FMA–INS.info  od gave his only Begotten Son on the day of Christmas. We celebrate this Gmystery of the Incarnation, the coming of Jesus, the Son of God into our world. It is the central mystery of our faith. God so loved the world that He sent His only Son Jesus Christ (Jn. 3:16). Love does such things. He loved the humanity and gave himself to all of us. As Baby Jesus brought glad tidings of great joy from the Father, may He fill our hearts with love, joy, peace and happiness. FMA-INS. info wishes all its readers a Holy season of Christmas and may this Christmas help us to extend our hand to help someone, cheer someone and bring someone dear to Baby Jesus. The loss of sense of God among the people especially the youth, the rapid growth of the secularization and growing number of non believers, who still have not heard the Gospel Message provide the context for Pope Benedict XVI to declare the “Year of Faith” beginning on October 11, 2012 until November 24, 2013 as a mark of celebrating 50 years of the second Vatican Council’s Decree on the Church’s Mission Ad Gentes. The Church cannot simply ignore the constant changes that are taking place. It becomes the signs of the times in order to make God’s Word relevant in the contemporary world. Hence the Pope gave a clarion call to the whole universal Church for a renewed urgency on new evangelization. It basically calls for renewal of faith and regaining the faith of the apostles which is handed on by our Lord Jesus Christ to all of us. May the celebration of the year of faith give us impetus to share and witness our faith to all whom we meet in our mis- sion proclaiming the Gospel values according to the signs of the times. Another reason that invites us to renew our commitment as Daughters of Mary Help of Christians is the beginning of the Diamond Jubilee year of our Province. We are grateful to our missionaries who have toiled in our land to bring it up to what it is now. Therefore, it is our turn now to spread our wings far and wide and embrace the vast horizon of humanity who still needs a word in the ear or a pat on the back to walk through their journey of life. As we rejoice and thank God for the sixty bountiful years of our Province, it is with a deep sense of gratitude we pledge once again to rekindle the fire of being signs and expressions of God’s foreseeing love to all. Let our faith and zeal in our ministry grow and glow as we hearken to the call of Strenna 2013: Like Don Bosco the educator, we offer young people the Gospel of joy through a pedagogy of kindness. Sr. Euginia Laloo

FMA–INS.info  The expectations, the needs of ordinary classes of today, Footprints of force us to question the parameters of just a few years ago. It is certain that Foreseeing Love the FMA never renounces their educative identity, in the name of which they launched the most courageous in the history of initiatives, and at times, in that same name, we can attest to holding to positions which the FMA were outdated. Creative fidelity is a huge challenge. It requires not only a knowledge [Extract from the talk given by of the beginnings, but unity Sr. Grazia Loparco, FMA during the GC XXII] in how we understand the gospel and human values …continuation which we are to express 5. Concluding Reflections today everywhere. Around a consistent and credible The Institute of the FMA was born at a time when nucleus of identity, we can secularization was taking over in the most developed areas, continue our discernment in with new repercussions on women and families. The charism every culture, so that we can has travelled a long road during our history and it urges us to sow the seeds of the gifts go beyond the icons of Mornese and Nizza, which still retain we received, that they may the fascination of the beginnings intact. Many other riches are blossom into a more human there to be discovered in every country, because the charism is entrusted to the creativity and responsibility of every FMA. and just society, as we take During the early decades the FMA gave proof of their ability to care of the shoots entrusted adapt, to go ahead , to open up to the new times and faraway to us. places. Right up to today one can see the success of certain Questions about a responsible intuitions and ways of approaching the young, thanks to an type of educative love experience that continues to bear fruit, especially in contexts which are gradually experiencing the problems which were Without idealizing the past, more typical of western civilization sometime ago. It seems we are conscious that the that today, we are still very much in the vanguard regarding Salesian charism operates the education of girls, in the more traditional environments, also in the midst of delays, while in those most influenced by the effects of scientific, ambiguities and, at times technological and in communications development, we are a deserting of educational struggling to stay in tune with young people in a way which ideals. Helder Camara, a is really educational. We are not talking about geographical true prophet, described a boundaries, but of cultural ones, because we find them within profound vision of fidelity in the same environment, the same cities. the context of Vatican Council

FMA–INS.info  II. The General Chapter is a vision of the person and particularly of the woman in church event and therefore in the family, society and the church, expressed in adequate close harmony with it: language, so as to “leaven” culture with the gospel and the preventive system? “Fidelity to the church does not mean grasping on the Which ways and means possible today could influence in the educational field, formal and informal? past : it means that we do not waver while we accompany Being preoccupied teaching what was useful for real life, the church which is going and not just intellectual, recreational, or domestic abilities, forward; it means we do not responded to a feminine model. In particular contexts today, waver about doing today in every type of work, do we take the same care? Has the what yesterday might have concept of holistic education also included the socio-political dimension, and communication amidst a multiplicity of seemed rash, because it is the languages? church itself which leads us to do it”. In the oratories and in catechesis, in the informal educational works, do we also manage to reach the young people, or do we Today the church is inviting stop with the preadolescents? How come we do not provide a us women to a renewal of meaningful response for the older ones? religious life. Where are we E.g. catechesis, and Christian initiation come up against as FMA, as religious who are many new situations because of the dechristianisation at bearers of a specific gift for work in many parts of the world, in non-Christian contexts the education of the young? and in places marked by emigration and mobility. Have we As a sign of our love for been rethinking our preparation? life, some of the following Has religious practice tended to form to an intimistic type of questions could accompany piety, to a virtues life in the family or also to social conscience our reflection: accepting the dynamics of possibility? Has it formed to self- awareness and a sense of responsibility towards others, In our province, what type towards life? Towards justice and solidarity? of woman and what type of people has our education The FMA schools: education to a critical sense or simply formed? Has the feminine “social price-fixing”? In countries where, due to the model evolved? As a result efficiency of the state system, the catholic school is no longer of thinking among us or as a a necessity, do we manage to present an educative project which is meaningful, with a clear vision of the person and reaction to provocations by his/her goal? the culture? As FMA we have a clear strategy i.e. the formation of Are we trying to plug a hole Christian teachers. But for example, the proverbial non- where the risks of secularizing political approach, to what extent has it contributed to a mentality are concerned or limited formation of the girls and boys to the socio-political where historically Christianity dimension and to social responsibility? Why is it difficult has been absent, or are among our school students, to find young people who are we constructive, offering a enthusiastic for the common good? Is it not true that we Christian anthropology, a have possibly weakened our contact and our dialogue with

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In the early 1900’s the FMA n Our Province Shillong I were among the first religious to attend university, but then, he FMA-PCI, a delegation was it the rush for certificates, Tof the six provinces of obtained in a short period, Salesian Sisters gathered for which created the cultural a three-day meeting at Mary vacuum which makes us feel Our Help Training Centre, Bellefonte-Shillong from Septem- inadequate in the mission? ber 21–23, 2012. The theme of the meeting is FMA India Formation Programme. The Holy Eucharist was presided In the past there was not so over by Rev. Fr. George Maliekal SDB, the Provincial of Sil- much a crisis of the meaning char Province. The members include Provincials, National of life, because there were Coordinators of different sectors and the delegates from the some shared values, while provinces. today there is confusion, and In the inaugural Eucharistic celebration the host province we are stuck in the present. made all to reflect on ‘I am the Potter; you are the clay’ How does this question us as depicting the PCI theme on ‘formation.’ At the entrance we ourselves “sow” the seeds procession Sr. Lucy Rose Ozhukayil, the presiding General so that good will flourish? Councillor, carried the Institute’s flag, she was followed by Which elements favour the Sr. Wilma de Souza, the President of the PCI and the five Provincials, who carried clay pots representing the Indian unity of the Institute within Provinces, our nothingness and our readiness to acknowl- the one charism? In a living edge that we are the clay and He is the Potter. circle, the preventive system has to be re-elaborated During the homily Fr. Maliekal spoke of the importance of according to local contexts, the selection of candidates, of praying for the formees and and then confronted with accompanying them while they begin to make their experi- gospel and Salesian values. ence of Christ. What means do we use to Welcoming the participants to the meeting the young people reflect on experience and on from Sacred Heart Convent, Mawlai arrayed in colourful education according to the preventive system? Translator’s note. It was decided to omit the footnotes as many of the references are not available in English. An exception was made for the initial quotation from Timothy Radcliffe O.P.as he may be known to many from the English-speaking world.

FMA–INS.info  dress, waved their balloons high accompanied by their Sharing of PCI lively movements and some he Opening of the Diamond Year of the Immaculate vested in traditional attire THeart of Mary, Province-Shillong, was preceded by the accompanied the revered PCI sharing of PCI meet at Auxilium, Nongthymmai. The day members as they ushered began with the prayer moment which led the participants them in to the hall for the to invoke the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Sr. Suja Isabella, inaugural function. Provincial, briefed the assembly, comprising of Animators, The Novices and Sr. Isabella Provincial Team Members and a few sisters representatives, Suja, the FMA Provincial of some of the key moments, discussions and decisions of the Shillong through a skit intro- PCI meet held at Bellefonte from September 21-23, 2012. duced the beginnings of the Indian Provinces and the his- tory of its growth in a charm- ing narrative style. This was Forward Together… followed by a graceful prayer he later hours of the day were animated by Rev. Fr. V.M dance putting the assembly TThomas SDB, Provincial, Guwahati. “Whatever you ask, in touch with the Divine. believe that you have already received it” (Jn. 15, 7) has The program closed with a been the inspiration behind all his mighty undertakings. He traditional dance an amazing challenged the participants with a few thought provoking symbol of unity of the Khasi, questions: “What type of channel are you to your people or Garo and Jaintia tribes of region? What impact has the 60 years as a Province made? Meghalaya a home for lovers Are you happy with what you are? Or do you want to do of nature and beauty. something else? We have access to the infinite ocean of Sr. Lucy Rose with words of blessings…so what is preventing us from being the best we great appreciation thanked can be? the young people, Novices Quoting the Constitutions of the SDB Art. 41: “Sensitive and Pre-Aspirants for their to the signs of the times and with initiatives...” he said: Be performance, assuring them Faithful Rebels, Loving Agitators and Creative Misfits. Fur- of our affection and support always. INSINFO Correspondent

“How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathethic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of those.” – George Washington Carver

FMA–INS.info  ther he said “Obstacles are what you see when you take at 10.00 am. Representatives of your eye away from your goal” (Henry Ford). Therefore, the Salesian Family added to the we need to acquire the PHD degree: Perseverance, Hard grandeur of the occasion. The work and Dedication. Archbishop, in his homily said that on such occasion as this, He inspired the participants with the 5 ‘I’s: Imitate, Im- individual members and the prove, Innovate, Inspire and Imagine and the “SERVE”: province should look forward See the future, Engage and develop, Re-invent con- with hope and expectation of tinuously, Value result and relationship and Embody the the future in gratitude to God value. and to those who have preceded We are grateful to Fr. V. M Thomas for sharing with us them. Basing his reflection on part of his vision and for his brotherly exhortations as we the life of Sr. Maria Troncatti, he prepare to celebrate the 60 years of our Province. also exhorted everyone to strive for holiness in our daily living as did this great missionary. TWIN FEASTS After the holy Mass, the as- sembly gathered in front of the n November 23, we had the meaningful Vigil Service house for the releasing of two animated by the community of Auxilium, Nongth- O pigeons and the 60 colourful ymmai. All the Animators of the communities brought balloons to mark the joyous day colourful flags with the names of the houses written on in the life of our Institute and them. They placed them at the feet of the well decorated our Province. May Blessed Maria statue of Our Lady. Troncatti pray and intercede for The Prayer Service was followed by the Five-Act Drama us the gift of holiness. on the life of Sr. Maria Troncatti by the Novices of Belle- Sr. Joplin Suchiang & fonte under the leadership of Sr. Catherine Susngi who is Sr. Teresa Kamsuan also the author of the Play. The performance was a fitting preparation for the great day. November 24 saw the solemn Opening of the Diamond A Day of Silence Jubilee Year of the Province of Shillong. It was indeed a happy coincidence with the Beatification of Sr. Maria with the Lord Troncatti. Most Rev Archbishop Dominic Jala SDB, DD presided over the Holy Eucharist along with seven priests “Be still and know that I am God.” (Ps.46:10) Our Sisters from the commu- nities of Bellefonte, Mawlai, FMA-OUWC and Nongthymmai gathered at FMA-OUWC on December 1, 2012 for a full day recollection, a day of silence with the Lord. The day began with words of hearty welcome from Sr. Gemima Pohrmen, the Animator. She wished all of us a fruitful day with Him. The si-

FMA–INS.info  lence and peaceful ambient of the community set a prayerful The Holy Mass was followed background for the entire day. Everyone relished the time by a solemn meal after which spent before the Blessed Sacrament where we examined our- a short but enriching good- selves before the Lord in preparation with the encounter in night was given by Sr. Cath- the Sacrament of Reconciliation. In the afternoon, Fr. Denis erine Susngi. She reminded Lalfela SDB, Rector of Mathias Institute enlightened us with us of some of the impor- his talk on the theme “Lord, let me see again.” (Lk.18: 35...) tant things from the two talks we have heard and added a The five steps taken by the blind beggar: point from Article 77 of our 1. He welcomes Jesus into his life: The beggar was blind and Constitutions which speaks deserted by others. He heard of Jesus and wanted to be about the Holy Spirit. We healed. He realized that he was blind. If we don’t realize need to invite Him personally our blindness, we will not feel the need for healing. in all that we do. The best example of a person who 2. He implores Jesus’ help: The blind man could do only constantly lived in faith and one thing - to shout for help. We need to repair some by the inspiration of the Holy areas of our life, the areas which are not known to others Spirit is none other than but to God alone. Have we shouted enough for Jesus’ help Our Blessed Mother, Mary. in any situation? Sr. Catherine exhorted us to 3. He faces difficulty as he calls on Jesus: Every process intensify our prayer for each of healing involves pain and tears. The blind man felt other as we are preparing rejected by his own people who told him not to shout. for the Solemnity of Mary In our lives too, often Satan tells us not to shout or call Immaculate and to take her on Jesus’ name but to DELAY! example and walk in Faith. 4. Jesus heals his blindness: Jesus understood the beggar’s Then, the sisters from oth- conviction when he replied, “Lord, I want to see again.” er communities expressed We can also be afflicted with blindness. We need to ‘see their heartfelt gratitude to again’ with the eyes of faith. ‘See again’ means ‘new life, Sr. Gemima and the Sisters new dignity, new hope, new perspective and respected in of the community for every- the society.’ thing and dispersed to their respective communities. All 5. Following Jesus he becomes a blessing to others: Every of us were enriched in many healing is for becoming a blessing to others. The devil ways. takes away the gifts which are not shared with others. Christ is coming for our freedom and healing. Let us not Thus, we conclude: Silence make excuses saying ‘I am still in sin’ instead let us say is not non - communication. ‘Maranatha, Come Lord Jesus, I Want to See Again.’ It is availability to God. So, we can preserve an inner The climax of the day was the celebration of the Holy Eucha- silence even in the midst of rist by Fr. Peter Nengnong, Salvatorian. In the homily he stirring events and exciting emphasized on the celebration of the year of faith in three happenings. So ends the day, points namely to profess the Faith - in fullness, with renewed the last of its kind in 2012. conviction and with renewed confidence and hope, to inten- But let us continue to keep sify the Celebration of Faith in the Liturgy especially the Holy that inner silence to hear the Eucharist and credibility of our life of witness. Lord speaking to us every Fr. Peter further said that our first call is to ‘Share our Faith moment. with others.’ Sr. Anita Dhar

FMA–INS.info  Govt. of Meghalaya. Other Laying of the Founda- invitees present were Smt. Therlinda Khongwir, Presi- tion Stone of Bellefonte dent of Rotary Club, Shillong and two other members Rtn. Community College (BCC) Dr. Debashish Das and Rtn. Chandana Das; Mr. George cum Inauguration of the S, Chief Manager of Fed- Composting Toilets eral Bank, Sr. Isabella Suja Bellefonte FMA, Provincial, Shillong Province, her Council and ovember 24, 2012, is a very historic day in the life and Sisters, Mr. P. Khongdup, development of Bellefonte Community College (BCC) as N Headman, Lumshyiap, Mr. its foundation stone was blessed and laid on this very day Banri Juban, Architect, Mr. which coincided with the Opening of the Diamond Jubilee Best, Consultant for the Con- year of the Province and the Beatification Sr. Maria Troncatti struction, Pynthorumkhrah FMA. The gathering was inspired by the dreams and visions of Parish Council Members, BCC our great missionaries who laid the foundation with courage, Governing Board Members, sacrifice and dedication and now have gone to their eternal re- representatives from Women ward. Among them, Mother Catherine Mania, first Provincial, Association, Lumshyiap, Staff stands prominent for her special love and concern for the poor and abandoned. Following the footsteps of this great personal- and Students of BCC and ity and the other missionaries, the Salesian Sisters of Shillong our neighbours. They were Province in the recent past, with rare insight and wisdom put all welcomed and felicitated forward the concept of having a Community College - a chal- by Sr. Carmelina Sun FMA, lenging mission to counteract the problem of School dropouts Animator of Mary Our Help by integrating both academic and vocational training. Training Centre, Bellefonte and Secretary of Bellefonte The programme was held at 4.00 pm in Bellefonte Campus. Community College (BCC) The Foundation was blessed by Rev. Fr. Ioannis War Pakma and the welcome melody by SDB, Parish Priest of Sts. Peter and Paul Church, Pynthorum- the Students of BCC. khrah and the foundation stone was laid by Honourable Chief Guest, Shri A.L. Hek, Minister of General Administration The assembly was led into Department, Water Resources and Information Technology, prayer by Sr. Celina Maslai and the Novices with the hymn ‘There shall be show- ers of blessings’ imploring God’s blessings upon every- one present. Mr. Fredrick Lyn- gkhoi, Governing Body Mem- ber, BCC, and Joint Director of MBOSE read the Word of God and Fr. Ioannis gave a short message wherein he joined us in thanking God for such a noble task undertaken by the Province for the cause of the young at risk. Through

FMA–INS.info  highlighted ‘education as investment’ and stressed that education is an inestimable value today. He also handed a computer set to Lurshai School-FMA Outreach for Underprivileged Women and Children. Finally, Sr. Helen Puwein proposed a vote of thanks expressing her gratitude to God and to everyone present at the function. After the programme, refreshment was served for the guests, invitees, sisters, staff and students. Sr. Celina Maslai the hymn ‘May the Lord be our help and salvation’ and in- FMA-OUTREACH tercessory prayers, the assembly implored God to bring this construction to a successful completion and for his protec- n November 9, 2012 the tion during the course of construction. Before blessing the OFMA-Outreach conduct- foundation site, Sr. Rosa Pyngrope FMA, Novice Mistress, ed an awareness programme read the Document of the Foundation of BCC. Thereafter, the on HIV/AIDS for the students Chief Guest and all the dignitaries moved to the foundation of Lurshai Morning Second- site for the blessing and laying of the foundation stone. The ary School and Bellefonte solemn significant moment was concluded with the hymn, Community College. The ‘No Man can live as an Island’ imploring the Motherly pres- participants were 84 in all. ence and guidance of our Blessed Lady to assist us in every The resource person of the way and every step that we may undertake in this venture. day was Sr. Elizabeth Than- nimootil, Nurse and Anima- Another noteworthy event on this same day was the tor of Auxilium Convent, Inauguration of the Composting Toilets, the use of which Nongthymmai. was explained briefly by Sr. Helen Puwein, President of BCC. It was inaugurated by Smt. Therlinda Khongwir, Through the power-point President, Rotary Club, Shillong. In her short message she presentation the following expressed her appreciation of the Salesian Sisters for the main points were dealt with: commendable service to the society through BCC under the 1) What is HIV/AIDS hardworking and able leadership of Sr. Helen Puwein who has been associated with the Rotary Club of Shillong for 2) How it spread/transmit- the past few years. ted Shri A.L Hek, Minister of GAD too, in his message 3) Symptoms of HIV/AIDS appreciated the Sisters especially Sr. Helen for the wonderful 4) Prevention from HIV/ and immense contribution to the society through BCC. He Aids

FMA–INS.info 10 the students of Class X after which the welcome address and message on the theme by Sir James. The day was very pleasant and fine and all the students participated with high-spirit in all the events of the day. Quiz on Don Bosco and Mazzarello for high school students was being conducted intelligently by capable teacher Sir Ter- ence Sawian. The different items prepared by students of Moral Science During the course of the program it was a very touching and Catechism added taste scene to witness one of the participants who gave testi- and colour to the memo- mony of his own experience. Having lived the trauma of rable day. In the afternoon those days he exhorted his fellow young people never to get there was presentation of into this bad habit. The students also posed their queries skits, songs, poem recitation, in relation with the topic to which the resource person ef- dance, action song, video clip ficiently answered and satisfied their curiosity. One of the and maxim based on the Don participants expressed that the program was an eye-opener Bosco and Mother Mazzarel- to her and to her friends too. lo. While performing on stage Sr. Euginia Laloo they conveyed a strong mes- sage to the young audience. The day’s programme ended JOWAI with the vote of thanks by Sr. Esther Marwein Principal, expressing deep and sincere Don Bosco thanks and gratitude for each and everyone for the active and Mazzarello Day

he 26th of September 2012 was Ta remarkable day on which St. Mary Mazzarello Girls’ Hr. Sec- ondary School Jowai celebrated Don Bosco and Mazzarello Day. It was observed with much zeal and enthusiasm. The meaning of the celebration bore a clear purpose and that was to make the students know more about the saints. The celebration began with the melodious opening chorus sung by

FMA–INS.info 11 participation in the events, especially the teachers who took an active part with great have shouldered an extra responsibility. She concluded enthusiasm and desired to with a short prayer thanking God for the beautiful day. know the Word of God more. The students went out of the hall intellectually fed with The significant week was Salesian bread. brought to a close with a Mr. Paulus Kharmudai (Teacher) message from Sr. Merciful Nongsiej; ‘Teachers and Stu- dents, let us live the faith Mawkyndeng that we have received from God and our parents in our Bible Week - daily life by doing our best in whatever we do’. We thank St. Francis English School all our teachers, House Lead- t. Francis English Medium School, Mawkyndeng inaugu- ers and all the participants of Srated the Year of Faith in a special manner by organizing the different competitions for a Bible week from October 29 to November 1, 2012. Every- making the week a successful day’s programme was taken care of by the students of the and a fruitful one. God bless different houses in a creative and meaningful way based on our school. ‘Faith’. Each student and teacher tried their best to honour Aibanroylang Suchiang, the Word of God and to deepen their faith through the dif- Class -VI ferent presentations in the assemblies, Catechism classes, notice board preparation and other activities. The Bible Week was concluded on November 1, 2012.We MAWLAI were indeed very fortunate to end on the solemnity of all the saints. The day was opened with the prayer service, led Celebration by Sr. Merciful Nongsiej, headmistress, in which everyone took part prayerfully and joyfully. This was followed by the of the Year of message of Sr. Patricia Nongkhlaw, Animator, where she exhorted everyone to love the Word of God and to increase Faith our faith. “Faith without action is The entire celebration was organized in such a way that dead” (James.2:26) each one deepened the Word of God through Bible quiz, Bi- ble Skits and Gospel sing-out competitions. The four houses n October 19, 2012 Sa- Ocred Heart Girls’ Higher Secondary School- Mawlai celebrated the opening of the year of Faith with a short and meaningful programme. We had a beautiful prayer service animated by a group of stu- dents under the guidance of Sr. Lily Kharbuki-incharge of English section, during which everyone participated de- voutly. There was also a short procession within the School FMA–INS.info 12 were many items prepared by the Sisters and teachers to make the students happy and enjoy the day which was followed by the grand lunch prepared by them with much love. We thank them for all their hard work which made us feel great. The same was celebrated at premises led by a teacher carrying the Word of God with the the convent on November 9, two little ones who carry the lighted candles as a sign of rev- 2012 we, the boarders were erence and respect to the Word of God which was followed the center of the celebration. by the Sisters, teachers and students. The Bible was placed at All of us enjoyed, had so the School entrance which was well decorated for everyone to much of fun with the fan- see and that we are reminded of the faith we profess. During tastic stage programme put the Prayer service, we had students dressed like the different up by our Sisters. One of the Saints of the Church who gave us the message on how they best items was the skit on achieved sanctity through the faith they professed. After the ‘Heaven’ and ‘Hell’, it tells us prayer service, there were some items based on faith. We believe this has helped us to deepen our faith in God and to clearly that in heaven there is make use of our every opportunity as an occasion to witness only joy, happiness, laughter the faith we have received. In conclusion, our thanks go to and sharing while in hell Sr. Carmelina Sun; Superior, Sr. Albrida Pyngrope; Principal, there is only jealousy, greedi- all the Sisters and teachers who organized this programme ness, hatred and sadness. All in order to make us realize the importance of the ‘Faith’ we the sisters performed so well have in God. and gave us the good mes- sage. We thank the Sisters Rilumlang Sun (School captain) for the fun we had together and for making us happy and made our day special. We Children’s Day celebration love you dear sisters and let ovember 8, 2012 marked the anticipation God bless you always. Nof the event of the Children’s day celebra- Rose Lima Sutnga (Cl. XII) tion at Sacred Heart Girls’ Higher Secondary School, Mawlai. Every student enjoyed the day to the full. Right from the start of the day, there was the Eucharistic celebration in which we thanked God for the gift of every student in our School whose presence adds life, joy and happiness to the surrounding. Rev. Fr. Denis Lalfela sdb, the Rector of Mathias Insti- tute, the celebrant, encouraged and advised all the students to be studious and aim higher in life and also to keep on thanking God for the precious gift of this life and the unnumbered blessings we receive daily. After Mass, there

FMA–INS.info 13 Annual Spiritual Retreat hou Stephen and Fr. Philip Kurisummootril MSFS from etreat days are days of grace and blessings. We, the board- Holy Redeemer Retreat Cen- Rers and pre- aspirants of Sacred Heart Convent express tre were instruments of the our sentiments of deep joy after spending three days with the success of our retreat. We Lord. October 21 - 24, 2012 will always remain in our heart could say that we have met and mind because we have experienced the tangible presence the Lord and want to stay of the Lord and His love for each of us. Rev. Fr. Metha Avil- with Him always. The lively and inspiring talks, adoration and our devout participa- tion in the Holy Eucharistic celebration brought us closer to the Lord. We have been enriched and we promise that we will continue to keep up the spirit of our retreat. We thank Sr. Carmelina Sun and all our Sisters for the love they showed us in arranging this retreat for us and for all the help received. May God’s blessings be on them too. Maria Goretti Kharsyiemlieh

Celebrating the Beatification of Sr. Maria Troncatti n November 25, 2012, the commu- Onity of Mawlai celebrated and made known to the parishioners of Mawlai about the event, i.e., the beatification of Sr. Maria Troncatti that had taken place at Ecuador- South America the previous day. The Flex projecting Sr. Maria Tron- catti was placed in front of the school as to make the great event known to all who pass by, the previous day the long good morning was based on Sr. Maria Troncatti and on the Sunday following the Beatification good animation was done in the parish by reading her brief life sketch as an introduction in all the four Masses. We could see the interest and eagerness of the people to know more about her life. It was an occasion to renew our lives and strive towards sanctity. The people too felt themselves of the need to live a holy and fervent christian life. It was indeed a beautiful experience that we have all joined together to praise God for the gift of Blessed Maria Troncatti. May God help us as we strive towards holiness. Sr. Ribhalin Khyriem

FMA–INS.info 14 to Sr. Christina Kharkongor, MAWTNUM Mr. Anthony Laloo, Mrs. Mildred Iawphniaw and Mrs. Give me souls Bernadeth Mawkhlieng who and take away the rest had come from Shillong to inspire our members. I fter a long wait, I feel the dream is fulfilled even though am thankful to Sr. Celine Ait is just the first step, we have taken. Don Bosco want- Michael and the Sisters for ed his work to carry on, so after being in Mawtnum, I got the support in this venture the inspiration of why not start Salesian Co-operators here and to all the 19 members in Nongpoh Region so that we can work and reach out to who express willingness to the people better. With the permission and encouragement become Salesian Co-opera- received from Sr. Celine Michael, Animator and the Sisters I tors. Above all, I thank God took the initiative to start speaking to the people on different and Our Blessed Mother who occasions to be members of our Salesian family. Therefore have helped me and gave me after few months of introducing and speaking, I talked to Sr. this inspiration. Christina Kharkongor, Delegate of the Salesian Co-operators, Sr. Happyline Shadap about the intention. She so willingly gave her full support for the initiation of the same. Arrangements were made for the Provincial team to visit our centre. The appointed day dawned, the 18th November, 2012 wherein out of 24 mem- Twin Celebra- bers 19 of them have come to Auxilium Convent, Mawtnum tions held to listen to the talk and explanation about the life of Don Bosco, his work and the role of the Co-operators. The 19 ovember 3, 2012 was a members consisting of 4 men and 15 women have eagerly Nremarkable day for us listened and were ready to become aspirants in order to join at Mawtnum in which the the Co-operators. Sr. Christina Kharkongor and Mr. Anthony 140 years of the foundation Laloo have well explained and made known to them about of our Institute cum parents what it meant to be a Salesian Co-operator. It was a happy day was celebrated with event to mark the 140 years of the foundation of our Insti- much pomp and show. It was tute and the Bi-centenary birth of Don Bosco. I am grateful the first time ever we had Parents’ Day. Dr. Celestine Lyngdoh MDC of Nongpoh was the chief Guest and Fr. Glorious Syiemlieh SDB, the parish priest of Nongpoh par- ish was the Guest of honour. Our Sisters from Saiden too joined for the day in which many parents participated. Being a celebration of the 140 years of the foundation of our institute the programme started with the power point

FMA–INS.info 15 NONGSTOIÑ Children’s Day celebrated ogether with the rest of Tthe country, we at Aux- ilium Lumjingshai School, Mawroh celebrated the Chil- dren’s day in a very festive manner. The supposed to be Chief Guest Mr. H. Brol Nongsiej the MLA candi- presentation on Mother Maz- his speech said that it is date could not be present as zarello’s life prepared by Sr. the best school that gives planned due to his urgent Mary Lamare. Sr. Happylin opportunity to many stu- programme scheduled but Mr. Handistar Thabah, his Shadap delivered the wel- dents who had no chance secretary represented him. come speech and at the same to study and are brought The function started with the time shared the activities of back to school. He was de- arrival of the Chief Guest and the community. lighted to hear that many he was welcomed with the of our students had passed The Variety Show consists melodious welcome song by and joined in different of chorus singing, dance and the students followed by the colleges, work in different words of welcome by Miss skit on the life of Mother offices, hospital as Nurses Rofina Syiem. Mr. Beneda Mazzarello. Boarders partici- and even in different for- Sohshang, the sordar of the pated enthusiastically in the mation houses. He made village was also present on program which turned out to the young to realize that this day and in his speech he be a grand success. The par- in order to transform the mentioned some of the urgent ents were happy to see their society they need to begin needs of the school. This was children on the stage taking from themselves. Sr. Linda followed by the speech of part in different items. Horne, the pioneer of this Sr. Cecilia Ksoo, the Head- Institution proposed the mistress of the School. She The chief Guest Dr. Celestine exhorted the students to work vote of thanks. Prior to Lyngdoh expressed his words hard and do well in their this, each child was asked of appreciation for the works studies in order to come up by Sr. Linda to present a done by our Institution; he in life. Cultural dances were thank you card to their pointed out to the parents performed by the students parents and show their how to bring up their chil- and a very exciting basket ball gratitude towards them by dren without distinguishing match cheered the audience. embracing their parents. A whether the child is a boy or On this occasion the Chief delicious meal was served Guest, in his speech said “I a girl. Children must love and for all on that day. am delighted to be here and respect their parents as they I accepted with joy to come Sr. Jenita Nongbri are. Fr. Glorious Syiemlieh in and see wonderful children

FMA–INS.info 16 like you”. He also added “As Peter’s Convent Nongstoin and Head Mistress of Auxilium you grow in age, wisdom Lumjingshai School, the Headman and some other executive and knowledge so also keep members of the two schools and parents added colour to the growing in morality which is programme. The Chief Guest was welcomed by the students now deteriorating”. He also of both the schools with their melodious voices, a bouquet of highlighted the important flowers and the welcome speech. In the short meeting between role of teachers and parents the Chief Guest and the two schools, the chief guest congratu- in imparting value education lated the teachers for their creativity in guiding the children to to the younger generation. discover one’s own talents. She also appreciated the students The school is grateful to him for their zealous participation in every item. She further said for a small amount of cash as “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom” she ended a contribution. Soon after his her speech with a word of blessings “God bless you all and speech, Miss Bristila Marwein wished good luck to the remaining programmes after which proposed the vote of thanks Sr. Cecilia Ksoo gave a short speech where she inspired the and this was followed by the students to make use their own talents in the best way accord- fraternal meal served for all ing to their own intelligence and skills. which was lovingly prepared The next day’s programme was held at Auxilium Lumjingshai by the sisters and staff of School. Various competitions such as Quiz, drawing, singing, the school. In the afternoon, dancing, exhibitions of different models, art and craft and Bas- some items were presented ketball competition took centre stage. Mr. Boldnes Nongrum by the teachers that made the the Chief Guest of the day arrived in the afternoon. He was children enjoy to the full and warmly welcomed by the students of both the schools and they returned home happy Miss Andalin Nongsiej, the teacher of Auxilium Lumjingshai and contented. School delivered a welcome speech followed by cultural dances. Mr. Beneda Sohshang, the village sordar in his speech mentioned some of the important needs of the schools, while Auxilium Sr. Cecilia Ksoo explained the purpose of organizing the pro- gramme for the children. This was followed by the Basketball Lumjingshai competitions. The chief guest was taken up with surprise and in his speech exclaimed “It is incredible to see the children at and RCLP the foot of this Mawthadraishan who could do such wonders School Talent and I am fortunate to be invited for such occasion”. He further encouraged the teachers and students to bring out and dis- Show 2012 cover one’s own talents more and more. These two wonderful days ended with the prize distribution to all the winners by he Auxilium Lumjingshai the chief guest who had brought the prizes for them. It was School and RCLP School T indeed an Mawroh jointly organized enjoyable time for all. “Talent Show 2012” on Oc- Sr. Kanrisha Thangkhiew tober 23-24, 2012. It was inaugurated at RCLP School by Miss Fenylla Lyngdoh The Old Year has gone. Let the dead past bury its Nonglait the contestant MLA own dead. The New Year has taken possession of of the area and the Chief the clock of time. All hail the duties and possibilities Guest of the day’s program. of the coming twelve months! The presence of Sr. Cecilia – Edward Payson Powell Ksoo the Animator of St

FMA–INS.info 17 NONGTHYMMAI Celebrating the “Year of Faith” A New Shepherd ith a prayerful mood, the com- in the pasture of Wmunity gathered in the verandah for the prayer service to mark the Auxilium-Nongthymmai opening of the “Year of Faith” (Octo- he atmosphere of the community was set in a ber, 2012- November 24, 2013). At the Tcomplete and unbounded happiness and grati- very outset, the community together tude to God with the installation of Sr. Elizabeth asked God’s grace and mercy for the Thannimootil as our new animator. The group times we have ignored or grew cold in-charge of the liturgy creatively and beautifully in our faith through a short penitential animated the prayer service with the theme of the rite. A short dialogue and commentary Good Shepherd. In the course of the prayer service, on the significance of the Year of Faith Sr. Isabella Suja, our Provincial presented the staff was dramatically presented. Each to Sr. Elizabeth, a gesture that the Lord entrusts to member renewed the profession of our her the mission of our community as a shepherd faith with lighted lamps in our hands guards his flock. The representatives of the Sisters, reminding ourselves of our responsi- Pre Aspirants, girls, co-workers and our young bility to keep the lamp of faith which people from the hostel carried a lighted lamp each we have received at our Baptism and to the altar as a gesture, that together we will keep was renewed with our religious profes- alive and ablaze the flame of God’s love in our com- sion aglow. It is a sign of our renewed munity united in love and communion. Sr. Isabella commitment to live authentically our entrusts the community to the care of Sr. Elizabeth call as Christians and religious. The during her message and invited the community Holy Father’s emphasis on deepening to be submissive to God’s grace that comes to the the Catechism of the Catholic Church community through the humble instrumentality of Sr. Elizabeth. After the prayerful atmosphere and and the Documents of Vatican II was invocation of the presence of God in the life of our briefly communicated. The assembly community, the assembly gathered in the verandah with lighted lamps in the hands walk to offer our heartiest congratulations to our new in procession to the chapel with the animator. Sr. Elizabeth thanked and appreciated Word of God, the Catechism of the the gesture of the community and look forward to Catholic Church and the Document of better relationship in love and unity in the days the Vatican II, which were reverently and years to come. Everyone was spelled bound carried as a gesture which evokes a by her desire to give more of herself in love for the significant moment in the work of the community. In her own words “ what more could I Vatican Council II. The Word of God do for you? ” the guiding principle of her life is an was placed on the altar while the Cat- impetus for all of us to give our best in everything echism of the Catholic Church and the and to collaborate with her wholeheartedly to make Document of the Vatican II were kept God’s plan and dream of love and communion a in a well decorated and prominent reality. We pray to God to stir on the fire of enthu- place below the altar accompanied siasm in all of us that together we journey towards by the lighted lamps of commitment the horizons planned by Him. and love of each member of the com- Sr. E. Kyntiew Susngi munity. The community implored the

FMA–INS.info 18 grace of God to strengthen we could take the next step of our religious life. This retreat our faith as in unison sang was based on ‘prayer’ which says, “It is only when our the hymn “Strengthen our minds and spirits are quiet and serene that we can come faith Redeemer”. The solemn to know God.” The three days of our being with the Lord celebration concluded with had helped us to discover him and his love a little more the Adoration to the Blessed and made us to commit our life to Him. The retreat con- Sacrament seeking the bless- cluded on Friday evening with a good confession followed ing of the Lord on the Univer- by solemn meaningful thanksgiving Eucharistic celebration. sal Church, members of our Having this chance we would like to express our loving province and community to and sincere gratitude to our dear Sr. Lilly Kurian, Animator strengthen our faith and thus and all the Sisters of our community who followed us very we may profess it in fullness closely and prayerfully to make this retreat a successful and and with renewed conviction, a holy one. We also would like to extend a special thanks confidence and hope. to our Mother Provincial, all the Sisters and Novices of our Sr. E. Kyntiew Susngi Province who supported and accompanied us with their prayers during this annual spiritual retreat. Thank you to one and all. We prayed for you too. SAIDEN Rishailin Ronring & Yowanka Lyngdoh (Aspirants) Moment with the Lord New life has begun he Aspirants and Postu- fter discernment and a close intimate relationship with Tlants of Shillong Province Athe Lord during the retreat, on October 7, 2012, we had their annual Spiritual Re- the 12 Aspirants courageously said ‘yes’ to the Lord and took our promise to dedicate our lives in these coming treat on the October 3-5, 2012 months to the intense preparation of committing ourselves at Auxilium Saiden Nongpoh. to God in the Congregation of the Daughters of Mary Help We were 37 all together - 25 of Christians. We have chosen “… I have carved you in Aspirants and 12 Postulants. the palm of my hands” Is 49: 16, as our guiding principle Rev Fr. Thomas Polackal SDB during these months of our journey as Postulants. With the lovingly known as Fr. Tom, same hands which God has created, shielded and moulded the Spiritual Director of the us beautifully, we are sure that he will be there holding Sacred Heart Theologically and leading our hands wherever we go. We are privilege to College, Mawlai, Shillong was enter into this first step on the feast of our Mother Mary, the the Preacher. The presence of queen of the Holy rosary. Together with her, we walk our our dear Mother Provincial journey towards our goal. Sweet memories are evergreen; Rev. Sr. Isabella Suja made it was really a memorable day because a new page in our hearts delighted by the the diary of our life has begun. It was indeed a beautiful rich personal encounter with moment where we experienced a deep encounter with God her. She lovingly guided and through the solemn prayer service animated by Sr. Madona helped us to pray and to dis- Lytep and the Aspirants. At the beginning of the prayer cern well our choice before moment, the 12 candidates with a flower in their hands

FMA–INS.info 19 approached the sacred place MEDIA EDUCATION??? in procession. The flower was placed in front of our Lady; Media Education is not: symbol of life, youthfulness, a) The study of media technology joyfulness and readiness to b) Proficiency in educational spread the beauty, perfume technology and fragrance of God’s love to everyone especially c) The use of media in education to the young. After the d) Not training for media careers motherly advice and words e) Training in inter-personal of encouragement by Mother communications skills Provincial Rev. Sr. Isabella f) A proficiency in non-formal group media Suja, the 12 candidates g) Film appreciation pronounced their promise h) An alternative to value education in front of the community and received the Postulants’ Media education is: Medal. The community and – A process of critical reflection on the mass media for a all those present wished them more responsible participation in society. congratulations and prayed for their holy perseverance. – It involves three levels: This was followed by a a) Awareness of the anatomy, language, techniques felicitation programme and b) Analysis and ‘e-value-ation’ of the effect on a family tea. This day was individuals and society caused by: successful because of the By Content (message): prayerful support of all the By Medium/media used: sisters in our province. We By promotional strategy: are sincerely grateful to them and asked God to bless and By political and economic control reward them abundantly. By perception of producers and consumers Our sincere gratitude also c) Participation of the now media-educated person in goes to Rev. Sr. Lilly Kurian, the construction of socially relevant messages by our animator, the sisters using the media. and aspirants for their hard work and generous service in Obstacles to Media Education? making this day a wonderful a) Lack of knowledge of Media Ed. and successful one. God b) Misconceptions about media Ed. bless you all and may God c) An already packed syllabus send many more zealous and holy vocation to our d) Tight curriculum schedule Province. “Long live INS” e) Lack of trained personnel Roda Rongrin & Liza f) Lack of urgency by managers of schools Kharkongor (Postulants) g) Lack of will to implement by principals

FMA–INS.info 20 h) Ignorant and confused parenting Analysis: i) Lack of equipment and space a) To study media messages and their effect j) Craze for results over character formation on our lives k) Stress of syllabus-based over life-based b) To understand the role popular appeal education play in determining the content, method, and frequency of media messages being l) Text-book trained teachers communicated. Can ME be implemented? c) To understand the difference between Yes it can through either of the following the fact and interpretation and their ways: effects on news reporting 1. Integration into curriculum (20days per d) To realize that selection and yrX3yrs) reconstruction is essential to all media productions. 2. Media Camps: (3 days) e) To study the merits and demerits of 3. Media Weekends: (2 mths) different media in communicating a 4. Media Clubs: message 5. A Media- expo day f) To research the impact of media and 6. Media-Ed. Debates and forums messages on various segments of the population The Media Education Teacher g) To analyze the implicit and explicit The ideal ME teacher is one who is: messages of the media – Media alert h) To note the difference between media – Intelligent and creative (reel) life and real life – Lives by values i) To identify media influences on our – Capable of Class Management opinions, relationships, lifestyle and points of view Why Media E ducate? j) To take note of media stereotypes and Media education is important because it their effect on the sociocultural reality helps: of the individual and community Awareness: k) To make a responsible choice between values and media ‘values’ a) To understand the media culture l) To be aware of the politics behind the b) To learn its language media c) To appreciate art, intelligence and m) To know that nearly all mass media are creativity business interests d) To know media strategies in marketing n) To analyze media expenditure in the e) To know how people in the media light of the economic disparity of the network population f) To value the power of the new information o) To study media ethics technology p) To understand the role sensationalism g) To value the hard work in media careers plays in the media industry and its h) To demythologize the media. impact on the masses.

FMA–INS.info 21 Christmas Inspirational Poem Upcoming Every time a hand reaches out To help another....that is Christmas Events Every time someone puts anger aside And strives for understanding February 21-May 24, 2013 That is Christmas Every time people forget their differences Canonical Visitation of And realize their love for each other Sr. Lucy Rose Ozhukayil FMA, That is Christmas May this Christmas bring us Visiting Councillor Closer to the spirit of human understanding

May 9, 2013 Closer to the blessing of peace! Platinum Jubilee of Sacred Heart Convent, THE CHRISTMAS Mawlai – Shillong

Diamond Jubilee Year ThouTen shalt giveCommandments thy heart to Christ. Let Him be at the top of thy Christmas list. Immaculate Heart of Thou shalt prepare thy soul for Christmas. Spend not so much Mary Province, Shillong on gifts that thy soul is forgotten. Thou shalt not let Santa Claus replace Christ, thus robbing the Strenna 2013 day of its spiritual reality. Like Don Bosco the educator, Thou shalt not burden the shop girl, the mailman, and the mer- we offer young people chant with complaints and demands. the Gospel of joy through Thou shalt give thyself with thy gift. This will increase its value a a pedagogy of kindness. hundred fold, and he who receiveth it shall treasure it forever. Thou shalt not value gifts received by their cost. Even the least expensive. Theme : 47th World Com- may signify love, and that is more priceless than silver and gold. munications Day Thou shalt not neglect the needy. Share thy blessings with many Social Networks: portals of who will go hungry and cold unless thou are generous. truth and faith; new spaces Thou shalt not neglect thy church. Its services highlight the true for evangelization meaning of the season. Thou shalt be as a little child. Not until thou has become in spirit as a little one art thou ready to enter into the kingdom of UN announced 2013 as Heaven. International Year of Thou shall not forget to share your joy, hope, peace and faithwith Water Cooperation those around you.

FMA–INS.info 22 Story Emergency Telephone Numbers The School Play alloween was history and These are more effective than any HThanksgiving day had passed. number… When – St Anne’s School was all a-buzz. It was You are sad, phone John 14 time to start getting ready for the school’s You have sinned, phone Psalm 51 Christmas Pageant. You are facing danger, phone Psalm 91 People have failed you, phone Psalm 27 Tommy had been in the “Sunday School It feels as though God is far from you, phone Psalm 139 Christmas Sing” last year. Now that he was in “real” school, he was excited about getting Your faith needs stimulation, phone Hebrews 11 to be in the “real” pageant. You are alone and scared, phone Psalm 23 You are worried, phone Matthew 8:19–34 He kept asking his mother, “Do you think You are hurt and critical, phone 1 Corinthians 13 they will let me be Joseph. I would like that. You wonder about Christianity, phone 2 Corinthians 5:15-18 REALLY like that” You feel like an outcast, phone Romans 8:31-39 “Maybe I could be baby Jesus. I would just You are seeking peace, phone Matthew 11:25-30 lay there and pretend I was asleep. You It feels as if the world is bigger than God, phone Psalm 90 know I can do that good.” You need Christ like insurance, phone Romans 8:1-30 You are leaving home for a trip, phone Psalm 121 “Oh, Mama, it would be fun to be a tiny little lamb; standing so quietly looking at You are praying for yourself, phone Psalm 87 Baby Jesus” You require courage for a task, phone Joshua 1 Inflation’s and investments are hogging Tommy’s mother was really quite concerned, your thoughts, phone Mark 10:17-31 because the school was quite large and You are depressive, phone Psalm 27 obviously not every child was going to get Your bank account is empty, phone Psalm 37 to be in the play. If he didn’t get a part, she You lose faith in mankind, phone Corinthians 13 was not sure how he would take it. It looks like people are unfriendly, phone John 15 She had tried to gently prepare him for the You are losing hope, phone Psalm 126 possible disappointment, but nothing she You feel the world is small compared to you, phone Psalm 19 said could temper the excitement. You want to carry fruit, phone John 15 Finally the day came that the parts were Paul’s secret for happiness, phone Colossians 3:12-17 awarded. Tommy’s mother went to pick him With big opportunity/discovery, phone Isaiah 55 up after school with great trepidation. To get along with other people, phone Romans 12

As she reached the front door of the school, ALTERNATE NUMBERS Tommy rushed up to her, eyes shining with For dealing with fear, call Psalm 3:47 pride and excitement. “Guess what Mum,” For security, call Psalm 121:3 he shouted, “I’ve been chosen to clap and For assurance, call Mark 8:35 cheer!” For reassurance, call Psalm 145:18

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