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FIRST PARISH OF WATERTOWN! MAY 2014 A Unitarian Universalist Welcoming Congregation The Arbella CAPTAIN’S LOG WORSHIP SCHEDULE First Parish is fortunate to have two staff members who are both working towards Sermons/Services in May official accreditation with our larger denomination, the Unitarian Universalist May 4, 2014 10:30am ! Association. Part of Charlyn’s program to become an accredited Music Director is her “The Family Story”!! major project, the preparation and Andrea Greenwood production of the Missa Gaia, which will be ! performed here on Saturday, May 17. Please Did your family tell certain stories join us for this wonderful event, which the Mark Harris, about itself? Sometimes we use choir has been working on all year. this as a way to define ourselves; Minister say who fits and who doesn’t. Then, a little more than a month ago, I received a letter from the When the Coming of Age group UUA indicating that Lauren had completed 75 hours of Renaissance modules. Finishing these workshops means that she toured Orchard House, and the is half way to her goal of becoming an accredited Director of guide mentioned that Louisa May Religious Education, On Youth Sunday, we were publicly able to Alcott went o# to the Civil War say congratulations to Lauren, and tell her how proud we are of herself, but wrote Little Women her for this accomplishment. as if her father had, it got me thinking about personal strength, One personal goal I have would be to learn to appreciate people family strength, and how the two more. Instead of acknowledging a great job, I often think what relate. program can we do next, or what are we accomplishing, or how can we do more, or even what is wrong with what we are doing. Greeters: John Chamberlain and But we could stop more often, and say thanks for what you did. # # Sarah McSweeney This has been an extraordinarily busy year that has now Social Hour:John Portz and Meredith culminated in our annual meeting and report. If you have not # # Montague done so, please pick up a copy of the report. If you have the report, please read it. Here you not only see the zillion things our church accomplished, but you also hear from some of the staff who helped make so many of these programs possible. They all continues on next page... help carry out what you dream to do. Very often we have high expectations of staff in limited hours, but it always seems like everything gets done. I want to point to the symbolic value of these accreditation programs, because it reflects on all our staff. First, all our staff want to do well and be recognized. They also have 125 bosses who often say exactly what they don’t like or want to improve. That may be part of the bargain with congregational polity, but it also means there are a ! PAGE 1 FIRST PARISH OF WATERTOWN! MAY 2014 CAPTAIN’S LOG continued... WORSHIP SCHEDULE ' from previous page... lot of disparate opinions. There is also a desire to please people with endless needs, who may not respond to May 11, 2014 10:30am deadlines or protocols. There are always more meetings and more emails. Music Sunday “Social Activism, Missa Gaia, and Respect Our staff also want a larger connection. With for the Interdependent Web of all accreditation this may be obvious. They want the UUA Existence” stamp of approval, but it is more than jumping through a hoop or being able to look for other positions. First Parish Choir will be singing. Accreditation is another way of saying I am working Greeters: Clint and Sue Sours towards a larger vision for Unitarian Universalism that I Social Hour: Silke and Andreas Plesch want to help fulfill at this particular church. Nancy is sensitive to every Wright Fund applicant because she wants to be fair and helpful, but she also envisions our May 18 , 1014 10:30am church as the church which helps those in need, and she “How Did We Get Here?” will make sure it happens. She has helped make it true Mark W. Harris that when someone needs help in Watertown, the first and natural community response is, “Go to First Parish.” They will welcome you and respond to you. I am lucky to Do you ever see someone when you least work with such a great staff, and sometimes don’t wake up expect them to show up? Once when I to that fact until the end of the church year when we are was in the Phoenix airport by accident all very tired. No one is perfect, and we are all learning (because a flight to Albuquerque from how to be in right relationship with each other – Oakland had been cancelled), I saw former respectful, understanding and honest. I sometimes say FPW member Wendell Refior. In those more than I should, or say the wrong thing. We all make situations, we always say, “What are you mistakes. Today I celebrate all our staff and the effort doing here? This is a service about our they make for our church community. From Lauren and history, our endowments and the legacy of Charlyn, to Nancy and David and Guy, and on to Brigitte, First Parish you are helping to create. It youth staff and paid teachers alike. They are here for you. will include a congregational timeline On May 4 I am preaching in Framingham on behalf of the asking members to place important events District Sabbatical Leave Council. I am giving the along the 384 year + span of our history. sermon I gave here, “Everything a Compliment.” After I gave that sermon Andrea Gruber gave me a little sign for my desk, “Please pose all questions in the form of a Greeters: Michael and Marianne Co%ins compliment.” Please remember that when you see our Social Hour: Martha Pederson and Mae Deluca staff. It will make their day and year. May 25, 2014 10:30am Someone asked about the minister’s availability. I hold regular office hours all week (Monday to Friday) from 9-3 "Pass the Steak Sauce" p.m. I am happy to make appointments with members Tracy Johnson, Ministerial Intern during those times and at other times during the week, including evenings. I am also happy to visit people in their Join us for an alternative worship service homes. If you would like to discuss weaving memory and identity into our a personal, religious or church celebration. issue, please let me know. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in Greeters: Andreavoluptate Gruber velit esse molestaie cillum. Tia non ob ea soluad incommod quae egen Social Hour: Janeium improb Knuttunen fugiend. and Brigitte Mark Bender and TBA ! PAGE 2 FIRST PARISH OF WATERTOWN! MAY 2014 RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS Happy Spring! I am looking out my window onto blooming trees and flowers. The little maple in the Zen Garden is covered in buds, and green things pervade. Did anyone other than me doubt it might come this year? I spent some time reflecting, as the winter seemed to drag on and on, that people in ancient times who prayed to gods and created rituals to make sure that the seasons continued to turn in the circle of time might not have been too far off-base. My logical brain knows that spring will come again. My heart felt as if Lauren Strauss, it were in the throes of everlasting winter. But spring has sprung again! DRE April was wonderful! The Coming of Age retreat to Ferry Beach was a weekend full of laughter, friendship, and joy. The Youth Service… I can’t say enough about our Youth. Please remember to tell the Youth Group if you were impressed by last Sunday’s service, because they were the planners and implementers. I was quite proud of my Video Editing prowess though. It’s nice to grow new skills sometimes. May will be full as well. The Whalemingos (grades 5-7) will be embarking on a few weeks of fun learning activities before classes end on June 1. We’ll honor one First Mentor candidate who wasn’t able to join us in the fall on May 4, and a new batch of participants will begin meeting with their Mentors on May 11 to get ready for their ceremony in the fall. The Coming of Age group has its tour of historic Unitarian Universalist sites in Boston on May 10. Throughout this month they’ll be writing their Credos/Statements of Belief in preparation for their service on June 8. Regular RE classes end on June 1, which will also be Teacher Appreciation day and the RE Open House. That’s a day when you all will have a chance to come for a brief time into the classrooms and hear what our kids have been learning about this year. While you’re there, take a moment to appreciate the adults and teens who give their time every week to make sure the children have loving, caring people in their classrooms, giving them a chance to explore their ideas in a safe, fun environment. UU Youth like the fine soon-to-be high school graduates we saw Sunday morning don’t get that way in a vacuum. Our teachers( parents and other volunteers, many of whom have no education or theology background(provide a safe and loving place where our children can grow, explore their ideas about faith, and feel cared for. We are the gardeners, carefully tending our crops, and when they bloom into wonderful, energetic youth and young adults, the whole world reaps the benefits.