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Child Exploitation and Online Protection Command CEOP

Reporting mechanism for CHILDREN…

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When should I report to CEOP?

Someone … Someone… online is putting I don't know is Soon to pressure on me asking me to say 4-7 to do things I live-stream & don't want to do things I do don't want to do

Someone… online keeps Someone… asking me to I met in an meet them online game face-to-face & I keeps trying to feel pressured talk to me by them privately

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Someone … I shared a online has asked nude image me to send with someone them nude online and images they are threatening me I did something Someone… that I was online was embarrassed talking to me about on webcam about sex and it & someone has made me feel turned aggressive uncomfortable towards me

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Keeping ourselves safe… What do CEOP say...?

Tell Take a Never Some things Always talk to someone screen shot arrange to on the of any nasty meet up someone you trust if you're internet messages – and with being don't delete the aren’t real if something bullied on someone message until you you've met or are the internet have done this. serious happens Taking a screen online misleading (for example, shot saves the online getting nasty nasty messages, so even if they Be aware of messages or seem nice, or that you can show the ‘Click Here emails) you think you them to people to Win’! know them who can help you

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What do CEOP say...? Advice for young people…

Be aware of what you Turn your privacy settings up share… to the highest level Never give out personal information on your social networking your personal sites information on Only post things that you Remember advertising would be happy with your the internet you location is family seeing dangerous

If something happens, tell someone – Home / School / ChildLine / CEOP

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1.Understand 2. Know what 3. Learn 4. Recover when you are to do to seek from when things at risk online help experience go wrong

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COMPUTER 70% of British parents ignore GAMES age-ratings on games (Techradar)

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Biggest computer game in the world right now is….

Very strong violence FrequentA spotlight strong/very on strongthe game language Strong portrayal of sexual activity ScenesGrand of strong Theft sexual Auto violence Strong horror What type of contentStrong blood will and be gore included in this Real sex Druggame? taking Discriminatory language or behaviour 200 million+ downloads

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Fortnite is an online shooter …has warned Fortnite is putting that starts with 100 players and children at risk from online leaves one winner standing. paedophiles due to the chat facility. Battle Royale sees 100 players parachute onto an island, and Although the game itself seems pretty the last player alive wins. Each harmless, players can talk and type game lasts about 20 minutes whatever they want to each other, and bad language is rampant. It has a PEGI rating of 12, for March 2018, a mother from Merseyside ‘frequent scenes told how she intervened when her of mild violence’ 12-year-old son was offered £50 to The game is violent — it is a battle to the death, perform “sex acts” while playing the after all — but the violence is rather cartoon-like game by a man grooming him online. – it isn't bloody or particularly gory 19 20

Advice for parents on Fortnite… Children hooked on addictive video games like Be aware that Monitor who your Fortnite will be able to child is talking to – seek treatment on the there is mild NHS, after video gaming is check the violence – PEGI classified as a medical rating of 12 communication disorder by the World settings Health Organisation (WHO).

Set up passwords on The move comes amid Set up time limits increasing evidence of bank cards – lots of young players suffering on how long they game purchase psychological distress and options spend playing… family breakdown as a result of their addiction.

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The next one in-line, thought that Gaming Buzzwords … it could maybe overtake Fortnite… 1337 Respawn Represents letters LEET When a character Which means ‘Elite’ level reappears after being killed

Noob PWN Newbie to the game To ‘own’ someone in a (insult) n00b / Noobie game, or render them / Newb helpless

Above are some of the most commonly used PEGI RATING OF 16 phrases by avid gamers

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All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 4 Young People & Gambling Fraudsters targeting online gamers – Young people believe they might get free V-Bucks or Battle Passes Of 2,865 11-16 year-olds…

14% had spent their own money on gambling seven days prior to completing the survey

In the past week, had 6% had gambled online on average spent using a parent account £16 on gambling

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Generation Internet….

21% 3-4s have their own tablet

24% 8-11 have a social media account 87% 12-15 have a social media account

Average number of ‘likes’ to make a child feel happy - SOCIAL MEDIA 52

Did you know…

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Top Trending… Top Trending…

Tik Tok Instagram WhatsApp TikTok is a Instagram is Snapchat global video a picture and WhatsApp is an instant community video sharing Snapchat lets messaging app, powered by app. Users can you send a which lets you music. Whether post content photo or short send instant it’s dance, free- and use style or video to your hashtags to messages, performance, friends. The share images and creators are ‘snap’ appears on experiences or videos to encouraged to screen for a memories with friends. let their matter of an online imagination run seconds before community. wild. disappearing.

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All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 5 Live Streaming Apps… Top Trending… Police say abusers thrive on the immediacy Discord these live platforms offer - WhatsApp Discord is the WhatsApp is an only cross- Targeting children with instant Houseparty Twitch platform voice messaging app, and text chat  tricks which lets you A group video Twitch is a live app designed send instant chat app. When video game specifically for  dares messages, you and your website. You can gamers. It is  Threats images and friends are in the watch playbacks perfect for chatting with videos to app at the same of games being team member friends. time, you’ll see played by other to manipulate them into each other people. You can and seeing who instantly. One also live stream is playing online nudity or sexual tap and you're in. your own games. acts

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http://parents-guide.yubo.live/ Most Concerning…

Kik

Kik is an instant messaging app which lets you share messages, photos, games and news, or organise events.

Home Secretary – Sajid Javid has warned that he ‘will not be afraid to take action’ against tech giants if they do not help tackle child sexual abuse online… 33 34

Most Concerning…

More than 30 cases of child rape have Secret been investigated by Kik police, plus a further Calculator Kik is an Monkey 60 instances of instant Yubo Calculator hides messaging app Yubo allows you Talk to photos, contacts child sex offences - Send Safe and videos which lets you to you meet Strangers! behind a including grooming, share new people Message- Self Facetime messages, Destructing strangers from calculator. If kidnapping and violent around the you put in a photos, world. Make new anywhere. Send Safe is a passcode it will assault - through games and friends, chat and free service, Monkey stories open up a news, or meet new online dating apps which allows you can be created private area. organise people! Right to to send a and viewed by Able to browse events. like, left to pass! message or photo tapping the internet without The youngest victim Just like the history being Tinder…. if two via popular tree. ‘Send a apps, …that saved. was eight years old people like each friend request others pictures Disappears if you’re they can chat after seen feeling their privately! once. vibe’. 35 36

All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 6 Advice for parents on Apps… Using social networking sites, it is so important that we use privacy settings to keep ourselves, and our information, safe!

So how do we do it…?

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VR Not just Oculus online but - Gloves - physical feeling of safety tendons & muscles

Telly Disney presence - creating confusion THE FUTURE… ‘Force Jacket’ between Physically feel online & – could cause offline bruising…

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The issues and dangers children face online GROOMING

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How do offenders engage youngsters? Friendship – by using the sites that they use.... Flattering a child into talking in a private chatroom/game where Often posing as they will be isolated a child of the same age / gender. The child will often be They will often purposefully present a very asked for a non-sexual similar profile as the child. picture of themselves They are skilled at manipulating them into criminal sexual relationships

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Online grooming: The five stages Online grooming: The five stages Risk assessment

Forming a relationship Asking the child about the location of their Gaining information computer/tablet and who asking the child what problems else has access to it /needs they have to create the illusion of being their in order to assess the risk of best friend and that they can help being detected. The desire is to They begin to fill the needs of the create situations where child they are alone together to help reinforce a special connection

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Online grooming: The five stages Online grooming: The five stages Sex talk / Meet Exclusivity Engaging the child in explicit conversations & requesting sexually Building up a sense of explicit pictures from mutual love and trust them with the child At this stage the predator suggesting that they can will usually try to discuss "anything" arrange a meeting with the child

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All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 9 31st October 2015 Luke Harlow ‘adds’ Kayleigh Haywood on Facebook. November 13th she meets Luke Harlow at his home. November 15th Kayleigh is declared missing by her family

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What is cyberbullying?

…any form of bullying that is carried out through the use of…

Laptop Gaming CYBERBULLYING Console Desktop Smartphone Computer or tablet 57 58

Cyberbullying terms Cyberbullying terms You’ll hear various different words used in the context of You’ll hear various different words used in the context of cyberbullying…... cyberbullying…...

Catfishing Dissing Cyberstalking

Exclusion Griefing Cyberstalking Flaming Using the Internet to stalk or harass

Harassment Swatting Outing

Roasting Trolling Doxing

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All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 10 Cyberbullying terms Cyberbullying terms You’ll hear various different words You’ll hear various different words used in the context of used in the context of cyberbullying…... cyberbullying…... All these terms refer to … Dissing Catfishing Pretending to be Harassment Flaming Trolling someone you’re not online. …making Roasting nasty comments online

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Dissing speak Flaming disrespectfully making pointless to somebody or hurtful messages

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Harassment Trolling Deliberate act of making The act of bullying controversial comments somebody based on on an internet forum their sexuality, race, with the intent to religion, size etc. provoke a reaction

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All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 11 Cyberbullying terms Cyberbullying terms You’ll hear various different words used in the context of You’ll hear various different words used in the context of cyberbullying…... cyberbullying…...

Roasting Exclusion Griefing Being ‘tactfully mean’ or poking fun at someone

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Exclusion Griefing Individuals are systematically blocked Purposefully ‘killing’ your from games or gaming teams teammates in an online game

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Outing Doxing Disclosing a person's sexual orientation Maliciously revealing or gender identity someone else’s personal information

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All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 12 Cyberbullying terms You’ll hear various different words used in the context of Tips for Save the Report cyberbullying…... dealing with evidence Cyberbullying!

Don’t respond S-Start T-Telling O-Other Swatting P-People Block the Is where someone finds bully your home address Be aware of what you through your IP address and share then calls the police

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Spotting the signs… What should I do if my child Being secretive about their online is being bullied online? Being upset activities spending more or less time after using than usual online their phone or laptop Becoming increasingly withdrawn, Difficulty upset or sleeping angry

Lacking Not wanting confidence Avoiding to go to Report information or self- social school esteem situations to your child's school.

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When people talk about sexting, they usually mean sending & receiving…

Naked pictures …'underwear or 'nudes’… shots’…

…rude text …sexual or messages or SEXTING 'dirty pics’… videos.

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There are many reasons why a young person may want to send a naked/semi-naked picture,video or message to someone else… Blackmail Text Here

An offender may threaten to share the pictures with the child's family and friends unless the child sends money or more images A joining in C flirting with others B boosting and testing their because they think Bullying Sexting Emotional sexual identity distress their If images are shared can leave young Children can feel that ‘everyone is with their peers or in embarrassed and exploring their sexual school, the child people humiliated. If they're very self-esteem may be bullied distressed this could lead to doing it’ feelings vulnerable to…… suicide or self-harm Unwanted attention

E they may find it difficult Images posted online can attract the attention of sex offenders, who know how to search for, collect & modify D to get attention to say ‘no’ if somebody images and connect with asks them for an explicit new people on image, especially if the social media person asking is persistent

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THE LAW….

Protection of Children Act 1978 Makes it an offence to take, make, Police have only show, distribute, possess (with a recently started view to distribute) or publish an Criminal Justice Act filing crime advertisement with an indecent 1988 part XI photograph or pseudo-photograph of reports about Makes it an offence to a child under the age of 18. possess indecent sexting… images of children.

Criminal Justice and Courts If school choose Act 2015 Sexual Offences Act 2003 to take an section 33 Lists sexual offences and their incident to the Makes it an offence to definitions. If an image being share private sexual shared is of a sexual act, police police, then photographs or films with must find out whether a sexual officers must the intent to cause offence has been committed distress. and act accordingly. record the crime.

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Advice to children

• Find out how to deal with a sexting crisis

• Support and advice of what to do next Once you send a If an indecent or message you can't If you've sent a nude pic of you is • Use ChildLine and IWF to remove images online control what nude pic, have an posted online, you happens to it. Don't honest conversation can contact the let someone guilt or with the person you website directly or • Call ChildLine or save the number to your phone pressure you into sent it to. Ask them make a report sending it to delete it online to try and get it removed.

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All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 14 Outcome 21 PornographyContent (Porn) Online (This is a police decision) We have to accept how easily accessible pornography is... “Further investigation, resulting from the crime report - which could provide evidence sufficient to support formal action being taken against the suspect – Children should be taught about… is not in the public interest.  body image  attitudes & values Using this outcome code is likely to mean  portrayal of sex in the the offence would not appear on a future media enhanced DBS check as that disclosure is a risk-based decision.

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Pornography Online Sex and the Media

How many children watch pornography illegally?

The reason it's important to cover topics such as

65% aged 1 in 10 pornography or sex in the media 15 – 16 year olds primary school children is that virtually all students will have seen ‘sexy imagery’ 46% of 28% of 13 – 14 year olds 11-12 year olds used within advertising & other media.

74% of 11 – 18 year olds said that There is a real need to establish what effect it is having porn should be discussed in sex education Education Child Protection Ltd.

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Body Image Attitudes & Values They also need to explore their own It’s easy for young people… attitudes & values relating to sexual ethics… to confuse the very specific messages being conveyed by a lot of pornography with the other messages they’re receiving about sexuality from other media outlets

It is crucial that students get support to develop their media literacy …and recognise that so that they can understand that pornography and sexualised media sex in the media & pornography can construct an may impact on these unrealistic ‘normality’ of sexual Educationexpectations Child Protection Ltd. Education Child Protection Ltd.

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All rights reserved - Education Child Protection LTD 2019 15 Initial advice… How we can make children safer Use tools Set the to help you tone for Have a online reinforce your family time spent child’s agreement online internet / contract use ASAP

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Making things safer….

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Making things safer…. Making things safer on Apple ‘Family Sharing’…

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Screen Time

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Helpful sites for Parents & Carers

www.net-aware.org.uk

Allows parents and carers to search for apps, games and sites if they have a concern or need more information Education Child Protection Ltd. 99 100

Making things safer…. Making things safer….

Parent Zone have very useful magazines for parents – Digital Parenting – Parent Zone and CEOP have joined can read whole catalogue on their website forces to create Parent Info 101 102

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Making things safer….

FREE Help with setting up parental controls, adjust Talk to experts privacy settings from O2 & NSPCC or advice on social networks 0808 800 5002

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Remember: I have visited www.thinkuknow.co.uk with my child (I have bookmarked the CEOP website and told my child  A digital footprint isn’t what is there) just what your child shares, it’s also what Open and honest dialogue – show an interest and learn is shared and said about what your child does online about them – remember this when Stay in control as much as you can through posting about them parental filters, Family Sharing, and apps like Qustodio  For some children, an Advertise yourself as one of the people your child can turn online presence may to – without being chastised… put them at risk. In these cases, privacy is Education is better than saying to your child important “you are not doing this anymore…”

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