THE CATHOLIC PAGE 4 Synod: Welcome gays, Commentator nonmarital unions October 17, 2014 Vol. 51, No. 18 SERVING THE DIOCESE OF BATON ROUGE SINCE 1963 thecatholiccommentator.org WORTH THE RISK Teenager survives harrowing journey to begin new life By Debbie Shelley perilous journey to the United States The Catholic Commentator so she could reunite with her mother who lives in the Baton Rouge area and “Maria” made a dangerous journey with whom she had been communi- from Central America to the United cating through letters. States and was kidnapped before she Maria scraped together money to got to the border. But her life was even pay some people who promised to more at risk if she didn’t leave home. bring her, her brother and her uncle The 17-year-old lived a relatively to the United States. The smugglers, happy childhood in Honduras, but however, ended up breaking their as she grew older and a violent orga- agreement, and Maria was left with nized crime and drug culture settled her uncle and brother to find their in, her life became progressively un- way alone. stable. Although she should have been As Maria got close to the border, enjoying a happy coming-of-age time she and her uncle were kidnapped. filled with the usual teenage pursuits, The captors contacted Maria’s mother she was surrounded by brutality in a and demanded that she pay $5,000, country that has the world’s highest $2,500 each for her and her uncle. murder rate. Maria’s mother was able to raise Rival gang leaders considered $2,500 but not the entire amount. Maria a “prized possession” and told The kidnappers told Maria’s moth- her that she had to choose to be one er she must pay the full amount or of their girlfriends or face dire con- they would kill her daughter. Poverty and violence caused by organized crime and drug cartels compel many unaccom- sequences. Maria chose instead to According to her mother, the kid- panied children to make the treacherous trip from Central and South America to the Unit- make, with few possessions, the hot, SEE IMMIGRATION PAGE 24 ed States, where some hope to reunite with their families. Photo by CNS

Blessing of Boats Understanding her son’s pain (Second in a Series) community. He was “a friend to everyone” and was never bullied. He was a graduate By Debbie Shelley of St. Alphonsus School, a member of the The Catholic Commentator St. Alphonsus youth group and a student at Central High School. He played the gui- Lisa Carmena found her son, John Na- tar and was a NASCAR fan who loved car than, in his bedroom of their Greenwell driver Jimmie Johnson. Springs home after he took his life on He was a member of St. Alphonsus Boy March 31, 2009. He left a note telling his Scout Troop 322. Nathan so inspired by his parents how much he loved them, thanked fellow troop members, that after his death, them for the best 14 years of his life and Logan Schlater said he was motivated by expressed his gratitude for the love and the memory of Nathan to complete his support he had received. But he then wrote Eagle Scout project of building an outdoor the words that left many questions in her amphitheater-style classroom for St. Al- mind, “But I just can’t take it anymore.” phonsus School in 2010. BLESSING OF THE BOATS – Father Al Davidson, pastor of St. Joseph the Carmena said her son was far from what “He never met a stranger,” Lisa Carme- Worker Church in Pierre Part, blesses boats after a special Mass held on people think of as a teen who is at risk of na said of her son, who was always glad to Virgin Island Oct. 11. Boats surrounded the island for the Mass which is committing suicide. While, like most teen- help others in need. celebrated twice a year on the island to honor the Blessed Mother. Photo by agers his age, Nathan liked the privacy of Nathan was also deeply spiritual, said Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator his room, he had a good relationship with his mother. his family and many in his church and SEE SUICIDE PAGE 14 2 The Catholic Commentator The Lighter Side of FAI t H October 17, 2014 | TREASURES FROM THE DIOCESE | DID YOU KNOW October, the month of the Holy Rosary Do you remember the fruits of the ro- The Luminous Mysteries – The sary? Baptism of Jesus, openness to the Holy Every Catholic knows that as each de- Spirit; the Miracle at Cana, to Jesus cade of the rosary is recited, they are to through Mary; Proclama- reflect on one of the mysteries of Christ’s tion of the King- life. There are four mysteries: the Joyful, dom of God, re- Sorrowful, Glorious and Luminous. pentance, trust Lesser known is that each mystery has in God; Trans- a virtue, or fruit, associated with it. Catho- figuration, de- lics pray that they may receive that virtue sire for holiness; as they meditate on the mystery. Institution of the St. Louis de Montfont, a French priest Eucharist, adoration, who lived from 1673 to 1713, is credited active participation in with establishing the fruits of the rosary. Mass. In his many books fostering devotion to The Sorrowful Mysteries – Agony the Blessed Mother, St. Louis de Montfont in the Garden, contrition, sorrow for sin; advocated reciting the rosary with a view Scourging at the Pillar, purity, mortifica- toward honoring and imitating the virtues tion; Crowning with Thorns, moral cour- of Jesus and Mary. age; Carrying of the Cross, patience; Cruci- These are the fruits of the rosary: fixion, perseverance, self-denial, salvation. The Joyful Mysteries – The Annun- The Glorious Mysteries – the Res- ciation, humility; the Visitation, love of urrection, faith; the Ascension, hope, de- neighbor; The Nativity of Our Lord, pov- sire for heaven; the Descent of the Holy erty of spirit, detachment from the things Spirit, wisdom, love of God; the Assump- of the world; the Presentation of the Lord, tion of Mary, devotion to Mary, grace of a obedience; Finding of the Child Jesus in happy death; the Coronation of the Blessed the Temple, piety. Virgin, eternal happiness.

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A crucifix sculpted by Baton Rouge artist Frank Hayden is the centerpiece in the St. Vin- cent De Paul Society conference room in Baton Rouge. The cross originally hung in a non-Catholic church on N. Acadian Thruway in Baton Rouge and was a favorite of Bishop Stanley J. Ott. Several years after Bishop Ott’s death in 1992, Dr. Brooks Cronin, who knew of the bishop’s love of the cruficix, learned the church was closing and contacted St. Vincent de Paul executive director Michael Acaldo and asked if he would be interested in having it at the administration center. Cronin bought the crucifix and the decision was made for it to be placed in the conference room, which previously served as the dining room where Bishop Ott would greet guests and visitors. Photo by Richard Meek | The Catholic Com- mentator Families will traditionally visit cemeteries to place flowers at the graves of their loved ones on All Saints Day, which is celebrated Nov. 1. On Nov. 2, All Souls Day is celebrated. 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Support- acquiesced to the demands of her nominations and churches and ers have come from as far away boyfriend to abort their child. witness the body of Christ unified as Ville Platte and Bayou Teche, Nearby, a group of young through 40 Days for Life in prayer she said. women from Lanier Baptist at Delta – the foot of the cross – “People are very glad they Church, participating in 40 Days where the most vulnerable broth- make the effort to come,” for Life for the first time, noticed ers and sisters die every day.” Bergeron said. “They typically the woman in distress and im- Bergeron said she is encour- say that they learned and benefit- mediately went to console her. aged by the levels of success and ted from the experience and will During the course of a lengthy participation in the first two encourage others to come pray at conversation many of the wom- weeks of 40 Days, which began the vigil. They are glad that their en offered their support to the Sept. 24. Through Oct. 10, the misgivings or concerns about young woman, offering hugs and lives of 10 babies had been saved what they might see or how they loving words. through supporters speaking would feel at an abortion facility Pro-life supporters have come from the entire region to participate in For Charlotte Bergeron, direc- with women as they prepared to didn’t prevent them from praying 40 Days for Life at the Delta Clinic. 40 Days for Life is scheduled to run tor of 40 Days for Life in Baton enter the clinic. at 40 Days for Life.” through Nov. 2. Pictured, left to right, Dr. Lori Parks, LSU freshman Rouge, the scenario exemplified She is hoping to increase the Bergeron is particularly excit- Anne Christian Ardoin, Erin Ardoin and Amy Poche. Parks and Poche the purpose of the annual event, participation level from 1,300 ed about a song and prayer event are members of Queen of All Saints Catholic Church in Ville Platte, Erin where pro-life supporters main- to 1,722, which represents the scheduled Oct. 24 at 5:30 p.m. Ardoin is a parishioner at Sacred Heart Church in Baton Rouge and tain a vigil at Delta for 40 days. number of abortions performed at the clinic. She said two mu- Chrisitan Ardoin, daughter of Erin Ardoin and Poche’s niece, attends “They were exemplars of what in Baton Rouge in 2012. She ac- sicians from Baton Rouge area Christ the King Church, also in Baton Rouge. Photo submitted by Charlotte St. John Paul II described as the knowledged the challenge but Baptist churches are scheduled Bergeron ‘feminine genius’ in building a said “it’s a worthy goal to rep- to perform. with a whole new group of 40 Days for Life is scheduled culture of life,” Bergeron noted resent each baby killed through “It will be a wonderful new churches as well as our veteran to run through Nov. 2. of the Lanier church members. abortion and each family that way to share 40 Days for Life participants,” she said.

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Month xx, xxxx Vol. Cxx, No. xx ommentatorSERVING THE DIOCESE OF BATON ROUGE SINCE 1963 www.diobr.org/tcc 4 The Catholic Commentator NATIONAL | INTERNATIONAL October 17, 2014 Family synod midterm report: Welcome gays, nonmarital unions VATICAN CITY (CNS) – In man Cardinal Walter Kasper that strikingly conciliatory language would make it easier for divorced on situations contrary to Catho- and civilly remarried Catholics to lic teaching, an official midterm receive Communion, even with- report from the Synod of Bishops out an annulment of their first, on the family emphasized calls sacramental marriages. for greater acceptance and appre- Cardinal Erdo said some syn- ciation of divorced and remarried od members had spoken in sup- Catholics, cohabitating couples port of the “present regulations,” and homosexuals. which admit such Catholics to “It is necessary to accept Communion only if they abstain people in their concrete being, from sexual relations, living with to know how to support their their new partners as “brother search, to encourage the wish and sister.” for God and the will to feel fully But the cardinal said other part of the church, also on the bishops at the assembly favored a part of those who have experi- “greater opening” to such second enced failure or find themselves unions, “on a case-by-case basis, in the most diverse situations,” according to a law of graduality, Hungarian Cardinal Peter Erdo that takes into consideration the of Esztergom-Budapest told Pope Pope Francis listens as Italian Cardinal Lorenzo Baldisseri, general secretary of the Synod of Bishops, left, distinction between state of sin, Francis and the synod Oct. 13. speaks during the morning session of the extraordinary Synod of Bishops on the family at the Vatican Oct. state of grace and the attenuating Cardinal Erdo, who as the 13. At right is Cardinal Peter Erdo of Esztergom-Budapest, Hungary, relator for the synod. CNS photo circumstances.” synod’s relator has the task of As a historical example of the guiding the discussion and syn- promising Catholic doctrine on homosexuality a “more or less he said they also can exemplify “law of graduality,” which he said thesizing its results, gave a nearly the family and matrimony?” strong tendency ordered toward “mutual aid to the point of sacri- accounts for the “various levels hourlong speech that drew on the The statement represents a an intrinsic moral evil.” In 2003, fice (that) constitutes a precious through which God communi- synod’s first week of discussions. marked shift in tone on the sub- the doctrinal congregation stat- support in the life of the partners.” cates the grace of the covenant to “Homosexuals have gifts and ject for an official Vatican doc- ed that permitting adoption by He noted that the “church pays humanity,” the cardinal quoted qualities to offer to the Christian ument. While the Catechism same-sex couples is “gravely im- special attention to the children Jesus’ words in the Gospel of St. community,” the cardinal said. of the Catholic Church calls for moral” and “would actually mean who live with couples of the same Matthew (19:8) acknowledging “Often they wish to encounter “respect, compassion and sen- doing violence to these children.” sex, emphasizing that the needs that, “because of the hardness of a church that offers them a wel- sitivity” toward homosexuals, While Cardinal Erdo said that and rights of the little ones must your hearts, Moses allowed you coming home. Are our commu- it calls their inclination “objec- same-sex unions present unspec- always be given priority.” to divorce your wives, but from nities capable of providing that, tively disordered.” A 1986 docu- ified “moral problems” and thus The cardinal said a “new sen- the beginning it was not so.” accepting and evaluating their ment from the Congregation for “cannot be considered on the same sitivity in the pastoral care of Critics of Cardinal Kasper’s sexual orientation, without com- the Doctrine of the Faith called footing” as traditional marriage, today consists in grasping the proposal commonly cite the Gos- positive reality of civil marriages pel’s following verse, in which Je- and ... cohabitation,” even though sus states that “whoever divorces both models fall short of the ideal his wife (unless the marriage is of sacramental marriage. unlawful) and marries another “In such unions it is possible commits adultery.” to grasp authentic family values At a news conference follow- or at least the wish for them,” he ing the synod’s morning session, said. “All these situations have Cardinal Erdo said no one at the to be dealt with in a constructive synod had questioned church manner, seeking to transform teaching that Jesus’ prohibition them into opportunities to walk of divorce applies to all Christian toward the fullness of marriage sacramental marriages. and the family in the light of the Also at the news conference, Gospel. They need to be wel- Cardinal Luis Antonio Tagle of comed and accompanied with Manila, one of the assembly’s patience and delicacy.” three presidents chosen by Pope Similarly, the cardinal said, Francis, said Cardinal Erdo’s divorced and civilly remarried speech “is not to be considered a Catholics deserve an “accompa- final document from the synod,” niment full of respect, avoiding but a pretext for the further dis- any language or behavior that cussion, which concludes Oct. 18. might make them feel discrimi- The synod is not supposed to nated against.” reach any definitive conclusions, Cardinal Erdo noted that var- but set the agenda for a larger ious bishops supported making world synod to be held Oct. 4-25, the annulment process “more 2015, which will make recom- accessible and flexible,” among mendations to the pope. Cardinal other ways, by allowing bishops Lorenzo Baldisseri, general sec- to declare marriages null without retary of the synod, announced requiring a trial before a church Oct. 13 that the theme of next’s tribunal. year assembly will be: “The vo- One of the most discussed cation and mission of the family topics at the synod has been a in the church and in the modern controversial proposal by Ger- world.” October 17, 2014 The Catholic Commentator 5 Father Ranzino elected chairman of national liturgists’ board

By Barbara Chenevert bishops” in liturgical issues. consultant to the U.S. Conference Evangelization and Catechesis. the church has gained great ac- The Catholic Commentator The FDLC was established 45 of Catholic Bishops’ Committee Dr. Mary Gautier of the Center ceptance in the dioceses of the years ago to assist bishops in li- on Divine Worship along with for the Applied Research in the United States, but the richness of Father Tom Ranzino, chancel- turgical reform and renewal and FDLC director Rita Theron. Apostolate (CARA) presented a the RCIA has not been uniformly lor of the Diocese of Baton Rouge to support the creation of liturgi- More than 220 leaders from summary of the results, analyz- implemented in parishes, accord- and director of the diocesan cal commissions in each diocese 103 dioceses attended the annu- ing such data as the length of the ing to a press release issued by the Office of Worship, was elected as per the request of the Second al meeting that focused on “The formation process, the number FDLC. chairman of the Vatican Council, said Father Ran- RCIA: Ever Ancient, Ever New,” of catechumens and candidates, Father Paul Turner, a priest of Board of Direc- zino, who is also pastor of St. Jean an examination of the National the celebration of the rites which the Diocese of Kansas City and a tors of the Fed- Vianney Church Parish in Baton Statutes on the Catechumenate, mark their journey, proper min- scholar on Christian Initiation, eration of Dioc- Rouge. “Our primary aim is to be which have served as particular isters of the rites, catechetical offered a theological response to esan Liturgical helpful in the promotion of the law for the dioceses of the United resources used, the specific needs the survey’s findings, citing six Commissions at liturgy.” States for the implementation of of children of catechetical age, theological principles. Among its annual meet- Father Ranzino said he hopes the Rite of Christian Initiation of and the proper celebration of the them were “adaptation strength- ing Oct. 1-3 in Father Ranzino to follow in the footsteps of some Adults. rites of initiation and reception ens worship, catechetical forma- Illinois. liturgical pioneers such as Father At the heart of the discussions into full communion. tion accompanies liturgical prac- “I am happy to serve, and we Bill Greene, who served this di- were the results of a recent study Father Ron Lewinski, a priest tice, ministries are diversified, will do our best,” Father Ranzino ocese in the early days of liturgy on pastoral practice commis- of the Archdiocese of Chicago and uncatechized adults need pasto- said. “My intention in serving in renewal after Vatican II. sioned by the FDLC, the USCCB’s a pioneer in the implementation ral care, and the sequence of ini- this capacity is to make the orga- By virtue of his election, Fa- Committee on Divine Worship of the RCIA in the United States, tiation rites reveals the Paschal nization effective in assisting the ther Ranzino will also serve as a and the USCCB’s Committee on acknowledged that this rite of Mystery.” U.S. bishops emphasize traditional marriage after Supreme Court action

WASHINGTON (CNS) – After the Su- families and the church will be there as bans in Idaho and Nevada violated the peals court decision “does not change the preme Court Oct. 6 declined to review joyful witnesses of the truth about the equal protection rights of same-sex cou- fact that the Roman Catholic Church has rulings overturning five states’ bans on family and human sexuality,” it added. ples to legally marry. consistently taught and will uphold that same-sex marriage, several U.S. bishops Colorado’s bishops also said the situa- A statement from Bishop Randolph marriage is a covenant of life and love be- criticized the court’s inaction and reiter- tion shows how important it is for Cath- R. Calvo of Reno, Nevada, said the ap- tween one man and one woman.” ated that according to church teaching, olics to be “involved in political life” and traditional marriage is a union between speak the truth about human sexuality, one man and one woman. marriage and the human person. Oklahoma City Archbishop Paul S. The bishops of Indiana said it was un- Coakley said the court’s failure to review fortunate that the Supreme Court “did not the Circuit Court decisions was “deeply take up the cases and respect the will of disappointing.” people of Indiana and other states.” In a “Marriage is not merely a human in- statement by the Indiana Catholic Con- stitution that can simply be redefined at ference, the bishops said that although will, but one established by our creator “same-sex marriage may be legal in Indi- and necessary for human flourishing. ana, the church is not obligated to solem- Children deserve a mother and a father nize such ceremonies and will not change who are committed to a faithful and per- its teaching.” manent union,” he said. Glenn Tebbe, executive director of the North Carolina Bishops Peter J. Jugis Indiana Catholic Conference, said that of Charlotte and Michael F. Burbidge of “there is still a possibility that other ap- Raleigh said in a statement: “Millions of peals courts will rule differently and Americans have looked to the Supreme therefore the U.S. Supreme Court will Court to put this issue to rest by sup- have to resolve the issue.” porting marriage as being between one The Virginia Catholic Conference said man and one woman. We know from our the Supreme Court’s decision to decline Catholic teaching that marriage is a per- to review the ruling that overturned Vir- manent, faithful and fruitful covenant ginia’s law “reflects a fundamental mis- joining a man and a woman. It is our duty understanding of the intrinsic nature of to continue to affirm marriage in this way, marriage and represents an injustice to and it is our hope that the Supreme Court over a million Virginia voters, whose de- will ultimately agree.” cision was to enshrine the understanding The Colorado Catholic Conference, of marriage as the union of one man and the public policy arm of the state’s bish- one woman into our state’s constitution.” ops, said the court’s failure to review the The state’s bishops said they will “con- rulings was “disappointing and advances tinue to affirm the truth about marriage, a misunderstanding of the institution of the lifelong union of one man and one marriage.” woman, as well as its essential impor- The statement said that the court de- tance to the common good. As pastors, clining “to act will have a lasting and pro- teachers, and faith leaders, we can do found effect on the family structure.” nothing less. It is our fervent hope that “Our desire is for people of good will the Supreme Court will reconsider this to continue to grow in the truth and joy fundamental issue in the future.” of marriage, so that when society begins On Oct. 7, three judges from the 9th to see the bad fruits of this decision, our U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals said the 6 The Catholic Commentator October 17, 2014 Who blesses? Liturgy for former Anglicans: Who can attend?

At a family discussion, the follow- over these children. Grant that they will of the boyfriend is a Catholic priest. ing question came up: Can anyone confess your name in willing faith, be fer- My friend asked me to go to the Qother than a priest or deacon do a vent in charity and persevere courageous- wedding ceremony and serve as a legal Catholic blessing? (Baltimore) ly in the hope of reaching your kingdom.” witness. I asked my parish priest, and he said that I could. So I went to the cere- As your question would suggest, I am interested in Catholic litur- mony, presided over by the JP (justice of aside from certain blessings gies and rites outside the Roman/ the peace), and also to the reception. The Areserved to a bishop (e.g., the QLatin rite. I know that Latin-rite boyfriend’s brother, the priest, was not at consecration of the sacramental oils at Catholics are allowed to attend Catholic the ceremony but did attend the reception, the chrism Mass during Holy Week), it is Eastern-rite liturgies on the same basis as though briefly. a priest who normally imparts a Catholic a Latin-rite Mass and also to receive Com- My question is this: If that priest, the blessing. munion at them. I have been to a number groom’s brother, did not feel comfortable Certain blessings also are entrusted (Maronite, Ukrainian, Ruthenian). being at the ceremony, then why was I to deacons – at rites where a deacon is But my question regards the Personal allowed to participate? (Name of city presiding, such as a baptism, a wedding Question Corner Ordinariate of the Chair of St. Peter, which withheld) ceremony or the distribution of holy was set up to allow Anglicans to join the Communion outside of Mass. But many Father Kenneth Doyle Catholic Church without abandoning all of I think I know why your parish blessings are done properly – and perhaps their liturgical traditions. priest said that it was OK for you more appropriately – by laypeople. Another example recommended by Are these Masses just for former Angli- Ato serve as a witness. But I can The most common example is the the Book of Blessings is the blessing of a cans, or can all Catholics attend them, as also understand why the other priest, blessing of food before a meal, which newly engaged couple by both sets of par- they can with more long-standing Catho- the brother of the groom, might have felt many families do each evening around the ents. Laypeople may also use a suggested lic rites? (City of origin withheld) uncomfortable attending the ceremony. dinner table. prayer of blessing when moving into a You mentioned that your friend had been The church’s Book of Blessings lists new home, although more commonly the First, let’s review the history. In baptized a Catholic but now attends a several other blessings that are normally parish priest is invited to mark that joyful 2012, the Vatican created the different church. My guess is that her done by laypeople, including the blessing event. APersonal Ordinariate of the Chair boyfriend was also once a Catholic, since of sons and daughters by their parents. (In In one particularly touching prayer, the of St. Peter you mention. It is similar to a his brother is a priest. Irish families particularly, parents often Book of Blessings envisions a catechist diocese, in response to repeated inquiries Since neither of the spouses is now a gather their children for a blessing when gathering his or her class and asking God’s from Anglican groups who were seeking practicing Catholic, no one would rea- they are leaving home for a new venture blessing over them in these words: to become Catholic. sonably expect them to feel obligated to or embarking on a trip.) “With your unfailing protection, watch This ordinariate includes communities be married in a Catholic ceremony. On in the Unites States and Canada, while balance, I think it’s preferable that they similar ones were created in Australia and be married civilly rather than not at all, Look for for England and Wales. The ordinariate especially since that creates certain legal he aThoLiC ommenTaTor enables former Anglicans, once they have responsibilities for each other’s welfare. T C C become Catholic, to retain many aspects To give them credit, their decision to aT your LoCaL ouTLeTs inCLuding: of Anglican heritage and traditions. marry may well have been a principled The liturgy that is celebrated looks very one, a determination to “make right” their ✔ Albertsons on Government St., Bluebonnet Blvd. and College Dr. in similar to an Anglican service, using texts living together. Your support as a friend Baton Rouge and in Denham Springs that incorporate Anglican prayers. In an- evidently means a lot to them and is ✔ Alexander’s Highland Market in Baton Rouge swer to your question, yes, any Catholic is especially important given their recurring ✔ Ascension Books & Gifts in Gonzales welcome to attend and to participate in lit- struggles with mental illness. 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FATHER DOYLE is chancellor for public information and a pastor in the Diocese of Albany, NY. Questions may be sent to Father Kenneth Doyle at askfather- [email protected] and 40 Hopewell St. Albany, NY 12208. October 17, 2014 FAITH JOURNEY The Catholic Commentator 7 Taking a little off the top of life’s problems

By Barbara Chenevert generations during the same vis- and felt like I couldn’t make it. The Catholic Commentator it. “We had a full house. They all He gave us the strength and the came, grandparents and all. They knowledge to keep growing.” “In this job, you get to be a took lots of pictures.” One particular customer may therapist, a priest and a peace- It is that kind of place – adver- bring thoughts of faith to Sirchia, maker. A lot of problems come tised primarily by word of mouth however – he cuts the hair of through that door.” and passed on from father to son. Bishop Robert W. Muench. “Bish- Emile Sirchia is not talking A member and usher at St. op Muench – he doesn’t meet a about a church or a doctor’s of- Jean Vianney Church in Baton stranger,” Sirchia said. “He’s real fice. Sirchia is a barber of 44 Rouge, Sirchia said many of his pleasant. He mingles with the years and has seen all kinds of clients are people of deep faith. customers and makes everybody folks come in and out of his bar- “They talk about what happens to feel comfortable.” bershop on Coursey Boulevard in them. We are all just trying to be “We talk mostly football and Baton Rouge. good people,” he said. what’s happening in his life or “They come in here and tell you But Sirchia said he doesn’t talk mine. A lot of times he’s real busy, their problems. You listen religion with his but sometimes I tell him to pray but you can’t give advice. clients except to for me, because I need all the Some people have a lot of BRINGING add an occasional help I can get,” Sirchia said with problems. We have them response, like, “Be a chuckle. Barber Emile Sirchia enjoys learning about his clients’ lives as he cuts for 10 to 15 minutes,” he JESUS glad God gave you Bishop Muench’s predecessors hair in his barber shop on Coursey Boulevard in Baton Rouge. Cus- O HE said, referring to the av- T T that opportunity” – Bishops Alfred Hughes and tomer John Rinaudo, seated, says Sirchia is a “good listenser.” Photo by erage amount of time a JOB or “Thank God Stanley Ott – also had their hair Barbara Chenevert | The Catholic Commentator. client will be sitting in for that” to some- cut in the shop, but by a now re- the barber chair for a haircut. thing they may tell him. “We talk tired barber, Sam Bellini. Sirchia family full of barbers, and his fa- people, he said. Sirchia owns Ahead Above a lot of football and fishing in here. said a couple of local priests also ther had previously asked him to What does he do for a hobby? Barber and Hairstyling shop, a We steer away from religion and come in for haircuts. consider it. “So, I went to my dad “Relax,” he said. “I used to fish, typical, mostly male bastion of politics,” he said. Sirchia, who was born in In- and told him I was going to barber but now I relax.” LSU posters, football schedules But religion is a big part of this dependence and came to Ba- school.” The same year he mar- “I’m satisfied with what God and sports talk. barber’s life. He begins each day ton Rouge in 1967, worked for a ried his wife of 44 years. has given me. Without him we are “Most of our clients have been with a rosary and thanks God couple of years before a friend He said his likes the camara- nothing. Bishop Hughes once told coming for a long time. We know because “He’s been real good to told him he was going to barber derie of being a barber because it me that God wouldn’t give you their wives, their kids and their me. He has given me strength and school, and asked why Sirchia allows him to get to know about more than you can handle. When grandkids,” said Sirchia, who courage to continue on when I didn’t go, too. the families and lives of his cus- you are at the end of your rope, he added he recently cut hair of four was discouraged by the business Sirchia said he came from a tomers, many of who are spiritual will throw you a life line,” he said. When God says no

hat do you do when the Holocaust to occur. Was God really calling me to be was at last over. This was a good God, your friend and In the Bible, God reveals his a priest, or was it all a figment thing. I could see her sitting in a Wprotector, suddenly answer to such questions. A man of my pious imagination? In the front-row seat, in heaven, on my turns you down and says “no?” named Job had his world turned weeks that followed, I endured ordination day. A tragic event, such as a upside down by numerous a state of distress and continued I began to realize that time death, can topple your childhood tragedies. One misfortune after with my classes, putting on as does heal and that God’s will dreams about a heavenly father another devastated him, and brave a front as I could muster. takes into account the suffering who will help you through the yet he remained steadfast in his Then gradually, in a month of others, not just the pain of one trials and tribulations of life. faith. He put on the will to honor or two, I began understanding person. Deaths happen all the time. God, no matter how great the the whole experience as a test However, when someone you miseries of his life affected him. of faith. I thought about the FATHER CATOIR writes on issues of love dies, even though you pray In the end, God rewarded him fact that my mother’s suffering, spirituality for Catholic News and plea to save them, it can be for his deep devotion. which had lasted for many years, Service. heart-wrenching. Upon prayerful reflection The anger and confusion that of the Job story, you may gain Spirituality an unwanted death unleashes some perspective on the simple can be devastating. You begin concept: Life is a test. For Today to doubt the very existence of We all have drama in our God. Ultimately, the experience lives, things that we can’t under- Father John Catoir will either lead you to a reluctant stand and sometimes take out on acceptance of God’s will or a God. I had my own drama when rejection of his will. I was in the seminary. My moth- shaken, not because I needed ...invites you to breakfast 9 a.m. We see examples of this in the er was very sick, and I prayed motherly care. After all, I had Dr. Cheryl Jones – 12 noon, Saturday, November 15 at Bible, in those disillusioned that incessantly that God would heal been on my own throughout my Oak Lodge Reception Center, 2834 S. God, their protector, would allow her and let her live to see me college years and in the Army. I Sherwood Forest, Baton Rouge. 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No question why God would allow two years before my ordination. promise to help when I needed it? seats will be sold at door. unthinkable atrocities such as Needless to say, I was deeply I began to doubt my vocation. 8 The Catholic Commentator October 17, 2014 Sacred Heart’s soul lies in its music, art By Richard Meek great-grandson of church archi- pieces that are in Sacred Heart The Catholic Commentator tect Albert Bendernagel; and Fa- Father deWit studied art in Bel- ther Aelred Kavanagh OSB, who gium, Germany and Italy and From its stunning display of discussed the works of artist Fa- helped decorate the church and artwork to its uniquely Sicilian ther Gregory deWit OSB. chapter room at St. Meinrad Ab- architectural design and culture “It’s a wonderful parish and bey in Indiana. to the iconic “Angry Jesus” stand- I just want to know a little more Msgr. Blasco was impressed ing sentry over the altar, Sacred about our church,” said parish- with Father DeWit’s work at Heart Church has for 90 years ioner Tanya Romanowski. “I just St. Meinrad and invited him to anchored Baton Rouge’s mid-city love the art.” paint a series of murals at Sacred community. Pastor Father Miles Walsh Heart. Father deWit later spent Even as the surrounding opened the evening by welcom- time at St. Joseph Abbey in Cov- neighborhood transitioned from ing those in attendance and giv- ington. its largely Italian makeup to ing special thanks to Msgr. Blas- Nearly 300 people gathered Oct. 9 for a night of Celebrating Art and “It’s powerful, it’s emotional multi-cultural, the dedication of co, Albert Bendernagel and the Soul of Sacred Heart. The event celebrated the church’s unique art- and spiritual,” Romanowski said Sacred Heart parishioners has early parishioners who showed a work and architectural design. Photo by Richard Meek | The Catholic Commentator of the church’s artwork. “I guess never wavered. strong commitment to the parish, when you grow up in a culture like “I just love it here,” said long- which was established in 1924. when my sister Mary was born. atives, friend and parishioners,” this all of the religious structures time parishioner Dolly Gordon. Eggart followed with a de- He was the proud uncle when my she added. “He loved the rich give you certain emotions and “This is my church.” tailed history of the church, in- older sister (Catherine) graduated and the poor. He was the friend feelings when you go to church. Gordon’s sentiment echoed cluding how the church was able from the first kindergarten class of you. He was a very generous You really have that here.” that of nearly 300 people who to be completed in 1942 at an at Sacred Heart.” person.” Denise Williston said she em- gathered Oct. 9 for a night of estimated of $156,000, even as “He was the kind, gentle face John Bendernagel offered in- braced the opportunity to learn Celebrating Art and Soul of Sa- equipment and other supplies I saw when the Sacred Heart sight into his great-grandfather, a about the parish she has called cred Heart. Organizers were were in short supply because of school bell would ring,” she add- man who is credited with build- home her entire life. overwhelmed by the response, World War II. ed. “He was a passionate person ing up to 40 churches as well as “It’s wonderful to come to initially hoping for a crowd of Didier recalled her younger who loved his church. Although designing the majority of the this and hear the stories and see somewhere from 100 to maybe years with her uncle, who would I did not totally understand what buildings on the campus of Tu- things you didn’t realize,” said up to 200. often gather with the rest of the the words meant at that time I lane University. Williston, who also works at Sa- “This is a wonderful turnout,” family at the dinner table on Sun- knew he was special.” The church might be more cred Heart. “You hear new things Sacred Heart archivist Mary Lee days and holidays. Didier recalled her uncle as a what one would likely see in Sicily and find out new things. It’s just Eggart said. “It has exceeded our “To most of you here today, man who “mesmerized with his rather than the inner city of Baton amazing. There’s a spirit here expectations.” Msgr. Blasco was the holy man wisdom, and with his homily. My Rouge but Bendernagel designed that draws people to it.” The evening featured sever- who said Mass, baptized you, but thoughts always go back to those to church to meet the needs of the Sacred Heart partnered with al speakers, including Eggart;, to me he was my first my beloved years, to that lovely man who congregation, which was mostly The Foundation for Historical Marti Blasco Didier, the niece of uncle,” said Didier, who was 10 made such a lovely impression in Italian at the time. Louisiana and the Mid City Re- founding pastor Msgr. Dominic years old when her uncle died. my life.” Father Kavanagh spoke about development Alliance to host the Blasco; John Bendernagel, the “He was the uncle who was proud “He made time for other rel- Father deWit and the 28 unique program. OLOL to present award winners during annual luncheon

Our Lady of the Lake Col- ence in Human Medicine pro- Drawing on years of knowledge lege will honor three prestigious gram, has been chosen the 2014 as a cardiovascular nurse special- award winners during its annual Distinguished Recent Alumni ist, Barrett has taken on a number luncheon Nov. 1. winner. LeBouef was a student of issues addressing health local- For several months OLOL re- leader during school and three ly, including influencing lifestyle ceived nominations from alumni, years after graduation has dis- choices as chairman of the board faculty and the greater communi- tinguished himself as a leader in for the Mayor’s Healthy City Ini- ty, and the winners were selected higher education, most recently tiative in Baton Rouge, creating based on stories of their profes- serving as the director of stu- a statewide Trauma System as a sional success, personal commit- dent activities at South Louisiana member of the Emergency Re- ment, and service, according to Community College in Lafayette. sponse Network (LERN) Board of school officials. The Distinguished Alumni Directors and ensuring commu- Barbara Anthony, RN, LNC, winner is chosen from a class nity safety as a member of the ex- Class of ’72, has been selected as graduating during the past 10 ecutive committee awarding state the 2014 Distinguished Alumni years. grants for Hospital Bioterrorism winner. In her many roles as a Coetta C. Barrett, vice-pres- Preparedness, and nationally registered nurse, a compliance ident of mission at Our Lady serving as the National Chair of Honorees to be recognized at the Our Lady of the Lake annual ban- officer for Veterans Affairs long- of the Lake Regional Medical the Board for the American Heart quet Nov. 1 are, left to right: W. Chandler LeBoeuf, Distinguished Re- term care facilities, a field officer Center, has been selected as the Association and on the Advisory cent Alumni; Barbara Anthony, Distinguished Alumni; and Coletta C. for the Louisiana Department Franciscan Impact Award win- Council for the National Heart Barrett, Vice-President for Mission at Our Lady of the Lake Regional of Health and Hospitals, and a ner. Barrett not only ensures that Blood and Lung Institute. Medical Center, Franciscan Impact Award. Photo submitted by Our Lady of the Lake highly sought-out legal nurse high quality health care is deliv- The Franciscan Impact Award College consultant, Anthony has worked ered with compassion, respect recipient must exemplify ele- time, leadership, guidance or oth- ual class reunions begin at 10:30 diligently for more than 40 years and dignity at Our Lady of the ments of the college’s mission er personal support to those most a.m. as an advocate on behalf of the Lake, but she has demonstrated and must be active in community in need. Tickets are $35 per person. elderly. a record of service that extends service efforts within the Greater The luncheon is scheduled at Registration can be found at Chandler LeBoeuf, a 2011 throughout the state of Louisiana Baton Rouge region. This com- Boudreaux’s in Baton Rouge at www.ololcollege.edu/annuallun graduate of the Bachelor of Sci- and beyond. munity member must give of their noon. Registration and individ- cheon or by calling 225-490-1637. October 17, 2014 The Catholic Commentator 9 Wolfpack players a hit in unique baseball league By Debbie Shelley “They (the children) trust that their The Catholic Commentator buddy will protect them and help them make whatever play they can,” Gajan said. Putting some of the “miracle” in the Leigh Donahue, who coaches the As- Miracle League at Cypress Mounds base- tros for Miracle League, the team who ball league, members of the Redemptorist Lanoux and Myrick serve with, said she High School baseball team are helping loves to see how excited the children get kids experience the biggest thrill of the when they see their buddies, and the look game – crossing home plate and feeling of joy on the buddies’ faces as they help like winners. their player hit the ball or make a play. Every Wednesday night the Wolfpack “It’s something very unique,” Donahue team members meet with their disabled said. buddies at a state-of-the-art ballpark to Donahue’s niece and godchild, Emer- play ball. During the competitive games, son Allen, who has cerebral palsy, plays which are open to children age 6 and older in the league. Donahue said one of the who have physical or mental disabilities, biggest joys for the players and their bud- everyone gets a hit and everyone is “safe.” dies is when it is a player’s turn to be a A buddy accompanies each child, some in “homerun hitter,” something each child wheelchairs or using walkers, out on the gets a chance to do. The players and their field. buddies go around the bases and cross This is the first time Redemptorist home plate while the large group of fans players have volunteered as a team at Mir- wildly cheer. acle League. They include senior Jacob “They (the children) light up like a ma- Stagg, catcher; juniors, Connor Calllihan, Redemptorist High School Wolfpack members working Wednesday nights with children jor league player,” Donahue said. center field; Trent Myrick, infield; Cam- with disabilities at Miracle League at Cypress Mounds are, from left, standing, Connor And even when the “going gets tough,” eron Callihan, second base; Matthew La- Callihan, Tyler Donaldson, Trent Myrick, Cameron Callihan, Matthew Lanoux; kneeling, the players and their buddies stick it out noux, outfield; Jeremy Gajan, third base; Jeremy Gajan, Dylan Lueli and Hunter Harris. Pictured with them are their Miracle League together with a mantra that the Wolfpack Dylan Lueli, first base; Brant Guerin, buddies. Photo provided by Gwen Gajan repeats over and over to their comrades outfield; and sophomores, Hunter Har- until they see victory. ris, outfield; and Tyler Donaldson, infield. They have also become better athletes, one is the relationship that develops be- “Never give up,” said the Redemptorist They seem to enjoy the game as much as teammates, communicators and leaders. tween the players and their buddies. players in one voice. their buddies – through the challenges Redemptorist coach Daniel Jewett be- and the triumphs. lieves those skills will result in a success- The biggest challenge is having pa- ful season for Redemptorist. tience, according to the teammates. Watching the players’ confidence skills Sometimes it takes a lot of repetition for build as they play is also very satisfying their buddies to “get” a particular skill for the volunteers. HOME DELIVERY they are trying to show them, such as Brandi Polito, executive director of throwing the ball. the Miracle League at Cypress Mounds, If you would like The But that pretty much summed up the said she has noticed mutual benefits blos- challenges for the Wolfpack, who talked soming in the players and their buddies Catholic Commentator more about the triumphs of the game. through the games. to be delivered by mail, One of the biggest triumphs is watch- Polito said when the disabled are out ing the children improve as the season on the field, they come alive as they get you can! For only $14 per progresses. The players were quick to around more people and respond to the year, you wouldn’t miss point out that the children have more ca- crowd. an issue because it pabilities than they are credited with. She added that the players’ physical The children also show great appreci- ability improves with playing time. 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By Richard Meek a swarm of the black insects attacked sur- The Catholic Commentator veyors mapping the area, first appeared in historical records in 1802. In 1850, the Theresa Hollins recalls with a smile Episcopal Diocese of Alexandria built a a simpler time, days when she and her home on what is now the site of the parish family would cover the 10 miles to attend center, and by the early 1880s the com- Mass at St. Mary’s Chapel in Maringouin munity was a prominent part of the Tex- on foot. The month mattered not, whether as and Pacific Railroad, which stretched it was the stifling months of July or Au- from New Orleans to El Paso, Texas. gust or winter’s welcome respite of Janu- In 1893, St. Mary’s Chapel was com- ary and February. pleted and later attached to Lobdell in “I don’t remember the heat,” she add- 1900. The chapel would remain in use un- ed. “You didn’t concentrate on that. til a new church was built in 1972. “If you wanted to go to church, that’s By 1906, the chapel, which by then was how you had to get there. Our family be- attached to St. John Church in Plaquemine, lieved in the church.” was transferred to the Theresa Hollins, left, Brenda Matherne and Father Amrit Raj IMS discuss Golden Ju- Hollins has witnessed On Aug. 27, 1972 newly formed St. Joseph bilee plans for Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Maringouin. Bishop Robert W. St. Mary’s growth from a Church in Grosse Tete. Muench will celebrate Mass on Oct. 19 at 11 a.m. and will dedicate the Sister Patricia small mission of St. Joseph the current church In 1955, Father A. Williams SSC Conference Room after Mass. Photo by Richard Meek | The Catholic Commentator Church in Grosse Tete to a James Clement was ap- thriving Immaculate Heart was completed at a pointed pastor and his Clement in 1961 and served as parish sec- became Shady Grove Elementary School. of Mary Church Parish, associate was Father retary for 23 years before retiring in Febru- Matherne recalls teaching religion while which will culminate its cost of $100,000 ... Aubry Osborn, the first ary. “To me, the church was the center of the other classes were being held until 1962 golden jubilee celebration African-American dioce- community. At that time, everybody knew when parents complained that their stu- Sunday, Oct. 19 with Mass at 11 a.m. cele- san priest in the state. everybody; everybody was connected to the dents were being forced to stay late while brated by Bishop Robert W. Muench. Lifelong resident Brenda Matherne church at some point, in some way, either religion was being taught to a smaller Although still relatively young by some also fondly recalls those days, an era through their parents, grandparents. I felt number of students. standards, the parish’s roots run deep when the church served as the gathering like it was the heart of Maringouin.” “Then we had to start teaching after through the rich soil of Iberville Civil Par- hub for the community. Matherne and Hollins each served school was let out,” said Matherne. ish. Maringouin, which legend says was “I was born here. I’ve never left,” said as religion teachers, with classes held at In 1964 the mission of St. Mary be- given the French name for mosquito after Matherne, who was married by Father Iberville Parish public school, which later SEE ANNIVERSARY PAGE 11

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ANNIVERSARY  the same time, parishioners con- church was completed at a cost From page 10 verted two houses that had been of $100,000, and two years later, donated into a furnished recto- the church was debt free. Today, came Immaculate Heart of ry, and additional improvements Immaculate Heart is a part of Mary Church with Father James were made to the church. the cluster parishes of St. Joseph Kinkead its founding pastor. At On Aug. 27, 1972 the current Church in Grosse Tete and St. Francis Xavier Cabrini Church in Livonia. “Every parish is a unique par- ish,” said parochial vicar Father Amrit Raj IMS. “(Immaculate Heart) is especially because it is a mixture of African-Ameri- cans and white. It is unique in SINCE 1979 ting? that they all are coming togeth- Tailga er for Mass and other activities. Whenever we have something for the parish, the groups all FAST • AFFORDABLE • GUARANTEED FOR LIFE come together to support what- (228-4882) Ask about our 10% discount. ever needs to be done.” Call 1-800-BATHTUB or 225-753-6810 for Mention code: “Commentator” “They really understand their a free in-home consultation. and receive an additional $100 discount. obligation to the church, to the community, to God and to the STEVE DECELL religious,” he added. “The aware- Walk-in Showers Aging-In-Place Consultant Walk-in Tubs ness is there. They are doing it for community and for God.” Father Raj said he is encour- aging all parishioners to bring a cross to the 11 a.m. Mass cele- ANTHONY’S Italian Deli brated by Bishop Muench. Father Raj said the bishop will bless the Tailgate trays! crosses, which he hopes will serve as a memento of the jubilee for each family. Enjoy a Muffoletta Tray “They can place it in the din- from Baton Rouge’s only ing room, or living room, or bed- TRUE ITALIAN Deli! room, or in the yard,” Father Raj or “Mix ‘n’ Match” – Roast Beef with Provolone, said. “It will be something to re- Turkey with Swiss, Ham and member.” Cheese, and more specialties. Following Mass Bishop Serves up to 20. Muench will dedicate the Sister 10248 Florida Blvd. (BON AMI shopping center) Patricia A. Williams SSC Confer- (225) 272-6817 ence Room. Mon. - Sat. 9:30 am - 6 pm A special Mass will also be Our Lady of the Oak grotto provides a serene setting among the many celebrated by Father Don Ajoko majestic live Oak trees that provide a canopy of shade on the property at noon on Oct. 17. at Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church in Maringouin. Photos by The public is invited to attend Richard Meek | The Catholic Commentator all of the celebrations. Ride with the #1 car insurer in LOUISIANA.

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Club coordina- tor Carolyn Breaux tries to find fun ac- tivities like this pool noodle rosary to help First-grader Julee the children Templet smiles as she of Pierre Part holds her blue balloon, The Rosary club launches its rosary balloon which soared learn to pray representing a Hail over Virgin Island Oct. 11. the rosary. Pho- Mary. tos by Barbara Chen- During September the club made a rosary out of pool noo- evert | The Catholic The pink “cross” of the rosary dangles in the air dles and floated it in Belle River. Commentator Balloons to beads, diocese prays the rosary

By Barbara Chenevert float in Belle River across from St. Joseph Church. To Breaux’s surprise, 45 to 50 children showed up for the The Catholic Commentator On Oct. 11, the club again presented the rosary in a cre- first gathering. “It was a huge success,” she said. ative way when it led a rosary for the semi annual Mass on She has been been busy teaching the children how to pray risten Ashworth’s grandparents always had a Virgin Island to honor Mary during this month dedicated the rosary and the mysteries of the rosary. “It’s a way to ex- rosary in hand. Her parents made the family recite to the rosary. This time the club used pink, blue and white pose children to the rosary to keep it simple and just pray Kthe rosary every day. balloons to mark each prayer of the rosary as they led the it,” she said. So when she had a child of her own, it was only natural group in prayer. An occasional balloon released too early or Breaux said she hopes it will also give children the oppor- that she would want him to hold the rosary in a special place the sound of a popped balloon brought laughter but didn’t tunity to learn to turn to the rosary and the Blessed Mother in his heart. distract this enthusiastic group from its mission. when they are in trouble. Ashworth brought her 7-year old son, Tyler, to the Chil- Koby LeGleu, 10, who held a white balloon representing Sara Alleman, Caroline Landry and Ava Bright each car- dren’s Rosary Club of St. Joseph the Worker Church in an Our Father, said although he knew his prayers already, ried their own rosaries. Alleman, 9, said she enjoys praying Pierre Part. he wanted to learn more about the rosary and he liked doing the rosary on the Virgin Island, which was dedicated to the The club teaches children how to say the rosary, to honor fun things like the balloon rosary. Blessed Mother in thanksgiving for protection from storms. the Blessed Mother and to have fun at the same time, said All eyes watched the sky as the club released the balloon Eight-year-old Landry said she likes praying the rosary Carolyn Breaux, the club’s founder. rosary that soared upward above Virgin Island where pa- with her friends and learning how to talk about Jesus. And “I like to say the rosary and I want to be in the club,” said rishioners awaited Mass in lawn chairs or boats that would Bright, 7, said praying the rosary with friends was special for Tyler who hasn’t missed a meeting since the club began this be blessed at the end of the day. her. “And she liked to pray to Jesus.” past summer. Breaux said she got the idea for a rosary club while on The celebration at St. Joseph the Worker church was only “I liked it when we put the pool noodles in the water,” he retreat about a year ago. “I felt I was being called to teach one of the many observances throughout the diocese during St. Mary of False River Church in New Roads hosted its annual America Needs Fatima public square More than two dozen people gathered to pray the rosary in Independence on Oct. 11. said referring to the September club meeting when the group children the rosary,” she said. So she called the director of this month dedicated to Mary’s Rosary and on the 97th an- rosary rally on Oct. 11. Praying the rosary together are Lea Duvall, center, and her children, from The group also sang, and prayed a variety of prayers to honor Mary. Photo by Richard Meek | The made a rosary of “noodles,” a flexible foam pool toy. The religious education at St. Joseph who gave her the nod for niversary of the Blessed Mother’s appearance to the children left, Emma, 8, Lydia, 2, Isaac, 4, and Aiden, 12. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The Catholic Commentator Catholic Commentator group launched its rosary from Virgin Island and watched it formation of a club. of Fatima. 14 The Catholic Commentator October 17, 2014 SUICIDE  From page 1 through when a loved one takes their life. Believing that teens give some indication to “He had his rosary, candles and confirmation their peers that they are going to commit suicide, book,” noted Carmena. She said his writings dis- Carmena also urges her young audiences to let played a soul who loved God. someone know, because they can save a life. “Even the things he wrote (for confirmation) “Teenagers don’t want to break that friend- were not typical of a 14-year-old,” Carmena said. ship,” Carmena said. “But the other person might That’s why she grappled with what her son still be alive if they let someone else know (so was alluding to when he wrote, “I just can’t take they can get help).” it anymore.” She also stresses to her young audiences that In looking back, Carmena thinks the prescrip- when a person tells them they are going to kill tion medication he began taking for attention themselves, they should not think, “They’re not deficit disorder about three weeks before he took that bad. Everything is okay.” She said teens of- his life contributed to his death. Many health ten don’t understand how deep depression can care officials and suicide prevention experts have go. urged parents to watch their children for signs of Teenagers also act on impulse, according suicide when taking certain prescription medica- to Carmena. She explained that teens who are tions. about to take their lives convey, “At this moment, In her anguish, Carmena turned to the Ba- I can’t take it anymore.” FILLING TREVOR’S WISH – St. Thomas More School in Baton Rouge ton Rouge Crisis Center. “I wouldn’t have made “If someone says, ‘I’m going to take my life,’ it hosted a food drive for the Baton Rouge Food Bank to collect canned it without God and becoming involved with the may be serious. It (telling someone) could save a goods in honor of Trevor’s Wish. Trevor Sims, whose wish before he Baton Rouge Crisis Center,” Carmena said. life. Don’t think that they won’t,” Carmena said. died in 2013 was that people would donate food to the food bank, in- “When a child is gone, it’s overwhelming. Making good out of a bad situation, Carmena spired the program. Teachers and students developed creative ways to There’s no comparison. You can’t figure it out, is a light for those who have lost loved ones. “Your increase donations. Fourth-grade teacher Ashley Llaneza promised her you can’t make sense of it,” she added. life will never be the same, but it will get better,” class that if every student brought in cans, she would let them spray her The Baton Rouge Crisis Center helped Car- Carmena said. hair different colors for the Oct. 23 Mission Day. The eighth-grade stu- mena to move forward by giving her a mission to She also encourages youth who are thinking dents challenged the seventh-grade class to see who could collect the prevent other teens from taking their lives. about suicide to get help. most cans. Students and faculty collected 15 barrels of food, approxi- She talks to people who come into the crisis And mostly, she is determined to break the mately 1800 pounds. Mike Manning with the Baton Rouge Food Bank, center and has spoken to groups, such as the St. dark hold that suicide has on so many young left, congratulates STM representatives and eighth-graders, from left, Alphonsus Youth Group and Central High School people. Hunter Doiron, James Brock, Tytan Henley, Cole Taylor and Grant Alum- students, about her son. She talks frankly about “We need to do something about this. I’m not baugh. Photo provided by St. Thomas More School what really happens to families and what they go going to keep my mouth shut,” Carmena said.

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Hope in Christ’s Have you found yourself somewhere with- struggle with “going into a zombie indicates resurrection empowers St. Paul to hope in out knowing how you arrived or why you through the motions” a death-in-life, namely our bodily resurrection as he proclaims, were there? For example, maybe you’ve and not being fully alive. spiritual death within a “Death is swallowed up in victory. Where, found yourself staring into the fridge There are many forms of physical life, then being O death, is your victory? Where, O death, without remembering how you got there death from slight deaths- the martyr signifies a is your sting?” (1 Cor 15: 54-55). In Christ, or for what you are looking. in-life such as boredom life-in-death, spiritual life man is fully alive, and the spiritual life we Symptom 2: Your body sometimes and mild anxiousness even in the face of physi- gain in Christ will be brought to comple- takes over contrary to your will. Perhaps to serious deaths-in-life cal death. The paradox tion in our own physical resurrection. you’ve decided to do some computer work, such as clinical depres- Sign of the Times is that the martyrs loved As Halloween, All Hallows’ Eve, ap- and hours later you realize you’ve only sion and despair. No one Seminarian Ryan Hallford life so much that they, if proaches don’t forget about the martyrs. managed to mindlessly surf the Internet wants to live this way, necessary, were willing After all there is a connection between and explore other peoples’ status updates and yet such fears also reveal a deeper to die for it. They would rather die than be the two since this is the eve of All Saint’s and photos. longing for life – for joy – which is the life unfaithful, because the spiritual death is Day. Among these saints we also honor Symptom 3: Your brain becomes of the soul. a far worse death. This is why Christianity all unknown martyrs whose love for life disconnected from your heart. Do the God weaves the theme of life and death continued to grow the more martyrs were did not deter them from death. Whereas important activities or even the relation- throughout Scripture, always offering killed. The martyrs had more joy, true Halloween will focus on creatures of ships in your life become a chore? Maybe a choice to his people to choose life and life, in the face of death than those who darkness and death, remember that God you even do all the right things at the right reject death. In the words of the prophet watched them being killed. has created you for light and to be fully times, but your heart is not engaged. Your Moses, “I have set before you life and “The glory of God is man fully alive” alive. Jesus says, “A thief comes only to life is on autopilot. death, the blessing and the curse. Choose (St. Irenaeus). God wants us alive in his steal and slaughter and destroy; I came so These symptoms may manifest in life, then, that you and your descendants love and free from all the forms of death- that they might have life and have it more various degrees throughout your life, but may live, by loving the Lord, your God, in-life (see Rom 6). Some have misunder- abundantly … I lay down my life in order they reveal a deadly possibility of decay- obeying his voice, and holding fast to him. stood this and mockingly called the resur- to take it back up again … I give them ing into a full-blown zombie. To avoid an For that will mean life for you” (Deut 30: rected Christ a Zombie. In fact, Zombies eternal life and they shall never perish” intensification of these symptoms pray 19-20). This is a choice every person must are the anti-resurrection symbolizing a (Jn 10:10, 17, 28). daily, seek healthy friendship, regularly make. 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his actions are fundamentally perverse parently happy suburban couple’s dark Motion Picture Association of America and impossible to cheer, let alone justify. secrets are revealed after the wife (Ro- MOVIE ratings: G – General audiences; all ages admitted Excessive gory violence, including stab- samund Pike) mysteriously disappears PG – Parental guidance suggested; some bings, gunplay, a near decapitation, tor- and all clues seem to suggest that her REVIEWS material may not be suitable for children ture and a strangling; numerous graphic husband (Ben Affleck) has murdered USCCB Office for Film & Broadcasting PG-13 – Parents are strongly cautioned images; frequent rough, crude and crass her. Fortunately for him, the lead in- classifications: to give special guidance for attendance language; and some profanity, sexual vestigator (Kim Dickens) on the case is A-I – General patronage of children under 13; some material may banter, and race baiting. O; R reluctant to jump to conclusions and his A-II – Adults and adolescents be inappropriate for young children twin sister (Carrie Coon) proves stead- A-III – Adults R – Restricted; under 17 requires accom- The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them fast in her support despite the mount- A-IV – Adults, with reservations panying parent or adult guardian Weinstein ing negative evidence. Director David L – Limited adult audience NC-17 – No one under 17 admitted O – Morally offensive This absorbing and provocative study Fincher’s adaptation of Gillian Flynn’s of grief and its destructive effects on a bestselling novel features some fine act- young married couple (Jessica Chastain ing, clever plot twists and telling jabs at and James McAvoy) has nothing to do the manipulative influence of the media. Annabelle knife violence and intense action se- with The Beatles’ 1966 hit single, apart But his film also showcases seedy sexual Warner Bros. quences. A-III; R from its borrowing of the title charac- behavior in an exploitative manner and This demon-possessed doll tale, a sort- ter’s name. The tragic death of their son becomes blood-soaked during a climac- of prequel to 2013’s “The Conjuring,” The Equalizer has driven the duo apart. After a failed tic scene that’s played for shock value. delivers a reliable series of horror-genre Columbia suicide bid, she retreats to the sanctu- Considerable violence with brief but jolts under the direction of John R. Le- Vigilante thriller about a retired intel- ary of her childhood home, still oc- extreme gore; strong sexual content, in- onetti from Gary Dauberman’s script. ligence operative (Denzel Washington) cupied by her quirky parents (Isabelle cluding graphic adulterous and aberrant A mother (Annabelle Wallis) in 1970 living quietly in Boston until a prosti- Huppert and William Hurt), while he sexual activity as well as upper female Southern California tries to protect her tute (Chloe Grace Moretz) he befriends is searches for her as well as for a way to and rear nudity; at least one use of pro- baby daughter from satanic forces who beaten by her handlers from the Russian save his failing business. Written and fanity; pervasive rough and much crude want the infant’s soul. Their principal mob, prompting him to go after their en- directed by Ned Benson, the film is one language. O; R tool is the devil-driven figurine of the tire criminal network. Director Antoine of three telling the same story from dif- title. Though Mom and Dad (Ward Hor- Fuqua (“Training Day”) puts a fairly ferent perspectives. What emerges here The Judge ton) get helpful aphorisms from a kindly artful sheen on the violence, and Wash- is a blend of grand romance and therapy Warner Bros. Catholic priest (Tony Amendola) it’s the ington makes the putative hero as com- session as husband and wife seek heal- Adequate but overextended drama in owner (Alfre Woodard) of a bookstore pelling as possible, but no matter how ing and a path back to their lost love. A which a hotshot Chicago lawyer (Robert specializing in the paranormal who intriguing and righteous this avenging suicide attempt, adulterous situations, Downey Jr.) struggles to defend his es- proves more vital to the machinations. character appears to be – and no mat- nongraphic sexual activity with brief tranged father (Robert Duvall) after or- Occult themes, two scenes of bloody ter how heinous the behavior he combats upper female nudity, some crude lan- nery dad, a respected small-town judge, guage. A-III; R is accused of causing a fatal hit-and-run accident. As the two butt heads, the Dracula Untold soon-to-be divorced attorney rekindles Universal his romance with his high-school sweet- The world’s most famous bloodsucker heart (Vera Farmiga) and revives his gets a makeover in director Gary Shore’s relationship with his brothers (Vincent awkward attempt at revisionist horror D’Onofrio and Jeremy Strong). A seamy history, set in the 15th century. After re- subplot, dealt with in an inappropriately fusing to hand his young son (Art Parkin- offhand manner, mars director David son) over as a hostage to the cruel Sultan Dobkin’s otherwise mostly warmhearted of Turkey (Dominic Cooper), the former- film and calls for mature discretion on ly savage but now peace-loving Prince of the part of viewers. Nongraphic casual Wallachia (Luke Evans) is facing certain sexual activity involving unintentional defeat by his Ottoman enemies. So he incest, some scatological humor and im- turns for help to a cave-dwelling vam- ages, about a dozen uses of profanity, pire, hoping to share in the outcast’s su- considerable rough and crude language. perhuman strength. The terms of their L; R deal give the ruler the powers he needs temporarily. But, while they last, he will Left Behind have to resist the desperate urge to drink Freestyle human blood or become undead eter- A journalist (Chad Michael Murray), nally. Ambiguities aplenty shade this of- a pilot (Nicolas Cage) and the flyer’s ten ponderous story of a man driven to daughter (Cassi Thomson) struggle to use evil means to accomplish the good cope with the disastrous results when ends of protecting his family – Sarah millions of people spontaneously disap- Gadon plays his beloved wife – and his pear in “The Rapture,” an event some country. And the film’s treatment of reli- believe will precede the second coming gion is equally hard to pin down, raising of Christ. Catholic viewers will likely red flags for parents despite the script’s feel left out by director Vic Armstrong’s laudable freedom from vulgarity and the screen version of the first in a series of mostly bloodless nature of the numerous novels by Tim LaHaye and Jerry B. Jen- battle scenes. Pervasive combat violence kins since the underlying interpretation with occasional gore, some gruesome of the Apocalypse on which the film is images, brief nongraphic marital love- based is at odds with church teaching on making. A-III; PG-13 the subject. Given the tedious nature of this low-rent drama, though, they won’t Gone Girl be missing much. Themes requiring a Fox solid grounding in faith, pervasive may- A jaundiced view of marriage perme- hem with brief gore, drug use, a single ates this abrasive drama in which an ap- crude term. A-III; PG-13 October 17, 2014 ENTERTAINMENT The Catholic Commentator 17

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And it’s been a long time of this ‘Cause it’s been a long time of this 343 353 3367 Something’s got to give Something’s got to give 83 93 04 Refrain: (Repeat refrain.) 421 4 34 Everyone here is ready to go It’s been a hard year with nothing to show Nothing gives easy 44 54 64 From down this road Easy gives nothing It’s only on we go, on we go I’m just trying to keep income coming in 74 498 4 Everyone here is ready to go Dawn is bound to break 510 525 35 554 565 It’s been a hard year and I only know When the night is done From down this low Always darker days before brighter ones 75 598 5 06 It’s only up we go, up we go 16 26 36 (Repeat refrain.) 46 56 66 Sung by Lights | Copyright 2014 by Universal, Warner Records moc.scilohtacrofsemagdrow.www

ACROSS 3 Confused hand-to-hand fight Planning the way toward life’s most challenging goals 1 Doctrines 4 Pen 5 Father of Gideon 5 Patron saint of workers 10 Hawaiian dance ights Bokan, a Canadian Consider how the mistakes made 6 Eight singers 14 Worms meeting that denounced 7 Preparatory sch. indie artist, has had quite in past relationships can be avoided Luther 8 Big ___, California 15 Happen a career, and she’s only 27. in the future. If helpful, work with 16 Suffix with décor 9 Med. Christian empire L 10 Egyptian handmaiden She has lived all over the world, a professional guide to see how new 17 Solely 18 Gaze fixedly 11 State in which the Diocese of legally changed her name to behaviors or attitudes can lead you to 19 Festive occasion Salt Lake City is found “Lights” (a play on her maiden more successful relationships. What- 20 Vane reading 12 “Damn Yankees” vamp 21 “…that I have sinned exceed- 13 Middle easterner name Poxleitner) and received ever your goal, form a plan filled with ingly in thought, word and ___.” 21 Group of two numerous honors, including Ca- specific steps. 22 She tied a scarlet cord in her 22 Wife of a rajah window nadian “Pop Album of the Year.” Keep nurturing yourself with a 24 God’s life in us 23 Joseph was sold into slavery here 25 ___ Meal In her current hit, “Up We Go,” vision of those opportunities that 25 A place to worship from? 28 Encouraging word 26 Lies Lights’ full-of-energy, upbeat uplift your spirit, even if they are not 29 Not fer 27 Overhead sound gives this single a rising what you were originally looking for. 30 D.C. lobbying group 29 Road to the altar? 33 This becomes the Body of 30 There were 3 popes with this sense of hope. For example, if you really wanted Christ at the consecration name in the 20th century Her song encourages us to to be a physician but continued to 36 Obligation 31 “A dillar, a dollar, ___ o’clock 38 Ear-related scholar” start rebuilding our lives, even if On The Record face rejection letters from medical 39 Breathes convulsively 32 Tombs we’re in a low place. In the words schools, consider alternative ways 40 Colors 34 Suggestions from AAA 41 Title in the canonization process 35 “___ Kleine Nacht Musik” of the song’s character, “it’s been Charlie Martin to achieve your goal to serve others 43 Contraction a hard year, and I only know through medicine. Investigate other 44 Vane reading 36 “Come to me, all who ___ and 45 Musical instrument are heavy laden” (Mt 11:28) from down this low, it’s only up programs, even if they won’t turn you 46 “…be ___ and your no…” (Jas 37 Capital of Tibet we go, up we go.” into a doctor. 5:12) 39 Yaks 47 Former “evil empire” 42 Sub ___ She is right. We can only establish a new begin- Don’t settle for believing that there is no path to 48 Italian archdiocese with the 43 Paradise Lost? ning right from where we are, no matter what the your goal. Be creative. Ambrosian rite 46 Cedes 50 Mea ___ situation. If you are ready to start again in a new Also, gather allies. Few of us achieve much in 47 The ___ Room, where the dis- 53 Woman in the Book of Judges ciples experienced the Holy Spirit direction, consider making some hard but neces- life without the support of others. Reach out to who killed Sisera 48 The Diocese of Portland is here 54 ___ Saints’ Day sary changes. those who can share your positive vision. Avoid 57 Rattletrap 49 Mother-in-law of Ruth First, close the door. Often, to start in a new naysayers, but if someone with creative and caring 58 Online letters 50 Cook 60 ___ de vivre 51 River in Africa direction, it is necessary to move beyond previous criticism believes that you have overlooked some 61 Femme’s pronoun 52 Refrain syllables situations. It may be painful to give up on what you gaps, listen attentively. Such individuals are not 62 Whet 53 The apostles were put herefor 63 Last word preaching about Jesus hoped to achieve, but if the time has passed, or you being negative, just perceptive. Fill your life with 64 “I ___ no evil for thou art with 55 Breaks the eighth command- have run out of options, let go. Trust that something belief, including with individuals who believe in me” (Ps 23:4) ment 65 Patron saint of hermits new and even better awaits you. you. 56 Liturgical season 66 Essential point 58 Ovum Also, learn to prepare. Little is gained in life Look for God’s purpose for your life. Each of us DOWN 59 High-tech hosp. test by repeating the past and expecting a different comes into this world with purpose for what we can 1 Marriage vows 60 Sharp projection outcome. Mistakes are just that, but they are also give to others. Following such a purpose leads to 2 Evil deeds Solution page 20 teachers. Observe carefully what went wrong in lasting satisfaction and meaning. Even when you’re your past efforts. Let go of any self-judgment or feeling really low, there is a way up. criticism about what occurred and have faith that Failure, disappointment and loss do not erode you have learned from the past. With more prepara- God’s purpose. Start from where you are, ask God Tree Service tion and insight, you are ready to start again in a to show you the way, and be ready to “up we go.” Mr. D’s new direction. ovEr 35 yEars ExpErIEncE Put your preparation into a specific plan. 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Write to: • Economical failed relationship, but the dream of enduring love [email protected]; or 7125 West CR 200 South, • Fully Insured • Quality Work still inspires you, then open yourself to how to meet Rockport, IN 47635; or like this column on Face- CALL TODAY! new people, not necessarily for romance, but just to book at “Charlie Martin’s Today’s Music Columns” 225-292-6756 form new caring connections. and post a suggestion or comment. 18 The Catholic Commentator VIEWPOINT October 17, 2014 How much can Jack Ma reteach America about virtues? month ago in the Sept. 24 edition capitalism is the As Gerson put it, “Absent a moral of The Advocate political pundit most powerful commitment to human dignity, ACal Thomas praised Alibaba, force of moder- justice and compassion, capital- the world’s largest Internet commerce nity, with a mixed ism is conducive to materialism, company, and Jack Ma, its Chinese influence on individualism and selfishness. founder, for theirinitial public offering traditional ideals It is a system that depends on on the New York Stock Exchange which and institutions. It virtues it does not create.” established its value at $168 billion. has taken hun- That last sentence of Gerson’s From The Bishop Thomas quoted some of Ma’s sayings or dreds of millions is remarkably insightful, and principles: “What is failure: Giving up is out of poverty; it it reminds us of the necessary Bishop Robert W. Muench the greatest failure.” “What your duties also has encour- grace of Christianity and the are: To be more diligent, hardworking aged individual- virtues it promotes. Our faith and ambitious than others.” In contrast ism and loosened in a God who has a special love Equality for all to such principles that he claims made bonds of family and care for the poor and for (Bishop Muench’s homily from the Re- sense to an older generation of Ameri- and community. Another the common man who lacks any spect Life Mass celebrated Oct. 12 at Sacred cans, Thomas says that we are now It has produced special power or resources to Heart Church in Baton Rouge) punishing “the fruits of hard work and innovation and fall back on when thrown out of ambition with higher taxes and regula- extended lives. Perspective work, places a responsibility on llow me to rhetorically challenge you tion, forcing many businesses to seek In the absence Father John Carville the rest of us to respond with to identify a sentence that has been relief by moving overseas.” of certain social compassion and help. I think it Aacclaimed by one historian as “one I cannot make any claim to exper- conditions – the was John Kennedy who said that of the best-known sentences in the Eng- tise in finance, but following the last rule of law, equal opportunity, effective “on earth God’s work is done by man.” lish language” and by another as “the most market crash and the beginning of the public administration – capitalism can The words may not be exact, but the potent and consequential words in American great recession, weren’t the political and result in caste-like inequality.” virtues they demand come from our history.” I refer to the second sentence of a financial commentators blaming the fi- “The pope,” Gerson says, “is hardly faith and Jesus’ example. The majority document adopted on July 4, 1776 by the 56 nancial debacle and near collapse of our a neo-Marxist. He talks of business as of Americans are still Christian and delegates of the Continental Congress which entire market on excessive deregulation ‘a noble vocation.’ He rejects a ‘welfare should still recognize that obligation of declared the 13 American colonies, at war of banking and investment companies? mentality,’ but he argues that market compassion regardless of the political with Great Britain, as newly independent There must be a happy medium some- outcomes are not always identical to strategies they favor for meeting it, sovereign states. Commonly termed “The where with regard to regulation, and the social justice and calls for public ‘in- democrat or republican. Declaration of Independence,” this state- same is true of the limits of ambition vestment in efforts to help the slow, the For Christians who look to the Bible ment, drafted by Thomas Jefferson, famously and of individual financial power. weak or the less talented to find oppor- for instruction on virtue, and especially asserted: “We hold these truths to be self- The Advocate does, at times, strike a tunities in life.’ ” This is the option for for Catholics because of our tradition, evident, that all men are created equal, that nice balance in presenting the views of the poor and neglected that all popes God’s intention was best expressed by they are endowed by the creator with certain various political and financial com- since St. John XXIII and Vatican II Jesus’ mother, our greatest saint: “He unalienable rights, that among these are life, mentators. Some months ago I clipped have called for. This is the biblical kind has scattered the proud in the imagina- liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” This a piece from The Advocate by Michael of justice that stresses compassion and tion of their hearts. He has put down work is an undeniably certified document of Gerson entitled, “Pope’s take on capital- mercy for those who need it most. the mighty from their seats, and exalted history. But it is more than just history. It ism strikes a chord.” He was referring I doubt if Pope Francis was target- those of low degree. He has filled the provides an indisputable, unapologetic, and to Pope Francis’ apostolic exhortation, ing American economic problems hungry with good things; and the rich defining testimony of what our founding “The Joy of the Gospel,” in which Pope specifically. The capitalism he experi- he has sent away empty” (Lk 1: 51-53, fathers considered the fundamental basis of Francis criticized “a deified market,” enced as the highest ranking Catholic Gerson’s closing also). their view of themselves and all humanity and “a crude and naïve trust in the Church official in Argentina certainly – in origin, dignity, purpose and destiny. If goodness of those wielding economic had more than its share of economic FATHER CARVILLE is a retired priest of the only members of our contemporary society, power.” Gerson states his own position crisis. But his warning that individual- Diocese of Baton Rouge. He writes both inside and outside our country, would in this rather balanced way: “Defend- ism can blind us to the real needs of on current topics for The Catholic fully adhere to and apply these profound ers of market economics, and I count the poor seems to fit the positions of Commentator and can be reached at truths to life. myself one, should recognize global some extreme American libertarians. [email protected]. As we celebrate Respect Life Sunday 2014, I invite us to reflect upon and re-commit | ourselves to the meaning and value of human PRAY FOR THOSE WHO PRAY FOR US life. The English word ‘“respect” is derived Please pray for the priests, deacons and religious women and men in the Baton Rouge Diocese. from two Latin words, the prefix “re,” which means “back” or “again” and “spectere,” Oct. 21 Rev. Vincent J. Dufresne Oct. 26 Rev. Denis O. Edwugha Oct. 31 Rev. Leo Guillot which means “to look at.” The word “respect” Dcn. Eliazar Salinas Jr. Dcn. Rudolph W. Stahl Dcn. J. Peter Walsh thus has the basic meaning of looking back Br. James Burns SC Sr. Martha Ann Abshire OSF Br. Henry Gaither SC upon or looking at again. Another way of con- Oct. 22 Rev. Thomas P. Duhé Oct. 27 Rev. Michael A. Galea Nov. 1 Rev. Eric V. Gyan veying its meaning is “not to take for granted” Dcn. Mario (Sam) Sammartino Dcn. Michael F. Thompson Dcn. James E. Wax or to “consider again.” God mandates us to Sr. Doris Vigneaux CSJ Br. Alan Drain SC Sr. Kathleen Babin CSJ respect all human life. Oct. 23 Rev. Matthew C. Dupré Oct. 28 Rev. Henry W. Gautreau Jr. Nov. 2 Rev. Patrick Healy SSJ We are familiar with the song: “Let There Dcn. Milton J. Schanzbach Dcn. J. Thomas Traylor Dcn. P. Chauvin Wilkinson Jr. be Peace on Earth,” which continues: “and let Br. Eldon Crifasi SC Sr. Mary Alokesh MC Br. Harold Harris SC it begin with me.” We could say (or sing): “Let Oct. 24 Rev. Philip V. Eapen CMI Oct. 29 Rev. William L. Greene Nov. 3 Rev. Ray Hebert SC there be respect for life, and let it begin with Dcn. Peter Schlette Dcn. John W. Veron Dcn. Henry J. Zeringue me.” By that I mean, self-respect, honoring Sr. Adelaide Williamson CSJ Br. Clement Furno CSsR Sr. Sandra Blanchard CSJ our own unique and precious life, made by Oct. 25 Rev. Ayo Emmanuel Efodigbue MSP Oct. 30 Rev. Paul A. Gros and in the very image of God himself. In his Dcn. Joseph M. Scimeca Dcn. Doanh Van Vu ICM SEE BISHOP PAGE 19 Br. Ramon Daunis SC Sr. Barbara Arceneaux OSF October 17, 2014 VIEWPOINT The Catholic Commentator 19 Sacred permission to be human and the tools to handle frustration

ometimes certain texts in the Bible To give a simple example: A friend of view this as morbid, as somehow denigrating both the make you wonder: Is this really the mine shares this story: Recently he was beauty and joy of life and the perspective that faith is Sword of God? Why is this text in in church with his family, which included meant to give us. But there’s a hidden richness in that Scripture? What’s the lesson here? his seven-year-old son, Michael, and his prayer. In praying in that way, they gave themselves sa- For example, we have verses in the own mother, Michael’s grandmother. cred permission to accept the limits of their lives. That Psalms, in passages that we pray liturgi- At one point, Michael, seated beside his prayer carries the symbolic tools to handle frustration; cally, where we ask God to bash the grandmother, whispered aloud: “I’m so something, I submit, we have failed to sufficiently give heads of the children of our enemies bored!” His grandmother pinched him to our own children. Too many young people today against a rock. How does that invite us and chided him: “You are not bored!” as have never been given the symbolic tools to handle to love our enemies? We see passages in if the sacred ambience of church and an frustration, nor sacred permission to feel what they are the Book of Job where Job is in despair authoritative command could change feeling. Sometimes, all good intentions aside, we have and curses not on only the day he was human nature. They can’t. When we’re handed our children more of Walt Disney than Gospel. born but the very fact that anyone was bored, we’re bored! And sometimes we In the Book of Lamentations we find a passage that born. It’s impossible to find even a need to be given divine permission to while sounding negative on the surface, is paradoxi- trace of anything positive in his lament. In Exile feel what we’re spontaneously feeling. cally, in the face of death and tragedy, perhaps the Similarly, in a rather famous text, we Some years ago, for all the noblest of most consoling text of all. The text simply states that, hear Qoheleth affirm that everything in Father Ron Rolheiser intentions, a religious community I know sometimes in life, all we can do is put our mouths to our lives and in the life of this world is wanted to sanitize the Psalms that they the dust and wait! simple vanity, wind, vapor, of no substance and of no pray regularly in the Divine Office to rid them of all That’s sound advice, spoken from the mouth of consequence. What’s the lesson here? Then, in the Gos- elements of anger, violence, vengeance and war. They experience and the mouth of faith. pels, we have passages where the apostles, discouraged had some of their own Scripture scholars do the work The poet, Rainer Marie Rilke, once wrote these by opposition to their message, ask Jesus to call down so that it would be scholarly and serious. They suc- words to a friend who, in the face of the death of a fire and destroy the very people to whom they are sup- ceeded in that, the product was scholarly and serious, loved one, wondered how or where he could ever find posed to minister. Hardly an exemplar for ministry! but stripped of all motifs of violence, vengeance, anger consolation. What do I do with all this grief? Rilke’s Why are these texts in the Bible? Because they give and war, what resulted was something that looked reply: “Do not be afraid to suffer; give that heaviness us sacred permission to feel the way we feel some- more like a Hallmark Card than a series of prayers that back to the weight of the earth; mountains are heavy, times, and they give us sacred tools to help us deal express real life and real feelings. We don’t always feel seas are heavy.” They are, so, too is life sometimes with the shortcomings and frustrations of our lives. upbeat, generous and faith-filled. Sometimes we feel and we need to be given God’s permission to feel that They are, in fact, both very important and very consol- angry, bitter and vengeful. We need to be given sacred heaviness. ing texts because, to put it metaphorically, they give us permission to feel that way (though not to act that way) a large enough keyboard to play all the songs that we and to pray in honesty out of that space. OBLATE FATHER ROLHEISER, theologian, teacher and award- need to play in our lives. They give us the laments and My parents, and for the most part their whole gener- winning author, is president of the Oblate School of the prayers we need to utter sometimes in the face of ation, would, daily, in their prayers, utter these words: Theology in San Antonio, TX. He can be contacted our human condition, with its many frustrations, and To you do we send up our sighs, mourning and weep- through his website at ronrolheiser.com and on Face- in the face of death, tragedy and depression. ing in this valley of tears. Our own generation tends to book at facebook.com/ronrolheiser

BISHOP  last year, in the State of Louisiana, almost From page 18 10,000 abortions were reported, 25 per- cent of mothers in their 30’s, 60 percent words: “Rejoice with those who rejoice; of mothers in their 20’s, and 10 percent of weep with those who weep” (Rom 12:15), mothers 19 years or younger. For any who St. Paul goes further, compelling us to might be considering an abortion, there be empathic with others, especially the are diocesan and parish resources to help dispirited and depressed. It grieves me you positively deal with your pregnancy. to see the number of people today, both For any who have previously had an abor- young and not so young, who consider tion, there are also resources to assist you their lives meaningless and useless to the deal with your loss. The church instructs: point of seriously contemplating self- “Human life must be respected and Deacon Reuben Dykes, Bishop Robert W. Muench and Father Miles Walsh celebrate a Re- destruction. To any so tempted, I urge protected absolutely from the moment spect Life Mass at Sacred Heart Church in Baton Rouge on Oct. 12. Photo by Debbie Shelley | The and pray for you to trust in the God who of conception. From the first moment of Catholic Commentator made you to determine the time of your existence, a human being must be recog- designated call to eternal life. Never give nized with the as having the rights of a years ago, I happily followed the tradition not know at all; and to follow the univer- up on God who will never give up on you. person – among which is the inviolable at least as far back as Bishop Ott to visit sal mandate of Jesus: “Love one another Any who interact with those so burdened, right of every innocent being to life.” Angola Prison at least once a year, which as I love you” (John 15:12). Love means to please be a special friend, support and I now address the matter of capital in the least 6 or so years I have increased accept, respect, serve, and, if needed, for- resource to guide those to receive proper punishment. Last year in the United to three or four times a year. We must be give. God directed the ancient Israelites help. Let us not allow our modern “throw States 39 prisoners were executed. As mindful of the words of Jesus: “I was in and directs us: “I have set before you life away” society confuse “humans” with of the end of 2012, over 3,000 prisoners prison and you visited me” (Mt. 25 35-36). and death, a blessing and a curse. Choose one-time use “paper towels and plastic were under the sentence of death, 85 of Our beloved Pope Francis instructs life” (Deut. 30:19). Let us untiringly and bottles.” The church boldly proclaims: which reside at Angola Prison. Since 1973, us: “All life has inestimable value. Even unreservedly respect, commit ourselves “Everyone is responsible for his own life more than 115 death-row inmates in the the weakest and most vulnerable, the sick to, pray for, study about, witness to, sup- before God who has given it to him. It is United States have been exonerated, at the old, unborn and the poor are mas- port, advocate and work for all human God who remains the sovereign Master of least two of which (if memory correctly terpieces of God’s creation, made in his life, from the moment of conception to life. We are obliged to accept life grate- serves me) were at Angola. Today more own image, destined to live forever, and natural death. Let us always be guided by fully and preserve it for his honor and the than half of all Catholics do not sup- deserving of the utmost reverence and the compelling words of God as recorded salvation of souls. We are stewards, not port the death penalty, a percentage that respect.”6 in the Book of Isaiah: “For the Lord, who owners, of the life God has entrusted to continues to grow. None of us should On this Respect Life Sunday, we are formed me as his servant from the womb, us. It is not ours to dispose of.” minimize the harm and pain inflicted called to “give another look” and consider has spoken : ‘Upon the palms of my hands Let me speak about the tragedy of by anyone who has willfully taken the all humans, those we know directly, those I carved you, and I love you’ ” (Is 43,4; abortion. Initial statistics indicate that life of another. Coming to the diocese 12 we know only indirectly and those we do 49,5,16). 20 The Catholic Commentator COMING EVENTS October 17, 2014

St. Louis King of France Festival – St. Louis King age filled with prayer, fun and fellowship. . For informa- Photo Fund Raiser – The youth group at St. Alphon- of France Church, 2121 N. Sherwood Forest Dr., Baton tion and to register, contact your local youth minister, or sus Church, 14040 Greenwell Springs Road, Greenwell Rouge, will host its fall festival Friday, Oct. 24 – Sun- call 225-336-8751. Springs, will raise funds for events, ministries and mis- day, Oct. 26. Festival times will be Friday, 6-10 p.m., Sat- sion trips by selling sets of greeting cards the group com- urday, noon – 9 p.m., and Sunday, 10:30 a.m. – 3 p.m. Religious Emblems Counselor Training – The piled after the Masses on Saturday, Oct. 25, and Sunday, There will be rides, food, games, entertainment and raf- Catholic Committee on Scouting will train religious Oct. 26. The cards feature pictures of the church and spe- fles. For information, call 225-275-7280. emblems counselors Sunday, Oct. 26, 1 – 5 p.m., at the cial events taken throughout the year. The sets will be Our Lady of Mercy Parish Activity Center, 444 Mar- sold for $8 each. Cards can also be purchased from the World Youth Day – The Diocese of Baton Rouge quette Ave., Baton Rouge. On the same day, CCOS is Office of Formation during the week. For information, Youth Office will present World Youth Day, “Be Still and hosting the joyful mysteries series from 1:30 – 3:30 p.m. call 225-261-4644. Listen,” Sunday, Oct. 26, 1 – 6 p.m., at St. George Church, for all scouts and their families. For information, email 7808 St. George Dr., Baton Rouge. The event is a pilgrim- [email protected]. SEE EVENTS PAGE 21

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FEAR GILES GIST moc.scilohtacrofsemagdrow.www October 17, 2014 The Catholic Commentator 21 Vatican official urges rethinking of policies toward migrant families GENEVA – (CNS) Migrant tions meeting. masi, the Vatican’s permanent able and hence should receive in a world built around economic families whose members are of- Children in families in which representative to U.N. agencies special protection,” he told the growth. Migrants deserve great ten separated pose unique chal- one or both parents migrate long in Geneva, said Oct. 8 during the delegates. respect because of the service lenges as globalization sweeps distances for employment as well 2014 International Dialogue on He called for transnational and positive economic and social the world and deserve special as the elderly and spouses left Migration of the International efforts that cross international contribution they offer in their consideration so that family at home must become a “high Organization for Migration. borders so that the needs of mi- host countries, the archbishop unity remains a priority, a Vati- priority in any migration policy “They are particularly vulner- grant workers are not forgotten added. can official told a United - Na debate,” Archbishop Silvano To- Diocese of Baton Rouge MaRRiage anD faMily life office EVENTS  Respect life anD Baton Rouge Right to life From page 20 LOUISIANA PRO-LIFE ORATORY CONTEST Feast on the Levee – St. John the Baptist Church, 402 S. Kirk- Local Coordinator: Danielle Van Haute, Respect Life Coordinator, Diocese of Baton Rouge land Dr. (River Road), Brusly, will hold its 34th annual Feast on the Levee, Sunday, Oct. 26. The event kicks off with a 5K race at 8 a.m. Sunday, November 16, 2014 Breakfast will also be served at 8 a.m. There will be live music, food, 1:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. kids games, a sweet shop, raffles, silent auction, cake auction and Catholic Life Center, Tracy Center, Room 206 bingo. For information, call 225-749-2189. 1800 S. Acadian Thruway, Baton Rouge, LA 70808 St. Jean Vianney Mission – Father Doug Doussan, pastor of St. TOPICS: The Tragedy of Abortion, The Tragedy of Euthanasia, The Tragedy of Infanticide, Gabriel Church in New Orleans, will present a mission, “To Know the The Tragedy of Embryonic Stem Cell Research Love of God,” Monday, Oct. 27 – Tuesday, Oct. 28, 7 – 8:30 p.m., at WHAT: 5 – 7 minute speech (does not have to be memorized) St. Jean Vianney Church, 16166 S. Harrell’s Ferry Road, Baton Rouge. Notes or index cards may be used. No props allowed. On Monday, attendees will explore the implications of God’s love for WHO: High school juniors and seniors them and the possibilities of experiencing that love in a personal way. Complete registration form below and return to address noted. On Tuesday they will look at how they can respond to God’s love in prayer, discerning God’s will and fulfilling the call to be Christ’s dis- JUDGING CRITERIA: ciples. For information, call 225-752-5356. Contest standards (2/3); (Panel of three judges) † Clear thesis and sense of direction in the speech † Logical, clear organization of the Stephen Ministry Training – A Stephen Ministry training, c0- speech † Good word usage sponsored by St. Aloysius and St. Luke Episcopal churches, will be Delivery standards (1/3) held Saturday, Nov. 1, 9 a.m. – 1 p.m., at St. Luke, 8833 Goodwood † General sense of confidence † Eye contact and fluent delivery Blvd., Baton Rouge. Stephen Ministry provides training for lay peo- LOCAL CONTEST: November 16, 2014, 1:00 p.m., Tracy Center, Room 206 ple for one-on-one ministry to hurting people. Cost of the workshop First Place: $200, plus FULL registration paid to attend March for Life Trip, January 2015 is $15 per person, or $50 for a group of four or more from the same Second Place: $100, plus half price paid to attend March for Life Trip in January 2015 congregation. For information and to register, call 314-428-2600, or STATE FINALS: (Location to be announced) First Place: $500, plus up to $1,000 for visit stephenministry.org/workshop. expenses to participate in National Competition; Second Place: $250 NATIONAL FINALS: National Right to Life Convention (Location to be announced) Hunger Walk – Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Baton Rouge First Place: $1000; Second Place: $750; Third Place: $500; Fourth Place: $250 will host its annual Hunger Walk on Sunday, Nov. 2, at the Catholic Life Center, 1800 S. Acadian Thwy., Baton Rouge. Registration be- Suggestions: •Research and understand your subject; your speech will reflect your efforts.•Believe gins at 1:30 p.m., and there will be a kickoff rally at 2:15 p.m. The in what you are saying; speak with enthusiasm, but maintain your poise.•Be creative; the judges proceeds from the walk will go toward hunger and poverty relief are interested in hearing YOUR point of view. •Practice your speech in front of others, and invite through Catholic Charities, the Greater Baton Rouge Food Bank and constructive criticism in order to perfect your content and delivery. •Keep in mind the judging criteria when practicing and giving your speech. •Dress appropriately (dress shirt & slacks for men; dress the Holy Grill. The 2-mile route starts at the Catholic Life Center slacks or dress for women). and continues to Catholic High School and back. For information, call Katie Richard at Catholic Charities, 225-336-8700, ext. 404, or cut here and use form below email [email protected]. PRO-LIFE ORATORY CONTEST DIOCESE OF BATON ROUGE ENTRY FORM Bereavement Mass – The grief and bereavement committee of Student’s Name______Age ______Grade_____ Our Lady of Peace Church, 13281 Hwy. 644, Vacherie, will hold its Must be High School Junior or Senior annual bereavement Mass on Tuesday, Nov. 4, 6:30 p.m., at Our Lady of Peace. All members of the families of recently deceased loved ones Address/City/State/Zip______whose funeral services were held at Our Lady of Peace are asked to submit a 5 x 7 photo of their loved one for a memorial display. The ______display will be in the church for All Saints Day and will remain until after the bereavement Mass. For information, call 225-265-3953. Phone: (w/Area Code) ______Cell ______

OLOL College Luncheon – The annual Our Lady of the Lake School ______Email______College luncheon is scheduled Saturday, Nov. 1, at Boudreaux’s Res- School’s Address/City/State/Zip______taurant, 2647 Government St., Baton Rouge. Registration and indi- vidual class reunions begin at 10:30 a.m. The lunch and program be- Speech Topic______gin at noon. Purchase tickets at ololcollege.edu. For information, call 225-490-1637 or email [email protected]. Student’s Signature______

Come and See Weekend – Men ages 16 and older who are con- Parent’s Signature______sidering a priestly vocation and want to learn more are invited to a free “Come and See” weekend at St. Joseph Seminary College in Completed registration form must be returned by FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 7, 2014, to: Covington, Friday, Nov. 7 – Sunday, Nov. 9. Please register at least Danielle Van Haute, Office of Marriage & Family Life, Diocese of Baton Rouge, P.O. Box 2028, one week in advance. For information and registration, call 225-336- Baton Rouge, LA 70821-2028 8778 or email [email protected]. 22 The Catholic Commentator October 17, 2014 Catholic High selected Blue Ribbon School As Catholic High School merely our own school commu- marks its 121st year, it is also cel- nity, but the greater Baton Rouge ebrating the fact that it has been community as well. From our selected a National Blue Ribbon Habitat build to our Hamburger School for the fifth time. Supper for the Boys’ and Girls’ Secretary of Education Arne Clubs, and then to our work Duncan announced that Catho- with ICare to address the con- lic High School received the hon- cerns of substance abuse within or on Sept. 29. The U.S. Depart- our specific community, those ment of Education instituted the activities are just a few of the No Child Left Behind Blue Rib- ways we demonstrate our Gospel bon School Program in 1982. values,” said Maranda Howell, The National Blue Ribbon CHS Librarian. “As I was helping Schools Program honors public compile this information for the and private elementary, middle At the announcement of Catholic High School’s naming as a National Blue Ribbon School are, from left, report, I could not help but be and high schools where students Bishop Robert Muench, assistant principal for discipline Brian Hightower, CHS academic assistant principal humbled and reminded of what either achieve high learning Tom Eldringhoff, president Gene Tullier, principal Lisa Harvey, assistant principal for instruction and tech- a great privilege it is to be a part standards or are making nota- nology Jared Cavalier and superintendent of schools for the Diocese of Baton Rouge, Dr. Melanie Verges. of this institution.” ble improvements in closing the Photo provided by Catholic High School “This is an exciting day for achievement gap. The award af- Catholic High, as the hard work firms the hard work of students, nities in creating safe and wel- master challenging content. Ribbon distinction, Catholic and dedication of our faculty, educators, families and commu- coming schools where students In order to be receive the Blue High School met either of one of staff and students is recognized two criteria. The schools must through the national award,” either be recognized as “Exem- said CHS principal Lisa Har- plary Achievement Gap Closing vey. “I am proud that we are be- Diocese of Baton Rouge Schools,” or “Exemplary High ing recognized not only for the Performing Schools,” or schools excellent work that takes place that score in the top 15 percent in our classrooms, but for the High School Open Houses on state and national assess- entire educational experience ments. Catholic High School is that Catholic High offers to our Information: www.csobr.org recognized as an “Exemplary students. This holistic approach High Performing School.” to education focuses on forming St. Michael high Wednesday, October 22, 2014 CHS received the National our students as Christian men in Baton Rouge 5:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. Blue Ribbon recognition in 1989, every aspect of their experience 225-753-9782 Open to 6th – 8th graders and 1993, 1998 and 2003, and is at Catholic High as we embrace smhsbr.org their parents one of only three schools in the and carry on the mission of the country to receive this recogni- Brothers of the Sacred Heart.” tion five times. CHS is one of 50 CHS president Gene Tullier St. John high Monday, October 29, 2014 private schools in the country to said, “Catholic High School has Plaquemine 6:00 p.m. receive this recognition for 2014. a long history of educating and 225-687-3056 Open to 7th – 12th graders Catholic High School was forming leaders in the Baton stjohnschool.org and their parents founded by the Brothers of the Rouge community. Excellence in Sacred Heart. The mission of all areas is a consistent emphasis CHS is to teach Gospel values of Brothers of the Sacred Heart catholic high Thursday, November 13, 2014 in an environment of academic Schools. 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IMMIGRATION  out the window, then the other in tears as she described her feel- ter, who is enrolled at a public the families and children from From page 1 person then Maria, each helping ings when immigration officials high school and enjoying some of Central America are some of the to lower the next person to the called to tell her that her daughter the usual teenage pursuits in her most vulnerable on our conti- nappers said “Tomorrow, by ground. Once on the street, they was safe in the U.S. She had wor- new culture. nent. 3:00, if you don’t pay we’re going soon came across a taxi. Hesitant ried so much through her daugh- Esperanza provides legal ser- “Like the Good Samaritan, we to take your daughter and she is at first because ter’s risky vices available under U.S. law that should offer them care and com- going to disappear.” a taxi had journey and not only protects the children’s fort without a preoccupation for But not giving up hope, Maria taken them to I don’t think God kidnapping, lives but assures their sanctuary their nationality, or which side of kept her eyes open for ways to es- their place of she found it al- in the U.S. remains documented. a line on the map they live, and as cape. SShe discovered that in the imprisonment sees us as deserving most unbeliev- The funds from Esperanza, which Christ has invited us to do, com- bathroom what she thought was and they didn’t able that she is supported through donations, passionately share the good for- a window cover was actually a know if this Americans vs. less- would soon be is used to expand CCDBR’s legal tune of our wealth to help them piece of cardboard that she was driver would reunited with team and to recruit and train pro be safe and keep their families able to push through. She and her alert their kid- deserving Latinos, her. bono attorneys who can handle together. I don’t think God sees uncle then made plans to escape. nappers, they Return- Louisiana custody and federal us as deserving Americans vs. Later that night, Maria told her took the risk but rather we’re ing the affec- immigration law issues. less-deserving Latinos, but rath- uncle not to fall asleep but pre- and asked the tion to her Additionally, the agency will er we’re all God’s children, and tend to do so in a rouse to fool the driver to take all God’s children, mother, Maria seek to hire more advocates to we all do better when we all are kidnappers. them to the said it was the become accredited for immigra- better.” “We have to escape tonight; border. and we all do better thought of see- tion court. A CCDBR immigration legal we don’t have a choice,” Maria Immediate- ing her mother According to David Aguillard, services attorney is representing recalled telling her uncle as she ly after cross- when we all are again that executive director of CCDBR, Maria in her immigration case, spoke through a translator dur- ing the border, kept her going personal stories, such as Maria’s, which is to be heard in December ing a recent interview at Catholic immigration better.” through her are the fuel for the work of Espe- 2015. Charities Diocese of Baton Rouge. agents arrest- whole ordeal. ranza. Maria has 2 other siblings who That night, as the kidnappers ed the trio. At David Aguillard Through “The suffering and the risks are still in Honduras. Her mother were drinking and using drugs, the processing Executive Director, Catholic Charities, Diocese the work of they take to get here are inspir- said she desperately wishes they Maria, her uncle and another center, author- of Baton Rouge Catholic Chari- ing for two reasons,” Aguillard could all be together, but after person, each took turns suppos- ities contacted ties of the said. “It makes you realize just witnessing the treacherous jour- edly to use the restroom. The Maria’s moth- Diocese of Ba- how much of a beacon of hope ney and kidnapping that Maria impaired captors failed to notice er. “It gave me goose bumps,” said ton Rouge’s project, Esperanza, and opportunity we are for much went through, she said for now that they did not return from us- her mother, who looked on her which means “hope” in Spanish, of the world, and perhaps most she will have to keep them in her ing the restroom. daughter lovingly as she shared Maria’s mother said she is hope- importantly from a mission heart, as well as the hope that Maria’s uncle escaped first her story and whose face melted ful about the future of her daugh- perspective, it reminds us that they will all be reunited one day.

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