DECEMBER 29, 2019

NOTES FROM THE PASTOR Fr. Mark Brauer, Pastor Today, we gather together with family and friends to celebrate the feast of  the Holy Family. This feast continues Fr. Paul Graney the Christmas season when we recall Associate Pastor the birth of Jesus the Christ, the Son of  God, we find ourselves in the presence of Fr. Derik Peterman the powerful mystery of the Incarnation Associate Pastor and we are reminded of just how much God loves us and all the people of the world. OUR VISION As our parish anticipated Christmas,  To know Christ and  I was very much moved to see the different ways our parish community reaches out with love to one and another, our neighbors and to those in to make Christ known need. Your response to the needs of others shows in a tangible way Christ’s love for those who grieve the death of a loved one and the poor and homeless M in their name, Thank You! Also, it is clear that many countless gestures of generosity take place here each and every day and they are an expression of your deep faith and love.  The light of Christ’s love confronts the darkness of poverty, prejudice,  hatred and illness through the goodness and love of our parish community M this love is their hope. Those in need can most perfectly see themselves as precious children of God when they look into the loving heart of a neighbor who cares.  When we join our hearts, inspired by the Christmas light of Christ, we  proclaim the joy and the power of the Kingdom of God. This is the privilege and the responsibility of the Church. This is our mission M to bear the light of Christ’s triumph into the darkness of life in this world. The surge in  charitable works during this holy season intensifies the light of Christ in the world. Just as we light evergreens and candles during this Christmas season, so our sacrificial loving toward the poor and suffering brightens the earth. Communities can and should be judged based upon the care they extend to the least. Using this standard, Our Lady of Sorrows is truly a light in the Lord. I am joyful to serve this effort with you and to give voice to what you had done and continue to do so well M shining the light of Christ upon a darkened world.  May the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ, be a light shining in the hearts of all believers today and throughout the coming year. Blessings to you and your families!  Peace.  Fr. Mark Brauer  

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JOIN US  SǙǗǞ UǠ Nǟǧ UǠ SǙǗǞ  Emmaus Small Group Information Meeting The OLS Bowling Team is seeking students in January 8, 2020 7:00 PM, Family Center grades 58 who are interested in   joining our coed teams   Have you ever wanted to connect more closely with The season begins in January. Matches are on your neighbors in the pews? To be part of a small Saturdays and the team will practice once a week faithsharing, faithforming group?  on a day and location to be determined. No  A small group might be right for you!  experience is necessary and everyone is   welcome! Please contact Jason Zewatsky at This informational meeting will share the program [email protected] with questions or to “strike” up a conversation about joining the vision, answer any questions and help you discern team! the possibility of getting involved. 

Find out more and view our promo video at  www.olsorrows.com/esg/  Celebrate Catholic Schools Week 2020   January 26 N February 1

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Financial Peace Are you in debt? Or maybe you just don't know where your money is going each month? Are you worried about not being able to save as much as you would like? Have you tried to budget in the past, but don't stick to it? Would you like to be more  generous with your money and help others, but just Anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one is invited to our Grief Support Group here at Our don't know if you could ever be in a position to do nd th that? Lady of Sorrows. We meet on the 2 and 4  Thursday of the month at 7:00 PM in the Parish Living in the present and planning for the future is Office Conference Room. Our next meeting is hard when you’re still paying for the past! There is a January 14, 2020.   better way! Join ourFinancial Peace Universityclass, For more information contact Sharon Williams  and we’ll learn how to beat debt and make a plan for at [email protected] or call the Parish the future! Start the New Year off with a plan for Office at 248.474.5720. peace!Interested? Join us atOur Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church startingWednesday, January 8, GǢǙǕǖ SǥǠǠǟǢǤ 2020. Classes are held at 7:00 PM in the South Hall.  St. Vincent de Paul News   The St. Vincent de Paul Society, Email Michelle Power at [email protected] on behalf of our neighbors in with questions or sign up at fpu.com/1105529. need, would like to thank those who so generously supported us SVDP in the past year.   Should you have questions about the SVdP  Society, or would like to consider joining our  conference, please contact Nancy Rancour at [email protected]. 

20192020 Becoming Catholic Schedule Sessions take place on Sundays at 9:30 AM in the Family Center. Parishioners are welcome to attend. Date Topic Speaker 12/29/2019 Christmas Break N  N/A No Session 1/05/2020 The Eucharist Fr. Paul Graney 1/12/2020 Matrimony & Holy  Sharon Williams Orders Fr. Derik Peterman

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Saturday, Jan. 18, MLK, Jr. Day of Service  (for High School Students). Join hundreds of young people from all over the Archdiocese as we descend on Detroit to celebrate Martin Luther King, Jr. Day in a massive Day of Service on January 18! We will leave Sorrows about 8 AM Reserve your spot for the 2020 Steubenville  and return around 3:30 PM. Lunch is included. Youth Conference! Deadline to sign up with MTS is Jan. 4. Call   248.536.1235. Service Hours, of course! OLS teens (currently in 8th12th grade) are invited to share in a powerful weekend at a legendary RǕǗǙǣǤǕǢ Nǟǧ RǕǗǙǣǤǕǢ Steubenville Youth Conference, held at Franciscan University in Ohio. OLS teens who’ve attended 33333333333333 in the past say they wouldn’t miss it! It’s a weekend of inspiring speakers, Eucharistic adoration,  HǙǗǘ SǓǘǟǟǜ YǟǥǤǘ HǙǗǘ SǓǘǟǟǜ energizing music, fun and fellowship with over  Friday, Jan. 10, 6:308:30 PM in the gym,  2,000 other Catholic teenagers from across the Capture the Flag in the Dark with Glowsticks. country. It’ll change the way you think about your faith, and fuel that faith like never before!  Free! RSVP by Jan. 3 with your paperwork. No  socks, tennis shoes only. Call 248.536.1235.  When: July 1012, 2020  Who: Rising 912th graders & newly graduated Friday, Jan. 24, from 6:308:30 PM, GAMES in HS seniors as of summer 2020 the Youth Room. Quickpaced tictactoe, Giant Cost: $218 for the conference (includes meals Jenga, Spoons and more! Come and have fun and housing in dorms) plus up to $70 for trans- and be a kid! FREE!  portation, tshirt and snacks. We are working hard to find ways to keep this additional cost JǢ. HǙǗǘ YǟǥǤǘ HǙǗǘJǢ. much lower. Details about all Junior High and High School Events Deposit: $40 at time of registration; balance are on the Sorrows website: olsorrows.com. Select “Grow in Faith” then “Jr. High Youth Ministry” or “High due in March  School Ministry.” We are currently working on transportation  options and will communicate the final cost to all  registrants once determined. Email Karla Dorweiler at [email protected] ASAP to put your name on the list and get instructions for paying your deposit. You can also reserve your spot with a  deposit online at https://olsorrows.eventbrite.com/ . Saturday and Sunday, Jan. 45 at all the First come, first served. Transportation options will Masses, ALL missionaries to the Catholic  determine the size of the group. If we are limited Heart Work Camp AtHome, Away Camp or  by space, we’ll take teens in the order of receipt of the deposits.  International Camp sell stock to help offset trip  costs! If you plan to stay with me after the 1 PM Questions? Contact group leader Karla Dorweiler Mass and return before the 5:30 PM Mass, let at 248.470.0179 or [email protected]. me know so I can plan. I’ll provide lunch on   Sunday so you won’t go hungry. If you can’t Would you like to help us get to Steubenville make it, a parent must fill in for you. For down next summer?  time, feel free to bring phones, homework, etc. If you would like to make a monetary donation  toward transportation costs, our group tshirt and JǢ. HǙǗǘ ̂ HǙǗǘ SǓǘǟǟǜ  other expenses, please contact Karla Dorweiler Sunday, Jan. 5, after the 9:30 and 11:15 AM at 2484700179 or [email protected]. Any Masses, Youth & Young Adult Ministry  contribution will aid in keeping the cost low for Showcase in the Church Lower Level. See families to give their teens this incredible faith Holy and Heavenly’s Inaugural 2020 Puppet filled experience! Show! Come and support this awesome junior high ministry and learn to hear the Gospel  message in a whole new way! They especially Keep Your College Student  like to hear from former puppeteers! Check out Plugged Into the Faith our Youth & Young Adult Displays and photos  from this past year! Have some popcorn and buy To connect your child to Catholic campus ministry M stock in the summer Away Mission Trip with visit http://www.newmanconnection.com/. You will Catholic Heart Work Camp! Meet the missionary discover if there is a Newman Connection on your campers as they sell stock! Coffee, donuts and child’s campus and much more information. hot chocolate after the first three Masses. 

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Join us on January 1112th. Take a moment after mass to walk through compelling exhibits reflecting on the saints highlighted in our Christmas book to see how they prayed.

 Calling All Bakers! Ethnic Needed for “Rediscover the Saints” Exhibit January 1112  We are asking parishioners to make the deliciousness they are revered for making in their family and bring it

HǕǜǠ NǕǕǔǕǔ to the Lower Level of the Church on Jan. 1112! You don’t have to hail from that country to make a but we are seeking countryspecific desserts!   We’ll serve up the desserts after Masses as part of  the Saints’ Exhibit and we’ll put your name by your dessert! The desserts will come from the different countries from which the featured saints hail. Make one of these belowM or choose your own from any of the countries listed:  India (St. Mother Teresa) Payasam, Kaju ki Barfi or Aam Shrikhand ♦ Algeria (St. Augustine) Braj, Makroudes with dates or Baghrir ♦ Poland (St. Maximillian Kolbe) Kalach, Poppy Seed or Angel Wings ♦ Italy (St. Walter of Serviliano, St. Francis of Assisi and St. Benedict) , Cannoli, Panna Cota or Budino ♦ Turkey (St. Irenaeus and St. Nicholas) Muhallebi, Ayva Tatlisi or Asure ♦ Spain (St. Theresa of Avila) Catalan Cream, Tart or Spanish Crumble ♦ England (St. Thomas More and St. Har- old) Bread & Butter Pudding, Jam RolyPoly or Sticky Toffee January 14 Pudding ♦ Israel/Palestine (St. John the Baptist, St. Novi & Farmington James, St. Martha, St. Thomas and the Blessed Mother) Kanafeh, Baklava or Ma’Maoul ♦ France (St. Vincent De Paul, St. Therese of Lisieux, St. Ralph and St. John Vianney) Crème Brulee, Clafoutis, Chocolate Mousse or Madeleines ♦ (St. Mother Mary MacKillop) , and Dundee Cake ♦ Egypt (St. Anthony of the  Desert) , Kunafa or Sweet Feter  To volunteer to bake a dessert, call Marilyn Trumper Samra and tell her which dessert at 248.536.1235.  Like Blessed Solanus M we thank you in advance!

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SERVE WITH US  St. Francis Council #4401   St. Francis Assembly #2136

Recognition for St. Francis Assembly #2136 Faithful Navigator Gary Mallia recently announced that St. Francis Assembly #2136 has received some positive recognition. At a meeting of the  Assemblies in the district, St. Francis Assembly # 2136 was one of only three Assemblies in the District to be awarded the Red, White, & Blue

SǑǦǕ TǘǕ DǑǤǕǣ SǑǦǕ Award for outstanding implementation of Patriotic programming. The Assembly was also awarded

KǞǙǗǘǤǣ ǟǖ Ǔǟǜǥǝǒǥǣ the Supreme Civic award for our successful  implementation of programmingM one of only five Assemblies within the District to receive this award.   New Year Greetings  The Officers and members of St. Francis Council #4401 and St. Francis Assembly #2136 wish a happy, joyous, and prosperous New Year to one and all.   Christmas & YearEnd Giving   As we embark on these last few weeks of the  Recruiting New Members calendar year and prepare for the Christmas  Contact Membership Director George Curran at Season, please take a moment to pray about 248.891.6639 or [email protected]. New your Christmas offertory. Please prayerfully con- members are always welcome. sider a financial gift of any  denomination to Our Lady of Sorrows Parish made in  thanksgiving to God for the SǤǕǧǑǢǔǣǘǙǠ grace and blessings He has so generously provided to you and your family over the past year. Your gen- erosity enables the parish to provide for the spir- itual needs of its  parishioners; provides numerous ministries and services; as well as provides outreach to the local community.    Monthly Food Collection Like any organization , Our Lady of Sorrows  Next Weekend M January 45 Parish incurs a number of operating expenses such Recipient: St. Christine  as utility bills, property insurance; maintenance and repairs; employees salaries, wages and  benefits, such as health insurance and retirement. ǖǟǟǔ DǢǙǦǕ MǟǞǤǘǜǩ Weekly offertory collections in addition to parish fundraisers and your Christmas offertory/gift are   the primary means by which the parish covers its operating expenses.  Your Christmas Offertory/Gift to the parish will not incur the usual 7% Archdiocesan  assessment. Therefore, 100% of your Christmas Offertory/Gift remains with Our Lady of Sorrows.   When giving, please be sure to use your Christ- Apps make life easier. With GivePlus Church, our mas Offertory Envelope or write Christmas mobile giving app, you can make giving easier. Use

Offertory/Gift on an envelope and place in the OǞǜǙǞǕ GǙǦǙǞǗ your smartphone to give anytime, anywhere!  offertory collection basket two weeks before With GivePlus Church, you can give to any of our and /or two weeks after Christmas. church or school funds whenever it is convenient  Once again thank you for the continued support for you. Visit our website to learn more. Thank and prayers for your parish! you for your continued generosity.

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 Our Lady of Sorrows  M.O.M.S. Group “Meeting Other Moms for Support”  in our Catholic Faith  January Meeting Wednesday, January 8 9:15 AM11 AM, Church Hall North   Recipe Swap & Samples  Group Book Discussion SENIOR DINNER OUT  We are doing a “Recipe Swap” meeting. Bring in Sunday, January 5, 2020 at 4:00 PM M.O.M.S. GǢǟǥǠ some copies of a recipe for your favorite dish, Uptown Grill comfort food, appetizer or dessert. If you can 3100 W. Maple (15 mile) (west of Haggerty) bring in a sample of the item to share, that would Come celebrate the new year with friends, old and be great. If you can’t make a sample, don’t worry. new. Call Thom & Donna Noles at 248.946.4721 to We will try the different dishes while we socialize make a reservation. and talk about the tradition or story of your recipe.    Then, we will read and discuss a chapter of The PINOCHLE/GAME DAY Friendship Project: Catholic Woman’s Guide to Thursday, January 9, 2020, 1:00 M 3:00 PM Making and Keeping Fabulous, Faithfilled Church Hall Centerl Friends. You will get a free copy with your paid Come for a fun afternoon. registration. This book has short chapters so we can do part of it with quick reading and discus-  sion at more than one meeting. We will have JANUARY SENIOR MEETING & DINNER copies of the book available at the meeting. Thursday, January 16, 2020, 11:30 M 3:00 PM  Church Hall Center and North New members can join us any time during the year. Our group is a great place to meet other We will be having Lasagna, salad, rolls, and cake moms, with kids from babies up to college age. (chocolate/lemon). Members $10/Non members If you have any questions, contact Kathleen $11.00. To register fill out the form below, place it in Clark at 248.719.1892. If you would like to get an envelope marked SENIOR GROUP and drop it in on our email newsletter list, contact Elaine  the collection basket at Church. FIRM deadline is Ciaramitaro at [email protected]. Sunday January 12, 2020. Call Kay Dingeman at Babysitting is available in the room next to us for 248.476.9238 with questions or problems. $3 per child or $6 per family. Infants can stay with mom.

 2020 Meeting Dates: OUR LADY OF SORROWS  February 12 ♦ March 11 ♦ April 22 ♦ May 13  SENIOR GROUP   January Meeting & Dinner  Join us at our evening activities, even if you  Thursday, January 16, 11:30 AM cannot make the morning meetings. NAME(S): ______

 Attention All MEN!! ______ STIR Men's Ministry is CONTACT PHONE NO.:______directed to all men ages 16 and older who desire NO. ATTENDING: ______

the opportunity to pray, reflect and talk with other AMT. ENCLOSED: ______likeminded Christian men who desire to be all that (Members $10/ Nonmembers $11)  God calls them to be.  Place this form with your check/money in an  Prayer Meetings  envelope marked “Senior Group” and drop it in the collection basket by Sunday, Jan. 12.  EVERY Saturday Morning   6 AM M7:45 AM  Make checks payable to:  Family Center Chapel. Our Lady of Sorrows Parish 

STIR MǕǞ’ǣ MǙǞǙǣǤǢǩ  For questions or more information please contact: Mike Chamberland at 248.474.5720 or  [email protected].  33333333333333

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 DATE AND LOCATION OBSERVANCE READINGS PSALM GOSPEL INTENTIONS

Monday, December 30, 2019 NO 6:30 AM Mass SIXTH DAY WITHIN THE 1 Jn 2:12-17 Ps 96:7-10 Lk 2:36-40 Edmond Khayatt (Anwar Khayatt) 7:30 AM Church OCTAVE OF THE Sr. Ethel Detz (Dolecki Family) NATIVITY OF THE LORD Joan Weller (Family) Tuesday, December 31, 2019 SEVENTH DAY WITHIN 1 Jn 2:18-21 Ps 96:1-2, Jn 1:1-18 Eleanor Nadolski (Nadolski Family) 7:30 AM Church THE OCTAVE OF THE Paolo Giovanardi (Graziano Canini)

DAILY MASSES DAILY 11-13 NATIVITY OF THE Nilo Nadong (Peter Nadong & Family) LORD; Saint Sylvester I, Pope 4:30 PM Church SOLEMNITY OF MARY, Nm 6:22-27 Ps 67:2-3, Lk 2:16-21 Intentions of All Parishioners HOLY MOTHER OF GOD Gal 4:4-7 5-6, 8 Wednesday, January 1, 2020 NO 6:30 AM or 7:30 AM Mass 9:00 AM Church SOLEMNITY OF MARY, Nm 6:22-27 Ps 67:2-3, Lk 2:16-21 Intentions of All Parishioners 11:15 AM Church HOLY MOTHER OF GOD Gal 4:4-7 5-6, 8 Thursday, January 2, 2020 NO 6:30 AM Mass Saints Basil the Great and 1 Jn 2:22-28 Ps 98:1-4 Jn 1:19-28 7:30 AM Church Gregory Nazianzen, Bishops, Doctors of the Church Friday, January 3, 2020 NO 6:30 AM Mass The Most Holy Name of 1 Jn 2:29—3:6 Ps 98:1, 3-6 Jn 1:29-34 Bob Dolecki (Shirley Bona & Martha Jesus Ministry) 7:30 AM Church Joanne LeVon (Shirley Bona & Martha Ministry) Emelia Doolan (Shirley Bona & Martha Ministry) Saturday, January 4, 2020 Saint Elizabeth Ann 1 Jn 3:7-10 Ps 98:1, 7-9 Jn 1:35-42 Hakki Husaynu (Maffezzoli Family) 8:00 AM Church Seton, Religious

  

ISAIAH 60: 1-6 PSALM 72: 1-2, 7-8, 10-13 EPHESIANS 3: 2-3A, 5-6 MATTHEW 2: 1-12

Saturday, January 4, 2020 ALTAR SERVERS LECTORS SACRISTANS CANTORS INTENTIONS 4:30 PM MC NEEDED (MC) Cheryl Beckman (A) Petra Gdowski CANTOR Bob Dolecki (Teresa Crawford) FR. GRANEY Alexander Elezaj Patrick Donnellon (B) NEEDED Dennis Clement (Fino Family) Jennifer Thatheau Raj Shawn Herndon (Family) ALTAR SERVER NEEDED Sunday, January 5, 2020 ALTAR SERVERS LECTORS SACRISTANS CANTORS INTENTIONS

8:00 AM Antonio Biggs (MC) LECTOR NEEDED (A) Elizabeth CANTOR Ed & Vera Smith (Patti & Frank Smith) FR. PETERMAN ALTAR SERVER NEEDED LECTOR NEEDED (B) Abowd- NEEDED Barbara Bechard (Rosemary ALTAR SERVER NEEDED Rockwell Wadenstorer) ALTAR SERVER NEEDED

9:30 AM MC NEEDED (MC) LECTOR NEEDED (A) Fidelia Sule Mary Elser Arlene Ritter Swenson (Friends) ALTAR SERVER NEEDED LECTOR NEEDED (B) Margaret Martha Bolish (Carol Anderson) FR. BRAUER ALTAR SERVER NEEDED EPIPHANY OF THE LORD THE OF EPIPHANY Nursery Available Intentions of David & Donna Nolan (Liska NO Children’s Liturgy of the Word ALTAR SERVER NEEDED Family) 11:15 AM MC NEEDED (MC) LECTOR NEEDED (A) Jorge and CANTOR Intentions of All Parishioners FR. GRANEY Michael Kopay LECTOR NEEDED (B) Alicia Cardenas NEEDED NO Children’s Liturgy of the Word A.J. Kopay Akhil Basani 1:00 PM MC NEEDED (MC) LECTOR NEEDED (A) Lori Cancilla Saman FR. PETERMAN ALTAR SERVER NEEDED LECTOR NEEDED (B) Dawisha ALTAR SERVER NEEDED (BAPTISMS) ALTAR SERVER NEEDED 5:30 PM Ian O'Donnell (MC) LECTOR NEEDED (A) Chris and Brenna Karin Cook (Friend of Family) FR. BRAUER Nora Cavanaugh Miriam Kmetzo (B) Lynda O'Donnell Cavanaugh Parker Angeliu ALTAR SERVER NEEDED

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4:30 PM MC NEEDED (MC) Cheryl Beckman (A) Dolores Dolecki Michael Cuschieri Intentions of All Parishioners FR. BRAUER Sofia Rossi LECTOR NEEDED (B) Julia Rossi ALTAR SERVER NEEDED Wednesday, January 1, 2020 ALTAR SERVERS LECTORS SACRISTANS CANTORS INTENTIONS

9:00 AM Don Hotke LECTOR NEEDED (A) JoAnne Moore CANTOR NEEDED Intentions of All Parishioners

FR. PETERMAN (ADULT SERVER) LECTOR NEEDED (B) 

11:00 AM Ian O’Donnell (MC) LECTOR NEEDED (A) Lynda O'Donnell Sophia Franklin Intentions of All Parishioners FR. GRANEY ALTAR SERVER NEEDED LECTOR NEEDED (B) ALTAR SERVER NEEDED ALTAR SERVER NEEDED

SǟǜǕǝǞǙǤǩ ǟǖ MǑǢǩ, MǟǤǘǕǢ ǟǖ Gǟǔ ǟǖ MǟǤǘǕǢ MǑǢǩ, ǟǖ SǟǜǕǝǞǙǤǩ MASS TIMES & PARISH OFFICE HOURS

December 30  7:30 AM Mass; Office Hours 8:00 AM  4:00 PM  December 31 7:30 AM Mass 4:30 PM Mass (Feast of Mary, Holy Mother of God) Office Hours 8:00 AM  12:00 Noon  January 1 9:00 AM and 11:00 AM Mass (Feast of Mary, Holy Mother of God ** Holy Day of Obligation **) Parish Office Closed  January 2  7:30 AM Mass Parish Office Closed  January 3 7:30 AM Mass; Office Hours 8:00 AM  4:00 PM  January 4 8:00 AM Mass; Office Hours 9:00 AM  1:00 PM   January 6 6:30 AM Mass Resumes (M, W, Th, F) Regular Office Hours Resume RELIGIOUS EDUCATION Host Families Needed for N.E.T. Ministries Our 7th and 8th grade students will be participating in a N.E.T. retreat the weekend of February 29March 1, 2020. We are on our way to getting N.E.T. host  families to host these young adult missionaries but still need a few more. This is a very rewarding  experience and can really inspire your children. Please contact the Religious Education office at 248.474.6480 for more information or to help.  Religious Education Classes will resume on  Monday, January 6, 2020.

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Please call the Parish Office at (248) 4745720 if PRAY WITH US you have a family member or friend in need of our prayers. Names will be removed after three Jo Ann Abate months, but can be renewed with a phone call. Jesse Alcala William Power, Jr. Clare Alles Jenny JamesonSomerville Did you receive your Barbara Quinn Frank Arold Achamma Joseph copy of Rediscover Mary Reilly Stella Arvan Tom Jurewicz Tom Kendzierski Ruben O. Rogers the Saints at Christmas Fran Ashe Violet Khayatt Baby Rose Mass? This book Cicely Balbin Donna King Marilyn Rotole opens our eyes to the Sergio Balbin Wynter Kingsberry Ron Rotole David Benz amazing possibilities Ray Konti Maria Mediatrix Salgado Bucky Blake God has for us and Roxanne Koslowski Meghan Salter Mary Borg encourages us to Maria Kruse David Sanders Jennifer Boyle Cynthia Kruse Wanamaker Susan Sanders strive for greatness, with the help Bonnie Burzynski Marietta KruseWells Maria T. Saucedo of men and women in Church his- Karen Call Rachel Lewis Jean Shay tory who have done it before us N Polly Carr Wendi Lindenmuth Kathy Siemiesz the saints. Please stop by the par- Amelia Cassar Elaine Lorenz Arielle Simmons Amanda Cavanaugh ish office if you have yet to receive Paul Lukasiewicz Liz Sinelli David Coloske your copy. Dolores Malysz Fr. Jim Smalarz David Andrew Coloske Carol Matthews Marleigh Smith Timothy Conlon Mary Mazalouskas Todd Stenerson Lindsay Corneille DEVOTIONS Andrew McCann Mary Doreen Sturdevan Mary Crawley Ellen McCarthy Christa Sullivan Bridget Dean NO Mother of Perpetual Help  Luke Meier David Sullivan Joan DeGroot Gloria Michelson Esther Sullivan Devotions & Confessions on Mary Ann DeVellis David Mika Michael Twarog Dec. 31. Bob Dwyer Jennifer Miner Newland David Valo Mike Egyed Tom Moore Kay Waldecker Brenda Fedorowicz Sara Nehra Kaitlyn Weiss Therese Gibes Sharon Nietzke Margery White Anna Giguere Monica Noch Thomas Wilkins Antony Goldwin Keith O’Malley Elaine Wurm Carol Goodroe John Oster Evelyn Yarber Kathie Gorzkiewicz Sherry Palmer Johnny Yarber Tom Grandy Susan Palomba  Haffey Family Barbara Panetta Residents of: Donna Hay Ricky Parks American House Ann Hazen Sandy Parks Brookdale Senior Living Rosalie Hebeler Angela Paul Carrington Place Ian Hogg Mildred Perumal Courtyard Manor Abby Homan Rose Pichurski Farmington Place Christian Howell Gina Pizzo Medilodge

SPIRITUAL MONTH 2 M “I’m dancing!” present at 6½ weeks. The central  nervous system is functioning and ADOPTION 40 muscle sets begin their first  exercises. From this moment, your spiritually adopted baby grows and You are invited to continue a nine refines her body. But everything month journey to spiritually adopt she needs to survive after birth is an unborn child who is at risk of already present by the end of the being killed by abortion. Each eighth week. She is now called a month there will be an article  “fetus” a Latin word meaning “little describing the current stage of  one”. Ultrasound reveals that this development for your adopted  little one can now spring, flip and jump M her first dance steps! baby. Through prayer, you will be  united with the mother of the child “Jesus, Mary and Joseph, I love you very who is considering the decision of much. I beg you to spare the life of the Your spiritually adopted baby is unborn baby that I have spiritually adopted abortion. Please do not stop praying making progress developing all of even if you miss a day, a week, or a who is in danger of abortion.” M Archbishop her external features and internal Fulton J. Sheen month, in the ninemonth period. organs. Her brain is functioning at  God’s time is not our time. He Information on the developing baby was taken 40 days. Her mother can hear her from: Abortion: Questions and Answers, Dr. hears and answers all prayers at heartbeat now on an ultrasonic and Mrs. John C. Wilke, © 1985, Hayes  any time. stethoscope. Babyteeth buds are Publishing Company, Inc., Cincinnati, Ohio.

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SUNDAY COLLECTION

Date This Year Last Year Difference 

11/24/2019 33,361 32,756 605 1.85%

12/01/2019 39,115 36,192 2,923 8.08% 12/08/2019 49,449 53,370 3,921 7.35% 12/15/2019 36,040 42,530 6,490 15.26% Fiscal Yr to Date 900,162 865,896 34,266 3.96% (7/1/196/30/20)

 Our Lady of Sorrows  Thank you to the 919 families 2019 CSA Goal: $275,393 who have contributed so far. You $14,084  can still bring your completed ■CSA Contributions/Pledges pledge card to the parish office or $261,309 (95%) pledge online at give.aodcsa.org. $261,309  Please make check payable to ■Amount Needed to Reach Goal “Archdiocese of Detroit M CSA” $14,084 and include OLS in the memo line. CSA UǠǔǑǤǕ CSA

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