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After spending 3 months on with our fellow man. an Israeli ulpan program at 16yrs of age our connection, deep affinity and Cindy: Kindness, tolerance, pres- common values secured our bond. ervation of our planet And of course, I fell for his good looks, his charisma, and his kindness What do you value most in as well. After dating for 8 years, we your friends? married at age 23. David: Honesty, humility, the ability to listen, to show vulnerability How did you know you were and compassion. with “the one”? David: Cindy took a while to figure Cindy: Support, joint interests, it out, but I knew instantly! compassion What do you think is the most Who’s your favorite Jewish important thing in a relationship? memories-chief among them is the couple. My aunt is now 90 and hero (living or not/fictional or not) David: As for friendship-honesty, myriad we have made traveling she remains a guiding light and a and why? genuine caring, the ability to express to so many wonderful places solid support. Their marriage was David: Not well known-Arnold real emotion. and experiencing a plethora of deeply grounded in spirituality and Van Den Berg is someone who cultures. honesty. Much of my youth was epitomizes for me the definition Cindy: I think the most important spent growing up in their home- of a Jewish hero-he built himself factor in a relationship is compassion Cindy: We have been blessed their marriage and household out of the ashes of the Holocaust, and kindness. I think a deep to have spent 44 years together of represented comfort, strength, and an industrious and hard-working, understanding of your partner’s which we have been married 36. commitment. effectively generous, caring, family feelings and common values creates a It would be impossible to find one oriented, educator. solid, meaningful basis to a marriage. favorite experience or memory. Certainly, the birth of our children What advice do you have for Cindy: Golda Meir-Her passion What is your favorite experi- and then the recent births of young couples today? and vision for Israel and its future and ence or memory as a couple? our 3 grandchildren are major David: Relish the advantages her understanding of the conflicts has David: We have been fortunate to highlights. We have traveled, we of youth, try to live every day always amazed me. be able to share so many wonderful have moved, and we have forged in the present moment, do not a remarkable history of memories. underestimate the power of We have been truly blessed. compromise, listen to each other. Cindy: Remain focused on Who is your favorite couple each other and what brought you (besides yourselves), fictional together in the first place or real, and why? David: Ruth Bader and Martin Ginsburg-icons of American What is your Jewish passion? Jewish life who forged ahead in David: The strength and their respective professions, broke connectivity of our tradition, new ground and contributed the vigor and fortification of our mightily to their marriage, family, youth, the importance of being an community, and country. “ohr lagoyim” Cindy: I have an aunt whose Cindy: Israel, and the traditions husband has now passed away. I that bring families together for would identify them as my favorite holidays. 915-842-9554 | www.jewishelpaso.org The Jewish Voice July-August 2021 | 3 Tu B’Av: Our own Valentine’s Day… Tu B’Av is a relatively little- the Jewish holiday of love. Gemara, a later, interpretive layer with sing- known Jewish holiday. It doesn’t In the days of the Second Tem- of the Talmud, offers multiple ex- ing and have a special name, like Passover ple, the day was considered a joyous planations. One of the more pop- dancing. or Yom Kippur, it is known only by occasion, and was marked by un- ular ones is that on Tu B’Av the It is also its date, Tu B’Av, or the 15th of the married women dressing in white Biblical “tribes of Israel were per- a popular Hebrew month of Av. The Mishna and dancing in the vineyards, hop- mitted to mingle with each other.” day to get Elizabeth Sloane, marks it as the beginning of the ing to attract a husband. No one is (Talmud, Ta’anit 30b). Mingle, of married if Editor grape harvest, but this day has an- quite sure how Tu B’Av started, or course, meaning to inter-marry. you are so other meaning as well: Tu B’Av is why it became a day of love. The After the destruction of the sec- inclined. Here in the US, most have ond Temple, and the diaspora, the never heard of it, and may think traditions associated with Tu B’Av it’s superfluous, given the secular fell by the wayside. This celebra- nature of Valentine’s Day here. But tion of love went unmarked for really, is there anything wrong with Todah Rabah several centuries but has recently celebrating two days of love? become popular in Israel as the We hope you enjoy the stories of Thank you to our volunteers Jewish “Valentine’s Day”. some of our community members In Israel, many mark Tu B’Av as they share stories of love Borderland’s Café Europa Guest Speakers Stephanie Calvo, Mindy Escobar-Leanse, Eddie Trevizo, Rabbi Ben Zeidman Borderland's Cafe Europa Support Noel Hollowell-Small Borderland’s Café Europa Shabbat Meet our PJ Library Dinner Meal Deliveries Cheryl Decker, Noel Hollowell-Small, Alison Mann, Coordinator Rebecca Mendez, Shane Wagman Romero These We Honor With Tributes Jewish Federation of Greater El Paso TO: Audrey and Eitan Lavi, Mazel Tov on becoming Grandparents FROM: Sue Bendalin TO: Tibor Schaechner, Mazel Tov on becoming a Great Grandfather FROM: Sue Bendalin TO: The Eisenberg Family in Memory of Jack Eisenberg FROM: Joe and Carol (Silberman) McElroy To make a tribute, contact the Federation at 915-842-9554. Mindy Escobar-Leanse is an United States with the Jim Hen- actor, puppeteer, voice actor and son company, internationally in now, a passionate Judaics facilita- Poland, Bulgaria, Japan, and Is- tor at The Cherry Hill School and rael. She was raised in an event The J-Center for Early Learning, planner's home and is thrilled to A publication of the Jewish local Jewish schools. She has per- be helping bring the PJ Library formed in New York, all over the events to our community this year. Federation of Greater El Paso The Jewish Voice of El Paso, published ten times a year, is dedicated to informing, educating, and uniting the Jewish community by providing news items of local, national, Israeli and international concern. YOUR AD HERE The Jewish Voice will consider for publication any materials submitted that support the mission of the Jewish Federation of Greater El Paso and have relevance and appeal to the El Paso Jewish Advertise in The Jewish Voice community. 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They jokingly credit the fact that Jay was out of town from Tuesday to Friday every week for their happy marriage. And it has been a very happy one. After 63 years they are more in love than ever. The Gladstein home was bursting with love on Mother’s Day when all their children, Cliff and Amy, Denise, and Alfred celebrated along with the loving doggy doodles: Lilly, Ginger, and Peanut.