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DATING & RELATIONSHIPS STREET STYLE YOU’VE BEEN P. 34 FRIEND-ZONED P. 29 500 IDEAS NECESSARY BUT NOT FOR SUFFICIENT DATES P. 40 Official outfitter of BYU fans everywhere byustore.com Official outfitter of BYU fans everywhere byustore.com THE DIAMOND BRIDAL STORE® shop with confidence JEWELRY CARE FREE lifetime loss and damage guarantees, plus a Diamond Trade-up option whenever you’re ready. FINANCING We’re proud to offer a variety of financing options to make paying for your ring fit your budget. REPAIR SERVICES Jewelry and watch experts are available to fix jewelry and install watch batteries onsite. REWARDS Purchasing jewelry is as rewarding as buying groceries—you’ll earn fuel points (excludes gift cards). DIAMOND COUNCIL OF AMERICA Our bridal party experts are always independently certified by the Diamond Council of America. EASY RETURNS 30 DAYS 60 DAYS 90 DAYS WATCHES JEWELRY EXCHANGES Located in Smith’s Marketplaces and select malls. For the SOUTH TOWNE CENTRE 801-852-3110 location nearest you, call 1-800-DIAMOND or visit us at UNIVERSITY MALL 801-226-9073 1906122, 1906130 fredmeyerjewelers.com THE DIAMOND BRIDAL STORE® shop with confidence JEWELRY CARE FREE lifetime loss and damage guarantees, plus a Diamond Trade-up option whenever you’re ready. FINANCING We’re proud to offer a variety of financing options to make paying for your ring fit your budget. REPAIR SERVICES Jewelry and watch experts are available to fix jewelry and install watch batteries onsite. REWARDS Purchasing jewelry is as rewarding as buying groceries—you’ll earn fuel points (excludes gift cards). DIAMOND COUNCIL OF AMERICA Our bridal party experts are always independently certified by the Diamond Council of America. EASY RETURNS 30 DAYS 60 DAYS 90 DAYS WATCHES JEWELRY EXCHANGES Located in Smith’s Marketplaces and select malls. For the SOUTH TOWNE CENTRE 801-852-3110 location nearest you, call 1-800-DIAMOND or visit us at UNIVERSITY MALL 801-226-9073 1906122, 1906130 fredmeyerjewelers.com Offi cial outfi tt er of BYU fans everywhere byustore.com FEATURES 34 THE FRIEND ZONE NECESSARY OR SUFFICIENT BEYOND THE NAMETAG A high five leads to friendship See the good or the good enough See them for who they are 29 40 47 GETTING BACK TO BASICS PACING DATING IDEAS Simple things for your relationship Everyone has a speed limit 500+ dates 30 42 49 STREET STYLE PICNIC FOODS DATING DIARIES Rip the jeans, not the T-shirt Recipes for every meal Tears, fears and regrets 34 44 64 EVOLUTION OF ATTRACTION OPEN TO POSSIBILITIES Levels of interest vary with everyone Get out and meet others 38 46 44 30 Cover photo by Ari Davis with models TWO, issue 6. Copyright 2016 The Daily Universe, Rachel Burbidge and Tanner Stucki. Brigham Young University. All rights reserved. No Thank you to City Creek Center for part of this publication may be reproduced without providing locations for the cover the express written permission of the copyright and fashion photos (page 34). holder. The Daily Universe is a registered trademark of Brigham Young University. TWO .BYU.EDU 5 HIS SODA DECODED 9 BRO/BOYFRIEND? 10 WHAT GUM COULD SAY ABOUT KISSING 12 SEVEN DATING DWARFS 15 HEY GIRL, ARE YOU A BRO? 16 HELP HER HACK IT 19 HARRY POTTER PERSONALITIES ADVERTISERS SPECIAL SECTIONS PHOTOGRAPHY CIRCULATION 21 AT&T .........................25 Victoria Wilkins Ari Davis Joey Wright Biomat .........................32 Devynn MacLennan Maddi Driggs Jordan Alton BYU Bowling and Games Center 20 Miranda Facer Conner Newbold ACCOUNTING BYU Campus Floral .............13 Victoria Wilkins GRAPHIC DESIGN LOVE LANGUAGES BYU Online .....................8 Sara Walch PRODUCTION BYU Jerusalem Center............7 Nathan Daniels Lauren Thaler 23 BYU Store..................IFC, 4 Seth Prestwich McKinsey McGary Color Me Mine .................61 Conner Newbold Derrek Lewis McKinsey McGary UNIVERSE DIRECTOR Drs. Caywood, Winward, Wyatt..17 DATING IDEAS Maggie Paris Steve Fidel Fred Meyer Jewelers ..............2 Chuck Dearden ARE YOU HAPPY, MAD Derrek Lewis Hangtime ......................51 Makenzie Jamias DESIGN MANAGER OR SAD TAYLOR? High Country Adventure . 48 REPORTERS Jessica Olsen Warren Bingham Latter-day Bride................BC Ashlyn Allred MARKETING BUSINESS MANAGER Laser Assault....................59 Maddison Dayton 24 Hannah C. Lunt Ellen Hernandez Lowe’s Extreme .................63 Matt Fitzgerald Matt Fitzgerald Skyroom........................59 Whitney Hales NEWSROOM WHEN A RELATIONSHIP Student Health Center...........61 Liesl Hammer ADVERTISING SALES MANAGERS The Quarry .....................55 Hannah C. Lunt Mason Taylor Carrie Moore MAKES YOU SAY ‘EW’ The Wall........................22 Kari Mortenson Natalie Hollingshead Trapnell Orthodontics.........IBC Spencer Farley Understanding Your Endowment 28 James Pickard 27 Utah Valley Convention Center ..11 6 TWO .BYU.EDU A Once-in-a-Lifetime Opportunity! Benefi ts include a strengthened testimony, a more sophisticated understanding of the Middle East and a deeper appreciation for the region’s history and culture. Fall 2016 Winter 2017 Spring/Summer 2017 Aug. 30 – Dec. 15 Jan. 10 – Apr. 27 May 2 – Aug. 17 Classroom study is built around fi eld trips that cover the length and breadth of the Holy Land, as well as travel to Jordan and Turkey or Egypt. For BYU, BYU-I and BYU-H students · Financial aid is available! jerusalemcenter.ce.byu.edu · 301 HCEB · 801-422-6017 Yes,Yes, theythey metmet online,online, butbut not not in thein the wayway you you mightmight think.think. byuonline.byu.edubyuonline.byu.edu HIS SODA DECODED What does his drink say about his personality? Move over, frozen yogurt. Soda is now a go-to date treat, with shops popping up all over Utah County. Between fruit purees, flavor shots, half and half splashes and whipped cream garnishes, soda shops take drinks to the next level. Employees invent nicknames for drink combinations, which are sometimes based on the customers who order them. A light-hearted analysis of some of the popular combinations can subtly signal what SELFIE THE SOUTHERN GENTLEMAN a date is thinking when he orders one of these Mountain Dew, strawberry, pineapple Dr. Pepper, peach, vanilla specials. Loves himself Wears Vineyard Vines and Tommy Bahama Spends more time on his hair than you Can charm his way into just about anything Instagrams his food Treats everyone with courtesy JUST FRIENDS ETERNAL COMPANION EAGLE SCOUT Diet Coke, pineapple, coconut 7 Up, blue curaçao syrup, peach Root beer, marshmallow, chocolate Likes to keep his options open Knows how to talk about his feelings Works hard Checks his phone constantly Thinks of you before himself Enjoys camping Wants to see other people Gives you the last bite of the cookie Is prepared…to make you happy! CONNER NEWBOLD .BYU.EDU 9 BRO/BOYFRIEND?BY DEVYNN MACLENNAN The number of “Provo All-Stars” seems to be growing, and the quest to figure out if a guy is boy- friend material or if he’s just a bro is difficult. If you’re having a hard time deciphering whether a guy is just a brofriend or has potential for a boyfriend, ask yourself: 1. When you tell him a story about your day he: 4. His Instagram feed is filled with: 7. It’s a warm sunny day outside and he wears: a. Listens and asks you questions about it a. Pictures of him and his friends on adven- a. T-shirt and Vans b. Seems indifferent tures b. T-shirt, a snap back and flip flops c. Turns the story into something about b. Pictures of him at all the latest parties c. A tight T-shirt, a snap back and white himself c. Shirtless selfies of him at the gym sunglasses behind his head 2. Does he live at The Village, Alpine Village 5. On a typical Thursday night you could 8. It’s movie night and you’re dying to watch a or any place with the word “village” in it? catch him: chick flick. You suggest one and he: a. No, he would never! a. Rock climbing at The Quarry a. Agrees, but makes you promise he’s in b. Yes, but only because his roommates b. At a house party charge of the movie next time made him c. Working out b. Tries to convince you out of it but then c. Yes caves and watches it with you reluctantly c. Laughs, and then makes you change your 3. When you two are talking he: 6. His summer plans are: choice a. Looks into your eyes and seems interested a. Go to school, work, or find an internship b. Looks at his phone half the time, but the b. Unplanned — either school or summer other half he’s listening attentively sales c. Is on his phone watching videos, but then c. Summer sales “courteously” asks you to watch them with him MOSTLY A BOYFRIEND MATERIAL MOSTLY B POTENTIAL MOSTLY C BROFRIEND As far as we can tell, you’re in the “bro” clear. Your guy is in the in-between stage of boy- He might have a perfect smile, and a body that Your guy seems to care more about the outside friend and brofriend and could go either way. goes with it, but your guy should definitely be world than his man bun and work out sched- He might be influenced by his squad of bros in the bro-zone. Don’t confuse his cockiness ule. Good job – he’s a keeper! and needs you to keep him from going full- with confidence; this boy bleeds “bro” through bro. Don’t write him off, but don’t go in full and through. Keep him as a friend, and leave force either. him at that. LONG-DISTANCE SUMMER ADVICE Talk through expectations Make a bucket list Surprise them Before parting for the summer, establish clear It’s important to keep in contact, but take ad- Remind each other you care for one another and expectations.