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BY TODD A. HEYWOOD legislation that did not include the “license to was afraid the school would do nothing except bully” provision, and it has been sent to the call me out in front of everyone. I told them that LANSING – Students are driving Senate for action. Ari Adler, spokesperson for I accidentally closed my locker the wrong way lawmakers to make significant changes in House Speaker Jase Bolger (R-Marshall) has on my own hand. Former U-M legislation designed to eliminate bullying in promised that the “license to bully” provision “The constant whispers, even comments Michigan schools. will not be in the final language of the bill. to my face, and stares I got in the locker room Katy Butler and Carson Borbely, Michigan during gym were enough for me to go talk with student students who say they have suffered bullying, one of my teachers. They said that bullying was launched a petition on Change.org to protest the Youth speak out, share wrong and they would take care of it. They never Michigan Senate’s so-called anti-bullying bill. horror of bullying did anything.” president plans Over 50,000 people signed the petition within Borbely also posted a statement online 48 hours. As to why these Ann Arbor based youth about the harassment she has been experiencing: scholarship State Sen. John Gleason (D-Flushing) said spoke out, they had much to say. “Being an eighth grader can be exceedingly the petition is important. “I’m speaking out for all those students challenging sometimes, even without this - but who suffer every day at school,” said Butler, a ANN ARBOR (AP) – The openly “That’s the purest form of democracy,” being the only openly gay kid in your school is 16-year-old junior at Greenhills High School in gay former student assembly president at Gleason said. “Under the right circumstances, even more difficult. There are some people who Ann Arbor. “As students, we deserve a bill that the University of Michigan says he and one letter means a lot. One letter can change our give you hope on this, they smile, say it’s fine, will actually protect us at school. Unfortunately, his family are starting a scholarship fund mindset and when you have 50,000 that’s a very move on. There are the people that laugh, make the bills being considered in Lansing fall short for students who have been victimized by zealous effort.” asinine comments, move on with their days. of doing that.” bullying “It’s been incredible to watch this campaign “Something about it sticks with you. The “People keep telling us youth that ‘it gets Chris Armstrong made the explode almost overnight,” said Change.org thickness of the words grows on my skin, better,’” Butler added. “Well, it can’t get better announcement Nov. 17 in a video on Organizing Manager Mark Anthony Dingbaum. dissolving the confidence I thought I had. Slowly if you don’t make it better. I’m doing my part to YouTube. “Katy and Carson’s campaign has effectively it wears me down, it’s like a battle. Walking into help; please do yours.” Andrew Shirvell, former Michigan injected youth voices into a debate where school every morning feels like a sentence, and In a personal statement posted online, Butler assistant attorney general, had a blog that students have been noticeably absent, and as the doors shut behind me I sigh deeply. It’s an explained her experiences with bullying: criticized Armstrong. Shirvell was fired they’ve sent a very clear message to Lansing: ache in my chest. Seven more hours for today… “I was in seventh grade putting my books last year after being accused of harassing We won’t tolerate bullying in schools or at the Four more days in the week…Seven more in my locker when a few guys game up behind Armstrong and is being sued in federal state capitol.” months of the school year… I tick the numbers me calling me a faggot and a dyke and asking me court in Detroit. In response, he’s sued The backlash comes after the Republican off on my fingers, and for some reason it feels why I even bothered to show my face at school Armstrong’s lawyer. dominated Senate passed legislation in early like they never, ever change. because no one liked me. I ignored them because Shirvell is a 2002 University of November that Democrats said amounted to “A few weeks ago in class, I brushed a I was scared of what else they might say and who Michigan graduate. He said in a statement a “license to bully.” The legislation contained friend’s hair away from her face. A loud voice else they might tell if I stood up to them. I went that the video that describes his actions as a caveat that would allow bullying based sharply interrupts my thoughts, ‘Don’t touch to shut my locker when an eighth grader pushed “bullying” is defamatory. on sincerely held religious beliefs or moral her. Trannies carry diseases.’ The teacher didn’t me against the wall. I didn’t know what to do, so The video was posted as part of the convictions. Outcry over the caveat made do anything. That was the fourth incident in her I stood there, alone and afraid. One of his friends events marking the 40th anniversary of the national headlines and was skewered by Keith class that I had been harassed by the same boy. slammed my locker shut on my hand breaking my Spectrum Center, the Ann Arbor school’s Olberman and others in the national media. Nothing was done. The only reprimand he got fourth finger. I held back tears while I watched lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Kevin Epling, the father of Matt Epling for was a sharp calling of his name. The teacher them run away laughing. When I got home I lied support center. whom the legislation was named, said the bill asked him passively to stop. He continued.” did not reflect the values of his family or Matt. to my parents about what happened to my finger Republican lawmakers in the House passed because I didn’t want them to tell the school. I UN: AIDS epidemic stabilizing, still work to do BY MARIA CHENG earlier findings released by the group in June. users. In North America and western Europe, the Dr. Paul De Lay, deputy executive At the end of last year, there were about 34 outbreak “remains stubbornly steady,” according director of UNAIDS, acknowledged the idea of (AP) - The AIDS epidemic is leveling off million people with HIV, the virus that causes to the report. eliminating AIDS infections and deaths is “more and the number of people newly infected with the AIDS. While that is a slight rise from previous “It’s looking promising, but the numbers of a vision for the future,” and would likely not be virus that causes it has remained unchanged since years, experts say that’s due to people surviving are still at a scary level,” said Sophie Harman, a accomplished without new tools like a vaccine, 2007, the United Nations said in a report Nov. 21. longer. Last year, there were 1.8 million AIDS- global health expert at City University in London. which could take several decades. Earlier this Critics say that the body’s aim of wiping related deaths, down from 1.9 million in 2009. She was not connected to the UNAIDS report. month, U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton out the disease is overly optimistic, however, The outbreak continues to hit hardest In its strategy for the next few years, called for an AIDS-free generation and promised considering there is no vaccine, millions remain in southern Africa. But while the number of UNAIDS says it is working toward zero new more money for programs in Africa. untreated and donations have slumped amid the new infections there has fallen by more than HIV infections, zero discrimination and zero De Lay said U.N. strategies will focus economic crisis. 26 percent since the peak in 1997, the virus is AIDS-related deaths. Harman said that was an on more aggressive prevention and treatment There were 2.7 million new HIV infections surging elsewhere. admirable goal but wasn’t sure it was achievable. policies, like treating people with HIV earlier. In last year, approximately the same figure as in In eastern Europe and central Asia, there “They need to get real,” she said. “Maybe Africa, people with HIV are not usually treated the three previous years, said the report from has been a 250 percent jump in the number of they need to aim high but if their main goal is until their immune system reaches a certain UNAIDS, the joint United Nations program people infected with HIV in the past decade, eradication, it’s highly unlikely that will ever threshold, and officials are now increasingly on HIV and AIDS. The figures largely confirm due largely to the spread among injecting drug happen.” See UN: AIDS page 14 www.PrideSource.com Michigan News / November 24, 2011 / BTL 11 Granholm comes to Ferndale’s AJ’s Cafe Nov. 25

FERNDALE – Former Governor Jennifer Granholm will be at AJ’s Café in downtown Ferndale Nov. 25 from 2:30 to 4 p.m.. She will be signing copies of her best-selling political book “A Governor’s Story: The Fight for Jobs and America’s Economic Future” that she co-wrote with her husband, Dan Mulhern. Anyone who brings at least two cans of food to donate to those in need will receive a discount on their book purchase or a free latte from AJ’s. Michelle Fox-Phillips, executive director of Transgender Detroit, lights candles at the Transgender Day of Remembrance service, which took place Nov. 18 at Central United Methodist Church in Detroit. On display in front of the candles is a photo of Michelle Moore, a 19-year-old transgender woman who was murdered in Detroit AJ’s is located at 240 West Nine Mile Rd. last month. BTL photo: Jason A. Michael For more information email boyd.liz@gmail. com. Mothers make this year’s Day of Gay soldier shares reaction to GOP Remembrance especially moving debate boos Sylvia Guerrero and Lyniece Nelson speak at 11th annual service BY LISA LEFF SAN FRANCISCO (AP) – Army Capt. Stephen Hill says he wasn’t trying to score political BY JASON A. MICHAEL simply because they were transgender.” A lighthearted moment in the evening came points when he asked the Republican presidential But no one’s anger compares to that of a about when Rev. Delores Berry performed a candidates if they would reinstate the ban on gays DETROIT – More than 150 people mother’s whose child has been hurt, and the last version of the classic spiritual “Swing Low, serving openly in the U.S. military. came out to historic Central United Methodist two speakers of the night helped the audience Swing Chariot” with some special lyrics that He wasn’t worried that his debate question, Church Friday to commemorate the 11th annual learn what “mad” really means. included a band of “transgender angels” coming posed via a YouTube video recorded in Iraq, would Transgender Day of Remembrance. The names “You don’t frighten me,” said Lyniece forth to carry her home. generate boos or reveal his sexual orientation to of 270 transgender individuals from across the Nelson, Moore’s mother, sending a message “We’ve just heard a short list of the holocaust millions of people, including his superiors and world who were murdered over the past year directly out to her daughter’s unknown killer. that is happening in our community,” said Berry. fellow troops. were read aloud and a candle lit for each. “You can’t hide from God.” “Don’t let this scare you. I have always believed All Hill was thinking about in September was “Just last week, we found out that there Sylvia Guerrero, whose daughter Gwen that God wanted us to experience some Heaven his husband of four-and-a-half months, Joshua was a murder here in Detroit,” said Michelle Araujo was murdered in 2002, was the evening’s on Earth. Don’t let anyone take your Heaven Snyder, in Columbus, Ohio. Fox-Phillips, making reference in her opening keynote speaker. Araujo’s story was made into a from you.” Now that “don’t ask, don’t tell” has been remarks to the death of Michelle Moore. “It’s just Lifetime movie in 2006, titled A Girl Like Me: lifted, he needed to know if the military would touched me. I was devastated and I’m still numb. The Gwen Araujo Story. take the next step and recognize his marriage, or “Detroit lost one of its own,” Fox-Phillips “As a mom, I’m not going to tell you that if a new president would try to force soldiers like continued. “There is so much work that needs with time it will get better because it won’t,” “We’ve just heard a short him back into the closet. to be done in Michigan and the world. We need Guerrero said, speaking to Nelson. “I have “I was looking forward to the future and to educate society that we are just as human as learned to live with my pain. … I was a mother list of the holocaust that is hoping everybody would realize we are soldiers anyone else.” of four. I now have three. Each and every one happening in our community. first, always,” said Hill, 41, an Army reservist who Rachel Crandall, executive director of is different, but were all born in God’s image. returned last week from his yearlong deployment. Transgender Michigan, is someone that’s been “People ask me if I was angry at God Don’t let this scare you.” “I was hoping ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ would be a working on that education campaign for years. when she was murdered and, honestly, not for distant memory for everybody.” “I am angry,” Crandall said. “I am outraged. a second,” Guerrero went on. “Even now, her In an interview with The Associated Press, (I’m here because) I wanted to put my anger to spirit is with me to comfort mommy when I Hill reflected publicly for the first time on his work, and I wanted to pay my respects to all need it. Just like Shelly is going to be there for - Rev. Delores Berry, MCC Church the transgender individuals who lost their lives her mother.” See Gay soldier, page 14 12 BTL \ November 24, 2011 \ Opinion www.PrideSource.com Thinking Out Loud Vol. 1947 • Issue 740 Nov. 24, 2011

PUBLISHERS Susan Horowitz & Jan Stevenson EDITORIAL Prop 8’s slow crawl to the Editor in Chief Susan Horowitz [email protected] U.S. Supreme Court Entertainment Editor Chris Azzopardi [email protected] BY ABBY DEES resume in California. Prop 8 is morally and legally wrong, while Arts & Theater Editor And they got their wish last week. Without the other side looked ignorant and petty. My Donald V. Calamia, [email protected] ometimes I wish lawsuits in real life were going into the weird hot-potato specifics of how God, someone even turned the trial transcript more like they are on TV. They’d wrap it came down, the gist is that ProtectMarriage. into a play, it so beautifully illuminated the Calendar Editor up in days rather than years, and they com gets to defend Prop 8 in the 9th Circuit ideal of justice. Benjamin Jenkins Swouldn’t spend most of that time in the mind- Court of Appeals. Same-sex marriage will That perfectly crafted trial record of Perry [email protected] numbing quagmire known as legal procedure. remain unlawful in California at least until it v. Brown is what the U.S. Supreme Court would CREATIVE Such is the case with California’s Prop 8 trial, all gets worked out, be looking at closely Perry v. Brown. maybe two years or to make their ruling. Art Director A quick refresher: Prop 8 is unique among more. Last week’s quiet ruling on It’s hard to imagine David Ano, [email protected] state same-sex marriage bans for a number of If I seem happy a better foundation Webmaster & MIS Director reasons, perhaps the biggest being that it was about this, there’s a California’s Prop 8 moves us for a U.S. Supreme Kevin Bryant, [email protected] found unconstitutional in federal trial court reason. As a married Court victory. Contributing Writers and is now moving, very slowly, through the lesbian in California closer to marriage equality for Yes, our High Charles Alexander, Michelle E. Brown, appeals process. It’s poised to go all the way I would have been the entire country. Court has never been Zach Childree, Jack Fertig, Lisa Keen, to the U.S. Supreme Court. No other LGBT thrilled to see Prop so far to the right Jeremy Martin, Anthony Paull, Andrea Poteet, Crystal Proxmire, Bob Roehr, marriage law has made it this far. This means 8 off the books, and and there is a chance Hannah Schwab, Jody Valley, that California’s 2008 law could determine our state once again we will lose – a loss D’Anne Witkowski, Rex Wockner, Dan Woog the fate of same-sex marriage for the whole a model of equality. that will reverberate Cartoonists country. But then we’d have to start all over again for perhaps generations. 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LAVERS, EDGE MEDIA A trained social worker, Ryan and Rafael traditions and their cultural values.” his son and his boyfriend in San Francisco Diaz launched the Family Acceptance Project The Platas of Modesto, Calif., are among the earlier this month. “A macho Marine dad A mother’s simple act of walking alongside in 1999. It contains four components: study how eight families that the Family Acceptance Project doesn’t put out gay kids. He puts out athletes her gay son sparked a worldwide movement. parents, families and caregivers react to and highlights in a series of videos that accompany and scholars and devil dog Marines.” Jeanne Manford conceived the idea that adjust to a child’s sexual orientation or gender its research. Edward Plata was not surprised when he would eventually become Parents, Families identity and expression, develop data-based A self-described “macho Marine dad,” found out that his son is gay. and Friends of Lesbians and Gays in 1972 training and assessment materials for health care Edward Plata struggled to accept his eldest son “E.J. really came out to her [Elizabeth], but after she marched with her gay son Morty in providers, juvenile justice officials and others E.J.’s sexual orientation. He threw away the I did have a talk with E.J.,” he said. “With teary New York’s annual Pride parade. Nearly four who work with LGBT youth and their families, Little Mermaid doll with which his son played eyes I said, son, I love you and we will with every decades later, the ally movement has come of create resources and what Ryan describes as a when he was a child and replaced it with G.I. situation here.” age in the eyes of those who continue to carry The Platas soon began to reach out to other Manford’s torch. parents of LGBT children. They also began to “We are still on the frontlines of this host get-togethers for local LGBT teens at their work, and we have always known that family home twice a month. “I’m very passionate when and community acceptance is key to the health I speak about my son and the kids who are in and well-being of our loved ones,” said Jody our group; I feel like they are like my kids,” said Huckaby, executive director of PFLAG. Edward Plata. “I try to respect people to have More than 300 people from across the their own feelings because I’ve been there.” United States, Canada, Latin America and even The Family Acceptance Project’s findings Portugal gathered in Alexandria, Va., on Nov. came as no surprise to Romen Monteiro, a 3-6 for PFLAG’s National Convention. Second 22-year-old graduate student from Porto, Lady Dr. Jill Biden once again spoke out against Portugal, who attends Carnegie Mellon bullying as she stressed the importance of family University in Pittsburgh. Monteiro’s mother acceptance in a speech she delivered at the has become one of Portugal’s highest profile opening of the conference on. The organization LGBT activists. As founder of the Association of also honored Betty DeGeneres, mother of Mothers and Fathers for the Freedom of Sexual comedian and talk show host Ellen DeGeneres. Orientation and Gender Identity, she regularly Nearly 200 PFLAG members lobbied appears in the Portuguese media to discuss family members of Congress, to support the Safe acceptance and other LGBT-specific issues. Schools Improvement Act, which would require “It’s very good that they finally showed it schools that receive federal funding to adopt an scientifically in a way that they can use this data anti-LGBT bullying or harassment policy, and to show the government, the schools, to all these the Student Non-Discrimination Act, which entities that families and communities should would require any public school that receives accept their children because it’s for their own federal funding to ban discrimination against any health,” he said. student based on their actual or perceived sexual A mother’s simple act of walking alongside her gay son sparked a worldwide movement.Jeanne Manford PFLAG Omaha [Neb.] President Carrie orientation or gender identity and expression. conceived the idea that would eventually become Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays in 1972 Spencer agreed. after she marched with her gay son Morty in New York’s annual Pride parade. BTL file photo from NY Pride “PFLAG demonstrated its power by Guide 1988. Photo: Joseph T. Barna. “PFLAG is all about families,” she said. sharing its members’ most valuable currency “Doctor Ryan’s work takes it that much more on the Hill: their personal stories about how further about family acceptance and the roles bullying has hurt their families and made their new family support model to help ethnically Joes - E.J.’s mother, Elizabeth, always replaced families play in the health and well-being of kids feel unsafe in the classroom,” said Huckaby. and religiously diverse families support their it. Edward Plata even scolded his son when he LGBTQ youth and just how powerful the family Doctor Caitlin Ryan, director of the Family LGBT children. told him that his classmates had bullied him unit is.” Acceptance Project at San Francisco State “What we’ve learned over time is that in school. This article was originally published by EDGE University, highlighted data that shows a direct families can learn how to support that LGBT “As time went on, I started thinking about Media Network. All Rights Reserved. For more correlation on rates of family acceptance of person, but how one looks at them has to be myself and what I’m going to tell my friends,” LGBT youth and increased propensity of health culturally appropriate,” Ryan said. “It has to said Edward Plata as he and his family drove articles from EDGE, visit www.EDGEonthenet. and mental well-being in adulthood. really be done in ways that respect their religious back to their Central Valley home after visiting com. 14 BTL \ November 24, 2011 \ News www.PrideSource.com

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reasons for submitting the pre- Tamara Scott recorded question for the Sept. 22 debate, as well as his reaction to the heckles heard around the BY D’ANNE WITKOWSKI world; the answer that former Sen. instead of dig them out. It may be Rick Santorum gave to thunderous time for search and rescue policies Bravo to Michele Bachmann for applause; and the outrage expressed to be reviewed. Also, if there’s one her newly appointed Iowa co-chair on his behalf by, among others, his word that describes the Eiffel Tower Tamara Scott, a woman who will no commander in chief. it’s “ignored.” doubt help woo anti-gay Iowans to With Snyder on the telephone, But what’s most important is that Bachmann’s dimly lit camp. Hill watched the debate live from Erika Eiffel refers to the Eiffel Tower Scott, who is a director for the Iraq at 4 a.m. And this is what as “her.” Meaning that her marriage Concerned he asked: “In 2010, when I was is a gay marriage. Which means, um, Women of deployed to Iraq, I had to lie about something terrible probably. I mean, America, a who I was because I’m a gay soldier if the Eiffel Tower were a dude, then group that’s and I didn’t want to lose my job. it would all be okay. And, also, how Stephen Hill, left, and his husband Joshua Snyder, pictured on the right. AP Photo: never met a My question is, under one of your Jay LaPrete is the Eiffel Tower not a dude? Hello? gay it didn’t presidencies, do you intend to not like, is circumvent the progress that’s been no problem with what he’d done but What Hill remembers most was “concerned” Scott is the same woman made for gay and lesbian soldiers in that she would need to run it up the that a presidential candidate defined about gay the military?” chain of command. She later relayed his marriage and military service in marriage. In who, last year, declared Santorum replied that he would the response. terms of sex. He holds that up against fact, over the reinstitute the ban on open service “She said, ‘What the military’s the times he hid Snyder’s photograph Tamara Scott summer, she that the country’s by gay troops because “any type most concerned with is that you are because Army buddies were coming stood with economic woes could be of sexual activity has absolutely no OK, because it’s a lot of pressure over to play video games, introduced Bob Vander Plaats of anti-gay group place in the military.” on you and we want to make sure if his husband as his roommate or The Family Leader, and outlined some solved if we just banned “What we are doing is playing there is anything we can do to help,”’ brother, and the legal vows they of her concerns about pro-marriage social experimentation with our he recalled. exchanged at the grave of Air Force equality arguments, specifically, gay marriage harder. military right now. That’s tragic,” President Barack Obama, about Sgt. Leonard Matlovich, who was the “red herring,” a rhetorical tactic he continued. “Leave it alone. a week later, chided the Republican discharged in 1975 after becoming intended to divert attention from the Keep it to yourself whether you are contenders for staying silent when the first gay service member to real issues. Phallic symbol? heterosexual or homosexual.” several people booed an American challenge the U.S. military’s ban on “We didn’t bring up the objective Apparently, “object orientation” Hill says the fact that he just soldier. Santorum said he had not gay troops. sexualism,” she says while she and is a thing. It is, according to the outed himself on national television Snyder and Hill last month Vander Plaats crack up. “I don’t know objectùm-sexuality website, “widely had barely registered when he joined other same-sex military if you’ve seen this one, where the known as Objektophil in Germany,” absorbed the boos and Santorum’s “I’m fighting every day couples in suing the government for woman marries the Eiffel Tower. Or and that many “objectum-sexuals” answer followed by applause. to protect everyone’s the same benefits as straight military someone marries an object.” have Asperger’s syndrome, which is “When the actual booing couples, which the Pentagon denies Vander Plaats grunts in surprise. all you really need to know to establish occurred, my gut dropped out, rights ... and it seems them on grounds that federal law “I know you at home are thinking, that marrying objects is obviously because my first inclination was, did defines marriage as a union between ‘This woman is nuts,’” she says, going to be the next big thing once I just do something wrong?” he said. counterintuitive for me a man and a woman. “The answer, obviously, wasn’t very addressing the camera directly. “I’m same-sex couples can get married. to be fighting for those “This is not about sex,” Hill not making it up. Get online and do Before you start writing up pre- supportive of gay people, and there said. “A special privilege is not hiding the link.” nups for all of the items covered by was a lot of fear of how the Army rights and not have pictures in my house or God forbid, Um, “do the link”? What does your property insurance, it’s important would take the question.” taking mortar fire again and not that mean? Does it have something to to remember that Scott is the same He did not have to wait long them.” knowing if Josh will be recognized. do with the YouTubes or the Googles? woman who, last year, declared that to find out. At breakfast later that I’m fighting every day to protect Thankfully, I managed to find the country’s economic woes could be morning, the segment was playing everyone’s rights as human beings, the scandalous story Scott referred to. solved if we just banned gay marriage on the chow hall television. Hill and it seems counterintuitive for me heard the booing but condemned the Yes, indeed, there’s a lady who had a harder. “If we would correct the immediately tracked down his to be fighting for those rights and not audience members who did it. commitment ceremony with the Eiffel breakdown of the family by 1 percent, commander, who told him she had have them.” Tower because of her love for it and we could save the taxpayer $3 billion also because she felt the Eiffel Tower a year,” she told an anti-gay rally While studies have shown even before official U.N. advice is was lonely or something that obviously crowd. “When the family is healthy, ® UN: AIDS that could dramatically slow AIDS available. But she said the financial makes total sense and speaks to this the community benefits. When the Continued from p. 10 transmission, experts have voiced crisis is affecting treatment and that lady’s 100 percent sanity. family is hurting, society will pay the concerns about healthy people taking enrollment in some clinics, like in Erika Eiffel, who changed her last cost one way or another. We can fix trying to start treatment before AIDS drugs, which have toxic side Congo, have stalled or even been name after the ceremony, told ABC this economic downturn very easily patients get too sick. effects. It could also encourage drug suspended. That could allow the News, “I just, it’s almost like I heard by fixing some hearts.” Future strategies might also resistance, and there are already epidemic to resurge. her crying out, saying, ‘Somebody, “Fixing hearts” obviously means include giving medicines to people at millions of people in developing “Just at the moment when we notice me. Somebody, really notice making hearts ungay, or whatever. And high risk even before they get infected. countries who qualify for treatment know how to manage HIV, we’re me. Here I am in the crowd crying we all know that Marcus Bachmann The World Health Organization is but are still waiting for it. hitting the brakes,” Lynch said. out, somebody, somebody, hear my specializes in that. considering how to advise countries Sharonann Lynch, an HIV “Without more investment, we’ll be voice.’” I hope that Scott is also with major epidemics on giving policy adviser at Doctors Without squandering the best chance we have It occurs to me that people Bachmann’s economic advisor. You drugs to healthy people vulnerable to Borders, said many African countries of getting ahead of the new wave of trapped under, say, rubble, cry similar know, if only a certain President’s catching the virus, such as prostitutes, are anxious to implement more infections.” things out. Perhaps they’ve been jobs plan focused more on unmarrying gay men and injecting drug users, as aggressive strategies and that some misunderstood all of these years, gay people. Maybe then Republicans a prevention method. are redrafting their guidelines Learn more www.unaids.org wanting a stranger to marry them would support it. www.PrideSource.com November 24, 2011 / BTL 15 16 BTL \ November 24, 2011 \ Opinion www.PrideSource.com

“Every generation has seen the gender line blur and break a little more. It is S/he Said my hope and prayer that we’ve pushed against it hard enough that not only Giving thanks, gender, drag have glass ceilings started to crack, but also that our children are starting 10-year-old Ashlynn Conner of COMPILED BY HOWARD ISRAEL to grow up knowing that their gender Illinois killed herself after being or sex need not determine the scope called a boy and taunted for her Jude Geiger of their dreams or the breadth of their lives, loves and hopes. Maybe we’ve short hair. Tell us how you feel. finally reached a point where our own actions, responses and inclinations have ceased to place limits on one another. But that’s simply not true. Not yet.” Epic fail by the parents of the bullies, the bullies –Rev. G. Jude Geiger, Minister of Lifespan Religious themselves. The schools could have done better Education at the First Unitarian Universalist as well. Congregational Society of Brooklyn, in his column titled –Elaine Mulligan “Transgender Day of Remembrance: Embracing Our Whole Human Family, huffingtonpost.com Nov. 20.

“How do we prevent these transgender I agree with Elaine. Are these children getting the children from being rejected? How do idea for suicide from all of the media publicity? I we end the climate of hatred and fear cannot comprehend a 10-year-old even thinking that has claimed the lives of many of suicide. Where is her support? transgender people? We believe that –Larry Johnson K-12 schools and colleges must take the lead in recognizing and educating about gender diversity. For if we are to no longer need the Day of Are you kidding me? Now we have ten year olds Remembrance in the future, society Sue Rankin killing themselves? To be honest, I don’t think has to move beyond the binary of two I would have known about suicide at that age. unchanging genders – and if we teach our children well, they People, a little kindness to others. WTF! At some can be the ones who will bring about that day.” point we need to stop the cruelty. –Sue Rankin and Genny Beemyn, co-authors of “The Lives of Transgender People,” in their column titled “Transgender –Jason Vorva “I am thankful for the small group of close friends Day of Remembrance 2011: A Hostile Climate Continues for who I have been able to come out to since I moved Transgender People,” www.huffingtonpost.com, Nov. 19. back home and back in the closet. Those friends We’re going about the whole gender question all mean the world to me, because they get to see the “Drag for me was born out of a calling wrong if this is how our children are behaving real me ... In rural America, there can be so few gay to be an activist. It was the late 80s and towards each other. people, and it can be quite lonely. However, with a it was a scary time for a young gay man –Freedom Toobe few who I can be open and honest with, it makes the in New York City. It was a time when loneliness a little easier. I am also thankful that on walking down the street you could see the 30th of this month, I will have another birthday. the effect of AIDS on people walking towards you ... I know you all might Some people fret over being a year older, but I like As an androgynous queer woman, I can attest that be thinking - so you became a drag being a year older a lot better than the alternative. harassment based on gender non-conformity is queen? I made the choice to embrace I am thankful for my health and for the fact that I often more vicious than homophobic bullying. Miss Coco Peru everything I have ever been taught to Each person who trains their children to obey live in a country where each year I get older, the hate about myself. Celebrate it. I would gender norms inadvertently trains them to police GLBT community continues to gain the rights and embrace my two-spirit nature with the their peers. Our society needs a new dialogue struggles for equality that we deserve. There is so intention that people would listen to my story and forget all (my) about the vast spectrum of sex, gender and much to be thankful for, but these are the big ones.” drag - they would realize that despite appearances, it is what is sexuality. We must all do our part. –JoeBlow, blogger and graduate student on the inside that matters. And what every human being really wants and deserves - is love, respect, equality and justice.” –Quinn Phillips living in the South, on his blog titled “The Closet Professor,” in his blog –Miss Coco Peru, an award honoree at L.A. Gay & posting titled “What I Am Thankful For,” Lesbian Center’s 40th Anniversary Gala, explaining how Comments may be edited for grammar and length. closetprofessor.blogspot.com, Nov. 21 the early years of the AIDS epidemic and his anger led him to create his drag alter ego, lgbtpov.com, Oct. 25. Join the conversation ... (Editor’s note: Miss Peru will be performing Dec. 3, Search: “Between The Lines Newspaper” 8 p.m. in Royal Oak. See ad on p. 42 for details.) www.PrideSource.com Opinion / November 24, 2011 / BTL 17 Parting Glances

So wise, the fabled snow

BY CHARLES ALEXANDER

hat silent night the sound of jackboots grew loud encircling our streets. The hosannas grew bold. Onward like soldiers marching as to war they came, letting no one bar their Ttrampling way. “We march in the name of all consuming love,” they sang. But their hymn was harsh, too militant of brass and snarling drum to win our allegiance or gain our heartfelt trust. For days we heard rumors of casting stones. (“A lie,” they sneered.) We heard chants. Change! Change! We noted the marking of souls by chapter and verse: I accept! I kneel! I crown! (“Our truth is indelible,” they three times crowed. “It scorches like fires of hell. It stains like crucifixion blood.”) For safety we fled to the woods, worried we might be pursued by their hounds of heaven, unleashed to snap, snarl, tear any – and all – who could not, would not, dare not, true believe with them. Step! Step! Step! The jackboots echoed. Heil! Hosanna! Heil! The hour grew late. The indifferent moon shone cold. Few stars dared to shine. “Are we next?” we wondered, pausing to embrace, to lock wearied arms, to press ahead. “Let our kinship sustain us They mocked and spat ‘til the dawn,” we said. upon our gifts, our joy, And so, that once- silent night the snow fell our differences, our gentle. Soft. Unsullied. It covered all with tiny gems right to love. of benediction. (Is there anything wiser than the falling snow? we asked.) Yet still we heard the warlike din, and moved among the trees where sentinel shadows guarded our late-night watch. Each brought a candle to light our way. His, red. Hers, blue. A youth’s, pale lavender. Fairest green, a transgendered heart. A black youth, richest ebony. Amid that sheltered space our faces glowed. We shared warmth. Reflected light. We garnered hope. Breathed far, far cleaner air. Hidden in the heart of natural things we affirmed who we are – who we have always been – who we must remain – come what may – whate’er the cost – whate’er betide setback, struggle, strategy. Having so pledged among ourselves, it seemed the woods in turn gave haloed radiance. And spectral voices, too. “Remember us,” we heard unnamed spirits call. “We paid the price for candor long, long years ago. Our honest courage paved the way for you and yours. Draw now upon our strength. Your struggle’s ours.” “Hear us too,” cried others moving near with sadder shape. “Our countless lives give honor. We yielded youth, talent, hope to rampant death, disease, dementia. Our suffering, our terror – though painful to recall – must not be banished from memory. Our loss, atone.” “And we, too, are here: victims of hate, cunning, murder, foulest play. We were despised, rejected of human kind. They mocked and spat upon our gifts, our joy, our differences, our right to love. Be strong!” Then whispered a warming, healing wind: “Your time will come. Be resolute.” And softly says the ever-gentle snow: “My peace I give. This night I blanket all. Be free. Yield not. Go out. Be whole. Be as one.” [email protected]

22 BTL \ November 24, 2011 \ World AIDS Day www.PrideSource.com World AIDS Day Dec. 1 to mark 30th anniversary of epidemic remember the dead, pray for the living, interested in remembering those lost to this disease and performances and candlelight vigil. Tickets: $10-125. and draw strength for the journey. Meal the current status of the treatment of HIV. There is no The Fillmore Theater, 2115 Woodward Ave., Detroit. and fellowship to follow the service. Detroit cost and all are welcome. WSU Adult HIV/AIDS Program eventbrite.com/event/2458583690/eorg World AIDS Day Commemoration Planning Community and Holistic Care Community, 4717 St. Committee, 2930 Woodward Ave., Detroit. Antoine, Detroit. 313-993-8703. bmcclatchey@med. Friday, Dec. 2 313-964-3113. Worldaidsdaydetroit.com wayne.edu Getting to Zero: How Youth Can Stop, HIV/AIDS The Silence is Broken Volume I, 7 p.m. NOH8 on World AIDS Day, 2 p.m. In conjunction with 4 p.m. This is an AIDS week event put together for Producer, Composer and Pianist, Conductor World AIDS Day Detroit, NoH8 will have an open photo teenagers to learn more about HIV/AIDS from the HIV/ and Musical Director Patrick Gandy is on shoot at the Fillmore. This is the first time the NOH8 AIDS Resource Center of Ann Arbor. There will be music, a mission to halt the spread of HIV in our Campaign has traveled to Michigan. Reservations for slam poetry, stories from positive speakers, as well as a communities. He is using the creative and photo shoots are not necessary. Solo portraits are $40 performance by the Corner Health Centers Theatre Troupe preforming arts to deliver his message and couple/group portraits cost $25 per person. Come on relationships and HIV/AIDS. All teenagers who attend that HIV is on the rise. Minority groups, camera ready, wear white, pose and make a statement. are encouraged to showcase their talents at this event specifically black women, are being afflicted NOH8 and the Fillmore Theater, 2115 Woodward Ave., through music, slam poetry, photography, or personal disproportionately. Tickets: $20 Charles H. Detroit. Noh8campaign.com stories. HIV/AIDS Resource Center and Corner Health, 591 Wright Museum of African American History, Armstrong Dr., Ypsilanti. Worldaidsweekum.wordpress. World AIDS Day Concert, 2 p.m. The Wall Clocks will be 315 E. Warren Ave., Detroit. 949-240-4225. com playing a concert to help spread awareness to the global Thesilenceisbroken.org epidemic AIDS. Amnesty International and the GSA will AIDS Memorial Quilt Viewing and Reception, 6 p.m. Join Affirmations in honoring those in the LGBT Thursday, Dec. 1 conduct an informational session during the intermission. GSA will be selling red AIDS ribbons for $1, and all community and around the world that have died from The Criminalization of HIV/AIDS, 4 p.m. proceeds will go to the Nyaka AIDS Orphans Project. AIDS. There will be a moment of silence, candlelight vigil, Todd Heywood will explore the intersection Schoolcraft College GSA, Schoolcraft College, Livonia. and we are excited to announce that we have partnered of the criminal law, social justice concerns Facebook: GSA - Schoolcraft College with the Museum of Contemporary Art Detroit (MOCAD) and HIV stigma. Through an analysis of state to co-present the riveting film “Untitled” a film about HIV/ laws and public policy, Heywood will show “Bad Blood” Documentary Public Screening and AIDS activism by Jim Hodges, Carlos da Cruz & Encke how criminalization of HIV has actually led Panel, 3:30 p.m. Free screening of Bad Blood. Through King. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248- to increased stigma of those with the virus the eyes of survivors and family members, Bad Blood 398-7105. Goaffirmations.org and has resulted in increasing numbers chronicles how a “miracle” treatment for hemophilia of new infections. Grand Vallery State became an agent of death for 10,000 Americans. Tuesday, Dec. 6 University’s LGBT Resource Center, 215 Faced with evidence that pharmaceutical companies Spectrum Center 40th Anniversary Film Series Eberhard Center - Pew Campus, Allendale. and government regulators knew the product was Screening, of “Untitled” 6:30 p.m. “Untitled” is a non- 616-331-2530. gvsu.edu/lgbtrc contaminated with deadly viruses from the 1960s linear montage of archival and pop footage recalling the through the early 1990s, the hemophilia community passionate activism sparked by the early years of the Harm Reduction, 6:30 p.m. A presentation launched a powerful and inspiring fight to right the Monday, Nov. 28 on needle exchange, the sole public health AIDS crisis. Spectrum Center, University of Michigan, Ann system that failed them and to make it safer for all. Arbor. 734-763-4186. spectrumcenter.umich.edu. Saginaw County Red Ribbon. A giant lighted red ribbon response to drug related HIV/AIDS. Such programs focus Meet the producer and directory, Marilyn Ness and cast will light up the Saginaw County Governmental Center. on decreasing the harm associated with drug use without members Dana Kuhn and Eric Weinberg. World AIDS Day Volunteers will construct the eight-foot ribbon as a necessarily focusing on reducing drug consumption. Detroit, 2115 Woodward Ave., Detroit. eventbrite.com/ -compiled by Benjamin Jenkins symbol of a “call to action” against the disease, said Grand Vallery State University’s LGBT Resource Center, event/2365770082/efbevent Rev. Charles H. Coleman Sr., president of the Saginaw 215 Eberhard Center - Pew Campus, Allendale. 616-331- Find more events online @ www.pridesource.com HIV Task Force and pastor at New Faith Temple Church. 2530. gvsu.edu/lgbtrc Wine Cellar Fundraiser, 5:30 p.m. Commemorate World Ribbon will stand from Nov. 28-Dec. 2. Saginaw HIV AIDS Day and support local HIV/AIDS services World AIDS Day Mayor’s Breakfast with Jeane by joining HARC for the 8th annual Wine Cellar. Task Force, 111 S. Michigan, Saginaw. 1-800-872-2437. White-Ginder, 8 a.m. World AIDS Day Detroit Honorary saginawcounty.com Enjoy a tasting of holiday wines supplied by Host Committee Chair Max Fisher, Detroit City Council Everyday Wines, delicious appetizers from Women Living with HIV, 11 a.m. A presentation from President Charles Pugh, Wayne State University President local caterers, European style chocolates, and women living HIV+. Physicians for Human Rights at UM, Allan Gilmour, and Wayne State University Medical School live jazz performed by the Jesse Kramer Trio. 1241 E. Catherine St, Ann Arbor. Dean Dr. Valerie M. Parisi host Mayors Breakfast with Tickets: $50 in advance or $60 at the door. keynote speaker and mother of Ryan White, Jeanne RSVP at httphivaidsresource.org/winecellar. HIV/ Tuesday, Nov. 29 White-Ginder. World AIDS Day Detroit, 2115 Woodward AIDS Resource Center, 220 Felch St., Ann Arbor. SexUs Hold Em, 5 p.m. This is poker with a twist: Poker Ave., Detroit. 313-961-5451. Worldaidsdaydetroit.com Hivaidsresource.org chips are replaced with condoms, and your conversation Michigan Department of Community Health World HIV/AIDS Research Symposium, 6 p.m. Hear with the card dealer may be about abstinence. The AIDS Day Meeting 9:30 a.m. MDCH hosts community presentations from speakers who have done purpose of this event is to educate individuals about meeting for Detroit-area schools and community research and work with HIV and AIDS. Talks safer sex practices and other serious issues surrounding members with educational sessions, workshops will vary in subject, showing the variance of sexual activity while enjoying the a game of poker. No and special 30 years of AIDS presentation. Michigan work being done in the field. Presenters include experience necessary. There will also be prizes available Department of Community Health, 18100 Meyers Road, Robert Wyrod (Women’s Studies), Michael from the Safe Sex Store for those who have the most Detroit. Worldaidsdaydetroit.com Woodford (Social Work), and the Sexuality and chips at the end. This event is free. Phi Beta Sigma Health Lab (Public Health). HIV/AIDS Awareness Fraternity, Inc. - Delta Rho chapter, 1443 Washtenaw Annual World AIDS Day Program, 12 p.m. This annual Committee as part of the University of Michigan’s Ave., Ann Arbor. event is hosted by the WSU Community Advisory Board (focused on research) and the Holistic Care Community Red Cross Club, 530 S. State St., Ann Arbor. Film Screening: The Other City, 6 p.m. Washington, D.C., Advisory Board and supported by the entire clinical team Worldaidsweekum.wordpress.com home to the capitol of the most powerful country in the at the WSU Adult HIV/AIDS Program. The event starts Ignorance Kills, 7 p.m. Watch a short video world, has the nation’s highest HIV/AIDS rate. “The Other with lunch at noon and the program begins at 1:00 and engage in conversation about prevention City” is a tribute to ordinary people struggling to live their and includes an HIV update (provided by one of the HIV of HIV and how to break the stigma and lives in dignity, to the compassionate ones who lessen Specialists) Consumer testimony and presentation of misconceptions surrounding HIV. Free to the their pain, and to those who stand up to fight the spread the Omari Mallisham award to an individual in the HIV public. CoitusLove, 419 S. State Street, Ann of HIV/AIDS every day. This event is free. Physicians for community that has fought to make HIV treatment more Arbor. Worldaidsweekum.wordpress.com Human Rights at UM, 1241 E. Catherine St, Ann Arbor. effective. Dr. Patricia Brown, Chief of Medicine at Detroit Receiving Hospital and Associate Professor in Infectious World AIDS Day Detroit Ceremony, 7 p.m. Join Wednesday, Nov. 30 Disease, will provide this year’s update. This event is World AIDS Day Detroit for a special presentation Detroit World AIDS Day Commemoration, 7 p.m. for all persons infected and affected by HIV, healthcare on this 30th year of AIDS featuring Jeanne-White Ecumenical Theological Seminary is gathering to providers, HIV staff (case managers, counselors) and all Ginder, a 30-year commemorative video, musical Search Facebook: World AIDS Day Detroit www.PrideSource.com November 24, 2011 / BTL 23 24 BTL \ November 24, 2011 www.PrideSource.com www.PrideSource.com November 24, 2011 / BTL 25

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(Pricing varies; www.cloud9living.com) Mikey Rox is an award-winning journalist and blogger who lives in New York City with his husband and their two dogs. Follow him on Twitter @mikeyrox. www.PrideSource.com November 24, 2011 / BTL 29 30 BTL \ November 24, 2011 \ Music www.PrideSource.com

Hear Me Out For the Holidays BY CHRIS AZZOPARDI

in his cheek (don’t get any ideas about lonely lyrics of desperation for a lover getting your bells jingled), the time- who’s away during the holidays. But traveling troubadour pulls off the Eartha not Bublé. He sounds right at home for Kitt classic most charmingly. Then again, “Christmas.” Grade: B+ he does justice to most of the classics – ‘Glee: The Christmas Album, Volume 2’ 14 of them, and a new one called “Cold December Night” – on his first full-length Not to be a Grinch, but is more “Glee” Christmas album, a project the Frank music really at the top of anyone’s Sinatra-meets-Dean Martin singer was Christmas list? But here you have it made for. It’s why songs like “Holly Jolly anyway: 12 tracks from a TV show so Christmas” and “It’s Beginning to Look in love with itself that every few months a Lot Like Christmas,” both beautifully orchestrated by schmaltz master David Foster, fit his classic-sounding voice like hand and glove. To play up his old-soul Michael Bublé, ‘Christmas’ appeal, he invites the Puppini Sisters for a very merry ’60s-styled swing on “Jingle The crooner’s sex appeal isn’t just surface Bells.” He stretches his chords on a divine hotness, though no one’s going to fault “Ave Maria,” has a “White Christmas” his boyish features. It’s all over “Santa with Shania Twain and does a lovely, Baby,” taking the typically-for-chicks for-the-fireside version of “I’ll Be Home tune and adding some machismo to it – for Christmas.” Most surprising is his baby becomes “bubby.” And instead of a poignant change-up of Mariah Carey’s sable, he wants a manly watch. With his “All I Want for Christmas is You,” pulling deep drawl, and his tongue firmly placed back on the pep and zeroing in on the www.PrideSource.com November 24, 2011 / BTL 31

we must be reminded of how awesome they think they are. The McKinley High kids are best when they’re not being themselves – you know, gleeful. A standout on the second disc of Christmas songs from the glee club is, predictably, Rachel’s (aka Lea Michele) appropriately gloomy reading of Joni Mitchell’s “River,” just her peerless voice and a piano. Moments of minimalism trump all else: “Let It Snow” is a charming duet between Chris Colfer’s Kurt and Darren Criss’ Blaine, with ad-libs, finger snaps and a similar whimsy to “Baby, It’s Cold Outside” from the first set. But the strongest of all the songs doesn’t even belong to a New Directions gleek. Instead, that honor goes to “Glee Project” runners-up She & Him, ‘A Very She & Him Christmas’ Lindsay Pearce and Alex Newell, who sing “Do You Hear What I Hear?” like they’re She & Him make this Christmas their own trying to win their way in (this stirring tour with carols that aren’t cookie-cutter, taking de force should do it). The rest? As tacky gentler approaches to the same-old. Part of as those Christmas sweaters grandma knits. why it works without sounding monotonous “Extraordinary Merry Christmas” isn’t extra is Zooey Deschanel’s darling, no-frills ordinary; it’s Christmas-through-Katy Perry voice, a force that pulls you in with just the trash. Same goes for “Do They Know It’s first few notes of “The Christmas Waltz,” Christmas,” originally a 1984 charity song that tiptoeing in softly with guitar and a beautiful just sounds hokier in their hands, and the ’80s lilt that’s delicately matched. More standard romp “Christmas Wrapping” is completely fare is just as solid: the intimacy on “Have lacking in melody. And they wonder why Sue Yourself a Merry Little Christmas” captures Sylvester hates them. Grade: C the song’s nostalgia and “Silver Bells” is performed prettily just with a ukulele. “A Very She & Him Christmas” is a very nice Also Out surprise – even for the hipsters who hate Christmas music. Carole King, ‘A Holiday Carole’

The legend shows her age on her first studio album in 10 years, disappointedly without a single new tune from the songwriting prodigy. Even her voice, ironed flat throughout, is a let down. “My Favorite Things” tries to recapture King’s piano- pop work but comes off as a note-flubbed hack job. The over-enunciated ding-dongs on “Carol of the Bells” do it a disservice, though the choir helps conceal King’s weathered voice. Laughably awful, “Sleigh Ride” sounds more suited for an episode of “Mister Rogers.” Not until the coda, “New Year’s Day,” is there a truly memorable song that isn’t upset by a completely off-key Dave Koz, ‘Ultimate Christmas’ vocal. “A Holiday Carole,” unfortunately, is the coal of Christmas. ‘Tis the season for the saxophone. Dave Koz’s fourth Christmas album is essentially a cash- grab compilation gleaning tracks from his three previous holiday albums – “December Makes Me Feel This Way,” “A Smooth Jazz Christmas” and “Memories of a Winter’s Night” – that tacks on two newbies: an intro and an outro (woopty doo!). Definitely not for people who get enough of this on the elevator, this smooth-jazz collection still offers some nice twists in composition, taking “Please Come Home For Christmas” into a bluesy direction with “Idol” finalist Kimberly Locke’s singing. But it’s a package that, despite tradition, needs some shaking up. 32 BTL \ November 24, 2011 \ Books www.PrideSource.com Books that make a difference A holiday guide to inclusive reads for the kids

BY CRYSTAL A. PROXMIRE

You walk into a major chain bookstore hoping to find a children’s book to give as a holiday gift. But what if you’re looking for something that’s not your mainstream, hetero-cast, run-of-the- mill material? You won’t find much at Barnes & Noble. Julia Music, a bisexual mom with an adopted son, takes care to buy diverse books for her child. Three-year-old Quinn loves Liz Garton Scanlon’s “All the World,” which follows the day of a little boy and the variety of people he sees. “It’s important for children to see their world reflected in the literature they read,” Music said. “I want my son to be exposed to characters that look like him, his friends and people he has never seen before so he recognizes that all people are different and special.” And those books are out there. We A recent patron at Book Beat in Oak Park. BTL recently spoke to Jillean McCommons, photo: Crystal A. Proxmire head of youth services at the Ferndale Public Library, and Colleen Kammer, co- and Questioning Teens” (Kelly Huegel). owner of Book Beat in Oak Park. Here, Visit our website! $15.99. An information book that provides both give their recommendations for http://www.pridesource.com answers, insight and support for queer or children/young adult books – holiday- questioning teens. Ages: 13 and up Add our fan page! themed or otherwise – that are inclusive and empowering. Search: “Between The Lines Newspaper” “Boyfriends with Girlfriends” (Alex Sanchez). $16.99. Four real teens who are “Donovan’s Big Day” (Leslea trying to find their way in the world and Follow us! Newman): “About a boy who prepares with one another. Ages: 12 and up @YourBTL to be the ringbearer at the wedding of his two moms. “Newman does an excellent “Monday is One Day” (Arthur A. “The Boy With Pink Hair” (Perez job building a suspenseful picture book Levine). $16.99. Rhyming countdown of Hilton). $17.99. The story of a boy who is that captures the festivities surrounding the days of the week with assorted families not afraid to be who he is with the help of a joyous occasion,” McCommons said. finding ways to spend cherished moments loving and supportive parents, and a friend together. Ages: 3 to 5 “My Princess Boy” (Cheryl Kilodavis): who appreciates his uniqueness and how his difference makes a difference. Ages: 4 to 8 “The story of Dyson, a boy who likes to “My Princess Boy” (Cheryl Kilodavis). express himself through what he wears; $14.99. A true story of compassion, “A Love Story Starring My Dead Best sometimes it’s jeans, sometimes it’s a acceptance and support of someone who Friend” (Emily Horner). $16.99. A tiara. His family embraces his choices expresses themselves differently. Ages: 17-year-old takes a road trip and sorts and celebrates his creativity. A great 4 and up out her feelings of love and friendship. A choice for the junior fashionista in the great coming-of-age novel with a lesbian family.” “Addie on the Inside” (James Howe). heroine. Ages: 14 and up $16.99. The much-anticipated follow-up “The Great Big Book of Families” to “The Misfits” and “Totally Joe.” A “It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming (Mary Hoffman): “A fine gift for strong, smart, sensitive girl is fighting Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth parents looking for books that challenge her way out of the box that society wants Living” (Dan Savage and Terry Miller). heteronormativity, this book succeeds by to put her in, while trying to become the $21.95. A collection of essays to inspire including families with same-sex parents person she wants to be. Ages: 14 and up hope for LGBT youth facing harassment. as just another possibility.” Ages: 14 and up “Will Grayson, Will Grayson” (John In the 29 years it’s been open, Book Beat Green and David Levithan). $17.99. has carried LGBT and other inclusive Told in alternating voices, two teens with books. Here are some of the titles the same name cross paths and find their To purchase these and other LGBT-inclusive Kammer recommends for young readers: lives going in unexpected directions. titles from a local, independent bookstore, Honor Winner of the 2011 American visit Book Beat at 26010 Greenfield in Oak “GLBTQ”: The Survival Guide for Library Association Stonewall Award. Park or online at www.thebookbeat.com. Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered Ages: 14 and up www.PrideSource.com Theater / November 24, 2011 / BTL 33 A happy, happenin’ ‘Ain’t Misbehavin’’ BY MARTIN F. KOHN

It’s been around since 1978, so “Ain’t Misbehavin’” ain’t no longer “The new Fats Waller Musical Show,” but Tim Edward Rhoze’s staging at Performance Network just might reclaim that subtitle. Without altering the number of performers (five) or the order of the songs – why should he? – Rhoze has indeed come up with something new. He’s taken what is essentially a concert and given it context, placing it in an after- hours Harlem nightclub where performers who’ve finished their gigs elsewhere gather to meet, greet and sing what they really want to sing. Set designer Daniel C. Walker obliges Kron Moore, Darrian Ford in “Ain’t Misbehavin’” at Performance Network Theatre. Photo: Sean Carter Rhoze with a cozy, convincing cabaret, with As for the songs, their titles alone should interior brick walls and candles on the tables, REVIEW convince you of the show’s excellence: one flight down from the sidewalk outside. “Honeysuckle Rose,” “Your Feet’s Too Folks who have seen “Ain’t Ain’t Misbehavin’ Big,” “Keepin’ Out of Mischief Now,” “Two Misbehavin’” before will appreciate the Performance Network Theatre, 120 E. Huron Sleepy People,” “Ain’t Misbehavin’” and freshening; newbies will forever think that’s St., Ann Arbor. Thursday-Sunday through the previously cited “The Joint is Jumpin,” the way it’s supposed to be. Jan. 1; no performances Thanksgiving and to name just a few. At first there’s only a pianist (musical Christmas Days. $30-$46; $75 New Year’s My favorite, though, would have to director R. MacKenzie Lewis) to accompany Eve. 734-663-0681. be the ensemble-sung “Handful of Keys,” the singers, but pretty soon other musicians www.performancenetwork.org originally a Waller piano solo without words. – a drummer, a bassist and a saxophonist – Show creators Richard Maltby Jr. and Murray straggle down the stairs, and before long the them in profusion from singers James Bowen, Horwitz put lyrics to it that brilliantly and joint is jumpin’ just like the song says. Come Jennifer Cole, K Edmonds, Darrian Ford and exuberantly describe stride piano, a style in, cats, and check your hats. Speaking of Kron Moore and musicians Brad Faryniarz, of playing that Thomas Waller (1904-1943) which, Network patrons can now actually Billy Harrington, Chris Morelli and the perfected. check their hats (and coats) instead of hanging aforementioned Lewis. Fats Waller may not be around to them on a communal rack in the outer lobby. It’s almost unfair to single anyone out, enjoy the results of this across-the-board Smart as they are, Rhoze’s ideas about but a standout among standouts is Ford, a collaboration at Performance Network, but the show would amount to window dressing charismatic jazz tenor and clearly the best we are. Lucky us. without strong performances, but he gets dancer of the group. Seasonal laughs, no schmaltz at Go Comedy! BY DONALD V. CALAMIA REVIEW As the holiday season heats up with a Mid-Life Christmas plethora of family-friendly Christmas plays and musicals, those of us in search of more Go Comedy! Improv Theater, 261 E. Nine Mile Rd., Ferndale. 8 p.m. Thursday- adult or non-traditional fare may want to Saturday through Dec. 23; closed celebrate the season by having a “Mid-Life Thanksgiving Day. $15. 248-327-0575. Christmas” at Go Comedy! Improv Theater www.gocomedy.net in fabulous downtown Ferndale. Written by director Pj Jacokes and ensemble members Christa Coulter, Chris His eventual meltdown is one of the show’s DiAngelo, Carrie Hall, Jen Hansen, Bryan highlights. And Hansen and Hall serve as Lark and Tommy Simon, “Mid-Life TV commentators of one of the longest and Christmas” is a fast-paced sketch comedy strangest Christmas parades ever televised. Jen Hansen, Christa Coulter, Chris Diangelo, that explores the crazier side of the season. The funniest moment of the night Tommy Simon, Carrie Hall and Bryan Lark star in is also one of the quickest: an unusual Go Comedy! Improv Theater’s comedy, “Mid-Life Like most original sketch comedies, some Christmas.” Photo: SMyers of the material works better than others, but rendition of “Carol of the Bells” by the for the most part, “Mid-Life Christmas” show’s three buxom women. delivers plenty of laughs, wrapped mostly A few sketches would be better served improvisers aren’t usually known for their around a delightful spoof of that annual with quicker pacing. That especially true of strong singing voices. holiday chestnut, the “Nutcracker.” an otherwise humorous “who’s on first” type As usual, the technical aspects of the The production is at its sharpest in three of sketch in which Simon goes into an Apple show – especially the sound design by new continuing sketches. In the first, two sisters store “looking for jobs.” Conversely, there dad Pete Jacokes – are quite strong and add and their husbands exchange Christmas are also moments when the actors deliver to the night’s fun. presents every year – but not everyone puts their lines way too quickly! So if you’re looking for a night of the same amount of thought into what they And the closing number MAY have holiday cheer without the schmaltz, head to give. (Hansen’s reactions are excellent!) In been funny – except those of us seated in Go Comedy! And while you’re there, double another, Lark is a TV weatherman forced to the back could hear only half of the words. the cheer by sampling one of their special “track Santa” on his way from the North Pole. But maybe that’s a GOOD thing, since holiday drinks! I’ve been told they’re tasty! 34 BTL \ November 24, 2011 \ Happenings www.PrideSource.com

Editor’s Picks Transgender Life Support 7 p.m. Support Orphans Project. Schoolcraft College GSA, group for transgendered people and Schoolcraft College, Livonia. Facebook: allies. Transgender Life Support, 290 W. GSA Schoolcraft College 9 Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. OUTINGS “Bad Blood” Documentary Public Goaffirmations.org Outings Wednesday, Nov. 23 Screening and Panel 3:30 p.m. Free screening of Bad Blood. Through the Join downtown Ferndale in Thanksgiving Eve Celebration! 7 p.m. Wednesday, Nov. 30 eyes of survivors and family members, celebrating the holidays with any Come out and celebrate Pre-Thanksgiving Anti-Gay and Anti-Transgender Hate Bad Blood chronicles how a “miracle” with the LGBT community and allies at Via Crimes in Michigan 5:30 p.m. Join treatment for hemophilia became an number of their many upcoming Nove. Three levels to mingle dance and Equality Michigan for a panel discussion agent of death for 10,000 Americans. “Holidates.” These special events lounge in. Billboard Reporting Artist DJ on anti-gay and anti-transgender hate Meet the producer and directory, Marilyn Jace from the Necto will be performing. emphasize small businesses and crimes and their impact in Michigan. Ness and cast members Dana Kuhn and Free hors doeuvres. Cover: $5. Proceeds Speakers will include Nusrat Ventimiglia, Eric Weinberg. World AIDS Day Detroit, shopping local while celebrating are going to the newly formed Great Lakes Equality Michigan, the Department of 2115 Woodward Ave., Detroit. eventbrite. the rich culture of the city and the Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. Justice Community Relations Service, FBI com/event/2365770082/efbevent This event is 21+ with proper ID. Where holiday season. Civil Rights Investigators, and the U.S. the GAYS R! 344 West 9 Mile Road, Attorney’s Office for the Eastern District Wine Cellar Fundraiser 5:30 p.m. Began officially by American Ferndale. 248-336-9936. of Michigan. Free and open to the public. Commemorate World AIDS Day and support local HIV/AIDS services by Express in 2010, downtown Ferndale Pre-Thanksgiving Party with MDSL 8 p.m. Equality Michigan, 471 W. Palmer, Detroit. Equalitymi.org joining HARC for the 8th annual Wine celebrates Small Business Saturday MDSL party the night before Thanksgiving. Cellar. Enjoy a tasting of holiday wines on Nov. 26 this year. In contrast to Selling 50/50 tickets all night to help raise Detroit World AIDS Day supplied by Everyday Wines, delicious funds for the Midwest Invitational Softball Commemoration 7 p.m. Join the appetizers from local caterers, European Black Friday, Holidates encourages Tournament that MDSL is hosting in 2014. Ecumenical Theological Seminary in style chocolates, and live jazz performed shoppers to support small and local Metro Detroit Softball League, 23365 Hoover gathering to remember the dead, pray by the Jesse Kramer Trio. Tickets: $50 Road, Warren. Mdsl.org businesses. for the living, and draw strength for in advance or $60 at the door. RSVP at the journey. Detroit World AIDS Day httphivaidsresource.org/winecellar. HIV/ Downtown Ferndale asks you Friday, Nov. 25 Commemoration Planning Committee, AIDS Resource Center, 220 Felch St., Ann to shop, dine and stay local on Nov. 26 to support the city’s local business and foster a diverse Womyn’s Film Night 7 p.m. Film: Secret 2930 Woodward Ave., Detroit. 313-964- Arbor. Hivaidsresource.org 3113. Worldaidsdaydetroit.com economy. For more information and a full list of Holidates such as “Wings & Wishes Tree Lives of Bees-Haunted by her mother’s HIV/AIDS Research Symposium 6 Lighting” and “Merry Midnight Madness,” go to downtownferndale.com death, 14-year-old Lily Owens escapes her The Silence is Broken Volume I 7 p.m. Hear presentations from speakers dreary life on her father’s farm and heads p.m. Producer, Composer and Pianist, who have done research and work with to Tiburon, S.C., with friend and caregiver Conductor and Musical Director HIV and AIDS. Talks will vary in subject, Rosaleen Daise, spawning a life-changing Patrick Gandy is on a mission to halt showing the variance of work being done Music & More journey of self-discovery. Affirmations, 290 the spread of HIV in our communities. in the field. Presenters include Robert W. Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398- Tickets: $20 Charles H. Wright Museum Wyrod (Women’s Studies), Michael Seattle-born singer and songwriter Judy 7105. Goaffirmations.org of African American History, 315 E. Woodford (Social Work), and the Sexuality Collins has thrilled audiences with her musical Warren Ave., Detroit. 949-240-4225. and Health Lab (Public Health). HIV/ Saturday, Nov. 26 Thesilenceisbroken.org AIDS Awareness Committee as part of talents for over 50 years. Her unique sound has Small Biz Saturday 6 a.m. Second the University of Michigan’s Red Cross included elements of folk, pop, rock ‘n’ roll, Downtown Ferndale Holidate: Shop- Thursday, Dec. 1 Club, 530 S. State St., Ann Arbor. Worldaidsweekum.wordpress.com showtunes, and traditional pop standards. Known Dine-Stay Local. Avoid the malls and World AIDS Day Mayor’s Breakfast with for classic renditions of “To Everything There support your favorite merchants on this Jeane White-Ginder 8 a.m. World AIDS Ignorance Kills 7 p.m. Watch a short day, dedicated nationwide to promoting Day Detroit Honorary Host Committee Chair video and engage in conversation about is a Season” and “Amazing Grace,” Judy was the good businesses that keep local Max Fisher, Detroit City Council President prevention of HIV and how to break the essential in bringing singer-songwriters such as economies prospering. Downtown Charles Pugh, Wayne State University stigma and misconceptions surrounding Ferndale, Various Venues, Ferndale. 248- Joni Mitchell and Bob Dylan to a wider audience. President Allan Gilmour, and Wayne State HIV. Free to the public. CoitusLove, 546-1632. downtownferndale.com University Medical School Dean Dr. Valerie 419 S. State Street, Ann Arbor. In ’68, Collins won a Grammy Award M. Parisi host Mayors Breakfast with Worldaidsweekum.wordpress.com for Best Folk Performance or Folk Recording Sunday, Nov. 27 keynote speaker and mother of Ryan White, World AIDS Day Detroit Ceremony 7 5 p.m. LGBTQI Jeanne White-Ginder. World AIDS Day for the track “Both Sides Now.” In 1993, she Conversation Station p.m. Join World AIDS Day Detroit for a 25 and over, join GOAL each week for Detroit, 2115 Woodward Ave., Detroit. 313- special presentation on this 30th year of performed for Bill Clinton’s first inauguration, discussion, food and fun. Topic: “Should 961-5451. Worldaidsdaydetroit.com AIDS featuring Jeanne-White Ginder, a prisoners be allowed to have sex change performing “Chelsea Morning,” the song that Michigan Department of Community 30-year commemorative video, musical operations?” Please RSVP via e-mail or inspired the Clinton’s to name their daughter Health World AIDS Day Meeting 9:30 performances and candlelight vigil. call 248-981-4227 so seating can be a.m. MDCH hosts community meeting Tickets: $10-125. The Fillmore Theater, Chelsea. Now 71, Collins continues to create reserved. GOAL, 714 S Washington, Royal for Detroit-area schools and community 2115 Woodward Ave., Detroit. eventbrite. . 248-981-4227. GetOutAndLive.me music and perform 80 to 100 dates a year. Oak members with educational sessions, com/event/2458583690/eorg Collins performs at 9:30 p.m. Dec. 1 at The workshops and special 30 years of AIDS Ark at 316 S. Main St. in Ann Arbor. Tickets are Monday, Nov. 28 presentation. Michigan Department of Friday, Dec. 2 Saginaw County Red Ribbon 10 a.m. A Community Health, 18100 Meyers Road, Getting to Zero: How Youth Can Stop $49.50. For more information, go to theark.org. giant lighted red ribbon will light up the Detroit. Worldaidsdaydetroit.com HIV/AIDS 4 p.m. This is an AIDS week Saginaw County Governmental Center. Annual World AIDS Day Program 12 p.m. event put together for teenagers to learn Volunteers will construct the eight-foot Theater This annual event is hosted by the WSU more about HIV/AIDS from the HIV/AIDS ribbon as a symbol of a “call to action.” Community Advisory Board (focused on Resource Center of Ann Arbor. There will be Ribbon will stand from Nov. 28-Dec. EMU Theatre welcomes in the holiday season with the family friendly production “Go, Dog! research) and the Holistic Care Community music, slam poetry, stories from positive 2. Saginaw HIV Task Force, 111 S. Go.” P.D. Eastman’s classic Advisory Board and supported by the speakers, as well as a performance Michigan, . 1-800-872-2437. Saginaw entire clinical team at the WSU Adult HIV/ by the Corner Health Centers Theatre comes to life in this vibrant saginawcounty.com AIDS Program. There is no cost and all are HIV/AIDS Resource Center and Corner adaptation filled with fun, song welcome. WSU Adult HIV/AIDS Program Health, 591 Armstrong Dr., Ypsilanti. and dance. “Go, Dog! Go” will Tuesday, Nov. 29 Community and Holistic Care Community, Worldaidsweekum.wordpress.com SexUs Hold Em 5 p.m. This is poker with 4717 St. Antoine, Detroit. 313-993-8703. play in the Quirk Theatre Dec. AIDS Memorial Quilt Viewing and a twist: Poker chips are replaced with [email protected] Reception 6 p.m. Join Affirmations in 2, 9 at 7 p.m. and Dec. 3, 4, 10, condoms, and your conversation with the NOH8 on World Aids Day 2 p.m. In honoring those in the LGBT community 11 at 2 p.m. card dealer may be about abstinence. conjunction with World AIDS Day Detroit, and around the world that have died from The purpose of this event is to educate Based on the beloved NoH8 will have an open photo shoot at AIDS. There will be a moment of silence, individuals about safer sex practices and the Fillmore. This is the first time the candlelight vigil, a presentation of the children’s book by P.D. other serious issues surrounding sexual NOH8 Campaign has traveled to Michigan. riveting film “Untitled” a film about HIV/ activity while enjoying the a game of Eastman, this zany musical Reservations for photo shoots are not AIDS activism by Jim Hodges, Carlos da poker. Free. Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, follows the antics of several necessary. Solo portraits are $40 and Cruz & Encke King. Affirmations, 290 W. Inc. - Delta Rho chapter, 1443 Washtenaw couple/group portraits cost $25 per Nine Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. colorful dogs who behave Ave., Ann Arbor. person. Come camera ready, wear white, Goaffirmations.org an awful lot like humans – Film Screening: The Other City 6 p.m. pose and make a statement. NOH8 and Womyn’s Film Night 7 p.m. Film: The driving cars, getting jobs, Washington, D.C.: The very city that is the Fillmore Theater, 2115 Woodward Queens of Comedy - Following in the home to the capitol of the most powerful Ave., Detroit. Noh8campaign.com having parties and wearing footsteps of The Original Kings of Comedy, country in the world has an HIV/AIDS rate World AIDS Day Concert 2 p.m. The these four brassy black women give the hats! Audiences will enjoy the the nations highest. “The Other City” is a Wall Clocks will be playing a concert boy jokesters a run for their money here. tribute to ordinary people struggling to live high energy of these canine characters playing baseball, singing, dancing, juggling and riding to help spread awareness to the global Comediennes Adele Givens, Monique, their lives in dignity, to the compassionate everything on wheels they can find! epidemic AIDs. Amnesty International and Sommore and Laura Hayes go off on ones who lessen their pain, and to those the GSA will conduct an informational everything. Affirmations, 290 W. Nine Tickets are $15 for adults, $12 for students, and $7 for ages 5-12. who stand up to fight the spread of session during the intermission. GSA will Mile Road, Ferndale. 248-398-7105. HIV/AIDS every day. This event is free. Performances will take place in the Quirk Theatre in the Quirk Dramatic Arts Building on be selling red AIDs ribbons for $1, and Goaffirmations.org EMU’s Ypsilanti Campus. For tickets, call 734-487-2282. Physicians for Human Rights at UM, 1241 all proceeds will go to the Nyaka AIDS E. Catherine St, Ann Arbor. www.PrideSource.com Happenings / November 24, 2011 / BTL 35 For expanded listings & to add a listing, visit our website

761-1800. theark.org The All Night Strut Holiday Show $20-45. Gem Theatre, 333 Madison St., The Palace “Kanye West and Jay-z’s Detroit. Nov. 23 - Dec. 31. 313-963-9800. MUSIC & Watch the Throne Tour.” Tickets: gemtheatre.com $49.50-129.50. Palace of Auburn Hills, 5 Championship Dr., Auburn Hills. 7:30 p.m. The Christmas Carol Caper, Scrooge Nov. 26. 248-377-0100. palacenet.com This $14 opening night; $16 all others. MORE Broadway Onstage, 21517 Kelly Road, Eastpointe. Dec. 2 - Dec. 23. 586-771- CLASSICAL 6333. broadwayonstage.com Detroit Symphony Orchestra “DSO Chamber Concerts in West Bloomfield” As a The Importance of Being Earnest $28- part of its visionary Neighborhood Residency THEATER $30. Tipping Point Theatre, 361 E. Cady Initiative, the Detroit Symphony Orchestra COLLEGE/UNIVERSITY St., Northville. Through Dec. 18. 248-347- announces two special Neighborhood THEATER 0003. tippingpointtheatre.com Chamber Recitals in West Bloomfield and An Evening of Futurism and DaDa The Tempest $40. Park Bar, 2040 Park Grosse Pointe. Tickets: $25 per concert $10. MSU Dept. of Theatre, Auditorium Ave., Detroit. Dec. 2 - Jan. 21. 313-444- for adults, $10 for children and students. Arena Theatre, MSU Auditorium Bldg., 2294. parkbardetroit.com Planterra Conservatory, 7315 Drake Road, East Lansing. Dec. 2 - 4. 1-800-Wharton. West Bloomfield Township. 6 a.m. Dec. 6. whartoncenter.com Winter Wonderettes $31-33. Farmer’s 313-576-5111. dso.org/neighborhood Alley Theatre, 221 Farmers Alley, Go, Dog! Go $15. Eastern Michigan Kalamazoo. Dec. 2 - 31. 269-343-2727. Fort St. Chorale and Chamber Orchestra University Theatre at Quirk Theatre, Quirk farmersalleytheatre.com “G.F.Handel’s Messiah” Fort Street Chorale Dramatic Arts Building, East Circle Dr., and Chamber Orchestra in downtown Ypsilanti. Dec. 2 - 11. 734-487-2282. Detroit present Handel’s Messiah. Tickets: emutix.com $20, general admission. Group rates and patron seating also are available. Free, PROFESSIONAL secure parking. Fort St. Presbyterian ART ‘N’ A Christmas Carol The familiar story of Church, 631 W. Fort, Detroit. Dec. 3 - Dec. Scrooge, Tiny Tim and the ghosts that 4. 313-865-6306. fortstreet.org change a life is a holiday favorite and Kalamazoo Bach Festival “BachFest annual tradition for scores of families in AROUND Christmas!” Capture the spirit of the the area. $25-40. Meadow Brook Theatre, 323East “The Brooklyn - Detroit Christmas season with a treasured 2200 N. Squirrel Road, Rochester. Through Connection” 323East’s The Future is Now Kalamazoo tradition. Since 1970 the Dec. 23. 248-370-3316. mbtheatre.com Part II. Kimyon Huggins, AVONE, and Ellis Kalamazoo Bach Festival has rung in A Christmas Story, The Musical! $27- G all Brooklyn based artists in the Motor the holiday season. Tickets: $22-15, $5 79. 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Nov. 2 - Dec. 11. 734-997-7012. Ave., Detroit. Nov. 29 - Dec. 4. 313-471- COMEDY thegalleryproject.com 6611. olympiaentertainment.com Ann Arbor Comedy Showcase Heywood Kerrytown Concert House “Perennials: Banks It’s the annual Thanksgiving Five Course Love $15-$20; $49.95- Drawings and Paintings by Nora Ventureli” Tickets: $20. Ann Arbor Comedy $59.95 per couple for dinner and show. Born in Rosario, Argentina, Nora Venturelli Showcase, 314 E. Liberty St., Ann Arbor. HappenStance Productions at Andiamo immigrated to California with her family in Nov. 25 - Nov. 27. 734-996-9080. Novi Theatre, 42705 Grand River Ave., 1968. Kerrytown Concert House, 415 N. aacomedy.com Novi. Through Nov. 27. 248-348-4448. 4th Ave., Ann Arbor. Nov. 2 - Dec. 4. 734- andiamonovitheatre.com Royal Oak Music Theatre “Comedians 769-2999. kerrytownconcerthouse.com of Chelsea Lately” Sarah Colonna, Chris Fugue $15. New Theatre Project at Mix Museum of Contemporary Art Detroit Franjola, Jen Kirkman and Brad Wollock. Studio Theatre, 130 W. Michigan Ave., “Stephanie Nava: Considering a Plot (Dig Tickets: $37.50 advance, $40 at the door. Ypsilanti. Nov. 30 - Dec. 18. 734-645- for Victory)” A work in progress, developed Royal Oak Music Theatre, 318 W Fourth 9776. thenewtheatreproject.org by French artist Stephanie Nava. Its St, Royal Oak. 8 p.m. Dec. 3. 248-399- installation at MOCAD marks the artist’s 2980 . royaloakmusictheatre.com It’s a Wonderful Life: A Live Radio Play $15-$20; or $49.95-$59.95 per couple for first solo exhibition in the United States. The Ark Mr. B Tickets: $20. Hill dinner & show. HappenStance Productions Museum of Contemporary Art Detroit, Auditorium, 316 S. Main, Ann Arbor. 8 p.m. at Andiamo Novi Theatre, 42705 Grand 4454 Woodward Ave, Detroit. Sep. 16 - Nov. 26. 734-761-1800. theark.org River Ave., Novi. Dec. 1 - Jan. 15. 248- Dec. 30. 313-832-6622. mocadetroit.org 348-4448. ticketmaster.com CONCERTS Pittmann-Puckett Art Gallery “Mike Les Miserables $34.50. 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Mercury is turning retrograde and there’s a solar eclipse, all in Sagittarius. Be open-minded and patient. New information will make you change your mind about important matters, though it may take weeks to figure out.

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Lady Gaga. Photo: Joe Seer / Shutterstock.com BY ROMEO SAN VICENTE Queen Latifah needs to talk to A Very Gaga Thanksgiving you about… Leave it to Lady Gaga to avoid the typical when Back in 1999, Queen Latifah was still it comes to holiday specials. Instead of joining the transitioning from a hip-hop career, where she Christmas onslaught and risking getting lost in the was known primarily as a rapper, to a film and shuffle of one-off TV events, Gaga’s “A Very Gaga singing career. And around that time she got Thanksgiving” will not only allow her to get the her own talk show, “The Queen Latifah Show.” jump on every other entry but put her in the more It didn’t last long, but that was before Oprah rarefied atmosphere occupied by very few other left the field wide open for a successor and the Thanksgiving-themed holiday specials. In other last 11 years saw Latifah’s career skyrocket to words, she’s chosen the esteemed company of the A-list (even though her sexual orientation Charlie Brown over Kathie Lee Gifford. The ABC remains the subject of public speculation, special will feature Gaga performing her new single prompts discussions of “glass closets,” and, to “Marry The Night” as well as her recent duet with this moment, isn’t quite 100-percent confirmed). Tony Bennett, “The Lady Is A Tramp.” She’ll be So now a new show is in the works, produced by interviewed by Katie Couric, perform her version Latifah’s Hollywood pals Will and Jada Pinkett of “White Christmas” (it never hurts to hedge your Smith, and their business plan is a shrewd one: bets) and help chef Art Smith make deep-fried it’s not hitting airwaves until the fall of 2013, turkey with waffles – presumably, while dressed which ought to give the current crop –Anderson as a bottle of Mrs. Butterworth’s syrup. Set your Cooper, Bethenny Frankel, Steve Harvey, Ricki DVR for Thursday, Nov. 24, Thanksgiving night. Lake and Jeff Probst – time to thin their own ranks via cancellations Watch out, the ‘Original Dragon Tattoo’ Girl is coming back Cheyenne Jackson and Nathan Rooney Mara may be the woman American Lane, playing it straight? audiences eventually recognize most in the role What kind of sitcom would you expect to see from of Lisbeth Salander after the English-language two gay actors like Nathan Lane and Cheyenne version of “The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo” Jackson? How about one where there’s no hits theaters in December, but it was Noomi mention of any overly gay plot? No? Well here Rapace, the star of the original trilogy of Swedish goes: USA has greenlit an untitled comedy pilot films, who carried those movies to this side of from Oscar nominee Douglas McGrath (“Bullets the world in the first place. As the hard-bitten, Over Broadway”) that will star Lane, Jackson crime-busting lesbian computer genius, Rapace and “Scrubs” vet Ken Jenkins. Centered on an shocked audiences with her character’s capacity unlucky actor (Lane) whose fledgling Broadway for violence and her charismatic chilly presence career is derailed when his elderly father becomes left an indelible mark on every minute of the ill, he’ll return fish-out-of-water-style to his series. Now Rapace is re-teaming with Dragon Texas hometown, befriending his father’s doctor Tattoo director Niels Arden Oplev for an English (Jackson) in the process. Obviously, one or both language film co-starring Colin Farrell. In “Dead of the characters could turn out to be gay, but right Man Down,” she’ll play a woman who seduces a now that’s not information anyone’s been given. gangster just so she can blackmail him afterward. Frankly, it would be an interesting development The film starts shooting in early 2012, with a if neither character were written gay. Jackson probable 2013 release date to follow. Sounds already plays a heterosexual character on “30 like another role that calls for a strong woman, Rock,” and it would provide further proof that and Rapace is more than capable of it. Just don’t openly gay actors can take on any role they’re call it typecasting; think of it as building a brand. asked. Neil Patrick Harris and Zachary Quinto can’t be expected to carry that burden alone, right?

Romeo San Vicente has role-played convincingly in a variety of scenes. He can be reached at [email protected].

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