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“ SHABBAT MORNING SERVICES 7:00 a.m. Shacharit Minyan, Main Sanctuary 8:00 a.m. Shacharit Minyan, Upstairs Rooms 1 & 2 8:45 a.m. Sephardic Minyan, Library 8:45 a.m. Minyan, House across the street 9:00 a.m. Shacharit Minyan, Main Sanctuary. Please note: The Rabbi’s sermon and the D’var Torah from the Bar Mitzvah boy, YOUNG ISRAEL OF HOLLYWOOD-FT. LAUDERDALE David Leubitz, will be after Mussaf before Ein Keilokeinu. 9:30 a.m. YP Minyan, Chapel Rabbi Yosef Weinstock 9:00 a.m. Youth Minyan, this week will join the Leubitz Bar Mitzvah in the Main Rabbi Edward Davis, Rabbi Emeritus Sanctuary Dr. P.J. Goldberg, President 9:30 a.m. Teen Minyan, Upstairs Room 5 3291 Stirling Road, Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33312 954-966-7877 email: [email protected] www.yih.org - For Weekday Daily Minyanim see Page 6- SHABBAT SHALOM. WE WELCOME ALL NEWCOMERS, VISITORS AND GUESTS JOINING US FOR SHABBAT. SHABBAT SCHEDULE OF CLASSES PARSHAT KI TETZEI 8:15 a.m., Parsha Shiur. 9:10 a.m. Chapel: Sefer HaChinuch Shiur, Rabbi Raphael Stohl, preceding 9:30 11 ELUL 5777 SEPTEMBER 2, 2017 TORAH READING Deuteronomy 21:10 a.m. YP Minyan. HAFTORAH Isaiah 54:1 Parsha classes with Rabbi Yitzchak Salid: 9:15 a.m. in Rm. 6, 10:15 a.m. in Nach Yomi : Ecclesiastes 6 Kiddush room in house across the street (access through glass door on north side of house). Daf Yomi : Sanhedrin 48 After 8:00 a.m. Minyan, Social Hall: The Rest of the Story: Understanding the Haftarah, Rabbi Yitzi Marmorstein. Friday Night 9:00 a.m. Shiur Boker for Teens with Rabbi Moshe Nachbar, Room 5 7:15 p.m. & 7:22 p.m. Candle Lighting 10:45 a.m., following the Minyan: Open individual & group learning, as 7:00 p.m. Minchah/Ma’ariv, Main Sanctuary well as Shiur in Sefer Hamitzvot with Rabbi Moshe Parnes. 7:00 p.m. Minchah/Ma’ariv Sephardic Minyan, Library 6:00 p.m., : Gemara class (Hebrew) Tractate Gittin. 7:30 p.m. Mincha/Ma’ariv in House across the 6:15 p.m., Library: Daf Yomi. street 7:45 p.m. Modern Halachah for Teens with Rabbi Moshe Nachbar, Chapel. Shabbat Afternoon Between Minchah & Ma’ariv, in : Class with Rabbi Jonathan Hirsch. 6:30 p.m. Rabbi Weinstock’s Class : The Rabbinic Sermon in 11th and 12th graders are invited to attend. History and Halacha Immediately after Ma’ariv, Library: Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 5-minute class to start your week off learning Torah. 7:15 p.m. Minchah, Main Sanctuary Seudah Shlishit after Minchah THIS PUBLICATION GOES TO THE PRINTER ON WEDNESDAYS. ALL SUBMISSIONS 8:19 p.m. Ma’ariv, Main Sanctuary MUST BE IN THE SHUL OFFICE BY WEDNESDAYS AT NOON. THIS INCLUDES EVENTS, 8:19 p.m. Shabbat Ends SPONSORSHIPS, NAMES FOR THE REFUAH SHLEIMAH LIST. 2 OUR YIH FAMILY…. D’var Torah : Rabbi Yosef Weinstock Mazel Tov: In Parshat Ki Tetzei the Torah says: But the Lord, Your God, did not want to listen to David Leubitz upon the celebration of his Bar Mitzvah. Mazel Tov to parents Bilaam. So the Lord, your God, transformed the curse into a blessing for you, because Benjamin & Rachel Leubitz, and to the entire family. the Lord, your God, loves you. The difficulty with this Pasuk is that in Parshat Balak, we find no reference to a curse Joel & Barbara Coplowitz on the birth of a grandson to Dr. Shana (Coplowitz) & that ever leaves Bilaam’s lips. Balak, the King of Moav, wanted Bilaam to curse the Mordechai Okolica, and to aunts Mara and Beth, uncle Josh Rosenblatt, and the Jews; but the only words that Bilaam actually utters are blessings. Taking note of this entire family. difficulty, Rabbi Yochanan in Masechet Sanhedrin (105b) teaches us: “From the Billy & Batzi Berman on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson Caleb, son of Gur & Ira blessings pronounced by that wicked man (Bilaam), you can deduce what was actually in his heart.” Berman. Perhaps the real danger is in fact Bilaam’s blessings. Praise can be given with two Billy & Batzi Berman on the Bat Mitzvah of Ellie Berman, daughter of Tani & different intentions. I can give praise that encourages the recipient to strive and want to Sarah Berman. do better. Or I can give praise that causes the person to feel that s/he has no reason to work any harder. Psychologists today are concerned that in America we are raising a Annual Raffle Winners: Both First & Second prizes Akiva & Mimi Friend, Third generation of over-indulged children. Although coming from noble and loving prize Stuart & Tova Courtney motivations, over-praise can backfire and make the child addicted to praise. It can give that child an unrealistic notion of his own capacity and talent, leading a child to reason that s/he does not need to strive for improvement; praise will be offered regardless. The 5778 Bat Mitzvah class in formation for incoming 6th grade girls. The following Bilaam as a prophet understood that praise can be extremely motivating or extremely girls have been signed up: Talia Adelman, Avigail Amar, Leah Barash, harmful. His words were meant to lull Bnai Yisrael into a sense of complacency, with no Shoshana Citron, Roxanne Galbut, Noa Girnun, Eliana Penina Kandinov, accompanying call for improvement within Bilaam’s blessings. It is when people feel Gabriel Levy, Hannah Markovich, Lanie McDougal, Sophia Pearl, Rivka Reich, that there is nothing more to achieve that they are prone to complacency and failure. Nava Shekhter, Julia Stern, Rebecca Vogel, Ariel Daizy Weinberger, Moshe Rabbeinu was the greatest Jewish leader in history. And during his lifetime we do not find many instances in which he praises the people. On a few occasions, he Shoshana Weinstock, Jamie Zeller. Contact Rebecca Weinstock at defended Bnai Yisrael in the face of impending Divine punishment. More often he [email protected] or the shul office to add a name. chastised the Jews, calling them “stiff-necked” and “rebellious.” It is only at the end of Orientation meeting: This Sunday, Sept. 3rd 10:00-11:00am upstairs in Rm 1-2. his life that Moshe offers blessings to each tribe as his last testament, in Parshat V’Zot Habracha. The true leader always wants better for his people, and therefore the bulk of his/her efforts is spent on getting them to realize their potential. THANK YOU TO OUR SHABBAT SPONSORS Through his blessings, Bilaam was trying to convince B’nai Yisrael that they had already achieved far beyond what was to be expected. Inherent within Bilaam’s 8:00 a.m. Minyan Kiddush: David & Arlene Goldberger to commemorate the supposed blessing is the message that Bnai Yisrael were fine, even if they did not yahrzeit of his mother Charna bat Yaakov; Robert & Donna Aschheim to improve anymore, and even if they slacked off a bit. As we guard ourselves against the repercussions of over-praising we must be careful commemorate the yahrzeit of his father, Marvin Aschheim; Robert & Debbie not to go to the other extreme. Recently, parents in Nashville Tennessee complained Hirsch to commemorate the yahrzeit of his father, Murray Hirsch. that schools were publicizing the names of students who made honor roll or attained Shabbat Groups Kiddush: Andrew & Rachel Bronfeld. other academic achievements. They were concerned that the publicity would harm the Teen Minyan: The Youth Kiddush Fund. self-esteem of some of the non-honor students. A school attorney found an old Tennessee state law that prohibits the release of a student’s academic records without All other Kiddushim: Shabbat Sponsors Group. parental consent. In response, the schools stopped publicizing honor roll. One school Seudah Shlishit: Benjamin & Rachel Leubitz in honor of their son David’s Bar refused to publicize the name of their Spelling Bee winner. A principal was not allowed Mitzvah. to release the names of the high scorers from a school basketball game. In the end sanity prevailed, and Nashville schools once again publicize honor roll students - only Thank you to the additional sponsors of last week’s Inaugural Shabbat Kiddush: now it is only with a parent’s permission. We must be on alert for excessive praise, but Earl Barron, Wendy & Seth Goldsmith, Kurtz family, Ellen & Howard Rotterdam, we should also be wary of any movement that seeks to either neutralize all Schulman family, Dr. & Mrs. Steven Schultz & family, Arlene Weiss. achievements or ignore all of them equally. According to this philosophy, either everyone gets praised or nobody does. This is an incorrect and potentially dangerous attitude. As the story of Bilaam teaches, the way one praises/blesses others indicates our true feelings for that person. Let us be careful that our praise, for ourselves, our shul and each other, be heartfelt, realistic, and used as a motivation for reaching greater achievements. 3 4 Shabbat Safety & Security THIS WEEK AT YIH “Safety & Security is everyone’s responsibility. If You See Something Say Something!” Talk to the President, Rabbis, or Executive Director. Sunday Breakfast following 9:00 a.m. minyan, Social Hall, No Chidon Safety Announcement Stirling Road at SW 33rd Avenue: Please cross HaTanach class this week. Stirling Road in the crosswalk after all traffic has stopped. Crossing elsewhere is dangerous and illegal. Police officer controls the light on Friday 6:30-10:30pm Sunday, 10:00 a.m. Orientation meeting for the Bat Mitzvah class upstairs. and Shabbat 7:45am-12:30pm & 6:00-9:00pm. A custodian will manually change Monday, shul office closed in honor of Labor Day. the light between 6:50 & 7:10am.