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Publisher Steve Polyak & Rob Diaz-Marino, [email protected] Table of Contents Editor Rob Diaz Marino, [email protected] 5 Wild Gay West Copy Editor Jake Wallace Letter from the Publisher Original Graphic Design Deviant Designs Advertising 8 Prime Timers Calgary Steve Polyak and Dan Dinu [email protected] Bridging the Gap Contributors 16 Steve Polyak, Rob Diaz-Marino, Nina Tron, 10 DevaDave Stephen Lock, M. Zelda, Jason Clevett, Jerome Voltero, Darryl A. Aarbo, Alykhan That’s Deva with an ‘e’! Velji, Jake Wallace and the Gay and Lesbian Community of Calgary 14 Just Ask Nina! Photographer The Dish who dishes advice Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino Videographer 16 Map & Event Listings Steve Polyak and Rob Diaz-Marino Mapping Calgary’s core Please forward all inquiries to: GayCalgary.com Magazine 25 Q Scopes Suite 100, 215 14th Avenue S.W. “Check your budget, Gemini” Calgary, Alberta T2R 0M2 Phone (403) 543-6960 or toll free (888) 26 Adult Film Reviews 50 543-6960 Fax (403) 703-0685 27 Q Puzzle “Reorientation” E-mail [email protected] Print Run Monthly, 12 times a year 28 When The Saints Coming Marching In: Masthead continued on page 4 A Thousand Gay Christians Converge on Calgary 31 Gay Legalese Common Law continued on page 4 gaycalgary.com magazine 3 33 Continued from page 3 52 Copies Printed Monthly, up to 10,000 copies. Distribution points 150 points in Calgary, largest distribution points for any Gay continued from page 3 publication in Calgary. Also distributed coast to coast across Canada in select locations in Toronto, Vancouver, Edmonton, Montreal, Regina, Saskatoon, Winnipeg, and other 33 The saga of Batt-Man and Boy Blunder places across Canada. Please call us if you The legend begins at Jubilations would like to be a distribution point. Distributed by DLRJ Distributions, Canada 35 The Last Resort Post and by GayCalgary.com Stage West season finale a fun musical romp Deadline for Ad Bookings 25th of the month (subject to change without notice) 36 A Couple of Guys Deadline for Ad copy 28th of the month 38 Letters to the Publisher (subject to change without notice) Legal Council Courtney Sebree Aarbo, 42 Music Review Barristers and Solicitors The Latest in Party Groove from Centaur Music Printers North Hill News This Issue Cover Model Bif Naked, 43 The Cut-a-Thon photographed by Albert Normandin. Used Great Cuts, Great Cause with permission. The opinions expressed in this magazine are 44 Bitter Girl not necessarily those of GayCalgary.com or the contributors of the magazine. 45 The Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce People photographed or interviewed, writers, Putting a Face to Gay Business advertisers, contributors and anyone else 35 involved with this publication are not 50 Bif Naked… necessarily gay, lesbian, bi, bi-curious or trans On loving Calgary, The L Word and Superbeautifulmonster gendered. They can be straight people that are gay friendly. 52 Queer Eye - for the Calgary guy (or gal) No part of the publication may be reprinted Events that happened around Calgary without the expressed permission of the editor-in-chief. 60 Classifieds Ads Copyright 2005 4 gaycalgary.com magazine Wild Gay West Letter from the Publisher a spot up at the front, leaning on the corral fence. The By Rob Diaz-Marino and Steve Polyak show was exceptional, and coupled with the fi reworks, it totally blew us away. Plus, we didn’t know A-Channel’s This year we came to the realization that you Dave Kelly could sing so well! The four hours we spent on haven’t fully experienced the ARGRA weekend our feet were certainly worth it…we’re just sad we didn’t until you’ve camped out. Last year we popped make it on the ‘cuddle cam!’ Well, there’s always next up to Symon’s Valley Ranch for some of the year. main events (thanks to More Better Buses Now we’re onto August which is usually a slow month who were shuttling people back and forth), for Calgary in general, since a lot of people are out of town. We found it mildly surprising that the necessity but this year we got a great deal on renting an arose for us to expand to 64 pages this issue. Oh well, RV. So, we proudly sported our GayCalgary call us ‘pain pigs’, but we’ve got to roll with the punches. banner on the front of our vehicle, even In the News though we were only able to get a campsite in overfl ow. Needless to say, Steve and I don’t Are you sick of reading about gay marriage yet? It’s certainly a topic that’s getting hammered to death in the get out much, so the weekend was a pleas- media these days – though that’s a good thing because ant change of pace – a chance to get to know there are still a lot of thick skulls out there that need it. new people and spend time hanging out with friends. Don’t get me wrong, we still had work to do taking photos and manning our booth, as well as other general public relations. Man did it rain though! At one point we literally had a river running through the merchant tent. I shudder to think what the competitors and spectators must have gone through! But, in the end it all panned out – the sun came out, things dried, and everyone was happy. Except for one poor guy to whom, I started giving a back massage later that evening, not knowing he’d injured his shoulder…ouch, SORRY!! Our July issue certainly went like hotcakes with ARGRA and the Calgary Stampede. It was the MCC Conference that caught us off guard though. Imagine our surprise when out of nowhere they request magazines to supply to the 1000+ people that were expected to be attending the conference. To meet their quota, we needed to tuck into some of our back issues; otherwise we wouldn’t have had enough July issues to tide us over to the end of the month! We had a phenomenal time at the Calgary Stampede this year. For Steve and I, it was our fi rst time attending a Grand Stand show. Though we weren’t lucky enough to fi nd room in the rush seating area, we were able to get gaycalgary.com magazine 5 As we already mentioned, the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC) had a HUGE conference in Calgary this month where they performed a whole slough of marriages for gay couples from the US. You’re probably thinking “of all places in Canada, why would they choose Calgary?” The whole ‘red-neck factor’ doesn’t exactly make our city seem like the most welcoming, but in actual fact they told us that they chose Calgary specifi cally for that reason. They knew they could make the most impact in Canada’s most reputably conservative city. Check out the Letter to the Editor that MCC Media Coordinator Ian Taylor wrote to us on page 38 – from the way it looks, Calgary’s not that bad after all. Highlights this Month “The Queens are Back” at Detour! They’ve brought back their drag shows every Sunday at 11pm and 12:30am. In addition they’ve re-introduced their popular “Girlz Night” event on the fi rst Friday of every month. Twisted Element launched their version of the Newly Wed Game every Wednesday – coincidentally it started the day after the gay marriage laws were offi cially passed. The game is geared toward gay, lesbian, and even straight couples, however close friends are also welcome to partici- pate…and trust me, with some of those questions, you’d better be close! There’s a ton of stuff happening at the bars this upcom- ing September long weekend! For more information take a look at Detour’s ad on page 47, Metro the Club’s ads on page 20 and 37, and Twisted Element’s ads on page 11 and 63. You know that we have to try and be at them all right? (Sigh…) Questions or comments about the magazine or other things happening in the community, please E-mail us at [email protected] 6 gaycalgary.com magazine gaycalgary.com magazine 7 PPRIMERIME TIMERSTIMERS CCALGARYALGARY Bridging the Gap By Jake Wallace In September of 2003, Prime Timers Calgary It is not surprising to fi nd that there are over fi fty was re-established to meet an important need chapters of Prime Timers located in major cities around the world with most being located in North America. “The within our community. There had been a chapter in Calgary was started a number of years ago, but growing number of mature gay and bisexual just dwindled away after a lack of leadership and loss of men in Calgary and area that were lacking op- interest.