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Protestors demand candidates' attention to AIDS epidemic at Rochester debate By Michele Moore fered over whether they would acknowledge Demonstrators from Rochester, New York to thc public if they or one of their children City, Ithaca and Cleveland protested the had AIDS presidential candidates' silence on AIDS- Jackson said without hesitation that he related issues in a picket at thc April 16 would make it known if he had AIDS as a Democratic presidential debate at the "healing procedure" and to calm hysteria, Eastman Theatre. thc D & C story said. The demonstration was sponsored by thc Dukakis did not answer the question, but local chapter of the national AIDS political said thc president must "create an environ action group ACT UP (AIDS Coalition to ment of understanding" aliout AIDS. Unleash Power). Gore said he might choose for personal Atiout 120 people, carrying "Silence = reasons not to publicly reveal an AIDS Death. Vote'* signs and chanting slogans like diagnosis, Just as he might not go public with '32,000 people arc dead! What do thc can a cancer diagnosis, the D&C reported. didates say about AIDS?", '^Educate, don't "He attempted to address the real ques isolate!" and **Gcorgc Mike, Jesse, A1--AIDS tion, which was, 'Is AIDS an important issue photo by Autumn Craft won't wait!" walked, jumped and danced in to you in thc campaign?' and he was cut a picket line for two hours on East Main short" by debate co-moderator Bernard About 120 people demonstrated on April 16 to demand that ttie Street across from thc theater. Atxiut half of Shaw of Cable News Network, ACT UP presidential candidates address AIOS*rel«ted Issues. thc demonstrators were from the Rochester member Martin Hiraga said. Hiraga took pan area. in chr ACT tJP dcmonstrsicion and later heard Inside the cheater, sevcm ACT UP mcmt>cr5 reports about the contents of the debate members shouted "What about AIDS?" ing his constituems platitudes in order to not wete prepared to demand that thc candidates * 'Our concem is that the candidates may Hiraga said Dukakis promised a cure for address the AIDS issue," he said. talk atiout AIDS, but they didn't have to wait be choosing platitudes instead of concrete the disease within his administration if he Thc ACT UP actions tieforc the New York long. Massachusetts Gov. Michael Dukalds, plans to fight thc epidemic" he said. is elected. But while the Reagan administra state primary were important not only for thc Rev. Jesse Jackson and U.S. Sen. Altiert Hirs^a said local ACT UP memtiers saw an tion budgeted 11.5 billion dollars this fiscal confronting the candidates on AIDS issues, Gore Jr. of Ibnncssec addressed the issue example of this two days after thc debate, year for AIDS education and research. Hiraga Hiraga said, but also in letting local people atiout 10 minutes after thc deflate started. when five of them attended a Dukakis rally said, Dukakis has promised to spend only know they can have an impact on the According to an April 17 Dctttocrat & on April 18 at thc University of Rochester. S9O0 million. political process and in building coalitions Chtotiiclc story tiy Susan Boccardi, thc three As the candidate spoke to a crowd of atiout "What that says to us is Michael Dukakis among gay men and lesbians and those from candidates agreed that more federal money 5,000 people about the need for a national is less willing to work on AIDS issues than the medical comitHinity and the progressive should be spent to fight the disease, but dif health insurance system, the ACT UP Ronald Reagan, and Michael Dukakis is giv community. ACT UP to join Albany AIDS action By Martin Hiraga increase in gay-t)ashing resulting from AIDS- fiinditig for alternatives to AZT, thc only viding sign language interpreting for all ac On May 7, an arts and crafts festival will phoNa. On May 5, educational leafietting at drug approved for use among people with dvities of the March on Albany and the AIDS sharc thc limelight in Washington Park in high schools throughout thc state will focus AIDS by the federal Food and Drug Action Rally. Altiany with the unveiling of an AIDS quilt on the responsibility that young men have Administration. Thc AIDS quilt on display at Washington and ttie March on Albany sponsored by ACT to prevent thc spread of the disease. In Speakers at che post-march rally will be Park will tie a New York state production, UP (AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power) and Southern California, AIDS activists from chosen from among memtiers of affinity different from che NAMES Pra)ect Quilt the New Yoric State Lesbian and Gay Lobby. both sides of thc Mexican border will hold groups involved in planning thc Spring AIDS which is currendy touring the country aiKl Thc tnarch will wind from Washington a die-in at thc border to protest the man Action. They will include Joyce Hunter, a is expected to arrive in New York City id Park to thc state capitol at noon on May 7. datory HIV testing of those who immigrate social worker ac thc Hetrick-Manin Institute Sepcember A rally at 2 p.m. on the state capitol steps to thc United States. In Rhode Island activists (formefty the Institute for the Protection of Individuals throughout the state are en will end a week of "Sprlttg AIDS Actions" will attempt to approach their state Supreme Lesbian and Gay Youth); Roctiester City couraged to add the names of a loved one held throughout the nation. Court in a demand for justice for people Council memtier Tim Mains; Virginia Apuz who has died of AIDS to the quilt by aen During the Spring AIDS Action activists with AIDS. Previous attempts at such ap zo, thc governor's liaison to thc lesbtan and ding or bring a 3*t>y-6-foot panel to Albany will bring attention to the impact AIDS has proaches have resulted in arrests. gay communities; and a person wich AIDS. on May 7. on different communities in the state Special The AIDS Action Rally on May 7 at the Lesbian folksinger Cathy Winters will enter Thc foundation for this quilt wUI be a attention will be given to one particular New York state capitol will bring together tain rally participants. 25'namc quilt sewn by residents of Bailey disenfranchised group on each day of the activists from many walks of life to demand Affinity groups that plan to take part in the House, the hospice in lower Manhattan for week of actions. an increase in state funding fbr community- rally will include people of color, IV drug people with AIDS, conuncmorating in A kiss-in on the streets of Greenwich based service otganizations, for home and users, women and workers in the sex in dividuals who have lived and died at Bailey Village on ^iril 29 will brif^ attention to the hospice care for people with AIDS and for dustries, such as prostitutes. House. The Bailey House quik was taken to Rochester ACT UP has invited the Rev. Ray New Hampshire for dis|^ay at the New Fleming, pascor of St. Mary's Church of thc Hampshire Democratic and Republican Deaf, to address the rally on the capitol debates earlier this year
steps. Fleming, who is deaf, travels around The unveiling of thc New Y>rk state AIDS I - thc coumry advocating for deaf people, with quiU at 11 a.m. will be accompanied by a a special focus on educational and medical one-hour opportunity for those who have * t needs associated with AIDS. constructed panels to speak to rally par ACT UP New York city bas invited Gov. ticipants and fair-goers through an open Mario Cuomo co address the rally. In Jatuuuy. microphone at the quilt site in Washington Cuomo agreed with a request from thc Peo Park. Thc quilt will then be carried pand by ple with AIDS Coalition to ask presidential panel to the state capitol at 12:30 p.m. by •' i caiuUdaces co maice their stands on AIDS marchers and rc-asscmbled. isaues known. Ac thc same time he turned The Rochester contingctK's car caravan, down a request from the coalitian to become ItKluding a multi-passenger van, will leave a lutional spokcaperson on AIDS issues, thc parking lot of Blessed Sacnunent church, daiming stich a pCMiltion was inappropriate 720 Monroe Avenue, at 6 a.m. and recum ac to his status as governor. 10 p.m. May 7. Partidpanu from Rochester will be pro Fi»r moie iitformacion, cail 442-3519. t '•'' MAY 1988 EMPTY CLOSET EMPTY CLOSET MAY 1988 Letters Local News
was thc best candidate and would make the and shy, 1 didn't introduce myself to anyone. gay rights- I'm truly sorry they represcnc the President best president. The reality of the sicuation I figured Td give it another try the follow gay community in any way. It's hard enough ACT UP, Slaughter meet to discuss AIDS now is that Mike Dukakis will be the ing week. surviving emotionally in this lifestyle Hiraga and Lemer said Slaughter seemed Slaughter told them she had thought the more danger than the rest of us because they Democratic candidate and George Bush will I can't say enough good things about che without being shunned by your fellow By Michele Moofe to know little about the AIDS-related issues resolution had something to do with por deny everything. They deny the reality that must wake up be the Republican candidace. Mike Dukakis services at St. Luke's. They made mc feel like brothers and sisters. I know in my mind and IWo members of Rodiester policical accion they discussed, including the extent of nography, and cast a yes vote. The House their sexual behavior can kill them." would be a better president than George a worthwhile person. It's OK that Fm gay. heart, I'll never treat anyone like I was God put us all here for a reason. They really treated at D/I. group ACT UP (AIDS Coalition to Unleash discrimination and violence against people vote was 368-47 in favor of the resolution. The two ACT UP members said they met about AIDS Bush. Hiraga said the bill's sponsors deliberate help build my self-esceem. RichC. Power) who met recently with Rep. Louise with AIDS, and thc distribution of safer sex with Slaughter rather than with other local TD the Editor: I would have liked being a part of the ly "disinformed" their colleagues about the However, Dignity/Integrity leaves a lot to Sktughter said they're disappointed with her information. representatives becatise Slaughter is often When will thc President wake up to reali Democratic convention in Atlanu in July. I resolution's contents, and he was bothered l>e desired in my mind. A lot of other peo lack of knowledge on AIDS-related issues. '*She sort of admitted to not knowing a seen as a friend fo the gay community. ty? He continues to purchase another un didn't make it this time but I will l>c trying by Slaughter's unwillingness to "back down ple I've talked co have expressed this same Martin Hiraga and Judith Lemer, who whole lot about anything,'* Lemer said. "At least, she's recruited our vote.** Hiraga needed nuclear weapon system of mass again in four years. Thanks for your love and from her vote*' for the resolution. When opinion to mc. They've had thc same ex helped form the local ACT UP chapter earlier **Shc docs a lot of the 'comc-sec' tours," said. And by the Daimemeyer anunendment destruction, thc B-1 t>omt>cr, at a final cost support. Slaughter asked what ACT UP wanted her to periences with D/I memt>ers that I've had. Gay Alliance this year, met with Slaughter on Feb. 29 to Hiraga added. *'She's done what Reagan has she's slapped us in the face." of more thc S280 million per plane. Mean James R. Ide do next, Hiraga suggested she mail a copy For three months I attended church; for discuss her stands on AIDS issues, specifical done—she's gone and she's shaken people's They gave Slaughter a copy of ACT UP's while across thc nation and the world, peo ly her vote in Octol>er for thc Dannemeyer ple are dying in a ravaging AIDS epidemic. three months I also attended D/I's coffee w^on't give hands " of the Sufgeon General's AIDS risk reduction AIDS Action Pledge, asking her to examine resolution, which called for baxming the use Surely by cancelling the B-1, SDI and other hours and several potluck suppers. For three Slaughter, like most memt>ers of the House guideline pamphlet to each of her it and respond in the near future. The ple<^ 'Love thy of federal funds for AIDS education materials nuclear weapon systems, enough money months I was isolated, standing on the out of Representatives, was not present for the constituents. calls for massive funding for research, educa free AIDS ads that would *'promote or encourage, direa would be freed to find cures for AIDS, most side, looking into the snobbish, cliquish, debate on tiic Dannemeycr resoludon on thc "After her jaw hit the floor, she said 'we tion and care for people with AIDS, and for ly or indirectly, homosexual activities." cancer and probably feed and shelter the neighbor' core group of members. House floor. Hiraga and Lerner said couldn't possibly do that/" Hiraga said. a federally-funded education program that homeless, and still go a long way toward I thought I was doing all the right things lb the Editor: Lerfter said when she asked Slaughter about promotes safer sex and drug addiction balancing thc budget. not the case to t>e accepted. I always presented myself in As a former editorial contributor and AIDS-related discrimination and violence. recovery- Thc pledge also opposes man advertiser in the Empty Closet, I am disap Slaughter spoke about children, who are datory testing, discrimination against and Thc FDA must wake up to reality also. a clean and neat fashion. I brought dishes to pass at the potluck suppers and stayed to pointed, angry and embarassed over a recent 'Lesbian Sex' author often tefened to by the media and politicians quarantining of people with AIDS. While people die of AIDS here in America, at D/I events decision by the Gay Alliance of Genesee as the "iimocent victims" of AIDS, rather other AIDS sufferers elsewhere are being sav clean up afterwards. I made a real effort to On April 16, more than a month after the To thc Editor: Valley. On April 13, the GAGV, which owns than addressing the problem of discrimina ed with AIDS drugs which the FDA stub t>e friendly and outgoing, to no avail. meeting, Slaughter told Lemer and Hiraga I'm a 4 2-ycar-oId gay recovering the Empty Closet, made a decision regarding tion against groups most affected by the bornly delays testing and approval of. not to Two weeks before my last visit to St. that she had not yet had a charKre to read thc alcoholic. Having come out of the donatton of advertising space in the EC to lecture in Buffalo pledge. mention making it legal to manufacture. Luke's, I confided in my counselor at Park epidemic, such as gay men, blacks and the closet 4 1/2 years ago, I knew nothing to fund-raising organizations for specific prescril>e and possess them. The FDA must Ridge how I was feeling about D/1. He told JoAnn Louian, author of Lesbism Sex and The 38-year-old California Latins. Lemer is optimistic about Slaughter's will of gay life in Rochester. My first introduction, fund-raising events. Shall we get more wake up and cease its anti-humane AIDS me to be more assertive—these j>eople didn't Lesblsti lesion, wiil lecture in Buffalo on psychotherapist has presented workshops "I don't get the feeling that she's evil or ingness to leam more about the epidemic. by a friend, was to the bar scene. For thc next specific? AIDS fund-raising events where the polio* immediately. The Supreme Court know me; I should give it more of a chance. Saturday, June 11 at 8 p.m. at thc Buffalo across the country on topics such as "Fann out to get us or anything," Lemer said. "She "I don't know that our little meeting did four years, I rarely missed a weekend, going over $25,000 raised will go to patient ser- must wake up to reality also and recognize On the following Sunday the sermon was Convention Center. Her presentation, **An ing the Flames for Couples (or Preventing just has no idea (about AIDS-related issues), anything," she said. "But she admitted her fR)m bar to bar, looking for love, friendship, vices in AIDS-reiatcd networks, including that the true marriage bond is thc strong love atK>ut reaching out, extending a hand to new Evening of Outrageous Comedy Sc Lesbian Lesbian Bed Death)," "Incest Survivors/Part which may be politically expedient for her." ignorance and admitted a willingness to understanding and acceptance. people who were coming to church and the Food Cupboard at AIDS Rochester and leam more. Now we fust have to wait and and mutual sharing relationship bond and Helping People with AIDS Fund (HPA). Sex Education," has t>een described by the ners of Incest Survivors," "Sex and Recovery Hiraga said he was also disturbed by not a piece of paper It must recognize this What 1 found for the most part was hurt making chem feel welcome. I figured this is Ssti Antotiio Express News as "part ribald From Addictions," "Willingness and Desire" Slaughter's insistence that in its distribution sec whether she does it, whether she makes and the need to grant nothing less than full and deception, uncaring people who are a great opportunity for me to be more asser I am disappointed that the GAGV, which stand-up comedy, part dramatic and "AIDS and Safe Sex." of AIDS risk-reduction infonnation, the an effort to leam." human, civil and economic rights and selfish and great at destroying each other tive. After mass 1 went up and introduced never seems to surface except when they monologue, part instruction and part Loulan's lecture and workshop are the firsc Centers for Disease Control should not "pro But Slaughter should have leamed about privileges, regardless of sexual preferences emotionally. Don't get me wrong, I've also myself to several people at the coffee hour. need money, and has a vehicle like the Emp therapy session." events in this year's Lesbian and Gay Pride mote a lifestyle." AIDS eight years ago when she was a met some really nice people who are still my Thc resonse 1 got was,"HeUo. How are you?" ty Closet, cannot donate ad space for a ma in such relationships. On Sunday, June 12, Louian will present and Unity Fest in Buffalo and are expected '" I want to tell her right now that member of thc state assembly, Hiraga said. friends today. They are the exceptions. Then they turned and walked away to again jor money-maker in Rochester. I am angry *'Lesbian Sex and Passion," a workshop that to draw 600 to 700 women, co-producer homosexuality is nor a lifestyle," he said. "It "AIDS came out in the legislature six or I urge everyone lo wake up the President, form their snobbish, cliquish groups. that goods and services from tx)th thc ''gay" It took me four years to realize there had will examine in detail topics covered in her Janet Chassman said. Loulan's appearance is is a lifetime reality for those of us who are seven years ago, and it wasn't hapf>ening Supreme Court, FDA and Congress by sen and "straight" worlds have t>cen donated to be something belter The only thing I ac Again I cried, one more time. The last time June 11 talk. The workshop will run from sponsored by Patterson Counseling and gay, lesbian and bisexual" subtly. When you consider 7,000 cases in ding them copies of this letier as part of a passionately, like I have never l>efore complished with my life in those four years I went to St. Luke's, D/I had their monthly 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.; partlcipancs should bring Half-Pint Productions. "Her Insistence that it is a lifestyle denies New York City stiotie, and the drain that is chain letter to everyone's friends and witnessed. Yet advertising in Rochester's gay was 1 became great at being an alcoholic. pocluck supper Again the same results. Can a bag lunch, t>ecause Louian likes to work Tickets arc 110 for the June 11 talk and $50 the reality of more than 50 percent of put on the health care system of the sute relatives, so that they may do the same. Let's newspaper is a co-op situation. I was offered Having hil the lowest point in my life, I you imagine what it's like to eat alone in a non-stop through lunch hour. for the June 12 workshop for participants homosexual people who never come out of she caimot have been unaware, in any of her all do our part also and make a donation to a full-page ad free of charge in a monthly enrolled in the Park Ridge Chemical room full of people? These can't be che same who register before May 31- After May 31 the the closet,** Hiraga said. "Vt^ stress that the political life, of the consequences of this an AIDS charity aiso. publication which is nor gay at all. And 1 am A repontrr for Boston's gay newpaper Bzy Dependency rehabilitation program. Their people that were just upstairs, I said to cost is S12 for the talk and $65 for the people who aren't out of the closet ate in potentiallv farai /ise^-»«-*." Leonard OeFazIo Jr., Batavia embarassed that the pride that I talked at>out Witidows has dubt>cd Louian "the Dr. Ruth guidance and understanding, along with a myself. They must have brought in a bus-load workshop. To order tickets, write PO Box so often in my column as Miss Laverne, the of Dykedom." Her t>ooks have sold more lor of hard work on ttty part, has kept me of other people, who hadn't been upstairs, than 100,000 copies, and she has appeared 1533, Buffalo, NY 14213- Fbr more informa- pride that comes from i>eing associated with sober f^oing on six motxttAs. listening ami prs^cticing thc me&S2L|^c of love on jDonahue' ar\d thc Oprah Winffv-y Show. tioT\ or a free brochure, cadi \-8S\-24s6. Tliank you The Rochester conununity also has several and brotherhood. such groups as HPA and thc AIDS Action outstanding gay AA (Alcoholics ArK>nymous) This is when I decided my new-found self- Committee of Rochester, Is t>eing challeng groups for men and women. Without using esteem and sobriety could no longer take ed by the GAGV See Her on the Oprah Show? I ^y B-O-OKS 1 to Paul Simon's their suppori, I'm not sure where Fd t>e l>ll. I'm noc going back. Right now, every dollar wc raise deserves today. 1 recently volunteered to do some work to go toward AIDS patient care within our While 1 was at Park Ridge, it was suggested at GAGV. Unlike D/I, I was welcomed with community. That is why Parkleigh has Now YtHi Can Get A gay supporters to me that I find alternatives to the gay bar love and open arms. I felt at home in less chosen to underwrite the Gala Benefit Per Personal Fitness Plan To the Editor: social life. What I found has prompted me than five tninutes. formance of The Mystery oflrmst Vep at G<^ Prvfossionally Developed Since the 1952 Ikc/Tafi Republican and the to write to thc Empty Closet to express my I also attend a meeting of a new men's Theatre on May 8. The overwhelming sup And Instructed Stcvenson/Kefauver Democratic convention opinion. group at GAGV Again 1 was welcomed port of corporations, businesses and in I have wanted to be a part of a national Having no spiritual values, which I need warmly by the steering commictee. as were dividuals in this city have proved that 1 am IN YOUR HOME political convention. That dream of 1952 ed desperately to stay sol>cr, and t>eing other new people. They took lime to ask our right. To Meet Your Needs And Goals was never any more than that tiecause it was lonesome, I decided that going to church names and wanted co know at>out us, only For almost three years now, I have been only a dream. In January of 1988 1 took ac and meeting people would t>e the right path if we wished to sharc that information. The involved in fund-raising with HPA and thc VIDEO /wr ALL Ages And Body 'fypes tion to make that dream a part of my reali to follow. A friend suggested that I go to a meeting was warm, friendly and informative. newly-formed AACR, the host of the G^^ ty. As an active Democrat I chose my can gay mass with him. He also told me about These are two activities I plan on continu Gala. I never thought 1 would have to t>eg 40 Mm. l4Mtcitt Folkm^ By 20 MUL Of Rochescer's own gay newspaper co help us RENTALS Stress RetAtctkm Techtnqttes (Optitmal) didate carefully; a candidate 1 not only a group called Dignity/Integrity. This sound ing for a long time. thought would make the tiesi possible presi ed like exactly what I was looking for. 1 haven't had any concact with other supporc such an evenc. I asked fbr a half-page • • • dent as regards economic and social issues, Upon entering St. Lukc*s church for the groups at GAGV like Omega, Out & At>out, ad. I got policyV. but also a person who I thought was elec firsc time I was really impressed by its beau the l>owling league or the bridge club, as Until such matters have txren addressed The Contempomry Approach table. Paul Simon clearly fit my criteria. It ty. I don't remcmt>er too much of the first yet. These are well-established groups and (you t>et I will t>e there for the nexc meeting, To Personal Fitness so add rhar to your agenda), Parkleigh wiil was with pride and enthusiasm that I carried mass, l>ecause I was really nervous. I do 1 hope, like the new men's group, chey coo 633 Monroe Ave. his petitions. With a clear conscience I ask know I left the mass feeing great inside. My accept new people with open arms and be taking an advertising "hiatus." This is not G^ Certifktttes Avaiktbie ed my gay and lesbian Democratic friends friend suggested we go downstairs for thc maice them feel comfortable. As for D/I, I feel a threat, but an act of good conscience. I (1 block west of Oxfiord) to vote for Sen. Paul Simon and thc gay ac coffee hour; which we did. tbey shotdd scay home and clean the **cor- look forward to mcctli^ with thc GAGV next 473-8110 ners of their closets" before they march on month. JoAnn Louian tivists who were supporting him. After standing in a comer ofthe room for Jeff Kost I appreciate the confidence and thc votes about half an hour, without meeting or talk the world professing love, brocherhood and Nationally known author of the best-selling books the gay/lesbian communicy gave tne on April ing to anyone, I left. No one came up and 19 in che Democracic orimarv. 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continued fronii pg. 5 WPmen of Color Press, read the sutement The executive committee will also ex to the poorly-attended closmg plenary ses amine whether the groups ttibmiiting grant Meanwhile, Vermont Gov. Madeleine sion of the conference. proposals are representative of their com munities in terms of youth, minorities, AIDS update Kiinin visited her legislature's Speaker of the Beam spoke of his reaction to two open Demonstration seniors and ethnic backgfound. House and Majority Leader to urge support letters which appeared in the New York for a similar bill there. Times Book Revie*" in January Thc letters, ignores issues The march demands included passage of Headth issues The V^rmom Senate passed a one-year-old sulMnitted by a number of esUblished Black a Congressional gay rights bill, the legal gay rights bill in March by a vote of 17 to 11. writers, were a collective tribiKe to Ibni Mor recognition of gay relationships, thc repeal The bill is now awaiting action in the House rison, in cesponse to the National Book of gay families of sodomy laws. Issuance of a presidential order banning discrimination agdnst gays in Judiciary Committee. award jury's failure to recognize her latest the federal government and an eitd to AIDS virus test essential for those at risk Republican Rep. Vi Luginbuhl, a sponsor novel. Beloved. A labor-movement-initiated coalition call discrimination against pec^lc #ith AIDS. By Michele Moore behavior for them includes the previotisly • My records will not be kept con medical issue." df the bill, said the Motal Majority and other "It seemed like the same recognition they ing for the creation of a national family Copies of thc March on Washington's "Re Testing for the AIDS virus is the founda- mentioned practices as well as a fidential, and 1*11 he discriminated • The test doesn't mean anytiUng. anti-gay groups are working "vehemently" were askitig for from the white establis)pkent policy agenda has refused to address thc con quest for Proposals" ^document can he ob dqn upon which all treatment for the disease monogamotis relatiottship with attother HIV- against. Those who test positive have the virus in sgainst the measure. the>' weren't extending to lesbian and gay cerns of lesbian and gay families, according tained by writing to the March on is based, Dr. William Valenti said in an in negative person. "All patient information and records are their blood and it can make them sick, Valen* —Lisa M. Keen in The Washingtoti Blade, writers," Beam said. to National Gay & Lesbian "Gisk Force. Washington Office, PO Box 7781, terview last month with the Etttpty Cltfset. Volenti said he's heard people say, "I'm supposed to be confidential," Valenti said. ti said. They can begin medical treatment im Washittgjioti, D.C. and Elizabeth Pincus in The American Family Celebration, a na Smith said she was motivated to organize Washington, DC 20044, or calling (201) Valenti, an AIDS expert and infectious negative, and look at all I've done (sexual Breaches of confidentiality are most often mediately and can make sure they don't Gay CtHtimunity Newsy Boston tional gathering scheduled for May 14 in -<^ the SUtement when she discovered in 783-1828. disease specialist at the University of ly). So 1 can keep doing it." This thinking made by people who have tested positive for transmit the virus to others. January that "here was another Bbtck literary Washington, D.C, has the support of more Rochester, reconmiends that people be tested Is foolish, he said, because those who receive the AIDS virus, who may tell their landlords, • The test results aren't reliable. conference I was not invited to and no one than 165 feminist, labor and professional as soon as they suspect they may be at risk a negative test result and continue to engage work supervisors or co-workers, he said. Eight labs in New York state do HIV I knew was invited to. . . I felt it was time organizations. The event, sponsored by the for the AIDS virus. in unsafe sexual praaices sometimes receive "Wc counsel patients not to tell anyone ex to do something, to call attention to a very Coalition of Labor Union Women (CLUW), Gay group testing, he said, and the results are closely Bishops address a positive result on their second test. cept significant others. I tell patients, 'You tired and consunt dynamic." addresses issues of economic justice, com Those who test f>ositive can begin medical monitored. treatment immediately. The disease can be Valenti said it takes fewer unsafe sexual have control over this information. You can Valenti prefers that private physicians do Conference dsrecrtor Elizabeth Nunez- prehensive health care, fomily and medical protesting *sin of sexism* seen as a virus in the blood that slowly contaas to contraa the AIDS virus than it decide who you want to tell.'" their own testing because the results t>ecome Harrcil spoke with Smith about making the leave, child care, services for senior citizens destroys the inunune system, he said, and did in the early 1980s because more people AIDS virus testing needs to be linked to part of patients' personal health histories, next conference, tenutively scheduled for and educational equity. the best treatmem results come ftom early arc infected now. It will take fewer and fewer health care, not discrimination, Valenti said. but altemate test sites are available. For in March 1990, more inclusive of black lesbian Organizers of thc Celebration told 'Good Morning, in draft letter intervention. contaas as time goes on and more people "Wr've got to start dealing with it like any formation, call 423-8081. and gay writers. members of National Gay & Lesbian T^k A proposed statement by U.S. Catholic "It's easier to keep a healthy person are infected, he said. other medical problem," he said. "People at risk, especially gay men, —Philadelphia Gay News and Colin Force at public coalition meetings in bishops released in mid-April speaks against Vietnam' healthy than to make a sick person well," he Those who test positive for the virus must "Discrimination shouldn't be the first thing should be demanding to be tested," Valenti Robinson in Gay Cotnmttnity News, Boston Bebruary and March that they had deliberate "the sin of sexism" and encourages coti- ly decided not to address gay family issues The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against said. change their behavior because they can give we ulk about. It's less a political, financial, said. tinued discussion of contraception and in order to obuin a broad base of support Defamation (GIJVAD) is asking gays to write The complete testing procedure includes the virus to others through sexual contact legal, religous and ethical issue than a women's role in the ministr>- while reaffir for the event. letters to protest Robin Williams' three tests. A screening test is used first. If and needle sharing. It is not true that those ming the church's strong opposition to birth The task force and Lambda Legal Defense homophobic comic routines in the film the result is negative, the test may need to who test posidve for the AIDS virus can have control and women's ordination to the & Education Fund endorsed the event GotHi Mottling, Vietttam. Williams' routines be repeated in six months, because although utisafe sex with others who are HIV positive priesthood. Gays call for because they arc committed to thc issues it arc (ull of put-downs of "dykes" and the virus may be present in a pet^on's body, without harming their health, Valenti said, »r> The statement suggests that the church addresses, task force leaders said. The-task *'queens," a recent GLAAD newsletter said, it can take a while to be detected. because engaging in unsafe sexual praaices Health insurance companies consider removing the bar against women force plans to organize a gay and lesbian and the only gay character is a stereotypical If the result is positive, a second screen increases the risk of contraaing other sex sening as deacons—the step below ordain- inclusion in presence at the Celebration. "fag" who is ridiculed throughout the ing test is performed. If both results are ually transmitted diseases which aggravate the AIDS virus and may cause it to begin ac .ed priesthood—lectors and acolytes. The task force is urging gay rights sup movie. This is particularly disturbing, positive, a morc accurate Western Blot test can require AIDS test tively attacking the body's immune system. "These instances of exclusion seem to rights march porters to write letters protesting the silen GLAAD said, because director Barry Levin- is performed. The results of the three tests son intended the film to be a liberal response combined arc 99-9 percent accurate, Valen identi discussed refuted several myths stand in contradiction to our call for cing of gay issues. Write: American Family Health insurers have a right to require from asking appUcants if they had tested women's direct involvement in the life of the to macho war movies. ti said. about HIV testing: The National Coalition of Black Lesbians Celebration, 1920 L St. NW, Suite 700, testing of some applicants for the AIDS- positive for antibodies of the HIV virus that church," the statement says. GLAAD is asking that letters be writien to Whedier they test positive or not, he said, • My health losiarance wiU be cancel & Gays and tbe National Gay Task FPrce have Washington. DC 2003^. related virus and the state Insurance Depart causes acquire immune deficiency syn The draft document opposes ordination the director: Barry Levinson, 6716 Zumirez people can use thc HIV test to change their led If I test positive for Uie AID virus. sent a joint letter to two civil rights leaders, ment doesn't have the authority to bar such drome. It also prevented insurers from re* of women as priests, citing the "unbroken behavior No one in Rochester has ever had a health calling for the inclusion of lesbian and gay Drive, Malibu, CA 90265, or call him at (213) tesUng, a state Supreme Court justice has quiring tests for the AIDS-related virus. tradition. . .which witnesses to the mind of Those who have a negative test result can insurance policy canceled because he or she rights in an upcoming civil rights march on 457-6881. ruled. But state Supreme Court Justice Daniel Christ" that only men may be ordained. be tested again, but they have to chat^ their tested positive, Valenti said. Washington, D.C. The film is a Ibuchstone release from Walt However, state officials say the niling will Prior Jr. said in an April 16 ruling that the "The church is not free to depart from that Disney Pictures, Protest letters can be sent sexual behavior before the second test, the HIV testing is a perfea opportunity for In a letter sent in April to Coretta Scott March leaders be appealed. regulation "appears discriminatory and af traditton." to Jeffery Katzenbetg, Chairman, Wall doaor said. They should either abstain from peopte to do long-term planning, because King and the Rev. Jostrph E. Lowery. thc two The overturned state regulation had been fords thc person infected with HIV a prefer Throughout the statement the bishops Disney Pictures, 500 South Buena Visu, Bur- sexual activity with others, engage in oral or they must have health insurance to cover the gay organizations expressed support for the initiated by state Insurance Superintendent red status over the person infeaed with deer)' "thc evil and injustice of sexism and to award grants bank, CA 91521. Write to Robin Williams anal 'penetration only with condoms or use costs of their medical expenses if they test Nationai Mobilization Rally on VP^hington, Jaines P. Corcoran and was to take effea last other health-threatening diseases or its tenaciPus hold on attitudes and assump safe sexual technlqties such as mutual positive to be held^on Aug. 27 to commemorate the care ofhis agent: ICM, 40 ^»fest 57th St., New September tmtil it was challenged by in lifestyles " tions." They call Catholics to a "pledge to masturfoation. Although local health insurance platts 25th anniversary of the 1963 civil rights for gay groups York. NY 10019. surance companies and indtistry groups. The Associated Press, reported in reject clearly and consistently human struc- Those who have negative results on two don't require HfV screening, he said, some march Jed by the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. The regulation prohibited health insurers April 21 Titttes-Union. tures and patterns of activity that in any way tests should want to keep their HIV status insurance companies require testing before The letter urged ^^that the March be //?- treat w^omcn as of lesser worth than men." Leaders af the Nationai March on negative, ^lenti emphasized. Safc semal they inritl issue some policies. elusive of alt minorities—including the 10 . Thc draft statement was more than five Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights in percent of thc nation's population that is les year& in the making, and is Ukely to be the early April called for grant proposals from bian and gay. The call for the March must subject of much debate before a final vole gay and lesbjan community groups in an ef a recognize the need for broadening civil Two books about AIOS of U.S. bishops in November of 1989- fort to disburse $70,000 in surplus funds col rights protections to ban discrimination bas —Boston Globe, reported in Gay Com lected during the October march. ed on sexual orienUtion." munity News, Boston The march's executive committee -will Leaders of the two gay organizations are award grants to lesbian, gay and/or AIDS- AIDS Rochesteri Inc to be published in spring asking gay rights supporters to also send let related projects and organizations-that have Black writers ters. Write: Mrs. Corctu S. King, Martin a national or state significance. Preference Luther King Jr Center for Nonviolent Social will be given to projects that developed from BRUNCHES SERVED Yon Can Do Something About AIDS The Book-of-the-Month Club will offer Change, 449 Auburn Ave. NW, Atlanu, GA thc march or are related to one or more of The American publishing industry has the book to members this smnmer, and the SUNDAY Office: 232-3580 title will l>e given away starting in June by distribute 30312. the march's seven demands. united to produce a free book about the NOON - 3 PM AIDS crisis available to the public in June. most bookstores. You Can Do Sotntnhing About AitSs con _ gay statement ^^^ Hotline: 232-4430 tains 45 short chapters that describe specific The Quilt: Stories from the NAMES Put your bike in condition for a LUNCHES SERVED ways individuals can help in the fight against Proiect A statement signed by 20 published black MONDAY - FRIDAY AIDS. Each chapter has a different author; In May, Pocka Books wil publish a hard lesbian and gay writers that addressed the new Diking season. Bring it to the 11:30'2:30 Ongoing Lesbian Support Group - please call if interested writers include playwright Harvey Fierstein, cover keepsake book with color photos of systematic exclusion of gay writers by the actresses Whoopi Goldbetg and Elizabah the NAMES Projea Quilt, a giant memorial black literary esublishment was distributed Experts on Bike Service & Repair Ruth M. Williams. M.S. Ed. Ikylor and author John Preston. composed of panels sewn by loved ones of to participants at the Second National Black "The book industry has never befbre con those who have died of AIDS. Profits from Writers' Conference in late March. W^^ COUNSELOR tributed money and services to provide a ftee The Quilt: Stories from the NAMES Projetrt The SUtement, which included a 50-item BICYCLE SHOP AND PERSONAL FITNESS CENTER Offers: book to the ptiblic," said Sasha Alyson, a will go to the projea and to local groups that bibliography, discussed the exclusion of 1149 Culver Road • 473-3724 DINNER SERVED Boston gay and lesbian book publisher who provide direa services to people with AIDS. black gay writers "who function with in Individualized Counseling • Couples Open: Sat. & Mon 10-4; Wed. 10-6; Tues., Thurs. & Fri. 10-8 has donated most of his time for the past The book, which costs S22.95. will be tegrity, refuse to be closeted and address Les MONDAY — THURSDAY Consulting • Group Facilitation 5:00 - 10:00 nine months to coordinate the projea. available May 11. bian and Gay oppression as a political issue." Proficient in Sign Language — Adjustable Fee Their exclusion, the statement said, was FRIDAY 5:00 • 12:00 :• •; from "the range of (the black lilterary SATURDAY 6:00 - 11:00 establishment's) activities. Thcrse include 423-1669 VorTFY ir ^ participation in conferences, inviutiohs to submit work to journals and anthologies, Check for Daity Specials WELLESLEY — .'J •^'' serious and non-homophobic criticism of WE TAKE «O0l>
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• •^f_ > < ^'.'1 M^,,198f.,, CLOSET 9 8 E«IH»tY CUO^lgt MAV 1988 * # » ^v* • The VK^exner Center for the Visual continued from pg. 8 heterosexual doesn't either.) The majority of Arts/Univer$ity GaUery of Fine Art in Colunn- times in most states, any family member can bus, Ohio is accepting submissions for AIDS: GAGV quested otherwise. contest the designated guardianship and ex- The Artist's itespottsey an exhibition of pain 1 personally pooh-pooh any form of mar pea to win. I wonder if 1, an out lesbian, tings, drawings, film, video, sctdpture, per riage as oppressive, ya definitely believe could contest my deceased brother and Bulletin formance pieces, instaUations, photographs each of us has the right to decide to whom sister-in-law's award of custody to their af and other AIDS-related visual and/or audio we bequeath property, wealth and respon fluent haerosexual yuppie friends? Suc- projeas. Pamphlas, posters and other sibilities. But the option to designate is not cesshilly? Assuming I were the only living materials from AIDS service organizadotis Frotn the presidcttt GAGV hires center director equal for married and unmarried. Gay men relative, perhaps. Board are also being solicited. and lesbians have no choice. We connot • There are many reasons for out and choose to marry and legally leave all to our The Ohio State University exhibition will By Autumn W. Craft board members. outspoken gays and lesbians to attend Gay • The Gay and Lesbian Parents Coalition be held from February to March 1989 and ^spouse * Lobb>' Day in Albany on May 3. See the story Daftodils arc abounding and tulips are , • The Men's Group is growing by leaps to start May 1 Intemationai will hold its ninth anntial con wiU be accompanied by related programm • Our lack of rights was further brought elsewhere in this issue. recently blooming. Isn't spring wonderful! and bounds. I could hardly ga through the ference June 3-5 in Columbus, Ohio. The ing, incltiding workshops, panel discussions home by the April 20 Geraldo television I wonder if I can somehow cast a spell and crowd to the office on April 17. Soon the The Board of Directors of the Gay Alliance Rochester Institute of Technology. She has The Memorial Day Peace Psuade, in which coalition has 70 support groups with 2,000 and community events on AIDS issues. show, "Lesbian Baby Boom." (Grammatical tnake it last two extra months. I love flowers, men may have to rent a large hall. of Genesee VaUey has hired Susan McNair as worked as a custom printer and as general the Lesbian and Gay Network for Survival membets around the worid. For more infor Submissions mtist be made by July I. ly the title is atrocious. Does anyone aaual- so you shall gee a regular commentatary. the organization's first center director. manager, sales representative and office will be marching, will take place on Mon mation, write: GLPCI, PO Box 50360, VKdis- Write: Lynate Molnar, University GaUery of * A few of us participated in some ly identify babies as lesbians? If yes, are more Please note last summer's paunia plants in McNair, a 29-year-old Syracuse native, will manager of a local company. day, May 30. Call the GAGV office at ington, DC 20004. Fine Art, 1880 North High St., Columbus, politicking this month. Five GAGV board lesbian babies being bom these days than the window box in thc GAGV lounge have begin the part-time postition May 1. Her McNair's strong business sldlls, etieigy and 244-8640 if you will be marching. La's be OH 43201, or call (6l4) 292-0330. members were at the ACT UP demonstra haerosexual or gay male babies? It may be an even larger group this year • The revised second edition of Words survived winter. I hope we get buds soc^n. tions at the Democratic debate on April 14. responsibilities will include managing the enthusiasm were key factors in her seleaion to the Wise: A Writer's Guide to Fetnitust attd • The National Women's Studies Associa picayune, but I simply hate the poor gram Occasionally my urgency takes over and • Can April be more heaic than March? What an impressive, loud crowd. The New GAGV office, handling public relations and as center direaor, GAGV personnel commit Lesbian Periodicals & Publishers is available tion's atmual conference, to be held June mar that abounds on television. Yes, I do ac I say, "Autumn, you have to do more, lobby Surprisingly it was for me. There may be an York City chant-leaders were tireless; 1 par coordinating volunteer aaivities. tee members said. from Firebrand Books for $3.95 plus S1.50 22-26 at the University of Miimesou in Min cept criticism of my own grammar.) more, encourage more, ^>eak out more." But occupancy shuffle at the Genesee Co-op. ticularly admired thc way they leaped and McNair, who has been oul of thc closa for Membets of the gay community can meet for postage and handling. The 48-page neapolis, will include a public session on then I ga stomped on by the flu or other il Jazzberry's, home of many lesbian musi jumped. For the first time I wished I owned seven of the 10 years she has lived m McNair at the GAGV aimual dhuier on Satur Back to "Lesbian Baby Boom " A lesbian bookia lists more than 100 book and "Lesbian Alliances: Combatting Heterosex lness and I suspea I'd better rest. I simply cians' concerts, is moving downtown soon, my own video rather than just a 35-mm Rochester, said she wanted to work for die day, Aprii 30 at thc Hong Kong restaurant, mother has no say in who gains custody of periodical publishers with a particular in ism in the '80s" on Saturday, June 25- her child should she die or become in need more flowers to dlstraa me to and the Pottery Shop wants to move into that camera. Martin and Judith, you did a fine job GAGV "to Uke a more active role in—and 291 Alexander St., or before the monthly terest in work by women. Write: Firebrand The speakers wiU discuss possibilities and capable of care. (It appears that a married relaxation. space. If that happens, the Gay Alliance of organizing the demonstration. Afterward give somahing back to—the cotnmunity, GAGV board meeting on VBMnesday, May ll Books, 141 The Conmions, Ithaca, NY problems for communicative strategies Genesee Valle>' has proposed moving to the many of us went to the Jesse Jackson rally. which has given me a lot." at 7 p.m. at die GAGV lounge, 713 Momoe 14850. among lesbians of color, struggles baween Ave. Pottery Shop location, which is downstairs Jesse did spoke openly about his support for McNair, a customer service/technical sup • TWo in TWenty, a five-episode video self and community identification, thc role in the rear. AIDS, but did not make a clear, concise state port representative for a local company, has soap opera produced by and for thc lesbian of desire in lesbian sexuality and challenges This would not be a substitute for our own ment on gay rights. a degree in professional photography from community, is available to groups or in to notions of sexual otherness. The speakers place but it would definitely be an improve • Occasionally I get so wrapped up in dividtials who want to organize screenings arc Joan Nestle, a founder of the Lesbian ment while wc continue to increase our financial, membership and operation con David A. Bischoping in their areas. The show, which is closed cap Herstory Archives; Gloria Anzaldua, an Building Fund. We would be wheelchair ac cerns that I forget what the work of lesbian GAGV starts membership drive; tioned for the hearing impaired, includes editor of This Bridge Called My Back: cessible. There would be no more side alley and gay liberation is all about. This past CONTRACTOR characters such as "a spacy tofu-eating tarot Writings by Radical Vftttnen of Color; author and we would be out on the street. month network television reminded me. card reader" and '*a fledgling baby dyke." and filmmaker Michelle Parkerson; and Bah • \ Older Home Specialist • The GAGV Board of Direaors has two An episode of the prime-time TV show dinner event May 21 For information, write: TWo in TWenty, PO Brant, editor of A Gatheritig of Spirit: new members. Martin Hiraga ts filling a Hotel was about a lesbian dealing with the Box 105, SomerviUe, MA 02144, or call Writitig and Art by Native Astictican Wottien, The Gay Alliance of Genesee Valley began Design • Drywall • Painting representative-at-large opening and Tanya S. sudden death of her lover of six years. The membership posters and brochures in local Carpentry • Decks (617)625-7882. To register for the conference, call (612) father of the deceased lover tries to keep all its new membership campaign at thc gay and lesbian bars and at gay-related events is the new Lesbian Resource Center represen Roofing & Gutters * Forward in Unity, a grassroots gay and 625-8803 or write: NWSA '88, University of tative. The greatest news, in my selfish opi momentos from the star after learning of organization's annual dinner on April 30 in the Rochester area. lesbian leadership conterence, will l>e held Minnesota, 217 Nolte Center, 315 Pillsbury nion, is our new Center Director, Susan their intimate partnership in a special- with the slogan, "You have a choicef Let us Annual membership in the GAGV includes Additions May 13-15 on the University of Minnesota Drive SE, Minneapolis. MN 55455- be your voice in 1988!" McNeil, who starts May I. I am ecstatic. birthday-messagc-to-Dad video. a subscription to the Etnpty Closet; free campus in Minneapolis, MN. V^rkshops will • The Gay and Lesbian Issues Committee • We've been working on ideas to spur It is pointedly clear that gay relationships The campaign's goal is 300 new members membership in one GAGV aaivity group cover topics such as addiaions, ;^ng, arts, of the New York State chapter of the National on the membership campaign. Members have no legal status. It doesn't matter how by July 31. such as Lesbian Resource Center, the Men's coming out in public, people with Association of Social Workers is developing have seen some ideas in the membership we record tt or where we record it. It is ig The GAGV is sponsoring a membership Group or Out & About; GAGV voting disabilities, fundraising, health care issues a mailing list that will be used for nawork- newsletter and we'll contact many people in nored or considered irrelevant and im dirmer night on May 21. GAGV members will privileges; and membership in the Genesee and AIDS, lesbian culture, racism, spirituali ing and to distribute information on the the near future. Marian and Par are doing a material by the legal system. A heterosexual invite prospeaivc members to their homes Co-op Federal Credit Union. Repairs to full replacement ty, and family issues. committee's aaivities. The mailing list will great job. Their changes in che appearance marriage is recognized to benefit spouse for dinner, followed by a reception and a To join the GAGV, complae the member Any size jobs at all The registration fee of 1100 includes all be confidential, lb be added to the list, of our forms has brought an increase in sometimes even when the deceased rc- film at a central location. The film will be ship form in this issue or pick up a member Free estimates events and most meals. Reduced fees are write: Arlcne Istar, CSW, Chair, Committee memberships, both new and renewal. For a provided by thc Fund for Human Dignity, ship brochure at the gay bars or at the GAGV Calt & leave message available for low-income people. For more on Gay & Lesbian Issues, NYS Chapter long time we did not have a chairperson of cofitinued oti page 9 the educational arm of the National Gay and office in the Genesee Co-Op, 713 Monroe information, write: Forward in Unity, PO NASW, 225 Lark St., Albany, NY 12210. or the membership committee, so their work Lesbian TUsk Force. Ave. For more information, call the GAGV at Box 300171, Minneapolis, MN 55403. call (518) 463-4741. is doubly appreciated by the officers and GAGV members will also distribute 244-8640. 325-1198 mtunfmt The Gay Alliance of the Genesee Valley Confidential Membership Registration Fbrm 713 Monroe Avenue, Rochester, NY 14607 We are seeking 100 people, busirmsses and groups to donate »v^.» \ OO 716-244-8640 $100 or more each, to help tiv^' Name: finance downpayment and ck>8- Address: ing costs for our new gay com munity center. City: State: Zip: Home Phone: A Fbunders Club plaque will be - »— Work Phone: ertgraved with members' names, >^ request thc following information for statistical purposes only. if they wish, and placed in our Gay Community Picnic Age: Sex: Race: pew center. Type of Membership volunteer meeting Membership Benefits Send check payat>le to the GAGV Msiy J 7, 7:30 pm (Please check one) (Please dieck if you want) Building Fund. individual $25 Annually jSend me n^ free subscripdon to the Call 244-8640 and leave a GAGV lounge Jiousehold 713 Monroe Ave. $40 Annually Enq>ty Closet. mesMge If you wish to leam A GAGV fundraiser JStudent $20 Annually Please also enroll mc free in thc foUowii^ how you can help. .Contributing $50 Annually ONE GA£N oiganization: Sunday, June 12 JF^tron $100 Annually Lesbian Resource Center 8:00 PM JBene&ctor $250 Annually Men's Group sign language interpreted Xifetime $600 5 free orffeehouses Tickets: $10 Lesbian .Business $50 Annually Balitical Caucus J contribute through the Ututed Vilay .Out and About AyJUfalt t Resource ParitMgh JSend me more infonnation about the group checked SMnvood Bockkator* above. Jazzbtrry's Center Paul's Grocvry Membership is tax deductible. Please make checks pi^ble to "GAGV" or "The Alliance;* Tlw Villaga Oram or caH Tha Gay Allianca J wish to volunteer time or services. I have interests or skiUs m die foUowing areas. (Check all diat apply.) 244-M40, B-TTY Jfinancial ___L^al Manning events .Clerical Jter Facilitator J\>litical Activities Meets the first and 34embership JVvsonnel -nmge nanniiig third Wednesday each J^undraising Jhiblic Speakii^ month 7:30-9:30 Book and Lyrics by I understand diat membership entities me to voting privU^es of die general membership, lo atiend die annual meeting, dis- HoaMfo Asiifnafi coiints for GAGV events, free membership in one GAGV activity group, and menibenhq> m die Oenesee Co-op ftAeaX Credit Music by Union. The membership list is confidential and is avaiUMe only to the MembefAi^ Conunitlee. Save the Date: July 17 Dtrectad by OawldlliMttO A sociol and InformotiorKil J AHrad a KM Hart ThMtm • Jmmh Commufuty Cantar • 1200 Edgawoud Avenue • Rochester. New York 14618 exchar>ge for lesbian and Signature ^ Rochester Gay Community Picmc bisexual wonr>en Send form in confidence to: Memberriiip Committee, QAGV, 713 Monroe Avenue, Rodieater, NY 14607. 10 EMPTY CLOSET MAY 1988 • • t MAY 1988 EMPTY CLOSET 11
Gey Men's Groups GAGV lounge. 8 FRIDAY SATURDAY WEDNESDAY WEDNESDAY APRIL pm. 244-8640. 14 18 25 Opening reception for '^Meditations Coffeehouse: salute to GAGV Lesbtan Resource Center Mctal. Rocliesler ACT UP (AIDS Coalition FRIDAY MONDAY on Pornography," exhibition of color volunteers, GAGV bunge, 8 pm- G/>CV lounge. 7:30 pm. 244-8640. to Unleash Power) meeting. GACV photographs by feminist photographer mkJnight. $1. 244-8640. lounge. 7 pm. 442-3519. Lynette Molnar. Visual Studies 29 Workshop, 31 Prince St., 8-10:30 pm. BenefH conceit: Pedals & Bows for Empty Cioset staff meeting, EC of 442-8676. (See "Artnotes" in this AIDS Rochester," Mk:hael Messina, fice. Genesee Co-Op 713 Monroe Ai«.. issue.) SUNDAY SATURDAY ^rgan, with the Eastman Student 7 pm. 2449030. 15 THURSDAY Chamber Orchestra, featuring works of 28 Meeting to plan this year's Topfree G.F. Handel & Calvin Hampton. Lesbian Writers Groop meeting, 19 Equality action. 237 Vassar St., 8 pm. Reading: deaf poet Debbie Rennie & Lutheran Church of the Incamale \Mord, GAGV knjnge. 2:30 pm. Discussk>n of 244-1219. hearing poet Patrkria Smith at the Ex 597 East A^e, 8:30 pm. $5 {$3 Susan Sontag's "Illness as Metaphor," Concert: Rochester Gay Men's ^^T'^^^'^^'^!!^ perimental Cafe. Writers & Books, 740 indents). 2:30 pm; open reading & discussk>n of University Ave.. 8 pm, $3. $2 W & B 5!rp^m''S5'?473: "^'"^ '^' ^- ^^"^^"^^2^^- new works, 3 pm. 473-1573. members. Interpreted in sign language SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY and voice. 473-2590. 8 Talk: "AIDS," by Alice Robeson of Hemophilia Association, John CaMn SATURDAY SUNDAY SATURDAY Mothers and Others, Connecting Rochesier ACT UP (AIDS Coalitk>n Presbyterian Church, 50 Ward Hill Rd.. ijobby Day '88 in Albany, sponsored "Mothers and Others, Connecting All," Mother's Day peace action, to Unleash Power) meeting, GAGV Henrietta. 4-6 pm. Part of "Issues of 21 29 30 by New York State Lesbian & Gay Lob •<> A T U R D A Y AIDS Action Rally in Albany, in All," Mother's Day peace action, Women's Encampmetn for a Future of lounge, 7 pm. 442-3519, Human Sexuality" series. ChikJ care by. 288-3248. cluding display of AIDS quilt, march and Women's Encampment for a Future of Peace & Justice, 5440 Rte. 96, Seneca provkied. Alpha, group for gay & lesbian youth. Parents & Friends of Lesbians & County. Civil disobedience preparation, Topk:: "Preventfon of Sexually Transmit AfBrmation: Cay and Lesbian Mor^ 7 rally at state capitol. 11 am-4 pm. Spon Pieacc & Justice. 5440 Rte. 96, Seneca Gays, talk by John Washburn, brmer including workshops & discussions, 10 Gay Men's Group meeting, (3AGV ted Diseases and AIDS Preventton." naons meeting. 442-3519. sored by ACT UP and ACT NOW. County. Civil disobedience preparation, W E D N E S D A Y Brighton schools superintendent and am. Potluck lunch, 11:30 am. Mother's bunge. 8 pm. Showing of film "The 442-2986. Alpha , group for gay & lesbian youth, Rochester car pool leaves Blessed Sacra including workshops & discussions, 11 person with AIDS, 17 S. Fitzhugh St., Day gathering & planting of women's AIDS Show." 244-8640. Garage sale sponsored by EDGE meeting. Topic: "Sexuality (Values ment church parking lot, 720 Monroe am. (607)869-5825. (See local news 11 2:30. 392-4796. symbol flower garden. 1 pm. Walk to (Educating the Disabled in a Gay En Clarification)." 442-2986. Ave., 6 am; returns 10 pm. 442-3519. in this issue.) Seneca Army Depot, 1:30 pm. GAGV board meeting, GAGV vironment), 410 Alexander St., 9 ann-4 WEDNESDAY (607)869-5825. (See k)cal news in this k>unge, 7 pm. 244-8640. SUNDAY MONDAY Dm. issue.) 22 30 GAGV Annual Dinner, Hong Kong Lesbian Resource Center meeting, Talk: "The Bible and Homosexuality," Memorial Day peace parade: restaurant, 291 Alexander St., 7 pm lalk: "What if someone in my family GAGV lounge, 7:30 pm. Topic; "What downtown Rochester, morning. tcash bar 6 pm), $11. 244-8640. Rev. Mary Lou Anderson, John Calvin were gay or lesbian?" John Calvin every lesbian and bisexual woman Presbyterian Church, 50 Ward Hill Rd., THURSDAY Presbyterian Church, 50 Ward Hii! Rd., Everyone invited to participate. should know about AIDS," presentation Henrietta. 4-6 pm. Part of "Issues of 244-9120 {Rochester People's Mime), OMEGA (Older. Mature & Gay Ac Henrietta. Last discussion in "Issues of by AIDS Rochester. 244-8640. Human Sexuality" series Child care 12 244-8640 (Lesbian & Gay Network for fjon/Advocacy) ''Saturday at the Human Sexuality" series. Child care provided. MONDAY provided. Survival). Movies," 7 pm. 381-0739. Rochester Historical Bowling Society Blind E)oublcs Tournament. 16 Clover Lanes, 2750 Monroe Ave. Deadline for articles, photos, adver Bisexual Women's Group meeting 244-8640. tisements, etc. for the June issue of the and potluck supper. 6 pm. 244-9030. Empty Ooset. 244-9030. ONGOING Benefit play: "The Mystery of Irma MAY \fep." GeVa Theatre, 75 Woodbury FRIDAY Blvd., to ber»efit Food Cupboard at AIDS Rochester & Helping People with AIDS 13 TUESDAY S U N DAY Champagne & hors d'oeuvre reception. Reading: feminist writer and activist 6:30 pm; performance. 7:30 pm; cof Margaret Randall, MenrK>rial Art Gallery 17 fee & dessert with cabaret entertainment, 500 University Ave.. 8 pm, $5. $4 Annual Gay Community Picnic 10 pm. $50. Black tie optional. Writers & Books members. Sponsored committee meeting, GAGV lounge 8 232-1363. t>y W 8t B- 473-2590. pm. 2A4-8640. Oiscussion o\ book "Is thc Homosex tial My Neighbor?", Downtown United IPresbyterian Church, 121 N. Fitzhugh St., 12:30-1:30 pm. First in series of 3 discussions sponsored by More Light for ..esbian and Gay Concerns. Brown bag jnches welcome. 2n<. Anniversary Garage sale sponsored by EDGE (Educating the Disabled in a Gay En vironment). 410 Alexander St., 9 am-4 3m. ANTHONY'S
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12 EMny .CUOSET:. niiiar.isM iiMriM»- 0ii«rv:eijO9eT is Gay political activists: thefoys and £rusttrations of effecting change rights. Middle East conflicts. Northern By Michele Moore ject Utah, a service agency; thc MX Informa was right for mc. It helped considerably that harder to remain inspired, particulariy In the tional Liberation Front] leader). Ireland, Wativc American rights (Big Moun justice and peace at all. Thidy Baran new direction. Our time is now. I'm tired of / first got the idea to do a survey of local tion Center; and the Asian Association of I finally decided I didn't have to And a areas of nuclear arms and world peace—and Kathe Kollwitz—for her tireless voice ex tain) ... all became a part of my emotional leading everybody else's catises. althot^ I political activists in 1985 lifter skittmiitig a Utah. perfect group. If I supported most of a I mean peace in thc broadest sense. pressing the experiences and conditions of and political vocabulary. Being bisexual and open about it has given realize that aU minorities have a stake in each sitnilar questionnaire in the latest issue of Jim Ide, who has been president of the group's goals, I could object to, ignore or try My models early on were women who the poor and disenfranchised throt^ an me a taste of being oppressed, something I include all this because the act "becom new attainment of freedom. ^^ Owens Heresies, a journal that examines art and GAGV twice in the last 10 years, is a member to change its shoncomings. Aututtm Craft were not afraid to speak out although their emotional-intellectual medium and talent— which doesn't occiv naturally to white males ing politically involved*' is not an isolated politics /rom a feminist perspective. of Rochester Lesbian & Gay Political Caucus. ideas were for from nudnstteam. I thought beautiful, moving artwork; for her strongly in this society. And I don't think many peo incident or moment in time; it does not hap What are your greatest pleasures in At the time I was a member of the tiow- Like a lot of other music students at the if they could risk being open, so could I. women-defined idemity. ple get too in^ired politically without some pen in a vacuum, divorced from other political Involvement? defutict Rochester Vfkftnen *s Action for Peace, time, I slept through the Vietnam War. I Thidy Baran personal or historican connection to oppres moments and people. This is contrary to Agnes Smedley—due to her verve and a feminist group that had started to help heard the nightly reports of body cotmts and sion. Political work takes ftelit^ as much as how our history b€>ok formats would have The empowerment I feel each time I get compassion, for truly "Living her life'; so The greatest joy 1 experience is seeing others found the W[>men's Encamptttent for a so forth, but 1 felt strangely removed. Being thought. Jack Bradigan Spula us believe. Karen involved in lesbian and gay liberation actions fully; her experiences informed her later become empowered. A friend was recently Future of Peace and Justice in Seneca Coun in the military later changed me, changed my political thinking to move into the political mind about the fundamental nature of our and in AIDS actions keeps me gois^. My two arrested and spent his first day In jail. I was ty and had become involvtsl in a broader ftom a compassioiuite, life-experienced Being a woman and a lesbian has given me gratified by his new-foimd understanding of range of peace and social justice issues and society. 1 have been polidcal since I was a teenager. models are Amy Bauer of the Gay and Les bian Alliance Against Defiunation and Mark place, rather than from a (pseudo) intellec a perspective as someone with less power projects, including the Memorial Day peace I first got involved politically in thc safe My first arrest for civil disobedience was at tual place. Karen than that of a privileged class. 5tie Cowell parade I was interested in how individual enetgy^mti-nuclear movement that blossom age 13 at the DuPont plant where they were Fotopoulos, PWA (person with AIDS) women became involved in grassroots ed in the late '70s. The Rochester Safe Enetgy manufacturing defoliants during the Vietnam activist. It would be inappropriate to say that be- politicial work, and 1 became fascinated with Alliance (part of thc Peace and Justice Center war. My most recent incarnation as an ac Amy Bauer has oiganized and marshalled Civil and economic rights for lesbians and ii^ gay by itself has influenced my work and individuals' political histories and herstories that I now am a staffperson for) got me go tivist began when I participated in the July hundreds of civil disobedience actions and gays. Role models: Harvey Milk, David Gantt. stances. Being a dual minority has infiuenc as I traveled to Nicaragua, returned home ing in opposition to the worst parts of the 1987 demonstration against Cardinal John demonstrations in Manhattan and was In- John Noble ed them more than anything else. I cannot ruling technocracy. I found myself asking fluemial in organizing the civil disobedience and began working with the Rochester Peace Jim lde. O'Connor's appointment to the President's consider any part of liberation without in and Justice Education Center and later with questions about how, in a purported Commission on the HIV Epidemic at St. at the Supreme Court during the March on My most recent and extremely challeng volving all parts of mc. Martin Hiraga democracy, such authoritarian aikl destruc Wsishington. Throughout, the groups she has ing group involves the Ibpfree Movement. the Empty Closet. the GAGV board of directors, CREATE: Patrick's Cathedral in New >brk City. tive elements as the nuke industry could Manin Hiraga oiganized with have avoided violence and I have found this issue to be one of the most Being a lesbian has affected my political We asked 25 gay men, lesbians and bisex Justice task force of Downtown United thrive. Jack BratUgan Spula hostility while getting their message across uals to answer seveti questions about their puzzling, exciting, demanding, critically im stances; it has to. I would not vote for an Presbyterian Church, and the 23rd to the largest audience possible. portant topics of our time. Mainly, the Top- political work; 13 of them responded. They Legislative District Democratic Committee. openly homophc»bic candidate. (1 use the I became politically involved two years Mark Fotopoulos. the PWA who appears free Movement represents an umbrella issue term "openly homophobic." I believe many are active in groups and movements tanging He works with Rochesier Interfaith Jail after coming out, specifically with the cam in many demonstrations carrying a sign to many, linking social, psychological, emo of our elected officials are homophobic in from the Democratic Party to the Gay Ministry, Parents FLAG and New York State Martin Hiraga. paign waged by Tim Mains in 1985-1 wanted reading, "Living with AIDS 2 years, tional problems plaguing women in this one way or another, or are uneducated or Alliance of Getiesee Valley to Rochester Peo Lesbtan and Gay Lobby, and has been a to be involved with the campaign of a gay months. No thanks to you, Mr. Reagan" is culture. More than 100,(X)0 women have have no knowledge of gay people. It is ple's Mime to ACT UP to Topfree Equality. member of the 23rd Legislative District and prison issues and new willingness to con person who presented himseif as mainstream a constaiKl reminder to tne that the batUe has their breasts enlarged each year in this coun sometimes impossible to know about each 1 d like to thank the members of Heresies the Monroe County Democratic committees, front the system on the problems of the in and represented the gay community as a just begun. When I feel down about ac try. Depression and eating disorders have and every one, because they themselves may carcerated. Another friend, a PWA, felt able issue 20's editorial collective for inspiring Al>Anon, AIDS Rochester, Inc and the group of people with the same needs, wants tivism, I take out the scrapbook of pictures reached epidemic levels. And a $6 billion in not realize their homophobia.) for the first time to publicly acknowlec^ his me to finally survey the local politicos. American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), as and dreams as the rest of society. I believe I have of him in demonstrations to remind dustry, including Penthouse, Hustler, But compromise is the key. There is an diagnosis after joining an action. Still Trudy Baran is a member of the well as serving as the liason between the that that mainstream recognition will pro myself that day by day the war is won. Playboy and Sports Illustrated, perpetrates elected official for whom I worked and another friend came out after participating Memorial Day Parade Coordinating Commit GAGV and the Rochester PoUcc Department. vide us with power and a strong, loud voice Martin Hiraga the body-perfect, no-fiaw, buy-me image for voted. I know this person is uncomfortable in the March on Washington. Each time a tee. Rochesier People's Mime (RPM), Karen is a member of RPM and a former women. Rochester Peace and Justice Education in the political and social arenas. E.E. dcraling with gay issues, though on a personal person leams that he or she can confront the member of Rochester Women's Action for Role models: Bella Abzug, Golda Meir and Role models: Susan B., of course! Along level they do not have a problem dealing patriarchal, racist and heterosexist system by Center, No Iniervcntion in Central America Peace, NICA, and Rochester Safe Energy (NICA), Rochester Area Women's Polittcal It seemed important for me as I struggled Horace Lethbridge. Tim Mains, Hazel Wolf (a 90-year-old en- with Marg Hall, Maria Scipione. Sylvia Gasoi. with gay individuals. I wOuld be happier if "coming out," 1 feel inspired to work one Alliance. with my ovk^n experiences of oppression to vironmcmtalist), Barbara Jordan and Barbara Karen Kirchoff, Jo Cummings, Mariarme Riz I knew this official openly supported gay more day. Martin Hiraga Caucus, Nayim "and whatever else that Horace Lethbridge, former president of comes along and catches my fancy." work with others toward more justice in the What inspires you politically now? Who Mikulski. Autumn Craft zo, Mary Lou Schloss, Nikki Craft, Kathy Reil issues, but in this the GAGV, works with the organization as world at large. 1 came to know that invisibili are your role models? ly and Bob Owens. Linda Contras and Susan case, because they were the best candidate, The comraderie ofbeing with people who Jennie Bowker is a meml>er of New York a peer facilitator and a member of the board ty or solitary efforts were not going to be What inspires me now is thc pleasure of Cowell—my mentors! Oh, and Lily Tomlin! State Lesbian and Gay Lobby and Rochester I voted for them. For me, the only viable feel strongly about issues about which I feel of directors; thc space committee; Alpha, thc the answer for me. So I began to look for Now I've got, I think, a more unitary vi observing the gains that people and Ramona Santorelli choice was to elect a humanitarian who sup strongly. I'm most fond of people who have Lesbian and Gay Political Caucus, and was youth group; Men's Group steering commit others who would stand with mc or who I sion aw regards thc Why and How of oppres organizations make. Because 1 came of age ports people across the board. E.E. weU-dirccted anger; in other words, the one of the or^ganizers of Rochester's par tee; Card Night committee; and Coffeehouse could stand with. ^hidy Baran sion and injustice in our world. I've got a in the '40s, I have experienced thc intense The idea that after a period of repression ticipation in the National March on committee. He is also a member of OMEGA anger doesn't sway most of their thinking. vision of an anarchist-communist future in frustrations of that repressive decade as well in the late 1970s and early '80s, poor, op Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights. She (Older, Mature & Gay Action/Advocacy) and My personal orientation as a homosexual Of course 1 love success. When national While working for the Empty Closet, I met which thc achicven>ent of material equality as the excitement and liberation of the '70s pressed and working-class people are once NOW passed a position paper/statement sup also works on the Empty Closet and is a Rochester Association of Gay and Lesbian and an end to racism, sexism, homophobia has had enormous impact on energy ^tnd Robyn Freeh, who already was a member of and '80s. Our gains are real in spite of again ready to fight for their liberation. time investment in conmiunity volunteering. porting gay rights (in the mid or late '70s). member of the Gay Alliance of Genesee Mental Health Professionals. New York State Lesbian and Gay Lobby. In and totalitarianism of every stripe will Vallev (GAGV) board of directors. setbacks. Role models: Martin Luther King. Huey I have opted at this point in my life to devote I recall many of us running down the streets John Noble is a member of New York 1985, I drove to White Plains with Robyn create. . .no, not a Utopia, but a livable of Philadelphia yelling and laughing when Sue Ca^rcil, who has been active in the State Lesbian and Gay Lobby and Rochester The most meaningful role models were both professional and community work on and a close friend of hers for my first Lobby world and a sustainable culture four professional people who sat on a panel ^^e savkr it in newspaper headlines. I tove the Monroe County Oemocrsitic Party since Lesbian und Gay Political Caucus. He has meeting. I understood very linle and even (muUiculture, really). our special population because the needs are 1984, is curremly chair of thc 23rd ivith David Suslcind on his TV showr in the celebrations of good political v/ork. hccn itivolvcd ^vith thc ACUU, New York ^vvondcrcd why I ha ^-.^t-M^ki'-aw -— »»^»v**- • .-^ - * \. t ..t. 16 EMPTY CLOSET MAY 1988 •• ^ » . i, *r .iit. J. ^ * ^i.t."LTt."'..ri"rTz.:\'i'.'.'':- -Vl > • 1 :x::Tr»:i::;j. :•;:J-i:iu:;":m^;t^"l'.n•I•l-lrm1ri"I•iTi'?*«-*:iTii-iT•r-T'f%*fX-•«l-l>*. .X'^t *•.•* \-%>;*:*T: Columnists MAY 1988 EMPTY CLOSET 17 Queer Like Me Gay Groups Leaving the lavender ^etto behind what the Men's Group can do to faciliute sion for \buth to expand our program; there By Bob Owens Buying a house together is frightening. It their-prime. ever-so-slightly seedy sections, Before I came here. I was niarried, the Out & About men meeting other men, and will bring sug Pairents FLAG are many more young people in the area When my lover and I *'ran away from is a visible, concrete symbol ofour commit much like a grand dame with a shadowy father of three. Although 1 reiaain a father— gestions to the meeting on May 1. who are unaware of Alpha's existence. home" together and dedded to settle in ment to each other and to the future, not to past> Here are to be found the trendiest no amount of oppression can take that ftom Out & About, the Genesee V^ey's gay and Thc group has been given a television and By Marion Holden Alpha's program provides both social and Rochster, there was no question that we mention the commitment to Chase Lincoln shops, ethnic restaurants, bars, antique stores me^l am now a whole fiither, a whole per lesbian outing grottp, has planned events for is looking for a VCR. Both would be used The Rochester chapter of Parents and educationaiyinformational opportunities on would live in the Park-Monroe area or thc First. The lawyer was very careful to explain and boolu»ellers. Thc Monroe Avenue area soi). a whole gay person. My lover and the May and June including hikes in Letchworth for education and entertainment by several Friends of Lesbians and Gays will hold' its the first and third Saturdays of each month "lavender ghetto," as it is affectionately all of the pitfolls inherent in our joint owner appending Park and its environs is (he ghetto have given me that wholeness as Gorge and Bergen Swamp, a weekend in the groups that meet at the GAGV. monthly meeting on Sunday, May 29 at 2:30 for three hours. known. It is with regret and sadness that we ship and in the instabUity of relationships quintessential example for a mid-sized city. mtich as 1 have given it to myself. Within thc Pocono Mountains, a night of black gospel The Men's Group now has more than 30 pm. at St. Luke's Episcopal Church. 17 South This winter the group began a topical ap leave it now. such as ours. Yet, we remain hopeful. Here the newcomers, my lover and 1 in lavender ghetto, my lover and I have grown music, a weekend at Seneca Lake and a per members; the rapidly growing number of Fitzhugh St. at the comer of Broad St. This proach, focussing on specific areas in a se Four years ago this May. I left my family, Even more frightening for me is the pro cluded, can find gay oiganizations, such as both as individuals and as a couple. The formance of the play TTie Little Shop of Hor members validates the initial feeling of the will be a sharing and discussion meeting, quence. Our second sequence will end in taking with me its more than S5000 of debt spect of moving from the lavender ghetto the Gay Alliance of Genesee Vilfcy (GAGV). ghetto has enabled us to be our true selves, rors. The hikes are free for members. The steering committee that there is a need for and confidentiality is assiued. May with "Sexuality (Values Clarification)" and the clothes on my back. My lover had that has been our home. The reaUzation that the Empty Closet and Metropolitan Com* and we will not allow anyone to take that weekend in the Poconos costs $45 for social and educational programs for gay For more information on Parents FLAG, on May 7 and ** Prevention of Sexually his clothes and SIO.OOO in unpaid student this fear may be unfounded does nothing to munity Church. Thc eye contact on the away no matter how far we move, in addi members and $50 for lion-members. and the men. call 392-4796. Transmitted Diseases and AIDS Prevention" loans. These combined wardrobes wouldn't lessen my anxiety. The street on which we street, the blatant cruising, the clothes and tion, a part of us will remain forever here. weekend at Seneca Lake costs $30 for For more information, call the GAGV at on May 21. Thc young people who have at have filled a tiny used clothing table at the have lived is so comfortable that our mom- the convcE^ation tell you that others of your Lilce the mother who raised us and then sent members and $35 for non-members. 244-8640. tended evaluate each session and help plan flea market for which their condition ing pre-work send-offe arc not even notic kind are near. Our tentative stqps in fotmding us on our way. the ghetto holds our memory The group's weekly events include biking future programs. qualified them. ed. The neat tidy community of family Out & About, the gay outing group, were near. around the Rochester area. BoTv^ling Voung people ages 16 to 20 who are gay, We have done well. After four years residences into which we are moving will met with enthusiasm and support. V(^ now It is easier if I see our move as a mission Out & About is open to all gay men and lesbian, bisexual or uncertain about their together, having crawled to the brink of undoubtedly be less tolerant. Yet * *de- find ourselves on the GAGV board and count to thc uneducated ofthe world. Gay rights lesbians in the Rochester area. The group's GAGV The Rochester Historical Bowling Socie sexuality are welcome at Alpha meetings. solvency, we began house hunting this year. ghettoizaiion" is probably a necessary step several hundred lesbians and gays within our becomes a political reality when we $5 annual membership fee covers the cost ty will conclude its fifth season with a Blind IWo adults, including one professional, are Our search began in thc Park-Monroe area, for us and for all minorities that fight for circle of friends and acquaintances. demystify gayness. when non-gays realize of mailings and enables members to par Doubles tournament on May 12. Prizes will present at each three-hour session. Young then spread to the South Wedge, thc near equal rights. It is difficult, therefore, to sever that bond that we are not a threat. Hopefully, our move ticipate in a wide variety of activities, in Coffeehouse be awarded to the top pairs, which will be people who would like to attend meetings nonhside, the nonhcasi. and farther and far Ghettos'form in response to suppression even slightly and to move only a few miles. will achieve that end in some small way. cluding hiking, biking, camping, and skiing. drawn randomly. l*he P.Q.'s will defend their or adults who want to volunteer can call ther from the lavender ghetto as each new and intolerance of a minority, such as les Hbw silly of mc to feel a sense of loss. I who Besides. I rationalize, we can easily retum lb receive a free newsletter or more infor On Saturday, May 14. the coffeehouse first half season crown against the second 442-2986. Leave your first name, telephone dose of reaHty ^'as swallowed. Wc had no bians and gays. As in black ghettos ^n mo.st have moved from one coast to thc other and lo the ghetto to eat, shop, dine and play. mation about the group's activities, call Ibm committee of the Gay Alliance of Genesee half winner. number and a comrenient time to letum your other choice. Thc price of property in thc U.S. cities or in the Warsaw ghetto of World back again, and settled somewhere in bet Our gayness firmly in place, we can stand or Bob at 262-2913. Valley will salute GAGV volunteers. Special The league will be sponsoring a fund- call. Park-Monn>e area is prohibitive. Damn fag War II infamy, minorities hand together in ween. Yet this ghetto has been our first real tall no matter where we live. Still, just in dessens and refreshments are planned, raising event on June 25 at Clover Lanes to gots, the\- move into an area, and immediate response to this prejudice and in order to home, a home within our gay family. We case, come and visit soon and often. We beginning at 8 p.m. at the GAGV lounge in benefit the fight against AIDS. For more in ly the properly values start going up. Final maintain their own identity. Such is the have taken our evening walks on these ghet won't be that far from the lavender ghetto, Men's Group the Genesee Co-Op. 713 Monroe Ave. Con formation, see next month's Empty Closet ly, on April IS. wc closed on a residence in lavender ghetto in Rochester and in other to streets every night for four years. We have you know. tact the committee chairperson or John at or call John at 467-0877. Writers Group thc citvs 19th Ward, near Genesee Valley cities. eaten in its restaurants, roamed in its shops 467-0877 for information. The 1988-89 membership campaign will Park Lavender ghettos are usually slightly past- and danced in its bars. The film The AIDS Show wil be screened In April, the coffeehouse began to offer begin at the annual Gay Community Picnic The Lesbian Writers Group will meet on at the May 15 meeting of the Men's Group alternative, healthy refreshments, including on July 17. New bowlers and substitutes are Sunday. May 15 at 2:30 p.m. at the Gay of the Gay Alliance of Genesee Valley. The fruit juices, cider, fresh fruits and vegetables, needed. Stop by our booth at the picnic or Alliance of the Genesee Valley lounge. 713 Books, will begin at 8 p.m. Admission is S5. Feminist photography: acclaimed documentary, a production of San along with the usual munchies. All see us on Thursday nights at 8:30 p.m. at Monroe Ave. $4 for Writers & Books members. For more ^'Meditations on Pornography" Francisco's Theater Rhinoceros, will be refreshments are covered by the $1 admis Clover Lanes. 2750 Monroe Ave. The May agenda includes a pre-group Artnotes information, call 473-2590. Visual Studies Workshop will present followed by a discussion. sion charge. discussion of Susan Sonug's Illness as feminist photographer Lynette Molnar's The Men's Group meets on the first and If you've never been to a coffeehouse or Metaphor, beginning at 2:30 p.m. Open Meditations on Pornography, an exhibition third Sundays of the month from 8 to 9:30 haven't attended in a while, stop by on Satur Bisexual reading and discussion of new works will Margaret Randall to read Lesbian and Gay Bands wants you of color photographs that examine the issues p.m. at the GAGV lounge, 713 Monroe Ave. days from 8 p.m. to midnight. It's a great way begin at 3 p.m. Feminist writer and political activist Lesbian and Gay Bands of America (LGBA), of pornography, rape and gender represen Thirty men attended the April 17 meeting, to meet people, leam new card or board For more than a year, the Lesbian Writers Marparet Randall will read fn>m her work at a national non-profit organization, wants to tation in the media and visual arts, from May at which the film Parting Glances was games, engs^^e in pleasant conversation or Wonien Group has been meeting to encourage and the Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University hear from individuals or groups interested 6 to June 17. shown. Nineteen men met on Easter Sunday just mellow out. Thirteen women met on April 10 to form promote the development of new works and Ave., on Friday, May 13 at H p.m. in helping to start a gay and/or lesbian mar Molnar is currently a curatorial consultant to discuss the topic "Meeting Other Gay New ideas and suggestions, and new com a new group for bisexual women in the lesbian culture in the Rochester area. Infor Randall, author of more than a half dozen ching/concert band in Rochester for the AIDS Project art exhibit at the Wex- Men." A committe was formed to investigate mittee members, are always welcome. Rochester area. mation on other writers' groups, lesbian books on ^vamen's struggles in revolutionary More than a dozen cities in the United ner Center for the Visual Arts in Columbus. TTie group will meet tnonthly and will presses and publishing, and new lesbian societies and other topics, bas been fighting States have gay/lesbian bands that march in Ohio. serve as an umbrella oi^nization through tKH>ks is shared at rhe tnonthly meetings. deportation since Her return to tbe United gay pride parades, give concerts and appear A.n op<:nin]$ reception for the cTthibition, ^Arliicti t>&»cxua.l ^wotnen cm form smaUcr For inoT« inKtrniaiion al>out iV\c Lcabigin States in 1984. Thc Immigration and at other community activities. :mm0 •'•••^oA- t3^m Bmmm «« Ok«% of cap*, support, Study or social groups. A support Writers Group, call Shelly at 473-1573 The as welt as exhibitions by Richard Bolton and. 'S^ttf^-xnipmn diapXay ot pornography Naturalization Service claims Randall's LGBA organizes special events for its . Harvey Stein, will be held at Visual Studies group that will meet several times a month group usuaUy meets once a month. ^vritings are pro-communist and overly member bands, including the sold-out jgm0tKftmm a cXiawte in «rtiich acts Workshop, 31 Prince St.. on Friday, May 6 t^ mmtnAl hoat^iXlty ara not only was also formed at the April 10 meeting. critical of the U.S. govemment; she has benefit concen the night before the National from 8 to 10:30 p.m. The Workshop is also Jt^cUMuratad but IdaoXogicalXy E.D.G.E. The next meeting of the bisexual women's authored books about women in Cuba, Mareh on Washington for Lesbian and Gay sponsoring a seminar with Molnar in May; group will be Sunday. May 8 at 6 p.m. For Nicaragua and Vietnam. Of Rochester... Rights in October. call 442-8676 for more information. meeting location and other information, call Randall claims she lost her U.S. citizenship Next year. LGBA will participate in a com Photo by Lynette Molnar the Empty Closet at 244-9030 or write PO Affirmation under duress when she married a Mexican memoration of rhe 20th anniversary of the Box 24804. Rochester. NY 14624. man in 1967 and was erroneously advised Stonewall riots in New York City. A Communication By Martin Hiraga to assume Mexican citizenship to increase For more information, write to LGBA's "The Mystery of Irma Vep" 'Xittle Shop of Horrors** Liberal and progressive Mormons have her chances of employment. Vice President for Community Outreach, to raise money for AIDS tickets still available and Support Group long claimed that the Mormon Church The reading, sponsored by Writers & Don Niehus, at LGBA. PO Box 57099, AIDS Action Committee of Rochester is Tickets for the performance of the Jewish neglects its women and closets the bui^geon- Washington, DC 20037. sponsoring a performance of GeVa's current Community Center's Center Stage produc formed BY and FOR Alpha ing AIDS crisis in Utah. These two topics will play. TTie Mystery of Irma Xtp, to benefit the tion of Little Shop of Horrors to benefit the be the focus for a conference of the general Food Cupboard at AIDS Rochester. Inc. and Gay Alliance of Genesee Valley are now Disabled/Handicapped By Horace LeUibridge council of Affirmation: Gay and Lesbian Helping People with AIDS. The black-tie- Fabrics & Findings available at several locations. The fiind-raiser OM^C5A GAY MEN and WOMEN Alpha, the group for Rochester-area gay Mormons, to be held in Rochester on optional event will begin at 6:30 p.m. on will be on Sunday. June 12 ^t 8 p.m. at the and lesbian young people, has received a Memorial Day weekend. Sunday, May 8. with a champagne and hors JCC, 1000 Edgewood Ave. It will be sign donation of $1,000 from St. Paul's Roman Affirmation Icadcrrs from across the United d'oeuvre reception, followed by the perfor language interpreted. Catholic Church of Webster. This is the third States and Canada will meet at the Frtends mance of the play and a coffee and dessert Tickets are SIO and are available at Jazz OLDER time Alpha has received tangible help from Meeting House. 41 VMrstminster Road, on FABRIC WAREHOUSE reception with entenainmem. berry's, 713 Monroe Ave, Parkleigh, 215 Park MATURE & GAY St. Paul's, and we are grateful. May 28 and 29- General coordinator Russell The play's author. Charles Ludlam, died Ave. Paul's Grocery, 644 Moiut>c Ave.. 271-5494 The primary donation for Alpha comes Lane will lead the heads of the social net a year ago of complications associated with SUkwood Books, 633 Monroe Ave. and ACTION/ADVOCACY OR from thc generosity of 35 adult volunteers work for Mormon sexual minorities in a AIDS. Village Green bookstores. 766 Monroe Ave. RO. Box 887, Rochester. NY 14603 who have given their energies, time and ex discussion of an agenda for change in the Tickets are S50 and can be obtained at and 1954 West Rklge Road in Greece Tickets 3814)739 381-0739 pertise for three years. But futids are essen Latter-day Saint chureh in the '90s. GcVa. 75 Woodbury Blvd. Call 232-1363 for tnay also be purchased directly from thc tial for providing space, soft drinks, snacks Lane recognized in a recent interview that more information. GAGV; call 244-8640. and books. The group continues to seek the Mormon church is essentially patriarchal financial suppon from New \brk State Divi- and authoritarian, but he claims that positive change has happened through grassroots ac tivism within local units of the church. The Lane and other Affirmation leaders point A TREASURE-PACKED WAREHOUSE OF to the recent statement by Mormon church FASHION FABRICS AT CLOSE-OLT PRICES Bod Is drinking apostle Gordon B. Hinckley that marriage is Remnanis • Piece Goods • Mill ends • Decorator Fabrics • Foam "Supporting Your not a cure for homosexuality as a sign of pro Custom Made Upholstery • Drapery • Slipcovers ion Wellness Wtth Age Old a problem gress in the church's perception of its gay Shop at Home • Free Decorator Service and lesbian inembers. In an April 1987 ad One Sumner Park Wise Woman Ways..." dress, Hincldey claitned the church never of . ROCHESTER BROCKPORT Rochester. NY 14607 in your life? ficially counseled its * 'members with 50 Anderson Ave. 461-2820 80 Clinton St. 637.9187 homosexual problems" to marry. Corner N. Goodman . (On Ihe CaitftI) AA can help. This statement is contradicted by advice 1 ^ Naturorf Remedlei & Supplements Call 232*6720,24 hours a day. to local church leaders in a church publica Or come to Qay AA tion. "HcNnoscxuality," in which the official • Empowered Oils, Extracts ft Incense at St. Luke's Church church stance toward g^lyHesbian and bisex • Natural Body Care. Crystals a Boolcs on Thursdays at 8:30 pm. ual members is oudined in a thrcc^tep plan for "RTpentancc." UPSTATE GALLERY ANTIQUES • Music Makers a Tools for Shomonic Empowerment Sign language biterpreledt These steps include avoidii^ iast meeting of the month. with openly gay or lesbian friends^ Specializing in authentic antiques therapeutic counseUng for aexual oriencatiori •Free Educatk>nal Services* For gay women only: chaise and the devefopment of healthy Mondays at 8:30 pm. beteioacxual rclationships leading to mar -, •Ctasses ft Consultations* riage within tbe Mormon tesnp^ 16 Gardiner Faik, Rochester, NY 14607 262*2089 For gay men only: Recetit steps taken by thc Momitm drarch Open 'Hies. - Sat. 1 i»l"l'l|i|HiH. i>if*»*-'*"'-i- '.> *-f.i,w~»«* - .».ir*«'i,^-**f ^m^r-^-^-^-t-^t^mM^'*->^-' ./^'iiA-0»^'^'ti-*r^K.-^^-^t^»mM')im*,wrfmt,.x'^%0m rffwfjimmwp vmmammm wmm 18 EMPTY CLOSET MAY 1988 Born In this month Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky: 1849-1893 By Tlftoinas KrolalE brothers could have decent lives. sociable." This gnawing anxiety about com This was the start of a relationship by let Eleven operas, three ballets, dramatic, During this time he saw no chance to leave plete disgrace, added to uncertainties about ters. They only met very briefly and by choral orchestral, solo, instrumental, his- job. which he and his father considered his career, weighed upon him. accident. chamber and pianoforte music, songs, ar a form of idleness. His salvation was the Rus But his sexuality may also have con As he recovered from thc nervous rangements of works by other composers, sian Musical Society, where he began lessotis. tributed to his art. Much ofhis music has the breakdown that followed his marriage, she plus 14 translations, editing of musical words The Society wanted to upgrade the status of theme of love denied by fate. Modest felt that encouraged him to retum to composing and for a dictioruuy and two books about music: music in Russia. To reach this goal, and with Pyotr's opera Rotneo and Juliet resulted from paid him an annual aUowance. iliis enabl this was the legacy of P>'Otr Ilyich Tchaikov the patronage of the czar's family, it fc wind thc composer's unretumed love for a male ed him to leave teaching, which had long sky. He has been described as Russia's ed a music school, the St. Petersburg Con classmate. bored him. to write full-time. leading composer of the 19th century. servatory, in 1862. Ibhaikovsky enrolled that But his deep sexual ur^ges had to be When she abru|Uly ended their cor This success ofbeing the most celebrated year. Lacking confidence, he only went on satisfied. Although he paid male prostitutes respondence in 1890, Tchaikovsky was no Russian of all time was clouded by personal leave from the Ministry, and didn't quit his in Moscow, his real desire was for love. In longer in need of financial help. But torment. He desperately feared that the |ob there until five years later. his 30s he became quite close to a talented knowledge that he was gay was widespread. world would discover he was gay. Even an He was an excellent student in theory and young male student ofhis, but the relation Did he die from cholera? Or was he forced internationally respected artist was not im composition, but he found himself in the ship never involved sex. to commit suicide because he was gay? mune to homophobia and some believe it middle of a dispute between the conser Complicating this frustration was his Thc former theory lacks evidence. He was was the real reason for his sudden death. vatory and the nationalists. The former, the strong domestic streak. Always happy with supposed to have drunk unboiled water, This anxiety was only one facet ofa fragile his family, he half knew that this comfort unlikely during a cholera scare. His body was disposition that originated in childhood. would be denied him due to his sexuality displayed for mourners, unsafe after death Bom May 7, 1840, in Votkinsk. Russia, he His sexuality may also and his unpredictable profession. His less from the disease. Sheets borrowed during his was the third of seven children of a mining realistic side kept wanting a woman, but this illness were returned unwashed. After his inspector. The family could afford a have contributed to was just as much a cover for being gay as a death unusually detailed reports of his governess who encouraged his precocious yearning for marital bliss. sickness appeared in the press as if cholera mind. At four he played his father's piano But he did attempt to achieve this state. had to be proved. These reports differ and wrote a song. his art. When he was 37 an ex-pupil of his, Antotiina crucially. But this interest in music became a mor Milyukova, wrote to him that she had always Why suicide? A 1966 interview with a bid fascination. A nervous, very sensitive Westemizers. wanted to reform Russian loved him. Tchaikovsky was then carried former historian of the School of child, easily moved to tears, he now show music after thc model of Western Europeans, away by the romantic plot of an opera he was Jurisprudence may answer that. The ed personality traits he would have as an to refine it. Their opposition extolled Rus writing and so was especially vulnerable. historian said that in 1913 the widow of a adult. So obsessed w^as he with his piano- sian folk songs and dances, the history and She threatened suicide if he would not Mr. Jacobi. a graduate of the school, told him playing that it often led to insomnia. legend of Russia set to music. marry her. She persisted after he said that as what had happened in the fall of 1893 < A Although his mother tried to steer him Tchaikovsky, th^ Mozarttan, at first lean her husband he would give her friendship, duke was apgry over Tchaikovsky's attrac toward other hobbies, he stayed devoted to ed towards the Westemizers. Later he prais not love. Against advice, he married her in tion to his nephew. He wrote a tetter to thc Czar revealing these facts and asked Jacobi her ed the nationalists. But George Balanchine July 1877. to deliver it. This attachment was so great that he in called him a European, not a Russian, com He soon came to regret this mistake. An- herited her high-strung personality He never poser. He thought Tchaikovsky based operas tonina had delusions that every man she had Tb avoid embarrassing the school. Jacobi forgot the painful separation from her so he on Shakespeare and the poet Pushkin, known adored her. She constantiy spoke of instead held a "coun" in his home with he could attend school in St. Petersburg when because they saw beyond borders. and other graduates acting as judges. he was 10. But there, soon afterward, came Tchaikovsky also borrowed from a Ger Tchaikovsky was summoned and given a a turning point. He saw the opera Don man. Hoffman, for his ballet The Nutcracker. Was he forced to choice. Either the Czar would be told, Giovanni. It not only began his life-long love The Christmas classic had its debut in resulting tn the composer's exile to Siberia affair with Mozart, but was the first time he Moscow in 1892. His other ballets are Swan commit suicide and his and thc school's shame, or he could was truly carried away by melodies. He Lake (1877) and Sleeping Beauty (I890). The kill himself. Mrs. Jacobi saw him leave, look lyegan sutempts at €:onip€>sition, finishing one score foe the latter has been called the best because he was gay? ing obviously upset. at 15. ^written for a ballet. It resulted in the One of the graduates visited Tchaikovsky He continued hts piano lessons. His popularity of the genre in the ^X^cst. Swan this, and of her hatred for her Runiiy. to her thc next day. one writer thinlcs, to give him teacher believed he had talent, but not one Lake has also been credited with raising the spouse. She followed him from room to the poison. This visit is not included in the exccrptional enough for a career. Besides, be standards for ballet. By the time of The Nut room, robbing him of the quiet he needed memoirs of Modest who, according to this ing a paid musician in 1850s Russia meant cracker. Tchaikovsky was world-famous. He to work. She had fiattered him by claiming theory, participated in the cover-up. In risking poverty and social disapproval, since had toured Europe and the United States. a knowledge of all his music, but he found Modest's apartment, where he died. the law considered the profession non Earlier. Tchaikovsky had helped change she was a habitual liar. He saw all her Tchaikovsky could have taken the poison existent. So he applied himself to his legal Russian orchestral music in his Prisoner of behavior as fake and repulsive. and told his brother and doctor, who posted studies at the all-male School of the Caucasus (1865) with new use of in Knowing he would kill her. he decided on false bulletins. Jurisprudence, which had a gay reputation. struments. Soon he made his conductor's suicide by wading into the Moscow River A grand sute funeral was then held. The He may have had his first sexual experience debut; he was so frightened that he grasped one cold night. Returning home drenched, eulogy was given by V. Gerard, a classmate there. his beard, fearing his head would fall off. he lay down, expecting to die from a chill. of the composer's at the school and the ob He resigned himself to a clerical job that In 1866. he graduated in St. Petersbutg and When this failed, he left her. For the rest of ject of his unretumed passion. Gerard had could support the expected wife and took a teaching job at the Moscow Conser his life, he sent her money, but she only probably helped to condemn him. children despite the lingering distraction of vatory. 'IWo years later, while writing his First bothered him for more. He considered QutHe: "Do you really believe that the music. He graduated at 19; his class Symphony, he suffered his initial nervous divorce, but he would have had to pose as consciousness that they pity mc and forgive photograph shows the man next to him breakdown with hallucinations that would me (for being gay) is not pain holding his hand. He took the next logical an adulterer. He also felt sorry for her. recur. Rumors about his sexuality added to Only months before he plunged into this ful. . .when. . .1 am guilty of nothing!" if boring step, a position in the Ministry of the nervous strain of overwork. He unload Justice. disaster. Nedezhda von Meek became his ^atppy Birthday to these gays: ed his private anguish to a few close friends patroness. A fabulously rich widow, she had • Gay activist Franldin Kameny (192 5-). May He spent the next three years there, advan and in letters to his brothers. One of them. paid him for some musical arrangements he • Gay martyr Harvey Milk (1930-1978). May cing up the govemment ladder At least once Modest, was also gay. so the composer could had done for her late in 1876. With the 22. he showed his attitude toward his job by be honest with them. In Pyotr's cor money she sent a note praising his music. tearing apart an official document and chew respondence he used '*Z" as the code for ing on it. In a reversal of the old cliche, his father urged him to consider a musical gay career But his father had been hurt In a In one of these letters Tchaikovsky saw business venture, so Tchaikovsky thought; it himself as isolated, his gayness an "un CLASSIFIEDS necessary to cam money so his yoimger twin bridgeable chasm" between him and the world. It made him ''alooF' and "un- Unclassified ads cost SS for the first 30 ^^^ WANTEDt Bi female for friendship. Me: words and Sl for each additional 10 words. male, white, 31, 6'1", quiet but wild and DaHy Specials: Home of Send check or money order and ad, typed crazy sometimes, creative, good sense of <«3 for 2** from 1-7 the or written legibly, to E.C. Press, Box F, 713 humor and a loud laugh. You: pretty, slender, Monroe Ave., Rtychester, NY 14607, or call honest, and you hace to be alone. Picture if Weekly Specials: Big Shots 244-9030. possible. Let's at least talk. Write: Greg. 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Ills diagnosis but have condemned the local Affirmation inembers hope that such at bishop's re^KMisc to his request for help tempts at addressing those issues among When Harmwd requested reinstatement to granroots Mormon membership will lead to fuU mcniltershlp in tlie chureh. the lexral a greater openness among church leaders. bishop excommunicated him, scndii^ him The Memorial Day conference will plan a written request that he ntH attend church ahead to an October conferciKe when Af **lor the sake of ward (parish) memtsen.** firmation WiU celebrate its 10th anniversary The Mormon chureh recently established as an organization. an offlce within the chuich's admlnisttative Input from local Mormon gaty men and les headt|uaff«efs sn deal with "hcxnoscxual con bians will be welcome at the conference For I T 1 n '" • • • cerns,*' which Lane and other AfRrmatlon more information call 442-3519. ^-^* . .• •V---»-*t''«^-''-1. ••-•I,* .*^,- a^t f-^«W . -*- _ ,4^ >-^-;--?s ^-v>7^^•'U•^^T""'^*"'" •.••Kil •- •^^ ll m »m"'^ rim'''if^i'^^J'^St^ r ' •• • -V»V ••** • '"^ •^. \ '» ' f\ l\ rhe TMJcnuc 522 Monroe Avenue 244-4960 May 1, 1988 MEMORIAL DAY No. 192 Hot dogs, hamburgers, potato salad, Philadelphia steaks w/ peppers & onion NEW YORK STATE'S OLDEST GAY NEWSPAPER Monday, May 30 NOON Monday & Thursday Saturday 4 - 8 pm Two-for-One Domestic beer $1 10 pm - 2 am Well drinks $1.25 Sunday Monday — Friday 4 - 7 pm IWo-for-One 5-9 pm Buy 2 drinlcs, & the Srd is FREE Dancing 6 pm til Depression Night TUESDAYS Dinner at Depression Prices! 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