Your Weekly Toolkit for Planting Seeds of Success, Abundance, Love and Joy
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Your weekly toolkit for planting seeds of success, abundance, love and joy "Minds, like parachutes, function better when open" Issue CLM004 The opinions expressed in any articles in this publication are those of the individual authors and may not necessarily by shared by the publishers of Cultivate Life! magazine. Cultivate Life! magazine Any financial or health advice given in Cultivate Life! Magazine may not be right for your particular case and you should seek your own profession opinion before acting on said advice. is published every Monday Copyright © — The publisher, authors and contributors reserve full copyright of their work as featured in Cultivate Life! magazine. No part of this publication may be copied or otherwise reproduced in any form or by any means without the written permission of www.trans4mind.com the publisher. Cultivate Life! magazine is a joint initiative by Trans4mind and No Limits For Me Editors: Greg Willson of No Limits for Me and Peter Shepherd of Trans4mind FOR ME Quotes of the Week CONTENTS: "What is not brought to consciousness, comes to us as Dr. Alan Zimmerman, The Key Characteristics of a Great Leader fate." Marlene Buffa, The Odds are Good, but the Pickin’s are Slim —C. G. Jung Steve Wickham, Acute Grief - Dealing With the Impossible Beba Papakyriakou, Engineering Cooperation "The goal of childhood is to become an individual; the Sky Sheridan, Releasing Your Lack And Limitation goal of adulthood is to give that individuality away. The THE LAW OF ATTRACTION section: task of childhood is to separate; the task of adulthood is Chuck Gallozzi, Understanding The Law of Attraction to connect" Guy Finley, Overcoming the Law of Negative Attraction —James W. Jones Abraham-Hicks, The Universal Law of Attraction Kristi Ambrose, The Secret's Bob Proctor Explains The Secret Roy Klienwachter, The Law of Attraction’s Dark Side "Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, Daylle Deanna Schwartz, Don’t Ask! Give Thanks Instead! and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Beca Lewis, Counterfeit Attraction Happiness never decreases by being shared." PLUS bonus ebooks, The Law of Attraction Tactics —Buddha 500+ of the best Inspirational Quotes We recommend the free weekly Newsletter, to read the coaching and keep up with the latest at Trans4mind. Subscribe to the free newsletter Dr. Alan Zimmerman The Key Characteristics of a Great Leader "Whether or not we realize it each of us has within us the ability to set some kind of example for people. Knowing this, would you rather be the one known for being the one who encouraged others, or the one who inadvertently discouraged those around you?" —Josh Hinds, syndicated columnist and author will be dependent on your leadership savvy Of course, you may have more than one and your use of "The Payoff Principle." vision. You may have a vision for yourself As a leader at any level, when you tap into as a person, as a professional, as a parent, your driving Purpose, share your spouse, or customer service provider. You contagious Passion, and engage the right have the opportunity to be excellent, to be Process, you generate an enormous the best, to be a "leader" in all those areas. Payoff: You trigger the other person's But let me suggest, even though you may motivation and cooperation. It's the subject have several "visions," there is only one of my newest program and an upcoming worthwhile "purpose" behind all those book. Let's examine some of those "visions" ... and that is ... your burning elements today. desire to help people. And it doesn't matter 1. The PURPOSE of leadership. if you're an individual or a business. If your purpose is focused on helping others, After reading 3,300 studies on leadership, instead of merely helping yourself, researcher Brian Tracy concluded that they Leadership has little or nothing to do with your title everybody benefits. Some people join your all agreed on one thing ... that effective or your position. But it has everything to do with quest ... which is one of the ultimate goals leaders have a clear sense of vision. They your ability to influence and bring out the best in of leadership ... while other people are can see a bigger, better, and brighter others. encouraged. future. And they believe that better future is And it doesn't matter if you're an executive, a manager, entirely possible; so they organize Such was the case with the sack-lunch a supervisor, a team leader, a committee member, or everything they do around the achievement story ... which may or may not be entirely even a parent. Your effectiveness in any of those roles of their vision. true ... but it makes an excellent point, nonetheless. As Denny Kukich said, after boarding his plane, stowing his When they landed in Chicago and started to deplane, somebody else carry-on luggage, and taking his seat, he thought he would relax with a stopped Kukich and stuffed something into his shirt pocket and walked good book and a short nap. Just then he saw a line of soldiers come away without saying a word. Another twenty-five dollars! down the aisle and fill all the vacant seats around him. So he asked a Upon entering the terminal, Kukich saw the soldiers gathering for their nearby soldier, "Where are you headed?" The soldier replied, "Chicago - trip to the base. He walked over to them and gave them seventy-five to the Great Lakes Base. We'll be there for two weeks for special dollars, saying "It will take you some time to reach the base. It will be training, and then we're being deployed to Iraq." about time for a sandwich. God Bless You." After flying for about an hour, an announcement was made that sack That's what happens when you have a vision of a bigger, better, and lunches were available for five dollars. It would be several hours before brighter future. And that's what happens when you have a purpose or a they reached Chicago, so Kukich decided a lunch would help him pass burning desire to help others. Some people get caught up in your vision, the time. As he reached for his wallet, he overheard a soldier ask his and other people are encouraged. Ten young men left that flight feeling buddy if he planned to buy lunch. "No, that seems like a lot of money for the love and respect of their fellow travelers. just a sack lunch. Probably wouldn't be worth five bucks. I'll wait till we get to Chicago," his friend replied. They both agreed. It's the PURPOSE of leadership. The second factor is ... It was then that Kukich noted none of the soldiers were buying lunch. So 2. The PASSION of leadership. he walked to the back of the plane, handed the flight attendant a fifty And highly effective leaders are passionate. They have the courage ... dollar bill, and told her to take a lunch to all of the soldiers. She grabbed the boldness ... to keep on pursuing their purpose even when problems his arms and squeezed tightly. With her eyes wet with tears, she thanked arise. As Orison Swett Marden, the founder of "Success Magazine," him and said, "My son was a soldier in Iraq; it's almost like you are doing wrote, "Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering it for him." before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through Picking up ten sacks, she headed up the aisle to where the soldiers were them." seated. She stopped at the author's seat and asked, "Which do you like Unfortunately, most people have too much fear and too little courage. As best - beef or chicken?" "Chicken," he replied, wondering why she psychologist Abraham Maslow noted, the story of the human race is the asked. She turned and went to the front of plane, returning a minute later story of men and women selling themselves short. They prevent with a dinner plate from first class. "This is your thanks." themselves from becoming leaders because they think of all the reasons After they all finished eating, Kukich headed for the rest room at the back they can't do something. And instead of having the passionate courage of the plane. Another man stopped him and said, "I saw what you did. I they need for leadership, they're saddled with the crippling fear that want to be part of it. Here, take this." He handed him twenty-five dollars. slows or stops the steps they should be taking. Soon after he returned to his seat, the Flight Captain came down the In fact, author Philip Van Hooser, says "failing to act when necessary ... aisle, found Kukich, smiled, held out his hand, and said, "I want to shake may be one of the more common stumbling blocks of effective your hand." The captain continued in a booming voice, "I was a soldier leadership." He says most people dread conflict and confrontation, so and I was a military pilot. Once, someone bought me a lunch. It was an they avoid it as long as possible, hoping the problem will simply go away. act of kindness I never forgot." Soon the whole plane broke into Of course it doesn't. The problem just grows and festers while the applause. ineffective leader is stuck in procrastination. Still later in the flight, as Kukich walked to the front of the plane to stretch Effective leaders are characterized by passion. By courage. By their his legs, another man reached out his hand, wanting to shake his, and refusal to give in to fear.