bulletin 60 Years of Tradition–Building for the Future
Beth Tzedec Bulletin volume 65, no. 1 | tishrei 5776 • september 2015 | www.beth-tzedec.org
Join us for a series of celebrations marking 60 years of Beth Tzedec. They’re really sweet! A Night of 60 Shabbat Dinners October 16 See p. 26 Back to the Future Parts 1 and 2 October 18 and November 8 See p. 18 Futureshock: Jewish Life in an Age of Change with Rabbi Donniel Hartman October 23 and 24 See p. 2 Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow Gala November 1 See p. 25 Rabbi Donniel Hartman returns to Beth Tzedec
Friday, October 23 and Shabbat, October 24
Friday, October 23—beginning at 5:30 pm Musical Service, Dinner And Lecture Who Are We? The New Face of 21 st Century Jewry Following a wonderful musical Kabbat Shabbat service with Cantor Simon Spiro and the Beth Tzedec Rabbi Dr. Donniel Hartman Singers, join us for a delicious dinner and lecture with is president of the Shalom Rabbi Hartman. Cost for dinner: $25 adults; $18 youth Hartman Institute and the director of its iEngage (ages 5 to 14); Children ages 1 to 4 free. Dinner by Project. He has a Ph.D. in advance reservation only by monday, October 19 . Jewish philosophy from The Hebrew University of Jerusalem, a Master of Arts am Shabbat, October 24, Services at 8:45 in political philosophy from Pulpit Address New York University, a Master of Arts in religion Together or Apart? Israel and from Temple University and Rabbinic ordination the Jewish World from the Shalom Hartman Institute @ @ @
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Presented as part of Beth Tzedec’s 60 th anniversary celebration
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2 commentary Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl With a Whole Heart This year, as we mark our 60 th anniversary, we introduce Ma hzor Lev Shalem , a refreshingly new prayer book for the High Holy Days. ˙
this summer, i witnessed the bringing together of the annually recurring holy days. The Esslingen Ma hzor , ˙ long separated art and spirit to restore a whole heart, completed by Kalonymos ben Judah in 1290, is the (lev shalem ). I thought of the different paths our earliest recorded Hebrew manuscript written in al yearning for wholeness and healing may take: Germany. Separated at an unknown date, one part wasלnב soשrלeםp in the beauty of sea, sky and snow; the solitude of held by the University of Amsterdam and the first half meditation; the activity of family celebration; was identified at the Jewish Theological Seminary. Once exquisite moments of song and prayer. again a whole heart, the ma hzor has been brought ˙ Just before the Fast of Av, Josette and I saw two together at esslingenmahzor.org. paintings by the young Rembrandt van Rijn (1606– Rabbi Elliot Kukla, in “Wholeness of a Broken 1669): “St. Peter in Prison” (1631) from the Heart,” writes of serving as a chaplain to a woman collection of the Israel Museum was side by side with named Maggie in the last weeks of her life. Maggie was “The Prophet Jeremiah Lamenting the Destruction of constantly surrounded by three childhood friends. When Jerusalem” (1630), on loan from the Rijksmuseum, asked what had kept them together, one sighed, “we are Amsterdam. Prophet and apostle, each aged and so close now because she broke our hearts many years bearded, were strikingly similar, sharing a mix of light ago.” After a childhood pregnancy and miscarriage, and darkness, a mood of sorrow and desolation. Apart Maggie was unable to share her grief. Despite her for centuries, now adjacent to each other, the images withdrawal, they refused to let her go and eventually, portray full-hearted aesthetic beauty, religious pathos Maggie shared her story and they rebuilt a friendship, and personal anguish. one that would last a lifetime. I was reminded of the film We also saw two volumes of a rare illuminated “Steel Magnolias,” released 25 years ago, describing manuscript of the Mishneh Torah by Rabbi Moshe ben how six brassy Southern women related to each other as Maimon (1138–1204) that were written and illustrated they faced a tragedy. in Northern Italy around 1457. Separated 200 years ago, “There is nothing as whole as a broken heart,” the first volume was on loan from the Vatican Library taught the Kotsker Rebbe. Healing the brokenness of a and the second is jointly owned by the Israel Museum relationship brought friends together. Restoring the and the Metropolitan Museum of Art. I continue to manuscripts and pairing the paintings created a study and glean wisdom from Mishneh Torah, the most wholeness with added significance because of the break renowned legal work of Rambam, although my printed of centuries. The healing of past pain is part of the copy lacks the lavish illumination of this elegant one-of- process of teshuvah , restoring wholeness, moving closer a-kind book. Men and women in Renaissance attire to one another, aspiring to bring added authenticity to appear within a flowering landscape against a cerulean our daily values. sky. We live at a time of religious division, so it was That is part of the theological background to an reassuring to learn that a Christian artist, who worked in exciting new development at Beth Tzedec. This year, as the highest circles of patronage in Italy, could bring his we mark our 60 th anniversary, we introduce Ma hzor Lev ˙ creative gifts with a complete heart to another religious Shalem , an updated prayer book for the High Holy tradition. Days. Online, I noticed that the 13 th century Esslingen Lev Shalem means a full and complete heart. We Ma hzor also has been reunited. A ma hzor ( , plural hope that this new ma hzor will help you to open your ˙ ˙ ˙ ok used heart and soul to a deeper examination of your spiritual מoחb זוerרma hzorim ) is a specialized form of the pray ˙ primarily on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. The yearnings. A 20-something, after using this new prayer word ma hzor means cycle (the root - - means to book, told his rabbi, “The ma hzor used to belong to my ˙ ˙ ers recited for grandfather, now it belongs to me.” Diane Cole, whoseחyזraרreturn) and it includes the yom tov p
3 beth tzedec bulletin continued Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl Fall Volume 65, Number 1 memoir After Great Pain: A New Life Emerges has been the subject of one of Tishrei 5776 • September 2015 my holiday sermons, wrote in the Wall Street Journal , “Comprehensive and Bulletin Editors: Carolyn Kolers & Terri Humphries informative, traditional and contemporary, this full-hearted prayer book speaks eloquently to the mind and soul.” The prayer selection of Ma hzor Lev Shalem is traditional with additions ˙ from a variety of classical and contemporary sources. Among its innovations are poems from contemporary Hebrew and English language poets, the Beth Tzedec Congregation “Prayers of Brokenness and Wholeness” before shofar blowing, and a prayer 1700 Bathurst Street, Toronto, Ontario for those who cannot fast. The translation is contemporary with a user-friendly Canada M5P 3K3 Tel 416-781-3511 / Fax 416-781-0150 commentary and extensive transliteration of congregational Hebrew. There are www.beth-tzedec.org thematically related texts to encourage personal spiritual reflection. The design is aesthetically sophisticated and inspiring. President S. Blake Teichman [email protected] After an extensive examination of a variety of newly published prayer books, and with the recommendation of our klei kodesh (clergy), our Ritual Chair of the Board Sheldon Rotman [email protected] Committee and Board of Governors enthusiastically endorsed Ma hzor Lev ˙ Shalem (A Whole Heart) to replace the Silverman High Holy Day prayer book, Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl, Anne and Max Tanenbaum Senior Rabbinic Chair originally published in 1939. ext. 228, [email protected] Ma hzor Lev Shalem , published in 2010 by the Rabbinical Assembly and ˙ Rabbi Adam Cutler United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism, is the High Holy Day prayer book ext. 219, [email protected] of choice for the great majority of Conservative synagogues. It has been praised Cantor Simon Spiro as attractive and accessible, a spiritual source that opens the hearts of ext. 223, [email protected] individuals and involves a community as much as possible. Cantor Sidney Ezer Thanks to generous donors, the Ma hzor Lev Shalem volume will be ˙ ext. 296, [email protected] available to everyone. You no longer need to bring your ma hzor with you to ˙ synagogue. If, however, you still want to use the Silverman Ma hzor that is part Ritual Director Lorne Hanick ˙ ext. 240, [email protected] of your personal library, you are welcome to do so. This year, as we make the transition to Ma hzor Lev Shalem , some pages will be announced from the new Director of Community Building & Spiritual ˙ Engagement Yacov Fruchter and old prayer books. ext. 279, [email protected] You may wish to inscribe a volume of Ma hzor Lev Shalem in honour or ˙ Director of Education and Family memory of a loved one. This would be a beautiful addition to a High Holy Day Programming / Congregational School card or a gift to your yom tov host. You may do so by calling the Synagogue Principal Daniel Silverman office at 416-781-3511. ext. 231, d silverman @beth-tzedec.org The addition of Ma hzor Lev Shalem completes a triple transformation of Director of Youth Engagement Simmi Toby ˙ the resources that we use at Beth Tzedec for prayer and study. We have now ext. 239, [email protected] introduced the Etz Hayim Torah text and commentary, Siddur Sim Shalom for Teen Engagement Coordinator Lily Chapnik weekdays and Shabbat and Ma hzor Lev Shalem . I am grateful to the families ext. 229, [email protected] ˙ that have made these changes possible and thankful to the Holy One who Executive Director Randy E. Spiegel opens our hearts to prayer and study in a combination of contemporary and ext. 211, [email protected] classical modalities. Receptionist Avital Narvey As I enter my final years as Senior Rabbi, Josette and I thank you with full 416-781-3511, [email protected] hearts for the many good years we have shared with you. We pray that 5776 Events Coordinator Florence Bendelac will be a year of good health, spiritual growth and the blessings of love and life. ext. 213, [email protected] Communications Coordinator Terri Humphries For more information on the sources referenced in this article, visit ext. 212, thumphries @beth-tzedec.org www.beth-tzedec.org/page/articles/a/display/s/1/item/with-a-whole-heart Membership & Development Coordinator Sheri Federman ext. 220, [email protected] Senior Program Coordinator / Librarian Zina Glassman ext. 225, [email protected] Museum Curator Dorion Liebgott ext. 232, [email protected]
TO CONTRIBUTE YOUR news, congratulations, member updates or other listings, send an email to [email protected], call 416-781-3514, ext. 212 or fax 416-781-0150. 4 from the president S. Blake Teichman What do you Think About our Sanctuary Plans?
meeting space, it can provide a source of revenue to the Congregation. To allow for flexibility, the seating in this area will be removable. We will still have the ability to use the entire space from the western (back) wall of the Banquet Hall to the front of the Sanctuary as our main venue on the Yom Tovim and whenever our numbers require it. But it will also create an intimate space in the i want to devote this column almost exclusively front of the Sanctuary during much of the year when the to soliciting your comments on our proposed renovation attendance does not require the seating as far back as plans for the Sanctuary so that I may receive your under the balcony. Those of us who have considered feedback. Appearing above are two renderings of what what can be done to improve the Sanctuary have examined we are considering. As I reported in the Bulletin this past other synagogues and we recognize that having participants February, we propose raising the Sanctuary floor to the seated closer to and surrounding the bimah is one of the level of the foyer, thereby eliminating all stairs from the key components in facilitating participation. foyer and making the Sanctuary accessible from several In developing our plans we have been focused on entrances. Doing this will enable us to create an accessible meeting our needs while ever-mindful that everything has bimah . Specifically, the level where the shu lhan (the table its cost. In round numbers, this aspect of our renovations from which the Torah is read) sits currently˙ will then be should cost around $4.5 million. To keep within this at an elevation that is only three risers higher than the budget, we need to establish goals and prioritize our floor level of the Sanctuary, as opposed to the seven unlimited wants. Our Sanctuary has remained unchanged risers that we have now. This lesser grade difference will for 60 years. Our community and our needs have accommodate a gentle-sloping ramp over which those changed since 1955 and we must address these needs or using a walker or wheelchair will be able to ascend the risk becoming unattractive and irrelevant to those whom bimah . we want to be part of the Beth Tzedec community. We The bimah itself will extend forward (westward) into look forward to a transformation that will better serve the seating area such that the bimah will now be “T”- the needs of our current membership and future generations. shaped, with the top of the “T” being the existing bimah The elements of the proposed design can be at its existing elevation. In addition to enhancing the summarized as follows: accessibility of the bimah , this will place the clergy in 1. Level grade for all seating. closer proximity to the congregation. The seating can 2. Accessible “T”-shaped bimah . then surround the Cantor and the Rabbi and create a 3. Reconfigured seating in the front of the Sanctuary more intimate experience for all involved. The overall with seats on the side turned inward. goal is to better engage the congregation in the services 4. The creation of a flexible, separate room under the held in the Sanctuary. This includes increasing balcony to be used for (a) seminars and meetings, congregational singing and participation in our services. (b) expanded Banquet Hall, and (c) as part of the We also acknowledge that our Sanctuary is a venue for Sanctuary seating when numbers require it. community events and the gains made for the benefit of What do you think? Do you agree with our goals? the Congregation during prayer services are gains that Do you agree that our services and other uses of the will benefit community users as well. Sanctuary will benefit from these changes? Please We plan to add a removable wall in line with the let me have your thoughts. You can email me at front edge of the balcony, giving us the flexibility to [email protected] or talk to me at Kiddush expand the area of the Banquet Hall for large sm ahot in shul. and dinners, and to have a new multi-media equip˙ped I wish you all a healthy and happy New Year and space ideal for educational and meeting purposes. As a look forward to greeting you in shul.
5 lifecycle News and Milestones News received between May 12 and August 14 has been included in this issue.
We can’t share your good news unless you tell us U about it. Send an email to thumphries@beth- tzedec.org, or call us at 416-781-3514 ext. 212. Deadline Milestones for the next Bulletin covering November to and celebrations January is October 16.
Bi rths Sharon Maya , daughter of Zoey Sayre , daughter of DR . Jordan Bohnen , son of ANNE PEARL & RICHARD GOODMAN , ADINA WEINERMAN & & JOHN BOHNEN , grandson Emma Margaret , daughter granddaughter of CELIA & JONATHAN CHETNER , of IRVING MATLOW AND THE of LAURA & ADAM HIRSH , ALLEN HIRSH and CINDY & granddaughter of EILEEN & LATE ESTHER MATLOW , and granddaughter of MARGARET SAUL GOODMAN , born May 9. PHIL WUNCH and THE LATE Rebecca Rubin , daughter of & HOWARD ELNER and CELIA JOSEPH CHETNER and DONNA ANDRA & MARC RUBIN , & ALLEN HIRSH , born Parker , daughter of DANIELLE & BOB WEINERMAN , great- granddaughter of RUTH October 25. & CORY GREENSPAN , granddaughter of GERTRUDE KAPLAN and GILDA & SUNNY granddaughter of DOREEN Eliya , daughter of DR . MARC KERBEL , born July 5. RUBIN , who were married & JERROLD GREENSPAN and LUBIN & KEREN OR TOHAMI August 9 in Montreal. AMY & CHUCK BODDY , Jesse , son of SERENA LUBIN , granddaughter of born May 11. WOLFOND & JB PEIKES , RUTHANN & LAWRIE LUBIN Jonathan Saguy , son of THE grandson of ROCHELLE & LATE GIDEON & MERI SAGUY , and YAFFA & MORDECHAI Jagger Louie Cohen , son of HENRY WOLFOND and LINDA and Lesley Glowinsky , TOHAMI , born March 3. ETHEL & JONATHAN WEINER , & STUART PEIKES , great- daughter of NORMAN & grandson of RICKY & PETER Charlie Jack , son of DEBORAH grandson of MEL & PEDIE LILLIAN GLOWINSKY , who COHEN and SHAHLA & BARRY & PHILLIP BACAL , grandson of WOLFOND , born July 11. were married August 9. WEINER , great-grandson of SHARON & NORMAN BACAL BETTY WEINER , born May 11. Jake Lewis and Max Eddie , and ADRIANA & PAUL Matthew Solomon , son of twin sons of SHANE & TAMMY GERRY SOLOMON and STERESCU , born April 16. Liv Winter , daughter of GIDDENS , grandsons of DAVID MARLENE & SHELDON BRIAN & SHAUNA DRUKARSH , Jacob Solomon , son of DR . & ELAINE GIDDENS and ALSPECTOR , and Tanya granddaughter of FLORENCE RICHARD & STEPHANIE LEITER , MERVYN & TERRY KAPLAN , Stone , daughter of HOWARD & MARSHALL DRUKARSH and grandson of DR . LAWRENCE & great-grandsons of EVELYN & SHELLEY STONE , who were MAURA & ELLIOT COHEN , KAREN LEITER , BARBARA LAZAR ROSS , born July 23. married August 16. born May 16. and JEFF & BEV KISSEL , great- Geri Stephanie , daughter of Ariel Lefkowitz , son of grandson of MILDRED LEITER , Cameron Adam , son of MICHELLE & AARON DR . CHARLES LEFKOWITZ & FRANCES LAZAR and RUTH DR . ROBERT & ANDREA GOLDWASSER , granddaughter DR . DENICE FEIG , and Sarah KISSEL , born April 24. MANSFIELD , grandson of DR . of CAREN RUBY AND THE LATE Friedlander , daughter of GARY & MARCIA MANSFIELD Cole Grayson , son of NADINE GERRY RUBY and ABIE & DR . IRA FRIEDLANDER and and PAUL & CORNELIA ADAM , & ZACK COOPER , grandson of MARGARET GOLDWASSER , DR . ANN NUNNALLY , who born May 20. RIKKI & DR . RICHARD COOPER , born August 10. were married August 23. born May 4. May (Malka) , daughter of Emily Jessica , daughter of Jordyn Lofsky , son of JEWELL ZACHARY ABELLA & SUSANNAH Cohav Yarok , son of ADIRA MELISSA & STEVEN USTER , & SEYMOUR LOFSKY , and GORA , granddaughter of ROTSTEIN & STEVE LEE , granddaughter of ROBERT & MADAME JUSTICE ROSALIE Maya Kesler , daughter of & MYRIAM KLEIN JOHN grandson of DR . COLEMAN & and & LILY RICK KESLER PROFESSOR IRVING ABELLA and & , who DR . WENDY ROTSTEIN , born ROSIE USTER , born July 30. ANN RAY & JOEL GORA , born were married August 23. May 7. May 26. Weddings Aliza Batsheva Feld , Eden Isabel , daughter of Alexander Charles , son of daughter of ALAN FELD & DAVID & LAURA ELMAN , BRIAN & CANDICE BACAL , Leah Mauer , daughter of DR . LEEONA FISHER FELD (of granddaughter of MICHAEL & grandson of SHARON & BRENDA & MARVIN MAUER , Israel), granddaughter of NATALIE ELINSON and BRUCE NORMAN BACAL and JENNIFER and Josh Zelikovitz , son of DONALD CARR & JUDY FELD & NANCY ELMAN , great- & PHILLIP LOW , born June 2. JUDI CAPLAN ZELIKOVITZ AND CARR and THE LATE DR . granddaughter of REVEKKA JOEL ZELIKOVITZ , who were RONALD FELD , and Ari PAVOLOTSKY , born May 9. Lucas Brayden , son of married June 28. Haber , son of ALAN & KAILY JONATHAN & MICHELLE HABER , who were married BRENZEL , grandson of SANDY September 6 in Modiin, & SHERRI BRENZEL , RUTH Israel. ELMALEH and SHELDON 6 MELODICK , great-grandson of RUTH COOPER , born June 26. lifecycle News and Milestones
Schuyler Levine , son of Jonah Finkelstein , on winning SHELLEY & AUBREY LEVINE , the National Bible Contest for and Jill Greenspoon , the Grades 4/5, English daughter of SHELLEY & IRA division. GREENSPOON , who were Morris Friedman , who married September 6. celebrated his 90 th birthday Dr. Joel Elman , son of BRUCE on September 11. & NANCY ELMAN , and Dr. Bill Glied , who celebrated his Tarin Arenson , daughter of 85 th birthday on September 6. DR . LENNY & RONA ARENSON , who will be married David Griff , who will October 11. celebrate his 80 th birthday on November 7. th David Hodgins , son of In this, our 60 anniversary ROSS HODGINS & MONIQUE Aleeza Lubin , who was named BENDAVID -HODGINS , and Dana one of the “36 under 36” by year, as we celebrate our Gold , daughter of RALF & the joint OyChicago/Young DR . ILEANA GOLD , who will be Leadership Division for 2015, past, we are also planning married October 11. and was promoted to the position of Director of Jewish for our future. Sean Menkes , son of PETER & Enrichment for BBYO ALLISON MENKES , and Sunny International. Diamond , daughter of CAREY In the next few weeks, you will be asked DIAMOND & TINA URMAN , Mitchell Jacob Rattner , son of who will be married MARLENE & IAN RATTNER , on to complete the October 11. being called to the Bar of Ontario by the Law Society of Daniel Michael Braun , son of Upper Canada on June 23. Beth Tzedec PROFESSOR AUREL BRAUN AND Jodi Rotman , daughter of THE LATE JULIANA BORSA Strategic Planning PATTI & SHELDON ROTMAN , BRAUN , and Lauren Shoolman , on receiving her Masters in Survey daughter of STANLEY & Developmental Psychology SHARON SHOOLMAN , who will and Education from the which will be available both on line be married November 1. University of Toronto, OISE. and in print. Please participate— Your Matthew Spencer , son of Shaun Rotman , son of PATTI feedback is important to our future! DR . JOHN & FERN SPENCER , & SHELDON ROTMAN , on being and Stephanie Greenspan , called to the Bar of Ontario by Until then, please feel free to share your daughter of SOL & ROBYN the Law Society of Upper GREENSPAN , who will be Canada on June 23. thoughts with Strategic Planning married November 21. committee co-chairs Carolyn Kolers Bernie & Judi Shiner , who th Congratulations to celebrated their 40 and Larry Wallach at anniversary on August 17. [email protected]. Dr. Sidney & Gina Brown , Frances Sobel , who nd who celebrated their 62 celebrated her 99 th birthday anniversary on May 12. on August 14. Rabbi Adam Cutler , on being Nathan Stall , son of LISA appointed President of the BERGER & RICHARD STALL , and Rabbinical Assembly—Ontario Tali Bogler , daughter of SUSY Region and Secretary of the & AVI BOGLER , on their Toronto Board of Rabbis. engagement. Joey & Toby Tanenbaum , who celebrated their 60 th anniversary on May 22, and 60 Years of Tradition–Building for the Future bulletineach received Honourary Doctor of Law degrees from Beth Tzedec BulletinMcMaster University. volume 64, no. 1 | tishrei 5775 • september 2014 | www.beth-tzedec.org 7 lifecycle News and Milestones
Many Thanks to The Lefkowitz, Feig, Richard Allen & Dahra Edwin & Pamela Minden , Friedlander and Nunnally Granovsky , who will who will sponsor a Bruce & Nancy Elman, who Families , who sponsored a sponsor a Congregational Congregational Kiddush on sponsored a Congregational Congregational Kiddush on Kiddush on October 10 in October 24 in honour of the Kiddush on May 30 in honour August 22 in honour of the honour of the Bar Mitzvah of Bar Mitzvah of their son Elijah . of the birth of their grand- upcoming wedding of Ariel their son Ryan . daughter E den Isabel Elman. Lefkowitz and Sarah Friedlander. Joseph Neuberger and Adi Todd & Catherine Beallor , Neuberger, who will sponsor a Harry Enchin, who sponsored The Minden Family , who who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on a S eudah Shlisheet on June 6 sponsored a Congregational Congregational Kiddush on October 31 in honour of the in honour of S usan Friedrich’s Kiddush on August 22 to October 10 in honour of the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter graduation from the Adult commemorate the first Bar Mitzvah of their son Rachel . Skills and Knowledge (ASK) yahrtzeit of Murray Minden . Mitchell . program. Tobi Bongard and Richard Ruthe Mann , who Eric & Ellen Pervin , who will Bongard, who will sponsor a The Firestone Family, who sponsored a Seudah Shlisheet sponsor a Congregational Congregational Kiddush on sponsored a S eudah Shlisheet on August 29 to commemorate Kiddush on October 10 in November 7 in honour of the on June 27 to commemorate the yahrtzeit of Grace Longert . honour of the Bar Mitzvah of Bar Mitzvah of their son the first yahrtzeit of S heldon their son Max . Benjamin . Lawrence Firestone. Miriam Weinstein , who will sponsor a Congregational David Backstein & Marci Leslie & Lisa Aaro n, who will Harold & Carole Wolfe, who Kiddush on September 26 in Leibl , who will sponsor a sponsor a Congregational sponsored a Congregational honour of the Bat Mitzvah of Congregational Kiddush on Kiddush on November 14 in Kiddush on July 18 in honour her daughter Danielle . October 17 in honour of the honour of the Bar Mitzvah of of H arold’s birthday. Bat Mitzvah of their daughter their son Jonah . Alan Wener & Susan Druker , Lauren . Norman & Jackie Kahn and who will sponsor a David Price & Amy Kamin- family, who sponsored a Congregational Kiddush on Adam Enchin & Dayna Price , who will sponsor a Seudah Shlisheet on July 25 to September 26 in honour of the Freedman , who will sponsor a Congregational Kiddush on commemorate the yahrtzeit of Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Congregational Kiddush on November 14 in honour of the Jonathan Kahn. Jennifer . October 17 in honour of the Bar Mitzvah of their son Jack . Bar Mitzvah of their son Harvey & Sylvia Gefen, who Richard & Dana Berr , who Jonah . Helon & Carmela Rzhevsky , sponsored a Congregational will sponsor a Congregational who will sponsor a Kiddush on August 15 to Kiddush on October 3 in Wendy Fish , who will sponsor Congregational Kiddush on commemorate the yahrtzeit honour of the Bat Mitzvah of a Congregational Kiddush on November 14 in honour of the of O scar Schlenger. their daughter Meredith . October 24 in honour of the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter Bat Mitzvah of her daughter Naomi . Annette Bot and family, Michael Gelfand & Bonny Amy . who sponsored a S eudah Reichert , who will sponsor a Jason & Vered Feldman , who Shlisheet on August 22 to Congregational Kiddush on will sponsor a Congregational commemorate the yahrtzeit October 3 in honour of the Kiddush on November 21 in of W illiam Bot. Bat Mitzvah of their daughter honour of the Bar Mitzvah of Maya . their son Nathaniel .
Rabbis are heirs to a tradition that has flourished by adapting to change over the course of centuries. But the pace of change in the 21 st century poses extraordinary challenges to the very nature of the rabbinate and to the fabric of Jewish life. During the summer, Rav Adam Cutler was invited to join a group of rabbis convened by the Rabbinical Assembly to re-envision what rabbis do and how the world-wide organization of Conservative rabbis might meet these challenges. During the initial days of intense meetings, a strategic planning vision team established a foundation for the future. We are pleased at Beth Tzedec that our Rabbis and Cantors, as well as our Executive and Education Directors, are widely respected within their respective professional organizations. Our lay leaders have important positions with the Jewish Theological Seminary, the United Synagogue for Conservative Judaism, the Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs, the Women’s League of Conservative Judaism, the Masorti movement and the Schechter Institute. As one of the major congregations of Conservative Judaism, we have a responsibility to help shape the future of our approach to Jewish life.
8 from the executive director Randy E. Spiegel Eyes/Ears/Nose/Mouth Our kehillah kedoshah has and continues to take steps to embrace and engage our members and guests.
it is a game we all played as children to teach the Our Renovations Committee is also working on parts of the body and to demonstrate movement. We plans to make the bimah in both the Hendeles laugh and revel in the performance of the child who has Chapel and the Sanctuary accessible. no limitations. The new parent cannot imagine anything • For those requiring assistive hearing devices: Both less than a “perfect” child, however unrealistic that may the Hendeles Chapel and the Sanctuary have FM be. As we age, we all face challenges that require systems that help amplify the davening and the attention, be they visual, auditory, physical or otherwise; speakers to enhance one’s experience of the music, if you don’t today, you will tomorrow. the prayer and the Divrei Torah . (Please see the coat We often look at athletes or other high performing check attendants or ask a member of our staff to individuals who seem quite perfect and we strive to be borrow a device.) like them. Even the greatest of baseball hitters can only • For those with food allergies: We are nut-sensitive get a hit less than 40 percent of the time. Athletes with our Kiddush and pastry foods. performing at the highest levels all require an entourage • For those sensitive to perfumes: We ask our of assistants, coaches and psychologists to keep them at members and guests to refrain from wearing heavy their peak. scents when coming to shul. So what about we the people who grind it out day • For those who need a helping hand: Our ushers, after day and need assistance? How does a community clergy and staff throughout the building all work to respond? How does Beth Tzedec respond when members make your experience more engaging and inclusive. of our family need special attention or support? • For children who need extra help with their Jewish Fact: Everyone, child or adult, has “special needs”. studies: Our Congregational School offers help with No one, at any age, is perfect, and recognition and shadows and tutors. acceptance of imperfection is the new “normal”. Some of We have now installed new accessible doors at the us wear glasses or hearing aids, use walkers, or have main parking lot entrance to the building. It is important allergies to foods or scents. Some of us learn better that we be welcoming and we can now proudly declare visually, while some learn better by listening. that our doors are open to everyone. In addition, on the Sefer Tehillim (Psalms) 115:5 states “they have a main floor, just down from my office (the silver door) by mouth, but they do not speak, they have eyes, but they the administration office, we have a newly installed do not see, they have ears but do not hear, they have caregiver/accessible washroom. While we intend to noses but do not smell. They do not feel with their upgrade all of our washrooms, this new washroom is a hands, and they do not walk with their feet.” first important step in that direction. Thanks to the Our kehillah kedoshah (caring community) continues House Committee and the Board of Governors, we have to take steps to embrace and engage our members and been able to make these changes for the High Holy Days. guests. Everyone is equal in the eyes of God and we Judaism is a sensory experience and Beth Tzedec is believe it is our responsibility to offer options that will committed to making changes to allow everyone an enhance Jewish experiences at the Synagogue. How do equal opportunity to share in the experience. we do this? As always, I welcome your feedback and comments • For those with visual impairments: We provide large as together we continue to embrace our people and print siddurim in the Hendeles Chapel and Sanctuary. serve as a community destination for Jewish living. • For those requiring accessible seating: We have A healthy and sweet New Year. designated seats, and our ushers will always assist. To make a gift that will • For those unable to manage stairs: We have a ramp strengthen our Synagogue, please that allows one to travel barrier free from east to contact me at 416-781-3514 ext. west. Our elevato r provides access to the second 211 or [email protected]. floor, making the majority of our building accessible.
9 Mazal Tov to our B’nei Mitzvah WHO HAVE COMPLETED OUR BAR /BAT MITZVAH PROGRAM
June 13 ( in israel) August 24 September 26 (in the little minyan) September 26 Jayden Shnier Jacob Schwartz Jennifer Michelle Wener Danielle Naomi Wohl daughter of Jordan Shnier son of Ronald & daughter of Alan Wener daughter of Michael Wohl z”l & Gillian Tessis Johanna Schwartz & Susan Druker & Miriam Weinstein
October 3 (at mi nhah) October 3 October 8 October 10 Meredith Berr Maya Re˙ichert Gelfand Ryan Allen Max Michael Pervin daughter of Richard daughter of Michael Gelfand son of Richard Allen son of Eric & & Dana Berr & Bonny Reichert & Dahra Granovsky Ellen Pervin
10 October 12 (in the little minyan) October 17 (at mi nhah) October 17 October 24 Mitchell Beallor Jonah Enchin La˙uren Backstein Amy Rebecca Grossman son of Todd & son of Adam Enchin daughter of David Backstein daughter of Wendy Fish Catherine Beallor & Dayna Freedman & Marcie Leibl and Lorne Grossman
(in the little minyan) October 24 October 31 (at mi nhah) November 7 (in the little minyan) November 14 Elijah Aaron Minden Rachel Neuberger Be˙njamin Bongard Jonah Aaron son of Ted & daughter of Joseph Neuberger son of Tobi Bongard son of Leslie & Pamela Minden and Adi Neuberger and Richard Bongard Lisa Aaron
November 14 November 14 November 21 Jack Harrison Price Naomi Rzhevsky Nate Feldman son of David Price daughter of Helon & son of Jay & & Amy Kamin Price Carmela Rzhevsky Vered Feldman
11 Children ages 7 and up who enjoy singing are invited to be a part of our Children’s Choir. This musical group sings with the Beth Tzedec Singers, performing in concerts around the city and for the Congregation. For information or to register , contact Marlene Laba at 416-781-3514 ext. 234 or [email protected] or Cantor Simon Spiro at [email protected].
Sing along and explore the history of the Yiddish Theatre, Broadway musical comedies and Klezmer music in this three-part series. No charge; refreshments served.
OCTOBER 20— Great Songs of the Yiddish Theatre
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Sponsored by Kensington Place Retirement Residence Musician and entertainer Jordan Klapman presents the amazing stories of a dozen Jewish songs that were musically transformed into some of the greatest standards of American pop. Sponsored by:
12 cantor’s diary Cantor Simon Spiro Looking Back ... and the Best is Yet to Come! this rosh hashanah marks a very thrill in the air as our Sanctuary, rebuilt Jewish Songbook , The Kids From special time for us. Beth Tzedec is as a concert hall, filled up with throngs Brooklyn and this past year’s celebrating its 60 th year and with that, from around the community. Wonderful World of Moishe Oysher , I’m sure, come all sorts of memories The eight full-scale productions of we have brought entertainment of the for each of you. Personally, I just the Beth Tzedec Purim Family Musical highest level to our community while marked my tenth anniversary at Beth entertained thousands of audience raising funds for the shul. We are Tzedec. I remember my first Rosh members over the years and created certainly deserving of our moniker Hashanah with you. I had arrived in friendships among some Beth Tzedec “The Music Synagogue of Toronto”. Toronto a few weeks earlier, on August members whose paths might otherwise The Beth Tzedec Summer Musical 15, 2005, and inherited a choir. My never have crossed. Journeys that I’ve organized and led first project was re-working the choir Shabbat Shirah has turned into one with Aliza have allowed me to get to to develop and shape a new sound. We of my favourite weekends of the year know some amazing people from our rehearsed every night for weeks while I with our Musical-Scholar-in-Residence, synagogue community and beyond, sang on the first few Shabbatot alone. I the unique Shabbat morning “sermon- and explore with them the culture and didn’t reintroduce the newly-named in-song” and the concluding Saturday music of many exciting European Beth Tzedec Singers until I felt this night community concert. Over the cities. Over the years we’ve also had special new sound had been achieved. years we have welcomed to this shul rollicking Scottish Nights and fun It must have been, for on the last day Jewish music publishers, renowned Music Trivia Supper Quizzes , haimish of Sukkot that year, when Cantor Beny cantors, artistic directors and gifted Pesa h Tune Swaps and pre-High Holy ˙ Maissner visited and heard them, he performers. Day workshops. Today we have the asked my wife, “Where did Simon get Our “Sinatra to Bublé” Big Band adorable Voices of Tomorrow all these new singers?!” concerts allowed us to connect with children’s choir and the swinging adult Over the ten years since, we have Toronto’s secular music community Vinyl Chorus . The list goes on and on continued to sing together on the and brought in hundreds of music and—don’t worry—the best is yet to bimah , in concert, for city-wide lovers to our shul. We featured Juno- come! ceremonies and on tour in Florida. It winner John MacLeod and his Rex My first ten years here have flown now gives me the greatest joy to tell Hotel Orchestra, and our special guest and I love looking back on them as I’m you that finally, after many requests, performers included my friends Jeff sure you love looking back on the Beth my first CD with the Beth Tzedec Madden from Broadway’s Jersey Boys, Tzedec years, whether you’ve been Singers is being released. Neil Levin, Arlene Duncan from TV’s Little here for only a few or since the artistic director of the Milken Archive Mosque on the Prairie and Canada’s beginning 60 years ago. Perhaps it is of Jewish Music, has called them “one first lady of jazz, Jackie Richardson. I rose-coloured glasses and honeyed of the finest synagogue choirs in the loved performing with these Toronto nostalgia that allow us to remember world today” and I can’t wait for you talents and being able to write big the good while the more painful to hear this gorgeous recording. band arrangements for some popular memories soften or disappear entirely. Looking back over my ten years Jewish songs, bridging the gap between As we all celebrate this milestone for here, I take further pleasure reminiscing the Jewish music and popular music Beth Tzedec, I hope that your over the wonderful musical events that worlds. memories, too, will be sweet. More I’ve had the privilege of sharing with you. Since 2011, the end-of year major importantly, I hope that your The 2008 Music Magic Concert concerts have simply put our experiences in the upcoming year will Series featured three exciting concerts synagogue back on the map. Beginning be even sweeter. with good friends of mine: Yiddish with Halleluyah: Timeless Hits of the My wife Aliza joins me in wishing entertainer Bruce Adler z”l , Broadway Israeli Song Festival , and continuing you and your families a Shanah Tovah composer Marvin Hamlisch z”l and pop with sell-outs 100 Years of Jewish u’metukah . legend Neil Sedaka. I’ll never forget the Hollywood , The Great American 13 The Ralph & Roslyn Halbert Visiting Scholars The Other Peace Process
A Two-Part Series with Rabbi Dr. Ron Kronish and Kadi Dr. Iyad Zahalka
These two lectures present an alternative vision of the Israeli- Palestinian peace process—one based not on peace treaties or other political mechanisms, but rather on inter-religious dialogue and interaction. Their presentations will draw both on scholarly perspectives and personal experiences, which include working for many years in Israel connecting religious leaders, educators, women, youth and young adults through educational programs. No charge.
Wednesday, October 7 – 7:00 PM Inter-Religious Dialogue in Israel and Palestine in the Service of Peace at the University of Toronto (Main Activity Room, Multi-Faith Centre, Koffler House 569 Spadina Avenue)
For more information on this session, call 416-978-1624.
Thursday, October 8 – 7:30 PM Is Arab-Jewish Coexistence in Israel Still Possible? at Beth Tzedec
For more information on this session, call 416-781-3511.
Rabbi Dr. Ron Kronish, Kadi Dr. Iyad Zahalka, Director of the Interreligious Judge of the Jerusalem Coordinating Council in Muslim Sharia Court of the Israel State of Israel
Presented by Beth Tzedec Congregation, Canadian Friends of Hebrew University, Multi-Faith Centre for Spiritual Study and Practice, and the Anne Tanenbaum Centre for Jewish Studies
14 commentary Rav Adam Cutler A Space of One’s Own Beth Tzedec’s building is a space that at seminal moments punctuates our lives.
since the beginning of my tenure at beth tzedec in the Monterey Bay Academy, a Seventh Day Adventist 2009, without fail, I have visited Camp Ramah in Canada boarding school. While I have no doubt that in every summer and the approximately 60 campers and considering their options, the leadership of Ramah staff for whom Beth Tzedec is their shul. Beth Tzedec is NorCal went with the best choice, I wonder what is lost in one of the camp’s founding synagogues and we maintain a not having a space that they can truly call their own? I very strong relationship with the camp to this day. I must wonder how a camp changes when campers (presumably) admit, though, that I make the four and half hour round- are limited in what marks they can leave for their future trip drive not only to further the connection between shul selves (if not, at least in theory, their children and grand - and camp but also between myself and the Ramahniks. I children)? How much of camp (if not life itself) is about head up to Utterson, Ontario because I myself was a the permanence and proprietorship of the place itself? Ramahnik. I travel to Camp Ramah because there is As I ask these questions, I think also about our space something special about that place—a place that for me at Beth Tzedec. It is a building, a sacred space, to which was a second home for countless special summers. we are intimately connected. When we sit in the pews, When there, I always take stock of the many physical many of us remember sitting with relatives and friends changes since my first summer in 1986, always aware of now gone. We recall the B’nei Mitzvah and the weddings. the tremendous efforts supported by the Jewish commu - We reflect on the funerals. It is a space, seemingly nity to continuously upgrade the facility. I also smile at the unalterable, that at seminal moments punctuates our lives. signs and other permanent markers created by my friends Though it has an air of timelessness, like all spaces, it has and campers that have stood the test of time—artwork been continuously updated—a new gym one year, a done in collaboration with David Moss, Yom Sport renovated Lower Hall the next. (Colour War) plaques affixed inside the Hadar Okhel , or As we continue to re-envision our synagogue, we hastily created cabin plaques complete with inside jokes re-imagine our sacred space. Though Jewish worship can whose origins no one can now recall (not to mention the take place almost anywhere, we know that a well designed illicit writing of one’s name on the cabin wall beside one’s bed). sanctuary fosters a deeper connection with the Divine. We Recently, I was thrilled to read that the Camp Ramah are required to ask: How can we best honour the past 60 brand is once again expanding its reach, this time to years, while creating the right space for the next 60? Northern California. Sitting on the shore of the Pacific I don’t have an answer, but I look forward to the Ocean, Ramah NorCal will be situated on the campus of conversation.
Beth Tzedec’s Camp Ramahniks—Class of 2015. 15 Jewish Service Network Trip to North Bay October 8 to 11
• Two days of hands-on volunteer work in Canada’s ‘Gateway to the North’ Don't miss this opportunity to do hands-on volunteer work • Fun way to get volunteer hours in North Bay, Ontario, and spend Shabbat with the local • Departs Thursday evening, returning Sunday evening community. Earn volunteer hours while working with North • Spend Shabbat with local Jewish teens Bay community and Aboriginal organizations. Limited • Connect with the local Aboriginal community spaces available; sign up before we sell out. Facilitated by Beth Tzedec's Jewish Service Network. • Cost: $325/person ($300/person for siblings)
Information and Orientation Session: Thursday, September 17 at 7:30 pm
To register or learn more, contact Lily Chapnik at 416-781-3514 ext. 229 or [email protected]
With the support of Supported by the Stephen Cooper Fund
Friday, October 30 at 5:00 pm This special Shabbat dinner is for young children (up to age 7) and their families. We will welcome Shabbat with music and crafts, enjoy a delicious dinner with a kid-friendly menu, and have special entertainment for our tots. Cost: $36 adults; $18 youth (ages 5 to 14); $6 children (ages 1 to 4). Dinner by advance reservation only by monday, October 26.
For information or reservations, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 or [email protected]
16 director of education & family programming Daniel Silverman Approaching the Starting Line to a New Year The quiet and stillness of summer is about to be shattered by the starting gun of the school year and the High Holy Days.
during the recent pan am games the Jewish and secular calendars moments where we can grab some of here in Toronto, I attended my first- where the quiet and stillness of that time back, slow things down ever swimming and track and field summer is about to be shattered by and enjoy the last few weeks of competitions. Both were a lot of fun the starting gun of school, the High (hopefully) warmer weather before and a great way to spend a morning, Holy Days and a return to the hectic the grey of November sets in. and it also marked the first time I got schedule of the fall. As we all run If you are having difficulty finding to cheer on Canadian athletes in around seemingly like chickens with some peace and serenity in the midst person. no heads, shlepping ourselves and our of the holidays, we are here to help. At each event, there was some - children or grandchildren from one We have great holiday programming thing that I had never experienced place to the next, we will all be for kids and families, including our before. Prior to a race starting, when yearning for the calm of summer, the annual Sukkah Hop and opening the starter called the swimmers or feeling of the sun’s warmth, the grass Family Service on October 3, our runners to their starting positions, or sand between our toes. Sim hat Torah program and dinner on ˙ everything got quiet. Really quiet. As Thankfully, we have a slew of October 5 and our teen Jewish soon as the gun fired and the athletes holidays that help ease us into the Service Network trip to North Bay started their race, there was a busy season. How do they help, you from October 8 to 11. We also have cacophony of noise urging them on. might be asking. The work and some new programs about to begin, I have been to lots of sporting preparations for the big meals of like our Pizza in the Hut family events, but I have never experienced Rosh Hashanah, building the Sukkah sukkah party on September 30, our this before. Great baseball and foot - and all the time off work only make Congregational School open house on ball games have a constant buzz of life more difficult, not easier, you are September 27 and a special dramatic noise to them. Basketball games have surely saying. But think about the retelling of Jonah and the Whale in music during play, and hockey has the pace and rhythm, the opportunity to the afternoon on Yom Kippur. sounds of the crowd, of the skates on spend time with family and friends, With our revamped the ice and the hits along the boards. enjoying a Rosh Hashanah lunch on Congregational School —focussed on In sports like golf and tennis, which the back porch or seeing the stars experiential education —and our new do have an etiquette of the crowd through the top of a Sukkah. Visiting team of youth, teen and family staff, being quiet, the silence remains until the Cedarvale Ravine creek for Beth Tzedec has so much to offer. the rally is done or the golf shot has Tashlikh and watching the leaves When the starting gun goes, don’t be landed. But this was different. This begin to change colour as we dance afraid to jump right in and run was a short period of silence, then and celebrate with the Torah. Going towards the shul. We’ll be here, lots of noise. Waiting, then going fast. for a slow walk in the late afternoon cheering you on all the way. We have reached the point in both on Yom Kippur. These are all
Beth Tzedec is turning 60, and perhaps you are too! Please share with us if you were born in 1955, had your bar/bat mitzvah in 1955, were married in 1955, etc. We'd love to share a list of all the celebrations of our members. To share your memories, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. bulletin 60 Years of Tradition–Building for the Future 17
Beth Tzedec Bulletin volume 64, no. 1 | tishrei 5775 • september 2014 | www.beth-tzedec.org Sunday, October 18
mural installation – 12:00 nOOn mural unveiling, judging and party – 3:30 pm
Incorporate photographs, synagogue and festival memories, lifecycle memorabilia and more to create your Jewish tapestry. Before starting the project, have a family discussion—we provide discussion material. For artistic inspiration, we can even arrange for an art specialist to set you on your journey! Amazing prizes for the most creative and thought- provoking submissions, including baseball and basketball tickets, bicycles, season movie passes, a catered family Shabbat dinner and more. No charge, but registration required to get your Invoke your inner artist as we encourage “secret art bag” to help you create your submission 60 families to help create our collaborative to the Community Mural. Beth Tzedec Community mural. Call 416-781-3511 by Monday, October 12.
Presented as part of our 60 th Anniversary celebrations
Sunday, november 8 from 3:00 to 7:00 pm Love a good adventure? Know your way around the ‘secret’ shul corridors? Come celebrate the 60 th at our amazing techno scavenger race! for teens ages 12 to 16 Put together your own team (or ask us to put you on one) and discover and explore the ins and outs and crazy shul places and passages your parents don't want you to know about. And just wait for the unveiling of the surprise ending... and the great party following!
Teams and individual participants must pre-register by Monday, November 2 by calling the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511.
Presented as part of our 60 th Anniversary celebrations
18 in and around the shul New Faces: Brukhim Haba’im! Bringing new vision and energy to programs for our Youth and Young Professionals.
PICTURED LEFT TO RIGHT: Yacov Fruchter, Simmi Toby and Lily Chapnik we are delighted to welcome Believe in the transformative power She will also help plan and implement Yacov Fruchter , formerly the Spiritual of “real” conversations? Speak to programs for young families and will Leader of the Annex Shul, as our new Yacov—any topic that is important to be responsible for the Kadima programs Director of Community Building and you is important to him. You can reach for pre-USY aged students, as well. Spiritual Engagement. Yacov’s him at [email protected] or Lily grew up in Thornhill and is a involvement represents our 647-267-8752. recent McGill University graduate. commitment to the next generation of If you are interested in reading While in Montreal, she worked as the Beth Tzedec members and future articles written by or about Yacov, visit: Youth Advisor at Temple Emanu-El- leaders. Through his engagement and •www.cjnews.com/news/ Beth-Sholom, a Reform congregation in relationships, he is committed to essay-how-end-infertility-stigma Westmount, and has also worked at bringing informal Jewish education •www.cjnews.com/canada/ Eden Village Camp in upstate New and Jewish living to life, for our yacov-fruchter-leave-annex-shul-beth- York. In her new role, Lily will be members and the community. tzedec responsible for planning events, creating Born, raised and inspired Jewishly •www.cjnews.com/canada/ programming, and building relationship s in Montreal, he attended McGill young-rabbis-panel-tackles-hot-topics with kids in Middle School and High University, working as the Director of We are also excited to welcome School, as well as their families. In Advocacy and Programming for Hillel two new young energetic members to addition to being Beth Tzedec’s liaison Montreal before heading down the 401 Beth Tzedec’s professional team. with United Synagogue Youth (USY), to Toronto to become the Director of Simmi Toby joins us as our new Lily will be responsible for planning Emerging Campuses and Jewish Director of Youth Engagement, and and executing USY programs on a Education for Hillel Canada. During Lily Chapnik joins us in the new role of city-wide and regional level. his six years at the Annex Shul, he built Teen Engagement Coordinator and Both Simmi and Lily will work a community of hundreds of inspired USY Liaison. closely together to give our youth young Jews. He writes a monthly D’var Simmi is a native Torontonian, and teens the broadest possible Torah for the Canadian Jewish News, Queens University graduate, former experience and connect them to and in 2015 was recognized as one of Camp Ramah camper and staff other youth and teens throughout the “Top 20 Under 40” by Shalom member, and most recently has worked the GTA and to United Synagogue Life . Yacov is currently enrolled in a as the Youth Director at Beth David congregations throughout the region . Masters of Pastoral Studies program at Synagogue. In her new role, Simmi will Contact Simmi at 416-781-3514 Emmanuel College at the University of primarily focus on planning events, ext. 239 or [email protected] and Toronto. He is married to Ryla implementing programming and Lily at 416-781-3514 ext. 229 or Braemer and is the proud father of two building relationships with kids up to [email protected] . daughters, Sheelo Netta and Lev Amie. and through the Bar/Bat Mitzvah year.
19 Wednesday, September 30 4:00 to 5:45 pm
Join us in the Beth Tzedec Sukkah and celebrate the holiday with music, food, drinks and fun. This is a great way to get into the Sukkot spirit and have fun after school. No charge, but RSVPs requested by Friday, September 25. For information or to RSVp, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 or [email protected].
Beth Tzedec’s Annual Sim hat Torah Luncheon In honour of our Hattan Torah , Jeffrey Perlmutter , and our Kaִllat Be˙ reisheet , Cheryl Rosenthal Join us Tuesday, October 6 following Services for a special family lunch
Adults $40.00; Youth (4 to 14); $18.00 Children (under 4) free. For tickets, call 416-781-3511. Limited Seating. Reserve Now! To RSVP, call 416-781-3511 by Friday, September 25.
20 director of community building & spiritual engagement Yacov Fruchter Creating Intimacy in Numbers Feeling a sense of belonging, a sense of warmth and collective purpose in a shul community of thousands. the 18 th century rabbi and mystic yisroel ben eliezer, patient administrative staff. I have also met with dozens of lovingly known as the Ba’al Shem Tov , referred to the forward thinking and passionate lay leaders, as well as Jewish people as a living Torah. He explained that a Torah those who are happy to be “regular” participants. There is that is missing even just one letter is considered pasul , no denying that Beth Tzedec is made up thousands of invalid, and no longer fit to be used until it is corrected. members who feel a sense of pride and connection to what Similarly, if even one Jewish person feels like an outsider, is clearly among the most important Jewish institutions in unwelcome and not part of our collective whole, then it is Canada. Even during the sleepy summer, there is incredible as if the entire Jewish people is invalid and void. It was energy in the vast halls of this building. with that spirit, and with that belief in the inherent value My many encounters have also included some deep of each and every person that he came across, that the conversations with my peers who are in their 20s and 30s Ba’al Shem Tov built his community of inspired Jews. and who have expressed a strong affinity to the shul even if I moved to Toronto in August 2007. In the eight years they only participate a few times each year. So let me share since, I have driven by Beth Tzedec thousands of times, with each of you the goal and vision behind my hard to only stopping in on a handful of occasions, mostly for remember job title. While feeling a sense of family ties to meetings with the rabbis. That, of course, changed this an institution and a sense of pride is important, it is also summer when, after a six year tenure as the spiritual leader not enough. I am here to build a community within this of the Annex Shul, I joined the Beth Tzedec team as the community, of inspired and actively engaged people in Director of Community Building and Spiritual Engagement. their 20s & 30s, both for singles, newly coupled off and I have always been impressed by the calibre of events for those with young children. Together with a team of being offered, but stayed away as I never quite felt that empowered 20s and 30s, millennials, young adults or any they were for me. Though I am comfortable in large other word that inclusively describes this cohort, our plan crowds, like many, I find myself happiest in smaller, more is to develop social, educational and spiritual community intimate settings and conversations. That, too, likely building experiences that will increase active participation; affected my past participation in Beth Tzedec experiences. and most crucially, that will be warm, relevant, inviting How could one possibly feel a sense of belonging, a sense and thought provoking, and perpetuate the belief in the of warmth and collective purpose, in a shul community of importance of each and every individual in this community. thousands of people? Over the next few months, as our plans take shape, When interviewing for this position, the answer to this there will be opportunities for you to contribute your question quickly became clear both through interacting ideas, your energy and your talents. When you hear from with various leaders involved in the process and in the me—and you will—I hope you will take me up on my discussion about of my potential role. Led by Rav Baruch, offer to connect and to get to know one another. I also a rabbi with a Ba’al Shem Tov -like focus on each and every invite you to reach out to me and share your vision for the individual from eight days to 108 years old, and who future of Beth Tzedec. Together, let’s ask big questions, strives to know each and every of the 5,000 plus members party hard, grow together and celebrate this incredible and by name, this congregation exudes warmth. In the short awe inspiring Jewish community. period of time that I have been here, I have spent valuable Shanah Tovah, and may we all have the sweetest of time with the incredibly inspiring klei kodesh , creative new years. B’Shalom. education and programming team, and the caring and Don’t miss Sippin’ in the Sukkah, the first 20s & 30s Shabbat Dinner, SAVE ATE! on Friday, October 2 at 6:30 PM . Watch for more details. THE D
21 Grandparent & Grandchild SUNDAY MORNING HANGOUT Sundays, November 8, January 17, February 21 and April 3 from 11:00 AM to 12:00 NOON
Join us for a late-morning program Yiddishkeit where grandparents and their grandchildren can engage in music, arts & crafts and other activities that eFnocro inufroarmgea tion, contact Dtoan bieel Spialvsesrmed an at 416-781-3514 ext. 231 or [email protected]. from one generation to the next. No charge. FOR EVERY SEaSON: for Seniors with Yacov Fruchter
mondays, October 26, November 9 & 23, December 7, January 11 & 25, February 8 & 22, march 7 & 28, april 11, may 2 & 16 and June 6 & 20
1:30 to 3:00 pm
Join us for rich discussion and a nosh as we create a warm space for learning with and from each other about the topics that are pertinent to the lives of seniors.
For information, contact Yacov Fruchter at 416-781-3514 ext. 279 or [email protected]
22 in and around the shul Upcoming Events Si mhat Torah Luncheon Honouring o˙utstanding dedication to our Beth Tzedec community
it is our great pleasure to honour this year’s and socializing with family and friends. Hattan Torah , Jeff Perlmutter, and Kallat Bereisheet , Jeffrey is thrilled to be the recipient of this honour and C˙ heryl Rosenthal, at our Si mhat Torah services and luncheon. wishes to thank all those on the Nominating Committee Jeff and Cheryl have demons˙trated outstanding dedication for this great privilege. to our Beth Tzedec community and now join our Cheryl Rosenthal— Kallat Bereisheet distinguished list of honourees. Cheryl is a life-long member of Beth Tzedec. Her family’s Jeffrey Perlmutter —Hattan Torah association dates back to the Congregation’s founding, and Jeffrey is a lifetime m˙ember of Beth Tzedec. Over the previously belonged to the McCaul Street Shul (Beth years he has served on the Board of Governors, Adult Hamidrash Hagadol). She attended the Congregational Education, Rabbinic and Cantorial Search and Strategic School through her Confirmation at age 16 and studied for Planning committees, as well as the Young Families her Bat Mitzvah with Cantor Morris Soberman z”l ; she Committee (on which he also served as co-chair). continues to use his trop when reading Torah and chanting In addition, Jeffrey has been an avid participant in the Haftarah. She also taught her sons and the children of Little Minyan since its inception, and over the years, he has family friends as they prepared for their Bar/Bat Mitzvah also served as a lay prayer leader at shiva homes. portions. Like his parents before him, going to shul has always An active member of the Beth Tzedec community, been a priority for Jeffrey; and through the years, by Cheryl has volunteered on several shul programs including bringing his children with him for Shabbat and Yom Tov the Beth Tzedec Men’s Club Annual Golf Classic, Family services, he has instilled that same love of Judaism and Fun Day and Kristallnacht and Yom Hashoah evening going to shul in his children. programs. She is a High Holy Day usher and was named Jeffrey’s medical crisis of June 2014 was and remains a to the Honour Roll of the Men’s Club for her involvement on challenge both for him and his family. They are therefore the selection committee of the Howard (Hy) Cooper Trust delighted that he has slowly begun to reintegrate back into Fund for Higher Jewish Education, named after her father. his personal injury law practice. Cheryl is a graduate of the University of Toronto and The Beth Tzedec community has been an ongoing and holds B.A. and B.Ed. degrees. She taught for the Toronto tremendous emotional support for Jeffrey and his family District School Board at Newtonbrook Secondary School during his crisis. This is truly a tribute to the greatness of for 36 years, and was the Head of Business Education. our shul. Cheryl is married to Hersh (a past president of the Jeffrey has been happily married to Joanne for 32 years Beth Tzedec Men’s Club) and they have two sons, Howie and is the proud father and father-in-law of Hartley and (Ashleigh) and Barry (Tali) and three grandchildren, Stacie, Zachary and Mitchell. He enjoys classical music Abby, Noah and Cooper.
Board of Governors Meetings Members are welcome to attend all regularly scheduled meetings of the Board of Governors. To accommodate the need for sensitive items to be discussed in private, each meeting will include an in camera portion, allowing the Board to deliberate confidentially without any guests. Upcoming meeting dates: * Thursdays, September 17 and October 15 at 7:30 PM * Meeting dates are subject to change. Please check with the office to confirm dates before attending.
23 PAST EVENTS Highlights
PICTURED LEFT : Photographer Al Gilbert ‘opens’ his exhibit; ABOVE : Bonnie Shear, Dorion Liebgott, Blake Teichman, the Hon. Elizabeth Dowdeswell (Lieutenant Governor of Al Gilbert Exhibit Ontario), Rabbi Baruch Frydman-Kohl, Al Gilbert, Randy On Thursday, May 31, our latest photographic exhibit opened: Spiegel, Laura Silver and Lt. Commander Albert Wong. Toronto’s Jewish Mosaic: New Roots by Al Gilbert features portraits highlighting Jewish individuals from 50 different countries who chose to make Toronto their home.
Men’s Club Golf Classic Early on Thursday, May 28, 60 dedicated golfers gathered at Kabbalat Shabbat King’s Riding Golf Club for the Third Annual Men’s Club Golf Throughout the summer months, congregants enjoyed celebrating Classic. The funds raised are earmarked for Synagogue projects Kabbalat Shabbat services outdoors, in Cantor Spiro’s garden, and events. Yasher ko ah to all the golfers and dedicated Rabbi Frydman-Kohl’s back yard and on the shul lawn. volunteers who partic˙ipated.
Sharansky and Cotler in Conversation Wednesday, July 15, an enthusiastic crowd of over 1,400 gathered in the Sanctuary to hear Natan Sharansky and the Hon. Irwin Cotler speak about Human Rights and Jewish Life . The evening was sponsored by the Irene Reingold Foundation and presented as part of the 60 th anniversary celebrations of Beth Emeth, Beth Tzedec and Temple Sinai congregations. RSVP to Janine Russo at 416-315-8062 or [email protected] by April 15
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25 As we kick off our 60 th anniversary celebrations, 60 families will invite guests to come to their home for Shabbat dinner. Friday, October 16 Sign up as a Shabbat guest or a Shabbat host. • Hosts: Contact Daniel Silverman at 416-781-3514 ext. 231 or [email protected]. • Guests: Contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 or [email protected] . Hosts will receive a basket from the Congregation and can apply for subsidies to help defray dinner costs.
Let's all get it together and make this 60 th celebration something for generations to remember! Kabbalat Shabbat services will take place at Beth Tzedec at 6:15 PM prior to the dinner program.
A 60 TH ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION
Sunday, October 25 11:00 AM to 12:00 NOON This special kids concert featuring Kayla is a perfect way for grandparents and their young grandchildren (or parents with their young children) to join Beth Tzedec’s 60 th anniversary celebrations. Kids’ party follows.
No charge, but RSVPs requested to 416-781-3511 by Thursday, October 22.
26 PAST EVENTS Mother’s Day Chai Tea & Fashion Show Fashion + Friends + Fun = Mother’s Day at Beth Tzedec
mother’s day at beth tzedec is always a memorable A special thanks to the Pollock and Gold families for event and this year was no exception! their generous sponsorship in memory of Ricky Pollock z”l . Passport to Style , our seventh annual Mother’s Day Thank you to Beth Tzedec’s Sisterhood and Men’s Club Chai Tea and Fashion Show, was a profound success. For for their continued support of this event, and to our office over two and a half hours, the beautifully transformed and custodial staff for their assistance every step of the way. Banquet Hall buzzed with excitement from the almost 220 Many thanks to all those who placed ads in our women of all ages in attendance! Women of Honour booklet, donated raffle prizes or Applause’s outstanding menu, combined with the provided items for our sensational swag bags. We appreciate sounds of Del Vinyl Entertainment, an incredible fashion the kindness and generosity of our donors and look show, raffle prizes galore, stunning décor and two wonderful forward to their continued support of this remarkable games, left the crowd wanting more! “friendraiser”. We are indebted to Options for Her, Over the Rainbow As in previous years, we are pleased to donate the and Whistlekids for their ongoing support by providing the proceeds of this event directly to Beth Tzedec’s Out of the outstanding fashions. Cold program to help defray the costs our Synagogue Thank you to our models: Sephi Band and Zoe Mitz, incurs in sustaining this worthwhile initiative. Rose and Taylor Cooper, Linda Friedlich, Claire Friedlich And don’t forget to mark Sunday, May 8, 2016 on Markus and Jessica Armeland, Debbie and Gella Rothstein your calendar for Beth Tzedec’s eighth annual Mother’s and Emma Freidman, Reesa and Brittany Sud, Queenie, Day event! Shari and Eve Teichman, Judi, Rachel and Sara Urowitz, —The 2015 Passport to Style Leah Ferman, Abby Finkelstein, Lily Kaplan and Batya Chai Tea & Fashion Show Committee Urowitz-Kaplan.
A YO M K I P P U R C O M M U N I T Y P RO G R A M Jonah AND THE Whale Wednesday, September 23 4:00 to 5:00 PM Join us for a retelling of the story of Jonah and the Whale, and participate in a Yom Kippur craft activity following. No charge, and no High Holy Day tickets required. For information, contact Daniel Silverman at 416-781-3514 ext. 231 or [email protected].
27 young families and youth Upcoming Programs and Events
SHABBAT AFTERNOONS @ BT from 2:30 to 4:00 pm
Shabbat Sports and Games Shabbat Afternoon with the Shinshinim Floor Hockey October 17 & 31, november 14 & 28, October 24, november 7 & 21, December 5, December 12, January 16 & 30, February 20, January 9 & 23, February 6 & 27, march 12, April 2 & march 5 & 19, April 9 and may 7 16 and may 14 Come play and have fun with our Shinshinim Avishag Get your game on with floor hockey organized by high and Yarin. This is a great way to spend time with them school students Aaron, Judy and Sam. Games are split and meet other kids. Activities will include sports, board according to age group, and both girls and boys are and card games and Israeli scout activities. encouraged to attend. Pre-registration required. Call 416-781-3514 ext. 239 to register.
Shabbat @ Beth Tzedec Junior Congregation For Children in SK to Grade 5 (ages 6 to 9 and 10 to 12) Cook & Shook for Nitzanim Monthly Family Service 10:30 AM to 12:00 NOON October 3 and November 7 (for SK to Grade 2) Service begins at 10:30 AM Every Shabbat and Yom Tov until June 11 Tuesdays, October 20, November 17 The monthly Family Service offers a lively, (except when there is a Family Service). and December 8 engaging prayer service with participation A dynamic drop-off program with activities, games, engaging and creative prayer, and Cook & Shook for Kokhavim from youth, teens and families. It incorporates quality time with our Shinshinim . (for Grades 3 to 5) singing and familiar tunes, marks upcoming Tuesdays, October 27, November 24 birthdays with a special aliyah, includes a Young Shamashim full Torah reading and offers many ways for and December 15 Following Services on October 10, 17, 4:00 to 5:30 PM participants to connect. At 10:45 AM , 24 & 31 and November 14 Go shopping for your ingredients in the parents with children up to age 5 can come 12:00 NOON TO 1:00 PM Israeli shook (market), cook tasty Israeli to Li’l Minyans , a 45-minute interactive An intensive two-year program for B’nei service with age-appropriate davening , food and have a blast learning about Israeli Mitzvah candidates interested in improving culture with Yarin and Avishag. Cost: $5 singing, storytelling, healthy snacks and their davening skills. Meet for a nosh, guided play. We conclude each Family per session. RSVPs required by Friday of zemirot and learning. This year focuses on the week before the program. Service with a delicious Family Lunch in the learning to lead Shabbat services. L’Chaim Lower Hall. On October 3 only— From the Kotel to the Negev: following the Family Lunch—join us for our For Children 0 to 7 years & their families Let’s Travel Israel annual Sukkah Hop and visit the sukkahs of families in the community, enjoying lots Family Fun Morning Sundays, October 25 and of treats and fun activities along the way. Sunday, September 27 November 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29 10:30 AM to 12:00 NOON 12:00 NOON to 2:00 PM Li’l Minyans Come to Beth Tzedec for a morning of fun! (children up to age 5 with a parent) Say ‘Chai’ to Israel in this interactive series. Bounce inside castles, ride some cars, get Separate programs for Nitzanim (SK to 10:15 AM to 12:00 NOON your face painted and have some lunch, Grade 2) and Kokhavim (Grades 3 to 5). Are you looking for an opportunity to too! Take the opportunity to see our Tour Israel’s six major cities. Let’s travel to: spend a fun and educational Shabbat Congregational School in action at our October 25 — Let’s Travel to Jerusalem morning with your children? Drop off your Open House beginning at 11:00 AM . children for our nursery program, then November 1 —Let’s Travel to Tel Aviv November 8 —Let’s Travel to Haifa come back at 10:45 AM for a 45-minute interactive service with age-appropriate November 15 —Let’s Travel to Eilat davening , singing, storytelling, healthy November 22 —Let’s Travel to Tzfat snacks and guided play. November 29 —Let’s Travel to Be’er Sheba Cost: $120 members; $150 non-members
28 young families and youth Upcoming Programs and Events
Kids Party Night with Jewish Service Network Trip to Family Sim hat Torah Celebration ˙ Camp Ramah North Bay, Ontario Monday, October 5 5:45 PM Thursday, October 8 to Sunday, October 11 (for SK to Grade 4) Join us for holiday crafts, games and a kids’ Saturday, November 7 Don't miss this opportunity to do hands-on Torah parade (recommended for children up 6:30 to 8:30 PM volunteer work and spend Shabbat with this to age 7), followed by a dinner for families of Party with your friends from Beth Tzedec local community. Earn volunteer hours while all ages beginning at 6:30 PM by advance and Camp Ramah and have a great night of working with local community and Aboriginal reservation only—Reserve by October 1. fun. Havdalah, pizza and snacks included. organizations. Faciliated by the Jewish The party continues at our Hakafot with No charge, but reservations required by Service Network. Limited spaces available. singing, dancing, treats and drinks. Cost for Monday, November 2. Cost: $325 per person ($300/person for dinner: $15 for adults; $10 for children siblings) plus a $100 fundraising commitment Community Kids’ Concert For Kids in Grades 6 to 8 ( Kadima ) Information and orienation session: with Kayla Thursday, September 17 at 7:30 PM Kadima Goes Go-Karting Sunday, October 25 Sunday, October 25 Hadashot for BTTeens 11:00 AM to 12:00 NOON 2:30 to 4:30 PM W˙ ednesday, October 21 This special kids’ concert with Kayla is a Feel the need for speed? Come out and 7:30 to 9:30 PM perfect way for grandparents and their young race your friends on the track at Grand Prix Want the latest news (hadashot) from Israel? grandchildren (or parents with their younger Kartways (75 Carl Hall Rd., Unit #9, Want to hang out with ˙our Shinshinim ? Join children) to join our 60 th anniversary Downsview Park). Cost: $20 (includes Avishag and Yarin at Aroma Café to catch up celebrations. Kids’ party follows. No charge. nut-free snacks). RSVP by October 19. on what’s happening in the homeland. RSVP to the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511. Jewish Service Network Middle BTTeens @ RINX School Trip Saturday, October 24 Tot Shabbat Dinner Sunday, November 15 7:45 to 10:15 PM Friday, October 30 5:00 PM 9:00 AM to 4:00 PM It’s an evening of food and fun at RINX! with Enjoy a special Tot Shabbat dinner with Spend the day with friends working together Laser Tag, CyberSports and tons of great music and crafts, a kid-friendly menu and for a good cause in a community outside snacks. You won't want to miss it! Cost: $15 age-appropriate entertainment especially for Toronto. Engage in meaningful volunteer our tots. Cost for dinner: $36 for adults; work for the day—a wonderful mitzvah Snapchat at btteens and follow $18 for youth (ages 5 to 15); $6 for children us on Instagram@btteens opportunity. Cost: $30 (includes (ages 1 to 4). Dinner by advance reservation transportation, lunch and snacks) . Advance only by Monday, October 26. registration required by Tuesday, November 10. For Families Grandparents & Grandchild For Teens in Grades 9 to 12 ( BTTeens ) Pizza in the Hut Sukkah Party Sunday Morning Hangout Sukkot Harvest Cook-Off Wednesday, September 30 (for ages 1 to 4 with a grandparent) 4:00 to 5:45 PM Sunday, November 8 Sunday, October 4 11:00 AM to 12:00 NOON 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM Join us in the Beth Tzedec Sukkah and celebrate the holiday with music, food, Join us for a late-morning program where Celebrate the harvest of Sukkot with drinks and fun. This is a great way to get in grandparents and their grandchildren can delicious local, seasonal food. Eat some the Sukkot spirit and have fun after school. engage in music, arts & crafts, and other delicious treats that you will cook yourself, No charge but RSVPs requested by Friday activities that encourage Yiddishkeit to be help prepare a meal for those less fortunate, September 25. passed from one generation to the next. earn volunteer hours and learn why Sukkot is a holiday where we give back.
To register or for more information about any of our Youth and Family Programs, contact Simmi Toby, Director of Youth Engagement, at 416-781-3514 ext. 239 or [email protected].
29 Family Sukkah Hop Shabbat, October 3
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Monday, October 5 beginning at 5:45 PM
Join us for holiday crafts, games and a kids’ Torah parade (recommended for children up to age 7), followed by a dinner for families of all ages beginning at 6:30 PM . The party continues at our synagogue-wide Hakafot with singing, dancing, candy food and drinks. Cost for dinner: $15 (ages 14 and older); $10 for children. Dinner by advance reservation only by Thursday, October 1.
For information or to RSVP, contact the Synagogue office at 416-781-3511 or [email protected]
30 shabbat Programs and Synaplex ™ Plus Our Shabbat Opportunities