ABOUT MY BROTHER My Brother, Krzysztof

PRZEGLĄD ZACHODNI I, 2017 PIOTR SKUBISZEWSKI Warsaw ABOUT MY BROTHER My brother, Krzysztof Skubiszewski, the creator of Poland’s new foreign policy after 1989, a lawyer, the president of the Iran–United States Claims Tribunal and judge at hoc in the International Court of Justice in the Hague, has been the sub- ject of several publications1 and two special conferences (one held in London2 the other one in Warsaw3) My brother’s public activity was also the topic of Minister Władysław Bartoszewski’s talk delivered on 12 December 2014 at the ceremony that inaugurated the Krzysztof Skubiszewski Cabinet at the Western Institute in Poznań.4 I do not feel competent to add anything to those publications and statements. I do not intend to elaborate upon my brother’s contribution to the science of law and public affairs. However, I wish to shed light on something that is probably less familiar to people who met Krzysztof professionally, but cannot be ignored if we want to provide insight into his personality. What I have in mind is Krzysztof’s attachment to his family and to Poznań, the city where he was born, where he spent his early years, where he studied, and where he worked as an academic for many years. My brother would often speak of the bond he had with his parents, siblings, nephews, as well as 1 From among many publications I will mention only two titles: Pozycja Polski w Europie, (ed.) D. Popławski, Fundacja Studiów Międzynarodowych, Warszawa 1994 and Krzysztof Skubiszewski – dyplomata i mąż stanu, (ed.) R. Kuźniar, Polski Instytut Spraw Międzynarodowych, Warszawa 2011. 2 Proceedings of the conference organized on 14 November 2013 by the Polish Embassy in the United Kingdom, Lauterpacht Centre for International Law – University of Cambridge and Queen Mary University of London School of Law are published in: James Crawford, Grzegorz Dziemido- wicz, Rosalyn Higgins, Zdzisław Kędzia, Bartłomiej Krzan, Marek Prawda, Ryszard Stemplowski, Professor, Minister, Judge – Krzysztof Skubiszewski 1926-2010, Preface by Ambassador Witold Sob- ków, Coordinated by Ryszard Stemplowski, Contains biographical data and photos courtesy of the Skubiszewski Foundation and the Skubiszewski Family Photo Archives, Warszawa, Scholar Publish- ing House, 2015. 3 Krzysztof Skubiszewski Minister Spraw Zagranicznych RP 1989-1993. Materiały konferencji zor- ganizowanej przez Fundację imienia Krzysztofa Skubiszewskiego, Instytut Stosunków Międzynarodo- wych Uniwersytetu Warszawskiego oraz Ministerstwo Spraw Zagranicznych Rzeczypospolitej Polskiej w Warszawie 12 września 2014 roku, (eds.) P. Skubiszewski and J. Stańczyk, Wydawnictwa Uniwersy- tetu Warszawskiego, Warszawa 2016. 4 During this celebration I presented a shortened version of the present paper. 322 Piotr Skubiszewski close and more distant relatives. On public occasions he talked about the impact of his family legacy on his life. For example, the following is what he said in his ad- dress at his doctoral renewal ceremony at Adam Mickiewicz University in Poznań on 10 December 2004: “First and foremost, I fondly remember my parents and the atmosphere of my family home. It was a home where books played a key role […]. My parents urged their children to learn foreign languages from their early years […] I will say one more thing: my parents made sure that their children attended the best schools that were available at the time”.5 He often shared the memories of his parents in the last years of his life after his tenure as Minister of Foreign Af- fairs. We had long conversations about our family in his apartments in Warsaw on Lewicka Street or in the Hague on Parkweg (Fig. 1). We also met at my place on Karowa Street in Warsaw, where he visited my wife and me when he arrived from the Hague and where every year the three of us would gather for the Christmas Eve supper (Fig. 2). When I recently read the notes of my conversations with Krzysztof about our war experiences, it struck me how much our parents had been involved in them and what they had done for us.6 The second theme that so strongly resonated in my brother’s memories was his sense of attachment to Poznań and Wielkopolska. He emphasized this point during the doctoral renewal ceremony. This is what he said in his interview to the Głos Wielkopolski daily: “I was born in Poznań. I was raised here, and I lived here, ex- cluding the war period, until 1989. This experience makes me identify as a Pozna- nian to the core”.7 He moved to Warsaw when he was appointed minister. Then he established a second home in the Hague, where he served as a judge at international courts, over one of which he presided. My brother quickly settled in new places. However, as we chatted in later years about various places that our destiny led us to, he was always nostalgic about Poznań. When the German Nazis were expelling us from Wielkopolska in late November 1939, Krzysztof was a thirteen-year-old boy. Thanks to his excellent memory, he cherished the image of the pre-war Poznań, of our mother Aniela’s family (the Leit- gebers) that had been living there for generations, and of the wide range of places in Wielkopolska where he traveled with his parents, older sister Marychna, and me, his younger brother.8 In the memories that my brother shared with me in the last years of 5 The quote comes from the transcript of his speech. The transcript as well as other documents quoted in this text is stored in our family archives. 6 The conversations took place in 2006-2007. Their transcribed or recorded versions are kept in our family archives. 7 “Poznańczyk. Z profesorem Krzysztofem Skubiszewskim rozmawia Wojciech Nentwig”. Głos Wielkopolski, 10 December 2004, p. VII. 8 For information about our father see Roman Meissner, „Skubiszewski Ludwik Marcin” [in:] Polski Słownik Biograficzny. Vol. XXXVIII, Warszawa-Kraków 1997-1998, pp. 492-495. For information about our mother see S. Leitgeber, Dzieje rodziny Leitgeberów od XVIII do XX wieku, Poznań- Wrocław, Wydawnictwo Historyczne, 2002 („Biblioteka Genealogiczna”, vol. 7), pp. 184-186. This About my Brother 323 his life, both themes, the family and Poznań as well as Wielkopolska, were blended into one. His thoughts always came back to our apartment on Dąbrowskiego Street, which I, five years Krzysztof’s junior, still distinctly remember as the heart of our family life both before and after the war (Fig. 3). We returned there with our parents in 1945, when the Nazi occupation was over. The apartment was situated on the third floor of the building our paternal grandfather Jan, who owned a cigar factory, had commissioned to be built in 1907. Until the end of his life, he lived on the first floor of the same building with his wife Maria (née Otmianowska) and four children. Be- hind our residential building stood the factory building, also commissioned by our grandfather. Behind the factory spread the garden, where our mother used to play with her siblings. But these were only stories for us. After World War I, the factory was taken over for a short while by the Polish Tobacco Monopoly. The former factory building was then home to the Brunon Czajkowski private gymnasium. Today, as I recall our mother’s stories about the state take-over of the factory after World War I and the history of that building, I wonder whether Krzysztof, whose knowl- edge of 20th century history never failed to amaze me, learned his first history lessons from our mum. Before World War II, the three of us attended the same elementary school: the Janina Sulerzyska school on Św. Marcin Street. We always got there by tram. Krzysztof graduated one year after his sister, in June 1938, and by the time the war broke out, he had managed to complete the first year of gymnasium in the Karol Marcinkowski State Gymnasium and High School. The school was within walking distance so he walked there. As Krzysztof and I often recalled our childhood in the pre-war Poznań, one of the recurrent themes was our memory of Sunday walks with our parents and family visits after the mass at the Church of the Sacred Heart of Jesus in the district of Jeżyce. We either walked or took a tram through Teatralny Bridge ‘to town’, as we used to call it. There was usually some sightseeing on the agenda. I best remember our visits to the Wielkopolskie Museum (now the National Museum), where we were fascinated by folk costumes and products that were on display in the grand hall on the ground floor at the side of from Nowa Street.9 The exhibition was situated in the Ethnography De- partment, headed by Wiesława Cichowicz, who was an acquaintance of our parents. At the end of our Sunday trips, our father would invite us to lunch at the Hotel Bazar. Our mother cared very much for the family ties. From the pre-war period I remember four homes that the three of us often visited with our parents. The closest one was situated on Słowackiego Street: it was the home of Roman Leitgeber, my mother’s oldest living paternal uncle. From his youth, he had been a member of the book provides information about all of the members of the Leitgeber family mentioned in the present text. 9 Today Paderewskiego Street. 324 Piotr Skubiszewski National League, later on renamed the National Party. He was a co-founder, then the major shareholder, and finally the head of a large newspaper publishing business called “Drukarnia Polska”. He befriended Roman Dmowski.10 The major topic of discussions in that home was politics. Not far off from our house, on Jasna Street,11 in the district of Jeżyce was Aunt Jadwisia’s apartment.

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