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Copyright © 2019 Darryl John Burling All rights reserved. The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary has permission to reproduce and disseminate this document in any form by any means for purposes chosen by the Seminary, including, without limitation, preservation or instruction. THE PLACE OF UNION WITH CHRIST IN THE THEOLOGY AND PRACTICE OF MARRIAGE __________________ A Dissertation Presented to the Faculty of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary __________________ In Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements for the Degree Doctor of Philosophy __________________ by Darryl John Burling May 2019 APPROVAL SHEET THE PLACE OF UNION WITH CHRIST IN THE THEOLOGY AND PRACTICE OF MARRIAGE Darryl John Burling Read and Approved by: __________________________________________ Jeremy P. Pierre (Chair) __________________________________________ Robert D. Jones __________________________________________ Michael A. G. Haykin Date______________________________ TABLE OF CONTENTS Chapter Page LIST OF ABBREVIATIONS ........................................................................................... vii PREFACE ........................................................................................................................ viii 1. INTRODUCTION ..................................................................................................1 The Development of Human Experience ....................................................................3 The Development of Union with Christ ......................................................................5 A Changing Understanding of Marriage .....................................................................6 Rethinking Marriage ..................................................................................................11 2. MARRIAGE: MORE THAN A COVENANT ....................................................13 What Is a Covenant? ..................................................................................................15 The Need for Covenants .......................................................................... 18 Why Does God Make Covenants? ........................................................... 21 Why is Marriage a Covenant? ................................................................. 26 The Image of God as a Union ....................................................................................28 God’s Relational Image ........................................................................... 31 Examining the First Marriage Union .........................................................................35 Redefining Covenants .............................................................................. 36 Solemn Declaration ................................................................................. 39 Contextual Necessity ............................................................................... 42 Formalization of the Marriage ................................................................. 43 The Nature of the First Marriage ............................................................. 46 iii Chapter Page Descriptions of Marriage in Scripture .......................................................................50 The Freudian Slip ......................................................................................................56 Covenants and Marriage ............................................................................................60 3. PARTICIPATION IN UNION WITH CHRIST ..................................................65 The Structure and Purpose of Man ............................................................................67 A Brief Introduction to the Heart ............................................................. 67 Intended for a Physical World ...................................................................................72 Threefold Participation ............................................................................ 73 Direct Participation with God .................................................................. 74 Indirect Participation with God ............................................................... 76 Social Participation with Man ................................................................. 78 The Dominion Mandate ........................................................................... 80 The Heart of Participation .........................................................................................81 Pre-fall Participation and the Heart ......................................................... 82 The Need for Heart Participation ............................................................. 84 How the Fall Affected the Heart .............................................................. 87 Sin’s Corrupting Influence ...................................................................... 88 The Noetic Effects of the Fall .................................................................. 90 Participation and God’s Purpose ............................................................. 94 Redemptive Participation in Christ ...........................................................................97 Participation under the Mosaic Covenant ................................................ 97 The Need for a New Covenant .............................................................. 100 Jeremiah’s Promise of the New Covenant ............................................. 103 The Promise in Ezekiel 36:25-27 .......................................................... 107 What Jeremiah and Ezekiel Reveal ....................................................... 112 The New Covenant ................................................................................ 113 iv Chapter Page Ordo salutis and participation ................................................................ 114 The Mind, the Spirit and Conversion ......................................................................118 Why Faith Must be a Work of God ....................................................... 120 The Holy Spirit, Faith and Illumination ................................................ 122 Post-Conversion Noetic Participation .................................................... 128 Performance and Participation ............................................................... 133 Conclusion ...............................................................................................................140 4. EXEGETICAL SUMMARY OF KEY PASSAGES .........................................142 Romans 7:1-6 ...........................................................................................................143 Exegetical Observations ........................................................................ 144 Conclusions from Romans 7 .................................................................. 148 1 Corinthians 6:12-20 ..............................................................................................151 Exegetical Observations ........................................................................ 151 Conclusions from 1 Corinthians 6 ......................................................... 161 2 Corinthians 11:2-3 ................................................................................................163 Exegetical Observations ........................................................................ 164 Conclusions from 2 Corinthians 11 ....................................................... 169 Ephesians 5:15-33 ...................................................................................................172 Submitting to One Another .................................................................... 175 Wives ..................................................................................................... 181 The Meaning of Κεφαλή ........................................................................ 183 Husbands ................................................................................................ 186 As His Own Body .................................................................................. 190 Ephesians 5 Conclusions ....................................................................... 194 Conclusion ...............................................................................................................197 5. IMPLICATIONS FOR MARRIAGE AND COUNSELING .............................199 v Page The Purposes of Marriage .......................................................................................202 Intimacy ................................................................................................. 203 Growth ................................................................................................... 206 Obedience .............................................................................................. 209 Threefold Relationship of Man .............................................................. 210 The Purpose of Marriage after the Fall .................................................. 211 Marriage as a Type ................................................................................ 214 Summary of the Purpose of Marriage .................................................... 216 The Participatory Model in Marriage ......................................................................216 Participation of the Heart in Marriage ................................................... 218 Participation with the