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Infidelity Resource Guide
Infdelity Resource Guide Tools to help you on the path of recovery from infidelity. by Esther Perel Infdelity Resource Guide - Table of Contents Table of Contents Part 1: Overview - Who is this for, and how can I use it? Part 2: Phases of Recovery Part 3: The Need to Know and to Understand: Detective vs. Investigative Questions Part 4: "After the Storm" - An Article I wrote for the Psychotherapy Networker Infdelity Resource Guide - Overview Who is this Guide For? This guide is for anyone seeking understanding, stability, and hope in the aftermath of an infidelity. You may be the person who had an affair(s), the hurt partner, the lover, the adult children of a couple in the midst of an infidelity, or a close friend or family member of a person in the throes of the crisis. I hope this offers you a preliminary framework for understanding and contextualizing. Of course, if you are in the throes of a post-affair revelation, or further down that road, there is no substitute for speaking with a trained psychotherapist. Isuggestseekingthehelpofaprofessionalforthoseofyoucurrentlydealing with infidelity. How Can I Use this Guide? These resources are meant to be a conversation starter. In the midst of a crisis, there is so much to say, and we often struggle to put our thoughts and feelings into words. We need structure, calm, and reassurance to figure out what happened and what to do about it. This booklet is to here to accompany you, but is not a substitute for speaking with a trained psychotherapist. If you are in a couple, you can read it alone, or together. -
The Relationship Between Sexual and Emotional Promiscuity and Infidelity
Athens Journal of Social Sciences- Volume 4, Issue 4 – Pages 385-398 The Relationship between Sexual and Emotional Promiscuity and Infidelity By Ricardo Pinto † Joana Arantes The main aim of the present study is to relate, for the first time, the sexual and emotional sides of infidelity, that is characterized by any form of close physical or emotional involvement with another person while in a committed relationship with promiscuity, which is typically defined by the search for the maximum sexual pleasure or how easily and often someone falls in love. Another aim was to investigate potential sex differences within both domains. For that, 369 participants (92 males and 277 females) answered to an online questionnaire that collected information about infidelity and promiscuity. More specifically, participants were asked to complete the revised Sociosexual Orientation Inventory (SOI-R), the Emotional Promiscuity (EP) Scale, and the Sexual and Emotional Infidelity (SEI) scale. In addition, some sociodemographic questions, as well as history of infidelity questions, were also asked. The analyses included Pearson correlations, ANOVA and t-tests. Results show that all domains are related, specifically sexual and emotional infidelity with sexual and emotional promiscuity. Keywords: Emotional promiscuity, Emotional infidelity, Sex differences, Sexual infidelity, Sexual promiscuity. Introduction In a world where infidelity and promiscuity are increasingly experienced (Brand et al. 2007, Jones and Paulhus 2012), few studies have focused on their emotional and sexual domains. The infidelity and the promiscuity can have an important impact on individuals and on intimate relationships (Silva et al. n.d., Vangelisti and Gerstenberger 2004). For example, the infidelity is one of the most common reasons for divorce and couple therapy (Glass and Wright 1992). -
Friendship Characteristics, Threat Appraisals, and Varieties of Jealousy About Romantic Partners’ Friendships
Interpersona | An International Journal on Personal Relationships interpersona.psychopen.eu | 1981-6472 Articles Friendship Characteristics, Threat Appraisals, and Varieties of Jealousy About Romantic Partners’ Friendships Timothy R. Worley* a, Jennifer Samp b [a] Murray State University, Murray, KY, USA. [b] Department of Communication Studies, University of Georgia, Athens, GA, USA. Abstract This study examined the role of friendship sex composition, friendship history, and threat appraisals in the experience of jealousy about a romantic partner’s involvement in extradyadic friendships. Using a survey, 201 individuals responded to scenarios describing a romantic partner’s involvement in a significant friendship outside the romantic dyad. A partner’s involvement in a cross-sex friendship was associated with greater perceptions of threat to both the existence and quality of the romantic relationship than was a partner’s involvement in a same-sex friendship. Further, the specific forms of jealousy experienced about partners’ friendships were dependent on the threat appraisals individuals associated with the friendships. Appraisals of relational existence threat mediated the influence of friendship characteristics (i.e., sex composition and history) on sexual jealousy and companionship jealousy, while appraisals of relational quality threat mediated the influence of friendship characteristics on intimacy jealousy, power jealousy, and companionship jealousy. This study points toward the central role of threat appraisals in mediating associations between rival characteristics and various forms of jealousy about a partner’s friendships. Keywords: jealousy, friendship, threat appraisals, cross-sex friendships Interpersona, 2014, Vol. 8(2), 231–244, doi:10.5964/ijpr.v8i2.169 Received: 2014-07-02. Accepted: 2014-10-29. Published (VoR): 2014-12-19. -
Topics in Human Sexuality: Sexuality Across the Lifespan Adulthood/Male and Female Sexuality
Most people print off a copy of the post test and circle the answers as they read through the materials. Then, you can log in, go to "My Account" and under "Courses I Need to Take" click on the blue "Enter Answers" button. After completing the post test, you can print your certificate. Topics in Human Sexuality: Sexuality Across the Lifespan Adulthood/Male and Female Sexuality Introduction The development of sexuality is a lifelong process that begins in infancy. As we move from infancy to adolescence and adolescence to adulthood, there are many sexual milestones. While adolescent sexuality is a time in which sexual maturation, interest and experience surge, adult sexuality continues to be a time of sexual unfolding. It is during this time that people consolidate their sexual orientation and enter into their first mature, and often long term, sexual relationships. This movement towards mature sexuality also has a number of gender-specific issues as males and females often experience sexuality differently. As people age, these differences are often marked. In addition to young and middle age adults, the elderly are often an overlooked group when it comes to discussion of sexuality. Sexuality, however, continues well into what are often considered the golden years. This course will review the development of sexuality using a lifespan perspective. It will focus on sexuality in adulthood and in the elderly. It will discuss physical and psychological milestones connected with adult sexuality. Educational Objectives 1. Discuss the process of attaining sexual maturity, including milestones 2. Compare and contrast remaining singles, getting married and cohabitating 3. -
Cohabitation Part 1 of 2 American College of Pediatricians – March 2015
Cohabitation Part 1 of 2 American College of Pediatricians – March 2015 ABSTRACT: Contrary to the current perception of many adolescents and young adults who view cohabitation as a substitute for marriage or as a stepping stone to a more secure marriage, studies show that cohabiting unions are more likely to dissolve than marriages and that marriages preceded by cohabitation are more likely to dissolve than marriages that were not preceded by cohabitation. Cohabiting unions are more likely to involve infidelity and also more likely to involve violence. Furthermore, children, whether born prior to, during, or after parental cohabitation, are at increased risk for negative sequelae including premature birth, school failure, lower education, more poverty during childhood and lower incomes as adults, more incarceration and behavior problems, single parenthood, medical neglect and chronic health problems both medical and psychiatric, more substance, alcohol and tobacco abuse, and child abuse. Cohabiting women are also more likely to choose to end their child’s life prior to birth. Part I. Effects of cohabitation on the men and women involved. Incidence and attitudes Cohabitation has increased exponentially in the US over the last few decades. From 1987 to 2002, the number of women aged 35-39 who had ever cohabitated increased from 30% to 61%. More young people are first cohabitating than first marrying.1 Incidence Cohabitation only Cohabitation then Marriage without marriage prior cohabitation Men 15% 28% 18% Women 15% 28% 23% In addition, the percent of cohabitating couples who married in the subsequent 3 years decreased from 60% in the 1970’s to about 33% in the 1990’s. -
The Effects of Communicative Infidelity on Relationship Outcomes
Graduate Theses, Dissertations, and Problem Reports 2009 Stay or leave? The effects of communicative infidelity on relationship outcomes Colleen C. Malachowski West Virginia University Follow this and additional works at: https://researchrepository.wvu.edu/etd Recommended Citation Malachowski, Colleen C., "Stay or leave? The effects of communicative infidelity on relationship outcomes" (2009). Graduate Theses, Dissertations, and Problem Reports. 794. https://researchrepository.wvu.edu/etd/794 This Thesis is protected by copyright and/or related rights. It has been brought to you by the The Research Repository @ WVU with permission from the rights-holder(s). You are free to use this Thesis in any way that is permitted by the copyright and related rights legislation that applies to your use. For other uses you must obtain permission from the rights-holder(s) directly, unless additional rights are indicated by a Creative Commons license in the record and/ or on the work itself. This Thesis has been accepted for inclusion in WVU Graduate Theses, Dissertations, and Problem Reports collection by an authorized administrator of The Research Repository @ WVU. For more information, please contact [email protected]. Stay or Leave? The Effects of Communicative Infidelity on Relationship Outcomes Colleen C. Malachowski Thesis submitted to the Eberly College of Arts and Sciences at West Virginia University in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of Master of Arts in Communication Theory and Research Megan R. Dillow, Ph.D., Chair Maria Brann, Ph.D. Keith Weber, Ed.D. Department of Communication Studies Morgantown, West Virginia 2009 Keywords: Communicative Infidelity; Investment Model; Forgiveness; Exit; Voice; Neglect ABSTRACT Stay or Leave? The Effects of Communicative Infidelity on Relationship Outcomes Colleen C. -
Attractiveness and Spousal Infidelity As Predictors Of
Human Ethology Bulletin 29 (2014)1: 18-38 Research Articles ATRCTIVENESS AND SPOUSAL INFIDELITY AS PREDICTORS OF SEXUAL FULFILLMENT WITHOUT THE MARRIAGE PARTNER IN COUPLES FROM FIVE CULTURES Nicole T Nowak1, Glenn E Weisfeld2, Olcay Imamoğlu3, Carol C Weisfeld4, Marina Butovskaya5, Jiliang Shen6 1University of Wisconsin, Department of Psychology, Milwaukee, US [email protected] 2Wayne State University, US 3Middle East Technical University, TR 4University of Detroit Mercy, US 5Russian Academy of Sciences, Cross-Cultural Psychology & Human Ethology, RU 6Beijing Normal University, CN ABSTRCT Tis paper explores the cross-cultural prevalence and predictors of extramarital sexual fulfllment and in doing so tests some predictions derived fom evolutionary considerations. Although most adults, across cultures, believe that infdelity, particularly by the female, is ‘wrong’ and infdelity is ofen the cause of divorce and violence, the behavior is widespread. Evolutionists have noted various ftness advantages to be gained fom sexual infdelity. With such a strong theoretical base for specifc predictions about infdelity, it is surprising that few conclusions can be drawn about the predictors of the behavior in married couples. Our study of married couples fom China, Russia, Turkey, the United Kingdom (UK), and the United States (US) revealed that love of the spouse, fequency of fnding non-partners atractive, and self- reported extramarital sexual fulfllment of the spouse predicted fequency of sexual fulfllment outside of marriage. Cultural similarities and diferences are discussed. Key words: sex diferences, cross-cultural, infdelity, atractiveness, marriage _________________________________________________________ INTRODUCTION Litle cross-cultural research has been conducted on predictors of sexual infdelity in married couples, although the universal existence of the behavior has been documented (reviewed in Baker & Bellis, 1995; Huber, Linhartova, & Cope, 2004). -
ROUSE-DISSERTATION-2020.Pdf (646.5Kb)
REUNITED AND IT FEELS SO GOOD? THE LIVED EXPERIENCE OF USING TECHNOLOGY TO RECONNECT WITH OLD FLAMES/LOST LOVES: A QUALITATIVE STUDY A DISSERTATION SUBMITTED IN PARTIAL FULFILLMENT OF THE REQUIREMENTS FOR THE DEGREE OF DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY IN THE GRADUATE SCHOOL OF THE TEXAS WOMAN’S UNIVERSITY DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN DEVELOPMENT, FAMILY STUDIES, & COUNSELING COLLEGE OF PROFESSIONAL EDUCATION BY THELMA L. ROUSE, M.B.A., M.A. DENTON, TEXAS AUGUST 2020 Copyright ©Thelma L. Rouse, 2020 all rights reserved. ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS With God all things are possible and through Christ I can do all things. I would like to thank God Almighty for surrounding me with such a wonderful support system to finish this portion of my journey. He placed a lot of awesome people and great opportunities in my life along this journey. As I continue to run this race. I look forward to so much more. To my husband Herman and my daughters, Imani and Iyana, I love you all very much and I thank you for the many times you have provided a listening ear, as I pondered various ideas over the course of my study at Texas Woman’s University or when you volunteered to be my “road dawgs” as I commuted to campus for various reasons. I like to thank my fur babies Coco and Ditto for remaining dutifully by my side to offer a belly to rub, a wet nose kiss, or a snuggle at my feet while I studied. To my dissertation committee, Dr. Brock, Dr. Hwang, and Dr. Ladd, I am grateful for your guidance and reassurance throughout this portion of my academic career. -
Couples' Process of Healing from Infidelity While in Therapy
UNLV Theses, Dissertations, Professional Papers, and Capstones 12-1-2012 Couples' Process of Healing from Infidelity While in Therapy Jordan Mark Staples University of Nevada, Las Vegas Follow this and additional works at: https://digitalscholarship.unlv.edu/thesesdissertations Part of the Counseling Psychology Commons, and the Marriage and Family Therapy and Counseling Commons Repository Citation Staples, Jordan Mark, "Couples' Process of Healing from Infidelity While in Therapy" (2012). UNLV Theses, Dissertations, Professional Papers, and Capstones. 1779. http://dx.doi.org/10.34917/4332760 This Thesis is protected by copyright and/or related rights. It has been brought to you by Digital Scholarship@UNLV with permission from the rights-holder(s). You are free to use this Thesis in any way that is permitted by the copyright and related rights legislation that applies to your use. For other uses you need to obtain permission from the rights-holder(s) directly, unless additional rights are indicated by a Creative Commons license in the record and/ or on the work itself. This Thesis has been accepted for inclusion in UNLV Theses, Dissertations, Professional Papers, and Capstones by an authorized administrator of Digital Scholarship@UNLV. For more information, please contact [email protected]. COUPLES’ PROCESS OF HEALING FROM INFIDELITY WHILE IN THERAPY By Jordan M. Staples Bachelor of Science, Psychology Brigham Young University 2010 A thesis submitted in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the Master of Science Degree in -
Communication Studies About Sex: Implications for Relationships, Health, Culture, and Identity
Communication studies about sex: Implications for relationships, health, culture, and identity. A review Jimmie Manning Nota: Este artículo se puede leer en español en: http://www.profesionaldelainformacion.com/contenidos/2021/ene/manning_espanol.pdf How to cite this article: Manning, Jimmie (2021). “Communication studies about sex: Implications for relationships, health, culture, and identity. A review”. Profesional de la información, v. 30, n. 1, e300114. https://doi.org/10.3145/epi.2021.ene.14 Invited manuscript received on February, 2nd 2020 Jimmie Manning https://orcid.org/0000-0002-3572-8005 University of Nevada School of Social Research & Justice Studies Communication Studies - Mail Stop 0229 1664 N. Virginia Ave. Reno, NV 89577 USA [email protected] Abstract This article features a review of communication scholarship about sex from the past two decades (2000-2020). A typo- graphic analysis of relevant research reveals 11 primary topic areas related to how interpersonal sexual communication is commonly researched in communication studies. Six of these topic areas are relationship-oriented in nature: flirting and initiation; pleasure and desire; sexual expectations; relational and sexual satisfaction; communication after sex; and negative aspects of sex and sexuality. Three of the topics are health-oriented in nature: sex education, especially in consideration of how parent-child talk happens in families; negotiation of safe sex practices; and sexual dysfunction. Finally, two of the topics are cultural in nature: social factors and influences; and media influences and representations. Scholarship is also reviewed in terms of theoretical commitments, with most research following sociopsychological or critical traditions but with a noteworthy number also embracing sociocultural or biological paradigms. -
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Applying Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love to an Atheoretical Field
Illinois State University ISU ReD: Research and eData Theses and Dissertations 4-10-2014 Seeking a Better Understanding of Cyber Infidelity: applying Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love to an atheoretical field Lauren Elizabeth Hardy Illinois State University, [email protected] Follow this and additional works at: https://ir.library.illinoisstate.edu/etd Part of the Family, Life Course, and Society Commons Recommended Citation Hardy, Lauren Elizabeth, "Seeking a Better Understanding of Cyber Infidelity: applying Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love to an atheoretical field" (2014). Theses and Dissertations. 126. https://ir.library.illinoisstate.edu/etd/126 This Thesis is brought to you for free and open access by ISU ReD: Research and eData. It has been accepted for inclusion in Theses and Dissertations by an authorized administrator of ISU ReD: Research and eData. For more information, please contact [email protected]. SEEKING A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF CYBER INFIDELITY: APPLYING STERNBERG’S TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE TO AN ATHEORETICAL FIELD Lauren E. Hardy 33 Pages May 2014 The recent phenomenon of cyber infidelity is greatly increasing due to the availability and technology. But, current research is atheoretical, lacking a common language as to how cyber infidelity affects the face-to-face couple. Applying Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love (1986) is a step in defining aspects of the effects of cyber infidelity. Language among existing research is strikingly comparable to Sternberg’s theory. Applying this theory and making the applications using Sternberg’s components shows that this theory has the strong potential to create a common language concerning the effects cyber infidelity has on the face-to-face couple.