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SHOVAVIM 2019-5779 CONNECTION THROUGH BOUNDARIES Rethinking Male/Female Relationships Inside and Outside the Home A MULTI-FACETED, FIVE-WEEK FOCUS ON DEFINING HEALTHY MALE/FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS SHABBOS POST-KIDDUSH TALKS Frank and Open Discussions About the Challenges of Relationships Between Genders JANUARY 5, PARSHAS VA’EIRA Rabbi Ilan D. & Miriam Feldman: Top 5 Secrets of a Healthy Marriage MARRIAGE WORKSHOPS (M/W) Take advantage of these Shovavim follow-up JANUARY 12, PARSHAS BO series starting in February Guest Speaker Sivan Rahav Meir: Balancing Act - The Challenges and Opportunities of Being a Religious Woman in the Media (M/W) Marriage Workshops for men led by JANUARY 19, PARSHAS BESHALACH Rabbi Ilan D. Feldman and Dr. Aaron Feldman with Mrs. Esther Pransky (W) Starting Thursday, February 7 | 8:30pm JANUARY 26, PARSHAS YISRO with Rabbi Ilan D. Feldman and Rabbi Dov Foxbrunner (M) The Synergy of Hilchos Niddah and Jewish Thought FEBRUARY 2, PARSHAS MISHPATIM An eight part series for women by Mrs. Rivka Foxbrunner with Guest Speaker Dr. David Pelcovitz Starting Wednesday, February 5 HILCHOS YICHUD PODCAST An Overview of the Halachos of Seclusion in SPECIAL Private Places with the Opposite Gender SESSION Recorded live at Mincha/Maariv by Rabbi Dov Foxbrunner Starting January 6 throughout the Shovavim weeks. Our new series dealing with the challenges Torah Jews face in the workplace with a focus on opposite-gender HILCHOS NIDDAH REFRESHER relationships in the business world. A 2-part review of relevant Halachos and commonly-asked questions regarding Tuesday, January 22 | 8:00pm | Conference Room family purity Shulamith Klein, Chief Risk Officer, Emory University and Emory Healthcare with Rabbi Dov Foxbrunner Shlomo Storch, CEO, Networx.com Sunday, January 13, and Thursday, January 17 9:00-9:45 pm | Kollel (M) SPECIAL WEEKEND WITH RENOWNED PSYCHOLOGIST, AUTHOR AND POPULAR SPEAKER DR. DAVID PELCOVITZ JAN 31 - FEB 3. For more information or sponsorship opportunities, contact Rabbi Dov Foxbrunner SHOVAVIM is a Hebrew acronym representing the first six weekly Torah portions of the Book of Shemos, spanning the narrative from the descent into Egyptian bondage until redemption and receipt of the Torah at Sinai. It is a time when Jewish communities have traditionally focused on improving spousal relationships and sanctity in relationships (family purity)..

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Shovavim T"T
SHOVAVIM T"T As the reading of the book of Shemot is starting (Two weeks after Hanukka) it signifies the starting of a special cosmic opening that lasts for the coming 6 weeks (8 weeks on a leap year). The word SHOVAVIM stands for the initials (in Hebrew) of the names of the weekly Parashot of this time of the year: Shemot Va’era Bo Beshalah Yitro Mishpatim (Teruma Tetsave) The word that comes out as the initials of these Parashot of Exodus, SHOVAVIM means in Hebrew “irresponsible” Jeremiah 3:14. During those weeks of readings those Parashot tell us about the story of the Exodus. The Kabbalistic tradition teaches us that the story is only a code for the cosmic opening available on this part of the year. This opening is allowing us to achieve a personal redemption. The Ari in Sha’ar HaPsukim (Pages 101-126) is teaching us the more precise details of the energy of those weeks: The Ari explains that the fall of Adam had a strong effect on most of life’s aspects resulting in human pain and suffering. The most important aspects of the Fall of Adam have been corrected by Moses and the Israelites during the time of the Exodus, resulting in achieving immortality on Mt Sinai. All the tools used by Moses at the Exodus are available to us during the weeks of the SHOVAVIM. The Kabbalah Centre International © 1 The readings of the Torah, the Zohar and the special meditations of those weeks can help us in few ways: • Coming closer to our true selves • Releasing and redeeming lost sparks of light from the klipot.
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THIS JOIN US FOR A SPECIAL 75TH ANNIVERSARY SHABBOS! CelebrationAPRIL 27-28 Shabbos with HONORING OUR RABBI EMANUEL FELDMAN Special Guest and Man of the Year Woman of the Year MOSHE STORCH RABBI ILAN D. FELDMAN RABBI YAAKOV HALLER STACEY MCGHEE FRIDAY, APRIL 27 6:40PM | Mincha followed by Ruach-filled Kabbalas Shabbos with Moshe Storch!Bring your family! During Ma’ariv there will be a short program for children in the Conference Room. For children up to second grade. 9:30PM | Festive Oneg at the home of Shlomo & Elisheva Storch, 1255 Bramble. Rd. SHABBOS, APRIL 28 9:00AM | Joyful davening followed by presentation of Man & Woman of the Yearfollowing davening (appx. 11:15AM). Man of the Year, Rabbi Yaakov Haller: A role model of community engagement, and representing the hundreds of volunteers and hosts who facilitated the community Hurricane Irma relief effort this past year. Woman of the Year, Stacey McGhee: In appreciation for her constant dedication to Beth Jacob and countless hours volunteering, in addition to recently completing two terms as Programming Trustee. Look out for the special Beth Jacob 75th Birthday cake at kiddush! 6:00PM | Seventy-Five Years of Growth: What it Means for the FutureRabbi Emanuel Feldman and Rabbi Ilan D. Feldman. Refreshments sponsored by Cinnaholic. 7:00PM | Main Mincha, followed by Community Shalosh Seudos led by Moshe Storch (open to men & women). PROUD An additional Mincha will take place at 7:30PM. EVENT 8:49PM | Ma’ariv followedLIMITED by Havdala & Kumzitz. EDITION HOST SUNDAY, APRIL 29 6:00PM | 75th Anniversary Celebration! 6:00PM Reception | 6:45PM Dinner Mincha 6:10pm and 6:30pm in the Main Shul 1855 LaVista Road, atLanta, Ga 30329 | 404.633.0551 | BethJacoBatLanta.oRG | [email protected] | A NEW PARENTING SERIES FOR MOTHERS OF CHILDREN 3 - 10 YEARS OF AGE STEPPING UP TRIVIA Fulfilling Our Obligations as Parents GAME A STEP BY STEP PARENTING SERIES Led by Mrs.
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ã"ñá President Robert Benmergui Vice President Chief Rabbi Isaac Cohen Haham Amram Assayag ברוכים הבאים שבת שלום Executive Vice President Assistant Rabbi Maurice Benzacar Shabbat Shalom Welcome to our Synagogue Rabbi Messod Azoulay Hazan Rabbi David Kadoch Shaliach Tzibur פרשת שמות Perashat Shemot Tebet 5776 Marc Kadoch 21 / כ"א טבת תשע"ו ,Shabbat January 2nd, 2016 Perasha Page 292, Haftara 1147 in Artscroll Parnass Avi Azuelos Shabbat Prayer Times Weekday Services at íéøéùä øéù Shir Hashirim 4:20 p.m. Medrash Torah Vehayim äçðî Minha 4:35 p.m. úéøçù Shaharit Sunday úáù úìá÷ Kabalat Shabbat 4:50 p.m. ïé÷éúå Vatikin 7:10 a.m. úåøð ú÷ìãä Candle Lighting 4:33 p.m. Makdimim 8:00 a.m (ïé÷éúå) à"ãéçä ïéðî úéøçù Shaharit Ha’Hida Vatikin 6:50 a.m. íéîéã÷î . Kebuim 9:00 a.m. úéøçù Shaharit (Main Synagogue/Barechu:9:35) 8:30 a.m. íéòåá÷ íéìäú Tehilim 3:35 p.m. äçðî Minha 4:05 p.m. úéøçù Shaharit Weekdays áåè òåáù Shabat Ends 5:40 p.m. ïé÷éúå Vatikin 7:10 a.m. íéîéã÷î Makdimim 6:45 a.m. Ereb Shabbat, Friday January 8th, 2016 íéòåá÷ Kebuim 8:15 a.m. Shir Hashirim 4:25 p.m. (Candle Lighting 4:39 p.m.) äçðî Minha 4:35 p.m. úéáøò Arbit 5:15 p.m. Shabat Zemanim– Netz– õð– 7:52 am, Keriat Shema- òîù úàéø÷- 9:31 am, Shekia- äòé÷ù– 4:52 pm Mazal Tov Mazal Tov to Ruth Dayan and Gil Shoshan on their recent engagement.
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Dvar Torah for Shovavim with the Help of God Shovavim
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