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The First Vision, artist unknown In 1820 young Joseph Smith entered a grove of trees near his home to pray to know which church to join. In answer to his prayer, he saw the Father and the Son: “I saw a pillar of light exactly over my head, above the brightness of the sun, which descended gradually until it fell upon me. “. . . When the light rested upon me I saw two Personages, whose brightness and glory defy all description, standing above me in the air. One of them spake unto me, calling me by name and said, pointing to the other—This is My Beloved Son. Hear Him!” ( Joseph Smith—History 1:16–17). Contents May 2010 Volume 34 • Number 5

2 Summary for the 180th Annual 54 The Magnificent Aaronic 98 Mother Told Me General Conference Priesthood Elder Bradley D. Foster David L. Beck 101 All Things Work Together for Good SATURDAY MORNING SESSION 56 Continue in Patience Elder James B. Martino 4Welcome to Conference President Dieter F. Uchtdorf 103 Developing Good Judgment and President Thomas S. Monson 60 Act in All Diligence Not Judging Others 6 The Power of the Priesthood President Henry B. Eyring Elder Gregory A. Schwitzer President Boyd K. Packer 64 Preparation Brings Blessings 106 Things Pertaining to Righteousness 10 “And upon the Handmaids President Thomas S. Monson Elder Francisco J. Viñas in Those Days Will I Pour 108 Tell Me the Stories of Jesus Out My Spirit” SUNDAY MORNING SESSION Elder Neil L. Andersen Julie B. Beck 68 “You Are My Hands” 112 A Word at Closing 13 Our Path of Duty President Dieter F. Uchtdorf President Thomas S. Monson Bishop Keith B. McMullin 75 He Lives! All Glory to His Name! 16 The Rock of Our Redeemer Elder Richard G. Scott GENERAL YOUNG WOMEN MEETING Elder Wilford W. Andersen 78 Turn to the Lord 114 Be of a Good Courage 18 Mothers and Daughters Elder Donald L. Hallstrom Ann M. Dibb Elder M. Russell Ballard 81 That Our Children Might See 117 Never, Never, Never Give Up! 22 Help Them on Their Way Home the Face of the Savior Mary N. Cook President Henry B. Eyring Cheryl C. Lant 120 Remember Who You Are! 83 We Follow Jesus Christ Elaine S. Dalton SATURDAY AFTERNOON SESSION Elder Quentin L. Cook 123 Video Presentation: I Have 26 The Sustaining of Church Officers 87 He Is Risen! a Purpose President Dieter F. Uchtdorf President Thomas S. Monson 124 Your Happily Ever After 27 Church Auditing Department President Dieter F. Uchtdorf Report, 2009 SUNDAY AFTERNOON SESSION Robert W. Cantwell 91 Generations Linked in Love 72 General Authorities of The Church 28 Statistical Report, 2009 Elder Russell M. Nelson of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Brook P. Hales 95 Our Duty to God: The Mission 128 They Spoke to Us: Making 29 Mothers Teaching Children of Parents and Leaders to the Conference Part of Our Lives in the Home Rising Generation 130 They Spoke to Youth Elder L. Tom Perry Elder Robert D. Hales 132 Conference Story Index 32 The Blessing of Scripture 133 Teachings for Our Time Elder D. Todd Christofferson 133 General Auxiliary Presidencies 36 Helping Hands, Saving Hands Elder Koichi Aoyagi 134 News of the Church 38 When the Lord Commands Elder Bruce A. Carlson 40 Watching with All Perseverance Elder David A. Bednar 44 Place No More for the Enemy of My Soul Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

PRIESTHOOD SESSION 47 Healing the Sick Elder Dallin H. Oaks 51 The Divine Call of a Missionary Elder Ronald A. Rasband SUNDAY MORNING, APRIL 4, 2010, on the Mountain Top,” Hymns, no. 5, arr. Summary for GENERAL SESSION Webb, unpublished; “Dearest Children, God Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Is Near You,” Hymns, no. 96, arr. Watkins, the 180th Conducting: President Henry B. Eyring. unpublished; “Be Strong,” from A Brand Invocation: Elder Kenneth Johnson. New Year: 2010 Youth Celebration, unpub- Annual General Benediction: Elder Wolfgang H. Paul. lished; “O Thou Rock of Our Salvation,” Music by the Tabernacle Choir; Mack Wilberg Hymns, no. 258, arr. Kasen, pub. Jackman; Conference and Ryan Murphy, directors; Andrew “How Firm a Foundation,” Hymns, no. 85, Unsworth and Clay Christiansen, organists: descant arr. Webb. SATURDAY MORNING, APRIL 3, 2010, “On This Day of Joy and Gladness,” Hymns, CONFERENCE TALKS AVAILABLE GENERAL SESSION no. 64; “Christ the Lord Is Risen Today,” Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Hymns, no. 200; “This Is the Christ,” Moody, To access general conference talks in many Conducting: President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. arr. Bradford, pub. Nature Sings; “Rejoice, languages, visit conference.lds.org. Then Invocation: Elder Yoshihiko Kikuchi. the Lord Is King,” Hymns, no. 66; “When He select a language. Generally within two Benediction: Elder Erich W. Kopischke. Comes Again,” Children’s Songbook, 82–83, months following conference, audio record- Music by the Tabernacle Choir; Mack arr. Murphy, unpublished; “He Is Risen!” ings are available at distribution centers. Wilberg, director; Richard Elliott and Andrew Hymns, no. 199, arr. Wilberg, unpublished. HOME AND VISITING TEACHING Unsworth, organists: “Sweet Is the Work,” SUNDAY AFTERNOON, APRIL 4, 2010, MESSAGES Hymns, no. 147; “Come, Ye Children of the GENERAL SESSION For home and visiting teaching messages, Lord,” Hymns, no. 58; “There Is Sunshine in Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. please select an address that best meets the My Soul Today,” Hymns, no. 227, arr. Wilberg, Conducting: President Henry B. Eyring. needs of those you visit. unpublished; “Guide Us, O Thou Great Invocation: Elder Christoffel Golden Jr. Jehovah,” Hymns, no. 83; “He Sent His Son,” Benediction: Bishop Richard C. Edgley. ON THE COVER Children’s Songbook, 34–35, arr. Hofheins, Music by the Tabernacle Choir; Mack Wilberg Front: Photograph of President Thomas S. unpublished; “How Firm a Foundation,” and Ryan Murphy, directors; Linda Margetts Monson and Sister Frances Monson by John Hymns, no. 85, arr. Wilberg, unpublished. and Bonnie Goodliffe, organists: “Come, Luke. Back: Photograph of Salt Lake Temple by Weston Colton. SATURDAY AFTERNOON, APRIL 3, 2010, O Thou King of Kings,” Hymns, no. 59, arr. GENERAL SESSION Murphy, unpublished; “Jesus, Once of Humble CONFERENCE PHOTOGRAPHY Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Birth,” Hymns, no. 196, arr. Kasen, pub. Jackman; “I Know That My Redeemer Lives,” Scenes of general conference in Salt Lake Conducting: President Dieter F. Uchtdorf. City were taken by Craig Dimond, Welden C. Invocation: Elder Lynn G. Robbins. Hymns, no. 136; “Abide with Me; ’Tis Eventide,” Hymns, no. 165, arr. Wilberg, unpublished. Andersen, John Luke, Matthew Reier, Benediction: Elder Craig C. Christensen. Christina Smith, Les Nilsson, Scott Davis, Music by a combined choir from the Orem SATURDAY EVENING, MARCH 27, 2010, Lindsay Briggs, Cody Bell, Mark Weinberg, Institute of Religion; Ryan Eggett and Allen GENERAL YOUNG WOMEN MEETING Weston Colton, Jenica Heintzelman, Brandon Matthews, directors; Bonnie Goodliffe, organ- Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Flint, and Robert Casey; in Argentina by ist: “Come, Listen to a Prophet’s Voice,” Hymns, Conducting: Elaine S. Dalton. Lucio Javier Fleytas and Cristian Rafael López no. 21; “I Feel My Savior’s Love,” Children’s Invocation: Karlee Gubler. Fonseca; in Brazil by Laureni Ademar Songbook, 74–75, arr. Dayley, pub. Jackman; Benediction: Kendrick Smaellie. Fochetto and Ana Claudia Soli; in Chile by “We Thank Thee, O God, for a Prophet,” Music by a Young Women choir from the Oscar Schmittner; in Czech Republic by Bev Hymns, no. 19; “Nearer, My God, to Thee,” Lehi Utah, Lehi Utah East, Lehi Utah North, Robison; in France by Carlos Gonzalez; in Hymns, no. 100, arr. Duffin, unpublished. and Lehi Utah South Stakes; Merrilee Webb, Philippines by Edwin Redrino; and in Oregon, USA, by John Snyder. SATURDAY EVENING, APRIL 3, 2010, director; Bonnie Goodliffe, organist: “High PRIESTHOOD SESSION Presiding: President Thomas S. Monson. Conducting: President Henry B. Eyring. Invocation: Elder Keith K. Hilbig. Benediction: Elder Michael John U. Teh. Music by a priesthood choir from Brigham Young University; Ronald Staheli, director; Clay Christiansen and Richard Elliott, organists: “God Loved Us, So He Sent His Son,” Hymns, no. 187, arr. McDavitt, unpublished; “Choose the Right,” Hymns, no. 239, arr. Hall, unpublished; “Glory to God on High,” Hymns, no. 67; “The Iron Rod,” Hymns, no. 274, arr. Staheli, unpublished.

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locations around the world. In the past three months alone, humanitarian assistance has been provided in French By President Thomas S. Monson Polynesia, Mongolia, Bolivia, Peru, Arizona, Mexico, Portugal, and Uganda, among other areas. Most recently we have assisted in Haiti and Chile following devastating earthquakes and Welcome tsunamis in those areas. We express our love to our Church members who have suffered in these disasters. You to Conference are in our prayers. We express profound gratitude to all of you for your Thank you, my brothers and sisters, for your faith and willingness to assist with our humani- devotion to the gospel of Jesus Christ. tarian efforts by sharing your resources and, in many cases, your time, your talents, and your expertise. This year marks 25 years since our ow good it is, my beloved members of the Church to reach out humanitarian program became part of brothers and sisters, to meet to the new converts or to those mak- our welfare effort. The number of indi- Htogether once again. This con- ing their way back into the Church, to viduals assisted by this program could ference marks 180 years since the surround them with love and to help never adequately be measured. We will Church was organized. How grateful them feel at home. always strive to be among the first on we are for the Prophet Joseph Smith, Thank you, my brothers and sisters, the scene of disasters, wherever they who sought for the truth, who found for your faith and devotion to the may occur. it, and who, under the direction of the gospel of Jesus Christ. Thank you The Church continues to grow and Lord, restored the gospel and organ- for all that you do in your wards and to move forward. The building of tem- ized the Church. branches, in your stakes and districts. ples is an indication of such growth. The Church has grown steadily You serve willingly and well and Recently we announced a new temple since that day in 1830. It continues to accomplish great good. May the Lord which will be built in Payson, Utah. change the lives of more and more bless you as you strive to follow Him We also announced major renovations people every year and to spread across and to obey His commandments. which will be made to the Ogden Utah the earth as our missionary force seeks Since last we met, the Church has Temple. Within the next three months out those who are searching for the continued to provide much-needed we will dedicate new temples in truth. Once again we call upon the humanitarian assistance in various Vancouver, British Columbia; in the Gila Valley, Arizona; and in Cebu City in the Philippines. Later in the year other temples will be dedicated or rededicated. We will continue to build temples throughout the world as our membership grows. Each year millions of ordinances are performed in the temples for our deceased loved ones. May we continue to be faithful in performing such ordinances for those who are unable to do so for themselves. Many of you are aware that a short time after October conference, my May 2010 5 dear wife, Frances, suffered a fall, which By President Boyd K. Packer left her with a broken hip and a broken President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles shoulder. After two successful surgeries and several weeks of hospitaliza- tion, she was able to return home. She is doing well and continues to make progress toward a full recovery. She The Power was able to attend the general Young Women meeting last Saturday and plans to attend a session or two this of the Priesthood weekend. In fact, at the last minute she said, “I’m going today!” And she’s here! The priesthood does not have the strength that it should have She joins me in expressing our deep and will not have until the power of the priesthood is firmly gratitude to our Heavenly Father and fixed in the families. to all of you for your prayers and your well wishes in her behalf. Now, brothers and sisters, we have come here to be instructed and inspired. We welcome those of you speak to the fathers of the families down . . . to drink.” Those he passed who are new in the Church. Others of and to families everywhere in the over. A few scooped up water in their you are struggling with problems, with Church. hands and drank, remaining completely I 2 challenges, with disappointments, Years ago we began correlation alert. They were the ones chosen. with losses. We love you and we pray under the direction of President We live in a day of “wars [and] for you. Many messages, covering a Harold B. Lee. At that time President rumors of wars, and earthquakes in variety of gospel topics, will be given Thomas S. Monson said: “Today, we divers places.”3 As prophesied, “the during the next two days. Those men are encamped against the greatest whole earth [is] in commotion”4 and and women who will speak to you array of sin, vice, and evil ever assem- “Satan is abroad in the land.”5 He have sought heaven’s help concerning bled before our eyes. . . . The battle seeks to destroy all that is good and the messages they will give. plan whereby we fight to save the righteous.6 He is Lucifer, who was cast It is my prayer that we may be filled souls of men is not our own. It [came out of the presence of God.7 Against with His Spirit as we listen and learn. through] the inspiration and revela- all of that, we have very positive feel- That this may be so, I pray in the name tion of the Lord.”1 ings about what lies ahead. of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, During those years of correlation, Gideon’s small force succeeded amen. ■ the whole operating face of the Church because, as the record states, “they was changed. The entire curriculum stood every man in his place.”8 was restructured. The objectives and This “dispensation of the fulness of relationships of the organizations one times”9 opened with the appearance to another were redefined. The key of the Father and the Son to the boy word during those years of correlation Joseph Smith.10 Next the angel Moroni and restructuring was priesthood. showed Joseph where the plates con- President Monson also spoke of taining the Book of Mormon had been Gideon, a hero in the Old Testament. buried.11 Joseph was given power to Gideon was chosen to lead the armies translate them.12 of Israel, thousands strong. But of During translation Joseph and Oliver them all, he chose only 300 men. Cowdery read about baptism. They Gideon had an interesting way of prayed to know what to do.13 There selecting his recruits. When the men appeared to them an angelic messen- drank water at a stream, most “bowed ger, John the Baptist. He conferred

6 Saturday Morning Session upon them the Aaronic Priesthood, The Book of Mormon makes it crucial for everyone to understand “which holds the keys of the minister- clear that we never will dominate by what is expected of the brethren. ing of angels, and of the gospel of numbers. But we have the power of Unless we enlist the attention of the repentance, and of baptism by immer- the priesthood.19 mothers and daughters and sisters— sion for the remission of sins.”14 The prophet Nephi wrote, “It came who have influence on their husbands, The Apostles Peter, James, and to pass that I beheld the church of the fathers, sons, and brothers—we cannot John, who were closest to the Lord in Lamb of God, and its numbers were progress. The priesthood will lose His ministry, appeared next and con- few . . . ; nevertheless, I beheld that the great power if the sisters are neglected. ferred upon Joseph and Oliver the church of the Lamb, who were the Priesthood is the authority and the higher priesthood,15 or “the Holy saints of God, were also upon all the power which God has granted to men Priesthood, after the Order of the Son face of the earth; and their dominions on earth to act for Him.23 When priest- of God.”16 The priesthood, the scrip- upon the face of the earth were small.”20 hood authority is exercised properly, tures direct, was to be named after President Joseph Fielding Smith priesthood bearers do what He would Melchizedek, the great high priest to said, “While it may be said . . . that we do if He were present. whom Abraham paid tithes.17 are but a handful in comparison with We have done very well at distribut- This then became their authority. . . . the world, yet we may be coming the authority of the priesthood. Through the keys of the priesthood, pared with the leaven of which the We have priesthood authority planted they had access to all of the powers of Savior spoke, which will eventually nearly everywhere. We have quorums heaven. They were commanded to leaven [or lift] the whole world.”21 of elders and high priests worldwide. carry the gospel unto all nations.18 We can and in due time certainly But distributing the authority of the It has never been easy to live the will influence all of humanity. It will be priesthood has raced, I think, ahead of gospel of Jesus Christ. It was not easy known who we are and why we are. It distributing the power of the priest- when He lived, and it was not easy in might seem hopeless; it is monumen- hood. The priesthood does not have the early days of the Church. The early tally difficult; but it is not only possible the strength that it should have and Saints were subjected to unspeakable but certain that we will win the battle will not have until the power of the suffering and opposition. against Satan. priesthood is firmly fixed in the fami- It has been over 180 years since the Some years ago I gave a talk enti- lies as it should be. priesthood was restored. We now tled “What Every Elder Should Know: President Harold B. Lee stated: number nearly 14 million members. A Primer on Principles of Priesthood “It seems clear to me that the Church Even so, we are a tiny fraction when Government.” Later, when it was to be has no choice—and never has had— compared to the billions of people on published, I changed the title to read but to do more to assist the family in earth. But we are who we are, and we “What Every Elder Should Know—and carrying out its divine mission, not know what we know, and we are to go Every Sister as Well.”22 only because that is the order of forth and preach the gospel. I include the sisters because it is heaven, but also because that is the

May 2010 7 most practical contribution we can home and then had orders to “Can we ordain a young man to be an make to our youth—to help improve Vietnam. He asked President Lee to elder who is leaving for the mission the quality of life in the Latter-day Saint give him a blessing. field?” The answer, of course, was yes. homes. As important as our many pro- Much to my surprise, President Lee As the young man came forward, grams and organizational efforts are, said, “Your father should give you the he motioned for three brethren to fol- these should not supplant the home; blessing.” low and stand in for his ordination. they should support the home.”24 Very disappointed, the boy said, I noticed on the back row a carbon President Joseph F. Smith made this “My father wouldn’t know how to give copy of this boy, and I asked, “Is that statement about the priesthood in the a blessing.” your father?” home: “In the home the presiding President Lee answered, “Go home, The young man said, “Yes.” authority is always vested in the father, my boy, and tell your father that you I said, “Your father will ordain you.” and in all home affairs and family mat- are going away to war and want to And he protested, “But I’ve already ters there is no other authority para- receive a father’s blessing from him. asked another brother to ordain me.” mount. To illustrate this principle, a If he does not know how, tell him that And I said, “Young man, your father single incident will perhaps suffice. It you will sit on a chair. He can stand will ordain you, and you’ll live to thank sometimes happens that the elders are behind you and put his hands on your the Lord for this day.” called in to administer to the members head and say whatever comes.” Then the father came forward. of a family. Among these elders there This young soldier went away Thank goodness he was an elder. may be presidents of stakes, apostles, sorrowing. Had he not been, he soon could have or even members of the first presi- About two years later I met him been! In the military they would dency of the Church. It is not proper again. I do not recall where. He call that a battlefield commission. under these circumstances for the reminded me of that experience and Sometimes such things are done in father to stand back and expect the eld- said, “I did as I was told to do. I the Church. ers to direct the administration of this explained to my father that I would sit The father did not know how to important ordinance. The father is on the chair and that he should put ordain his son. I put my arm around there. It is his right and it is his duty to his hands on my head. The power of him and coached him through the preside. He should select the one who the priesthood filled both of us. That ordinance. When he was finished, is to administer the oil, and the one was a strength and protection in those the young man was an elder. Then who is to be mouth in prayer, and he perilous months of battle.” something wonderful happened. should not feel that because there are Another time I was in a distant city. Completely changed, the father and present presiding authorities in the After a conference we were ordaining son embraced. It was obvious that had Church that he is therefore divested of and setting apart leaders. As we con- never happened before. his rights to direct the administration of cluded, the stake president asked, The father, through his tears, said, that blessing of the gospel in his home. “I didn’t get to ordain my other boys.” (If the father be absent, the mother Think how much more was accom- should request the presiding authority plished than if another had ordained present to take charge.) The father pre- him, even an Apostle. sides at the table, at prayer, and gives While the priesthood is presently all general directions relating to his family over the world, we call on every elder life whoever may be present.”25 and high priest, every holder of the During the Vietnam War, we held priesthood to stand, like Gideon’s a series of special meetings for mem- small but powerful force of 300, in his bers of the Church called into military own place. We now must awaken in service. After such a meeting in every elder and high priest, in every Chicago, I was standing next to quorum and group, and in the father President Harold B. Lee when a fine of every home the power of the priest- young Latter-day Saint told President hood of the Almighty. Lee that he was on leave to visit his The Lord said that “the weak things

8 Saturday Morning Session of the world shall come forth and break bedside of an aged little Danish woman. obedient living in honoring covenants. down the mighty and strong ones.”26 Among them was her middle-aged, It is increased by exercising and using The prophet Nephi also told of wayward son. For the past number of the priesthood in righteousness. “the power of the Lamb of God, that years he had been living at home. Now, fathers, I would remind you it descended upon the saints of the Tearfully he pleaded, “Mama, of the sacred nature of your calling. church of the Lamb, and upon the you’ve got to live. Mama, you can’t You have the power of the priesthood covenant people of the Lord, who die.” He said, “Mama, you can’t go. I directly from the Lord to protect your were scattered upon all the face of the won’t let you go.” home. There will be times when all earth” and said that “they were armed The little mother looked up at her that stands as a shield between your with righteousness and with the son and in her broken Danish accent family and the adversary’s mischief will power of God in great glory.”27 said, “But ver is yo powah?”—where is be that power. You will receive direc- We need everyone. The tired or your power? tion from the Lord by way of the gift of worn out or lazy and even those who Paul said: the Holy Ghost. are bound down with guilt must be “[We] are built upon the founda- The adversary is not actively restored through repentance and for- tion of the apostles and prophets, disturbing our Church meetings— giveness. Too many of our priesthood Jesus Christ himself being the chief perhaps only occasionally. By and large brethren are living below their privi- corner stone; we are free to assemble as we wish leges and the Lord’s expectations. “In whom all the building fitly without much disruption. But he and We must go forward, confident of framed together groweth unto an holy those who follow him are persistent in the supernal power of the priesthood. temple in the Lord: attacking the home and the family. It is a source of strength and encour- “In whom ye also are builded The ultimate end of all activity in agement to know who we are and together for an habitation of God the Church is that a man and his wife what we have and what we must do in through the Spirit.”29 and their children might be happy at the work of the Almighty. That the work of the Lord will pre- home, protected by the principles The Lord has said, “I, the Lord, am vail is not a question. That we must and laws of the gospel, sealed safely bound when ye do what I say; but marshal all of our efforts and unify in the covenants of the everlasting when ye do not what I say, ye have no ourselves are givens. priesthood. promise.”28 The authority of the priesthood is Every law and principle and power, Homes without the priesthood are with us. After all that we have corre- every belief, every ordinance and ordi- to be watched over and ministered to lated and organized, it is now our nation, every covenant, every sermon by the quorums of the priesthood. In responsibility to activate the power and every sacrament, every counsel this manner no blessings will be found of the priesthood in the Church. and correction, the sealings, the calls, wanting in any dwelling within the Authority in the priesthood comes the releases, the service—all these Church. by way of ordination; power in the have as their ultimate purpose the per- Years ago a family gathered at the priesthood comes through faithful and fection of the individual and the family,

May 2010 9 for the Lord has said, “This is my work By Julie B. Beck and my glory—to bring to pass the Relief Society General President immortality and eternal life of man.”30 I bear witness of the power of the priesthood given to the Church to protect us and guide us. And because we have that, we have no fear of the “And upon the future. Fear is the opposite of faith. We move forward, certain that the Lord will watch over us, particularly in the Handmaids in Those family. Of Him I bear witness in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ Days Will I Pour Out NOTES 1. Thomas S. Monson, “Correlation Brings Blessings,” Relief Society Magazine, Apr. 1967, 247. My Spirit” 2. See Judges 7:4–8. 3. Mormon 8:30; see also Doctrine and Covenants 45:26; Joseph Smith—Matthew 1:23, 28. We know we are successful if we live so that we qualify for, 4. Doctrine and Covenants 45:26; see also Doctrine and Covenants 88:91. receive, and know how to follow the Spirit. 5. Doctrine and Covenants 52:14. 6. See Doctrine and Covenants 10:22–23. 7. See Revelation 12:7–9; Doctrine and Covenants 29:36–37; 76:25–26. 8. Judges 7:21. n the past year I have met thou- never been a greater need for strong 9. Doctrine and Covenants 112:30. sands of Latter-day Saint women in families and homes. There has never 10. See Joseph Smith—History 1:17. many countries. The list of chal- been more that could be done to help 11. See Joseph Smith—History 1:33–34, 59. I 12. See Book of Mormon introduction; lenges these sisters face is lengthy and others who are in need. How does Doctrine and Covenants 135:3. sobering. There are family troubles, one increase faith, strengthen families, 13. See Joseph Smith—History 1:68–69. 1 14. Doctrine and Covenants 13:1. economic tests, calamities, accidents, and provide relief? How does a 15. See Doctrine and Covenants 27:12–13. and illnesses. There is much distrac- woman in our day find answers to her 16. Doctrine and Covenants 107:3. tion and not enough peace and joy. own questions and stand strong and 17. See Doctrine and Covenants 107:2–4; see also Hebrews 7:1–4; Alma 13:15. Despite popular media messages to immovable against incredible opposi- 18. See Doctrine and Covenants 42:58. the contrary, no one is rich enough, tion and difficulty? 19. See 1 Nephi 14:14. beautiful enough, or clever enough 20. 1 Nephi 14:12. 21. Joseph Fielding Smith, in Conference to avoid a mortal experience. Personal Revelation Report, Oct. 1968, 123. The questions sisters ask are seri- A good woman knows that she 22. See Boyd K. Packer, “What Every Elder Should Know—and Every Sister as Well: A ous and insightful. They articulate does not have enough time, energy, or Primer on Principles of Priesthood uneasiness about the future, sorrow opportunity to take care of all of the Government,” Tambuli, Nov. 1994, 15–24; for unrealized expectations, some people or do all of the worthy things Ensign, Feb. 1993, 7–13. 23. See Teachings of Presidents of the Church: indecision, and diminished feelings her heart yearns to do. Life is not calm Joseph F. Smith (1998), 141; Joseph Smith of self-worth. They also reflect a deep for most women, and each day seems Translation, Genesis 14:28–31, in Bible desire to do what is right. to require the accomplishment of a appendix. 24. Harold B. Lee, “Preparing Our Youth,” There has grown in me an over- million things, most of which are Ensign, Mar. 1971, 3; emphasis added. whelming testimony of the value of important. A good woman must con- 25. Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine, 5th ed. daughters of God. So much depends stantly resist alluring and deceptive (1939), 287. 26. Doctrine and Covenants 1:19. on them. In my visits with the sisters, I messages from many sources telling 27. 1 Nephi 14:14. have felt that there has never been a her that she is entitled to more time 28. Doctrine and Covenants 82:10. 29. Ephesians 2:20–22. greater need for increased faith and away from her responsibilities and that 30. Moses 1:39. personal righteousness. There has she deserves a life of greater ease and

10 Saturday Morning Session and seek those who need our help. Because personal revelation is a constantly renewable source of strength, it is possible to feel bathed in help even during turbulent times. We are told to put our trust in that Spirit which leads us “to do justly, to walk humbly, to judge righteously.”5 We are also told that this Spirit will enlighten our minds, fill our souls with joy, and help us know all things we should do.6 Promised personal revelation comes when we ask for it, prepare for it, and go forward in faith, trusting that it will be poured out upon us.

Relief Society—Teaching, Inspiring, and Strengthening Additionally, the Lord in His wisdom has provided a Relief Society to help His daughters in these latter days. When Relief Society functions in an inspired way, it lifts women up and out independence. But with personal reve- help through prayer and scripture of a troubled world and into a way of lation, she can prioritize correctly and study often have a paper and pencil living that prepares them for the bless- navigate this life confidently. nearby to write questions and record ings of eternal life. This society has The ability to qualify for, receive, impressions and ideas. at its very core the responsibility to and act on personal revelation is the Revelation can come hour by hour help sisters increase faith and personal single most important skill that can be and moment by moment as we do the righteousness, strengthen families and acquired in this life. Qualifying for the right things. When women nurture as homes, and seek out and help others Lord’s Spirit begins with a desire for Christ nurtured, a power and peace can who are in need. Through Relief that Spirit and implies a certain degree descend to guide when help is needed. Society, sisters can receive answers to of worthiness. Keeping the command- For instance, mothers can feel help their questions and be blessed by the ments, repenting, and renewing from the Spirit even when tired, noisy combined spiritual power of all the covenants made at baptism lead to the children are clamoring for attention, sisters. Relief Society validates the blessing of always having the Lord’s but they can be distanced from the true and eternal nature of daughters Spirit with us.2 Making and keeping Spirit if they lose their temper with chil- of God. It is a sacred trust, a guiding temple covenants also adds spiritual dren. Being in the right places allows us light, and a system of watchcare that strength and power to a woman’s life. to receive guidance. It requires a con- teaches and inspires women to be Many answers to difficult questions scious effort to diminish distractions, strong and immovable. Its motto, are found by reading the scriptures but having the Spirit of revelation “Charity never faileth,”7 is embodied because the scriptures are an aid to makes it possible to prevail over oppo- in all good women. revelation.3 Insight found in scripture sition and persist in faith through diffi- When a girl advances into Relief accumulates over time, so it is impor- cult days and essential routine tasks. Society or when a woman is baptized tant to spend some time in the scrip- Personal revelation gives us the under- into the Church, she becomes part tures every day. Daily prayer is also standing of what to do every day to of a sisterhood that strengthens her essential to having the Lord’s Spirit increase faith and personal righteous- in her preparation for eternal life. with us.4 Those who earnestly seek ness, strengthen families and homes, Entrance into Relief Society signifies

May 2010 11 daughters of God will prophesy and the Lord will pour out His Spirit upon His servants and His handmaids.10 President Spencer W. Kimball echoed this prophecy when he said: “Much of the major growth that is coming to the Church in the last days will come because many of the good women of the world (in whom there is often such an inner sense of spirituality) will be drawn to the Church in large numbers. This will happen to the degree that the women of the Church reflect righteousness and articulate- ness in their lives and to the degree that the women of the Church are that a woman can be trusted and that is good and ennobling to qualify seen as distinct and different—in relied upon to make a significant con- us for those responsibilities.”8 happy ways—from the women of the tribution in the Church. She continues world.... to progress as an individual without Measuring Success “Thus it will be that female exem- receiving much outward credit or Good women always have a desire plars of the Church will be a significant praise. to know if they are succeeding. In a force in both the numerical and spiri- The second general Relief Society world where the measures of success tual growth of the Church in the last president, Eliza R. Snow, said this to are often distorted, it is important to days.”11 the sisters: “We want to be ladies in seek appreciation and affirmation I bear my witness that the gospel of very deed, not according to the term from proper sources. To paraphrase a Jesus Christ is true. The Lord depends of the word as the world judges, but list found in Preach My Gospel, we are on His daughters to do their part to fit companions of the Gods and Holy doing well when we develop attributes strengthen the homes of Zion and Ones. In an organized capacity we can of Christ and strive to obey His gospel build His kingdom on the earth. As assist each other in not only doing with exactness. We are doing well they seek and qualify for personal rev- good but in refining ourselves, and when we seek to improve ourselves elation, the Lord will pour out His whether few or many come forward and do our best. We are doing well Spirit upon His handmaids in these lat- and help to prosecute this great work, when we increase faith and personal ter days. In the name of Jesus Christ, they will be those that will fill honor- righteousness, strengthen families and amen. ■ able positions in the Kingdom of God. homes, and seek out and help others NOTES . . . Women should be women and not who are in need. We know we are suc- 1. See Jacob 2:17; Mosiah 4:26; Doctrine and babies that need petting and correc- cessful if we live so that we qualify for, Covenants 38:35; 44:6. 2. See Doctrine and Covenants 20:77. tion all the time. I know we like to be receive, and know how to follow the 3. See 2 Nephi 32:3. appreciated but if we do not get all the Spirit. When we have done our very 4. See 3 Nephi 19:24–33. appreciation which we think is our best, we may still experience disap- 5. Doctrine and Covenants 11:12. 6. See Doctrine and Covenants 11:13–14. due, what matters? We know the Lord pointments, but we will not be disap- 7. 1 Corinthians 13:8. has laid high responsibility upon us, pointed in ourselves. We can feel 8. Eliza R. Snow, address to Lehi Ward Relief and there is not a wish or desire that certain that the Lord is pleased when Society, Oct. 27, 1869, Lehi Ward, Alpine 9 (Utah) Stake, in Relief Society, Minute the Lord has implanted in our hearts we feel the Spirit working through us. Book, 1868–79, Church History Library, Salt in righteousness but will be realized, Peace, joy, and hope are available to Lake City, 26–27. and the greatest good we can do to those who measure success properly. 9. See Preach My Gospel (2004), 10–11. 10. See Joel 2:28–29. ourselves and each other is to refine A revelation in the book of Joel 11. Spencer W. Kimball, “The Role of Righteous and cultivate ourselves in everything states that in the last days, sons and Women,” Ensign, Nov. 1979, 103–4.

12 Saturday Morning Session By Bishop Keith B. McMullin seconds that he stood there—hand Second Counselor in the Presiding Bishopric held out—but to me it seemed hours as I wrestled with the most difficult thing I had ever had to do. “. . . The message that God forgives has a . . . condition: that we forgive Our Path of Duty those who have injured us.... “. . . ‘Help me!’ I prayed silently. ‘I Duty does not require perfection, but it does require can lift my hand. I can do that much. diligence. It is not simply what is legal; it is what is virtuous. You supply the feeling.’ “. . . Woodenly, mechanically, I thrust my hand into the one stretched out to me. As I did, an incredible his is a troubled world. Discord group of people in Germany suffering thing took place. The current started and disaster are everywhere. It from the ravages of war. Her message in my shoulder, raced down my arm, Tsometimes feels as though was “God forgives.” It was then that sprang into our joined hands. And mankind itself may be hanging in Corrie ten Boom’s faithfulness then this healing warmth seemed to the balance. brought forth its blessing. flood my whole being, bringing tears Foreshadowing our day, the Lord A man approached her. She recog- to my eyes. said, “The heavens shall shake, and nized him as one of the cruelest “ ‘I forgive you, brother!’ I cried. also the earth; and great tribulations guards in the camp. “You mentioned ‘With all my heart.’ shall be among the children of men, Ravensbrück in your talk,” he said. “I “For a long moment we grasped but my people will I preserve.”1 We was a guard there. . . . But since that each other’s hands, the former guard should take great comfort in this time, . . . I have become a Christian.” and the former prisoner. I had never promise. He explained that he had sought known God’s love so intensely, as I Though disasters completely dis- God’s forgiveness for the cruel things did then.”6 rupt “the even tenor of [our ways],”2 he had done. He extended his hand For those who eschew evil and live they do not have to leave our lives for- and asked, “Will you forgive me?” good lives, who strive for a brighter ever shattered. They can “stir [us] up Corrie ten Boom then said: day and keep the commandments of in remembrance,”3 “awaken [us] to a “It could not have been many God, things can get better and better sense of [our] duty to God,”4 and keep even in the face of tragedy. The Savior us “in the path of [our] duty.”5 showed us the way. From Gethsemane, In Holland during World War II, the the cross, and the tomb, He rose tri- Casper ten Boom family used their umphant, bringing life and hope to us home as a hiding place for those all. He bids us, “Come, follow me.”7 hunted by the Nazis. This was their President Thomas S. Monson has way of living out their Christian faith. counseled: “If we are to walk with Four members of the family lost their head held high, we must make our lives for providing this refuge. Corrie contribution to life. If we are to fulfill ten Boom and her sister Betsie spent our destiny and return to live with our horrific months in the infamous Father in Heaven, we must keep His Ravensbrück concentration camp. commandments and pattern our lives Betsie died there—Corrie survived. after the Savior. By so doing, we will In Ravensbrück, Corrie and Betsie not only achieve our goal of eternal learned that God helps us to forgive. life, but we will also leave the world Following the war, Corrie was deter- richer and better than it would have mined to share this message. On one been had we not lived and performed occasion, she had just spoken to a our duties.”8

May 2010 13 In the Holy Bible are these inspired To Whom and to What Are We to the Son of God, the Lord Jesus words: “Let us hear the conclusion of Duty Bound? Christ. To revere one requires rever- the whole matter: Fear God, and keep First, our path of duty is to God, ence for the other, for the Father his commandments: for this is the our Eternal Father. He is the author has appointed that it is only in and whole duty of man.”9 of the plan of salvation, “the framer through the name of Christ that one of heaven and earth,” the creator of can completely fulfill this dutiful What Is This Thing Called Duty? Adam and Eve.11 He is the fountain of charge.16 He is our Exemplar, our The duty of which I speak is what truth,12 the embodiment of love,13 and Redeemer, and our King. we are expected to do and to be. It is the reason there is redemption As men and women and boys and a moral imperative summoning forth through Christ.14 girls do their duty to God, they feel from individuals and communities Said President Joseph F. Smith: “All impelled to do their duty to one that which is right, true, and honor- that we have comes from [God]. . . . In another, to their family, to their able. Duty does not require perfec- and of ourselves we are but a lifeless church and nation, to all things tion, but it does require diligence. It is lump of clay. Life, intelligence, wis- entrusted to their care. They are duty not simply what is legal; it is what is dom, judgment, power to reason, all bound to magnify their talents and to virtuous. It is not reserved to the are the gifts of God to the children of be a law-abiding, good people. They mighty or high in station but instead men. He gives us our physical strength become humble, submissive, and rests on a foundation of personal as well as our mental powers. . . . We easily entreated. Temperance con- responsibility, integrity, and courage. should honor God with our intelli- quers indulgence; obedience guides Doing one’s duty is a manifestation of gence, with our strength, with our their diligence. Peace distills upon one’s faith. understanding, with our wisdom, and them. Citizens become loyal, com- President Monson said of it: “I love with all the power that we possess. We munities become benevolent, and and cherish the noble word duty.”10 should seek to do good in the world. neighbors become friends. The God For members of the Church of Jesus This is our duty.”15 of heaven is pleased, the earth is Christ, our path of duty is keeping our One cannot do his or her duty to pacified, and this world becomes a covenants in daily life. God the Father without doing likewise better place.17

14 Saturday Morning Session How Do We Know Our Path of Duty must be in harmony with the plan Eternal Father, and in His Son, Jesus in the Midst of Crisis? of heaven. The prayer of faith bears Christ, and in the power of prayer. We pray! It is everyone’s sure way fruit when such harmony exists, and This path is to be traveled by all of to know; it is everyone’s lifeline to this harmony exists when prayers are God’s children who love Him and heaven. Said the Apostle Peter, “The inspired by the Holy Spirit. The Spirit desire to keep His commandments. eyes of the Lord are over the righ- manifests what our petitions should For the young, it leads to personal teous, and his ears are open unto their be.21 Absent this inspired guidance, achievement and preparation; for prayers.”18 we are inclined to “ask amiss,”22 to adults, it leads to renewed faith and Humble, sincere, inspired prayer seek only our will and not “Thy resolve; for the older generation, it makes available to each of us the will.”23 It is as important to be guided leads to perspective and endurance divine guidance we so desperately by the Holy Spirit while praying as it in righteousness to the end. It equips need. Brigham Young counseled, “At is to be enlightened by that same every faithful traveler with the times, men are perplexed and full of Spirit while receiving an answer to strength of the Lord, protects him care and trouble . . . ; yet our judg- prayer. Such prayer brings forth the from the evils of the day, and endows ment teaches us that it is our duty blessings of heaven because our him with the knowledge that “the to pray.”19 Father “knoweth what things [we] conclusion of the whole matter [is to] Jesus taught: have need of, before [we] ask him,”24 Fear God, and keep his command- “Ye must watch and pray always lest and He answers every sincere prayer. ments: for this is the whole duty of ye enter into temptation; . . . Ultimately, it is the Father and the man.”26 In the name of Jesus Christ, “Therefore ye must always pray Son who promise, “Ask, and it shall amen. ■ unto the Father in my name; . . . be given you; seek, and ye shall “Pray in your families unto the find; knock, and it shall be opened NOTES 25 1. Moses 7:61; emphasis added. Father, always in my name, that your unto you.” 2. Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine, 5th ed. wives and your children may be I bear my witness that our path (1939), 156. blessed.”20 of duty is clearly marked by an un- 3. Mosiah 1:17. 4. Alma 7:22. For prayers to be efficacious, they divided faith and belief in God, the 5. Helaman 15:5. 6. Corrie ten Boom, Tramp for the Lord (1974), 54–55. 7. Luke 18:22. 8. Thomas S. Monson, used with permission. 9. Ecclesiastes 12:13; emphasis added. 10. Thomas S. Monson, “Duty Calls,” Ensign, May 1996, 43. 11. See Doctrine and Covenants 20:17–19. 12. See Doctrine and Covenants 93:36. 13. See 1 John 4:8. 14. See John 3:16; Helaman 5:10–11. 15. Joseph F. Smith, in Conference Report, Oct. 1899, 70; emphasis added. 16. See Moroni 10:32–33; Doctrine and Covenants 59:5. 17. See Alma 7:23, 27. 18. 1 Peter 3:12. 19. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Brigham Young (1997), 45; emphasis added. 20. 3 Nephi 18:18–19, 21. 21. See Doctrine and Covenants 50:29–30. 22. James 4:3. 23. Matthew 6:10. 24. Matthew 6:8. 25. Matthew 7:7; see also Joseph Smith Translation, Matthew 7:12–13, in Bible appendix. 26. Ecclesiastes 12:13; emphasis added.

May 2010 15 By Elder Wilford W. Andersen the one sure foundation upon which Of the Seventy to build our lives. Today another group of pioneers exemplifies this important principle. On Tuesday, the 12th of January, a massive earthquake struck the country of The Rock Haiti. The earthquake left the capital city of Port-au-Prince in shambles. Its impact was devastating—an estimated of Our Redeemer 1,000,000 people were left homeless, and over 200,000 were reported dead. I testify that those who keep His commandments will grow While the world followed the in faith and hope. They will be given strength to overcome unprecedented international response, all of life’s trials. another remarkable and inspiring rescue effort was under way in Port- au-Prince—this one directed by a committee made up of local Haitian Church leaders organized according to ears ago I visited Nauvoo, start out on such a journey in the win- the priesthood pattern and operating Illinois, with my family. There ter . . . would seem like walking into under inspiration. Members of the Ythe early Saints had come seek- the jaws of death but we had faith . . . committee included, among others, ing refuge. Many had lost their homes [and] we felt to rejoice that the day of the two stake presidents and the two and their farms, and some had lost our deliverance had come.”1 stake Relief Society presidents in Port- their loved ones to the growing perse- These early Saints were indeed au-Prince and the mission president, cution. In Nauvoo they gathered and homeless, but they were not hopeless. who at age 30 presides over 74 full- built a new and beautiful city. But the Their hearts were broken, but their time missionaries in the Haiti Port-au- persecution was relentless, and by spirits were strong. They had learned a Prince Mission. All of his missionaries 1846 they were once again forced to profound and important lesson. They are Haitian, and miraculously not one leave their homes—this time in the had learned that hope, with its atten- of them was injured in this devastating middle of winter. They lined up their dant blessings of peace and joy, does earthquake. wagons on Parley Street, awaiting their not depend upon circumstance. They Into the hands of these local turn to cross the frozen waters of the had discovered that the true source of inspired leaders were placed the Mississippi River into an unknown hope is faith—faith in the Lord Jesus resources of the Church, resources future. Christ and in His infinite Atonement, which included the generous contri- As we stood on Parley Street reflect- butions of many of you. For these con- ing upon their desperate conditions, tributions, the people of Haiti are my eyes were drawn to a series of profoundly thankful. Under the direc- wooden signs nailed to fence posts tion of the committee, truckloads of upon which were etched quotes from provisions arrived from the Dominican the diaries of these suffering Saints. As Republic almost immediately. Within we read each quote, to our amaze- days of the earthquake, planeloads of ment what we found in their words food, water purification systems, tents, was not desperation and discourage- blankets, and medical supplies arrived, ment but confidence and commitment along with a team of doctors. and even joy. They were filled with The nine chapels in and around hope, the hope that is reflected by Port-au-Prince were mostly this quote from the diary of Sarah undamaged—another remarkable DeArmon Rich, February 1846: “To miracle. During the weeks that

16 Saturday Morning Session followed the earthquake, they became shelters for over 5,000 Haitians and bases from which food, water, and medical attention were distributed. Basic needs were met, and order began to emerge out of chaos. Though the faithful Haitian Saints have suffered greatly, they are filled with hope for the future. Like the early pioneers in 1846, their hearts are broken but their spirits are strong. They too are teaching us that hope and happiness and joy are not products of circumstance but of faith in the Lord. The prophet Mormon, himself no stranger to difficult circumstances, understood and clearly taught this doctrine: “And again, my beloved brethren, I would speak unto you concerning keeping the commandments. We must and when we develop faith in the hope. . . . work at keeping the commandments. Prince of Peace. “ . . . Behold I say unto you that ye From the Bible Dictionary we read that Recently a dear friend of mine shall have hope through the atone- “miracles do not produce faith but passed away from cancer. He and his ment of Christ ..., and this because strong faith is developed by obedience family are people of great faith. It was of your faith in him according to the to the gospel of Jesus Christ; in other inspiring to see how their faith carried promise. words, faith comes by righteousness.”5 them through this very difficult time. “Wherefore, if a man have faith he When we strive to keep the com- They were filled with an inner peace must needs have hope; for without mandments of God, repenting of our that sustained and strengthened them. faith there cannot be any hope.”2 sins and promising our best efforts With their permission I would like to Hope comes from faith in Jesus to follow the Savior, we begin to read from a family member’s letter Christ. He has already overcome the grow in confidence that through the written just days before her father world and has promised that He will Atonement everything will be all right. passed away: wipe away our tears if we will only turn Those feelings are confirmed by the “The last few days have been espe- to Him and believe and follow.3 Holy Ghost, who drives from us what cially difficult. . . . Last night as we Some who at this very moment feel our pioneer mothers and fathers gathered at Dad’s bedside, the Spirit desperate or discouraged may wonder called “our useless cares.” In spite of of the Lord was palpable and truly how they can possibly regain hope. If our trials, we are filled with a sense of acted as a comforter to us. We are at you are one of those, remember that well-being and feel to sing with them peace. . . . It has been the hardest hope comes as a result of faith. If we that indeed “all is well.”6 thing any of us has ever experienced, would build our hope, we must build I do not wish to minimize the real- but we feel peace in the knowledge our faith. ity of clinical depression. For some, that . . . our Father in Heaven has Faith in the Savior requires more solutions to depression and anxieties promised that we will live together as than mere belief. The Apostle James will be found through consultation a family again. After the doctor told taught that even the devils believe and with competent professionals. But for Dad in the hospital that there was tremble.4 But true faith requires work. most of us, sadness and fear begin to nothing left to be done, he looked The difference between the devils and melt away and are replaced by happi- at all of us with perfect faith and the faithful members of this Church is ness and peace when we put our trust boldly asked, ‘Does anybody in this not belief but work. Faith grows by in the Author of the plan of happiness room have a problem with the plan of

May 2010 17 salvation?’ We do not and are grateful By Elder M. Russell Ballard for a father and mother who have Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles taught us to have perfect trust in the plan.” I speak to all who suffer, to all who mourn, to all who now face or who will yet face trials and challenges in Mothers and this life. My message is to all who are worried or afraid or discouraged. My message is but an echo, a reminder of Daughters the constant comforting counsel from a loving Father to His children since In these last days it is essential—even critical—that parents the world began. and children listen to and learn from one another. “Remember, remember that it is upon the rock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your foundation; that when the rothers and sisters, six months do what you were divinely designated devil shall send forth his mighty winds, ago I spoke in the priesthood to do from before the foundation of the yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, Bsession of general conference to world. We may try, but we cannot ever when all his hail and his mighty storm fathers and sons. As you might expect, hope to replicate your unique gifts. shall beat upon you, it shall have no my 5 daughters, 24 granddaughters, There is nothing in this world as per- power over you to drag you down to and ever-increasing number of great- sonal, as nurturing, or as life changing the gulf of misery and endless wo, granddaughters have been asking for as the influence of a righteous woman. because of the rock upon which ye equal time. So today I will speak pri- I understand that some of you are built, which is a sure foundation, a marily to the mothers and daughters young women do not have mothers foundation whereon if men build they of the Church. with whom you can discuss these cannot fall.”7 My dear wife, Barbara, has had an issues. And many of you women do I testify of Him, that He has over- eternally significant influence on our not presently have daughters in your come the world, that He will never for- daughters and granddaughters—and lives. But because all women have get or abandon us, for He has graven they, in turn, on her. Mothers and within their divine nature both the us upon the palms of His hands.8 I tes- daughters play a critical role in helping inherent talent and the stewardship to tify that those who keep His com- each other explore their infinite possi- mother, most of what I will say applies mandments will grow in faith and bilities, despite the undermining influ- equally to grandmothers, aunts, sis- hope. They will be given strength to ences of a world in which womanhood ters, stepmothers, mothers-in-law, overcome all of life’s trials. They will and motherhood are being corrupted leaders, and other mentors who some- experience peace that passes all and manipulated. times fill the gaps for these significant understanding.9 In the name of Jesus Speaking to the women of the mother-daughter relationships. Christ, amen. ■ Church nearly a century ago, President Young women, your mothers adore NOTES Joseph F. Smith said: “It is not for you. They see in you the promise of 1. Sarah DeArmon Rich, in Carol Cornwall you to be led by the women of the future generations. Everything you Madsen, Journey to Zion: Voices from the Mormon Trail (1997), 173–74; spelling world; it is for you to lead the . . . accomplish, every challenge you over- modernized. women of the world, in everything come brings them pure joy. And like- 2. Moroni 7:40–42. that is praise-worthy, everything that is wise your worries and heartaches are 3. See Revelation 7:14–17. 4. See James 2:19. God-like, everything that is uplifting their worries and heartaches. 5. Bible Dictionary, “Faith.” and . . . purifying to the children of Today I wish to give you young 6. “Come, Come, Ye Saints,” Hymns, no. 30. men” (Teachings of Presidents of the women some suggestions on how to 7. Helaman 5:12. 8. See 1 Nephi 21:16. Church: Joseph F. Smith [1998], 184). take full advantage of your relationship 9. See Philippians 4:7. Sisters, we, your brethren, cannot with your mother. And then I have a

18 Saturday Morning Session few thoughts to share with mothers And so, my dear young women, heart. She cares about your eternal about how they can maximize their with all my heart I urge you not to look safety and happiness. So be kind to influence with their daughters as well to contemporary culture for your role her. Be patient with her imperfections, as the other members of their families. models and mentors. Please look to for she has them. We all do. It is, unfortunately, all too easy to your faithful mothers for a pattern to Now may I share a few thoughts illustrate the confusion and distortion follow. Model yourselves after them, with you mothers about the special of womanhood in contemporary soci- not after celebrities whose standards role you play in your daughters’ lives. ety. Immodest, immoral, intemperate are not the Lord’s standards and We have a family friend who travels women jam the airwaves, monopolize whose values may not reflect an eter- often with members of her extended magazines, and slink across movie nal perspective. Look to your mother. family. Her primary observation after screens—all while being celebrated Learn from her strengths, her courage, each trip is how much the young by the world. The Apostle Paul spoke and her faithfulness. Listen to her. She women behave like their mothers. If prophetically of “perilous times” that may not be a whiz at texting; she may the mothers are thrifty, so are their will come in the last days and specifi- not even have a Facebook page. But daughters. If the mothers are modest, cally referenced something that may when it comes to matters of the heart so are the girls. If the mothers wear flip- have seemed particularly perilous to and the things of the Lord, she has a flops and other casual clothing to sacra- him: “silly women laden with sins, led wealth of knowledge. As you approach ment meeting, so do their daughters. away with divers lusts” (2 Timothy 3:1, the time for marriage and young Mothers, your example is extremely 6). Popular culture today often makes motherhood, she will be your greatest important to your daughters—even if women look silly, inconsequential, source of wisdom. No other person on they don’t acknowledge it. mindless, and powerless. It objectifies earth loves you in the same way or is Throughout the history of the them and disrespects them and then willing to sacrifice as much to encour- world, women have always been teach- suggests that they are able to leave age you and help you find happiness— ers of moral values. That instruction their mark on mankind only by in this life and forever. begins in the cradle and continues seduction—easily the most pervasively Love your mother, my young sis- throughout the lives of their children. dangerous message the adversary ters. Respect her. Listen to her. Trust Today our society is bombarded with sends to women about themselves. her. She has your best interests at messages about womanhood and

May 2010 19 Remember, sisters, God is the source of all moral and spiritual power. We gain access to that power by entering into covenants with Him and keeping those covenants. Mothers, teach your daughters the importance of making covenants, and then show them how to keep those covenants in such a way that they will desire to live worthy to go to the temple. In today’s world this means talking to your daughters about sexual matters. Your daughters as well as your sons are coming of age in a world that motherhood that are dangerously and . . . work you will ever do will be openly embraces early, casual, and wickedly wrong. Following these mes- within the walls of your own homes” thoughtless promiscuity. Immodest, sages can put your daughters on the (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: unchaste women are glamorized and path to sin and self-destruction. Your Harold B. Lee [2000], 134). This is all too often celebrated and emulated. daughters may not understand that true for all of us, of course, but it is While there are steps that we can take unless you tell them or, better, unless especially powerful when considering in our homes and families to mini- you show them how to make good the relationship of mothers and mize our exposure to these unsavory choices. As mothers in Israel, you are daughters. elements of contemporary living, your your daughters’ first line of defense Mothers, teach your daughters that daughters cannot entirely avoid the against the wiles of the world. a faithful daughter of God avoids the blatant sexual messages and entice- Now, mothers, I understand that it temptation to gossip or judge one ments that surround them. You need sometimes appears that our children another. In a sermon to the Relief to have frequent, open discussions aren’t paying attention to the lessons Society of Nauvoo, the Prophet Joseph during which you teach your daugh- we’re trying to teach them. Believe counseled, “The tongue is an unruly ters the truth about these issues. me—I’ve seen that glazed-over look member—hold your tongues about For example, they need to under- that comes to the eyes of teenagers things of no moment” (Teachings of stand that when they wear clothing just when you’re coming to what you Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith that is too tight, too short, or too low think is the best part of your instruc- [2007], 455). cut, they not only can send the wrong tion. Let me assure you that even In recent years there has been a message to young men with whom when you think your daughter is not rash of articles, books, and films writ- they associate, but they also perpetu- listening to a thing you say, she is still ten about women and girls who gossip ate in their own minds the fallacy that learning from you as she watches you and who are “mean.” Satan is always a woman’s value is dependent solely to see if your actions match your attempting to undermine the most upon her sensual appeal. This never words. As Ralph Waldo Emerson is precious element of a woman’s divine has been nor will it ever be within believed to have said, “What you do nature—the nature to nurture. the righteous definition of a faithful speaks so loud that I cannot hear what A mother-daughter relationship daughter of God. They need to hear you say” (see Ralph Keyes, The Quote is where a daughter learns how to this—clearly and repeatedly—from Verifier [2006], 56). nurture by being nurtured. She is your lips, and they need to see it mod- Teach your daughters to find joy in loved. She is taught and experiences eled correctly and consistently in your nurturing children. This is where their firsthand what it feels like to have own personal standards of dress, love and talents can have the greatest someone care about her enough grooming, and modest living. eternal significance. Consider in this to correct her while continuing to All youth will be more likely to context President Harold B. Lee’s encourage and believe in her at the make and keep covenants if they learn injunction that “the most important same time. how to recognize the presence and

20 Saturday Morning Session the voice of the Spirit. Teach your daughters about things of the Spirit. Point them to the scriptures. Give them experiences that will help them cherish the blessing of priesthood power in their lives. Through keeping covenants they will learn to hear the voice of the Lord and receive personal revelation. God will truly hear and answer their prayers. The Mutual theme for 2010 applies to our youth as well as to all of us: “Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest” (Joshua 1:9). This will lead them safely to the blessings of the house of the Lord. Make sure they know that keeping covenants is the safest road to eternal happiness. And if needed, teach them how to repent and how to remain pure and worthy. Now, if this has a familiar sound, my brothers and sisters, it’s because I’ve been speaking to parents and their children for three general conferences in a row. Last April I encouraged the youth These are not just ethereal concepts this life, for time, as we distinguish it to “learn the lessons of the past.” From about which I have been speaking. from eternity. We live for time and for that talk I quote: “When you are willing They are the essence, the center, of eternity. We form associations and rela- to listen and learn, some of life’s most God’s plan for our eternal happiness tions for time and all eternity. . . . Who meaningful teachings come from those and peace. are there besides the Latter-day Saints who have gone before you. . . . How The Church will help wherever we who contemplate the thought that much better your life will be if you will can. We are there to support and sus- beyond the grave we will continue in follow the noble example of the faithful tain you as parents and as children. the family organization? the father, the followers of Christ” (“Learning the But the home is the most important mother, the children recognizing each Lessons of the Past,” Liahona and place to prepare the youth of today to other . . . ? this family organization Ensign, May 2009, 31, 33). lead the families and the Church of being a unit in the great and perfect Last October I spoke to fathers and tomorrow. It rests upon each one of us organization of God’s work, and all sons in priesthood meeting, and today as mothers and fathers to do all we destined to continue throughout time I have spoken mostly to mothers and can to prepare our youth to be faith- and eternity?” (Teachings: Joseph F. daughters. In each case my message ful, righteous men and women. It is in Smith, 385, 386). has been different but similar. I hope the home where we must teach the May God bless us to teach, nurture, you are listening and see a pattern and gospel by precept and by example. and prepare one another within the hear a steady, consistent message that I conclude my counsel with this walls of our homes for the great work in these last days it is essential—even prophetic summary from President that must be done by all of us now and critical—that parents and children lis- Joseph F. Smith: “Our [family] associa- in the future is my prayer in the name ten to and learn from one another. tions are not exclusively intended for of the Lord Jesus Christ, amen. ■

May 2010 21 By President Henry B. Eyring her that it was still possible. And it First Counselor in the First Presidency was, but so much harder than it would have been to exercise faith early in her life on the journey home to God and when she first began to wander. So we help God’s children best by Help Them on Their providing ways to build faith in Jesus Christ and His restored gospel when they are young. And then we must Way Home help rekindle that faith quickly before it dims as they wander off the path. We help God’s children best by providing ways to build faith So you and I can expect a nearly in Jesus Christ and His restored gospel when they are young. continuous opportunity to help travelers among God’s children. The Savior told us why that would be so when He described the perilous journey home rothers and sisters, our Heavenly She felt at first a little sadness and a for all of God’s spirit children through Father wants and needs our help twinge of guilt. But the associations the mists which sin and Satan create: Bto bring His spirit children home with her friends provided a new feel- “Enter ye in at the strait gate; for to Him again. I speak today of young ing of being liked, and so her occa- wide is the gate, and broad is the way, people already within His true Church sional resolutions to repent seemed which leadeth to destruction, and and so are started on the strait and less and less important. As the gravity many there be who go in thereat; narrow way to return to their heavenly of the commandments she was break- “Because strait is the gate, and nar- home. He wants them to gain early the ing increased, the dream of a happy row is the way, which leadeth unto life, spiritual strength to stay on the path. eternal home seemed to fade. and few there be that find it.”1 And He needs our help to get them She sat across from me in what she Foreseeing the needs of His chil- back to the path quickly should they called misery. She wanted me to res- dren, a loving Heavenly Father placed begin to wander. cue her from the trap of sin in which directions and rescuers along their I was a young bishop when I began she found herself bound. But the only way. He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to to see clearly why the Lord wants us to way out was for her to exercise faith in make safe passage possible and visible. strengthen children when they are Jesus Christ, to have a broken heart, to He called as His prophet in these young and rescue them quickly. I will repent, and so be cleansed, changed, times President Thomas S. Monson. tell you one story of a young person and strengthened through the Lord’s Since his youth President Monson has who represents many whom I have Atonement. I bore my testimony to taught not only how to stay on the tried to help over the years. She sat across from me at my bishop’s desk. She spoke to me of her life. She had been baptized and confirmed as a member of the Church when she was eight. There were no tears in her eyes as she recounted the more than 20 years that followed, but there was sadness in her voice. She said that the downward spiral began with choices to associate with what she thought were exciting people. She began to violate what at first seemed to be less important commandments.

22 Saturday Morning Session path but also how to rescue those who have been led away into sorrow. Heavenly Father has assigned us to a great variety of stations to strengthen and, when needed, to lead travelers to safety. Our most important and powerful assignments are in the family. They are important because the family has the opportunity at the start of a child’s life to put feet firmly on the path home. Parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles are made more powerful guides and rescuers by the bonds of love that are the very nature of a family. The family has an advantage in the first eight years of a child’s life. In those protected years, because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ, Satan’s use of the mists of darkness to hide the path to return home is blocked. In those precious years the Lord helps families by calling Primary workers to help strengthen children spiritually. He also provides holders of the Aaronic Priesthood to offer the sacrament. In those sacramental limited by age. One such woman, as a son was not yet baptized. His parents, prayers, the children hear the prom- younger person, was on the Primary Primary teachers, and priesthood ser- ise that they may someday receive the general board that helped create the vants had tried to help him feel and Holy Ghost as a guide if they are obe- CTR motto. recognize the Spirit and know how to dient to God’s commandments. As a She never tired of serving the chil- receive His help. result, they are fortified to resist dren. She taught in the Primary of her One afternoon my wife had taken temptation when it comes and then, ward, at her own request, until she him to the home of a woman who was sometime in the future, to go to the was almost 90 years old. Little children teaching him to read. Our plan was rescue of others. could feel her love for them. They saw that I was to pick him up on my way Many bishops in the Church are her example. They learned from her home from work. inspired to call the strongest people in the simple principles of the gospel of His lesson ended earlier than we the ward to serve individual children Jesus Christ. And above all, because of had expected. He felt confident that in the Primary. They realize that if the her example they learned to feel and he knew the way home. So he started children are strengthened with faith recognize the Holy Ghost. And when to walk. He said afterward that he had and testimony, they will be less likely they did, they were well on their way complete confidence and liked the to need rescue as teenagers. They real- to the faith to resist temptation. They idea of being alone on the trip. After ize that a strong spiritual foundation would be less likely to need to be res- he had gone about half a mile (0.8 can make the difference for a lifetime. cued and would be prepared to go to km), it started to grow dark. He began We all can help. Grandmothers, the rescue of others. to sense that he was still very far from grandfathers, and every member who I learned the power of simple faith home. knows a child can help. It doesn’t take in prayer and in the Holy Ghost when He can still remember that the a formal calling in Primary. Nor is it our children were small. Our oldest lights of the cars as they streamed past

May 2010 23 Priesthood holders, is called Duty to them learn and want to fulfill their God. We encourage young people priesthood duties. It will strengthen in the rising generation to see their their relationships with their parents, own potential to build great spiritual among quorum members, and with strength. And we plead with those their leaders. him were blurred by his tears. He felt who care about those young people Both of these programs put great like a little child, not the confident boy to rise to what the Lord requires of us responsibility on the efforts of the who had begun to walk home alone. to help them. And since the future of young people themselves. They are He realized that he needed help. Then the Church depends upon them, all invited to learn and do things that something came to his memory. He of us care. would be challenging for anyone. As knew he was supposed to pray. And so The two programs have been I reflect on my own youth, I cannot he left the road and headed toward improved, but their purpose remains remember being so challenged. Oh, some trees he could barely see in unchanged. President Monson put it on a few occasions I was invited to rise the darkness. He found a place to this way: we must “learn what we to such tests, but only now and then. kneel down. should learn, do what we should do, These programs expect consistency, Through the bushes he could hear and be what we should be.”2 great effort, and the accumulation voices coming toward him. Two young The Personal Progress booklet for of learning and spiritual experiences people had heard him crying. As they young women makes the purpose over years. approached, they said, “Can we help clear for them: “The Personal Progress On reflection I realized that the you?” Through his tears he told them program uses the eight Young Women contents of these booklets are a physi- he was lost and that he wanted to go values to help you understand more cal representation of the Lord’s trust home. They asked if he knew his fully who you are, why you are here in the rising generation and in all of us home phone number or address. on the earth, and what you should be who love them. And I have seen evi- He didn’t. They asked if he knew his doing as a daughter of God to prepare dence that the trust is well placed. name. He did know that. They led him for the day you go to the temple to In visits I watched Aaronic to the nearby place where they lived. make sacred covenants.” Priesthood quorums in action. I have They found our family name in a It goes on to say that young women seen young men following patterns of phone book. will “make commitments, carry them learning, making plans to do what God When I got the phone call, I rushed out, and report your progress to a par- wants of them, then moving out to do to the rescue, grateful that kind peo- ent or leader.” It also promises that what they have committed to do and ple had been placed along his way “the patterns you establish as you sharing with others how they were home. And I have been ever grateful work on Personal Progress—such as changed spiritually. And as I watched he was taught to pray with faith that prayer, scripture study, service, and and listened, it became clear that help would come when he was lost. journal keeping—will become per- fathers, mothers, leaders, friends, and That faith has led him to safety and sonal daily habits. These habits will even neighbors in a congregation brought him more rescuers more strengthen your testimony and help were touched by the Spirit as they times than he can count. you learn and improve throughout heard youth testify how they had been The Lord has placed a pattern of your life.”3 strengthened. The youth were lifted as rescue and rescuers in His kingdom. The Duty to God program for they bore testimony, and so were those In His wisdom the Lord has inspired young men in the Aaronic Priesthood who were trying to help them rise. His servants to place some of the most has been strengthened and focused. It The Young Women program has powerful ways to strengthen us and to will be contained in one simple book in it that same powerful pattern to put in place the best rescuers as we for all three Aaronic Priesthood offices. develop spiritual strength in the young pass through the teenage years. The young men and their leaders will women and to offer the opportunity You know of two powerful pro- receive a copy of this new book. It is a for us to help. Personal Progress helps grams provided by the Lord. One, powerful tool. It will strengthen the young women prepare to receive the for young women, is called Personal testimonies of young men and their ordinances of the temple. They are Progress. The other, for Aaronic relationship with God. It will help helped by the examples of mothers,

24 Saturday Morning Session grandmothers, and every righteous woman around them in the Church. I have seen how parents helped a daughter achieve her goals and dreams by noticing and appreciating all the good things she does. Just a few days ago I watched a mother stand with her young daughter as they received recognition for having together become examples of outstanding womanhood. And as they shared with me what it had meant to them, I felt the Lord’s approval and encouragement for us all. Of all the help we can give these young people, the greatest will be to let them feel our confidence that they are on the path home to God and that they can make it. And we do that best by going with them. Because the path is steep and sometimes rocky, they will at times feel discouraged and even stumble. They may at times become confused about their destination and wander after less eternally important goals. These inspired programs make that less likely because they will lead need to pray for the gifts of the Spirit. And we who help them along the way the young person to invite and receive We need to ponder in the scriptures will hear those words with joy. the companionship of the Holy Ghost. and in the words of living prophets. I testify that the Lord loves you and The best counsel for us to give We need to make plans which are not every child of God. This is His king- young people is that they can arrive only wishes but covenants. And then dom, restored with priesthood keys back to Heavenly Father only as they we need to keep our promises to the through the Prophet Joseph Smith. are guided and corrected by the Spirit Lord. And we need to lift others by Thomas S. Monson is the Lord’s of God. So if we are wise, we will sharing with them the blessings of prophet today. I promise each of you, encourage, praise, and exemplify the Atonement which have come in as you follow inspired direction in this, everything which invites the compan- our lives. the true Church of Jesus Christ, that ionship of the Holy Ghost. When they And we need to exemplify in our our youth and we who help and love share with us what they are doing and own lives the steady and prolonged them can be delivered safely to our feeling, we must ourselves have quali- faithfulness that the Lord expects of home with Heavenly Father and the fied for the Spirit. Then they will feel in them. As we do, we will help them Savior to live in families and in joy our praise and our smiles the approval feel from the Spirit an assurance that forever. In the name of Jesus Christ, of God. And should we feel the need if they will persist, they will hear amen. ■ to give corrective counsel, they will feel the words from a loving Savior and NOTES our love and the love of God in it, not Heavenly Father: “Well done, thou 1. 3 Nephi 14:13–14. rebuke and rejection, which can per- good and faithful servant: thou hast 2. Thomas S. Monson, “To Learn, to Do, to mit Satan to lead them further away. been faithful over a few things, I will Be,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2008, 67. 3. Young Women Personal Progress (booklet, The example they most need from make thee ruler over many things: 2009), 6. us is to do what they must do. We enter thou into the joy of thy lord.”4 4. Matthew 25:21.

May 2010 25 SATURDAY AFTERNOON SESSION | April 3, 2010

Pingree, Dinar M. Reyes, D. Chad Richardson, Maury W. Schooff, Hans T. Presented by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf Sorensen, John C. Taggart, Donald P. Second Counselor in the First Presidency Tenney, G. Perrin Walker, Johann A. Wondra, and Kazuhiko Yamashita. Those who wish to join us in expressing our gratitude for their excellent service, please manifest it. The Sustaining It is proposed that we release Sisters Cheryl C. Lant, Margaret S. Lifferth, and Vicki F. Matsumori as the of Church Officers Primary general presidency. We also release all members of the Primary general board. t is proposed that we sustain Homero S. Amato, Manuel Araiz, All who wish to join us in expressing Thomas Spencer Monson as Jorge D. Arrevillaga, Marcelo Bolfarini, thanks for the dedicated service given Iprophet, seer, and revelator and Fernando E. Calderon, Gabriel A. by these sisters, please manifest it. President of The Church of Jesus Campos, Chu-Jen Chia, Flávio A. It is proposed that we sustain as Christ of Latter-day Saints; Henry Cooper, Ronaldo da Costa, John C. new members of the First Quorum of Bennion Eyring as First Counselor Dalton, Kevin R. Duncan, Randy D. the Seventy Kevin R. Duncan, Gerrit W. in the First Presidency; and Dieter Funk, Robert H. Garff, Gerrit W. Gong, Gong, Patrick Kearon, and Juan A. Friedrich Uchtdorf as Second Frerich J. Görts, S. Horacio Guzmán, Uceda; and as new members of the Counselor in the First Presidency. Ronald J. Hammond, Stephen W. Second Quorum of the Seventy Those in favor may manifest it. Hansen, Yu Chen (Philip) Ho, Patrick Larry R. Lawrence, Per G. Malm, and Those opposed, if any, may Kearon, Christiaan H. Kleijweg, Jairo Mazzagardi. manifest it. Larry R. Lawrence, Robert W. Lees, All in favor, please manifest it. It is proposed that we sustain Boyd F. Rene Loli, Juan A. Machuca, Per G. Those opposed, by the same sign. Kenneth Packer as President of the Malm, Carlos S. Obata, Alexander A. It is proposed that we sustain the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and the Odume, A. Rolando Oyola, Melvin R. following as new Area Seventies: following as members of that quorum: Perkins, James C. Perry, John C. Ian S. Ardern, Philip K. Bussey, Boyd K. Packer, L. Tom Perry, Russell M. Nelson, Dallin H. Oaks, M. Russell Newly sustained Primary general presidency Ballard, Richard G. Scott, Robert D. Hales, Jeffrey R. Holland, David A. Bednar, Quentin L. Cook, D. Todd Christofferson, and Neil L. Andersen. Those in favor, please manifest it. Any opposed may so indicate. It is proposed that we sustain the counselors in the First Presidency and the Twelve Apostles as prophets, seers, and revelators. All in favor, please manifest it. Contrary, if there be any, by the same sign. It is proposed that we release the following as Area Seventies effective May 1, 2010: Jorge M. Alvarado,

26 Saturday Afternoon Session René J. Cabrera, Renato Capelletti, Paul D. M. Christensen, Rogério G. R. Cruz, Donald D. Deshler, George R. Church Auditing Donaldson, Ini B. Ekong, Christian Fingerle, Craig G. Fisher, Jerryl L. Garns, Jack N. Gerard, M. Keith Department Report, Giddens, Brent J. Hillier, Jui Chang Juan, George M. Keele, Dane O. Leavitt, Alexander T. Mestre, Arayik V. Minasyan, 2009 T. Jackson Mkhabela, S. Gifford Nielsen, Valentín F. Nuñez, Jeffery E. Olson, Presented by Robert W. Cantwell R. Ingvar Olsson, Robert N. Packer, Managing Director, Church Auditing Department Nathaniel R. Payne, Cesar A. Perez Jr., Fouchard Pierre-nau, Michael J. Reall, Edson D. G. Ribeiro, Brad K. To the First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ Risenmay, Mozart B. Soares, Carlos A. of Latter-day Saints Solis, Norland de Souza Lopes, Kouzou Tashiro, Omar Villalobos, W. Christopher Waddell, Alan J. Webb, Gerardo J. Wilhelm, Kevin J. Worthen, ear Brethren: As prescribed Craig T. Wright, and Jim L. Wright. by revelation in section 120 of All in favor, please signify. Dthe Doctrine and Covenants, Any opposed. the Council on the Disposition of the It is proposed that we sustain Tithes authorizes the expenditure of Rosemary M. Wixom as the new gen- Church funds. This council is com- eral president of the Primary, with posed of the First Presidency, the Jean A. Stevens as first counselor and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, and Cheryl A. Esplin as second counselor. the Presiding Bishopric. This council Those in favor, please manifest it. approves budgets for Church depart- Any opposed. ments and operations. Church depart- It is proposed that we sustain ments expend funds consistent with the other General Authorities, Area approved budgets and in accordance Seventies, and general auxiliary presi- with Church policies and procedures. dencies as presently constituted. The Church Auditing Department Those in favor, please manifest it. has been granted access to all records Any opposed may manifest it. and systems necessary to evaluate the President Monson, insofar as I have adequacy of controls over receipts of opinion that, in all material respects, been able to observe, the voting in the funds, expenditures, and safeguarding contributions received, expenditures Conference Center has been unani- of Church assets. The Church Auditing made, and assets of the Church for mous in favor of the proposals made. Department is independent of all the year 2009 have been recorded Thank you, our dear brothers and other Church departments and opera- and administered in accordance with sisters, for your sustaining vote and tions, and the staff consists of certified appropriate accounting practices, your continued faith, devotion, and public accountants, certified internal approved budgets, and Church poli- prayers. auditors, certified information systems cies and procedures. We invite now the newly called auditors, and other credentialed Respectfully submitted, General Authorities and Primary gen- professionals. Church Auditing Department eral presidency to come forward and Based upon audits performed, the Robert W. Cantwell take their places on the stand. ■ Church Auditing Department is of the Managing Director ■

May 2010 27 Martin, and Joseph C. Muren, former members of the Seventy; Sister Statistical Report, 2009 Colleen W. Asay, widow of Elder Carlos E. Asay, an emeritus General Presented by Brook P. Hales Authority; Sister Jeanne C. Dunn, Secretary to the First Presidency widow of Elder Paul H. Dunn, an emeritus General Authority; Sister Jelaire C. Simpson, widow of Elder Robert L. Simpson, an emeritus he First Presidency has issued the Missionaries General Authority; Sister Jacqueline Y. following statistical report of the Number of Full-Time Lawrence, wife of Elder W. Mack T Church as of December 31, 2009. Missionaries...... 51,736 Lawrence, a former member of the Seventy; Sister Betty N. Turley, wife of Church Units Temples Elder Richard E. Turley Sr., a former Stakes ...... 2,865 Temples Dedicated member of the Seventy; Brother Missions ...... 344 during 2009...... 2 David S. King, former assistant in the Districts...... 616 (Draper Utah and Young Men’s Mutual Improvement Wards and Branches ...... 28,424 Oquirrh Mountain Utah) Association general superintendency; Temples in Operation...... 130 Sister Ann S. Reese, former counselor Church Membership in the Relief Society general presi- Total Church Former General Church Officers and dency; Brother Robert J. Matthews, Membership ...... 13,824,854 Other Prominent Church Members Who an authority on the Joseph Smith New Children of Record Have Passed Away since Last April Translation of the Bible; and Brother during 2009 ...... 119,722 Elder Royden G. Derrick, an emeri- Truman G. Madsen, Church scholar Converts Baptized tus General Authority; Elders George I. and former director of the BYU during 2009 ...... 280,106 Cannon, W. Don Ladd, Douglas J. Jerusalem Center. ■

28 Saturday Afternoon Session By Elder L. Tom Perry was diligent and thorough in her Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles preparation. I have distinct memories of the days preceding her lessons. The dining room table would be covered with reference materials and the notes she was preparing for her lesson. Mothers Teaching There was so much material prepared that I’m sure only a small portion of it was ever used during the class, but I’m Children in the Home just as sure that none of her preparation was ever wasted. How can I be I believe it is by divine design that the role of motherhood sure about this? As I flipped through emphasizes the nurturing and teaching of the next generation. the pages of her notebooks, it was as if I were hearing my mother teach me one more time. Again, there was too much in her notebooks on any single recently had the opportunity from my mother. Like the prophet topic to ever share in a single class ses- to travel with Elder Donald L. Nephi and also like so many of you, sion, but what she didn’t use in her I Hallstrom to visit five cities in the I was born of goodly parents (see class she used to teach her children. great central area of the United States. 1 Nephi 1:1). I believe it is even safe to say that In each city we visited, we would hold One of my nieces recently shared while my mother was an enormously a meeting with the full-time mission- with me four notebooks my mother effective teacher among the sisters aries, followed by a meeting with the had filled with notes as she prepared at Relief Society, her best teaching stake and ward leaders regarding mis- to teach her class in Relief Society. I occurred with her children in the sionary work. Between each of the two would imagine these notebooks— home. Of course, this was largely due meetings, the stake Relief Society and there are others I have not yet to the greater amount of time she had would prepare a light dinner for us examined—represent hundreds of to teach her children compared to to afford us time to meet with the hours of preparation by my mother. teaching the Relief Society sisters, but stake presidents. When we reached Mother was a great teacher who I also like to think she prepared so Milwaukee, Wisconsin, two young thoroughly, first, to be an example to families appealed to the Relief Society her children of diligent Church service to let them prepare and serve the din- and, second, because she recognized ner. The two husbands manned the that what she learned from preparing kitchen. The two mothers supervised her lessons could be used repeatedly the table arrangements and the serving for a higher purpose—teaching her of the food. Three young children han- sons and her daughters. dled the table setting and the serving Please allow me to reminisce for a of the food under the supervision of few moments and share a few of the their mothers. This was an opportunity lessons I learned from my mother for the mothers to have a teaching about teaching the gospel in the opportunity with their children. It home. My mother understood the was very special to watch the children value of teaching her children about respond to every detail as they were standards, values, and doctrine while taught by their mothers. They carried they were young. While she was grate- out their assignments completely ful to others who taught her children and fully. outside the home at either school or The experience caused me to church, she recognized that parents reflect on the training I had received São Paulo, Brazil are entrusted with the education of

May 2010 29 their children and, ultimately, parents while times may change, a parent’s understudies involved in the produc- must ensure that their children are teaching must never be devalued. tion who may step in when parents being taught what their Heavenly Many activities link the values of one can’t. It, however, is parents who have Father would have them learn. My sib- generation to the next, but perhaps been commanded by the Lord to bring lings and I were quizzed very carefully the most central of these activities is up their children in light and truth (see by our mother after we had been parents teaching children in the D&C 93:40). taught away from the home to be cer- home. This is especially true when we Parents must bring light and truth tain the correct lessons were reaching consider the teaching of values, moral into their homes by one family prayer, our ears and shaping our minds. and ethical standards, and faith. one scripture study session, one family I used to think some days as I ran Teaching in the home is becoming home evening, one book read aloud, home from school that I was through increasingly important in today’s world, one song, and one family meal at a learning for the day, but this illusion where the influence of the adversary is time. They know that the influence of was quickly destroyed when I saw my so widespread and he is attacking, righteous, conscientious, persistent, mother standing at the door waiting for attempting to erode and destroy the daily parenting is among the most me. When we were young, we each had very foundation of our society, even the powerful and sustaining forces for a desk in the kitchen where we could family. Parents must resolve that teach- good in the world. The health of any continue to be taught by her as she ing in the home is a most sacred and society, the happiness of its people, performed household duties and pre- important responsibility. While other their prosperity, and their peace all pared supper. She was a natural teacher institutions, such as church and school, find common roots in the teaching of and far more demanding of us than our can assist parents to “train up a child children in the home. teachers at school and church. in the way he [or she] should go” Elder Joseph Fielding Smith taught: The scope of Mother’s teaching (Proverbs 22:6), ultimately this respon- “It is the duty of parents to teach their included both secular and spiritual les- sibility rests with parents. According to children these saving principles of the sons. She made sure none of us were the great plan of happiness, it is parents gospel of Jesus Christ, so that they will falling behind in our schoolwork, who are entrusted with the care and know why they are to be baptized and which she would often supplement. development of our Heavenly Father’s that they may be impressed in their She also would practice her Relief children. Our families are an integral hearts with a desire to continue to Society lessons with us. We, of course, part of His work and glory—“to bring keep the commandments of God after received the unabridged versions to pass the immortality and eternal life they are baptized, that they may come found in her notebooks, not the of man” (Moses 1:39). On God’s eternal back into his presence. Do you, my abridged versions that had to fit in stage, it is usually intended that parents good brethren and sisters, want your a single class period. act as the central cast members in their families, your children; do you want Part of our learning at home also children’s lives. Fortunately, there are to be sealed to your fathers and your involved memorizing scriptures, including the Articles of Faith, and the words of prophets, seers, and revelators. My mother was someone who believed a mind would become weak if it was not constantly exercised. She taught us as we would wash the dishes, churn the butter, and help in many other ways. She did not believe in letting idle thoughts enter her children’s minds, even when they were engaged in physical labor. I am not using my mother as a role model for parents in today’s world. Times are very different today, but

30 Saturday Afternoon Session mothers before you ...? If so, then A Proclamation to the World” states: many reasons so much of the responsi- you must begin by teaching at the “Husband and wife have a solemn bility for teaching the child in the home cradle-side. You are to teach by exam- responsibility to love and care for falls on mothers. While circumstances ple as well as precept” (in Conference each other and for their children. do vary and the ideal isn’t always possi- Report, Oct. 1948, 153). ‘Children are an heritage of the Lord’ ble, I believe it is by divine design that The example of my mother as a (Psalm 127:3). Parents have a sacred the role of motherhood emphasizes teacher in the home invites another duty to rear their children in love and the nurturing and teaching of the next thought, more generally about teach- righteousness, to provide for their generation. We see so many challenges ing. The leaders of the Church spend a physical and spiritual needs, and to today from distracting and destructive great deal of time thinking about how teach them to love and serve one influences intended to mislead God’s to improve teaching in the Church. another, observe the commandments children. We are seeing many young Why do we invest this time and effort? of God, and be law-abiding citizens people who lack the deep spiritual It is because we believe in the immense wherever they live. . . . roots necessary to remain standing in power of teaching to increase the faith “. . . By divine design, fathers are to faith as storms of unbelief and despair of individuals and strengthen families. preside over their families in love and swirl around them. Too many of our It is my belief that one of the most righteousness and are responsible to Father in Heaven’s children are being effective things we can do to improve provide the necessities of life and pro- overcome by worldly desires. The teaching in the Church is to improve tection for their families. Mothers are onslaught of wickedness against our teaching in our homes. Our teaching in primarily responsible for the nurture children is at once more subtle and the home prepares us to teach more of their children. In these sacred more brazen than it has ever been. effectively at church, and our teaching responsibilities, fathers and mothers Teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ in at church helps us to teach more effec- are obligated to help one another as the home adds another layer of insula- tively at home. Throughout the Church equal partners” (Liahona, Oct. 2004, tion to protect our children from there are dining room tables covered 49; Ensign, Nov. 1995, 102). worldly influences. with reference materials and notebooks According to “The Family: A God bless you wonderful mothers filled with ideas for lessons to be taught. Proclamation to the World,” the princi- and fathers in Zion. He has entrusted There is no such thing as overprepar- ples I have taught about teaching in the to your care His eternal children. As ing to teach the gospel of Jesus Christ, home apply to both parents, but they parents we partner, even join, with God for gospel insights, whether or not they are especially crucial to the role of a in bringing to pass His work and glory are used during class time, can always mother. Fathers most often spend among His children. It is our sacred be taught in the home. much of their day away from home in duty to do our very best. Of this I testify The inspired document “The Family: their employment. That is one of the in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■

May 2010 31 By Elder D. Todd Christofferson of the time in hiding, under constant Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles threat of arrest. With the help of committed friends, Tyndale was able to pub- lish English translations of the New Testament and later the Old Testament. The Bibles were smuggled into England, The Blessing where they were in great demand and much prized by those who could get them. They were shared widely but in of Scripture secret. The authorities burned all the copies they could find. Nevertheless, The central purpose of all scripture is to fill our souls with within three years of Tyndale’s death, faith in God the Father and in His Son, Jesus Christ. God did indeed open King Henry VIII’s eyes, and with publication of what was called the “Great Bible,” the scriptures in English began to be publicly avail- n October 6, in the year 1536, vowed, “If God spare my life, ere many able. Tyndale’s work became the foun- a pitiful figure was led from a years I will cause a boy that driveth dation for almost all future English dungeon in Vilvorde Castle the plough, shall know more of the translations of the Bible, most notably O 1 near Brussels, Belgium. For nearly a Scripture than thou dost!” the King James Version. year and a half, the man had suffered He sought the approval of church William Tyndale was not the first, isolation in a dark, damp cell. Now out- authorities to prepare a translation of nor the last, of those who in many side the castle wall, the prisoner was the Bible in English so that all could countries and languages have sacri- fastened to a post. He had time to read and apply the word of God. It ficed, even to the point of death, to utter aloud his final prayer, “Lord! was denied—the prevailing view being bring the word of God out of obscu- open the king of England’s eyes,” and that direct access to the scriptures rity. We owe them all a great debt of then he was strangled. Immediately, his by any but the clergy threatened the gratitude. We owe perhaps an even body was burned at the stake. Who authority of the church and was tanta- greater debt to those who faithfully was this man, and what was the offense mount to casting “pearls before swine” recorded and preserved the word for which both political and ecclesiasti- (Matthew 7:6). through the ages, often with pains- cal authorities had condemned him? Tyndale nevertheless undertook the taking labor and sacrifice—Moses, His name was William Tyndale, and his challenging work of translation. In 1524 Isaiah, Abraham, John, Paul, Nephi, crime was to have translated and pub- he traveled to Germany, under an Mormon, Joseph Smith, and many lished the Bible in English. assumed name, where he lived much others. What did they know about the Tyndale, born in England about the importance of scriptures that we also time Columbus sailed to the new need to know? What did people in world, was educated at Oxford and 16th-century England, who paid enor- Cambridge and then became a mem- mous sums and ran grave personal ber of the Catholic clergy. He was flu- risks for access to a Bible, understand ent in eight languages, including that we should also understand? Greek, Hebrew, and Latin. Tyndale was Not long before his death, the a devoted student of the Bible, and prophet Alma entrusted the sacred the pervasive ignorance of the scrip- records of the people to his son tures that he observed in both priests Helaman. He reminded Helaman that and lay people troubled him deeply. In the scriptures had “enlarged the mem- a heated exchange with a cleric who ory of this people, yea, and convinced argued against putting scripture in the many of the error of their ways, and hands of the common man, Tyndale brought them to the knowledge of

32 Saturday Afternoon Session their God unto the salvation of their Lazarus raised from the dead, to see was for Lehi’s people to take the souls” (Alma 37:8). He commanded the suffering Savior in Gethsemane and brass plates with them when they left Helaman to preserve the records so on the cross, and we did not, with Mary, Jerusalem. These scriptures were key that through them God might “show hear the two angels testify at the empty to their knowledge of God and the forth his power unto future genera- tomb that Jesus was risen from the coming Redemption of Christ. The tions” (Alma 37:14). dead. You and I did not go forward one other group that “came out from Through the scriptures, God does by one with the multitude in the land Jerusalem” shortly after Lehi had no indeed “show forth his power” to save Bountiful at the resurrected Savior’s scriptures, and when Lehi’s descen- and exalt His children. By His word, as invitation to feel the prints of the nails dants encountered them some 300 Alma said, He enlarges our memory, and bathe His feet with our tears. We or 400 years later, it is recorded that sheds light on falsehood and error, did not kneel beside Joseph Smith in “their language had become cor- and brings us to repentance and to the Sacred Grove and gaze there upon rupted; . . . and they denied the being rejoice in Jesus Christ, our Redeemer. the Father and the Son. Yet we know of their Creator” (Omni 1:15, 17). all these things and much, much more In Tyndale’s day, scriptural ignorance The Scriptures Enlarge Our Memory because we have the scriptural record abounded because people lacked The scriptures enlarge our memory to enlarge our memory, to teach us access to the Bible, especially in a lan- by helping us always to remember the what we did not know. And as these guage they could understand. Today Lord and our relationship to Him and things penetrate our minds and hearts, the Bible and other scripture are read- the Father. They remind us of what we our faith in God and His Beloved Son ily at hand, yet there is a growing knew in our premortal life. And they takes root. scriptural illiteracy because people will expand our memory in another sense The scriptures also enlarge our not open the books. Consequently by teaching us about epochs, people, memory by helping us not forget what they have forgotten things their grand- and events that we did not experience we and earlier generations have parents knew. personally. None of us was present to learned. Those who either don’t have see the Red Sea part and cross with or ignore the recorded word of God The Scriptures Are the Standard for Moses between walls of water to the eventually cease to believe in Him and Distinguishing Truth and Error other side. We were not there to hear forget the purpose of their existence. God uses scripture to unmask erro- the Sermon on the Mount, to see You will remember how important it neous thinking, false traditions, and sin

May 2010 33 with its devastating effects. He is a ten- immorality. Others would argue that the blessings that come from honoring der parent who would spare us need- it’s all relative or that God’s love is per- true principles, as well as the tragedies less suffering and grief and at the same missive. If there is a God, they say, He that befall when individuals and civi- time help us realize our divine poten- excuses all sins and misdeeds because lizations discard them. Where scrip- tial. The scriptures, for example, dis- of His love for us—there is no need tural truths are ignored or abandoned, credit an ancient philosophy that has for repentance. Or at most, a simple the essential moral core of society dis- come back into vogue in our day—the confession will do. They have imag- integrates and decay is close behind. In philosophy of Korihor that there are no ined a Jesus who wants people to time, nothing is left to sustain the insti- absolute moral standards, that “every work for social justice but who makes tutions that sustain society. man prosper[s] according to his no demands upon their personal life genius, and that every man conquer[s] and behavior.2 But a God of love does The Scriptures Bring Us to Christ, according to his strength; and whatso- not leave us to learn by sad experience Our Redeemer ever a man [does is] no crime” and that “wickedness never was happi- In the end, the central purpose of all “that when a man [is] dead, that [is] ness” (Alma 41:10; see also Helaman scripture is to fill our souls with faith in the end thereof” (Alma 30:17–18). 13:38). His commandments are the God the Father and in His Son, Jesus Alma, who had dealt with Korihor, did voice of reality and our protection Christ—faith that They exist; faith in not leave his own son Corianton in against self-inflicted pain. The scrip- the Father’s plan for our immortality doubt about the reality and substance tures are the touchstone for measur- and eternal life; faith in the Atonement of a divine moral code. Corianton had ing correctness and truth, and they are and Resurrection of Jesus Christ, which been guilty of sexual sin, and his father clear that real happiness lies not in animates this plan of happiness; faith to spoke to him in love but plainly: “Know denying the justice of God or trying to make the gospel of Jesus Christ our ye not, my son, that these things are an circumvent the consequences of sin way of life; and faith to come to know abomination in the sight of the Lord; but in repentance and forgiveness “the only true God, and Jesus Christ, yea, most abominable above all sins through the atoning grace of the Son whom [He has] sent” (John 17:3). save it be the shedding of innocent of God (see Alma 42). The word of God, as Alma said, is blood or denying the Holy Ghost?” Scripture tutors us in principles and like a seed planted in our hearts that (Alma 39:5). moral values essential to maintaining produces faith as it begins to grow In a complete reversal from a cen- civil society, including integrity, respon- within us (see Alma 32:27–43; see also tury ago, many today would dispute sibility, selflessness, fidelity, and charity. Romans 10:13–17). Faith will not come with Alma about the seriousness of In scripture, we find vivid portrayals of from the study of ancient texts as a

34 Saturday Afternoon Session purely academic pursuit. It will not deliberately. Ponder and pray over Surely with this blessing the Lord is come from archaeological digs and them. Scriptures are revelation, and telling us that our need for constant discoveries. It will not come from sci- they will bring added revelation. recourse to the scriptures is greater entific experiments. It will not even Consider the magnitude of our than in any previous time. May we feast come from witnessing miracles. These blessing to have the Holy Bible and continuously on the words of Christ things may serve to confirm faith, or at some 900 additional pages of scripture, that will tell us all things we should do times to challenge it, but they do not including the Book of Mormon, the (see 2 Nephi 32:3). I have studied the create faith. Faith comes by the wit- Doctrine and Covenants, and the Pearl scriptures, I have pondered the scrip- ness of the Holy Spirit to our souls, of Great Price. Then consider that, in tures, and on this Eastertide, I bear you Spirit to spirit, as we hear or read the addition, the words of prophets spo- my testimony of the Father and the word of God. And faith matures as we ken as they are moved upon by the Son, as They are revealed in the holy continue to feast upon the word. Holy Ghost in settings such as this, scriptures, in the name of Jesus Christ, Scriptural accounts of the faith of which the Lord calls scripture (see amen. ■ others serve to strengthen our own. D&C 68:2–4), flow to us almost con- We recall the faith of a centurion that stantly by television, radio, Internet, NOTES 1. The following sources were consulted for enabled Christ to heal his servant satellite, CD, DVD, and in print. I sup- information about William Tyndale: David without so much as seeing him (see pose that never in history has a people Daniell, The Bible in English (2003), 140–57; Matthew 8:5–13) and the healing of a been blessed with such a quantity of Lenet Hadley Read, How We Got the Bible (1985), 67–74; S. Michael Wilcox, Fire in the Gentile woman’s daughter because holy writ. And not only that, but every Bones: William Tyndale—Martyr, Father of that humble mother would accept, man, woman, and child may possess the English Bible (2004); John Foxe, The New as it were, even the crumbs from the and study his or her own personal Foxe’s Book of Martyrs (1997), 121–33; “William Tyndale,” http://en.wikipedia.org/ Master’s table (see Matthew 15:22–28; copy of these sacred texts, most in his wiki/William_Tyndale, accessed February 28, Mark 7:25–30). We hear the cry of suf- or her own language. How incredible 2010; Bible Dictionary, “Bible, English.” fering Job: “Though he slay me, yet will such a thing would have seemed to the 2. See interview of Richard Neitzel Holzapfel, in Michael De Groote, “Questioning the I trust in him” (Job 13:15)—and pro- people of William Tyndale’s day and to Alternative Jesus,” Deseret News, Nov. 26, fessing, “I know that my redeemer the Saints of earlier dispensations! 2009, M5. liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth: . . . [and] yet in my flesh shall I see God” (Job 19:25–26). We hear and take courage from the determination of a tender boy prophet, hated and bitterly persecuted by so many adults: “I had seen a vision; I knew it, and I knew that God knew it, and I could not deny it, neither dared I do it” (Joseph Smith—History 1:25). Because they expound the doctrine of Christ, the scriptures are accompanied by the Holy Spirit, whose role it is to bear witness of the Father and the Son (see 3 Nephi 11:32). Therefore, being in the scriptures is one way we receive the Holy Ghost. Of course, scripture is given through the Holy Ghost in the first place (see 2 Peter 1:21; D&C 20:26–27; 68:4), and that same Spirit can attest its truth to you and me. Study the scriptures carefully,

May 2010 35 By Elder Koichi Aoyagi became lonely and strayed from the Of the Seventy Church. One day I received a postcard from a Church member back home. She wrote that she had heard I was not attending Church meetings. She quoted a scripture and invited me to Helping Hands, return to church. I was overwhelmed by the words of the scripture. This helped me realize that maybe I had lost Saving Hands something important, and I pondered and struggled for many days. This also May we follow the counsel and example of the prophet and caused me to remember a promise the each day seek out those in need. missionaries had made to me: “If you read the Book of Mormon and ask in fervent prayer if the promise found in Moroni is true, you will know the truth y brothers and sisters, I am around us need spiritual help. As we through the power of the Holy Ghost.”2 deeply grateful for the oppor- offer a saving hand to less-active mem- I realized that I was not praying Mtunity to speak at this confer- bers, to part-member families, and to with all of my heart and decided to do ence. I am grateful for President those not of our faith, we invite all to so. One morning I woke up early, knelt Thomas S. Monson, and I testify that “come unto Christ.”1 in my small apartment, and prayed sin- he is a prophet of the living God. I am As a new convert to the Church, I cerely. To my surprise, the confirma- deeply impressed by the wonderful experienced a spiritual rescue through tion of the Holy Ghost came upon me example of President Monson, who the saving hands of a faithful member as promised. My heart burned, my has spent his life using his hands to of the Church. I grew up in Matsumoto, body shook, and I was filled with joy. help and save others. Japan, close to where the Nagano Through the power of the Holy Ghost, We live in a day when many people Winter Olympics were held. My home- I learned that God the Father and His are faced with calamities and are in town looks very much like Salt Lake Son, Jesus Christ, live and that They need of help due to the devastating City, a valley surrounded by beautiful effects of earthquakes, tsunamis, hurri- mountains. When I was 17 years old, I canes, and other natural disasters. The met two American missionaries, Elder Church is reaching out to these peo- Carter and Elder Hayashi. Though our ple through humanitarian aid. Church ages were only two or three years members faithfully give generous fast apart, the elders had something won- offerings each month and perform derful that I had never felt before. They service in a spirit of love. They literally were diligent, cheerful, and filled with offer helping hands in the Lord’s way. love and light. I was deeply impressed They follow the commandment of the by their qualities, and I wanted to Lord to “remember in all things the become like them. I listened to their poor and the needy, the sick and the message and decided to be baptized. afflicted, for he that doeth not these My parents, who were Buddhist, things, the same is not my disciple” strongly opposed my baptism. Through (D&C 52:40). the help of the missionaries and the Today I would like to focus on Lord, I received permission and mirac- hands that help and save spiritually. ulously was baptized. The Lord’s work and glory truly is “to The next year I entered the univer- bring to pass the immortality and eter- sity in Yokohama. Living alone, far from nal life of man” (Moses 1:39). Many my hometown and the people I knew, I

36 Saturday Afternoon Session truly appeared to Joseph Smith. I in his ward. This pattern of help con- “Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye made a commitment in my heart to tinued for many years after his release. have done it unto one of the least of repent and faithfully follow Jesus I know a priesthood leader who these my brethren, ye have done it Christ for the rest of my life. takes time with a young man who has unto me” (Matthew 25:40). This spiritual experience changed lost his father. He joins with him in I close with a quote by President my life completely! I decided to serve activities, teaches him the gospel, and Thomas S. Monson: “My brothers and a mission out of gratitude to the Lord gives advice the way his father would. sisters, we are surrounded by those in and to the Church member who res- Another family rejoices in sharing the need of our attention, our encourage- cued me. Following my mission, I was gospel. The parents and children each ment, our support, our comfort, our sealed in the temple to a wonderful testify of the gospel to those around kindness—be they family members, girl, and we have been blessed with them and are loved by many. friends, acquaintances, or strangers. four children. Not coincidentally, this As part of a Primary activity, my five- We are the Lord’s hands here upon is the same girl who saved me by send- year-old granddaughter places a pop- the earth, with the mandate to serve ing a postcard to that lonely apartment corn seed in a large glass bottle each and to lift His children. He is depend- in Yokohama many years ago. I remain time she does a good turn. She sings ent upon each of us.”5 ever grateful for the mercy of the Lord this Primary song in a loud voice as May we follow the counsel and and the help of this Church member, she looks for good things to do each example of the prophet and each day who invited me to once again come day: “Follow the prophet, follow the seek out those in need, that we might unto Christ.3 prophet, Follow the prophet; he be the hands of the Lord in helping I know many of you privately extend knows the way.”4 and saving His children, I pray in the your loving and saving hands each day. I do not have time to tell you about name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ This includes a faithful Relief Society all the good things I see Church mem- NOTES sister who cares not only for the sisters bers do. They follow the counsel 1. See Preach My Gospel: A Guide to whom she is assigned to visit teach but of the prophet—not out of duty or Missionary Service (2004), 1. 2. See Moroni 10:4–5. also any sisters who are sick or other- responsibility but of their own free 3. See Matthew 11:28. wise in need of help. She visits often will, anonymously and joyfully. 4. “Follow the Prophet,” Children’s Songbook, and for years has strengthened the Sometimes we feel that we are 110–11. 5. Thomas S. Monson, “What Have I Done for faith of many. I reflect on a bishop who weak and lack the strength to rescue Someone Today?” Liahona and Ensign, often visited the widows and widowers others, but the Lord reminds us, Nov. 2009, 86.

May 2010 37 By Elder Bruce A. Carlson 1. This Commandment Doesn’t Of the Seventy Apply to Me During the closing years of King Solomon’s reign, the Lord informed him through His prophet, “I will . . . rend the kingdom from thee, and will When the Lord give it to thy servant.”2 Shortly thereafter, the prophet Ahijah identified that servant as Commands Jeroboam, an “industrious” man whom Solomon had made “ruler Faithful obedience, regardless of the apparent size of the over all the charge of the house of task, will bring the Lord’s guidance, assistance, and peace. Joseph.”3 Jeroboam’s duties required him to travel from the mountains of Ephraim, where he lived, to the capital of Jerusalem. During one of those he story is told of two outdoor on its own power, which it simply trips, Ahijah met him along the road. enthusiasts who hired a bush could not do. Through Ahijah, the Lord said, “I will Tplane to fly them to a remote Fortunately there were no serious . . . give ten tribes to thee.”4 He also lake for their annual fishing trip. injuries, and after regaining their instructed Jeroboam, “If thou wilt . . . Following a successful outing, the senses, one of the fishermen asked walk in my ways . . . to keep my pilot returned to retrieve them. the other, “What happened?” The sec- statutes and my commandments, . . . However, he quickly informed the ond replied, “We crashed on takeoff— I will be with thee . . . and will give fishermen that his small plane would about a hundred yards (91 m) from Israel unto thee.”5 not support them, their equipment, where we ended up last year!” After hearing of Ahijah’s prophecy, and the added weight of the fish they Like the two sportsmen, occasion- Solomon sought to kill Jeroboam, had caught. A second flight would be ally we believe that there must be an so Jeroboam fled to Egypt.6 Upon required. easier way, a shortcut or modification Solomon’s death Jeroboam returned Now, the sportsmen were not of the Lord’s commandments that will from exile to the northern part of interested in paying for a second accommodate our individual circum- Israel and began to lead the northern round-trip. So after a promise to pack stances. Thoughts such as these fail to ten tribes.7 tightly and a small bonus payment, acknowledge that strict obedience to However, Jeroboam’s plan to rule the pilot reluctantly agreed to attempt God’s laws brings His blessings and the kingdom involved a mixture of the flight. failure to abide by His laws leads to good and evil. He established Shechem The fishermen grinned knowingly foreseeable consequences. as the nation’s capital, a city of great as the pilot forced the aircraft into the At the time of his appointment as religious significance to his people. air. However, seconds later the plane President of the Church, Harold B. Lee But sadly he introduced satanic rituals stalled and crashed into a large, flat said: “The safety of the Church lies in into their worship.8 swampy area at the end of the lake. the members keeping the command- Jeroboam convinced himself that The plane had stalled as it flew ments. . . . As they keep the command- some of God’s commandments were because of a well-known phenomenon ments, blessings will come.”1 not applicable to him. As a result of his called “ground effect.” Ground effect When we choose to disobey a actions, all of his descendants were is created when air is compressed commandment, it is usually because slain, and because of the heathen between the aircraft’s wings and the (1) we have convinced ourselves that practices he had introduced into their earth’s surface—when they are in the commandment does not apply sacred ordinances, the ten tribes of close proximity. In this case, as the to us; (2) we do not believe that it is Israel were eventually driven from bush plane inched its way upward out important; or (3) we are certain that it their inheritance.9 of ground effect, it was required to fly is too difficult to obey. Just as flying out of ground effect

38 Saturday Afternoon Session with more weight than an aircraft’s wings can sustain will lead to disas- trous consequences, our partial or selective compliance with God’s laws will fail to bring the full blessings of obedience.

2. This Commandment Is Not Important Decades later Naaman, a Syrian war hero, “a mighty man in valour,”10 traveled from his native country to Israel and approached the king, Jehoram, to be healed of leprosy.11 Naaman was directed to the prophet Elisha. “And Elisha sent a messenger unto him, saying, Go and wash in Jordan seven times, . . . and thou shalt be clean.”12 Despite this prophetic promise to be cured, Naaman was offended that Elisha did not greet him in person and even more insulted with the prophet’s direction to wash seven times in the small and muddy Jordan River. His commandments of the Lord!”14 asking if a prominent friend, Martin pride demanded something more However, when the prophetic Harris, could take the first 116 hand- noteworthy and grand, something requirement came to return to written pages of translated material matching his stature and place in the Jerusalem to retrieve the brass plates, from the book of Lehi from Harmony, community and nation. containing a “record of the Jews,”15 the Pennsylvania, back to Palmyra. Each Fortunately for Naaman, his ser- two oldest boys rebelled, saying, “It is time, the Lord counseled Joseph to vants convinced him that regardless a hard thing.”16 avoid entrusting the manuscript to of what the prophet asked him to do, Despite his older brothers’ mur- Mr. Harris. if obeyed, it would bring the Lord’s muring, Nephi’s faith in and obedi- Martin was seeking to use the trans- blessings. Naaman washed himself in ence to the Lord’s commands led to lated material as evidence to stop his the Jordan River as directed and, as a obtaining those brass plates. A nation associates from spreading rumors result of his obedience, was cured of was built, a language was preserved, about his friendship with Joseph his leprosy.13 and the gospel of Jesus Christ was Smith. On the third request the Lord Obedience to the Lord’s com- taught for generations to come. granted Joseph’s appeal.17 mands, in spite of how trivial or unim- At times we may rationalize that Martin lost the manuscript, and as a portant we believe them to be, will the Lord will understand our disobedi- result the plates were taken from the surely bring His promised blessings. ence because our special circum- Prophet Joseph Smith for an extended stances make adherence to His laws period. This was a painful lesson for 3. This Commandment Is Just Too Hard difficult, embarrassing, or even painful. the Prophet Joseph, who said, “I made Following the Lord’s command, However, faithful obedience, regard- this my rule: When the Lord com- the prophet Lehi led his family into less of the apparent size of the task, mands, do it.”18 This should and can the wilderness. During the first few will bring the Lord’s guidance, assis- be our rule as well. days of the journey, Lehi instructed tance, and peace. The Lord’s response when we his son Lemuel to be “firm and stead- The Prophet Joseph Smith peti- obey His commandments is sure. fast, and immovable in keeping the tioned the Lord on two occasions, He has promised us, “If you keep my

May 2010 39 commandments and endure to the By Elder David A. Bednar end you shall have eternal life.”19 Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles Additionally He has counseled us, “I, the Lord, am merciful and gracious unto those who fear me, and delight to honor those who serve me in righteousness and in truth unto the end.”20 Watching with Obedience to the Lord’s commandments provides us confidence in our chosen path, qualifies us for His guid- All Perseverance ance and direction as we pursue our efforts, and offers us the potential to A spiritual early warning system . . . can help parents in Zion become like our Savior, Jesus Christ, to be watchful and discerning concerning their children. and return to our Father’s presence. It is my prayer that each day will find us striving to be more obedient to the laws, ordinances, and command- ecently I was driving my car as Lehi was warned to leave Jerusalem ments of the gospel of Jesus Christ drops of rain from a thunder- and take his family into the wilderness in order that He may more fully bless R storm began to fall on the wind- because the people to whom he had our lives. shield. On the side of the road, an declared repentance sought to kill him I testify that obedience to God’s electronic sign displayed a timely (see 1 Nephi 2:1–2). commands brings the blessings of warning: “Standing Water Ahead.” The Savior Himself was spared heaven; that our Heavenly Father and The surface on which I was driving through an angelic warning: “Behold, His Son, Jesus Christ, live; that the appeared to be quite safe. But this vital the angel of the Lord appeareth to Book of Mormon is the word of God; information enabled me to prepare for Joseph in a dream, saying, Arise, and and that President Thomas S. Monson a potential hazard I had not expected take the young child and his mother, is the Lord’s prophet for our day, in and could not yet see. As I continued and flee into Egypt, and be thou there the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ toward my destination, I slowed down until I bring thee word: for Herod will NOTES and watched carefully for additional seek the young child to destroy him” 1. Harold B. Lee, quoted in Stephen W. signs of danger. (Matthew 2:13). Gibson, “Presidency Meets the Press,” Early warning signals are evident in Consider the language of the Lord Church News, July 15, 1972, 3. 2. 1 Kings 11:11. many aspects of our lives. For exam- in the revelation known as the Word 3. 1 Kings 11:28. ple, a fever can be a first symptom of of Wisdom: “In consequence of evils 4. 1 Kings 11:31. sickness or disease. Various financial and designs which do and will exist 5. 1 Kings 11:38. 6. See 1 Kings 11:40. and labor market indicators are used in the hearts of conspiring men in 7. See 1 Kings 12:2–3, 20. to forecast future trends in local and 8. See 1 Kings 12:25–30. national economies. And depending 9. See 1 Kings 14:10, 15–16. 10. 2 Kings 5:1. upon the area of the world in which 11. See 2 Kings 5:5–6. we live, we may receive flood, ava- 12. 2 Kings 5:10. lanche, hurricane, tsunami, tornado, 13. See 2 Kings 5:11–14. 14. 1 Nephi 2:10. or winter storm warnings. 15. 1 Nephi 3:3. We also are blessed by spiritual 16. 1 Nephi 3:5. early warning signals as a source of 17. See History of the Church, 1:20–21; Doctrine and Covenants 3; 10. protection and direction in our lives. 18. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Recall how Noah was alerted by God Joseph Smith (2007), 160. of things not yet seen, and he “pre- 19. Doctrine and Covenants 14:7. 20. Doctrine and Covenants 76:5; emphasis pared [the] ark to the saving of his added. house” (Hebrews 11:7).

40 Saturday Afternoon Session the last days, I have warned you, and receive inspiration to strengthen and 14:6; 1 Nephi 13:40), even Jesus forewarn you, by giving unto you help those children. Christ, and restores the plain and pre- this word of wisdom by revelation” cious things that have been taken (D&C 89:4). Component Number One: away from the true gospel (see Spiritual warnings should lead to Reading and Talking about the 1 Nephi 13:26, 28–29, 32, 34–35, 40). increasingly vigilant watching. You and I Book of Mormon The unique combination of these two live in “a day of warning” (D&C 63:58). The Book of Mormon contains the factors—a focus on the Savior and the And because we have been and will be fulness of the Savior’s gospel and is plainness of the teachings—powerfully warned, we need to be, as the Apostle the only book the Lord Himself has invites the confirming witness of the Paul admonished, “watching . . . with all testified to be true (see D&C 17:6; see third member of the Godhead, even perseverance” (Ephesians 6:18). also Russell M. Nelson, “A Testimony the Holy Ghost. Consequently, the I pray for the guidance of the of the Book of Mormon,” Liahona, Book of Mormon speaks to the spirit Holy Ghost as I describe a spiritual Jan. 2000, 84; Ensign, Nov. 1999, 70). and to the heart of the reader like no early warning system that can help Indeed, the Book of Mormon is the other volume of scripture. parents in Zion to be watchful and keystone of our religion. The Prophet Joseph Smith taught discerning concerning their chil- The convincing and converting that abiding by the precepts found in dren. This early warning system powers of the Book of Mormon come the Book of Mormon would help us applies to children of all ages and from both a central focus upon the “get nearer to God” than any other contains three basic components: Lord Jesus Christ and the inspired book (Teachings of Presidents of the (1) reading and talking about the plainness and clarity of its teachings. Church: Joseph Smith [2007], 64). Book of Mormon with your children, Nephi declared, “My soul delighteth in Regular reading of and talking about (2) bearing testimony of gospel plainness unto my people, that they the Book of Mormon invite the power truths spontaneously with your chil- may learn” (2 Nephi 25:4). The root to resist temptation and to produce dren, and (3) inviting children as word plain in this verse does not refer feelings of love within our families. gospel learners to act and not merely to things that are ordinary or simple; And discussions about the doctrines be acted upon. Parents who do these rather, it denotes instruction that is and principles in the Book of Mormon things faithfully will be blessed to clear and easily understood. provide opportunities for parents to recognize early signals of spiritual The Book of Mormon is the most observe their children, to listen to growth in or challenges with their correct of any book on earth because them, to learn from them, and to children and be better prepared to it centers upon the Truth (see John teach them.

May 2010 41 participate are potent sources of spiritual early warning signals. A child’s expression about a lesson learned in family scripture study or a candid statement of concern about a gospel principle or practice can be most illu- minating and help parents better understand a child’s specific question or needs. Such discussions—especially when parents are as eager to listen intently as they are to talk—can foster Youth of all ages, even infants, can also brings responsibility and a supportive and secure environment and do respond to the distinctive spirit accountability. in the home and encourage ongoing of the Book of Mormon. Children may Parents should be vigilant and communication about difficult topics. not understand all of the words and spiritually attentive to spontaneously stories, but they certainly can feel the occurring opportunities to bear testi- Component Number Three: “familiar spirit” described by Isaiah mony to their children. Such occa- Inviting Children to Act (Isaiah 29:4; see also 2 Nephi 26:16). sions need not be programmed, In the grand division of all of God’s And the questions a child asks, the scheduled, or scripted. In fact, the less creations, there are “things to act and observations a child shares, and regimented such testimony sharing is, things to be acted upon” (2 Nephi the discussions that occur provide the greater the likelihood for edifica- 2:14). As children of our Heavenly crucial spiritual early warning signals. tion and lasting impact. “Neither take Father, we have been blessed with Importantly, such conversations can ye thought beforehand what ye shall the gift of moral agency, the capacity help parents to discern what their chil- say; but treasure up in your minds and power of independent action. dren are learning, thinking, and feel- continually the words of life, and it Endowed with agency, we are agents, ing about the truths contained in this shall be given you in the very hour and we primarily are to act and not sacred volume of scripture, as well as that portion that shall be meted unto merely be acted upon—especially as the difficulties they may be facing. every man” (D&C 84:85). we “seek learning . . . by study and For example, a naturally occurring also by faith” (D&C 88:118). Component Number Two: family conversation at dinner may be As gospel learners, we should be Bearing Testimony Spontaneously the perfect setting for a parent to “doers of the word, and not hearers Testimony is personal knowledge, recount and testify of specific bless- only” (James 1:22). Our hearts are based upon the witness of the Holy ings he or she received during the opened to the influence of the Holy Ghost, that certain facts of eternal course of relatively routine activities Ghost as we properly exercise agency significance are true. The Holy Ghost that day. And a testimony need not and act in accordance with correct is the messenger for the Father and always begin with the phrase “I bear principles—and we thereby invite His the Son and the teacher of and guide you my testimony.” Our witness can be teaching and testifying power. Parents to all truth (see John 14:26; 16:13). declared as simply as “I know I was have the sacred responsibility to help Thus, “by the power of the Holy blessed with inspiration at work children to act and to seek learning by Ghost [we] may know the truth of all today” or “The truth in this scripture faith. And a child is never too young to things” (Moroni 10:5). always has been a powerful source of take part in this pattern of learning. The knowledge and spiritual con- direction for me.” Similar opportuni- Giving a man a fish feeds him for viction we receive from the Holy ties to bear testimony also can arise one meal. Teaching a man to fish feeds Ghost are the result of revelation. while traveling together in a car or bus him for a lifetime. As parents and Seeking for and obtaining these or in a multitude of other settings. gospel instructors, you and I are not blessings require a sincere heart, The reactions of children to such in the business of distributing fish; real intent, and faith in Christ (see impromptu testimony bearing and rather, our work is to help our chil- Moroni 10:4). A personal testimony their eagerness or reluctance to dren learn “to fish” and to become

42 Saturday Afternoon Session spiritually steadfast. This vital objective is best accomplished as we encourage our children to act in accordance with correct principles—as we help them to learn by doing. “If any man will do his will, he shall know of the doctrine, whether it be of God” (John 7:17). Such learning requires spiritual, mental, and physical exertion and not just passive reception. Inviting children as gospel learners to act and not merely be acted upon builds on reading and talking about the Book of Mormon and bearing testimony spontaneously in the home. Imagine, for example, a family home evening in which children are invited and expected to come prepared to ask questions about what they are reading and learning in the Book of Mormon— or about an issue that recently was emphasized in a gospel discussion or spontaneous testimony in the home. And imagine further that the children ask questions the parents are not prepared adequately to answer. Some parents might be apprehensive about act, to learn for themselves, and to Promise and Testimony such an unstructured approach to stand steadfast and immovable? Are I bear witness that parents who home evening. But the best family we helping our children become anx- consistently read and talk about the home evenings are not necessarily the iously engaged in asking, seeking, and Book of Mormon with their children, product of preprepared, purchased, or knocking? (See 3 Nephi 14:7.) who share testimony spontaneously downloaded packets of outlines and The spiritual understanding you with their children, and who invite visual aids. What a glorious opportunity and I have been blessed to receive, children as gospel learners to act and for family members to search the scrip- and which has been confirmed as true not merely be acted upon will be tures together and to be tutored by the in our hearts, simply cannot be given blessed with eyes that can see afar off Holy Ghost. “For the preacher was to our children. The tuition of dili- (see Moses 6:27) and with ears that no better than the hearer, neither was gence and of learning by study and can hear the sound of the trumpet the teacher any better than the learner; also by faith must be paid to obtain (see Ezekiel 33:2–16). The spiritual . . . and they did all labor, every man and personally “own” such knowledge. discernment and inspiration you will according to his strength” (Alma 1:26). Only in this way can what is known in receive from the combination of these Are you and I helping our children the mind also be felt in the heart. Only three holy habits will enable you to become agents who act and seek in this way can a child move beyond stand as watchmen on the tower for learning by study and by faith, or have relying upon the spiritual knowledge your families—“watching . . . with all we trained our children to wait to be and experiences of parents and adults perseverance” (Ephesians 6:18)—to taught and acted upon? Are we as par- and claim those blessings for himself the blessing of your immediate family ents primarily giving our children the or herself. Only in this way can our and your future posterity. I so promise equivalent of spiritual fish to eat, or children be prepared spiritually for the and testify in the sacred name of the are we consistently helping them to challenges of mortality. Lord Jesus Christ, amen. ■

May 2010 43 By Elder Jeffrey R. Holland cesspool of perceptions that could Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles blast a crater in their brains forever. Remember that those young wives said their husbands’ infidelity began with an attraction to pornography, but immoral activity is not just a man’s Place No More for the problem, and husbands aren’t the only ones offending. The compromise available at the click of a mouse— Enemy of My Soul including what can happen in a chat room’s virtual encounter—is no May the joy of our fidelity to the highest and best within us be respecter of persons, male or female, ours as we keep our love and our marriages, our society young or old, married or single. And and our souls, as pure as they were meant to be. just to make sure that temptation is ever more accessible, the adversary is busy extending his coverage, as they say in the industry, to cell phones, video games, and MP3 players. s Sister Holland and I recently asking, “Why is there so much moral If we stop chopping at the branches disembarked at a distant airport, decay around us, and why are so many of this problem and strike more A three beautiful young women individuals and families, including directly at the root of the tree, not sur- getting off the same flight hurried up some in the Church, falling victim to prisingly we find lust lurking furtively to greet us. They identified themselves it, being tragically scarred by it?” there. Lust is an unsavory word, and it as members of the Church, which But, of course, I knew at least part is certainly an unsavory topic for me to wasn’t too surprising because those of the answer to my own question. address, but there is good reason why not of our faith usually don’t rush up Most days we all find ourselves in some traditions it is known as the to us in airports. In a conversation we assaulted by immoral messages of most deadly of the seven deadly sins.2 hadn’t expected, we soon learned some kind flooding in on us from Why is lust such a deadly sin? Well, through their tears that all three of every angle. The darker sides of the in addition to the completely Spirit- these women were recently divorced, movie, television, and music industry destroying impact it has upon our that in each case their husbands had step further and further into offensive souls, I think it is a sin because it been unfaithful to them, and in each language and sexual misconduct. defiles the highest and holiest relation- case the seeds of alienation and trans- Tragically, the same computer and ship God gives us in mortality—the gression had begun with an attraction Internet service that allows me to do love that a man and a woman have for to pornography. my family history and prepare those each other and the desire that couple With that stark introduction to my names for temple work could, without has to bring children into a family message today—one it is challenging filters and controls, allow my children intended to be forever. Someone for me to give—I feel much like Jacob or grandchildren access to a global said once that true love must include of old, who said, “It grieveth me that I the idea of permanence. True love must use so much boldness of speech endures. But lust changes as quickly . . . before . . . many . . . whose feelings as it can turn a pornographic page or are exceedingly tender and chaste and glance at yet another potential object delicate.”1 But bold we need to be. for gratification walking by, male or Perhaps it was the father in me or female. True love we are absolutely maybe the grandfather, but the tears giddy about—as I am about Sister in those young women’s eyes brought Holland; we shout it from the house- tears to mine and Sister Holland’s, tops. But lust is characterized by and the questions they asked left me shame and stealth and is almost

44 Saturday Afternoon Session pathologically clandestine—the later all of society’s ills today, but let’s confront you. If a TV show is inde- and darker the hour the better, with a speak of what some personal actions cent, turn it off. If a movie is crude, double-bolted door just in case. Love can be. walk out. If an improper relation- makes us instinctively reach out to ship is developing, sever it. Many of God and other people. Lust, on the • Above all, start by separating your- these influences, at least initially, other hand, is anything but godly and self from people, materials, and cir- may not technically be evil, but they celebrates self-indulgence. Love comes cumstances that will harm you. As can blunt our judgment, dull our with open hands and open heart; lust those battling something like alco- spirituality, and lead to something comes with only an open appetite. holism know, the pull of proximity that could be evil. An old proverb These are just some of the reasons can be fatal. So too in moral mat- says that a journey of a thousand that prostituting the true meaning of ters. Like Joseph in the presence of miles begins with one step,5 so love—either with imagination or Potiphar’s wife,4 just run—run as watch your step. another person—is so destructive. far away as you can get from what- • Like thieves in the night, unwelcome It destroys that which is second only ever or whoever it is that beguiles thoughts can and do seek entrance to our faith in God—namely, faith in you. And please, when fleeing the to our minds. But we don’t have to those we love. It shakes the pillars scene of temptation, do not leave a throw open the door, serve them of trust upon which present—or forwarding address. tea and crumpets, and then tell future—love is built, and it takes a • Acknowledge that people bound by them where the silverware is kept! long time to rebuild that trust when it the chains of true addictions often (You shouldn’t be serving tea any- is lost. Push that idea far enough— need more help than self-help, and way.) Throw the rascals out! Replace whether it be as personal as a family that may include you. Seek that lewd thoughts with hopeful images member or as public as elected offi- help and welcome it. Talk to your and joyful memories; picture the cials, business leaders, media stars, bishop. Follow his counsel. Ask for faces of those who love you and and athletic heroes—and soon enough a priesthood blessing. Use the would be shattered if you let them on the building once constructed to Church’s Family Services offerings down. More than one man has been house morally responsible societies, or seek other suitable professional saved from sin or stupidity by we can hang a sign saying, “This prop- help. Pray without ceasing. Ask for remembering the face of his mother, erty is vacant.”3 angels to help you. his wife, or his child waiting some- Whether we be single or married, • Along with filters on computers and where for him at home. Whatever young or old, let’s talk for a moment a lock on affections, remember that thoughts you have, make sure they about how to guard against tempta- the only real control in life is self- are welcome in your heart by invitation in whatever form it may present control. Exercise more control over tion only. As an ancient poet once itself. We may not be able to cure even the marginal moments that said, let will be your reason.6

May 2010 45 • Cultivate and be where the Spirit of dearly loves us. But if we do sin, how- have spoken of his desire to destroy the Lord is. Make sure that includes ever serious that sin may be, we can us if he can. your own home or apartment, dic- be rescued by that same majestic fig- When we face such temptations in tating the kind of art, music, and ure, He who bears the only name our time, we must declare, as young literature you keep there. If you given under heaven whereby any man Nephi did in his, “[I will] give place are endowed, go to the temple as or woman can be saved.10 When con- no more for the enemy of my soul.”12 often as your circumstances allow. fronting our transgressions and our We can reject the evil one. If we want Remember that the temple arms souls are harrowed up with true pain, it dearly and deeply enough, that you “with [God’s] power, . . . [puts may we all echo the repentant Alma enemy can and will be rebuked by the His] glory . . . round about [you], and utter his life-changing cry: “O redeeming power of the Lord Jesus and [gives His] angels . . . charge Jesus, thou Son of God, have mercy Christ. Furthermore, I promise you over [you].”7 And when you leave on me.”11 that the light of His everlasting gospel the temple, remember the symbols Brothers and sisters, I love you. can and will again shine brightly you take with you, never to be set President Thomas S. Monson and the where you feared life had gone hope- aside or forgotten. Brethren love you. Far more impor- lessly, helplessly dark. May the joy of tantly, your Father in Heaven loves our fidelity to the highest and best Most people in trouble end up cry- you. I have tried to speak today of within us be ours as we keep our love ing, “What was I thinking?” Well, what- love—real love, true love, respect for and our marriages, our society and ever they were thinking, they weren’t it, the proper portrayal of it in the our souls, as pure as they were meant thinking of Christ. Yet, as members of wholesome societies mankind has to be, I pray in the name of Jesus His Church, we pledge every Sunday known, the sanctity of it between a Christ, amen. ■ of our lives to take upon ourselves His married man and woman, and the NOTES name and promise to “always remem- families that love ultimately creates. 1. Jacob 2:7. 8 2. See, for example, Henry Fairlie’s excellent ber him.” So let us work a little harder I’ve tried to speak of the redeeming The Seven Deadly Sins Today (1978). at remembering Him—especially that manifestation of love, charity personi- 3. See Fairlie, The Seven Deadly Sins Today, 175. He has “borne our griefs, and carried fied, which comes to us through the 4. See Genesis 39:1–13. 5. Lao Tzu, in John Bartlett, comp., Bartlett’s our sorrows ..., [that] he was bruised grace of Christ Himself. I have of Familiar Quotations, 14th ed. (1968), 74. for our iniquities ...; and with his necessity also spoken of el diablo, the 6. See Juvenal, The Satires, satire 6, line 223. 9 7. Doctrine and Covenants 109:22. stripes we are healed.” Surely it would diabolical one, the father of lies and 8. Doctrine and Covenants 20:77; see also guide our actions in a dramatic way if lust, who will do anything he can to verse 79. we remembered that every time we counterfeit true love, to profane and 9. Isaiah 53:4–5. 10. See Acts 4:12. transgress, we hurt not only those we desecrate true love wherever and 11. Alma 36:18. love, but we also hurt Him, who so whenever he encounters it. And I 12. 2 Nephi 4:28.

46 Saturday Afternoon Session PRIESTHOOD SESSION | April 3, 2010

teachings that we should “pray always” (D&C 90:24) and that all things should By Elder Dallin H. Oaks be done in wisdom and order.2 Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles II. We know that the prayer of faith, uttered alone or in our homes or places of worship, can be effective to Healing the Sick heal the sick. Many scriptures refer to the power of faith in the healing of an We have this priesthood power, and we should all be individual. The Apostle James taught prepared to use it properly. that we should “pray one for another, that ye may be healed,” adding, “the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much” (James 5:16). n these times of worldwide turmoil, and corn to grow, without my plowing When the woman who touched Jesus more and more persons of faith are the ground and casting in the seed. It was healed, He told her, “Thy faith turning to the Lord for blessings of appears consistent to me to apply every hath made thee whole” (Matthew I 3 comfort and healing. I wish to speak remedy that comes within the range of 9:22). Similarly, the Book of Mormon to this audience of priesthood holders my knowledge, and [then] to ask my teaches that the Lord “worketh by about healing the sick—by medical Father in Heaven . . . to sanctify that power, according to the faith of the science, by prayers of faith, and by application to the healing of my body.”1 children of men” (Moroni 10:7). priesthood blessings. Of course we don’t wait until all A recent nationwide survey found other methods are exhausted before that nearly 8 in 10 Americans “believe I. we pray in faith or give priesthood that miracles still occur today as [they Latter-day Saints believe in applying blessings for healing. In emergencies, did] in ancient times.” A third of those the best available scientific knowledge prayers and blessings come first. Most surveyed said they had “experienced and techniques. We use nutrition, often we pursue all efforts simulta- or witnessed a divine healing.”4 Many exercise, and other practices to pre- neously. This follows the scriptural Latter-day Saints have experienced the serve health, and we enlist the help of healing practitioners, such as physi- cians and surgeons, to restore health. The use of medical science is not at odds with our prayers of faith and our reliance on priesthood blessings. When a person requested a priesthood blessing, Brigham Young would ask, “Have you used any remedies?” To those who said no because “we wish the Elders to lay hands upon us, and we have faith that we shall be healed,” President Young replied: “That is very inconsis- tent according to my faith. If we are sick, and ask the Lord to heal us, and to do all for us that is necessary to be done, according to my understanding of the Gospel of salvation, I might as well ask the Lord to cause my wheat

May 2010 47 power of faith in healing the sick. We young men who will soon receive as a result of this sacred act. also hear examples of this among peo- this power—I will concentrate my In the New Testament we read ple of faith in other churches. A Texas remarks on healing blessings involving that Jesus’s Apostles “anointed with newspaperman described such a mira- the power of the priesthood. We have oil many that were sick, and healed cle. When a five-year-old girl breathed this priesthood power, and we should them” (Mark 6:13). The book of James with difficulty and became feverish, her all be prepared to use it properly. teaches the role of anointing in connec- parents rushed her to the hospital. By Current increases in natural disasters tion with the other elements in a heal- the time she arrived there, her kidneys and financial challenges show that we ing blessing by priesthood authority: and lungs had shut down, her fever was will need this power even more in the “Is any sick among you? let him call 107 degrees, and her body was bright future than in the past. for the elders of the church; and let red and covered with purple lesions. Many scriptures teach that the ser- them pray over him, anointing him The doctors said she was dying of toxic vants of the Lord “shall lay hands on with oil in the name of the Lord: shock syndrome, cause unknown. As the sick, and they shall recover” (Mark “And the prayer of faith shall save word spread to family and friends, God- 16:18).6 Miracles happen when the the sick, and the Lord shall raise him fearing people began praying for her, authority of the priesthood is used up” (James 5:14–15). and a special prayer service was held in to bless the sick. I have experienced their Protestant congregation in Waco, these miracles. As a boy and as a man Sealing the Anointing Texas. Miraculously, she suddenly I have seen healings as miraculous as When someone has been anointed returned from the brink of death and any recorded in the scriptures, and so by the authority of the Melchizedek was released from the hospital in a little have many of you. Priesthood, the anointing is sealed by over a week. Her grandfather wrote, There are five parts to the use of that same authority. To seal something “She is living proof that God does priesthood authority to bless the sick: means to affirm it, to make it binding answer prayers and work miracles.”5 (1) the anointing, (2) the sealing of for its intended purpose. When elders Truly, as the Book of Mormon the anointing, (3) faith, (4) the words anoint a sick person and seal the anoint- teaches, God “manifesteth himself of the blessing, and (5) the will of ing, they open the windows of heaven unto all those who believe in him, by the Lord. for the Lord to pour forth the blessing the power of the Holy Ghost; yea, He wills for the person afflicted. unto every nation, kindred, tongue, Anointing President Brigham Young taught: and people, working mighty miracles The Old Testament frequently men- “When I lay hands on the sick, I expect . . . among the children of men accord- tions anointing with oil as part of a the healing power and influence of ing to their faith” (2 Nephi 26:13). blessing conferred by priesthood God to pass through me to the patient, authority.7 Anointings were declared to and the disease to give way. . . . When III. be for sanctification8 and perhaps can we are prepared, when we are holy For this audience—adults who also be seen as symbolic of the bless- vessels before the Lord, a stream of hold the Melchizedek Priesthood and ings to be poured out from heaven power from the Almighty can pass through the tabernacle of the adminis- trator to the system of the patient, and the sick are made whole.”9 Although we know of many cases where persons blessed by priesthood authority have been healed, we rarely refer to these healings in public meetings because modern revelation cau- tions us not to “boast [ourselves] of these things, neither speak them before the world; for these things are given unto you for your profit and for salvation” (D&C 84:73). Faith to again, she replied: “No, I have been happens, the spoken blessing is ful- Faith is essential for healing by anointed and administered to. The filled literally and miraculously. On the powers of heaven. The Book of ordinance has been performed. It is some choice occasions I have experi- Mormon even teaches that “if there be up to me now to claim my blessing enced that certainty of inspiration in a no faith among the children of men through my faith.”12 healing blessing and have known that God can do no miracle among them” what I was saying was the will of the (Ether 12:12).10 In a notable talk on Words of Blessing Lord. However, like most who officiate administering to the sick, President Another part of a priesthood bless- in healing blessings, I have often strug- Spencer W. Kimball said: “The need ing is the words of blessing spoken by gled with uncertainty on the words of faith is often underestimated. The the elder after he seals the anointing. I should say. For a variety of causes, ill one and the family often seem to These words can be very important, every elder experiences increases and depend wholly on the power of the but their content is not essential and decreases in his level of sensitivity to priesthood and the gift of healing that they are not recorded on the records the promptings of the Spirit. Every they hope the administering brethren of the Church. In some priesthood elder who gives a blessing is subject may have, whereas the greater respon- blessings—like a patriarchal blessing— to influence by what he desires for sibility is with him who is blessed. . . . the words spoken are the essence of the person afflicted. Each of these and The major element is the faith of the the blessing. But in a healing blessing other mortal imperfections can influ- individual when that person is con- it is the other parts of the blessing— ence the words we speak. scious and accountable. ‘Thy faith hath the anointing, the sealing, faith, and Fortunately, the words spoken in a made thee whole’ [Matthew 9:22] was the will of the Lord—that are the healing blessing are not essential to its repeated so often by the Master that it essential elements. healing effect. If faith is sufficient and almost became a chorus.”11 Ideally, the elder who officiates if the Lord wills it, the afflicted person President Kimball even suggested will be so in tune with the Spirit of the will be healed or blessed whether the that “too frequent administrations may Lord that he will know and declare the officiator speaks those words or not. be an indication of lack of faith or of will of the Lord in the words of the Conversely, if the officiator yields to the ill one trying to pass the responsi- blessing. Brigham Young taught priest- personal desire or inexperience and bility for faith development to the eld- hood holders, “It is your privilege and gives commands or words of blessing ers rather than self.” He told about a duty to live so that you know when in excess of what the Lord chooses to faithful sister who received a priest- the word of the Lord is spoken to bestow according to the faith of the hood blessing. When asked the next you and when the mind of the Lord individual, those words will not be day if she wished to be administered is revealed to you.”13 When that fulfilled. Consequently, brethren, no

May 2010 49 I felt that same trust in the words of the father of another choice girl whose life was taken by cancer in her teen years. He declared, “Our family’s faith is in Jesus Christ and is not dependent on outcomes.” Those teachings ring true to me. We do all that we can for the healing of a loved one, and then we trust in the Lord for the outcome. I testify of the power of the priesthood of God, of the power of the prayer of faith, and of the truth of these principles. Most of all, I testify of the Lord Jesus Christ, whose servants we are, whose Resurrection gives us the assurance of immortality, and whose Atonement gives us the oppor- elder should ever hesitate to partici- that when one “asketh according to tunity for eternal life, the greatest of all pate in a healing blessing because of the will of God . . . it is done even as the gifts of God, in the name of Jesus fear that he will not know what to say. he asketh” (D&C 46:30).14 Christ, amen. ■ The words spoken in a healing bless- From all of this we learn that even ing can edify and energize the faith of the servants of the Lord, exercising His NOTES those who hear them, but the effect divine power in a circumstance where 1. Discourses of Brigham Young, sel. John A. of the blessing is dependent upon there is sufficient faith to be healed, Widtsoe (1954), 163. 2. See Mosiah 4:27. faith and the Lord’s will, not upon cannot give a priesthood blessing that 3. See also Mark 10:46–52; Luke 18:35–43. the words spoken by the elder who will cause a person to be healed if that 4. U.S. Religious Landscape Survey: Religious officiated. healing is not the will of the Lord. Beliefs and Practices: Diverse and Politically Relevant (The Pew Forum on As children of God, knowing of His Religion and Public Life, June 2008), 34, 54, Will of the Lord great love and His ultimate knowledge http://religions.pewforum.org/reports#. Young men and older men, please of what is best for our eternal welfare, 5. See Steve Blow, “Sometimes, ‘Miracles’ Are Just That,” Dallas Morning News, Jan. 30, take special note of what I will say we trust in Him. The first principle of 2000, 31A. now. As we exercise the undoubted the gospel is faith in the Lord Jesus 6. See also Matthew 9:18; Mark 5:23; 6:5; power of the priesthood of God and Christ, and faith means trust. I felt that 7:32–35; 16:18; Luke 4:40; Acts 9:12, 17; 28:8; Doctrine and Covenants 42:44, 48; as we treasure His promise that He trust in a talk my cousin gave at the 66:9. will hear and answer the prayer of funeral of a teenage girl who had died 7. See, for example, Exodus 28:41; 1 Samuel faith, we must always remember that of a serious illness. He spoke these 10:1; 16:13; 2 Samuel 5:3. 8. See Leviticus 8:10–12. faith and the healing power of the words, which first astonished me and 9. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: priesthood cannot produce a result then edified me: “I know it was the Brigham Young (1997), 252; see also contrary to the will of Him whose will of the Lord that she die. She had Russell M. Nelson, “Neither Trust in the Arm of Flesh,” Liahona, Mar. 2010, 40; Ensign, priesthood it is. This principle is good medical care. She was given Mar. 2010, 24; Teachings of Gordon B. taught in the revelation directing that priesthood blessings. Her name was Hinckley (1997), 474. the elders of the Church shall lay their on the prayer roll in the temple. She 10. See also 1 Nephi 7:12; Doctrine and Covenants 35:9. hands upon the sick. The Lord’s prom- was the subject of hundreds of prayers 11. “President Kimball Speaks Out on ise is that “he that hath faith in me to for her restoration to health. And I Administration to the Sick,” Tambuli, Aug. be healed, and is not appointed unto know that there is enough faith in 1982, 36–37; New Era, Oct. 1981, 47. 12. Tambuli, Aug. 1982, 36; New Era, Oct. death, shall be healed” (D&C 42:48; this family that she would have been 1981, 46–47. emphasis added). Similarly, in another healed unless it was the will of the 13. Teachings: Brigham Young, 68. modern revelation the Lord declares Lord to take her home at this time.” 14. See also 1 John 5:14; Helaman 10:5.

50 Priesthood Session By Elder Ronald A. Rasband servants of the Lord to send missionar- Of the Presidency of the Seventy ies to their fields of labor. Today missionaries go forth two by two as appointed by the Lord, carrying that same message, with the same divine call to serve from the prophet of The Divine Call God. Our prophet, President Thomas S. Monson, has said of those called to serve: “The missionary opportunity of a of a Missionary lifetime is yours. The blessings of eternity await you. Yours is the privilege to The Lord needs every able young man to prepare and be not spectators but participants on recommit, starting tonight, to be worthy of a call from the stage of priesthood service.”4 the prophet of God to serve a mission. The stage is yours, my dear Aaronic Priesthood boys. Are you ready and willing to play your part? The Lord needs every able young man to prepare and recommit, starting tonight, ood evening, my dear England. Elder Kimball’s call came as to be worthy of a call from the prophet brethren of the priesthood. the two sat in the Kirtland Temple and of God to serve a mission. GTonight I would like to speak Joseph spoke with divine authority: I remember fondly our entire fam- about missionary service. I direct my “Brother Heber, the Spirit of the Lord ily’s great joy when two of our children comments to the vast army of young has whispered to me, ‘Let my servant received their calls to serve as full-time men who hold the Aaronic Priesthood Heber go to England and proclaim my missionaries. Excitement and anticipa- who are gathered throughout the gospel and open the door of salvation tion filled our hearts as they each entire world and to their fathers, to that nation.’ ”3 opened their special letter from the grandfathers, and priesthood leaders That whispering of the Spirit is an prophet of God. Our daughter Jenessa who watch over them. example of how the call comes to was called to the Michigan Detroit Missionary work is a subject very close to my heart, as it is to every member of the eight Quorums of the Seventy, whom the Lord has appointed to go “before his face into every city and place, whither he himself would come.”1 Missionary work is the life- blood of the Church and the lifesaving blessing to all who accept its message. When the Master ministered among men, He called fishermen at Galilee to leave their nets and follow Him, declaring, “I will make you fishers of men.”2 The Lord extended those calls to humble men so that through them others would hear the truths of His gospel and come unto Him. In June of 1837, the Prophet Joseph Smith called Heber C. Kimball, an Apostle, to go on a mission to Buenos Aires, Argentina

May 2010 51 the bishops and stake presidents, medical notes, and other issues relating to each missionary. He then referred to another screen which displayed areas and missions across the world. Finally, as he was prompted by the Spirit, he would assign the missionary to his or her field of labor. From others of the Twelve, I have learned that this general method is typical each week as Apostles of the Lord assign scores of missionaries to serve throughout the world. Mission, and our son, Christian, was President of the Church. Elder Eyring Having served as a missionary in called to the Russia Moscow South was assigning missionaries to their my own country in the Eastern States Mission. What humbling and thrilling fields of labor, and as part of my train- Mission a number of years ago, I was experiences, all at the same time! ing, I was invited to observe. deeply moved by this experience. As Sister Rasband and I had the I joined Elder Eyring early one Also, having served as a mission presi- privilege of presiding over the New morning in a room where several dent, I was grateful for a further wit- York New York North Mission several large computer screens had been pre- ness in my heart that the missionaries years ago, I marveled as the mission- pared for the session. There was also I had received in New York City were aries arrived in New York City. a staff member from the Missionary sent to me by revelation. As I interviewed them on their first Department who had been assigned After assigning a few missionaries, day in the mission, I had a profound to assist us that day. Elder Eyring turned to me as he pon- sense of gratitude for each missionary. First, we knelt together in prayer. I dered one particular missionary and I felt that their call to our mission was remember Elder Eyring using very sin- said, “So, Brother Rasband, where do divinely designed for them and for me cere words, asking the Lord to bless you think this missionary should go?” as their mission president. him to know “perfectly” where the mis- I was startled! I quietly suggested to After finishing our mission assign- sionaries should be assigned. The word Elder Eyring that I did not know and ment, I was called by President “perfectly” said much about the faith that I did not know I could know! He Gordon B. Hinckley to serve as a that Elder Eyring exhibited that day. looked at me directly and simply said, Seventy in the Church. Part of my early As the process began, a picture of “Brother Rasband, pay closer attention training as a new General Authority the missionary to be assigned would and you too can know!” With that, I included an opportunity to sit with come up on one of the computer pulled my chair a little closer to Elder members of the Twelve as they screens. As each picture appeared, to Eyring and the computer screen, and assigned missionaries to serve in one me it was as if the missionary were in I did pay much closer attention! of the 300-plus missions of this great the room with us. Elder Eyring would A couple of other times as the Church. then greet the missionary with his process moved along, Elder Eyring With the encouragement and per- kind and endearing voice: “Good would turn to me and say, “Well, mission of President Henry B. Eyring, I morning, Elder Reier or Sister Yang. Brother Rasband, where do you feel would like to relate to you an experi- How are you today?” this missionary should go?” I would ence, very special to me, which I had He told me that in his own mind he name a particular mission, and Elder with him several years ago when he liked to think of where the missionar- Eyring would look at me thoughtfully was a member of the Quorum of the ies would conclude their mission. This and say, “No, that’s not it!” He would Twelve. Each Apostle holds the keys of would aid him to know where they then continue to assign the mission- the kingdom and exercises them at were to be assigned. Elder Eyring aries where he had felt prompted. the direction and assignment of the would then study the comments from As we were nearing the completion

52 Priesthood Session of that assignment meeting, a picture of a certain missionary appeared on the screen. I had the strongest prompting, the strongest of the morning, that the missionary we had before us was to be assigned to Japan. I did not know that Elder Eyring was going to ask me on this one, but amazingly he did. I rather tentatively and humbly said to him, “Japan?” Elder Eyring responded immediately, “Yes, let’s go there.” And up on the computer screen the missions of Japan appeared. I instantly knew that the missionary was to go to the Japan Sapporo Mission. Elder Eyring did not ask me the exact name of the mission, but he did assign that missionary to the Japan Sapporo Mission. Privately in my heart I was deeply touched and sincerely grateful to the Lord for allowing me to experience the prompting to know where that missionary should go. At the end of the meeting Elder Eyring bore his witness to me of the love of the Savior, which He has for each missionary assigned to go out into missionaries called by a prophet of may bring souls unto me, that you the world and preach the restored God in 1829 to preach the gospel of may rest with them in the kingdom of gospel. He said that it is by the great the Lord Jesus Christ. my Father.”6 love of the Savior that His servants In the preface to section 14 of the At this time in your life, a mission know where these wonderful young Doctrine and Covenants, it states, call from the Lord, my young friends, is men and women, senior missionaries, “Three of the Whitmer sons, each hav- the most important work that you can and senior couple missionaries are ing received a testimony as to the gen- do. Prepare now, live righteously, learn to serve. I had a further witness that uineness of the work, became deeply from your family and Church leaders, morning that every missionary called in concerned over the matter of their and come join with us in building the this Church, and assigned or reassigned individual duty.” kingdom of God on earth—accept to a particular mission, is called by reve- To John and Peter Whitmer Jr. the your divine appointment in “so great a lation from the Lord God Almighty Lord said this: “For many times you cause.”7 This is my humble prayer in through one of these, His servants. have desired of me to know that which the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ 5 I conclude with the Lord’s words to would be of the most worth unto you.” NOTES the Whitmer brothers, who had a pro- I suppose many of you young 1. Luke 10:1. found role in the early days of the men have asked yourselves that same 2. Matthew 4:19. 3. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Restoration. They were witnesses to question. Here is the Lord’s answer: Joseph Smith (2007), 327. the gold plates, and their signed testi- “And now, behold, I say unto you, that 4. Thomas S. Monson, “That All May Hear,” monies are included at the front of the thing which will be of the most Ensign, May 1995, 49. 5. Doctrine and Covenants 15:4; 16:4. every copy of the Book of Mormon. worth unto you will be to declare 6. Doctrine and Covenants 15:6; 16:6. They were among the first band of repentance unto this people, that you 7. Doctrine and Covenants 128:22.

May 2010 53 By David L. Beck who was called to his great work Young Men General President at age 14, when he was visited by Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. President Thomas S. Monson has said: “Great things are expected of you. . . . Like a clarion call comes the word The Magnificent of the Lord to you, to me, and to priesthood holders everywhere: ‘Wherefore, now let every man learn his duty, Aaronic Priesthood and to act in the office in which he is appointed, in all diligence’ ” (“The Call There is an urgency for you to fulfill your duty to God. for Courage,” Liahona and Ensign, I am confident that you will. May 2004, 54, 57).

II. The New Duty to God Program To help you respond to that urgent am honored tonight to speak to the I. God Trusts You call, the Church is introducing a new amazing young men of the Church. When God entrusts you with His Duty to God program, as President II have been blessed to meet many sacred priesthood, He shows great Henry B. Eyring announced earlier of you throughout the world. Your confidence in you. He knows He can today. I am excited about this pro- enthusiasm is contagious. trust you to use the priesthood to gram. Materials will be sent to your You face your challenges with serve others, just as He has trusted bishops and branch presidents begin- extraordinary strength and courage. I other young men to do some of His ning in June. You should begin using express my love to you and the confi- most important work. them as soon as you receive them. dence I have in you. For example, the world would not As a deacon, teacher, and priest, You inspire the people around have the Book of Mormon’s powerful you will participate in activities that you more than you can imagine. witness of Jesus Christ if it had not will help you build spiritual strength Listen to the words of a young man been for two young men whom God and learn and fulfill your priesthood who is not of our faith, trying to trusted. Mormon, the prophet who duties. Each activity follows this simple describe his friend who holds the compiled this sacred record, was just pattern: Aaronic Priesthood: “I do notice 10 years old when he was assigned to First you learn about a gospel prin- something different about Luis. . . . observe and later record the history of ciple or a priesthood duty. You dis- This guy is nothing like . . . other peo- his people. At age 15, he was “visited of cover what Heavenly Father wants you ple. It’s just something you see in the Lord, and tasted and knew of the to do, and you strive to gain a spiritual him. . . . I don’t even know what it is, goodness of Jesus” (Mormon 1:15). witness about why it is important. but he’s different than all of them. The Book of Mormon was trans- Next you make plans to act on It’s just something you feel; it’s not lated and published by Joseph Smith, what you have learned. You are [something] . . . you see visually. You encouraged to base your plans on just feel it.” your own needs, circumstances, and There is something very important opportunities to serve others. This is a that sets Luis and you apart from wonderful chance to take responsibil- other young men. You have received ity for your own growth and develop the Aaronic Priesthood. It is a sacred spiritual self-reliance. gift, and many do not fully appreciate Then you share what you learn it. Tonight I will help you see how and experience with others. As you do you can discover for yourselves so, you will strengthen your testimony the magnificence of the Aaronic and build faith in those around you. Priesthood. You will increase your ability to talk

54 Priesthood Session about the gospel with others. the magnificence of the Aaronic family: “Leo has the priesthood in our I am grateful to a young man who Priesthood. home, and it’s a huge blessing. He’s a shared with me the following experi- good example to his siblings; . . . he ence. He and another Aaronic Priest- III. Fulfill Your Duty to God makes sure they always pray. He hood holder were assigned to During the past year I have been passes the sacrament on Sundays. His administer the sacrament to a man on a journey that has forever changed little brother sees him. He helps . . . who was homebound and very sick. the way I view you and the Aaronic with family prayer. I know that he will They arrived at his home not realizing Priesthood. I am excited for you to dis- continue to be a blessing as he gets that recent medical treatments pre- cover for yourself what I have discov- older. He will be able to baptize his vented him from eating any food— ered. You will learn why the Aaronic younger brother. It’s a comfort and a even a piece of the sacrament bread. Priesthood is so important in your life gift to us.” After blessing the bread, the young and how vital it is to the Church. You As you fulfill your duty to God, you man presented the sacrament to will appreciate why it is referred to will reach out to your friends who are the frail man. He took a piece of the as one of the “grand heads” of the not of our faith and help prepare them blessed bread, waited a moment, and priesthood (see D&C 107:6). You will to join the Church. Like a true brother, then held it against his lips. The young understand better the meaning of you will watch over and strengthen man said when he saw this faithful priesthood keys, the ministering of them. You will lead out in the rescue brother express his reverence for the angels, and the preparatory gospel of other young men who have lost sacrament, he felt as though he were (see D&C 13; 84:26). their way. watching him kiss the feet of the Satan would have you think that As you fulfill your duty to God, Savior. He could tell that he loved Him. you are too young or that there are you will be a force for good at all The significance of the sacrament too few of you to do significant things times and in every circumstance. Your was impressed upon that young man with the Aaronic Priesthood. None of righteous example and your faithful in an unforgettable way that day. You that is true. priesthood service will be a powerful will have sacred experiences, just as God’s words to Moses are for you way to invite all who know you to this young man did. today: “Behold, thou art my son; . . . come unto Christ. Your parents, leaders, and quorum and I have a work for [you]” (Moses In their most critical time, the members play an important role in 1:4, 6). Nephites looked to a young man, the Duty to God program. Your Sunday He has given you His power to do Mormon, for leadership and inspira- quorum meetings will provide regular great things. As you fulfill your duty tion (see Mormon 2:1–2). Today, we opportunities to learn, act, and share. to God, you will strengthen and bless look to you to be a great strength to The new Duty to God program will your family. This is your greatest the Church and a force for good on guide you on your journey to fulfill priesthood duty. Listen to a mother the earth. This is what the Lord your duty to God and discover describe the impact her son has on his expects.

May 2010 55 IV. Become a Faithful Priesthood Man By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf I testify that you will feel your heart Second Counselor in the First Presidency changing as you become a faithful priesthood man. You will seek to be completely clean and administer the sacrament worthily. You will treat every young woman with kindness Continue in Patience and respect. You will honor your parents. You will avoid offending the The lessons we learn from patience will cultivate our Spirit in what you think, say, or do. character, lift our lives, and heighten our happiness. You will come to know the Lord, whom you serve, and you will ever strive to be like Him. I testify that your faithful service in n the 1960s, a professor at Stanford was a key character trait that might the Aaronic Priesthood will change the University began a modest experi- predict later success in life.1 lives of those you serve. There are Iment testing the willpower of people who need your priesthood four-year-old children. He placed Waiting Can Be Hard service. Your family needs you. Your before them a large marshmallow Waiting can be hard. Children know quorum needs you. The Church needs and then told them they could eat it, and so do adults. We live in a world you. The world needs you. it right away or, if they waited for offering fast food, instant messaging, There is an urgency for you to fulfill 15 minutes, they could have two on-demand movies, and immediate your duty to God. I am confident that marshmallows. answers to the most trivial or profound you will. He then left the children alone and questions. We don’t like to wait. Some On a cold morning a few weeks watched what happened behind a even feel their blood pressure rise ago, I jogged along the Tagus River in two-way mirror. Some of the children when their line at the grocery store Lisbon, Portugal. I came to a monu- ate the marshmallow immediately; moves slower than those around them. ment dedicated to the Portuguese some could wait only a few minutes Patience—the ability to put our explorers from centuries past. I before giving in to temptation. Only desires on hold for a time—is a pre- stopped as the sun rose and splashed 30 percent were able to wait. cious and rare virtue. We want what we its warm light on the imposing monu- It was a mildly interesting experi- want, and we want it now. Therefore, ment and on me. I was inspired as I ment, and the professor moved on to the very idea of patience may seem looked at the determined faces of the other areas of research, for, in his own unpleasant and, at times, bitter. explorers gazing out over the water. words, “there are only so many things Nevertheless, without patience, These were men who were willing to you can do with kids trying not to eat we cannot please God; we cannot do things that very few had done. marshmallows.” But as time went on, become perfect. Indeed, patience is a They left a familiar and comfortable he kept track of the children and purifying process that refines under- world and courageously went out into began to notice an interesting correla- standing, deepens happiness, focuses the unknown ocean and discovered tion: the children who could not wait action, and offers hope for peace. new lands. They changed the world. struggled later in life and had more As parents, we know how unwise it I see you when I think of that mon- behavioral problems, while those who would be to indulge our children’s ument of courageous explorers. I see waited tended to be more positive every desire. But children are not the you on a personal journey that few in and better motivated, have higher only ones who spoil when showered the world today choose to pursue. I grades and incomes, and have health- with immediate gratification. Our see you fulfilling your duty to God. ier relationships. Heavenly Father knows what good I pray that we may all understand What started as a simple experi- parents come to understand over the magnificent Aaronic Priesthood and ment with children and marshmallows time: if children are ever going to trust, as God does, those who bear it. became a landmark study suggesting mature and reach their potential, they In the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ that the ability to wait—to be patient— must learn to wait.

56 Priesthood Session Patience Isn’t Merely Waiting to see that if I applied myself consis- are just supporting cast in the grand When I was 10 years old, my family tently, I could learn. It didn’t come theater of mortality in which only they became refugees in a new land. I quickly, but with patience, it did come. have the starring role. had always been a good student in From that experience, I learned How different this is, my dear school—that is, until we arrived in that patience was far more than simply brethren, from the standard the Lord West Germany. There, my educational waiting for something to happen— has set for us as priesthood holders. experience was a significantly different patience required actively working one. The geography we studied in my toward worthwhile goals and not get- Patience, a Principle of the Priesthood school was new to me. The history we ting discouraged when results didn’t As priesthood bearers and repre- studied was also very different. Before, appear instantly or without effort. sentatives of the Lord Jesus Christ, I had been learning Russian as a sec- There is an important concept we must serve others in a manner ond language; now, it was English. here: patience is not passive resigna- consistent with His example. There is This was hard for me. Indeed, there tion, nor is it failing to act because of a reason that almost every lesson on were moments when I truly believed our fears. Patience means active wait- priesthood leadership at some point my tongue simply was not made to ing and enduring. It means staying arrives at the 121st section of the speak English. with something and doing all that we Doctrine and Covenants. In a few Because so much of the curriculum can—working, hoping, and exercising verses, the Lord provides a master was new and strange to me, I fell faith; bearing hardship with fortitude, course in priesthood leadership. behind. For the first time in my life, even when the desires of our hearts “No power or influence can or ought I began to wonder if I was simply not are delayed. Patience is not simply to be maintained by virtue of the smart enough for school. enduring; it is enduring well! priesthood, only by persuasion, by Fortunately I had a teacher who Impatience, on the other hand, is a long-suffering, by gentleness and taught me to be patient. He taught symptom of selfishness. It is a trait of meekness, and by love unfeigned.”2 me that steady and consistent work— the self-absorbed. It arises from the all- The character traits and practices patient persistence—would help me too-prevalent condition called “center described in these verses are the foun- to learn. of the universe” syndrome, which leads dation of godly patience and are insepa- Over time, difficult subjects became people to believe that the world re- rably connected to effective priesthood clearer—even English. Slowly I began volves around them and that all others and patriarchal service. These attributes

May 2010 57 Word of Wisdom. I confess, it troubled me at the time. I asked myself, was the promise true or was it not? The answer didn’t come immediately. But eventually I learned that God’s promises are not always fulfilled as quickly as or in the way we might hope; they come according to His timing and in His ways. Years later I could see clear evidence of the temporal blessings that come to those who obey the Word of Wisdom—in addi- will give you strength and wisdom in Christ’s birth, even knowing that if the tion to the spiritual blessings that magnifying your callings, in preaching sign did not come, they would perish. come immediately from obedience to the gospel, in fellowshipping quorum Joseph Smith’s trials in Liberty Jail any of God’s laws. Looking back, I members, and in giving the most caused even the prophet of God to know for sure that the promises of the important priesthood service—which wonder, “How long?”4 Lord, if perhaps not always swift, are is indeed the loving service within the In each case, Heavenly Father had always certain. walls of your own homes. a purpose in requiring that His chil- Let us always remember that one dren wait. Patience Requires Faith of the reasons God has entrusted the Every one of us is called to wait in Brigham Young taught that when priesthood to us is to help prepare us our own way. We wait for answers to something came up which he could for eternal blessings by refining our prayers. We wait for things which at not comprehend fully, he would pray natures through the patience which the time may appear so right and so to the Lord, “Give me patience to wait priesthood service requires. good to us that we can’t possibly imag- until I can understand it for myself.”5 As the Lord is patient with us, ine why Heavenly Father would delay And then Brigham would continue to let us be patient with those we serve. the answer. pray until he could comprehend it. Understand that they, like us, are I remember when I was preparing We must learn that in the Lord’s imperfect. They, like us, make mis- to be trained as a fighter pilot. We plan, our understanding comes “line takes. They, like us, want others to give spent a great deal of our preliminary upon line, precept upon precept.”6 In them the benefit of the doubt. military training in physical exercise. short, knowledge and understanding Never give up on anyone. And that I’m still not exactly sure why endless come at the price of patience. includes not giving up on yourself. running was considered such an Often the deep valleys of our pres- I believe that every one of us, at essential preparatory part of becoming ent will be understood only by looking one time or another, can identify with a pilot. Nevertheless, we ran and we back on them from the mountains of the servant in Christ’s parable who ran and we ran some more. our future experience. Often we can’t owed money to the king and who As I was running I began to notice see the Lord’s hand in our lives until pled with the king, saying, “Lord, have something that, frankly, troubled me. long after trials have passed. Often the patience with me.”3 Time and again I was being passed by most difficult times of our lives are men who smoked, drank, and did all essential building blocks that form the The Lord’s Way and Time manner of things that were contrary foundation of our character and pave The children of Israel waited 40 to the gospel and, in particular, to the the way to future opportunity, under- years in the wilderness before they Word of Wisdom. standing, and happiness. could enter the promised land. Jacob I remember thinking, “Wait a waited 7 long years for Rachel. The minute! Aren’t I supposed to be able Patience, a Fruit of the Spirit7 Jews waited 70 years in Babylon before to run and not be weary?” But I was Patience is a godly attribute that they could return to rebuild the tem- weary, and I was overtaken by people can heal souls, unlock treasures of ple. The Nephites waited for a sign of who were definitely not following the knowledge and understanding, and

58 Priesthood Session transform ordinary men and women into saints and angels. Patience is truly a fruit of the Spirit. Patience means staying with something until the end. It means delaying immediate gratification for future blessings. It means reining in anger and holding back the unkind word. It means resisting evil, even when it appears to be making others rich. Patience means accepting that which cannot be changed and facing it with courage, grace, and faith. It means being “willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon [us], even as a child doth submit to his father.”8 Ultimately, patience means being “firm and steadfast, and immovable in keeping the commandments of the Lord”9 every hour of every day, even when it is hard to do so. In the words of John the Revelator, “Here is the patience of the saints: here are they that keep the commandments of God, and . . . faith [in] Jesus.”10 Patience is a process of perfection. The Savior Himself said that in your patience you possess your souls.11 Or, to use another translation of the around us will see it, and they will we will act toward others with the Greek text, in your patience you win trust in the Lord.14 patience and compassion we seek for mastery of your souls.12 Patience My dear brethren, the work of ourselves; and that we will continue in means to abide in faith, knowing that patience boils down to this: keep the patience until we are perfected. In the sometimes it is in the waiting rather commandments; trust in God, our holy name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ than in the receiving that we grow the Heavenly Father; serve Him with NOTES most. This was true in the time of the meekness and Christlike love; exer- 1. See Jonah Lehrer, “Don’t! The Secret of Savior. It is true in our time as well, cise faith and hope in the Savior; and Self-Control,” New Yorker, May 18, 2009, for we are commanded in these latter never give up. The lessons we learn 26–27. 2. Doctrine and Covenants 121:41; see also days to “continue in patience until ye from patience will cultivate our char- verses 39–45. are perfected.”13 acter, lift our lives, and heighten 3. Matthew 18:26. our happiness. They will help us to 4. Doctrine and Covenants 121:2. 5. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: The Lord Blesses Us for Our Patience become worthy priesthood bearers Brigham Young (1997), 75. To paraphrase the Psalmist of old, if and faithful disciples of our Master, 6. Doctrine and Covenants 98:12. we wait patiently for the Lord, He will Jesus Christ. 7. See Galatians 5:22–23. 8. Mosiah 3:19. incline unto us. He will hear our cries. It is my prayer that patience will be 9. 1 Nephi 2:10. He will bring us out of a horrible pit a defining characteristic of we who 10. Revelation 14:12. and set our feet upon a solid rock. hold the priesthood of Almighty God; 11. See Luke 21:19. 12. See Luke 21:19, footnote b. He will put a new song in our mouths, that we will courageously trust the 13. Doctrine and Covenants 67:13. and we will praise our God. Many Lord’s promises and His timing; that 14. See Psalm 40:1–3.

May 2010 59 By President Henry B. Eyring continually “doing the things God First Counselor in the First Presidency requires at his hands.”2 The other experience that led me to speak of diligence to you tonight was watching a man near the end of his priesthood service in this life. He Act in All Diligence had been a bishop twice. His first call as a bishop, years before I met him, We are to learn our duty from the Lord, and then we are to had been when he was young. Now he act in all diligence, never being lazy or slothful. was old, released for the second time as a bishop. His increasing physical limitations made any priesthood service very difficult. rethren, I am grateful to be with through the chapel to serve the sacra- Yet he had a plan to act in diligence. you tonight. And I am humbled ment to the members. The father and He sat every Sunday he could get to Bby what I know of your faithful I smiled to think that a boy, without church near the row nearest the door priesthood service. I speak to you being asked to do it, would make a where most of the people would enter tonight of diligence in the Lord’s serv- plan to be sure he would succeed in for the sacrament meeting. He got ice. Recent experiences led me to that his priesthood service. there early to be sure a seat was choice. I recognized in his diligence the pat- vacant. Each person arriving could see One was my careful study of the tern from the new Duty to God book- his look of love and welcome, just as remarkable new booklet for the let. It is to learn what the Lord expects they did when he sat on the stand as Aaronic Priesthood, about which of you, make a plan to do it, act on their bishop. His influence warmed Brother David L. Beck spoke. It is enti- your plan with diligence, and then and lifted us because we knew some- tled Fulfilling My Duty to God. As I share with others how your experience thing of the price he paid to serve. read and pondered what it expects changed you and blessed others. His task as a bishop was finished; his young men to do and to become, I The deacon made that diagram to priesthood service did not end. realized that it was describing what be sure that he would be able to do You have seen such examples of President Brigham Young promised to what the Lord had called him to do. At great priesthood servants. Tonight, I the priesthood holder who is diligent the start of his priesthood service, the will try to tell you about what I have over a lifetime: “An individual who Lord was teaching him to delight in learned about them. It begins with holds a share in the Priesthood, and continues faithful to his calling, who delights himself continually in doing the things God requires at his hands, and continues through life in the performance of every duty will secure to himself not only the privilege of receiving, but the knowledge [of] how to receive the things of God, that he may know the mind of God continually.”1 Just a few weeks ago, I saw a new deacon start on that path of diligence. His father showed me a diagram his son had created that showed every row in their chapel, a number for each deacon who would be assigned to pass the sacrament, and their route

60 Priesthood Session their learning to know whose service they are in and for what purpose. When that goes down into their hearts, it makes all the difference. First, I will speak directly to the young men of the Aaronic Priesthood. You will become more diligent as you feel the magnitude of the trust God has placed in you. There is a message from the First Presidency for you in that Duty to God booklet: “Heavenly Father has great trust and confidence in you and has an important mission for you to fulfill. He will help you as you turn to Him in prayer, listen for the promptings of the Spirit, obey the commandments, and keep the covenants that you have made.”3 John the Baptist returned to earth to restore the priesthood you young men hold. He held the keys of the Think of Him and how He honors you the Spirit unto the renewing of their Aaronic Priesthood. It was John to when you perform your priesthood bodies. whom Jesus turned to be baptized. service. As you remember Him, you “They become the sons of Moses John knew who called him. He said to will be determined to perform that and of Aaron and the seed of the Lord, “I have need to be baptized sacred service, as nearly as you can, Abraham, and the church and king- of thee.”4 as well and faithfully as He did.6 dom, and the elect of God. John knew that the priesthood That can become a pattern in your “And also all they who receive this of Aaron “holds the keys of the minis- life that will increase your power to be priesthood receive me, saith the Lord; tering of angels, and of the gospel diligent in every priesthood service for “For he that receiveth my servants of repentance, and of baptism by which the Lord is preparing you and receiveth me; immersion for the remission of sins” to which He will call you. That deter- “And he that receiveth me receiveth when the Lord sent him to ordain mination will help you prepare for my Father; Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery on receiving the Melchizedek Priesthood, “And he that receiveth my Father May 15, 1829.5 He knew who called which was anciently called “the Holy receiveth my Father’s kingdom; there- him and for what glorious purpose he Priesthood, after the Order of the Son fore all that my Father hath shall be was sent. of God.”7 given unto him.”8 Your priesthood allows you to offer Now, I wish to speak to those who There is a pattern by which all the sacrament of the Lord’s Supper have been called and honored to serve priesthood holders are lifted to that to the members of His Church today. in the Melchizedek Priesthood. Like the glorious blessing. One place in scrip- That is the same privilege the Savior Aaronic Priesthood, the Melchizedek ture where the Lord gives the pattern granted the Twelve Apostles in His Priesthood is more than a trust to do for us is in the 107th section of the mortal ministry. He did it again when what the Lord would do. It is an invita- Doctrine and Covenants: He called twelve disciples after His tion to become as He is. Here is His “Wherefore, now let every man Resurrection to lead His Church. promise: learn his duty, and to act in the office in The Lord Himself, as described in “For whoso is faithful unto the which he is appointed, in all diligence. the Book of Mormon, provided the obtaining these two priesthoods of “He that is slothful shall not be emblems of His infinite sacrifice and which I have spoken, and the magni- counted worthy to stand, and he that administered them to the people. fying their calling, are sanctified by learns not his duty and shows himself

May 2010 61 not approved shall not be counted “For behold, I, God, have suffered possible by His atoning sacrifice. worthy to stand. Even so. Amen.”9 these things for all, that they might Remember the words from the 138th We are to learn our duty from the not suffer if they would repent; section of the Doctrine and Covenants: Lord, and then we are to act in all dili- “But if they would not repent they “But behold, from among the righ- gence, never being lazy or slothful. must suffer even as I; teous, he organized his forces and The pattern is simple but not easy to “Which suffering caused myself, appointed messengers, clothed with follow. We are so easily distracted. even God, the greatest of all, to trem- power and authority, and commis- Studying the daily news can appear ble because of pain, and to bleed at sioned them to go forth and carry the more interesting than the priesthood every pore, and to suffer both body light of the gospel to them that were in lesson manual. Sitting down to rest and spirit—and would that I might not darkness, even to all the spirits of men; can be more attractive than making drink the bitter cup, and shrink— and thus was the gospel preached to appointments to visit those who need “Nevertheless, glory be to the the dead. our priesthood service. Father, and I partook and finished my “And the chosen messengers went When I find myself drawn away preparations unto the children of forth to declare the acceptable day of from my priesthood duties by other men.”10 the Lord and proclaim liberty to the interests and when my body begs for From the cross on Calvary, the captives who were bound, even unto rest, I give to myself this rallying cry: Savior announced, “It is finished.”11 all who would repent of their sins and “Remember Him.” The Lord is our per- Then His spirit left His body, and His receive the gospel.”12 fect example of diligence in priesthood mortal remains were placed lovingly Whenever we remember Him, it service. He is our captain. He called us. in a tomb. He taught us a lesson by becomes easier to resist the temptation He goes before us. He chose us to fol- what He did in three days in the spirit to want a rest from our priesthood low Him and to bring others with us. world, before His Resurrection, which labors. We must have remembered Him This evening I remember Him, and I remember whenever I am tempted today, and so we are here to learn our it stirs my heart. This is the Saturday to feel that I have finished some hard duties, determined to do what we are night before Easter Sunday, when we task in His service and deserve a rest. covenanted to do, in all diligence. And remember His Resurrection. I remem- The Savior’s example gives me because of His example we will endure ber His example in the days before. courage to press on. His labors in mor- to the end of the tasks He gives us in Out of love for His Father and tality were finished, but He entered the this life and be committed to do the will for us, He allowed Himself to suffer spirit world determined to continue of His Father forever, as He was and is. beyond the capacity of mortal man. His glorious work to save souls. He This is the Lord’s Church. He called He told us some of what that infinite organized the work of the faithful spir- us and trusted us even in the weak- sacrifice required of Him. You remem- its to rescue those who could still be nesses He knew we had. He knew the ber the words: made partakers of the mercy made trials we would face. By faithful service

62 Priesthood Session and through His Atonement, we can taught by the Holy Ghost at least part I testify that our Heavenly Father come to want what He wants and be of what the Lord had already done for and Jesus Christ live. They are resur- what we must be to bless those we this faithful priesthood holder. He was rected and glorified beings who love serve for Him. As we serve Him long clean, his sins washed away. His nature us and watch over us. The keys of the enough and with diligence, we will be had been changed to want what the priesthood were restored by heavenly changed. We can become ever more Savior wanted. He had no fear of messengers to the Prophet Joseph like Him. death. The desire of his heart was to Smith. They have been passed in an I have seen evidence of that miracle live to give service to his family and to unbroken line to President Thomas S. in the lives of His servants. I saw it a others of Heavenly Father’s children Monson. Those keys are held by each few weeks ago in the living room of a who needed him. of the living Apostles. faithful priesthood holder. I walked out into the night grateful I leave you my blessing that you I had known him as a deacon, a to have witnessed the Lord’s kindness may come to feel by the Spirit the father, a bishop, and a member of a to His unfailingly diligent priesthood magnitude of the trust and promises stake presidency. I had observed for servants. He changes their hearts to you have received as ordained priest- decades his diligence in serving God’s want what He wants and to act as He hood servants in the Lord’s true children with his priesthood. would act. Church, in the sacred name of Jesus His family was gathered around I close now with this counsel to the Christ, amen. ■ him in his living room. He was smiling, Lord’s priesthood servants. Ponder dressed in a white shirt, suit, and tie. deeply and diligently in the scriptures NOTES 1. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: I was surprised, since I was there and in the words of living prophets. Brigham Young (1997), 128. because I had been told that he was Persist in prayer for the Holy Ghost to 2. Teachings: Brigham Young, 128. in the midst of painful medical treat- reveal to you the nature of God the 3. Fulfilling My Duty to God: For Aaronic Priesthood Holders (booklet, 2010), 5. ments that had not yet cured him. Father and His Beloved Son. Plead that 4. Matthew 3:14. Yet he had greeted me as he must the Spirit will show you what the Lord 5. See Doctrine and Covenants 13. have greeted hundreds of other visi- wants you to do. Plan to do it. Promise 6. See 3 Nephi 20:3–9. 7. Doctrine and Covenants 107:3; see also tors over a lifetime of priesthood serv- Him to obey. Act with determination Alma 13:1–9. ice, smiling. I had come to help him until you have done what He asked. 8. Doctrine and Covenants 84:33–38. in the trials he faced, but as so often And then pray to give thanks for the 9. Doctrine and Covenants 107:99–100. 10. Doctrine and Covenants 19:16–19. happens in priesthood service, I was opportunity to serve and to know 11. John 19:30. helped and I learned. what you might do next. 12. Doctrine and Covenants 138:30–31. We sat and chatted pleasantly. He told me how his father had tended to my mother as she approached death. I had not known that. I realized then that he had learned as a boy from his diligent priesthood father how to give succor. That thought made me grateful for the times I had taken my little boys with me on priesthood visits to comfort and bless. After a few minutes, he asked quietly, “Would it be appropriate to ask if you could give me a blessing?” His former stake president, with whom he had served for years, anointed his head with oil consecrated by the power of the Melchizedek Priesthood. As I sealed the blessing, I was

May 2010 63 conscientious. When he was old By President Thomas S. Monson enough, he was called to serve a mission. He did so in a most honorable fashion. Young men, I admonish you to prepare for service as a missionary. There Preparation are many tools to help you learn the lessons which will be beneficial to you as well as helping you to live the life Brings Blessings you will need to have lived to be worthy. One such tool is the booklet Let us consider our callings, let us reflect on our entitled For the Strength of Youth, pub- responsibilities, and let us follow Jesus Christ. lished under the direction of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. It features standards from the writings and teachings of Church lead- rethren, you who are here in the to the Lord and to others. The music ers and from scripture, adherence to Conference Center in Salt Lake was beautiful, the recitations skillfully which will bring the blessings of our BCity are an inspiring sight to rendered, and the spirit heaven-sent. Heavenly Father and the guidance of behold. It is amazing to realize that in One of my grandsons, who was 11 His Son to each of us. In addition, there thousands of chapels throughout the years old at that time, had spoken of are lesson manuals, carefully prepared world, others of you—fellow holders the First Vision as he presented his part after prayerful consideration. Families of the priesthood of God—are receiv- on the program. Afterward, as he came have family home evenings, where ing this broadcast by way of satellite to his parents and grandparents, I said gospel principles are taught. Almost all transmission. Your nationalities vary, to him, “Tommy, I think you are almost of you have the opportunity to attend and your languages are many, but a ready to be a missionary.” seminary classes taught by dedicated common thread binds us together. He replied, “Not yet. I still have a teachers who have much to share. We have been entrusted to bear the lot to learn.” Begin to prepare for a temple mar- priesthood and to act in the name of Through the years that followed, riage as well as for a mission. Proper God. We are the recipients of a sacred Tommy did learn, thanks to his par- dating is a part of that preparation. In trust. Much is expected of us. ents and to teachers and advisers at cultures where dating is appropriate, One of my most vivid memories is church, who were dedicated and do not date until you are 16 years old. attending priesthood meeting as a “Not all teenagers need to date or newly ordained deacon and singing even want to. . . . When you begin dat- the opening hymn “Come, All Ye Sons ing, go in groups or on double dates. of God.” Tonight I echo the spirit of . . . Make sure your parents meet [and that special hymn and say to you, become acquainted with] those you “Come, all ye sons of God who have date.” Because dating is a preparation received the priesthood.”1 Let us con- for marriage, “date only those who sider our callings, let us reflect on our have high standards.”2 responsibilities, and let us follow Jesus Be careful to go to places where Christ, our Lord. there is a good environment, where Twenty years ago I attended a sacra- you won’t be faced with temptation. ment meeting where the children A wise father said to his son, “If you responded to the theme “I Belong to ever find yourself in a place where you The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day shouldn’t ought to be, get out!” Good Saints.” These boys and girls demon- advice for all of us. strated they were in training for service Servants of the Lord have always

64 Priesthood Session counseled us to dress appropriately to show respect for our Heavenly Father and for ourselves. The way you dress sends messages about yourself to others and often influences the way you and others act. Dress in such a way as to bring out the best in yourself and those around you. Avoid extremes in clothing and appearance, including tattoos and piercings. Everyone needs good friends. Your circle of friends will greatly influence your thinking and behavior, just as you will theirs. When you share common values with your friends, you can strengthen and encourage each other. Treat everyone with kindness and dignity. Many nonmembers have come into the Church through friends who have involved them in Church activities. The oft-repeated adage is ever true: “Honesty [is] the best policy.”3 A Latter-day Saint young man lives as he teaches and as he believes. He is honest with others. He is honest with himself. He is honest with God. He is honest by habit and as a matter of course. When a difficult decision must from his feet; and then, with toes that build and uplift those around you. be made, he never asks himself, “What he had trained and had prepared with Profane, vulgar, or crude language and will others think?” but rather, “What glycerin, he skillfully turned the pages inappropriate or off-color jokes are will I think of myself?” of one of the books which he had offensive to the Lord. Never misuse For some, there will come the temp- placed on the floor, thereby viewing the the name of God or Jesus Christ. The tation to dishonor a personal standard answers to the examination questions. Lord said, “Thou shalt not take the of honesty. In a business law class at He received one of the highest name of the Lord thy God in vain.”4 the university I attended, I remember grades in that course on business law. Our Heavenly Father has counseled that one particular classmate never But the day of reckoning came. Later, us to seek after “anything virtuous, prepared for the class discussions. I as he prepared to take his comprehen- lovely, or of good report or praise- thought to myself, “How is he going sive exam, for the first time the dean of worthy.”5 Whatever you read, listen to, to pass the final examination?” his particular discipline said, “This year or watch makes an impression on you. I discovered the answer when he I will depart from tradition and will con- Pornography is especially danger- came to the classroom for the final duct an oral, rather than a written, ous and addictive. Curious exploration exam on a winter’s day wearing on his test.” Our favorite trained-toe expert of pornography can become a control- bare feet only a pair of sandals. I was found that he had his foot in his mouth ling habit, leading to coarser material surprised and watched him as the class on that occasion and failed the exam. and to sexual transgression. Avoid began. All of our books had been How you speak and the words you pornography at all costs. placed upon the floor, as per the use tell much about the image you Don’t be afraid to walk out of a instruction. He slipped the sandals choose to portray. Use language to movie, turn off a television set, or

May 2010 65 echo in truth the line from Tennyson spoken by Sir Galahad: “My strength is as the strength of ten, because my heart is pure.”7 Not long ago the author of a paper on teenage sexuality summed up his research by saying that society sends teens a mixed message: advertise- ments and the mass media convey “very heavy messages that sexual activity is acceptable and expected,” inducements that sometimes drown out the warnings of experts and the pleas of parents. The Lord cuts through all the media messages with clear and precise language when He declares to us, “Be ye clean.”8 Whenever temptation comes, remember the wise counsel of the Apostle Paul, who declared, “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will change a radio station if what’s being your Heavenly Father. It can be used with the temptation also make a way to presented does not meet your to educate, edify, inspire, and unite. escape, that ye may be able to bear it.”9 Heavenly Father’s standards. In However, music can, by its tempo, beat, When you were confirmed a mem- short, if you have any question about intensity, and lyrics, dull your spiritual ber of the Church, you received the whether a particular movie, book, or sensitivity. You cannot afford to fill your right to the companionship of the other form of entertainment is appro- minds with unworthy music. Holy Ghost. He can help you make priate, don’t see it, don’t read it, don’t Because sexual intimacy is so good choices. When challenged or participate. sacred, the Lord requires self-control tempted, you do not need to feel The Apostle Paul declared: “Know and purity before marriage as well as alone. Remember that prayer is the ye not that ye are the temple of God, full fidelity after marriage. In dating, passport to spiritual power. and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in treat your date with respect and If any has stumbled in his journey, you? . . . The temple of God is holy, expect your date to show that same there is a way back. The process is which temple ye are.”6 Brethren, it is respect for you. Tears inevitably follow called repentance. Our Savior died to our responsibility to keep our temples transgression. provide you and me that blessed gift. clean and pure. President David O. McKay, ninth Though the path is difficult, the prom- Hard drugs, wrongful use of pre- President of the Church, advised, “I ise is real: “Though your sins be as scription drugs, alcohol, coffee, tea, implore you to think clean thoughts.” scarlet, they shall be as white as and tobacco products destroy your He then made this significant declara- snow.”10 physical, mental, and spiritual well- tion of truth: “Every action is preceded Don’t put your eternal life at risk. being. Any form of alcohol is harmful by a thought. If we want to control our Keep the commandments of God. If to your spirit and your body. Tobacco actions, we must control our think- you have sinned, the sooner you begin can enslave you, weaken your lungs, ing.” Brethren, fill your minds with to make your way back, the sooner you and shorten your life. good thoughts, and your actions will will find the sweet peace and joy that Music can help you draw closer to be proper. May each of you be able to come with the miracle of forgiveness.

66 Priesthood Session Happiness comes from living the way bear your testimony to them.” mission, for we, with you, would like the Lord wants you to live and from He asked, “Will they then write to become a forever family by entering service to God and others. to me?” the temple of the Lord.’ ” This young Spiritual strength frequently comes I responded, “Then they will write missionary asked, “Brother Monson, through selfless service. Some years to you.” does Heavenly Father always answer ago I visited what was then called the We parted and I went on my way. prayers and fulfill Apostles’ promises?” California Mission, where I inter- Months later I was attending a stake I replied, “When one has faith as viewed a young missionary from conference in Southern California you have demonstrated, our Heavenly Georgia. I recall saying to him, “Do when a young missionary came up Father hears such prayers and answers you send a letter home to your par- to me and said, “Brother Monson, do in His own way.” ents every week?” you remember me? I’m the missionary Clean hands, a pure heart, and a He replied, “Yes, Brother Monson.” who had not received a letter from my willing mind had touched heaven. A Then I asked, “Do you enjoy receiv- mother or my father during my first blessing, heaven-sent, had answered ing letters from home?” nine months in the mission field. You the fervent prayer of a missionary’s He didn’t answer. At length I told me, ‘Send a letter home every humble heart. inquired, “When was the last time week, Elder, and your parents will Brethren, it is my prayer that we you had a letter from home?” write to you.’ ” Then he asked, “Do may so live that we too may touch With a quavering voice, he you remember that promise, Elder heaven and be similarly blessed, each responded, “I’ve never had a letter Monson?” and every one, in the name of the from home. Father’s just a deacon, I remembered. I inquired, “Have Giver of all blessings, even Jesus and Mother’s not a member of the you heard from your parents?” Christ, amen. ■ Church. They pleaded with me not to He reached into his pocket and come. They said that if I left on a mis- took out a sheaf of letters with an elas- NOTES 1. “Come, All Ye Sons of God,” Hymns, no. sion, they would not be writing to me. tic band around them, took a letter 322. What shall I do, Brother Monson?” from the top of the stack, and said, 2. For the Strength of Youth (booklet, 2001), I offered a silent prayer to my “Have I heard from my parents! Listen 24, 25. 3. Miguel de Cervantes, in John Bartlett, Heavenly Father: “What should I tell to this letter from my mother: ‘Son, comp., Familiar Quotations, 14th ed. this young servant of Thine, who has we so much enjoy your letters. We’re (1968), 197. sacrificed everything to serve Thee?” proud of you, our missionary. Guess 4. Exodus 20:7. 5. Articles of Faith 1:13. And the inspiration came. I said, “Elder, what? Dad has been ordained a priest. 6. 1 Corinthians 3:16–17. you send a letter home to your mother He’s preparing to baptize me. I’m 7. Alfred Lord Tennyson, in Familiar and father every week of your mission. meeting with the missionaries; and Quotations, 647. 8. Doctrine and Covenants 38:42. Tell them what you are doing. Tell them one year from now we want to come 9. 1 Corinthians 10:13. how much you love them and then to California as you complete your 10. Isaiah 1:18.

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gratitude and happiness. You are a shining light to the world, and you are By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf known for your goodness and com- Second Counselor in the First Presidency passion all around the globe. Unfortunately, from time to time we also hear of Church members who become discouraged and subsequently quit coming to and participat- “You Are My Hands” ing in our Church meetings because they think they don’t fit in. As disciples of Jesus Christ, our Master, we are called to When I was a young boy, during the support and heal rather than condemn. aftermath of World War II, Germany was broken and in ruins. Many people were hungry, sick, and dying. I remember well the humanitarian shipments of story is told that during the mortal life; it is what He would be food and clothing that came from the bombing of a city in World doing if He were living among us today; Church in Salt Lake City. To this day, I A War II, a large statue of Jesus and it is what we should be doing as His can still remember the smell of the Christ was severely damaged. When disciples and members of The Church clothing, and I can still taste the sweet- the townspeople found the statue of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. ness of the canned peaches. among the rubble, they mourned On this beautiful Easter morning, There were some who joined the because it had been a beloved symbol our thoughts and hearts are drawn to Church because of the goods they of their faith and of God’s presence in Him—the Hope of Israel and the Light received at that time. Some members their lives. of the World. looked down on these new converts. Experts were able to repair most As we emulate His perfect example, They even called them an offensive of the statue, but its hands had been our hands can become His hands; our name: Büchsen Mormonen, or damaged so severely that they could eyes, His eyes; our heart, His heart. “Canned-Food Mormons.” They not be restored. Some suggested that resented these new members because they hire a sculptor to make new Our Hands Can Embrace they believed that once their temporal hands, but others wanted to leave it as I am deeply impressed by the way needs had been met, they would it was—a permanent reminder of the our Church members extend them- fall away. tragedy of war. Ultimately, the statue selves to others. As we hear of your While some did leave, many remained without hands. However, selfless sacrifice and overwhelming stayed—they came to church, tasted the people of the city added on the compassion, our hearts swell with the sweetness of the gospel, and felt base of the statue of Jesus Christ a sign the tender embrace of caring brothers with these words: “You are my hands.” and sisters. They discovered “home.” And now, three and four generations We Are the Hands of Christ later, many families trace their Church There is a profound lesson in this membership back to these converts. story. When I think of the Savior, I I hope that we welcome and love often picture Him with hands out- all of God’s children, including those stretched, reaching out to comfort, who might dress, look, speak, or just heal, bless, and love. And He always do things differently. It is not good to talked with, never down to, people. He make others feel as though they are loved the humble and the meek and deficient. Let us lift those around us. walked among them, ministering to Let us extend a welcoming hand. Let them and offering hope and salvation. us bestow upon our brothers and sis- That is what He did during His ters in the Church a special measure

68 Sunday Morning Session of humanity, compassion, and charity so that they feel, at long last, they have finally found home. When we are tempted to judge, let us think of the Savior, who “loveth the world, even that he layeth down his own life that he may draw all men unto him. . . . “[And] he saith: Come unto me all ye ends of the earth, . . . [for] all men are privileged the one like unto the other, and none are forbidden.”1 As I read the scriptures, it appears that those who receive the Savior’s strongest reproach are often those who hold themselves in high esteem because of their wealth, influence, or perceived righteousness. On one occasion the Savior taught a parable of two men who went into the temple to pray. One man, a respected Pharisee, prayed: “God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulter- ers, or even as this publican. I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess.” The other man, a hated publican, life or in the world. Nevertheless, in look like much and even though I stood “afar off, [and] would not lift up our zeal, we sometimes confuse sin have been battered and used, I am so much as his eyes unto heaven, but with sinner, and we condemn too still worth the full 20 dollars.” smote upon his breast, saying, God be quickly and with too little compas- merciful to me a sinner.” sion. We know from modern revela- Our Hands Can Comfort And Jesus said, “I tell you, this man tion that “the worth of souls is great With this in mind, let our hearts and went down to his house justified in the sight of God.”4 We cannot hands be stretched out in compassion rather than the other.”2 gauge the worth of another soul any toward others, for everyone is walking In truth, we “all have sinned, and more than we can measure the span his or her own difficult path. As disci- come short of the glory of God.”3 We of the universe. Every person we meet ples of Jesus Christ, our Master, we are are all in need of mercy. In that last day is a VIP to our Heavenly Father. Once called to support and heal rather than when we are called to the judgment we understand that, we can begin to condemn. We are commanded “to bar of God, do we not hope that our understand how we should treat our mourn with those that mourn” and many imperfections will be forgiven? fellowmen. “comfort those that stand in need of Do we not yearn to feel the Savior’s One woman who had been through comfort.”5 embrace? years of trial and sorrow said through It is unworthy of us as Christians to It seems only right and proper that her tears, “I have come to realize that I think that those who suffer deserve we extend to others that which we so am like an old 20-dollar bill—crumpled, their suffering. Easter Sunday is a good earnestly desire for ourselves. torn, dirty, abused, and scarred. But I day to remember that our Savior will- I am not suggesting that we accept am still a 20-dollar bill. I am worth ingly took upon Himself the pain and sin or overlook evil, in our personal something. Even though I may not sickness and suffering of us all—even

May 2010 69 right that Abram, who had a wife and brass, or a tinkling cymbal.”11 seven sons to feed, should receive Christ did not just speak about only half of the harvest, while he, love; He showed it each day of His life. with only himself to support, had He did not remove Himself from the so much. crowd. Being amidst the people, Jesus So Zimri dressed and quietly went reached out to the one. He rescued into the field, where he took a third of the lost. He didn’t just teach a class his harvest and put it in his brother’s about reaching out in love and then pile. He then returned to his bed, delegate the actual work to others. satisfied that he had done the right He not only taught but also showed thing. us how to “succor the weak, lift up Meanwhile, Abram could not the hands which hang down, and sleep either. He thought of his poor strengthen the feeble knees.”12 brother, Zimri, who was all alone and Christ knows how to minister to had no sons to help him with the others perfectly. When the Savior work. It did not seem right that stretches out His hands, those He Zimri, who worked so hard by him- touches are uplifted and become self, should get only half of the har- greater, stronger, and better people vest. Surely this was not pleasing to as a result. God. And so Abram quietly went to If we are His hands, should we not the fields, where he took a third of do the same? his harvest and placed it in the pile of his beloved brother. We Can Love as He Does The next morning, the brothers The Savior revealed the perfect went to the field and were both priorities for our lives, our homes, astonished that the piles still looked our wards, our communities, and our to be the same size. That night both nations when He spoke of love as the brothers slipped out of their houses great commandment upon which to repeat their efforts of the previous “hang all the law and the prophets.”13 night. But this time they discovered We can spend our days obsessing each other, and when they did, they about the finest details of life, the law, those of us who appear to deserve our wept and embraced. Neither could and long lists of things to do; but suffering.6 speak, for their hearts were over- should we neglect the great com- In the book of Proverbs we read come with love and gratitude.8 mandments, we are missing the point that “a friend loveth at all times, and a This is the spirit of compassion: and we are clouds without water, brother is born for adversity.”7 Let us that we love others as ourselves,9 drifting in the winds, and trees with- love at all times. And let us especially seek their happiness, and do unto out fruit.14 be there for our brothers and sisters them as we hope they would do Without this love for God the during times of adversity. unto us.10 Father and our fellowmen we are only the form of His Church—without Our Hands Can Serve True Love Requires Action the substance. What good is our An old Jewish legend tells of two True love requires action. We can teaching without love? What good is brothers, Abram and Zimri, who speak of love all day long—we can missionary, temple, or welfare work owned a field and worked it together. write notes or poems that proclaim it, without love? They agreed to divide both the labor sing songs that praise it, and preach Love is what inspired our Heavenly and the harvest equally. One night as sermons that encourage it—but until Father to create our spirits; it is what the harvest came to a close, Zimri we manifest that love in action, our led our Savior to the Garden of could not sleep, for it didn’t seem words are nothing but “sounding Gethsemane to make Himself a

70 Sunday Morning Session May 2010 71 General Authorities of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

THE FIRST PRESIDENCY April 2010

Henry B. Eyring Thomas S. Monson Dieter F. Uchtdorf First Counselor President Second Counselor THE QUORUM OF THE TWELVE APOSTLES

Boyd K. Packer L. Tom Perry Russell M. Nelson Dallin H. Oaks M. Russell Ballard Richard G. Scott

Robert D. Hales Jeffrey R. Holland David A. Bednar Quentin L. Cook D. Todd Christofferson Neil L. Andersen

THE PRESIDENCY OF THE SEVENTY

Ronald A. Rasband Claudio R. M. Costa Steven E. Snow Walter F. González L. Whitney Clayton Jay E. Jensen Donald L. Hallstrom

THE FIRST QUORUM OF THE SEVENTY THE SECOND QUORUM OF THE SEVENTY THE FIRST QUORUM OF THE SEVENTY THE SECOND QUORUM OF THE SEVENTY (in alphabetical order) (in alphabetical order)

Marcos A. Aidukaitis Carlos H. Amado Mervyn B. Arnold David S. Baxter Shayne M. Bowen Gérald Caussé Yoon Hwan Choi Craig C. Christensen Gary J. Coleman Spencer J. Condie Wilford W. Andersen Koichi Aoyagi Tad R. Callister Craig A. Cardon

Lawrence E. Corbridge Benjamín De Hoyos John B. Dickson Kevin R. Duncan David F. Evans Enrique R. Falabella Eduardo Gavarret Carlos A. Godoy Christoffel Golden Jr. Gerrit W. Gong Bruce A. Carlson Don R. Clarke Keith R. Edwards Stanley G. Ellis

C. Scott Grow Bruce C. Hafen James J. Hamula Keith K. Hilbig Richard G. Hinckley Marlin K. Jensen Daniel L. Johnson Kenneth Johnson Paul V. Johnson Patrick Kearon Bradley D. Foster Larry W. Gibbons Spencer V. Jones Won Yong Ko

Yoshihiko Kikuchi Paul E. Koelliker Erich W. Kopischke Richard J. Maynes Marcus B. Nash Brent H. Nielson Glenn L. Pace Allan F. Packer Kevin W. Pearson Anthony D. Perkins Larry R. Lawrence Per G. Malm James B. Martino Jairo Mazzagardi

Paul B. Pieper Rafael E. Pino Bruce D. Porter Carl B. Pratt Dale G. Renlund Michael T. Ringwood Lynn G. Robbins Cecil O. Joseph W. Sitati Ulisses Soares Wolfgang H. Paul Kent F. Richards Gregory A. Schwitzer Lowell M. Snow Samuelson Jr.

Gary E. Stevenson Michael John U. Teh José A. Teixeira Octaviano Tenorio Juan A. Uceda Francisco J. Viñas William R. Walker F. Michael Watson Lance B. Wickman Jorge F. Zeballos Paul K. Sybrowsky Kent D. Watson THE PRESIDING BISHOPRIC

Claudio D. Zivic W. Craig Zwick

Richard C. Edgley H. David Burton Keith B. McMullin First Counselor Presiding Bishop Second Counselor Church members gather throughout the world for the 180th Annual General Conference. Pictured clockwise from top left are Latter-day Saints in Navotas, Philippines; Carcassonne, France; Formosa, Argentina; São Paulo, Brazil; São Paulo, Brazil; Santiago, Chile; and Prague, Czech Republic.

74 Sunday Morning Session ransom for our sins. Love is the grand By Elder Richard G. Scott motive of the plan of salvation; it is Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles the source of happiness, the ever- renewing spring of healing, the precious fountain of hope. As we extend our hands and hearts toward others in Christlike love, He Lives! All Glory something wonderful happens to us. Our own spirits become healed, more refined, and stronger. We become to His Name! happier, more peaceful, and more receptive to the whisperings of the Our understanding of and faith in the Atonement Holy Spirit. of Jesus Christ will provide strength and capacity needed With all my heart and soul I give for a successful life. thanks to our Heavenly Father for His love for us, for the gift of His Son, for the life and example of Jesus the Christ, and for His sinless and selfless sacrifice. I rejoice in the t is Easter morning, that holy beloved Savior. It is a season that fact that Christ is not dead but risen day designated throughout all should bring peace and joy to all from the grave! He lives and has IChristendom to commemorate the who love Him and show it by obeying returned to the earth to restore victory of Jesus Christ over death. His His commandments. Easter brings His authority and gospel to man. Resurrection broke what to that point thoughts of Jesus, His life, His He has given us the perfect example had been the unyielding chains of Atonement, His Resurrection, His love. of the kind of men and women we death. He opened the path whereby He has risen from the dead “with heal- should be. each of Heavenly Father’s children ing in his wings” (Malachi 4:2; 3 Nephi On this Easter Sunday, and every born to earth would have the opportu- 25:2). Oh, how we all need that heal- day, as we contemplate with reverence nity to rise from death to live again. ing the Redeemer can provide. Mine is and awe how our Savior embraces How our Father in Heaven must a message of hope based on principles us, comforts us, and heals us, let us have rejoiced that sacred day when embodied in the teachings of the commit to become His hands, that His totally obedient, completely wor- Master Teacher, Jesus Christ. others through us may feel His loving thy Son shattered the chains of death. Members of The Church of Jesus embrace. In the name of Jesus Christ, What eternal purpose would our Christ of Latter-day Saints can under- amen. ■ Father’s plan of happiness have had stand more fully the breadth and except it be made alive through the depth of healing provided by His NOTES infinite and eternal Atonement of His Atonement because we have the ful- 1. 2 Nephi 26:24–25, 28; emphasis added. gloriously obedient Son? What eternal ness of His doctrine. We realize that 2. See Luke 18:9–14. 3. Romans 3:23. purpose would have come from the what He has willingly done with 4. Doctrine and Covenants 18:10. Creation of the earth, where intelli- immense suffering and sacrifice will 5. Mosiah 18:9. gences tabernacled with spirits would affect us not only in this life but 6. See Alma 7:11–13; Doctrine and Covenants 19:16. receive a body, if death were the end throughout all eternity. 7. Proverbs 17:17. of existence and none would be resur- This Easter, as you remember the 8. See Clarence Cook, “Abram and Zimri,” in rected? What a glorious moment that Resurrection and the price paid and the Poems by Clarence Cook (1902), 6–9. 9. See Matthew 22:39. morning was for all who understood gift given through the Atonement, pon- 10. See Matthew 7:12. its significance. der what the scriptures teach of those 11. 1 Corinthians 13:1. Easter is that sacred season when sacred events. Your personal witness of 12. Doctrine and Covenants 81:5. 13. Matthew 22:40. the heart of each devout Christian their reality will be strengthened. They 14. See Jude 1:12. turns in humble gratitude to our must be more than principles you

May 2010 75 law, we receive a blessing. When we break a law, there is nothing left over from prior obedience to satisfy the demands of justice for that broken law. The Savior’s Atonement permits us to repent of any disobedience and thereby avoid the penalties that justice would have imposed. My reverence and gratitude for the Atonement of the Holy One of Israel, the Prince of Peace and our Redeemer, continually expand as I strive to understand more about it. I realize that no mortal mind can adequately conceive, nor can human tongue appropriately express, the full significance of all that Jesus Christ has done for our Heavenly Father’s children through His Atonement. Yet it is vital that we each learn what we can about it. The Atonement is that essential ingredient of our Father in Heaven’s plan of happiness without which that plan could not have been activated. Your understanding of the Atonement and the insight it provides for your life will greatly enhance your productive use memorize. They must be woven into to communicate love that is so power- of all of the knowledge, experience, the very fiber of your being as a powerful, so overwhelming as to surpass and skills you acquire in mortal life. ful bulwark against the rising tide of the capacity of the human tongue I believe that it is instructive to abomination that infects our world. to express adequately. He gave His try to imagine what the Atonement The prophet Lehi declared a life to break the bonds of death. His required of both the Father and His profound truth when he stated: Atonement made fully active the plan willing Son. Three of the challenges “Wherefore, redemption cometh in of happiness of His Father in Heaven. the Savior faced were: and through the Holy Messiah; for he Jesus administers the balance First, an enormous sense of respon- is full of grace and truth. Behold, he between justice and mercy condi- sibility, for He realized that except it be offereth himself a sacrifice for sin, to tioned upon our obedience to His done perfectly, not one of His Father’s answer the ends of the law, unto all gospel. He is the light for all mankind. children could return to Him. They those who have a broken heart and He is the fountain of all truth. He ful- would be forever banished from His a contrite spirit; and unto none else fills all of His promises. All who obey presence since there would be no can the ends of the law be answered” His commandments will earn the most way to repent for broken laws and no (2 Nephi 2:6–7). That scripture indi- glorious blessings imaginable. unclean thing can exist in the pres- cates that for the proud and haughty, Without the Atonement, Father in ence of God. His Father’s plan would it is as though there never were an Heaven’s plan of happiness could not have failed, and each spirit child would Atonement made. have been placed fully into effect. The have been under the eternal control Jesus Christ lives. He is our Savior, Atonement gives all the opportunity and torment of Satan. our Redeemer. He is a glorious, to overcome the consequences of Second, in His absolutely resurrected being. He has the capacity mistakes made in life. When we obey a pure mind and heart, He had to

76 Sunday Morning Session personally feel the consequences of all that mankind would ever encounter, even the most depraved, despicable sins. Third, He had to endure the vicious attack of Satan’s hordes while physi- cally and emotionally pressed to the limit. Then, for reasons we do not fully know, while at the extremity of His capacity, at the time the Savior most needed succor, His Father allowed Him to shoulder the onerous responsibility with only His own strength and capacity. I try to imagine what an intensely poignant moment it must have been for our Father in Heaven when the Savior cried out from the cross, “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46; Mark 15:34). I don’t believe Father in Heaven forsook His Son on the cross. I do believe the cry was motivated when that Son felt removed the sustaining support He had always enjoyed from His Father. His Father recognized that the Savior needed to accomplish the Atonement totally strength and capacity needed for a the sanctity of our homes. As we do and completely on His own, without successful life. It will also bring confi- that, we will provide the greatest external support. The Father did not dence in times of trial and peace in opportunity for happiness for the abandon His Son. He made it possi- moments of turmoil. spirits entrusted to our care. Use ble for His perfect Son to win the I energetically encourage you to the Church as a righteous tool to eternal fruits of the Atonement. establish a personal study plan to bet- strengthen the home, but recognize None of us can ever adequately ter understand and appreciate the that as parents we have the funda- appreciate in mortality the full benefi- incomparable, eternal, infinite conse- mental responsibility and privilege to cial consequences of the Atonement. quences of Jesus Christ’s perfect fulfill- be guided by the Lord in the upbring- There is an imperative need for ment of His divinely appointed calling ing of the spirit children He has each of us to strengthen our under- as our Savior and Redeemer. Profound entrusted to our care. standing of the significance of the personal pondering of the scriptures The vital importance of teaching Atonement of Jesus Christ so that it accompanied by searching, heartfelt truth in the home is fundamental. will become an unshakable foundation prayer will fortify your understanding The Church is important, but it is upon which to build our lives. As the of and appreciation for His priceless in the home where parents provide world becomes more devoid of foun- Atonement. Another powerful way the required understanding and direc- dational standards and as honor, to learn of Jesus Christ and His tion for children. It is truly said that virtue, and purity are increasingly cast Atonement is through consistent the most important callings in time aside in the pursuit of appetite, our temple attendance. and eternity are those of father and understanding of and faith in the May each of us renew our determi- mother. In time we will be released Atonement of Jesus Christ will provide nation to teach true principles within from all other assignments we receive

May 2010 77 but not from that of father and mother. By Elder Donald L. Hallstrom As you ponder—not just read but Of the Presidency of the Seventy ponder and meditate—on scriptural passages, the power of the Holy Ghost will distill truths in your mind and heart as a secure foundation in this uncertain time in which we live. Turn to the Lord As parents, prepare your children for the challenges they will encounter. Never let an earthly circumstance disable you spiritually. Teach them truth, encourage them to live it, and they will be all right no matter how severely the world is shaken. any years ago, I observed a labour and are heavy laden, and I will This Easter, resolve to make the heartbreak—which became give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). He fur- Lord Jesus Christ the living center of Ma tragedy. A young couple ther promises, “My peace I give unto your home. Be sure that every deci- was nearing the delivery of their first you: not as the world giveth, give I sion you make, whether it be of a spiri- child. Their lives were filled with the unto you” (John 14:27). tual or physical nature, be guided by anticipation and excitement of this My paternal grandparents had two the thought “What would the Lord monumental experience. During the children, a son (my father) and a Jesus Christ have me do?” When the delivery, complications arose and the daughter. After serving a mission and Savior is the center of your home, it is baby died. Heartbreak turned to grief, military service in Hawaii, my father filled with peace and serenity. There grief turned to anger, anger turned to returned to the islands in 1946 to is a spirit of calm assurance that per- blame, and blame turned to revenge establish himself professionally and vades the home that is felt by the chil- toward the doctor, whom they held raise his family. His parents lived in dren and adults alike. fully responsible. Parents and other Salt Lake City, as did his sister. She The best way to make a permanent family members became heavily married in 1946 and four years later change for good is to make Jesus involved, together seeking to ruin the was expecting a child. There is some- Christ your model and His teachings reputation and the career of the physi- thing very special for parents to antici- your guide for life. cian. As weeks and then months of pate a daughter (in this instance an Should you have been disobedient acrimony consumed the family, their only daughter) giving birth for the first to His commandments and feel bitterness was extended to the Lord. time. No one knew that she was carry- unworthy, recognize that this is why “How could He allow this horrible ing twins. Sadly, she and the twins all the Lord, Jesus the Christ, laid down thing to occur?” They rejected the died during childbirth. His life. Through His Atonement He repeated efforts of Church leaders and My grandparents were heartbroken. has opened forever the opportunity to members to spiritually and emotion- Their grief, however, immediately overcome such mistakes, to repent of ally comfort them and, in time, disas- turned them to the Lord and His improper choices, and to conquer the sociated themselves from the Church. Atonement. Without dwelling on why negative effects of a life contrary to His Four generations of the family have this could happen and who might be teachings. now been affected. Where once there to blame, they focused on living a The Savior loves each of us and will were faith and devotion to the Lord righteous life. My grandparents never make it possible for our every need to and His Church, there has been no had wealth; they were never among be satisfied as we qualify by obedience spiritual activity by any family member the socially elite; they never held high for all of the blessings He wants us to for decades. position in the Church—they were have on this earth. I love and adore In the most difficult circumstances simply devoted Latter-day Saints. Him. As His authorized servant I of life, there is often only one source After retiring professionally in 1956, solemnly testify with every capacity of of peace. The Prince of Peace, Jesus they moved to Hawaii to be with their my being that He lives, in the name of Christ, extends His grace with the only posterity. The ensuing decades Jesus Christ, amen. ■ invitation “Come unto me, all ye that found them loving their family, serving

78 Sunday Morning Session in the Church, and mostly, they just The faithfulness of Grandpa Art and childbirth, leaving 4 children, 10 days enjoyed being together. They never Grandma Lou, especially when faced to 8 years old. With the example that liked being apart and even spoke of with difficulty, has now influenced they had seen in the previous genera- whoever died first finding a way to four generations that have followed. tion, my parents—without hesitation help them reunite soon. Nearing their Directly and profoundly, it affected —turned to the Lord for solace. 90th birthdays and after 65 years of their son (my father) and my mother Throughout the world and among marriage, they passed away within when my parents’ own daughter, their the membership of the Church, there hours of each other by natural causes. youngest child, died due to complica- is great joy and great pain. Both are As their bishop, I conducted their tions caused by giving birth. At 34 years part of the plan. Without one, we can- double funeral. of age, she passed away 10 days after not know the other. “Men are, that they might have joy” (2 Nephi 2:25) and “for it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things” (2 Nephi 2:11) are not contradictory; they are complementary. In describing how he felt when he turned to the Lord, Alma the Younger said, “My soul was filled with joy as exceeding as was my pain” (Alma 36:20). Some are overcome by major problems; others let small matters become big. Symonds Ryder was a Campbellite leader who heard about the Church and had a meeting with Joseph Smith. Moved by this experience, he joined the Church in June 1831. Immediately thereafter, he was ordained an elder and called to serve a mission. However, in his call letter from the First Presi- dency and on his official commission to preach, his name was misspelled—by one letter. His last name showed as R-i-d-e-r, not the correct R-y-d-e-r. This caused him to question his call and those from whom it came. He chose not to go on the mission and fell away, which soon led to hatred and intense opposition toward Joseph and the Church. In March 1832, when Joseph Smith and Sidney Rigdon were ripped from home during the night by an angry mob and tarred and feathered, a voice was heard to shout, “Simonds, Simonds [sic], where’s the tar bucket?” (History of the Church, 1:262–63). In less than 10 months, Symonds Ryder went from an eager convert to a mob leader, his spiritual decline starting with

May 2010 79 the offense taken over the misspelling and . . . fear not what man can do, for in Him. Let Him share your burden. of his name—by one letter. No matter God shall be with you forever and Allow His grace to lighten your load. the size of the issue, how we respond ever” (verse 9). We are promised that we will “suffer can reset the course of our life. Over the ensuing years, Joseph no manner of afflictions, save it were The Prophet Joseph Smith pro- Smith continued to righteously endure swallowed up in the joy of Christ” vided a model in handling personal a life full of adversity. He offered this (Alma 31:38). Never let an earthly cir- tragedy and opposition. Revealed to faith-filled perspective: “And as for cumstance disable you spiritually. him while in the inhumane surround- the perils which I am called to pass His most exemplary act, the ings of the Liberty Jail was this divine through, they seem but a small thing to Atonement, required Jesus to descend direction (which, in part, was a me. . . . Deep water is what I am wont “below all things” (D&C 88:6) and suf- description of Joseph’s life to that to swim in. . . . I . . . glory in tribulation; fer “the pains of all men” (2 Nephi point and also a forewarning): If “fools for . . . God . . . [has] delivered me out 9:21). Thus we understand the shall have thee in derision, . . . if thou of them all, and will deliver me from Atonement has broader purpose than art called to pass through tribulation; henceforth” (D&C 127:2). Joseph’s providing a means to overcome sin. . . . if thine enemies fall upon thee; . . . confidence in overcoming constant This greatest of all earthly accomplish- if thou shouldst be cast into the pit, or opposition was based on his ability ments gives the Savior the power to into the hands of murderers, . . . and to continually turn to the Lord. fulfill this promise: “If ye will turn to all the elements combine to hedge up If you feel you have been the Lord with full purpose of heart, the way; and above all, if the very jaws wronged—by anyone (a family mem- and put your trust in him, and serve of hell shall gape open the mouth ber, a friend, another member of the him with all diligence ..., if ye do this, wide after thee, know thou, my son, Church, a Church leader, a business he will . . . deliver you out of bondage” that all these things shall give thee associate) or by anything (the death of (Mosiah 7:33). experience, and shall be for thy good” a loved one, health problems, a finan- As we commemorate this Easter (D&C 122:1, 5–7). Then the profound cial reversal, abuse, addictions)—deal morning, let us turn to the Lord, our statement: “The Son of Man hath with the matter directly and with all “bright and morning star” (Revelation descended below them all. Art thou the strength you have. “Hold on thy 22:16). I testify He will forever light greater than he?” (verse 8). This is fol- way” (D&C 122:9); giving up is not an our way, our truth, and our life (see lowed by clear direction and great option. And, without delay, turn to the John 14:6), in the name of Jesus promises. “Therefore, hold on thy way, Lord. Exercise all of the faith you have Christ, amen. ■

80 Sunday Morning Session By Cheryl C. Lant people, taught them, and blessed Recently Released Primary General President them. And then “it came to pass that he commanded that their little children should be brought” (3 Nephi 17:11). It is our sacred responsibility as parents and leaders of this rising genera- That Our Children tion of children to bring them to the Savior so that they might see His face and the face of our Father in Heaven Might See the Face as well. As we do so, we also bring ourselves. Again the question, how do we do of the Savior this, especially in a world that is full of distractions? In 3 Nephi, the parents It is our sacred responsibility as parents and leaders of this loved the Lord. They were believers. rising generation of children to bring them to the Savior. They had faith in the miracles Jesus performed. They loved their children. They gathered them to hear the words of the Lord and obeyed His command- everal years ago I was teaching a asked us to do. Coming to Christ, and ment to bring the children to Him. group of nursery leaders how to eventually seeing His face, comes only After the children had been Sgive a short gospel lesson to very as we draw close to Him through brought, Christ bid the parents kneel young children. One of the leaders had our faith and our actions. It comes down. Then He did for them that her young son on her lap. I held a pic- through a lifetime of effort. So how do which He has done for all of us. He ture of the Savior in my hand and, we seek Him in this life so that we prayed for them to the Father, and as demonstrating how to speak to young might see His face in the next? He did, His prayer was said to be “so children, began talking about Jesus. We have the account in 3 Nephi of great and marvelous” that words could The tiny boy slid off his mother’s lap, a people who actually saw the face of not describe it (3 Nephi 17:16). By toddled over to me, looked intently at the Savior in this life. And while we may coming to the Savior and accepting the picture, and touched the face. At not see Him now, perhaps we can His Atonement, these parents were that point in the dialogue, I asked the learn from their experience. After the strengthened to do all that was neces- question, “Who is this?” With a smile on Savior’s death, He appeared to these sary to “bring” their children. his face, the child responded, “Jesus.” Another of the things Christ asked This child was not old enough to these parents to do is found in really even say his own name, but he 3 Nephi 22:13: “All thy children shall recognized the image and knew the be taught of the Lord; and great shall name of the Savior. As I watched this be the peace of thy children.” sweet response, I thought of the words And so, following their own experi- of the Savior when He said, “Seek the ences with the Savior, these Nephite face of the Lord always, that in patience parents taught their children about ye may possess your souls, and ye shall Him. They taught them to love the have eternal life” (D&C 101:38). Lord. They taught them His gospel. What does it mean to seek the face They taught them how to live it. They of the Savior? Surely it means more taught them so well that there was than just recognizing His picture. righteousness and peace in the land Christ’s invitation to seek Him is an for 200 years (see 4 Nephi 1:1–22). invitation to know who He is, what Now, I would ask you to look He has done for us, and what He has around you at those you love. This is

May 2010 81 teaching them the truths of the gospel from the scriptures and the prophets and by helping them to feel and recognize the Spirit. Even very young children can understand and accept things of an eternal nature. They love the scriptures, and they love the prophet. They intuitively want to be good. It is up to us to help them keep that connection to heaven open. It is up to us to protect them from influences that detract from the Spirit. We can find help and direction in the scriptures. Then we can teach our children to find their own answers there. We can teach our children correct principles and help them apply those principles to their lives. We can direct them toward the Spirit so that they can receive their own witness of the truths they are learning. We can help them find the joy of living the gospel. This will build a firm foundation of what matters most—our families. I am Second, we must become worthy faith and obedience in their lives that sure that more than anything, you want examples. This is also a process. If we will strengthen them. this family to be yours eternally. The want our children to come to Christ Now, all of this does not come eas- account in 3 Nephi can help us bring so that they might see His face, it is ily. The Nephite account says that our children to Him because it gives us important that we seek to see it as those families had 200 years of peace. a pattern to follow. First, we must love well. We have to know the way in order But surely it took great effort. It takes the Lord with all our hearts, and we to show it to them. We must put our a lot of hard work and patience and must love our children. Second, we own lives in order so that the children faith, but nothing is more important must become a worthy example to can look to us and follow. We might or rewarding. And the Lord will help them by continually seeking the Lord ask: “What do my children see when us, for He loves these children even and striving to live the gospel. Third, they look at my face? Do they see the more than we do. He loves them, and we must teach our children the gospel image of the Savior in my countenance He will bless them. and how to live its teachings. because of how I live my life?” You will remember that He blessed Following this pattern to bring our Now remember, none of us will be the Nephite children individually and children to the Savior is a process. the perfect example for our children, by praying for them (see 3 Nephi Let’s look at the pattern again. First, but we all can become worthy parents 17:14–17, 21). Then “he spake unto we must learn how to love the Lord and leaders. Our striving to be worthy the multitude, and said unto them: and our families. This takes time, is an example in itself. We may feel as Behold your little ones. experience, and faith. It requires self- though we are failing at times, but we “And as they looked to behold they less service. Then, as we are filled with can keep on trying. With the Lord and cast their eyes towards heaven, and the love of the Lord, we can love. He through Him, we can be strengthened they saw the heavens open, and they might weep over what we do, but He to be who we need to be. We can do saw angels descending out of heaven loves us and is always there to help us. what we need to do. as it were in the midst of fire; and That is how we must learn to love our And third, we have the process of they came down and encircled children. bringing our children to the Savior by those little ones about, and they were

82 Sunday Morning Session encircled about with fire; and the By Elder Quentin L. Cook angels did minister unto them” Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles (3 Nephi 17:23–24). How can our children experience blessings like these today? Elder M. Russell Ballard has said, “Clearly, those of us who have been entrusted We Follow Jesus Christ with precious children have been given a sacred, noble stewardship, for We rejoice in all the Savior has done for us. He has made it we are the ones God has appointed to possible for each of us to gain our salvation and exaltation. encircle today’s children with love and the fire of faith and an understanding of who they are” (“Behold Your Little Ones,” Tambuli, Oct. 1994, 40; “Great t is a significant responsibility to supper, the “established memorial of Shall Be the Peace of Thy Children,” speak on Easter Sunday to Latter- Israel’s deliverance from bondage,” Ensign, Apr. 1994, 60). Iday Saints across the world, who was commenced Thursday evening.1 Brothers and sisters, we are the love our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Ordinances and doctrines of great angels that Heavenly Father has sent We celebrate this morning His victory importance were initiated at the Last today to bless the children, and we over death. We cherish our under- Supper. I will mention just three. First, can help them to one day see the face standing and feel heartfelt apprecia- the Savior introduced the ordinance of the Savior as we teach the princi- tion for the Savior’s willing atoning of the sacrament. He took bread, ples of the gospel and fill our homes sacrifice on our behalf. His acquies- broke it, prayed over it, and passed it with the joy of living them. Together cence to the will of His Father won the to His disciples, saying, “This is my we can come to know Him. We can supernal victory over death and is the body which is given for you: this do in feel of His love and His blessings. transcendent event in the history of remembrance of me.”2 In this manner And through Him we can return to mankind. I appreciate this opportunity He instituted the sacrament. Second, the presence of the Father. We do to speak about following the Savior. His overwhelming emphasis was on this as we are willing to be obedient, The final two days of the Savior’s doctrines teaching love as a preemi- faithful, and diligent in following His mortal ministry prior to His Crucifixion nent principle. He taught, “By this teachings. are profoundly important and in shall all men know that ye are “Verily, thus saith the Lord: It shall some ways beyond comprehension. my disciples, if ye have love one to come to pass that every soul who for- So much of what is essential to our another.”3 Third, through Christ’s saketh his sins and cometh unto me, eternal destiny occurred on Thursday intercession or direction, “the Holy and calleth on my name, and obeyeth and then Friday, the day Christ was Ghost was promised to the apostles” my voice, and keepeth my command- crucified. The Last Supper, a Passover as another Comforter.4 ments, shall see my face and know The Savior subsequently accom- that I am” (D&C 93:1). plished the Atonement. He took upon Brothers and sisters, I know that Himself the “burden of the sins of God lives. Jesus Christ is His Son, our mankind” and the “horrors that Satan Savior and Redeemer. He has invited . . . could inflict.”5 In this process He us to come unto Him and has com- endured the fraudulently concocted manded us to bring our children that trials and the terrible, tragic events we, together, might see His face and leading to His Crucifixion. This ulti- live eternally with Him and with our mately culminated in Christ’s tri- Father in Heaven. It is my prayer that umphant Resurrection on Easter we might all work to receive this great Sunday. Christ fulfilled His sacred mis- blessing in the name of Jesus Christ, sion as Savior and Redeemer. We will amen. ■ be resurrected from death and have

May 2010 83 and unity and declared that we would be known as His disciples if we have love one to another. In the face of the eternity-shaping Atonement He was about to undertake, such a commandment requires our obedience. We manifest our love for God when we keep His commandments and serve His children. We don’t fully comprehend the Atonement, but we can spend our lives trying to be more our spirits reunited with our bodies. Savior did in those last two days of His loving and kind, regardless of the Based on personal worthiness, we may mortal life. adversity we face. through His grace have the glorious First, consider the Savior’s intro- The Savior’s charge to His disciples opportunity of entering back into the duction of the sacrament. The Savior to love one another—and the dra- presence of God.6 knew what was about to befall Him. matic and powerful way He taught this The Prophet Joseph Smith, speak- His sacred, atoning mission, beginning principle at the Last Supper—is one ing of these Easter events, said, “The with the War in Heaven in the premor- of the most poignant and beautiful fundamental principles of our religion tal existence, was about to unfold that episodes from the last days of His are the testimony of the Apostles and evening and the next day. Yet with the mortal life. Prophets, concerning Jesus Christ, trials by His adversaries imminently He was not teaching a simple class that He died, was buried, and rose before Him, there is not the slightest in ethical behavior. This was the Son again the third day, and ascended into evidence He was preparing a defense of God pleading with His Apostles and heaven; and all other things which against the untrue accusations. The all disciples who would come after pertain to our religion are only Savior instead introduced the sacred them to remember and follow this appendages to it.”7 ordinance of the sacrament to His dis- most central of His teachings. How we While we rejoice in the supernal sig- ciples. As I contemplate that solemn relate and interact with each other is a nificance of Gethsemane and Calvary, occasion, my feelings are deeply measure of our willingness to follow our focus has always been on the res- touched. Sacrament meeting is Jesus Christ. urrected Lord. Frederic Farrar, the the most sacred and holy of all the As we listen to the messages of this English theologian and believer, testi- meetings in the Church. After His conference, we will be touched in our fied that the earliest generation of Resurrection, the Savior instituted the hearts and make resolutions and com- believers in the primitive Christian sacrament among the Nephites.10 If we mitments to do better. But on Monday Church celebrated the Savior as “the are to be His disciples and to be com- morning we will return to work, Risen, the Eternal, the Glorified Christ” mitted members of His Church, we school, neighborhoods, and to a world and “contemplated Him, not as on the must remember and reverence the that in many cases is in turmoil. Many Cross, but as on the Throne.”8 sacrament. It allows each of us to in this world are afraid and angry with President Gordon B. Hinckley express with broken hearts and con- one another. While we understand taught that our message to the world trite spirits our willingness to follow these feelings, we need to be civil in is that He lives! The symbol of Christ the Savior, to repent, and to become our discourse and respectful in our for the Latter-day Saints will be found a Saint through the Atonement of interactions. This is especially true in the meaningful expression of our Christ.11 The sacrament allows us to when we disagree. The Savior taught faith and the way we live His gospel.9 witness to God that we will remember us to love even our enemies.13 The vast As we ponder what it means to be His Son and keep His commandments majority of our members heed this Christians today, think about what our as we renew our baptismal covenant.12 counsel. Yet there are some who feel path of discipleship will require of us. This increases our love and apprecia- that venting their personal anger or I suggest that we contemplate and in tion for both the Father and the Son. deeply held opinions is more impor- appropriate ways emulate what the The Savior also emphasized love tant than conducting themselves as

84 Sunday Morning Session Jesus Christ lived and taught. I invite all things, and sanctifies those who have light and knowledge from Him even to each one of us individually to recog- repented and been baptized. He is the perfect day.16 nize that how we disagree is a real referred to as the Holy Spirit of Promise The atoning trials the Savior faced measure of who we are and whether and as such confirms as acceptable to in Gethsemane and on the cross are a we truly follow the Savior. It is appro- God the righteous acts, ordinances, and great example to us. He faced mental, priate to disagree, but it is not appro- covenants of each of us.14 They who are physical, and spiritual afflictions that priate to be disagreeable. Violence and sealed by the Holy Spirit of Promise are beyond our comprehension. In the vandalism are not the answer to our receive all that the Father has.15 garden, He prayed to His Father, say- disagreements. If we show love and We live in a noisy, contentious world, ing, “O my Father, if it be possible, let respect even in adverse circumstances, where it is possible to be viewing or lis- this cup pass from me: nevertheless we become more like Christ. tening to information, music, or even not as I will, but as thou wilt.”17 As His The Savior’s promise of the Holy pure nonsense virtually every waking disciples, there will be times when we Ghost to the Apostles is of supreme hour. If we want to have the inspiration will be tried and persecuted unjustly importance in recognizing the preemi- of the Holy Ghost, we must find time and mocked unfairly and face tempo- nent role of the Holy Ghost, the third to slow down, ponder, pray, and live so ral and spiritual storms of a magnitude member of the Godhead. The Holy we are worthy to receive and act upon that will seem unbearable to us and Ghost is a personage of spirit, the His promptings. We will avoid major experience bitter cups that we pray Comforter, who bears witness of the mistakes if we heed His warnings. It is would pass from us. No one is exempt Father and the Son, reveals the truth of our privilege as members to receive from the storms of life. We are preparing for the Second Coming of the Savior. The scriptures are clear that no one knows when this will occur. The scriptures do tell us that in the last days, among the bitter cups we will face, there will be “earthquakes, in divers places”18 and the “waves of the sea heaving themselves beyond their bounds.”19 Devastating earthquakes and tsunamis have recently occurred in diverse places, including Chile, Haiti, and the islands of the Pacific. A few weeks ago Presiding Bishop H. David Burton, Elder Tad R. Callister, and I were able to meet with the Saints who had lost family members as a result of the tsunami that hit the eastern side of Samoa last September. The chapel was full, and it was an emotional meeting. We were able to assure these choice members that because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ, they can be reunited with the loved ones they have lost. The stake president, Sonny Purcell, was driving his car when he saw the enormous wave coming far out at sea. He honked his horn and stopped

May 2010 85 One of the ways we do this is by adhering to the teachings of our living prophet, President Thomas S. Monson. He is an excellent example of one who follows the Savior. On this glorious Easter morning I resonate with the treasured words penned by Eliza R. Snow, a faithful servant in the Restoration:

How great, how glorious, how complete, children on the road walking to spiritually avoid the low pathway, Redemption’s grand design, school and warned them to run for where the things of this world domi- Where justice, love, and mercy meet higher ground and safety as fast as nate. As I shook hands with the In harmony divine!21 they could. The children followed members after our meeting, one sister his instruction. He frantically drove, told me her family had not been to the I bear my apostolic witness that reached his four-year-old daughter, temple and they had lost a daughter. Jesus Christ lives and is the Savior and put her in the car, and then tried to She tearfully said their goal now was Redeemer of the world. He has pro- get to his mother. Before he could to prepare themselves for the sacred vided the pathway to true happiness. reach his mother, the wall of water ordinances of the temple so they can Of this I testify in the name of Jesus picked up his car and swept it over be together eternally. Christ, amen. ■ 100 yards (91 m), where it lodged in As I have pondered what this sister a tree. He scrambled to secure his said and the current condition of the NOTES daughter on top of the car and then world, I have felt an urgency to coun- 1. James E. Talmage, Jesus the Christ, 3rd ed. (1916), 594. swam to rescue his mother, who was sel each of us to seek the higher 2. Luke 22:19. clinging to a branch of another tree ground—the refuge and eternal pro- 3. See John 13:34–35. near their house. With great effort he tection of the temple. 4. James E. Talmage, Jesus the Christ, 603; see also John 14:16–17. swam with her to the car and safety. On Easter Sunday, April 3, 1836, 5. James E. Talmage, Jesus the Christ, 613. Many were not as fortunate. They did one week after the dedication of the 6. See 2 Nephi 9:6–24. not have time to get to higher ground Kirtland Temple, the Twelve officiated 7. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith (2007), 49; see also Doctrine and safety. Many lost their lives, partic- in distributing the sacrament of the and Covenants 20:22–25. ularly the young and the elderly. Lord’s Supper to the members. After 8. Frederic W. Farrar, The Life of Lives—Further We told the Samoan families that the meeting, following solemn and Studies in the Life of Christ (1900), 209. 9. See Gordon B. Hinckley, “This Glorious members all over the world expressed silent prayer, the Savior appeared in Easter Morn,” Ensign, May 1996, 65–67; love and concern and had prayed for majesty to the Prophet Joseph and “The Symbol of Our Faith,” Liahona and them and contributed fast offerings Oliver Cowdery and through Moses, Ensign, Apr. 2005, 2–6. 10. See 3 Nephi 18:1–11. and humanitarian aid for both the Elias, and Elijah ushered in the restora- 11. See Mosiah 3:19. members and their neighbors. The tion of additional priesthood keys, 12. See Mosiah 18:8–10; Doctrine and same is true for the members and including the sacred sealing power that Covenants 20:37, 77–79. 20 13. See Matthew 5:44. their neighbors in Chile and Haiti. We unites families throughout eternity. 14. See Doctrine and Covenants 132:7. do this because we follow Jesus Christ. Today on this Easter morning we 15. See Romans 8:16–17; Ephesians 1:13–14; As we met with the families in rejoice in all the Savior has done for us. Doctrine and Covenants 76:51–60. 16. See Doctrine and Covenants 50:24. Samoa, the significance of spiritually He has made it possible for each of us 17. Matthew 26:39. going to the higher ground, living a to gain our salvation and exaltation. But 18. Matthew 24:7; Joseph Smith—Matthew 1:29. better life, and clinging to saving ordi- we, like the Samoan children, must run 19. Doctrine and Covenants 88:90. 20. See Doctrine and Covenants 110. nances was abundantly clear. The as fast as we can to the high ground He 21. “How Great the Wisdom and the Love,” Savior’s example and life teach us to has provided for safety and peace. Hymns, no. 195.

86 Sunday Morning Session may befall as the result of accident or By President Thomas S. Monson disease, . . . or . . . through natural causes; but come it must.”2 It inevitably represents a painful loss of association and, particularly in the young, a crushing blow to dreams unrealized, He Is Risen! ambitions unfulfilled, and hopes vanquished. The empty tomb that first Easter morning was the answer to What mortal being, faced with the Job’s question, “If a man die, shall he live again?” loss of a loved one or, indeed, standing himself or herself on the threshold of infinity, has not pondered what lies beyond the veil which separates the his has been a remarkable ses- on the window ledge told of the fruit- seen from the unseen? sion. In behalf of all who partici- less vigil. Centuries ago the man Job—so T pated thus far in word or music, I sensed the young woman’s long blessed with every material gift, as the President of the Church, I have heartache; I felt her grief. The haunt- only to find himself sorely afflicted by chosen simply to say to you at this ingly vivid inscription which the artist all that can befall a human being—sat moment just two words, known as gave to his work told the tragic story. It with his companions and uttered the the two most important words in the read, A Hopeless Dawn. timeless, ageless question, “If a man English language. To Sister Cheryl Lant Oh, how the young woman longed die, shall he live again?”3 Job spoke and her counselors, the choir, the for the comfort, even the reality, of what every other living man or woman musicians, the speakers, those words Robert Louis Stevenson’s “Requiem”: has pondered. are “Thank you.” This glorious Easter morning I’d Many years ago, while in London, Home is the sailor, home from sea, like to consider Job’s question—“If a England, I visited the famed Tate art And the hunter home from the hill.1 man die, shall he live again?”—and gallery. Works by Gainsborough, provide the answer which comes not Rembrandt, Constable, and other Among all the facts of mortality, only from thoughtful consideration renowned artists were displayed in none is so certain as its end. Death but also from the revealed word of room after room. I admired their comes to all; it is our “universal her- God. I begin with the essentials. beauty and recognized the skill which itage; it may claim its victim[s] in If there is a design in this world had been required to create these infancy or youth, [it may visit] in the in which we live, there must be a masterpieces. Tucked away in a quiet period of life’s prime, or its summons Designer. Who can behold the many corner of the third floor, however, was may be deferred until the snows of age wonders of the universe without a painting which not only caught my have gathered upon the . . . head; it believing that there is a design for all attention but also captured my heart. The artist, Frank Bramley, had painted a humble cottage facing a windswept sea. Two women, the mother and the wife of an absent fisherman, had watched and waited the night through for his return. Now the night had passed, and the realization had set in that he had been lost at sea and would not return. Kneeling at the side of her mother-in-law, her head buried in the lap of the older woman, the young wife wept in despair. The spent candle mankind? Who can doubt that there is body, to overcome trials, and to prove And then the mortal mission of a Designer? that we would keep the command- the Savior of the world drew to In the book of Genesis we learn ments of God. Our Father knew that its close. A last supper with His that the Grand Designer created the because of the nature of mortality, we Apostles took place in an upper heaven and the earth: “And the earth would be tempted, would sin, and room. Ahead lay Gethsemane and was without form, and void; and dark- would fall short. So that we might have Calvary’s cross. ness was upon the face of the deep.” every chance of success, He provided a No mere mortal can conceive the “Let there be light,” said the Grand Savior, who would suffer and die for full import of what Christ did for Designer, “and there was light.” He us. Not only would He atone for our us in Gethsemane. He Himself later created a firmament. He separated the sins, but as a part of that Atonement, described the experience: “[The] suf- land from the waters and said, “Let the He would also overcome the physical fering caused myself, even God, the earth bring forth grass, . . . the fruit death to which we would be subject greatest of all, to tremble because of tree yielding fruit after his kind, whose because of the Fall of Adam. pain, and to bleed at every pore, and seed is in itself.” Thus, more than 2,000 years ago, to suffer both body and spirit.”8 Two lights He created—the sun Christ, our Savior, was born to mortal Following the agony of Gethsemane, and the moon. Came the stars by His life in a stable in Bethlehem. The long- now drained of strength, He was seized design. He called for living creatures in foretold Messiah had come. by rough, crude hands and taken the water and fowls to fly above the There was very little written of the before Annas, Caiaphas, Pilate, and earth. And it was so. He made cattle, boyhood of Jesus. I love the passage Herod. He was accused and cursed. beasts, and creeping things. The from Luke: “And Jesus increased in wis- Vicious blows further weakened His design was nearly complete. dom and stature, and in favour with pain-racked body. Blood ran down His Last of all, He created man in His God and man.”6 And from the book of face as a cruel crown fashioned of own image—male and female—with Acts, there is a short phrase concerning sharp thorns was forced onto His head, dominion over all other living things.4 the Savior which has a world of mean- piercing His brow. And then once again Man alone received intelligence—a ing: “[He] went about doing good.”7 He was taken to Pilate, who gave in to brain, a mind, and a soul. Man alone, He was baptized by John in the the cries of the angry mob: “Crucify with these attributes, had the capacity river Jordan. He called the Twelve him, crucify him.”9 for faith and hope, for inspiration and Apostles. He blessed the sick. He He was scourged with a whip into ambition. caused the lame to walk, the blind to whose multiple leather strands sharp Who could persuasively argue that see, the deaf to hear. He even raised metals and bones were woven. Rising man—the noblest work of the Great the dead to life. He taught, He testi- from the cruelty of the scourge, with Designer, with dominion over all living fied, and He provided a perfect exam- stumbling steps He carried His own things, with a brain and a will, with a ple for us to follow. cross until He could go no farther mind and a soul, with intelligence and divinity—should come to an end when the spirit forsakes its earthly temple? To understand the meaning of death, we must appreciate the purpose of life. The dim light of belief must yield to the noonday sun of revelation, by which we know that we lived before our birth into mortality. In our premortal state, we were doubtless among the sons and daughters of God who shouted for joy because of the opportunity to come to this challenging yet necessary mortal existence.5 We knew that our purpose was to gain a physical

88 Sunday Morning Session and another shouldered the burden for Him. Finally, on a hill called Calvary, while helpless followers looked on, His wounded body was nailed to a cross. Mercilessly He was mocked and cursed and derided. And yet He cried out, “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.”10 The agonizing hours passed as His life ebbed. From His parched lips came the words, “Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit: and having said thus, he gave up the ghost.”11 As the serenity and solace of a merciful death freed Him from the sorrows of mortality, He returned to the presence of His Father. At the last moment, the Master could have turned back. But He did not. He passed beneath all things that He might save all things. His lifeless body was hurriedly but gently placed in a borrowed tomb. No words in Christendom mean more to me than those spoken by the angel to the weeping Mary Magdalene and the other Mary when, on the first have the light of revealed truth. this is the testimony, last of all, which day of the week, they approached the “For since by man came death, we give of him: That he lives! tomb to care for the body of their by man came also the resurrection “For we saw him, even on the right Lord. Spoke the angel: of the dead. hand of God; and we heard the voice “Why seek ye the living among the “For as in Adam all die, even so in bearing record that he is the Only dead? Christ shall all be made alive.”13 Begotten of the Father.”14 “He is not here, but is risen.”12 I have read—and I believe—the tes- The darkness of death can always Our Savior lived again. The most timonies of those who experienced be dispelled by the light of revealed glorious, comforting, and reassuring of the grief of Christ’s Crucifixion and the truth. “I am the resurrection, and the all events of human history had taken joy of His Resurrection. I have read— life,” spoke the Master.15 “Peace I leave place—the victory over death. The and I believe—the testimonies of with you, my peace I give unto you.”16 pain and agony of Gethsemane and those in the New World who were Over the years I have heard and read Calvary had been wiped away. The sal- visited by the same risen Lord. testimonies too numerous to count, vation of mankind had been secured. I believe the testimony of one who, shared with me by individuals who tes- The Fall of Adam had been reclaimed. in this dispensation, spoke with the tify of the reality of the Resurrection The empty tomb that first Easter Father and the Son in a grove now and who have received, in their hours morning was the answer to Job’s called sacred and who gave his life, of greatest need, the peace and com- question, “If a man die, shall he live sealing that testimony with his blood. fort promised by the Savior. again?” To all within the sound of Declared he: I will mention just part of one such my voice, I declare, If a man die, “And now, after the many testi- account. Two weeks ago I received a he shall live again. We know, for we monies which have been given of him, touching letter from a father of seven

May 2010 89 been sealed together as an eternal family.... If we do our very best to obey and do better in this life, we will see [him again].” She continued: “[A] scripture that I have long loved now takes on new significance and importance at this time.... [From] Revelation chapter 21, verse 4: ‘And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, nei- who wrote about his family and, in heart filled with joy that my Heavenly ther shall there be any more pain: for particular, his son Jason, who had Father had blessed me to be the father the former things are passed away.’” become ill when 11 years of age. Over of such a tremendous and noble boy. My beloved brothers and sisters, the next few years, Jason’s illness . . . [It] was the last time I heard him in our hour of deepest sorrow, we can recurred several times. This father declare his testimony of Christ.” receive profound peace from the words told of Jason’s positive attitude and Although his family was expecting of the angel that first Easter morning: sunny disposition, despite his health this to be just another routine hospital- “He is not here: for he is risen.”17 challenges. Jason received the ization, Jason passed away less than Aaronic Priesthood at age 12 and two weeks later. An older brother and He is risen! He is risen! “always willingly magnified his sister were serving missions at the time. Tell it out with joyful voice. responsibilities with excellence, Another brother, Kyle, had just received He has burst his three days’ prison; whether he felt well or not.” He his mission call. In fact, the call had Let the whole wide earth rejoice. received his Eagle Scout Award when come earlier than expected, and on Death is conquered; man is free. he was 14 years old. August 5, just a week before Jason’s Christ has won the victory!18 Last summer, not long after Jason’s passing, the family gathered in his hos- 15th birthday, he was once again pital room so that Kyle’s mission call As one of His special witnesses admitted to the hospital. On one of his could be opened there and shared with on earth today, this glorious Easter visits to see Jason, his father found him the entire family. Sunday, I declare that this is true, in with his eyes closed. Not knowing In his letter to me, this father His sacred name—even the name of whether Jason was asleep or awake, he included a photograph of Jason in his Jesus Christ, our Savior—amen. ■ began talking softly to him. “Jason,” he hospital bed, with his big brother Kyle NOTES said, “I know you have been through a standing beside the bed, holding his 1. Robert Louis Stevenson, “Requiem,” in An lot in your short life and that your cur- mission call. This caption was written Anthology of Modern Verse, ed. A. Methuen (1921), 208. rent condition is difficult. Even though beneath the photograph: “Called to 2. James E. Talmage, Jesus the Christ, 3rd ed. you have a giant battle ahead, I don’t serve their missions together—on (1916), 20. ever want you to lose your faith in both sides of the veil.” 3. Job 14:14. 4. See Genesis 1:1–27. Jesus Christ.” He said he was startled Jason’s brother and sister already 5. See Job 38:7. as Jason immediately opened his eyes serving missions sent beautiful, com- 6. Luke 2:52. and said, “Never!” in a clear, resolute forting letters home to be shared at 7. Acts 10:38. 8. Doctrine and Covenants 19:18. voice. Jason then closed his eyes and Jason’s funeral. His sister, serving in 9. Luke 23:21. said no more. the Argentina Buenos Aires West 10. Luke 23:34. His father wrote: “In this simple dec- Mission, as part of her letter, wrote: 11. Luke 23:46. 12. Luke 24:5–6. laration, Jason expressed one of the “I know that Jesus Christ lives, and 13. 1 Corinthians 15:21–22. most powerful, pure testimonies of because He lives, all of us, including 14. Doctrine and Covenants 76:22–23. Jesus Christ that I have ever heard. . . . our beloved Jason, will live again too. 15. John 11:25. 16. John 14:27. As his declaration of ‘Never!’ became . . . We can take comfort in the sure 17. Matthew 28:6. imprinted on my soul that day, my knowledge we have that we have 18. “He Is Risen!” Hymns, no. 199.

90 Sunday Morning Session SUNDAY AFTERNOON SESSION | April 4, 2010

By Elder Russell M. Nelson Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles Generations Linked in Love “Dear Ruby,” Elder Nelson’s great-granddaughter Our inborn yearnings for family connections are fulfilled when we are linked to our ancestors through sacred ordinances of the temple.

orrespondence we receive at When I think of the love I feel for Easter or Christmastime pro- each member of our family, I sense, Cvides refreshing memories of to a slight degree, the love that our dear friends and relatives. Some of Heavenly Father bears for His chil- those messages are enriched with pre- dren. While the family is under attack cious family photographs. Here is one throughout the world, The Church of that really caught my attention. Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints pro- Mother of “Dear Ruby,” Elder Nelson’s This is one of our great-grand- claims, promotes, and protects the granddaughter daughters. I’ll call her “Dear Ruby.” truth that the family is central to This picture reminded me of her the Creator’s plan for the eternal des- mother when she was about the same tiny of His children. “The Family: A age. From my files I retrieved this Proclamation to the World” and our photo of “Dear Ruby’s” mother—one vast family history efforts are but two of our granddaughters. evidences of how this Church brings I took this picture of “Dear Ruby’s” hope and help to the sacred institu- mother some 29 years ago. Her eyes tion of the family. are still just as blue. We teach that God’s love for His Fond memories surfaced from half children is infinite. Regardless of race, a century ago, when “Dear Ruby’s” nationality, or gender, He loves all of grandmother—one of our daughters— them.1 He has done so from the begin- was then the newest member of our ning and will continue to do so. He family. This is one of her baby pictures. invites all to gain eternal exaltation for Now she is a loving grandmother, and their family. His work and His glory is to I am “Dear Ruby’s” great-grandfather. bring to pass the immortality and eter- (I won’t show you my picture as a baby. nal life—the exaltation—of His chil- That would not help.) These photo- dren.2 “For God so loved the world, graphs suggest the love that links our that he gave his only begotten Son, that Grandmother of “Dear Ruby,” Elder four generations together. whosoever believeth in him should not Nelson’s daughter

May 2010 91 our hearts turn to our ancestors, something changes inside us. We feel part of something greater than ourselves. Our inborn yearnings for family connections are fulfilled when we are linked to our ancestors through sacred ordinances of the temple. Because of the importance of this work, the Church has built temples closer to the people,5 and family history research is being facilitated as never before. Methods to find and prepare names for temple ordinances are also improving. At the October 2005 conference, President Gordon B. Hinckley announced an exciting step forward in family history and temple work. He said: “One of the most trou- blesome aspects of our temple activity is that as we get more and more temples . . . across the earth there is duplication of effort in proxy work. . . . We, therefore, have been engaged for some time in a very difficult under- taking. . . . The solution lies in com- plex computer technology.”6 Temple Since then, not only has duplication ordinance cards been reduced, but procedures have been simplified so that virtually every member of the Church can participate in temple and family history work. perish, but have everlasting life.”3 Father instituted the ordinance of Gone are the days when this sacred The Atonement of His Beloved baptism for those who die without a work was done only by specialists. No Son enabled both of the Father’s knowledge of the gospel.4 He loves matter your situation, you can make objectives to be fulfilled. Without the those children too. family history a part of your life right Atonement, there would be no immor- He also provided a way for them to now. Primary children can draw a fam- tality. Without the Atonement, there be part of an eternal family. Every ily tree. Youth can participate in proxy would be no return to the presence of human being who comes to this earth baptisms. They can also help the older the Father and no continuation of the is the product of generations of par- generation work with computers. family beyond the grave. ents. We have a natural yearning to Parents can relate stories of their lives Because of the Atonement, these connect with our ancestors. This desire to their posterity. Worthy adult mem- consummate blessings can be realized dwells in our hearts, regardless of age. bers can hold a temple recommend by each of God’s children who obey Consider the spiritual connections and perform temple ordinances for His eternal laws. Through the ages, that are formed when a young woman their own kin. many of His children have had access helps her grandmother enter family The Prophet Joseph Smith said, to the blessings of the gospel, but information into a computer or when a “The greatest responsibility in this many more have not. Before the foun- young man sees the name of his great- world that God has laid upon us is to dation of the world, our Heavenly grandfather on a census record. When seek after our dead.”7 New technology

92 Sunday Afternoon Session makes it easier than ever to fulfill that responsibility. Temple and family history work is now facilitated by a system known as the “new FamilySearch.”8 This Internet-based system helps members identify their ancestors, determine what ordinance work needs to be done for them, and prepare their names for the temple. It can be accessed from home, a family history center,9 or wherever the Internet is available. The steps are easy to follow.10 You first identify individuals for whom you desire to do temple work. Then you print out a Family Saints from the San Salvador El Salvador Ilopango Stake attend the Guatemala Ordinance Request. This document City Guatemala Temple. provides the information needed at the temple and eliminates the need her own family records. One often This is joyful work. Look at this to take computer discs with you. worked without knowing what other photograph of new converts doing From the Family Ordinance family members were doing. Now temple work for their own kin. These Request, ordinance cards are printed each person can contribute informa- dear Saints are from the San Salvador at the temple. After an ordinance is per- tion while coordinating with others in El Salvador Ilopango Stake and are formed, it is recorded and entered into developing their family tree. attending the Guatemala City Temple new FamilySearch on that very day. While the new FamilySearch is a for the first time. They are holding Now what about those of you who giant step forward, it is still just a step. their temple cards, each with the name have no access to a computer or pre- There is more work ahead. Because of a deceased relative for whom they fer not to use this technology? Don’t the system facilitates access to infor- have performed a vicarious baptism. worry! Take one step at a time. Start at mation submitted to the Church over In order for the Church’s family home. Begin with an empty cardboard many decades from many sources, history efforts to succeed, priesthood box, as suggested by President Boyd K. new FamilySearch may expose dupli- direction and leadership are essential. Packer.11 Put in that box important cate entries or errors that had not pre- Leaders teach and testify of the doc- information about you and your family. viously been recognized. This feature trine undergirding this sacred work.12 Add data gathered from others of your is especially useful for those with early They issue callings and see that family. Then avail yourself of assistance pioneer ancestry. Duplications and instruction is available.13 They view from your ward or branch family his- errors need correction, and no one temple and family history activity as a tory consultant. The new FamilySearch can do it better than each individual way to elevate the spirit of their ward, system enables a consultant to per- for his or her own family. strengthen the spiritual roots of new form all needed computer functions You may be frustrated as you work converts, and bless the lives of all for you, including preparing names through these challenges. Please be members. for the temple. About 60,000 consul- assured that your concerns are well While temple and family history tants serve throughout the world. understood. The Church, under the work has the power to bless those One in your ward or branch can inspired leadership of President beyond the veil, it has an equal power be very helpful to you. Thomas S. Monson, is working dili- to bless the living. It has a refining The new FamilySearch system gently to assist you in solving these influence on those who are engaged changes the dynamics of family history problems. Together we are striving in it. They are literally helping to exalt work by facilitating the creation of one to organize the family tree for all of their families. common pedigree. In the past, a per- God’s children. This is an enormous We are exalted when we can dwell son worked separately, keeping his or endeavor with enormous rewards. together with our extended families in

May 2010 93 That this sacred goal may be realized for each of us is my prayer in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■

NOTES 1. See 1 Corinthians 12:13; Galatians 3:28; 2 Nephi 26:33. 2. See Moses 1:39. 3. John 3:16. 4. See Doctrine and Covenants 124:33. 5. President Thomas S. Monson said recently that 83 percent of Church members throughout the world now live within 200 miles (320 km) of a temple (see “Welcome to Conference,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2009, 4). 6. Gordon B. Hinckley, “Opening Remarks,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2005, 5–6. 7. Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph Smith (2007), 475. 8. Presently available in English, Spanish, Portuguese, French, and German. Will be available in Japanese, Chinese, and Korean later this year. 9. We have more than 4,000 family history centers throughout the world. 10. If you have access to a computer, go to new.familysearch.org. To register for the first time, you will need your membership number and your birth date. You can obtain this information from your ward or branch clerk. Once logged into the system, you can verify that your ancestors’ information is in the system and what temple ordinances are needed. You can identify ancestors who are not now known to you and add them to your family tree. Print out a Family Ordinance Request form to take to the temple and thus open the way for needed ordinances to be performed. 11. See Boyd K. Packer, “Your Family History: Getting Started,” Liahona and Ensign, Aug. 2003, 12–17. 12. Under the direction of the stake presidency, one or more assigned high councilors over- see temple and family history work in the the presence of Almighty God. The make it worthy of all acceptation by stake. On the ward or branch level, the high Prophet Joseph Smith foresaw our the Lord. That record enables ordi- priests group leader or elders quorum president leads the way. Many resources, duty: “The great day of the Lord is at nances to be performed for and printed and online, are available to help hand . . . ,” he said. “Let us, therefore, accepted by our deceased ancestors, family history consultants and priesthood as a church and a people, and as Latter- as they may choose. Those ordinances leaders fulfill their duties. 13. Helpful new resources include Member’s day Saints, offer unto the Lord an offer- can bring liberty to captives on the Guide to Temple and Family History Work ing in righteousness; and let us present other side of the veil.15 (item no. 36795) and Instructor’s Guide in his holy temple . . . a book contain- Our children, grandchildren, “Dear (item no. 35804) and accompanying DVD. These guides can be downloaded or viewed ing the records of our dead, which Ruby,” and all our great-grandchildren online at lds.org or ordered through shall be worthy of all acceptation.”14 are linked in love. They are also linked Distribution Services. The preparation of that record is in love to ancestors. Those links, 14. Doctrine and Covenants 128:24. 15. See Isaiah 61:1; Luke 4:18; Doctrine and our individual and collective responsi- welded through sacred ordinances, Covenants 138:18, 31, 42. bility. As we work together, we can lead to the exaltation of our families.16 16. See Doctrine and Covenants 128:18.

94 Sunday Afternoon Session By Elder Robert D. Hales Scouting pow wows and encampments Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles —but do those activities always accomplish their most important purpose? I have learned that what makes a priesthood or Scout activity most meaningful to a boy is not just getting a merit Our Duty to God: badge but having the opportunity to sit and talk with a leader who is interested in him and his life. The Mission of Parents Similarly, mothers and fathers, as you drive or walk children to school or their various activities, do you use the and Leaders to time to talk with them about their hopes and dreams and fears and joys? Do you take the time to have them the Rising Generation take the earplugs from their MP3 players and all the other devices so that It is our imperative duty to help youth understand and they can hear you and feel of your believe the gospel in a deeply personal way. love? The more I live, the more I recognize that the teaching moments in my youth, especially those provided by my parents, have shaped my life his afternoon I desire to encour- 56:47–48). Do our children know and made me who I am. age parents and all who are what we know? It is impossible to overestimate the Tcalled to lead and serve the I have a grandson who once asked influence of parents who understand youth of this world. The Lord me to go with him to a popular but the hearts of their children. Research revealed to Joseph Smith that we inappropriate movie. I told him I shows that during the most important have “an imperative duty that we wasn’t old enough to see that film. He transitions of life—including those owe to all the rising generation” was puzzled until his grandmother periods when youth are most likely to (D&C 123:11). explained to him that the rating sys- drift away from the Church—the Throughout my life as a father and tem by age didn’t apply to Grandpa. greatest influence does not come from grandfather, I have pondered the He came back to me and said, “I get it an interview with the bishop or some question, what is my duty to God in now, Grandpa. You’re never going to other leader but from the regular, relation to the youth? May I share be old enough to see that movie, are warm, friendly, caring interaction with some of what I have learned by way of you?” And he was right! parents. personal reflection and testimony. Besides showing youth the way by With that in mind, when we sit For all of us, doing our duty to God example, we lead them by understand- down at the dinner table, is our whole as parents and leaders begins with ing their hearts and walking alongside family there? I remember as a young leading by example—consistently and them on the gospel path. To truly man asking permission to play base- diligently living gospel principles at understand their hearts, we must do ball through dinnertime. “Just put my home. This takes daily determination more than just be in the same room or meal in the oven,” I said to my mother. and diligence. attend the same family and Church She responded, “Robert, I really want For youth, there is no substitute for activities. We must plan and take you to take a break, come home, be seeing the gospel lived in our daily advantage of teaching moments that with the family for dinner, and then lives. The stripling warriors did not make a deep and lasting impression you can go out and play baseball until have to wonder what their parents upon their minds and hearts. dark.” She taught all of us that where believed. They said, “We do not doubt For example, Church leaders regu- family meals are concerned, it’s not our mothers knew it” (see Alma larly plan priesthood activities and the food but the family interaction that

May 2010 95 Progress and Duty to God requirements are not just lengthy lists of items to check off. They are personal goals set by each young man and young woman to help them become worthy to receive temple ordinances, serve missions, enter into eternal marriage, and enjoy exaltation. But let it be understood: for young men and young women to try to accomplish these goals alone would be a great loss and tragedy! Fathers, mothers, and leaders of youth, we urge you to participate in Personal Progress and Duty to God with your children and with the youth. Not only will they grow; you will grow too. And just as importantly, you will grow together in a bond of faith and friendship that will allow you to strengthen each other and stay on the gospel path forever, to indeed be an eternal family. An equally important part of fulfilling nourishes the soul. My mother taught Being there means understanding the our parental duty to God is teaching that the greatest love we give is within hearts of our youth and connecting our children the gospel and preparing our homes. with them. And connecting with them them to participate fully in the Savior’s For our interactions with youth to means not just conversing with them restored Church. Remember the lesson truly touch their hearts, we have to pay but doing things with them too. of King Benjamin’s people. As a result attention to them just as we would pay Recently I heard a mother recount of his teachings, many of the adults attention to a trusted adult colleague or how she had helped her first three had a mighty change of heart (see close friend. Most important is asking daughters complete their Personal Mosiah 5:2). But then it says that “there them questions, letting them talk, and Progress requirements by doing what were many of the rising generation then being willing to listen—yes, listen was expected—staying informed and that could not understand the words and listen some more—even hearken signing off projects. Then she tenderly of King Benjamin, being little children with spiritual ears! Several years ago I explained, tears flowing down her at the time he spake unto his people; was reading the newspaper when one cheek, “Recently I have been working and they did not believe. . . . And of my young grandsons snuggled up to with my fourth daughter by actually their hearts were hardened” (Mosiah me. As I read, I was delighted to hear doing her projects with her. It has 26:1, 3). his sweet voice chattering on in the made all the difference in our lives and It is our imperative duty to help background. Imagine my surprise our relationship. But oh, what sadness youth understand and believe the when, a few moments later, he pushed I feel when I realize what I lost by not gospel in a deeply personal way. We himself between me and the paper. doing this with my other three daugh- can teach them to walk in the light, Taking my face in his hands and press- ters.” The saddest words of tongue but that light cannot be borrowed. ing his nose up to mine, he asked, and pen are those that say, “It might They must earn it for themselves. “Grandpa! Are you in there?” have been!”1 They must obtain their own light of Mother, Father, are you in there? Adult members of the Church testimony directly from the source of Grandpa, Grandma, are you there? should understand that Personal spiritual light—God Himself—through

96 Sunday Afternoon Session prayer and study and pondering. They They must do. Wholehearted partici- obedience, ensure the eternal preser- must understand who they are and pation in ordinances, quorums and vation and perpetuation of our fami- who Heavenly Father wants them to auxiliaries, inspired programs, and for- lies for the coming generations. become. How do we help them? tifying activities helps youth put on The greatest rescue, the greatest When we have a family home the whole armor of God. Will we help activation will be in our homes. If evening, a family council, or a mean- them put on that armor so they can someone in your family is wandering ingful gospel conversation with our withstand the fiery darts of the adver- in strange paths, you are a rescuer, children, we have the opportunity sary? To truly choose the Lord’s way, engaged in the greatest rescue effort to look into their eyes and tell them they must know His way. And to truly the Church has ever known. I testify that we love them and that Heavenly know His way, we must teach and lead from personal experience: There is no Father loves them. In these sacred set- them to act, to participate, to do. failure except in giving up. It is never tings, we can also help them under- The greatest missionary work we too early or too late to begin. Do not stand, deep in their hearts, who they will ever do will be in our homes. Our worry about what has happened in the are and how fortunate they are to have homes, quorums, and classes are part past. Pick up the phone. Write a note. come to this earth and to our home of the mission field. Our children and Make a visit. Extend the invitation to and to participate in the covenants we grandchildren are our most important come home. Don’t be afraid or embar- have taken in the temple to be a family investigators. rassed. Your child is Heavenly Father’s forever. In every interaction we share, The greatest family history work child. You are about His work. He has we demonstrate the principles and that we will do will be within our promised to gather His children, and blessings of the gospel. own homes. It is the spiritual prepara- He is with you. In these perilous times it is not tion of our children in the rising The greatest faith we have will be enough for our youth to merely know. generation that will, through their within our homes as we remain

May 2010 97 strong in the trials and tribulations By Elder Bradley D. Foster of parenthood. To a small group of Of the Seventy mothers, President Monson recently said, “Sometimes we are too quick to judge the effect of our successes and failures.” May I add, don’t look at today’s trials as eternal. Heavenly Father does Mother Told Me His work in the long term. “There is much which lieth in futurity,” the Perhaps the reason we respond so universally to our Prophet Joseph Smith said. “Therefore, mothers’ love is because it typifies the love of our Savior. . . . let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power; and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for his he Lord has placed upon parents Brother Pearson looked at Eric and arm to be revealed” (D&C 123:15, 17). the primary responsibility for the back at the picture book, and then he On this Easter Sunday I would hope Tspiritual nurturing of their chil- continued: “Paddy is getting out of the that we would have the opportunity of dren. Sometimes this responsibility balloon and climbing down the tree. bearing our testimonies that we know falls to a single parent. My own mother Oh no! His coat is caught on a limb!” that God lives and that Jesus is the was relatively young when my father Again Eric stopped him. “Dad, Christ. I would hope that we would died, leaving her alone with four chil- that’s not a coat. It’s a jacket.” bear our testimonies so that our children. But she faced her adversity with By now Brother Pearson was some- dren will know where our hearts are faith and courage, promising us that if what perplexed. He said, “Eric, there and that we love them. The greatest we stayed on the road of truth, the are no words in this book, just pictures. love and the greatest teachings should end would be better than the begin- Why do you insist that it’s a jacket?” be in our homes. ning. Like the children of valiant Eric answered, “Because Mother I ask the Lord’s blessings to be with mothers in the Book of Mormon, “we told me.” the parents and with the youth who [did] not doubt our [mother] knew it” His father closed the book and said, are brought up in faithful homes, that (Alma 56:48). Brothers and sisters, I “Eric, who do you think is the last they will understand the joy it is to be understand in a personal way the great word, the ultimate authority in this in a home and family where they can influence of mothers. house?” be loved, directed, and guided. It is My good friend Don Pearson This time Eric thought carefully my prayer that we may have eternal shared an experience that highlights before he answered, “You are, Dad.” families and be together forever in the this influence. One night his four-year- Brother Pearson beamed at his son. presence of God the Father and His old son asked him to read a bedtime What an exceptional answer! “How did Son, Jesus Christ. story. Eric had picked out his favorite you know that?” I bear my special witness that Jesus book: The Ballooning Adventures of Eric quickly responded, “Mother Christ lives. He is the shepherd of the Paddy Pork, a story about a family told me.” lost sheep, the rescuer of the stranded who lived on the isles of the sea and As President James E. Faust said: soul, the healer of the wounded heart, traveled from island to island by hot- “There is no greater good in all the the hope of all mankind. With Him as air balloon. It was a picture book that world than motherhood. The influ- our Master, let us fulfill our duty to had no words, so Brother Pearson ence of a mother in the lives of her God with faith in Him and His eternal made up words to the story. children is beyond calculation” love for each of us, I pray in the name “Paddy is in a hot-air balloon. He (“Fathers, Mothers, Marriage,” of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ is landing on an island now. He is Liahona and Ensign, Aug. 2004, 3). dropping a line over the side of the By divine design, nurturing seems NOTE balloon.” to be part of the spiritual heritage 1. See “Maud Muller,” The Complete Poetical Works of John Greenleaf Whittier Eric stopped him. “Dad, that is not given to women. I’ve seen it in my (1876), 206. a line. It’s a rope.” daughters, and now I see it in my

98 Sunday Afternoon Session now, the end would be better than the beginning. As soon as we got the herd into the corral, we noticed that three of the cows were pacing nervously at the gate. They could not find their calves and seemed to sense they were back on the road somewhere. One of the cowboys asked me what we should do. I said, “I bet I know where those calves are. Back a quarter of a mile [0.4 km] or so, there’s a stand of trees. I’m sure we’ll find them there.” Sure enough, just as I had sus- pected, we found our lost calves taking a nap in the shade. Our approach startled them, and they resisted our efforts to round them up. They were frightened because we were not their mothers! The more we tried to push them toward the corral, the more stubborn they became. Finally I said to the cowboys, “I’m sorry. I know better than this. Let’s ride back and let their mothers out of the corral. The cows will come and get their calves, and the granddaughters—even before they pace was slow and provided me some calves will follow their mothers.” I was could walk, they wanted to carry and time to think. right. The mother cows knew exactly care for their little baby dolls. Because it was so hot, the little where to go to find their calves, and In my profession as a farmer and a calves kept running off into the trees they led them back to the corral, as I rancher, I’ve had a front-row seat to to find shade. My thoughts turned to had expected. observe how a mother’s natural affec- the youth of the Church who are Brothers and sisters, in a world tion manifests itself even in nature. sometimes distracted from the strait where everyone is granted agency, Each spring we take a herd of cows and narrow path. I also thought about some of our loved ones may stray for a and their new calves up along Idaho’s those who have left the Church or who season. But we can never give up. We Snake River, where they graze in the may feel that the Church has left their must always go back for them—we foothills for a month or so. Then we hearts while they were distracted. I must never stop trying. Our prophet, round them up and bring them down thought to myself that a distraction President Thomas S. Monson, has a road that leads to the corral. From doesn’t have to be evil to be effective issued a plea for us to go rescue those there they are loaded onto trucks that —sometimes it can just be shade. of our loved ones who may be lost carry them to their summer pastures After several hours of gathering up (see, for example, “Stand in Your in Montana. stray calves and with sweat running Appointed Place,” Liahona and On one particularly hot spring day, I down my face, I yelled to the calves in Ensign, May 2003, 54–57). With the was helping with the roundup by rid- frustration, “Just follow your moth- help of priesthood leaders, parents ing at the back of the herd as it moved ers! They know where they’re going! must continue to go back and find down the dusty road toward the cor- They’ve been down this road before!” their lost ones, assuring them there ral. My job was to gather any calves Their mothers knew that even will always be a “home” within the that had wandered from the road. The though the road was hot and dusty family and the Church, waiting for

May 2010 99 Perhaps the reason we respond so universally to our mothers’ love is because it typifies the love of our Savior. As President Joseph F. Smith said, “The love of a true mother comes nearer [to] being like the love of God than any other kind of love” (“The Love of Mother,” Improvement Era, Jan. 1910, 278). As in all things, the Savior set the perfect example in the love He showed for His earthly mother. In the final, most pivotal moment of His mortal life—after the anguish of Gethsemane, the mock trial, the crown of thorns, the heavy cross to which He was brutally nailed—Jesus looked down from the cross and saw His mother, Mary, who had come to be with her Son. His final act of love before He died was to ensure that His mother would be cared for, saying to His disciple, “Behold thy mother!” And from that point on the disciple took her unto his home. As the scriptures say, then Jesus knew that “all things were now accomplished,” and He bowed His head and died (see John 19:27–28, 30). Today I stand before you to bear my witness that Jesus Christ is the very their return. We never know when a Over my heart, in the days that are Savior and Redeemer of the world. heart may be turned. We never know flown, This is His Church, The Church of when a soul may be weary and worn No love like mother-love ever has Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Our out by the world. When that happens, shone; . . . Heavenly Father wants all of His chil- it seems our children almost always dren to return to Him. I know this turn first toward Mother, with emo- None like a mother can charm away without contradiction because of the tions like those expressed in a poem pain witness of the Holy Ghost to my heart. by Elizabeth Akers Allen: From the sick soul and the world- I didn’t always know—when I was weary brain. younger I had to rely on my parents’ Backward, flow backward, O tide of Slumber’s soft calms o’er my heavy testimony. My mother assured me that the years! lids creep; if I stayed on the road of truth, even I am so weary of toil and of tears, . . . Rock me to sleep, mother, rock me to when it seemed hot and dusty, even sleep! when there were distractions, the end Tired of the hollow, the base, the (“Rock Me to Sleep,” in The Family would be better than the beginning. I untrue, Library of Poetry and Song, ed. will be eternally grateful that Mother Mother, O mother, my heart calls for William Cullen Bryant [1870], 190–91; told me. In the name of Jesus Christ, you! . . . punctuation modernized.) amen. ■

100 Sunday Afternoon Session By Elder James B. Martino experiences that will allow us to Of the Seventy develop the traits and attributes we need to become more and more Christlike. Our trials come in many forms, but each will allow us to become more like the Savior as we All Things Work learn to recognize the good that comes from each experience. As we understand this doctrine, we gain greater Together for Good assurance of our Father’s love. We may never know in this life why we face We may never know in this life why we face what we do, but what we do, but we can feel confident we can feel confident that we can grow from the experience. that we can grow from the experience. Now, I realize that it is much easier to look back when a trial is over and see what we have learned from our hen I was young I looked Each of us will face trials and tests, experience, but the challenge is to forward to the spring of and as in this simplistic example, it is gain that eternal perspective while we W the year. As the weather how we react to those difficulties that are going through our tests. To some, warmed, I was ready for baseball to will determine our success and happi- our trials may not seem great, but to begin. Like most young boys, I would ness. Each of us will face adversity no each of us who are passing through wish that I could become a great base- matter where we are. We are taught in these experiences, the trials are real ball player. I am reminded of a story the scriptures that there “must needs and require us to humble ourselves about a very young boy with similar be . . . an opposition in all things.”1 We before God and learn from Him. dreams. With the desire to become will each face times of difficulty, and On this Easter Sunday, we remem- the next mighty ballplayer, he decided the question is not when we will face ber the life of our Savior. It is He to go outside and practice. He held them but how we face them. whom we desire to emulate in all of the baseball in one hand and the bat The Apostle Paul taught an interest- our actions. May I mention five things in the other, and he threw the ball into ing lesson only a few years before the that we can learn from those last the air. With a wish to hit the ball as far Saints in Rome were to face some of hours of the Savior’s life on earth that as he could, he took a great swing, but the most violent persecution of any can help us to face our own trials. the ball fell to the ground without Christian era. Paul reminded the Saints First, He sought not to do His will even touching the wood of the bat. that “all things work together for good but only the will of His Father. He Not to be denied, he went at it again. to them that love God.”2 Our Heavenly remained committed to His sacred As he was about to throw the ball in Father, who loves us completely and mission even through the trial. As the air, his determination grew as the perfectly, permits us to have He fell to His face in the Garden of thought of a powerful hit came into his mind. But alas, the results were the same. The ball lay on the ground. But as any good ballplayer knows, you have three strikes before you are out. He concentrated even more, threw the ball in the air, and gave the mighti- est swing he had ever attempted. As the ball again fell to the ground, the tears began to swell in his eyes. Then all of a sudden a great smile appeared, and he said, “What a pitcher!” Gethsemane, He asked, “Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done.”3 Sometimes we pass through pain and sorrow that we might grow and be prepared for potential trials in the future. I ask a question to you mothers: “Would you ever do something that would cause pain and bring tears to your children when they have done nothing wrong?” Of course you would! When mothers take young children to the doctor to receive immu- nizations, almost every child leaves the doctor’s office in tears. Why do you do that? Because you know that a small amount of pain now will protect them from possible pain and suffering in the future. Our Father in Heaven knows the end from the beginning. We need to follow the example of the Savior and trust in Him. Second, when we are faced with trials, we must learn to not complain or murmur. Nephi, after a great vision of the Savior’s atoning sacrifice, told us: “Wherefore they scourge him, and he suffereth it; and they smite him, and he suffereth it. Yea, they spit upon huge blessing in his life. He accom- or uncommitted, but let us follow him, and he suffereth it, because of his plished this by changing his own atti- the Savior’s example of becoming loving kindness and his long-suffering tude and developing a determination more earnest, more sincere, and more towards the children of men.”4 We to succeed. faithful. must always attempt to correct the Third, when we face our challenges, Fourth, learn to serve and think of problem and overcome the trial, but we must seek greater help from God. others even in our times of trial. Christ instead of asking “Why me?” or “What Even the Savior of us all found a need was the epitome of service. His life was did I do to deserve this?” maybe the to pray “more earnestly” as He was in filled with examples of helping and question should be “What am I to do? the Garden of Gethsemane.5 We can serving others, and His greatest gift of What can I learn from this experience? learn to gain great faith if we do this. all was what He did for us. As He said, What am I to change?” We must remember that often the “For behold, I, God, have suffered Several years ago while my wife answers from our Heavenly Father these things for all, that they might not and I were serving in Venezuela, our do not remove the trial from us, but suffer if they would repent.”7 We must youngest son left the comfort of his instead He helps strengthen us as we repent and then follow His example of high school to join with us. He did not pass through the experience. As He service. When we serve others, we for- complain, but it was obvious that he did for the followers of Alma, the Lord get our own problems, and by working struggled as he went to this country can “ease the burdens which are put to relieve the pain or discomfort of where everything was new to him; but upon your shoulders, that even you others, we strengthen ourselves. in an amazing turn of events, the cannot feel them upon your backs.”6 In our last general conference, our experience went from one of trial to a In our trials, let us not become bitter beloved prophet, President Thomas S.

102 Sunday Afternoon Session Monson, stated: “I believe the Savior is By Elder Gregory A. Schwitzer telling us that unless we lose ourselves Of the Seventy in service to others, there is little purpose to our own lives. Those who live only for themselves eventually shrivel up and figuratively lose their lives, while those who lose themselves in Developing Good service to others grow and flourish— and in effect save their lives.”8 Fifth, forgive others and do not seek Judgment and Not to pass the blame of our situation to them. Sometimes we like to say, “If they had not done this, then I would not Judging Others have reacted the way I did.” There is a tendency for the natural man to pass Good judgment is needed not only in understanding people blame to someone else so as not to be but also in facing decisions that often lead us to or away accountable for his or her own actions. from our Heavenly Father. The Savior looked at those who had nailed Him to the cross and pled with His Father in Heaven to “forgive them; for they know not what they do.”9 Can we not be more forgiving? e live in a world in which visited the home of Mary and Martha, As we pass through the trials of life, many situations require us to who lived in Bethany with their let us keep an eternal perspective, let Wmake judgments that are brother, Lazarus. It was a welcome us not complain, let us become even often difficult. Yet the Savior gave the place for the Master, where He could more prayerful, let us serve others, commandment to “judge not” our rest and enjoy the surroundings of a and let us forgive one another. As we fellowman.1 How can we do this and righteous home. During one of His vis- do this, “all things [will] work together still exercise good judgment in a world its, Martha was busy preparing a meal for good to [us] that love God.”10 I full of deception and corruption? We and Mary elected to sit at the Master’s bear a solemn and certain witness that must judge well when making critical feet to receive His instruction. our Father loves us and He sent His decisions in each phase of our life, “But Martha was cumbered about Son to show and pave the way for us. such as choosing friends, finding an much serving, and came to him, and He suffered, He died, and He was res- eternal companion, or choosing an said, Lord, dost thou not care that my urrected that we might live, and He occupation that will allow us to care sister hath left me to serve alone? . . . desires that we “might have joy,”11 for our family and serve the Lord. “And Jesus answered and said unto even in our trials of life. I say this in Although the Savior asked us not to her, Martha, Martha, thou art careful the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ judge others, He still expects us to use and troubled about many things: NOTES excellent judgment. “But one thing is needful: and Mary 1. 2 Nephi 2:11. We may often find ourselves mak- hath chosen that good part, which 2. Romans 8:28. ing quick judgments about people, shall not be taken away from her.”2 3. Luke 22:42. 4. 1 Nephi 19:9. which can change or redefine our rela- Many Sunday lessons have been 5. Luke 22:44. tionships with them. Often incorrect taught using this story which have cast 6. Mosiah 24:14. judgments are made because of lim- Martha in a lesser position in terms of 7. Doctrine and Covenants 19:16. 8. Thomas S. Monson, “What Have I Done for ited information or because we do not her faith. Yet there is another story of Someone Today?” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. see beyond that which is immediately this great woman, Martha, which gives 2009, 85. in front of us. us a deeper view of her understanding 9. Luke 23:34. 10. Romans 8:28. By way of illustration, the story is and testimony. It happened when the 11. 2 Nephi 2:25. often told of the time when Jesus Savior arrived to raise her brother,

May 2010 103 His divine power over life. A misjudg- ment of Martha may have caused us not to know the true nature of this wonderful woman. On a personal level, as a young physician I learned a great lesson about making quick judgments. While I was working a midnight shift in an emergency department, a young man and his wife came in because she was suffering some severe pain. From their dress and hygiene, it was easy to see that theirs had been a rough life. His hair was ill kempt and very long. Their clothing had not been washed for some time, and the effects of a rough life were written on both of their faces. After an examination, I sat down with him to explain the problem and discuss the treatment. This man looked at me with a deep clarity of love that is rarely experienced and asked with all the love of a caring husband, “Doctor, will my dear wife be all right?” At that moment, I felt the Spirit testify that he was a child of God and saw in his eyes the evidence of the Savior. This man truly projected love for another, and I had misjudged him. It was a lesson that left a lasting impression. Lazarus, from the dead. On this occa- thou art the Christ, the Son of God, Good judgment is needed not only sion it was Martha whom we find which should come into the world.”3 in understanding people but also in going to Jesus “as soon as she heard” How often has Martha been mis- facing decisions that often lead us to He was coming. As she meets Him, judged as being a person who cared or away from our Heavenly Father. As I she says that she knows that “whatso- more for the deeds of doing than for look back over my own personal life, ever [He would] ask of God, God the Spirit? However, her testimony in I can see many instances in which a [would] give [Him].” the trial of her brother’s death clearly slight change of course based on poor Christ then shared with Martha shows the depth of her understanding judgment would have led me far from the great doctrine of the resurrection, and faith. where the Lord wanted me to be— saying: Many a sister has often heard the decisions like having a family while “I am the resurrection, and the life: first story and wondered if she were a obtaining an education, being active he that believeth in me, though he Mary or a Martha, yet the truth lies in in all aspects of the gospel, paying were dead, yet shall he live: knowing the whole person and in tithes and offerings when income was “And whosoever liveth and using good judgment. By knowing severely limited, and accepting callings believeth in me shall never die. more about Martha, we find she was at difficult times, which helped me Believest thou this?” actually a person of deep spiritual to understand more about sacrifice. She responded with her powerful character who had a bold and daring Many blessings in life are missed testimony: “Yea, Lord: I believe that testimony of the Savior’s mission and because worldly judgment was applied

104 Sunday Afternoon Session to what was really a spiritual decision. our baptism, but often we leave this promised blessings. The Book of There are many characteristics of gift on the shelf, forgetting that He will Mormon, in addition to being another people who have developed good help us in the most important judg- testament of Jesus Christ, is a book judgment. I would offer four guides ments of our lives. The Lord gave us about the results of keeping and not for developing such judgment in mak- this gift, knowing we would face diffi- keeping commandments. The Lord said ing important decisions. cult decisions in life. Listening to this to Nephi in the second chapter of his First, put your own personal stan- voice is vital in developing good judg- first book, “Inasmuch as ye shall keep dards in alignment with the gospel of ment. A relationship of listening often my commandments, ye shall prosper.”5 Jesus Christ. A person can never be a requires a quiet environment in which This same promise was repeated good judge without the gospel of Jesus we can take time to ponder and hear by almost every major prophet in the Christ as a reference. The gospel has a the still, small voice. This peaceful Book of Mormon. A thousand years of long and successful record of guiding environment is both external and history is then recorded which bears people to happiness. Some of the internal. Therefore, it is more than witness that these things are true. And world’s ideas leave mankind adrift shutting off the music of the world the same message applies to us today. to try to define their own standards. or the blare of other media; it is also Good judgment is best learned and Because of this, we hear phrases like “a shutting off the noise of sin that is practiced within the bounds the Lord new morality.” This phrase is deceptive! internal to our soul. This will open the sets by giving us commandments. The standards of morality are eternal communication with the Spirit, which I testify that when we face difficult and have not changed; neither should is so badly needed. decisions and follow these guidelines, we try to discover a new interpretation Christ said: “Peace I leave with you, we can know better how we should of them. For the youth these standards my peace I give unto you: not as the judge. In the name of Jesus Christ, are written in the pamphlet For the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not amen. ■ Strength of Youth. These standards are your heart be troubled, neither let it clearly aligned with the gospel of Jesus be afraid.”4 The peace that comes NOTES Christ and are intended to continue from listening to the Holy Spirit 1. Matthew 7:1. See also Matthew 7:1, footnote a; from Joseph Smith Translation, through adult life. Perhaps it would be removes the fear of making a poor where the Savior commands us to “judge good for us as adults to study and apply judgment in life. not unrighteously.” this pamphlet to our lives. Fourth, keep the commandments. 2. Luke 10:40–42. 3. See John 11:20–27. Second, listen to the messages of The willingness to keep God’s com- 4. John 14:27. the living prophet. How many poor mandments opens to us many 5. 1 Nephi 2:20. financial judgments would have been avoided had we listened to the years of advice given through our prophets about avoiding risky speculation and following a careful budget to avoid consumer debt? How many marriages would have been saved by using good judgment in avoiding media that lead to pornographic addiction and heartache? Each general conference and Church magazine contains advice from the prophets which, if applied, will lead us to good judgment. We are left without excuse when we ignore them. Third, cultivate with the Holy Spirit a relationship of listening. We are given the gift of the Holy Ghost after

May 2010 105 By Elder Francisco J. Viñas as to things pertaining to things of Of the Seventy righteousness; for they are unclean, and no unclean thing can inherit the kingdom of God” (Alma 40:26). Nephi taught this principle to his brothers, saying to them that those Things Pertaining who “die in their wickedness . . . must be cast off also, as to the things which are spiritual, which are pertaining to to Righteousness righteousness” (1 Nephi 15:33). Samuel the Lamanite prophet taught As parents and leaders we need to watch over our members that “whosoever repenteth not is hewn and families, helping them to stay away from those things down and cast into the fire; and there that could lead them to a spiritual death. cometh upon them again a spiritual death, yea, a second death, for they are cut off again as to things pertaining to righteousness” (Helaman 14:18). The tragedy of dying as to things e are told in the Doctrine and Immediate help was sent by the that are spiritual has a greater impact Covenants that after the testi- Church to members and nonmembers for those who “have been once Wmony of the servants of God, and was distributed under the direc- enlightened by the Spirit of God, and the testimony of earthquakes and the tion of the local priesthood and Relief have had great knowledge of things testimony of other events will follow. Society leaders. They not only received pertaining to righteousness, and then “And all things shall be in commotion; medical aid, food, water, and other have fallen away into sin and transgres- and surely, men’s hearts shall fail them; basic supplies, but they also received sion[;] they become more hardened, for fear shall come upon all people” counsel, guidance, and comfort from and thus their state becomes worse (D&C 88:91; see also verses 88–90). their local leaders. They have the sup- than though they had never known As a member of the Caribbean Area port of the members of the Church these things” (Alma 24:30). Presidency, I was a personal witness to in all the world that “mourn with As parents and leaders we need to the faithful Saints who replaced fear those that mourn; yea, and comfort watch over our members and families, with faith. Lessons learned in Haiti those that stand in need of comfort” helping them to stay away from those may be likened to Book of Mormon (Mosiah 18:9). things that could lead them to a spiri- illustrations. Different prophets in different times tual death. We also seek to rescue The impression of that terrible warned us of another tragedy that is those who are now dead as to the destruction brought to my mind the less perceptible but not less important, things that are spiritual and help them words in the 28th chapter of Alma: and this is the “awful death [that] to “be born again; yea, born of God, “This was a time that there was a great cometh upon the wicked; for they die changed from their carnal and fallen mourning and lamentation heard state, to a state of righteousness, being throughout all the land” (Alma 28:4). redeemed of God, becoming his sons Forty-two members also lost their and daughters” (Mosiah 27:25). lives. While their families and friends The spiritual healing of those who “mourn for the loss of their kindred, have been dead as to the things per- yet they rejoice and exult in the hope, taining to righteousness comes about and even know, according to the through the power of the Atonement, promises of the Lord, that they are conversion to the truth, and adherence raised to dwell at the right hand of to the principles of righteousness. God, in a state of never-ending happi- Teaching our members and families ness” (Alma 28:12). about the things pertaining to

106 Sunday Afternoon Session righteousness is essential in the process of achieving an enduring conversion since it can lead them to obtain a correct knowledge of the Lord’s commandments, the principles and doctrines of the gospel, and the requirements and ordinances with which we must comply in order to achieve salvation in the Lord’s kingdom. There are many examples in the scriptures that confirm the importance of teaching the “things pertaining to righteousness” to help obtain an enduring conversion. In the account that is given of Ammon and his brethren preaching the gospel among the Lamanites, we read: “And Ammon did preach unto the people of king Lamoni; and it came to pass that he did teach them all things concerning things pertaining to righteousness” (Alma 21:23). We can see the results of diligently pertaining unto righteousness” (Alma breastplate of righteousness, and teaching all things pertaining to righ- 35:16; emphasis added). [their] feet shod with the preparation teousness as we continue reading the It is interesting to notice that he of the gospel of peace” (D&C 27:16). account in chapter 23, where it says, taught and gave his children their Just as in the times of Alma, our “As many as believed, or as many as charge separately, adapting his instruc- leaders also watch over the members were brought to the knowledge of the tions to each son, according to that of the Church and nourish them with truth . . . were converted unto the Lord son’s needs. He bore testimony and things pertaining to righteousness. [and] never did fall away” (Alma 23:6). taught them doctrine and principles, Those things will help us to achieve an When Alma the Elder established preparing them to preach those same enduring conversion. In the document the Church, he consecrated worthy principles to others. “Leadership Training Emphasis,” men as their priests and teachers who In a time when the family is under revised December 10, 2009, the First “did watch over their people, and did attack from the forces of evil and when Presidency and the Quorum of the nourish them with things pertaining to the conditions in which we live are not Twelve ask that both priesthood and righteousness” (Mosiah 23:18). so very different from those that Alma auxiliary leaders “encourage each fam- Parents play an essential role in experienced, the First Presidency and ily member, parents and children, to helping their children to understand the Quorum of the Twelve have set study the scriptures, pray regularly, the things pertaining to righteousness. forth in “The Family: A Proclamation to and live the gospel of Jesus Christ” In the Book of Mormon we find that the World” that “parents have a sacred (First Presidency letter, Dec. 15, 2009). Alma the Younger, being grieved duty to rear their children in love and Studying the scriptures, praying reg- because of the iniquity, the wars, and righteousness” (Liahona, Oct. 2004, ularly, and living the gospel of Jesus the contentions that existed and dis- 49; Ensign, Nov. 1995, 102). Christ are works of righteousness, and tressed by the hardness of heart of his This includes nurturing, support- the Lord has revealed this wonderful people, “caused that his sons should ing, and teaching children in all things promise: “He who doeth the works of be gathered together, that he might pertaining to righteousness so that righteousness shall receive his reward, give unto them every one his charge, they may remain firm, with their “loins even peace in this world, and eternal separately, concerning the things girt about with truth, having on the life in the world to come” (D&C 59:23).

May 2010 107 In order to more effectively teach By Elder Neil L. Andersen the things pertaining to righteous- Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles ness, it is important to understand that, in addition to imparting information, we must facilitate revelation. This way, the person being taught can feel the desire to know these principles for Tell Me the Stories himself or herself. The Lord revealed to Hyrum Smith through his brother the Prophet of Jesus Joseph Smith: “I will impart unto you of my Spirit, A stronger personal faith in Jesus Christ will prepare [your which shall enlighten your mind, children] for the challenges they will most surely face. which shall fill your soul with joy; “And then shall ye know . . . all things whatsoever you desire of me, which are pertaining unto things of hen you are assigned to ensnare us in his web of deceit.”5 righteousness, in faith believing in me speak at the end of the final We hold in our arms the rising gen- that you shall receive” (D&C 11:13–14). Wsession of general confer- eration. They come to this earth with In conclusion, the scriptures warn ence, you listen to every word, won- important responsibilities and great us of the danger of dying as to things dering which parts of your talk will be spiritual capacities. We cannot be pertaining to righteousness and of the given before your turn comes. There casual in how we prepare them. Our serious consequences this has for are no assigned subjects, no collabora- challenge as parents and teachers is those who, having been enlightened tion of themes. The Lord’s way, of not to create a spiritual core in their by the Spirit of God, fall into sin and course, is always the best way. He souls but rather to fan the flame of transgression. takes the individual prayerful efforts of their spiritual core already aglow with Teaching the things pertaining to each speaker and orchestrates a spiri- the fire of their premortal faith. righteousness is an important element tual symphony full of revelation and This afternoon I wish to emphasize in helping people come to a knowl- power. Repeated themes, principle the plea of a child from a Primary edge of the truth, be converted, and building upon principle, prophetic song: remain firm in the faith of Christ unto warnings, uplifting promises—the the end. divine harmony is a miracle! I testify Tell me the stories of Jesus I love Parents have the sacred duty to that in this conference we have heard to hear, teach their children regarding things and felt the mind and will of the Lord. Things I would ask him to tell me if pertaining to righteousness. Leaders President Thomas S. Monson has he were here.6 and teachers can watch over and nour- described the rising generation as “the ish the members under their care, very best ever”1 and has said to our In our world today, each child, each diligently teaching them all things youth: “You have come to this earth at young man and young woman needs pertaining to righteousness. a glorious time. The opportunities his or her own conversion to the This can be achieved more effec- before you are nearly limitless.”2 But truth. Each needs his or her own light, tively if revelation is facilitated during he also warned, “We have been placed his or her own “steadfast and immov- the teaching process, thus creating in on earth in troubled times.”3 “It is a able”7 faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, the people the desire to be enlightened time of permissiveness, with society independent of parents, youth leaders, by the Spirit of God. Then as they exer- in general routinely disregarding and and supportive friends. cise faith, the Spirit can make known to breaking the laws of God.”4 We are sur- The stories of Jesus can be like a them the things pertaining unto righ- rounded by so much that is designed rushing wind across the embers of faith teousness. Of these things I testify in to divert our attention. “The adversary in the hearts of our children. Jesus said, the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ is using every means possible to “I am the way, the truth, and the life.”8

108 Sunday Afternoon Session The stories of Jesus shared over and Have we told them of the love Jesus we testified to them of the certainty of over bring faith in the Lord Jesus Christ has for children, how He held them in His Resurrection,29 of His visit to the and strength to the foundation of testi- His arms, prayed for them, and wept?16 Nephites in the Americas,30 of His mony. Can you think of a more valuable Do our children know that Jesus appearance to the Prophet Joseph gift for our children? stands ready “with open arms to Smith in the Sacred Grove?31 Are the life and teachings of Jesus receive [them]”?17 Do they anticipate His majestic Christ embedded in the minds and Do they take strength in the stories return, when all will be made right and souls of our children? Do they think of Jesus fasting18—as we teach them every knee will bow and every tongue about the Savior’s life when they won- the law of the fast? confess that Jesus is the Christ?32 der what to do in their own lives? This In their own loneliness, do our chil- Do our children say, “Tell me the will be more and more important in dren know the loneliness the Savior stories of Jesus I love to hear”?33 the years ahead. felt as His friends deserted Him and as To the youth and children: Live up Have our children visualized the He asked His Apostles, “Will ye also go to your important responsibilities and premortal council,9 where Jesus—the away?”19 great spiritual capacities. Seek to know greatest of all—declared, “Here am I, Have our children felt the power of more about Jesus; open the scriptures. send me”?10 Do they see their own the Savior’s miracles? Jesus healed the One idea would be to read again the willingness to serve as following His leper,20 gave sight to the blind.21 He book of John and then discuss it with example? fed the 5,000,22 calmed the sea,23 and your parents, teachers, and each other. Do they think about His humble raised Lazarus from the dead.24 Do our To fathers and mothers, to grand- birth,11 the Savior of the world lying in children believe that “it is by faith that fathers and grandmothers, and to those a manger?12 Do His circumstances help miracles are wrought,”25 and do they without children of their own who lov- them better understand the proper pray for miracles in their own lives? ingly nurture children and youth, my place of material possessions? Have our children taken courage counsel is to speak more frequently Do they know that Jesus often from the Savior’s words to the ruler of about Jesus Christ. In His holy name is taught, “Ask, and ye shall receive”?13 Do the synagogue: “Be not afraid, only great spiritual power. “There [is] no His prayers of thankfulness14 and His believe”?26 other name given nor any other way . . . pleadings to His Father15 flow through Do our children know about His whereby salvation can come unto the our children’s minds as they kneel in perfect life,27 His selfless ministry, His children of men, only in and through prayer with their own concerns? betrayal and cruel Crucifixion?28 Have the name of Christ.”34

May 2010 109 To mothers who are raising their I make a special appeal to fathers: of . . . Jesus Christ . . . to atone for the children without a father in the home, Please be an important part of talking sins of the world. I promise you that as you speak of to your children about the Savior. “As my mind caught hold upon this Jesus Christ, you will feel the power They need the confirming expressions thought, I cried within my heart: O of heaven blessing you. of your faith, along with those of their Jesus, thou Son of God, have mercy After her husband passed away, mother. on me.”37 Sister Stella Oaks raised her three Although there may be times when If a child is not listening, don’t young children (including Elder a child does not listen with a believing despair. Time and truth are on your Dallin H. Oaks35) as a single mother. heart, your testimony of Jesus will side. At the right moment, your words She once said: “I was given to know remain in his or her mind and soul. will return as if from heaven itself. that the Lord loved me and that I Do you remember the story of Alma, Your testimony will never leave your would be made equal to my mission. I who had chosen the wrong path? children. felt an encircling love . . . [and knew] Returning, he said: As you reverently speak about he [would sustain us] through the “I remembered . . . my father the Savior—in the car, on the bus, opposition that [would] arise.”36 [speaking] . . . concerning the coming at the dinner table, as you kneel in prayer, during scripture study, or in late-night conversations—the Spirit of the Lord will accompany your words.38 As you do your best, the testimony of Jesus will gently distill upon your children’s hearts. They will go to their Heavenly Father in humble prayer and feel His influence through the power of the Holy Ghost. A stronger personal faith in Jesus Christ will prepare them for the challenges they will most surely face.39 I met Bill Forrest and Debbie Hutchings when we were students at Brigham Young University. Bill had returned from his mission. He and Debbie fell in love and were married in the Oakland California Temple. They established their home in Mesa, Arizona, and were blessed with five sons and two daughters. Bill and Debbie taught their children to love the Lord Jesus Christ as they loved Him. Their son, Elder Daniel Forrest, currently serving in the Mexico Oaxaca Mission, said, “Every morning without fail we were there at the table before school reading and discussing the scriptures.” Their daughter Kara, now married with two children of her own, still vividly remembers her father driving

110 Sunday Afternoon Session her to early morning activities in high How did Debbie and her seven chil- the incalculable gift of the Savior, they school. She said, “My dad enjoyed dren (the youngest only 5) find the can be with their earthly father and committing quotes, scriptures, and strength they needed? Kara, 15 at the their Heavenly Father again. poems to memory, [and during those time of her father’s accident, recently Tell me the stories of Jesus. early morning drives] we would prac- told me: “I am grateful to my [mother In a moment we will hear from the tice reciting them.” One of his and father] for the ways that they prophet of God. In speaking of His favorite scriptures was “Remember, taught me [about the Savior]. They prophet, the Lord said, “His word ye remember that it is upon the rock of opened the scriptures with me, shall receive, as if from mine own our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son prayed with me, and were examples mouth.”42 I testify that President of God, that ye must build your foun- of [the Savior’s] charity, love, and Thomas S. Monson is the Lord’s dation; that when the devil shall send patience.... Easter [is] a tender time mouthpiece upon the earth. forth his mighty winds, . . . [he] shall in my life each year as I reflect on the I testify that Jesus is the Christ, the have no power over you to drag you life, mission, and Resurrection of our Savior of all mankind. His life, His down . . . because of the rock upon Savior and am reminded of the life of Atonement, His Resurrection, His which ye are built.”40 my earthly father.” awaited return are as sure and certain On the Friday before Easter Sunday Elder Daniel Forrest said: “I was 10 as the rising sun. His name be praised in the year 2000, exactly 10 years ago, years old when my father passed away. forever and ever.43 In the holy name of Bill Forrest was serving as bishop of It was a tough time. . . . My mother has Jesus Christ, amen. ■ the Estate Groves Ward in Arizona. On always been an example of the Savior’s NOTES his drive to work, only a mile (1.6 km) teachings. I carry with me my father’s 1. Thomas S. Monson, “Constant Truths for Changing Times,” Liahona and Ensign, May from home, his car was struck by a name badge from his mission to Spain. 2005, 19. large gravel truck. Debbie and the chil- [Two] of my favorite quotes from my 2. Thomas S. Monson, “May You Have Courage,” dren left home shortly after Bill and father [are]: ‘Two men can do anything Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 123. 3. Thomas S. Monson, “Examples of unexpectedly came upon the tragic as long as one of them is the Lord’ and Righteousness,” Liahona and Ensign, May scene. Bill had not survived the acci- ‘The Savior must be our foundation. 2008, 65. dent. The immortal spirit of this Without that we flounder.’ ” 4. Thomas S. Monson, “Closing Remarks,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2009, 109. beloved husband and father had sud- Faith in Jesus Christ has filled the 5. Thomas S. Monson, “Until We Meet Again,” denly been taken home to Him who hearts of the Forrest children. On this Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 113. overcame death, the Son of God, Easter weekend, 10 years since their 6. “Tell Me the Stories of Jesus,” Children’s Songbook, 57. whose glorious Resurrection they father’s passing, they miss him deeply, 7. Alma 1:25. were to have celebrated together that but the sting of his death is “swallowed 8. John 14:6. Easter Sunday. up in Christ.”41 They know, because of 9. See Abraham 3:2–28.

May 2010 111 10. Abraham 3:27. 11. See Luke 2. By President Thomas S. Monson 12. See Luke 2:7. 13. 3 Nephi 27:29. 14. See Luke 10:21. 15. See Luke 11:2–4. 16. See 3 Nephi 17:11–24. 17. Mormon 6:17. A Word at Closing 18. See Luke 4:1–13. 19. John 6:67. Speaking to the youth last year, President Monson said: “You will . . . be called upon to defend that which you The lighthouse of the Lord sends forth signals readily believe. Unless the roots of your testimony recognized and never failing. are firmly planted, it will be difficult for you to withstand the ridicule of those who challenge your faith” (Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 126). 20. See Mark 1:40–42. his has been a wonderful closing uplifting and inspiring conference. 21. See Luke 18:35–43. session. I’ve seldom heard such After listening to the counsel and testi- 22. See Mark 6:34–44. 23. See Mark 4:35–41. Tfine sermons taught in so few monies of those who have spoken 24. See John 11:8–53. words as we’ve experienced today. to us, I believe we have been richly 25. Moroni 7:37. We’re all here because we love the blessed and are all more determined 26. Mark 5:36. 27. See 1 Peter 2:21–25. Lord. We want to serve Him. Our to live the principles of the gospel of 28. See Luke 22:47–48; 23:32–46. Heavenly Father is mindful of us. Of Jesus Christ. It has been good for us to 29. See John 20:11–23. that I testify. I acknowledge His hand be here. We express our gratitude to 30. See 3 Nephi 11–26. 31. See Joseph Smith—History 1:17. in all things. each one who has spoken to us, as well 32. See Doctrine and Covenants 88:104. One brief scripture: as to those who have offered prayers. 33. “Tell Me the Stories of Jesus.” “Trust in the Lord with all thine The music has been magnificent. I 34. Mosiah 3:17. 35. Elder Dallin H. Oaks once commented: heart; and lean not unto thine own am reminded of the scripture found “When I was a boy, I spent most of my understanding. in the Doctrine and Covenants: “For evenings reading books. One of my “In all thy ways acknowledge him, my soul delighteth in the song of the favorites was Hurlbut’s Story of the Bible 1 ..., [a] book [of] 168 stories from the and he shall direct thy paths.” heart; yea, the song of the righteous Bible. I loved these stories and read them That has been the story of my life. is a prayer unto me, and it shall be many times” (“Bible Stories and Personal My dear brothers and sisters, we answered with a blessing upon their Protection,” Ensign, Nov. 1992, 37). 2 36. Stella Oaks, “Thy Will Be Done,” in Leon R. come now to the conclusion of a most heads.” Hartshorn, comp., Remarkable Stories from the Lives of Latter-day Saint Women, 2 vols. (1973–75), 2:184. 37. Alma 36:17–18. 38. In our world today we need more than ever Enos’s words about his father to be our children’s words about us: “The words which I had often heard my father speak concerning eternal life . . . sunk deep into my heart. And my soul hungered; and I [knelt] down before my Maker” (Enos 1:3–4). 39. President Monson promised the youth: “When firmly planted, your testimony of the gospel, of the Savior, and of our Heavenly Father will influence all that you do throughout your life. . . . Your testimony, when constantly nourished, will keep you safe” (Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 126). 40. Helaman 5:12. 41. Mosiah 16:8. 42. Doctrine and Covenants 21:5. 43. See Alma 26:12.

112 Sunday Afternoon Session Remember that the messages we of other ills cause many to be tossed Church here upon the earth. have heard during this conference will about on a sea of sin and crushed on Now, as we come to the final be printed in the May issues of the the jagged reefs of lost opportunities, moments of this conference, my heart Ensign and Liahona magazines. I urge forfeited blessings, and shattered is full and my feelings tender. I express you to study the messages, to ponder dreams. my love and gratitude to you. Thank their teachings, and then to apply My counsel for all of us is to look to you for your prayers in my behalf them in your life. the lighthouse of the Lord. There is no and in behalf of all of the General I know you join with me in express- fog so dense, no night so dark, no gale Authorities of the Church. The Lord ing gratitude to those brethren and sis- so strong, no mariner so lost but what hears your prayers and blesses us and ters who have been released during this its beacon light can rescue. It beckons directs us in the affairs of His kingdom conference. They have served well and through the storms of life. The light- here upon the earth. For this we are have made significant contributions to house of the Lord sends forth signals deeply grateful. the work of the Lord. Their dedication readily recognized and never failing. As we leave this conference, I has been complete. We thank them I love the words found in Psalms: invoke the blessings of heaven upon from the bottom of our hearts. “The Lord is my rock, and my each of you. As you return to your Now, we have also sustained, by fortress, and my deliverer; my God, homes around the world, I pray our uplifted hands, brethren and sisters who my strength, in whom I will trust; . . . Heavenly Father will bless you and have been called to new positions dur- I will call upon the Lord . . . so [I your families. May the messages and ing this conference. We want them to shall] be saved from mine enemies.”3 spirit of this conference find expres- know that we look forward to working The Lord loves us, my brothers and sion in all that you do—in your homes, with them in the cause of the Master. sisters, and will bless us as we call in your work, in your meetings, and in My brothers and sisters, today, as upon Him. all your comings and goings. we look at the world around us, we How grateful we are for the I love you. I pray for you. May God are faced with problems which are restored gospel of Jesus Christ and bless you. May His promised peace be serious and of great concern to us. for all the good it brings into our with you now and always, in the name The world seems to have slipped from lives. The Lord has poured out His of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ the moorings of safety and drifted blessings upon us as a people. I bear from the harbor of peace. my testimony to you that this work NOTES 1. Proverbs 3:5–6. Permissiveness, immorality, is true, that our Savior lives, and 2. Doctrine and Covenants 25:12. pornography, dishonesty, and a host that He guides and directs His 3. Psalm 18:2–3.

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first chapter of the book of Joshua, the Lord tells him several times to By Ann M. Dibb “be strong and of a good courage.” Second Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency The word courage is defined as “mental or moral strength to . . . persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty” (Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, 11th ed. [2003], “courage”; Be of a Good Courage emphasis added). Through their courage and obedience, Joshua and [The] guides from the book of Joshua will combine to provide the children of Israel were able to the most powerful source of courage and strength there is: enter the land of promise and find faith in our Heavenly Father and in His Son, Jesus Christ. happiness in the blessings of the Lord. Joshua and the children of Israel lived long, long ago. But in our day we too are striving to enter a “land of promise.” Our greatest goal is to any times, as General the prophet who would complete this obtain eternal life with our Heavenly Authorities address the priest- miraculous journey. Father. In the first chapter of the book Mhood brethren at general con- Joshua was an influential leader. of Joshua, we find four sure guides ference, they will begin by saying that The Bible Dictionary calls him “the to help us overcome our obstacles, they feel as though they are address- highest type of the devout warrior” complete our journey, and enjoy the ing a “mighty army” of powerful priest- and indicates that his name means blessings of the Lord in our “land of hood leaders. Tonight, I feel as though “God is help” (Bible Dictionary, promise.” I am standing before a “mighty army” “Joshua”). His inspired leadership was First, in verse 5 the Lord promises of elect daughters of God. You have greatly needed because there were Joshua, “I will not fail thee, nor forsake been chosen to move forward, stand- still many rivers to cross and battles to thee.” We can find courage and ing alongside those valiant priesthood win before all that the Lord had prom- strength in this promise that the Lord holders, in righteousness in these lat- ised to the children of Israel could be will always be there for us and will ter days. You are a commanding and realized and obtained. never leave us alone. We are taught beautiful sight. The Lord knew the prophet Joshua that Heavenly Father knows and loves I would like to begin this evening and the children of Israel would need each of His children. As one of His pre- by briefly reviewing the historical con- great courage during this time. In the cious daughters, you have access to text of our theme, Joshua 1:9: “Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.” Moses was the mighty prophet who led the children of Israel out of the land of Egypt, where they had been slaves and had been influenced to worship false gods. After 40 years of hardship in the wilderness, they were ever so close to their new home, where they could be free to worship the true and living God. At Moses’s death, Joshua was called by God to be

114 General Young Women Meeting His assurance and guidance through the power of prayer. In the Doctrine and Covenants we read, “Be thou humble; and the Lord thy God shall lead thee by the hand, and give thee answer to thy prayers” (D&C 112:10). I believe these words and promise you that Heavenly Father does hear and answer our prayers. But often patience is required when we are “wait[ing] upon the Lord” (Isaiah 40:31). As we wait, we may begin to believe that we have been forsaken or that our prayers were not heard or that possibly we are not worthy to have them answered. This is not true. I love King David’s comforting words: “I waited patiently for the Lord; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry” (Psalm 40:1). No matter what you may face in your personal journey, the first guide found in Joshua reminds us to pray, be patient, and remember God’s prom- young women. I asked the older girls and will “prosper whithersoever thou ise: “I will not fail thee, nor forsake what advice they would give a new goest” (Joshua 1:7). thee” (Joshua 1:5). Beehive to help her to remain faithful In verse 8 we find our third guide. The second guide is found in and virtuous in every setting that she Here the Lord refers to a “book of the verse 7, when the Lord tells Joshua, may encounter. One young woman law” and tells Joshua to “meditate “Observe to do according to all the said, “When you walk down the halls therein day and night, that thou law ...: turn not from it to the right of your school, you might, out of the mayest observe to do according to all hand or to the left, that thou mayest corner of your eye, see something that that is written therein: . . . and then prosper whithersoever thou goest.” catches your attention, something that thou shalt have good success.” The The Lord is instructing Joshua to be doesn’t seem quite right. You may be Lord is instructing Joshua and all of us strictly obedient to the commandments curious and want to look. My advice to to read the scriptures. Daily scripture and not to deviate from the Lord’s you is this: Don’t look. I promise you’ll study—especially reading the Book of path. President Howard W. Hunter regret it if you do. Believe me; just Mormon—establishes a firm founda- taught: “Joshua knew that his obedi- look straight ahead.” tion for your developing testimony of ence would bring success, and although As I listened to this young woman, Jesus Christ and His gospel. It invites he did not know exactly how he would I knew I was hearing the Lord’s advice the Spirit into your life. President succeed, he now had confidence in the to Joshua, “Turn not from it to the Harold B. Lee counseled, “If we’re not result. . . . Surely the experiences of the right hand or to the left” (Joshua 1:7), reading the scriptures daily, our testi- great prophets [found in the scrip- applied to an everyday setting in these monies are growing thinner [and] our tures] have been recorded [and pre- latter days. Young women, avoid the spirituality isn’t increasing in depth” served] to help us understand the temptations that surround you by (Teachings of Presidents of the importance of choosing the path of strictly following the commandments. Church: Harold B. Lee [2000], 66). strict obedience” (“Commitment to Look straight ahead at your eternal Within the pages of the scriptures God,” Ensign, Nov. 1982, 57, 58). goal. The second guide reminds us are countless directions, promises, A month ago I visited a group of that in doing this you will be protected solutions, and reminders that will help

May 2010 115 day by asking students who supported a political issue to stand on one side of the room, while those who opposed it were instructed to stand on the other side. “After students had formed their sides, the teacher took her stance on the opposing side. Singling out one young woman on the side of the sup- porters, the teacher commenced an Santiago, Chile attack on her and the other classmates for their views. us in our journey to the “land of prom- Feelings, O My Brother,” Liahona and “The young woman, who was a Mia ise.” The third guide directs us to read Ensign, Nov. 2009, 69). “I invoke the Maid in her ward, absorbed the assault and meditate on the scriptures daily so blessings of heaven upon each of you” that criticized her beliefs. that we can find prosperity and success. (Liahona and Ensign, Nov. 2009, 110). “[She remained] calm in the face After the Lord finishes speaking to I invite you to listen next week in of a public attack leveled by someone Joshua, Joshua addresses the children general conference to the instructions in authority” (“What Youth Need,” of Israel. At the conclusion of his and the promises given through our Church News, Mar. 6, 2010, 16). speech, in verse 16 the children of prophet and the apostles. Then apply This young woman showed remark- Israel respond to his words and pro- the fourth guide by committing to fol- able courage on her own battlefield, vide us with our fourth guide. They low the prophet’s counsel and reaf- which on this day happened to be her answer, “All that thou commandest us firming that “all that [he] commandest school classroom. Wherever you are we will do, and whithersoever thou us we will do, and whithersoever [he] and whatever you may face, I hope you sendest us, we will go.” sendest us, we will go” (Joshua 1:16). will take advantage of the guides found As members of The Church of Jesus At the moment, these four in the book of Joshua so that you can Christ of Latter-day Saints, we have guides—prayer, obedience to God’s trust in the Lord’s promise: “Be strong the opportunity to make this same commandments, daily scripture study, and of a good courage; be not afraid, commitment to follow our prophet, and a commitment to follow the living neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord President Thomas S. Monson, who is prophet—may seem like small and thy God is with thee whithersoever here with us tonight. Through prayer simple things. Let me remind you of thou goest” (Joshua 1:9). and the confirmation of the Spirit, the scripture found in Alma: “Behold I want to leave you with my testi- each of us can gain our own personal I say unto you, that by small and sim- mony that Heavenly Father knows testimony of the living prophet. This ple things are great things brought to and loves each of you. If you turn to testimony grows as we listen to, pass” (Alma 37:6). When applied in Him, He will not fail you! He will observe, and have the courage to our everyday lives, these four “small bless you with the strength and the apply his teachings in our daily lives. and simple” guides from the book of courage you will need to complete Listening to and obeying the coun- Joshua will combine to provide the your journey back to Him. I am grate- sel of our prophet allows us access to most powerful source of courage and ful for the scriptures and for powerful special blessings. Listen to some of the strength there is: faith in our Heavenly examples like the prophet Joshua. I prophetic promises that President Father and in His Son, Jesus Christ. am grateful for President Monson, Monson extended to us in our last Heavenly Father knows our individ- who strives to lead us safely back to general conference: “May God bless ual journeys are not easy. We are faced our Heavenly Father. I pray that, like you. May His promised peace be every day with situations that require the children of Israel, we will all enter with you now and always” (“Closing courage and strength. A recent story in our “land of promise” and find rest in Remarks,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. the Church News affirms this truth: the blessings of the Lord. I say these 2009, 110). “Great promises await us if “A teacher in a high school a few things in the name of Jesus Christ, we are true and faithful” (“School Thy months ago began her instruction one amen. ■

116 General Young Women Meeting By Mary N. Cook choice to follow the plan. One hun- First Counselor in the Young Women General Presidency dred steps made an impossible task seem doable. Caroline knew we would help her, and as we looked for the good things around us and sang songs, we felt happier. Never, Never, Never Have you ever been afraid and discouraged as you’ve faced a challenge that seemed far beyond your ability? Give Up! Have you ever wanted to give up? Imagine how Joshua, the successor What does the Lord want you to do? He wants you to be a to the great prophet Moses, must have valiant and virtuous daughter of God, dedicated to living felt, knowing that he was to lead the each day so that you can be worthy to receive the blessings children of Israel to the promised land. At times I’m sure he wanted to of the temple. give up. But the Lord comforted him by reminding him three times to be strong and courageous (see Joshua 1:6–9). With faith that God would be ast August we took some of our Slowly we trudged along, three- with them, the children of Israel com- grandchildren to Timpanogos fourths of the way to our goal, but we mitted, “All that thou commandest . . . LCave National Monument, one of still had the steepest part of the moun- we will do” (Joshua 1:16). Utah’s most popular destinations. It is tain to climb. Tired, scared, and doubt- The scriptures are full of accounts a rather strenuous one-and-a-half-mile ing her abilities, Caroline sat down and of men and women who showed great (2.4 km) hike to reach the cave but tearfully declared, “I give up! I can’t go courage to do whatever the Lord com- well worth the effort to witness the any farther!” manded, even when the tasks seemed cave’s beautiful, spiraling formations. I We sat down, and we talked about impossible, even when they may have was certain that nine-year-old Ruthie what we should do. We made a plan. wanted to give up. would have little difficulty, but I won- We decided to count our steps and see What does the Lord want you to dered whether six-year-old Caroline how we felt after 100 steps. Ruthie and do? He wants you to be a valiant and would have the strength and stamina I assured Caroline that we would help virtuous daughter of God, dedicated to make it all the way. her. We were to look for something to living each day so that you can be We were all very excited to begin that made us happy along the way and worthy to receive the blessings of the the hike, and at first we moved rapidly share our discoveries. We even sang temple and return to Him. In today’s along the paved trail. One-fourth of some Primary songs. world that will take courage. You have the way came quickly, but it took longer Things changed. Caroline made the the plan of salvation, which makes it to reach the halfway point. Caroline started to get discouraged. Ruthie was doing well and encouraged Caroline to continue. We slowed down so Caroline could keep up. Then it seemed that everything went wrong. Strong winds came up, and the dust from the winds made it difficult to see. It was a little scary, and as if that weren’t enough, we came across a signpost that read, “Rattlesnake Habitat. Stay on the Trail. Stay Safe.” possible to do this. Moral agency, the Monson promised the young women, through prayer. You are His daughter. ability to choose, is an essential part of “Your testimony, when constantly He knows you and loves you. He hears this plan. You’ve already made some nourished, will keep you safe” (“May and answers your prayers. We are good choices. Before you were born, You Have Courage,” Liahona and taught countless times in the scrip- you made the choice to come to earth Ensign, May 2009, 126). tures to “pray always” (see, for exam- to receive a body and to prove your- Your testimony is strengthened ple, D&C 90:24). As you pray, the Lord self. You’ve made the choice to be “gradually through your experiences. will be with you just as the Lord was baptized, which is the first ordinance No one receives a complete testimony with Joshua. required on the path to eternal life. all at once” (True to the Faith: A Gospel We each need the help of the Savior You are now experiencing mortal life, Reference [2004], 179). You’ll recall to follow the plan and return to our where you continue to make choices, that in order to climb the steepest part Father in Heaven. Perhaps you have to learn, and to grow. Making sacred of the mountain, we approached it one made some mistakes or started down covenants and receiving the ordi- step at a time. To gain a testimony, you another path. “Because the Savior nances of the temple is another must nourish it step by step. “[Your loves you and has given His life for important step in the plan. testimony] will increase as you make you, you can repent. . . . The Savior’s As you are growing older, young decisions to keep the commandments. atoning sacrifice has made it possible women, the path is becoming steeper, As you lift and strengthen others, you for you to be forgiven of your sins” and you may want to give up. Life is will see your testimony continue to (Young Women Personal Progress more challenging, filled with decisions develop.” As you establish personal [booklet, 2009], 71). “The sooner you and temptations at every turn. Satan habits of prayer, scripture study, obedi- repent, the sooner you will find the will blow winds of confusion that may ence to the commandments, and blessings that come from forgiveness” cause you to question if this is the service to others, “you will be blessed (For the Strength of Youth [pamphlet, path you want to take. You may be with moments of inspiration that will 2001], 30). tempted to try another route, even [strengthen] your testimony” (see Determine now to do what is when signs of danger are posted. You True to the Faith, 179–80). required to repent. “Partake worthily may doubt your abilities, and you may Personal Progress provides a won- of the sacrament each week and fill wonder as one young woman did, “Is derful way for you to nourish your tes- your life with virtuous activities that it really possible to remain virtuous in timony step by step. Value experiences will bring spiritual power. As you do today’s world?” The answer, my young and projects are small steps that will this, you will grow stronger in your friends, is “Yes!” And my counsel to nourish your testimony of Jesus Christ ability to resist temptation, keep the you is similar to that given by Winston as you learn His teachings and regu- commandments, and become more Churchill during World War II: never, larly apply them in your life. This con- like Jesus Christ” (Young Women never, never give up! (see “Never Give stant nourishment will keep you safely Personal Progress, 71). In” [speech, Harrow School, London, on the path. Latter-day prophets are on the England, Oct. 29, 1941]). Second, seek the help of others to earth to help you as well. Prophets This will take great courage, but give you added strength and support. speak for today. Be riveted on their you have His plan! What will help you Look first to your Heavenly Father words. They will give you the sign- follow the plan and be a valiant and posts that will warn you of danger virtuous daughter of God? First, gain a and keep you safely on the path. The strong testimony, step by step. Second, signposts specific to you are found seek the help of Heavenly Father, in For the Strength of Youth. “Follow Jesus Christ, your family, and others the prophet; he knows the way” who will support you in your decision (Children’s Songbook, “Follow the to follow the plan. And finally, live to Prophet,” 110–11). be worthy of the companionship of One of the great blessings of the the Holy Ghost. plan is that we are organized into fami- Of the importance of gaining a lies. You have parents whose greater strong testimony, President Thomas S. wisdom and experience will help you

118 General Young Women Meeting reach your divine potential. Trust Finally, live to be worthy of the upset, and then she thought, “I’ve them. They want the best for you. companionship of the Holy Ghost. been prepared for this. The Spirit Learn from your mother, your When we helped Caroline, looked for prompted me to read Matthew, and grandmother, and other righteous the good around us, and even sang I must love and pray for my friends.” women with strong testimonies. The Primary songs, we invited the Spirit. The small step of reading the scrip- role of a mother in the plan is to be a We felt love, joy, and peace, which are tures prepared her to respond in a nurturer. Mothers, no one loves your fruits of the Spirit (see Galatians 5:22). Christlike way. From that experience, daughter as you do. You are her best You will need that peace and assur- she was assured that the Lord knew leader, mentor, and example. We ance when Satan tries to confuse you her, and through the promptings of hope you will accept the invitation to with winds of doubt, when you are the Holy Ghost, she knew what she work on Personal Progress with your tempted to take another path, or was to do. daughter. As I learned from working when others are unkind or mock you My dear young women, I have met on the virtue value with my mother, for your beliefs. many of you who, just like Julie, have your relationship will be strength- Let me share with you the experi- not given up when faced with difficult ened and you both will be blessed ence of Julie, a young woman who was circumstances but have chosen to by your mutual love, support, and able to face a challenge by following follow the plan. I pray that step by encouragement. the promptings of the Holy Ghost. step you will continue to strengthen Young women, choose good friends She was studying the Old Testament your testimony. Seek the help of who will support you in your righteous one day, and the thought came to her our Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ, decision to follow the plan. Like mind, “Read Matthew 5. Read Matthew prophets, and others who will support Ruthie, who gave encouragement to 5.” She thought, “Why would the you in your decision to follow the Caroline, we know that many of you thought come to me to read the New plan. Live a virtuous life so that you can do much to strengthen each Testament?” She acted on that prompt- may have the companionship of the other. After you receive your Young ing and read in Matthew, “Love your Holy Ghost to safely guide you. I tes- Womanhood Recognition, it is your enemies, bless them that curse you, do tify that if you will do these things, the turn to be the “big sister.” Earning good to them that hate you, and pray Lord will be with you and you will be your Honor Bee will give you opportu- for them which despitefully use you, able to stay on the path that leads to nities to strengthen another young and persecute you” (Matthew 5:44). the temple and to eternal life. “Be woman with your righteous example The next day she had some difficul- strong and of a good courage” (Joshua and testimony as you mentor her with ties with her friends who were unkind 1:9) and never, never, never give up! her Personal Progress. and betrayed her. At first she was very In the name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■

May 2010 119 By Elaine S. Dalton will continue to stand firm no matter Young Women General President what storms may rage around us because we know and testify that “it is upon the rock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that [we] must build [our] foundation ..., a Remember foundation whereon if [we] build [we] cannot fall.”4 The Lord’s counsel to Joshua is His Who You Are! counsel to you today, the “youth of the noble birthright.”5 “Be strong and of a There is no more beautiful sight than a young woman who good courage; be not afraid, neither glows with the light of the Spirit, who is confident and be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy courageous because she is virtuous. God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.”6 You are not alone! Though you may be the only Latter-day Saint in your school or your group of friends or even your family, you are not alone. e are daughters of our This is a magnificent time to be on You can rely on the strength of the Heavenly Father. He loves the earth and to be a young woman. Lord. As Joshua said to the Israelites, W us, and we love Him.1 I am Our vision remains the same. It is to “Sanctify yourselves: for to morrow humbled and grateful to be in your be worthy to make and keep sacred the Lord will do wonders among presence. The Lord has blessed me covenants and receive the ordinances you.”7 This was Joshua’s call for a with a very clear understanding of who of the temple. This is our superlative return to virtue, and it is the same call you are and why you are here on the goal! And so we will continue to lead to us today. We simply cannot do the earth at this time. The Lord loves you, the world in a return to virtue—a work we have been reserved and pre- and I know you love Him. It shows in return to chastity and moral purity. We pared to do unless we can access the your countenance, in your modesty, in will continue to do all we can to help strength and confidence that comes your desire to choose the right, and each other “stand . . . in holy places”2 by living a virtuous life. in your commitment to remain virtu- and receive, recognize, and rely on the You are young women of great ous and pure. Holy Ghost. faith. You brought your faith with you Together we have shared many We will continue to talk of Christ, to when you came to the earth. Alma choice spiritual moments. We have rejoice in Christ, that each of us will teaches us that in the premortal borne testimony in camps around know to what source we may look for realms you exhibited “exceeding faith campfires, in chapels, and in firesides. a remission of our sins.3 And yes, we and good works.”8 You fought with We have been warmed by the fire of your faith and testimony to defend the our faith. We have climbed mountains plan that was presented by God. You and unfurled golden banners—from knew the plan was good, and you Brazil to Bountiful—signifying the knew that the Savior would do what commitment deep within our hearts He said He would do—because you to remain virtuous and to always be knew Him! You stood with Him, and worthy to enter the temple. We have you were eager for your opportunity prayed, read the Book of Mormon, to come to earth. You knew what was and smiled every day, and together going to be required of you. You knew with our mothers, grandmothers, it would be difficult, and yet you were and leaders, we are working on our confident not only that you could Personal Progress. And we have only accomplish your divine mission but just begun! that you could make a difference. You

120 General Young Women Meeting are “choice spirits who were reserved not significant—that you are out of inherited a royal birthright. Each of to come forth in the fulness of times fashion and out of touch. The world you has a divine heritage. “You are to take part in laying the foundations calls to you with unrelenting, noisy literally the royal daughters of our of the great latter-day work, including voices to “live it up,” “try everything,” Father in Heaven.”13 Each of you was the building of the temples and the “experiment and be happy.” Conversely, born to be a queen. performance of ordinances therein.”9 the Holy Ghost whispers and the Lord When I was attending Brigham And now you are here to do what invites you to “walk in the paths of Young University, I learned what it you have been reserved and prepared virtue,” “lay aside the things of this truly means to be a queen. I was given to do. As I look out at you tonight, world,” “and cleave unto [your] a unique opportunity, along with a I wonder if this is what Helaman’s covenants.”11 small group of other students, to stripling warriors’ girlfriends must I have always loved the story of meet the prophet, President David O. have looked like! No wonder Satan has the son of King Louis XVI of France McKay. I was told to wear my best increased the intensity of his attacks because he had an unshakable knowl- dress and to be ready to travel early on your identity and virtue. If you can edge of his identity. As a young man, the next morning to Huntsville, Utah, be dismayed, discouraged, distracted, he was kidnapped by evil men who to the home of the prophet. I will delayed, or disqualified from being had dethroned his father, the king. never forget the experience I had. As worthy to receive the guidance of the These men knew that if they could soon as we entered the home, I felt Holy Ghost or to enter the Lord’s holy destroy him morally, he would not be the spirit which filled that home. We temple, he wins. heir to the throne. For six months were seated in the prophet’s living Young women of The Church of they subjected him to every vile thing room, surrounding him. President Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, life had to offer, and yet he never McKay had on a white suit, and seated remember who you are! You are elect. yielded under pressure. This puzzled next to him was his wife. He asked for You are daughters of God. You cannot his captors, and after doing every- each of us to come forward and tell be a generation of young women who thing they could think of, they asked him about ourselves. As I went for- are content to fit in. You must have him why he had such great moral ward, he held out his hand and held the courage to stand out, to “arise and strength. His reply was simple. He mine, and as I told him about my life shine forth, that thy light may be a said, “I cannot do what you ask, for I and my family, he looked deeply into standard for the nations.”10 The world was born to be a king.”12 my eyes. would have you believe that you are Like the king’s son, each of you has After we had finished, he leaned

May 2010 121 of the Holy Ghost . . . quickens all the intellectual faculties, increases, enlarges, expands and purifies all the natural passions and affections. . . . It inspires virtue, kindness, goodness, tenderness, gentleness and charity. It develops beauty of person, form and features.”16 Now, that is a great beauty secret! That is the beauty I observed in the home of a prophet. That day I learned that the beauty I saw in Sister McKay was the only beauty that really matters and the only kind of beauty that lasts. Alma asks a penetrating question for each of us to consider: “Have back in his chair and reached for his purchased. It is the kind of beauty that [you] received his image in your wife’s hand and said, “Now, young doesn’t wash off. It is spiritual attrac- countenances?”17 women, I would like you to meet my tiveness. Deep beauty springs from Recently, a group of young women queen.” There seated next to him was virtue. It is the beauty of being chaste visited my office. At the end of the his wife, Emma Ray McKay. Although and morally clean. It is the kind of visit, one young woman confided she did not wear a crown of sparkling beauty that you see in the eyes of vir- with tears in her eyes, “I have never diamonds, nor was she seated on a tuous women like your mother and thought of myself as beautiful. I have throne, I knew she was a true queen. grandmother. It is a beauty that is always felt very ordinary. But today, Her white hair was her crown, and earned through faith, repentance, as I walked past the mirror in your her pure eyes sparkled like jewels. As and honoring covenants. office and glanced into it, I was beau- President and Sister McKay spoke of The world places so much empha- tiful!” She was beautiful because her their family and their life together, sis on physical attractiveness and face shone with the Spirit. She saw their intertwined hands spoke vol- would have you believe that you are herself as our Heavenly Father sees umes about their love. Joy radiated to look like the elusive model on the her. She had received His image from their faces. Hers was a beauty cover of a magazine. The Lord would in her countenance. That is deep that cannot be purchased. It came tell you that you are each uniquely beauty. from years of seeking the best gifts, beautiful. When you are virtuous, Young women, look into the mirror becoming well educated, seeking chaste, and morally clean, your inner of eternity. Remember who you are! knowledge by study and also by faith. beauty glows in your eyes and in your See yourself as our Heavenly Father It came from years of hard work, of face. My grandfather used to say, “If sees you. You are elect. You are of faithfully enduring trials with opti- you live close to God and His infinite noble birth. Don’t compromise your mism, trust, strength, and courage. It grace—you won’t have to tell, it will divine inheritance. You were born to came from her unwavering devotion show in your face.”14 When you are be a queen. Live so you are worthy to and fidelity to her husband, her family, worthy of the companionship of the enter the temple and there receive and the Lord. Holy Ghost, you are confident and “all that [the] Father hath.”18 Develop On that fall day in Huntsville, Utah, your inner beauty shines brightly. And deep beauty. There is no more beauti- I was reminded of my divine identity, so “let virtue garnish thy thoughts ful sight than a young woman who and I learned about what I now call unceasingly; then shall thy confidence glows with the light of the Spirit, who “deep beauty”—the kind of beauty wax strong in the presence of God; is confident and courageous because that shines from the inside out. It is and . . . the Holy Ghost shall be thy she is virtuous. the kind of beauty that cannot be constant companion.”15 Remember, you are daughters of painted on, surgically created, or We have been taught that “the gift our Heavenly Father. He loves you so

122 General Young Women Meeting much that He sent His Son to show you the way to live, so that you could return to Him someday. I testify that as Video Presentation: you draw close to the Savior, His infinite Atonement makes it possible for you to repent, to change, to be pure, I Have a Purpose and to receive His image in your countenance. His Atonement will enable The following is a transcript of a video shown during the you to be strong and courageous as general Young Women meeting held on March 27, 2010. you continue to raise your banner for virtue. You are golden. You are the banner! And so I conclude with the Lord’s words to each of us, His precious resident Thomas S. Monson: will be increased that you are a daugh- daughters: “Behold, . . . thou art an “Again, my dear young sisters, ter of a loving God.”3 elect lady, whom I have called.”19 Palthough there have always been Mary N. Cook, first counselor in the “Walk in the paths of virtue.... Lay challenges in the world, many of Young Women general presidency: aside the things of [the] world.... those which you face are unique to “You, my dear young women, have Cleave unto the covenants which this time.”1 already made many good choices. thou hast made.... Keep my com- Elaine S. Dalton, Young Women Now you must establish patterns of mandments continually, and a crown general president: “In order to be virtu- virtue that will keep you on this path of righteousness thou shalt receive.”20 ous and remain virtuous, you must be throughout your life.”4 Of this I bear my witness in the holy true to your divine identity and estab- President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, name of our Savior, Jesus Christ, lish patterns of thought and behavior Second Counselor in the First amen. ■ based on high moral standards.”2 Presidency: “Sisters, trust and rely on NOTES President Henry B. Eyring, First the Spirit. As you take the normal 1. See “Young Women Theme,” Young Women Counselor in the First Presidency: opportunities of your daily life and Personal Progress (booklet, 2009), 3. “I pray with all my heart that your faith create something of beauty and 2. Doctrine and Covenants 87:8. 3. See 2 Nephi 25:26. 4. Helaman 5:12. 5. “Carry On,” Hymns, no. 255. 6. Joshua 1:9. 7. Joshua 3:5; see also Guide to the Scriptures, “Sanctification,” scriptures.lds.org. 8. Alma 13:3. 9. Doctrine and Covenants 138:53–54. 10. Doctrine and Covenants 115:5. 11. Doctrine and Covenants 25:2, 10, 13. 12. See Vaughn J. Featherstone, “The King’s Son,” New Era, Nov. 1975, 35. 13. Ezra Taft Benson, “To the Young Women of the Church,” Ensign, Nov. 1986, 85. 14. Author unknown; see Elaine S. Dalton, “It Shows in Your Face,” Liahona and Ensign, May 2006, 109. 15. Doctrine and Covenants 121:45–46. 16. Parley P. Pratt, Key to the Science of Theology, 10th ed. (1965), 101; emphasis added. 17. Alma 5:14. 18. Doctrine and Covenants 84:38. 19. Doctrine and Covenants 25:3. 20. Doctrine and Covenants 25:2, 10, 13, 15.

May 2010 123 helpfulness, you improve not only the By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf world around you but also the world Second Counselor in the First Presidency within you.”5 Ann M. Dibb, second counselor in the Young Women general presidency: “The small and simple things you choose to do today will Your Happily Ever After be magnified into great and glorious blessings tomorrow.”6 Heavenly Father offers to you the greatest gift of all—eternal Elaine S. Dalton, Young Women life—and the opportunity and infinite blessing of your own general president: “Can one righteous “happily ever after.” young woman change the world? The answer is a resounding ‘yes!’... It is the daily consistent things you do that will strengthen you to be a leader and an example—daily prayer, daily y dear young sisters all Aren’t those wonderful words to scripture study, daily obedience, daily around the world, I am grate- begin a story? “Once upon a time” service to others. As you do these Mful and honored to be with promises something: a story of things, you will grow closer to the you today. President Thomas S. adventure and romance, a story of Savior and become more and more Monson and all the leaders of the princesses and princes. It may include like Him.”7 Church love you; we pray for you, and tales of courage, hope, and everlasting President Thomas S. Monson: we rejoice in your faithfulness. love. In many of these stories, nice “My young friends, be strong.... You Over the years I have been exposed overcomes mean and good overcomes know what is right and what is wrong, to many beautiful languages—each of evil. But perhaps most of all, I love it and no disguise, however appealing, them is fascinating and remarkable; when we turn to the last page and our can change that [truth]. If your so- each has its particular charm. But as eyes reach the final lines and we see called friends urge you to do anything different as these languages can be, the enchanting words “And they lived you know to be wrong, you be the they often have things in common. happily ever after.” one to make a stand for right, even if For example, in most languages there Isn’t that what we all desire: to be you stand alone.”8 ■ exists a phrase as magical and full of the heroes and heroines of our own promise as perhaps any in the world. stories; to triumph over adversity; to NOTES That phrase is “Once upon a time.” experience life in all its beauty; and, in 1. Thomas S. Monson, “May You Have the end, to live happily ever after? Courage,” Liahona and Ensign, Today I want to draw your attention May 2009, 127. 2. Elaine S. Dalton, “Come Let Us Go Up to to something very significant, very the Mountain of the Lord,” Liahona and extraordinary. On the first page of your Ensign, May 2009, 121. Young Women Personal Progress 3. Henry B. Eyring, “Walk in the Light,” Liahona and Ensign, May 2008, 125. book, you will find these words: “You 4. Mary N. Cook, “A Virtuous Life—Step by are a beloved daughter of Heavenly Step,” Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 117. Father, prepared to come to the earth 5. Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “Happiness, Your Heritage,” Liahona and Ensign, Nov. at this particular time for a sacred and 2008, 119. glorious purpose.”1 6. Ann M. Dibb, “Be Thou an Example Sisters, those words are true! They of the Believers,” Liahona and Ensign, May 2009, 116. are not made up in a fairy tale! Isn’t it 7. Elaine S. Dalton, “It Shows in Your Face,” remarkable to know that our eternal Liahona and Ensign, May 2006, 109. Heavenly Father knows you, hears 8. Thomas S. Monson, “Examples of Righteousness,” Liahona and Ensign, you, watches over you, and loves you May 2008, 65. with an infinite love? In fact, His love

124 General Young Women Meeting for you is so great that He has granted compelled to suffer long hours of adversity. Why must all experience sad- you this earthly life as a precious gift servitude and ridicule. ness and tragedy? Why could we not of “once upon a time,” complete with In “Beauty and the Beast,” Belle simply live in bliss and peace, each day your own true story of adventure, trial, becomes a captive to a frightful-looking filled with wonder, joy, and love? and opportunities for greatness, nobil- beast in order to save her father. She The scriptures tell us there must be ity, courage, and love. And, most glori- sacrifices her home and family, all she opposition in all things, for without it ous of all, He offers you a gift beyond holds dear, to spend several months we could not discern the sweet from price and comprehension. Heavenly in the beast’s castle. the bitter.2 Would the marathon run- Father offers to you the greatest gift of In the tale “Rumpelstiltskin,” a poor ner feel the triumph of finishing the all—eternal life—and the opportunity miller promises the king that his race had she not felt the pain of the and infinite blessing of your own “hap- daughter can spin straw into gold. The hours of pushing against her limits? pily ever after.” king immediately sends for her and Would the pianist feel the joy of mas- But such a blessing does not come locks her in a room with a mound of tering an intricate sonata without the without a price. It is not given simply straw and a spinning wheel. Later in painstaking hours of practice? because you desire it. It comes only the story she faces the danger of losing In stories, as in life, adversity through understanding who you are her firstborn child unless she can teaches us things we cannot learn oth- and what you must become in order guess the name of the magical creature erwise. Adversity helps to develop a to be worthy of such a gift. who helped her in this impossible task. depth of character that comes in no In each of these stories, Cinderella, other way. Our loving Heavenly Father Trial Is Part of the Journey Belle, and the miller’s daughter have has set us in a world filled with chal- For a moment, think back about to experience sadness and trial before lenges and trials so that we, through your favorite fairy tale. In that story they can reach their “happily ever opposition, can learn wisdom, become the main character may be a princess after.” Think about it. Has there ever stronger, and experience joy. or a peasant; she might be a mermaid been a person who did not have to go Let me share with you a personal or a milkmaid, a ruler or a servant. through his or her own dark valley of experience I had as a teenager while You will find one thing all have in com- temptation, trial, and sorrow? our family was attending church in mon: they must overcome adversity. Sandwiched between their “once Frankfurt, Germany. Cinderella has to endure her wicked upon a time” and “happily ever after,” One Sunday the missionaries stepmother and evil stepsisters. She is they all had to experience great brought a new family to our meetings

May 2010 125 whom I hadn’t seen before. It was a terms with the mother of the girl of endure it well, God shall exalt [you] mother with two beautiful daughters. your dreams. on high.”3 I thought that these missionaries were Years later, after I had finished my Enduring adversity is not the only doing a very, very good job. training as a fighter pilot in the air thing you must do to experience a I particularly took notice of the force, I experienced a modern miracle happy life. Let me repeat: how you one daughter with gorgeous dark hair in Harriet’s response to my continued react to adversity and temptation is a and large brown eyes. Her name was courting. One day she said, “Dieter, critical factor in whether or not you Harriet, and I think I fell in love with you have matured much over these arrive at your own “happily ever after.” her from the first moment I saw her. past years.” Unfortunately, this beautiful young I moved quickly after that, and Stay True to What You Know Is Right woman didn’t seem to feel the same within a few months I was married Sisters, young sisters, beloved about me. She had many young men to the woman I had loved ever since I young sisters, stay true to what you who wanted to make her acquain- first saw her. The process hadn’t been know is right. Everywhere you look tance, and I began to wonder if she easy—there were moments of suffering today, you will find promises of happi- would ever see me as anything but a and despair—but finally my happiness ness. Ads in magazines promise total friend. But I didn’t let that deter me. I was full, and it still is, even more so. bliss if you will only buy a certain out- figured out ways to be where she was. My dear young sisters, you need to fit, shampoo, or makeup. Certain When I passed the sacrament, I made know that you will experience your media productions glamorize those sure I was in the right position so that own adversity. None is exempt. You who embrace evil or who give in to I would be the one to pass the sacra- will suffer, be tempted, and make mis- base instincts. Often these same peo- ment to her. takes. You will learn for yourself what ple are portrayed as models of success When we had special activities at every heroine has learned: through and accomplishment. church, I rode my bike to Harriet’s overcoming challenges come growth In a world where evil is portrayed house and rang the doorbell. Harriet’s and strength. as good and good as evil, sometimes it mother usually answered. In fact, she It is your reaction to adversity, not is difficult to know the truth. In some opened the kitchen window of their the adversity itself, that determines ways it is almost like Little Red Riding apartment on the fourth floor and how your life’s story will develop. Hood’s dilemma: when you are not asked what I wanted. I would ask if There are those among you who, quite sure what you are seeing, is it a Harriet would like a ride to church on although young, have already suffered beloved grandmother or is it a danger- my bicycle. Harriet’s mother would a full measure of grief and sorrow. My ous wolf? say, “No, she will be coming later, heart is filled with compassion and I spent many years in the cockpit but I will be happy to ride with you to love for you. How dear you are to the of an airplane. My task was to get a big church.” This wasn’t exactly what I had Church. How beloved you are of your jet safely from any part of the world to in mind, but how could I decline? Heavenly Father. Though it may seem our desired destination. I knew with And so we rode to church. I must that you are alone, angels attend you. certainty that if I wanted to travel from admit I had a very impressive road Though you may feel that no one can New York to Rome, I needed to fly bike. Harriet’s mother sat on the top understand the depth of your despair, east. If some were to tell me that I tube bar just in front of me, and I tried our Savior, Jesus Christ, understands. should fly south, I knew there was no to be the most elegant bicycle driver He suffered more than we can possi- truth in their words. I would not trust over roads of rough cobblestone. bly imagine, and He did it for us; He them because I knew for myself. No Time passed. While beautiful did it for you. You are not alone. amount of persuasion, no amount of Harriet was seeing many other young If you ever feel your burden is too flattery, bribery, or threats could con- men, it seemed that I could not make great to bear, lift your heart to your vince me that flying south would get any headway with her. Heavenly Father, and He will uphold me to my destination because I knew. Was I disappointed? Yes. and bless you. He says to you, as He We all search for happiness, and we Was I defeated? Absolutely not! said to Joseph Smith, “[Your] adversity all try to find our own “happily ever Actually, looking back I recognize and [your] afflictions shall be but a after.” The truth is, God knows how to that it doesn’t hurt at all to be on good small moment; and then, if [you] get there! And He has created a map

126 General Young Women Meeting for you; He knows the way. He is your beloved Heavenly Father, who seeks your good, your happiness. He desires with all the love of a perfect and pure Father that you reach your supernal destination. The map is available to all. It gives explicit directions of what to do and where to go to everyone who is striving to come unto Christ and “stand as [a witness] of God at all times and in all things, and in all places.”4 All you have to do is trust your Heavenly Father. Trust Him enough to follow His plan. Nevertheless, not all will follow the strive to bring out the best in yourself Sisters, we love you. We pray for map. They may look at it. They may and others. you. Be strong and of good courage. think it is reasonable, perhaps even Learn to accept and act upon the You are truly royal spirit daughters of true. But they do not follow the divine Young Women values. Live the stan- Almighty God. You are princesses, des- directions. Many believe that any road dards in For the Strength of Youth. tined to become queens. Your own will take them to a “happily ever after.” These standards guide and direct you wondrous story has already begun. Some may even become angry when to your “happily ever after.” Living Your “once upon a time” is now. others who know the way try to help these standards will prepare you to As an Apostle of the Lord Jesus and tell them. They suppose that such make sacred covenants in the temple Christ, I leave you my blessing and advice is outdated, irrelevant, out of and establish your own legacy of good- give you a promise that as you accept touch with modern life. ness in your individual circumstances. and live the values and principles of Sisters, they suppose wrong. “Stand . . . in holy places, and be not the restored gospel of Jesus Christ, moved,”5 regardless of temptations or “[you] will be prepared to strengthen The Gospel Is the Way to difficulties. I promise you that future home and family, make and keep Happily Ever After generations will be grateful for you sacred covenants, receive the ordi- I understand that, at times, some and praise your name for your courage nances of the temple, and enjoy the may wonder why they attend Church and faithfulness during this crucial blessings of exaltation.”10 And the day meetings or why it is so important to time of your life. will come when you turn the final read the scriptures regularly or pray to My dear young sisters—you who pages of your own glorious story; our Heavenly Father daily. Here is my stand for truth and righteousness, there you will read and experience the answer: You do these things because you who seek goodness, you who fulfillment of those blessed and won- they are part of God’s path for you. have entered the waters of baptism derful words: “And they lived happily And that path will take you to your and walk in the ways of the Lord—our ever after.” Of this I testify in the holy “happily ever after” destination. Father in Heaven has promised that name of Jesus Christ, amen. ■ “Happily ever after” is not some- you will “mount up with wings as thing found only in fairy tales. You eagles; [you] shall run, and not be NOTES 1. Young Women Personal Progress (booklet, can have it! It is available for you! weary; and [you] shall walk, and not 2009), 1. But you must follow your Heavenly faint.”6 You “shall not be deceived.”7 2. See 2 Nephi 2:11, 15. Father’s map. God will bless and prosper you.8 “The 3. Doctrine and Covenants 121:7–8. 4. Mosiah 18:9. Sisters, please embrace the gospel gates of hell shall not prevail against 5. Doctrine and Covenants 87:8. of Jesus Christ! Learn to love your you; . . . and the Lord God will disperse 6. Isaiah 40:31. Heavenly Father with all your heart, the powers of darkness from before 7. Joseph Smith—Matthew 1:37. 8. See Mosiah 2:22–24. might, and mind. Fill your souls with you, and cause the heavens to shake 9. Doctrine and Covenants 21:6. virtue, and love goodness. Always for your good, and his name’s glory.”9 10. Young Women Personal Progress, 3.

May 2010 127 THEY SPOKE TO US

they say they cannot, invite them to read it in your native language. Talk Making Conference about the importance of having access to the scriptures in your native tongue. • With your family, review one of the Part of Our Lives many general conference talks about Jesus Christ. Sing “Tell Me the Stories of Consider using some of these statements, activities, Jesus” (Children’s Songbook, 57). Hand and questions as a starting point for family discussion out paper and pencils or crayons. Invite or personal pondering. your children to draw a favorite story of Jesus. Read the story from the scriptures together. ou can find general conference • Read or retell Elder Quentin L. addresses online at conference. Cook’s story about the Samoan chil- For Youth Ylds.org. You can also view dren fleeing from the tsunami (page • Review President Dieter F. and share multimedia excerpts 83). Have family members pretend Uchtdorf’s talk about patience from past conference addresses at that floodwaters are entering the house (page 56). What are some gospel prin- mormonmessages.org. and encourage them to find “higher ciples and practices that can teach us Note: The page numbers listed ground,” such as a bed or a chair. Talk patience? Consider, for example, fasting below indicate the first page of the about places we can find higher spiri- or not dating until age 16. How have talk. tual ground in the flood of wickedness you and your family members bene- we experience today. fited from demonstrating patience in For Children • Elder D. Todd Christofferson following these and other principles? • Everyone can participate in talked about William Tyndale, who • Elder M. Russell Ballard, Elder family history work! Elder Russell M. translated the Bible into English (page Bradley D. Foster, Sister Julie B. Beck, Nelson suggested that children can 32). Ask older children to read a and Sister Elaine S. Dalton all draw a family tree (page 91). verse of scripture in a taught about the divine Parents can help them add the language they do nature of women (pages names of their ancestors. not speak. When 18, 10, 98, and 120). If you are female, how do their talks affect how you feel about yourself? What did you learn about your purpose and gifts? If you are male, how did these messages influence your perception of your mother, sisters, friends, and other women and young women in your life? • Elder Jeffrey R. Holland taught: “If a TV show is indecent, turn it off. If a movie is crude, walk out. If an improper relationship is developing, sever it. Many of these influences . . . can blunt our judgment, dull our spirituality, and lead to something that could be evil” (page 44). As a family, discuss what you can do to make your home a place where the Spirit can dwell. Examine the art, music, books, video games, and other entertainment you have and discard The Scriptures in General Conference anything inappropriate. As you study the messages from general conference, you might want to look up the following scriptures, which were referred to most often For Adults in conference: • With your family, review the story • Joshua 1:9 • Helaman 5:12 President Thomas S. Monson shared • John 14:6, 27; 19:30 • Doctrine and Covenants 13:1; about the young man named Jason • Galatians 5:22 19:16; 25:13 and his family (page 87). Talk about • 2 Nephi 2:11 • Moses 1:39 how knowledge of the plan of salva- • Mosiah 18:9 tion can bless us. • Elder L. Tom Perry shared how his Here are the seminary scripture-mastery verses that were mentioned mother taught her children using some in general conference: of the same material she used to teach • Genesis 39:9 • Alma 37:6; 41:10 Relief Society (page 29). What are some • Job 19:25 • Helaman 5:12 ways you could coordinate your Church • Proverbs 3:5–6 • Moroni 10:4–5 service with your family responsibilities? • Isaiah 1:18; 53:4–5 • Doctrine and Covenants 14:7; 18:10; • Elder Robert D. Hales empha- • Matthew 25:40 19:16–19; 25:12; 76:22–23; 82:10; sized the importance of talking with • John 7:17; 17:3 84:33–38 and listening to children and youth • 1 Corinthians 10:13; 15:21–22 • Moses 1:39 (page 95). What opportunities can you • 2 Nephi 2:25; 32:3 • Joseph Smith—History 1:17 create to talk with your chil- • Mosiah 3:19 dren? What have you learned as you have listened to them? Here are some stories from the scriptures that were told How can you show your will- in general conference: ingness to listen? In what • Gideon and his 300 soldiers (President Packer, 6) ways might you take • Alma and Korihor (Elder Christofferson, 32) the opportunity to • Ahijah and Jeroboam (Elder Carlson, 38) bear testimony • Elisha and Naaman (Elder Carlson, 38) spontaneously • Laman and Lemuel (Elder Carlson, 38) to children and • Parable of the Pharisee and the publican youth? For exam- (President Uchtdorf, 68) ples, see Elder • Easter and the Atonement (Elder Scott, 75, David A. Bednar’s and President Monson, 87) talk (page 40). • Joseph Smith in Liberty Jail (Elder Hallstrom, 78) • Several speak- • Jesus and the Nephite children (Sister Lant, 81) ers addressed the • Last Supper (Elder Cook, 83) importance of Duty • Jesus and His mother (Elder Foster, 98) to God and Personal • Mary and Martha (Elder Schwitzer, 103) Progress (see pages 22, 54, 60, 95, and 117). What can you do to help the youth in your life benefit from these programs? ■ PHOTOGRAPHS BY CODY BELL, LES NILSSON, AND LAURENI ADEMAR FOCHETTO; PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS BY CHRISTINA SMITH AND CRAIG DIMOND BY ILLUSTRATIONS PHOTO ADEMAR FOCHETTO; AND LAURENI BELL, LES NILSSON, CODY BY PHOTOGRAPHS

May 2010 129 THEY SPOKE TO YOUTH

Learn, Act, and Share: Doing Your Duty to God

e have been entrusted to goals set by each young man and bear the priesthood and to young woman to help them become Wact in the name of God. We worthy to receive temple ordinances, are the recipients of a sacred trust. serve missions, enter into eternal mar- Much is expected of us. . . . Let us con- riage, and enjoy exaltation. But let it sider our callings, let us reflect on our be understood: for young men and responsibilities, and let us follow Jesus young women to try to accomplish Christ, our Lord. these goals alone would be a great President Thomas S. Monson, “Preparation loss and tragedy! Brings Blessings,” 64. Fathers, mothers, and leaders of youth, we urge you to participate in Just a few weeks ago, I saw a new Personal Progress and Duty to God First you learn about a gospel prin- deacon start on that path of diligence. with your children and with the youth. ciple or a priesthood duty. You dis- His father showed me a diagram his Not only will they grow; you will grow cover what Heavenly Father wants you son had created that showed every too. And just as importantly, you will to do, and you strive to gain a spiritual row in their chapel, a number for each grow together in a bond of faith and witness about why it is important. deacon who would be assigned to friendship that will allow you to Next you make plans to act on what pass the sacrament, and their route strengthen each other and stay on you have learned. You are encouraged through the chapel to serve the sacra- the gospel path forever. to base your plans on your own needs, ment to the members. The father and Elder Robert D. Hales of the Quorum of circumstances, and opportunities to I smiled to think that a boy, without the Twelve Apostles, “Our Duty to God: The serve others. This is a wonderful being asked to do it, would make a Mission of Parents and Leaders to the Rising chance to take responsibility for your plan to be sure he would succeed in Generation,” 95. own growth and develop spiritual self- his priesthood service. The stage is yours, my dear Aaronic reliance. I recognized in his diligence the pat- Priesthood boys. Are you ready and Then you share what you learn tern from the new Duty to God book- willing to play your part? The Lord and experience with others. As you do let. It is to learn what the Lord expects needs every able young man to pre- so, you will strengthen your testimony of you, make a plan to do it, act on your pare and recommit, starting tonight, and build faith in those around you. plan with diligence, and then share to be worthy of a call from the You will increase your ability to talk with others how your experience prophet of God to serve a mission. about the gospel with others.... changed you and blessed others. Elder Ronald A. Rasband of the Seventy, ...I testify that your faithful service President Henry B. Eyring, First Counselor in “The Divine Call of a Missionary,” 51. in the Aaronic Priesthood will change the First Presidency, “Act in All Diligence,” 60. the lives of those you serve. There are As a deacon, teacher, and priest, people who need your priesthood Adult members of the Church you will participate in activities that service. Your family needs you. Your should understand that Personal will help you build spiritual strength quorum needs you. The Church needs Progress and Duty to God require- and learn and fulfill your priesthood you. The world needs you. ments are not just lengthy lists of duties. Each activity follows this simple David L. Beck, Young Men general president, items to check off. They are personal pattern: “The Magnificent Aaronic Priesthood,” 54.

Information about the new Duty to God program is available in many languages at DutyToGod.lds.org. PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS BY CHRISTINA SMITH AND ROBERT CASEY CHRISTINA SMITH AND ROBERT BY ILLUSTRATIONS PHOTO

130 remember who you are! You are Standing for Virtue: elect. You are daughters of God. You cannot be a generation of young women who are content to fit in. You Personal Progress must have the courage to stand out, to “arise and shine forth, that thy light may be a standard for the nations” n the first page of your Young courage, and love. And, most (D&C 115:5). The world would Women Personal Progress glorious of all, He offers you a have you believe that you are not Obook you will find these gift beyond price and compre- significant—that you are out of fashion words: “You are a beloved daughter hension. Heavenly Father and out of touch. The world calls to you of Heavenly Father, prepared to come offers to you the great- with unrelenting, noisy voices to “live to the earth at this particular time for est gift of all—eternal it up,” “try everything,” “experi- a sacred and glorious purpose.” life—and the ment and be happy.” Conversely, Sisters, those words are true! They opportunity and the Holy Ghost whispers and are not made up in a fairy tale! Isn’t it infinite blessing of the Lord invites you to “walk in remarkable to know that our eternal your own “happily the paths of virtue,” “lay aside Heavenly Father knows you, hears you, ever after.” the things of this world,” “and watches over you, and loves you with President Dieter F. cleave unto [your] covenants” an infinite love? In fact, His love for you Uchtdorf, Second (D&C 25:2, 10, 13). is so great that He has granted you this Counselor in the First Elaine S. Dalton, Young Women general Presidency, “Your Happily president, “Remember Who You Are!” 120. earthly life as a precious gift of “once Ever After,” 124. upon a time,” complete with your own true story of adventure, trial, and Young women of The Church Personal Progress provides a won- opportunities for greatness, nobility, of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, derful way for you to nourish your testimony step by step. Value experiences and projects are small steps that will nourish your testimony of Jesus Christ as you learn His teachings and regularly apply them in your life. This constant nourishment will keep you safely on the path. Mary N. Cook, first counselor in the Young Women general presidency, “Never, Never, Never Give Up!” 117.

The Lord will always be there for us and will never leave us alone. We are taught that Heavenly Father knows and loves each of His children. As one of His precious daughters, you have access to His assurance and guidance through the power of prayer. Ann M. Dibb, second counselor in the Young Women general presidency, “Be of a Good Courage,” 114. ■

For more information on Personal Progress, go to PersonalProgress.lds.org.

May 2010 131 Conference Story Index The following is a list of selected experiences from general conference addresses for use in personal study, family home evening, and other teaching. The number refers to the first page of the talk.

Speaker Story President Boyd K. Packer (6) Harold B. Lee counsels a young soldier to seek a blessing from his father. President Packer invites a young man’s father to ordain his son an elder. Bishop Keith B. McMullin (13) Woman forgives a concentration camp guard. Elder Wilford W. Andersen (16) Daughter recalls the faith of her father, who died of cancer. President Henry B. Eyring (22) Woman is in misery because she wandered as a teenager. The Eyrings’ young son gets lost, prays for help, and is found. Elder L. Tom Perry (29) Young L. Tom Perry is taught by his mother. Elder D. Todd Christofferson (32) William Tyndale is martyred for translating the Bible into English. Elder Koichi Aoyagi (36) Elder Aoyagi recounts his conversion and the help of a member when he had strayed from the Church. Elder Bruce A. Carlson (38) Two men on a fishing trip never learn their lesson and keep crashing a plane. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland (44) Three divorced women tell of their former husbands’ struggles with pornography. Elder Dallin H. Oaks (47) A woman who receives a blessing declines another, saying it’s up to her now to exercise faith. Girl in Texas, USA, is miraculously healed. Elder Ronald A. Rasband (51) President Eyring receives revelation on where missionaries should serve. David L. Beck (54) A young man takes the sacrament to a homebound man, who receives it with reverence. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf (56) A professor uses marshmallows to test the patience of four-year-olds. President Henry B. Eyring (60) President Eyring visits a sick friend and gives him a blessing. President Thomas S. Monson (64) Student cheats on an exam by turning book pages with his feet, but his day of reckoning comes. President Monson’s promise to a missionary is fulfilled. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf (68) People add a sign, “You are my hands,” to a statue of Christ without hands. Jewish legend tells of two brothers who secretly give a portion of their harvest to one another. German Saints blessed by humanitarian service after World War II. Elder Donald L. Hallstrom (78) Young couple turns away from the Lord and the Church after their first child dies at birth. Elder Hallstrom’s parents and grandparents remain faithful despite great trials. Elder Quentin L. Cook (83) Samoan stake president rescues his daughter and mother from a tsunami. President Thomas S. Monson (87) A family who loses a 15-year-old son finds comfort through faith in Jesus Christ. Elder Robert D. Hales (95) Elder Hales’s grandson interrupts his reading the newspaper to ask, “Are you in there?” Elder Hales’s mother teaches the importance of family meals. A mother enjoys helping her daughter with Personal Progress. Elder Bradley D. Foster (98) A young son tells his father that he knows what he knows because his mother told him. Elder Gregory A. Schwitzer (103) Elder Schwitzer, as a young physician, learns not to judge others by their appearance. Elder Neil L. Andersen (108) A father’s consistent teachings about Jesus Christ bring comfort to his children after his death. Ann M. Dibb (114) A young woman stands for her convictions when challenged by a high school teacher. Mary N. Cook (117) A young woman is blessed because she followed a prompting to read from Matthew 5. Elaine S. Dalton (120) Young Sister Dalton meets President David O. McKay, who introduces his wife as his “queen.” President Dieter F. Uchtdorf (124) President Uchtdorf describes how he met and eventually won the love of Sister Uchtdorf.

132 General Auxiliary Presidencies

RELIEF SOCIETY

Teachings for Our Time

Silvia H. Allred Julie B. Beck Barbara Thompson First Counselor President Second Counselor

elchizedek lesson using other materials, YOUNG WOMEN Priesthood and but the conference talks are MRelief Society lessons the approved curriculum. on fourth Sundays will be Your assignment is to help devoted to “Teachings for Our others learn and live the Time.” Each lesson can be pre- gospel as taught in the most pared from one or more talks recent general conference of given in the most recent gen- the Church. Mary N. Cook Elaine S. Dalton Ann M. Dibb eral conference. Stake and dis- Review the talk(s), looking First Counselor President Second Counselor trict presidents may choose for principles and doctrines which talks should be used, that meet the needs of class PRIMARY or they may assign this members. Also look for sto- responsibility to bishops and ries, scripture references, and branch presidents. Leaders statements from the talk(s) should stress the value of that will help you teach these Melchizedek Priesthood truths. brethren and Relief Society Make an outline of how to sisters studying the same talks teach the principles and doc- on the same Sundays. trines. Your outline should Jean A. Stevens Rosemary M. Wixom Cheryl A. Esplin Those attending fourth- include questions that help First Counselor President Second Counselor Sunday lessons are encour- class members: aged to study and bring to YOUNG MEN class the latest general confer- • Look for principles and ence issue of the magazine. doctrines in the talk(s). • Think about their Suggestions for Preparing meaning. a Lesson from Talks • Share understanding, Pray that the Holy Spirit ideas, experiences, and will be with you as you study testimonies. and teach the talk(s). You may • Apply these principles and Larry M. Gibson David L. Beck Adrián Ochoa be tempted to prepare the doctrines in their lives. ■ First Counselor President Second Counselor SUNDAY SCHOOL

MONTHS FOURTH-SUNDAY LESSON MATERIALS

May 2010– Talks published in the May 2010 Liahona October 2010 and Ensign*

November 2010– Talks published in the November 2010 April 2011 Liahona and Ensign* David M. McConkie Russell T. Osguthorpe Matthew O. Richardson First Counselor President Second Counselor *These talks are available (in many languages) at conference.lds.org.

May 2010 133 NEWS OF THE CHURCH

three memorial events (including Conference Center Completes President Hinckley’s funeral), and 125 First Decade of Service musical performances, not including the Tabernacle Choir’s Music and the By Ryan Kunz Spoken Word, which has been held in the Church Magazines Conference Center 186 times. Those numbers begin to suggest a fulfillment of President Hinckley’s words. Brent Roberts, director of headquar- pril conference opened the not of our faith will come here, experi- ters facilities, has met many people in the Conference Center’s second ence the ambience of this beautiful place, building who have shown their gratitude A decade of service. In its first 10 and feel grateful for its presence” (“To for what they felt there. “They’ve walked years, many millions experienced the All the World in Testimony,” Liahona, in with tears in their eyes and the Spirit unique qualities of the one-of-a-kind July 2000, 4; Ensign, May 2000, 4). in their hearts,” he said. “It’s not just building during more than 100 sessions Six months later, on October 8, the building, though—it’s the Lord, His of general conference and 4,500 events, President Hinckley dedicated the work, and His Spirit.” as well as their associated broadcasts. building. The center was announced on Easter The Conference Center held its Since then, almost seven million visi- morning by President Hinckley during first session of general conference on tors have come to the Conference Center the April 1996 general conference. April 1, 2000. There, President Gordon B. to attend 4,577 events. Some 4.8 million An overview of the construction chal- Hinckley (1910–2008) said: “[The visitors have toured the building, and the lenges that were met in building the Conference Center] will prove to be a center has been host to more than 5,500 Conference Center helps attest to the great addition to this city. Not only will our dignitaries. The events held in the audi- building’s unique status. The 21,000-seat general conferences be held here, and torium and adjacent Conference Center auditorium was to be carved from a some other religious meetings, but it will Theater have included general confer- downhill slope between Salt Lake City’s serve as a cultural center for the very best ence, 10 Young Women general meet- Main Street and West Temple Street. artistic presentations. We hope that those ings, 10 Relief Society general meetings, Three large construction companies joined in the work. There were to be no support columns in the auditorium, to ensure that everyone had an unob- structed view, so the builders had to employ the use of 290-foot-long (88 m) steel trusses that would be capable of supporting loads between 250 and 525 pounds per square inch (17–37 kg per square cm). This design also would accommodate the landscaping plans for the roof. On any given day during the process, some 1,000 workers were on site. During the construction, the building survived the highly unusual 1999 Salt Lake City tornado, and though a boom on a huge crane was snapped, the work continued. The structure was completed on time, and visitors to the center enjoy state-of-the-art equipment and facilities.

134 News of the Church For television, the Conference Center provides a digital, high-definition signal. The first live high-definition broadcast in Utah originated from the Conference Center during President Hinckley’s 90th birthday celebration in June 2000. Engineers created the sound system in the auditorium to provide excellent acoustics whether visitors were listening to a speaker or attending a musical event, making careful calculations to take into account the materials on the walls and ceiling, the number of people who fit inside, and the carpeting and cushioning. President Hinckley said that the building also conveys a sense of elegance. Such elegance can be seen as visitors stroll the foyers, where a sculpture of the Savior and busts of Church Presidents can be seen; walk in the gardens on the roof, among trees, flowers, bushes, and waterfalls; look up through the nine sky- lights on top of the building, which can be covered for performances; and enjoy the paintings throughout the building, many of which are familiar to members of the Church and almost all of which are original. The massive building exhibits many impressive statistics. It covers 10 acres (4 ha), or one city block. There is enough electrical wiring within the center to circle the earth twice. More than 5,900 gal- lons (22,330 liters) of water are recycled through fountains and water courses every minute. However, the greatest feature of the center is neither the miles of wiring nor the amount of weight the roof can bear, nor any other mere statistic. “It is not a museum piece, though the architecture is superb,” said President Hinckley. “It is a place to be used in honor to the Almighty and for the accomplishment of His eternal purposes” (“This Great Millennial Year,” Liahona, Jan. 2001, 80; Ensign, Nov. 2000, 67). ■

May 2010 135 requirements while beginning to work New Duty to God Program on the new program. Announced “Each activity in Fulfilling My Duty to God follows a pattern that will help s announced during general confer- you become the priesthood holder the ence, a new Duty to God program Lord wants you to become,” Brother A has been developed under the Beck said. direction of living prophets to help Additional information and materials young men build spiritual strength and will be made available online at fulfill their priesthood duties. DutyToGod.lds.org. ■ “[The new Duty to God program] is a powerful tool,” said President Henry B. Eyring, First Counselor in the First Presidency, during the Saturday morning New Format session. “It will strengthen the testi- Helps Sisters monies of young men and their relationship with God. It will help them learn Improve as and want to fulfill their priesthood duties. It will strengthen their relation- Visiting Teachers ships with their parents, among quorum members, and with their leaders.” n July 2010 Relief Society sisters The new Duty to God program The program is designed to encour- and subscribers to the Liahona and has been simplified and focused. The age young men to take responsibility for IEnsign magazines will find a change to requirements for all three age groups, their own growth, but it also provides the traditional Visiting Teaching Message along with instructions for parents and opportunities to strengthen relation- format. leaders, are contained in one book. ships between the young men and their “We want every visiting teacher to The book and associated materials parents, leaders, and quorum members. understand that visiting teaching is a call will be made available in 27 languages Many of the activities can be easily inte- from the Lord and accept her assignment between June and August 2010. Additional grated into family home evening and to love, serve, teach, and minister to translations of the materials will con- quorum meetings and activities. another sister with that in mind,” said tinue to be made available throughout “Parents, leaders, and quorum mem- Julie B. Beck, Relief Society general the year. bers play an important role in the Duty president. Activities are organized to allow young to God program,” Brother Beck told The new message format will help sis- men to learn about a gospel principle Church magazines. “Sunday quorum ters understand the purpose of Relief or priesthood duty, act on what they meetings will provide regular opportuni- Society, teach principles to help sisters learned, and then share their thoughts ties to learn, act, and share.” live the purpose, provide a historical per- and feelings with parents, Church lead- Young men are encouraged to spective, and offer suggestions on how ers, or their quorum. continue working in the existing pro- women can more effectively watch over “As a deacon, teacher, and priest, you gram until the new program is imple- and strengthen other sisters. will participate in activities that will help mented in their ward or branch. Once “The Visiting Teaching Message is a you build spiritual strength and learn and the new program is implemented, tool in the hands of a visiting teacher. As fulfill your priesthood duties,” said David L. each young man should begin working she studies the messages with her sisters Beck, Young Men general president, dur- on the section that corresponds to in mind, she will know what to share ing the priesthood session of general his current priesthood office. If he is with them and what to do for them,” conference. “. . . The new Duty to God close to completing the requirements Sister Beck said. program will guide you on your journey to for the certificate or medallion that On the follow page is a sample of the fulfill your duty to God and discover the applies to his office under the previous new Visiting Teaching Message, with magnificence of the Aaronic Priesthood.” program, he may complete those explanations of its new features. ■

136 News of the Church Ministering Question Relief Society Purposes The purpose of this question is to help visiting teachers act on inspiration to better Instructions The Relief Society serve the sisters they teach. Instructions help visiting teachers purposes were added know how to teach and apply the to remind sisters of the message. responsibilities of Relief Society: to increase faith and personal righteousness, strengthen families and homes, and Application Question VISITING TEACHING MESSAGE seek out and help those This question is meant to Our Responsibility to Be StudyStudy thisthis material,material, andand asas appropriateappropriate discussdiscuss in need. Our Responsibility to Be itit withwith thethe sisterssisters youyou visit.visit. UseUse thethe questionsquestions toto prompt action on the part Worthy of Temple Worship helphelp youyou strengthenstrengthen youryour sisterssisters andand toto makemake ReliefRelief SocietySociety anan activeactive partpart ofof youryour ownown life.life. of each individual Relief Faith Faith •• FamilyFamily •• ReliefRelief Society sister and help her The covenants we make with the associatedassociated What Can From From OurOur HistoryHistory apply the message to her ordinances we receive in the temple becomebecome II Do?Do? President President GordonGordon B. B. HinckleyHinckley (1910–2008)(1910–2008) taught that Relief Society grew out of sisters’ our credentials for admission into God’s presence.presence. 1. 1. What support taught that Relief Society grew out of sisters’ own life. These covenants elevate us beyond the limits cancan II offeroffer toto desiredesire toto worshipworship inin temples:temples: “During the construction of the Kirtland of our own power and perspective. 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Mar.Mar. 1992,1992, 2.2. desire to take our part From the Scriptures in building the Lord’s Isaiah Isaiah 2:2:2–3 ; ; D&C D&C 109:22–23109:22–23; ; 110:8–10 kingdom in our season of service,” Sister Beck said. RIGHT: PHOTOGRAPH OF OQUIRRH MOUNTAIN UTAH TEMPLE BY CHRISTINA SMITH UTAH PHOTOGRAPH OF OQUIRRH MOUNTAIN RIGHT: RIGHT: PHOTOGRAPH OF OQUIRRH MOUNTAIN UTAH TEMPLE BY CHRISTINA SMITH UTAH PHOTOGRAPH OF OQUIRRH MOUNTAIN RIGHT:

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May 2010 137 leaders in particular were a great exam- Members in Haiti Moving Forward, ple of faith and testimony as they rose Firm in the Gospel to the challenge, learning to fulfill their callings in difficult times and help oth- By Lauren Allen ers in need, said Elder Francisco J. Church Magazines Viñas of the Seventy, Caribbean Area President. “They used their priesthood keys to hen an earthquake struck Haiti meetinghouse, with the baby on his lap bless the lives of members and nonmem- in January 2010, Jean-Elie René and his two other boys at his side, help- bers,” he said. “They worked in council Wraced home to make sure his ing the bishop coordinate relief to ward and received guidance from the Spirit family was safe. Upon arrival, he spotted members and others who made the to deal with the difficult challenges day one of his three sons crying in the street, meetinghouse their temporary home. by day.” and he could hear the screams of The story of Brother René is touch- The aftermath of the earthquake’s another son from beneath the rubble ing, but it is not unique. Members of destruction created a challenge, particu- where the family’s home once stood. the Church throughout Haiti suffered larly for bishops in Haiti, said Prosner The 32-year-old father followed the greatly from the magnitude 7.0 earth- Colin, president of the Port-au-Prince cries and dug through the rubble until he quake’s destruction, but the calamity Haiti Stake. Bishops and other Church found his five-year-old son and the body served to reveal the strength of Haiti’s leaders were left responsible for the care of his pregnant wife, still sheltering their growing membership. Like Brother and aid of hundreds of ward members, nine-month-old baby from the collapsed René, many members—both longtime as well as their own families. roof of their home. and first-generation members alike— “[The bishops] continue to help,” Brother René serves as ward clerk in rose to the challenges and found President Colin said. “They understand the Leogane Ward, Port-au-Prince Haiti peace and comfort in faithfulness and that they lost many things, but they have Stake. Although he lost his wife, his obedience. the gospel. They encourage [members] unborn child, and his home, he doesn’t to continue to live worthily.” complain or get angry about his situation. Proven in Trial Bishop Pierre-Louis became a com- Most days following the earthquake, Throughout their trials, members of munity leader after the earthquake. Brother René could be found at the the Church in Haiti have stood strong Through the weeks and months follow- in the gospel as they ing the devastation in Haiti, he devoted continue to care for his life to the service of members and and strengthen each nonmembers in Leogane—tending to other and those in the needs of hundreds. their communities. “He is the most amazing, humble “It is true that all we servant you will ever meet,” said Chad possessed, even our Peterson, a doctor from Arizona who material possessions spent time with Bishop Pierre-Louis as and our families, disap- a volunteer following the earthquake. peared. But our faith in Jesus Christ was not Faith for Now and the Future destroyed,” said Yves Many stories have been shared of Pierre-Louis, bishop of members throughout Haiti whose the Leogane Ward. “It resilience and faith in the Lord carried was a good opportunity them through their trials. for us to evaluate our- “Though the faithful Haitian Saints selves as disciples of have suffered greatly, they are filled with Christ.” hope for the future,” said Elder Wilford W. Local priesthood Anderson of the Seventy in his April 2010

138 News of the Church general conference address. “Like the early pioneers in 1846, their hearts are broken, but their spirits are strong. They too are teaching us that hope and happiness and joy are not products of circumstance but of faith in the Lord.” A demonstration of such obedience and faith was found when, immediately following the earthquake, Church meetings proceeded without interruption. Regardless of the destruction of their country, members in Haiti arrived at church clothed in their Sunday best, wearing smiles on their faces. The gospel was the lifeline many relied on to pull them from their sorrow and despair. “Despite losing their homes, jobs, and family members, the people are so loving, trusting, and good-natured. They have amazing faith,” Brother Peterson said. Church Aid Today, the Church continues to flour- mmediately after the January 2010 quake, the Church sent relief supplies ish in Haiti. Attendance in sacrament to Haiti. Teams of medical personnel soon followed, setting up clinics in meeting has increased, President Colin Imeetinghouses and working with local hospitals to help perform needed said, and the people in Haiti continue to surgeries. work to rebuild their communities. But as some semblance of stability returned to Haiti, the Church began transi- “The members are doing well to serve tioning its aid from relief to recovery, providing resources to help reestablish others,” he said. “They visit them; they self-reliance and get the people back on their feet. are looking for job opportunities for These resources included establishing small food facilities similar to bishops’ themselves and for the others.” storehouses and sending materials for 600 transitional shelters—put together Berthony Theodor, a native Haitian by members in Haiti—to provide shelter to the homeless during the hurricane and the director of welfare in Haiti, says season. he and other current and future leaders The Church also developed a medical referral program staffed by local of the Church in Haiti gained valuable Haitian doctors to help members receive aid and resources. LDS Family Services experience as a result of the disaster. was also involved in training Haitians to provide emotional counseling to those “We have the opportunity to serve struggling to cope with their situation. others, showing them once again how The Church strengthened its employment program in Haiti, making much we love them,” he said. “We have employment specialists available to help members find jobs and microbusiness come to learn once again that we are not opportunities. alone in the world, that we are members “We are thankful for all the support the Church brought for the members in of the people of the Lord.” Haiti,” said Bishop Yves Pierre-Louis. ■ Brother Theodor said the earthquake —or any other disaster—couldn’t take away the peace or joy of members in Haiti. “It’s my testimony that the Lord never forgets his children,” he said. “He knows where I am, my situation. He won’t ever leave me alone.” ■

May 2010 139 University a bachelor’s degree leader, counselor in a stake in accounting, a master’s Sunday School presidency, degree in accounting seminary teacher, bishop, taxation, and a juris doctorate stake mission president, stake in law. He started his career president, and Area Seventy. as a tax attorney and later Professionally, Elder Gong founded a corporation in liti- has served as Special Assistant Elder Kevin R. gation technology. Elder to the Under Secretary of Duncan Elder Duncan and his wife, Gerrit W. State at the U.S. State Depart- Nancy Elizabeth Smart, were ment and as Special Assistant Of the Seventy married on June 27, 1986, in Gong to the U.S. Ambassador in the Salt Lake Temple. They Beijing, China. He also held are parents of five children, Of the Seventy positions at the Center for including one with Elder Strategic and International Duncan’s first wife, the late Studies (CSIS) in Washington, rom childhood, Elder Wendy Wallentine. lder Gerrit Walter Gong D.C., USA. At the time of his Kevin Read Duncan was Nearly 20 years after serv- knows the power call, he was working as the Feager to serve the Lord ing a mission in Chile, Elder Eof prayer and that Assistant to the President at as a missionary. “I was never, Duncan returned on a Heavenly Father has a plan Brigham Young University with ever on the fence. I always Church-service mission as for His children. When Elder responsibility for Planning and knew I wanted to serve a mis- associate international legal Gong was young, his mother Assessment. sion,” he says. counsel for the Church in was once seriously ill. He Elder Gong was born to Well before his 19th birth- South America. While there, remembers praying “in little- Walter and Jean Gong in day, Elder Duncan happened he was called to preside over boy words and feelings” that December 1953 and was to meet a General Authority the Chile Santiago North she would live. raised in Palo Alto, California. serving in the Missionary Mission, living in the same “Prayers are answered dif- He received a bachelor’s Department who challenged mission home where he had ferently at different times in degree from Brigham Young him to memorize the mission- served as a young man. our lives, but on that occa- University in University and ary discussions. He met that Prior to his call to the First sion, gratefully, I felt and Asian Studies. He later earned challenge and was later called Quorum of the Seventy, Elder knew that she would be bet- a master’s degree and a PhD to the Chile Santiago South Duncan served as a bishop’s ter,” Elder Gong says. “I have in international relations from Mission. His time as a mis- counselor, ward mission never doubted from that time Oxford University, where he sionary reconfirmed his love leader, high councilor, and that Heavenly Father does was a Rhodes Scholar. for serving the Lord. “I knew Area Seventy in the Utah hear our prayers and, in His He served in the Taiwan I wanted to be a missionary South Area. ■ own wisdom and ways, Mission and later married every day of the rest of my answers them.” Susan Lindsay in the Salt Lake life,” says Elder Duncan. Elder Gong has since expe- Temple in January 1980. The Elder Duncan, born in rienced that tender communi- Gongs have four sons. ■ October 1960, is the son of cation with a loving Father David Henry and LaRene Eliza repeatedly; including he says, Duncan. He grew up on a in marrying his wife, raising a family farm in West Point, family, making educational Utah. Living on the farm as a and career decisions, and boy taught him not only to serving in the Church. work, he says, but also to love Before his call to the First to work. Quorum of the Seventy, Elder That work ethic helped Gong served as a high coun- him earn from Brigham Young cilor, high priests group

140 News of the Church branch president, stake presi- July 1953 in Lima, Peru, to dent, and Area Seventy. Juan Jose Uceda Perez and As a newly called member Ines Andrade Uceda. After of the First Quorum of the joining the Church in 1972, Seventy, he says that he has Elder Uceda studied account- always “endeavored to be ing and public relations at guided by the Church’s prin- Jose Carlos Mariátegui Elder Patrick ciples. I have seen how living Elder Juan A. Institute in Lima. He also those principles can trans- studied business administra- Kearon form lives.” Uceda tion at the Centro Andino de Of the Seventy Elder Kearon was born Of the Seventy G.E. Institute and earned a in Carlisle, Cumberland, bachelor’s degree in public England, in July 1961, to relations from San Luis Paddy and Patricia Kearon. Gonzaga University. With his father serving in the Elder Uceda has worked hile living briefly in British Royal Air Force, Elder hen Elder Juan in the Church Educational California, Elder Kearon was educated in the Alberto Uceda System as area director for WPatrick Kearon Middle East and the United WAndrade began Peru and Bolivia. In 2003 he stayed with “an outstanding” Kingdom. courting Maria Isabel moved from Peru to New Latter-day Saint family who He met Jennifer Carole Bendezú—the woman he Jersey, USA, to help his father introduced him to the gospel. Hulme while she was study- would eventually marry—he develop an educational and Two years later, back home ing in England with Brigham knew she was someone spe- language training business. in England, he met missionar- Young University. They were cial. Both had converted to In addition to his mission- ies on a London street and married in the Oakland the Church as youth, and ary service, Elder Uceda has eventually began investigating California Temple in 1991. both had served missions in served as a high councilor, the Church. He came upon They are the parents of four their native country, Peru. bishop, stake president, presi- a scripture in the Book of children, one of whom is Sister Uceda’s conviction dent of the Lima Peru North Mormon that read, “Men are deceased. to marry in the temple had a Mission, and Area Seventy. that they might have joy” Elder Kearon has lived great influence upon him. He now serves in the First (2 Nephi 2:25). The scripture and worked in the United The nearest temple was in Quorum of the Seventy. resonated with him as he Kingdom, Saudi Arabia, and São Paulo, Brazil. “It took “I have a strong testimony recalled the joy in the home the United States in various seven days just to get there, of the power of personal reve- of that LDS family and in the industries, including politics, using every means of translation from the Holy Spirit,” lives of the missionaries health care, and the automo- portation available,” Elder says Elder Uceda. “That testi- teaching him. tive industry. Before his call, Uceda explains. “We traveled mony is continually con- “That scripture rang in my Elder and Sister Kearon ran a by bus, car, boat, horse and firmed by blessings that come ears,” Elder Kearon says. “In communications consultancy carriage, train, truck, and from obedience.” ■ those I had met, I saw how in England. ■ even plane. When we reached our lives can be enormously the temple, we reached out enriched by following the our hands to touch the walls Savior’s counsel to be of good just to make sure it was not a cheer.” dream. It was a foundational Since joining the Church experience for both of us.” on December 24, 1987, Elder The couple were married Kearon has brought that good in the São Paulo Brazil Temple cheer to numerous callings, on April 13, 1979. They are including ward Young Men the parents of five children. president, bishop’s counselor, Elder Uceda was born in

May 2010 141 own, he and his wife were and earned a master’s called to preside over the degree from the University Russia Novosibirsk Mission of Göteborg and a Swedish in Siberia in 2001. Elder law degree (LLM) from Lund and Sister Lawrence were University. required to exercise complete He worked for the Church faith as they left their home as a regional real estate man- Elder Larry R. and family behind to serve in Elder Per G. ager. Later, as director for Lawrence a land where the language, Malm temporal affairs, he was people, and climate were assigned by the Presiding Of the Seventy completely unfamiliar. Of the Seventy Bishopric to initiate a merger “It was a great test for us in of the temporal affairs func- just putting our trust in the tions of the Europe Central, Lord,” Sister Lawrence says. East, and North Areas. “Everything we worried about While Elder and Sister hrough various callings fell into place, and [the expe- hen Elder Per Gösta Malm raised their eight chil- and service in the rience] changed our lives.” Malm was 16 years dren, he served as a stake TChurch, Elder Larry Ray A sign in the kitchen of Wold, he served a mission president, branch Lawrence has learned to the mission home provided a Church-service mission help- president, high councilor, “trust in the Lord with all constant reminder to “look ing to build new meeting- stake president, mission pres- [his] heart” (Proverbs 3:5). unto [the Savior] in every houses in Germany, Finland, ident, public affairs director Born in August 1947 to thought; doubt not, fear not” Netherlands, and Sweden. He for Sweden, and Area Seventy. Argil and Mary Lawrence in (D&C 6:36). has been diligently engaged His experiences have Cheverly, Maryland, Elder Elder and Sister Lawrence in helping to build the served to confirm to him his Lawrence grew up in Tucson, count their mission experi- Church ever since. parents’ teachings, which he Arizona. He pursued his edu- ence as among the greatest in Elder Malm was born in hopes to share through his cation at the University of their lives and feel it prepared September 1948 in Jönköping, call to the Second Quorum of Arizona, where he earned a them for their new responsi- Sweden, to Karl Gösta Ivar the Seventy. “The gospel is bachelor’s degree in agricul- bilities with Elder Lawrence’s and Karin Anna-Greta Malm. our anchor,” he says. “It will, tural biochemistry and a doc- call to the Seventy. He learned many of life’s most if we stay true to it, produce torate of medicine, leading to “We don’t know what’s important lessons from his a peace that goes beyond an ophthalmology career. ahead, but we know it will be parents, punctuated by the understanding.” ■ He joined the Church in good,” Elder Lawrence says. ■ testimony his father bore 1970, at the age of 23, and before passing away at age 48: married Laurel Stott in the “Stay true to the gospel.” Mesa Arizona Temple on “He was teaching us that in November 5, 1971. the gospel we will find solu- Before his call to the tions to the things that matter Second Quorum of the most,” Elder Malm says. Seventy, he fulfilled callings Following the 18-month including elders quorum building mission, Elder president, bishop, high coun- Malm served full time in the cilor, stake president, and Sweden Stockholm Mission. stake mission president. After his return, he married Elder Lawrence says that Ingrid Agneta Karlsson in the just as his life seemed to be Bern Switzerland Temple in winding down, with their six October 1969, took over his children grown and on their father’s real estate business,

142 News of the Church Seventy, Elder Mazzagardi and my love for Jesus just served as bishop’s counselor, came gushing out,” Sister high councilor, counselor in a Wixom recalls. Her mother stake presidency, stake presi- helped her understand that it dent, regional representative, was the Holy Ghost who had Area Seventy, counselor in the prompted her feelings. Campinas Brazil Temple presi- “I had never known the Elder Jairo dency, and president of the Rosemary M. Holy Ghost was so powerful Mazzagardi São Paulo Brazil Temple. Wixom and so real,” Sister Wixom Elder Mazzagardi, an entre- says. Years later the Holy Of the Seventy preneur, spent part of his Primary General Ghost gave her an over- career in the meat industry President whelming feeling of peace and later owned a real estate while she was praying about company. He also served in one of her children. Her the Brazilian army as an hope now is that parents and lder Jairo Mazzagardi artillery sergeant from 1965 n a world filled with noise Primary leaders and teachers knows what it means to to 1966. He was born to and insecurity, children can help children learn to Emake sacrifices in the Antonio and Margarida Ineed to discover how to hear the whisperings of the service of the Lord. In 1990, Mazzagardi in April 1947 in hear the whisperings of the Holy Ghost. Elder Mazzagardi received a Itú, Brazil. He grew up there Spirit, says Rosemary Mix Sister Wixom received phone call from President and in Jundiaí, Brazil. He and Wixom, newly sustained as a bachelor’s degree in Thomas S. Monson, then a his wife, Elizabeth Ienne, met Primary general president. education from Utah State counselor in the First as children and were married “Children can find security University. She and her hus- Presidency, who called him in Hoboken, New Jersey, USA in prayer,” she says. “They can band, Blaine Jackson Wixom, to preside over the Salvador in July 1970. know that they are never were married in the Salt Lake Brazil Mission. Although for years they alone, that the Savior walks Temple on August 18, 1970. “I never dreamed that I were not interested in the with them, and that He loves They are the parents of six would be a mission presi- Church, after the Mazzagardis them—even when they make children. dent,” Elder Mazzagardi says. returned to Brazil, a friend mistakes.” Sister Wixom was a mem- “I had been a stake president invited them to attend the Born in December 1948 to ber of the Primary general less than five years. Things São Paulo Brazil Temple Robert Wayne and Mary Mix, board before serving with her were busy—and good—with open house. There, both Sister Wixom grew up in husband when he presided our business. Accepting this had powerful spiritual experi- Salt Lake City, Utah, USA. over the Washington D.C. call would mean leaving ences. They were baptized on While she was growing up, South Mission. Sister Wixom everything behind.” October 31, 1978, and sealed her twin sister was her best later served on the Young At the end of the phone as a family in November 1979. friend, and her parents Women general board, call, President Monson offered The Mazzagardis have three taught her to give with a where she was serving until Elder Mazzagardi time to con- children. ■ happy heart. “When we her call as Primary general sider the calling. But Elder walked in the door at home, president. ■ Mazzagardi and his wife had I felt secure,” Sister Wixom decided years earlier that their says. lives would be consecrated to When she was 12 years the Lord, so he accepted the old, her sense of security call on the spot. “Whatever found deeper roots. While sit- the Lord needs of us, we’re ting in testimony meeting, ready to go,” he says. she suddenly felt a strong Before his call to the desire to express her feelings Second Quorum of the about the Savior. “I stood up,

May 2010 143 opportunity to serve Primary 1967. After graduating, children. Brother Esplin was drafted “Children have such a sen- into the military, and Sister sitivity to spiritual things,” Esplin taught fifth grade for Sister Stevens says. “They two years near her family in come into this life with Byron, Wyoming. believing hearts. You can feel She has served in the Jean A. their divine nature as they Cheryl A. Relief Society, Young Women, Stevens come to this earth having so Esplin and Primary auxiliaries. Her recently left the presence of most recent calling was on First Counselor their Heavenly Father.” Second Counselor the Primary general board. in the Primary Sister Stevens believes in the Primary She also served with her hus- General Presidency Primary leaders and teachers General Presidency band when he was president play an important role in help- of the North Carolina Raleigh ing parents teach the gospel of Mission. ean Alldredge Stevens Jesus Christ. “Primary is a won- heryl Asay Esplin, sec- The Esplins have five believes that feeling love derful place for children to ond counselor in the children. Sister Esplin loves Jearly in life has a pro- feel love and for teachers and CPrimary general presi- spending time with her found effect on all children. leaders to reinforce lessons dency, cannot remember a grandchildren; they cook pan- Experiencing love helps chil- taught in the home,” she says. time when she did not believe cakes and waffles, play dress- dren to know and understand Before being called to in Heavenly Father and Jesus up, go on hikes, and read the great love that Heavenly serve as first counselor in the Christ. “I was taught at a stories together. Father and the Savior have Primary general presidency, young age to pray,” she says. “I Sister Esplin loves the for them. Sister Stevens served on the remember going in prayer to message of her favorite scrip- Sister Stevens was born in Primary general board. She find help before I did anything ture, Doctrine and Covenants November 1952 in Salt Lake has also served as a ward else, and I always received 84:88: “And whoso receiveth City, Utah, USA, to Claron and Relief Society president, coun- answers to my prayers.” you, there I will be also, for I Helen Alldredge. selor in a ward Primary presi- Born in October 1944 to will go before your face. I will “I was raised by parents dency, and Gospel Doctrine Orson and Mildred Asay, be on your right hand and on of great faith,” Sister Stevens teacher. Sister Stevens gradu- Sister Esplin grew up on a your left, and my Spirit shall says. “They loved the Lord ated from the University of farm eight miles (13 km) east be in your hearts, and mine and they taught the gospel in Utah with a bachelor’s degree of Lovell, Wyoming, USA. As angels round about you, to our home. My mother espe- in mathematics and a teaching the second oldest of nine chil- bear you up.” She hopes that cially had an amazing ability certificate. ■ dren, she was often called children will remember that to love people.” She can upon to babysit. While in Heavenly Father is always remember feeling from an charge of her younger broth- available to them through early age that her parents ers and sisters, Sister Esplin prayer. ■ loved her and loved to serve remembers praying for her the Lord. family’s safety while her Sister Stevens established parents were gone. that same pattern with her Sister Esplin graduated own family after marrying with a bachelor’s degree in Mark Stevens in the Salt Lake elementary education from Temple on September 12, Brigham Young University. 1973. They have five children. While studying, she met her Sister Stevens feels grateful husband, Max Esplin, and to serve the Lord and is married him in the St. George particularly grateful for the Utah Temple on September 1,

144 News of the Church Harmony, Pennsylvania, by Al Rounds The Susquehanna River at Harmony, Pennsylvania, looks much the same today as it did when Joseph and Emma Smith lived near its banks from December 1827 to June 1829. Here they buried their firstborn infant in 1828. Here the Prophet Joseph finished translating the gold plates, which became the Book of Mormon. And on the banks of the river, Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery received the Aaronic Priesthood from John the Baptist (see D&C 13:1) and the Melchizedek Priesthood from Peter, James, and John (see D&C 128:20). “How grateful we are for the restored gospel of Jesus Christ and for all the good it brings into our lives,” said President Thomas S. Monson at the close of the 180th Annual General Conference. “The Lord has poured out His blessings upon us as a people. I bear my testimony to you that this work is true, that our Savior lives, and that He guides and directs His Church here upon the earth.” 4 09285 May 10 02092 85000 ENGLISH 4