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september 2015/elul-tishrei 5775-5776 a publication of United jewish federation of Volume 17, Number 7 Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien JCC Prepares to Celebrate A Lifetime of Service its 100th Birthday UJF to Present First-Ever Benson Zinbarg Centennial Events, Maccabi Games and Award The board and staff of the United ArtsFest Jewish Federation of Greater Stam- In the nearly 100 years since its munity,” said JCC CEO Eric Koehler. ford, New Canaan and Darien re- dedication in 1916, the Jewish Com- “We are fortunate to begin our second cently announced the establishment munity Center of Stamford has sought century with a legacy of service to our of the Benson Zinbarg Lifetime to serve as a second home for tens of neighbors, and we hope that the com- Service Award. The award, made thousands of families and individuals munity will join us as we celebrate this possible through the generosity of in the Stamford Jewish community. As wonderful milestone.” the Zinbarg family, is named for the JCC prepares to celebrate its 100th In 2006, Stamford hosted its first former UJF president and commu- anniversary, scores of volunteers are at JCC Maccabi Games, an annual nity leader Benson Zinbarg z’l, who work planning the events and programs Olympic-style athletic competition worked tirelessly for Jews both here in that will mark its centennial year. that brings together Jewish teens Connecticut and around the world. “From our original home in the from North America and around the James Cohen, UJF’s CEO, noted, “It Lorraine and David Kweskin basement of the Agudath Sholom world. JCC Maccabi ArtsFest grew out is wonderful that we are now able to synagogue on Greyrock Place, to the of the success of the JCC Maccabi honor individuals who have given The committee, convened to first dedicated building on Prospect Games, and offers an opportunity so much to the community over the choose the first recipients of this Street, to the 14-acre campus the JCC for creative teens to work on their years and particularly fitting that award, unanimously selected Lor- calls home today, we have endeavored crafts, engage with the community this award is named after a pillar like raine and David Kweskin to receive the to serve as the center of the Jewish Com- See “Birthday” on page 27 Benson Zinbarg.” See “Lifetime” on page 2 In France, Fear and Defiance Mix Bi-Cultural Wins Major North Months after Kosher Market Attack American Innovation Prize By Cnaan Liphshiz de Vincennes location and took its By Dora Salm PARIS (JTA) – On her way home patrons hostage. Since it reopened, Bi-Cultural Day School has won the from food shopping, Mirelle Bensason the store is guarded during its hours 2015 Jewish Education Innovation Chal- pauses to rearrange wilted wreaths of operation by police officers toting lenge, a major competition among North and posters hanging on the perimeter machine guns. American Jewish day schools. According fence that police set up around the “I take care of the commemora- to the competition sponsor, the Mayberg kosher supermarket where an Islamist tions on this fence to remember the Family Foundation, 62 schools submit- gunned down four Jewish shoppers victims and my pain, our pain,” said ted programs for consideration in this seven months ago. Bensason, who does Bensason, a blue-eyed grandmother year-long process. Bi-Cultural was one not keep strictly kosher, is not a Hyper of four who was born in Morocco and of two schools selected for the award, Cacher regular, but sees the continued now lives on the eastern edge of Paris, which includes a grant of $50,000 each. flow of customers into the shop as proof not far from Hyper Cacher. “But we’re The competition “is designed to Michal Smart and Rabbi Yehuda Jeiger of the Jewish community’s resilience. not afraid to come shopping here. We disrupt complacency and encourage Hyper Cacher reopened in March, refuse to be cowed by our enemies. innovation in Jewish day school edu- engage with Bi-Cultural in evaluating about two months after Amedy Life has not changed much, except cation,” the Mayberg Family Founda- the program’s progress and sharing it Coulibaly entered the chain’s Port See “France” on page 24 tion stated. The foundation will now See “Prize” on page 18 Candle 2 Bits & Pieces 6 Family 13 What’s on 24 Senior 26 Winter 28 Lighting Central for Adults Happenings Gala

Back to School Shop Opens its Doors The Back to School Shop, a new, all-volunteer community event under the auspices of UJF, was launched on August 9 at Davenport Ridge Elementary School in Stamford. One hundred and twenty-five children from Stamford public elementary schools were able to “shop” free of charge for brand new back-to-school outfits and school supplies in a department store-like setting, created just for them. More than150 trained volunteers helped to make the event a resounding success. (More information will appear in next month’s The New Jewish Voice.) The ribbon cutting celebration included (l-r): Dr. Tamu Lucero, assistant superintendent, Stamford public schools; Randall Skigen, president, Board of Reps./deputy mayor; Meryl Japha and Jane Levene, co-founders, Back to School Shop; Mayor David Martin; Dr. Winifred Hamilton, superintendent, Stamford public schools; James Cohen, CEO, United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien; and William Tong and Caroline Simmons, state representatives. 2 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 3 President’s Message community news Reflections on the Past Year What is your immediate, vis- and convening the community in a demonstration posed a Federation sponsored program for retired Brian Kriftcher receives Hoffman Humanitarian Award ceral reaction when you think of support. Thanks to you, UJF exceeded its fund- women/empty nesters. This became the inspiration At its annual meeting in May, the Jewish the criteria of sustained commitment and JCC Maccabi Games (in 2006 and again next sum- about the High Holidays? raising expectations for JFNA’s Stop the Sirens for “Chapter Two,” the monthly Women’s Philan- Community Center presented Stamford dedication to nurturing the overall growth mer in 2016), and developed capital campaigns of Is it that another summer is campaign, which provided assistance to those af- thropy group that is drawing rave reviews. resident Brian Kriftcher with the 2015 and development of the Jewish Community unprecedented scale in the Stamford community to over? Is it anticipation of bris- fected by the bombings. With the shrinking of the UJF board, we intro- Hyacinthe and Harold Hoffman Humani- Center; leadership in the support of the help rehabilitate and renew the JCC’s physical plant ket and taiglach? Is it a feeling We continued this role as community convener duced the Advisory Council comprised of lay leaders tarian Award. Center through the giving of time, energy and infrastructure. of sadness that you will not be and provider of Jewish experiences through spon- from our local organizations and the community Each year, the Hoffman Award is given to and financial assistance; a role model in The Kriftcher family’s lead gift helped jumpstart celebrating with lost loved ones, sorship of “Shabbat Across Stamford.” We were the at-large. The Advisory Council is a forum for infor- the individual who best expresses the ideals upholding the mission of the Center and the initial capital campaign, the second phase of or the joy of a new baby who will first community in the country with members from mation sharing and discussion, and at our meetings of service to the community that Harold E. helping to sustain the Center’s cultural, so- which, called The Centennial Campaign, has just experience Rosh Hashanah for all Jewish affiliations under one roof for a celebra- thus far, we’ve held lively conversations about teen Hoffman and his wife, Hyacinthe, longtime cial and educational programs; a respected begun, and coincides with the JCC’s 100th anniversary the first time? Ellen Weber, tory evening of prayer, food and education. And, engagement. We learned that our community has JCC leaders and distinguished humanitar- representative to the community at-large; in 2016. The Centennial Campaign will raise funds The Jewish New Year is an UJF president once again, Federation assembled our community many forums where teens can meet, but we need to ians and philanthropists, exemplified dur- selfless placement of the Center’s best needed to complete additional necessary upgrades opportunity for us to reflect on Yom Hashoah to remember the horrors of the get more of them involved. The Greater Stamford ing their lifetimes. Brian Kriftcher interest as a priority on an ongoing basis; See “Kriftcher” on page 20 on the past and plan for the future. Holocaust, honor our survivors and ensure that it Teen Task Force, an offshoot of the Council, will “The Hoffman Award selection commit- (Photo by Aviva and an inspiration to others, by example.” I look back over the last year with a feeling of “never happens again.” tackle this challenge. tee, made up of past Hoffman Award win- Maller) Kriftcher has been a member of the pride about the effectiveness of our Federation. With the promulgation of the proposed nuclear Among Federation’s fundamental roles is to raise ners, unanimously selected Brian Kriftcher Board of Directors of the JCC since 2003, Last summer, we were consumed by news of three agreement with Iran, we are attempting to determine funds to support our local partners, and help Jews to receive this year’s award,” said Eric Koehler, JCC and served as its president for three years from 2009- Deadlines for murdered Israeli students and the bombings in Is- its possible impact on America and Israel. As Jim Co- around the world and in Israel. There are four months CEO. “Brian not only meets, but far exceeds, all of 2012. During his tenure, the board voted to host two rael. Federation took a leadership role addressing hen said in his August message, UJF’s role is to “lead remaining in our 2015 Annual Campaign. For those REUNION this tragic situation, conveying timely information the debate by helping to educate our community who have pledged already, I thank you so much. For PHI EPSILONarticles PI fraternity The deadlines for the next three issues of the members,” informing you as best as possible. those who have not yet done so, I ask you for your is holding its 50th reunion in One of Federation’s most important roles is to donation as together we work to repair the world. JBS Wins Journalism Award for new jewish voice are: engage in conversations with members of the com- I wish you and your families a happy and healthy Monday,Pittsburgh August 31on...... Oct. 23 & 24, 2015.October candle lighting munity. Without reservation, Jim, the UJF board and 5776 and express my deep gratitude to you, our Thursday,All September graduates 24...... betweenNovember “L’Chayim”Steve and Hersh Batkin Thursday, October 1...... December I are open to hearing from you. You can provide us donors, volunteers and staff, for your continued l959 and l964 are welcome. with fresh ideas and new ways of approaching issues. commitment and dedication. The Jewish Broadcasting Service was 36 years since its premier in 1979 with a Send New Jewish Voice article submissions to times Sandy Golove at [email protected] marked “Stamford In fact, Sari Jaffe and Susan Frieden, after attending Shanah tovah, honored on June P23ersonal when & Commethe Americanrcial program that included an address by Elie For further information, contact August 21...... 7:26 pm Voice” in the subject line. Expect an acknowledge- the International Lion of Judah Conference, pro- Ellen Weber Jewish Press AssociationInsurance announced that Wiesel, an interview with Isaac Bashevis Ed Friedlander at 203 322-8808. August 28...... 7:16 pm JBS was the recipient of a Rockower Award. Singer and the final moments of the Ye- ment; please re-send if you do not receive one. September 4...... 7:04 pm The AJPA’s Rockower Video Award for shiva High School Basketball Finals from September 11...... 6:53 pm Lifetime Continued from page 1 Excellence in Personality Profiles went to Madison Square Garden. honor. Committee Chair Nancy Zinbarg Mimoun Susan and Len Mark of Stamford will serve as JBS for “L’Chayim,” hosted by JBS President “Rabbi Mark Golub’s work on ‘L’Chayim’ September 13...... 6:49 pm Rabbi Mark S. Golub. has earned him a unique place in the world REUNION September 14...... after 7:47 pm noted, “David and Lorraine have collectively and chairs of the Winter Gala, to be held on Saturday individually given decades of service to UJF and night, December 12, at which time the award Often compared to PBS’s “Charlie Rose,” of Jewish media,” said James Cohen, UJF PHI EPSILON PI fraternity September 18...... 6:41 pm our community. As UJF president and Women’s will be presented. The evening will also include “L’Chayim” is JBS’s signature series featuring CEO. “Lauded by many for his unique is holding its 50th reunion in September 22...... 6:34 pm Philanthropy president respectively, they stepped the UJF annual meeting, presentation of the meetings with outstanding men and women ability to engage a guest and to both probe on the Jewish scene today. and challenge with insight and a with a Pittsburgh on Oct. 23 & 24, 2015. September 25...... 6:29 pm up to the plate when their community needed Harvey Peltz Young Leadership Award to Dana 203.302.3880 JBS President Rabbi them and led from the heart. They have always Horowitz and Peter Wolly, and the Isadore and “L’Chayim,” with a guest list that reads Mark S. Golub respectful manner, ‘L’Chayim’ has won All graduates between September 27...... 6:25 pm www.lampebatkin.com been willing to pitch in and help Federation, both Helen S. Mark Teen Leadership Award to Gaby like a “Who’s Who” in the Jewish world, is multiple awards from Cablevision and l959 and l964 are welcome. September 28...... after 7:22 pm currently celebrating its double-chai birthday, having Golub’s classic interview with Isaac Bashevis Singer in good times and bad. I am thrilled that they are Baum. The evening, which will include dinner For further information, contact October 2...... 6:17 pm receiving this honor.” and music, will feature a keynote speech from been a fixture on American radio and television for See “JBS” on page 20 October 4...... 6:14 pm “Lorraine and David’s dedication to the commu- television actor Joshua Malina. Malina, who can Ed Friedlander at 203 322-8808. October 5...... after 7:11 pm nity goes well beyond their tireless service to UJF,” currently be seen on ABC’s “Scandal,” is a life-long noted UJF President Ellen Weber. “David also found Federation supporter, who has received praise October 9...... 6:05 pm time to serve as president of the Jewish Historical for his presentations at similar events. Following Beyond the Red October 16...... 5:54 pm Society of Fairfield County. I don’t know where the a recent event in Palm Springs, Tina Friedman, October 23...... 5:44 pm JCC Film Festival would be without Lorraine, not to Development and Women’s Philanthropy direc- Tent October 30...... 5:35 pm mention the Mah Jongg Tournament. I can’t wait tor of the Jewish Federation of the Desert, said to honor them!” that “Joshua Malina’s presentation was fantastic. By Elissa Kaplan He really spoke to the power of Federation and Anita Diamant, author of the best-selling novel, not from a script.” “The Red Tent,” will discuss her latest novel, “The Lisa and Jeff Manheim will be chairingSteve the and Journal Hersh Batkin Boston Girl,” on Wednesday,Steve and Hersh September Batkin 2, at 7 pm, Steve and Hersh Batkin Committee for the event. UJF will provide additional as part of the Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield logistical details about the Winter Gala Pinersonal the com& Comme- rcial County’s SeptemberP ersonalFeatured & Comme Program.rcial The event Personal & Commercial ing months. Insurance will be held at the HarryInsurance Bennett Library, 115 Vine Insurance Rd., Stamford, with refreshments following the program, which is free and open to the public. “The Red Tent” and “The Boston Girl” will be available for Daniel A. Benjamin from purchase, and the author willfrom sign books. Attendees from and the firm of from can bring their own copies fromtofro mbe signed. fromfrom Benjamin & Gold, P.C. Diamant’s novel, “The Boston Girl,” has been called wish all the members of our community perfect for a Jewish Historical Society program because a happy and healthy New Year. it is written in the form of an oral history, one of the society’s undertakings. 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And I serve lots of other sweets: dates, My grandma and Mom always We Do” (which begins at sundown on Sunday, September raisins, honey cake, plum torte, teiglach. served turkey because it suited Perform Israeli Classics 13) is also a time to rejoice and to eat rich foods and There’s always a round homemade challah, of our big family. My choice is A Taste of the Holidays for Little Ones Cantor Rafael Bokow, the cantor at Congregation drink sweet beverages. course. roasted chicken, because this As Jewish people around the world gear up for Agudath Sholom, will be the featured entertainer In our family, we have always taken Nehemiah at For the main course on Rosh Hashanah? Some- is a dish that has everything the High Holidays, many have the feeling “these are at a musical tribute to Israel on Sunday, October his word. The holidays are feast time. thing festive, a dish reserved for this special occasion, you could ask for in a holiday the big ones!” They note they’re called “high” for a 11, at 7 pm, at the Cole Auditorium in the Green- Although I usually cook simple, modern fare dur- and not the stuff of any weekday dinner. Almost entrée. It’s large and important reason. Parents may feel their impact and want to wich Library. ing the rest of the year, and experiment with new everyone I know prepares a brisket, which has its looking, a symbol of plenty. Its impart this to their children, without weighing them Sponsored by Congregation Agudath Sholom, recipes all the time, my holiday menus include mostly many virtues – it’s large and can be cooked well ahead aroma and juicy meat make it The cover of Ronnie down. But how? the concert will also feature Ira Berk on piano, Sid one of the most endearing and Fein’s newest cookbook, On Wednesday, September 9, Chabad of Stamford Nachman (of the Bagles) on guitar and the “Cantor’s ommunity a Sweet and Happ enduring of comfort foods. The “The Modern Kosher will host “A Taste of the Holidays” for children ages Bim-Bom-Boms.” There will also be an appearance hing the C y New Ye meat is so mild it lends itself to Kitchen” 3 months old to 4 years old and their mommies (or by the Stamford Synagogue Choir. Wis If you don’t already belong to a community synagogue, ar! all sorts of seasoning. caregivers) from 9:30-11 am. This “Tiny Treasures” “I’m extremely excited about this year’s annual consider enhancing your experience of the High Holidays by participating in one or more of the following One of our favorite Rosh Hashanah entrees is stand-alone class is an opportunity to refresh and concert,” said Cantor Bokow. “I think that it will ap- FREE SERVICES OPEN TO THE COMMUNITY! Roasted Chicken with Apples and Honey, not simply remember some of the main ideas behind each peal to adults and children, and truly be a memorable For complete details on times, locations and all other services and programs, please call or visit the web sites of each synagogue directly. because it is so moist and perfectly balanced with of “The Big Four”: Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, musical experience.” elements of sweet and savory, but also because it em- Sukkot and Simchat Torah. Each child will create a The concert is being billed as “A Night for Israel,” CHABAD (Orthodox) TEMPLE BETH EL bodies the classic holiday apples-and-honey holiday functional art piece to adorn the holiday table. The Dylan Zalis focused on his project work at a Tiny Treasures at which Stamford community members can stand 770 High Ridge Rd. (Conservative Egalitarian) theme. In the recipe you’ll see I’ve listed ras el hanout, class will enjoy traditional foods connected to each holiday class. in support of Israel. All of the songs that will be a Moroccan spice mixture (you can make your own: holiday, sing some of the familiar songs, dance, play performed will have some connection to Israel, and 203-3-CHABAD (203-324-2223) 350 Roxbury Rd. • 203-322-6901, ext 306 there’s a recipe in my first kosher cookbook, “Hip and “kibbitz.” holiday holds for them? By intentionally including will feature melodies from Naomi Shemer, Yehoram www.chabadstamford.org www.tbe.org Kosher,” or buy it pre-mixed). I think ras el hanout “One of the beauties of Judaism is that it must be them, wherever possible, singing songs, encourag- Gaon and other Israeli songwriters. Throughout the Rosh Hashanah Selichot adds a pack of flavor to many foods, but I’ve prepared accessible to all Jews, especially children because they ing questions and talking about the significance of performance, Cantor Bokow plans to trace the history Sunday, September 13 Saturday, September 5 at 9:00 pm this dish without it. The recipe is so versatile you can are entrusted with its survival,” said Tiny Treasures it all.” of the state of Israel, from its birth to the struggles Mincha and Maariv - 6:45 pm Temple Beth El, Congregation Beth El, Norwalk, use more chopped herbs (think thyme, tarragon Program Coordinator Nechama Hordiner. “This is Anyone who would like to brush up on their holi- it has faced throughout its history. and rosemary) or cook it with no seasonings at all, no small feat in an age of distraction and immediate day song repertoire, recipes and traditions can take Tickets are available on the Agudath Sholom web- Monday, September 14 the Conservative Synagogue of Westport and because the gravy is so tasty. gratification. However, children are extremely sensi- this Tiny Treasures High Holiday class. The $20 fee site at cas-stamford.org, or by calling the synagogue Service - 9:00 am Temple Sholom Greenwich will have musical For my family’s dessert? Honey cake, of course. It tive to depth and understanding of spiritual, ethereal for the Tiny Treasures High Holiday class includes office at 203-358-2200. General admission seats will Tashlich and Mincha - 6:00 pm Selichot services at the Conservative Synagogue wouldn’t be Rosh Hashanah without it. concepts. Providing them with engaging materials snack and all take-away projects. For further informa- cost $18 each, or preferred seating is $36 per ticket. Maariv - 7:15 pm of Westport - Open to the public Roasted Chicken with Apples and Honey and ideas brings tons of energy to the classroom. tion, contact Nechama Hordiner morahnechama@ Seating is limited, so everyone is urged to reserve a Tuesday, September 15 2nd Day Rosh Hashanah 1 roasting chicken, about 5-6 pounds There can be lots of enriching experiences waiting chabadstamford.org seat early if interested. Service - 9:00 am Tuesday, September 15 - Free of charge for those 1 Tbsp. olive oil for little hands to dig into. Tiny Treasures is a “Mommy and Me” program Mincha and Maariv - 6:45 pm that have not attended 2nd Day Rosh Hashanah in ½ tsp. ras el hanout, optional “It is a simple equation really,” continued Hordiner, geared to babies from 3 months old to 4-year-old Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste “Children understand the importance of an event preschoolers. The year-long program (fall, winter Save the Date for Friendship Day Yom Kippur the past. Special guest ticket required. Must call 6 large cloves garlic, peeled and cut in half by the amount of time, effort and emotion they see and spring sessions) begins after the holidays, on The Friendship Circle’s annual Friendship Day Tuesday, September 22 in advance for ticket 203-322-6901, ext. 300. 1 cup chicken stock parents and teachers investing in its preparation and Wednesday, October 14. Mommies (or daddies) can event, in support of children with special needs and Mincha - 3:00 pm Main service 8:45 a.m. – 1:15 pm 2 Tbsp. honey celebration. New clothes or shoes, special foods and enroll for a whole session (between 6-10 weeks long) their families, will take place on Sunday, October Kol Nidrei Services - 6:45 pm Children’s & Family programming 10:30 am – 1pm 3 Tbsp. chopped fresh mint changes in routine all signify a meaningful event and or drop in for a class at their convenience. A first 18, from 12:30-3:30 pm, at Chabad of Stamford, 770 Wednesday, September 23 2 tart apples, peeled and cut into large chunks gets their attention. Now how do parents really help time “trial class” is always free. For more information, High Ridge Rd. To donate, participate or volunteer, Shachrit at 9:00 am Yom Kippur – Wednesday, September 23 ½ cup coconut milk children unpack the deep, beautiful messages each visit www.chabadstamford.org. visit www.FriendshipDayCT.com. Torah Reading and Yizkor at 11:00 am The following services on Yom Kippur are open Preheat the oven to 400°F. Dry the chicken with Mincha and Neilah - 5:30 pm to everyone: paper towels. Rub the skin with olive oil. Sprinkle Shofar, Mariv and Break Fast - 7:31 pm Mincha - 4:30 pm with ras el hanout, if desired, and salt and pepper Yizkor - 5:45 pm to taste. Place the chicken, breast-side down, on a rack in a CHAVURAT AYTZ CHAYIM (Unaffiliated) Neilah - 6:15 pm Shofar - 7:35 pm roasting pan. Add the garlic to the pan. Mix the stock (Services held at Westhill High School) and honey together and set aside. Reduce the oven 125 Roxbury Rd. • 203-847-6032 heat to 350°F and roast the chicken for 45 minutes, www.chavurah.org TEMPLE SINAI (Reform) basting occasionally with the stock mixture. Turn the President: Ed Smith (203) 322-6676 458 Lakeside Dr. • 203-322-1649 chicken breast-side up. Mix the apple chunks and www.templesinaistamford.org mint and add them to the pan. Continue to roast Rosh Hashanah until a meat thermometer inserted into thickest part Selichot Sunday, September 13 - Services at 8:00 pm of breast registers 160°F (about one hour). Baste oc- Monday, September 14 - Services at 10:00 am Saturday, September 5 casionally with the pan fluids for the first 20 minutes. Yom Kippur 7:00 Program and Service with Sinai’s Remove the chicken to a carving board, and let rest Tuesday, September 22 - Kol Nidre at 8:00 pm Ruach Musical Group and the clergy. A quiet for 15 minutes before carving. Wednesday, September 23 contemplative evening including time for Reduce the oven heat to 140°F. Remove the Morning Service at 10 am changing the Torah mantles and ending with apples with a slotted spoon and keep them warm in the oven. Place the roasting pan on the cooktop, Afternoon Service at 5:00 pm dessert. All are welcome for this introduction to the Holy Days. add the coconut milk and bring the liquid to a boil Yizkor Service at 5:30 pm over high heat. Boil for about 3-4 minutes or until Closing Service; Break the Fast at 7:30 pm Rosh Hashanah the sauce has reduced to the consistency of heavy Monday, September 14 cream. Keep warm over low heat. CONGREGATION 1:30 pm - Children’s Service (Pre-K and Younger) Carve the chicken, and place the pieces on a serv- 3:00 pm - Tashlich Service – The Stamford Mu- ing dish surrounded by the apples. Serve the sauce AGUDATH SHOLOM (Orthodox) seum & Nature Center on the side. 301 Strawberry Hill Ave. • 203-358-2200 • Yom Kippur Makes 6 servings. www.agudathshlom.org Ronnie Fein is a cookbook author, food writer and cooking Wednesday, September 23 teacher in Stamford. She is the author of “Hip Kosher” Rosh Hashanah 1:30 pm - Afternoon Children’s Service and “The Modern Kosher Kitchen.” Visit her food blog, Monday, September 14 at the Atria (Pre-K and Younger) Kitchen Vignettes, at www.ronniefein.com; friend her on (77 Third Street) at 4:00 pm with 3:00 pm - Healing and Afternoon Service Facebook at Ronnie Vail Fein; and follow her on Twitter Shofar Blowing. Led by Rabbi David Walk of 4:30 pm - Yizkor and Concluding Service at @RonnieVFein. Congregation Agudath Sholom. YOUNG ISRAEL (Orthodox) JCC Offers Rosh Hashanah 69 Oaklawn Ave. • 203-348-3955 Luncheon for Seniors www.yistamford.org On Thursday, September 10, from 11:30 am-1 pm, the Jewish Community Center will host its annual Rosh Hashanah Rosh Hashanah luncheon, provided by the Brown, Sunday, September 13 - Services at 6:30 pm Krinsky and Stern families in memory of Sandra followed by Maariv Stern and Irene Krinsky. The luncheon is free to all Monday, September 14 - Shacharit at 8:00 am seniors. Guests will enjoy a kosher holiday meal and Mincha at 6:45 pm and Maariv at 7:20 pm hear the blowing of the shofar. Tuesday, September 15 - Shacharit at 8:00 am RSVPs are required no later than Thursday, and Mincha at 6:50 pm September 3. Those wishing to attend should contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 Yom Kippur or [email protected]. Tuesday, September 22 - Mincha at 6 pm and Kol Nidrei Services at 6:40 pm Wednesday, September 23 Support our advertisers and say you saw their ad Shacharit at 8:30 am, Mincha at 5:30 pm and Ne’ilah at 6:30 pm here in ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 6 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 7 bits and pieces Shalom Baby – A New YLD to Hold New Family By Sandy Golove Jenette and Ben Woskow on the birth Roz and Mitch Rubin on the mar- Rena Gelb and Paul Gelb on the loss To submit infor- of a daughter, Elise MacKenzie Woskow; riage of their son, Amitan Rubin, to of their mother, Gina Gelb. mation to Bits and grandparents are Leslie and Jeff Liss; Apryl Stone. Larry Ginsberg on the loss of his Program of UJF Event Pieces, call 321- great-grandmother is Lee Fanwick. Lisa and Abraham Slen on the en- mother, Adeline Ginsberg. Shalom Baby, United Jewish Federation’s On Sunday, October 4, from 10:30 and indoor KidZone at Temple Sinai, 1373, ext. 107, or Leah and Nolan Zeide on the birth of gagement of their son, Efram Slen, to Sam Judd on the loss of his father, new program to welcome new babies to the am-12:30 pm, the Young Leadership as well as join in activities including arts e-mail me at sandy@ a daughter, Elora Mabel Zeide; grandpar- Mandie Biron, daughter of Irene and Harold Judd. community, has added a new item, a “future Division of the United Jewish Fed- and crafts, face painting and visiting ujf.org. ents are Dorothy and Steven Zeide. David Biron. Arnold Kapiloff, Steven Kapiloff and philanthropist” bib, to its gift bag. Also included eration will hold its first “New Family” the sukkah. Light refreshments will be MAZEL TOV TO MAZEL TOV TO: Lisa and Abraham Slen on the mar- Howard Kapiloff on the loss of his wife in the bag are toys and blankets, sweets and in- outing, welcoming families with young served (dietary laws observed). GROWING FAMILIES: Darona and Tzvi Bernstein, on the riage of their son, Matthew Slen, to and their mother, Phyllis Kapiloff. formation on the local Jewish community. Take children to the Greater Stamford area. Anyone who has moved to the area Leah and Eliot Bassin on the birth of marriage of their daughter, Leora Mary Cline, daughter of Barbara and Barbara Klipper on the loss of her a photo of your baby wearing the bib and UJF The free event, to be held at the Jew- in the last 18 months, or has an interest a son, Bryce Jacob Bassin; grandparents Bernstein, to Yaakov Hauptman; grand- Daniel Cline. sister, Susan Miller. will feature him/her in this newspaper and on ish Community Center Sara Walker in learning more about UJF and the are Barbara and Douglas Bassin and parents are Sarey and Sam Bernstein, Rhoda Spiegelman’s granddaugh- To the family of Betty Korn. the UJF Facebook page! Nursery School at Temple Sinai, will Young Leadership Division, is invited Bobbie and Marc Wallick. and Debbie Steinhorn. ter, Ariela Schear, for completing the Sophia Lumelsky on the loss of her Anyone who has a new baby, or knows someone offer adults the opportunity to meet to attend the event. Becky and Andrew Benenson on Lenore and Michael Cooper on the 2,078 mile Appalachian Trail Hike. mother, Vera Chozhik. who does, should contact Sharon Franklin at with members of YLD and learn more For more information or to RSVP for the birth of a daughter, Eliza Rose Be- marriage of their daughter, Rachel Ariela is entering Yale University in Kathy Mandel on the loss of her [email protected] or call 203-321-1373, ext. 109. about what the local Jewish commu- the free event, contact Sharon Franklin nenson; grandparents are Nancy and Hana Cooper, to Joshua Morgan Troy, September. mother, Jane Kass. At right: Shailee Raz modeled the “future philanthropist” nity has to offer. Children will be able at [email protected] or call 203-321-1373, Lindsay Rosenberg. son of Catherine and Allen Troy. Rabbi David and Rivka Walk and Lisa Miller Weissman, Abbey Miller bib. to play in the Sara Walker playground ext. 109. Jennifer Buhler and Thomas Modla Pam Ehrenkranz and Matt Debbie Walk on the engagement of Kreinik and Neile Miller Lutze on the on the birth of a son, Oliver Thomas Greenberg, and Yair Zur on the engage- their son, Yishai Walk, to Shayna Liba loss of their mother, Belle Miller. Modla; grandmother is Gail Karlitz. ment of Ilana Zur to Roi Shabtay. Brainen, daughter of Gail and Norman Michael Moskowitz and Donna Troisi UConn Judaic Studies Lunch and Learn Series Shannon and Josh Funt on the birth Wendy and John Fitzgerald on the Brainen. on the loss of their mother, Harriet The Center for Judaic and Middle seph Field Lecture on Thurs- history. The Center is proud To register for the 2015 Lunch of a son, Ethan Funt; grandparents are marriage of their daughter, Rachel MAZEL TOV TO B’NAI MITZVAH: Weiss. Eastern Studies at UConn-Stamford is day, October 29, “Home and to continue to offer such and Learn Lecture Series, the annual Nancy and Mark Funt. Fitzgerald, to Sean Calahan. Joshua Milstein, son of Sarah and Mia Needle, Corinne Chapman, preparing for the fall 2015 semester Homelessness: Paradigms exciting and first quality conference, or for more informa- Sara and Chris Kocek on the birth of Sue Frieden on the marriage of Stuart Milstein; grandparents are Hill- Danna Needle, Elona Needle and Mon- of educational programming. The of the Jewish Experience in educational opportunities to tion about these or other programs a son, Leo Ethan Kocek; grandparents her son, Eric Frieden, to Rachel van ary and Bob Zitter. ica Needle on the loss of her husband Center’s Lunch and Learn series will Literature.” Closing the series our community.” of the Center for Judaic and Middle are Amy and Mark Schneider. der Steur. Jordana Raich, daughter of Risa and and their father, Stanley Needle. kick off at noon on Thursday, October on Thursday, November 5, Also, the Center’s an- Eastern Studies, contact the Center at Bailey and Al Majer on the birth Nan and Paul Gordon on the engage- Steven Raich. Bonnie and Ronald Nyman on the loss 15, with the Norma and Milton Mann Dr. Jeffrey Shoulson, chair nual Louis J. Kuriansky [email protected] or of a daughter, Miriam Temma Majer; ment of their daughter, Marcy Gordon, Sophia Rosano, daughter of Sharon of their nephew, Michael Klinofsky. Memorial Lecture, “Counterhistory: of Judaic studies and profes- conference, “From Enmity 203-251-9525. grandfather is Izzy Lustig. to Micah Julius. and Richard Rosano. Daniel Ramras on the loss of his Anti-Semitism in Contemporary British sor of literatures, cultures, to Friendship: The Remark- The Center for Judaic and Middle Eastern Rachel and Samuel Maryles on the Miriam and Josh Hurewitz on the CONDOLENCES TO: brother, Charles Ramras. Drama” by Dr. Liora Brosh, professor and languages at UConn, able Transformation of Studies is a recipient agency of the United birth of a daughter. engagement of their son, Jeremy Hure- Maureen Beder, and Barry Beder, Noel Robin on the loss of his brother, of English at UConn-Stamford. On will present “Prayer for the Professor Liora Brosh Christian-Jewish Relations Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Jill and Rob Negron on the birth of a witz, to Rachel Grosser, daughter of Daryl Beder, Lance Beder and Michelle Richard Robin. Thursday, October 22, Dr. Paul Franks, Government: Jews and Citizenship,” Since Vatican II (1965),” will take place Canaan and Darien, and is also supported daughter, Sasha Negron; grandparents Shira and Mayer Grosser. Beder on the loss of her husband and Gloria and Randy Skigen on the loss professor of philosophy at Yale, returns the Nina and Norman Lotstein Lecture. on Tuesday, November 10, at 7 pm. by donations from the community. are Carol and Michael Rosmarin. Diane Indyk and Rob Indyk on the their father; and Joyce Kaplan on the of their brother-in-law, Kevin Rickert. to the Stamford campus to present the Nina Lotstein, chair of the Center’s Arlene and Carl Rosen on the birth of a engagement of their daughter, Shoshana loss of her brother, Woolfie Beder. Brenda Smith on the loss of her sister, Hyacinthe Hoffman Memorial Lecture, Advisory Committee, remarked, “I granddaughter, Sierra Grey Saunders. Indyk, to Doniel Levie, son of Esther and Terry Brenner on the loss of his Gladys Gochberg Jacobson. “From the Brink of Christianity to the would like to personally invite our Continued from page 6 Lindsay and Peter Rosen on the birth Warren Levie of Teaneck, NJ. father, Ernie Brenner. Lois Stark and Amy Stark on the loss JEEP Renewal of Judaism: Franz Rosenzweig community to take part in the Cen- of a son, Jack Benjamin Rosen; grand- Meryl and Ron Japha on the mar- Lee Brauer on the loss of his wife, of their mother, Tillie Stark. As we enter a new year, may we all the Jewish people through our dedica- (1886-1929) and the Reinvention of ter’s highly-regarded and enriching parents are Sabrina and Dan Benjamin; riage of their son, Adam Japha, to Rima Brauer. Harriet Sternlicht, and Andrew be privileged – everyone from the tion to serving each other. Amen, selah! Jewish Life and Thought in Pre-War programs. We are looking forward to great-grandmother is Vicky Benjamin. Nicole Remling. Phyllis Brodsky, and Meryl Brodsky, Sternlicht, Barry Sternlicht and Russell youngest to the oldest, from the busy, JEEP* = Jewish Education and Germany.” Dr. Nehama Aschkenasy, another thought-provoking semester Elyse Turshen Panlilio and Alex Meryl and Larry Meiteles on the en- Mark Brodsky and Steven Brodsky on Sternlicht on the loss of her husband and active teen to the preschooler and the Engagement Project of United Jewish Center director and professor of com- with an exceptional group of scholars Panlilio on the birth of a daughter, gagement of their son, Elliot Meiteles, the loss of her husband and their father, their father; and Celina Sternlicht on the senior – to learn something new, to take Federation. parative literary and cultural studies at who will enrich our students’ under- Olivia Jane Panlilio; grandparents are to Alana Chill, daughter of Abbey and Gerry Brodsky. loss of her brother, Mark Sternlicht. part in the exciting and engaging life Cantor Marcia Lane is UJF’s director of UConn, will present the Barbara and Jo- standing of Jewish texts and Jewish Sharon and Jeff Turshen. Steve Chill of Harrison, NY. Corinne Chapman on the loss of her Family of Bernie Taub. of the community, and to strengthen education and engagement. Amy and Mark Schneider on the birth Anne Peskin for receiving the Zipo- father, Stanley Needle. Ilse Wischnia on the loss of her of a grandson, Leo Ethan Kocek. rah and George Freedberg Spirit of Judy Cohen on the loss of her husband, Herbert Wischnia. Sarah and Leslie Steinmetz on the Excellence Award from Congregation brother, Steven Mullens. Alfred Wolfsohn, and Sharon Karp, birth of a son, Tyler Mason Steinmetz; Agudath Sholom. Henry Feuerstein on the loss of David Wolfsohn and Deborah Wolfsohn grandparents are Norine and Dov Burton Rubin for receiving the Zipo- his mother, Charlotte Helen Clein on the loss of his wife and their mother, Steinmetz. rah and George Freedberg Hineni Award Feuerstein. Royce Wolfsohn. Betsy and Mike Stone on the birth of for Outstanding Service to Congregation a granddaughter, Isabela Grace Reese. Agudath Sholom and the Community. Klei Kodesh JEEP* tracks: musings on A monthly column from our clergy education and engagement “Through Their Eyes” By Cantor Marcia ger – the stranger. Everyone in the com- I have often can look like everyone else’s, too. Lane munity is considered important. That, found the view that I wondered what would have been When the sum- to me, is both the essence of Judaism the Other has of different in the grocery store had I been mer was approach- and the essence of UJF. me to be deeply wearing a kippah. How would it have ing, I was piling up When I arrived here in November valuable. Not always affected her opinion of Jews? Would my stack of books last year, I was plunged into Tapestry. accurate, but worth I have been responsible for that opin- to read. Now, in the Nearly 300 people came out for an consideration. I am ion? Perhaps her impression of Jewish waning days of the evening of adult Jewish learning. As a often challenged people would not have changed at all. summer, I’m look- newcomer, I could not have been more by members-of-our- But, I decided to put on my kippah as an ing at the calendar. delighted! A Jewish community that tribe: I didn’t think Rabbi Jay TelRav experiment and I found that it had the I’m picturing the year ahead. loves learning is a great and vibrant Reform Jews wore a yarmulke? desired effect – my behavior improved! On Saturday, September 12, the community. As I type these words, Tap- One day, about 14 years ago (before I was more likely to hold the door and Torah reading is Parashat Nitzavim. I’ve estry 2015 is nearly set. There will be a I wore my kippah), I was pushing my allow the person behind me to enter a always loved the opening of this section wonderful mix of local rabbis and can- buggy in the grocery store toward the building first. I was more likely to dem- of the Torah: “You stand here this day, all tors, artists and scholars, with new and checkout line. I saw that there was a onstrate proper behavior in public and I of you, before the Lord your God; tribal exciting learning. Mark your calendar: woman coming toward me from the liked what it did for me! It was as though leaders, elders and officials, all the men Saturday evening, November 21, marks other direction and we were set to the sacrifice of my anonymity provided of Israel. Your children, your wives, even the 12th year of Tapestry! reach the line at about the same time. constant awareness that I was now a rep- the stranger within your camp – from The year 5776 is upon us, and I’m So what did I do? I sped up, of course, resentative of the Jewish community. the wood chopper to the water-drawer looking at all the crazy notes stuck to in order to beat her to the line – which I share this story to demonstrate one – to enter into the covenant of the Lord my desk and my computer: I did. Then I stood there waiting, with person’s non-Orthodox approach to your God...” (Deut. 29:9-11) ‹‹ Storytelling at Library – Tuesday, her behind me. Both of us knew what tradition. Serious liberal Jews, who do What I love about it is the huge circle September 8 I had done. And, I was projecting not feel themselves bound by halachah of inclusion. Nobody is left outside of ‹‹ Call Kuriansky teens and parents! what she must have been thinking. It (Jewish law), see it incumbent upon the community. Nobody is forgotten. First meeting is breakfast on Sunday, probably went something like, “What a themselves to take responsibility to Nobody is too high or too low to par- September 27 Jerk!” or some variation of that. (And interpret our tradition. In my years ticipate in the covenant, including the ‹‹ Seniors program – Jewish Storytelling? she was right!) serving as a Reform rabbi, I have come ‹‹ Melton! New class. Advertise. I reflected on what allowed me to across individuals in each of our move- ‹‹ Speaker for Shabbat Across Stam- behave in such an obnoxious way and ments who take their responsibilities UJF Tribute Cards are a ford (!) – check out spaces at Plaza I believe it had something to do with seriously (and, of course, those who wonderful way to connect ‹‹ PJ Babies? parents? Workshop? Ba- anonymity. When there is no account- don’t!). Liberal Judaism has certainly gels and Books? ability, we feel less motivated to be our not proven to be the “easy way out” for with your family and friends ‹‹ Yom Hashoah (arts? music? hidden “best selves.” It is why there is such bad committed, thoughtful expression of and mark any occasion while children? All three?) behavior on the roads; in the privacy of our tradition. And, I’m proud to lead supporting the extraordinary I look at my lists and I think, “Who have our own car, we don’t have to look into a community full of such people. I left out?” Because our obligation as Jews the eyes of the person we just mistreated! L’shalom, in peace, work of UJF. To send a tribute, is to learn and to teach, lilmod ul’lameid, As a Jew, I have the ability to fade into the Rabbi Jay TelRav go to www.ujf.org. and to include absolutely everyone! safety of anonymity in America. I look and Rabbi Jay TelRav is the spiritual leader See “JEEP” on page 7 dress like everyone else and my behavior of Temple Sinai. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 8 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 9 JFS Home Companion Celebrates 30th New Around Town Jewish High School Celebrates New Leadership and Home Claudia Brenner – Donor Relations The community is invited to visit the community. JHSC helps complete the Anniversary Coordinator, JFS Jewish High School of Connecticut on very well-established Stamford Jewish At right: In the award- By Lynn Saltz today. Certified nurses aides were added to the reg- Claudia Brenner joins Jewish Tuesday, September 8, at 9 am, for a community infrastructure. When it winning STEM program In 1985, a first class postage stamp cost $.22, istry in April 2007. In 2014, the JFS Brain Fitness Family Service as the new donor l’chayim to welcome the new head of arrived on West Main Street just one at the Jewish High School Operation Moses resettled 8,000 Ethiopian Jews in Program was introduced. relations coordinator, where school, Rabbi Elisha Paul, the start of a year ago, it launched right into its of Connecticut, students Israel, “Amadeus” won the Oscar for best movie of Today, JFS Home Companion helps between she will be spearheading the new academic year, the first anniversary mission to educate Jewish youth in an learn to apply scientific the year and Jewish Family Service created the JFS 90-100 clients a month, served by more than 110 fund-raising efforts and donor of the school in its new home at 1937 environment that emphasizes Jewish principles to the practical Home Companion. After 30 years, the program con- trained home companions or CNAs. Over the past outreach for the agency. Born West Main St. and the new year, 5776. values, learning and responsible action. world through project-based tinues to provide affordable assistance that enables 30 years, 1,975 clients have been provided with more in South Africa, Brenner earned The community is invited to have cof- Now one year later, with new head of classes and experiments, seniors to remain safe, healthy and independent than 4.15 million hours of service. Today’s registry her bachelor’s degree from the fee, dip an apple in honey and take a school Rabbi Elisha Paul at the helm, in a research lab setting. in their homes to the fullest extent possible, for as of aides totals more than 400. University of Cape Town and a quick tour of the school. more local families are hearing about L-r: Emma Judd, Inna long as possible. In addition to those requiring assistance at home, post-graduate diploma in stra- “It’s the last piece of a puzzle,” said the school’s excellence and seeking Cohen and Dr. Paul Castle In 1986, all trainee aides were 65 and older with services are provided to people who suffer from ail- tegic marketing management one local philanthropist, referring to information about admissions.” participated in a STEM only 20 clients served. A JFS geriatric social worker ments such as dementia, hearing and visual impair- from the University of South Claudia Brenner the Jewish High School and its role in Here are just a few highlights: program. developed the training manual for the companions, ments, Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s, Multiple Sclerosis, Africa. For several years, she the Stamford Jewish community. “Syna- ‹‹ Toshiba/NSTA ExploraVision is a which still serves as the basis of the Elayne and James ALS, heart attack and stroke. Companions can help worked at British Airways in South Africa and New gogues, day schools, kosher establish- competition with more than 30,000 Global Youth Summit on the Future of to colleges and universities includ- Schoke Home Companion Training Course taught promote recovery from surgery, illness or injury. They York in both loyalty marketing and advertising. While ments, the mikvah, Jewish Community applicants from the United States and Medicine 2014-2015 and one student ing, Brandeis, McGill, University of are also available to assist women who are confined her four children were young, she switched careers Center, Federation, senior services and Canada. The JHSC 2012 and 2014 was accepted to Dr. Bessie F. Lawrence Toronto, Tulane, University of Con- to bed rest during pregnancy. and worked as a preschool teacher at Chabad of adult education programs are hall- ninth-grade ExploraVision teams were International Summer Science Insti- necticut Honor, Washington University Linking Generations of the Shoah The JFS Home Companion works closely with both Stamford’s Gan Yeladim. Brenner and her husband, marks of a flourishing, vibrant Jewish the top teams in Connecticut. These tute, Weizmann Institute of Science, in St. Louis and Yale University. Many A local Second Generation Group of children of aides and clients. The seven-week training program Terry, have been Stamford residents for 13 years. teams also received Honorable Men- Rehovot, Israel 2015. (Eight students students spend a gap year in Israel. Holocaust survivors began in July 2012. The group is offered twice a year, certifying more than 60 aides Brenner says she is passionate about the work that tion Awards, placing them in the top 10 in the world are accepted.) The Jewish High School of Connecticut has approximately 50 members ranging in age from annually. Last year, the program reached a record JFS does for the community and is very excited to percent among all teams that entered ‹‹ The Class of 2015 has earned nearly is a recipient agency of United Jewish the competition. $1 million in scholarship awards. Federation of Greater Stamford, New 40 and up,Dry from Cleaning, all over Connecticut Laundry, Flat and work Westchester number of 192 clients, with more than 225 aides. be a part of the JFS team. County. Monthly meetings take place in Westport, Home companions are taught to perform tasks with ‹‹ The JHSC Literary Magazine, Echo, ‹‹ Graduates of JHSC were accepted Canaan and Darien. Pick up / Delivery Amy Ritell – Interim Director of received a certificate of excellence usually at theAll UJAWork offices, Done Onon the Premises second Tuesday of which clients have difficulty or are unable to perform every month. Spouses of Second Generation mem- themselves, such as meal preparation; clean-up; Religious Education, Temple Sinai from the National Council of Teachers bers,Frank as Policastro/Owner well as Third Generation, often(203) attend 323-0507 the laundry; bed making; exercising and socialization; Temple Sinai welcomes Amy of English. JCC Run/Walk and Family Fun Day general67 Crescent meetings. Street Those [email protected] are invited mto organizing activities in the home environment; shop- Ritell as its new interim director ‹‹ In the last year, the school has had More than 450 people of all ages are expected to run, walk, sprint and stroll attendStamford, the CT meetings. 06905 Forwww.crescentcleaners.co further information, callm ping; and transportation to medical appointments, of religious education. Ritell is one National Merit finalist and one Na- their way through the Eighth Annual Give a Child a JumpStart 5K/10K Run/ 203-762-0058. errands and social activities. a graduate of the University of tional Merit commended scholar. Two Walk and Family Fun Day on Monday, September 7. Check-in will begin at 9 The program provides a broad spectrum of ser- Bridgeport, where she received students were Advanced Placement am and the race will start at 9:30 am. vices, including helping seniors create a safe environ- a B.S. in advertising and mass scholars and two students were named The event raises funds for JumpStart, the JCC’s preschool program for young Congregation ment in the comfort of one’s home; personalized communications with a minor AP scholars with distinction. One children with special needs, and is sponsored by The Herbert and Sarah M. Happy scheduling of companions (two-24 hours from one in art. She also received certifica- student was named a National Young Gibor Charitable Foundation, Auslander Kasindorf Group/Keller Williams Mishkan Israel of Easton to seven days/week; hourly, live-in or sitter service tion from United Synagogue of Arts Foundation winner for violin (787 Realty, and the Dorf and Gotler families. It is presented by The Center Women Chanukah!The First & Only Synagogue in hospitals); professional screening and training of Conservative Judaism’s Teacher winners were selected from a pool of of the Stamford Jewish Community Center. more than 11,000 applications). Online registration for the JCC Run/Walk is available at www.stamfordjcc.org, A traditional—wDry Cleaning,arm Laundry,and friendly Flat, wworkelcoming aides; social work supervision; regular home visits and Development Institute. She ‹‹ Internships: In 2014 and 2015, A or call 203-322-7900 for more information. Families and local businesses can also environment—servingPick up F airfield/ Deliver Coyunty since 1945. follow-up, or as needed; assessment and search for and her husband, Jeff, reside Amy Ritell Mazel tov to the graduating class of JHSC student was accepted to Yale support the JumpStart program by becoming sponsors of the communitywide ConvenientlyAll Work located Done on On the PremisesTrumbull-Easton a companion who best matches client’s needs and in Ridgefield, where she was border just minutes from the Merritt Parkway temperament; and temporary or long-term care. the education director at Temple Shearith Israel of 2015. Shown (front to back) are Batsheva University Discovery to Cure High event. Information on sponsorship levels is available by contacting the JCC. In Labowe-Stoll, Zachary Patrick, Jordan School internship. Three students addition, registration and sponsorship forms are available on the website for Frank FORPolicastro/Owner SERVICE TIMES AND INFORMA(203)TION 323-0507 JFS also provides certified nurses aides whose duties Ridgefield for 14 years. 67 Crescent Street [email protected] may include feeding, bathing, dressing, toileting (chang- “Working in the Jewish community runs in my Rastegar and Eva Gerber. were accepted to Brandeis University download, and completed forms can be mailed to or dropped off at the JCC. 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Team Bi-Cultural Day School (l-r): Craig Price, Amy Davidson, Glenn Price, Remi Rosenberg, Marni Amsellem and Julie Rosenberg.

More JTT Team members (l-r): Justin Greenfeld, Erika Smith, Allie Zur, Tova Feldstein and Jeff Kilstein. Members of Jewish Family Service’s JTT Team. Standing (l-r): Jordan Meer, David Johnson, Jeremy Luksberg, Arielle Luksberg, Mark Frank, Arielle Krause, Rachel Aaron and Robin Treidel. Kneeling: Loren Steinfeldt and Robin Fischel.

Members of the Carmel Academy Team. Standing (l-r): Leslie Napach, Emil Nusbaum (alumni), Philip Steinmetz (alumni), Jeff Kilstein, Josh Hurwitz, Eli Freedberg, Maureen Pollack and Josh Levine. Kneeling: David Napach and Seth Young.

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Ariela Dubler Head of School Marsha Feris Director of Admissions (212) 595-7087 [email protected] 12 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 13 UJF and Mark Family Reward Teen Leadership The Rabbi Alex J. Goldman Memorial Essay Contest In June, the United Jewish Federa- Baum was nominated by Malya Shmotkin The 2015 Helen S. and Isadore Mark Teen Leadership Award The winners of the 11th Rabbi Alex J. Goldman Dr. Anne Peskin who, along with fellow judges Elissa This award was established in his memory to reward tion announced the winner of an award for her work at The Friendship Circle. Memorial Essay Contest were announced at the end of Kaplan, Herb Kahan and Robin Fischel, utilized a excellence in writing and to recognize the involvement for teen leadership. The Helen S. and In her nominating statement, Shmotkin Winner’s Statement June. The teens wrote essays discussing their involve- rubric to judge the form and content of the essays. of Stamford area teens in the Jewish community and Isadore Mark 2015 Teen Leadership said, “Gaby joined Friendship Circle as By Gaby Baum to donate money toward re- ment in the Jewish community by responding to the Past presidents of Temple Beth El established the in the wider world. The contest is designed to help Award is given to a high school sopho- a volunteer only two years ago, but the During my middle school search for food allergies. In following prompt: “I never thought I would….” This Rabbi Alex Goldman Scholarship Fund as a memorial strengthen the Jewish identity of teens by providing more or junior who has demonstrated impact she’s made in that short time is years, I was diagnosed with total, we were able to raise year Alex Bergman, who is entering her senior year at tribute to Rabbi Alex Goldman. Rabbi Goldman z’l, an opportunity to enhance their writing skills while multi-year leadership within the local admirable…. Gaby has advocated for a disease that caused me to over $6,000! Students of AITE, was the first-place winner, receiving a prize of was spiritual leader of Temple Beth El for nearly three reflecting on their Jewish experiences. It is open to all or worldwide Jewish and/or general people with unique needs in Washing- be allergic to all food. I had all ages came to thank me $1,000. Rachel Steinmetz was the second prize winner decades. He was the author of several books, including 10th-12th-graders who reside in the Greater Stamford community. Judging is based on the ton, DC, and has taken leadership roles to drink formula in order saying they had never told ($500), and Jenna Plotzky won third prize ($250). Two “I Am A Holocaust Torah: The Story of the Saving of area, regardless of where they attend school. recommendation of a teacher or adult in many areas and organizations.” to get all my nutrition to anyone about their food al- other contestants, Melanie Roloff and Gaby Baum, 1,564 Torahs Stolen by the Nazis,” “A Handbook for the The first-place winning essay is presented below, group leader, and also on an essay in Although there were five nomina- survive. This brought stares, lergies before. were awarded honorable mention ($100). Jewish Family: Understanding and Enjoying the Sab- and over the next few months, the remaining essays which the applicant describes how they tions, the committee felt that Baum comments and bullying from From there I was invited The Goldman Essay committee was chaired by bath and Holidays,” and a novel, “The Rabbi is a Lady.” will be printed in The New Jewish Voice. have taken leadership roles in his or has made outstanding contributions peers about my “drink” and to speak for FARE (The her community. Stamford synagogues, by creating new opportunities to con- about food allergies. I decided Food Allergy Research and Jewish schools, youth groups and other tribute to society through her work to take a stand and together, Gaby Baum Education) at a conference I Never Thought I Would … Jewish organizations were invited to in raising awareness about food al- with a supportive teacher, cre- in Washington, DC, and I was By Alex Bergman ages, races and backgrounds. While the finally grasped the concept. nominate one or more candidates for lergies. Baum continues to lead with ated a Food Allergy Walk at my school to asked to join the Junior Advisory Board. I never thought I would be in the same general sessions were incredibly moving, From this moment, the purpose behind my Jew- the award. The award of $1,000 is to be her involvement in philanthropy, her educate my peers. Participation started However, when I came home, I knew room as the son of the founder of Hamas. nothing compared to the private interview ish identity became clear. I shook Yousef’s hand, used to pay an educational expense. volunteering with children with special with my grade and blossomed into the that I wanted to bring this issue closer Furthermore, I never thought I would meet with Mosab Hassan Yousef, which I ironi- and thanked him for the enormous impact he had This year’s winner was Gaby Baum, needs, and her work at her school and whole school. I gave a presentation, to home and to my community. Over the son of the leader of the Hamas. Even cally discovered accidentally. just made on my life. I soon shared the story with who is entering her junior year at AITE. at a national level. and everyone raised money and walked See “Teen” on page 16 further, I never thought I would meet the After reading the session I had wanted the other students from my Stamford community son of a Hamas leader at an international to attend was full, I went on to search for that were also in attendance; they had incredible pro-Israel advocacy conference. Surpris- a session with open seats; what I found stories of their own, speaking with natural pas- ingly, meeting this man led me to the most was Yousef’s packed session with an AIPAC sion and heart. From here, I felt as prepared as Youth Philanthropy Connect – Through Adult Eyes impactful connection and passion for my staffer kind enough to allow me to join possible for the history I was about to witness the Judaism that I have ever felt. anyway. Yousef is the oldest son of Hamas’ following morning. By Marcia Lane Heart High School explained that and parents attended, all of us striving to the $5,000 grant money. Then each table Alex Bergman It takes a lot to convince a teenager philanthropy is a required class for learn more about creating meaningful debated and discussed, and eventually On Sunday, March 1, I walked into a founding and most popular leader, and Three hours of security lines later, I witnessed Prime to give up a Sunday – in spring, no less! ninth-grade students, and participants experiences for youth. came up with recommendations for the room boasting 16,000 people. I had the changed his ways to help Israel in any way Minister Netanyahu share his vision for Israel, and – to spend it indoors, talking about in Youthadelphia talked about working The culmination of the day was a whole group. At each table one young privilege of steering away from my daily routine of he could- hero is an understatement. It wasn’t until his gratitude for each and every one of us. His words, money. On June 14, 30 young people closely with their adult counterparts mammoth, two-hour long grant making person was assigned – by their group, school on weekdays, Hebrew School on Sundays I stood up and personally asked Yousef a question “Today we are no longer silent, today we have a voice,” from as far as Boston and Philadelphia in The Philadelphia Foundation. Two session. Through a generous donation not by any adult – to present their case and sports somewhere in the middle to attend this about how he copes with leaving his family behind for made me aspire to make a difference by speaking converged on a high-tech building in college-age students gave insights into from the Frieda C. Fox Family Founda- to the room. Then each of the young conference truly like no other. The American Israel justice when I realized the passion behind his voice. up every day to protect our heritage. I am incredibly Manhattan to learn about the world of working on their family’s charitable tion, attendees had $5,000 to distribute in attendees was given a marker with which Public Affairs Conference (AIPAC) in Washington, This passion emanated from not just Yousef, but the prideful to have witnessed such moving speakers and philanthropy from each other and from foundation. any way they saw fit. Any adult who wished to cast his or her vote. When the markers DC, held general sessions that emulated the unani- 30 other people in the room, and the 16,000 others leaders make history in our Jewish community. a host of talented, dedicated adults. The Workshops for adults included ses- to attend had to sit in the back of the were tallied one plan was a clear favorite, mous support of Israel over an enormous range of that had put their lives aside to support justice. I had See “Thought” on page 17 focus of Youth Philanthropy Connect sions on “Troubleshooting Youth Engage- room, silently watching the three tables and two lucky organizations received Road Show was to highlight existing ment and Empowering Youth to Lead” of young attendees evaluate five New York $2,500 each. programs, and to educate teens and and “Driving Impact Through Effective City organizations that had gone through The day ended with a circle of all adults on making these programs even Youth-Adult Partnerships.” Lunchtime the preliminary process of applying for participants, young and older, some- more effective. sessions gave young people and adults up to $2,500 in grant money. thing like a benediction on the day’s FAMILY CENTRAL It was exhilarating to hear the young the chance to attend “facilitated con- Prior to the conference, the young activities. Each participant wrote a people describe their programs. Stu- versations” on issues of social justice and people had received the proposals, short note that would be included in a September & October 2015 dents from the Convent of the Sacred careers in philanthropy. Group leaders complete with financials of the organiza- long paper chain to travel to the next tion, proposed budget for their projects, Youth Philanthropy Connect site. We FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY BIRTH through PRESCHOOL Teen Philanthropy in Stamford descriptions and histories of the organiza- wrote what inspired us, and what we The 2015-2016 Kuriansky Teen Tzedakah Corps gets underway in September. tions. As a group they watched “video site would take away from the day. I wrote, Back 2 School BBQ and Youth Kick-Off Got Shabbat! Tiny Treasures Mommy & Me The teen philanthropy project is an opportunity for ninth-, 10th- and 11th-graders visits,” reviewed requests and narrowed “Dedication to making the world a bet- Open to all. Monday, Sept. 7 • 4:30-6 pm at Chabad. Event FREE. Food for sale. Birth - 30 months with a parent or caregiver. Begins Friday, Oct. 16 • 9:30-10:30 am at to learn about Jewish philanthropy, to establish a funding target for the year, to the field down to three projects, three ter place.” And with that we each went Betten Lekach (Honey Cake for a Sweet Year) Chabad. $15 per class – (First Timers FREE). create grant guidelines and evaluate proposals, and to raise and allocate funds. organizations to receive some portion of home, energized to renew the work. Open to all. Tuesday, Sept. 22 • 11:30 am-12:30 pm at the Shemtov Home, 10 Brandt JCC Mommy & Me Class: Movin’ and Groovin’ Last season, the KTTC gave grants to the Friendship Circle and to 3 SQUARE, Road. No Charge. 12-30 months with parent or caregiver. Tuesdays, Sept. 8 – Dec. 22 (No class Sept, 15, 29, Oct. 6). Fee: $288 for 12 sessions / JCC members $240. Contact Galit Roloff at 203- both programs that benefit young people. 3 SQUARE provides supplemental Friendship Day nutrition to low income children in a Stamford public school. The Friendship 487-0974 or [email protected]. young voices Sunday, Oct 18 • 12:30 pm @ Friendship Circle Center. For more information, contact Circle pairs teenagers with special needs children and teens for social activities (203) 329-0015 Music, Movement and Yoga, Mommy & Me Inclusion Program and friendship. More than a dozen teens form the KTTC cadre for this year. Entering the World of Teen Give a Child A JumpStart 5K/ at the JCC 2- 4 years with parent present. Sundays, Sept. 27 – Dec. 13 (No class Oct. 11) • 9:30- 10K Walk or Run & Family Fun Day at the JCC 10:10 am. Fee: $165 for 11 sessions / JCC members $110. To register, contact Inclusion Monday, Sept. 7 • 9 am check-in, 9:30 am start. $36 adults, $18 students and chil- Coordinator Dinushka De Silva at 203-487-0946 or [email protected]. Philanthropy dren (up to age 18). Contact Nancy Schiffman at 203-487-0942 or By Gaby Baum to be a learning experience for us all. [email protected] Sing & Dance with Amy Rogell at the JCC 1-8 years old with parent or caregiver. Wednesday, Oct. 14 • 5:30-6:30 pm. Member On June 14, I attended an amazing Sitting together with such dedicated 2016 Stamford JCC Maccabi Games and ArtsFest Kickoff event: a conference of young people, people from all over the North East- $9 / Community $12 if registered by October 7; Member $11 / Community $14 begin- Sunday, Sept. 20 • 1:30-4 pm. Free of charge. Contact Rachel Rothman at 203-487- ning October 8. Contact Galit Roloff at 203-487-0974 or [email protected]. ages 8 to 20, who are all interested in ern area representing philanthropy 0949 or [email protected] giving. was a complete honor. Here we would Tiny Treasures Fall Session “My Jewish Home” Coming into this conference, I had make an informed decision based on JCC Membership & Fitness Open House 3 months to 4 years. 8 sessions. Wednesdays October 14-December 9 • 9:30-10:30 no idea what to expect. YPC (Youth the knowledge that we had gained to Sunday, Sept. 20 • 10 am-1:30 pm. Free of charge. Contact Ilene Kirschner Madwed at am at Chabad. Fee: $100 or $15 drop-in fee (*first class always free). For more informa- Philanthropy Connect) was an op- allocate the $5,000. 203-487-0945 [email protected] tion, contact [email protected]. portunity to improve my philanthropy In the end, I was given the honor JCC Family Sukkot Celebration Tiny Treasures Holiday Class skills and learn from others. Little did I of calling one of the chosen founda- Thursday, Oct. 1 • 5:30- 7 pm. Free of charge. Contact Emily Eisen at 203-487-0973 or Birth-30 Months. Wednesday, Sept. 9 • 9:30-11:00am at Chabad. Fee: $20 per class – know that I would be inspired beyond tions to inform them that they would [email protected]. (First Timers FREE). For more information, contact [email protected]. words by the incredible individuals that be getting the full amount they had Jewish High School Open House & Welcome New Head of School Wonderful Ones: Mommy & Me Class at the I would meet. Just walking into a room requested. This call opened my eyes Tuesday, Sept 8 • 9 am at JHSCT, 1937 West Main Street, Stamford • (203) 357-0850 filled with people wanting to make a to the true impact that we are making JCC Sara Walker Nursery School difference, knowing we all had a com- by choosing to give this money. On Loaves of Love Cooking Marathon at the Friendship Walk 1-2 years. Thursdays, Sept. 24-Dec. 17 • 9:15 – 10:15 am. Fee: $216 for 12 sessions / mon goal and were there for the same paper, the information that we see For Shabbat 2Go packages. Sunday, Oct. 18 • 12:30-3:30 pm. No Charge. JCC members $180. Contact Sandi Waldstreicher at 203-322-6542 or swaldstreicher@ stamfordjcc.org. reason, automatically created common is a mission statement and financial The Shabbos Project ground. These were all people who information, but the call made me Friday, Oct. 23-Saturday, Oct. 24. Begins at 5:30 pm with dinner at 6:30 pm. For more info were used to standing up for what they realize that behind the paper were real www.TheShabbosProject.org or contact Leah Shemtov at [email protected] believe in and fighting to give money people whose lives would be so greatly to the cause that meant the most to affected by our taking the time to make GRADES K-8 them; it was inspiring. the correct decision in awarding these BBYO GRADES 9-12 Over the course of the day, all of the funds to this foundation. For Grades 8-12. Every 2nd Monday • 7:00-9:00 pm at The J. Information: BBYO Re- BBYO For Grades 8-12. See description under K-8. activities were geared towards educat- Sitting in that one room, collectively gional Office (203) 389-2127 or [email protected] www.cvrbbyo.net. Leviticus AZA (Boys) ing and assisting us in order to be able making a financial decision over several & Tikvah BBG (Girls). FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE to make a more informed decision with thousand dollars, we had the power to For volunteers in Grades 9-12 at Chabad. Information: Malya Shmotkin at 203-329- allocating funds. We were given $5,000 impact other people’s lives. The power PJ Library at the JHS Judaica Library at the JCC 0015 #414, [email protected] or www.friendshipct.com Grades K-2. Second Tuesday of the month, October 13 • 4:00-4:45 pm to allocate. In order for us to make of philanthropy is astounding and each Jewish Student Connection this life changing decision we were to contribution, big or small, impacts all Grades 3-5. Third Thursdays of the month, October 22 • 4:00-4:45 pm For Grades 9 – 12. Tuesdays • 2:15 pm at Stamford High School or Thursdays • 2:15 learn the ideals behind philanthropy. parties involved. Might it be the donors, Parents and caregivers welcome. Information: Marcia Lane at (203) 321-1373, x104. Program in partnership with UJF and Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County. pm at Westhill High School. Information: [email protected] Here with my previous knowledge of recipients or the decision makers, no There is NO FEE. Jewish philanthropy I was exposed to one is untouched. We are all a part of SHABBAT the multitude of cultures that people the philanthropy chain that helps to Sing & Dance with Amy Rogell at the JCC from all over contributed to their own make a difference in the world. See description under Birth through Preschool. For information about Shabbat services, call the individual synagogues philanthropy work. Together as one, Gaby Baum is an 11th-grader at the with all our different skills, we were Academy of Information Technology and stronger together allowing this process Engineering. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 14 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 15

ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 16 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 17 UConn-Stamford Fall Courses Feature Guest Lecturers Reading Partners Celebrates its 16th Year In June, the Herbert and Sarah M. Gibor Read- The Herbert and Sarah M. Gibor Reading Partners Classes Open to Community Senior Audits ing Partners Program celebrated its volunteers with Program is sponsored by the United Jewish Federa- By Rebecca Isenstein will include a guest lecture on is an exploration of the fun- of Becoming.” Ladin is the author of a breakfast at the Stamford JCC. Seventy guests tion of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien, The Center for Judaic and Middle Israeli movies on Thursday, damental nature of political “Through the Door of Life: A Jewish attended and children’s author Fran Manushkin and is an affiliate of the National Jewish Coalition Eastern Studies at UConn-Stamford will October 29, presented by conflicts on the national and Journey Between Genders.” The guest was said to delight the assembly with her reading of for Literacy. Volunteers work one-on-one with young offer a selection of credit courses this Dr. Eric Goldman of Yeshiva international levels. lecture is co-sponsored by the Center for “The Tushy Book.” In honor of Westover Elementary children from kindergraten-third grade in the Stam- fall, featuring several guest lecturers. University, an expert on Jew- Additionally, English Profes- Judaic and Middle Eastern Studies; the School becoming the 12th and final elementary school ford public school system and beyond. Senior citizens who do not seek degree ish film and recent co-host of sor Dr. Fred Roden will teach Center for Women’s, Gender, and Sexual- in the program, Reading Partners director Marlyn For information on becoming a Reading Partner, credit may audit the courses. the series “The Jewish Experi- “Spiritual Autobiography” ity Studies; and the Program Committee. Agatstein penned a mini-drama, “How Westover contact Marlyn Agatstein at UJF at 203-321-1373, ext. Dr. Nehama Aschkenasy will offer the ence on Film” on the Turner (ENGS 4600W) on Tuesdays Classes were scheduled to begin Came on Board.” 115, or at [email protected]. course “Politics, Society and Gender in Classic Movies network. ENG from 5:30-8:10 pm. Students on Monday, August 31. Seniors (age Contemporary Middle Eastern Writ- 3318 is a core course for the will consider how all literature 62 and up) wishing to audit a course ings” (ENG 3318) on Thursdays from Certificate in Judaic and has its roots in the interior may register through the Office of Children’s author Fran Manushkin signed her book for 2:35-5:15 pm. In this course, students Middle Eastern Studies. Dr. Eric Goldman journey, and will begin to de- the Registrar beginning on Tuesday, Johanna Nugteren. will explore the works of contemporary Two related courses will also be velop a clear sense of the role that literary September 15. For more information At right (l-r): Reading Middle Eastern writers. Topics will offered. studies play in his/her own self-definition. on the Center’s credit courses or the Conference of Torah (Kinus Torah) Partners at the book sale include the literary representation of Dr. Beth Ginsberg will teach her Course assignments will be designed to certificate program, contact the Center Stamford has a number of young men that study at table – Asha Gupte, Marie political and economic instability, tradi- political science seminar, “Religion and manifest students’ professionalization as at [email protected] yeshivas in Israel and throughout the world who join Belfiore, Ena Sarkar and tion vs. modernity, and the changing Politics” (POLS 2998W), on Wednes- wordsmith, humanist and critical thinker. or 203-251-9525. their families in Stamford during the Jewish holidays. Ronni Ginsberg. roles and status of women. The course days from 2:35-5:15 pm. The seminar The course will include a guest lecture The Center for Judaic and Middle Eastern Last year, Chabad launched the first Kinus Torah by Dr. Joy Ladin of Yeshiva University Studies is a recipient agency of the United (Conference of Torah), a forum that allowed eight Back-to-School Kick-Off on Tuesday, October 20, at 7 pm, MPR Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New young men from Stamford and Greenwich to share The annual Chabad back-to-school barbecue and youth kick-off will be held on at UConn-Stamford, “`I am what I will Canaan and Darien, and is also supported their Torah thoughts and insights with members of the Monday, September 7, from 4:30-6 pm, at Chabad of Stamford, 770 High Ridge be’: Meeting God at the Burning Bush by donations from the community. community. This year, Chabad will continue the Kinus Rd. The event offers new families, as well as current families, an opportunity Torah with two evenings dedicated to Torah study with At right (l-r): “How Westover to meet each other. Parents will be able to explore the programs Chabad has presentations from local yeshiva students. The commu- Came on Board” was to offer while their children engage in craft activities. All families are welcome Teen Continued from page 12 nity is invited to the events on Wednesday, September performed by Avidan Pell, to attend regardless of their current school. Entrance to the event is free and the years I have worked with young stu- Tzedakah Corps) where we have worked 30, at 7:45 pm, at Chabad of Stamford, and on April former UJF Development food will be available for purchase at a minimal cost. dents in school who are bullied about to allocate money and I was invited 28, 2016, at 7:45 pm, at Chabad of Greenwich. associate; Marlyn Agatstein, their allergies and helped them stand to lead the group next year showing director of Reading Partners; up for themselves. During this time, future philanthropists the ropes. I am Know Your Legacy Jim Benjamin, reading I also found a home as a member of continuing my Teen Advisory Board On Sunday, October 11, from 9:30 am-1 pm, the partner; Jennifer Grant, staff BBYO where I am honored to have been with Food Allergy Research and Educa- Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County will pres- liaison at Stillmeadow School; named the stand-up chair for children tion for the third year in a row, while I ent “Know Your Legacy,” a Heritage@Home Memoir Amy Neer, Staff Liaison at with special needs. This gave me the work with Friendship Circle every week Writing Workshop, with Joseph Kaplan and Sam Uhl Westover School; and Susan opportunity to bring a representative on the board and continue to attend at the Stamford Jewish Community Center. Kaplan Kolbrenner, reading partner. of Friendship Circle to come and talk Friendship Circle events in other towns will discuss what it was like to grow up “tall, Jewish and to over 70 young Jewish girls. to gain new ideas for fund-raising. I free” in the mountains of Western North Carolina. The Friendship Circle is a youth have also been invited and will be at- Those attending will also have the opportunity to organization which allows high school tending, a philanthropy conference rediscover their life’s adventures, wisdom and favor- students to volunteer with special in New York City this weekend (YPC ite memories, and preserve their stories during the needs children. My involvement with – Youth Philanthropy Connect), to interactive workshop by The Cheerful Word. There this organization has also allowed me talk with people from all over who is an $18 fee to attend, which includes brunch. The to advocate for those with food aller- are involved in philanthropy work. program is open to the community. gies when they could not speak at all. I [Editor’s Note: See Baum’s article about have met children there with allergies the June 14 Youth Philanthropy Connect Thought Continued from page 13 who are nonverbal, trusting me to take conference on page 12.] The experience will forever contribute to my charge of their allergies and their safety Through all this work I have been emotional investment in my Jewish heritage and sup- when I am out with them. I soon joined fortunate to have the support of my port for our Jewish homeland. A movement so large the board of Friendship Circle where I amazing community and friends. I am is one that is difficult to grasp, but I am lucky that I am the president of my school for the currently working on bringing a Jewish was able to have that moment of realization. If the program. I realized that these opportu- after-school program to AITE, and I son of the largest anti-Israel group in the world can nities to bring awareness are important, am a believer in tikkun olam (repairing choose justice over family, I can take the time to do and together with close friends we have the world). My current plans include simple things like donate tzedakah, say the Shema with taken it to another level and created a creating an organization called SMILE my family once a day and engage in gemilut-chasadim, Facebook page that stands up for kids (So Much In Life (to) Enjoy). This is or acts of loving kindness. with food allergies and has over 1,200 a program that I am developing that Since those three days in March, I have not only likes and over 6,500 views since its in- will bring opportunities to students to become more involved in Jewish values and orga- ception just three months ago. help others, as we all have so much, nizations, but also learned how to speak up for our Now my goal is focused more on and giving back and making someone Jewish community. Events like the UJF Women’s fund-raising with my work with phi- smile is the most amazing gift! th Philanthropy Spring Dinner and BBYO Spring Con- lanthropy. I was on a philanthropy Gaby Baum is an 11 -grader at the vention have made my passion for Jewish values and board over the summer and then was Academy of Information Technology and community ideals even stronger. This time last year, invited to join KTTC (Kuriansky Teen Engineering. I would have never thought I’d have the opportunity to meet such inspirational people. Their impact on my life is truly immeasurable. Alex Bergman is a senior at the Academy of Information Technology and Engineering.

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We saw the project on Facebook and im- one of its newest programs, Achi, Hebrew for “my and developed Achi. this before, and I know more parents wish there was sparked an idea at Bi-Cultural Day School, transform- mediately thought that this would be a great idea brother.” Since this first relationship, two additional boys more of it to go around.” ing a sixth-grade hallway of lockers into a colorful for our school.” The program began when a young man met the have been paired with mentors trained by JFS. One The other Achi mentee is described by his parents shelf of giant books. Robinson then used social media herself as a way mother of an adolescent in the community, who boy is described by his parents as insightful and intel- as a hard worker who has been bullied, and is ex- In July, middle-school teacher Adrianne Robin- to rally her colleagues to assist: “I posted a message was concerned about her socially isolated son. The ligent, with a sense of humor, yet having a difficult tremely shy. After establishing the relationship, this son and third-grade teacher Beth Fritz saw a video to Facebook with a call to action for several of our young man and the adolescent boy met and a men- time making friends. The mother, teen and mentor teen is doing better than everyone expected and, with that a group of teachers from Biloxi Junior High teachers. In a matter of eight minutes, we had 23 tor/mentee relationship was formed, encouraged by worked out expectations for the relationship, and the mentor’s help, has learned how to communicate in Biloxi, MS, posted to Facebook describing their responses from teachers willing to contribute energy, the teen’s mother. During the course of that year, say the results have been most rewarding. Matt Greif, feelings that are now being received and heard. project of painting school lockers to resemble ideas and a little elbow grease to get the job done. the teen began to thrive with new-found self-esteem, the mentor, recalled, “The experience I’ve gotten Both relationships started out as a formal connec- the spines of books. While many teachers and Our teachers, like our students, thrive on innovation the ability to make friends and successfully plan for from the Achi program has been very fulfilling. Be- tion and blossomed into what the mentees consider students were enjoying the restful months of sum- and creativity.” college. The parent and the mentor approached JFS ing able to work with (this individual) has allowed a strong bond and friendship. mer, Robinson and her team began a large-scale Not only did teachers respond, but parents also Achi serves boys between the ages of 15 and 18 project, with literacy at the forefront. “As teachers, became excited about turning standard lockers who are not suffering from any major learning or we are constantly looking for ways to engage our into oversized books. Parent and Board of Trustees th spectrum disabilities, but battle with social skills defi- students,” she said. “Social media has been a great member Barbara Friedlander, who purchased much Carmel Academy’s 10 Graduating cits and/or bullying. The boys are matched to their of the supplies for the project and also assisted with mentors, for a relationship lasting six-12 months, the painting, saw the posting and wanted to join. and a commitment of bi-monthly meetings, under “It’s so important to support our students and staff. Class the guidance and supervision of JFS professional I felt it would boost morale and show that parents staff. Parents are involved initially to vet the men- and board members appreciate the thoughts and tor and then are provided with updates regarding ideas of our staff. I was so proud to have teachers who Some of the finished book cover lockers. activities and ongoing progress. All activities are were so willing to give their personal time to make parent approved. others happy,” said Friedlander. “Adrianne had the choosing Jewish content books and Hebrew-lan- Mentors are undergraduate or post-baccalaureate idea, I told her to get volunteers to do it and I would guage translations. (ages 19-25) from within the Jewish community. They be right there with them.” “We want the students to be excited about their are evaluated through applications, interviews, and In just a few days, the team of teachers gathered lockers and hope they see this as a legacy that they background and driving record checks. They must to begin the project, starting with painting the can pass down with pride year after year. We are also attend a comprehensive two-hour training, which bank of more than 60 lockers bright colors, and hopeful that this will ignite a conversation about includes safety parameters, communication skills and then reproducing the book cover illustrations literature. You can’t help but marvel at the books as sensitivity training, and the importance of building onto the metal lockers. Robinson explained that you walk down the new Literary Lane. We hope to trust through consistency. the team of teachers collaborated to showcase a see students compare the books that they’ve read For further information about Achi, contact Eve wide range of middle-school literature, including and provide recommendations to each other along Moskowitz, director of clinical services at Jewish Fam- classic literature and popular, current books, with the way,” said Robinson. ily Service, at 203-921-4161 or e-mail emoskowitz@ Teachers Beth Fritz and Adrianne Robinson painted a heavy emphasis on award-winning titles; many of Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United ctjfs.org. standard metal lockers to look like large book covers at Bi- the books selected being part of the school cur- Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Carmel Academy graduated its Class of 2015 on June 18, celebrating the school’s 10th commencement exercises. In Jewish Family Service is a recipient agency of United Cultural. (Photos by Dora Salm) riculum. The team also integrated Jewish literature, Darien. both Hebrew and English, the school’s graduates reflected on their graduation theme, “Unity and Friendship,” through Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and personal writings and song. Throughout the ceremony, the graduates shared their memories, as well as their aspirations Darien. for the future based on the foundation they received at Carmel. Eve Moskowitz is the JFS director of clinical services.

Prize Continued from page 1 with other schools across North America. explains Smart. “Masora’s emphasis is on the content, “It’s amazing to hear my fifth-grader talk about Bi-Cultural’s new Masora Program in Judaic meaning and relevance of the material. Lessons are Jewish issues and topics,” said BCDS parent Celia Of- Studies was presented at a competition in Florida interactive, hands-on, technologically based and most fir. “She really understands, has confidence and can by its co-creators, BCDS Director of Judaic Studies important, relevant to students’ lives.” discuss big Jewish ideas in a deep and serious way. Our The congregation of Michal Smart and teacher/administrator Rabbi Ye- “The curriculum is based on the ‘Understand- daughter is loving it, and so are we as parents.” May the year 5776 huda Jeiger. Competition judges were seeking “to ing by Design’ model, and built around eight or The Jewish Education Innovation Challenge states Temple Sinai in Stamford reward the most likely to succeed with the greatest nine ‘Big Ideas’ that are the essence of Jewish its mission as seeking “to improve the way Jewish bring peace and harmony potential to become a nationally utilized model for education, identity and experience,” Rabbi Jeiger values, literacy, practice and belief are transferred wishes its friends, neighbors Jewish education.” added. “The aim is enduring understanding for to the next generation.” “We are very excited to receive this prestigious our students.” Conversational Hebrew is another “For nearly 60 years innovation has been a core to the community of Stamford and the entire community award for innovation in Jewish education,” said Jac- element in the program, helping students master element of Bi-Cultural’s mission,” adds Robert queline Herman, Bi-Cultural’s principal and head practical vocabulary and build experience and Zitter, president of the Bi-Cultural Day School and the family of Israel a peaceful of school. “To put it simply, it’s a big deal.” confidence in fluency. Board of Trustees. “We are proud to be recognized The new Masora Program at Bi-Cultural, which Offered as an alternative to the school’s text-based among a field of eminent Jewish day schools in & was introduced in the fifth and sixth grades this Matmid learning program, Masora had 50 percent North America, for a program that continues the healthy year and will expand to seventh grade in September, participation this school year, Herman added. “Next longstanding tradition of educational excellence takes a new approach to traditional Torah study, year, two-thirds of our fifth grade students and parents at our school.” New Year Herman explained. have opted for this program. We prepare students in Bi-Cultural Day School is a recipient agency of United “In the Masora Program, Judaic Studies are inte- both tracks to enter the high school of their choice,” Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and 5776. grated rather than divided into discrete subjects,” Herman noted. Darien. 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford, Connecticut 203-322-1649 www.templesinaistamford.org Jeff Goldblum, Eric H. Koehler, President Chief Executive Officer

A L’SHANAH TOVAH Temple Beth El from Wishes the entire community A Healthy, Happy & Prosperous 5776 Joshua J. Hammerman, Rabbi Magda Fishman, Cantor Steven Lander, Executive Director Lisa Gittelman Udi, Director of Education & Youth Sidney G. Rabinowitz, Hazzan Emeritus Mia M. Weinstein, President Temple Beth El Rosh Hashanah Grtings 350 Roxbury Road • Stamford, CT 06902 from (203) 322-6901 • www.tbe.org CHECK OUT TBE ON FACEBOOK Ê 20 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 21 Teen and Adult Friendship Circle Boards Work Together A Hole in One for By Roger Lob Tisser and her Angelfish staff, game The Friendship Circle Board of room activities and dinner at Mike’s Carmel Directors and Friendship Circle Teen Café. In collaboration with the Jewish Board held their first joint meeting to Community Center, three more swim Have a sweet May the new year review accomplishments for 2014-15 nights are planned for the 2015-2016 new year! and begin planning for 2015-16. year. Eric Koehler, chief executive of- Friendship Circle Executive Direc- ficer of the JCC commented, “As we be the start tor Malya Shmotkin commented, “I’m reflect back on the beginnings of the of only the delighted for the adult board to see the JCC almost 100 years ago, our founders passion and energy of the Teen Board knew that it was critically important sweetest things! members. The teens are an integral part to ensure that the JCC was a second of our planning process. Their input home and central point for everyone Edith Samers & is invaluable in helping us improve in the community. Those sentiments Joan & Howie our programming to serve the special are just as important today as they were Breslow Edward Smith needs community.” a hundred years ago.” According to Mira Schildkraut, “Be- Program initiatives planned ing part of the Teen Board has given for the 2015-2016 year include The Friendship Circle teen and adult boards: Lauren Zalis, Julie Rosenberg, Joshua me a greater understanding of all increased programming for adults Levine, Natalie Shclover, Brian Roitman, Tamar Cohen, David Wayne, Mira Schildkraut, the behind the scenes planning that with special needs, a woman’s retreat Hannah Kriftcher, Fred Springer, Samantha Schechter, Susan Mark, Jason Nekritz, Roger helps make the programs a success. I for moms to get away and recharge, Lob, Doron Feller, Tanya Barton and Malya Shmotkin. appreciate that the Friendship Circle and three Friendship Circle Satur- staff reviews and values the feedback day morning Shabbat services that we give.” will be inclusive and modified for Kriftcher Continued from page 3 Carmel Academy’s Golf Classic on June 8 was called a In addition to its signature Friends the special needs community. and improvements to the JCC facility. post-conflict regions around the world, hole in one for the school. The annual event held at the at Home Program, which pairs two Fred Springer, chairman of the Since 2008, Kriftcher has also been including the Middle East. Kriftcher GlenArbor Golf Club in Bedford Hills. A day of golf was Lisa and James Cohen teenagers with a special needs child, Friendship Circle Board of Directors, a member of the Board of Directors of recently completed his first season followed by a cocktail reception, awards dinner and raffle. May peace, the Friendship Circle expanded its said he felt energized by the joint meet- the intercontinental Jewish Community coaching the girls’ varsity basketball L-r: Seth Jonas, Josh Levine, Rabbi David-Seth Kirshner happiness, and Jonathan and Dahlia outreach efforts this year to include an ing: “I am constantly impressed by the Centers Association. team at Westhill High School, fol- and Jeff Manheim. adult bowling league and a swim party commitment, compassion and maturity Following a successful career on Wall lowing four years as the boys’ varsity good health hosted at the Stamford Jewish Com- of these young adults. I am confident Street, Kriftcher founded the Stamford head coach at St. Luke’s School in be with you munity Center. Teen Board member that we are developing the future lead- Peace Basketball Club in 2008. The or- New Canaan. throughout the Jason Nekritz reported, “The swim ers of our community.” ganization uses the game of basketball Kriftcher’s wife, Jeannie, is herself New Year. May you be party was an amazing evening for both The Friendship Circle is a recipient agency as a means of positively influencing a past recipient of the Hyacinthe and the teens and volunteers.” It included of United Jewish Federation of Greater and enhancing opportunities for local Harold Hoffman Humanitarian Award. BARBARA & LARRY MILLER AND FAMILY inscribed in the swimming lessons provided by Ailene Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. inner city youth. They live in Stamford with their daugh- Book of Life Kriftcher serves as the global chair- ters, Hannah (17), Charlotte (15), and man of the Board of Directors of Peace- Sophie (12). for good health,  Do you LOVE to read? Players International, an organization The Jewish Community Center is a peace, and prosperity. that uses the game of basketball to recipient agency of United Jewish Federation  Do you LOVE to be around children? bridge divides among children and of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Marsha Shendell & Family  Are you looking for a WAY to contribute? communities in various conflict and Darien. Wishing the entire community a Join our corps of 125 volunteers as a READING PARTNER! JBS Continued from page 3 L-r: Carmel Academy parents volunteered at the school’s Happy Rosh Hashanah. Please contact: Marlyn Agatstein, Director of Reading Partners was included in an anthology published Fisher, Jan Peerce (z’l) and Itzhak Annual Golf Classic. In back (l-r): Julia Brennan and at [email protected] or 203-321-1373 x115 May the New Year by SUNY Press.” Perlman, Tovah Feldshuh and Fyvush Lynn Jablowsky. Front row (l-r): Jamie Kesmodel, Alix Field Joan & Irwin Hochberg and United Jewish Federation The longest-running public affairs Finkel, Jackie Mason and Peter Yar- Eben, Bonnie Citron and Dana Roth. bring you of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien program in the history of American row; and Rabbis Shlomo Riskin and The Zinbarg Family B77 TB7G7 Jewry, “L’Chayim” has given its audi- Gene Borowitz, Harold Schulweis peace, health, ence the opportunity to hear in-depth (z’l) and David Hartman (z’l), Yitz Tent Continued from page 3 conversations with a galaxy of Jewish Greenberg and David Wolpe, Uri to narrate her life story, when her 22-year-old grand- and joy! “stars” such as Abba Eban (z’l) and Regev and Sara Hurwitz; and count- daughter asked her how she got to be the woman she May the new year Yitzhak Rabin (z’l), Chaim Potok (z’l) less others on the world Jewish stage became. Born in 1900 in Boston, Addie’s immigrant be the start and Joseph Heller (z’l), Ari Shavit and who are helping to shape Jewish life parents were not prepared for life in America, and Meryl and David Gordon Yossi Klein Halevi, Alan Dershowitz today and for the future. they were quite suspicious of “modern times” for their of only the and Jeremy Ben Ami, Peter Beinart To watch JBS programs, tune into three daughters. They did not understand a world sweetest things! and Mordechai Kedar, Joy Levitt and Optimum Channel 138. “L’Chayim” where women could wear short skirts, go to movies Betty Ehrenberg, Meir Kahane (z’l) airs Monday through Thursday at 9 and imitate what they saw in celebrity culture. Addie’s and Moshe Arens, Jane Eisner and pm, with encores at midnight and 3 parents were particularly puzzled by the new opportu- Cheryl Bader, Stephen, SHANA Abigail Pogrebin, David Harris and pm the following day. “L’Chayim” also nities for women. Addie’s story is the tale of a woman Rachel, Daniel and Evan Goldblum Malcolm Hoenlein, Abe Foxman and airs on Saturdays at 6 pm and Sundays trying to find her way through the opportunities and TOVA Russell Robinson, Jerry Silverman at noon and 7 pm. “L’Chayim” can be challenges of 20th century America. and Mort Klein, Ruth Messinger and viewed online by visiting the JBS You- Before creating her novels, which also include Rabbi Moshe & Leah Phyllis Chesler, Michael Melchior Tube Channel. “Day After Night,” Diamant worked as a freelance May you have a sweet, Tzemach, Mussie, Shternie, and Charles Small, Yehudah Sarna The Simon Rockower Award was journalist, writing for the Boston Globe, Boston Maga- Levi, Yisroel, Shaina, Rivka & and Thane Rosenbaum, Steve Bayme established in 1979 by the children zine, New England Monthly, Yankee, Self, Parenting, happy and healthy New Year! Gavriel Shemtov and Steven Cohen, Eric Yoffie and Isi of Simon Rockower and is given for Parents, McCall’s and Ms. Her interest in contem- Leibler, Jeffrey Gurock and Deborah “Excellence in Jewish Journalism.” The porary Jewish practice led her to produce articles Dash Moore, Micah Halpern and award is sponsored by the American for Reform Judaism Magazine, Hadassah Magazine Mark Langfan; David Broza and Dudu Jewish Press Association. and jewishfamily.com. Her books about Jewish life May the sound of and Jewish lifecycle events have found an audience in the contemporary Jewish world. “The New Jewish the shofar bring peace and Wedding” was just the first of these handbooks, which include “The New Jewish Baby Book” and “Living a David & Lorraine Kweskin good health to us all! Jewish Life: Jewish Traditions, Customs and Values for Today’s Families.” From Brooklyn to Boston, Diamant has lived in May you be inscribed many parts of the United States. She was born in Brooklyn, grew up in Newark, went to high school in the Book of Life in Denver, attended college at Washington Univer- for good health, Nancy, Gadi, Michael and Bari Mimoun sity in St. Louis, attended graduate school at Bing- hamton University, and finally moved to Boston in peace, and 1975. Diamant is the founding president of Mayyim prosperity. Hayyim, Living Waters Community Mikveh and Education Center in Newton, MA. At the Center, Wishing everyone she has helped make the ancient Jewish tradition of L’Shana Tova a happy, healthy ritual immersion, the mikvah, relevant for the Jewish to our and sweet community of today. community, New Year! For questions about the program, contact Marcie Shoshana, Schoenfeld at 203-359-9148 or [email protected]. For Olivia, Joshua Ellen & additional information, visit website http://jhsfc-ct.org. 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ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 22 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 23 Carmel Academy Opens Transitional Kindergarten Program France Continued from page 1 for the pain that comes with loss.” “We’re grateful to police and the army businessman who was born in Sousse, By Julie Lapin creativity, educational philosophy and been asking for a transitional kin- National Association for the Educa- Defiance is a common reaction for protecting us,” said the mother, Tunisia – the scene of a massacre of Carmel Academy is expanding its understanding of how to encourage dergarten to round out our early tion of Young Children (or NAEYC) among many French Jews to the growth who declined to give her name because 38 people in June by an Islamic ter- early childhood division this September learning in young children is extraor- childhood offerings.” and incorporates Bank Street and of violent antisemitism that has been she said doing so might endanger her rorist who targeted Western tourists with a transitional kindergarten pro- dinary. Julie is one of those teachers Transitional kindergarten bridges Reggio Emilia approaches to early building for years and culminated at the children. “But I can’t leave my kids at a – Fitoussi has lived in France for five gram. Early childhood educator Julie whose influence remains with her preschool and kindergarten, and childhood learning. shop on January 9. But there is real and school that needs military protection. I decades. “I love France, it gave me so Thaler is returning to Carmel Academy students for life. gives students a head start that can For information about limited fall palpable fear that the Hyper Cacher can’t do my shopping like this.” much,” he said during an interview to spearhead the new program as the “Carmel Academy’s transitional yield future academic success. The openings, contact Daneet Brill at attack will turn out to be a watershed It is not yet known what effect the inside Hyper Cacher, where shelves lead teacher. kindergarten program is some- program plans to provide students 203-983-3503 or daneet.brill@carmel- moment for the Jews of France – one Hyper Cacher shootings will have are stocked with Israeli imports and a “We are thrilled to welcome Julie thing we are proud to offer the with a strong foundation for success academy.com. that accelerated already record immi- on Jewish school enrollment. Roger Security stood guard outside the kosher year-round supply of Badatz-certified Thaler back to our faculty,” said community,” Anderson said. “Our in elementary school. Carmel Academy is a recipient agency gration to Israel, caused a sharp drop Cukierman, president of the CRIF supermarket in Paris where four Jews were matzah. “But what happened here, Carmel Academy Head of School parents love our kindergarten and The program’s project-based cur- of United Jewish Federation of Greater in sales at kosher shops and introduced umbrella of French Jewish groups, said murdered in January in a hostage siege I can’t take it anymore. I can’t live Nora Anderson. “Her exceptional first-grade programs, and have riculum follows the standards of the Stamford, New Canaan and Darien. new levels of anxiety to the lives of the two months before the kosher market by an Islamist gunman. (Photo by Serge like this.” Jews who stayed. attack that while some Jewish parents Attal/Flash90) Like many French Jews, Fitoussi, who Yvan Lellouche, a founder of the fear sending their children to at-risk, resides in an affluent district of Paris, Negev’s First Class of Social Business Entrepreneurs Union of Kosher Consumers of France, private Jewish schools, antisemitism takes care to always wear a hat over his which advocates for the distribution also means they are hesitant about kippah when he walks to synagogue on and consumption of kosher food, spoke enrolling them in public ones. Many Shabbat, so as not to be identified as Sets Sights on Israel’s Future of “a sharp drop in traffic at kosher emigrate or opt for Catholic schools. Jewish and invite attack. Last year, of the By Megan E. Turner for Israeli entrepreneurs exchanging ward-thinking tenants – entrepreneurs shops” in the Paris area since January Another longtime Hyper Cacher 851 hate crimes against Jews recorded JNS.org ideas for the future. The clinking of whose passion is instantly evident. The compared to the corresponding period shopper who, citing business rea- by the Jewish community, 241 were Under a beautiful desert sky during glasses and bustling, cheery atmo- first words coming from HaMeitz pro- last year. The union does not compile sons, identified himself only by his violent attacks. The previous year, the a recent evening in Be’er Sheva, a new sphere marked the debut of HaMeitz, gram coordinator Maor Elkayam were, statistics, but Lellouche said anecdotal surname, Fitoussi, said the carnage figures were 423 and 105, respectively. initiative presented the Negev region’s a social enterprise and small business “It’s so nice to meet you – do you have evidence suggested sales were down earlier this year – 12 were killed by But in June, Fitoussi was called first organized class of social business accelerator that is the first program any ideas for future projects?” as much as 40 percent. “We’ve seen an Islamist at a satirical French news- The scene outside the Hyper Cacher kosher “dirty Jew” on the street on his way to entrepreneurs to the greater public. of the PresenTense entrepreneurship The introduction of HaMeitz’s 2015 a decrease in traffic at Jewish shops paper, two days prior to the kosher market on January 12 as Israeli Prime synagogue even though he was wearing The Lauder Employment Center, initiative in southern Israel. Entrepreneur Class began with remarks until Passover, when it picked up again market attack – triggered his deci- Minister Benjamin Netanyahu paid his a hat. “They are looking for us now,” which is the brainchild of Jewish The employment center facility from Be’er Sheva’s deputy mayor, Tal back to normal levels,” said Lellouche, sion to move with his wife to Israel respects to the victims of the terrorist attacks. he said, “and the more we hide, the businessman, philanthropist, and or- Jewish National Fund Chairman and itself reflects Be’er Sheva’s character Elal, who said, “Be’er Sheva is the city whose acts as a liaison between kosher later this year. A Sephardic Jewish (Photo by Aurelien Meunier/Getty Images) closer they will look.” ganizational leader Ronald S. Lauder World Jewish Congress President Ronald S. through a blend of tradition and of opportunity. shop owners and French police. “Then – chairman of the Jewish National Lauder spoke at the opening of the Lauder modernity, featuring an architectural “The Negev is the future of Israel,” the peak was over and the decrease Fund and president of the World Jew- Employment Center in Be’er Sheva, Israel, style that is a throwback to Israel’s era Elal added, invoking the sentiments continued.” ish Congress – served as the backdrop in March. (Photo courtesy of JNF) of Ottoman rule for the building’s for- See “Negev” on page 25 Not all of the approximately 20 shops in the Hyper Cacher supermarket chain have such tight police protection. Yet following the attack in January, the French government assigned a total of 10,412 soldiers and policemen to guard hundreds of Jewish schools, syna- gogues and other Jewish institutions. Hundreds of additional uniformed and plainclothes personnel patrol what they consider high-risk areas – in other words, areas where many Jews live. The Paris region is home to about 350,000 Jews, or about 70 percent of the 500,000 Jews living in France. In December and January, bullet holes from an air gun were found on the walls of two kosher restaurants in Paris. The previous month, a kosher sushi restaurant was firebombed in Paris’ heavily Jewish 17th arrondisse- ment, or district. “I say this with pain but, frankly, I’d be very worried if my children worked at a kosher shop,” said Lellouche, a father of five. Staff at the Hyper Cacher loca- tion targeted in the attack and their counterparts at Charles Traiteur, the adjacent kosher deli, said they have not seen a significant decrease in their sales. But Yaakov Deri, who owns the La Boucherie Gourmet deli, which is situated across the road from Hyper Cacher, needs no spreadsheet to con- firm a slowdown. Sales, he said, have dropped drastically since January. “I’m feeling it in my pocket,” he said. “Some of my customers dart in and leave as soon as possible, wanting to spend as little time as possible in a place they regard as dangerous.” Also impacting kosher shop sales: shoppers organizing discount bulk purchases of kosher food from abroad and, of course, the depar- ture for Israel of at least 20,000 Jews since 2008. Some 70 percent of those emigres left after 2012, when a jihad- ist killed four Jews, including three children, at a Jewish school in the southern city of Toulouse. The Jewish Agency for Israel, which facilitates Jewish immigration to Israel, is expecting about 8,000 French Jews to arrive this year. It would set a new record over last year’s all-time mark of 6,668 newcomers – the highest number that year from any country. Among those preparing to leave this summer is a young mother who came on July 7 to shop at Hyper Cacher, perhaps for the last time as a French resident. ÊVisit www.ujf.org, facebook.com/stamfordFederation, or tweet UJF at ujfstamford 24 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 25 Book pitches WWII as Part of Hank Greenberg’s Legacy Negev Continued from page 22 of Israel’s first prime minister, David socially aimed products and services in – Learning to Swim in Hura, focuses with cognitive disabilities. “How do you a year, Greenberg was honorably dis- By Jacob Kamaras Front in WWII” – is about much more Ben-Gurion. pitches of no longer than 20 seconds. on teaching Bedouin children and explain to someone who can’t tell time charged on December 5, 1941, two days JNS.org than Greenberg. Yet the Hall-of-Fame Member of Knesset Erel Margalit An “infectious sense of pride” rippled youths how to swim. In their pitch, that they should wait 10 minutes in a before Japan’s attack on Pearl Harbor. Baseball fans might most vividly re- first baseman and outfielder, who won (Labor) built upon the theme of through the crowd for the ideas, entrepreneurs Yael and Arik pointed protected space after a rocket siren?” In a statement of epic proportions, member Hank Greenberg for his chase two Most Valuable Player awards and two increased attention for Israel’s south which were aimed at enhancing the out that “20 percent of deaths from Ornit Avidan-Zeev asked in her pitch. Greenberg voluntarily re-enlisted in of Babe Ruth’s single-season home run World Series championships with the by pointing out that both eBay and Negev region and helping southern drowning in Israel are from the “Try telling them to wait the length of the Army Air Corps immediately after record in 1938 and his other impres- Detroit Tigers, is the centerpiece. PayPal will be opening their develop- Israelis continue to live there in the Bedouin sector,” and that through four songs, instead.” the attack and did not return to Major sive exploits on the field. The smaller “I had wanted to write a baseball and ment centers in Be’er Sheva. “The long run. their professional knowledge and The institute – whose motto is “Slow League Baseball until the summer of universe of Jewish baseball fans may World War II book, and I didn’t like how time has come for a different way of One of the projects presented, their business model, they plan on and Simple is Also Accessibility” – aims 1945. Baseball’s highest-paid player remember him for sitting out a crucial any of them had been done before,” thinking,” said Margalit, who added Desert Language, is an arts studio building a public swimming pool in to create easy-to-understand materials before the war, Greenberg was the first game on Yom Kippur decades before Klima says in an interview. “I thought remarks on his belief that Israel should that teaches and encourages youths to Hura, which is a small-yet-flourish- through the use of simple language, Major Leaguer to enlist, becoming the Sandy Koufax would do the same. But they were all textbooks, or I thought they shift its emphasis from developing the engage in creative artistic techniques ing Bedouin community of about organization and pictures. face of an era that – with conscription author John Klima wants readers of any were rehashes of newspaper articles, and center of the country to developing using natural materials from the sur- 15,000 people. The project also Overall, HaMeitz’s first class of depleting baseball of much of its top-tier background to know the unsung story I didn’t think there was anything narra- the Jewish state’s next hi-tech center rounding desert. The teenagers then plans to give swimming lessons to entrepreneurs underscored the talent – forever changed the MLB and of Greenberg’s World War II service. tive. So if I was going to do something in Be’er Sheva. take these skills and teach various after- Hura’s youths. multifaceted potential of the Negev the entire American professional sports As indicated by its title, Klima’s recent- long-form and narrative, then I needed a Next up were the pitches of the school programs all over the region for Meanwhile, the Israeli Institute for region and the ongoing migration landscape, Kima’s book argues. ly published book – “The Game Must character people could connect with, and Hank Greenberg in his baseball (left) and entrepreneurs themselves. Each in- disadvantaged children. Cognitive Accessibility project address- of power, energy, and ideas toward “What you found out about Hank Go On: Hank Greenberg, Pete Gray and that character was Hank Greenberg.” military uniforms. (Photo provided by dividual or team summarized their Another project, called Revealed es a security need for southern Israelis Israel’s south. the Great Days of Baseball on the Home After an initial Army stint of half Greenberg was that he really repre- JNS) sented everything to everyone, and he represented everything to the Jewish that clinched the American League people before the war, during the war pennant on the last day of the season. July/August/September 2015 and after the war,” Klima tells JNS.org. The Tigers later defeated the Chicago “And then the rest of the country, even Cubs in the World Series. 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Upon Greenberg’s return to baseball a few moments” during the same game Woods Road, Fairfield. No. Fee. Co-sponsored by the Federation of Jewish Qualified, experienced assistance provided by Claire D. Friedlander, JFS in 1945, he hit a grand-slam home run See “Greenberg” on page 26 Philanthropy of Upper Fairfield County. Moderated by Claire D. Friedlander, JFS College Consultant. Competitive fees. For more information, contact Claire College Consultant. For more information, contact, Claire D. Friedlander at Friedlander at (203- 921-4161 or [email protected]. [email protected] or call 203-921-4161. JFS Community and Family Mediation Services JCC Support Group for Blind and Visually Impaired Adults Use third party mediator to help families/individuals resolve conflict. Nominal Thursdays, Sept. 17, Oct. 22, 1-2 pm at the Stamford JCC. No Fee. For more fees - available on a sliding scale. Resolve conflicts such as unsatisfactory info: Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. purchase or repair, landlord dispute, neighbor conflicts, issues with children, marital partners and divorce. For information, contact Eve Moskowitz at 203- What’s On for Adults CARING FOR SENIORS 9211-4161 or [email protected]. September & October 2015 JFS Counseling JFS Caregiver Support Group Qualified, licensed professionals provide counseling and psychotherapy to BEGINNERS’ ADULT HEBREW Jewish High School of Connecticut – Meet Rabbi Elisha Paul Sundays at 10:30 am with facilitator, Rona Wall, LCSW at JFS Westport, 431 individuals, children, adolescents, families, couples and groups. For emotional Wednesdays, 6:30- 7:30 pm with Fran Schechter. Fee: $180. This course will Welcome Rabbi Paul, New Head of School on Tuesday, September 8 at 9 am at Post Road E. Fee: $10 per session or $50 for 6 sessions. Do you find yourself support while unemployed, see Life Transitions below. Affordable fees, follow the school calendar. Fee: $180.00. Contact 203-322-1649 for more information. 1937 West Main Street, Stamford. Contact 203-357-0850 for more information. stressed between the needs of your children and your parents? JFS will offer based on income; no one is “turned away”. Insurance accepted. For more BEGINNERS’ TORAH STUDY an open forum to provide support and help in dealing with the difficulties and information, contact JFS at 203 921-4161. stresses of caring for your loved ones. Groups will be held at the JFS Westport Taught by Rabbi Jay TelRav, Cantor Micah Morgovsky and Amy Ritell JHS Program - The Boston Girl JFS Individuals / Families in Crisis office, 431 Post Road E, Westport. Rona Wall, LCSW will facilitate. For more Wednesday, Sept. 2 - 7:00 pm with Anita Diamant best selling author from the Comprehensive services. Assistance with basic necessities, housing, medical, social, Fridays, 12:00-1:00pm with Rabbi Jay TelRav, Cantor Micah Morgovsky and Amy information or to register, contact Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or rkanef- New York Times of The Red Tent and Day After Night at the Bennett Library, legal and financial matters. Fees based on ability to pay. For more information, Ritell. Bring your lunch. No Fee. Contact 203-322-1649 for more information. [email protected]. 115 Vine Road, Stamford, CT. Free and open to the public. Co-sponsored by contact: Rebekah Kanefsky at 203- 921-4161 #128 or [email protected]. Bible Study with Rabbi Eugene Borowitz the Jewish Historical Society of Fairfield County and the Harry Bennett Library. JFS Home Companion Saturdays, 9 am at Temple Sinai. No Fee. Contact 203-322-1649 for more information. Contact 203-321-1373 x 150 (leave message) for more information. A program placing fully trained and vetted home companions and CNAs DIVORCE & BEREAVEMENT “Supervised Bridge” at the JCC JHS October Program - Know Your Legacy matched to the needs and specific circumstances of senior clients. Trained aides Mondays, Oct. 12-Nov. 16 • 11 am-1 pm. “supervised” lesson • 1-3 pm free play. assist seniors with daily activities, chores, and socialization. Certified Nursing JFS Bereavement Support Group Sunday, Oct. 11 • 9:30 am-1:00 pm with Joseph Kaplan and Sam Uhl at Members $54 / Community $66 (6 sessions). Registration required by Sept. 24. Assistants can provide personal care, toileting, and medication management. Tuesdays at 10:30 am. Free of charge. Are you searching for a safe haven to Stamford JCC. Fee: $18 (includes brunch) and open to the community. Contact Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. Services are provided hourly, daily or up to 24/7 at competitive rates. Full su- explore your thoughts and feelings about grief? JFS provides an environment 203-321-1373 x 150 (leave message) for more information. of emotional, physical and spiritual support. For more information, contact Brunch and Learn with JCC Shaliach Or Berger pervision by professional JFS staff. For more information contact Isrella Knopf, JWC Women’s Luncheon in the Sukkah Director of Senior Services at JFS at 203-921-4161 or email at [email protected]. Rosemarie Delia at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. Sundays, 10-11:30 am • Sept. 20, Oct. 18 • Free of charge. Contact Or Berger at (For Women). Thursday, Oct. 1 • 11:03 am – 1 pm • JWC Members FREE; Non 203-487-0961 or [email protected]. JFS Residential Cleaning Parent Education Program (PEP) Members $15. State-mandated workshop for divorcing parents with children at JFS Stamford. Learn to Crochet at the JCC Employ professionally trained individuals to clean your home and at the same time help support Jewish Family Service. Rates lower or competitive than Fee is $125 per person. Call for date and to register at 203-324-3167. Tuesdays, 1-2 pm. Member $24 / Community $30 plus cost of materials (pur- Judaica Needlework - The Kesher Chapter of the Pomegranate other service providers. For more information, contact Jodi Maxner at 203- chased separately). (3 sessions). Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at JFS Focus on K.I.D.S. Guild of Judaic Needlework 921-4161 or [email protected]. 203-487-0983 or [email protected] Second Sunday of each month, Sept. 13, Oct. 11 • 10 am-12 pm at the JCC. Con- For divorced or separated parents experiencing high conflict around parenting decisions. Teaches both parents strategies for communicating in a non-hostile manner. Fairfield University 2015 Session tact [email protected] or visit www.pomegranateguild.org. Jewish Senior Services Jewish Senior Services is one of the premiere providers of senior care in Con- For more information, contact Erika Garcia at (203) 921-4161 or [email protected]. American Jewry’s Historical and Contemporary Scoreboard Kinnus Torah Thursday, Oct. 1 • 7:30 pm in the Aloysius P. Kelley, S.J. Center Presentation necticut serving clients at their two Fairfield locations and in clients’ homes JFS New Beginnings Wednesday, Sept. 30 at 7:45 pm. Contact 203-3-CHABAD for more information. Tuesdays from 7:30-8:30 pm in Stamford. Fee: $10/session or $50/for 6 ses- Room, at Fairfield University. For further information: www.fairfield.edu/bennett throughout Fairfield and New Haven Counties. Their 5-star skilled nursing and short term rehabilitation facility has been serving the community for over 40 sions. For adults who would like to discuss all aspects of separation and di- Daniel Pearl World Music Days Concert Learn to Play Mah Jongg at the JCC years with an unparalleled level of quality and personalized care. Other servic- vorce, JFS will provide a support group in the JFS Stamford office, 733 Summer Thursday, Oct. 20 • 7:30 pm at the Regina A. Quick Center for the Arts. For fur- Thursdays, 1-3 pm. Member $25 / Community $35 (5 sessions). Contact Connie es provided include home care, hospice, day services, advocacy and education, Street, 6th Floor. To register, please contact Rebekah Kanefsky at rkanefsky@ ther information: www.fairfield.edu/bennett Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected] and long term care protection. To find out more about the many services of ctjfs.org or call 203-921-4161. Israel Folk Dancing Jewish Senior Services, please call 203-365-6400 or visit www.jseniors.org. Connect with Israel while reaping the mental and physical benefits of dance. Light, Lunch & Learn Lecture Series at UConn-Stamford kosher refreshments. For other locations and schedule, go to www.ctisraelidance.com. See Page 7 for Lecture Series Information. SUPPORT EMPLOYMENT & TRAINING Come Play Mah Jongg MEDITATION AS A PATH TO MINDFUL LIVING JFS Brain Fitness Program JFS Computer Training Courses Monday evenings, 6:30- 9:00pm st Temple Sinai. No Fee but bring your own mah Sunday, Oct. 25 at 10 am at Temple Sinai. Taught by Dr. Wynd Harris. No Fee. Working with clients experiencing early stage dementia or Alzheimer’s in Variety of courses - all levels, individuals or small groups. Nominal fee. For jongg card. For more information, contact the Temple office at 203-322-1649. Contact 203-322-1649 for more information. the client’s home. Each volunteer will work with an aide or family member more information, contact Ilene Locker at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. High for the High Holidays with Chabad TM Neshama Yoga at the JCC present. For more information about the program or to participate, please JFS Life Transitions For Men & Women. Thursday, Sept. 17. Tashlich ceremony at 6:30 pm followed by contact Matt Greenberg at 203-921-4161 or [email protected] Fridays, Sept. 11-Dec. 18 (no class Nov. 27) • 9-10:30 am. Members $252/ Wednesdays at 11:00 am. Support group for the unemployed at Stamford JFS class at 7 pm at the Graber’s Deck. FREE. Contact 203-3-Chabad for information. Community $294 (14 sessions). Contact 203-322-7900 for more information. JFS Kosher Food Pantry office. The groups will provide a forum to discuss and explore the concerns Intro to Judaism – Not Only for Non-Jews & Jews-by-Choice! NESHAMA YOGATM Non-perishable staples for those in need. Donations welcomed. For more and issues related to job loss and to find alternative solutions for career information, contact JFS at 203-921-4161. satisfaction. The group is a collaborative effort between JFS Counseling and Wednesdays, 7:00-8:30 pm, Oct. 14–Mar. 30. Taught by Rabbi TelRav (Temple Neshama Yoga™ • Wednesdays, Oct. 7, 14, 21, 28 • 6:30-8 pm at Temple Sinai Employment & Training Departments. For Information or to register, please Sinai) & Rabbi Hammerman (Temple Beth El) with occasional guest presenters. Sanctuary. Taught by Jackie Tepper. Contact 203-322-1649 for more information. Living with Autism Fee: $180 and includes all materials (including books). Contact Jayne Vasco at contact Rebekah Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or [email protected]. Tefillin Club Time and Location TBA. Interested in joining a support group sharing the joys 203-322-1649 for more information. and challenges of living with Autism Spectrum Disorders? JFS will be launch- JFS Seniors2Work (For men and kids). Begins Sept. 6. Sundays, 8-9 am at Chabad. Jewish Arts & Film Festival of Fairfield County ing a new group facilitated by a professional in this field. For more details, Job Bank for age 50+. Lower Fairfield employers can list full/part time jobs for Saturday, October 24 – Sunday, Nov. 1. Contact Nancy Schiffman at UConn-Stamford Fall Courses contact Eve Moskowitz, JFS Director of Clinical Services at 203-921-4161 or dedicated, skilled mature workers. No fees. For more information, contact 203-487-0941 or [email protected]. For schedule, see details on page 16 [email protected]. Ilene Locker or Jodi Maxner at 203-921-4161 or www.seniors2work.org 26 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015 september 2015 ■ THE NEW JEWISH VOICE 27 Greenberg Continued from page 25 Birthday Continued from page 1 Greenberg won with his historic home run. what Hank knows is right. That’s really the essence account was a dramatic story from June 1944, when and be part of the social fabric of the Co-chairs Robin Frederick and Kim “This was the image of baseball in World War II,” of Greenberg, and I think that’s why people are still he was part of a ground crew trying to rescue a plane JCC Maccabi Experience. Schweber; and Centennial Commit- Klima writes. “The serviceman was thanking the drawn to him. That’s why I’m drawn to him. He’s that developed engine trouble and could not get The Stamford JCC Maccabi Games tee Co-chairs Maxine Freilich and temporary worker for keeping the factory humming got tunnel-vision for the right thing.” airborne. The bombs on the plane exploded during and ArtsFest will take place from Rich Vogel. while he was on. The hero got his life back. The re- Klima writes that Greenberg, after hitting the pen- the rescue effort, nearly killing Greenberg. August 7-12, 2016, at various venues For more information, visit placement was swept out the door. Hank seemed to nant-winning home run, “swore he heard one of the “I was stunned and couldn’t talk or hear for a throughout Stamford and around stamfordjcc.org. BI-CULTURAL DAY SCHOOL (BCDS): realize what few others could, that both of them had infielders mutter, ‘Goddamn that dirty Jew bastard, he couple days, but was otherwise undamaged,” Green- Fairfield County. More than 1,000 visit- The Jewish Community Center is a 2186 High Ridge Road, Stamford 06903 • (203) 329-2186 • helped win the war in their own different ways.” beat us again.’ He savored the thought of the Wash- berg says, according to the book. “The miraculous ing athletes and artists are expected recipient agency of United Jewish Federation Indeed, while players such as Greenberg made ington Senators (who lost the pennant because of the part of it all was that the entire crew escaped. Some to participate alongside 300-400 local of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and www.bcds.org their contributions on the battlefield, the likes of Tigers’ win that day) sitting around a hotel room listen- of them were pretty well banged up, but no one was teens, in what many of the young par- Darien. Gray kept the game alive on the baseball field and ing to his grand slam on the radio, calling him every killed. That was an occasion, I can assure you, when ticipants often describe as the experi- BBYO - Leviticus AZA (Boys) and Tikvah BBG (Girls): boosted both Americans’ morale at home and sol- dirty Jew name in the book, and he loved the thought I didn’t wonder whether or not I’d be able to return ence of a lifetime. The New Jewish Voice Regional Office (203) 389-2127 or [email protected] • diers’ morale overseas. of how angry his home run must have made them.” to baseball. I was quite satisfied to be alive.” On Sunday, September 20, the JCC www.cvrbbyo.net Greenberg’s gesture in the season-ending game “Hank was hearing ‘dirty Jew bastard’ all the way While Greenberg would not “make a big deal” will host a JCC Maccabi kick-off event “The New Jewish Voice” (USPS #189) is published monthly by the United Jewish Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and against the St. Louis Browns – which was also Gray’s through the end of his career. He didn’t talk about it after out of his military service publicly, Klima says, it “was from 1:30-4 pm, at which the communi- Darien Inc., 1035 Newfield Ave., Stamford, CT 06905-2521. final MLB game – “was as grand as any home run he the 1930s, but he still heard it. The big leagues were a something he cared about immensely. ty is invited to experience Maccabi-style CARMEL ACADEMY: www.ujf.org for updates and donations ever hit,” writes Klima. rough, nasty place,” Klima says, adding that the Washing- “He took great pride in it,” says the author. “He sports activities, engage in arts activities, 270 Lake Avenue, Greenwich 06830 • (203) 863-9663 • “That was a very symbolic moment,” Klima tells JNS. ton Senators were a particularly “antisemitic bunch.” didn’t need any adulation for it and I actually didn’t play on inflatables, enjoy refreshments Ellen Weber...... President www.carmelacademy.com org. “I don’t like doing my baseball histories the way other Kilma believes Greenberg “took a lot of joy in write the book to hero-worship him. I wrote the and more. Volunteers will be on hand James A. Cohen...... Chief Executive Officer people do. I like moments that tie things together.” triumphing over bigots,” but “would never say it to book because it was a good story, and he’s the rock to talk about ways to become involved Advisory Committee CHABAD HOUSE: Gray and Greenberg both endured hate, the you” and “would always let his actions speak louder that you could build it around. So that’s sort of my in the Games and ArtsFest, includ- Meryl Gordon...... Chair former for his physical disability and the latter over than his words.” compromise with Hank.” ing joining the Stamford delegation, Meryl Japha, Nancy Schulman, Sue Yellen 770 High Ridge Road, Stamford 06905 • 203-3-CHABAD #102 Reiterating how Greenberg’s actions spoke louder volunteering, becoming a host family, • Leah Shemtov: [email protected] • his Jewish faith. On the field with Gray that day, Greenberg was also understated about his military Reporter Group Staff Greenberg’s character shone through. service, which was highlighted by his time in the than words, Klima says, “If you walked up to Hank sponsorship opportunities and more. The Reporter Group edits and publishes The New Jewish Voice. www.chabadstamford.org “Hank had a very deep integrity about him that China Burma India Theater region with the first and said, ‘Tell me about how you’re standing up for “Once in a great while, a mo- Rabbi Rachel Esserman...... Executive Editor Diana Sochor...... Layout Editor transcended everything he did on the field,” Klima group of Boeing B-29 Superfortress aircraft dur- the Jewish people,’ Hank would probably demur. But ment of incredible opportunity CHAVURAT AYTZ CHAYIM: says. “When Hank found these moments of integrity, ing the bombing campaign against Japan. But one if you watched him in his everyday life, you would arrives for institutions like ours,” Michael Nassberg...... Assistant Editor Jenn DePersis...... Production Coordinator 203-322-6676 • www.chavurah.org he just sailed above everything... Hank is going to do incident Greenberg did elucidate with a first-hand see him do that everyday.” Koehler continued, “and this is Alaina Cardarelli...... Graphic Artist one such moment. In addition to Bonnie Rozen...... Advertising Representative planning for our 100th anniversary Kathy Brown...... Bookkeeper CONGREGATION AGUDATH SHOLOM: and the JCC Maccabi Games and Opinions 301 Strawberry Hill Ave, Stamford 06902 • 203-358-2200 • ArtsFest, we have embarked on a The views expressed in editorials and opinion pieces www.cas-stamford.org Adult Volunteer Opportunities capital campaign to raise funds for are those of each author and not necessarily the views much-needed improvements to our of the United Jewish Federation. FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE: JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER (JCC) 30-plus-year-old building. Several Letters years ago, we raised $4.6 million for The New Jewish Voice welcomes letters on subjects of (203) 329-0015 X414 • [email protected] or Kosher Lunch Program for Seniors. Help set up and serve infrastructure improvements, most interest to the Jewish community. All letters must be www.friendshipct.com HOT Kosher lunch to seniors. Tuesdays, Thursdays & of which were made inside the walls signed and include a phone number. The editor may in the form of new wiring, plumb- withhold the name upon request. Fridays at the JCC. For more information or reservations: HADASSAH STAMFORD CHAPTER: Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or cfreeman@ JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY OF ing, HVAC, etc. With funds raised Kashruth through The Centennial Campaign, We are not responsible for the Kashruth of any (203) 829-9341 or [email protected]. stamfordjcc.org FAIRFIELD COUNTY (JHS) we will be able to upgrade public advertiser’s product or establishment. Find us on facebook stamford hadassah Harry Rosenbaum Judaica Library. At the JCC. Cover two- areas of the building.” JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE (JFS) How to reach the editor: hour slot (or more) once a week. You’ll be trained on the Spearheading the work surround- Drivers needed to deliver food from the Kosher Food Pantry JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER (JCC OR THE J): computer system and the arrangement of books in the ing the JCC’s centennial are JCC Mail: Sandy Golove to individuals in the community. For information: Rebekah Maccabi Games Co-chairs Michael 1035 Newfield Ave. - Suite 200 1035 Newfield Ave, Stamford 06905 • 203-322-7900 • library. Call 203-487-0957. Kanefsky at 203-921-4161 or [email protected] Gold and Jeannie Kriftcher; ArtsFest Stamford, CT 06905-2521 www.stamfordjcc.org Help protect the pieces of our Jewish history: Do you enjoy E-mail: [email protected] Fax: (203) 322-3277 UJF’s READING PARTNERS finding out about our region’s early Jewish settlers? Do you Phone: (203) 321-1373, ext. 107 JEWISH FAMILY SERVICE (JFS): Read one-on-one with Stamford public school children. One want to help Jewish organizations retain their history and Send article submissions via e-mail to 733 Summer Street, Stamford 06902 • (203) 921-4161 • hour a week, mornings or afternoons. 12 elementary schools documents? Call 203-359-2196. Sandy Golove at [email protected] www.ctjfs.org marked “Stamford Voice” in the subject and two community centers. Training, literacy focused line. 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September/October 2015 Bonnie Rozen Subscription Information: General Information: P.O. Box 16918, Stamford 06905-8901 Advertising Representative Phone: (203) 321-1373 ext. 107 • (203) 321-1373 x150 (messages only) • Archives: 990 Hope Street (Rear), Stamford 069805 • (203) 359-2196 • [email protected]; The Harry Rosenbaum JHS Judaica Li- Senior Adult Happenings brary: JCC, 1035 Newfield Avenue, Stamford 06905 • KOSHER LUNCH AT THE JCC EXERCISE YOUR BODY – CHAIR EXERCISE AT THE JCC (203) 487-0957 • [email protected] Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays at 12 pm. $4 suggested Tuesdays & Thursdays, 10:15–11 am • Sept. 10-Dec. 31 (No class donation. Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 Sept. 15, 29, Oct. 6). Free to all seniors. Contact Connie Cirillo JEWISH SENIOR SERVICES: or [email protected]. Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. 175 Jefferson Street, Fairfield 06825 • 203-365-6400 • TRANSPORTATION TO JCC SENIOR PROGRAMS GAMES & GAB AT THE JCC [email protected] • www.jseniors.org Call every Monday. $1 each way, suggested donation. Thursdays & Fridays, 1-3 pm. Free of charge. Contact Connie JEWISH STUDENT CONNECTION: Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. [email protected]. Rebecca Ruberg: [email protected] JUDAIC STUDIES FALL 2015 COURSES AT UCONN-STAMFORD AARP SMART DRIVER COURSE AT THE JCC See article on Page 16. TEMPLE BETH EL (TBE): Reservations required. Wednesday, Sept. 2 & Wednesday, 350 Roxbury Road, Stamford 06902 • (203) 322-6901 • Nov. 4 • 8:30 am-1 pm. AARP member $15 / All others LIFE ENHANCEMENT CLASSES AT THE JCC [email protected] • www.tbe.org $20. Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or Tuesdays & Thursdays, Sept.10-Dec. 31 (No class Sept. 15, 29, [email protected]. Oct. 6) • 11-11:45 am • Free to all seniors. Contact Connie Cirillo TEMPLE SINAI (TS): Freeman at 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. 458 Lakeside Drive, Stamford 06903 • (203) 322-1649 • BLIND and VISUALLY-IMPAIRED ADULTS SUPPORT GROUP In Connecticut, nearly one child in ve is hungry or food insecure and does not get enough food out- www.templesinaistamford.org AT THE JCC LEARN TO PLAY MAH JONGG AT THE JCC side of the free meal programs provided by the public schools. Women’s Philanthropy of the Jewish Thursdays, 1-3 pm. Member $25 / Community $35 (5 Federation of Greater Stamford, New Canaan and Darien is joining other programs throughout the Tuesdays & Thursdays, Sept. 17, Oct. 22, Nov. 24, Dec. 29 • UNITED JEWISH FEDERATION OF GREATER STAMFORD, sessions). Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 country to do something about this situation in our own backyards. 1-2 pm. Free of charge. Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at NEW CANAAN AND DARIEN (UJF): or [email protected]. 203-487-0983 or [email protected]. Your support helps 3 SQUARE provide elementary school-age children identi ed as “in need” with a 1035 Newfield Avenue, Suite 200, Stamford 06905 • bag of food each Friday to sustain them through the weekend. Most of these children are chronically BLOOD PRESSURE SCREENING AT THE JCC JCC MORNING MOVIE MATINEE/GAMES hungry and don’t have regular access to food. (203) 321-1373 • www.ujf.org No appointment necessary. 1st Tuesday of the month, Fridays, Sept. 11 – Dec. 18 • 10 am • Free of charge. Contact For further information, please contact Rebekah Raz at [email protected]. Sept. 1 (No screening in October • 9:45-11:15 am. Free of Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or cfreeman@ YOUNG ISRAEL OF STAMFORD: charge. Contact Connie Cirillo Freeman at 203-487-0983 or stamfordjcc.org. 69 Oaklawn Avenue, Stamford 06905 • (203) 348-3955 • [email protected]. www.yistamford.org 28 THE NEW JEWISH VOICE ■ september 2015