“Girls Don't Watch Porn”: a Narrative Analysis of Women's
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“GIRLS DON’T WATCH PORN”: A NARRATIVE ANALYSIS OF WOMEN’S NEGOTIATIONS WITH ‘PROBLEMATIC SPACES’ by Tara Dawn Snape B.A., University Of British Columbia, 2008 A THESIS SUBMITTED IN PARTIAL FULFILLMENT OF THE REQUIREMENTS FOR THE DEGREE OF MASTER OF ARTS in THE COLLEGE OF GRADUATE STUDIES (Interdisciplinary Studies) THE UNIVERSITY OF BRITISH COLUMBIA (Okanagan) July 2010 © Tara Dawn Snape, 2010 Abstract This research investigates the various strategies women use to negotiate, rationalize and story their sexual identities and their relationship to potentially problematic spaces. I interviewed ten women between the ages of nineteen and thirty looking for stories from, arguably, the first generation to watch pornographic films before engaging in sexual activities themselves. After listening to women’s stories, two spaces stood out as places of fracture, tension, and also possibility – mainstream, heterosexual pornography and heterosexual anal sex. I am interested in conceptualizing women who engage in socially ‘problematic’ sites as outside the traditional dichotomy of cultural victims who are unaware of their own subordination or as subjects that are entirely resistant and agentic. For example, when porn is viewed as something only men watch, it reinforces perceptions that women are not as sexual as men. This feeds into heteronormative assumptions of women’s sexuality as biologically passive. When women in the audience are considered, questions of agency, self-reflexivity and the possibility for resistant relationships with pornography are absent. Using a narrative methodology, this research works to conceptualize women’s participation in and/or avoidance of pornography and anal sex as indicative of continual and active negotiations with postfeminist and heteronormative definitions of gender, sexuality and sex. ii Table of Contents Abstract........................................................................................................................................ii Table of Contents......................................................................................................................iii List of Tables............................................................................................................................... v Acknowledgements...................................................................................................................vi Dedication................................................................................................................................ viii CHAPTER 1..................................................................................................................................1 INTRODUCTION........................................................................................................................1 Research focus ...................................................................................................................................................2 Research questions............................................................................................................................................3 Why porn and why now?................................................................................................................................4 Feminism, strippers, and playboy bunny tattoos: Defining the role of postfeminism in women’s consumption of porn .....................................................................................................................7 Limitations in utilizing postfeminism ..................................................................................................... 13 The “money shot”: Conceptualizing heteronormativity in women’s sexual biographies...... 14 Active spectators: Seeking agency when women watch porn......................................................... 18 Resistance ......................................................................................................................................................... 21 Conclusion........................................................................................................................................................ 24 CHAPTER 2 ............................................................................................................................ 26 METHODOLOGY.....................................................................................................................26 Research topic ................................................................................................................................................. 26 Truth, knowledge, and stories in post-structuralism........................................................................... 27 Researcher reflexivity: Challenging the hyphen or writing as researcher and participant .... 31 Narrative methodology: Finding a methodology to match my epistemological and ontological needs............................................................................................................................................ 36 ACTUALLY ‘DOING IT’: MY RESEARCH METHODS ......................................................45 Participants....................................................................................................................................................... 45 Participant Chart............................................................................................................................................. 49 The interview................................................................................................................................................... 50 Data Analysis................................................................................................................................................... 51 Conclusion........................................................................................................................................................ 53 CHAPTER 3 ............................................................................................................................ 55 WOMEN DO IT TOO................................................................................................................55 Some girls do and some girls don’t.......................................................................................................... 55 “I kissed a girl and I liked it”: Looking for pleasure in ‘girl on girl’ from bedrooms to nightclubs to porn........................................................................................................................................... 60 “Girls fingering each other, I couldn’t care less”: Pleasure for whom?....................................... 66 Doesn’t anyone watch porn to ‘Jack/Jill’ off anymore?: How men’s ‘cum compilations’ can mean less man and more woman .............................................................................................................. 69 Conclusion........................................................................................................................................................ 75 CHAPTER 4 ............................................................................................................................ 77 WOMEN’S ANAL SECRETS...................................................................................................77 Introduction...................................................................................................................................................... 78 “Let me get some action from the back section”: From “backdoor loving” to “anal destruction” ...................................................................................................................................................... 79 iii “Shake for me girl, I wanna be your backdoor man”: Anal sex for him ..................................... 89 “A hole is a hole” and “P.S. It’s fabulous”: Anal sex for her and how to avoid being “The- up-the-butt-girl”.............................................................................................................................................. 97 Conclusion......................................................................................................................................................102 CHAPTER 5 ..........................................................................................................................104 AFTERWORD: “GIRLS DON’T WATCH PORN” AND BEYOND…................................104 From porn to sex-toy shops: What it means to learn from “the (s)experts”.............................107 REFERENCES......................................................................................................................110 APPENDICES .......................................................................................................................120 APPENDIX A: UBC RESEARCH ETHICS APPROVAL .........................................121 APPENDIX B: CONSENT FORM...................................................................................122 APPENDIX C: INTERVIEW GUIDE.............................................................................124 iv List of Tables Table 1: Participant Chart ................................................................................................. 49 v Acknowledgements First, thank you to the women who opened up your lives to me, this work would not have been possible without you