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Why My Child? a Guide for Parents of Children Who Have Been Sexually Abused
Why my child? A guide for parents of children who have been sexually abused CONTENTS Introduction 4 What is Child Sexual Abuse? 4 Children’s Reactions 5 Behaviour Changes 6 Dealing With The Police 6 Parents’ Feelings 7 Incest 8 What If You Were Sexually Abused? 9 Your Feelings Are Natural 9 What About Your Family? 9 Whose Fault Is It? 10 Why Didn’t My Child Tell? 11 When a Child Tells - 12 Ways to Respond What Should We Say to Everyone? 13 How Can I Help My Child? 14 Take Care of Yourself 16 Teaching Personal Safety Skills 17 What if my Child is Sexually 18 Provocative with another Child? Commonly Asked Questions 20-21 Questions That Children Ask 21-22 Helpful Organisations 23 INTRODUCTION challenges, but with the help of this guide, other resources, and the support of those The sexual abuse of your child can unleash you turn to - family, professionals, self-help one of the most difficult crises you and groups - you will survive. What is more, your your family will ever encounter. Besides the child can go on to lead a happy, productive stress of negotiating the criminal justice life. It will take time and effort, but the work system, helping your child, and supporting is worth it. your family, can create nearly unbearable pressure, and you may feel you don’t know WHat IS CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE? where to turn. Your child could be displaying Child sexual abuse is any sexual exploitation a bundle of contradictory behaviours, and of a child under the age of sixteen for the be full of confused emotions - angry one sexual pleasure or profit of an adult or much moment, withdrawn the next. -
Cyberbullying and Ohio Schools: a Social Justice Framework to Understand and Create Change Lorri A
Cyberbullying and Ohio Schools: A Social Justice Framework to Understand and Create Change Lorri A. Gerwig-Parker Donna Tromski-Klingshirn Rebecca Kolssak Joshua D. Miller Wright State University Abstract In 2019, 36.5% of students, age 12-17, reported that they were cyberbullied at some point in their life. Cyberbullying is a growing problem within Ohio. Self-mutilation, attempted suicide, and death have been linked to victims of cyberbullying. Within Ohio, there are also legal implications for schools to consider. Using Bronfenbrenner’s ecological systems framework, different types of cyberbullies, bullying practices, and proposed solutions for cyberbullying can be addressed in a more comprehensive manner within the schools. Ultimately, schools can be the vanguards for social justice, creating the cultural shift to end cyberbullying and its devastating effects on victims. Keywords: cyberbullying, school administration and faculty, adolescents, social justice, ecological model Cyberbullying, also known as e-bullying or digital harassment, has grown from a technological possibility to a universal problem among communities of young people within the past two decades. Adolescent populations have both high rates of victimization and potentially severe consequences to their mental and physical health. Hinduja and Patchin (2019) indicated that 36.5% of adolescents ages 12 to 17 in the United States reported being cyberbullied at least once. Further, according to Pacer’s National Bullying Prevention Center (2019) only 33% of adolescent victims -
What Is 'Workplace Bullying'
‘The Boy In The Photograph’ ANTI-BULLYING PRESENTATION PERFORMED BY ROB HIGGS ‘The Boy In The Photograph’ is inspired by my own experiences... AM I BEING BULLIED? Several Times On Purpose The ‘Victim State’ FEAR SHAME SELF- BULLYING Strategies To Help Yourself If You Are Ever Bullied… Smash The Silence: Tell Someone & Report It Immediately. Allow Others To Support You. Keep A Diary. Collect Evidence. Build Confidence & Self-Esteem through Personal Challenge. Acknowledge your emotions. It’s OK To Feel Angry or Scared. Release the energy in a therapeutic way: Writing Performing Creating https://www.childline.org.u k/toolbox/art-box/ ‘BANTER’ vs ‘BULLYING’ http://www.telegraph.c o.uk/news/uknews/defe nce/11844639/Army- must-not-lose-banter-in- harassment- crackdown.html ROLEPLAY LOSER YOUR MUM.. UGLY WEIRDO THICK FREAK FAT I DON’T LIKE YOU. Creative Exercise Idea 1: Deflect With Humour Idea 2: Broken Record: “I don’t lose all the time” “Whatever, whatever, whatever” “Clearly not” or “That’s not true” “Thanks!..Thanks!..Thanks!..” “I’m pretty clever actually” “Blah, blah, blah..” “Thanks so much for telling me that.” Idea 3: Direct Question: “Everyone’s a bit weird. It’s a weird world.” “Is this banter or bullying?” “Great banter” “Why are you saying that?” “#Drama” or “#Banter” “What do you mean by that?” “Oh well” or “I don’t need you to like me” Idea 4: Use an ‘I Feel..’ Statement: “My Mum’s great, thanks for asking.” “You can’t talk to me like that.” “I’m just going to write that “You keep saying that…..and it down…and then not care.” makes me feel like…….” Top Tips. -
A Sheffield Hallam University Thesis
Taboo : why are real-life British serial killers rarely represented on film? EARNSHAW, Antony Robert Available from the Sheffield Hallam University Research Archive (SHURA) at: http://shura.shu.ac.uk/20984/ A Sheffield Hallam University thesis This thesis is protected by copyright which belongs to the author. The content must not be changed in any way or sold commercially in any format or medium without the formal permission of the author. When referring to this work, full bibliographic details including the author, title, awarding institution and date of the thesis must be given. Please visit http://shura.shu.ac.uk/20984/ and http://shura.shu.ac.uk/information.html for further details about copyright and re-use permissions. Taboo: Why are Real-Life British Serial Killers Rarely Represented on Film? Antony Robert Earnshaw Sheffield Hallam University MA English by Research September 2017 1 Abstract This thesis assesses changing British attitudes to the dramatisation of crimes committed by domestic serial killers and highlights the dearth of films made in this country on this subject. It discusses the notion of taboos and, using empirical and historical research, illustrates how filmmakers’ attempts to initiate productions have been vetoed by social, cultural and political sensitivities. Comparisons are drawn between the prevalence of such product in the United States and its uncommonness in Britain, emphasising the issues around the importing of similar foreign material for exhibition on British cinema screens and the importance of geographic distance to notions of appropriateness. The influence of the British Board of Film Classification (BBFC) is evaluated. This includes a focus on how a central BBFC policy – the so- called 30-year rule of refusing to classify dramatisations of ‘recent’ cases of factual crime – was scrapped and replaced with a case-by-case consideration that allowed for the accommodation of a specific film championing a message of tolerance. -
Joking, Teasing Or Bullying? • a Kid Who Isn’T Very Nice to You Trips You in the Hall for the Third Time This Week
LESSON 2 It Takes One Unit Joking, Teasing Grade 2 • Ages 7-8 TIME FRAME or Bullying? Preparation: 15 minutes Instruction: 30-60 minutes Students will distinguish the difference MATERIALS between joking, teasing and bullying and Large white poster sheet divided understand how joking, teasing and bullying into three columns with the following headings: Joking, Teasing, Bullying can strengthen or weaken relationships. Create three signs, one that says “JOKING”, another that Lesson Background for Teachers says, “TEASING”, third that says “BULLYING”; post on different walls This lesson builds on previous lessons in this unit. before class For more information on bullying visit PrevNet, an anti-bullying organization that RAK journals provides research, information and resources. www.prevnet.ca Kindness Concept Posters for Assertiveness, Respect Key Terms for Students LEARNING STANDARDS Consider writing key terms on the board before class to introduce vocabulary and increase understanding. Common Core: CCSS.ELA-Literacy. SL.2.1, 1a-c, 2, 3 Colorado: Compre- JOKING To say funny things or play tricks on people to make them hensive Health S.4, GLE.3, EO.a-c; laugh. Joking is between friends, makes all people laugh, Reading, Writing and Communicating isn’t meant to be mean, cruel or unkind, doesn’t make S.1, GLE.1, EO.b-f; S.1, GLE.2, EO.a-c people feel bad and stops before someone gets upset. Learning standards key TEASING Teasing doesn’t happen often. It means to make fun of someone by playfully saying unkind and hurtful things to the person; it can be friendly, but can turn unkind quickly. -
The Relationship Between School Climate and Student Bullying
Research & Scholarship TEACHR The relationship between school climate and student bullying Kevin Petrie Lecturer, School of Education, Avondale College of Higher Education, Cooranbong, NSW Abstract et al., 2003). A significant connection has also been This study investigates the relationship between found with self-esteem, depressive symptoms and student perceptions of school climate and self- challenging behaviour (Way, Reddy, & Rhodes, 2007). reported bullying between students. Data were Behavioural problems with links to school climate collected from 604 students in 59 regular grade include aggression (Wilson, 2004), school delinquency 5-6 classrooms, within 20 state schools in Victoria, (Gottfredson, Gottfredson, Payne, & Gottfredson, Australia. A significant negative relationship was 2005) and bullying (Bandyopadhyay, Cornell, & found between measures of positive school climate Konold, 2009). Following a review of anti-bullying and the prevalence of student peer bullying. intervention programmes, Parada (2000, p. 15) claimed Implications for classroom teachers and school that “interventions which changed the social milieu of administrators are discussed. The importance of schools are the most appropriate when dealing with measuring and monitoring students’ involvement school bullying”. in bullying and perceptions of school climate is Many researchers are convinced that the climate emphasised. of a school has a direct impact on the attitudes and behaviour of students, including the prevalence of One child in Introduction bullying (Bandyopadhyay et al., 2009; J. Cohen, six is bullied School climate has gained increased attention in recent McCabe, et al., 2009; Due et al., 2005; Kasen, Johnson, at school years as a factor linked to a wide range of important Chen, Crawford, & Cohen, 2011; Meyer-Adams & “on at least a student outcomes (Swearer, Espelage, & Napolitano, Conner, 2008; Orpinas, Horne, & Staniszewski, 2003; weekly basis 2009). -
Helping Bullied Children to Thrive
Annual Review 2013 Helping bullied children to thrive We all need the right conditions to thrive Every one of the past four years that I have been Director of Kidscape has brought its challenges and successes, as well as It’s hard to flourish in an environment that feels unsafe or inspiring and humbling examples of young people transforming threatening. That’s why Kidscape helps children and young people their lives and growing into the people that they want to be. It has to challenge abuse and bullying in all its forms. been heartening to see so many parents developing new skills to We champion the anti-bullying message in the media and with help their children with issues around bullying, and taking these government, and we train teachers and other professionals who skills back into their own communities. We have also seen a work with children all over the UK and around the world to spot significant number of professionals not only passing on Kidscape the warning signs and help prevent abuse and bullying. Most strategies, but also hope, courage and determination, which form importantly of all, we work directly with families who have been the real seeds of change. affected by bullying. By offering them support, expert advice and practical life-skills, we give them the tools they need to grow and thrive. It’s vital work that can save lives. Read on to find out how we do it, why we need more funding and what you can do to help. Kidscape trainers also delivered ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! a range of anti-bullying and ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! child protection sessions to ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! over 17,000 professionals and ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! approximately 3000 young people during the year under ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! review. -
Examining the Invisibility of Girl-To-Girl Bullying in Schools: a Call to Action
Examining the Invisibility of Girl-to-Girl Bullying in Schools: A Call to Action Suzanne SooHoo It does not matter whether one is 13, 33, or 53 years old, but if you are female, chances are that other girls have bullied you sometime in your lifetime. Bullying is not the kind of abuse that leaves broken bones; rather, it is a dehumanizing experience that manifests itself in the form of rumor spreading, name calling, psychological manipulation, character assassination, and social exclusion. Female teachers who are former victims of girl bullies or who themselves have been complicit with girl-to-girl bullying, consistently casting a blind eye to this ritualized social degradation, allowing it to continue generation after generation. The purpose here is not to blame teachers, but rather to seek an answer to "What are the social or institutional forces that prevent adults in the schools from seeing what they may have experienced themselves?" Throughout generations, girls have been bullied. The dehumanizing rituals and practices, passed on from mother to daughter, have survived even when the victims have not. Damaged young girls become damaged adult women. Mothers who did not know what to do when they were girls still do not know how to handle girl-to-girl bullying as women (Simmons, 2002). Many are unable to intervene when their daughters are bullied and they continue to be victims of adult female bullies. Through the process of "othering" (SooHoo, 2006), girl bullies determine who is valued and who is not and, as such, girl-to-girl bullying contributes to a social hierarchy of privilege and oppression. -
Effects of Bullying on the Individual.Pdf
BULLYING: A TEACHER’S PERSPECTIVE YVES LOYER SUBMITTED IN PARTIAL FULFILLMENT OF THE REQUIREMENTS FOR THE DEGREE OF MASTER OF EDUCATION NIPISSING UNIVERSITY SCHULICH SCHOOL OF EDUCATION NORTH BAY, ONTARIO ÓYves Loyer June 2017 Abstract The purpose of this qualitative research study was to explore the effects of bullying in the classroom from a teacher perspective. Based on a sampling of 5 teachers from across experience levels and genders, in-depth interviews were conducted with a General Schedule of Interview Questions to obtain these teacher perspectives about bullying. While analyzing the data, 5 key themes and 3 subthemes were discovered and exposited. The study concludes with some suggestions from myself and the researcher data about how principals, parents, teachers and students can help address the topic of bullying from an open and understanding perspective. v Acknowledgements THE LORD JESUS CHRIST For giving me the grace, skills, and patience to do this work. MY LOVELY WIFE For being with me and supporting me through this difficult process. MY MOTHER For giving me life and nurturing me all these years. MY FATHER For giving me a good work ethic and strong values. TO MY RESEARCH SUPERVISOR For your unabated wisdom and patience within this process. TO MY STUDY PARTICIPANTS JANET, STEWART, NELLY, SARA, AND REBECCA Thanks for the time that you put aside for this study. TO MY FUTURE LITTLE GIRL This was for you my little one. “There is nothing impossible to him who will try.” Alexander the Great vi Table of Contents Page Abstract iv -
By ALLAN L. BEANE, PH.D. Author, the Bully Free Classroom™ Website
by ALLAN L. BEANE, PH.D. Author, The Bully Free Classroomä Website: www.bullyfree.com Copyright October 29, 2003, Allan L. Beane, Ph.D. DEDICATION This book is dedicated to our son, Curtis Allan Beane, who was bullied in seventh grade and high school. It is also dedicated to our granddaughters, Emily Grace Turner and Sarah Gail Turner. Emily was born on the first anniversary of Curtis’ death. She and Sarah have brought light into our darkness. I hope this book, and those who use it, will bring light into the darkness of children who are mistreated. ACKNOWLEDGMENTS Grateful thanks are offered to everyone who has helped by providing advice, information, and comments during the preparation of this book. Special acknowledgement and thanks are due to Linda Beane for her desktop publishing knowledge and skills. Special acknowledgement and thanks are due to Darlene Gibson for her editing knowledge and skills. Some of the material in this book is reproduced from and/or based on The Bully Free Classroomä: Over 100 Tips and Strategies for Teachers K8 by Allan L. Beane, Ph.D. Ó 1999. Material is used with permission from Free Spirit Publishing Inc., Minneapolis, MN; 18667037322; www.freespirit.com. All rights reserved. TABLE OF CONTENTS Dedication Acknowledgements Preface INTRODUCTION AND PURPOSE...............................................................................................4 WHAT IS THE NATURE OF BULLYING? .................................................................................5 Fact Sheet # 1: What is bullying? Fact -
Bullying and Victimisation in Schools: a Restorative Justice Approach
A U S T R A L I A N I N S T I T U T E O F C R I M I N O L O G Y t r e n d s No. 219 & Bullying and Victimisation i s s u e s in Schools: A Restorative Justice Approach in crime and criminal justice Brenda Morrison Bullying at school causes enormous stress for many children and their families, and has long-term effects. School bullying has been identified as a risk factor associated with antisocial and criminal behaviour. Bullies are more likely to drop out of school and to engage in delinquent and criminal behaviour. The victims are more likely to have higher levels of stress, anxiety, depression and illness, and an increased tendency to suicide. This paper reports on a restorative justice program that was run in a primary school in the Australian Capital Territory (ACT), but whose lessons have wider application. Early intervention has been advocated as the most appropriate way to prevent bullying. This paper outlines a framework based on restorative justice principles aimed at bringing about behavioural change for the individual while keeping schools and communities safe. The aim of restorative programs is to reintegrate those affected by wrongdoing back into the community as resilient and responsible members. Restorative justice is a form of conflict resolution and seeks to make it clear to the offender that the behaviour is not condoned, at February 2002 the same time as being supportive and respectful of the individual. The paper highlights the importance of schools as institutions that can foster care and respect and provide opportunities to participate in processes ISSN 0817-8542 that allow for differences to be worked through constructively. -
Introduction to Mobbing in the Workplace and an Overview of Adult Bullying
1: Introduction to Mobbing in the Workplace and an Overview of Adult Bullying Workplace Bullying Clinical and Organizational Perspectives In the early 1980s, German industrial psychologist Heinz Leymann began work in Sweden, conducting studies of workers who had experienced violence on the job. Leymann’s research originally consisted of longitudinal studies of subway drivers who had accidentally run over people with their trains and of banking employees who had been robbed on the job. In the course of his research, Leymann discovered a surprising syndrome in a group that had the most severe symptoms of acute stress disorder (ASD), workers whose colleagues had ganged up on them in the workplace (Gravois, 2006). Investigating this further, Leymann studied workers in one of the major Swedish iron and steel plants. From this early work, Leymann used the term “mobbing” to refer to emotional abuse at work by one or more others. Earlier theorists such as Austrian ethnologist Konrad Lorenz and Swedish physician Peter-Paul Heinemann used the term before Leymann, but Leymann received the most recognition for it. Lorenz used “mobbing” to describe animal group behavior, such as attacks by a group of smaller animals on a single larger animal (Lorenz, 1991, in Zapf & Leymann, 1996). Heinemann borrowed this term and used it to describe the destructive behavior of children, often in a group, against a single child. This text uses the terms “mobbing” and “bullying” interchangeably; however, mobbing more often refers to bullying by more than one person and can be more subtle. Bullying more often focuses on the actions of a single person.