Welcome to … Online Safety for Parents ceop.police.uk www.thinkuknow.co.uk Luke Brent-Savage Education Child Protection Ltd. Child Exploitation Online Protection Centre

When should I report to CEOP?

Someone online keeps asking me to meet Someone I don't know is them face-to-face and asking me to I feel pressured by live-stream and do them things I don't want to do

Someone I met in an Someone online is online game keeps putting pressure on trying to talk to me me to do things I privately don't want to do

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EDUCATING CHILDREN

1 Films for primary children… Keeping ourselves safe…

Tell Someone Timon & Pumba Keep your personal information private

Animal Magic Jigsaw Pikachu

Never give out your Top Secrets Keeping ourselves safe…

Be kind to your online friends, like you would in the playground at school

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Keeping ourselves safe… Keeping ourselves safe…

If you get stuck, SCHOOL HOME or if you see or something Who makes you feel could you sad or scared, talk to? always tell a trusted adult

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2 Keeping ourselves safe… What else do CEOP say...?

WE ARE HERE TO HELP! We are police officers. We take this very seriously

Check with an TRUST YOUR TUMMY! adult at home If anything makes your stomach before you feel funny, tell an adult you trust, visit a new or CEOP site, game or CHECK YOUR USERNAME! app Don’t tell people who you are – use a fun nickname instead… MeowthEducation Child Protection Ltd.

Key Stage 1

Remember playing ‘Snake’ on your old Nokia?

CHILDREN’S ONLINE WORLD Key Stage 2

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Key Stage 2 Biggest game in the world right now is….

Games become more complicated & STRATEGIC…

3 So what is it…? National Crime Agency… …has warned Fortnite is putting Fortnite is an online game where players children at risk from online paedophiles do not have to pay to play. In Battle Royal, 100 players compete against each Because voice and text chats between players cannot be turned off, parents other to be the last person standing. may be unaware their children are chatting to strangers online It has a PEGI rating of 12, for ‘frequent scenes March 2018, a mother from Merseyside of mild violence’ told how she intervened when her 12-year-old son was offered £50 to perform “sex acts” while playing the The game has a cartoonish style, and the violence, while game by a man grooming him online. persistent, isn't bloody or particularly gory (only guns).

Chat WhatsApp…

has launched a new The feature can be found by feature, enabling users to clicking on a ‘chat’ share their live WhatsApp Discord clicking the + button, location… WhatsApp is an Discord is the and selecting instant only cross- ‘Location’. You can …for 15 minutes, 1 hour messaging app, platform voice then click on which lets you Viber Tango and text chat or 8 hours… send instant app designed ‘Share Live Location’ Viber lets you Tango is an specifically for messages, app which images and text, call, gamers. It is share photos allows you to perfect for Users can share their videos to make voice chatting with friends. and send location in a one to one chat video calls and team member - or with video calls, and seeing who messages to all members of a group chat. people and have is playing worldwide. group chats. online

Chat (2)

Kik Send Safe

Kik is an Send Safe is a instant Messenger free service, messaging app which allows which lets you Messenger is you to send a share message or Hangouts an app which messages, allows users to IMO photo via photos, communicate popular apps, Google …that games and with their IMO is a Hangouts is a disappears news, or platform by friends from Message and organise Google which their video chat after seen events. includes account or app, with your once. instant phonebook. friends and messaging, family, no video chat matter what device they are and SMS on. Aimed at children from 6-10 years old. Parents have to features. approve any contact before child can chat to them.

4 Video Video (Music)

YouTube Facetime Musical.ly MuStar

YouTube lets Facetime is Musical.ly is the Smule Triller MuStar allows you enjoy the video calls world’s largest you to create videos and Omegle Monkey over Wi-Fi creative Smule lets you Triller is a music you from your platform. The sing your music video Music Video , Talk to love. Upload Accept a call iPhone, iPad, platform makes favourite songs, maker app for make short clips Strangers! original Houseparty is from a iPod touch or it super easy for use audio effects iPhone. Pick a and battle with Omegle content, and a group stranger Mac. You can everyone to and video filters! song, select the other users and connects you share it all Tap time if even make make awesome Solo privately, portion of the earn stars! randomly to video chat with friends, FaceTime calls videos and share karaoke with song you want to another person app. When you you want to family, and over mobile with friends or to friends, connect use, snap a few who's on the and your keep the call the world. networks on the world. with singers takes, and with site, and lets friends are in going iPhone or What's New around the the tap of a you talk to the app at the If they tap same time, iPad. - Duet with your world, or duet button you have them in a one- time too the you’ll see friends in a new with celebrity a celebrity- to-one video each other call goes on split screen artists like Nick quality music chat. instantly. mode now. Jonas and Ed video. Sheeran.

Video (Live) Police say abusers thrive on the immediacy these live platforms offer -

Live.ly Live.me

Live.ly is a Live.me is a Targeting children with new live video live video streaming Twitch You Now streaming app. platform Allowing you to  tricks created by Owned by Twitch is a On You Now broadcast and musical.ly. You , live video you can tap ‘Go watch live chat.  dares can start a Periscope is a game website. Live’ and… Join in  Threats live.ly to live video You can watch Broadcast to discussions broadcast to streaming playbacks of a live with YouTubers your fans and app. Allows you games being audience! and Musical.ly to manipulate them into friends, and to send direct played by other Expand your stars... have real-time live video feeds people. You nudity or sexual interactions to your Twitter can also live following, followers. stream your comment on acts own games, videos and buy and chat to virtual gifts. other gamers.

Social Networks Pictures & Videos

Facebook Twitter Facebook is Twitter is a Huggle PopJam FaceApp the biggest Skout social Snapchat lets Instagram is you send a Huggle allows PopJam is a FaceApp is a a picture and network, Skout is a messaging photo or you to discover Social Network creative an app that video sharing which lets service that and connect that is for short video to website for transforms app. Users can users create a lets you send post content with others meeting new your friends. children and your face! Add page about public message The ‘snap’ young people. a beautiful and use who frequent people near themselves. the same called 'tweets'. appears on You can share smile, make to . Instantly places as you. you screen for a yourself share meet people drawings, See the places matter of photos and younger or experiences or close by or seconds older – or swap memories with you have in audio common. around the before genders! an online world anytime, messages Share photos, disappearing. community. with friends videos and anywhere! and other start chatting… people.

5 Anonymous Anonymous Katrina Collins, who lives in Australia, put up a post on site Change.org

Ask.fm Scandal She called for the app to be

Ask.fm is a Scandal Chat is removedSarahah from Apple's App store Anonymous social networking online and Google's Play store. Chat site where you community of Sarahah is the Whisper is a interesting Arabic word for can ask other Cool chat rooms. social network people hanging The'honesty’ petition accused Sarahah of people Self-destructing where you out in See who is near questions. It’s messages. Talk facilitating "bullying" and "self remain anonymous you and up to you anonymous, about anything iPhone chats. harm", and quickly gained with strangers. communicate whether you publish text Thousands of nearly 470,000 supporters. want to ask the Meet new people, them and receive interesting chat question ask questions. anonymously, replies from rooms including Nobody will anonymously other people. It adult topics. Firstand whyApp not we have seen that has judge you, as or not. also allows you meet them nobody can find been removed from the Apple and to talk with later, and be out your real Google stores… others through name. honest as private usual. messages.

YUBO (FORMERLY YELLOW) A mobile app that allows users to interact with new people Online Dating Potential risks – Similar to popular  Connecting to users that dating apps… are strangers Yubo  Location based data swipe right to ‘like’ / MyLOL necessary Yubo allows you swipe left to ‘pass’. MyLOL is a  Linking to other platforms to you meet dating site for  Sharing of information / Mutual likes mean new people teenagers aged images users become ‘friends’ around the MeetMe  No internal mediation world. Make new 13-20, but some Known as : friends, chat and MeetMe is a Badoo is a users are up to ‘Kiddie meet new which a social dating-focused 25 years old. App uses people! Right to network and social network Like an adult ’ Although users that lets you meet location data like, left to pass! dating site and dating site, you should be people from all Just like allows users to can view other to find other over the world. over 13 – Tinder…. if two meet and people’s profiles You can also send users nearby – people like each based on their no verification communicate private messages. from within process is others pictures with other age, gender 0 to 19 miles they can chat people and location. currently in place privately! worldwide.

Secret Folders

Secret Lock Secret Vault Calculator & Secret Lock Calculator & hides Vault hides Secret Safe Lock private photos photos, videos, and videos Calculator + notes, audios, behind a Safe Lock protects your photos and. locations and calculator. Calculator + No one can enter secret messages Anyone who starts hides private behind a real this application photos and except those who know the piano. The app looks as a videos behind calculator but if passcode. will capture a calculator. you put in photo of passcode it will intruders if open up private area. they attempt to access it.

6 FACE-TO-FACE CYBER BULLYING What is BULLYING cyberbullying?

…any form of bullying that is carried out through the use of…

Laptop Gaming Console

Desktop Smartphone Computer or tablet

Tips for Save the Report dealing with evidence What you say Ask yourself is it Cyberbullying! online should pass through True? three gates Don’t Ask yourself is it respond S-Start Necessary? T-Telling Ask yourself is it O-Other P-People Block Kind? the bully Be aware of what you share

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What should I do if my child is being bullied online?

GROOMING Report information to your child's school.

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7 Child Exploitation Online Protection Centre Online grooming: The five stages (CEOP) How do offenders engage youngsters? Friendship – by using the sites that they use.... Flattering a child into talking in a private chatroom/game where Often posing as they will be isolated a child of the same age / gender. The child will often be They will often purposefully present a asked for a non-sexual very similar profile as the child. picture of themselves They are skilled at manipulating them into criminal sexual relationships

Online grooming: The five stages Online grooming: The five stages Risk assessment

Forming a relationship Asking the child about the location of their Gaining information computer/tablet and who asking the child what problems else has access to it /needs they have to create the illusion of being their in order to assess the risk of best friend and that they can help being detected. The desire is to They begin to fill the needs of the create situations where child they are alone together to help reinforce a special connection

Online grooming: The five stages Online grooming: The five stages Sex talk / Meet Exclusivity Engaging the child in explicit conversations & requesting sexually Building up a sense of explicit pictures from mutual love and trust them with the child At this stage the predator suggesting that they can will usually try to discuss "anything" arrange a meeting with the child

8 Mark Taft (27) Stuart Baker (40) used Facebook lured his victims into under a fake account sexual conversations by of a child posing as a 14-year-old who he called girl on Facebook. Luke Carlisle Sentenced to Sentenced to 3 years in prison. 3 years, 3 months in prison The court was told that Also given a the youngest victim was Sexual Harm Prevention 13 and that one had been Order and will sign the suffering from "extreme Sex Offenders Register anxiety" as a result of the for life abuse.

Christopher Hodder (31) Law enforcement have warned about sexually groomed 13 boys on Facebook by posing as Musical.ly (and similar apps) a girl. pretending to be idols like Sentenced to Harry Styles & 4 years in prison.

The court heard Hodder had been sentenced for a previous grooming crime in 2013. Part of his “Lots of child sex offenders are punishment was not to utilising Musical.ly to contact any children aged groom children” under 16 via the internet. …said Inspector Jon Rouse.

Tips for parents….

Create Always worth boundaries and The rules and checking the rules for the conversations videos, amount you have apps and of time child now will set games can spend the tone for children use, online. It’s your child’s and the age never too internet use ratings and MAKING THINGS early to start as they get descriptions putting older. for them. SAFER limits in place.

9 Safer watching Videos on YouTube www.kids..com that seem to be the favourite cartoons of children – but are not. “"Peppa does a lot of screaming and crying and the dentist is just a bit sadistic and it's just way, way off what a three-year- old should watch“ said one Mother.

Safer searching Safer searching www.swiggle.org.uk www.kids-search.com

We always recommend a child should have their own user login. Filters should be set to the highest the provider can offer. The Kids Search, search engine is highly sensitive

Helpful sites for Parents & Carers

www.net-aware.org.uk

Allows parents and carers to search for apps, games and sites if they have a concern or need more information Education Child Protection Ltd.

10 Family Sharing: allows the parent to be the ‘family organiser’ - Making things safer on Google Play…. has to ‘approve’ every request for an app ...

1. Open the Family Link app Family Link.

2. Select your child.

3. On the "Settings" card, tap Manage Settings and then Controls on Google Play.

4. Tap the type of content you want to filter.

5. Choose how to filter or restrict access.

Set schedules When it's time for school, homework or bed Screen Limit schedules help the Cross Platform day run like clockwork Screen Limit is available on a wide range of devices. Message children Countdown Dinner in 5? Send a message to their screen and get the Keep the peace with a whole family to the table countdown on their screen Rewards on time that shows how much time Bedroom need tidying? Use until screens off internet time as a carrot and keep everyone happy!

Simple checklist for parents:

I have visited www.thinkuknow.co.uk with my child This app allows parent to (I have bookmarked the CEOP website and told my child send a message – what is there) which takes over whatever else is on the child’s screen Open and honest dialogue – show an interest and learn – and sounds an alarm about what your child does online even if on ‘silent’! Stay in control as much as you can through parental filters, Family Sharing, and apps like Screen Limit

Advertise yourself as one of the people your child can turn to – without being chastised… NOW-> Education is better than saying to your child SOON-> “you are not doing this anymore…” Education Child Protection Ltd.

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