Is Lafayette Still a 'Man's College'?
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Is Lafayette are !lot going to disappear in onc year it's beuluse I've slopped looking for Bused on her own experience or five years or even 10. what I know isn't there." She <1nd Consolini thinks that in atlem]Jting to "('\'c heard men say that thev arc many other womcn on .campus have break down barriers of traditional Still a 'Man's • intimidated by the women in general. mixed emotions about the parties. sexual stercOtype~. a Woman may Thc men can't accept the idea or a "When a WOman is a dining mcmber almost uncon,ciously begin to guide College'? Wl)11liln doing what they think Il!ey're or a L'lo,)e per,ol1al friend of some herself by male standards. "You try <,u!"'po<,cd in do," pearle in the housc," said Gallagher, to ,~ho\'e in the background what it Six women say: maybe When Gallagher wa~ named the "then she feels lil\l: a guest. llut \\ hen mean.S to be female by not being first woman editor of The la(a.l'el!C> she may be one person out of man\' emotional. b~ being rarional, b\' last spring, she made Lafayettc going to a rraternit\ pub night, shc trying ll) show the world, and indeed, By Patricia A. Facciponti history, breaking 110 year, or rna\' reel like a piece of meat. your own 'male mentality,' thai ~IOU A<;si~tanl Director traditional male leader,hip of Ihe ., I hate to l:rit ici7e the fraterni tics. can be as re~poll,iblc as any man, ublic Information/Community RelatioJls oldest college new,paper in They have a lot of good points that Then because men have an idea of Pennsylvania. BlIt at what cost') "It's people don't realize. It takes a lot of what '\'v'omen' arc, you're no longer AcademicallY, UlfavclIc Collegc 3~y for a woman to be success ful responsibilit~ to run <l large I'raternity pen::ei"ed as a woman. There's a kind ~ludel1l couldn'l be finer. agrced si:x here," said Callagher, "but you can with "I meal plan. Fraternities of detached respect for you. They rut leaders, all seniors and all women, in either be successful or you can be a subsidi/.e free social life lor mOsl of vou in a difrerent categorv." inlervie\V~. separatc Sociall\") "It's woman-not both, A successful (he wOlllcn and all the independents Sometime in her junior yenr ~ul1lmcd still a man's college," one \\'oman is not looked upon here as on campus, but I think they me the Comolini began to comc 10 terms ~till up. "It's the same." other women are. You become. last bastion of '>exism here, They've with her~elr as a woman. "Suddenly I The si\ \\,'ere asked hO\\' maybe, one of the boys-ir you're served to pre~er\'e sc\ism at I.afayette said 10 myself, 'Why am L holding up sllceessfully they felt Lafayelle had lucky-which is not bad, but you're long after it might have died at in the ilir the notion of a man'~ ideal? coped with coeducation in the 10 not looked on as a woman." anot her type of inst itut ion," Why can't I be emotional and years since womcn were first ACcLbtomeu to her share of r)lalc \Vhile Gallagher admits to <1 certain rational? Why can't I just be who I admitted. They were unanimous in attention since her early teens, amount of be\\lIderment about men's am?' It·.., dangeroLls for ot her people their praisc for the academic and Gallagher noticed that as she rose to altitudes to\\ard successful women on to tell you Ivhat you should be." cultural opportunities available to prominence on campus the men at campus, Paula Consolini, a She thinks part of the problem in them, of the egalitarian attitudes of Lafayelle seemed to regard her government and bw major from altitudes comcs f'rom the lad 01' s their profess,)r , of the Collcge's differently. "It was as subtle as a Southington. Conn., thinks she opportunities l'orstutlcnts to gt'l to efforts to accOlllmodate the women shift in the wind." understands why such attitudes kno\\ each other well. As president of and their activities. But all expressed Aside from having most of hcr develop. Al1L! while Gallagher found the Resident Advisers System, conL't'rn that dc~pite the surfaLT mail at the paper arrive addres,ed her femininity ignored or even Consolini encourages social equality, thc predominant atmosphere "Dear Sir." Gallagher has had few negated because of her succC.s<,. interaction within the re,idencc halls of the Collegc rcmain, Vcr\' masculine difficulties as a WOman in Consolini realizes that she herself through ",tudy breaks" and and in many ways the women still management in her editorial position, practically denied her womanhood in organized <;()cial events. "Women in eel like ol1tsider~. Although they "I couldn't ask for more coopcr'ation an effon to get along in what she felt particular cOllL'cntrate their ..,oci::tli/ing cited the dominance of the fraternity from the staff. They've been to be a man's world. in the dorms," said Consolini. system, the sparsity of female faculty tL'rrific." Academically. as a physics "Close relationships arc built there, and the l1l~lic-governed dining plan~ major, she has "never felt out of When you go out to the fraternities, as major faclors contributing to the place in the Physics Department." Gallagher: firs, woman editor that's \\here the others are." At masculiI1~ aura, the \\'omen rccogni/e Whcn she enrolled in 1975 ,she was set fraternity parties, she pointed out, the that the problem reall\' lies much 10 be the first woman to graduate presence of alcohol, the noise level deeper. from Lafayctte with a bachelor ( and the feeling of being in somebody "Technic:all~. J don't think that science degree in physics. However, else's house make social interaction there'~ anything that \\omen can't do she withdrew for a year and a half; difficult. here." said \nll c;allagher. another woman physics major Consolini has been a leader in "I al'a~lt:tte hal, donc about all Ihe trans ferred in, and Gallagher lo<;t that trying 10 establish a "third place" on ou[wurcl thillg~ it call to help \\l1nlen. distinction. campus-other than the re~idenee hall in faCi morc than other sL'hool~ th.l1 (,allagher wishes she had had more and the fraternity-for fellowship and ~,Hnc \\ent clh:d at about the timc, female professors at Lafayelle. cOl1versat ion. She and .I ad D' Angelo They'vl: done the <,urfacc thing,. Coming from a traditional home in a '82 were instrumental in trying to They've g()nt' through the 1l1Otiofl<" rural arca (White Haven, Pa.), she revive "The Gourd" last year as a The rcst i~ not a chanpe that can be had few opportunities to observe g collee house where students could legislated or brought about lw decree. women in positions of authority and .~ meet in a neutral, non-aleoh(\lic It concerns peopk', attitude\,. <;CXiSill sorely missed having successful "': atmosphere. Maintaining an attractive run<, decp anti 110 muttcr what yelU women as role models. < program and the small Si7C of the ;;' profess on the surface, pcork ha\ e Whatever difficulties Gallagher has room made the project difficult. She attitude~ :g 3 grown up \"ith certain that experietlced at Lafayette have been ~ and other members of a student and 0. ~ social. Uncomfortable from the first ;:; .6' .D Wilh the fraternity party scene, she is ~ o only now beginning to be able to go ;;; .c ""' to a pub night and enjoy it. "I guess I:l. 8 9 Is Lafayette arc not going to disappear in one year it's because I've stopped lOOKing for Ba.,ed on hcr 0\\ n e,xperiencc or five years or even 10. what I Know isn't there." She and Consolini thinb that in atLempting 10 "I've heard Illell say that thev arc many ot her women on campus have break down barriers of traditional Still a 'Man's • intimidated by rhe women in general. mixed elllotions about the parties. ~exual stereotypes, a woman ma\' The rn~n can't accept the idea of a "When a woman is a dining member all11o,t ul1l:()mciously begin to guide ColleQ:e'? woman doing what lhe~ thinK l17ey'r(' r a clo~e rer"onal friend of some herselr by male stundunls. "You try SlJl1POSCU 10 do." pcople in th.: hou~e." said Gallagher, to .shove in the background what it Six women say: maybe When Gallagher was named the "Ihen she fecls like a guest. l3ut \\ hen means to be !'emale b\ not being firsl \\oman editor of The La(al'elle she l11a~ be one ('>erson out of mHny emotional, by being rational, lw lust spring, ~hc made Lafayette' going to a fraIcrnit~ pub night. sill' trying 10 sho\\' till' world, and indeed, By Patricia A. Facciponti hi'itory, breaking 110 years of Illay !'eel like a piece of meat. your ()wn 'male Il1cnt<llity,' that yt)U Assistant Director traditional male leadership of the "I hatc to critici7e the fraternities. can bc as responsible as any man. ublie I nformation/Col1ll11unity Relations IdeS! college new~paper in They have a lot of good points that Then became men have an idea or Penn~ylvania.