Be Happy! It’S a Mitvah ◾◾ Yolanda Beckett Speaks at TBI Shalom Friends, I’D Like to Start out by Telling You a Story That Appears in the Talmud (Ta’Anit 22A)
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JANUARY 2018 | TEVET / SHEVAT 5778 VOLUME 84 NO. 5 RABBI’S NOTES INSIDE: by Rabbi Michael Mishkin ◾ Deadline for Mishloach Manot Basket Orders, February 16 Be Happy! It’s a Mitvah ◾ Yolanda Beckett Speaks at TBI Shalom Friends, I’d like to start out by telling you a story that appears in the Talmud (Ta’anit 22a). This issue of the TBI Tablet Rabbi Broka who was a holy man, who often received is sponsored by visits from none other than Elijah the prophet. One time when Rabbi Broka was walking through the bustling BETSY & HOWARD market place of his city, Elijah accompanied him. Seeing GOLAN all of the bustle and hustle of the city market place, being in honor of the Bar Mitzvah impressed with its intense activity with the large crowd of people, Rabbi Broka of their son turned to Elijah and asked him if any of the people within the market were destined to enter heaven. ARI Elijah, to whom the secrets of heaven are revealed, scanned the large market place with his eyes and then shook his head and told him that no one in the market was destined for heaven. Rabbi continued on page 2 SAVE THE DATE FRIDAY, APRIL 20 FRIDAY NIGHT LIVE & SHABBAT DINNER IN HONOR OF ALICE TALMUD’S RETIREMENT ah Rea Rabbi Mishkin moderated a book club in anticipation of our January Scholar in Residence, Purim Megill ding 28 at 6:30pm Naomi Levy. The group discussed the meaning of many of Rabbi Levy’s passages on February exploring the soul and shared their reactions to the fascinating story of Rabbi Levy’s journey to find out why Einstein wrote a letter to a well-known Rabbinic leader post World War 11. COME IN COSTUME! Visit us online at www.tbiport.org Contact us at 516-767-1708 Rabbi continued from page 1 As they continued on, Elijah suddenly spotted two men and pointed them out to Rabbi Broka. “These two men are destined for heaven,” he told Rabbi Broka. Excitedly, Rabbi Broka ran towards them. He wanted to learn from them what it Temple Drive, Port Washington NY 11050-3915 T: 516-767-1708 F: 516-944-6461 was that they did, or what merit they possessed that earned them the good fortune www.tbiport.org to be destined to enter heaven. Stopping them in the middle of the market place, he pointedly asked them what they do. They replied, “we are jesters.” Rabbi Broka was confused, wondering why would Rabbi Michael Mishkin jesters, of all people, be destined to go to heaven? But when they explained to Rabbi Hazzan Broka how they filled their days, it became clear. They said, “Whenever we see Baruch Blum someone who is sad or depressed, we approach that person and try to make him President laugh, in order to lift his spirits. And whenever we see two people who are angry Matthew Engel with each other, we go to them and joke around, trying to lighten the mood so that Executive Vice President Rita Shumsky they will reconcile.” Vice President, Ritual Laughter has great potential to move people in very powerful ways. As these David Volpe jesters point out, sometimes a good laugh can take us from sadness or anger to joy. Vice President, Fundraising mid- Stacey Delich-Gould Unbeknownst to many, joy is an important part of Judaism. In fact, one of the dot Vice President, Administration (character traits) that we should have in our lives is joy, in Hebrew it’s known Louis Silfin as simchah. According to our tradition, God wants us to be responsible and moral, Vice President, Education but God also wants us to be happy. These concepts are not at odds; instead, they Dale Gindi complement one another. When we exercise our free will, to fulfill our responsibili- Vice President, Education Eden R. Kasle ties and do good deeds in the world, then we can experience a great joy that comes Vice President, Membership from a sense of accomplishment, or said another way, a joy that comes from being Betsy Golan God’s partner in the world. Treasurer We live in a breathtakingly beautiful world, but it is also an imperfect world, John Teeger and can be very painful. We should acknowledge the injustice, pain, and suffering Financial Secretary Steve Castar in our world and do what we can to make the world a better place, but we must be Corresponding Secretary careful to not let the brokenness of the world break our spirits. As the jesters teach Andrew Silver us in this story, humor can play an important role in helping to provide us with a Recording Secretary larger perspective, in raising our spirits, and in bringing us back to happiness. David Cooper Leaving brokenness, and looking at the other side of the coin, we find joy, Trustees Julie Greenblatt Mitch Rosen wholeness, and beauty. While love, the wonders of nature, music, dance, and the Halona Gropper Jaffe Lon Seidman close companionship of friends are all there to keep us on the path of joy, for some Beverly Hazelkorn Jeff Siegel Meridith Krell Andrew Sollinger people, the source of joy goes even deeper. Our tradition tells us that we should be Laura Landau Susan Stein Jennifer Latner Andrew Schwartz joyous, knowing that a benevolent and moral God created us with love and inten- Susan Levin Scott Tashlik tion. What better source of joy, than knowing each one of us was created for a Lane Palmer reason and each one of us is loved by our Creator? Trustees Emeritus Elkan Abramowitz Friday, February 16 is Rosh Chodesh Adar (the new Hebrew month of Adar). Joel Greenblatt There is a traditional saying about Adar: “Mi shehnichnas Adar, marbim b’simchach,” Saul Muchnick which means, “When Adar begins, our joy is increased.” Why is our joy increased Sisterhood Co-President th Alisa Schindler when Adar begins? Because Adar contains the holiday of Purim (the 14 of Adar, Sisterhood Co-President which is Wednesday night—Feb. 28—and Thursday morning—March 1.) Why is Michelle Mondschein there so much joy and celebration on Purim? The first reason is that Haman failed Men’s Club President in trying to destroy us. On a deeper level though, we celebrate human agency and Jon Brooks God’s hidden presence in the world. The human agency comes from Esther and Immediate Past President Andrew Abramowitz Mordechai, who took great personal risks to save the Jewish people. And at the same Synagogue Director time, our tradition teaches that God’s hidden presence permeates the story because Cathy Seldin of the numerous coincidences which take place that help bring about our success Religious School Principal and salvation. This Purim, let us all have a l’chaim with alcohol or grape juice, cel- Alice Talmud ebrating the victory of Purim and acknowledging the importance of simchah. Preschool Director Diana Snaider B’shalom, TBI Tablet is published monthly by TBI. Submissions must be received by the tenth of the Rabbi Michael Mishkin month prior to the issue in which they will appear. [email protected] PAGE 2 | TBI TABLET FEBRUARY 2018 PRESIDENT’S NOTES Oh, What a Year It’s Been! By Matt Engel Greetings! At the end of January, we had with fun and exciting events, often intertwining with the the opportunity to gather together for one Holiday season. Our Friday Night Lives and our Hanukkah of our two biannual congregational meet- party allow us to celebrate wonderful religious occasions ings. Twice a year we gather together for together. Monte Carlo night was a fun and fabulous event of our formal meetings. These opportunities gambling, food (the sushi chef was incredible) specialty drinks, allow us to accomplish the formal busi- a live and silent auction, and raffles for gift baskets. Most im- ness that we are required to perform. In portantly, it brought a large and diverse group of TBI members this case, we created our Nominating Committee, the body together for a fun evening and it raised money to support the that will help solidify our Board of Trustees and our Executive synagogue. Special thanks to Stacey Gould, Julie Coren, Ilana Slate for the 2018-19 year. Please consider accepting a Engel, Steve Castar and Rita Shumsky for a successful night. Board position if you are asked. Contact Andy Abramowitz And don’t forget to save the dates in March as we celebrate ([email protected]) with any suggestions. Purim, host the Purim Carnival and read the Megillah! In addition to our formal business, the meeting gives me We have also continued to make improvement to our an opportunity to recap for the Congregation some of the building, congregation communications and youth program- amazing accomplishments that our synagogue has seen over ming. This past summer we launched a new website and the past 6 months. At least once a week we see emails fly instituted credit card payments. Our classrooms received a across our phones and screens touting events at TBI. It’s easy fresh coat of paint, all the classroom floors were refinished and to gloss over the events since there are so many so often, but we bought new furniture for one of our Preschool classrooms. each one is the result of the hard work of our professionals Thanks to a generous donation from one of our congregants, and volunteers and each one is more incredible than the next! our flower beds were full for our High Holiday Services In just the past month we have been joined by Naomi creating a very festive and welcoming feeling for worship.