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The Jewish Indiana Edition Post &Opinion Presenting a broad spectrum of Jewish News and Opinions since 1935. Volume 86, Number 5 • September 9, 2020 • 20 Elul 5780 www.jewishpostopinion.com • https://go.usa.gov/xn7ay Cover Art by Jackie Olenick (see About the Cover on p. IN 3) 2 The Jewish Post & Opinion – IN September 9, 2020 has been serving as a rabbi in the Boston granddaughter of Shlomo (Scott) and Simcha Announcements area since 2012, currently at Temple Israel Michelle Borinstein of Jerusalem, and of Boston. great-granddaughter of Helen Goldstein Matan is the Director of Program of Indianapolis (her 15th great-grand- Mazel Tov to… Evaluation at Pine Street Inn, a provider child). Her maternal grandparents are of housing, shelter and job training to the Rabbi Yehonason and Mrs. Berger of Farid and Rahkel Farahan on a new homeless in Boston. He was born in Israel, and maternal great-grandparents grandson, Solomon Asher (below), son Israel, grandson to founders of Kibbutz are Dr. and Mrs. Basil Friedman of of Menashe and Cassie Farahan, born Gesher, graduated from Wesleyan Jerusalem, Mrs. Hadassah Berger and July 22, 2020. He weighed 7 lbs. 9 oz. and University and received a Master of Public Mr. and Mrs. Amran Edri of Israel. was 20 inches long. He has an older sister. Policy from Brandeis. They met on JDate in 2017 when Jen Daniel Lande (below), son of Philip responded to Matan’s message because Howard Lande and the late Julie Brooks his profile name was TzedekNerd (Tzedek and grandson of Ann Lande, on his means justice in Hebrew.) Jen has ensured engagement to Channah Kimmelman. that Matan visited Bloomington, GUCI, She was born in El Paso and moved to San Shapiro’s Deli (ok, the airport kiosk) Antonio where they met at the Alamo. where Zayde Morris was a regular, and Now they both reside in Houston. Nick’s English Hut, her favorite spot in Bloomington. After a Covid-19 delay, they celebrated with a micro wedding with 15 people present, masked and physically distanced with all other loved ones joining on Zoom. Rabbi Jennifer Gubitz (below), daughter of Jeff and Charlene Schwartz Tehilla Chana and Avrohom Sender Gubitz of New Orleans, married Matan Cohen on the birth of their son, Menache BenYishay, son of Adi and Iris Yehoshua Leib (below), on July 29, 2020 BenYishay and the late Ayala BenYishay in Buffalo, N.Y. Maternal grandparents are of Levittown, Pa., on July 26, 2020, in Yechezkel and Rachel Gold of Jerusalem Boston. Jen is the granddaughter of the and paternal grandparents are Rabbi late Morris and Caroline Schwartz of Benzion and Malka Cohen of K’far Indianapolis, niece of Alan Schwartz and Chabad, Israel. Menache has seven older Asher Schwartz (center, below), son the late Judy Schwartz of Indianapolis siblings, and is the great-grandson of the of Shelley Schwartz and the late Drew and Richard Gubitz of Crown Point, Ind. JPO founder, the late Gabriel Cohen. Schwartz, in honor of him becoming Her paternal grandparents were the late a Bar Mitzvah. Asher read the Torah Charles and Betty Gubitz, formerly of on Parasha Re’eh on Aug. 15th at Evansville, Ind. Congregation B’nai Torah in Indianapolis, Ind. (See his speech on page IN 12.) Yaakov Meir and Moriah Borinstein, on the birth of their daughter, Tova (below), on September 2, 2020. She is the Matanya Goldstein (below), son of Rabbi Ovadyah and Sarah Goldstein,in Raised in Fort Wayne by parents who grew up in Hammond and Indianapolis, Jen is a Hoosier through and through. She was a long time camper, song leader and educator at URJ-Goldman Union Camp in Zionsville and is a graduate of Indiana Universities’Borns Jewish Studies Program in 2005. She was ordained from Hebrew Union College - Jewish Institute of Religion’s New York campus in 2012 and (see Mazel Tov, page IN 5) September 9, 2020 The Jewish Post & Opinion – IN 3 Editorial About the Cover Inside this Issue “Shomerit Yisrael – Guardian of Israel” By Jackie Olenick Simcha Announcements.........................2 Many great places to pray in the San Editorial.....................................................3 Francisco Bay Area were available, but my As always, we hold the About the Cover ......................................3 choice for High Holy Day services when I blessing for peace deeply Rabbi Benzion Cohen: (Chassidic Rabbi) lived there from 1986–1993 was always in our hearts.This painting Better Life and Marriage ....................4 the Aquarian Minyan. Jews came from all was inspired by a trip my B’nai Torah Honors Local Police..........5 over Northern California, driving up to three son and grandson made Synagogue Softball League Champs......5 hours each way, in order to experience to Israel. A dream inspired J. Olenick LIFE & LEGACY ® Initiative ..................6 these unique services. this illumination revealing that from the Amy Lederman: (Jewish Educator) Guided meditations and exercises were shofar blast and from the hearts and souls Gratitude: An Antidote offered to help the congregants achieve of all women and all people, we will call to Emotional Distancing.....................7 the important task of self-reflection and for peace. Many blessings that this New Sybil Kaplan: (My Kosher Kitchen) examination, chesbon hanefesh. Jews came Year bring peace, bring a healthy world High Holiday Dessertts ......................9 eager to learn more about themselves in and bring us loving hearts. It is available as Rabbi Sandy Eisenberg Sasso: order to make needed changes to improve a fine art matted and framed print and can Unstuck................................................10 their lives. Plenty of music with singing, be found on my website. Why We Sound the Shofar..................10 hand held instruments like tambourines, I create joyful and contemporary images Rabbi Dennis C. Sasso: and drums were part of the services. People in several mediums. I’ve designed a line of Of Cords and Stakes..........................11 came dressed in all kinds of comfortable Judaic spiritually infused jewelry, including Asher Schwartz: clothing with colorful tallitot. “Shema V’Ahavta” and “Ana B’Koach” My Bar Mitzvah D’var Torah..............12 The services were different from one year amulets. My work can be found and Obituaries ...............................................13 to the next partly because at least a dozen purchased on my website: www.jackie Jim Shipley: (Shipley Speaks) different people were leading different olenickart.com. You, Me, and God ..............................15 parts of the service. A few of the same On Rosh Hashanah, leaders came back every year, but also j i the Hero is the Individual ...............15 each year new ones offered their talents. Sybil Kaplan: I will be describing a service that took A Rosh Hashanah Symbol .................16 place approximately 1989 when the services Sybil Kaplan: (Book Review) were held at the Masonic Temple off of The First Mrs. Rothschild.....................20 Solano Avenue in Berkeley. As part of the service that year were two guided medita- The Jewish tions, which I still remember. One was led Post &Opinion by Reuven Goldfarb, and the other by his Jewish News and Opinion since 1935. wife,Yehudit Goldfarb. It was many years ago, so it may not 1389 W 86th St. #160 have been exactly as it was, but how I Indianapolis, IN 46260 remember it. In the first one led by email: [email protected] Reuven, he asked everyone to close his phone and fax: (317) 405-8084 or her eyes and think back over the four website: www.jewishpostopinion.com seasons of the past year. We were to begin Reuven and Yehudit Goldfarb. (undated) publisher & editor: Jennie Cohen with Shavuot, then go back to Pesach, then graphic designer: Charlie Bunes Chanukkah, and lastly the High Holy Days one could later try to locate the person of the previous year. For each season, we involved and say, “I forgive you,” or “Will were to ask ourselves questions such as you please forgive me?” Simchas Welcome! Had a recent joyous the following: Finally, Reuven asked us to pretend it occasion in your family or Jewish Did I leave unfinished business with a was Rosh Hashanah ten years in the future. organization? The Jewish Post & Opinion welcomes your announce- co-worker, boss, or employee, close family, He told us to imagine ourselves ten years – IN Edition ments for placement in our Simcha friend, or acquaintance? Were disagree- older and wiser. How would we look section (see page 2). Submit photos and ments left unsettled? Did I intentionally then? What goals would we have accom- text to: [email protected]. Next or unintentionally hurt anyone? Did I plan plished? What advice could this more Deadline: Sept. 28, 2020. All decisions to apologize and never get around to it? experienced “self”offer to us today? on publishing, date of placement, size of Then he asked us to go back to Rosh This was the best part of the meditation photo, and length of announcement are at Hashanah five years before that. Who were for me because the advice that came to me the sole discretion of the publisher. our friends? Where did we attend services? was that things will work out and I need What job did we have? Where were we to stop worrying so much. This left me that we had only six months to live. What living? What were our goals then? Did we feeling more peaceful and relaxed. three goals would we pursue in that case? accomplish them, or are we still striving to In the second exercise led by Yehudit, After a few minutes, she asked us to open do so, or have we changed our direction she asked everyone to close their eyes and our eyes. and chosen different goals all together? think about three goals that we wanted to Then she told us to look to the person He then said to think back ten years and accomplish this year.