THE CATHOLIC MIRROR

Vol. 55, No. 8 August 20, 2021 Capital campaign Back to school just around the corner Silent phase under way, public launch in 2022

By Anne Marie Cox Staff Writer

The Diocese of Des Moines is launching a $45 million fundraising campaign to meet the growing needs of schools, parish- es and diocesan ministries well into the future. Bishop William Joensen, in consultation with pastors and other diocesan leaders, approved Photo by Anne Marie Cox the campaign last January after Classes begin soon in the 16 Catholic schools in the Diocese of Des Moines. “The challenges we faced last school year have changed a diocesan-wide feasibility study our schools for the better,” said Diocesan Schools Superintendent Donna Bishop. “We are more agile, collaborative, compassionate, and showed 72 percent of 1,200 Cath- inspired. I am confident that we have the resources and support in place so that our more than 6,300 students will experience the levels of olic participants were willing to achievement, growth and development they need for the next stage of their educational journey and beyond.” PIctured above are students support a fundraising effort. at Holy Family Catholic School in Des Moines. The campaign theme, Las clases comenzarán pronto en las 16 escuelas católicas en la Diócesis de Des Moines. “Los desafíos que enfrentamos el pasado “Ignite! A Life. A Church. A año escolar han hecho que nuestras escuelas sean mejores,” (dijo la Superintendente de Escuelas Diocesanas, Donna Bishop. “Somos más Community.” aims to enhance the ágiles, colaborativos, compasivos y estamos más inspirados. Estoy segura de que contamos con los recursos y apoyos necesarios para que capacity of the diocesan family– nuestros más de 6,300 estudiantes experimenten los niveles de logro, crecimiento y desarrollo que necesitan para la siguiente etapa de su priests, women religious, dea- proceso educativo y más allá.” cons, mothers, fathers, teachers, catechists, and, especially, our Foundation awards nearly children – to bear and communi- Devoted husband, father cate the message of Jesus within and beyond the Church to the and deacon inspired others $50,000 in grants larger society. “As one body of Christ, By Anne Marie Cox ities, science curriculum materi- By Rachel Seidl we are seeking to boldly ignite Staff Writer als, website enhancements, and Contributing Writer the faith with the apostolic zeal more. and spirit of the first Christians to “We are especially ex- settle Southwest Iowa. We want Deacon Dan McGuire died cited about this year’s grant everyone to claim and reflect our July 11, leaving a legacy of being a Technology, faith for- awards,” says Sue McEntee, the God-given dignity to others who devoted husband, father and deacon in mation resources and classroom foundation’s executive director. may not yet know that they are the Catholic Church. materials are among the many “As we are beginning to come out unconditionally loved by God. Deacon McGuire, born and projects that have been recent- of the pandemic, we know these Our greatest joy is found when raised in Minneapolis, married Mary ly funded thanks to the Catholic dollars are very needed to keep we enable our neighbors to dis- Kavanaugh in 1968. They had four Foundation of Southwest Iowa. projects alive within our parishes, cover the freedom and beauty sons. The foundation award- schools, and organizations, and that are too easily clouded by the “He was proud of his Irish ed 12 Catholic parishes, schools, we are excited to see them come present challenges families face heritage, loyal first to his family and and organizations with grants to- to fruition!” and the many voices that would faith, then to other things including his taling $49,870. Grant recipients are as distract us from hearing God’s favorite sporting teams,” said Deacon Two of the twelve grants, follows: personal invitation to friendship,” David Bartemes, who preached the called Cornerstone Grants, are • Assumption of the Bishop Joensen said. homily at the funeral Mass. Deacon Dan McGuire valued at more than $5,000. Blessed Virgin Mary, Granger, The campaign goals “He was devoted absolute- In its five years of grant $1,450 to enhance adult faith for- include the establishment of an ly 100 percent to his marriage and his giving, the foundation has award- mation endowment to provide more fi- wife,” said Deacon Ron Myers. ed more than $280,000 to various • St. Thomas More Cen- nancial aid to Catholic school He was also devoted to his faith. groups and organizations within ter, Panora, $1,500 to buy out- families. It will also provide ad- “Church was more than a Sunday obligation; it was part the Diocese of Des Moines. door games ditional funding for the Diocese’s of their lives,” said Deacon Bartemes. “They did more than par- Grant awards for 2021 • St. Mary of Nazareth growing number of seminarians, ticipate, they led.” range from $1,450 to $6,890 and Parish, Des Moines, $1,600 to Deacon McGuire visit- Continued on page 11 are being used for projects like Continued on page 11 ed the sick and incarcerated. He upgrading livestreaming capabil- Continued on page 11 2 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror August 20, 2021 Still together after all these years Our August celebrations loved ones grow dim through de- But these attitudes rep- they bear may not be fully alle- of the Feast of the Assumption mentia or stroke, depression, bu- resent a fundamental mistaking viated until Christ destroys all and the displaced feast of Mary, By limia or other mental condition. of our essential human identity authority and power, including Queen of Heaven—the patronal Bishop As Robert Sokolowski observes, as original body-soul compos- death itself, and hands us over feast of our Diocese—spur some William when we become sick, our very ites who are vulnerable from the to his Father as the most prized sunny musings on what it means Joensen “I” becomes an issue as we pon- moment of conception to all the possessions of his Kingdom. We to become gracefully united with- der the disruption of our personal disruptive forces of disease and take comfort in the Gospel truth in ourselves and as a local church subjectivity, and are tempted to original sin (including the un- that those who share most fully in bound by Spirit ties of faith, view ourselves as a heap of parts fortunate instances of genetic or the cup of Christ’s suffering will friendship, and unfolding oppor- set against one another, a bag of physical anomalies such as her- be filled to overflowing with the tunities to lift one another up in of joy, and is a sublime vocalist objects that are destined to dis- maphroditism or intersex). Each new wine of Spirit joy. love. This month also marks the as her “soul proclaims the great- solve into oblivion unless some- of us is created by God from the Meanwhile, on this side celebration of the 110th anniver- ness of the Lord, her spirit rejoic- one takes drastic action. Soul and first moment of our being—as for of the vale of tears, we commit sary of the founding of our Des es in God my Savior.” She keeps body can be seen as antagonistic Mary and Joseph—to be this par- ourselves to love one another Moines Diocese: Happy Birth- her wits about her as she gives competi- ticular soul unconditionally, to be present to day, sisters and brothers in Christ! birth and then flees with Joseph tors who intended accompany one another through Our genesis as a Dio- to Egypt and eventually returns are foreign “We take comfort in the Gospel to activate whatever personal crises we ex- cese was anything but an easy to the hidden life at Nazareth. rather than truth that those who share most this par- perience on the path of life, in- delivery, as Davenport bishops She grieves but does not despair friendly fully in the cup of Christ’s suffering ticularly cluding whatever crosses we feel Henry Cosgrove and his succes- when Joseph dies, when her Son powers in- will be filled to overflowing with the sexed body, powerless to carry by ourselves. sor James Davis were not ea- embarks on his public ministry herently new wine of Spirit joy.” which is the We enlist the Spirit to be pru- ger to loosen the ties within the whose meaning she does not al- dependent root of our dently discerning, to distinguish southern half of Iowa and let the ways grasp (see Mark 3:21, 31- on one an- Bishop William Joensen vocational voices that ultimately scatter and western counties form their own 34). Yet she trusts and remains other. calling to divide persons within themselves organic body of the faithful. But truly present with all her being accompany from those that solidify the bond with the pope’s ratification of the to the flesh of her own flesh up One of the acute chal- one another on the pilgrimage of shared trials and anguish that request to form a new diocese on until Jesus’ last earthly breath on lenges facing families and our where we take our proper place in by God’s grace unite us ever Aug. 6, 1911, and the Aug. 31, the Cross. society is the rising attention de- the company of God’s children. more closely to one another in a 1911 directive to Bishop Davis Mary is privileged to voted to the situation of persons The emerging medical compact of compassion and care. by U.S. papal nuncio Archbishop anticipate the first breath of her suffering from gender dyspho- data confirm that so-called gen- When we respect our Diomede Falconio to pay admin- Son’s Resurrection Spirit, and ria/gender-identity discordance. der-altering surgeries and the God-given “I,” we discover istrative costs for the “fission” of abides in this Spirit until she The discomfort most people feel chemical disruption of sexual de- anew that “we” take part plural- Davenport and Des Moines—talk takes her last breath. Mary’s soul through puberty and the process velopment that is a preceding step ly in the communion of persons about taxation without represen- is never divorced from her body, of psychosexual maturation is do not deliver promised long-term meant to remain together until a tation!—our Diocese was born. for she realizes God’s intention rarely easy and often confusing. therapeutic relief. Sadly, the inci- mysterious number of years yield In her Assumption, that we achieve harmonious co- But for select young people, who dence of suicide for these patients to eternity. With St. Joseph, we Mary’s graceful passage from ordination of our physical and at some point early in life may does not decrease. We do not declare our own “fiat,” let it be earth to heaven enables her to spiritual potentials in order that have experienced sexual or other want to be complicit with a cul- done, in whatever challenges that transcend the fear and felt rup- we might share fully in God’s forms of trauma, the sense of be- tural mindset that simply shrugs are imposed upon us, just as Mary ture that death ordinarily induces. merciful promise to draw us to ing either male or female inserted and goes along with irregular did at the Annunciation (and As- The enduring unity of her body himself. How painful it was to into a mismatched body is often drumbeat of the demands to abet sumption), and as Jesus did in the and soul until she is ushered by witness the decorated Olympic connected with a sense of alien- what is a fundamental mis-taking Garden of Gethsemane. angels and saints into the compa- gymnast and woman of Catholic ation within oneself and from the of our human personhood. And we become ever ny of her glorious Son is the cul- faith Simone Biles suffer bouts of people around them. Those who At the threshold of heav- more the Church God intends mination of a lifelong pilgrimage the “twisties” that left her disori- advocate dramatic interventions en, Christ is forever the firstfruits when he created and called us, where she is sheltered from sin ented and unable to compete, let such as prescribing hormonal of eternal life, followed by those and when by his providential de- and triumphs over the forces that alone achieve the athletic perfec- blockers to sexual development, who belong to Christ, with Mary sign, the Diocese of Des Moines want to disrupt her and our own tion that lay within her grasp. or surgeries that would alter his mother foremost in the queue came to be 110 years ago. May integrity of life. Mary remains a How much more anguish sexual organs and recraft one’s of saints as she is assumed into God continue to alternately shine lithe dance partner of the Holy and “dis-ease” do we experience physiognomy, whether within the heaven, and then is crowned with on us and shower his graces upon Spirit when her Son is conceived, when we sense our body betray- medical, LGBTQ+ communities the stars as the fairest daughter us as we enter another decade, when she hastens to her cousin ing us in the diagnoses of cancer, or even one’s own parents and of humanity. Perhaps for persons processing further into a second Elizabeth to visit her in a shower multiple sclerosis, Parkinson’s, family, may represent well-in- who suffer gender-identity dis- century of mission and identity as childhood or adult onset diabetes, tended efforts to relieve suffering. cordance, the yoke of suffering God’s faithful in Southwest Iowa. or when our minds or those of

THE CATHOLIC Aún Juntos después de Todos Estos Años

Nuestras celebraciones Falconio para que pagara los cos- eventualmente a una vida oculta alcance. MIRROR de Agosto de la Fiesta de la tos administrativos de la “fisión” en Nazaret. Ella sufre, pero no Qué mayor angustia y Asunción y la desplazada fiesta de Davenport y Des Moines - se desespera cuando muere José, desencanto vivimos al sentir que Bishop William Joensen de María, Reina del Cielo – la ¡vaya forma de impuestos sin cuando su Hijo empieza su minis- nuestro cuerpo nos traiciona en Publisher fiesta patronal de nuestra Dióce- representación! – nació nuestra terio público, cuyo significado no los diagnósticos de cáncer, escle- [email protected] sis – motivan algunas agradables Diócesis. siempre logra ella entender (ver rosis múltiple, Parkinson, diabe- reflexiones sobre lo que significa En su Asunción, el pasa- Marcos 3:21, 31-34. Pero aún así tes infantil o en adultos, o cuando Anne Marie Cox estar unidos en la gracia tanto je en gracia de María de la tierra ella confía y permanece verdader- nuestras mentes o las de nuestros Editor en unos con otros y como igle- al cielo le permite trascender el amente presente con todo su ser a seres queridos se empiezan a apa- [email protected] sia local aunada por los lazos miedo y sentimiento de ruptura la carne de su propia carne hasta gar debido a la demencia o a un del Espíritu de fe, de amistad, y que induce la muerte ordinari- el último aliento terrenal de Jesús infarto cerebral, por depresión, Kelly Mescher Collins de nuevas oportunidades para amente. La perdurable unidad en la Cruz. bulimia u otra condición mental. Staff Writer elevarnos unos a otros en amor. de su cuerpo y alma mientras es María tiene el privilegio Como lo señala Robert Sokolows- [email protected] Este mes marca también la cele- llevada por los ángeles y los san- de anticipar el primer aliento del ki, cuando nos enfermamos, bración del 110 aniversario de la tos a la compañía de su glorioso Espíritu de su hijo Resucitado, y nuestro propio “yo” se convierte fundación de nuestra Diócesis de Hijo es la culminación de una se mantiene en este Espíritu has- un problema al analizar sobre la The Catholic Mirror (ISSN Des Moines. ¡Feliz cumpleaños peregrinación de vida en donde ta ella tomar su último aliento. El disrupción de nuestra subjetivi- 0896-6869) is published hermanos y hermanas en Cristo! ella estaba protegida del pecado alma de María no se divorcia nun- dad personal y estamos tentados monthly for $20 per year by Nuestro génesis como y triunfa sobre las fuerzas que ca de su cuerpo, porque por ella a vernos a nosotros mismos como the Diocese of Des Moines, Diócesis no fue una hazaña fácil, quieren perturbarle a ella y a la se cumple la intención de Dos de un montón de partes que se han 601 Grand Ave., Des Moines, ya que los obispos de Davenport integridad misma de nuestras vi- que logremos una coordinación armado, una bolsa de objetos que Iowa 50309. Periodicals post- Cosgrove y su sucesor James Da- das. María permanece como una armoniosa de nuestros potencia- están destinados a disolverse en age paid at Des Moines. vis no estaban muy contentos de compañera sutil de baile del Es- les físicos y espirituales para que el olvido a menos de que alguien POSTMASTER: Send changes soltar los lazos dentro de la mitad píritu Santo cuando su Hijo es podamos compartir plenamente tome acciones drásticas. El alma to THE CATHOLIC MIR- sur del estado de Iowa y permitir concebido, cuando se apresura a la promesa misericordiosa de y el cuerpo pueden parecer com- ROR, 601 Grand Ave., Des que los contados del oeste forma- visitar a su prima Isabel en una Dios de llevarnos hacia sí mismo. petidores antagonistas que son Moines, Iowa 50309. ran su propio cuerpo orgánico de fuente de alegría, y es una sub- Qué doloroso fue ver a la decora- fuerzas foráneas en vez de ser po- PHONE: (515)237-5046 los fieles. Pero con la ratificación lime vocalista cuando su “alma da gimnasta olímpica y mujer de deres inherentemente colaborati- EMAIL: mirror@dmdiocese. del papa a las solicitudes de for- proclama la grandeza del Señor, fe católica Simone Biles sufrir los vos y dependientes uno del otro. org mar una nueva diócesis el 6 de se alegra su espíritu en Dios mi efectos del “twisties” que le dejó Uno de los mayores re- DIOCESAN WEBSITE: agosto de 1911 y la directiva del Salvador.” Ella mantiene su in- desorientada e incapacitada para tos que enfrentan nuestras famil- www.dmdiocese.org 31 de agosto de 1911 al Obispo genio as dar a luz y luego huir competir, impidiéndole lograr la Davis por parte del nuncio papal junto con José a Egipto y regresar perfección atlética que tenía a su Continued on page 14 www.dmdiocese.org 3 Schools keep busy over the summer St. Albert Falcons win state baseball championship

The Council Bluffs St. Albert baseball team claimed the school’s fourth summer state championship on July 29 with a 7-5 victory over Kee High of Lansing in the Class 1A title game at Merchants Park in Carroll. The Falcons added to championships in 1981, 1996 and 1999 by going 12-0 in the month of July to finish with a 35-8 record. At state, they beat Lisbon 9-3 and Alburnett 10-0 to set up the championship meeting with Kee. Seniors Cy Patterson (pictured pitching) and Isaac Sherrill, and sophomore Brendan Monah- an were named first-team all-staters by the Iowa Print Sports Writers Association. Perry school celebrates 100 years of providing Catholic education MEMORIAL MASS

For the unborn

A Memorial Mass for all the lives lost through the violence of abortion. Together we will plead to the Lord to stop the evil of abortion.

SEPTEMBER 25, 2021

Diocesan Shrine of Our Lady of Mount Carmel & Divine Mercy

St. Patrick Catholic School in Perry celebrated 100 years of providing a Catholic education with a special Mass and semi-formal dinner in July. Nora O’Malley campaigned to bring a Catholic school to the GROTTO community and, despite many challenges, her dream came true. NOON Dowling Catholic erects memorial ST. ANTHONY CATHOLIC CHURCH

Join us for this important Memorial Mass to remember and pray for the millions of babies whose lives were lost through abortion. At this Mass, we will pray for the unborn and for the women and men suffering from the tragic effects of abortion. The Mass will be held at the Grotto, just north of St. Anthony Church. Chairs will be set up but feel free to bring your own in case they are Þlled up. All are invited, please bring everyone to join in this important Mass. More information contact Tom Hanson [email protected] 515.770.7648 If the weather is bad, the Mass will be moved into the church.

Sponsored by Knights of Columbus Council 12482

We’re looking for stories of inspiration!

Dowling Catholic High School in West Des Moines recently added a Send your ideas to Kelly Mescher Collins at memorial to its campus to honor the faithfully departed members [email protected] or call 515-237-5054. of the school community. 4 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror August 20, 2021 Des Moines Olympian’s family grateful for community support

Photo supplied by Kathy Schweizer Dowling Catholic High School graduate, Karissa Schweizer, com- peting in the women’s 5,000 meter track and field event at the Tokyo Olympics.

By Kelly Mescher Collins Moines, were at the pre-dawn Staff Writer gathering on Court Avenue in Des Moines on Aug. 7 to In the months, weeks watch Karissa race on a Jum- and days leading up to the Olym- botron TV. Their son, Jack, runs pics in Tokyo this summer, all cross-country at Dowling Catho- sorts of variables loomed, poten- lic. tially snuffing out Dowling Cath- The running history of olic High School alumna Karissa the Schweizer family is motiva- Schweizer’s opportunity to com- tional and created a passion for pete there. running for Jack, they said. After the Olympics were Dowling Catholic run- postponed from 2020 to 2021 due ner Tyler Schweizer had a 13- to COVID-19, all possibilities mile run ahead of him that day. seemed to be on the table. The senior watched his cousin “I was more disappoint- race before he began his run. ed for her,” said Karissa’s mother, “To have a cousin in the Kathy, a longtime member of St. Olympics, it’s crazy to see her get Pius X Parish in Urbandale. “She to this point,” he said. was so ready and focused and Dowling Catholic run- then everything got shut down.” ner and Holy Trinity parishioner But Schweizer and the Gabe Shaw, a junior, said Karissa rest of her team at the Bower- is a winner to him. man Track Club – an American “Running in Tokyo to- Left: Karissa Schweizer, a 2014 graduate of Dowling Catholic High School, competed in the finals for training group for professional day is an achievement in and of both the 5,000 and 10,000 meters at the Olympics in Tokyo. Top: Longtime members of St. Pius X runners sponsored by Nike and itself,” he said. Parish in Urbandale, Mike and Kathy Schweizer with their children Karissa, Kelsey and Ryan. Bottom: based in Portland, Oregon – kept Early on, there were Family and friends attended the watch party on Court Avenue on Saturday, Aug. 7 to watch Schweizer focusing on their next step. concerns the Olympics would compete in the 10,000 meter final. It paid off. Karissa com- again be postponed due to the partner and friend – fellow Io- The love and support from the ing times. They offer prayers of peted in Tokyo in the 5,000-me- pandemic, or athletes would test wan Shelby Houlihan – who community has been extraordi- thanksgiving to God for the spe- ter race, coming in 11th, and in positive for COVID-19. was banned from track and field nary. cial gifts he has given Karissa. the 10,000-meter race, coming in “I was always praying events for four years after testing They texted back and Friends and family have 12th. that the Olympics would still just positive for an anabolic steroid. forth with Karissa, though the 14- also provided much needed sup- “I think she did won- happen,” Kathy said. “I was even (Houlihan has gone on record hour time difference made it chal- port and encouragement. Many of derfully,” said her grandfather, mentally preparing myself [for stating she believes the steroid lenging, Mike and Kathy said. their friends and community are former longtime Dowling Catho- the Olympics to be cancelled],” came from pork she consumed In the past, they always through the Catholic church and lic track and cross country coach Kathy continued. “So for her to hours before her drug test and travelled to cheer on and see Ka- schools. Frank Schweizer. “Just to get fight through all of the barriers, I continues to appeal her case.) rissa (and their two other children “If you would have been there to run against the absolute kind of see her as Wonder Wom- “It’s been a tough year compete.) But they accepted that at [the 5K watch party] at Well- best in the world is just so hard. an.” on Karissa,” said her father, watching her on television, along man’s, it was almost all St. Pius We’re very proud of her.” Another challenge for Mike. “She knew about [Shelby’s with millions of other people and Dowling people,” Mike said. Pam and Lou Flori, of Karissa was losing Bowerman appeals to compete] for months. around the world, was the only “You have a great group of peo- St. Francis Parish in West Des Track Club teammate, training “This came out a week way to see her compete. ple – and they were there. It was before the trials and then the “I didn’t realize how a great celebration. And that’s coaches were distracted. It was a nervous we’d be,” Kathy said. one thing that I really appreciate Free Citizenship Class tough couple of weeks. That’s one “I try not to think about about the church and school and of her main training partners.” it,” Mike said. “You just want the Dowling Catholic community is Mike and Kathy agree best for her and want her to be really that togetherness and the by telephone it has been thrilling to see their happy.” support.” This free citizenship class will prepare you to pass daughter compete in the Olym- Their faith has gotten pics, albeit on a television screen. the family through all of the try- your US immigration citizenship interview. Experienced teacher will conduct this class bilingual – English and Spanish. Please contact local instructor Jim Supina at (515) 961-2026. We’re looking for stories Victim Assistance Advocate of inspiration! Send your ideas to Kelly Mescher Collins The diocese’s Victim Assistance Advocate is a staff member at Polk County Victim Services. He helps victims of abuse of at [email protected] minors by clergy through a complaint process and in seeking or call 515-237-5054. support and counseling services. He can be reached at 515-286-2024 or [email protected]. www.dmdiocese.org 5 Catholic Charities Annual Appeal Stories behind the mission illustrate need, gratitude substance abuse counseling. Moines each year. The organi- Decker, Catholic Charities exec- information about Catholic Char- By Beth Gibbins The client would even- zation’s mission and values are utive director. “We hope that you ities programs, volunteer oppor- Contributing Writer tually tell her advocate, “You are rooted in Catholic Social Teach- continue to find the programs and tunities, upcoming events, and like a best friend, a mom, a sister, ing, a rich treasure of wisdom services of Catholic Charities a more. On a hot afternoon in an advocate, and a saving grace— about building a just society and worthy investment of your char- For help with your con- July, a 36-year-old man stood all in one. You have played the living lives of holiness amid the itable giving. Please consider an tribution, contact Catholic Chari- looking at a table full of donated role of nearly every person I have challenges of modern society. increase in this year’s contribu- ties Development Director Debra bread stationed at the front of the always needed in my life.” Support through Catho- tion and sharing our mission with Powers at 563-275-9643. She can Catholic Charities Food Pantry. These are just a handful lic Charities Annual Appeal en- friends and family.” help set up a giving plan, event Clutching a white grocery bag of stories that illustrate the im- sures programs and services can To become an Annual sponsorship, or find the best way loaded with zucchini, grapes, po- pact Catholic Charities programs help now and into the future. Appeal donor, go to catholiccha to make your contribution have tatoes, and a container of choc- make through direct service to “To those who donat- ritiesdm.org. Click the “Donate” the most impact. olate milk, he selected a loaf of thousands of people in the 23 ed to the Annual Appeal in the button in the upper right corner of Italian bread. counties of the Diocese of Des past, we thank you,” said Barbara the screen. The website is full of “When I became home- less, I had nowhere to go. I would come by, and I knew that I could find something to eat when I was hungry,” he said. “It’s important to me that I have some stability… and the guys here are really nice.” He revealed that he became homeless after his girlfriend died three years ago. He now lives near the fairgrounds and relies on “the dailies” from the food pantry. Earlier in July, an 89-year-old woman from the Democratic Republic of Congo landed in the United States after enduring life in a refugee camp in Rwanda for over 20 years. Family and friends prayed and celebrat- ed as she, a daughter, and three grandchildren (age 23, 19, and 17) descended the stairs at Des Moines International Airport. Catholic Charities Ref- ugee Services program manager, Kelyn Anker, greeted the family and guided them through the air- port for their luggage and on to their new life in Iowa. Last year in Council Bluffs, a Catholic Charities Sex- ual Assault Advocate met with a survivor of human trafficking. The advocate helped unravel a lifetime of abuse and neglect from family and others and ar- ranged legal assistance, medical care, mental health services, and 6 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror August 20, 2021 Around the Diocese CDA group installs new chaplain

Aug. 28 Saturday thread of hate animating the country Money raised helps others & stays lo- Conference for Parents in Spanish and re-establishing moral character. cal. For more information go to DES MOINES -- A con- Visit centerforfocialministry.org for fopwalk.org/event/2603 ference in Spanish for parents is 8:30 more information. a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Catholic Pastoral Sept. 26 Sunday Center. We will have Dr. Dora Tobar, Sept. 17 Sunday Chicken and Ham Dinner director of Family Life and Hispan- Chip in Fore Charity LENOX – St. Patrick ic Ministry Office at the Diocese of PLEASANT HILL – St. Church, 600 W. Michigan, is hosting Lafayette in Indiana as a key speaker. Vincent de Paul invites you to join its annual grilled chicken and ham For more information, contact Mayra them for their Fight Food Insecuri- dinner from 11 a.m. – 1 p.m. in its Moriel de Banuelos at 515-237-5011 ty Golf Fundraiser at Copper Creek parish center. We missed you last or [email protected]. Golf Course in Pleasant Hill. Regis- year because of COVID-19 so we are Photo by Jessica White tration will begin at 8:30 a.m. with a looking forward to seeing everyone Regent Carol Hollenbeck introduces the Catholic Daughters of the shotgun start at 10 a.m. Registration again this year. Americas Court #330 new chaplain, Deacon John Pfenning, of St. Aug. 29-Sept. 1 Sun-Wed is $150 per person with additional Patrick Parish in Council Bluffs. With them is Father James Ahenko- Parish Mission sponsorship opportunities available Faith Journey ra, pastor of St. Patrick Parish. ANKENY – Our Lady’s for those interested. If you have ques- Catechetical Institute Immaculate Heart Parish is sponsor- tions contact our resource director, DES MOINES – Are you By Carol Hollenbeck ing a parish mission — “On Becom- Randi Radosevich at resourcedirec- a Catholic who wants to fall deeper [email protected]. All proceeds from in love with Christ and his Church? ing the Body of Christ” — at 6:30 Deacon John Pfenning, of St. Patrick Church in Council p.m. Come to one night or all four. this event will go towards keeping Do you want to learn more about how Bluffs, was installed June 28 as the new chaplain for Catholic Daugh- Additionally, morning sessions avail- our healthy food pantries open to you fit into greatest love story in the able on Mon & Tues (using Lectio & help ensure that nobody goes hungry. history of world? If you answered yes ters of the Americas Court #330 of Council Bluffs. Visio Divina) are 9-10:30 a.m. Don’t golf but would like to donate? to these questions then the Catechet- The court’s membership of 61 Catholic women includes rep- Find us on Venmo @SVDPofgreat- ical Institute is for you. Contact John resentation from the three Council Bluffs parishes of Corpus Christi, Aug. 30 Monday erDSM or via PayPal at svdpdsm.org. Huynh, 515-237-5006, to begin your St. Peter and St. Patrick. Golf Outing faith journey into the heart of our CDA Court #330 will celebrate its 101st anniversary in Oc- Get your team together for Sept. 19 Sunday Catholic tradition. More information tober. The court planned to celebrate with its annual salad luncheon the Catholic Charities Golf Outing 50th anniversary celebration can also be found at FaithJourneyCI. fundraiser on Aug. 11 at St. Peter Parish. on Monday, Aug. 30 with a shotgun DES MOINES – You are com start at 12:45 p.m. Proceeds benefit invited to a celebration of the 50th the mission of Catholic Charities to anniversary for Father Bob Aubrey at Cathedral Holy Hours CDA express gratitude empower individuals and strengthen St. Joseph Church. There will be an All are welcome to join Hol- families. Sign up today: open house from 2-4 p.m. with eve- Bishop William Joensen at St. Am- Regent Carol catholiccharitiesdm.org/2021-golf. ning payer at 4:15 p.m. brose on Mondays for an hour of lenbeck and treasurer For questions or sponsorship, please Eucharistic adoration and evening Jan Roth, of Catholic contact Holly at hackermann@ Sept. 19-21 Sun-Tuesday prayer. These Holy Hours are 5-6 Daughters Court St. An- catholiccharitiesdm.org Parish Mission p.m. Evening prayer will be lives- thony #330, thanked Fa- ADEL – All are welcome treamed on the Diocesan Facebook ther Tom Thakadipuram Sept. 5 Sunday to join us for St. John’s parish mis- page. for his service at Corpus 50th anniversary celebration sion “To The Heights!” with Katie Christi Parish during a DES MOINES – You are Patrizio. Come hear this fast-paced Friends, Romans, Iowans podcast July 7 Mass and recep- th Check out the Dioce- invited to a celebration of the 50 retelling of the Scripture story and tion before he moved discover your unique role in salva- san young-adult focused podcast anniversary for Father Ken Gross at to his new assignment Curate, 322 E. Court Ave. Drinks and tion history. Join us in our mission “Friends, Romans, Iowans.” This serving parishes in food will be available from 2:30-4:30 to refresh our minds and hearts with podcast aims to connect the Diocese p.m. No cards or gifts please. Mass new insights. Learn more about our by hosting casual conversations with Shenandoah and Ham- will be celebrated at 4:30 p.m. Satur- presenter at katiepatrizio.com. The Catholic leaders from around south- burg. Father Thakadipu- day, Sept. 4 at St. Theresa Church in schedule is: Sept. 19 - 5:30 dinner & west Iowa. Episodes can be found ram served as chaplain Des Moines. speaker; Sept. 20 - 6:30 speaker & wherever you get your podcasts, or at for the CDA court for reflection; Sept. 21 - 5:30 Mass, fel- our website at dmdiocese.org/fripod. four years. Pictured: Father Tom Thakadipuram and Hol- Sept. 10-11 Friday-Saturday lowship, speaker & adoration. lenbeck with a gift she gave him on behalf of the CDA Parish Mission Support The Catholic Mirror COUNCIL BLUFFS – Jon Sept. 25 Saturday We en- Leonetti will be at Corpus Christi Memorial Mass for the Unborn courage you to Neola garden blessed Catholic Church on Sept. 10, 6 - 8:30 DES MOINES – A memo- take a subscrip- p.m. and Sept. 11 from 8 a.m. - 1:30 rial Mass for all the lives lost through tion to our di- p.m. for a Catholic mission. Daycare the violence of abortion will be held ocesan news- is available at the Corpus Christi Par- at noon at the Shrine of Our Lady of paper, The ish Center. Meals will be provided. Mount Carmel & Divine Mercy, just Catholic Mir- RSVP by Sept. 7 by calling the parish north of St. Anthony Church. Chairs ror. Our news- office at (712) 323-2916 or by email will be set up, but feel free to bring paper was criti- at officemanager@corpuschristiia. your lawn chair in case seating is full. cally important during the pandemic. com. For more information contact Tom Whether you receive it digitally or Hanson, [email protected], 515- through the Post Office, The Catholic Sept. 14 Tuesday 770-7648. Mirror brings to us a monthly mes- Center for Social Ministry sage from Bishop William Joensen, DES MOINES – Dr. Lewis Sept. 25 Saturday news and inspirational stories of Brogdon is the keynote speaker at the St. Vincent de Paul “Friends of the faith. You can call us at 515-237- annual fundraiser for the Center for Poor Walk” 5046, use the QR Code or give online Social Ministry. Brogdon authored a CARLISLE – This walk at: dmdiocese.org/giving/special-col newspaper column last June address- will take place from 9-11 a.m. on lection-giving. ing the undercurrent and common Scotch Ridge Nature Trail in Carlisle. Former St. Albert School educator dies Former St. Albert Catholic School educa- She also served as tor, Sister Micheline Curtis, died July 10 after a life- an archivist assistant for the time of service in education. She was 83. Congregation of the Humility Carolyn Cecilia Curtis, born in 1937 in of Mary. Iowa City, entered the Congregation of the Humility At Bishop Drumm of Mary in 1958 and professed vows in 1960. in Johnston, Sister Micheline She earned a bachelor’s degree in En- served as president of the glish from Marycrest College in Davenport and Resident Council. In an on- completed post-graduate studies at the University line memorial, Humility Sis- of Kentucky English Institute, the Colorado State ter Mary Rehmann wrote: “Some of us recall Sister University Economic Institute in Colorado and the Micheline, just days before her last hospitalization, University of Iowa. She also earned a Family Inter- participating in Zoom sessions in preparation for Father Sylvester Okoh, of St. Patrick Parish in Neola, on June 25 vention Chemical Dependency Certificate from the upcoming community elections. Now she directs us blessed a new grotto surrounding a statue of the Blessed Mother at Johnson Institute in St. Paul, Minnesota. from her vantage point in heaven, where her voice a rosary walk near the church. The rosary walk was created by Eagle She taught in Ottumwa, at St. Albert High is restored to its full volume and she continues to Scout Tim Spiker about three years ago. The parish prays the rosary School in Council Bluffs, Regina High School in speak with authority.” most Thursdays at 8 a.m., celebrates Mass at 8:30 a.m. and has an Iowa City, in Rock Island, Illinois, Phoenix and in Private services took place at Bishop hour of adoration until closing at 10 a.m. with Benediction and a Lombard, Illinois, where she was honored for her Drumm, Our Lady of Peace Chapel and at Humili- special blessing. All Catholics are invited to attend. Those who are 25 years of dedicated service. While there, she also ty of Mary Center in Davenport. Memorials may be not Catholic are invited to visit and pray, attend Mass and then call served as an intervention counselor at Hinsdale Hos- made to the Congregation of the Humility of Mary. the church office for more information. pital. www.dmdiocese.org 7 Biking for Babies local ride School administrators continue learning in summer When Diocese of Des er must accept responsibility for By Nicole Evans Moines administrators were in- his or her actions and the damage Contributing Writer vited to attend the workshop, they caused by those actions. jumped at the opportunity to learn All humans desire to be Representatives from more about restorative practices treated with dignity, have a voice five Diocese of Des Moines Cath- as part of a SEL framework. and be heard. These qualities are olic schools traveled to St. Pat- “This workshop was an core to our humanity. Thus, there rick Catholic School in Elkhorn, exceptional experience that pro- is considerable value in shift- Nebraska this summer to attend a vided an opportunity to collab- ing from a punitive approach to two-day workshop on restorative orate with other administrators promoting social bonding and practices. outside of our diocese,” shared community. Restorative prac- Those in attendance Halligan. “The restorative prac- tices align with Catholic social were: Jon Aldrich and Gretchen tices we explored during the teaching by protecting the dignity Watznauer from St. Francis of workshop will allow us to be of every person involved, teach- Assisi Catholic School; Misty more proactive when addressing ing collective problem-solving, Bishop William Joensen and Jimmy Becker hit the trail to raise Hade from St. Luke the Evan- student behaviors as we imple- building community, and promot- awareness and funds for crisis pregnancy centers. gelist Catholic School; Jennifer ment Positive Behavioral In- ing forgiveness. Thirty four bike riders hit the trail in Ankeny with Biking for Raes from St. Anthony Catholic terventions and Supports in the Initially, the five schools Babies on Aug. 7 to raise awareness of crisis pregnancy centers and School; Monica Morrison from coming school year.” in attendance at the June work- raise funds for their effort. Holy Trinity Catholic School; What are restorative shop will begin implementing Biking for Babies cofounder Jimmy Becker and Bishop Wil- and Jodi Halligan from St. Joseph practices? restorative practices this fall. liam Joensen, cycling enthusiast and Biking for Babies spiritual advi- Catholic School. Restorative practices However, the goal is to have all sor, headed for Woodward on the local ride. The workshop helped view wrongdoing or problem diocesan schools using Positive Biking for Babies began 12 years ago, and has since grown. school administrators develop a behavior as a violation of people Behavior Interventions and Sup- A national ride Aug. 11-17 drew about 50 riders who started at one of social-emotional framework for and relationships rather than a ports to employ restorative prac- four locations north, south, east and west, all converging in St. Louis. their schools that includes restor- violation of the rules. The focus tices in the classroom. Bishop Joensen joined the last leg of that ride at Springfield, Illinois. ative practices. is on the victim(s). The offend- The prolife organization has three main goals: to build up the next generation of prolife missionaries, to build awareness of preg- nancy resource centers and to raise financial support for those centers. Join Avoca, Walnut parishes for first Saturday Mass This year, the group decided to do local rides in seven com- munities, Becker said. In the future, it’s hoped the group will have a local ride in every state. Father Seth Owusu, of St. Mary “By doing the local rides, we have the opportunity to achieve Parish in Avoca and St. Patrick the goals that God set out for us to accomplish and get more families Parish in Walnut, shows a Di- and communities involved on a local basis,” Becker said. vine Mercy sign with the words The Des Moines metro area cyclists could choose from three “Jesus, I trust in you” at the Wal- options: a five-mile, a 23-mile and a 48-mile ride, said organizer Pey- nut parish before a First Satur- ton Dueling. day Mass honoring the Blessed Beneficiaries of the ride include Innervisions Healthcare, Mother on Aug. 7. He rotates Agape Pregnancy Resource Center and Martha’s House of Hope. the first Saturday Mass between Listen to Bishop Joensen’s interview with Biking for Babies the two parishes. Prayer begins co-founder at iowacatholicradio.com/making-it-personal. with a rosary at 8 a.m. followed by the Mass. All are invited to at- tend. To get a Divine Mercy sign, Vaccination clinic aims to protect contact Kathy Graeve, of Neola, at 402-680-4370 with a call or more people in the community text.

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Emilio and Paola Nieto “Definitely God pro- By Anne Marie Cox tected us the whole way and Photo by Anne Marie Cox Staff Writer guided us,” she said. Monica, Sabrina, Laura and Javier Mejia feel safe and secure in their new home in Iowa. Emilio and Paola met While Emilio Nieto and married. She attended Iowa area, a shelter and then with an- what I was about so I started call- was growing up in Mexico, he State University. They shared By Anne Marie Cox other family. ing around to friends,” Herrity dreamed of finding a better life an apartment with another cou- Staff Writer The family wanted said. They provided necessities. in the United States. ple to make ends meet. to go to church. Someone took Herrity learned Javier He didn’t realize, at The Nietos had their Six years ago, Javier them to Sacred Heart in West Des is a skilled mechanic. He helped age 15, how difficult his life first child. Mejia had his own car mechanic Moines. Javier get a job, made sure the would become. Emilio sold his truck shop in Colombia, where his wife “In Colombia, we went family understood what school “That’s all I want- job to someone who did land- helped him with the books and his to Mass every Sunday. But just officials were saying, assisted at ed to do was get to work and scaping, and the buyer began two young daughters had friends, because of our problem, we don’t doctor appointments and more. get some money and then go to give Emilio jobs, Paola said. pets and a comfortable life. even know where we can find a Joe and Jean Herrity back to my country,” he said. Emilio approached “One day, everything Spanish Mass and nobody tell have become family to Javier, “I thought that was the simple his boss and said he either changed suddenly,” he said. His you where to ask,” Javier said. Monica, Sabrina and Laura. When way to see this dream come needed a big raise or he needed brother-in-law was murdered and Monica had purchased some can- Monica and Javier had their mar- true.” to go out on his own to try and his family no longer felt safe. dles and carried them with her ev- riage blessed by the church, Joe Upon arriving in earn more money. The owner They had to leave. erywhere just in case they found a walked her down the aisle at her Iowa to be with a relative, he helped Emilio start his own As he looks back on a church. father’s request. faced multiple challenges: He business. journey that tested their faith, Javier paused. “They’re just wonderful couldn’t speak English, and he “He helped me to Javier sees God working to help “I never forgot that,” he people,” Herrity said. “They’re didn’t have a way to get to a start up. Then I brought my his family every step of the way said. “My family and me were part of us. I guess the attitude job. brother to work with me. Then though they may not have real- struggling to find a better place to that I’ve taken is that in order to He went to school I hired someone else. Little by ized it at the time. live.” help them, I’ve had to change my during the day, working fast little, I hired someone else and “I learned to meet an- Javier, Monica, and mindset and say, ‘They’re family’ food jobs at night. Once he I got more customers. We were gels and demons,” he said, paus- daughters Laura and Sabrina lit and I have to treat them as fam- learned English, he could get able to get our own apartment. ing as tears slid down his face. the candles in front of an image ily. I laughingly refer to Laura better paying jobs and he could Three years later, we were able “I learned that God changes our of the Sacred Heart. and Sabrina as my two adopted help his family back in Mexi- to get our own home. About lives with purpose. We don’t At the church, they met daughters. I had all boys.” co. three to four years ago, we know what it is, but every day someone, who connected them Today, Javier has a While he worked to were able to get a nicer home. in my new prayer, I add in a new with a lawyer, who said the fam- job as a mechanic with a truck- make ends meet, he realized Emilio speaks as if phrase and that is: ‘Show me the ily would qualify for political ing firm and proudly says he’s something was missing in his he’s won life’s lottery. way.’” asylum and started the paperwork a member of the Knights of Co- life. “Once upon a time, I When he and his wife, process, Javier said. lumbus. Monica has her own in- “I never smoke or had a dream and God has given Monica, decided they needed to Eventually, they were home daycare. Laura is a junior drink, thanks to my mom and me a chance to see it,” he said. leave their homeland, Javier put able to get an apartment. studying computer engineering dad. I was a good boy. But then “I have my own busi- his resume on the internet, intend- “It was an empty apart- at Iowa State University. Sabrina you realize that is not enough. ness; I can employ people. I ing for it to go to Spain where he ment,” Monica said. “We were just graduated high school and Somebody has to wake you love my wife. We have five had a friend. sleeping on the carpet, but it was will enter a paralegal program up and say that is not enough. kids. It’s not just blessings on Instead, a woman from good because we felt safe and we through Des Moines Area Com- Catholics, it’s not about not my work, it’s blessings on my Cedar Rapids saw it and invited had a place to live,” she said. munity College. drinking and not smoking and family. I’m an active person in him to Iowa. Leslie Van Der Molen, The family is grateful not doing drugs. We are about the church. I try to do my best to The family moved. They of Catholic Charities, has helped for their angels, the people who doing good things. And then I be a good Catholic. I just want had no family here, they did many families who find them- guided and helped them the last realized I was not doing any- to say that I’m really thankful not know the language and they selves homeless. few years. thing good, and my life didn’t for all the opportunities that I didn’t know how the hiring pro- “That is reality. The “Never stop trusting have real meaning. My pri- got in this country. It’s a great cess works in the United States. harsh truth is when people leave God,” Monica said. “I thank God orities were not straight. God country and I think anyone The woman who con- a shelter, they often have nothing for all the people who appeared, was not in the first place. I was who wants to make their dream tacted Javier didn’t know the or very little,” she said. all his angels. God wanted to more about work or money or come true, if they’re here they hiring process for newcomers, The Mejia family met show us that he is real and he different things. But since I got can get it done but they have to either, he said. She moved them Sacred Heart parishioner Joe Her- does exist. The changes he makes my time with the Lord, then work really hard and I’m sure from a hotel to an apartment, and rity, who they affectionately call in people’s lives have purpose.” I realized that he was kind of they’ll get it.” then to a motel. “Mr. Joe.” One of Sabrina’s angels giving me a chance.” Emilio now has a son “She realized she made While he met them in was a teacher who helped her His wife, Paola, ar- who is 15 years old. a big mistake,” Javier said. July a few years ago, Herrity learn English and motivated her rived in the United States when “I told him that he just The Mejias had no car, knew the family needed win- to keep learning. she was 13 with her mother has to look back to me and see couldn’t communicate and were ter weather clothes. He looked “Be kind to everyone,” and two younger sisters. They that I didn’t have a lot of op- running out of money as they around and realized they needed said Laura. “You don’t know joined her father and brother portunities when I was 15, and were paying for food, clothes and a lot more: food, kitchen supplies, what they’re going through. A who were already here. he has double the opportunities motel expenses. bedding, jobs. word, a gesture, a look can mean Paola remembers the than I had,” he said. “If he re- The family moved to “At that point, I realized so much to someone.” fear she experienced on her ally wants to fulfill his dreams, a park in the Des Moines metro that this was a lot bigger than journey to the United States. it can be done.” www.dmdiocese.org 9 CCUSA, Texas bishops address ministry with migrants “I was hungry and you gave me food, I was federal government to be present of Catholic Charities have the ut- We praise the tireless in the United States, they are sent most concern for the health of the efforts of the Catholic Charities thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger to Catholic Charities for transi- communities where they live and member agencies at the border and you welcomed me.” (Matthew 25) tional care. do everything they can to protect and throughout the country in This care is thread- against the spread of COVID-19. their ministry to migrants. With The following is a recent state- and refugee services. ed with the dignity we believe They work with government offi- constantly changing conditions, ment from the Texas Conference Catholic Charities’ work should be afforded to every per- cials to separate individuals and surges in border crossings, limit- of Catholic Bishops and Catholic with migrants is rooted in the son — a warm meal, a shower, families who test positive to al- ed facilities, the media spotlight, Charities USA. Gospel and in Catholic social clean clothing, medicine and oth- low for isolation until a negative and the pressures of regulatory teaching. er supplies. test is returned. efforts designed to curtail their ALEXANDRIA, VA Agencies along the Usually, within two There is a concern about humanitarian work, they march – Catholic Charities USA and southern U.S. border, including days, the migrants leave the Cath- the ability of Catholic Charities on caring for one human life at its 167 member agencies have in Texas, and around the coun- olic Charities centers to continue and agency partners to care for a time — whether it be a fearful a long history of serving their try have provided these services their journey while they await the growing number of newcom- child, a parent seeking to provide communities to help the most in coordination with the federal their immigration court process. ers while recognizing the immi- for his or her family or a potential vulnerable find affordable hous- government for decades across Many migrants are poor gration system in the U.S. is in victim of human trafficking. ing, access vital food assistance multiple presidential administra- and in need of extended services dire need of being revamped. In caring for the strang- and nutrition, receive mental tions. Catholic Charities’ efforts and Catholic Charities partners While those laws and er, they are the hands of Jesus and integrated healthcare are humanitarian, not political. with a variety of agencies to at- trajectories remain outside of Christ. and achieve economic self- Federal agencies and tend to those needs. Additional- their control, Catholic Charities’ sufficiency and stability. local border cities turn to Cath- ly, some migrants are tragically humanitarian work continues in Catholic Charities and its relat- When disaster strikes, olic Charities agencies and other victims of human trafficking, and full congruence with U.S. law. ed agencies help and create hope its agencies provide emergency faith-based and local nonprofit our ministries work closely with We are grateful for the to more than 15 million people a and long-term relief to help in- organizations to aid them in car- the appropriate federal, state and ability to work in many border year regardless of religious, so- dividuals and families rebuild ing for migrants. local public safety departments communities in an ecumenical, cial, or economic backgrounds. their lives. Additionally, since its This role is as critical as to ensure their protection and interfaith way so that together we To learn more about CCUSA, vis- founding in 1910, Catholic Char- it is turnkey. Once migrants have well-being. can serve those in need and keep it their website at www.catholic- ities has provided immigration been granted permission by the The staff and volunteers our local communities safe. charitiesusa.org.

Crowd gathers for perfect weather on Feast of the Assumption of Mary, Consecration to St. Joseph

Photos by Kelly Mescher Collins The weather was perfect for the consecration to St. Joseph event. Bishop William Joensen celebrated the 4 p.m. Mass on the Feast Day of the Assumption of Mary and the consecration to St. Joseph, which was followed by a picnic.

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Bishop William Joensen celebrated Mass and led the consecration to St. Joseph outside St. Patrick Church in Irish Settlement on Sun- day, Aug. 15. The event also celebrated the 110th anniversary of the Diocese of Des Moines.

A Three-Part Short Video Series on Faith and Immigrants

Part 1 focuses on the Italian immigrants who helped found St. Anthony Church in Des Moines. Monsignor Frank Chiodo, pastor and descendant of Italian immigrants, describes how the Catholic faith is extremely important to immigrants.

Part 2 of this series focuses on Jessica Hernandez, a member of St. Anthony Parish in Des Moines, who is an immigrant, DACA recipient and Hispanic Ministry Coordinator at the Diocese of Des Moines.

Part 3 of this series features ocuses on Sisters Elaine and Jeanie Hagedorn of the Congregation of Humility of Mary, who helped Jessica Hernandez and her mother get settled in Des Moines as they sought a better life away from crime, violence and poverty. Watch at dmdiocese.org/brothersandsisters 10 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror August 20, 2021 Faith pulls Indianola family through near death experience

By Kelly Mescher Collins Staff Writer

Joe and Dorothy Gezel have always lived out their faith in many ways at their parish, St. Thomas Aquinas, in Indianola. Joe went on parish youth mission trips for nearly 14 years, serving as a chaperone and help- ing the kids serve those in need. Both have been involved in a number of endeavors and com- mittees. They even started Heal House – a homeless shelter in In- dianola. The Gezels raised money, purchased an old hotel and sought out donors to refurbish the rooms, which now houses individuals and families, providing shelter until they get back on their feet. But the Gezels’ faith was put to the ultimate test in Novem- ber 2019 when Joe had a massive heart attack, followed by a stroke the next day. The outpouring of love, prayers and support from the In- dianola community was quick. “People went to church to pray the rosary and also a lot of them came up to the hospital,” Dorothy said, estimating maybe 120 people at either church or the chapel in the hospital. “We were on the intensive care floor for a couple of weeks.” After being moved to a rehabilitation center, Joe’s condi- tion worsened, and he was moved back to the hospital for surgery. “The doctor said, ‘Joe has a severe vascular dis- Joe Gezel survived a heart attack, stroke, countless surgeries - including an amputation - and five months in the hospital. Joe is pictured ease…’,” Dorothy said. “They with his wife Dorothy and their family. The Gezels are members of St. Thomas Aquinas Parish in Indianaola. told us that he’s got an artery that is closed off that goes to his that idea though, putting Joe’s life Mom was through everything was Joe, who was unconscious for a colon, and his colon is dying. We in God’s hands. beyond amazing.” large amount time while in the need to do surgery, and he’s prob- “Everybody at the hospi- Dorothy spent months hospital. “The only one I had ably not going to make it. But if tal kept asking if I was ok,” Doro- taking care of Joe at home after he to talk to was God [during that we don’t do surgery he definitely thy said. “And I can’t explain why was released from the hospital. time]. [won’t survive]’.” I felt at peace like I did.” “And she still is amaz- “People say that they In fact, it was just be- Dorothy credits the Holy ing,” Merema continued. “To- were praying for me,” Joe con- fore Christmas when the fami- Spirit for inspiring her to ask fam- day we are out in the 100-degree tinued. “I heard your prayers. I ly thought they might lose him. ily, friends and the parish commu- weather and my Mom is pushing honestly, truly did. I know for Daughter Amanda Merema re- nity to pray and fast for Joe one him through the fair and we’re all me, the power of prayer is what members leaving Mass early that Friday just before Christmas. And dripping with sweat. But she con- brought me through.” day after getting the call. then things started looking up. tinues to be there in every way she Clergy, including their “The week of Christmas can for him.” pastor, Father Chris Fontanini, Eve and Christmas – it all shift- Joe was in the hospital Deacon Dave O’Brien and Father ed,” Merema said. for five months. The family lost George Komo walked with the Father Fontanini agreed, track of the number of surgeries family, offering prayers of healing Joe is pictured with his wife, noting “tremendous results.” Joe had, but one of them includ- more times than they can count, Dorothy, who pushed Joe Joe’s steady improve- ed the amputation of his right leg. Merema said. around at the Iowa State Fair ments came as a relief to friends (Joe now hopes to find a way to “Joe is a fighter and he is on opening day when tem- and family, and a surprise to some use his experiences as an amputee an inspiration to many of us be- peratures soared. The Gezels doctors, who even commented to help others living under similar cause throughout this ordeal, all are members of St. Thomas that he was a miracle. circumstances.) of the different surgeries and with Aquinas Parish in Indianaola. Their daughters are When he finally came all of the doctors, he was bound grateful to God for their answered home, a crowd lined the streets, and determined he was going to prayers. blowing foghorns, waving and be coming out of this,” said Fa- “[Our parents] have al- welcoming him back. ther Fontanini. ways been huge role models for “To be quite honest, I At one point, doctors had us,” Merema said. “But on top wouldn’t be here it if weren’t for suggested perhaps taking him off of that, to witness how strong my my wife and kids – period,” said the ventilator. Dorothy rejected

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By Kelly Mescher Collins spring, Deacon Klein marked his th Staff Writer 250 blood platelet donation at the Red Cross. A retired farmer, Deacon Positive feedback is re- Marvin Klein of St. Patrick Par- warding, giving Deacon Klein ish in Dunlap, has been donating sense of calling and purpose. He blood since he was 18 years old. regularly receives letters from Then one day, a nurse the Red Cross, informing him suggested he try donating blood when his platelets are received by platelets. someone in Minnesota or other Blood platelets are locations across the Midwest. blood cells that help a person’s “A lady wrote a letter body form clots to stop bleeding. to me [after she saw the Omaha According to the American Red World Herald story about me],” Cross, platelets are in constant Deacon Klein said on Making it demand by hospitals. Personal with Bishop Joensen, They give cancer pa- which aired on July 16 on Iowa tients the strength they need to Catholic Radio and the Spirit keep fighting, since one major Catholic Radio Network. “She effect of treatment is low platelet told me a personal story about a count. Platelets also help patients grandchild who receives platelets. survive major surgeries or serious And I guess all of those things en- injuries. And they give strength to couraged me.” patients with blood disorders and “I just want to give…and transplants. I can give the donation,” Deacon “I finally did make the Klein continued. “It’s something appointment,” Deacon Klein I can’t buy. But if you’re dying of said. “I gave one unit and then cancer, it’s something you could next time I came back, they said – sure use.” ‘Wow, you can give up to three.’” When he’s not busy Deacon Klein seems to making trips to and from Omaha have been blessed with a plethora to donate platelets, Deacon Klein of platelets, enabling him to give can be found on the tractor help- greater quantities each time, more ing his two grandsons raise chick- than the typical donor. ens or helping out at his parish. Despite the time com- Listen to the full inter- Deacon Marvin Klein, of St. Patrick Parish in Dunlap, drives 50 miles one way to Omaha every week to mitment and 60-plus minute car view with Bishop Joensen at donate blood platelets. Listen to the full interview with Bishop Joensen at ride one way from Dunlap to iowacatholicradio.com/mak iiowacatholicradio.com/making-it-personal. Omaha, Deacon Klein keeps giv- ing-it-personal. ing. In fact, earlier this Catholic foundation awards grants Devoted deacon dies Continued from page 1 al faith formation items terials Deacon Myers said. • The Veil Removed, • St. Patrick Catholic Continued from page 1 purchase livestreaming materials “He was intuitive about $5,000 to create Spanish resourc- Parish, Lenox, $5,000 to purchase • Catholic Tuition Orga- moved into parish administration thoughts people were having and es livestreaming equipment nization, $3,050 to fund website at Christ the King Parish in Des he always felt he could read peo- • St. Theresa Catholic • St. Patrick Catholic enhancements Moines and Assumption Parish in ple well,” said Deacon Myers. School, Des Moines, $5,000 to Parish, Corning, $6,400 to en- • Emmaus House, Granger. “Because of that, I think he could build a digital marketing cam- hance Church sound equipment $4,450 to purchase virtual minis- He was ordained a dea- like everybody because he could paign • Christ the King Catho- try materials con in 1993, and went on to help see beyond the façade. He could • St. Pius X Catholic lic School, Des Moines, $6,890 to • Ss. John and Paul Par- with the formation program for see Christ in everybody. He really School, Urbandale, $5,000 to purchase STEM materials ish, Altoona, $4,530 to fund virtu- subsequent groups studying for could see the real person in there, purchase science curriculum ma- the diaconate. which was also the Holy Spirit. It In 2001, retired Bishop was someone who had worth re- Joseph Charron, C.PP.S. asked gardless of what they might have Deacon McGuire and his wife, been thought of by other people. Capital campaign launching soon Deacon Ron and Tammy Myers He was willing to give people a Continued from page 1 seph and all God’s friends have walk) and Father Joe Pins (pastor and Cora Bartemes to reconsti- chance.” shown us, we offer our lives as of St. Joseph in Des Moines). A tute the formation process for Deacon McGuire also support priests in their retirement, both sacrifice and gift. The Spirit Campaign Cabinet has also been deacons. will be remembered for always and promote parish renewal and is urging us right now to promote formed, led by general co-chairs “Dan and Mary were bringing a positive, upbeat atti- vibrancy initiatives. In addition, a what our present and past popes Bryan and Betsy Boesen, Dan and just integral to the whole thing,” tude to gatherings. percentage of funds raised at each have called a ‘human ecology’ by Natalie Burkey, Kyle and Sharon Cora said. “Dan had great experi- “Dan’s smile and easy of the 80 parishes will be returned being good stewards of our lives Krause, Steve and Cathy Lacy, ence in the local church. He knew manner made him a welcome ad- directly to each parish through a and all the resources that God has and Pete and Dana Wenstrand. so many people and he had a fin- dition to any gathering and before “parish share” component. These entrusted to us.” Since the campaign’s ger on resources.” you know it, we were members funds will be used for parish-spe- The Diocesan Steward- approval earlier this year, these “He and Mary were a of the same prayer and dinner cific needs. ship Office will manage the cam- leadership teams have been en- great team,” said Deacon Myers. group,” said Deacon Bartemes. “We are all called to paign with assistance from the gaged in preparing for the rollout “Mary would be the creative per- “As a group, we supported one participate, to stoke the flames Steier Group, a Catholic fundrais- of the public phase while also son. She dreamed up things. We another in our various ministries of the Spirit and kindle faith ing firm based in Omaha, Nebras- conducting the “silent” phase of would want real life situations as well as the many hills and val- and hope for our generation and ka. Bishop Joensen has recruited the campaign, which will con- that we wanted to put the deacon leys that all of us face in our daily those who will follow us,” Bish- a strong group of clergy and lay clude in December. candidates in and say, ‘Ok, what lives.” op Joensen commented. “To be a leaders to lead the charge. The public phase will would you do?’ Dan was the ac- He said: “We say good- Catholic Christian is God’s great A Clergy Committee, begin in January 2022, with ev- tor. He could put it together and bye to Dan remember his smile privilege to us, to celebrate sac- comprised of pastors from every ery parish participating in one make it live.” his laugh and his love for every- raments in communion with Jesus region in the Diocese, is led by of three “waves” throughout the Deacon McGuire had a one he met.” and our sisters and brothers. As co-chairs Father Dan Kirby (pas- year. Preparations for the public gift for being able to read people, the Blessed Mother and St. Jo- tor of St. John the Apostle in Nor- phase will begin this fall. 12 www.dmdiocese.org Reflections The Catholic Mirror August 20, 2021 Singing invites us to joy Earlier this month my family went tal desire for happiness, our intuition that into a joy of which I can often lose sight. on a vacation that began with a family camp Marriage and Family Life “to be” is good, and that the goodness of I am convinced that when we in Wisconsin, and ended with visiting my creation points to the goodness of the Cre- don’t sing we’re not avoiding embarrass- wife’s parents in Minnesota. It was a re- ator. There is a longing in our hearts beyond ment as much as we’re forgoing something freshing week all around, and on one of the words, something we want to say even that brings profound joy and wisdom. I’d last days I had the joy of watching my kids By Adam Storey when we don’t know how, and so we sing! like to challenge all of us to finish the sum- color around their grandparents’ table while This was definitely true for my mer by learning, or relearning, at least one they sang a song they had learned at family children, who were singing “Estoy Alegre,” song, something we can belt out--even off camp. do when no one can hear us. It can even feel a Spanish song about finding joy in the pitch--alone, or even better with family and In reflecting on that moment, I’m like an embarrassing punishment. companionship of Jesus. My kids don’t friends. reminded of a truth that I try to affirm as Yet, why do we sing? In his short speak Spanish, and so much of the song was often as I can, which is that it is good to book, “Only the Lover Sings,” Joseph incomprehensible to them. Still, their act of Adam Storey is the diocesan director of sing! Sometimes we forget this truth; sing- Pieper argues that singing helps us to give singing revealed a comprehension that often Marriage & Family Life. He can be reached ing can be treated as something best left to voice to what cannot be said in any other goes beyond my own. In their simplicity, at [email protected] or 515-237- professionals, or something we ought only way. Singing helps express our fundamen- and through their singing, they invited me 5056. Want to reduce abortions? Start by reducing contraception If we want to reduce abortions, have an epidemic of sexually transmitted child in her womb. we should start by reducing contraception. Guest Column diseases and pornography that further de- When we look at reducing abor- I know that sounds counterintuitive. grades human dignity and our respect for tion, we often look to the laws and legisla- People assume that the way to the God-given gift of our sexuality that is tion that will impact the abortion rate. At reduce abortion is to promote comprehen- to be expressed in the context of heterosex- the same time, we are constantly preaching sive sexual education and increase access ual marriage. the need to “change hearts and minds.” to contraception. By Maggie DeWitte It seems so clear to me that in And both things are needed. According to the research by the order to reduce abortions, we need to re- But I genuinely believe that the Guttmacher Institute, over half the woman turn to God’s creative intention. Sexual key to unraveling the mess we have made who go into the clinic for an abortion were traception, states there is “no evidence” relations are to unite couples in enduring in our families and relationships is to ad- using some kind of contraceptive method that access to family planning reduces the fidelity and to be open to the transmission dress the lie of contraception. the month they became pregnant. abortion rate. of life. God created man and woman and The only way we are really going Contraception is clearly not the People say teens need contra- he told them to be fruitful and multiply. In- to reduce the abortion rate is by honoring solution to the problem of abortion. Quite ception in order to prevent pregnancy, as stead, we have taken the sacred, God-giv- our God-given sexuality. It’s by teaching the opposite is true. The abortion industry if teenagers are incapable of controlling en gift of sexuality and often reduced it to our children from an early age that they has figured out that in order to keep woman themselves. The real solution is abstinence. mere subjective gratification. matter, that they have inherent dignity, and coming in for abortions, they keep women Teenagers are less likely to use contracep- Of course abortions were taking they are unconditionally loved. And that coming in for contraceptives. tion properly, and when they do become place before the sexual revolution, but dignity follows from the fact that they are Contraception gives women a pregnant, they are more vulnerable and it was the sexual revolution and the birth made in the image of God. It means teach- false sense of security and that false sense less equipped to handle the consequences control pill that dramatically increased ing our children what it means to be a man leads to taking greater risks. According to than adults. abortions and the moral decline in our cul- and be a woman and how members of each a British Medical Journal Study, individu- Also, there are severe health ture. Contraception was purported to em- sex are intended to complement the other. als will be sexually active when they think risks associated with contraception and power women and give them freedom and the risk has been eliminated. The Journal abortifacient effects associated with many equality with men. But it didn’t do any of Maggie DeWitte is the executive director of of Health Economics provides even more contraceptives, both of which are serious that. It was inevitable that it would lead to Iowans for LIFE. proof. Economics Professor David Patton, considerations. the idea that the only way to advance in so- who is an author of many studies on con- Our society is saturated in sex; we ciety would be to have the right to kill the The making of a champion Growing up on a farm, my sib- world. wanted to do. lings were (and still are) some of my closest Faith that Conquers Some see needing others as weak- And it’s not just me. Even some of friends. ness. But no – it’s by God’s perfect design. the greatest – Olympic athletes – point to We entertained ourselves with our Studies have found post-war sol- friends, teammates and family as a formula imagination and farm “props.” It always diers and firefighters with post-traumatic for success. Dowling Catholic alum Karissa seemed to involve dramatic tales of chase By Kelly stress disorder show the mere presence of a Schweizer is one of them. and narrowly escaping the “bad guys.” Mescher Collins spouse, family member or friend helped re- She credited friend, training part- Sometimes these adventures occurred on duce intrusive thoughts and other negative ner and fellow Iowan, Shelby Houlian, for parallel rows of large, round bales of straw. effects. In fact, justknowing they had some- challenging her physically but also mental- We’d help each other scramble up top be- ald.) one they could rely on or call improved ly, blowing open ideas about speeds they fore leaping and sprinting an hour away. Or We enjoyed meeting my Mom’s their mental health. could achieve. we’d climb the ladder into the barn’s hay Australian pen pal, and enjoyed meeting the Reflecting on my own life, the U.S. hurdlers Sydney McLaughlin loft. Images of Indiana Jones and the Tem- finder of our message in a bottle, who read challenges I overcame or accomplishments and Dalilah Muhammad have been break- ple of Doom flashed through my mind as we our letter asking: “Need a friend?” I achieved were often because others en- ing each other’s records for years, pushing crawled through a tunnel of bales built my I reflect on how as kids we seemed couraged me or walked by my side. each other to be better. Olympic coverage of brother Pat. Sometimes my younger broth- to know something we busy adults too eas- In 2016, I decided that if I was these two frequently cited Proverbs 27:17: er Nick and I pretended to be our favorite ily forget – the value of friendships and ever going to run a marathon, now was as “Iron sharpens iron.” cartoon heroes – I was She-Ra: Princess importance of community. It’s undoubtedly good a time as any. I had been a runner for McLaughlin, a 2017 graduate of Power and he was He-Man. (Though he been friends, family, co-workers and com- nearly 20 years and I certainly wasn’t get- of Union Catholic Regional High School claims he doesn’t remember that.) munity that helped you through this past 18 ting any younger. My husband Jason asked in New Jersey, took home the gold – the We lived on a gravel road near the months (and beyond.) what he could do to help. youngest ever in the 400 meter hurdles. Her West Nishnabotna River, another favorite For those feeling isolated or alone, “Can you come with me on my community back home, including Union spot for adventure. grand gestures are not required. A phone long runs on your bike?” I asked. (More like Catholic Principal, Sister Percylee Hart, It was a combination of imagina- call, a letter or a short visit (when possible) pleaded.) was cheering her on. tion and a real life encounter that inspired have tremendous impacts on those in need The training runs were very long Stories were abound during this my sister Jody and I to pen a letter, put it in a of positive, human interaction. And lest we and hot, and having him by my side kept year’s Olympics of athletes pointing to bottle and send it down the Nishnabotna as forget – we all need positive, human inter- me going. I fully admit I never would have friends, family and community, insisting kids. I probably thought we’d get a response action. It’s natural, normal and even vital – trained for two marathons without him. they never would have achieved these goals in the mail in short order from someone in the way God created you. On race day, though, I was on my without their love and support. Thailand, or maybe even Australia, where In Braving the Wilderness: The own. (Or so I thought.) During one of my And if it works for them, it’s cer- my Mom’s pen pal was from. (She even Quest for Trust, Belonging and the Cour- walking breaks on a long, sweltering, ugly tainly good enough for me – without shame. came out to the farm to visit us.) age to Stand Alone, social scientist Brené stretch of the course I made two new friends But days and weeks and even- Brown writes: “Research shows that play- by striking up a conversation to commiser- You can read the Carroll Times Herald sto- tually years went by with no response. At ing cards once a week or meeting friends ate. Marathons are a mind game, but they ry about their message in a bottle at least until 2010, when a guy about our age every Wednesday night at Starbucks adds assured me we would cross the finish line bit.ly/NishnabotnaBottle. found the bottle on his rural property in our as many years to our lives as taking beta together. And we did. We are still Facebook very own Diocese of Des Moines near Mal- blockers or quitting a pack-a-day smoking friends today, still cheering each other on. Kelly Mescher Collins is multimedia jour- vern. We’ve now been Facebook friends for habit.” My marathon times were far from nalist for the Diocese of Des Moines. She years. (There were even stories in the Oma- Unfortunately, we live in an in- stellar, but it didn’t matter. I finished. And can be reached at [email protected]. ha World Herald and Carroll Times Her- creasingly self-focused, digitally immersed they helped me achieve something I always www.dmdiocese.org Reflections 13 House of Grass and Sky: an ode to the place that shapes us

Every house, in its own way, is she found a drawer built into the wall. and Sky,” tells the story of an old white a living thing. It changes as we change. Twentysomething Underneath, written in pencil, were two farmhouse much like hers waiting for a It expands with joy and contracts under initials: ML. family. The book is an homage to Mary duress. Her initials. Lyn’s beloved home, enriched by E.B This strikes me as a Catholic “It gave me shivers,” she said. Goodale’s watercolor collages. You can concept. We embrace sacramental living “It seemed the house had known my name feel the grass. and elevate each home as a “domestic before I came. I felt as if maybe I had been When a new family finally buys church,” the first place a soul is formed. By Christina Capecchi expected.” The House of Grass and Sky, they respect But it’s a human idea, really. It’s something Her education began. its history: “They listen to what it’s listened we sense, deep down, even if we can’t “The farm taught me how to be to for many years. They take time to notice articulate it or sound silly when we try. Lyn went about her business. One day, open to story,” she said. “It gave me the and to wonder.” We enter a home and breathe in to celebrate her mother’s birthday, she space, and as I began to listen and look and It is a beautiful book for all ages, its history. We know it is more than brick promised her family a picnic at “some be present, it taught me to see how story well timed for a wild housing market, as and stone, greater than the sum of its parts. wonderful surprise place” without having happens and where my story may wait.” Americans pack up and return to their Over time we come to believe the house one in mind. What poured out, in the ensuing hometowns in droves, as parents reconsider is participating in our lives, tucking our As Mary Lyn prepared their food, decades, was nearly 50 acclaimed what kind of childhood they want for their memories within its walls, sighing with a friend of a friend visited and mentioned a children’s books, including “Pumpkins,” kids and empty houses rejoice. satisfaction, creaking with sorrow. We pretty spot: a boarded up white farmhouse “Go to Sleep, Little Farm” and “Christmas wonder, if we listen well enough, if we facing a mountain half a mile down a back Farm.” Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer could hear its beating heart. road in South Danbury. Her new release, “The House of Grass from Inver Grove Heights, Minnesota. And eventually we dare to When Mary Lyn found it, there imagine that a house can love you back, was a flash of recognition. “It looked just offering beauty and security, light and like the Tasha Tudor picture I had been darkness – and ultimately, helping you carrying with me,” she told me. Can we prove God exists? become who you were meant to be. The house had been sitting empty There’s a further lesson in the That’s what happened to Mary for 40 years, ensnared in estate issues. So Guest Column Lyn Ray, 75, who became a writer when Mary Lyn waited, just as the house had biblical account of the apostle, Thomas, she moved into an old farmhouse in South waited for her. In 1984, five years later, she and his doubt about the resurrection of Je- Danbury, N.H. It felt like the house in her finally bought it, working with her father sus. Remember his protest: “Unless I can favorite childhood book, Tasha Tudor’s to make it livable while honoring what the (physically) place my finger in the wounds “Snow Before Christmas.” Mary Lyn was builder had understood nearly a century of his hands and stick my finger into the certain that somewhere, a house like the and a half ago. By Father wound of his side, I will not believe.” Note one in the book waited for her. Never having married, Mary Lyn Ron Rolheiser that Jesus offers no resistance or rebuke in Decades passed, and Mary would live there alone. As she settled in, the face of Thomas’ skepticism. Instead, I wrote my doctoral thesis on the he takes Thomas at his word: “Come value of various philosophical arguments and (physically) place your finger in the that try to prove the existence of God. wounds of my hand and the wound in my Can there be such a proof? Brilliant phi- side; see for yourself that I am real and not losophers, from Anselm, through Aquinas, a ghost.” Father John Ludwig through Descartes, through contemporary That’s the open challenge for us: intellectuals like Charles Hartshorne, sub- “Come and see for yourselves that God is Q. Why do some people not like Cath- about the death or Dormition, or As- mit that the existence of God can be proven real and not a ghost!” That challenge, how- olics? sumption of Mary. In 1950, Pope Pius through rational argument. Except, except, ever, is not so much an intellectual one as A. We could also say that XII invoked papal infallibility to a lot depends upon what exactly we mean a moral one, a challenge to be honest and some Catholics don’t like people of define the dogma of the Assumption by the word “prove”. How do we prove generous. other faiths. Of course, neither one is of the Blessed Virgin in his Apostolic something? Skepticism and agnosticism, even particularly honorable. Often enough, Constitution Munificentissimus There’s a legend about St. Chris- atheism, are not a problem as long as one dislike stems from misunderstand- Deus: “We proclaim and define it to be topher that’s pertinent here: Christopher is honest, non-rationalizing, non-lying, ings. Sometimes dislike comes from a dogma revealed by God that the im- was a man gifted in every way, except ready to efface oneself before reality as it insecurity. Like many situations, once maculate Mother of God, Mary ever faith. He was physically strong, power- appears, and generous in giving his or her people get to know a Catholic personal- virgin, when the course of her earthly ful, goodhearted, mellow, and well liked. life away in service. If these conditions are ly, they change their minds. It happens life was finished, was taken up body and He was also generous, using his physical met, God, the author and source of all re- with ethnic groups as well. For exam- soul into the glory of heaven.” There strength to help others, but he found it hard ality, eventually becomes sufficiently real, ple, people who don’t like Hispanics or are some historical details that we sim- to believe in God, even though he wanted even to those who need physical proof. African-Americans or Italians or Asians ply have no information about. The to. For him, the physical was what was real The stories of Christopher and Thomas or you-name-the-group. The challenge, feast of the Assumption is August 15. and everything else seemed unreal. And so, teach us this and assure us that God is nei- of course, is to get to know people who as the legend goes, he lived his life in a cer- ther angered nor threatened by an honest might at first seem unlikeable. The more Q. What does it mean: St. Anthony tain honest agnosticism, unable to really agnosticism. we can do that, the more peace we’ll was “Jesus’ confessor and doctor?” believe in anything beyond what he could Faith is never certainty. Neither is have in the world. We can’t make others A. The term does not refer physically see, feel, and touch. it a sure feeling that God exists. Converse- like Catholics, but we can live our lives to the sacrament of reconciliation. We However, this did not prevent him ly, unbelief is not to be confused with the in a way that speaks well of our tradi- often refer to priests as confessors in re- from using his gifts, especially his physi- absence of the felt assurance that God ex- tion. lation to the sacrament of penance. Over cal strength, to serve others. This was his ists. For everyone, there will be dark nights the centuries, certain titles have been refuge, generosity and service. He became of the soul, silences of God, cold lonely Q. Is it wrong to steal even if you given to canonized saints. Confessor a ferryboat operator, spending his life help- seasons, skeptical times when God’s reali- do good with it? -Dan, West Des is one title and Doctor is another ti- ing to carry people across a dangerous riv- ty cannot be consciously grasped or recog- Moines tle. Some saints are referred to as both er. One night, as the legend goes, during nized. The history of faith, as witnessed by A. Yes. Taking something Confessor and Doctor. Confessor is a storm, the ferryboat capsized and Chris- the life of Jesus and the lives of the saints, that doesn’t belong to you can’t be justi- usually given to a saint who is not a topher dove into the dark waters to rescue shows us that God often seems dead and, fied by the mere fact that you use what is martyr. Doctor is usually reserved for a young child. Carrying that child to the at those times, the reality of the empirical stolen for some good. Otherwise, we’d those who are great teachers. The most shore, he looked into its face and saw there world can so overpower us that nothing have no reason to be honest in our rela- recent declarations of saints as Doctors the face of Christ. After that, he believed seems real except what we can see and feel tions with others. We can’t simply rob a include St. Catherine of Siena, St. Tere- for he had seen the face of Christ. right now, not least our own pain. bank because we want to use the reve- sa of Avila, and St. Therese of Lisieux. For all its piety, this legend con- Whenever this happens, like nue for a favorite charity. Robin Hood Anthony was born in Portugal tains a profound lesson. It changes the per- Christopher and Thomas, we need to be- was known for “stealing from the rich and eventually made his way to Italy spective on the question of how one tries come honest agnostics who use our good- and giving to the poor.” There is not an where he befriended St. Francis of As- to “prove” God’s existence. Our attempt to ness and God-given strengths to help car- absolute right to property. The common sisi. Francis directed Anthony to teach prove God’s existence has to be practical, ry others across the burdensome rivers of good needs to be considered in all of our theology to the brothers of his fledgling existential, and incarnate rather than main- life. God does not ask us to have a faith dealings. So, we have the responsibility community. He was known to be an ex- ly intellectual. How do we move from be- that is certain, but a service that is gener- to be good stewards with our material traordinary preacher. He died in Padua, lieving only in the physical, from believing ous and sustained. We have the assurance goods, and we have to respect the prop- Italy, at age 35 in 1231 and was canon- only in the reality of what we can see, feel, that should we faithfully help carry others, erty of others. ized the following year. His feast day is touch, taste, and smell, to believing in the we will one day find ourselves before the June 13. existence of deeper, spiritual realities? reality of God who will gently say to us: Q. Where was Mary when she was as- There’s lesson in the Christopher “See for yourself, that I am real, and not a sumed into heaven? Do you have a question for Father John story: Live as honestly and respectfully as ghost.” A. The short answer is Ludwig? Send it to communications@ you can and use your gifts to help others. Can we prove that God exists? In “we don’t know.” Some traditions dmdiocese.org, or mail it to The Catho- God will appear. God is not found at the theory, no; in life, yes. refer to the Assumption as the Dor- lic Mirror, Diocese of Des Moines, 601 conclusion of a philosophical syllogism Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser is a theolo- mition – falling asleep. The New Tes- Grand Ave., Des Moines, Iowa 50309. but as the result of a certain way of living. gian, teacher, and award-winning author. tament contains no explicit narrative Moreover, faith is not so much a question He can be contacted through www.ronrol of feeling as of selfless service. heiser.com. 14 www.dmdiocese.org The Catholic Mirror August 20, 2021

Aún Juntos después de Todos Estos Años Catholic Continued from page 1 concepción ante todas las fuerzas Cristo, con María su madre prin- buscan consolidar los lazos de disruptivas como enfermedades cipalmente en el grupo de los san- angustias y trayectos compartidos agency helps y el pecado original (incluyen- tos ya que ha sido asumida en el que, por la gracia de Dios, nos ias y nuestra sociedad es la creci- do las desafortunadas instancias cielo, y es luego coronada con las unen los unos a los otros más cer- resettle ente atención que se dedica a la de anomalías físicas o genéticas estrellas de la más hermosa hija canamente en actos de compasión situación de personas que sufre tales como el hermafrodismo o de la humanidad. Probablemente y cariño. Afghan de disforia de género / discor- la intersexualidad.) Cada uno para las personas que sufren dis- Cuando respetamos dancias de identidad de género. de nosotros somos creados por cordancia de identidad de género, el “yo” que nos ha dado Dios, translators La molestia que sufre la mayoría Dios desde el primer momento de el yugo de sufrimiento con el que descubrimos nuevamente que de la gente durante la pubertad y nuestro ser – como con María y cargan no pueda ser totalmente “nosotros” tomamos parte plu- who aided el proceso de maduración psico- José – para ser esta alma en par- apaciguado hasta que Cristo de- ralmente en la comunión de per- sexual es raramente fácil y por lo ticular con la intención de activar struya toda autoridad y poder, sonas que deben permanecer jun- general es confuso. Para algunos este cuerpo sexual en particular, incluyendo a la muerte misma, tas hasta que en un desconocido U.S. forces jóvenes, quienes en algún punto cuya raíz es nuestro llamado vo- y nos entregue al Padre como la número de años nos entreguemos de su vida temprana han sufrido cacional a acompañarnos los unos posesión más preciada de su Re- a la eternidad. Con San José, ARLINGTON, Va. algún trauma sexual o de otro a los otros en el peregrinar en que ino. Nos conformamos en la ver- declaramos nuestro propio “fiat,” (CNS) -- When U.S. service tipo, el sentido de ser ya sea mas- tomamos nuestro lugar apropiado dad Evangélica de que aquellos que así sea, en cualquier reto que members were in a foreign land, culino o femenino viviendo en en compañía de los hijos de Dios. quienes comparten más plena- se nos imponga, tal como lo hizo unsure of the way and unable to un cuerpo equivocado se conecta Los datos médicos que mente el cáliz del sufrimiento de María en la Anunciación (y en su speak the language, brave locals frecuentemente con un sentido de están surgiendo confirman que las Cristo serán saciados hasta rebo- Asunción), y como lo hizo Jesús came to their assistance. aislamiento dentro de uno mismo llamadas cirugías de alteración de sar con el vino nuevo del Espíritu en el huerto de Getsemaní. Now, the Afghans who y con la gente que les rodean. género y la disrupción química del gozo. Y nos convertimos aún served as interpreters and guides Aquellos que promueven inter- del desarrollo sexual que es un Mientras tanto, en este más en la Iglesia que Dios qui- for the U.S. military need help ad- venciones dramáticas tales como paso precedente no cumplen con lado del valle de lágrimas, nos ere que seamos cuando nos creó justing to a new country. prescribir bloqueadores hormo- el alivio terapéutico a largo pla- comprometemos a amarnos los y nos llamó, y cuando por su de- For decades, the U.S. nales contra el desarrollo sexual zo que prometen. Tristemente, la unos a los otros incondiciona- signio providencial vino a ser la military has been in Afghanistan o cirugías que pueden alterar los tendencia al suicidio por parte de lmente, a estar presentes en el Diócesis de Des Moines hace 110 and is now in the process of with- órganos sexuales y rediseñar su estos pacientes no ha disminuido. acompañamiento de unos con años. Que Dios continúe brillan- drawing troops. propia fisiognomía, ya sea den- Nosotros no queremos ser cóm- otros a través de cualquier crisis do continuamente sobre nosotros The Taliban, an extrem- tro de las comunidades médicas plices con el pensamiento cultur- personal que pudiéramos enfren- y que nos bañe con sus gracias ist Islamic movement that ruled o LGBTQ+ o incluso sus propios al que simplemente se cruza de tar en los caminos de nuestras al comenzar una nueva década, Afghanistan until ousted by a padres y familias, pueden repre- brazos y sigue al ritmo irregular vidas, incluyendo cualquier cruz avanzando hacia nuestro segundo U.S.-led coalition, is taking ad- sentar un esfuerzo bien intencio- de las voces que demandan que que sintamos que no podamos siglo de misión e identidad como vantage of the withdrawal to gain nado a eliminar el sufrimiento. se cumpla con lo que es un error cargar por nosotros mismos. los fieles de Dios en el suroeste control in the region, making it Pero estas actitudes rep- fundamental de nuestra personal- Solicitamos al Espíritu que po- de Iowa. especially dangerous for those resentan un error fundamental de idad humana. damos discernir prudentemente who assisted U.S. forces. (At nuestra identidad esencial huma- En el umbral del cielo, para poder distinguir las voces presstime, there were reports of na como compuestos originales Cristo es por siempre el primer que a final de cuentas esparcen the Taliban taking over Kabul, the de cuerpo y alma que son vul- fruto de la vida eterna, seguido y dividen dentro de sí mismas a country’s capitol.) nerables desde el momento de la por aquellos que pertenecen a las personas contra aquellos que Operation Allies Refuge, which began July 30, brought planeloads of Afghans to Dulles International Airport in Virginia outside of Washington and they were then taken to Fort Lee, near Petersburg, Virginia. The families were pre-vetted and able to complete the immigration process safely stateside. Federal, military and nongovernmental agencies all have come together on this proj- ect, said Jessica Estrada, director of newcomer services for Catho- lic Charities of the Arlington Dio- cese. “In some circumstanc- es, we wouldn’t all be working together this well, but because this was such a unique situation, everybody’s top priority was the individuals arriving,” she said. “It was quite amazing to see.”

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Deacon Jim 10 Day Pilgrimage to the Holy Land Obradovich was appointed hosted by Rev. Robert E. Harris by Bishop Richard Pates to 10 days Departing October 29, 2018 from Des Moines serve as the director of the Cost is $3,698—All inclusive! (except lunches) / Deposit—$300 (payable on booking) / 2nd payment Permanent Diaconate. (50% of balance)—June 1, 2018 / full balance due August 15, 2018. The appointment Journey features: round-trip air transportation; First Class & Deluxe Hotels; land transportation via deluxe, private motor coach with free Wi-Fi; daily Masses; entrance fees to all sites; taxes & fuel surcharge is for a three-year term and ($710) and tips ($80) included; boat ride on the Sea of Galilee /cable car ride to top of Masada; The Jesus boat begins March 1. & whisper headsets are included. Deacon Obradovich Sites include: Sea of Galilee & Upper Galilee; Jordan Valley; Jerusalem & Bethlehem. and his wife, Kathie, are For more information contact: Rev. Robert E. Harris, All Saints Church, 650 NE 52nd Ave., Des Moines, IA members of Holy Trinity 50313; 515-265-5001; [email protected] Parish in Des Moines. He www.dmdiocese.org 15 serves that parish and works Deacon Jim and Kathie with the visually impaired Obradovich community.New media entertainment sets Shrine honoring Blessed Stanley Rother the Deaconstage Obradovich for new evangelization hits milestone as dome set in place $1 OFF ADM. wITH THIS AD OKLAHOMA CITY Construction is expected from Okarche who lived an ex- A FANTASTIC SHOPPING EVENT (CNS) -- Construction of a shrine to be completed in summer 2022. traordinary life.” honoring an American priest This was a momentous The archbishop in IOWA’S LARGEST who was killed while serving in moment in construction of the an archdiocesan news release Guatemala reached a milestone shrine that will become a visible also expressed gratitude «for Over with the installation of a massive beacon of faith for thousands of everyone who has played a part Exh30 i 0 dome. people around the world,” Okla- in this project and look forward bito ARTS rs Workers Aug. 12 care- homa City Archbishop Paul S. to dedication next year.» The fully lifted the 45,000-pound Coakley said of the dome’s place- $40 million shrine is the highest dome onto the chapel in Oklaho- ment. “They will come to visit profile project undertaken as part & Crafts ma City memorializing Blessed our state and city, and come to of the Archdiocese of Oklahoma Father Stanley Rother Aug. 12. learn about our ordinary priest City›s first capital campaign. 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After Jenkins said, personalities were like and why “Yes,” the pope decided to poke they made the choices they did. As neiighbors,, we are there when needed most.. some fun, asking Jenkins, “Are The finale of season two dropped Wiith a skiilllled and cariing staff.. you Judas?” sparking a round of mid-July and the plan is to make laughter. a seven-season show, giving Wiith a warm and comfortiing atmosphere.. , in all seriousness, Jen- writers and actors the time to Wiith answers and optiions few funerall homes can offer.. kins and Roumie have said in fully explore and create “a col- multiple interviews, the last thing lection of personal human mo- they are aiming for is to betray ments,” he said. Victim Assistance Advocate The diocese’s Victim Assistance Advocate is a staff member at Polk County Victim Services. She helps victims of sexual abuse of minors by clergy through a complaint process and in seeking support and counseling services. She can be reached at 515-286-2024 or [email protected].

Consejero sobre Asistencia de Víctimas El Consejero sobre Asistencia de Víctimas es un empleado de Polk County Victim Services. Ella ayuda a víctimas de abuso sexual por parte del clero durante el proceso de la queja y buscando servicios de apoyo y consejería. Pueden comunicarse al 515- 286-2028 o en [email protected]. Shop Local

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