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23 Jenna Bike St. Joe’s soccer star

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Securities and Advisory Services offered through National Planning Corporation (NPC), Member FINRA/SIPC, and a Registered Investment Advisor. Catholic Way investments and NPC are separate and unrelated companies. 2 February 2016 Synod: The Next Step Director of Leadership Institute appointed BRIDGEPORT—Patrick J. ily into our diocesan family and Notre Dame, South Bend, Ind. Donovan, executive director of ask for your prayers for them as Prior to coming to the Diocese Youth and Young Adult Ministry he begins this new chapter in his of Wilmington, he served as a in the Diocese of Wilmington, ministry,” the bishop said. parish youth minister and theol- Delaware, has agreed to serve The Diocesan Leadership ogy instructor in the Diocese of as the inaugural director of the Institute is a key initiative flow- Knoxville, Tenn. newly established Diocesan ing from the recently concluded He is the co-author of Reaching Leadership Institute, effective Diocesan Synod. It will provide Teens through Film, Volumes 9, 10 immediately. ongoing, systematic formation and 11 and is a regular contribu- Donovan, an author and and support for all current tor to “Youth Ministry Access,” online contributor to “Youth Church leaders in the diocese, an online ministry service pro- Ministry Access,” a national web- initially focusing on the laity but vided by the Center for Ministry site, is also serving as the chair also ultimately including clergy Development. His most recent of the National Federation for and those in consecrated life. book, Using the Remote to Channel Catholic Youth Ministry strategic Patrick Turner, director of Jesus, is available from St. Mary’s planning committee. Strategic and Pastoral Planning Press. “Patrick has wide experience of the Diocese of Bridgeport, said He has given presentations in leading strategic planning pro- that Donovan will be working in across the country on using tech- cesses and managing large min- collaboration with local and dioc- nology in ministry, using modern isterial organizations. He brings esan pastoral leaders. media to spread the Gospel and great professional knowledge and “The Institute will provide Lord,” said Turner, who believes diocesan pastoral leaders,” said creating effective ministry for pastoral experience in various exemplary theological and spiri- the Institute will have an impact Bishop Caggiano. young people. fields of ministry, which will help tual education and pastoral lead- on the long-term spiritual and pas- Donovan holds a bachelor’s Patrick and his wife, Maureen, him to guide the creation of the ership formation for every adult toral renewal of the diocese. degree in communications from have four children and live in Institute,” said Bishop Frank J. who wishes to grow in the knowl- “Patrick comes to us ably the University of Tennessee at Bear, Del. In the coming months, Caggiano. edge of the Catholic faith and in equipped to realize these goals Knoxville and an MA in the- they will be permanently relocat- “I welcome him and his fam- their personal relationship with the in collaboration with local and ology from the University of ing to the diocese. n

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ON THE COVER | CONTENTS ASHES TO GO—Sister Sally 5 NEW MISSION DIRECTOR 16-18 CATHOLIC SCHOOL PROFILES Norcross, C.N.D. distributed ashes at Father Seraphim Rohlman Faith-filled learning communities

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Teens brave blizzard 7 for March for Life Father Walter Orlowski, pastor, and Concludes with Vespers Angels in the Bible Storybook Sister Sally, coordinator of Pastoral Care at St. Matthew Parish took to ST. JOSEPH HIGH SPORTS Jenna Bike 8 VIETNAMESE COMMUNITY 22-23 23 St. Joe’s soccer star the road to distribute ashes to people Please visit us on: At St. Augustine Cathedral Bike and Matakevich stand out throughout the city. ABOVE THE

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Securities andMember Advisory FINRA/SIPC, Services offered and athrough Registered National Investment Planning Advisor. Corporation (NPC), Catholic Way investments and NPC are separate and unrelated companies. 3 February 2016 Local News Centers of Mercy chosen in diocese BRIDGEPORT—During this The Centers of Mercy in the diocese and that he is strongly Extraordinary Jubilee of Mercy Diocese of Bridgeport are open at encouraging each parish to con- Bishop Frank J. Caggiano has the following locations: tinue to offer the Sacrament of worked with diocesan pastors Reconciliation during the season and priests to open Centers of On TUESDAY evenings, of Lent on a weekly basis Mercy throughout Fairfield from 7-8:30 pm: “There is no better or more County. Vicariate I: Holy Spirit, consequential use of our time as “I am delighted to confirm an Stamford priests than in being the instru- initiative of great importance in Vicariate II: St. Matthew, ments of God’s love, healing, the life of our diocese,” said the Norwalk and mercy in this sacrament,” bishop, “and I am most grateful Vicariate III: Our Lady said the bishop, who is planning to the pastors of these parishes for of the Assumption, Fairfield to visit the different centers and their generosity in making their Vicariate IV: St. Catherine hear confessions in the coming churches available for this import- of Siena, Trumbull months. ant initiative.” Vicariate V: St. Joseph, The bishop said he is grateful Two Centers of Mercy will Brookfield that priests from surrounding par- be located in each Vicariate of Vicariate VI: St. Augustine ishes have volunteered their time the diocese, one for Tuesday Cathedral, Bridgeport to hear confessions at the Centers evenings and one for Thursday of Mercy. evenings. The Centers of Mercy On THURSDAY evenings, “Please join me in praying will be open, and a priest will be from 7-8:30 pm: that this initiative, with God’s available to offer the Sacrament Vicariate I: St. Thomas More, grace, will bear abundant fruit of Reconciliation, each Tuesday Darien in the life of our diocese during or Thursday evening, from 7:00 Vicariate II: Assumption, The Centers of Mercy will con- • The Centers of Mercy for this Year of Mercy,” the bishop to 8:30 pm beginning in Lent, and Westport tinue throughout this Extraordinary TUESDAYS began on February said in launching the effort. extending throughout the Year of Vicariate III: St. Pius X, Jubilee of Mercy: 16, the Tuesday after Ash For more on the Jubilee of Mercy. Fairfield Wednesday, and will continue Mercy, see page 8. “With the Centers of Mercy, Vicariate IV: St. Theresa, • The Centers of Mercy each Tuesday thereafter until (For more info on the Centers no Catholic in our diocese will Trumbull for THURSDAYS began on November 15. of Mercy, contact Father Joseph need to wait more than two or Vicariate V: Sacred Heart, February 11, the day after Ash Marcello, coordinator of diocesan three days before there are regular- Danbury Wednesday, and will continue The bishop said the Centers observance of the Extraordinary ly scheduled Confessions in his or Vicariate VI: St. Charles each Thursday thereafter until of Mercy will replace the Lenten Jubilee of Mercy: 203.377.3133 her local area,” the bishop said. Borromeo, Bridgeport November 17. Confession Campaign in the or [email protected].) n White Mass talk to focus on ‘Ethics of Genetics’ BRIDGEPORT—Sister announced on March 6, are tra- early formation of CHS while in Nazareth Residence for Mothers Maureen McGuire, DC, exec- ditionally drawn from the ranks that role. and Children in Roxbury, Mass., utive vice president of Mission of physicians, nurses, dentists, Before entering the healthcare one of the first transitional hous- Integration of Ascension Health healthcare workers or healthcare ministry, Sister Maureen held ing programs in the nation for will be the featured speaker at volunteers in Fairfield County various leadership and direct ser- homeless women and children the 23nd annual White Mass who exemplify the compas- vice roles in professional social affected by HIV/AIDS. breakfast set for Sunday, March sionate and loving care for the work. She began as a caseworker Sister Maureen served for six 6, at 9:30 am at St. Augustine sick for which the late Father and counselor in child welfare years as seminary directress of Cathedral in Bridgeport. Rufin Kuveikis, a Capuchin and mental health settings in the Daughters of Charity of St. Bishop Frank J. Caggiano Franciscan and chaplain at Philadelphia, Penn. She served Vincent De Paul, working with will be the principal celebrant Norwalk Hospital for 18 years. as a supervisor at the Family the new members of the commu- and homilist at the Mass, which He died in 2008 at age 86. Life Bureau of the Diocese of nity and developing the interpro- honors healthcare professionals Immediately prior to joining Allentown in two large rural vincial formation program for the throughout the diocese. Breakfast the senior leadership team of counties, where she initiated five U.S. provinces. will follow at Testo’s Restaurant Ascension Health in 2002, Sister programs of lay formation in 84 Sister Maureen earned her in Bridgeport. Sister Maureen McGuire, DC Maureen McGuire served as parishes preparing married cou- bachelor’s degree, summa cum “In her role, Sister Maureen vice president of Service Culture ples to serve as facilitators of pro- laude, from St. Joseph College provides leadership in creating Development for the Catholic grams for engaged couples. in Emmitsburg, Md., and strategy and initiatives in mission care providers.” Health System (CHS) of Western She then assumed a leadership received her master’s of social and values integration, workplace Ascension Health is the New York in Buffalo, and con- role as part of Catholic Charities work from Temple University in spirituality, ethics, leadership sponsor of St. Vincent’s Health currently as vice president of of the Diocese of Albany, N.Y., Philadelphia in 1977. formation and spiritual care,” Services and St. Vincent’s Mission Integration for Mount serving as executive director of (All healthcare workers and their said Bishop Caggiano. “Her work Medical Center in Bridgeport. St. Mary’s Hospital and Health Catholic Family and Community guests are invited to attend the White supports the efforts of the health During the White Mass, two Center in Lewiston, N.Y. She Services in two counties. In this Mass. The Mass is also open to the ministry in continuing the healing area healthcare professionals also had served as vice president capacity she worked with an general public. To make a reservation mission of Jesus and we welcome will be presented the Father of Mission Integration for Sisters interfaith local board to develop a for breakfast at Testo’s ($35/person), her thoughts on the many chal- Rufin Compassionate Care of Charity Hospital in Buffalo, wide variety of community-based contact Janet Davis: 203.416.1636 lenges faced by Catholic health- Award. The recipients, to be N.Y., and participated in the services. In 1992, she initiated the or [email protected].) n 4 February 2016 Annual Catholic Appeal Faith Formation develops best practices for renewal

By PAT HENNESSY Caggiano said in announcing ing, they want formation. They the new appointments for Faith want to meet together and The 2016 Annual Catholic Formation. “Leading each person explore ways to build up their Appeal (ACA) “Renewed in to a deepening relationship with youth groups.” Faith, Hope and Charity,” assists the Lord Jesus in and through his In addition to his meetings at in responding to the challenges Church begins with a clear, authen- parishes, Psencik is involved in the of the Fourth Diocesan Synod. tic teaching of our Catholic faith.” formation of the Catholic Service The synod listened to the voices The members of the Faith Corps, enabling youth to express SUPPORTED BY THE ANNUAL CATHOLIC APPEAL, the Office of Faith of the faithful in the Diocese of Formation Office have all been their faith in action, and in the Formation assists youth like these, along with programs for children, married Bridgeport, recognized the need named to the Catechetical Task spiritual preparation of the 250 couples and adult formation. (Photo by Amy Mortensen) to strengthen and support family Force to explore a new genera- young pilgrims headed for World life, to create energetic parish tion of faith formation approach- Youth Day. Rose Talbot-Babey has also know that the central question for outreach to engage youth and to es. Evan Psencik is coordinator “Most of them are encounter- spent a large portion of her time our catechetical programs is ‘Are renew the ministry of faith forma- of Youth and Young Adult ing the larger Church for the first in the field, meeting one-on-one we producing real disciples of tion throughout the diocese. Formation, Rose Talbot-Babey time,” he noted. “World Youth with DREs, CREs, and pastors. Christ in our parish religious edu- These goals are being actively manages the area of Childhood Day is just the beginning of their She is also interfacing with Helen cation and Catholic school class- pursued through the restructured Formation and Kim Quatela is in faith journey. The hope is that it Burland, executive director of St. es?’” Talbot-Babey said. “Parishes Office of Faith Formation, sup- charge of Family Formation. will light a fire of faith in teens, Catherine Special Needs Center and schools are all doing wonder- ported by donations to the ACA. “I spend a lot of my time so that they will want to be more in Fairfield, working to connect ful things, but all doing different “Renewing the ministry of faith going out, meeting with youth involved when they come home. those services to parishes with things. The ACA helps support formation throughout our diocese ministers in their parishes and That can start a ripple effect, inspir- special needs children in their initiatives to bring people together, was one of the global challenges asking, ‘What is it you need?’” ing their friends and classmates to religious education programs. including catechetical days, pro- of the synod,” Bishop Frank J. said Psencik. “They want train- learn more about their faith.” “As a former DRE myself, I ➤ continued on page 14

Mom, do you know what I learned at school today?

“Kids who can’t afford Catholic schools get to go with a scholarship, and poor people are fed at soup kitchens and they can get a place to live if they have nowhere to go. We do all that, Mom, when we help the bishop in his Appeal. He asked for our help. Mom, let’s make a gift today.”

2016 Annual Catholic Appeal, Renewed in Faith, Hope and Charity • Education and training prepares 30 men for ordination to priesthood in our Here’s how your gift makes a difference: Diocese; and 15 men for ordination to the Permanent Diaconate program is fully funded by the Appeal. • Catholic Charities serves more than 1 million nutritious meals in soup kitchens, • 74 senior priests are cared for at the Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of the Clergy food pantries and senior nutrition programs throughout lower Fairfield County. Residence in retirement. • Safe, stable and permanent housing is provided for 200 individuals. Make your gift today and see the remarkable stories of what your gift can do to • More than 15,000 counseling sessions are conducted for individuals and families provide for the spiritual and material needs in the Diocese of Bridgeport. to address a variety of coping, mental health, marriage and parent-child issues. • 38,000 children and young adults participate in religious education programs renewed and, youth take part in a wide range of faith-based programs to mature as holy www.2016ACABridgeport.com IN FAITH, HOPE AND CHARITY 2016 ANNUAL CATHOLIC APPEAL and active members. DIOCESE OF BRIDGEPORT 5 February 2016 Local News Father Seraphim named mission director BRIDGEPORT—“The whole hospital there. He served on the January 2, 2010. Church is in mission,” said commission for the canonization “Bishop Caggiano has a Father Seraphim Ralph Rohlman, of St. Yakov Netsvetov, an indig- missionary spirit,” said Father diocesan director of the Pontifical enous Orthodox saint and one of Rohlman. “He hopes that our Mission Societies. “That’s what the greatest missionaries in the office will be able to revive a mis- Jesus told us before he ascended Church in America. sionary spirit in areas of our dio- into heaven, to make disciples of His next call was a complete cese where it might be dormant.” all nations” (Matt 28:19). change of pace—Hawaii. “Not The Mission Office receives The Pontifical Mission the tourist Hawaii,” he noted countless requests for assistance Societies include the Society for wryly, characterizing his tiny from missionaries throughout the the Propagation of the Faith, missionary parish. He would world, and the office welcomes the Missionary Childhood later be sent to Texas to teach at missionaries to speak at parishes Association, the Society of a seminary, and to New Mexico, for Co-operative Mission Sunday St. Peter the Apostle and the Montana and Nebraska. in mid-July. In addition, stipends Missionary Union of Priests and While he was in Nebraska received from Mass cards assist Religious. “These societies call us he became friends with Bishop mission priests in their ministries. to mission,” Father Seraphim said. Fabian Broscowitz, then bishop “We have the most precious “They give us an opportunity to of Lincoln, Nebraska—which was thing in the world—the Body and remind ourselves of the mission- very much a mission diocese in its Blood of Christ himself in the ary spirit of the Church. Missions, own right. “He encouraged me in Eucharist,” he said. “The Gospel after all, are the mother of the a period of introspection,” Father and the sacraments give life. Church. We wouldn’t be here Seraphim recalled. How can we not be compelled to without them.” Father Seraphim Bishop William E. Lori spread that mission everywhere?” hopes people will come forward to received him and his family into (Mass cards are available from MISSIONS ARE the mother of the Church. We wouldn’t be here without assist the Missions Office in grow- them,” says Father Seraphim, diocesan director of Pontifical Mission Societies the Catholic Church, and he the Mission Office for all intentions. ing the participation and support became a priest for the Diocese The donations support missionaries of these societies in parishes. “We of Bridgeport. He celebrated his throughout the world. Call Elaine need ‘Partners in Mission’!” Liturgy. He founded a hospice up the first chaplaincy program first public Mass in this diocese at Bissenden in the Mission Office: Bishop Frank J. Caggiano program in Anchorage and set at the Bureau of Indian Affairs St. Theresa Church, Trumbull, on 203.416.1447.) n tapped Father Seraphim for the Missions Office because he had a “world vision,” with a personal and wide-ranging background of missionary experience. Museum displays Charities 100th Born in Bridgeport, he grad- uated from Central High School FAIRFIELD—About staff, along with clients who have in 1965. He was attending the 50 friends of Catholic been helped over the years. University of Bridgeport on a Charities turned out for a Former Bridgeport Mayor Bill full music scholarship when he luncheon reception to cele- Finch, who was adopted through heard a missionary bishop speak brate the launch of the 100th Catholic Charities, joined the in his home parish of St. Dimitrie Anniversary Catholic Charities gathering to support Catholic Romanian Orthodox Church exhibit, which was displayed Charities and its work throughout (then located in Bridgeport, now at the Fairfield Museum and Fairfield County. in Easton). History Center. Catholic Charities sponsors “He talked about the poverty The gathering included board more than 30 programs that feed in the Alaskan missions, pov- members, CCFC leadership and the hungry and homebound, erty so deep that many priests couldn’t receive any salary. I thought, ‘Wow!’” That “Wow” led him to St. Herman Theological Seminary in Kodiak, Alaska. While complet- ing his six years of study there he met his future wife, Catherine. Following Orthodox guidelines, CELEBRATING 100 YEARS—Standing Center: Former Bridgeport they were married before his ordi- Mayor Bill Finch and Al Barber, President CEO of Catholic Charities are nation. (In common with many flanked by Catholic Charities staff at yesterday’s reception to kick off the Eastern Rite Catholic churches, 100th Anniversary exhibit at the Fairfield Museum. married men may become priests but, once ordained, priests cannot marry.) shelter the homeless, empow- behavioral health offerings, During his years in Alaska he er and counsel those in need, Charities may be best known traveled throughout the Aleutian and strengthen individuals and for its sponsorship of Merton families from all faiths and Center in Bridgeport and New island chain and along the Yukon FEEDING THE HUNGRY—In one of the many photos on display at and Kuskokwim rivers, perform- the exhibit, Bishop Frank J. Caggiano visits the New Covenant Center in backgrounds across Fairfield Covenant Center of Stamford, ing funerals and marriages, bap- Stamford, sponsored and managed by Catholic Charities. It is one of the County. In addition to its his- two of the state’s largest soup n tizing and celebrating the Divine busiest soup kitchens in the state. toric adoption program and kitchens.

7 February 2016 March for Life ‘Stand up for what is right’ DANBURY—Despite speaker and gave a heartfelt mes- experience because the speakers the impending blizzard, 43 sage combined with humor and and singers, as well as the peo- students and six chaperones music. ple in the crowd, were all there from Immaculate High School Students participated in the for the same purpose, creating a in Danbury decided to go Sacrament of Reconciliation as sense of unity. BRAVING A BLIZZARD, students from Immaculate High School attended ahead with plans to travel to part of the rally, which concluded “When I came back home the worship concert and kick-off rally before the March for Life in Washington, Washington, D.C. for the 2016 with Adoration of the Blessed from the March, I felt a boost D.C. “It’s important to be aware of what is really going on, no matter how March for Life. The March is Sacrament. to my faith life and an increased disturbing it might be,” said Immaculate sophomore A.J. Vitiello. held every year, regardless of “Both this year and last year desire to stand up for what I weather, on the anniversary of when I attended the March for believe in.” what is really going on, no mat- spiritual solidarity was created the 1973 landmark Supreme Life, I felt an overwhelming Sophomore A.J. Vitiello, ter how disturbing it might be. between God and every human Court decision of Roe vs. Wade. sense of joy in knowing that I am found that “the March for Life You have to stand up for what is person. More specifically, by Due to the blizzard, the stu- part of something so large,” said is such a great opportunity for right.” taking on humanity, Christ bless- dents and chaperones needed senior Jenna Gasparrini. “I had young people like me to make a In his own reflection on the ed every human life. To put it to head back home prior to the the opportunity to fight for the difference in society. It feels like March for Life, Bishop Frank bluntly, human life is not dispos- scheduled 1 pm walk. Thankfully, right to life alongside thousands we’re doing the world a favor by J. Caggiano added a strong able, cheap or simply a ‘choice,’ they had been able to attend the of other people coming from dif- giving a voice to the voiceless. grounding in faith to the teens’ because God would not take on worship concert and kick-off rally ferent backgrounds and from all We gather to protest against such personal witness. “At the heart something that is cheap, dispos- at George Mason University the over the country. Although we an awful thing, but it’s comfort- of the Catholic objection to able or a ‘choice.’ As Christ’s evening before. The rally includ- weren’t able to march this year ing to be part of a community abortion lies one basic spiritual humanity has infinite value, so ed music by “I am They” and the because of the snowstorm, the that understands the value of insight,” he said. “In the act of every human being born in God’s “Josh Blakesley Band.” Jackie ‘Life is Very Good’ concert the human life. the Incarnation, when the Son image and likeness has priceless Francois Angel was the guest night before was another great “It’s important to be aware of of God took on human flesh, a value in Christ.” n Catholic Art Rockwell Style

By JOSEPH PRONECHEN nuns in habits complete with where their hearts are, poor fami- those unforgettable huge white- ly as they are. Norman Rockwell was an art- winged veils seen at the old St. To add to the uplifting illus- ist whose work touched millions Vincent’s Hospital decades ago. trations, “Thanksgiving Dinner over the span of several decades, The nuns casually strolled past Prayer” touches hearts as it looks especially through the scores of a shop as a disappointed florist lovingly at an elderly husband Saturday Event Post covers he illus- placed a window sign for Easter and wife, their family grown trated. corsages. and gone, who are now alone at His scenes captured moments They had Rockwell-like humor the dinner table. Over a small from everyday life with humor, too. In the “Tall Tale Fish Story” turkey, their heads are bowed sentimentality, and even delight- from 1970, a fisherman stretches reverently in prayer. The scene is ful eccentricity. Often they were his hands to illustrate to his par- quite poignant. idealized scenes capturing and ish priest the big fish he landed, One more illustration gives telling stories in a way we pic- but the priest is doubtful because us not only another Rockwell tured life to be, or hoped it would behind the gent his young son scene but sums up much about be, or actually was. truthfully demonstrates a quite the show. In “Photo Album Was there a Catholic art like different-sized small fish his Memories,” an older husband Rockwell’s? Surely. The Knights father really caught. and wife, he with his arm around of Columbus Museum in New Both of these are by William her, sit looking over a photo Haven proves it with a current Luberoff, who illustrated over album. They’re surrounded by main exhibit called “The Art of 60 Columbia covers. He painted photos of past family good times Illustration: Columbia’s Cover the oldest cover in the show, dat- they’re reminiscing over. Story.” ing to 1939. For Catholic Press Their faces beam with these From the 1930s to the 1980s, Month he pictured a Knight rep- pleasant memories. Ours should, Columbia magazine, the largest resenting Catholicism and wield- too, for all the scenes which can circulation Catholic publication in ing the sword of truth to strike easily move our sensibilities and North America and published by and kill the dragons of ignorance hearts. On display are nearly 70 the Knights, had its own take on and error. of these rarely-seen examples the Saturday Evening Post cover art In the bicentennial year of “LEARNING TO PRAY” from Columbia magazine, 1968 from museum’s permanent col- style by Rockwell and other art- 1976 Luberoff, who lived in Rye, lection, including finished covers, ists. Several of those other artists N.Y., also did a serious George look-a-like scene, “The Wild Sled goodness!” expression. studies and a few pencil sketches painted a number of Columbia cov- Washington kneeling in prayer Ride” captures a close-up of a The Spirit of Thanksgiving presented in more than more ers too. But with one difference. at Valley Forge, a familiar pose father and his wide-eyed young from 1955 captures another gallery. The show runs through Most of Columbia’s wonderful viewed by innumerable people son in the middle of a hair-raising affecting scene in which a family mid-September. scenes had a Catholic or religious over the decades. ride down the slope. of five stands in prayer around (The Knights of Columbus perspective. Family plays a big role. And In “Leaf-Raking,” dad rakes the table and its meager food. But Museum, One State St., New Haven, Whether they did or not, fathers as well as mothers play while six youngsters jump and the picture of the Last Supper on is open daily Sun.-Sat. from 10 am-5 anyone could enjoy the scene, an important and equal part in play in the piles. Mom is looking one side of the window and the pm. For more info, call 203.865.0400 such as one with two Vincentian these illustrations. In a Rockwell at the scene with an “Oh my crucifix on the other side tell us or visit www.kofcmuseum.org.) n 8 February 2016 Local News Vietnamese: strong in faith, culture and tradition

By NORMA K. DARRAGH Bridgeport to reunite with his sis- native language as we practice ter and her husband and earned our faith at the Cathedral,” with From the rice fields of South his bachelor’s degree at the their appreciation expressed in Vietnam to Bridgeport, Father University of Bridgeport. tangible form by the raising of Augustine Nguyen traveled a While pursuing a career in $70,000 for a shrine in honor of long road to where he is today as the corporate sector, he realized Pope Francis’ Year of Divine the chaplain at Kolbe Cathedral that “something was missing” in Mercy to be erected in the High School and the spiritual his life. After taking a leave of Cathedral courtyard. THE VIETNAMESE COMMUNITY at St. Augustine raised funds for a shrine in honor of Pope Francis’ Year of Divine Mercy in the Cathedral courtyard. leader of the Vietnamese com- absence from work to attend St. The Diocese of Bridgeport Bishop Caggiano is shown here at the groundbreaking with Father Augustine munity which is centered at John Fisher Seminary, he “felt at serves as a beacon for Vietnamese Nguyen, who ministers to the Vietnamese. The bishop will dedicate the shrine St. Augustine Cathedral in peace” and was ordained in 2012. throughout the state, with parish- on April 3, Divine Mercy Sunday. (Photo by Phuoc Tran) Bridgeport. His parents sacri- The challenges facing the ioners from as far away as Bristol ficed, selling their property for Vietnamese immigrant communi- and Hartford joining in the cele- passage fees so that, at the age ty, now 300 members strong and bration of the feast of Our Lady was her faith and the solidarity of currently awaiting acceptances of ten, he and his older sister growing, include employment, of La Vang in August or the the Vietnamese community cen- from Fairfield Prep and Notre Cindy could flee South Vietnam cultural differences and language. Feast of the Vietnamese Martyrs tered at St. Augustine’s. Dame of Fairfield High Schools in a boat to escape the tyranny Acknowledging the language which coincides with the feast of Today, Hai works four- while Anthony, an altar server of communism. In the safety of a barrier, Bishop Edward M. Egan Christ the King in November. teen-hour days to support her inspired by the Sisters of the refugee camp for eight months in facilitated Masses in Vietnamese Hai Pham, an active member husband and two sons, ages Love of the Holy Cross, is con- Malaysia, he encountered a priest over 20 years ago, with continued of the Vietnamese community, 13 and 10, who, with support sidering a vocation in the priest- who “was there every moment support from Bishop William E. was reunited with her parents in from the Bishop’s Scholarship hood. of every day” and who proved Lori and now from Bishop Frank 1997. She recalls that she “knew Fund, are receiving the benefits Father Augustine says that, an inspiration for his vocation in J. Caggiano, who actively partic- nothing about her new life and of a Catholic education at St. although Vietnamese parents later years. ipates as the celebrant on special the foreign culture in America.” Augustine Academy. Citing are competitive in securing their Father Augustine spent occasions. With no car and language being that a good education is integral children’s futures, they work his first years in America in Father Augustine shared that a barrier, she embraced the chal- to success, Hai has instilled together to guarantee employ- New Orleans. After attending the community is “grateful to the lenges of coming “from the coun- the importance of “striving ment and their fellow country- Community College in Southern diocese for the opportunity to tryside of South Vietnam to the to do better and never giving men’s security. California, he traveled to come together to worship in our city of Bridgeport.” Her lifeline up.” Her older son, Steven, is Ministries in the Vietnamese community include a Children’s and Young Adult Choir, which performs once a month, and an Adult Choir which provides Jubilee of Mercy observances music at all other Sunday ser- vices. Father Augustine notes that In addition to establishing The bishop will celebrate Mass Service Corps and other workers youth of all dominations have the the Centers of Mercy through- with and for the women and men and volunteers of mercy. opportunity to “learn the poetry out the diocese, Bishop Frank Religious throughout the diocese, celebrate Mass at the Garner of the Vietnamese language” on Correctional Institution. This Sunday mornings. J. Caggiano has announced a particularly honoring jubilarians. Diocesan Pilgrimage for the event will not be open to the The Youth Group that he list of dates on which he will Year of Mercy to the Basilica lead the diocesan observances Jubilee for the Disabled public. founded has grown from 30 to of the National Shrine of more than 100. Donning brightly of the Extraordinary Jubilee Sunday, June 5, 2 pm, McClinch the Immaculate Conception, Conclusion of the colored scarves, young people of Mercy: Family Center, St. Catherine Washington, D.C. Extraordinary Jubilee from 7 to 17 spend Sundays of Siena Parish, Trumbull Saturday, November 5 Diocesan celebration of Mercy, Saturday, together as they enjoy lunch, of Divine Mercy Sunday At this handicapped-accessible At this Mass, to which the November 19, 4 pm celebrate their faith at Mass, April 3, at 2 pm facility, Bishop Caggiano will whole diocese is invited, Bishop St. Augustine Cathedral, study the Bible and bond togeth- St. Augustine Cathedral, especially welcome faithful from Caggiano will consecrate the Bridgeport er through games and liturgical throughout the diocese who are dances. The Mother’s Group, Bridgeport Diocese of Bridgeport to the At this Mass celebrated by developmentally or otherwise now 70 members strong, meets Sacred Heart of Jesus. Each par- Bishop Caggiano on the Vigil Bishop Caggiano will cel- disabled. monthly in prayer while assum- ish will be asked to send a dele- of the Solemnity of Christ the ebrate Mass and dedicate the ing the ministries of visiting gation. Organization has begun King, the last Sunday in the new Divine Mercy Shrine on nursing homes and cleaning the Jubilee for Workers and to prepare publicity and arrange Church year, the bishop will the Cathedral grounds. The church and rectory. Volunteers of Mercy for bus transportation. Cost for close the Holy Door at the Chaplet of the Divine Mercy (The Vietnamese community Sunday, September 4, 12 noon the day (not including meals) is Cathedral. will also be prayed. Special welcomes the opportunity to share Location TBD estimated at $75. The day will As at the opening of the Holy invitees include the diocesan their culture and to interact with also include a visit to the St. John Door at the beginning of the WYD pilgrims and also those In a bilingual Mass in conjunc- their American neighbors, inviting Paul II National Shrine, across Jubilee of Mercy, special invitees youth who are not going to tion with the feast day of Blessed all to join in their Masses celebrated the street from the Basilica. will include the youth of the WYD. Teresa of Calcutta, the bishop on Friday evenings and Sunday at diocese together with members will honor, thank and pray with 2:30 at St. Augustine Cathedral. For Jubilee for Prisoners of the Neo-Catechumenal Way, Jubilee for Religious the employees and volunteers of more info, contact Father Augustine: Sunday, November 6, 7 pm with involvement from the Order Tuesday, May 17, 4:30 pm Catholic Charities, together with [email protected] or the volunteers in the Catholic Bishop Caggiano will of Malta. n St. Luke Parish, Westport 203.335.2554, ext. 25.) n 9 February 2016 Soul moving toward God Dorothy Day’s Long Loneliness

By BARRY WALLACE also ostracized by her Communist her self-scrutiny and driven to a friends who believed that religion perfection that only saints aspire When Pope Francis spoke was the opiate of the people. to, although she never entertained before a joint session of con- Dorothy embraced Catholicism the thought that she was anyone gress this past summer, one of whole-heartedly and strength- but a lowly sinner. the Americans he praised was ened her faith with daily Mass, Her autobiography still has Dorothy Day. Her name proba- novenas, rosaries, meditation and the power to disturb with grace bly came as a surprise to many constant prayer. and clarity. It is a Catholic Catholics, since it is likely that Her story would be interesting classic and a story that will chal- most had never heard of her. A enough at this point. Christianity lenge you to examine your own good way to meet her is to read is rich with conversions of former life and faith. n her frank and powerful autobiog- sinners who followed the light to raphy, The Long Loneliness. It is Christ. However, there was more the stark and moving confession growth and understanding ahead DOROTHY DAY, head of Catholic Worker, inside the worker office of a sinner in search of God. for Dorothy. at 175 Christie St. (Photo by Judd The Long Loneliness was first She was angered by the ineq- Mehlman/NY Daily News/Getty) published in 1952 when Day was uities of our society and felt a in the midst of her work for the strong identification with the poor and the dispossessed. She masses who worked in factories was born in Brooklyn in 1897 and shops or had no jobs at all. and moved with her family to As she radiated in the glow of Oakland where she witnessed the her conversion, she steeped her- San Francisco earthquake (and a self in the New Testament, papal community rising from the ashes encyclicals and the lives of the with shared labor and collective saints. acts of charity). Her newspaper- In the words of Jesus she man father was cold and distant, found a path that joined her new prompting the rebellious behavior faith with her lifelong activism. that was so much a part of her The rest of her days were spent character. in service to God and man. She The Day family next moved to lived in voluntary poverty and Chicago; there Dorothy fell under created a Catholic community on the spell of the muckraker writers lower East Side New York where and anarchist teaching. She came she opened soup kitchens and fed of age in New York City, a per- the poor. fect location to follow her dream It was a hard life of relentless of becoming a writer and living a sacrifice, but it was in this selfless Bohemian lifestyle. devotion that she found her saint- In the American press she hood. was as infamous as she was Pope Francis’s praise famous. Her legendary Catholic of Dorothy Day, an earthy Worker newspaper excoriated the chain-smoking woman who is injustices of American life and nobody’s plaster saint, was meant was adamantly anti-war. She was to bring attention to her abiding sympathetic to Communist orga- faith and witness to the Gospels. nizers and was jailed in protests Francis is a pope of mercy and against the government. forgiveness, extending a wide As a young woman living in embrace for sinners and strangers New York City, she had love to the forgiveness of God. affairs and a child out of wedlock. In The Long Loneliness you There were suicide attempts, an will find a real woman who lost abortion, and nervous break- her way and then found a faith downs. A powerful, sinful dark- to move mountains. In praising ness had overcome her. Day, Pope Francis is reminding On the surface, this doesn’t us that faith and works are inde- sound like the story of a saint, pendent of partisan ideologies. but when Dorothy’s daughter Dorothy Day’s politics remain Tamar was born, she felt unac- controversial, but her faith tran- countably flooded with grace and scends party lines. The only doc- the presence of God. Her dark trine she finally believed in was journey led her to the open doors the teachings of Jesus. of the Church, and she began a Day accepted her own long process of conversion. It came at loneliness as a condition of the a high price. She had to leave her soul moving towards God. In common-law husband whom she her autobiography as well as her loved, but who spurned her new- dairies, we see her turmoil and found Catholic faith. She was her joy. Dorothy was relentless in 10 February 2016 Youth It’s time for CONVIVIO Where can young people in 2016 a Jubilee Year of Mercy. the Diocese of Bridgeport come With the theme “Uplift the World together to grow in their faith, with Mercy,” Convivio will discuss issues that are important engage participants in a dialogue to them and have fun at the same about problems facing the world time? Convivio! and themselves, and the power of Since 2010, high school mercy in solving these problems. youth from this diocese have Announcing Convivio, Bishop gathered each year at Sacred Frank J. Caggiano said, “This Heart University for Convivio, beautiful gathering will aim to a worldwide high school con- explore the power of mercy and gress. This year’s event will begin rediscover its richness, as we Friday, March 4, at 5 pm and end strive to deepen our encounter Sunday afternoon, March 6, at 4 with Jesus Christ in a festive and pm. All area high school youth prayerful atmosphere.” are welcome to attend. In 2015, Convivio opens with a wel- almost 300 young people took coming address from Bishop packed and uplifting weekend you can strengthen your faith, engage and contribute to a faith-building part in the weekend. Caggiano. Throughout the week- that enables young people to be in meaningful discussion with kids experience? For more info, contact What makes Convivio so end, attendees listen to thoughtful with God and with friends, old like yourself and have a great time? Maria Cerdena, coordinator of High popular and fulfilling? As Mary presentations that explore the and new. Parents—want to volunteer, lend School Apostles and Convivio: Boyle, a former attendee and a theme of mercy and how it per- (Teens—want to attend so that your talents to a successful Convivio [email protected] or 203.416.1454.) n speaker at the 2016 event recalls, sonally relates to young people in “Six years ago I attended my first today’s world. Guided by trained Convivio and I’ve been changed peer-mentors, small breakout ever since. It gave me the oppor- groups discuss these topics in Teens will fast 30 hours tunity to meet other high school depth with fellow students. There students who remain some of my is also time for fun and social closest friends. I can’t imagine a activities, including games and to fight world hunger better event for the youth of our a Saturday evening concert. But diocese to have fun, make friends, most important, there is time NORWALK—St. Philip and grow in their faith!” for personal reflection, Mass Parish will again be participat- Pope Francis has proclaimed and Confession. Convivio is a ing in World Vision’s 30 Hour Famine during the weekend We are the proud printers of the of February 27- 28. Over the Fairfield County Catholic for the past 20 years. past 13 years, more than 1,200 middle and high school stu- dents have raised in excess of $298,000 to fight hunger both globally and locally. The Famine welcomes youth from multiple local Newspapers schools and many different Publications religious communities around Fairfield County. In the hope Shoppers of bringing an end to world HELPING OTHERS while fasting themselves, teens participating in last Catalogs hunger, the theme for this year’s 30 Hour Famine at St. Philip Parish gathered warm clothes for the year’s Famine is “Hunger homeless. This year’s teens will be working on similar service projects. Magazines Free.” Participating teens will Directories fast for 30 hours while raising money and awareness for the poorest children, and Manna am at St. Philip Church. Coupon Books thousands of people who die House, Norwalk’s soup kitchen. Dr. Ashraf is a Norwalk College Course Catalogs every day from hunger and Parishioners and the public at Hospital Resident who went on hunger-related illnesses. large are also asked to donate a humanitarian medical mission Business & Financial These participants need canned and packaged food for Periodicals to Uganda. He will be speak- your support in their fund-rais- distribution locally. ing about his trip in Uganda Free Standing Inserts ing efforts. Among the many The fast begins at 9 am on and how his experiences as a Advertising Supplements opportunities to contribute Saturday, February 27. The teens, child formed his desire to one include a “Light the Night” adult volunteers, parents and day become a doctor and help luminaria event on Saturday members of the community meet those in the world’s most desti- 205 Spring Hill Road, Trumbull CT 06611 night, February 27. The effort at St. Jerome Church in Norwalk tute places. Dr. Ashraf was so 203.261.2548 will benefit World Vision, an for a “Hunger Walk” from there moved by his time in Uganda international relief organiza- to St. Philip’s. Dr. Sohi Ashraf that he is working on a new and www.trumbullprinting.com tion that serves the world’s will be the keynote speaker at 10 ➤ continued on page 11 Call us for a free quote 11 February 2016 Youth Preparing for World Youth Day 2016

By JANET S. DAVIS taken place since 1985. This year, over three decades later, 256 A humble man, an open pilgrims from our diocese are invitation—and the genesis of preparing to make the journey to World Youth Day is created. The Krakow, Poland, to become stron- year was 1984, the Holy Year of ger and more committed Christian Redemption, and Pope John Paul witnesses. Our 12-day pilgrimage II invited the youth to a gathering will take us by bus and plane on Palm Sunday. Little could across 4,204 miles to Poland. JPII imagine that a simple invita- Our first stop on the journey tion would gather 250,000 young will be Warsaw, where we will people together! spend two days with Bishop The following year the United Frank J. Caggiano on retreat. Nations proclaimed 1985 the It is here that we will continue International Year of the Youth. to grow together in our faith as JPII (now a saint, but still popu- we have done throughout the larly known by the moniker the year in preparation for this pil- youth gave him) once again invit- grimage. From Warsaw we will ed the youth to an International travel to Czestochowa, to the SHARING AND DEEPENING THEIR FAITH, young pilgrims prepare spiritually for the upcoming World Youth Day held recently at the Family Center of Saint Catherine of Siena Parish in Nichols, Trumbull. (Photo by Amy Mortensen) Jubilee in St. Peter’s square to monastery that is home to the celebrate Palm Sunday, and Black Madonna, and then on to 300,000 gathered. It was the year Krakow. our way to World Youth Day. Day. Without his vision we ess of the United States since that was to mark the beginning of Krakow will be our home for We will be accompanied spiritu- would not be encouraged to make 1846, whose maternal love for us World Youth Day. the rest of our pilgrimage. While ally by St. John Paul II, the father this journey. And we will depend brings us all together and points In 2002 JPII attended his final there we will visit Auschwitz, and patron saint of World Youth on Our Blessed Mother, patron- us to God. n World Youth Day in Toronto, celebrate Mass at the Basilica of Canada. While celebrating the Divine Mercy, engage in daily vigil, he spoke to the 800,000 catechesis and enjoy numerous youth and young adults who had evening cultural events. On gathered. “When, back in 1985, Friday with Pope Francis and an I wanted to start World Youth estimated 2.5 million youth and Days, I imagined a powerful young adults from around the moment in which the young world, we will walk the Stations people of the world could meet of the Cross together as one in Christ, who is eternally young, our faith and Christian belief. and could learn from him how to Following this event we will be bearers of the Gospel to other journey by foot five miles to the young people. This evening, vigil site, where we will stay out- together with you, I praise God side overnight in preparation for and give thanks to him for the gift the closing Mass with the Holy bestowed on the Church through Father. the World Youth Days. Millions Our pilgrims ask for your of young people have taken part, intercessions as we continue to and as a result have become bet- prepare for World Youth Day. St. ter and more committed Christian James the Apostle, patron of pil- witnesses.” grim travelers, offers us continued Thirteen International World inspiration while we prepare for Youth Day celebrations have our pilgrimage and as we make

Teens to Fast from page 10 inexpensive way to test the blood and closes with breakfast in the sugar of a patient—he found a mansion. Msgr. Thomas Powers, way to make a difference in a vicar general of the Diocese of place where it felt as if nothing Bridgeport will celebrate the clos- would help. ing Mass and be with the teens as A full day’s program fol- they break their fast. lows, including a blessing in the (To make a donation, church, off-site activities, games, send a check payable to either service projects (including Stop “World Vision” or “Manna House” Hunger Now meal packing and addressed to “Famine” at St. Philip Sole Hope shoe making), music Parish, Fr. Conlon Place, Norwalk, and prayer, and ends at 9:30 pm CT 06851. For more information, with a vigil in the church. contact Kali DiMarco: 203.434.8407 Sunday begins with a group or Claudette Quadrini 203.847.4286, meeting, 10 am Mass and a break- or visit www.stphilipnorwalk. ing of the fast with Eucharist, weebly.com.) n 12 February 2016

EDITORIAL EDITOR’S CHOICE Love is a verb You give up chocolate. It’s tough, but you manage. Or you’re really Scarves warm bodies and hearts into it this Lent, so you give up your favorite TV show for six weeks. NORWALK—If you were out in the winter That much dedication verges on the heroic. But chocolates and TV driving around Norwalk on a cold cold with over shows (yours, certainly) are good things. Why are you giving them up? Saturday in early February, you 150 brightly To get a handle on the answer, consider an entirely different scenar- would have seen a curious sight. colored scarves io. New parents give up restful nights to care for their infant. As years Twenty teens from St. Jerome’s to help alert the go on, they forgo a fancy sports car, give up a favorite TV show for Youth Group, TOTAL, were community that a Nativity play, spend Saturday afternoons at team matches—even if going around town tying scarves homelessness is their kid isn’t the star. A quiet night’s sleep, a nice car, that TV show, to telephone poles and trees. a huge problem a pleasant Saturday off: these are all good things. Parents give them up Each scarf had a tag pinned and that they because they love their children. to it saying, “I am not lost! If can all help. And a funny thing happens. The more they attend school conferences and you are stuck out in the cold, Erin Vallerie, plays, the more hours they swelter on the sidelines at soccer, the more sleep please take this to keep warm.” a senior, said, they lose caring for a sick child… the deeper their love grows. The more It also said, “If you don’t need “We hope that they express their love through action, the more of it they have to give. me, please help those who are in by putting these Christians are people who love and follow Jesus. Love is more than a warm need. Donate to the Open Door scarves all over fuzzy feeling; love is a verb—like parents doing things for their children. When Shelter.” town, people people choose to do things for Jesus, freely giving up what they enjoy to show As the kids made their way will stop and love for him, their love grows. The more they give, the more they love. around town many folks stopped think about the There are plenty of reasons for observing Lent. Growing in love is to ask, “What are you doing?” homeless and one of the best. That was a question the teens will give what of St. Jerome were eager to they can to help answer. “We are tying the scarves those who are Turning Ashes into Life to raise awareness about the less fortunate.” “The beginning of Lent is a penitential time for each of us to pre- problem of homelessness here in As one of the team members “That’s me!” She then held up pare for the celebration of the Lord’s Paschal Mystery—his suffering, Norwalk,” said Ryan Williams, a was tying a scarf a man came up two scarves and said, “Which death and Resurrection. For the next 40 days, we will walk together, junior at Norwalk High School. to her and asked “What are you one would you like?” examine our conscience, face our faults and sins, turn to the Lord for Last year, St. Jerome’s teens doing?” She explained that they The man took a scarf and said his grace, seek conversion of mind and heart and be renewed in spirit. decided to focus their efforts the were trying to raise awareness “God bless you.” It is a privileged time that we should not squander or take for granted. growing homeless population, about homelessness. The man She replied, “God bless you too!” This is the time for us to follow the Lenten disciplines of the Church and on raising money for the pulled a cardboard sign from his (Donations can be made to the so that we can grow in faith, hope and love. Open Door Shelter in Norwalk. coat that read “I am homeless. Open Door Shelter, 4 Merritt Street, The ashes that were distributed come from burnt palms that we used Again this year the teens went Please help” and said to the teen Norwalk, CT 06854.) n last year to welcome the Lord Jesus into the City of David commem- orated on Palm Sunday. It was a welcome that by the end of the same week led Christ to the Cross, as he freely gave his life for our salvation. CLERGYAPPOINTMENTS Such a welcome with palms was reserved for the emperor and his dele- gate as a sign of their power and might. In the case of Jesus, the palms The Most Reverend Frank J. Caggiano, Bishop of Bridgeport, ushered in the victory of love, not the victory of military might. has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Bridgeport: We receive ashes to remind us that every act of might, tyranny, power, selfishness and callous disregard of the poor will be consumed Pastor Parochial Vicar Presbyteral Council by the fire of God’s life. So too will our earthly possessions, opinions, honors, accomplishments, ego and even our very bodies will eventual- REVEREND CARLOS REVEREND ROGERIO PERRI, REVEREND MONSIGNOR ly turn to dust. And what will remain? Only the cross of Jesus Christ, RODRIGUES, Diocesan Director Parochial Vicar of Saint Thomas DARIUSZ J. ZIELONKA, through which you and I will be saved. of Pastoral Care Services to Pastor the Apostle Parish, Norwalk to Judicial Vicar is ex officio Member Let us reflect on the words, “Remember that you are dust and unto of Saint Clement of Rome Parish, Parochial Vicar, Saint James of the Presbyteral Council. dust you shall return.” How great is the love of Christ that can make Stamford. Effective date Parish, Stratford. Effective date Effective date was January 1. was February 15. our ashes into something of eternal value.” (This reflection first appeared is February 22. on Bishop Caggiano’s Facebook page) Monsignor Thomas W. Powers, Vicar General, February, 2016

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love. sometimes, I think we have from under the sheet to reveal But at the end of our conver- too narrow a view of intimate thick plastic bags strapped to Guest Columnist sation, he asks again if he can set moments.” them. “Don’t my new kidneys me up. My friend takes his sky blue look nice?” she asks with a smile. By Carlene Joan Demiany I recently received a response eyes off the road and looks at me. Tears prick my eyes as I won- that gives me greater pause than I am made uncomfortable by the der how joy continues to gush the somewhat familiar “set you slight pity I detect in his gaze. from her nearly organ-less body. Carlene Joan Demiany up with someone” comment. His words remain with me, She runs her fingers over the is a parishoner at St. Thomas I was driving in the car with a and I find myself thinking of bags, stroking them gently. With More, the Catholic Chapel and friend. I told him about my dis- them as I enter a small room a grimace, she lifts her legs and Center at Yale University. cernment. His eyes reminded on smelling of Lysol. I see a frail places them back under the thin the road, but his thumbs began woman resting under thin white sheet. I ask if she needs a blanket. tapping the steering wheel. sheets. It is a hospital room on The answer no. nteresting responses no a sip of sour milk. But then his “Won’t you miss the intimate the oncology floor. Part of my We talk for a while. She doubt follow my admittance expression changes. He now moments?” he asks. ministry includes hospital visits. inquires about life at the church, that I am discerning reli- wears the expression of one I pause. Two thoughts come I walk across the floor, and my the children’s program, and our Igious life. who has figured something out, to my mind. Both relate to a shoes sound loud. I sit in a chair future construction plan. As I “What’s that?” some ask. remembered a forgotten pass- more expansive view of intimacy by the hospital bed and gaze at answer her questions, she gazes “It means I’m thinking of word. than he no doubt has in mind. the woman recently returned at me intently with her forearm becoming a nun,” I answer. “Oh no,” he says. “Don’t My first thought is to pick up my from surgery. A nearly baldhead, resting under her neck. Whenever “Oh.” Silence. “You mean worry. You’re pretty. I’ll set you iPhone and ask Siri about the covered in thin blond hair that she twists and turns under her like Whoopi Goldberg in Sister up with someone.” etymology of the word intimacy. belongs on a baby, rests on a pil- sheet, I hear plastic crinkle. Act.” At this point, I want to hand Perhaps some Latin root will low. Suddenly, playful eyes pop The time comes for me to Others more familiar with him Mother Dolores Hart’s mem- reveal a more expansive defini- open. Eyes so full of life seem out leave. I take her pale hand and women religious ask about moti- oir Ear of the Heart: An Actresses tion. But I decide to leave Siri out of place in her ash-colored face. am careful not to dislodge her IV. vations and inquire why I would Journey from Hollywood to Holy of our conversation. My second “There’s my little friend,” the My warm fingers interlace with want this life in 2016. Vows and share the story of this thought is a scene from “Dead woman greets me. “I was won- her icy ones. We will share a I don’t mind the questions, but Hollywood siren, who left a flour- Man Walking” where Sister dering if you were stopping by.” moment of prayer. I do mind one grating response. ishing movie career and fiancé to Helen Prejean, played by Susan “Of course,” I respond. In my mind, I hear my friend “I’m thinking about becom- embrace religious life. I mention Sarandon, is asked a similar Everything is silent except for ask, “Won’t you miss the inti- ing a nun,” I say to a lapsed Mother Dolores, and we talk question. the purring IV behind me. mate moments?” Catholic. He leans back in his about how religious life is not an What I remember from the “Look at my new bags,” she “No,” I answer silently. “I will chair and looks like he just took escape but a calling to a greater scene informs my answer. “Well, says proudly. Bare legs emerge appreciate them more.” n The Good Lord Made Them All I’m not one of those guys. I be our Clara. comes crashing out of the sky for have a column to write. All of God’s creatures have a splashdown. A Dad’s View “What else do you talk about a place in the choir. That’s my If you’ve never seen a squadron with the geese?” I ask, hoping view. It’s straight out of the of honkers coming in low over a By Matthew Hennessey that my little mentalist doesn’t Catechism of the Catholic Church: pond, wings akimbo, you need to intuit that I’m sketching out a “Animals are God’s creatures. find a way to check it out. It’s a first draft in my mind. He surrounds them with his hoot—one of nature’s treats. “Just stuff,” he says, shutting providential care. By their mere There’s a goose in the cem- Matthew Hennessey and me down, shutting the whole existence they bless him and give etery that has a bad wing. The his family are parishioners thing down. We continue our him glory.” kids call him George. No matter of St. Aloysius in New Canaan. walk in silence. The danger, of course, is that the season, he’s always around. I continue in silence, that is. our affection and respect for the When the rest of his paddling For all I know he’s still talking to beasts of the field can easily get pals pick up sticks and head he geese under- ability?” the geese. out of hand. We are tempted to south, George stays put. Poor stand me,” Paddy “Well, the other day, one of I had a dog when I was grow- grant them human personalities. George can’t fly. says unexpectedly the geese wanted to cross the ing up. He and I had a fine rela- We are tempted to affix upon “Geese are friends with no “Tone cold, spar- path in front of me and in my tionship. Looking back, I can see them human emotions. one,” wrote the essayist and ani- kling February afternoon. We are head I said, ‘It’s okay. You can he was a bit of a mope. Honestly, Animals have their place—but mal lover E.B. White. “But they taking a walk through the ceme- go.’ After he crossed, he looked I’ve always felt most at home I draw the line at buying them are companionable once you get tery across from our house. We back and smiled.” among members of my own spe- seats on airplanes and pushing used to their ingratitude and their come here a lot. “You’re sure he heard you cies. That’s just how I’m built. them around in baby strollers. false accusations.” “They do?” I ask, turning on and understood?” I say. My daughter Clara is built dif- “One can love animals; one George seems different. He my mental tape recorder. These “Oh yeah,” Paddy says. “I talk ferently. She’s almost twelve, so of should not direct to them the trails behind us sometimes when conversations are too precious to to him all the time. We’re friends.” course she’s planning to become affection due only to persons,” we’re walking, almost as if he’s let them go unrecorded. How much running room a veterinarian. And why not? says the Catechism. trying to get our attention. I’ve “Yeah, they do, they can should a father give a boy who Some twelve year-old boy will We visit the cemetery so often always supposed he’s waiting for understand me,” he says. “And I says he can communicate tele- grow up to play center field for it feels like our own private park. us to toss him a bit of bread. can understand them, too.” pathically with a goose? It’s not the Yankees; some twelve year- Usually it’s just us and a gaggle Lately, though, I wonder if “I see,” I say. “And how did clear. Some guys would find a old girl will grow up to become a of Canadian geese. Sometimes we maybe he’s trying to tell us some- you discover that you had this way to gently rein him in. world-famous country vet. Let it get lucky and a new goose crew thing. n 14 February 2016 Papal Visit: Mexico Pope emphasizes dignity During his visit to Mexico corps. As is his custom, he visited in Ecatepec on February 14 in a in February, Pope Francis has a hospital, celebrated Mass with vast open field with some 300,000 addressed the importance of priests, seminarians, religious people. More than 1.7 million recognizing the values of indig- men and women, and visited people live in Ecatepec, which enous cultures, worshipped Cereso Prison in Ciudad Juarez, Vatican Radio described as “a at the Shrine of Our Lady of near the U.S./Mexico border. lawless neighborhood where Guadalupe, spoken of the chal- His most notable activities organized crime, pollution and lenges of immigration issues, and were his Mass in the settlement poverty reign and where most celebrated outdoor Mass in an of Ecatepec on the northern edge people fear to tread.” Ecatepec to step up and work together ed by power, money, and market area notorious for its violence, of Mexico City and another in has become famous as a place to “make this blessed land of trends, have stolen your lands or fueled by poverty and the coun- the southern Mexican state of where it is particularly dangerous Mexico a land of opportunities.” contaminated them.” try’s drug cartels. He met with Chiapas, where he denounced the to be a woman because of mur- It should be a land where, he The Pope told the congrega- Mexico’s President Enrique Peña exploitation and oppression of ders, kidnappings and human said, there is “no need to emi- tion at a soccer stadium in San Nieto and with government rep- indigenous peoples trafficking. grate in order to dream, no need Cristobal de las Casas that we resentatives and the diplomatic Pope Francis celebrated Mass The Pope urged the people to be exploited in order to work, are facing “one of the greatest no need to make the despair and environmental crises in world poverty of many the opportun- history.” The Western world, in ism of a few, a land that will not response to this crisis, should rec- have to mourn men and women, ognize the wisdom of indigenous Saint Mary’s Church young people and children who cultures that revere the earth. “In “The Mother Church of Norwalk” | 669 West Ave., Norwalk | www.stmarynorwalk.net | 203.866.5546 are destroyed at the hands of the this regard, you have much to Pastor: Rev. Richard G. Cipolla Deacon Stephan A. Genovese dealers of death.” teach us.” In Residence: Rev. Paul N. Check, ext. 109; Courage Office: 203.803.1564 The following day the Pope Huge crowds attended every was in Chiapas, a state in south- papal celebration, including his MASSES: CONFESSION SCHEDULE: ern Mexico heavily populated by meeting in Morelia with young Daily Masses: Monday-Friday: 11:30 am-12:00 pm; Native American tribes, principal- people at the José Maria Morelos Monday-Friday 8:00 am, 12:10 pm; Wednesday: 5:30-5:50 pm; Wednesday 6:00 pm Extraordinary Form; ly Mayan, who have often fought Pavon Stadium and Mass at the Saturday 9:00 am Extraordinary Form Saturday: 3:00-4:30 pm with outsiders over development fairgrounds of Ciudad Juarez. n Saturday Anticipatory Mass: of the region’s rich natural ACA 4:00 pm, 7:00 pm (Spanish) ADORATION: resources. Sunday: 8:00 am, 9:30 am Latin High Mass, from page 4 Mondays: 8:30 am-7:00 pm; During a Mass at which 11:30 am English High Mass, Fridays: 8:30 am-5:30 pm 1:15 pm (Spanish) prayers were said in several dif- fessional days and sharing of best ferent native languages, Pope practices.” Francis observed that indigenous Kim Quatella, coordinator of Saint Mary’s Bookstore 203.854.9013 peoples had been excluded from Family Formation, is working on Offering a wide selection of books, crucifixes, rosaries, sacramentals from Italy and the Holy Land, First Communion & Confirmation gifts, & more. power “in a systematic and orga- a number of programs to assist HOURS: Saturday 10am-4pm | Sunday 8am-3pm | Monday-Friday 6-7pm nized way” for generations. Some and enrich families. The Rite of Located in Parish Center building behind Saint Mary Church | VISA/MC ACCEPTED developers, he added, “intoxicat- Christian Initiation (RCIA) process had more than 200 catechumens and candidates from 32 parishes join in the Rite of Election on Saint James Parish February 14. Quatella is meeting now with volunteer couples for the > Lent 2016 > renewed Marriage Preparation days, which will be held monthly begin- “Come back to the Lord with all your heart. Leave the past in ashes and turn to God with tears and fasting, for He is slow to anger and ready to forgive.” Joel 2:13 ning March 19. “We have a lot of ministries that haven’t been tapped A Day for the Sacrament of Reconciliation Prayer Opportunities For Teens into yet—for singles, for separated Tuesday, March 15 – 9:00 am-10:00 pm For Men Youth/Teen Holy Hour and divorced Catholics, for family Fr. Tom and other clergy will be available and Fellowship Gatherings - Every Monday for Confession and healing prayer. Beloved Sons’ Gatherings to grow in faith together, for per- Saturday, February 20 and March 19 from 6:00-8:00 pm in the Chapel sonal renewal of faith,” she said. and Parish Center Communal Penance Service at 6:15 am Through the Annual Catholic for Adults, Youth and Children Thursday, March 3 at 7:30 pm Appeal, Catholics at every stage Tuesday, March 22, 7:00 pm Last Supper Meal - March 14 – 6:00 pm-8:00 pm Men’s Communion Breakfast - Leap of Faith of life can share in the energy Devotional Opportunities Sunday, February 28 - Marriott Courtyard “The Passion of the Christ” movie - and realistic optimism facil- - Shelton March 7 – 5:30-9:00 pm itated by the Office of Faith Stations of the Cross Directly following 7:30 am Eucharist Formation. “There is so much All parishioners are invited to participate Teen Stations of the Cross - March 21 – 6:00-8:00 pm in personal stations at anytime. hope in these ministries,” said For Women Quatella. “Where a lot of people Stations of the Cross: Lenten Retreat - Come Back To Me • Taize Prayer Services see darkness in our culture, the Fridays at 7:30 pm in the Church With All Your Heart Spend an hour before the Eucharist in silent prayer Church should see opportunity on February 12, 19, 26, March 4, 18, 25 Saturday, March 5 8:00 am – 1:00 pm and the contemplative chanting of the monastic community and growth. I see a lot of hope for “The Living Stations of the Cross”: - Parish Center enrichment and renewal.” of Taize, France. Wednesdays- 6:00-7:00 pm - with the children of St. James School, Breaking Bread - Saturday, March 19– 8:00 am - (For more info on the Annual Friday, March 11, 12:30 and 7:30 pm Parish Center Parish Center Chapel - February 17-March 23 Catholic Appeal or to give online, go to www.2016ACAbridgeport.com or 2110 Main Street, Stratford, Connecticut • 203.375.5887 • Rev. Thomas Lynch, Pastor phone 203.416.1470.) n 15 February 2016 Lent Ignatian Spirituality ‘Co-workers in the Vineyard’

By BETH LONGWARE DUFF Exercises, considered to be one program that starts this month of the most influential books on for adults with a theological and Fairfield University’s Center spiritual life ever written. ministerial background who feel for Ignatian Spirituality has The Center for Ignatian called to serve in this ministry. successfully completed its first Spirituality was launched at When the center was first year of service in the Diocese of Fairfield University in late 2014 launched, Father Bowler stat- Bridgeport, and is contemplating with the stated mission of keep- ed, “We are co-workers in the growth in the new year, accord- ing the Ignatian charism alive, vineyard.” He elaborates “God ing to its director. both at the university and affil- desires a personal relationship “It’s been a blessed year,” iated Fairfield Prep, and in the with each one of us, and con- reports Father James Bowler, SJ. Christian community of Fairfield tinually desires to deepen that “We have about 100 people a County. It currently offers four relationship. So it follows that year who go through one form of distinct programs designed to spiritual directors are co-workers the spiritual exercises or another. meet the needs of the greatest with God.” We just finished a major project number of people possible: Last spring, St. Mary Parish in at St. Mary Parish in Ridgefield, 1. A one-week directed prayer Ridgefield became the first con- and we’re going to start at St. retreat focused on listening with gregation in the diocese to partic- St. Mary Church, Ridgefield St. Anthony Church, Fairfield Anthony Parish in Fairfield this the heart to God and recogniz- ipate in the program. “When they Lent. Other parishes are interest- ing one’s feelings and emotional got a chance just to talk about that you can incorporate into grams, the center also offers peri- ed, but we can only do so much!” responses to him. their experience with God, it was your daily life and make your odic lectures and symposiums. In Father Bowler defines Ignatian 2. A 10-week introduction to like a match had been thrown on own,” she says. “The week of March it will host New York Times Spirituality as an encounter with Ignatian Spirituality called the gasoline—it kind of erupted in spiritual direction was phenom- bestselling author Father Jim the living God that makes it pos- Ignatian Encounter that involves the room,” recalls Father Bowler. enal! The course introduced us Martin, SJ, for a discussion of his sible to develop a personal rela- a team of 15 spiritual directors “I think it signifies what people to all the principles, but then you new book The Seven Last Words: tionship with him and to find him who meet with directees for one need and what they’re crying out have to go home and do it—and An Invitation to a Deeper Friendship in all things. It is based on the hour each week. for is a deepening awareness of that requires discipline. I found with Jesus. And throughout 2016 teachings of St. Ignatius Loyola, 3. A retreat in daily life that God in their live.” that I could get to a place of a it will collaborate with the dio- founder of the Society of Jesus, offers a programmed series of Peggy Ceponis, a St. Mary’s more connectedness with God.” cese to identify possible roles it or Jesuits, whom he conceived as prayer experiences requiring parishioner who completed the In addition to the existing pro- ➤ continued on page 25 “contemplatives in action.” After a five-month commitment to initial series of meetings, is now experiencing his own conversion, spend an hour a day in prayer a group facilitator in Ridgefield. Ignatius became an expert in and reflection as well as a weekly She says that the program has you are invited to the art of spiritual direction and meeting with a spiritual director. made a tangible difference in her compiled his insights, prayers 4. Spiritual direction train- everyday life. “The St. Ignatius and suggestions in the Spiritual ing, a new two-year certificate way is teaching you a message discover lauralton Live the Lauralton Life!

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By SALLY SISSON on giving back, even though his and Church leaders, board mem- own children are now grown. bers, teachers, parents and alum- For nearly 150 years the About 10 years ago, he began ni—have been working hard to schools that comprise the serving on St. Andrew Academy’s grow the rich offerings at all four Catholic Academy of Bridgeport finance committee, where he schools and to make this excep- have educated students through- became actively involved in tional education affordable and out the greater Bridgeport area. Leaders of Tomorrow, a program accessible to as many students as The four Catholic Academy cam- that gives donors the opportunity possible. puses (St. Raphael, St. Augustine, to sponsor a student for an aca- The outcomes speak for them- St. Ann and St. Andrew) provide demic year—or, in the case of selves: Test results that are at or a comprehensive academic cur- Boyd, for several academic years. above the national average; grad- riculum and something more: Boyd is proud to sponsor a uating students who are moving a well-rounded approach that young girl named Maria, cur- on to the finest high schools and educates the whole child—mind, ACTIVELY INVOLVED in Leaders of Tomorrow, Dennis Boyd is proud to rently in the third grade. “We’re colleges; students from all walks sponsor a Catholic Academy student, currently in the third grade. “We’re working body and spirit. hard to grow this valuable program,” he explains. “It’s rewarding for all involved.” working hard to grow this valu- of life who are eager and pre- Today these diverse schools able program,” he explains. “It’s pared to learn, lead, and make a shine brighter than ever, with rewarding for all involved.” positive impact in the world. cutting-edge technology, vibrant An active prayer life with oppor- students’ lives—and in the lives Indeed, the entire communi- (To learn more about the Catholic arts programs and after-school tunities for worship together fuels around them. ty that comprises the Catholic Academy of Bridgeport, visit catholi- sports and enrichment activities. not only character formation for Take Tom Gaudett, for Academy of Bridgeport—school cacademybridgeport.org.) n Students are prepared for leader- life, but also impels them to serve instance. After graduating from St. ship and success in high school, others in need. The social gospel Augustine Academy a decade ago, college and beyond. is alive in the hearts of the chil- Tom went on to the elite Fairfield Why a Catholic school? In dren as they live Gospel values in Prep and then Harvard University, surveys, parents continually rein- a very divided world. where he graduated magna cum State & national force the importance of religious What makes the Catholic laude in 2014. From there he values and the development of Academy schools so special? applied to Teach for America and faith in their children, even if Many say it’s the profound landed a job as a fifth-grade public winners honored they are not all Roman Catholic. impact they continue to make in school teacher back in Bridgeport. He felt an impulse to teach, he NORWALK— said, to give back to the commu- The Catholic nity, to pay it forward and provide Daughters, Court St. others with the type of education Matthew, is proud that shaped him most. to announce the When asked which institu- winners from the tion made the biggest impact, he National Education named St. Augustine’s, where he Contest for 2015. spent his elementary and middle The themes for the school years, as the most forma- year were “Love tive by far. Your Neighbor as “Through Fairfield Prep Yourself” and “Be and Harvard I got a world class a Good Neighbor.” NATIONAL WINNERS in poetry and art, (l-r) education. They helped me to Entries were accepted Kara Fitzgerald from All Saints and Madison Bartek from Our Lady of Fatima with Marie excel academically, without any in the categories of Essay, Poetry, Art Crispi, education chair from the Court St. doubt,” he says. “But who I am Matthew Catholic Daughters. and what I believe and what I and Computer Art. will do in my life is all attribut- Several students able to St. Augustine’s.” from Our Lady of Fatima School in Wilton and All Saints School At St. Augustine’s, the teach- in Norwalk won First Place in their chosen categories. All first ers gave him the inner tools, the place winners went on to the National Competition, where two belief and confidence to move students achieved national honors. As luck would have it, both forward productively in his schools were represented among the national winners, both in dif- life, he says. “They laid a great ferent categories. foundation academically and in All Saints School state level winners: Poetry (Division 1), Kara character formation, preparing Fitzgerald; Essay (Division 1), Isabella Gaiakootis; and Computer me for college and for whatever Art, Jamie Brown. else I’ll achieve in the years to Our Lady of Fatima state winners: Art (Division 1), Madison come.” Bartek; Art (Division 2) Ryan Wauthier; and Essay (Division 2), The four Catholic Academy Anastasia Pshyk. campuses are a welcome desti- At the National Competition, Kara Fitzgerald from All Saints nation for families looking for received Second Place nationally in Poetry, while Madison Bartek something above and beyond from Our Lady of Fatima took Third Place in Art. the standard offerings, with The students received the certificates and awards at a Mass in many parents feeling the strong the chapel of Notre Dame Convalescent Center in Norwalk. “We draw of the school community. are so proud of all our contestants, and happy for the recognition Dennis Boyd, a former Catholic of our state and national winners,” said Marie Crispi, education Academy board member, keeps chair for the Court St. Matthew. n 17 February 2016 St. Jude, Monroe Programs engage students beyond the classroom

By HOLLY ROBINSON “Ours is a school that nurtures WTNH News Channel 8 affiliate each student’s innate sense of station. It was a busy day for St. Jude curiosity and inquiry, and encour- “We’ve been very impressed ST. JUDE SCHOOL STUDENTS CONDUCT experiments in engineering at School students recently, as they ages exploration and innovation.” with the students’ level of partic- Fairfield University. hunkered down to test the appli- Located in Monroe, St. Jude ipation, knowledge and effort,” cations of Newton’s Laws by is the area’s first diocesan Pre- says Bridge Program coordinator using a collision car and physics K-8 school to develop external Melissa Carlo. to the classroom, just as real life School of Excellence by the U.S. cannons in the laboratories of STEM (Science, Technology, St. Jude’s new partnerships learning is not an isolated experi- Department of Education, offers Fairfield University. Engineering and Mathematics) encompass expanded learning ence,” says Peterson. “Because of the area’s only elementary school Before heading home, the partnerships. In addition to work- opportunities in the humanities St. Jude School’s strong focus on science lab, and the faculty inte- students studied polymers with ing with Fairfield University, St. as well. The first such partner- learning, compassion and faith, grates technology into all aspects an electron microscope and then Jude is partnering with Sacred ship with St. Joseph High School my daughter is well prepared of learning. The new partnerships toured the engineering machine Heart University, where students allows students in grades 2-8 to to transition to St. Joseph High with highly regarded institutions, shop to examine lathes and 3D can study advanced topics in biol- study Mandarin. St. Jude stu- School this coming year.” locally as well as across the printers as they discussed how ogy, human anatomy, and physi- dents can even Skype with their Students also recognize the world, are designed to engage stu- engineers are working around the ological sciences. peers at the Furen Middle School wide-ranging benefits of these dents beyond the classroom with world to solve problems like sus- St. Jude has also established in Wuxi, China, an activity unique learning opportunities. unique hands-on learning experi- tainable farming and providing an innovative eight-week Junior which not only strengthens lan- “The knowledge that I have ences and resources. clean water. Meteorology Program with guage skills, but also provides a learned over the years will “We’re proud to be able to All U.S. schools introduce Western Connecticut State broader world perspective. stick with me for life,” says offer these new opportunities to topics like biology, chemistry, University’s Bridge Program. “As an adjunct college profes- eighth-grader Emily McGovern. stimulate the curiosity of young meteorology, physics and even Using the university’s physical sor, I recognize the value of pro- “St. Jude School has not just pre- minds, and to foster a deeper robotics in the classroom, but at science buildings and studio viding students with exposure to pared me for high school, but for understanding and meaning in St. Jude, students can now grasp production facilities, St. Jude’s higher education at a young age,” the world beyond it.” what our students are learning,” the true relevance of what they’re students explore weather patterns says Christine Peterson, whose “Since its founding in 1962, Higgins says, adding that St. Jude learning through dynamic new with university professors, learn daughter, Olivia, is an eighth- St. Jude has become widely graduates gain admission to top partnerships with universities and how data feeds are compiled to grade student at St. Jude. “This recognized for providing chal- private and diocesan secondary secondary schools. create weather prediction mod- initiative demonstrates the ability lenging academics in a learning schools. “When students gradu- “We recognize that learning els, and even get a behind-the- of the school’s faculty and admin- environment that is integrated, ate from St. Jude, we want them isn’t bound by classroom walls, scenes look at what it takes to istration to think outside the box personalized and informed by to be ready for success in high education levels or national produce local news and weather when it comes to education,” she Gospel values,” Dr. Higgins says. school and beyond and eager to boundaries,” says Dr. Patrick reports with a trip to Charter adds. The school, which was recently make a positive impact in the Higgins, the school’s principal. Communications in Newtown, a “The lessons are not limited named a National Blue Ribbon world.” n St. Lawrence welcomes new friends from Korea SHELTON—The concept of a ular school day. In some classes it “voyage” and seeing aspects of global, interconnected world sud- was easier to engage the students their school days with new eyes. denly became real for St. Lawrence than others. During gym class, Following the first period of School students as they welcomed the older boys impressed the mid- outdoor play with the visiting stu- fifteen Korean students into their dle school students with their bas- dents, St. Lawrence preschoolers community for the month of ketball skill but weren’t too sure returned to their classrooms with January. These young travelers about the floor hockey. smiles, waves good-bye, and the arrived in the United States on “Our guests tended to be more spontaneous, “Goodbye, new Sunday, January 10, and moved complimentary of the school friend.” into their host family homes in lunches than those who have As the weeks passed, deeper Shelton. With smiles and enthu- been eating these same lunches connections were formed. “The siasm, but limited English, the already for 100+ days,” noted Korean students departed for the Korean youngsters began to navi- Principal Beth Hamilton with a airport on Saturday morning at gate American culture. laugh. “The fourth-graders were the end of January with many St. Lawrence teachers used intrigued when one creative vis- teary goodbyes by both the stu- books about Korean folktales itor turned his plastic fork and dents and the host families,” says and culture and Google Earth spoon into chopsticks in order to Principal Hamilton. “During maps to prepare their classes to best enjoy his meal!” the first few days, our students welcome the visitors. Most of the Marcel Proust, French nov- were focused on the differences teachers uploaded a translation elist, noted “The real voyage of between them and their guests. app to their phones in case com- discovery consists not in seeing About mid-way through the visit, munication came to a standstill. new lands but in seeing with the focus shifted to all that we The Korean students, rang- new eyes.” Although the St. had in common despite language FOR A CLOSING DINNER, some of the Korean visitors to St. Lawrence ing from third grade through School wore their traditional dress and encouraged host students to join them. Lawrence students didn’t phys- barriers. This experience was eighth grade, followed their St. The Korean children had spent the month of January in an exchange program ically travel like their Korean transformational for some of our Lawrence buddies through a reg- at St. Lawrence. counterparts, they are all on a students and positive for all.” n 18 February 2016 Schools Kolbe students ‘wowed’ by enrichment program BRIDGEPORT—Kolbe Gallery of Rising Opera Stars at we’re often hampered by the cost Cathedral High School stu- Carnegie Hall, N.Y., toured the of transportation and ticket prices dents have been on the move Wadsworth Atheneum, went to to make the trips affordable to and expanding their experi- the Connecticut Supreme Court students,” said President Jo-Anne ences in the arts and history. building and talked to one of the Jakab. Through the sponsorship and justices, and went through the CT O’Connor, a partner in planning efforts of board mem- Historical Society Museum, getting Deserio Martin O’Connor & ber Brian O’ Connor, many a first-hand look at the diary of Castiglioni, LLP, in Stamford, students have attended the New Nathan Hale and the State Charter, decided to “make it happen” for Haven Symphony and cham- signed by King Charles II. KCHS. The trips are offered to ber concerts at Yale’s Woolsey “We are surrounded by so students at no cost and O’Connor Hall, heard a presentation many wonderful opportunities and his wife, Maura, chaper- from the Puccini Foundation within the Tri-State area, but oned, scheduled docents and tour guides and added their own extensive personal knowledge to PERFORMERS from the New Haven Symphony describe their technique to Annual Children’s the events. Kolbe students. “We raised our kids and took Tag Sale them to museums and concerts,” true. I have always wanted to “We never really thought about St. Thomas More Church said Brian O’Connor. “We want- go there,” said Onye Nnodum, a attending a symphony or listening Darien, Connecticut ed the kids at Kolbe to have the junior. The experience, normally to opera,” said sisters Amber and same opportunities.” beyond her reach, meant a lot Alyssa Paz. “It was an awesome Saturday, March 12th from 9am-1pm The school events coordina- to this young woman who is an experience and opened our eyes tor is guidance counselor Sarah active member of both the school to the many places to go to appre- Early Bird Entry at 8am with $10 donation Menard, a graduate of KCHS, and diocesan choirs. ciate the arts. The galleries were Numbers handed out at 7:30am who accompanied every group. Students have been “wowed” interesting and the docents and “They were so welcoming at Children’s clothes, furniture, toys, by the music they have experi- tour guides were extremely help- Yale,” O‘Connor said. “We were enced and impressed by the artists ful. We will definitely want to baby and sport equipment even invited to have lunch with who took the time to meet and take advantage of other opportu- the freshman. These kids are real- greet after their performances. nities in the future.” n 374 Middlesex Road, Darien, Connecticut ly broadening their horizons.” Directions: Exit 10 from 95 to Noroton Avenue. Head north “Being at a concert at on Noroton to Middlesex Road. East (right) on Middlesex to Church Carnegie Hall was a dream come St. Cecilia, Stamford NECA Chess Player of the Year STAMFORD—On December 18, the National Educational Chess Association announced its 2015 Scholastic Chess Player of the Year: Vikram Sarkar of St. Cecilia School. Vikram is a second-grader at St. Cecilia and started his scho- lastic chess career in May of this year, earning an initial rating of 649 at the 24th NECA tournament. He played nine tournaments over the course of 2015, earning first place in the primary divi- sion of the National Scholastic Chess Foundation tournament at Greenwich Academy on November 15, first place in the primary open division of the 27th NECA tournament at King School on December 6, and first place again in the primary division at the Ward Scholastic December 12. Vikram finished the year with a rating of 948 with 24 wins, nine losses and three draws after 36 games at nine tournaments. “Vikram has had a tremendous start to his tournament expe- rience, and we congratulate him and his family for being rec- ognized as NECA Scholastic Player of the Year for 2015,” said NECA President Alex Eydelman. “We wish him the best of luck in 2016 and we look forward to seeing him at our next event.” The NECA Scholastic Player of the Year recognition dis- tinguishes a player who has enjoyed a successful season within their experience and age level, and who in the judgment of the NECA shows exceptional promise for the future of their chess development. n 19 February 2016 Book Review Angels in the Bible tells stories of God’s messengers “Angels do more than deliver get tough. As the story of Elijah angel Gabriel’s visit to Mary messages. A holy man named shows, angels are God’s messen- and the angel’s lighting up the Elijah Found out that they make gers, helping people, telling them sky with joy at our Savior’s birth great bread, too.” In Angels in in many different ways about a take on new life in these vibrant the Bible Storybook by Allia Zobel new gift God is sending or what accounts. The final story, based Nolan, with illustrations by Alida God wants them to do for him. on the Book of Revelation, makes Massari, children will delight to Each story, taken directly from glorious sense out of an extreme- find out that Elijah, in spite of the Bible, includes its Scriptural ly complex book in the Bible. his troubles, gained courage to go reference, anchoring them in Italian artist Alida Massari’s back to doing God’s work. reality. The account of Elijah, the illustrations give angels (who In these stories, angels shout idolatrous Queen Jezabel and the are, after all, pure spirit without for joy as the world is created. worship of the false god Baal, and bodies) an aura of strength and They’re often sent to tell a woman Elijah’s courage to speak God’s wonder. They enhance the sto- a surprise baby is on the way. word is found in 1 Kings 18:16-39; ries and help young children see They warn people when danger 19:1-15. Although the storybook something of the majesty angels lurks nearby. When times call for is directed at children, Catholic bring to their tasks. it, they’ll even talk to a donkey. parents who grew up with little “The Lord will command his In these thirty stories, 15 knowledge of the Bible will be fas- angels to take good care of you. from the Old Testament and 15 cinated by the accounts of Balaam They will lift you up in their from the New Testament, young and his donkey, the three Hebrew hands” (Psalm 91:11-12)). children—and the parents who children and the angel who (Allia Zobel Nolan is a member read to them—will learn the walked with them in the fire and of St. Jerome Parish in Norwalk. ways these powerful, mysterious Daniel sleeping in the lion’s den. Angels in the Bible Storybook, creatures come to bring good Even the more familiar New published by Zonderkidz, is available news and help people when times Testament description of the online and through local bookstores.) n 20 February 2016 Obituaries Sister Mary Jane Card, 94 Sister Clare Sister Mary Jane Card, RSM, Sister Mary Jane taught for After joining Our Lady of 94, of the Sisters of Mercy died 30 years in parish elementary Fatima Parish in Wilton in 1988, peacefully on November 28, 2015, schools throughout the three she established a program to assist Keleher, SND, 96 at Notre Dame Convalescent Connecticut dioceses. A lit- the elderly and homebound, and Home, Norwalk. Born in Wilton tle-known ministry, to which continued to serve parishioners at On January 25, at age 96, Sister Clare Keleher was called on August 19, 1921, she was the she was wholly devoted, was St. home, as well as those at Ogden home to the Lord. Born in Massachusetts in 1920, she entered fourth of 11 children. Benedict Interracial Center in House, Wilton Meadows and The the Waltham Province of the Sisters of Notre Dame de Namur An alumna of Our Lady of the north end of Hartford, where Greens and Brookdale during her on August 7, 1938. Mercy Academy, Lauralton she taught religious education 25 years of service at the parish. When the number of foundations of the Sisters in Connecticut Hall, she was drawn to a reli- and made home visits to the sick, On June 29, 2014, the parish began to increase, Sister Clare was among the number of native gious vocation by the devotion elderly and poor with compas- celebrated her 75 years of conse- Massachusetts Sisters who were transferred to the Connecticut of the Sisters there, and entered sionate service and care. crated life with a restatement of Province. the Sisters of Mercy on July 1, In later life, she explored a her commitment vows during the In 1963, Sister Clare moved to the Diocese of Bridgeport as a 1939. She professed her vows variety of ministries. Gifted with noon Mass. In her own words, member of the Community of the Sisters of Notre Dame she was on January 2, 1942, taking the keen intelligence and boundless “I have had a beautiful, fulfilling among the Sisters living in the Provincial House in Fairfield until religious name of Sister Maria energy, Sister Mary Jane became Mercy life; I loved every one of it was sold to the Jesuits in 1989. Germaine. She earned a bach- a published writer, water colorist, the ministries that called to me.” For many years, Sister Clare was involved in ministry at elor’s degree from St. Joseph successful administrator, retreat A Mass of Resurrection was Saint Thomas Aquinas Parish in Fairfield. In a surprising and College, now the University of house director, therapeutic recre- celebrated for Sister Mary Jane unusual assignment, she also worked with the Fairfield Public St. Joseph, and a master’s degree ation director and served numerous on December 4 at Our Lady of School System as a counselor and tutor in the Homebound from Fairfield University. She non-profit organizations as organiz- Fatima Church in Wilton. Burial Program. also did advanced study in geron- er, enthusiastic leader and volun- was in St. Mary Cemetery in The Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated for Sister Clare tology at University of Colorado. teer continuing through retirement. West Hartford. n on January 27 at the Notre Dame du Lac Chapel in Worcester, Mass. Burial followed in the Notre Dame du Lac Cemetery. n

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22 February 2016 Sports Matakevich: From All-State to All-American linebacker

By DON HARRISON vided the leadership and grit Kim Matakevich, who live in that propelled Temple from an Stratford, reveled in their son’s Tyler Matakevich is living also-ran to a 10-4 record and triumphs by attending virtually all his dream. Complementing his the Eastern Division champion- of his Temple games across four innate talent with determination ship of the American Athletic seasons. and enthusiasm, he made the Conference. Coach Matt Rhule’s “My husband missed only one quantum leap from St. Joseph Owls clinched the 2015 division game and I missed two in four High, Trumbull, football star to title with a 27-3 victory over years,” said Kim, who describes college All-American. Connecticut on November 28. her son as “a small-town boy” Consider: In his senior season He concluded his Temple whose successes on and off the at Temple University, the former career with a school-record 481 field are “a dream come true.” Cadets’ two-time All-State line- tackles, and became just the sev- In December, Matakevich backer (2009-10) was voted a con- enth NCAA player in the nation completed his degree in adult and sensus First-Team All-American to record 100-plus tackles in each organizational development from and won both major prizes as of four seasons. Rhule thought it Temple’s College of Education, the nation’s defensive player of appropriate that Matakevich beat so now—when not attending the year—the Bronko Nagurski out two other All-Americans, awards dinners—he is training for Trophy and the Chuck Bednarik Reggie Ragland of Alabama and a playing career in the National Award. Carl Nassib of Penn State, for the Football League. The NFL draft Since their founding in the Bednarik Award. is scheduled for April 28-30. TEMPLE’S TYLER MATAKEVICH, a former St. Joe’s Cadets’ two-time early 1990s, Matakevich is “He showed that somebody “I rooted for the Jets growing All-State linebacker, was presented the Bronko Nagurski Award as the nation’s the first collegiate player with from Temple can stand next to up,” he says, “but I’ll play for any defensive player of the year at a banquet December 8 in Charlotte, N.C. Connecticut ties to win these cov- a kid from Alabama and a kid team that picks me.” eted awards. from Penn State and win,” Rhule Matakevich’s attachment to “I didn’t know that,” he said said. “And he deserved it. He’s St. Joseph High is seemingly Haven on January 16.” performance in the championship in a telephone interview earlier the kind of guy people can root lifelong, perhaps because his dad With Matakevich at linebacker against Ansonia, scoring four this month. “Football has always for. Every time we asked him to was an assistant to football coach and running back, St. Joseph won touchdowns as St. Joe’s broke been a dream. I never thought I’d do something, he answered. He Joe Della Vecchia for 13 years. back-to-back CIAC state cham- open a close game to prevail, get this far. It’s been surreal.” gave of himself. Whatever it is, So there was little doubt Tyler pionships in 2009 and 2010. A 49-28, at UConn’s Rentschler As team captain, the 6-foot, he has it.” would become a Cadet. broken foot prevented him from Field. 232-pound Matakevich pro- Tylers parents, Dave and “I’ve been going up to St. playing in the first five games of The foot injury was said to Joe’s for as long as I can remem- his senior season, but he returned discourage many of Matakevich’s ber,” he says. “Coach Dell and I to power the Cadets to their would-be football suitors, but not Elementary Catholic School Principal Candidates are close. He was at the Walter second straight state title. He Temple. “I never thought any of Camp (All-American Awards) capped his scholastic career with this was possible,” he says. “It’s The Archdiocese of Hartford is seeking committed, energetic, n visionary principal candidates interested in leading Catholic Dinner with my family in New an exclamation point-worthy been great.” elementary education into the future. Successful candidates will possess at a minimum the following qualifications: • Practicing Catholic in good standing with the Roman Catholic Church • Master’s Degree from a regionally accredited college/university Youth Choir spring date set • Five years successful teaching and/or administrative experience Contact Mrs. Maria Maynard via Diane Newell at: Join Bishop [email protected]. Frank’s Choir for Youth at 3:30 pm on Sunday, April 24, at St. Luke Church in Westport for their inaugural spring concert: “Lift Every Voice.” The concert will feature arrange- ments of well-known hymns and songs as well as a few signa- ture favorites. The one hour long, family friendly concert is free for all and first-come, first-serve. Join us for an afternoon of joyful singing! n 23 February 2016 Sports Bike joins Lilly as National Player of Year

By DON HARRISON (NSCAA). She joins three other was mentioned. “Her niece,” she seamless fashion this past fall, 2015 season was the 2-0 loss to recipients from Connecticut: Lilly noted, “plays on the same team leading St. Joseph to a 22-1 Ridgefield in the FCIAC title When soccer is the subject, is (1986), the former Wilton High with my youngest sister (Julia).” record and its second state title match. Nogueira: “Give all the it time to place Jenna Bike and star who became a household St. Joe’s coach Jack Nogueira in the past three seasons. She credit to Ridgefield.” St. Joe’s Kristine Lilly in the same declara- name when the U.S. National wasn’t surprised in the least by contributed a goal and assist in won back-to-back FCIAC cham- tive sentence? Team won the 1999 World Bike’s latest honor. “Jenna is the St. Joe’s 2-0 victory over Suffield pionships in 2012 and ’13. The answer is an emphatic “yes.” Cup championship; Vanessa most talented player I’ve coached in the Class L championship Nogueira is pleased that all Bike, St. Joseph High of Pruzinsky (Trumbull, 1998), and here. She has the talent, the drive match. four of the Cadets’ 2015 captains Trumbull’s 2014 Gatorade Player Kia McNeill (Avon, 2003). and determination to succeed,” Overall, she registered a will be playing at the collegiate he says. “She’s a great teammate career-high 25 goals as a senior, level next fall—Marissa Grasso and very humble.” and will depart with two St. at Bryant, Leah Lewis at Colgate, Winning this prestigious Joseph career records, 77 goals Samantha Lello at Endicott national award, he adds, “is a and 43 assists. (Mass.), and Bike at BC. combination of what she’s done “Jenna Bike is remarkably fast “I think Jenna will be a star here at St. Joe’s, her club team with or without the ball,” says on the college level,” he says. and the national team.” Dan Uhrlass, Trumbull’s head “Boston College plays in the Indeed, Bike also plays the coach. “She is dangerous because Atlantic Coast Conference, the game with skill and resolve for she can go by defenders with ease. No. 1 conference for women’s the Connecticut Football Club Other players simply are not used soccer. It wouldn’t surprise me if and the U.S. Under-18 Women’s to how quick she is on the ball.” she was the rookie of the year in National Team. In mid-Decem- The only glitch in the Cadets’ the ACC.” n ber, she was among 24 national team players who competed at the U.S. Olympic Training Center in Chula Vista, Calif. On December 5, Jenna played for the East squad—coached by Nogueira—in the annual High School All-American game in Raleigh, N.C. Why did she choose to embrace soccer instead of anoth- er sport? “I’m so competitive and soccer is such a competitive sport,” she explains. “I also love the traveling. I’ve already played soccer in seven countries.” Beyond U.S. borders, the old- est of Stan and Beth Bike’s three daughters has played the game in Russia— “I was in Russia when of the Year, two-time American “When I got the call, I was they invaded Ukraine,” she says, and four-time All-State for- completely caught off guard,” matter-of-factly—Turkey, Croatia, Youth Choir spring date set ward, was chosen as the 2015 says Bike, who has committed to Italy, Mexico and Costa Rica. National High School Player of attending Boston College. “I had The Cadets’ 5-foot-6 senior the Year by the National Soccer no idea I was even nominated.” forward completed the scholastic Coaches Association of America She chuckled when Lilly’s name portion of her career in nearly

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softened. night can comfort. It can, to some Night has long been recog- I tend to find a peace watching degree, wash out the day’s distress. nized as a sacred time. It is the Potpourri a day end, even though it is the There is the kindness of night. time of silence. Sometimes the close of another day of my small The night has different faces. silence seems palpable. “My By Thomas H. Hicks segment of time. Shelly spoke There is the thick black night that soul longs for you in the night, of being “cradled within the holds no stars. Darkness rules my spirit within me seeks You” embrace of night”(The Sensitive everywhere. There’s that special (Isa.26:9). St. John of the Cross Plant). blackness of night over water that speaks of the soul going forth to Thomas Hicks is a member Night makes an end of the one sees, for example, from a seek the Beloved under cover of noise and bustle of the day. It can cruise ship. darkness. of St. Theresa Parish in Trumbull. be gentle and soothing. I find the There’s the night of moonlight The night is a holy time. God night companionable. and stars in a soft purple sky. can be experienced in the silent Night was a time which Jesus The sky is serene and silently darkness in a unique way. It’s I enjoy being outdoors at loved. He habitually “went out resplendent with stars. It’s a gen- been said that silence is God’s ights and days, bless the time of day when the sky is into the hills to pray, and he tle, magic night, flooded by the first language. As the Psalmist the Lord. beginning to be gradually emp- spent the whole night in prayer to soft light of the moon. Few things put it, “Be silent and know that Light and darkness, tied of its color as the gathering God” (Lk.6:12). in this world are so beautiful as I am God” (Psalm 46:10). The Nbless the Lord. dark thickens. Shadows disap- It’s true that night is a time the light of the moon shining on mystic, Johann Tauler, said: (Liturgy of the Hours, pear before the conquering dark, when we are most vulnerable to breaking waves along the shore. “You must be silent. Then God Morning Prayer, Sundays) and all that is hard and sharp is the demons of worry and fear. But Humans have seen the same will be born in you, will utter moon for millions of years. His word in you, and you shall And those stars in a night hear it” (Spiritual Conferences, sky! As John Updike wrote: “the p.27). numbers are so grand they seem “The Lord is not in noise” fabulations ... a hundred billion (3Kings 19:1). stars in our own galaxy ... and a Thomas Merton told how “I hundred billion galaxies beyond. get out of bed in the middle of the Such numbers numb us.... What night because it is imperative that I or Who placed the stars and gal- hear the silence of the night alone axies, quasars and black holes out and, kneeling on the floor, I say there?” (Toward the End of Time, psalms in the silence of the night.” p.327). A night silence can be so Isaiah wrote: “Lift up your distinct that it is almost a sound eyes and look at the sky. Who unto itself, a silence so deep that created all these? He who brings you can hear it. There is the out the starry host one by one, silence that speaks and makes and calls them each by name. itself heard if you listen to it. Because of his great power not Night—that comes between a one of them is ever missing” day gone and a day to come. And (40:26). a person remembers by night; The earliest civilizations, the night is never alone, it remem- first navigators, the astrologers bers. At night “they” return to us. of old, all looked up at these We praise your name same stars. Somehow there is with joy this night: the soothing reassurance of stars. Please watch and guide us When I’m home at night, it pleas- till the light. es me to think that the stars were (Liturgy of the Hours, Evening there, just outside the window. Prayer, Tuesday, Ordinary Time) n POSITION AVAILABLE Development Director - Malta House

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anything worth watching among are some descriptions of the most some involving animals and some recent releases, even though popular movies in America: in the context of war and surviv- Swimming Upstream Hollywood spends mega-millions An adventure “rated R for brutal al. Scene of sexual violence. Gory producing and marketing what I violence, language throughout, some and grotesque images.” By Joe Pisani consider (word deleted). sexual references and drug use.” It makes you wonder why a Most films are saturated with A thriller “rated R for strong society that deplores bloodshed, cursing, profanity, drug use, sex violence, grisly images and lan- gun violence, killing and sexual and violence, and what they call guage.” assault has the hypocrisy to con- Joe Pisani has been a writer “full frontal nudity” and “graphic A Golden Globe winner done and praise those activities in bloodshed.” None of this can be “rated R for strong bloody vio- its entertainment? and editor for 30 years. good for our families. lence, a scene of violent sexual There’s only one solution. The more you watch, the content, language and some And it has to start in your own more desensitized you become. graphic nudity.” home, especially if you want to few Saturdays ago, my Norman Rockwell-like, doesn’t It’s unfortunate that the debate An Academy Award nominee protect your children and grand- wife and I spent the it? Except for one thing. The about violence in America never “rated R for frequent explicit children. Turn off the TV and evening at the movies. movie. You see, I can never find holds the entertainment industry violence with blood and brutal stop watching films with profani- ANot exactly in the tra- a movie worth watching, espe- accountable, even though several detail.... Depictions of beating, ty, graphic violence and sex. You ditional sense. No multiplex, no cially since my list of all-time hundred studies have found a shooting, stabbing, dismember- may never get to the red carpet at malls, no over-priced Milk Duds favorites includes The Bells of St. direct correlation between vio- ment, mauling and/or burning; the Oscars and you may not be and no excessively large tub of Mary’s, It’s a Wonderful Life, St. lence in TV and film and aggres- Frequent portrayals of gun, weap- trendy, but Christians were never hot buttered popcorn that can Ralph, and Narnia, along with sive, anti-social behavior. ons, and hand-to-hand violence, supposed to be trendy. n clog an artery or two before the Mission Impossible and a romantic It’s also no secret that final credits roll. Sandy has an comedy or two or 32 that my Hollywood deplores traditional addiction to that stuff, and just wife has forced me to watch over values and exalts what was once once I’d like to see the nutritional the years. I like movies that have considered sinful by society. CATHOLIC value, not to mention a Surgeon a spiritual dimension and elevate Good men and women with General’s warning about the humanity rather than constantly integrity are hard to find in the PROFESSIONAL chemically enhanced substance tear it down. movies, and characters are moti- that tastes like butter. The other night, I found an vated more by base instincts, evil NETWORK Our night at the movies is old Bing Crosby flick titled Little intentions and corrupt agendas. always a bit eccentric. I rent a Boy Lost about a news corre- And in recent years, the Catholic movie from the iTunes store, and spondent in Paris who returns Church is always targeted, so we lie in bed with the dog curled to France after the war to find don’t expect to see a character up between us and watch the film his orphaned son, who was lost like Father O’Malley anymore. on an iPad screen smaller than a during a bombing raid. There As a result, we usually end RESIDENTIAL EMERGENCY DRAIN CLEANING personal pizza. were a few laughs, a few tears up watching fare like The Little We have popcorn, which I and a few songs. Nowadays, the Mermaid, Hotel Transylvania and MUNICIPAL • COMMERCIAL • INDUSTRIAL make myself in our hot-air pop- problem is that, as my mother Mary Poppins, not to mention the 24 HOUR EMERGENCY SERVICE • LICENSED & INSURED corn maker, but there’s no butter would often say, “They don’t classic films from another era 377-8704 • CATCH BASIN CLEANING or • TV PIPE INSPECTION and no salt. The nutritional value make movies like that anymore.” when good was still good and • HIGH VELOCITY WATER JETTING • AIR TESTING • LARGE DIAMETER POWER RODDING 1-800-422-3724 • JET RODDING is probably zero, but there’s no Very often, when I look for bad was still bad. Office: 534 Surf Avenue • Stratford • VACTOR SERVICE danger of coronary complications. a film to rent, I can never find Consider the alternatives. Here It all sounds so simple, so homey and so 21st century

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26 February 2016 Bits and Pieces THE SICK, THE FRAIL, for the “Luck of the Irish” and For more info, contact Catherine THE HANDICAPPED, and enjoy snacks and fellowship. Palm or Don Kallberg: 203.730.2069 or all who want to participate in Sunday Vigil Mass, Sat., March www.danburyemmaus.org. Connecticut State Council 3rd Annual the World Day of Prayer for 20, 5 pm at Sacred Heart Parish, NATURAL FAMILY the Sick are invited to Blessed Danbury; trip out for dinner fol- PLANNING (NFP) starts at Stations of the Cross and Benediction Sacrament Parish, 275 Union lowing. For more info, email cath- Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish, Ave., Bridgeport, on Sun., Feb. [email protected]. Danbury, Tues., Feb. 26, and March 20, 2016 21. Welcome: 2:30 pm; Mass: 3 GREAT SHEEHAN TRIVIA continues on Sat., April 1 and Palm Sunday at 2:00 pm pm. Sponsored by the Order of CONTEST to benefit the Shehan Fri., April 29, 7- 9:30 pm. It Malta. For more info, contact Center, Tues., Feb. 23, at the takes all three classes to learn Kelly Weldon: 203.834.5029 or Holiday Inn, 1070 Main St., the method. For more info, con- Shrine of St. Margaret, 2523 Park Avenue, Bridgeport [email protected]. Bridgeport. Time: 5:30 pm regis- tact Adrienne and Al Keogler: Main Celebrants LITHUANIAN tration & cocktails; 6:15 dinner; 7 [email protected]. To register or Bishop Frank J. Caggiano INDEPENDENCE DAY cele- Trivia Contest. For more info and for more info about NFP, visit Msgr. J. Peter Cullen, State Chaplain bration sponsored by the Knights for tickets, call 203.336.4468 or the Couple to Couple League of Lithuania at St. George Parish, email Terry: [email protected]. International: www.ccli.org. Bridgeport, on Sun., Feb. 21, with MARIAN LADIES at St. CASINO NIGHT to benefit LENTEN CONCERT by the the Charismatic Renewal Office: a noon Mass and program at 1 pm. George Parish, Bridgeport, the Shehan Center Sat., Feb. 27, St. Cecilia Consort, a Fairfield 203.268.8253. For more info, call 203.878.0519. Lenten Retreat on Wed., Feb. at The Inn at Longshore, 260 County-based sacred music LANCER LEGACY GALA CATHOLIC YOUNG 24. The day will begin with Compo Road S., Westport, from ensemble, in five parishes: Sun., takes place on Sat., March ADULTS of Greater Danbury Mass in the chapel at 9 am. All 7–11 pm. For more info and for March 6, 2 pm, Holy Family 12, at 6 pm at Sacred Heart (ages 18-35) meets at the Newman are invited. For more info, call tickets, call 203.336.4468 or email Parish, Fairfield; Sun., March University, Fairfield. Awards will Center (off the campus of Western 203.261.8020. Terry: [email protected]. 13, 2:30 pm, St. Rose of Lima be presented to Armand Fabbri, CT State University) #7 8th Ave., EMMAUS 78 TEEN LENTEN RETREAT: “Mercy Parish, Newtown; Fri., March James Barquinero and Dianne Danbury and other nearby loca- RETREAT for grades 8-12, Abounds” at St. Catherine of 18, 7 pm, Sacred Heart of Jesus June Auger, along wih induc- tions. Tues., Feb. 23, 6:30-8:30 the weekend of Feb. 26-28 at Siena Parish, Riverside, Sun.- Parish, Danbury; Mon., March tions into the Athletic Hall of pm, Lenten Talk on “Mercy” with the Seton Newman Center in Tues., Feb. 28-March 1, from 21, 7 pm, St. Pius X Parish, Fame. Tickets: $125/person. For Fr. Jeff Couture. Tues., March Danbury. Faith, Friends, Fun, 7:30-9 pm. Talks and music, with Fairfield; and Fri., March 25, 7 more info or for tickets, contact 8, 6:30-8:30, Movie Night: come and PLENTY of delicious Food. a Reconciliation Worship Service pm, Our Lady of the Assumption Theresa Marzik: tmarzik@notre- Tues. For more info, contact Parish, Fairfield. For more info dame.org or 203.372.6521. Janis Pataky, director of faith or to hear audio samples, visit GOSPEL OF LIFE SOCIETY Cemetery Offices formation: [email protected] or stceciliaconsort.wordpress.com. meets at St. Mary Parish, BRIDGEPORT-STRATFORD 203.637.3661, ext. 329. MASS OF HEALING AND Norwalk, the second Sat. of St. Michael Cemetery 2205 Stratford Avenue LECTURE SERIES at St. HOPE celebrated on Mon., each month (March 12) from 10 Stratford, CT 06615 Luke Parish, Westport, Fri., March 7, at 6:30 pm by Fr. Larry am-12 noon, after the 9 am Pro- (203) 378-0404 March 4, with Dr. Christopher Carew at Sacred Heart Parish, life Mass. This month’s speaker DANBURY Kelly, associate professor of Greenwich, as part of the parish will be Tom Heckel, co-chair of St. Peter Cemetery 71 Lake Avenue Extension religious studies at SHU. Topic: Lenten services. For more info, the development committee of Danbury, CT 06810 “Reading Genesis?” Wine and call the parish: 203.531.8730 or Malta House for women in crisis (203) 743-9626 cheese reception, 7 pm; lecture DARIEN St. John Cemetery 7:30 pm. For more info call the 25 Camp Avenue parish: 203.227.7245. Darien, CT 06820 ST. CATHERINE’S (203) 322-0455 PLAYERS presents Peter Pan at To our families, GREENWICH St. Catherine Parish, Riverside, St. Mary - Putnam Cemetery By 399 North Street on two weekends: March 4-6 Monuments Greenwich, CT 06830 (203) 869-4828 and March 11-13. Curtain times: www.curtissryan.com and Markers (203) 869-7026 Fri., 8 pm; Sat., 7:30 pm; Sun., NEWTOWN 2 pm both weekends. On March Resurrection Cemetery 4, enjoy complimentary opening Are available c/o Gate of Heaven Cemetery 1056 Daniels Farm Road night reception. 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The event will be cabaret style • Senior Citizen Discount We can give you a FREE 1056 Daniels Farm Road Trumbull, CT 06611 and feature the songs and humor estimate on adding an inscription (203) 268-5574 of the Keltic Kick Band. Food and CALL CURTISS RYAN AT to your existing family monument. WESTPORT soft drinks available for purchase, Assumption, Greens Farms BYOB. Tickets: $20/person. 1-800-523-4190 Assumption, Kings Highway c/o St. John Cemetery Seating by reservation only. For 333 Bridgeport Ave • Shelton Catholic Cemeteries Diocese of Bridgeport 223 Richards Avenue more info and for tickets, call Bill M-Th 9am-9pm • Fri 9am-6pm • Sat 9am-5pm 203-929-1484 Administrative Office, Catholic Center Norwalk, CT 06850 (203) 838-4271 Davoren: 203.445.8857 or Dave 238 Jewett Avenue, Bridgeport, CT 06606 Feola: 203.268.4072. NEW & USED VEHICLES • SALES • SERVICE • PARTS • BODY SHOP 27 February 2016 Bits and Pieces pregnancies. For more info, call games, raffles, a gigantic Bounce Francis of Assisi Parish, Weston, dance for Immaculate High County. Groups of 12-15 people Eileen Bianchini: 203.847.727 or House, and “coffee and…” for Sat., March 19, at 7 pm. Lenten School’s 50th anniversary, Sat., are welcome to work any day [email protected]. parents. Cost: $10 children; free music with the choir, Scripture April 2, at the Amber Room Tues. thru Sat. from 8:15 am-3 ST. CASIMIR FEAST DAY for adults and babies one and readings with Dr. Thomas Hicks, Colonnade, 1 Stacey Rd., pm. Help get the family in before will be honored by the Knights of under. Reservations needed by and Stations of the Cross video Danbury. Cocktails start at 6:30 Easter! For more info, email Lithuania at St. George Parish, Mon., March 14, at www.sacred- “Jesus: Walk to Calvary.” No pm. Live and silent auction, Donna Spigarolo: donabahr@ Bridgeport, on Sun., March 13, hearthamden.org/easterparty. For admission charge; call to reserve raffles, dinner and dancing. For optonline.net or check out the with a noon Mass and luncheon more info, call Sr. Mariette Moan: seating. For more info and to ticket info, visit the Gala website: Habitat website: Habitatcfc.org. at 1 pm. For more info and for 203.288.2309, ext. 313 or alum- reserve a seat, contact Marlane www.immaculatehs.org/golden- MASS CARDS are available reservations, call 203.878.0519. [email protected]. Tubridy: 203.454.9023. gala or contact Michele Brooks: from the diocesan Mission Office TENEBRAE SERVICE pre- ENCOURAGE apostolate WOMEN’S GROUP at [email protected]. for all intentions. The donations sented at St. Gregory the Great for friends and family of loved Christ the King Parish, Trumbull, JOIN THE BUILD of the support missionaries throughout Parish, Danbury, Sun., March ones with same sex attractions will meet Mon., March 21, to Pope Francis House, a joint the world. If you are interested 13, at 3 pm, with a concert by the or gender ID issues, meets the enjoy St. Patrick’s Day bingo. All project between the Diocese in purchasing a Mass card, call parish choir. For more info, con- third Sat. of the month (March are invited. For more info, call of Bridgeport and Habitat for Elaine Bissenden in the Mission tact the parish: 203.797.0222. 19) at 10:30 am and is strict- 203.261.8020. Humanity of Coastal Fairfield Office: 203.416.1447. n MASS OF HEALING AND ly confidential. For more info STARY NIGHT GALA to HOPE will be celebrated Mon., contact the Norwalk Chapter: benefit Caroline House will be March 14, at 7:30 pm, at St. [email protected]. held Fri., April 1, from 6:30-11 Lawrence Parish, Shelton, with “AFTER SHOCK: Setting pm at The Inn at Longshore, 260 Fr. Charles Allen, SJ. For more Your Soul and Parish on Fire,” a Compo Road South, Westport. info, contact the Charismatic lecture by “Jesus Shock” author Cocktails, live & silent auctions, Renewal Office: 203.268.8253. Dr. Peter Kreeft, professor at dinner, music & dancing with SWIM ACROSS THE Boston College, at St. Mary Voo Doo Carnival. Fairfield and SOUND registration opens. The Parish, Ridgefield, Sat., March 19, Sacred Heart universities will be SWIM Marathon will be held at 1 pm. Free admission; dona- honored. For more info, contact on Sat., July 30, at Captain’s tions accepted. For more info, Christine Paine: cpaine@thecaro- Cove, Bridgeport. Early bird email [email protected]. linehouse.org or 203.334.0640. registrations received by Tues., WOMENS’ RETREAT: GOLDEN GALA dinner March 15, will receive a $100 “What’s weighing you down spir- discount. To register, visit: www. itually?” St. Rose of Lima Parish, SwimAcrossTheSound.org/mar- Newtown, Sat., March 19, 8 am-4 athon2016. pm (Mass). Suggested registration: CHILDREN’S EASTER $25. For more info, contact Pam PARTY, sponsored by Sacred Arsenault: 203.426.2333, ext. 1, or Heart Academy Alumnae, held [email protected], or Mary Sat., March 19, 10 am-12 noon Roos: 203.363.0184. at the SHA campus, 265 Benham LENTEN REFLECTION St., Hamden. Face painting, with the CantiamoCHOIR, St.