Gifts of the Spirit Handbook

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Everyone wants to love and be loved. The difficulty is in knowing how. When love goes wrong, real damage can be done to people. But when love works it is spectacular. It is a many-splendoured thing. And this resource pack lays out some of those splendours to help people find true love in their life, a love that will last and set them free.

The fireworks and other big emotions we experience in loving are to be treasured and enjoyed. But that sort of love is the icing on the cake. It is in the daily nitty-gritty of life that we touch the richness, the depth and true value of love. The kind of love we really want is the kind that is there the for us day in and day out.

In this pack Pauline Books & Media has attempted to suggest some of the ways to find that love in life. Falling in love is the exciting part. Loving everyday is where the work begins. The Gifts of the gifts Spirit package presents ways to give love a chance. St Paul said the best of all the gifts of the Holy Spirit is love, that’s because in love all the other gifts of come together. God bless your ministry with the young (and not so young) as you help them know what living the faith is all about. Spirit Gerard Conroy

3 >> Jesus was filled with the joy of the Holy Spirit and said, >> I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, >> and made them known

LUKE 10:21 >> to the little ones. << wisdom The Snapshot

wisdom practicing wisdom This picture seems unlike what we might expect wisdom to look like. Two voices harmoniously in tune with one another, responding to what they anticipate the Our Christian faith affirms that we are other to do next. Look at the energy within the shot – the strumming hand, the all made saints (‘holy people’) when we voice of praise, the sound and the lights. Somehow this doesn’t seem like a per- commit our lives to following Jesus. In our formance – more like a prayer or an act of worship from deep within. Catholic tradition, Saints are people who Who or what am I in tune with in my life? Who leads that tune? were particularly in tune with God in the What gifts do I have to bring to this world? way they lived out their lives. Throughout What gifts would others say I have to bring to this world? history the Saints are noted for a wide va- The Insight Do I share these gifts with enthusiasm and energy? riety of reasons, from the insights of their Live as if you were to die Not all talents and gifts are noticeable from the outside – where can you see writing to courageous acts and mystical tomorrow. Learn as if you ‘hidden’ gifts in others? experiences. One theme that is common were to live forever. How might you exercise your own ‘hidden’ gifts today? throughout all the Saints, though, is their Mahatma Gandhi demonstration of the gift of wisdom – a Wisdom is far more about true understanding of God’s ways. attitude than about age or The Word 1 When you are confirmed, you might experience. Embracing the Jesus was filled with the joy of the Holy Spirit and said, ‘I praise you, choose a name of a particular character gift of wisdom teaches us Father, Lord of heaven and earth, for you have hidden these things from the Bible or a Saint who exempli- from the wise and learned, and made them known to the little ones.'. to approach life with open fies something about being in tune with Luke 10:21 hands — treasuring the God. It might be that you consider what This verse speaks of God’s wisdom being different from human wisdom giftsLive that God has given us, “ they stood for to be valuable. Perhaps you as if you were to die tomorrow — in other words, it is not about what other people deem intelligent or using them to their fullest influential, but what God wants to achieve in your life. identify with part of their life story. Or it potential, and recognisingL e a r n ” might be that you would like to be more thatas ifthey you stem were from to him. live forever like them in character. Whatever your Wisdom is practical — it is an reason, don’t let it be a one-off occur-

>>energetic Make us know the shortness and of life free response that we may gain wisdom of heart. << The Word 2 rence that you think about this person. Try PSALM 90:12 to God’s goodness. Wisdom Make us know the shortness of life to remember them as you go about your in this sense is about being in that we may gain wisdom of heart. Psalm 90:12 daily life – perhaps by carrying a picture of tune with God’s hidden song This verse may seem slightly stark, but what it expresses is the desire to see them in your wallet or purse (do an image — actively cooperating with the world with God’s perspective. If you are nervous about sharing search on the net and pick one that most his purposes and his plans. “your gifts with the world, try praying this Psalm, asking the Holy Spirit to appeals to you). However you choose to ” be reminded of your Saint, use the oppor- bring you that perceptive wisdom. tunity to ask Jesus to help you become in tune with him in the way that inspires you about them.

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org wisdom | The Word | the 24/7 life If you would like to discover more of what the Bible says about the gift of wisdom, try reading one or more of these passages and consider the points One of the best ways to reflect on being in tune for reflection: with God is to keep a journal or diary of your prayer and life. It might sound a bit unnatural for you, but it genuinely is a positive step towards Genesis 22:9-14 recognising the patterns and differences in which The sacrifice of Isaac your life with God is moving. Begin each note • Abraham waited his whole life for the birth of Isaac, and now God seems with the date, and a short sentence or two about to ask Abraham to sacrifice him. what you have been praying about. Perhaps you Do you think Abraham is wise to obey God? might comment about anything that has struck • What does this story tell us about cooperating with God? you from the Bible, or from conversations over the When else do we see somebody willing to offer their only son? • previous day. You might also write down some What does this say about Abraham being ‘in tune’ with God? prayers when you are finding it challenging to Isaiah 42:16 concentrate. Every so often, flick back through God will lead us in new ways your journal, and map out how your journey with • What does this verse say about being open to God’s wisdom? God has been. Where are the high points and • What do you consider is your greatest ‘blind spot’? where has it been a struggle? Which prayers have >> Draw close to God and God will draw close to you << • What kind of characteristics do we need to possess to be in tune with been answered, and which others continue to be God’s plans? thea important priority? thing is After a while, you may well begin to see t o b e a b l e themesat any moment recurring or questions that persist. You Luke 6:12-13 to surrender Jesus prays willwhat then we be are able to discuss these with a trusted forfriend, what we could a priest or youth leader. • Where did Jesus pray? Is he with other people? Where do you go to pray? b e c o m e • If even Jesus needs to pray, what does that tell us about our lives? • Jesus prays before he chooses his disciples – an important decision. a prayer for wisdom Do you pray before you take action? • Proverbs 1:7 has this classic statement about wisdom: 'The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.' Holy Spirit Can you see a connection between prayer and the exercise of wisdom ? fill my life with your gift of wisdom help me to see the world with your perspective a w e and to offer you freely and w o n d e r all the gifts you have given me

>> I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you so that I can be in tune with you and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last. << amen

>> You will show me the path of PSALMlife, in 16:15 your presence the fullness of joy.

right judgement The Snapshot practicing Consider each of the people in the picture – they are all following their own paths. Some are alone while others are walking together. Each has a story, a place right judgement where they come from and a destination. They have different goals but all are on Life is bursting with opportunities to a journey. practice right judgement. Some choices will seem straightforward, but at all Do I always know clearly where I am heading? times, we need to make sure that we Am I facing difficult choices at the moment? Where might I need more clarity? are properly informed so that we may Am I making a decision on my own, or do I need to consider others? The Insight judge wisely. Using the gift of right Can I sometimes be too quick to follow the crowd? Do something every day judgement means that we are able How often do I assess whether I’m headed in the right direction? that will bring you closer to see different perspectives so that to a better tomorrow. we can make loving and responsible Right judgement is an im- choices. For more information about mensely practical gift of the The Word 1 tricky issues, here are some websites Holy Spirit. It helps us in the You will show me the path of life, in your presence the fullness of joy. you might like to explore: day to day decision-making Psalm 16:11 that we make as confirmed When you are stuck wondering which path to choose, remember that Life4Seekers Christians. Practicing right God’s ways bring life. Ask for the Holy Spirit’s help to guide you with www.life4seekers.co.uk judgement means sharing “right judgement so that you may perceive which path will bring you ” SureFish God’s perspective for the deep and lasting joy. www.surefish.co.uk future, and asking him for the courage to live out the right CAFOD decisions today. Sometimes www.cafod.org.uk this might mean taking some The Word 2 Ekklesia quiet time to make sure we Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with www.ekklesia.co.uk are on the right track. At few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share other times, it is following Theos your master’s happiness! Matthew 25:23 gut instinct, trusting that www.theosthinktank.co.uk When you are anxious about the future, ask the Holy Spirit to give you God is giving us his gift to “right judgement. It is good to look back over the brave steps that you Life make the right decision. have taken, in order to tackle what lies ahead. www.lifecharity.org.uk Whatever the situation, right ” UK Youth Parliament judgement always leads us www.ukyouthparliament.org.uk to selfless love.

do something every day that will to bring a you closer better tomorrow

>> Well done, . good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things.

Come and share your master’s happiness! << MATTHEW 25:23 right judgement | The Word | the 24/7 life If you would like to discover of what the Bible says about the gift of right Use the humdrum signs you see everywhere judgement, try reading one or more of these passages, and consider the to reflect on the gift of right judgement. points for reflection: When you see a road sign, try asking God to lead you in the right direction. If you see 1 Samuel 16:4-13 warnings, ask God to protect you and others The prophet Samuel anoints David as future king of Israel from making wrong choices. A stop sign • What does this story say about the difference between human judgements and God’s judgements? challenges you to briefly stop and thank • How do you think Samuel felt when he kept disappointing God for bringing you this far on the journey. each of David’s brothers? Distance signs can trigger prayers for endur- • How might Samuel have known to trust what God was saying to him? ance, and your district or town sign could remind you to pray for your family and loved Matthew 21:28-42 ones. The parable of the two sons

>> Draw close to God and God will draw close to you << • Have you ever said you would follow the right path, but decided against it afterwards? How did it make you feel? the important thing is t o b e a b l e Does Jesus’ parable tell us on what is right judgement based? at any moment • to surrender What we say, or what we do? what we are for what we could • What do you think stopped Jesus’ audience b e c o m e from putting their words into action? a prayer for 3 John 3-4 Walking in the truth right judgement • Why do you think it makes John happy to hear that the readers are Holy Spirit ‘walking in the truth’? give me your gift of right judgement • Why does he link ‘faithfulness to the truth’ with ‘walking in the truth’? Are they the same thing? so that I may perceive the best way How do you find out the truth? so that I may take courageous decisions • a w e andand so that I may have your perspective on life w o n d e r

>> I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. amen You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last. <<

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org courage The Snapshot practicing courage Life is full of opportunities to fulfil our potential. At times we may have the courage to be truly ourselves, at other moments we may fail to live up to the There have been many courageous wit- challenge. Like seeds growing underground, the light continually beckons us nesses throughout Christian history — onwards and upwards – daring us to strive for a life beyond our limitations. from Stephen, the first Christian martyr, Do I perceive my life to be full of chances to express my potential? to Martin Luther King Jr, Archbishop When do I fail to live courageously? When do I manage to do so? Oscar Romero and Mother Teresa of Do I recognise the courage of those around me? Calcutta in more recent times. Each one The Insight Looking back over the past year, can I spot growth in my life? Who was re- of these figures didn’t decide one day What lies before us sponsible for any change – God…? Others…? Myself…? to become heroic — they simply chose and what lies behind us are tiny matters compared God each day of their lives. to what lies within us. Ralph Waldo Emerson The Word Exercising courage can 1 We can do likewise when we choose sometimes seem like a The seed that fell on good soil is the person who hears the word and not to gossip, stand up for the victim of understands it. That person produces a crop yielding a hundred, sixty daunting responsibility, like or thirty times what was sown. Matthew 13:23 bullying, refuse to glorify drugs and vio- a job for superheroes or lence, or simply smile at the unpopular soldiers fighting in a war. We can sometimes feel incapable of living up to the tasks thrown at us. The truth is that courage is a “When Jesus talks about ‘seeds’, it reminds us that courage is more about person with few friends. Each of these straightforward daily choice being receptive to God than undertaking great deeds. When you are steps requires courage and a willing- feeling overwhelmed by a challenge,” try sitting and asking God to fill to be true to the life that God you with courage, rather than rushing around doing things! ness to be used by God. Will you view has given us. It is about liv- your actions as a drop in the ocean or a ing today to the best of our ability, rather than fretting single flame that starts a raging fire? about yesterday or nervously The Word 2 awaiting the future. It means You are the light of the world. No one lights a lamp and covers it; striving to reach for the light instead it is put on a lampstand, where it gives light to everyone. In of God’s love, and then mir- the same way your light must shine before others. cf Matthew 5:14 roring that same light to the Imagine that! YOU are the light of the world. You personally have a world around us. If we miss “light to bring to others that are experiencing darkness. Be courageous the opportunity to be coura- - your courage affects the world around you. geous, we don’t just give up ” — starting afresh again is the most courageous thing we can do.

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org courage | The Word | the 24/7 life If you would like to discover more of what the Bible says about the gift of Sometimes it seems like the whole world needs courage, try reading one or more of these passages and consider the points for reflection: sorting out — if only we all had a little more courage! If you try to take on every battle without prayerfully considering what God is asking you Daniel 3:13-18 Three young Jewish men refuse to worship a golden statue particularly to do, you might end up using all your • Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego were breaking with aspects of the energy and time on something that is not going Babylonian culture by refusing to worship the statue – do you think they to solve the problem in the long run! were wrong to break the local laws? Members of the Young Christian Worker move- • Were the three men certain that God would rescue them? (to find out read until the end of the chapter) ment (www.ycwimpact.com) use the process: • What principles does the story illustrate about standing up against wrong- ‘See, Judge, Act’. Often, we see a problem and act doing? too hastily. When you come across challenges

Matthew 14:22-33 requiring courage today, try to deliberately take

Walking on water time>> Draw close to God andto God will draw closesee to you << what the problem is, judge how dif- Do you think you would have been reassured by Jesus’ words? • theferent important thingresponses is can help, and act with courage t o b e a b l e • What do you think this passage says about the connection between cour- to atbest any moment address the situation. age and faith? to surrender what we are Did Jesus have faith in Peter? for what we could • b e c o m e Acts 7:54-60 Stephen is killed for his faith • This follows a long speech by Stephen identifying Jesus as the Saviour of a prayer for courage the Jews – do you think he should have been more sensitive to his listen- ers? Holy Spirit • Does Stephen seem to put up a fight? Does he blame them for what they do? fill me with your courage today • What does this passage tell us about the connection between humility and courage? let me live life to my full potential a w e andhelp me to see my role in the world around me w o n d e r and bring your light to others >> I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last. << amen

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org understanding practicing understanding The Snapshot ‘Pilgrimage’ is an ancient practice, expressed Growing in understanding is like taking steps along a route towards our destina- not just in Christianity but in many of the tion. Sometimes those steps might be small and seemingly insignificant, at other times we can speed towards a goal. Walking is about endurance – a willing- world’s religions. There is something deeply ness to put up with weary feet in order to reach the end of the road. We walk profound about exploring an internal, spiri- alongside others for support and encouragement, but still must take the steps tual journey through the experience of an ourselves. external, physical journey. Pilgrimage needn’t Am I always conscious of the steps I am taking in my life? Do I need to be? be either long or to a special place (although How might the decisions I have made recently affect the way I understand the some are). The important thing is that you The Insight world? take some time out for God in order to listen Each of us matters to God. What difference does the surface make when I am walking – is it easier to walk to his voice, and grow in understanding of his on sand or on stone? What am I walking on now? The gift of understanding love for you. is not primarily about the Was learning to walk a sudden thing or a gradual process? What does that tell subjects we study at school me about growing in understanding? Some places and events have a particular or at college. It is about significance to aid the process of pilgrim- understanding more and age. If you are interested in experiencing an more that God cares enough The Word 1 organised pilgrimage, you might like to chat about each of us to give him- He talked with us on the road. He opened the Scriptures to us. Weren’t over the possibilities with your parish priest, self to us completely. Once our hearts burning inside us during that time? catechist, chaplain or teacher. In particular, we begin to understand this, Luke 24:32 the rest of the world starts to Sometimes people can tell us that understanding is all about facts and they might have details of upcoming ‘World fall into place. This is the firm “figures. But here, the disciples realize that although they knew all the Youth Day’ events, or local pilgrimages for you Scriptures already, they needed Jesus to ‘open’ the Bible for them. When basis of faith that we journey to get involved with. To find out more, you you read the Bible or listen to it at Mass, try asking” the Holy Spirit to along. Understanding de- ‘open’ the Bible for you so you can truly understand it. can also try visiting these websites: velops as we walk alongside Jesus day by day. Youth 2000 — pilgrimage to Walsingham www.youth2000.org The Word 2 God so loved the world that he gave his only Son that we might have Walsingham life … I came that you may have life and have it to the full. www.walsingham.org.uk cf John 3:16; 10:10 HCPT — pilgrimages to Lourdes Often, we might think that being a Christian is all about giving things www.hcpt.org.uk “up. Instead, Jesus says here that he came to offer us excellent things— a joyful fullness of life. Why not make a list of all the blessings God has Lourdes given you, and keep it somewhere in your bedroom to look through” www.lourdes-france.com when things are a bit tough? Taize, France — ecumenical pilgrimage www.taize.fr

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org understanding | The Word | the 24/7 life If you would like to discover more of what the Bible says about the gift of The aim of our journey into deeper understand- understanding, try reading one or more of these passages and consider the points for reflection: ing is to know that God gave himself totally to us in Jesus. On earth, it is going to be quite tricky to

Genesis 12:1-4 find a better daily example of that than when we God calls Abram receive the Eucharist at Mass. One way to really • Does Abram know where God is leading him when he sets off? open ourselves to appreciating God’s love for us is Do you always know where God is leading you? to make sure that we attend Mass each weekend. • How do you think he felt about the journey? How do you think he felt about leaving some of his friends behind? It might be difficult to concentrate, but when • When you think about how old Abram was when God called him, you return to your seat after Communion, close do you think it is ever too late to grow in understanding? your eyes, and quietly ask Jesus to show you how Mark 10:46-52 much he loves you. If you find yourself distracted, Jesus heals Bartimaeus ask again… Keep asking, and he will show you — • What characteristics does Bartimaeus demonstrate in this passage? maybe not in a way that you expect, but he will What does this tell us about the challenge of understanding? >> Draw close to God and God will draw close to you << Do you think Jesus already knew what Bartimaeus wanted from him? definitely show you! • the important thing is Why do you think he asked him? What does this show about Jesus? t o b e a b l e at any moment • Following his healing, Bartimaeus moves into action – what does this show to surrender about how we should act after an experience of God? what we are for what we could Acts 8:26-40 b e c o m e Philip and the Ethiopian • Do you ever feel that you don’t understand when you read the Bible? a prayer for Who is able to explain it to you? • Why do you think Philip had insights that the Ethiopian didn’t have? understanding It seems difficult to believe that Philip simply disappeared. • Holy Spirit Whatever happened, why do you think it is no longer important for Philip to be present with the Ethiopian? Was his understanding complete? I pray for the gift of understanding that I might grow in my awareness of your unending love a w e and that I would journey along the path w o n d e r of understanding >> I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last. << and that this relationship would transform the way I see the world amen

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org knowledge The Snapshot practicing knowledge A road like this looks completely different at night-time. During the day, we As well as being a gift for us, knowledge is hardly notice lights from cars and buildings. But as the sun goes down, the shadows are punctuated by the brightness that was present all along. Practically, equally a gift for the benefit of others. When these lights help us to navigate and get on with life, but they also add an extra those close to us are going through difficulties, dimension of luminous beauty. or are suffering loss, our knowledge of God can Do I stop to notice the difference in the world around me when the light fades? be a real source of comfort to them – we can be like lights shining in the darkness. It might Where in my life or in the lives of those around me is there darkness? be appropriate to speak about some of your What things could bring light to those situations? The Insight experiences of God’s light when others come Do I see any light already present? People are like stained to you. Sometimes, it is with your actions (by Do I think that an experience of darkness would equip me better glass windows: they sparkle listening, caring, helping and understanding) and shine in the sun, but in to see the light? that you can demonstrate best this love. What- darkness their true beauty Looking back, what difference (if any) did faith, family and friends make ever is most fitting for the situation, it is our is revealed only if there is a during difficult times? light within. responsibility as confirmed Christians to help Elisabeth Kubler-Ross share our knowledge of God in the world. The gift of knowledge is The Word 1 If you are unsure about how to talk about your rooted deeply inside us. It I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened so that you may experiences of God, or would like to become is the kind of knowing that know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious more confident in what your faith means, there is built on the experience inheritance, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. cf Ephesians 1:18-19 of God, but persists beyond are plenty of places to discover more. Your local this experience, even when “Sometimes it seems like we’re lost and that our eyes struggle to see in Christian bookshop will stock lots of books the dark. If you feel that you need a bit of direction in a confusing situ- things appear to be at their about ‘evangelisation’ or ‘evangelism’ (which ation, it can help to be reminded that God wants to give you the gift of most bleak. This knowledge knowledge, so that you can look at your life with hope and power. All” means ‘sharing the good news’). isn’t about facts and figures, we need to do is ask for his grace. but about knowing the There are also some great websites around: character of God and the reJesus www.rejesus.co.uk way in which he acts. The gift The Word 2 yfaith www.yfaith.co.uk of knowledge is like a light We believe, not because of what you told us, but because of what Youth Alpha www.youthalpha.org from within that enables us he himself has told us. We know it is true. This is the Saviour of the to navigate when we’re not world. John 4:42 CASE www.caseresources.org sure of the way, and shines LifeTeen www.lifeteen.com The challenge for each of us is to develop our own unique relationship from within us to help direct “with Jesus. If you are wondering how to take your knowledge deeper, others along the right path remember that we mature in our love not because of facts somebody too. else tells” you, but from what you yourself have experienced.

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org knowledge | The Word | the 24/7 life If you would like to discover more of what the Bible says about the gift of Reading the Bible is a key way for us to grow in knowledge, try reading one or more of these passages and consider the points for reflection: our knowledge of God. It is like reading a famous person’s biography or website to get all the back- ground information on them, and helps to make Exodus 3:13-15 Moses is sent by God sense of some of the other elements of our faith. • Before Moses can return to Egypt to lead God’s people out of slavery, he But the Bible isn’t like any other book – in fact, it is a needs to know some basic facts about God – firstly, his name! If somebody collection of books written over hundreds of years. asked you to describe God, how would you go about it? Reading it can be really amazing, but also really What do you think ‘I AM WHO I AM’ means? • difficult. Five tips to get you started are: (it might say something slightly different in your Bible) • Do you think you would be willing to take on a task like Moses did? ✚ Say a short prayer before you start reading, John 14:4-7 asking the Holy Spirit to help you grow in Jesus reveals the Father knowledge. When have you felt in the dark like Thomas? • ✚ Don’t start at the beginning and work your way How do you think getting to know Jesus can help you know • through to the end – try beginning with the the Father’s character? • What are the differences (if any) between getting to know Jesus and Gospel of Mark, or the letter to the Romans. getting to know your friends? ✚ It is best if you can get hold of some notes that 2 Corinthians 4:6-7 explain what you are reading as you go along Jars of clay – you can buy these from the Pauline Books & >> Draw close• to God and God Dowill draw close to you <

>> I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last. << amen 13

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org reverence The Snapshot practicing reverence A single moment in time is captured among these diverse people. Each one is somehow related to others. Some are standing in groups, sharing space together. We can practice reverence in our lives Others are on the phone or looking at others – viewing or listening to the people by promoting essential human rights for in their world. All are thinking of people – themselves or others. No one of them all. The Universal Declaration of Human is truly isolated. Rights was adopted and proclaimed by the United Nations in December 1948 Am I thankful for the people around me? to ensure the recognition of the dignity Do I value others as I would like to be valued myself? of the whole human family as the basis The Insight Am I considerate about the way in which I communicate with others? How of freedom, justice and peace in the The most difficult of all tasks about the ways in which I think about others? world. Unfortunately, situations around is to love another… the world still show that we are far from How can I express my love of God in the way I relate with those around me? everything else is just offering full reverence to all those who a preparation for it. suffer injustice and inequality. Rainer Maria Rilke The gift of reverence enables The Word 1 To find out more and to see what you us to deepen our relationship Love one another just as I have loved you. John 13:34 could do to promote the dignity of all with God through worship Sometimes we try to look for one standard way of doing things, or a people, try visiting: and good deeds. Also known one-off answer that fits our relationship with everybody. The fact is that The United Nations www.un.org as Piety, it shows in our com- Jesus demonstrated love in lots of different ways, depending on peoples’ circumstances. Be flexible. Caritas www.caritas.org passion and respect for other “ ” people. Somebody who acts L’Arche www.larche.org.uk with reverence understands Jubilee Action www.jubileeaction.co.uk the unique dignity of those The Word 2 Pax Christi www.paxchristi.org.uk around them. It is about Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul and WaterAid www.wateraid.org/uk understanding that when- with all your mind. This is the first and most important command- ever we come in contact ment. And the second is like it. Love your neighbour as you love with somebody else, we yourself. Everything… is based on these two commandments. are encountering a person “Matthew 22:37-40 loved unconditionally by When we’re stuck for answers about life’s problems, this passage is God. Inasmuch as each one a good one to revisit. Jesus himself says that every other decision of us is different, reverence is based on these two things – loving God, and loving others. If we ” wholeheartedly stick to these words, we will find reverence for every is a never-ending journey of person developing within our hearts. discovering how to honour God in honouring others.

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org reverence | The Word | the 24/7 life If you would like to discover more of what the Bible says about the gift of When we’re challenged to live a life of reverence, reverence, try reading one or more of these passages and consider the points for reflection: it is often in the most extreme situations around the world that we most easily notice the mar- ginalized and the disrespected. Part of growing Psalm 139:13-18 God knows us intimately in our understanding of each person’s dignity is • Why do you think the writer uses the expression ‘knit me together’, to firstly recognise it in those around us. Do you rather than ‘made’ or ‘created’? have a profile on a social networking site? Why • How does this psalm help us to understand that a human being is more not undertake the challenge to scroll through than a collection of body parts? your list of friends, starting from the top and What differences does this psalm illustrate between humanity and God? • spend a few minutes considering their amazing Ezekiel 47:6-12 value in the eyes of God. If it is appropriate, you The river of life might want to write them a short note to thank Does this passage paint a picture of the environment in our world today? • them for the gift of their friendship. Try doing What does this vision give about humanity’s relationship with nature? >> Draw close to God and God will draw close to you << • this once a week, or more frequently if you have • Is the abundance of food and medicine mentioned here a reality for the important thing is time.t o b eIf a byou l e don’t have access to a social network- everyone in our present society? at any moment toing surrender site, scroll through your phonebook or flick 1 Corinthians 12:14-26 what we are for what we could The unity of the body throughb e c a o mset e of photos instead. • What role in the body do you play? What role do you think the UK holds in the global body? a prayer for reverence • What happens if parts of the body actively work against each other? • Who do you think are the ‘inferior’ or ‘insignificant’ members of the worldwide body? Holy Spirit Do you think God considers them less important? give me today the gift of reverence help me to treasure the love I receive from you a w e to recognise others as your children and w o n d e r and to share your love with the world

the important thing is to be able at any moment to surrender what we are for what we could become awe and wonder The Snapshot practicing How simple this candle flame is. Yet with each flicker, it transforms into a new shape — never the same again. Each time it mesmerises, providing light, warmth awe and wonder and scent as it burns. The hands protect the candle from extinguishing, Spending time with God in prayer is our recognising it as a gift and a mystery. direct route to growing in the gift of Do I notice the beauty around me– in creation, in situations and in people? awe and wonder. Occasionally, prayer What gifts do I have to bring to this world? may seem full of intensity and reward, How closely do I hold these gifts? but frequently we can find ourselves The Insight Do I give adequate room for them to flourish, yet treat them with care? distracted and not knowing what to do The important thing is to be What unique gift and opportunity do I have for today? able at any moment or say. Lighting a candle and playing Do I find time in my life to simply acknowledge the mystery of things? to surrender what we are some quiet music (without words) can for what we could become. help you to focus. If you are worried Charles Du Bos about time, set an alarm for however Awe and wonder is about The Word 1 long you can pray – then you definitely living a life increasingly I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose conscious of the love of God. won’t be late for the next thing you you and appointed you to go and bear fruit – fruit that will last. Noticing grace around us in need to do. John 15:15-16 awethe ordinary and extraordi- Here, we are reminded that Jesus chooses us – not the other way nary aspects of life opens us “ Consider following a simple and around! It is simply our responsibility to say yes, and to allow him to use up to the truth that God is us. Try saying yes to him today! TRIP formula for your prayer: wonderthe origin and destination of ” T stands for saying Thanks to God; . >> I haveall called goodness. you friends, In this gift, the for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. R invites us to Repent (or say sorry) for You didHoly not choose Spirit me, but I chosecan you transform us

JOHN 15:15-16 and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last. << to recognise his love at work The Word 2 where we’ve done wrong; in every situation – from a Draw close to God and God will draw close to you. James 4:8 I means Intercede for the world microchip to a mountain If you are struggling to see God’s presence in the world around you, range. And as we appreciate around us; try making extra time for quiet prayer. Ultimately, awe and wonder is more and more the presence about recognizing the beauty of God. P is for Pause to listen to God’s voice, of God in the world around “ ” before Praising God for his love. us, we grow in faith, allowing To appreciate him, we need to spend time with him! ourselves to surrender to his unique plan for us.

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org awe and wonder | The Word | the 24/7 life If you would like to discover more of what the Bible says about prayer and We experience awe and wonder when we are in the gift of awe and wonder, try reading one or more of these passages and consider the points for reflection: contact with nature or when we are somewhere particularly spectacular. Growing in this gift can happen only when we make the most of every- Exodus 34:29-35 Moses’ face shines with the glory of God day opportunities – appreciating beauty in others Moses met God on Mount Sinai. and around us, in architecture and the media, in • What do you think going up a mountain might tell us about prayer? the arts and on the internet, in quiet and in the • Was it easy to climb a mountain? loudest music. Was Moses with others or was he alone? • Part of the challenge is remembering to create Why do you think Moses’ face scared the rest of the Israelites at first? • the space to appreciate these things – try wearing Eventually, Moses covered the radiance of his face with a veil when he was around his companions, but he removed it in the presence of God. a wristband or a pin-badge that will remind you to look out for beauty as you go about your day. • What things might you be able to ‘let go’ in prayer? If you>> Draw close to God and Goddon’t will draw close to you << fancy wearing something, consider 1 Kings 19:11-13 theputting important thing a is small pebble in your pocket or in your Elijah meets God on Mount Horeb t o b e a b l e bagat any to moment remind you instead. Take each opportunity What does this passage say about the way God’s voice can be heard? to surrender • to whatthank we God are for the beauty around you. • How do you think Elijah could tell whether God’s presence was in the for what we could wind, the earthquake, the fire or the silence? b e c o m e • Is there enough room for silence in your prayer? a prayer for Matthew 7:7-11 awe and wonder Simple prayer • In your experience do you think prayer is as straightforward as Jesus says Holy Spirit here? give me your gift of awe and wonder • Do you approach God like a child, or do you try to barter and make so that each morning I may find you in the sunrise agreements with him? and each evening I may recognise you in the stars • Have you ever tried asking God for something in the way Jesus suggests? a w e What might stop you? and w o n d e r help me to find you deep within me

>> I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. and to surrender myself to your will You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit — fruit that will last. << amen

>> I have called you byISAIAH your name; 42:1 you are mine.

t h e c h a l l e n g e is to be yourself in a world that tries e to m ak you lik e e else my everyon gift The Snapshot practicing my gift An open door speaks of a world of opportunities. Together, we can look for- There are some things that we are all ‘called’ ward to what the future holds. Some might face that open door with steadfast confidence. Others may look back, hesitating to take the step of faith into a new to as Christians – a new way of living, a world. Whatever our attitude, we stand each day at the threshold of possibility. willingness to share our faith, a prayerful outlook and a commitment to social justice. What doors of opportunity are already open in my life? For each of us, though, we will express What inhibits me from stepping through them? these callings in our own unique way. In Are there things I would like to do, but can’t see an open door? particular, as we mature and develop, it is What can I do to resolve these situations? The Insight important to consider how we feel we can The challenge is to Do I share my aspirations, dreams and worries about the future with others? best live out our life in relation to others. be yourself in a world What unique perspective on life do you think you bring to your friends All of us have a ‘vocation’ – whether we feel that tries to make you and family? like everyone else. called to be married, single, consecrated e e cummings (like a religious sister or brother) or or- dained. Each one of these vocations carries The gifts of God are not The Word 1 its own joys and its own challenges. It is our limited to a set number or I have called you by your name; you are mine. Isaiah 43:1 particular list – there are as It can sometimes be tempting to think that God’s promises are for other responsibility to remain open to the many many unique gifts as there people – that a life of unbounded opportunity and possibility is for possibilities that are available to us. are people on the planet! somebody else. When you next feel disappointed with yourself or your life, imagine God calling your name – a call of hope that is meant for you When you are making big decisions about Each of us has a particular “ ” and you alone! purpose in God’s eyes. Some- your future (whether about vocation or

. >> Don’t let about anything else), it is good to chat yourselvestimes fulfilling this purpose be shaped by the world things over with somebody who has expe- ROMANS 12:2 might be the most natural my where you live, but rather bething transformed to us; at other times, it The Word 2 rience. If you are interested in becoming through themay renewal be more challenging as gift a priest, chat to your priest. If you feel you of your mind. << Do not let yourselves be shaped by the world where you live, but we contradict what others rather be transformed through the renewal of your mind. would like to get married, talk to somebody expect of us. Following Jesus Romans 12:2 (probably not your parents) who is married. is not about becoming a We can place limitations on ourselves or God because other people tell If you would like to explore a monastic clone of others, it is about “us that we’re only destined for small things. Challenge yourself often calling, try to visit a convent or a monastery becoming fully yourself – to switch off the TV or your computer, and take some time to” sit still, to spend time there. The National Office living your life as nobody else asking God to ‘renew’ your mind with his Holy Spirit. for Vocation is really a good place to start if in the world can! you would like to find out more about the different options available. Visit www.ukvocation.org for more details.

© 2009 Pauline Books & Media www.pauline-uk.org my gift | The Word | the 24/7 life If you would like to discover more of what the Bible says about exploring Part of the problem with life is that we keep your unique gifts, try reading one or more of these passages and consider the points for reflection: making mistakes! As we grow in listening to God and practice our gifts, we muck things up from time to time. We might miss opportunities to Jeremiah 29:11-13 God’s plans for us do the right thing, or we might end up hurting • Do you think God has a plan for your life? somebody else or ourselves. The good thing is What promises are made in this passage? • that we’re not alone – everybody makes mistakes. How might you respond to them? • What does it mean to ‘seek God with all your heart’? St Augustine said that the Church should be seen as a ‘school for sinners’, rather than a ‘society for Matthew 28:16-20 Jesus commissions the disciples saints’. We’re all on the road together. • Was everybody who gathered at the mountain full of faith about the future? Did that stop Jesus from commissioning them? The worst mistake we can make when we fall • Is there anywhere where Jesus doesn’t send the disciples? over is to not get back up again. This takes a bit What do you think that says about Jesus’ plans for you? of honesty – to realise we’ve mucked things up, • What are the last words Jesus says here to the group? Does that reassure you? and to gather ourselves into a position where we can start again. But the key thing about living out James 1:17 Every>> Draw close to God and God will draw close togift you << comes from God your gifts is to try and try again. Every new day is the important What thing is does this verse say about the origin of generous acts of giving? a new opportunity to start again, a fresh chance • t o b e a b l e •at any What moment is the difference between a ‘good’ gift and a ‘perfect’ gift? to discover more about who we are, and more to surrender This verse tells us that God is constant – without shadow or variation… •what we are about who God is. It is a good idea to make the for what wedoes could this help you to rely on him? b e c o m e Sacrament of Reconciliation a part of your life. Chatting over our sins with a priest allows us to a prayer for my gift get a fresh insight on why we keep falling over, and offers us an opportunity to hear somebody else tell us we’re loved and forgiven. If you haven’t Holy Spirit been for a while, or can’t remember the words let me know your unique plans for me you need to say, don’t worry. Your priest will be re- help me to boldly step forward into the future ally happy you have come to see him. a w e remembering to listen for your call and w o n d e r and being renewed by my life in you

Using songs that are culturally familiar within a faith-based context is an excellent way to provoke discussion amongst a group of young people. All these songs are themed around the Gifts of the Spirit, and have questions to help your group engage with the music. You should always try to listen to the song first (and collate the lyrics, if you’re using them), in order to be familiar with it.

A formula that you might like to use is: • Play through the song once. • Ask whether the group like it or not. What do they think it’s about? • Hand out lyrics sheets – you can create these by visiting websites like www.songlyrics.com, copy the lyrics into a document and print them off. (Make sure you listen through first to check that the lyrics are correct!) • Play through the song again, asking the group to read the lyrics at the same time. • Ask the questions associated with the song, ensuring everybody is given a chance to contribute. • Play through the song one last time, using it as a prayer focus, and then invite the group to respond with any individual prayers following the song.

You can hunt down the CD and play the song using a regular sound system, or alternatively, you could download the single track from iTunes or other online music retailers, normally for only 79p per track. You can then create a CD of just this song, or you can play the music through speakers from your computer.

Des’Ree, ‘You Gotta Be’ (from the album ‘Endangered Species’) Avril Lavigne, ‘Sk8er Boi’ (from the album ‘Let Go’) A soul-pop anthem, with an upbeat message Light and energetic nu-rock storytelling

• Is it right to be all the things that Des’Ree says we should aspire to be? • What does this song say about judging other people? • What Gifts of the Spirit are we encouraged to use as part of this song? • Who in the song is demonstrating the Gifts of the Spirit? • What does the song say about using our own gifts? • Is the attitude of the singer in line with the Holy Spirit?

Michael Jackson, ‘Man in the Mirror’ (from the album ‘Bad’) Mariah Carey, ‘Hero’ (from the album ‘The Ballads’) Classic pop track from Michael Jackson with a social conscience Slushy but evocative ballad from the pop diva

• How easy it is to perceive the world’s problems around us? • In the context of our faith, what do we think the ‘Hero’ might be? • What key message does the song suggest about making a difference? • What does this song say about perseverance? • Are there things that I can do to change the world — from today? • What are your dreams for the future? Have you asked God for help in achieving them?

Katie Melua, ‘Nine Million Bicycles’ (from the album ‘Piece by P iece’) Love song in an old-fashioned orchestral revamp style

• How does this song use the difference between factual knowledge and feeling insights? • Can you imagine ever singing this song to anybody? • Can you imagine God singing this song to you?

Madonna, ‘Frozen’ (from the album ‘Ray of Light’) Moody and reflective pop-electro crossover

• What does this song say that we need to be or do in order to experience the most of the world? • What kind of things make our hearts ‘frozen’? • How can the Holy Spirit help our hearts to melt?

The Black Eyed Peas, ‘Where is the Love?’ (from the album ‘Elephunk’) Protest funk-meets-rap-meets-pop mashup

• What kind of problems are going on in the world that this song highlights? • Where will the solution to these problems be found? • Do you think the Holy Spirit always answers questions, or does following God create more questions? Why?

Elton John, ‘Are you ready for love?’ (from the album ‘Rocket Man – the definitive hits’) Enthusiastic and driving pop at its best

• What kind of ‘masterpieces’ and ‘symphonies’ are there in the world around us? Do we always notice them? • What stops us from noticing God’s love for us? • Are we ever going to be really ready for the Holy Spirit to fill us completely? Should that stop us asking?