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TThhee BBooookk ooff EEvvaann:: TThhee wwoorrkk aanndd lliiffee ooff EEvvaann MMccAArraa SShheerrrraarrdd Keith Tudor | Editor E-book edition The Book of Evan: The work and life of Evan McAra Sherrard Editor: Keith Tudor E-book (2020) ISBN: 9781877431–88-3 Printed edition (2017) ISBN: 9781877431-78-4 © Keith Tudor 2017, 2020 Keith Tudor asserts his moral right to be known as the Editor of this work. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means electrical, mechanical, photocopying, recording, digital or otherwise without the prior written permission of Resource Books Ltd. Waimauku, Auckland, New Zealand [email protected] | www.resourcebooks.co.nz Contents The Book of Evan: The work and life of Evan McAra Sherrard Keith Tudor | Editor Contents Foreword. Isabelle Sherrard Poroporoaki: A bridge between two worlds. Haare Williams Introduction to the e-book edition. Keith Tudor Introduction. Keith Tudor The organisation and structure of the book Acknowledgements References Part I. AGRICULTURE Introduction. Keith Tudor Chapter 1. Papers related to agriculture. Evan M. Sherrard Biology (2008) Film review of The Ground We Won (2015) References Chapter 2. Memories of Evan from Lincoln College and from a farm. Alan Nordmeyer, Robin Plummer, and Colin Wrennall Alan Nordmeyer writes Robin Plummer writes Colin Wrennall writes Part II. MINISTRY Introduction. Keith Tudor Chapter 3. Sermons. Evan M. Sherrard St. Patrick’s Day (1963) Sickness unto death (1965) Good grief (1966) When things get out of hand (1966) Rains or refugees? (1968) Unconscious influence (n.d.) Faithful winners (1998) Epiphany (2006) Colonialism (2008) Jesus and Paul — The consummate political activists (2009) A modern man faces Pentecost (2010) Ash Wednesday (2011) Healing (2011) Killed by a dancing girl (2012) Self-love (2012) Geering and Feuerbach (2014) Chapter 4. Theological papers. Evan M. Sherrard Anselm and human guilt (1964) Homosexuality: A Christian perspective (1991) The basic human anatomy Two rhythms Survival fitness A distinctive rhythm What is homosexuality? A sociobiological theory Issues of origin Grace, by any other name. Film review of Once Were Warriors (1994) Healing in the Church: A position paper (Lent 2009) Introduction and rationale Background Definitions A case example of Jesus healing a woman Illness in Jesus’ time and place What Jesus had in common with other healers of his day Healing Belief The essence of Christianity (2012) A song about Mary (2015) So, what sort of a person was Jesus? Chapter 5. Reflections on Evan and ministry. Glynn Cardy, Allan Davidson, Lloyd Geering and Roger Hey Evan Sherrard The Reverend Evan Sherrard — Presbyterian Minister Reflections on Evan Sherrard’s contribution by a Practitioner Chaplain Poem Part III. CLINICAL EDUCATION Introduction Jonathan Fay and Keith Tudor Chapter 6 Papers on clinical and pastoral education Evan M. Sherrard Thirtieth anniversary of the founding of the Cameron Centre (1997) Clinical Pastoral Education — Notes (n.d.) 1. CPE is experiential learning 2. CPE is a systems approach to learning 3. CPE is goal-orientated learning 4. CPE takes place in a learning community 5. CPE is learning in a real-life setting 6. CPE is skills-practice learning 7. In CPE the learner is responsible for learning Clinical Pastoral Education (2006) Chapter 7. Human development training in Presbyterian Support Services. Margaret Bowater, Priscilla Everts, John McAlpine, Don Reekie Evan notes Don Reekie writes Margaret Bowater writes Priscilla Everts writes John McAlpine writes Chapter 8. Evan and the Psychotherapy Training Programme at the Auckland Institute of Technology. Joan Dallaway, Grant Dillon, Jonathan Fay, Lesley King, Margaret Poutu Morice, John O’Connor, Brigitte Puls, and Ondra Williams Jonathan Fay writes Joan Dallaway writes Lesley King writes Brigitte Puls writes Ondra Williams writes John O’Connor writes Grant Dillon writes Margaret Poutu Morice (Ngati Porou) writes Part IV. TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS Introduction Keith Tudor Chapter 9. Evan Sherrard and transactional analysis: A reflective dialogue. Evan Sherrard with Keith Tudor A brief note about transactional analysis The conversation The Gouldings, redecision, and intuition Cathexis and bodywork Redecision and cathexis Clinical exams and becoming a Teaching Member Integrative transactional analysis References Chapter 10. Papers on Transactional Analysis. Evan M. Sherrard A new dimension for TA — Spiritual development (n.d.) The constancy of choice The still point The purgative way The illuminative way The unitive way TA and psychodrama: An exploration of the concepts of ego states and role (1985) Synopsis Integration and conviction Eric Berne and ego states Ego states and roles Psychodrama and roles References A Transactional Analysis of God (2005) Presentation Notes Transactional Analysis Theology References Part V. PSYCHODRAMA Introduction Philip Carter Chapter 11. Reflections on Evan and psychodrama. Dale Herron and Isabelle Sherrard with Philip Carter Chapter 12. Papers on psychodrama. Evan M. Sherrard The use of the psychodramatic role of the ideal parent in therapy (1983) Introduction and thesis Power differential between roles and regression The psychodramatic cosmos The psychodramatic ideal parent Role theory Warm-up and spontaneity The two universes: Reality and fantasy Conclusion Guiding principles of supervision (1995) Introduction Supervision Guiding principles of training (1996) References (Ed.) Part VI. THE PSYCHOTHERAPY COMMUNITY Introduction. Keith Tudor Chapter 13. Two papers on counselling and psychotherapy. Evan M. Sherrard The nature of authority in counselling (1966) Once was a psychotherapist (2011) Bad practice Problems with registration Ending Public Statute References Chapter 14. Reflections on Evan and his contribution to the psychotherapy community in New Zealand. A. Roy Bowden, Jonathan Fay, Robyn Hewland, Peter Hubbard, Sheila Larsen, Seán Manning, the New Zealand Association of Psychotherapists, and Helen Palmer Citation for the Award of Life Membership (1991) A. Roy Bowden writes Helen Palmer and Peter Hubbard write Seán Manning writes The man who brought an atheist close to God: A short tribute to Evan Sherrard Robyn Hewland writes Sheila Larsen writes Jonathan Fay writes Eulogy for Evan Part VII. HEALTH AND ILLNESS Introduction Isabelle Sherrard Chapter 15. Evan on health and illness: Two letters Evan M Sherrard Letter to Lloyd Geering (2009) Buns and gravy: Living with prostate cancer (2012) Introduction Buns and gravy: My original letter (2004) Buns and gravy: The sequel (2014) Chapter 16. My Dad was hit by a bus Susan Sherrard Chapter 17. Reflections on Evan’s health and illness Isabelle Sherrard Evan’s health Reflection Part VIII. FRIENDSHIP Introduction Isabelle Sherrard Chapter 18. Evan Sherrard — Testaments of friendships. Margaret Bowater, Allan Davidson, Hans Everts, Priscilla Everts, Rex Hunton, Valerie Hunton, Lesley King, Robin Lane, Dorothy McCarrison, Margaret Merton, Don Reekie, Susan Shaw, Bev Silvester-Clark, and Shirley Webber Swimming with dolphins Being there — The quality of friendship Evan Car trips Personal theologian Life in all its fullness My friend Evan “Why not?” Evan Sage A wether for meat Being a thread Evan — The man with the cap Family photos CREDO – I BELIEVE Credo — I believe (2015). Evan M. Sherrard Credo Bibilography: Evan Sherrard. Compiled by Keith Tudor Dated papers and sermons Undated sermons Undated papers Editor and contributors Foreword I S It is with great pleasure — and, of course, considerable sadness — that I write this foreword for this book about Evan. I think I knew Evan better than anyone else in the whole world. I first knew of Evan after I moved to Christchurch at the end of 1950. Fortunately for me, my father decided to buy a house in Sumner, where Evan’s family lived. Evan told me later that he was first attracted to me because of my white ankle socks and my brown legs! He first asked me to go out with him when I was 17. Fortunately for me, he never had another girlfriend, so I was never overtaken! I am very appreciative of my 60 years with Evan and, overall, we had a very good life together. He was my best friend. I am glad that this book has been created. It has been fun to work with Keith, often ending our work with a conversation over a glass of red wine. Together we located Evan’s writings out of boxes and folders from the clutter of Evan’s life — at his funeral I accurately described him as a “man of clutter”! As editor of this book, Keith deserves the credit and joy this completed project deserves. To Keith, I say, well done indeed and thanks. Evan would want this book to truly reflect the person he was, and I think it does that well. Born in 1934 he did not have an easy physical life, beginning with painful ears as a toddler, so he knew how challenging everyday living can be for people generally. From his early days, initially assisted by his dad, he actively integrated his body and mind in a way that prevented him from becoming negative or bitter. He deeply loved his life, was open to new ideas and willing to change the course of his own development. In my view he matured well as he became older: as a serious, young, newly ordained clergyman, he tended to have a conservative outlook on most things. Evan and Isabelle Sherrard. Wedding Day, 1959 I think he found his place in life working in psychotherapy and in adult education. He was an effective educator with adult students, especially those who were keen to learn. The same would be true of his therapy work, I think. He certainly listened to me when I needed to talk, sometimes for a long time, and he was often a wise guide on those occasions. I hope he found me the same for him. For our two adult children and their families and certainly for me, Evan’s death has left a large hole, but in our own individual ways, each of us appreciates having had Evan in our lives.