Carnegie Shul Chatter

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The Wisdom of Our Fathers

Rabbi Ben Zoma, in the Ethics of the Fathers, said, ”Who is rich? He who is happy with what he has.”

In this year’s edition of the Carnegie Shul Shofar, I wrote about "Dayenu," that wonderful song that reminds us of many things that God has given us. For each thing we sing “dayenu,” which means, quite simply, “That would have been enough.” Candle lighting: 8:02pm Sabbath services: 9:20am

When I think of Ben Zoma’s writing, I also think “Dayenu.”

Ethics of the Fathers It is okay to want more than what we already have. Progress comes from a Ethics of the Fathers, or Pirkei Avot, is a portion of the that is often studied between Passover and Shavuos, the seven desire to improve our lot in life, and God weeks of counting the Omer. Other Shuls have extended the has commanded us to use our wisdom to reading of Pirkei Avot beyond until . In make the world a better place to live. But fact, our Birnbaum says that Ethics of the Fathers is we must also know when enough is “Recited on the Sabbaths between Pesach and Rosh Hashanah.” enough and appreciate all that we Regardless of when they are recited, these readings, found on already have. And we really do have so very much. We have a beautiful world. pages 477-534 of our , contain some of the greatest philosophical words of wisdom found in Judaism. And some of We have family and friends. We have a these wisdoms are often quoted by Jew and Gentile alike who great and loving God. We have many, are not even aware of their roots in Judaism. many blessings.

What are the consequences of always wanting more, of never being content, of not being happy with what we have?

We may covet what our neighbor has, a violation of the 10th commandment. We may be tempted to steal, violating the 8th commandment. And in extreme

situations we might even be tempted to kill, a violation of the 6th commandment.

And so, as Rabbi Ben Zoma says, be happy with what you have. Know when to say, “Dayenu.” I will not attempt to present the entire Ethics of the Fathers in this small space, but I would like to present a bit of explanation found in jewishmag.com, followed by some of the most well known words of wisdom found in Pirkei Avot, as translated by the New South Wales Board of .

From jewishmag.com:

Ethics of the Fathers By Nachum Mohl

Ethics of the Fathers, or as it is known in Hebrew, Pirchei Avot, is perhaps the most popular and widely read tractate of the Mishna. It was collected some two thousand years ago by Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi, the author of the Mishna.

What is the Ethics of the Fathers?

If we were to collect the wisest statements from our sages concerning how to live our lives to the fullest and best, both in terms of our own fulfillment and in regard to our neighbors and our relationship to G-d, then this would be the book we would publish. Starting with the beginning of the Oral Tradition, (meaning from the time that gave the to the Jewish people at ) and extending to the period of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi, the statements quoted by the various sages in Pirchei Avot span perhaps a thousand years.

Included inside this book, are the wise and ethical statements upon which we can draw inspiration and concepts to improve the quality of our lives. Each great Rabbi from the various time periods is quoted as to what he considers to be the most important principle upon which we can utilize to live our lives in face of the various trial, troubles, temptations and turmoil that invade individual tranquility and endanger personal and family peace. Each is written simply and concisely, as was the style of the Mishna.

There are five original chapters, as compiled by Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi, plus the sixth, which was added on several generations later by the authors of the . Following in chronological order, the Ethics of the Fathers make a continuum from Moses to the last of the great of the Mishna, the period prior to the destruction of the Temple.

There is a very old and proper custom that between the seven weeks between Passover and Shavout a chapter is studied on each of the . This corresponds to the concept that during the time that the Jewish People were taken out of Egypt until the time that they received the Torah at Mount Sinai, which was during these seven weeks, they occupied themselves in character refinement.

Others reinforce this custom and point to the tragedy that during this time the twelve thousand pairs of the students of died mysteriously during this time. The reason given is that they did not behave with courtesy and honor toward each other. Therefore it is only fitting that we utilize this time to repair such ignoble character traits.

Others give the reason for learning Pirkei Avot on the because it was on the Shabbat that Moses died. Therefore when we learn this book of the Mishna, the Oral Tradition, we are giving life to the teachings and thoughts of Moses, as he passed them down to his students. Each statement in the Ethics of the Fathers is in accord with the teaching of Moses. Also, since the Shabbat is a time not only of rest, but of spiritual advancement, the study of Pirchei Avot is considered to best bolster that goal.

Many have the custom to continue the learning of the Ethics of the Fathers even past Shavout until the end of the summer. Since the days are long and need for our personal character improvement is a constant need, Pirchei Avot is a must.

There are more commentaries on this tractate than on any other tractate of the Talmud. From the classic commentators like Rashi and the Rambam, there are commentators who through out the ages have added their personal wisdom and insight. From the great Chassidic masters to the Mussar teachers, each added his commentary as to how we can utilize the teaching in Ethic of the Fathers to the best in our lives. Even today, new books are constantly being published with modern commentators who marvel at the depth of perception shown by these Rabbis who, two and three thousand years ago, left their finest thoughts for us to discover on a long and peaceful Shabbat afternoon.

Don't restrict yourself only to one day of study, though. Once you get into the teaching of our greatest Rabbis, you will continue to study it throughout the week. And rightly that is exactly the way it was meant to be. The Ethics of the Fathers was meant for you to take it with you in your every day week day life. So get a new copy today and join the millions of who throughout the generations have lived their lives with the Ethics of the Fathers, Pirchei Avot.

Here are some of the most well know words of wisdom from the Ethics of the Fathers, as translated by the New South Wales Board of Jewish Education: Rabbi Hillel . “If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, what am I?” (1:14) . “A person who is *too+ shy *to ask questions+ will never learn, and a teacher who is too strict cannot teach . . . and in a place where there are no men, strive to be a man.” (2:5) . “Don’t judge your fellowman until you are in his place . . . and don’t say I will study when I have time, lest you never find the time.” (2:4)

Ben Zoma . “Who is rich? He who is happy with what he has.” (4:1) . “Who is wise? He who learns from every man…. Who is a hero? He who controls his passions.” (4:1)

Shammai . “Say little and do much.” (1:15)

Rabbi Tarfon . “It is not your responsibility to finish the work [of perfecting the world], but you are not free to desist from it either.” (2:16)

Kiddush

Each Shabbat, after services, we get together in the social hall to make Kiddush over the wine, Ha- motzi over the bread, and to share a repast that often includes herring, lox, bagels, and delicious cakes and pastries.

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Carnegie Shul Annual Meeting

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