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December 2015 | January 2016 Beauty & Ghosts Robert Drewe’s Broome Smoked Trout Waffles Breakfast Martini-Style Cat, Garden, House Do We Expect Too Much? Giving Money to the Kids How it Affects Your Pension Twitter, Facebook, Instagram Join the Social Network Roly Sussex “I’m a MAMIL…a Middle-Aged Man in Lycra” editor With four prime ministers in five the damage we’re doing to our Have a fabulous summer. years, mid-term assassinations country over the longer term. Sarah Saunders are starting to define Australian These killings are poll-driven – so Editor politics. It’s something for which why now would a smart politician [email protected] Japan – think five prime ministers make unpopular decisions early in five years from 2007 – has in a first term. always been notorious. These days, it seems the courage To be honest, I’m not a fan. Sure, of conviction is a luxury no-one Publisher the treachery of knifing a sitting seeking longevity can afford. It’s not National Seniors Australia prime minister; the ugly braying the electorate that they answer to A.B.N. 89 050 523 003 from the margins; and the raw but their colleagues – all of whom, ISSN 1835–5404 emotion borne out of an ultimate well-schooled in the Machiavellian Editor humiliation make for great TV. arts, harbour their own ambitions. Sarah Saunders Its mediaeval-ness is thoroughly My hope for 2016 is that we shift s.saunders@ modern. We all have opinions, we away from this hollowness to nationalseniors.com.au all have platforms and we want something authentic and enduring. everything to happen now. National Advertising Manager Now, if you read nothing else Mark Smith But it makes me uncomfortable, in this issue, don’t miss Robert [email protected] and I wonder about honour, and Drewe’s beautiful piece on page 42. National Office Level 18 contributors 215 Adelaide Street Brisbane Q 4000 Robert Drewe is one of Australia’s most prominent literary authors. He was born in Melbourne but his writing is shaped by the Swan River Phone: 07 3233 9191 and the Indian Ocean coast where he learnt to swim and surf after Fax: 07 3211 9339 moving to WA. His latest book The Beach is published by the National Library of Australia. www.nationalseniors.com.au Disclaimer Dr Michael Lewis is the British Museum’s head of Portable Antiquities & Treasure. His special interest is medieval archaeological National Seniors Australia [NSA] accepts no responsibility for the small finds from c.1000 onwards. His publications include The Real accuracy or completeness of any World of the Bayeux Tapestry (2008), The Bayeux Tapestry: new material herein and recommends approaches (2011), Saints and their Badges (2014). readers exercise their own skill and care with respect to the Sandra Kimball has worked in mental health for over 20 years as a contents of the magazine. therapist and educator in Australia and internationally. 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Printed by Horizon Media 6 50 SOMETHING December 2015/January 2016 first up executive diary New research director National Seniors Recent research for National Seniors’ Melbourne-based seeks to be a well- National Seniors Productive Ageing Centre has a new balanced organisation on grandparent director, Professor Philip Taylor, who socially, philosophically childcare highlighted has researched and written on social and politically. the significant role However in one area that grandmothers and economic aspects of population we have not achieved play so that parents ageing for over 25 years. that balance... are able to return to work. The research Philip has worked on several major Our membership is noted the significance multi-disciplinary and international unbalanced…in a of grandmothers programs of research concerned with nice way! reducing workforce issues of workforce ageing. He has Yes, dear reader, Michael O’Neill participation to enable served on government committees you contribute to CEO their daughters and our imbalance. National Seniors daughters-in-law associated with population ageing in to return to the Australia and elsewhere. He holds The failure in balance workplace. an ongoing position as Professor is gender; we have more women than men. Reform of the retirement income of Human Resource Management system generally is essential against at Federation University Australia. A bias towards the female of the an outlook of continuing government species and an ever-widening gap. The Centre’s latest piece of research and commentator pressure on the role It is reflective of society with women on the barriers to downsizing, released of the pension. living longer, including socialising in November, is covered in this issue. more than men – a contributor to Reform must also include tackling living longer. the inequity of gender balances in superannuation. Importantly, there is a converse imbalance in retirement income National Seniors stands against and superannuation. ageism and will continue to stand for women being able to enter retirement National Seniors provided a with dignity and a financial base, detailed submission to the current comparable to men, to support them. Parliamentary Inquiry into the issue of Economic Security for On a positive note in the age and Women in Retirement. gender space, I wanted to acknowledge one woman who emerged as an The statistics are disturbing. unlikely torch bearer on the issue The average superannuation Tell us what you think – Melbourne Cup winning jockey balances at retirement in 2012 Michelle Payne. were $82,615 for men and $44,866 National Seniors is conducting a survey for women. A skilful ride and a wonderful story to better understand its members. full of courage and hope. And good With your input we’re hoping to gauge A significant element of the difference on her for calling out the bias she reflects the interruption to paid your views on the current benefits and has experienced. She provides a careers that women experience as services the organisation offers and great example for all who experience they undertake care roles, whether discrimination, of whatever form. what you would like to see more of. for children, parents, partners or By participating, you could win a $250 others. Interrupted careers mean not Equally important she is a shining star Wish gift card. Simply complete the entry only loss of income but an adverse for all ages of the power of resilience. impact on career development. As individuals and as a community, form at the end of the survey and you’ll resilience is a characteristic we should go in the draw to win. Compounding this are employment value and strive for as we deal with arrangements. The gender pay the challenges of life. Complete the survey online at gap at September 2015 is 18%. In addition, 43% of women in the On that note I end the year with nationalseniors.com.au/membersurvey workforce are employed part-time thanks for support across the year or contact the membership team on compared to 14% of men – reinforcing and wish all a peaceful, gentle time 1300 76 50 50 to request a hard copy. the current outcomes. at Christmas. The survey closes 11 January. 14 50 SOMETHING December 2015/January 2016 cover story Much-loved linguist and ABC broadcaster Roly Sussex, 70, tells Rosemary Desmond why 65 is just an arbitrary age for retirement and why every day brings new discoveries. When Roland Sussex badly broke What attracted you to the study of languages? his arm at school it ended his My dad was a professor of French and he also knew dream of becoming a professional Latin, Greek and German and so languages were a part musician but started a lifetime of our household. love of language. He is now Emeritus Professor I was born in Melbourne but we went to live in of Applied Language Studies at New Zealand where I was in a youth orchestra as a Queensland University (UQ), clarinettist. But while long-jumping at school, I had an speaks five languages, is a regular absolutely terrible breakage of an arm … and that ruined radio broadcaster with the ABC a potential career as a musician.