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Presented by: 1646 Purchase St. New Bedford, MA 02740 Serving the towns of Acushnet n Dartmouth n Fairhaven n Gosnold n Marion n Mattapoisett n New Bedford n Rochester Vol. 2, IssueVol. 1,2 Issue 1 Published Published byby Coastline Coastline Elderly Elderly Services, Services, Inc. Inc. NovemberDecember 2018 2019 Middle School & COA Make Picture-Perfect Pairing Inside At 8 a.m. snow was still clinging to the treetops from a winter storm that swept through the previous night, but that didn’t stop a group of students – whose ages ranged from 12 to 84 – from gathering at Fort Phoenix for a lesson on photography. Seventh graders from Elizabeth Hastings Middle School paired with patrons of the Fairhaven Council on Veterans Day, page 12 Aging to teach tips and tricks about landing the perfect shot. During the n Donations ...........................2 frosty, early morning hours of Nov. 13, seniors held their smartphones n Letter from the Editor ....... 2 and iPads toward the ocean as kids n Photography cont. ............ 2 huddled around, tapping the screens and making minor adjustments, 84-year-old Jean Baldwin holds an iPad toward the American flag flying above n Reporting Scams .............. 3 as they offered suggestions and Fort Phoenix on a cold, windy morning. Baldwin was taking part in a photography encouragement. class, which was taught by John Sladewski’s 7th grade photography students. n Social Security ................. 3 John Sladewski’s Digital Photography class and the group project as part of his curriculum. Council on Aging in December for n Update ............................. 4 from the council on aging alternated “I wanted my students to all the participants as well as their between snapping photos and teach the seniors those functions friends and families. n Accessible Yoga ................ 5 rushing back to the bus to warm up and teach them some elements Freda St. Marie said she enjoyed n Vaping Illness ................... 6 after braving the strong winds and of photography, too, such as being coached by the kids. 23-degree weather. composition, while they’re making “I’ve been interested in n Mind/Body Connection ... 7 Fairhaven Council on Aging photographs,” said Sladeski. photography for a long time,” said Director Anne Silvia noted that The students worked with the St. Marie while on a break in a n Age-Friendly NB .............. 8 while some smartphone users may seniors across multiple sessions. bustling middle school lunchroom. know how to take a picture on their After the initial photo shoot at Fort An avid walker, St. Marie said n Trivia ................................ 8 phone, they may not know all the Phoenix, the group returned to she often ventures through Fort n Sugar ................................ 9 options at their fingertips. Learning the middle school where students Phoenix and around Fairhaven all the bells and whistles was part of taught the seniors how to upload the snapping photos of buildings and n At the Senior Centers .... 10 the plan that morning. photos onto a computer, edit them nature, though she concedes that Sladewski, who is working on a and print them out for a collage. she’s unsure how to use the camera n Senior Centers cont ....... 11 master’s degree in art education at The end product will be revealed UMass Dartmouth, organized the at a showing at the Fairhaven Continued on page 2 n Dementia Directory........11 n Travel...............................11 Tips for Grieving During the Holidays n Veterans Day...................12 The holiday season can be a it through the holidays. This year, your wishes known to your friends time of togetherness for families. however, there may be special and family. n YWCA ............................ 12 But for those who have experienced considerations to factor into your If you have hosted during the a recent loss, the holidays can be a holiday planning. Below is advice holidays in the past, you may feel source of tremendous stress. gathered from Arnold’s workshop. pressure to host again. But this n Los Articulos en To help the public might not be the right time Español ............... Página 6 make it through the holi- to throw a party. Be realistic days, Nancy Arnold, about what you can handle, n Os Artigos em Manager of Bereavement and be sure to talk about it Português ............. Página 6 and Volunteer Services for well ahead of time so your Southcoast Visiting Nurse family can plan ahead. Association, offers griev- Compromise: If you are ing courses in the lead-up planning on hosting, you can to Thanksgiving. always ask your guests for In her line of work, help. Maybe each guest could Arnold said she has seen bring a dish. Maybe you could a range of reactions to invite some guests to visit the holiday season. Some Displaying photos of the person who passed during your home prior to the event want to skip it entirely. a holiday get together can help break the ice for guests. and help clean. Others want to press on and If you’re used to preparing celebrate exactly as they have in Talk about it: Whether you’re a large meal around the holidays, Happy Winter! previous years. willing to tackle the holidays this perhaps you could simplify or omit Arnold’s course helps those year or whether you would like to in grief know that they can make avoid them, it’s important to make Continued on page 7 2 Senior Scope DECEMBER 2019 Letter from the Editor I’m sorry to report that about with them both. a week before this issue made its As the year winds down, way to press, I heard word that Ed I wanted to make sure that I Camara had passed away. mentioned the Christmas Day Starting with the February 2019 lunch, which is sponsored by the issue of Senior Scope, Ed had been Jewish community of Greater New responsible for the paper’s trivia Bedford and Coastline. section. He had stepped in following If you’re looking for company the death of his friend, Joe Alves, on Christmas, the annual dinner who had written trivia for the paper will be held at the Holy Name of for four years prior to his death last the Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish November. Hall, located at 121 Mount Pleasant Freda St. Marie (right) lines up a shot of the ocean – with encouragement I wanted to say how thankful I Street in New Bedford. The lunch is from John Sladewski’s 7th graders. Students from Hastings Middle School gave photography lessons to a group from the Fairhaven COA this November. am for Ed taking on the project. I open to all area seniors. was touched when, right after Joe’s Doors will open at 10 a.m., Photos continued... Seventh grader CJ Coelho said, passing, one of his friends would and the meal will be served at for photographers who are just reach out on a whim and offer to noon on Christmas Day. You can beyond a simple button click. getting started, a little patience can continue his work. make reservations by calling the “You learn something new all go a long way. Within days of Ed’s passing, Dartmouth Council on Aging at the time,” she said. “Wait till you “Pay attention,” Coelho said. his brother, Kim Camara, called me 508-999-4717. see them! I took some awesome “Look before and after you take and asked to continue his brother’s On a final note, the paper will be photos.” a photo. And try not to move. work. back sooner than you might expect. St. Marie spent her time at Fort Sometimes, you have to wait a little I know the section is popular In previous years, Senior Scope Phoenix undeterred by the weather, bit for the camera to auto-focus on with our readers, and I’m happy to would break after the holidays and smiling as she pointed her camera the subject.” hear it will continue to be produced return with the February issue. But toward nature and a few of the students As students of all ages sorted by the community. You can look for now the paper is published year- climbing around the cannons. through their photos in Sladewki’s Kim’s trivia in the new year. round, so we’ll return next month “You can do a lot of different classroom, Jean Baldwin of the I never met Ed in person, but his with the first January edition in things on a phone,” said Ben Fairhaven COA was impressed with personality always came through in years. Comey, a 12-year-old student. “We the work of the group. his emails. He had a great sense of In the meantime, I hope you showed them the zoom function, “It was just lovely. I loved humor, and I’ll miss corresponding enjoy the holiday season, and I wish and we also showed them that interacting with the youngsters. I’m with him. everyone a happy New Year. you don’t always have to hold the learning a little bit from each one of To Ed and Joe’s families, I’m phone vertically – you can hold it them,” said Jean Baldwin. “You’re thinking of you and wanted you to Best, horizontally.” never too old to learn – even at 84.” know how much I enjoyed working , Editor Mass Options 1-800-AGE-INFO massoptions.org www.800ageinfo.com 844-422-6277 1-800-243-4636 844-422-MASS SHINE Counselors in the Greater New Bedford Area Acushnet Council on Aging 508-998-0280 Patricia Midurski 59 ½ South Main St., Acushnet Heather Sylvia Coastline 508-999-6400 Paula Sipple 1646 Purchase St.