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Multi-million dollar 2012Though it’s difficult to call it official, the 2004 of Vanisha Mittal, daughter of steel tycoon Lakshmi Mit- tal, is considered the most expensive wedding in history. With a final tab of $60 million, the wedding included invi- tations mailed in silver boxes, rooms at a five-star Paris hotel and performances by pop singer Kylie Minogue. Americans might recall a more recent and extravagant wedding, that of former first daughter Chelsea Clinton, whose 2010 wedding reportedly cost between $3 to 5 mil- lion. A similar price tag was given to Beatles legend Paul McCartney in 2002 when he married former model Heath- er Mills. Unfortunately, that cost did not guarantee marital bliss, as the couple separated in 2006, eventually divorc- ing in 2008.

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Eco-friendly options have also increased in popularity. “There are Bridesmaids’ gowns can be now numerous eco-friend- ly designers whose sole business is to create wed- ding dresses made with flattering for all your friends earth-friendly fabrics and From simple to elegant and materials, using tech- everything in between, we’re here Bridesmaids are an important part for all. And color scheme is integral depending on the season. For exam- niques that are in harmo- with the ideas that will ensure of the wedding party, and most brides in the choice of gown. ple, an evergreen or deep blue may ny with the earth,” says your wedding arrangements are opt to have a handful of close friends Every well-planned wedding car- seem wintry during a summer wed- Crystal Shamblee, depart- picture-perfect. and family members play a special ries a color scheme throughout. This ding. 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For example, inex- Because couples will be pensive glasses and silver- doing the work themselves, ware can be bought at dol- it’s best to start several days lar stores or chains like Ikea. in advance of the wedding Later on these items can be (weather permitting). Be kept, sold or even donated to sure the grounds are well HOME DECOR shelters. groomed and landscaped. Tablecloths don’t have to Ensure there are no tripping TABLE TOP be the traditional kind. It hazards and that there is a may be less expensive to pur- sturdy surface for placing ACCESSORIES chase pieces of fabric from tables or creating a dance LINENS, RUGS & MORE! a fabric store and dressing floor. them up oneself. Candles can It may pay to ask an elec- be stockpiled relatively easy trician or someone who dab- 117 North Main and provide a very afford- bles in electric work to help Located above French’s able means of ambient light. string some lights to better Hours: Mon.-Sat. 9-6 Plan out centerpiece ideas illuminate the area, espe- and figure out which com- cially for when the sun goes 931-787-1222 4C • Bridal Guide www.crossville-chronicle.com • Tuesday, January 31, 2012 Tempt tastebuds with edible wedding favors Do you have a shelf or cabinet that’s filled to the brim with wedding favors such as engraved ice cream scoopers, cake servers, cheese spreaders or tea light candle holders? If you do, you’re not alone. As cou- ples pore over guest favor options, many select trinkets or knickknacks that, while thoughtful, end up collect- ing dust in someone’s home. Edible gifts also can be thoughtful — and flavorful! Guests may look forward to an edible favor because Couples who have stayed married for decades often put each other first and share it’s a memento of the spe- a mutual respect. cial occasion and it won’t become a permanent fix- ture in their homes. There are many edible favors from Edible wedding favors may include decorative cook- Secrets to a long which to choose. They can ie baskets featuring gourmet cookies from a favorite also be customized accord- bakery. ing to the theme of the wed- ferent confections. Autumn type containers are available ding. weddings could have Hal- from craft stores and can be and happy Chocolate loween-inspired candies or the perfect way for guests to It’s difficult to find an those in fall hues. It’s easy to make that candy portable. Some might say a long pondering marriage or romance. It’s easily said edible favor more universal- follow a color theme when Other edibles celebrity marriage is one have already tied the knot, but not so easily done. Too ly beloved than chocolate. you have a bevy of differ- From cupcakes to maple that endures the duration consider the following often married couples for- Rich and inviting, choco- ent candies at your disposal. syrup to personalized bot- of the newly betrothed’s advice to make a marriage get what it was like to date late has long been given as Many discount stores sell tles of barbecue sauce, cou- trip down the aisle. We’ve endure for the long haul. when all of their attention a symbol of love and devo- inexpensive jars and candy ples have so many options seen Britney Spears dis- • There’s no such thing was spent on each other tion. Chocolate candies and dishes to house the candy. for guest favors at their dis- solve a marriage after as the perfect marriage. instead of the house, kids, baked goods can work well Designer Chinese takeout- posal. 55 hours and Kim Kar- Some couples create an work, etc. Today there for wedding favors, provid- dashian call it quits after image of what they think seems to be even more ed the favors are refrigerated Nails For You and 72 days. It seems even marriage is supposed to distractions, from e-mails to avoid melting. money can’t buy matrimo- be, and that image that to texts to pressure and Ideas for chocolate Your Wedding Party nial happiness. often goes “poof” once obligations at the office. favors include individual- Get your nails and toes But some couples have reality sets in. 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