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This year, Pride Northwest, Inc. has made quite the promise: Portland Pride 2008 is going to Bring. It.
Oh really? Well, the Mercury is going to Bring. It. On! Inside, check out our homage to the cheer-tastic lm of the same name, featuring Portland’s brightest stars of the queer cheerleading squad (and their rivals, the anti-gay troupe). We’ve also got queers who bring it with guns, a head-to-head gay-off, and a polite request that certain gays stop bringing it, please. Plus: All the info you need to enjoy Portland Pride 2008, from the parade and waterfront festival EDITED BY AMY J. RUIZ to every dance night in town. You know what to do. PRIDE2
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The BRING IT Manifesto BRO’s Next Battle… and How You Can Bring it, Too!
by Basic Rights Oregon
The BRING IT Manifesto be free to earn a living, and able to care for the ones we love. Can you hear the bells ringing? No, it’s not the sound of After 20 years of ballot measures designed to divide our state wedding bells (yet). It’s the sound of socially regressive vot- in two, we believe the time to BRING IT for equality is now. ers getting their wings! According to polls, bigotry is aging That’s why BRO championed two critical pieces of legis- out of the US population (in other words, the people who are lation in 2007. The Oregon Equality Act made it against the causing the most problems aren’t getting any younger). That law in Oregon to discriminate on the basis of sexual orienta- means that within 30 to 40 years, issues like gay marriage will tion and gender identity in housing, employment, and pub- be one big fat yawn. lic accommodations like restaurants. And the Oregon Family But Basic Rights Oregon (BRO) is not content to wait an- Fairness Act created domestic partnerships, so caring, com- other generation before lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgen- mitted couples can have the legal recognition they need to der Oregonians are guaranteed the same basic rights as other take care of each other. Together, these laws made Oregon an now would be a good time to ensure that citizens. We believe even better place to live, work, and raise a family. every Oregonian is safe and secure in our schools and com- BRO is working hard to BRING IT… munities. We believe now is an excellent time for all of us to
…because we have to keep what we worked so hard to get. Out-of-state anti-gay interests are hoping to put measures eldon theteams ballot in placeto repeal across Oregon’s the state, domestic but we’ll partnership need your and help anti- to get discrimination laws. BRO is ready to defend our laws with the word out. Sign up at basicrights.org to stay in the loop.
…because there is life outside of Portland! Along with state political action, BRO has begun to bridge the urban-rural divide. If we want to make lasting change, we have to be prepared to mobilize the LGBT community and allies from Baker City to Astoria. That’s why our 2008 public education program is taking the message of equality to rural Oregonians.
…because youth are the future… no, really. On college campuses around the state, BRO works closely with student organizations to prepare our future leaders. College is a time when most of us barely manage to bathe on a regular basis, let alone assume leadership of a political movement. But BRO identi es college/university students who are up to the challenge, trains them in public speaking and community organiz- ing, and puts them at the forefront of the movement.
…because white is not the only color in the rainbow. Thanks to the persistent efforts of community members who refuse to let things slide, BRO is committed to raising awareness of racial justice among staff and board members, the larger LGBT community, and our allies. As part of this work, BRO develops and presents trainings on dismantling racism and immigrant rights, sponsors gatherings by and for queer youth of color, and ghting for racial justice. By listening and learning, teaching and doing, BRO supports networking opportunities for activists hopes to become a better ally and foster an atmosphere of greater inclusiveness and participation from all communities.
…because there is no “Equality” without the “T.” BRO is committed to ensuring that the voices, experiences, and concerns of transgender Oregonians are represented in our cing any letter in the alphabet soup just so the rest of us can have a seat at struggle for equality. We don’t believe in sacri red from their job, evicted from their home, the table. That’s why Oregon’s nondiscrimination law ensures that no one can be or denied a table at a restaurant just because they’re transgender. Want to learn more? Look for our workshop “T Is Not for Tokenism” this summer.
…because we are stronger together. In 2004, our friends in the organized labor, choice, and immigrant rights movements stood side by side with us as we fought against Measure 36, the devastating constitutional amendment that excludes gays and lesbians from marriage in Oregon. In 2007, those same allies worked hard to help us pass our domestic partnership and anti-discrimination laws, and they will be there this year to defend our equality laws from attacks on multiple fronts. We know we are strongest when we work together toward a common progressive goal, and BRO is proud to join our allies this November in defeating anti-immigrant and massive prison spending ballot measures.
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Double Entendres and the Second Amendment Hanging out with Portland’s Gay Rights Gun Club
by Matt Davis
“Most gun clubs are for men who like John Wayne or Charlton Heston. They’re for the pussy, football, and beer crowd,” says Pink Pistols mem- ber Steve Gilbert, as we’re taking a break from shooting on a sunny Saturday afternoon. “The dif- ference is, we’re more for the dick, shopping, and champagne crowd.” Gilbert’s statement is perhaps the most frank I’ve ever heard from a gun fanatic connecting shooting and cock, never mind double entendres like “going out with a loaded gun” or offering you the opportunity to “play with my weapon.” He’s candid and endearing, and I’m beginning to think MATT DAVIS I might see the point of his bizarre gay rights gun In other words: Most doing our shooting. Ark is wearing a Ark uses duct tape to put up group, after all. Portlanders are proud Pink Pistols T-shirt that says, “Pick the targets. The Portland chapter of the Pink Pistols is one they just elected a gay on someone your own caliber,” and “You know trannies use duct of over 50 similar and loosely af liated gay rights mayor, but wouldn’t be I ask if he feels safer carrying a gun tape to tuck it back,” says Gilbert. too concerned if our local with his concealed handgun license “They don’t use it to shut up, gun clubs around the country (pinkpistols.org)— gun fanatics were lined up in Portland. He says yes. that’s for sure,” says Ark. “At least and one just started in Canada. For the last two against a wall and shot. “Although you tend to avoid not the ones I’ve known.” years, 40 or so active members have marched Which is why I now realize situations where you might have to At this point I feel like lighting a the Pink Pistols are fuck- draw the weapon,” he admits. “I’d cigar or something to butch things in Portland’s Pride Parade, albeit without actu- ing wonderful, because rather be terrorizing paper targets up, but frankly I disagree with Freud ally carrying their weapons, thanks to safety con- they shoot holes through for the rest of my life.” about a cigar sometimes just being cerns expressed by the Portland Police Bureau. such narrow mindedness Ark got his .38 special snub- a cigar, and besides, I seem to have Yet to many people, me included, the principles of with glee. nosed revolver after being threat- left my humidor at home. I decide The Pink Pistols were ened while exiting a TriMet bus to shoot some guns instead. Doug gay rights and gun rights have always seemed at started in 2000, after gay in 2000. He’d just sold his Vespa has brought along his AK-47, paint- opposite ends of the political spectrum. I decided journalist Jonathan Rauch scooter, and decided to take up a ed pink and white, and covered in to challenge my preconceptions by going along. suggested on salon.com “safer hobby,” he says—he’s never stickers of pink hearts, butter ies, that gay men should arm seen anybody get shot, but has wit- and owers. Luckily for my fragile EQUAL RIGHTS TO themselves following 21-year-old nessed plenty of Vespa accidents. straight ego, it res just like any het- SELF-DEFENSE Matthew Shepard’s 1998 death by We met with Gilbert and four oth- erosexual gun might. beating in Wyoming. er Pink Pistols people at a McDon- “Well, I saw an AR-15 online Assuming all gay people should “There’s not a city in America ald’s in Beaverton. They were: Mike with pictures of Hello Kitty on it, be poodle-carrying, cigarette hold- where gay couples can hold hands Bowman, the group’s organizer and and I thought I could do better,” er-toting Noël Coward look-alikes is in public without fear,” wrote Rauch. a notary signing agent, and a guy he says. hardly politically correct these days, “Gay bashing is a kind of low-level called Doug who’d prefer not to give I also shoot a .357 Magnum, but it was a stretch, even for this terrorism designed to signal that, his last name, but who is a irtatious a .44 Magnum with a hellish kick left-leaning libertarian, to imagine a whatever the law may say, queers version of Carl Reiner’s aging con (and a modi ed trigger so sensitive bunch of gay blokes shooting guns are pathetic and grotesque. Beyond artist character in Ocean’s Eleven. it res when I fart), and two differ- together without thinking something a certain point, therefore, law can’t Doug brought his son, Mike, along, ent shotguns ring cartridges lled was out of place. be the answer.” who in turn brought his girlfriend, with birdshot, buckshot, and slugs. It turns out I was just being Rauch issued a call to arms, liter- Crystal—Pink Pistols is a pansexual We stop to talk politics: Everyone’s old-fashioned. ally, offering an idea he thought would organization. “We just want to make voting for Obama. Then Doug gives I wasn’t blind to the homoeroti- be a better deterrent to gay bashers sure everyone feels comfortable,” me the chance to shoot his deer cism in the language or iconography than bias crime laws. “Homosexuals says Ark. ri e, the noise and kick of which is surrounding guns. From Daniel Craig should embark on organized efforts Speaking of diversity, I was a very centering experience (as in, as James Bond to Rock Hudson to become comfortable with guns, somewhat surprised in McDonald’s it scared the shit out of me). in Giant, not to mention those two learn to use them safely, and carry when Gilbert whipped out a white I shoot Ark’s Yugo M-56 ri e, handsome cowboys in Brokeback them. They should set up Pink Pis- cane from under the table. and watch Bowman re off 20 Mountain, there’s no doubt an ex- tols task forces, sponsor shooting “I can’t see the targets, anyway,” rounds from a GI combine with a cess of masculinity coupled with the courses, and help homosexuals get he said. “I’m legally blind.” paratrooper stock. I also end up image of something hard and power- licensed to carry. And they should do Indeed, he’s the second blind smoking one of Mike’s cigarettes, ful stuffed into one’s trousers… well, it in a way that gets as much public- man in Oregon with a concealed and Doug makes a joke about the it’s always been there. It’s just that ity as possible,” he wrote. handgun license. I couldn’t wait to Englishman “wanting a fag.” Gil- Western culture (and by that, I really On re ection, I tend to agree with get back to Portland and tell every- bert does a surprisingly good job mean “me”) has always been more him. But I accept that the Pink Pis- one I’d been shooting with a gay of hitting all the targets, given that comfortable denying it. Then there’s tols’ philosophy isn’t for everyone. blind man! he can’t see them. Then it’s time to the moral contortionism of the aver- head home. age Portlander (which I sometimes SOMEWHERE IN THE GUN TALK All in all, once the shooting got share, but which you might describe TILLAMOOK FOREST started, it felt just like shooting on as liberal fascism), and which I think Once we arrive at our range, the range in the basement at the is more about being closed minded “The point is to show people that we set up a table with an awful lot Portland Police Bureau, something when it comes to granting others the all of us believe the world would be of guns on it, and some targets, I got to experience when I went right to live as they choose. a safer place if people knew about both at close range and about 50 through the city’s Citizen’s Police “In Portland people want to be rearms and shot rearms,” says yards away. Academy last fall [“Spread ’Em,” liberal, which means they’re into J.J. Ark, a bisexual systems admin- “What do we have by way of ear Feature, Dec 13]. But if I had to the gun-control thing,” says Gilbert. istrator for a progressive left wing protection?” asks Doug. choose a bunch of people to hang “And so gay people are often con- web host on the East Coast, as he’s “I try not to say muffs in case out with while reloading, I’ll be hon- sidered traitors when they’re inter- driving me out to a logging road in there’s a lesbian around,” says est: The Pink Pistols would win the ested in guns.” the Tillamook Forest where we’ll be Gilbert. contest, hands down. ■
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Laura Calvo Brings it Every Damn Day Meet the 2008 Spirit of Pride Winner
by Catherine Cole
GLBT Caucus, treasurer of developing eld with openings. She quickly belongings were stolen. She was still healing the Multnomah County Dem- became a paramedic and worked during one from her accident when her property was re- ocrat Party, regional director of the most tumultuous times in San Francis- covered. Within that property were some pho- for the National Stonewall co’s history. She operated one of the city’s 11 tos and other identifying objects that revealed Democrats, and the secretary ambulances during the Harvey Milk campaign Calvo’s secret femininity. That was enough of the Democratic Party of and was on duty both when he was assassi- information for the sheriff’s of ce to deter- Oregon’s third congressional nated and when Dan White was convicted on mine she was un t to return to work. She was district—and those are just the “Twinkie defense.” forced into early retirement in 1995. her more consistent positions. There were massive riots, and things just The next few years were some of Calvo’s She’s active in neighborhood kept getting more and more crazy on the job, lowest. She struggled with depression and groups, and will volunteer to while simultaneously her con icted feelings of alcoholism, and there was no legal recourse coordinate a bene t party gender identity were becoming more and more for what she had been through. when the need arises (such pronounced. “I felt like a stretched-out sweater Then Basic Rights Oregon called. They as when the Hillary Clinton that didn’t quite go back to the way it should had heard her story and asked if she’d be campaign wanted an event t,” she says. Her solution was to relocate. interested in testifying in front of the Oregon speci cally for the gays, and She had a friend who’d moved up to Grants legislature in support of the antidiscrimina- Calvo whipped one together Pass, Oregon, and after visiting him Calvo de- tion Senate Bill 786. at the Egyptian Room). cided to stay. The Rogue Valley offered the so- “That’s when I rst met her,” says Thorpe,
JASON KINNEY And let’s just get this out lution she thought she was looking for: peace, “and even though she’d never told her story Two things become quickly apparent when in the open: She’s a Latina quiet, and trees. publicly before, there wasn’t a dry eye in the you get to know Laura Calvo. She’s involved and lesbian transwoman in her 50s. She’s also the She began to build her seemingly perfect life. hearing room—she was so powerful and so she’s loved. Friends and acquaintances beam recipient of this year’s Spirit of Pride Award— Within a month of moving, she was hired by the courageous.” at the mention of her name and they’ll volunteer Pride Northwest’s top honor—and is looking Josephine County Sheriff’s Of ce. Over the next “I was the only transperson who testi ed,” anecdotes about her without any prodding. forward to riding on the stagecoach during the 16 years she kept moving up and up in her job. Calvo remembers. That’s when the political “Laura has taken Portland by storm,” says Pride Parade. “I was on the SWAT team; worked in narcotics; I light really turned on. She recalls thinking Roey Thorpe, director of state services for the How’d Calvo become such a local leader? did pretty much everything for the sheriff’s of ce to herself: “You know, we really need to get Equality Federation (and former executive direc- Rewind 30-some-odd years to the ’70s there was for me to do,” she pauses and smiles. more people involved in this!” tor for Basic Rights Oregon). “You can’t go any- when she was living full time as a man in her “I was Deputy of the Year one year.” The barn doors were kicked open that where without meeting people she knows!” hometown, San Francisco. She nished her Despite her professional success, her true day, and haven’t closed since. Hearing Calvo go through her schedule (with high-school diploma at a community college identity kept eating away at her. She began to “I’m advocating for people to respect the help of her trusted BlackBerry) is like listen- and was attracted to the stability and discipline “cope” with it by cross-dressing in secret and each other. Every day I wake up and there’s ing to a Democratic Party newsletter freckled of law enforcement. went as far as renting a storage unit (in another more work to be done,” she says. On her with the letters LGBT. The terms “co-chair” and “It’d be something I could cling to,” Calvo county, no less) for her female identity. Then the list of goals right now? Campaigning for Jeff “committee” are in her daily vocabulary. says. “I was looking outside of myself to identify shit hit the fan. Merkley, spurring “political activism by trans Take a deep breath and try to say the fol- myself rather than being true to myself.” A police dog attacked her (she still has hel- people,” and vying to be a delegate at the lowing sentence without pausing for air: Calvo is At the time, she was too young to be- lacious scars on her leg to prove it) and her Democratic National Convention. the treasurer of the Democratic Party of Oregon come a cop and emergency medicine was a storage unit was broken into. Her feminine And that’s how she does it. ■
Bring on the Pride Coaching the Next Generation
by Kathryn Martini
My three daughters didn’t choose their expression and my oldest daughter answered, our signs; the girls carried them, holding them lesbian mother—they weren’t even born into a “Why would we care about that?” This answer high and proud for everyone to see. They lesbian household. My three daughters “came brought more relief than surprise; they needed cheered for equality, they cheered for their out” as children of a lesbian woman when I no coaching—their united attitude was the ul- lesbian mother, and they cheered for their came out myself—the girls were seven, nine, timate example of teamwork. family and other families like ours. and 11—and I was 35. It is safe to say that the My relationship grew and soon we dis- When our small town faced a middle school western suburbs of Portland are not known cussed blending our family and building a controversy—one involving a banned play, in for great diversity, and my girls’ previous ex- life together—all five of us. My daughters which there was a character presumed to be posure, knowledge, and contact with anyone again rose to the occasion, accepting and gay—we were once again called into action. I gay was minimal to none; we had no gay rela- loving my partner as if she has always been honestly explained to them the reasons that tives, no gay neighbors, and only one set of a part of our lives, never once expressing certain people were bothered by the content. gay friends. Despite this obstacle, the girls ac- anything but affection and admiration for They answered, “That’s just stupid.” They KATHRYN MARTINI cepted the news with ease and saw it through her. Suddenly, over a short span of time, my watched as I did my duty to both of my com- my goal to teach them to think critically and the innocent and nonjudgmental lens of mod- children who were once part of a quintes- munities—the suburban community in which stand up for the values of acceptance, kind- ern young ladies. sential nuclear, suburban family were now I lived and the GLBTQ community to which I ness, justice, and equality. I attempt to guide Our collective coming-out experience did the epitome of divergence. belonged. I wrote letters, elded phone calls, them to information while acknowledging my not happen overnight—it was gradual and The context of marriage for them was very and attended school board meetings in an at- bias in order to give them the opportunity to natural with no drama or sudden realizations normal and they referred to us in this way; I tempt to bridge the two together. decide what their young minds are able to dis- that required serious conversations or profes- would explain to them that we aren’t allowed I almost cried when my daughter, a student cern. Sometimes my bias is very heavy and sional intervention. Only when I became se- to get married and why. When it looked as at the middle school, came home to tell me very loud—but my respect for them and their rious about dating my now-wife did it seem though we would be given the right to do- that she spoke to the school counselor and individual thinking is just as fervent. appropriate to bring my sexuality into the fore- mestic partnership in Oregon we were all ex- asked how she and a few of her friends could Whether we realize it or not, we are all ex- front of their thinking. I would never hide who I cited for this recognition of our union and our start a diversity group. Since then, support amples to the next generation; they observe was, and I didn’t intend on hiding my relation- family. When that was ripped away from us has come in from many organizations, includ- us and assimilate our teaching. They watch ship from my children or anyone else. And the at the 11th hour—we were all ready to stand ing Portland Parents, Families, and Friends of what we say and what we do, our tone and the timing was right. up in protest. Lesbians and Gays and Oregon Safe Schools manner in which we perform, our kindness to One day, while driving them home from The ve of us trudged down to Terry to help start a Gay-Straight Alliance in Sher- others and how we stand for what is just and school, I explained to them that I wanted to Schrunk Plaza in the cold and in the rain on wood. My daughter will have a lot of strength what is right. They are being trained for the start dating someone and asked them how January 30, 2008 to Rally to Defend Equality. behind her when the time comes to ght the games that will be played in the next season. they felt about this. I then asked how they It was game time—and we were there to have next battle. We are coaching the cheerleaders of would feel if the person I started dating was a our voices heard and our presence known. It has never been my goal to turn my three the future, and in their cheering us, we see a woman. They all looked at me with a confused “My Family Deserves Basic Fairness,” stated daughters into activists, but it has always been better world. ■
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The Anti-Gay Squad Will Oregon’s Haters Show Some Pride? Presents�
by Bryan Boyd
As Portland’s gay pride festivities loom on the horizon, and a large portion of our com- munity plans to come together—be it only for a few days—what about Oregon’s anti- gay crowd? What are their plans for Pride? “I respectfully decline the offer to be interviewed for your publication,” Repre- sentative Kim Thatcher, co-sponsor of an initiative that would repeal Oregon’s new anti-discrimination law, wrote in response to my email inquiry. After many attempts to talk to those in charge of recent efforts to deny essential humanity to Oregon’s GLBT folks, no calls JACK POLLOCK were returned, so we're left to speculate the signature-gathering deadline looms), their on the whereabouts of the anti-gay cheerlead- chances of a queer-free utopia are dwindling A Week Of Pride� ers during Pride. My best guess is they'll be at each and every day. church on that ne Sunday. (Though with all the When Oregon’s gay haters fail at collecting th th gays at Pride, one has to wonder who will be enough signatures yet again, at least they will June 13 – 14 2008� singing in their choirs.) be in the good company of former Oregon GOP While I can pretty much promise we won’t see Party Chair Kevin Mannix—who just scored his the likes of anti-gay spearheads like former State fth failed attempt at public of ce. Maybe then Senator Marylin Shannon or Restore America’s they will get the hint that running on divisive David Crowe at the waterfront, you never know. principles simply doesn’t y here in Oregon. After all, their number-one individual nancial Though my calls and emails to the crazies may contributor, Glenn Zirkle, said, “Every time my life have gone unreturned—and those folks may be brushes up against someone else’s, I have an op- spending the day at church listening to sermons portunity to leave the fragrance of Christ.” about the gays destroying civilization, and cel- Pride certainly provides plenty of opportu- ebrating exaggerated memoirs from self-loathing Fri – Rainbow Party� nities to “brush up” against someone. I have a so-called ex-gays—we can take comfort in a feeling his “fragrance of Christ” smells like Drak- reminder from Restore America’s David Crowe, kar Noir. So if you smell it at Pride, run quick— sent out over his always-good-for-a-laugh email that may not be the Jesus you had in mind. list. He says we gays are in good company with Sat – Platinum Party� Maybe the anti-gay squad will make a sur- the “Oregon House controlled by Democrats prise appearance on the Fantasy Video oat? who sold out to the sodomite community [and] They seem to have a fanciful notion that they’re embraced the pathetic with indiscriminate com- going to have the chance to rip apart the legal passion.” Maybe if we’re lucky, Crowe will send rights of Oregon’s gay and lesbian families. With us a little email to get our Pride day started right, three initiative petitions attempting to put Or- to go with our cup of coffee and sodomites. Sun – Beach Party � egon’s domestic partnership and anti-discrimi- See you all at Pride as we—to paraphrase nation laws on the November 2008 ballot cur- Crowe—hop aboard “the gay train to moral no- rently hung up in Oregon’s Supreme Court (as where.” Whoot! Whoot! ■ What Is This “It,” Exactly? And Where it Should be Brought
by Dan Savage Of all the stupid things that have fallen a party and Pride should be a celebration. But out of George W. Bush’s mouth over the last if we’ve learned anything over the last few de- eight years, “Bring ’em on” was perhaps the cades it should be this: Pride parades, T-shirts, most idiotic. jewelry, windsocks, and ags just aren’t enough. When I heard that the theme for this year’s Like a Catholic that only makes it to mass on Pride festivities in Portland was “Bring it On,” I Christmas Eve, the queer that only makes it to didn’t ash on that camp cheerleading movie. I the Pride Parade once a year may feel like he’s ashed on Bush and the disastrous war in Iraq doing his bit, but he isn’t. and all the insurgents that accepted the presi- You wanna bring it, Portland? dent’s gracious 2003 invitation and brought it. You brought it to city hall—congrats, Sam— I ashed on Iraq even though you’re bringing but you gotta bring it over to Salem and down to “it on” over Pride weekend in Portland, and not California for the gay marriage ght this fall and rd “’em on,” as in Baghdad. to the ballot box this November to put an end to 318 SW 3 Ave� Now I realize that serving on the committee the right-wing war on gay and lesbians rights. that organizes parades and arranges for porta- Then you gotta send some of it—in the form of pottys and selects themes is a thankless task— money and moral support—to the beleaguered Portland, OR 97205� I’ve served on one and I have the emotional queers in Russia, where gays and lesbians can’t scars to prove it—so I don’t want to seem like march without being beaten in the streets, and to an ingrate or one of those Pride-Sunday-morn- Jamaica, where gays and lesbians are lynched ing quarterbacks. But the theme “Bring it On” with impunity, and to Gambia, where the presi- is… well, it couldn’t possibly have consequenc- dent is threatening to behead homosexuals (and Silveradopdx.com� es nearly so disastrous as “bring ’em on” (let’s two Spanish men, accused of being gay, were hope), but it seems just about as idiotic. arrested last weekend). What is this “it,” exactly, that we’re being en- Pride parades are great—I love ’em, maybe couraged to bring over Pride weekend? Bring I’ll see you there. But let’s not fool ourselves: �������������� our asses back to Pride? Bring our drag queens Pride should celebrate the work we did last out into the daylight? Bring our substance year and the work we plan to do this year. You abuse problems—the booze, the cigarettes, the want to bring something to Pride? Bring results. drugs—down to the waterfront? Bring your checkbook. Bring a commitment to Or is “it” something more? getting involved. Pride should be colorful and Pride should be Are you listening? Will you bring it? ■
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It’s a Gay-Off! A (Very) Scienti c Experiment Answers the Question: Who Is the Most Gayest?
by Will Gardner
In tting with this year’s Pride theme, the scored high for Extreme and Color Me Badd Mercury decided to have two employees—Ed- (not to mention the Backstreet Boys and Alicia itor-in-Chief Wm. Steven Humphrey and Of- Keys). Current Score: Steve: 1, Brad: 0. ce Manager Brad Buckner—“bring it.” Who is The following test compared the of ce gayer: Brad, a disheveled homosexual from Lin- spaces of the two. Steve did well in this cat- coln, Nebraska, or Steve, a amboyant husband egory, achieving high marks for his posters of (to a lady) and father (not by arti cial insemina- Zac Efron and Ashlee Simpson, not to mention tion) from Gadsden, Alabama? Read on… a black-and-white photo of himself on his bul- letin board. Having painted his of ce walls a blu- HYPOTHESIS ish sea-foam ranked high, but it wasn’t enough Even if you are (like me) an expert on “homo- to topple Brad’s numbers. Although somewhat osity,” a referee enters all contests with precon- disorganized, Brad’s space was gay gay gay. ceived notions about the competitors (as we all Immediately, I noticed three publications: a witnessed during the 1983 Stanley Cup nals). newspaper folded to bring attention to an ad for Thus, since I’ve known both competitors for the Blue Man Group, a Portland Monthly maga- years, I gured I had these two fags pegged (so zine opened to a review of a “wine bistro,” and a to speak). Crate & Barrel catalog. Further, a male’s phone Brad, essentially a slob with his untucked number tacked to one of his walls and a ma- shirt and untrimmed goatee, is so not-gay that genta mouse pad on Brad’s desk overwhelmed he’s aming. On the other hand, Steve is so fag- the framed photo of David Hasselhoff behind gy you’d think he’d sprung from Judy Garland’s Steve’s desk. Current Score: Steve: 1, Brad: 1. loins. My prediction: Steve is so gay, he’s not Then came the underwear exam. Brad’s gay. While Steve is busy pastelling everything collection included briefs from American Ap- from his new Miata to his meticulously mowed parel—in light blue and dark blue—as well as ear hair, how can he possibly nd time to lick numerous boxer briefs. Steve, favored in this other men’s assholes? Thus, I will prove that category, easily triumphed. Not only were all Brad is more of a knob-gobbler. of his pieces tight pastel-y nylon briefs, but featured homoerotic phrases on the front SCIENTIFIC PROCESS (such as “Home of the Whopper”) and on the The competition hinged on four different back (“Fools Rush In... So Why Don’t You?”). “events”: a comparison of the participants’ Current Score: Steve: 2, Brad: 1. record collections, assessments of their work- It all came down to the quiz. I formulated a spaces, an evaluation of their (hand-selected) two-part written test, compiled from my vast gayest underwear, and a homo quiz. Should knowledge of Homo Language and Literature a tie arise, the decision would be made via a (Vassar College, MA, ’74). The rst part dealt “Tossed Salad-Off,” of ciated, of course, by with traditional gay culture: Cher, Spice Girls, yours truly. and America’s Next Top Model. The second, also traditionally gay culture: facial hair, rim THE TESTS jobs, and sports teams. (Turn to page 15 and With the exception of the homo quiz, very take the test for yourself!) Damn, this one was little of the experiment involved interaction with a squeaker (or squealer?), coming down to the subjects. Rather, I simply observed their one point. And, with a score of 24 to 23, Steve behavior, assessed their surroundings, and emerged victoriously on this test. Moreover, he scrolled through their iPods. extended his lead over Brad in the whole gay The rst test involved an examination of their scheme of things. music collections. Brad received gayness points Final Score: Steve: 3, Brad: 1. on his inclusion of Aimee Mann, Amy Wine- house,se, Edith Piaf,Piaf, andand Of Mon-Mon- CONCLUSION treal.l. AsAs itit turnedturned out,out, though,though, AsAs it turns out, thinthingsgs are how they seem. Steveve swept Brad off his lilightght Steve’s limp wrist and hhisi high-pitched twang loafers.ers. Trouncing his adver- do translate to beinbeingg momorere aming than the Hin- saryy by eight gay points, Steve ddenburg.enburg. FFurthermore,urthermore, as is commonly known, Steve’s über-gayneüber-gaynesss also translates into his dick beibeingng con considerablys larger than BBrad’s.rad’s. I Inn concconclusion,lusio although my hy- potpothesishesis was incorincorrect,re I thankfully never had to endure ttheh “Tossed Salad-Off.” (Unless, o of course, the Mercu- rry’s adorable art direc- tor, Mark, would like to participate?) ■
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