Death Ends a Life Not a Relationship: the Embodied Mourning and Memorializing of Pets Through Material Culture
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Grief and the Loss of a Pet FIVE STAGES of GRIEF Grieving Is a Complex Process Which Includes Many Stages
Grief And The Loss Of A Pet FIVE STAGES OF GRIEF Grieving is a complex process which includes many stages. These stages include: de- nial, bargaining, anger, sadness, and resolution. The stages may come in a recognized sequence or they may appear as a complex series of emotions and feelings. The length of each stage varies with each person, and often among cultures. Some people may return to a particular stage, such as anger, time and again. Others may reach resolution quite quickly. It does not mean they loved their pet any less, it is just their individual reaction to their loss. In most instances, the grieving process may continue for a few months to almost a year. Denial: When we hear bad news, we have a tendency to deny it. We think it really is not true, that we did not “hear it right,” or “it can’t be as bad as that.” This defensive mechanism is an attempt to insulate ourselves from the emotional trauma we are, or are going to, experience. Bargaining: When a human loved one is dying, we want to “bargain” with God. If you let my loved one live, then I will... Although this is not as common when a pet dies, many people still experience this stage of grief. Owners of a dying pet may also expe- Grief upon the loss of a pet is a normal response, and a very rience a different type of bargaining such as telling their pet, “If you recover, I will never individual one. For some, mourning a pet who has passed may scold you again.” be a more difficult process than grieving for a human loved one. -
Animal Loss Resources *This Is Not an Exhaustive List, Nor Do the Contents Imply Endorsement by NCSU
Animal Loss Resources *This is not an exhaustive list, nor do the contents imply endorsement by NCSU Hotlines Many veterinary organizations host volunteer- or student-run hotlines that are available on a limited weekly schedule. We have chosen to list only those hotlines that are regularly and/or professionally staffed. ASPCA Pet Loss Hotline (877) 474-3310 Calls are returned 24 hrs/day IAMS Pet Loss Support Center and Hotline (888) 332-7738 This national hotline is available Monday through Friday from 9am-6pm EST. Websites The Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (APLB) (718) 382-0690 http://www.aplb.org The APLB maintains a clearinghouse of information on pet loss and facilitates online chats for those grieving an animal. Hoofbeats in Heaven http://hoofbeats-in-heaven This website serves as an online memorial for horses and accepts tribute submissions. A list of horse loss resources is also maintained here. Marty Tousley http://www.griefhealing.com Marty Tousley’s website includes online grief education materials, pet memorials, poetry, and resource listings for both human and animal loss. Nikki Hospice Foundation for Pets (707) 557-8595 www.pethospice.org This website provides basic information on hospice care for animals. Pet Loss Support Pages http://pet-loss.net This website, maintained by Moira Allen, includes state-by-state listings of pet loss resources. A variety of other information, including end-of-life planning, euthanasia, and pet loss handouts, can be printed from this site. NCSU Veterinary Health Complex 1 Animal Loss Resources *This is not an exhaustive list, nor do the contents imply endorsement by NCSU Rainbow Bridge http://www.rainbowbridge.com This site provides an interactive memorial page, as well as a pet loss forum and links to other pet loss resources. -
Animal Loss and Spirituality Or Current Topics in Multispecies
5/24/2010 Animal Loss and Spirituality or Current Topics in Multispecies Relationships: Loss Mourning Meaning What is Spirituality? • Think about what this means to you… • Invite you to turn to neighbor and share your meanings • What did you learn? 1 5/24/2010 What is Spirituality? • Awareness in the moment • Interconnection • What ever helps you become the person you long to be, and build a life and world based on universal flourishing for all life • Guides us to an orientation to the “all” or “other” and away from daily ego concerns How Does Religion Relate to Spirituality? “I’m spiritual, not religious.” 2 5/24/2010 Lived Religion • Descriptive and not proscriptive • How people carry out and practice their religious beliefs on a daily basis • Encompasses the tensions, the ongoing struggle of definition, that are constituted within every religious tradition and that are always present in how people choose to act. Practice thus suggests that any synthesis is provisional – David Hall What Does Religion Say About Multispecies Communities? Questions Arising in Loss… Religious and Spiritual • To what extent to animals merit worth/compassion? • To what extent do human animals merit worth/compassion? • What meaning to do we make of suffering, human and nonhuman? • What meaning to do we make of the life/death cycle? (do all good dogs go to heaven?) 3 5/24/2010 A Story 4 5/24/2010 Loss and Compassion Fatigue Compassion fatigue, refers to a gradual lessening of compassion over time. Sufferers can exhibit several symptoms including hopelessness, a decrease in experiences of pleasure, constant stress and anxiety, and a pervasive negative attitude. -
The Negro in France
University of Kentucky UKnowledge Black Studies Race, Ethnicity, and Post-Colonial Studies 1961 The Negro in France Shelby T. McCloy University of Kentucky Click here to let us know how access to this document benefits ou.y Thanks to the University of Kentucky Libraries and the University Press of Kentucky, this book is freely available to current faculty, students, and staff at the University of Kentucky. Find other University of Kentucky Books at uknowledge.uky.edu/upk. For more information, please contact UKnowledge at [email protected]. Recommended Citation McCloy, Shelby T., "The Negro in France" (1961). Black Studies. 2. https://uknowledge.uky.edu/upk_black_studies/2 THE NEGRO IN FRANCE This page intentionally left blank SHELBY T. McCLOY THE NEGRO IN FRANCE UNIVERSITY OF KENTUCKY PRESS Copyright© 1961 by the University of Kentucky Press Printed in the United States of America by the Division of Printing, University of Kentucky Library of Congress Catalog Card No. 61-6554 FOREWORD THE PURPOSE of this study is to present a history of the Negro who has come to France, the reasons for his coming, the record of his stay, and the reactions of the French to his presence. It is not a study of the Negro in the French colonies or of colonial conditions, for that is a different story. Occasion ally, however, reference to colonial happenings is brought in as necessary to set forth the background. The author has tried assiduously to restrict his attention to those of whose Negroid blood he could be certain, but whenever the distinction has been significant, he has considered as mulattoes all those having any mixture of Negro and white blood. -
Pet Bereavement a Guide for the Loss of a Beloved Pet
Pet Bereavement A guide for the Loss of a Beloved Pet When a pet dies That special warm place In our hearts Suddenly becomes empty… And, as in all painful events, It will take time To get over the loss… But there is something To hang onto. We realize, as time passes, That animals have A way of teaching us about loving, About loyalty, about joy And friendship… And whatever we’ve shared In their presence Can never really be lost. (Hallmark greeting card – “Cold Noses, Warm Heart” line.) WinterSpring We’re not afraid to be with loss. P.O. Box 8169 Medford OR 97501 (541) 552-0620 www.winterspring.org www.winterspring.org A United Way Agency PET BEREAVEMENT The death of a beloved pet is commonly the first loss we experience in life. Although we know it is inevitable many of us are unprepared for the loss, and don’t know how to help others, or ourselves when a pet loss occurs. Friends and relatives may offer support and understanding much more freely when a loved one dies, and may fail to recognize the importance of bereavement over a non-human companion. This can make the death of a pet the hardest loss some will ever face. Insensitive remarks often heard when a death occurs: It’s just a dog (cat, bird, etc.) Don’t cry No sense dwelling on the past. You must be strong Support groups are for weaklings. Be glad he's out of pain He had a good life Think of the good times You still have other pets Count your blessings God needs her more than you Others have it worse You can get another pet Try to stay busy These responses suggest to us that we should not feel badly about our losses. -
Recommended Reading: Animal Loss and Death
Recommended Reading: Animal Loss and Death Adults Abercrombie B. (Ed.) (2011). Cherished: 21 writers on animals they have loved and lost. New World Library. Adamec, C. (2000). When your pet dies: Dealing with your grief and helping your children cope. Excel Press. Anderson, A. & Anderson, L. (2005). Rainbows and bridges: An animal companion memorial kit. New World Library. Anderson, M. (1996). Coping with sorrow on the loss of your pet (2nd Ed.). Peregrine Press. Congalton, D. (2000). Three cats, two dogs: One journey through multiple pet loss. New Sage Press. Gatto, K. (2005). Beyond the rainbow bridge: A thoughtful guide for coping with the loss of a horse. Half Halt Press. Greene, L. & Landis, J. (2002). Saying goodbye to the pet you love. New Harbinger Publications. Kowalski, G. (1997). Goodbye, friend: Healing wisdom for anyone who has ever lost a pet. Stillpoint Publishing. Kowalski, G., Regan, T., & Wolfe, A. (1999). The souls of animals (2nd Ed.). Stillpoint Publishing. Nieberg, H. & Fisher, A. (1982). Pet loss: A thoughtful guide for adults and children. Harper & Row. O’Neill, E. (1999). The last will and testament of an extremely distinguished dog. Henry Holt & Company. Pierce, J. (2012). The last walk: Reflections on our pets at the end of their lives. University of Chicago Press. Reynolds, R. (2001). Blessing the bridge: What animals teach us about death, dying, and beyond. New Sage Press. Sife, W. (1993). The loss of a pet. Howell Book House. Tousley, M. (1997). The final farewell: Preparing for and mourning the loss of your pet. Pals Publishing. Wolfelt, A. (2004). -
When the Bond Breaks: Variables That Influence Grief Following Companion Animal Loss
When the Bond Breaks: Variables that Influence Grief Following Companion Animal Loss by Dawn Cowling A thesis submitted in conformity with the requirements for the degree of Master of Arts Counseling Psychology, OISE University of Toronto © Copyright by Dawn Cowling 2013 When the Bond Breaks: Variables that Influence Grief in Companion Animal Loss Dawn Cowling Master of Arts Counseling Psychology, OISE University of Toronto 2013 Abstract An online survey investigated variables that are related to grief, guilt and loneliness following companion animal loss. Variables of interest were: relationship, species, time since death, type of death, attachment, social support, and demographic variables. Female and male participants over eighteen (n = 85) who had lost a companion animal within the last six months completed the survey. Individuals who classified their pets as good companions reported significantly less grief relative to those who considered their pets to be their children (p < 0.001) and best friends (p = 0.001). Those who labeled their animal as “my child” had significantly higher attachment scores when compared to those who labeled their pet as “a good companion” (p = 0.012). Older age was predictive of significantly lower grief, situational guilt, and loneliness. High grief participants considered their pets to be their children and reported the highest state guilt, loneliness and attachment scores. ii Acknowledgments In Loving Memory of Our Lost Companions and I think: how to thank the ones who've listened and sidled and let us stroke them, how to love them in their absence when sorrow comes in the night and in their shape (Ronna Bloom, 2009) Thank you to my supervisor Dr. -
Descriptive Metadata in the Music Industry 1
DESCRIPTIVE METADATA IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY 1 Descriptive Metadata In The Music Industry: Why It Is Broken And How To Fix It Tony Brooke December 2014 Author Note Tony Brooke is a media asset manager in San Francisco, California. He holds a Master’s degree in Library and Information Science (with a concentration in media asset management and audiovisual metadata) from San José State University, and has been an audio engineer in San Francisco since 1992. Correspondence regarding this should be made to Tony Brooke, Silent Way Media Asset Management, San Francisco, (415) 826-2888. http://www.silentway.com/research This is a corrected postprint of an article originally published in two parts, February- March 2014 in the Journal of Digital Media Management. Keywords: metadata, standards, music, descriptive, open, proprietary, database, identifier, credits, schema, persistent DESCRIPTIVE METADATA IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY 2 Table Of Contents Abstract 3 Introduction 4 Descriptive Metadata: Now And Then 5 Terminology 8 Reasons for the Lack of Descriptive Metadata 17 The Silos 20 The DDEX Suite of Standards and CCD 30 Part Two 33 Why Hasn’t This Been Fixed Yet? 33 Toward A Globally Unique Abstracted Persistent Identifier (GUAPI) 40 Proposed Study: Quantifying Descriptive Metadata Value 49 Research Questions 49 Participants 50 Data Collection Instrument 50 Procedure 51 Conclusion And Recommendations 53 References 59 Appendix: Acronym Reference 67 Document Control Version history Version Date Version notes 1.0 June 19, 2013 Initial draft, circulated privately, APA citations. 1.1 July 14, 2013 Revised draft. 2.0 October 15, 2013 Significant rewrite, with different conclusion. -
The Veterinarian's Guide to Pet Loss
The Veterinarian’s Guide To Pet Loss Preventing the preventable Preparing for the inevitable Grieving without regrets Myrna Milani, DVM © 2011 by Myrna Milani All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage or retrieval system, without permission from the author, except for the inclusion of quotations in a review. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage or retrieval system, without permission from the author, except for the inclusion of quotations in a review. Published by: Fainshaw Press, Charlestown, New Hampshire ISBN: 9780943290089 Other Books by Myrna Milani, DVM The Art of Veterinary Practice Preparing for the Loss of Your Pet A Loss for Words The Weekend Dog The Invisible Leash The Body Language and Emotion of Dogs The Body Language and Emotion of Cats Dog Smart Cat Smart Dedication For Ann Firestone, my best friend and professional colleague with whom I’ve shared the loss of so many wonderful patients and pets over the years and learned so much about love along the way Table of Contents Introduction Chapter One The Final Journey 17 Chapter Two Somewhere Over the Rainbow 40 Chapter Three A Bolt Out of the Blue 62 Chapter Four The Long Good-bye 84 Chapter Five Guilt Plus Five 107 Chapter Six The Feminine Touch 137 Chapter Seven The Masculine Reserve 163 Chapter Eight The Loss of Innocence 187 Chapter Nine Double Jeopardy 222 Chapter Ten A Fond Farewell 245 Introduction Everyone in the county looked forward to the Rocky Hill Pet Fair, the premier social event of the year. -
[Smithsonian Institution Appropriations Hearings]
DEPARTMENT OF THE INTERIOR AND RELATED AGENCIES APPROPRIATIONS FOR 1984 HEARINGS BEFORE A SUBCOMMITTEE OF THE COMMITTEE ON APPROPRIATIONS HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES NINETY-EIGHTH CONGRESS FIRST SESSION SUBCOMMITTEE ON THE DEPARTMENT OF THE INTERIOR AND RELATED AGENCIES SIDNEY R. YATES, Illinois, Chairman JOHN P. MURTHA, Pennsylvania JOSEPH M. McDADE, Pennsylvania NORMAN D. DICKS, Washington RALPH REGULA, Ohio WILLIAM R. RATCHFORD, Connecticut TOM LOEFFLER, Texas EDWARD P. BOLAND, Massachusetts LES AuCOIN, Oregon Frederick G. Mohrman, D. Neal Sigmon, and Kathleen R. Johnson, Staff Assistants PART 5 TESTIMONY OF PUBLIC WITNESSES Page Tt ti° (Deer 1 "^fiftflifl" Tfjtilt" n Confro ) PriRf^rTV Natural Resource Programs Printed for the use of the Committee on Appropriations DEPARTMENT OF THE INTERIOR AND RELATED AGENCIES APPROPRIATIONS FOR FISCAL YEAR 1983 Thursday, November 4, 1982. DEER CONTROL PROGRAM WITNESSES PHILLIP S. HUGHES, UNDER SECRETARY, SMITHSONIAN INSTITUTION DAVID CHALLINOR, ASSISTANT SECRETARY FOR SCIENCE THEODORE H. REED, DIRECTOR, NATIONAL ZOOLOGICAL PARK CHRISTEN WEMMER, CURATOR IN CHARGE, CONSERVATION AND RE- SEARCH CENTER, NATIONAL ZOOLOGICAL PARK Mr. Yates. Mr. Reporter, show the hearing as coming to order. Mr. Hughes, would you introduce yourself and your coterie for the record? Mr. Hughes. I will, indeed. Thank you very much, Mr. Chair- man. I am Phillip S. Hughes, the Under Secretary of the Smithsonian. On my left is, as you know, Ted Reed, the Director of the Zoo. On my immediate right is Dr. Chris Wemmer, who will be further in- troduced by Mr. Challinor, who is on the far right, and whom you also know well. Mr. Chairman, we do welcome this chance to set forth the histo- ry and the facts with regard to this situation, and to set forth the reasoning that has underlain our position with respect to it. -
October 5-8, 2007
October 5-8, 2007 People & Animals : Partnership in Harmony Venue : October 5th at Yasuda Hall, The University of Tokyo October 6th to 8th at Keio Plaza Hotel Website : http://www2.convention.co.jp/iahaio.tokyo/ Conference hosted on behalf of the International Association of Human-Animal Interaction Organizations by the Japanese IAHAIO Members. IAHAIO has been officially designated a working partner of WHO-The World Health Organization. Organizer Japanese IAHAIO Members National Members: Japanese Animal Hospital Association (JAHA) Society for the Study of Human Animal Relations (HARS) Affiliate Members: Companion Animal Information and Research Center (CAIRC) Japanese Service Dog Resource Academy (JSDRA) Hill’s-Colgate (JAPAN) Ltd. Committee IAHAIO Board of Directors President : Dennis Turner Treasurer : Larry Norvell Vice-President - Conference : Tristan Follin Vice-President - Policy & Finance : Paul Sills Vice-President - Membership : Marc Henroteaux Secretary : Anne Docherty IAHAIO 2007 TOKYO Conference President : Yoichi Shoda ADVISOR Dennis Turner IAHAIO 2007 Tokyo Organizing Committee Tristan Follin Chair : Yoichi Shoda Vice-Chair (General Administration) : Mitsuaki Ohta Vice-Chair (Finance) : Taisei Hosoido Vice-Chair (Program) : Yuji Mori Vice-Chair (Liaison) : Keiko Yamazaki Secretary : Etsuko Nakanishi Auditor : Osamu Ishida Auditor : Wataru Mizutani Members : Ken Ohno, Takayuki Okubo, Masatomi Tani Chizuko Yamaguchi, Akira Uchiyama Organizing Steering Committee Program Steering Committee Chair : Taisei Hosoido Chair : Yuji Mori Co-Chair : Keiko Yamazaki Co-Chair : Dennis Turner Members : Members : Etsuko Nakanishi Lynette Hart Ken Ohno Taisei Hosoido Mitsuaki Ohta Mitsuaki Ohta Takayuki Okubo Masatomi Tani Chizuko Yamaguchi Program Committee Akira Uchiyama (Abstract Reviewers) Yuji Mori T. Adams H.Herzog J. Serpell A. M. Beck A.Howie K. Stafford A. -
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