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May 13 & June 17th • 10-11AM • 1325 Lexington Ave OHDUQPRUHDW BROADWAYDANCECENTER.COM/CTPW65 Manhattan Family NEW YORK May 2017 Parenting Where every child matters 38 18 FEATURES COLUMNS 26 6 Mom: A role to be 22 FabuLYSS Finds cherished BY LYss STERN BY GAYLA GRACE 24 Ask an Attorney 8 The bond of motherhood BY ALISON ARDEN BESUNDER, EsQ. This Mother’s Day, celebrating the 27 Healthy Living connection we share BY DANIELLE SULLIVAN BY CAROLYN WATERBURY-TIEMAN 30 Divorce & Separation 10 Four things to look for in BY LEE CHABIN, EsQ. a summer day camp BY KATHLEEN DUFFY 31 Family Financial Planning BY ANTHONY N. CORRAO 16 Too old for camp? How to get your teen involved in a 38 New & Noteworthy service project BY LISA J. CURTIS BY SARA MARCHEssAULT 18 15 books to help kids CALENDAR 32 understand LGBTQ issues 32 May Events BY CINDY HUdsON 26 12 quick tips to teach SPECIAL SECTIONS toddlers to share 12 Arts for Kids Directory BY DENISE YEARIAN 20 Montessori Directory 28 Join the fight against 37 The Marketplace Williams Syndrome Family Fun Day and Carnival raise funds to solve disorder BY SHNIEKA L. JOHNSON May 2017 • MANHATTAN FAMILY 3 LETTER FROM THE PUBLISHER May is for Mom he responsibilities of Of course it’s definitely the I wish every mother a Happy Mothers’ being a Mom these time of year when you should Day, whether she’s the mother of another T days are more compli- be making the summer camp mother and now a grandmother or preg- cated than ever. With a pre- or program decisions for nant with her first child and waiting for ponderance of urban Moms your kids. It’s time to decide the birth day. It’s an amazing thing to be working outside the home, what they will be doing and someone’s mother, and for sure has been whether having vital careers where they will be doing it. the most illustrious part of my life. I’m or seeking that necessary pay- Lots of good ideas in this certain that every mother could echo that check, it’s more intrinsic than issue, from our advertisers sentiment. ever to be A Super Mom. to the advice of our columns Have a great month and thanks for Kids seldom go off to their and articles. reading. neighborhood school, or rather it’s not al- Springtime in New York. Who doesn’t ways the norm. Many schedules have to be love this time of year? The trees are in worked out, meals have to be established bloom with blossoms and all the bulbs are and drop off and pick up arranged. Every up everywhere you look. It’s so refreshing one of these women deserves a standing to take off the heavy coats and boots and ovation. I know because I have been one lighten up. The kids are loving it too! I see of them. This issue presents a number of them in the parks and in the playgrounds Susan Weiss-Voskidis, really good articles, with a few of them and one gets the full sense of new found Publisher/Excutive Editor celebrating mothers. freedom from watching their play. 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As our kids grow older, we learn A role to be cherished how to let go when our 18-year-old leaves for college and how to move on when our young adult announces wedding plans. BY GAYLA GRACE drama, we nurse wounds, and more. While Parents offer unending selflessness with the preschool years have days that never little guarantee of what lies ahead. We en- t 38 weeks pregnant, Jenn eagerly end, the teenage years have days that take dure heartache and disappointment; we awaited the birth of her first child. flight. Before we’re ready, our babies begin celebrate victories and accomplishments. A Her pregnancy had gone well and to drive, graduate from high school, start We refuse to give up when our child goes she looked forward to what lay ahead as college, and venture out on their own. astray, or turn our back when our child she arrived for her routine doctor exam. Time runs out for those positive parent- rebels. With little warning, and a racing heart, ing moments we intended to have. The Parenthood never truly ends. Whether she was ushered to a nearby hospital for daily influences we take for granted to your parent lives next door or out-of-state, a more extensive ultrasound. The doctor mold our children change to parenting she’s always a phone call away. When said the baby appeared to have quit grow- snapshots via text messaging, late-night my job ended in my young adult years, ing and needed to be examined further. conversations, and crisis intervention. my mom was the first to know. When my After several tests, Jenn learned the baby Parenthood provides meaning to life we children were born, she celebrated with girl she had carried for nine months would wouldn’t otherwise experience. Although me. When I endured a difficult divorce, arrive with heart complications that would she walked with me. When I struggled as a affect her for the rest of her life. single parent, she encouraged me. When I Upon admittance to the hospi- celebrated marriage again with a new fam- tal for delivery to begin, Jenn ily, she congratulated me. was understandably be- Now, as my parents approach their yond anxious, but she sunset years, I seek to be there for wasn’t prepared them.