedidos con- org). ❅ ❅ forme NPND—como Por último, es impor- tú—ni a las decenas de tante recordar que la miles más que fueron revocación de NPND despedidos según las no protege a todos políticas discrimina- en las comunidades Have a Safe torias que precedieron LGBT y de personas NPND. viviendo con el VIH. Mientras la mayoría La prohibición regula- de aquellos despedi- tiva médica aún sigue dos a causa de NPND vigente, afectando ❅ & Happy recibieron bajas hon- personas transgénero ❅ rosas, cientos de otros que quisieran ser o son no. Bajas con estatus militares. La Ley en menos que honrosa Defensa al Matrimonio pueden tener un gran prohíbe que el ejército Holiday Season! impacto, como el limitar acceso a las protec- proporcione los beneficios conyugales a parejas ciones y los beneficios de la Ley de para Veter- del mismo sexo, aún si te casas en un estado que anos de Guerra (GI Bill, en inglés) o a cuidados ofrece el derecho al matrimonio civil. Las perso- From your friends at médicos por la Administración de Veteranos. nas con el VIH aún son prohibidas de alistarse Además, los veteranos a menudo deben some- en las fuerzas armadas, y esos ya adentro que resultan positivos se les impone limitaciones ❅ ter su papeleo de despedida al solicitar trabajos fuera del ejército, y el problema de “papeleo en las oportunidades de trabajo. Aún con los malo” puede perjudicar perspectivas de em- derechos que ya ganamos, todavía hay mucho pleo. Los documentos de baja pueden divulgar trabajo por hacer. la orientación sexual de ex militares a emplead- Si tienes pregunta o necesitas información le- ❅ ores potenciales, y si el papeleo indica algo que gal, por favor visita www.lambdalegal.org/es/ sea menos que circunstancias honrosas, los linea-de-ayuda/ empleadores pueden concluir que la persona se Para leer esta columna en inglés, visita: http:// ❅ involucró en mala conducta. Si no recibiste una bit.ly/s27Uwg o léela en la página 10 de TRT. 22 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com

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The Human Rights Campaign is the nation’s largest civil rights organization working for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • 23 The OutField: Galen Dodd blocks, hits, comes out and the response is unbelievable By: Dan Woog*/Special for TRT knew. “They just wanted to But that’s all in the past. Galen’s current club t 6-feet-4-inches – and still three say congratulations,” Galen team is one of the best in the country. His team- months away from his 16th explains. mates, he says, are “11 other guys that have Abirthday – Galen Dodd might After three days, he had my back.” His two coaches are “nothing but 82 likes and 47 comments. fantastic.” Check out have been expected to play basketball. There’s pressure to do so on every tall And, Galen says, “no one So what’s ahead for Galen Dodd? His answer boy. deleted me.” is as clear as you’d expect from any high-level But Galen prefers volleyball. He ap- The Outsports story was competitive volleyball player, gay or straight: “I preciates the mental aspect of the game, next. It had been a source am really excited about the new season. I have along with its physical challenges. “I like of support for Galen for three more years of high school, and I can’t wait TRT to use my mind,” the Southern Califor- months, he says, “and I just to see what happens next.” nia native says. “I like being mentally fit, wanted to give back some And, he adds, “Our club volleyball team is go- q s p orts not just physically in shape.” of what I’d gotten.” ing to Junior Nationals in Dallas. We lost in the Galen is as intelligent and articulate as he is That story circulated quickly throughout the bronze medal round last year. This time, we’re a powerful middle blocker and opposite hitter volleyball world. “Everyone at my club (South- looking to win it.” on his high school and club teams. He’s also ern California Volleyball) saw it,” he says. “My *Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer Talk Radio courageous. In August he came out publicly – team loved it.” coach, gay activist, and author of the “Jocks” to the world. Two months later he told his story He was a bit worried about the response from series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his on Outsports. He is believed to be the youngest his coach at Palisades Charter High School. But website at www.danwoog.com. He can be athlete ever to do so on that website. he too was “totally supportive,” Galen says. reached care of this publication or at Out- But this is 2011, not 1951 (or even 2006). A former member of the Southern California [email protected]. Galen’s teammates, coaches – even opponents – have been, he says, “100 percent supportive.” Providence from page 16 In some cases, his openness has helped solidify But this is 2011, not 1951 friendships between Galen and straight team- ence put a question in about the “TLBG” com- mates. That’s impressive – even more so when (or even 2006). Galen’s munity, flipping the acronym to put the “T” you learn that a number of his club teammates first, which spoke to the level at which people attend an all-boys Catholic school. “The young- teammates, coaches – in the room were dedicated to this community. er generation is a lot more accepting than their even opponents – have Kim Stowell, speaking on being an ally, put parents,” Galen says simply. it this way: “The Transgender Day of Remem- In fact, after coming out Galen has met “a lot” been, he says, “100 brance is an event that everyone should attend. of openly gay volleyball players, both male and It is horrifyingly tragic to hear the details re- female. percent supportive.” counted of the deaths of these innocent peo- One is Travis Turner. He is the director of ple. The LGB community needs to put some Balboa Bay Volleyball Club in Newport Beach Volleyball Club sent the story – proudly – to ev- energy behind supporting their trans broth- – one of the top club teams in the nation – and ery coach he knew. A Los Angeles teacher asked ers and sisters.” While the TDOR provides a while Galen was on a plane to Minneapolis in Galen to speak to the entire school. And, Galen yearly opportunity to do so, the fight for leg- says, he heard from several college coaches. islation and equal rights continues throughout on iTunes! July for the Junior Nationals tournament, he heard members of Travis’s team talking and They told him that when he’s ready to look at the year. joking about Travis’s sexuality “in a good way.” schools, he should know that the environment Later, in Arizona for the USA Volleyball High on their campuses is welcoming and accepting. Performance Training Camp and Champion- Still, Galen’s ride to out volleyball poster child ships, Galen met Travis. They talked only about was not always smooth. Last season – when volleyball, but back home in California Galen many of his club teammates were from that emailed him. He asked the coach about the ad- Catholic school – he was closeted. vantages and drawbacks of coming out. A long “Every practice I would hear some sort of phone conversation followed in which Travis comment about something or someone being said, “If a coach wants you and you can contrib- ‘gay’ or a ‘fag,’” he wrote on Outsports. “Each ute to the team, nothing else matters.” time I cringed thinking of how I would never be A couple of days later, Galen decided to come able to be who I truly am with them. out publicly. (His family and some friends al- “Even though those terms are not meant to be ready knew.) harmful, and don’t even seem relevant to what Galen did it the 2011 way: on Facebook. Sud- the speaker is trying to express, it has become denly he was engulfed in a tsunami of positive common language among teenagers and young responses. Some came from players he barely adults.” 24 • December 1, 2011 - January 4, 2012 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com